Women Empowerment Ruined Everything
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Summary
In this episode, I talk about why women and men should share the same responsibilities in marriage and why men should not have to do the dishes. I also talk about how women are more than willing to submit to their boss.
Transcript
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So, you know, one thing that Fresh and Fit and other content creators have taught me personally
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being in the space is that men and women have roles.
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You know, there's different roles for men and there's different roles for women.
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And traditional, I really think traditional relationships work the best.
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I'm not saying that no relationship can work if it's more modern.
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But, you know, in a balance of probabilities, traditional relationships where the men are
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providing, women are taking care of the home, tend to work the best.
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As you guys know, Rachel Wilson, who's a friend and commentator on the channel, had a tweet
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She said, in the 16 years we've been together, my husband has never done laundry, the dishes,
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And it's so funny to see, you know, men and women come and attack my friend Rachel.
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Because the way that she lives her life, she believes that men and women have roles and
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she does not believe that men are meant to do the dishes.
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And so Phil says that is fine, but it's not a flex and not something everyone is cool with.
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So again, that's more of a female arguing pattern.
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You know, you'll see like a woman's gut reaction when we say water is wet.
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So again, it's interesting because you see men that tend to be led by women and it's usually
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either something their wives taught them or their mothers taught them.
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And I don't know who this guy is, so nothing personal.
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But this is just a trend that I see with the average guy, the not all.
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So this is fine, but it's not a flex and not something everyone's cool with.
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Because some of us men like to cook and cleat and believe that's a shared thing.
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And the question is, do you really think men and women are the same?
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So Hunter Avalon said she posted this as a W for her husband, LMAO.
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Yet marriages that share equal responsibilities tend to last longer and be healthier.
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This guy got into so much heat on Twitter and I don't want to say the ins and outs of
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it because I don't know, but he recently got divorced.
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The left will prod into our personal lives and just go on these witch hunts where it's
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And, you know, my friend who's been married like 15 years is being lectured by a guy that
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just got divorced, how she should do more chores.
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And this is where I come back to, you know, guys, there are so many, you can find a study
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And it's because women and feminists have infiltrated institutions.
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And a lot of these institutions were started by a lot of the big families that have an agenda
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And, you know, that's why a lot of times, well, you know, I will quote studies and left
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I really want to drive the point home that what do we see in real life?
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Do women tend to like the nice guys that just share the equal responsibilities?
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Or do women tend to treat men better that they have to work for?
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Do women tend to treat men better that it's more of a traditional relationship?
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So Bree says, another comment responding to my friend, Rachel, as a married woman, I will
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say that you are wrong about what marriage should look like.
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Husbands, love your wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her.
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Do you see, this is why men, okay, this is why men don't even like religious women anymore
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because they weaponize the Bible to control their husbands.
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Again, if the natural order of the world is God, men, women, children, who are you to
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You can ask, you can give him your opinion, but do you, women are willing to submit to
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And we've been told these egalitarian principles, we're equal, we're the same, when that's not
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So she says, marriage is about sacrificial love on both sides.
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That means doing something for someone else without being asked because it's the right
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Your argument that this man is justified when he isn't being representative of Christ in
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But it's nice to know that your idea of a traditional man is a lazy video game slob who
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does nothing helpful and is a dick to his wife when she asks for help.
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I assume that's why so many men defend you and follow you is because your broken incel
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That's like another cope that you see women say, that we all got millions of followers
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How often do we hear women whine about video games, but we never hear men whine about women
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I'm like, I think the men are more supportive than the women because you see men taking pictures
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for their girls Instagram on dates, but you'll never see a woman like helping her guy play
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And the other interesting thing is why is sacrificial love only the love that she deems sacrificial?
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And why is her gut reaction when a guy doesn't do dishes that he doesn't do anything?
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You know, men do yard work, they fix things, they build things like men just do different
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And I think it's okay and really should be encouraged that men and women have different
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Um, it's just, it's so interesting that it's like even the Christian women will weaponize
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But when your, your boss gives you a task, you don't, you don't say Ephesians 5 25.
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No, you just listen, but it's so crazy because they'll listen for money, but we won't listen
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to a guy that's the father of our, of our kids.
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So the comments have just been going back and forth and crazy on this.
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I also cannot ask her if I do the dishes because it's an insult to the position.
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However, if she asks me to help her do the dishes, I will help because I care enough to
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I feel like it works better when we are both striving to help, love, and serve each other.
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A lot of women will complain that like men, now we have to have two incomes.
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Women had the choice to stay home and we chose to work.
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And my thing is, if you're going to choose to work, please do not complain about the outcome.
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I've seen women on TikTok that are literal doctors and she still comes home and cooks her husband
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Do you think most men, most husbands, if the women said, I really don't want to work, I
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Or do you think most women work because they want to have a career?
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Genuinely, so Gia says, my husband doesn't do housework ever.
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And I responded, I said, it actually helps women to be realistic in our expectations rather
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And she says, a hundred percent now, you know, the simps come in.
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I hope both of your significant others help out around the house in the near future.
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It takes very little effort to wash dishes or a load of laundry.
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Being red pilled means listening to the philosophies of pickup artists when they said, me man, she
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I think the average screen time of a chick is like six, seven hours a day.
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So it's like, okay, if we find the time to go on our phones for like six hours a day,
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You know, and this isn't saying the husband can never help you.
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But the idea is that you are supposed to serve your husband.
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And yet women will expect their husbands to work full time and serve their every feeling,
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You know, I don't like waking up to a dirty kitchen.
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I busted my ass all day cleaning this house and then cooking that meal.
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It would be nice if you said thank you and helped me with the dishes.
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You just said that you want me to help you do the dishes.
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Are you telling me that you're upset because I don't have a strong desire to clean dishes?
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No, I'm upset because you don't have a strong desire to offer to do the dishes.
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I asked you to do one thing today, one very simple thing, to bring me 12 lemons, and you brought
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Goddammit, if I knew that it was going to be this much trouble, I would have brought
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I wish everyone that was at that goddamn table had their own little private bag of lemons.
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I'm just saying it'd be nice if you did things that I asked.
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It would be even nicer if you did things without me having to ask you.
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Well, I do seem to remember doing something for you this morning without you asking.
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Come on, you knew I was working today and I made that meal and you could have thought
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to yourself, you know, you could have said, you know, I think I'm going to give Brooke
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You said on our very first date that you don't like flowers, that they're a waste of money.
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Okay, this is what happens when women try to control men.
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You know, does that look like she's submitting to his authority when she's whining that he
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Like, okay, maybe it's annoying, but it's not the end of the world.
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And we cause these, like, big fights over what, lemons?
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And it's so funny because women tend to work longer than men, but we never take that into
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Men tend to work longer hours where it's like, I mean, I think she was like an art gallery
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So, all right, like, you know, and what was I going to say?
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Oh, and it's so funny because she says, can you help me do the dishes?
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And this is the problem guys, like, get into when they constantly, like, agree to women
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after we put on a fuss because it just shows us that we can, like, control you because
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now she knows every time she bitches, she's going to get her way.
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Now, the interesting thing is, though, he does what she asks, and is she happy?
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No, you're not doing it in the way that I want you to do it.
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And then she says on the first date, no, I don't like flowers.
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And it's just, you know, men aren't mind readers.
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And I think a lot of times, you know, again, we get so frustrated because we expect things
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So in this, she's expecting him to behave like a woman, and he's not a woman.
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And we're going to constantly have relationship problems if we keep expecting men to be women
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and communicate like women and read between the lines like women.