JustPearlyThings - Women Hate When Men Play Video Games (Call-In Show)

00:00:00.000 Thank you.

00:00:30.000 Thank you.

00:01:00.000 Good afternoon, everybody.

00:01:01.860 Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.

00:01:06.240 I am your host, Pearl.

00:01:07.560 And today we are going to talk about how women have a tendency to ruin men's hobbies, in

00:01:15.380 particular video games.

00:01:17.660 However, we're going to do a little, a derail, a sidetrack, an off-topic comment from the

00:01:27.520 show today.

00:01:28.540 Because I have, it's a state of an emergency, guys.

00:01:33.000 There has been so much simping, I can't deal with it.

00:01:37.420 This is becoming a simp-edemic.

00:01:40.840 Michael Knowles released a clip today that he is not only doubling down on Nala being

00:01:49.800 super sorry and now a representative of Catholicism.

00:01:55.740 He brought her back with her simp hug.

00:01:59.440 Congratulations, Catholics.

00:02:01.140 Michael is your most well-known representative.

00:02:05.660 Amazing.

00:02:06.980 How awesome is this?

00:02:08.280 This is who's representing Catholicism today.

00:02:12.040 You think I'm kidding?

00:02:13.940 He's one of the most well-known ones.

00:02:16.640 All right, look, this is what we got.

00:02:18.560 Really shook the internet the first time you came on.

00:02:20.800 I got in so much trouble for talking to you.

00:02:22.920 I know you have, and I appreciate that.

00:02:25.260 They say very nasty things about you.

00:02:27.040 Oh, yeah.

00:02:27.420 Oh, we know.

00:02:27.940 Okay, let me, let me, let's, is Michael, let's, let's make a prediction.

00:02:34.540 This comes out at 9 a.m. tomorrow.

00:02:37.920 And I want everybody to make a prediction.

00:02:41.680 Will Michael call out the fact that she has hooker eyelashes on, a full face of makeup and

00:02:49.740 fake hair, and that in this clip right here, wait, let me find it.

00:02:56.780 Hold on.

00:02:57.340 In her debate on whatever, she was dressed in spandex.

00:03:07.700 Will he call that out?

00:03:09.120 Can we make a poll?

00:03:10.760 Is he going to call out the fact that she raised her OnlyFans prices?

00:03:19.560 Is he going to call out anything?

00:03:22.540 Is he going to, is he going to hold her feet to the fire the way he would a man?

00:03:27.340 Had he had a man who was a player and dating multiple women?

00:03:37.620 The way that he would hold that man's feet to the fire, is he going to do the same for Nala?

00:03:42.980 The only reason she hasn't received consequences is because she's somewhat hot.

00:03:54.600 I know.

00:03:56.460 I've never seen men fight harder for anything other than hot women's ability to be naked.

00:04:03.860 Be whores and get away with it.

00:04:06.020 The only reason Michael Knowles didn't win the simp of the year is because we're in a simp epidemic.

00:04:24.300 This is like the pandemic, but it's like, what, is he going to win over the guy that married her?

00:04:32.660 And that's why I think we're going to make a hierarchy of simps today.

00:04:36.380 And I want you guys to help me because it's still a running, a running topic.

00:04:40.580 Look at the internet the first time you came on.

00:04:42.200 I got in so much trouble for talking to you.

00:04:44.320 I know you have and I appreciate that.

00:04:46.580 They say very nasty things about you.

00:04:48.420 So here we go.

00:04:49.320 This is what happens in churches.

00:04:52.460 Guys like him, they're no better than the men that allow the gay flags.

00:04:56.820 I swear, no better.

00:04:59.220 The exact, exact same.

00:05:02.400 Just in a different way.

00:05:04.560 He's saying, yes, fellas, here's a whore for you guys to marry.

00:05:10.220 We're going to make her do no work.

00:05:11.540 Give her, um, give her clout and allow her to represent Christianity.

00:05:18.320 Oh, yeah.

00:05:18.920 Oh, we know.

00:05:19.560 You're a lying, deceiving prostitute.

00:05:22.260 Now, again, this is what they do.

00:05:25.300 They go and they try to shame men for their tone while dying on the hill of a prostitute.

00:05:38.020 Please, if you're a Catholic, put a two in the chat.

00:05:40.500 Put a two in the chat.

00:05:42.660 Do you want, is this who, is this who we should allow to represent us?

00:05:47.920 I don't know.

00:05:49.180 You said that you lied about everything.

00:05:51.640 People were tagging me on social media and they said, see, Michael, here's proof that she lied to you.

00:05:56.860 Everything I've said on podcasts is complete clickbait.

00:06:00.220 Why do you think?

00:06:01.380 So what they're going to do is they're going to say, no, no, no.

00:06:04.820 She was talking about what she said before was a lie and now is totally the truth.

00:06:11.700 And the thing is, with guys like this, they either want to get laid so bad or they want to be right so bad.

00:06:16.880 I don't know which it is.

00:06:18.060 But they want their religion to be right so bad that all the facts will go against what they believe.

00:06:25.000 But because they want that story to market on their show, that's what they're going to do.

00:06:32.140 That's what they're going to, they're going to push.

00:06:37.840 They want it too bad.

00:06:39.320 I mean, it's a need to be right, but in men, instead of like looking at the facts.

00:06:43.400 Is he, is he going to bring up any of the facts?

00:06:45.880 Michael, I swear, I swear.

00:06:48.260 If you brought up none of the facts that I've laid out on five different live streams,

00:06:54.320 nobody from your team reached out for me with receipts.

00:06:58.100 Zero.

00:06:59.720 None.

00:07:00.340 Nada.

00:07:00.980 Nayski.

00:07:01.300 Why didn't you bring her on with me or reclaim your throne?

00:07:08.140 He was on her ass.

00:07:10.680 Why didn't you bring her on with Andrew?

00:07:12.500 No.

00:07:13.100 What you did is you're facilitating an apology tour.

00:07:17.640 Idiot.

00:07:18.180 God, what an idiot.

00:07:19.640 He's either, he's either an idiot or, or it's malicious and he wants to get laid.

00:07:26.320 I don't know which it is.

00:07:27.360 I'm, I'm ticked off.

00:07:33.100 People want you to be lying.

00:07:35.180 That happened to her.

00:07:36.680 I can't believe that it's real because then that means I can change my ways and still get

00:07:41.660 saved.

00:07:45.260 You have got to be kidding me.

00:07:47.180 So her, her argument is nobody's allowed to question if it's real because of her actions,

00:07:56.260 but it's because we don't think that we can be saved.

00:08:01.120 And this is what they do.

00:08:03.920 They go into the churches.

00:08:06.780 They think, huh?

00:08:07.720 I can get a get out of jail free card here.

00:08:12.100 I can totally revamp.

00:08:14.040 There's all these guys with no experience.

00:08:16.100 So now let me, let me do my rebrand here.

00:08:20.280 And then on top of that, the men are going to fight for me.

00:08:23.760 They're all going to fight with each other and argue over if I'm sincere.

00:08:28.880 I don't even have to fight.

00:08:29.760 I can bring in my simp husband in and this other simp that's like the equivalent of,

00:08:36.040 I don't know, the pastor or the theology teacher, whatever.

00:08:39.840 And they're going to die on the hill of letting me be a hooker.

00:08:45.740 Good deal.

00:08:47.700 Good deal.

00:08:48.340 You're brought up in the church.

00:08:49.740 Is this mental illness?

00:08:51.020 People have criticized you because they say, you made all this money.

00:08:54.260 Where's the penance?

00:08:56.480 They say, you should give all your money away.

00:08:59.760 Now, is he going to say, he, did you see this simpidemic?

00:09:04.740 My God.

00:09:05.340 And he called her the prodigal daughter.

00:09:09.140 Oh, make it end.

00:09:12.280 They're like, why, why don't men?

00:09:14.800 I actually Googled this the other day that there's more Catholic women than men.

00:09:20.600 Officially.

00:09:21.940 It's like 55.

00:09:23.180 It's barely, it's closer than a lot of other religions.

