Women Don't Know What they WANT
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about how to attract women, how to find them, and what to do when you don't want to get laid. We also discuss the importance of honesty and how to get them to sleep with you.
Transcript
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see what you said about um honesty of your intentions yeah yeah that do you know like
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when i tell a girl that i don't want anything serious and it's just going to be one that thing
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it's going to be private no one's going to know like you'll have a good time blah blah blah like
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97 of the time they'll just get on it so i think that's oh they're happy to sleep yeah they're
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happy to sleep with you because they like it's weird man like girls are just the standards aren't
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as high anymore in regards to what they want so and these are not like these are some like what
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we would class as high value women that have got low body counts so you have found that if you're
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more honest honest and i feel like it goes back to what you said about earlier about girls that want
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to um travel a lot and stuff when they're younger especially when they're bored you know like when
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they're bored they can be like these super good girls that present themselves in certain ways but
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they know no one's going to find out and they just want a good time with someone that looks like this
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and so i think if if your intentions as a guy is just sleep with a girl yeah i think just be honest
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what would you say paul i don't think you should get dating advice from women
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that's the best advice yeah don't take dating advice from women yeah because i think it's a lot
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harder to sleep with women um than we know um and so i think if you've never done it maybe maybe the
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lesbian girl could have um so i was just curious if if they thought so you thought the honesty was good
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anything else not my question because even what we said it was so general tell her your intention
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to be honest and ask a lot of questions it was like nothing that specific i think um for a guy
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if you want to find out about their history without asking too many questions and then you can just ask
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him that simple questions like where have you been the last year like what holidays you've been on
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if they've been selected by i'd be for these plays like this it's like you're it's it's obvious
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what you've been on type thing oh i see what else what other questions i'm curious do you ask you
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know what i'm i normally lead with just the honesty thing because i'm just looking that i'm there for
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one reason and then it's cool from there so i don't really i'm kind of a bad person take advice
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from because people they just want to they reciprocate what i want well i think most men i mean there's
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men watching most men want to know how to get laid so you know i heavily rely on um appearance my
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appearance and stuff so it's just it's my life coach says to me as well i'd be the worst person
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to give advice because for me to pull i just i always stand there in the club i think it's
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literally so you just you just stand there in the club and like what women come up to you
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yeah that's when i was more of a younger thing i was a younger mindset i stopped obviously like
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no i'm just i'm just curious what that's like so like women actually approach you
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yeah wow that's so rare you know that's not common all my friends are they're gasped with
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it they're like they like they use me as fishing bait they just tell me to stand there and then
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wait till their friends come too yeah uh king what what are the advice did you think was good versus bad
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i don't know i can't remember most of it i've got one more like what about what about like if you
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want to find out more about her like having more like debates and stuff to get her perspective on
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on things and that can tell you a bit about somebody as well like being more friend like
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in the beginning just build a friendship and have debates like what we're doing now and get her
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perspective on like world issues and current affairs and that could help see a debate that i
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bring up often with if i was to meet someone for the first time is like would you um would would
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you wife would you be a wife if you step with over 50 people and you ask girls and they're like
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they're so do you mean like some of them try and um like the feminist girls will try and argue the
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point of yeah yeah like this and that but i'm like as soon as you start arguing that point i'm like
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yeah i don't yeah but that's fine and that's good though because that's a good way of you seeing
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her mindset that you don't want that i have a question for king just out of curiosity why do you
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feel like is a bad idea to get um dating advice from women because i always thought like if you're
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trying to attract women then that's where you find out what they're looking for so i'm kind of
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curious because because women women don't know what they want so that's the first thing the second
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thing is second thing is most women say one thing and do the other so if you're taking advice from
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women they're just going to tell you what sounds good they're not going to tell you what actually
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is going to work because most of them don't even know so the truth is at the end of the day when you're
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speaking to women i even think the talking part should just be to get her to talk but it's more about
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watching what she does it's not about what she says okay that's a good way to put it she speaks
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louder double words yeah i said pearl you nailed it happy wife happy life is a recipe for disaster a
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man can contribute to his wife's happiness but making her happy is an impossible task um can you
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play the video now thank you so this was her response after the comments
