JustPearlyThings - November 07, 2023


Women Empowerment Ruined Everything


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152

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39

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18

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In this episode, I talk about why women and men should share the same responsibilities in marriage and why men should not have to do the dishes. I also talk about how women are more than willing to submit to their boss.

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00:00:00.000 So, you know, one thing that Fresh and Fit and other content creators have taught me personally
00:00:06.600 being in the space is that men and women have roles.
00:00:10.040 You know, there's different roles for men and there's different roles for women. 1.00
00:00:12.940 And traditional, I really think traditional relationships work the best.
00:00:17.220 I'm not saying that no relationship can work if it's more modern.
00:00:21.300 Clearly, some do.
00:00:22.660 But, you know, in a balance of probabilities, traditional relationships where the men are
00:00:26.340 providing, women are taking care of the home, tend to work the best. 1.00
00:00:30.120 So Twitter is in an uproar.
00:00:32.380 As you guys know, Rachel Wilson, who's a friend and commentator on the channel, had a tweet
00:00:37.760 go viral.
00:00:39.160 She said, in the 16 years we've been together, my husband has never done laundry, the dishes,
00:00:46.300 cleaned the bathroom, vacuumed or mopped.
00:00:48.680 He does not do housework ever at all.
00:00:51.360 And it's so funny to see, you know, men and women come and attack my friend Rachel.
00:01:00.720 Because the way that she lives her life, she believes that men and women have roles and
00:01:05.820 she does not believe that men are meant to do the dishes.
00:01:08.500 That's a woman's job. 1.00
00:01:09.860 The men can do the yard work.
00:01:11.380 And so Phil says that is fine, but it's not a flex and not something everyone is cool with.
00:01:18.040 So again, that's more of a female arguing pattern. 1.00
00:01:21.760 You know, you'll see like a woman's gut reaction when we say water is wet. 1.00
00:01:25.640 Well, not all water is wet.
00:01:27.380 That's how women argue. 1.00
00:01:28.900 So again, it's interesting because you see men that tend to be led by women and it's usually 0.91
00:01:33.720 either something their wives taught them or their mothers taught them.
00:01:37.580 And I don't know who this guy is, so nothing personal.
00:01:40.760 But this is just a trend that I see with the average guy, the not all.
00:01:46.620 Again, that's really more of how women talk. 1.00
00:01:49.280 So this is fine, but it's not a flex and not something everyone's cool with.
00:01:53.320 But why?
00:01:54.200 Because some of us men like to cook and cleat and believe that's a shared thing.
00:01:58.140 So again, guys, what does that tell us?
00:02:00.300 It's back to the egalitarian principle.
00:02:02.500 Men and women are equal.
00:02:04.140 And the question is, do you really think men and women are the same?
00:02:06.860 So Hunter Avalon said she posted this as a W for her husband, LMAO.
00:02:13.760 Yet marriages that share equal responsibilities tend to last longer and be healthier.
00:02:19.180 And she responds like yours.
00:02:23.400 Now, I don't know.
00:02:24.520 This guy got into so much heat on Twitter and I don't want to say the ins and outs of
00:02:31.020 it because I don't know, but he recently got divorced.
00:02:34.560 So that's the funny thing.
00:02:35.960 The left will prod into our personal lives and just go on these witch hunts where it's 0.64
00:02:42.200 like, what does your personal life look like?
00:02:46.180 And, you know, my friend who's been married like 15 years is being lectured by a guy that
00:02:53.260 just got divorced, how she should do more chores. 1.00
00:02:56.420 And this is where I come back to, you know, guys, there are so many, you can find a study
00:03:02.520 that tells you anything.
00:03:04.180 And it's because women and feminists have infiltrated institutions. 1.00
00:03:07.860 And a lot of these institutions were started by a lot of the big families that have an agenda
00:03:13.360 and do not want to see the family unit thrive.