00:09:25.580 It's like 55% women, 45% men.

00:09:28.180 Well, here's your representatives.

00:09:32.800 Here you go.

00:09:34.020 Where's the penance?

00:09:35.000 They say you should give all your money away.

00:09:41.840 He said, they say that there should be a penance.

00:09:46.020 That's what, that's his argument.

00:09:46.980 He's saying that he can't take ownership and say, I'm a Catholic.

00:09:52.100 That was a shitty thing to do.

00:09:54.520 Why don't you give, like, he has to blame it on everyone else.

00:09:58.060 Simp.

00:09:58.540 What a simp.

00:10:00.380 Oh, my gosh.

00:10:02.280 Now, I want you guys to help me here.

00:10:04.560 Now, I've taken, I went to Twitter.

00:10:07.340 Give me one second.

00:10:09.440 Give me one second.

00:10:10.660 I got to go on to Twitter.

00:10:16.780 And I got to find some of the, I want to do a hierarchy of simping.

00:10:23.940 Here we go.

00:10:24.360 There's many different types of simps.

00:10:33.800 Now, I'd like to say, this is a working video.

00:10:38.600 It's working.

00:10:39.620 We're not completely done with who's the hierarchy of simps.

00:10:43.160 So, the way I think I'm going to do it here is I want to make the top the least simpy, guys.

00:11:00.380 And the bottom the most simpy.

00:11:03.420 Now, what makes somebody a simp?

00:11:06.880 What is a simp?

00:11:08.220 Somebody who worships women and really just gives women whatever they want, regardless of the consequence,

00:11:20.520 regardless of how bad of people they are.

00:11:24.020 So, the number one simp.

00:11:28.460 Wait, hold on.

00:11:30.440 I have notes here.

00:11:34.620 Okay.

00:11:35.180 The number one most common, you know what?

00:11:39.820 Sorry.

00:11:40.220 I need to re-talk about one thing.

00:11:42.500 The top is going to be the most simpy.

00:11:45.300 The bottom is the least simpy.

00:11:50.720 So, these are guys that put up, put up with wives not sleeping with them.

00:12:04.380 Yes.

00:12:05.900 These are the most common.

00:12:09.540 These are men afraid to divorce their wives.

00:12:12.880 So, they say, you can be as terrible as you want.

00:12:17.920 You can give me nothing in return.

00:12:21.540 But I will, simp equals putting women on a pedestal.

00:12:28.860 These are the guys that say, happy wife, happy life.

00:12:37.220 Pretty simpy.

00:12:38.740 Number two, but, you know, at least these guys, they might get a kid out of the deal.

00:12:44.640 Right?

00:12:44.780 I mean, at least they're getting a kid or something.

00:12:46.620 So, next on the simp is guys that are friends with women, with women for nothing in return.

00:13:00.580 Now, what I'm not talking about, there are men that do get things out of friendships with, or they're women friends.

00:13:10.080 They get something in return.

00:13:12.000 I am not talking about those guys.

00:13:14.400 I'm talking about the guys that have been in love with a girl for years and accept that friendship.

00:13:20.400 And they say, you know what?

00:13:21.880 They have no self-esteem, so they just, I deserve nothing in return.

00:13:26.720 Stop it, King.

00:13:28.600 Say, put out or leave, bitch.

00:13:31.480 I'm just kidding.

00:13:32.540 Okay, next.

00:13:34.180 We have the guys that pay for OF.

00:13:42.080 And I want to give credit because MancoSmash on Twitter gave me, he gave me a lot of these.

00:13:49.320 So, I do like to give credit where credit is due.

00:13:51.340 So, pay for OF, tips, you know, messages for OF.

00:14:04.120 So, the guys that pay for OnlyFans, strippers, et cetera, they are super simps, but they're getting something in return.

00:14:15.360 You know, I mean, they use those women as therapists, or they use those women to make, like, special videos for them.

00:14:21.340 They get some, at least they're getting more.

00:14:24.100 You guys all think you're above the OnlyFans models.

00:14:27.220 Like, the men that you, you guys, you'll all say, oh, those guys that pay for OnlyFans.

00:14:36.420 They're the super simps.

00:14:39.920 Well, are you in a girl's friend zone?

00:14:41.880 Sorry.

00:14:42.180 Now, next on the, on the totem pole, or the white knights.

00:14:52.660 So, these are the guys, like Michael Knowles, who fight for women they're getting nothing from.

00:15:00.420 So, they say, you know, you're not giving me sex, a kid, or anything, but I'm gonna, I'm gonna white knight and fight for you.

00:15:12.180 So, the next we have Captain Savoho.

00:15:24.860 These are the men, like Nala's new man, where they marry women that have done sex work in the past.

00:15:33.760 And, now there's two forms of cucks that are at the top.

00:15:47.400 So, cucks two, cucks one.

00:15:51.140 Now, the cucks two, you know, they're actually a little bit more accepting of female nature than, like, I don't know, the guys, the white knights.

00:16:00.880 Like, some of the cucks are more realistic.

00:16:03.540 They're like, she's gonna leave and cheat anyway.

00:16:05.660 I might as well get sex from her twice a week, but I'm also gonna cheat.

00:16:10.340 I want you guys to think about this.

00:16:11.800 So, Lauren Southern, she was a conservative commentator who married a Christian guy.

00:16:17.860 She cheated on her husband with Destiny, who was in an open relationship.

00:16:24.300 Now, Destiny, his wife banged other dudes, but he was also banging other hot women.

00:16:30.140 Who took the bigger L?

00:16:31.860 The guy who got cheated on with Destiny?

00:16:35.380 Or Destiny, whose wife was getting dug out by other dudes, but he was also cheating?

00:16:39.660 So, cuck two are guys that their wives get dug out, but they also dig other women out.

00:16:46.260 Cuck one are the men that accept cheating, so they're in a relationship, the woman's cheating,

00:16:54.080 and or the men that literally let the women sleep with someone else in front of them.

00:17:01.100 They watch.

00:17:01.540 Now, I'm open to adding more things, but this is just our original ballpark.

00:17:11.080 I wanted to involve you guys.

00:17:13.640 So, if you guys have any thoughts on where the hierarchy of simps, who should be added, moved,

00:17:23.100 but it's essentially, you know, pretty much all I got right now.

00:17:30.160 So, let me go back.

00:17:42.140 I need to put these headphones back in.

00:17:44.900 Let me read the chat right now, and then we'll get into today's topic.

00:17:48.820 I'm sorry I had to derail, but this is too big of news.

00:17:53.120 This is ridiculous.

00:17:54.100 I better see, like, 10 Catholic streamers calling this out.

00:18:01.800 It shouldn't just be me, all right?

00:18:03.900 I'm not even that religious.

00:18:05.780 I'm really, I'm not, I don't want to represent here.

00:18:08.940 Like, it's not me.

00:18:10.120 But I know a bunch of Catholic streamers, okay?

00:18:12.740 I do.

00:18:16.300 No, I don't.

00:18:17.020 I know, like, two.

00:18:17.580 But I'm just saying, there's a bunch.

00:18:20.940 There's a bunch of channels.

00:18:22.460 I expect this to be on the board.

00:18:27.180 Otherwise, I don't want to hear anything.

00:18:29.440 I don't.

00:18:31.640 Doug says, you are not lying.

00:18:32.940 It should be happy.

00:18:33.900 Happy house, happy spouse.

00:18:36.580 Roger just signed up for the monthly memberships.

00:18:39.300 Thank you for coming, Roger.

00:18:40.840 By the way, YouTube demonetized me.

00:18:44.340 And, guys, sometimes when I call out these women, they try to ruin my life.

00:18:48.960 I really view myself as a protected class.

00:18:51.700 I can say things you guys can't say.

00:18:53.380 You guys think this stuff all the time.

00:18:55.580 You haven't seen a guy, wife in a home, and thought hierarchy of simps.

00:18:59.620 I'm sure you have.

00:19:06.620 But I'm in a protected class.

00:19:08.800 I can say these things.

