JustPearlyThings - November 06, 2023


Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men

Topics
single mother authority dynamics
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Milton Noves Emanuela Emela Pearl
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Episode Stats


Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

156.01

Word count

1,663

Sentence count

141

Harmful content

Misogyny

20

sentences flagged

Toxicity

5

sentences flagged

Hate speech

14

sentences flagged


Summary

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A Brazilian woman reveals she fell in love with a mugger who robbed her, and now the two have become inseparable. The duo detailed their alleged romantic saga in a video with over 232,000 views online. Meanwhile, the unidentified phone jacker claimed that he had a change of heart mid-robbery.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Do women like bad boys? 1.00
00:00:02.320 Yes, yes, we do.
00:00:04.240 And this is a tale as old as time.
00:00:07.280 Why did we have the dad with the shotgun that would tell the teenage, the high school boyfriend, stay away from my daughter?
00:00:17.680 Why did, why do we have that?
00:00:20.480 Because as women, we like the bad boys. 0.99
00:00:23.380 All right.
00:00:23.920 It just is what it is.
00:00:25.500 And, you know, there's biological reasons we feel the way we feel.
00:00:30.000 A guy that is aggressive, we know if he can be aggressive to someone else, he can protect us.
00:00:36.860 A guy that can get a lot of chicks, we know that, okay, if all those women picked him, then there's a reason that they picked him. 1.00
00:00:45.960 It's called pre-selection.
00:00:47.960 So now I'm going to be covering a case where a woman actually fell in love with a guy who mugged her.
00:00:59.260 Yeah, so this attractive chick was robbed and thought, this is a man with character that I should pick.
00:01:22.860 A Brazilian woman brought new meaning to crimes of passion after revealing she fell in love with a mugger who robbed her.
00:01:29.580 And now the two have become inseparable.
00:01:32.480 The duo detailed their alleged romantic saga in a Twitter video with over 232,000 views online.
00:01:40.160 I was walking down the street where he lives and unfortunately I was mugged.
00:01:43.400 The woman, identified as Emanuela, told reporters recounting that their first date at a media event in Brazil.
00:01:50.440 She recalled how the thief took her phone, but when he saw Emela's number in there, he said he had been the one who had been robbed.
00:01:58.300 Well, that's one way to get someone's phone number.
00:02:00.460 Meanwhile, the unidentified phone jacker claimed that he had a change of heart mid-robbery.
00:02:06.280 I was going through a difficult situation because I didn't have a woman, you know, the robber said, recalling unlikely the how we met story.
00:02:13.500 When I first saw her photo on the phone, I said to myself, what a beautiful brunette. 1.00
00:02:17.640 You don't see a brunette like that every day. 1.00
00:02:19.460 And I regretted stealing it.
00:02:21.160 So the reporter joked, so you stole her phone and her heart?
00:02:24.180 The two have been dating for two years and although it's unclear how her parents felt about having an outlaw as an in-law, needless to say, the Twitter commentary was in hysterics over the duo's love at first swipe.
00:02:40.720 It's only in Brazil, explained Brazilian journalist Milton Noves on Twitter, while detailing their bad romance.
00:02:48.860 Love can accomplish anything.
00:02:50.520 So it's like, as women, are we good pickers?
00:02:54.180 Do we have good judgment?
00:02:56.600 And they'll say, Pearl, you don't think women should vote? 1.00
00:03:00.320 I mean, this is what we choose.
00:03:02.260 Are we good?
00:03:02.800 Like, does this scream logic and decision making?
00:03:08.120 Does this scream we're really good at just the decision making and like picking?
00:03:15.400 And it's kind of funny how the more choice we've had the last hundred years, the more we pick criminals, the more we have babies out of wedlock, the more we have abortions, the more we have multiple sex partners.
00:03:29.620 It's like, it's weird when women get like a choice in anything, we just choose chaos for whatever reason. 0.95
00:03:37.760 Men dating single mothers comes with a bunch of problems. 0.61
00:03:42.260 As a sister, I would never want my brother to date a mother with a child. 1.00
00:03:48.780 I really think that once you have a kid, you've kind of made your bed.
00:03:52.480 You should lie in it.
00:03:53.680 If you get lucky and find a husband, that's great.
00:03:56.600 But you're kind of donezo.
00:03:58.640 Like, honestly, I really don't think you should make a child with a man and not marry him.
00:04:03.700 And I think you should never leave if you have a kid with someone.
00:04:07.700 But there is a single mother who recently was dumped because her child was so poorly behaved.
00:04:16.540 There is a clip going viral on Instagram of a man dumping a chick for her son.
00:04:23.620 So why are you breaking up with me?
00:04:24.820 Why?
00:04:26.600 Why?
00:04:27.000 Okay, so you're going to break up with me because of my son?
00:04:30.360 I was trying to teach him right from wrong.
00:04:33.600 Man, give me this gun, dog. 0.79
00:04:35.640 What you mean?
00:04:36.300 What you say?
00:04:37.580 I said,
00:04:38.000 So you're going to break up with me because of my child?
00:04:41.860 He's just a child. 1.00
00:04:43.680 He's bad, dog.
00:04:44.900 He just need a little guidance, man.
00:04:47.120 Like, don't.
00:04:48.200 That's a petty reason to break up with somebody.
00:04:50.060 I ain't going to lie.
00:04:50.940 How?
00:04:51.660 Oh, wow.
00:04:52.200 Over a 10-year-old?
00:04:54.000 Over a 10-year-old.