00:03:17.280 And, you know, that's why a lot of times, well, you know, I will quote studies and left
00:03:21.920 will quote studies.
00:03:22.760 I really want to drive the point home that what do we see in real life?
00:03:27.440 Do women tend to like the nice guys that just share the equal responsibilities? 0.99
00:03:32.760 Do they tend to treat them very well?
00:03:34.880 Or do women tend to treat men better that they have to work for? 1.00
00:03:39.700 Do women tend to treat men better that it's more of a traditional relationship? 0.99
00:03:46.160 I mean, look around in the world.
00:03:50.580 Tell me what you see.
00:03:51.840 So Bree says, another comment responding to my friend, Rachel, as a married woman, I will
00:03:56.860 say that you are wrong about what marriage should look like.
00:03:59.700 Husbands, love your wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her.
00:04:04.960 Do you see, this is why men, okay, this is why men don't even like religious women anymore 0.98
00:04:09.340 because they weaponize the Bible to control their husbands. 1.00
00:04:12.840 Again, if the natural order of the world is God, men, women, children, who are you to
00:04:18.940 tell your husband what to do?
00:04:21.060 You can ask, you can give him your opinion, but do you, women are willing to submit to 1.00
00:04:26.700 your boss when your boss tells you something?
00:04:28.980 Do you quote him the Bible?
00:04:31.100 No.
00:04:31.960 You just listen.
00:04:33.400 And we've been told these egalitarian principles, we're equal, we're the same, when that's not
00:04:40.060 how it's supposed to work.
00:04:41.200 That's not what marriage is supposed to be. 0.92
00:04:43.160 So she says, marriage is about sacrificial love on both sides.
00:04:46.620 That means doing something for someone else without being asked because it's the right
00:04:50.680 thing to do, even if you don't want to.
00:04:52.780 Your argument that this man is justified when he isn't being representative of Christ in 0.97
00:04:58.240 his marriage is extremely flawed and telling.
00:05:00.980 But it's nice to know that your idea of a traditional man is a lazy video game slob who 0.99
00:05:06.340 does nothing helpful and is a dick to his wife when she asks for help. 0.99
00:05:09.560 I assume that's why so many men defend you and follow you is because your broken incel 0.99
00:05:14.900 egos tell them what they want to hear.
00:05:17.320 You know what's funny?
00:05:17.920 That's like another cope that you see women say, that we all got millions of followers
00:05:22.020 and views because they're just all incels.
00:05:25.020 You know what's funny?
00:05:26.020 How often do we hear women whine about video games, but we never hear men whine about women
00:05:30.660 being on social media?
00:05:31.760 It's so funny because I think about this.
00:05:35.360 I'm like, I think the men are more supportive than the women because you see men taking pictures
00:05:39.760 for their girls Instagram on dates, but you'll never see a woman like helping her guy play 1.00
00:05:44.380 video games.
00:05:45.120 And the other interesting thing is why is sacrificial love only the love that she deems sacrificial?
00:05:53.900 And why is her gut reaction when a guy doesn't do dishes that he doesn't do anything?
00:05:59.220 You know, men do yard work, they fix things, they build things like men just do different 0.99
00:06:03.840 things.
00:06:04.760 And I think it's okay and really should be encouraged that men and women have different
00:06:10.020 roles in the household.
00:06:11.340 That seems to work better.
00:06:12.820 Um, it's just, it's so interesting that it's like even the Christian women will weaponize 1.00
00:06:20.480 the Bible to control their husband. 0.80
00:06:22.800 But when your, your boss gives you a task, you don't, you don't say Ephesians 5 25.
00:06:29.400 No, you just listen, but it's so crazy because they'll listen for money, but we won't listen
00:06:34.840 to a guy that's the father of our, of our kids.
00:06:37.360 So the comments have just been going back and forth and crazy on this.
00:06:42.340 This couldn't happen with me and my wife.
00:06:44.780 Her job is the dishes. 0.99
00:06:46.060 It's her complete responsibility.