00:19:10.840 But sometimes these women retaliate.

00:19:14.920 I don't know what Nala's going to do.

00:19:16.000 I don't know if she's going to send her simp army after me.

00:19:18.140 So it's really important that I can be YouTube free

00:19:20.900 and not have to be dependent on an app that pushes me off.

00:19:25.420 I got to get, if I get one yearly membership a show, I'm YouTube free,

00:19:29.780 and then I can really say whatever I want.

00:19:32.660 Then I can, when YouTube gets on a phone with me,

00:19:35.700 I can tell them to F off.

00:19:37.400 Unless you're watching YouTube rap.

00:19:39.240 Haha, I'm so sorry.

00:19:40.840 Anyways.

00:19:46.080 Now, let's talk about video games.

00:19:48.960 So since we're talking about simps,

00:19:50.600 the other thing that simps have a tendency to do

00:19:53.100 is they have a tendency to fight for what women want

00:19:56.780 and not in the best interest of men and their own gender.

00:20:00.120 And really even society.

00:20:01.900 They do this because they want attention from women,

00:20:04.260 they want to get laid,

00:20:05.640 or they just want their life to be easier.

00:20:08.180 So they simp, you know, they don't want to get fired.

00:20:10.600 They're like, fine.

00:20:12.000 Don't care.

00:20:12.860 Simp, whatever.

00:20:13.660 I'll say what I have to.

00:20:16.100 Now, the other day I did a show about how women don't have hobbies.

00:20:19.320 And we looked at a lot of videos of modern women admitting that they're just boring.

00:20:23.260 The problem with dating or marrying one of these women is that for a man,

00:20:28.320 they have nothing else to do but complain about what the man is doing.

00:20:34.220 I mean, guys, how many times have you been in a relationship with a woman

00:20:37.880 and she's constantly nagging you to get off of your game council,

00:20:41.500 stop going to the gym, and just to spend more time with her.

00:20:45.520 And you ask yourself, what is she doing all day?

00:20:48.860 Why can't she find something to do to just leave me alone for a couple of hours?

00:20:54.860 I was looking back at this show and I was thinking about how the number one hobby

00:20:59.400 that women don't like when it comes to their men would be video games.

00:21:03.400 No other male hobby is demonized as much as video games.

00:21:08.240 You see entire podcasts of women complaining that their boyfriend's husband

00:21:12.160 or partner spends too much time playing video games and it's crazy.

00:21:16.640 These women should be glad that their boyfriend is at home

00:21:19.560 playing video games instead of out sleeping with other women.

00:21:23.840 Last year, Liz Wheeler, a popular conservative commentator,

00:21:27.500 put out a chart that showed the least attractive hobbies that a man can have to women

00:21:32.040 and video games were at the top.

00:21:34.160 This started a firestorm online.

00:21:36.320 People argued back and forth in the comments section about whether video games

00:21:40.300 were a good thing or a bad thing.

00:21:47.060 She says, this is 100% true.

00:21:49.420 Video games is peak unattractive.

00:21:51.160 Red flag.

00:21:51.820 Deal breaker zone.

00:21:54.460 Doesn't Elon Musk play video games?

00:21:56.540 Oh, it's not a real chart?

00:22:02.720 No.

00:22:03.160 Well, let's see the bottom.

00:22:06.540 It says, there's no source for the reported finding and the percentages are rounded

00:22:10.920 even to the nearest multiple of five, which is impossible.

00:22:14.200 Okay.

00:22:14.480 Well, the point isn't really about the chart.

00:22:16.280 The point is the woman nagging, right?

00:22:19.120 And so she's saying it's a deal breaker.

00:22:21.880 So what I'm hearing from Liz Wheeler is Elon Musk is now a deal breaker because he plays

00:22:28.100 video games.

00:22:29.820 Okay.

00:22:30.300 It's weird that so many dudes don't get this.

00:22:33.960 Imagine.

00:22:35.060 I want to see Liz Wheeler telling Elon Musk on a podcast that he can't play video games

00:22:40.360 and he's not doing enough.

00:22:43.160 Imagine.

00:22:43.720 Okay.

00:22:45.740 Girl Gamer tells women why their men play video games all day.

00:22:49.940 Here we go.

00:22:53.120 Why your man is always playing his damn video games.

00:22:57.240 Dear upset significant other, I am here to tell you why your man seems like all he does

00:23:03.200 is play his damn online video games.

00:23:05.140 From girl to girl, let me tell you, it's not you.

00:23:08.320 I have been online gaming for many years, although my fiance is not much of a gamer.

00:23:12.380 And he had a hard time understanding why I could sit and play a single game for hours

00:23:17.460 on end.

00:23:18.580 He would wonder if I even cared about him.

00:23:20.440 When there was many times in our relationship, I would rather play my game than watch a movie

00:23:24.000 and cuddle.

00:23:24.920 I can relate to both sides of the story.

00:23:27.680 I feel like men are not good at explaining why they enjoy gaming and women aren't good

00:23:32.140 at understanding because they never got an explanation when asked.

00:23:36.740 As a girl and a gamer, I'm here to let you know what's inside their brain.

00:23:40.660 First off, because they game does not mean they don't love you.

00:23:45.400 I am going to go into what I love about gaming and hopefully you can understand why your man

00:23:49.780 is so into it too.

00:23:50.880 Being yourself.

00:23:52.260 When I first started gaming, I found it as a place I could be myself and I didn't have

00:23:56.040 to be serious and mature all the time.

00:23:58.340 I enjoy talking to and playing with others who are just like me.

00:24:01.600 Sometimes you need that place where you can go to have fun and it's a good time every

00:24:07.520 time.

00:24:10.520 Some people like me cannot stand to having to act like an adult 24-7.

00:24:13.740 The competitiveness.

00:24:14.980 If you are with someone who loves to compete, well, there you go.

00:24:17.880 Nothing is better than chilling out and showing some people who is boss.

00:24:22.640 Online gaming are so competitive that there's a rush that comes when you're trying to prove

00:24:28.060 what, prove you've got what it takes.

00:24:30.900 Problem solving.

00:24:31.640 Now I know what you're thinking, WTF, but seriously, most of the multiplayers I know

00:24:36.860 are in, I play are involved in lots of strategy.

00:24:41.620 I'm always thinking of ways I could have done something better in a match or coming up for

00:24:45.940 a new idea for next time.

00:24:48.100 I thought about all these things at work, the hair salon and getting my nails done.

00:24:53.300 Strategy and problem solving can be so driving.

00:24:55.760 It keeps you going back for more.

00:24:57.500 Gaming friends.

00:24:58.480 Nothing is better than some gaming friends.

00:25:00.240 I have always looked at my gaming friends as some of the best friends I've ever had.

00:25:04.680 I trust these people with my life.

00:25:06.460 Well, my virtual life, that is.

00:25:07.900 But still, I have met some amazing people and have gamed with the same people for 10

00:25:11.780 plus years.

00:25:12.760 With that being said, it's hard to retire the controller.

00:25:15.600 So when you have one of your best friends calling you to ask you to F some shit up with

00:25:20.500 them, it's just almost like turning down, you turning down a lunch or a coffee date with

00:25:25.100 your bestie.

00:25:25.900 Just saying.

00:25:27.440 Relaxation.

00:25:27.880 After a long and stressful day, there's nothing better than hopping on your favorite game

00:25:34.300 and focusing on it.

00:25:35.380 It's a way of self-meditation.

00:25:37.320 At least it is to me.

00:25:38.560 I could have the worst days and 99% of the time would feel better after I played my video

00:25:42.980 game for an hour.

00:25:44.220 It's definitely a diversion from the negative things you do in your everyday life.

00:25:48.000 Now, don't get me wrong.

00:25:48.880 I understand if you have a couch potato, no job having gamer boy.

00:25:53.320 But my advice is to then drop his deadbeat ass.

00:25:56.920 But if you have a hardworking man who pays his bills and enjoys his games, let it go.

00:26:02.540 It's his hobby.

00:26:03.280 His gaming is nothing to do with not loving you.