00:04:55.440 Where is that?
00:04:55.980 Over a 10-year-old.
00:04:57.660 Over a 10-year-old.
00:04:59.200 Okay.
00:05:00.240 No, he's bad.
00:05:01.380 Right?
00:05:01.860 Okay, but that's not no reason to break up with nobody.
00:05:04.040 It's okay.
00:05:04.480 I can't do it no more, man.
00:05:05.540 So you're just going to throw all these years down the drain?
00:05:12.360 You know what the crazy thing about that clip is the kid is actively disrespecting the stepdad,
00:05:20.000 and she's not doing anything.
00:05:22.060 He's swearing at him. 0.99
00:05:23.480 He's shooting him with a Nerf gun. 0.94
00:05:26.960 And the mother doesn't do anything. 1.00
00:05:29.280 But I bet if he disciplined the child, then World War III would break up.
00:05:36.320 And this is the thing.
00:05:37.360 If single mothers want to be married, they have to give the stepdad authority to discipline their kid. 1.00
00:05:44.440 It's not a fair deal.
00:05:45.860 It's already an unfair deal coming into a marriage with another man's kid.
00:05:49.880 And it becomes even more unfair when now he doesn't even have the authority to discipline the child.
00:05:57.660 This is why a lot of men will pass on single mothers, because they don't want to be disrespected in their own house.
00:06:04.640 And at the end of the day, that child is not his.
00:06:07.840 And now he's dealing with another man's mess, another man's problem.
00:06:12.360 And maybe that's an insensitive way to talk about children, but I'm sorry.
00:06:16.420 That's how men see it.
00:06:18.800 And this is just a whole headache that a lot of guys don't want to sign up for or sign up for without realizing what they're signing up for.
00:06:28.780 And what percent of single mothers would give full authority to the stepfather to discipline their kid, 0.96
00:06:35.440 would allow the stepfather to discipline their kid even when they disagree with it?
00:06:40.400 And this is why we keep going back to responsibility, the responsibility of having that child without the authority over it.
00:06:49.360 It's not a fair deal for men. 0.95
00:06:51.320 It's the same thing with women having the responsibility of looking after a woman, but not any authority over her. 0.99
00:06:58.220 That it's not it's not a fair deal.
00:07:00.680 And so my question is, can we really blame the men for not wanting to date single mothers?
00:07:06.780 Can we really blame the men for not wanting to date older women and all the problems that come with it?
00:07:13.500 I personally think no.
00:07:15.380 And I think we should really warn younger women that if you get pregnant, you've really made your bed. 1.00
00:07:20.880 And your chance of having a successful relationship after being a single mother is low because, one, men aren't going to want to date you.
00:07:29.280 And even if they do, it comes with these type of problems.
00:07:32.500 That's a more honest message than the simping and pandering that I see today that, oh, men will still date single mothers.
00:07:40.820 You could still get remarried and all this stuff.
00:07:43.480 Yes, you can.
00:07:44.760 And it can happen.
00:07:46.240 But you're really shooting yourself in the foot.
00:07:48.720 And we need to stop putting single motherhood on a pedestal. 0.67
00:07:52.420 We need to stop putting these women on a pedestal that we should praise them. 0.99
00:07:56.720 When single mother homes contribute to every problem in society, emotional men are a problem. 1.00
00:08:04.400 It leads to homeless men. 0.95
00:08:05.940 It leads to men with mental disorders.
00:08:08.340 It leads to men that go to prison.
00:08:10.940 It leads to men that commit suicide.
00:08:13.140 Every problem that you can look at in society really is linked to single mother homes. 1.00
00:08:19.320 It is not linked to single father homes.
00:08:21.760 So the question is, one, why do women automatically get custody? 1.00
00:08:26.160 And two, why are we putting single motherhood on a pedestal like this is something that men should sign up for when it is clear that these are the issues?
00:08:36.700 That kid was not well behaved and it's clear because he's had a decade of living with a mother that does not allow the stepfather to discipline him and is not getting proper discipline at home.
00:08:49.380 Young boys need discipline from young men. 1.00
00:08:52.900 Women cannot do it the same way that men can. 1.00
00:08:55.880 That's why, honestly, guys, I think it's quite weird when you see female bosses like yelling at young men. 0.75
00:09:02.500 It's like such a weird dynamic to me.
00:09:04.560 It's a weird dynamic to see, like, women having power over men. 1.00
00:09:10.880 I just think it's weird to look at and I think it's an improper authority structure.
00:09:17.680 But maybe I'm crazy.
00:09:20.440 Maybe I'm just sexist. 0.91
00:09:22.300 Maybe I'm just a misogynist.
00:09:24.440 I don't know.
00:09:25.060 I think I think it's actually meaner to tell women that the proper authority structures that were equal to men and have an equal say. 0.96
00:09:35.700 I think that's mean because as women, we damn near believe anything.
00:09:39.820 You can really our minds are basically like kid minds and they can propagate us.
00:09:45.020 They can just make us really believe damn near anything.
00:09:48.520 So I think it's mean to tell women that we are equal to men because it messes up the authority structure in the home. 0.91
00:09:56.240 It messes up the authority structure at work.
00:09:58.580 And it has us live in this delusional world where we think we're equal to men when we are not.
00:10:04.520 We do not bring equal value to the family and we do not bring equal value to the society.
00:10:09.580 We do not bring equal value to the family and we do not bring equal value to the family and we do not bring equal value to the family.