00:06:48.260 I also cannot ask her if I do the dishes because it's an insult to the position.
00:06:52.480 However, if she asks me to help her do the dishes, I will help because I care enough to
00:06:56.380 do so.
00:06:57.240 Doesn't that sound like a partnership?
00:06:58.800 I feel like it works better when we are both striving to help, love, and serve each other.
00:07:03.000 Yep.
00:07:03.300 And when the conflict comes, what happens?
00:07:06.400 So guys, I want to point something out.
00:07:10.020 Women wanted to work. 1.00
00:07:12.340 A lot of women will complain that like men, now we have to have two incomes. 1.00
00:07:16.980 No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:07:18.840 Women had the choice to stay home and we chose to work. 1.00
00:07:22.520 And my thing is, if you're going to choose to work, please do not complain about the outcome.
00:07:28.120 I've seen women on TikTok that are literal doctors and she still comes home and cooks her husband 1.00
00:07:35.220 dinner every night.
00:07:36.480 And guys, think about this.
00:07:40.560 Do you think most men, most husbands, if the women said, I really don't want to work, I 1.00
00:07:45.080 want to stay home and be with my kid.
00:07:47.700 Genuinely, do you think most guys will say no?
00:07:50.940 Or do you think most women work because they want to have a career? 1.00
00:07:54.240 Genuinely, so Gia says, my husband doesn't do housework ever.
00:08:01.500 And I responded, I said, it actually helps women to be realistic in our expectations rather
00:08:06.600 than expect things we cannot have.
00:08:08.740 And she says, a hundred percent now, you know, the simps come in.
00:08:14.620 I hope both of your significant others help out around the house in the near future.
00:08:18.260 You two can raise your expectations.
00:08:20.460 It takes very little effort to wash dishes or a load of laundry.
00:08:24.440 No, I won't be red pilled.
00:08:25.840 I help my wife around the house when I can.
00:08:27.620 Being red pilled means listening to the philosophies of pickup artists when they said, me man, she
00:08:33.280 woman, we work, she cleans. 1.00
00:08:35.280 Now, you know what's interesting?
00:08:36.460 I think the average screen time of a chick is like six, seven hours a day. 1.00
00:08:41.620 So it's like, okay, if we find the time to go on our phones for like six hours a day,
00:08:46.460 we can't find the time to cook, to clean.
00:08:49.500 You know, and this isn't saying the husband can never help you.
00:08:54.160 Most men are willing to help.
00:08:56.060 But the idea is that you are supposed to serve your husband.
00:09:00.300 That is the role of the wife, the helpmate. 1.00
00:09:02.200 And yet women will expect their husbands to work full time and serve their every feeling, 1.00
00:09:09.720 their every need.
00:09:10.660 And that's not how it's supposed to work.
00:09:12.440 You know, I don't like waking up to a dirty kitchen.
00:09:15.660 Who cares?
00:09:16.160 I care, all right?
00:09:17.280 I care. 0.99
00:09:18.280 I busted my ass all day cleaning this house and then cooking that meal. 0.99
00:09:21.880 And I worked today. 0.97
00:09:22.640 It would be nice if you said thank you and helped me with the dishes.
00:09:27.060 Fine. 1.00
00:09:27.680 I'll help you do the damn dishes. 1.00
00:09:29.060 Oh, come on. 1.00
00:09:29.840 You know what?
00:09:30.340 No.
00:09:30.640 See, that's not what I want.
00:09:31.900 You just said that you want me to help you do the dishes.
00:09:33.940 I want you to want to do the dishes.
00:09:35.780 Why would I want to do dishes?
00:09:38.420 Why?
00:09:39.240 See, that's my whole point.
00:09:41.660 Are you telling me that you're upset because I don't have a strong desire to clean dishes?
00:09:45.180 No, I'm upset because you don't have a strong desire to offer to do the dishes.
00:09:48.840 I just did.
00:09:49.600 After I asked you.