00:26:05.820 I promise.

00:26:06.560 A girl gamer.

00:26:07.580 Now, women hate video games so much that there are stories of women that had to break up with

00:26:18.240 men that played video games.

00:26:20.140 He could clock a hundred hours in a week.

00:26:27.540 People are sharing heartbreaking stories about how video games became the breaking point in

00:26:32.380 their relationship.

00:26:34.120 Immersing yourself in a video game is like no other feeling.

00:26:38.160 It's exciting to step into someone's shoes and live a life full of drama, thrills, and

00:26:43.740 suspense.

00:26:44.120 However, the fun hobby can turn into an addiction.

00:26:47.040 When somebody begins to lose control over the amount of time that they spend gaming, it

00:26:53.320 negatively impacts their self-care, schooling, and relationships.

00:26:57.940 Reddit user, the goddess Pluto, I'm sure she is stable, a woman who broke up with someone

00:27:09.020 due to video games, what was your breaking point?

00:27:11.220 It was definitely interesting to see the range of stories from people prioritizing gaming over

00:27:17.920 their partner.

00:27:19.520 Two cases of addiction that were sad for everyone involved.

00:27:24.140 One, I dated a man who never seemed to have a problem with video games until well into the

00:27:28.920 relationship.

00:27:30.120 Every day, he started choosing games over being intimate or sleeping next to me.

00:27:34.280 I left shortly after that.

00:27:36.060 I don't want to, okay, so if your guy, let me get this straight, if your guy wanted to

00:27:45.280 play video games over having sex with you, that might be a you problem.

00:27:52.420 Let me continue.

00:27:58.780 None of the, not the sole reason, but definitely started the end of our relationship.

00:28:03.300 We were living with his parents while we waited for an apartment.

00:28:06.020 I would get up, drive an hour to work just to make no money as a server, come back exhausted,

00:28:10.360 and he would be gaming.

00:28:11.900 Unemployed, obviously, he had stock, but he had stocks.

00:28:14.700 What if he was, like, rich and she didn't know it were the stocks?

00:28:23.000 Okay.

00:28:25.200 I literally begged him just to make the bed for a week straight.

00:28:28.200 He would continue to play the game after I was home.

00:28:30.760 See, this is the thing.

00:28:32.820 Guys that don't understand women, what they'll do is they'll think if they do these things

00:28:36.240 that she'll be happy.

00:28:38.580 The guys that have dated a lot, they know it doesn't matter.

00:28:40.880 He could have made the bed every day.

00:28:42.080 It wasn't the bed.

00:28:42.780 It was, she didn't like something about him or whatever.

00:28:48.800 I came home and I tried to show him the energy that I didn't have.

00:28:51.780 He could clock 100 hours a week without thinking anything was wrong with it.

00:28:55.280 Very happy with my current partner.

00:28:57.520 Doug in the chat, guys, if you want your chat read, go to www.theaudacitynetwork.com.

00:29:03.580 The link is in, the first link in the chat, and we have it on both app stores.

00:29:08.600 What Doug says, well into the relationship means she got fat.

00:29:12.480 And started nagging him.

00:29:15.860 Rondolfo says, Doug, you're a savage.

00:29:19.440 He is.

00:29:20.760 All right.

00:29:21.200 We hadn't gone on a date in weeks.

00:29:23.100 We finally had a weekend free where we were both going to be free.

00:29:26.700 He said to leave my day open because we were going on a date and he was planning it.

00:29:30.420 On the day off, I woke up and he said he wanted to sleep in.

00:29:33.000 I said, fine.

00:29:33.620 And five minutes later, he said that his friends called him to play a game.

00:29:36.980 In three minutes, he was ready and heading out of the house.

00:29:41.280 He said it would just be a few hours and he left.

00:29:43.880 He didn't come back until that night.

00:29:46.000 But I was busy.

00:29:47.100 He left and I took myself out to breakfast and decided to be done.

00:29:50.360 By the time he got home, none of his things were in our bedroom.

00:29:53.160 He tried to tell me I was exaggerating and blowing things out of proportion.

00:29:56.500 I told him, fine.

00:29:57.500 He should go play games at his friend's house again.

00:30:01.000 Our lease was ending in the next few weeks.

00:30:02.740 So I took the following weekend to find a new place and he was in shock.

00:30:07.000 Why would you go see a place and sign a lease without me?

00:30:11.160 Why are you asking that question?

00:30:12.740 It's over.

00:30:14.840 I'm just, when I'm confused, it's why, why are you?

00:30:18.720 Okay.

00:30:19.840 I made more money than him.

00:30:21.060 So I paid for everything.

00:30:23.400 See, I don't think it's the video games.

00:30:25.520 I think it's the mutt.

00:30:26.460 Like that's, they don't say why they're really breaking up with the guy.

00:30:29.840 Because if a woman likes a man, she likes his nerdy hobbies.

00:30:37.020 You know, like, anyways, I am going to change.

00:30:41.620 I promise.

00:30:42.220 You want me to get rid of my gaming system?

00:30:44.440 What a simp.

00:30:46.800 Oh my gosh.

00:30:49.020 This is an epidemic.

00:30:50.820 I haven't done anything wrong.

00:30:52.400 And I told him we were done.

00:30:53.540 We hadn't, we hadn't had sex in over a year.

00:30:57.180 Oh my God.

00:30:57.880 So they didn't have sex in over a year and he was begging for her back.

00:31:02.620 Why?

00:31:05.680 Look at the hierarchy.

00:31:06.900 I want you guys to be honest.

00:31:08.700 It happens.

00:31:09.280 It happens to the best of us.

00:31:10.880 Where, when was the last time?

00:31:13.820 Where were you at in this hierarchy?

00:31:16.420 I mean, this wasn't a wife, but if they're living together and not sleeping with him,

00:31:20.240 I mean, it might as well be a wife.

00:31:21.640 Um, we hadn't had sex in a year.

00:31:26.920 I was tired of feeling single, so I wasn't making it official and it wasn't my concern

00:31:30.660 anymore where he lived.

00:31:32.040 He tried to make me feel crazy and that he was the victim.

00:31:35.160 So I moved out early and blocked him on everything.

00:31:37.460 Best decision ever.

00:31:40.080 Doug is going to say, I can guarantee Pearl's never going to say Ronald Dolfel's right.

00:31:45.120 Just accept it.

00:31:46.340 It's not, no, it's not, that's fair, Doug.

00:31:48.880 My girl was getting a little blessed and she started working out because I lost weight.

00:31:53.920 Oh, wait, where did, I think I missed something.

00:31:58.620 Okay.

00:31:59.120 Ike said she broke up with him because she found somebody else at work.

00:32:03.780 That would make more sense.

00:32:05.500 That really would.

00:32:06.680 Uh, Pearl, she wanted to nag at him over breakfast and dinner for no reason.

00:32:11.160 She broke up with him, but she found somebody else at work.

00:32:14.540 She eventually learned, uh, fritto pie and so I couldn't lose hope.

00:32:19.720 Well, I bought a year from YouTube ads, so YouTube paid you.

00:32:24.840 LOL.

00:32:25.920 Thank you, T-Carp.

00:32:29.060 Pearl, she wanted to rip his soul out and women who do this get kicked out for life.

00:32:34.880 Damien says, being in emotional bonds is extremely painful for men who are continually,

00:32:39.280 who are continually busy with the real cares of life.

00:32:43.240 Women want total focus to validate their emotional needs.

00:32:48.280 Men want to, I think he's typing the next part.

00:32:53.420 How many of you would beg for a woman to stay that wasn't sleeping with you?

00:32:58.240 Please put a one, I want, I want a one in the chat if you've done it.

00:33:02.420 Be honest.

00:33:04.180 Be honest.

00:33:05.060 Please, please, I don't want, I am, you guys cap sometimes and I don't need that.

00:33:11.680 I don't.

00:33:13.440 You can put a two if you haven't.

00:33:16.540 And I'll allow a three if you've done it before, but you've, you're reformed.

00:33:20.240 You're a reformed simp.