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so after the 50 000 plus comments posted on social i only saw a handful that even considered
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the possibility of a bus owner being a more aspirational position and recognizing that i am
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actually speaking and pouring into the ascension of black men when i said what i said but see no some
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of y'all were too busy naming and shaming me personally and black women in general as undesirable
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gold diggers and much worse now i suspect that some of y'all are the same men that were bringing
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home c's and d's on your report cards only to then be coddled by parents that said well that's okay
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as long as you're doing your best well listen i love and believe in the excellence of black men
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so no my dear c's and d's or any other form of mediocrity is not okay no i will not create a soft
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place for you or anybody that i love to fall comfortably into the bigotry of low expectations
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so i'm going to say one more time there's absolutely nothing wrong with driving a bus
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my mother gloria drove one for years but could it be that black america has been sold a narrative
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of average regular and typical being good enough for us well see that's called white supremacy and in
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this case it takes the form of conditioning black americans to happily accept being a permanent american
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underclass but see because i know the truth about black folk in america no average is not and will never
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be good enough for me and the gag is i don't think it's good enough for you either what do you guys think
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of a response i'm not sure what a race got to do with anything yeah i didn't i didn't agree with
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the whole white i think that was a bit extreme to tying race to it actually i didn't even watch the
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response before but i was like wait what yeah i don't think we needed anything that was necessary
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because i don't like i feel like we need to be responsible for ourselves like not always bringing
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the race card sometimes but i just think i get that's that's kind of what i was saying i just feel like
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you are so entitled to your standard and what you want and accepting your life however you need to
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be aware of the repercussions of that so if you're going for this top one percent just be aware that
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you may not ever get it and accept that but you're still entitled to have that as long as you're not
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disrespecting other people that is it i think it's as simple as that what do you guys think
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i think her response was lit i feel like people are a bit too comfortable it's like i don't know if you
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guys ever saw that interview obviously Kim Kardashian is probably the wrong person to say
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because she definitely had advantages but that interview when she was like y'all need to work
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fucking hard and then everybody got on to her as well it's like i feel like in general people have
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like a certain comfortability and i think with her i don't think she was saying well the whole white
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supremacy thing was definitely a stretch but i feel like in general i guess as like ethnic people we're
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more comfortable with jobs like bus drivers because in general we're kind of like pushed down when it comes
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to office jobs and stuff we might not get that application so i feel like i get that point
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but in general like i said this i said it from the beginning i said her conversation she sparked that
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to wake up her bus driver and get him to work further i don't think she was doing it to like knock
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them down i think i personally think it's motivational if i was a bus driver i would quit my job
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but she's actually like she's so much better than him but that's what i don't get that's not what i
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i don't take that because she literally said she literally said try for harder but or better but
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it's like well why don't you try for better when it's like all you're doing like i just think wait
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wait i just think it's mad that all she's doing is talking and she thinks she's better than a bus
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driver all you're doing is talking and and we have so much privilege being women where especially of
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especially especially when we're in entertainment it's like we have a privilege that men don't have and
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you're gonna shit on a guy who has a job that makes society run but i don't think she said that
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um she thinks she's better she literally said she wants better for them but she said for herself okay
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but if she said she wouldn't date one because she doesn't want that yeah like if if that's why i said
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it's like maybe a cleaner or like an uber driver might be happy to drive a but to to date a bus driver
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but if she's a news reporter and she just happens to not want to date a bus driver personally i don't
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i don't see an issue with it i think there's okay i think there's nothing wrong with being
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aspirational but i think when you look at things from a factual perspective the type of person that
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she's looking for is probably a part of is part of the 10 and 20 percent so that's why i feel like
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there's like a good 70 percent of women trying to grab this 20 or 10 percent of men that will most
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likely not going to be able to obtain because there's such a small portion so i feel like that's
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where she's being uh and that's why i'm understanding everyone when they're saying
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sometimes it's good to set up for less but if she's in her ways where she just feels like okay
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do you know what i can do better and probably she's been in rooms with people who have been doing better
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then i just feel like you just let her be because at the same time she didn't say she wants a billionaire
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like maybe she'd just prefer a train driver or a boat driver like you really can't tell that's what i'm
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saying is like she's entitled to her preference she doesn't have to be you know like a billionaire