00:09:51.100 Jesus, Brooke, you're acting crazy again. 0.77
00:09:52.880 Don't you call me crazy. 0.88
00:09:54.320 I am not crazy.
00:09:55.140 I didn't call you crazy.
00:09:55.900 I didn't call you crazy.
00:09:56.840 No, I didn't. 0.98
00:09:57.400 I said you're acting crazy.
00:09:58.600 You know what, Gary?
00:09:59.380 I asked you to do one thing today, one very simple thing, to bring me 12 lemons, and you brought
00:10:03.520 me three. 0.87
00:10:04.060 Goddammit, if I knew that it was going to be this much trouble, I would have brought 0.97
00:10:07.480 home 24 lemons.
00:10:08.680 Even 100 lemons.
00:10:09.540 You know what I wish? 0.99
00:10:10.220 I wish everyone that was at that goddamn table had their own little private bag of lemons. 1.00
00:10:13.360 Gary, it's not about the lemons. 0.99
00:10:14.520 Well, that's all you're talking about.
00:10:15.740 I'm just saying it'd be nice if you did things that I asked.
00:10:18.360 It would be even nicer if you did things without me having to ask you.
00:10:23.800 Well, I do seem to remember doing something for you this morning without you asking.
00:10:28.500 Gary, come on.
00:10:29.900 I'm serious.
00:10:30.580 No, I'm serious.
00:10:31.600 I really am.
00:10:32.640 Come on, you knew I was working today and I made that meal and you could have thought
00:10:37.180 to yourself, you know, you could have said, you know, I think I'm going to give Brooke
00:10:40.940 some flowers.
00:10:42.300 You said on our very first date that you don't like flowers, that they're a waste of money.
00:10:47.800 Every girl likes flowers, Gary.
00:10:49.200 Okay, do you see how confused he is?
00:10:52.280 And this is funny.
00:10:53.240 Okay, this is what happens when women try to control men. 1.00
00:10:56.780 I'm serious, guys.
00:10:58.600 You know, does that look like she's submitting to his authority when she's whining that he 1.00
00:11:05.420 brought 12 lemons instead of three?
00:11:08.040 Like, okay, maybe it's annoying, but it's not the end of the world.
00:11:11.860 And we cause these, like, big fights over what, lemons?
00:11:16.320 And it's so funny because women tend to work longer than men, but we never take that into
00:11:21.640 account where men tend to have harder jobs. 0.99
00:11:24.940 Men tend to work longer hours where it's like, I mean, I think she was like an art gallery 0.99
00:11:29.640 person in this video, in this movie.
00:11:31.420 So, all right, like, you know, and what was I going to say?
00:11:38.340 Oh, and it's so funny because she says, can you help me do the dishes?
00:11:41.980 And then she puts on a fuss. 0.85
00:11:43.880 And this is the problem guys, like, get into when they constantly, like, agree to women 0.99
00:11:48.960 after we put on a fuss because it just shows us that we can, like, control you because 0.96
00:11:53.260 now she knows every time she bitches, she's going to get her way. 1.00
00:11:56.420 Now, the interesting thing is, though, he does what she asks, and is she happy?
00:12:01.840 No, you're not doing it in the way that I want you to do it.
00:12:04.900 And then she says on the first date, no, I don't like flowers.
00:12:07.880 He doesn't buy her flowers.
00:12:09.520 Now she's mad he didn't buy her flowers.
00:12:12.520 And it's just, you know, men aren't mind readers.
00:12:17.540 And I think a lot of times, you know, again, we get so frustrated because we expect things
00:12:23.500 that we shouldn't expect from men.
00:12:25.180 So in this, she's expecting him to behave like a woman, and he's not a woman. 0.92
00:12:31.100 And we're going to constantly have relationship problems if we keep expecting men to be women 0.99
00:12:37.160 and communicate like women and read between the lines like women.
00:12:40.980 They're not women. 1.00
00:12:41.740 They're never going to be women. 1.00