00:33:22.260 One said he's done it if she's paying for the bills.

00:33:25.960 That's a little, I actually think the ultimate alpha is a guy that gets women to have sex with

00:33:31.960 them and pay their bills because who else is getting more out of a woman?

00:33:38.220 Who has more gain?

00:33:40.180 There's too many twos in the chat.

00:33:43.420 Stop it.

00:33:45.040 I need, I need more ones.

00:33:47.220 I don't believe you.

00:33:49.060 I've seen too much.

00:33:50.460 I really have.

00:33:52.660 Men want to fulfill this need, but are limited by the concerns of life.

00:33:57.240 Rich says, I never had that problem.

00:33:59.560 Never.

00:34:02.140 Brian on the website says, too, he's never done it.

00:34:07.220 Come on, none of you were in high school, high school girlfriend.

00:34:10.940 Okay.

00:34:12.200 Anyways, I've had two exes that I felt prioritized video games and Twitch streaming over the relationship.

00:34:18.860 I love video games, too, but it has not gotten to the point, gotten in the way of spending

00:34:22.960 in real time with people or obligations.

00:34:25.400 My first boyfriend won't talk to me when I had put my sick dog down because he was too

00:34:30.480 busy playing video games with his friend.

00:34:36.260 Now, number one, I would argue that social media is more detrimental to women than video

00:34:44.140 games are to men.

00:34:47.300 And more women go out of real life interactions to go on social media than the other way around.

00:34:53.620 In a two-year relationship, I lost count of how many jobs he lost because he kept showing

00:34:59.980 up late from playing video games all night.

00:35:02.400 Who are you guys dating?

00:35:05.540 Okay.

00:35:06.380 My next boyfriend would often lie about going to bed so he could game with his lady friends

00:35:11.280 well into the night.

00:35:12.340 And he would blow off social occasions with me or my family so he could stick to his stream

00:35:18.040 schedule.

00:35:18.560 Well, okay, you guys realize that men don't really want to hang out with our families.

00:35:25.700 They're not really dying to go to all these events on the weekends.

00:35:30.860 I think that women, this is a working theory I have, so you guys, you guys, we can bounce

00:35:36.320 together.

00:35:37.960 I think that women want a backup plan.

00:35:40.840 So what they do is they never, like, we need more power in case the relationship goes south.

00:35:48.840 I mean, that's kind of what feminism is.

00:35:50.860 It's like, if you're doing behavior I don't like, I want to be able to leave and go sleep

00:35:54.540 with the guys I do like.

00:35:59.060 And the thing is, they have to keep close family ties.

00:36:02.400 And also, women have power in groups because women's power tends to be manipulation.

00:36:10.040 We can manipulate way better than men.

00:36:13.140 And that's, like, why we like the cities, why men like the country, because they see

00:36:16.860 the problems that come with groups.

00:36:19.540 Usually problems, it's groups that women are in.

00:36:22.720 Like, you know, when it's an all-male group, there are problems, but men kind of sort themselves

00:36:27.900 out a little better.

00:36:28.740 I mean, they'll beat up a guy if he's acting up enough.

00:36:31.020 You can't do that with women.

00:36:32.940 Unfortunately, you can't just clock somebody.

00:36:35.800 Not that, I know it's not legal to do it to a guy either, but, I mean, they're less likely

00:36:40.960 to press charges.

00:36:42.300 She's vindictive.

00:36:43.440 I mean, you just poke her.

00:36:44.780 She's going to the police.

00:36:47.120 Now, anyways, I have a working theory that women need their families involved in their

00:36:55.940 marriage and relationships.

00:36:57.220 And they do that to have a backup plan and a way of enforcement to the man, because they

00:37:04.120 don't want to listen to the guys, so they have to have the dad get involved or the friends

00:37:07.680 get involved or whoever get involved to get what they want, because women are too lazy

00:37:12.160 to learn communication.

00:37:13.560 And we want other people to enforce things.

00:37:19.620 Working theory.

00:37:21.720 I'm going to do a show on this when I flushed it out more, but if you guys have thoughts

00:37:25.400 on that topic, put them in the comments, please.

00:37:27.220 Um, my boyfriend would go to work late in the morning or early afternoon, do his job while

00:37:33.920 the boss was there, and then as soon as the boss left, he started playing video games

00:37:37.640 and wouldn't stop.

00:37:38.400 Many times I'd call him and tell him I was going to go ahead and eat dinner, then call

00:37:42.380 him and say I was going to bed.

00:37:43.620 Then around midnight, I'd call and say, please don't miss the last bus.

00:37:46.540 He'd wake up in the morning under his desk and look presentable when his boss walked in.

00:37:50.660 I finally got fed up and left him.

00:37:52.620 Rich on the website says, one holiday dinner, I ate dinner with 40 of her family members

00:38:00.240 of friends in the basement.

00:38:02.500 What?

00:38:02.840 Once.

00:38:05.800 Okay.

00:38:06.960 Doug says, too many men think you think our alphas are alphas everywhere except in their

00:38:13.100 house.

00:38:15.120 So true.

00:38:16.020 They're afraid of their wives.

00:38:17.120 It's pathetic.

00:38:19.120 Oh, my God.

00:38:20.740 I'm like, make it end.

00:38:22.620 T-Carp says, I've talked to my friends about this.

00:38:26.700 If their wife isn't sleeping with them, they have to argue that they can't make life comfortable

00:38:31.380 and let it be known.

00:38:32.980 And we are talking about alpha men, that group where they're in the military.

00:38:37.140 They would just, I think they would just bow down and never argue with women.

00:38:41.520 You have to be able to hold your own in an argument.

00:38:46.120 Yeah, you know, it's so crazy.

00:38:47.420 It'll be like military men.

00:38:49.220 It'll be like men that are, you know, there'll be like kickboxers or like men you never would

00:38:56.380 think would allow some.

00:38:58.140 Like they would never accept that from a man.

00:39:00.860 Like I've seen men simp that literally beat people up for a living.

00:39:06.600 Like that is their job.

00:39:08.860 And they would never, like if a guy said the wrong thing to them, they would beat the shit

00:39:13.920 out of him.

00:39:14.280 But they're afraid of a woman.

00:39:15.660 I'm like, why?

00:39:17.300 Pretty scary.

00:39:18.180 You know, at least women are vindictive.

00:39:20.620 I think most men would take a punch in the face over a woman trying to destroy their

00:39:25.460 reputation for years.

00:39:28.360 Right?

00:39:28.960 I mean, put a, let me know what you guys would prefer.

00:39:31.160 I'm not saying you have to pick, but if you had to pick.

00:39:35.100 Getting knocked out, like a stone cold knockout, but you don't die.

00:39:38.860 And you have no, no brain injuries, but it hurts like a bitch.

00:39:42.440 Or two, a woman that you went, you dated and it went bad and she went into all of your social

00:39:50.840 circles and tried to ruin your life.

00:39:54.900 Put one, if you take the knockout, two.

00:40:01.080 Doug says the former UFC fighter, John Fitch talked about his ex-wife.

00:40:05.700 It was nuts.

00:40:06.540 She was a psychopath.

00:40:10.300 Yeah, see, all the guys are picking one.

00:40:12.440 Yeah, okay.

00:40:17.120 All right.

00:40:17.400 He would play for hours and hours.

00:40:19.480 We're talking eight to 12 hours a day.

00:40:21.880 What's your screen time?

00:40:23.400 What is your screen time?

00:40:24.780 I used to be a gamer and even worked at GameStop when I was in my early 20s.

00:40:29.200 He made me hate video games.

00:40:30.400 I tried to play with him, but he's such a sore loser.

00:40:32.480 He would throw tantrums and constantly complain.

00:40:35.180 Calling the game a cheater or saying it was glitch.

00:40:37.120 He would get upset if my character did better or had a superior class set up skills, artifacts,

00:40:42.300 compared to his own.

00:40:44.880 When I started having dreams about destroying his gaming council with an axe, I realized that

00:40:49.400 my current scenario was unhealthy for both of us.

00:40:52.920 I realized that my current boyfriend plays games and is judicial about the time he spends

00:40:59.860 on it and will absolutely turn it off when I started having dreams about destroying his game council

00:41:13.960 with an axe.

00:41:14.580 I realized my current scenario was unhealthy for both of us.

00:41:18.140 My current boyfriend plays games, but is judicial about the time he spends on it and will absolutely

00:41:23.620 turn it off if I express a desire to do something together.

00:41:27.500 He wouldn't answer his phone for hours at a time, like three to five hours, because he

00:41:34.340 was on the game.

00:41:35.160 Even in the midst of something important happening, it all came to a head when I was supposed to

00:41:40.120 meet him somewhere.

00:41:41.600 He knew I was on the way, driving from an hour away.

00:41:45.180 I didn't have the address when I was meeting him, and he wasn't responding to any calls or

00:41:49.380 texts because he was on the game.

00:41:50.620 I ended up breaking up with him because I couldn't be in a relationship with someone I saw as a child.

00:41:54.440 If your main priority seems to be video games and not the adult human woman in your life,

00:41:59.020 you're a child to me.

00:42:01.100 Okay.

00:42:02.040 These women sound nuts.

00:42:05.220 Let me see what else people are saying.

00:42:09.140 Everyone's saying one in the chat on the website.

00:42:11.460 You guys are missing out.

00:42:12.500 The chat on the website's way cooler.

00:42:14.920 No offense, guys.

00:42:17.120 But if you're on the, make sure you hit the like button.

00:42:20.600 There's 600 of you in here.

00:42:22.540 Let's make sure there's over 600 likes.

00:42:24.520 The like is free.

00:42:26.080 I have a friend that hates Trump, and he was in the Marines for 30 years.

00:42:29.720 I couldn't figure it out.

00:42:31.200 Plus, he lives in Ohio, which is a Republican state.

00:42:34.740 Richard, I've been stone-called, knocked out, and I've been attacked by a scorned woman,

00:42:39.200 and both damaged me.

00:42:40.960 Doug says, the things that I disagree with on Trump about, I think he's going to do a

00:42:47.060 good job.

00:42:47.580 Kamala would have been a disaster.

00:42:49.000 T-carp.

00:42:49.620 I think most of our dads, mine included, were that 90s Christian dad taught to be a servant

00:42:54.740 leader.

00:42:55.260 Bullshit.

00:42:55.740 We are doing what we were taught and waking up after we see 30 to 40 years of that in

00:43:01.760 our culture.

00:43:04.440 I know.

00:43:05.260 All right, next, we're going to talk about women, what to do if he's heavily into video

00:43:12.660 games.

00:43:15.420 How many people, I wonder, do you guys think this woman's going to advise to just let him

00:43:19.780 play and not try to control what he does?

00:43:26.520 Hey, Renee, I hope you're doing well.

00:43:29.160 I'm an avid fan, and you and David become a cuter couple with every video.

00:43:33.060 Oh, that's a red flag.

00:43:34.820 I mean, she runs it.

00:43:35.740 Usually, if they're public-facing and they do couples content, usually the woman runs

00:43:40.880 it.

00:43:41.640 You can tell if you watch close enough, but that's usually how it goes.

00:43:45.180 My struggle is this.

00:43:46.760 Recently, I've been a bit estranged from my man because he feels I don't understand his

00:43:51.320 love of video games and wishes I did.

00:43:53.680 I do my best to not make him feel controlled, letting him play when he wants to.

00:43:58.240 What do you mean letting him?

00:43:59.360 He's an adult.

00:44:00.020 I mean, you know, it goes both ways.

00:44:02.900 The men think they somehow have control.

00:44:05.260 Like, they're like, oh, I'd never let my woman do that.

00:44:09.580 You can't.

00:44:10.240 Nobody can.

00:44:11.160 They're adults.

00:44:11.880 They can do what they want.

00:44:13.420 It's just they're single now.

00:44:15.280 That's it.

00:44:16.260 Okay.

00:44:16.620 And with his friends.

00:44:17.860 But having him need to see me and appreciate the depth, inspiration, and heart he feels

00:44:23.900 some games have given or have is going too far for me.

00:44:28.420 He even wishes I would play a bit so that I would stop assuming he's doing something shallow

00:44:32.200 and meaningless.

00:44:32.880 Is it not enough that I can leave him alone when he's playing and not complain after?

00:44:38.180 I'm not silently seething either.

00:44:40.520 I've come to accept his need to play.

00:44:42.560 But now I feel controlled and unappreciated simply for not seeing gaming the way he and

00:44:47.740 his buddies do.

00:44:48.760 I am not his buddy.

00:44:49.700 I am a woman and his lover.

00:44:51.040 I have no interest in his games.

00:44:53.140 Is that an adequate way of thinking?

00:44:55.600 And I want to flip it for a second.

00:44:56.880 Do you think she forces him to be a part of her hobbies, like telling him about celebrity

00:45:03.640 gossip or whatever BS, you know, we follow every day?

00:45:09.400 Should I try harder to understand his hobbies or am I wise in staying out of his interests?

00:45:14.140 I feel many women struggle with men who love video games a lot.

00:45:17.500 I don't know if David loves gaming, but most women I know whose men love it.

00:45:22.780 It is frequently a struggle for her in some way.

00:45:25.360 Would you like me to answer directly or answer it in a post up to you?

00:45:31.120 But I would love to share your insights on how women should handle men and their love,

00:45:35.840 sometimes obsession with gaming.

00:45:37.700 It can be an extremely delicate subject for men, making them put up their defenses easily.

00:45:43.080 So it's not easy to deal with the issue.

00:45:44.940 Thank you for your time, Renee.

00:45:46.300 I appreciate all you do.

00:45:47.560 You contributed to helping Mike and I stay as strong as we do.

00:45:52.980 Don't worry.

00:45:53.500 We're still madly in love.

00:45:55.920 Thanks for your email.

00:45:57.440 Okay.

00:45:58.280 All right.

00:45:59.300 Thanks for your email.

00:46:00.400 And yes, I can relate to this.

00:46:01.800 I laughed when you said he wants you to appreciate the depth and heart that some video games have.

00:46:07.960 Years ago, David used to play video games a lot, sometimes until late,

00:46:11.840 and he had to wake up at 6 a.m. the next day for work.

00:46:14.800 I feel it was his way of escaping from his job when he felt trapped in and hated.

00:46:19.540 You've obviously struggled with this in the past way before you emailed me.

00:46:22.900 What I'm saying is you've struggled to understand why on earth he has to be so involved and distracted by video games

00:46:28.520 and can't give you the deep love you want.

00:46:31.140 To you as a woman, most video games are not full of depth or heart.

00:46:34.960 I understand.

00:46:35.980 You see depth in terms of human interactions and relationships.

00:46:38.880 So you'd rather he come over to you and give you his presence and love you deeply.

00:46:43.020 You don't know which way is up or down.

00:46:46.200 When I first wrote this article 10 years ago, I was of belief that the masculine soul video games are a superficial way to meet your needs.

00:46:54.840 I think intuitively, us women assume that video games are a shallow way of expressing their masculinity and feeling successful.

00:47:02.240 After all, you have to turn the game off and get back to real life somehow.

00:47:06.240 Yet after being married to my game-loving husband and having three sons with him,

00:47:09.560 I've come to appreciate certain things about video games.

00:47:12.520 I will discuss these things very soon, but I wanted to first quickly address your need to not be around him when he plays them.

00:47:17.980 For a lot of women, we'd rather not be around our men when he plays video games because we'd rather see him doing something more constructive.

00:47:25.020 Even if our man is already successful and constructive out in the real world,

00:47:29.680 it still hurts to be around him when he is actively playing video games instead of giving you attention.

00:47:35.520 Not to mention being asked to play with him.

00:47:38.040 It's a bit like, huh?

00:47:39.400 Who said you can downgrade me to watching you play video games and playing video games with you?

00:47:44.680 David used to ask me to play video games as well,

00:47:49.460 and since I wanted intimacy with him instead, it felt like my needs were being dishonored, so I can relate.

00:47:54.940 However, I can look back over the last 16 years of being with him.

00:47:58.560 Some of the better times I had with him were when we played video games together.

00:48:02.720 Only, it's just the bond that was nice, because I was horrible at them.

00:48:06.760 Getting good at the game took so much energy out of me.

00:48:09.180 I realized that I just didn't come naturally to me as it did to him.

00:48:12.480 He loves playing video games with my sons as well,

00:48:15.720 and though they don't really spend much time playing games at all,

00:48:18.620 whenever they do play games, I'm often ushering them off to read a book or go to the playground as soon as I can.

00:48:25.200 But it was when he finally said to me that I understood.

00:48:28.620 I like my boys playing games because it's good practice for them to learn to solve problems.

00:48:34.240 He also mentioned that it helps them read even more outside of the reading they already do,

00:48:38.720 because having to read the story in a game or read the instructions in the game

00:48:43.240 gives them an internal motivator to want to read more.

00:48:46.320 So even though I really understood whenever a woman says to me,

00:48:49.680 my boyfriend plays video games, more than he talks to me, I can't stand it.

00:48:54.040 I am now unable to help her understand that there's something,

00:48:57.200 there's a special something about video games that is super important to the men who love them,

00:49:01.620 and it's this, to men, video games do have depth because it's an avenue through which they get to feel express

00:49:08.300 and access their own masculine identity.

00:49:12.100 In other words, they were able to kill to solve problems and overcome challenges inside of the video game

00:49:17.560 in a way that life may not always really readily provide to them.

00:49:22.520 In this way, it's not different to us women buying dozens of shoes or dresses when we hardly wear any of them.

00:49:29.940 We appear to be wasting our money on pointless, but though it seems pointless to men, it isn't to us,

00:49:38.440 because we get to have the option of wearing shoes that best express our mood

00:49:42.900 and the feminine energy flavor we are feeling on that day.

00:49:47.280 So that to us is the type of abundance.

00:49:50.060 It may be excessive in the eyes of our boyfriend or husband, and he may not appreciate it,

00:49:54.400 and it may become a bit of an addiction to us,

00:49:58.120 but I don't believe we should condemn it because in moderation,

00:50:00.980 and it may actually allow us to express our feminine energy.

00:50:05.760 So now I'm going to help you understand his need for games,

00:50:08.100 and I'll give my thoughts on what steps to take.

00:50:11.660 Video games are an easy way for men to feel successful.

00:50:15.280 It's kind of like women emptying their bank accounts and buy all the clothes and shoes and accessories

00:50:20.060 and makeup they could hardly ever wear in order to feel beautiful and magnify their radiance.

00:50:25.620 Obviously, the best way for a woman to magnify her radiance would be to become a woman who radiates love from within.

00:50:32.980 No amount of clothing is ever a replacement for that.

00:50:36.240 All the while, her man is getting stressed out and feeling disrespected

00:50:39.480 because she's spending out all the money rather than giving him the love and appreciation he wants,

00:50:44.940 which would be one of the secrets to actually making her more beautiful to him, in his mind anyway.

00:50:51.340 Are you wondering why my boyfriend wants me to play video games with him?

00:50:55.640 It's because that helps him bond to you.

00:50:58.780 As men bond with each other by overcoming challenges and engaging in a purpose or mission together,

00:51:05.040 that's a masculine way of bonding.

00:51:07.100 As for why he wants you to play with them,

00:51:09.420 it's a classic case of men wanting their women to think more like them

00:51:14.340 so that they can connect and relate more with you.

00:51:16.640 It's no different to women trying to drag their men along shopping with them.

00:51:21.900 Do you see where I'm going with this?

00:51:23.200 On one hand, he wants to feel more connected to you

00:51:25.340 because he feels like you don't understand him on his level,

00:51:27.960 so he's trying to make you more like him.

00:51:29.720 He feels this will make you understand him, develop a connection, and a sense of commodity.

00:51:37.800 Let me read the chat really quick.

00:51:40.560 All right, Pearl, simping isn't a good move for getting married,

00:51:48.300 but simping to get sex works very well.

00:51:51.840 Thanks for the field report, Richard.

00:51:54.720 Crazy Kyle.

00:51:56.260 Pearl, real stuff a man who plays games and has a child isn't good.

00:52:03.540 It's better to play board games with your child to teach them strategies.

00:52:07.680 Who are you to tell a guy what he can do in his house?

00:52:13.560 Kyle, get out of here.

00:52:15.700 Okay, Pearl Reed, not sure if you saw this TikTok trend

00:52:19.920 where women would ask their men how to get into their hobbies

00:52:23.920 and the man's eyes would light up like a kid on Christmas.

00:52:28.260 It took a trend for women to care.

00:52:32.100 You want to know when I knew I was going to marry my wife,

00:52:35.280 she bought me a $700 PS3 back in the day.

00:52:39.240 And then she said, go buy that PS5.

00:52:41.940 You work so hard for your family.

00:52:44.140 You deserve it.

00:52:47.840 Okay, let me get to the...

00:52:50.760 All right, now she said, how to deal with it

00:52:53.000 when your boyfriend plays video games for hours.

00:52:57.040 Sit with him for 10 to 15 minutes and watch his game.

00:53:00.420 What's the point of this?

00:53:01.420 The point is to see him overcome an opponent.

00:53:04.640 If you can even pick up what he does, you have to look carefully.

00:53:08.700 If I ever do this, sometimes I miss his victory moment

00:53:11.240 because I don't get the game.

00:53:13.640 Oh my God, I relate to that.

00:53:15.920 As a woman, I'm not really into these kind of things.

00:53:18.320 He just wants you to appreciate his success.

00:53:20.360 Yes, they're superficial, but fighting it won't help you get closer.

00:53:24.200 And when he shoots someone dead or whatever triumph he overcomes,

00:53:27.520 just say something like, whoa, that's so cool or well done.

00:53:32.240 Okay, it will make him feel appreciated and understood

00:53:35.520 because his own woman is the one who recognizes his victories,

00:53:39.320 however fake they feel to you.

00:53:40.920 And don't sit there for hours doing it.

00:53:43.240 You don't want to dishonor your own needs as a woman.

00:53:45.700 That's not good for you either.

00:53:47.140 It also does nothing for the growth of the relationship.

00:53:49.460 After 15 minutes or so are up, obviously don't obsessively this time.

00:53:58.460 You want to be genuine about it and really put yourself in his shoes.

00:54:02.280 Then get up and say, you know what, I'm going to read a book

00:54:04.580 or I'm going to go call a girlfriend now because I feel a bit lonely.

00:54:07.300 If he tries to get you to stay, you don't have to keep staying.

00:54:10.960 You should still be free to honor your own need for intimacy,

00:54:14.700 especially since it's good for your relationship to fill up your soul

00:54:18.660 for the best way you know how.

00:54:21.940 Here's your second option.

00:54:23.980 When he says, come play with me,

00:54:25.240 you'll appreciate the depth and heart of the game.

00:54:28.380 I do what I do very often when these high tension situations pop up.

00:54:32.980 I'd turn around and be playful and say,

00:54:35.320 oh yeah, come shopping with me and my girlfriends for the day.

00:54:38.320 We can buy some pretty dresses and look a wide array of soaps

00:54:43.240 and maybe even shoes.

00:54:44.700 And I do this just to break the pattern and make them go, huh?

00:54:48.560 It changes the state.

00:54:49.860 It gives their brain a jiggle in a fun way

00:54:52.180 and it breaks the pattern of him trying to get you to do guy things.

00:54:57.600 Well.

00:55:00.860 Now, I'm going to react to a couple podcasters

00:55:05.580 with their thoughts on this.

00:55:09.160 I actually usually like this couple, but they are simping right here.

00:55:12.880 This is simping.

00:55:13.600 I'm going to talk about the video game thing.

00:55:15.840 We're at two hours already on this.

00:55:17.880 Wow.

00:55:18.120 But there's going to be things cut out,

00:55:19.480 so it'll be under two hours as of right this second.

00:55:22.000 Mm-hmm.

00:55:23.420 Probably.

00:55:24.080 But I want to talk about the video game thing a little bit.

00:55:26.660 Okay.

00:55:26.840 One of the emails was talking about the dude playing video games.

00:55:32.520 He used to play video games as a form of escape.

00:55:34.800 Mm-hmm.

00:55:35.600 I don't remember who I was watching or listening to.

00:55:38.340 There was a conversation of drugs got brought up

00:55:40.200 and how people are an addict.

00:55:41.180 And people who take drugs to escape their reality,

00:55:44.920 they're addicts.

00:55:45.680 You know, do they do?

00:55:46.340 Oh, my gosh.

00:55:46.900 She's about to call video games the same.

00:55:52.680 Have you met an addict?

00:55:57.960 Like, men can play video games and keep a job,

00:56:00.920 and they can do it.

00:56:03.320 And one of my brothers used to play a lot,

00:56:05.520 like a lot, a lot.

00:56:06.320 Like, it could have been a part-time job.

00:56:08.540 And he had a full-time job.

00:56:11.260 He was productive.

00:56:15.100 Had a relative who was an alcoholic.

00:56:19.020 Very different.

00:56:20.320 Do that.

00:56:20.980 Mm-hmm.

00:56:21.260 They then brought up the video game thing

00:56:22.720 and said that people who play video games for 6, 10,

00:56:26.900 you know, 12 hours a day or do it every single day

00:56:29.980 are doing it to a...

00:56:30.660 What's the women's screen time?

00:56:33.080 What's your screen time?

00:56:34.560 Escape something in their life.

00:56:35.700 And we see people on TikTok constantly saying that

00:56:38.700 my husband just plays video games all day long.

00:56:41.660 He comes home and gets right on his console

00:56:43.140 and plays video games with his friends

00:56:44.440 and doesn't do anything around the house.

00:56:45.900 Mm-hmm.

00:56:46.760 That is a form of escapism.

00:56:48.460 He's trying to escape his reality.

00:56:50.160 There's a scenario in that when you really think about it,

00:56:52.280 like, he's not happy with his life.

00:56:53.820 Right.

00:56:54.260 And he's choosing to play video games

00:56:55.940 and fulfill an addiction

00:56:57.300 than to actually sit down.

00:57:00.080 There's a difference between having a hobby

00:57:01.500 and having an addiction.

00:57:02.720 Right.

00:57:03.160 You know, we're hobby photographers.

00:57:04.660 We go out and do photography once or twice a week

00:57:08.600 for an hour or two at a time together.

00:57:10.400 Mm-hmm.

00:57:11.280 If I was gone eight hours a day with my camera

00:57:13.180 while you were here doing...

00:57:13.980 But they're not questioning the women

00:57:15.560 why they're so addicted to TikTok.

00:57:17.680 They're putting that on there.

00:57:18.980 Nothing.

00:57:19.420 And it was just me leaving.

00:57:20.260 That's what I mean.

00:57:20.820 It's a play pretend world.

00:57:22.300 This whole world is like...

00:57:24.380 It's just endless simping.

00:57:26.160 God, even the...

00:57:28.660 And I actually like this couple.

00:57:30.380 I've seen a couple clips, but...

00:57:32.660 Oh, it's a simpidemic.

00:57:33.780 You constantly.

00:57:34.780 It's me leaving you.

00:57:35.980 Right.

00:57:36.340 It's no different than somebody coming home from work

00:57:38.080 and getting on a console and ignoring your family,

00:57:40.420 male or female,

00:57:41.460 because you want to escape the life

00:57:43.800 that you've built for yourself.

00:57:46.300 When I heard that, it clicked.

00:57:47.980 So, like, now I really hate video games.

00:57:50.340 Yeah.

00:57:50.880 And I understand that, like,

00:57:52.460 I don't hate it in that

00:57:53.460 it can be a hobby for some people.

00:57:55.540 We have a PlayStation 5 and an Xbox here,

00:57:57.960 like, and we have gaming computers,

00:58:00.060 but we get, like, maybe an hour a month

00:58:02.420 where we sit down and play video games.

00:58:03.960 It's just not...

00:58:04.980 It's too time-consuming

00:58:06.180 and, like, not beneficial to us.

00:58:08.100 Right.

00:58:09.540 For people who need that release,

00:58:11.460 fine.

00:58:13.340 It's a hobby.

00:58:13.940 If that's really what you enjoy doing,

00:58:15.560 I get it.

00:58:16.300 But when you are doing it for eight hours a day

00:58:18.300 or that's all you do in your free time

00:58:20.080 and you're neglecting your family,

00:58:21.140 you really need to stop

00:58:21.980 and think about what you're doing.

00:58:23.420 And if you're escaping your family

00:58:24.820 by playing video games,

00:58:26.100 you probably shouldn't be

00:58:27.140 with your family anymore.

00:58:28.220 Right.

00:58:29.000 Maybe you need to go to therapy.

00:58:30.220 Maybe you need to find...

00:58:32.060 You know, sometimes kids are annoying.

00:58:35.340 Have you guys ever been around kids?

00:58:36.520 Like, I like kids.

00:58:37.640 They're cute.

00:58:38.880 But sometimes the dad wants a break

00:58:41.040 because the kids are screaming

00:58:42.980 or running.

00:58:44.220 I mean, I don't think it's that big of a deal.

00:58:48.260 You know, your intimacy again

00:58:49.240 or try to reconcile with your woman

00:58:50.860 or your partner

00:58:51.680 or whatever the case may be.

00:58:53.240 But if you're spending more time

00:58:54.880 playing video games

00:58:55.500 than you are spending time with your kids,

00:58:56.660 you're not being a father.

00:58:59.320 I don't know.

00:59:00.060 I thought about that a lot

00:59:01.060 and I understand the addiction aspect of it,

00:59:03.020 but I never correlated the escapism of it.

00:59:05.460 No, I get that.

00:59:06.080 That's how I was able to gauge my growth

00:59:07.800 as a human being.

00:59:08.880 I used to play Skyrim eight to ten hours a day.

00:59:12.520 And it's because I hated my life.

00:59:13.800 I didn't want to be in my life anymore.

00:59:15.300 So it was escapism.

00:59:17.120 And once I started processing my bullshit

00:59:19.080 and actually enjoying things in life

00:59:20.740 and being excited about the small things,

00:59:22.340 like you said,

00:59:23.800 I haven't turned that Xbox on in a month.

00:59:25.580 Yeah.

00:59:26.960 That's how I was able to gauge my own growth

00:59:28.560 is when I started,

00:59:29.420 when I stopped turning to video games

00:59:31.140 to escape what was going on

00:59:32.500 and just started facing that shit head on process.

00:59:34.900 Doug says nine out of ten times

00:59:36.720 if a guy plays video games a lot,

00:59:38.720 it's because his wife is awful to him.

00:59:41.500 Like my things and just enjoying life.

00:59:44.560 I don't really enjoy video games.

00:59:46.480 Yeah.

00:59:46.720 Like I used to.

00:59:47.440 I used to play Destiny all the time,

00:59:48.860 but my friends were on there.

00:59:50.360 And like...

00:59:51.180 I enjoyed Destiny.

00:59:52.080 Destiny was a fun game.

00:59:53.020 It was one of those things at the time

00:59:54.280 I ex-played, so like we all...

00:59:55.380 Oh, hell no.

00:59:56.260 In my house, there's no screaming allowed.

00:59:59.100 So if you're having a hissy fit

01:00:00.500 and you're screaming,

01:00:01.880 you go straight to your damn room

01:00:03.380 and don't ever come back out

01:00:05.180 until you start acting normal.

01:00:07.700 Okay, well, sometimes there's a baby in the car.

01:00:10.380 I'm just saying.

01:00:11.760 I played together.

01:00:12.520 It was a community that we had,

01:00:14.780 but it wasn't like we were neglecting our lives

01:00:17.440 to play video games.

01:00:18.780 So if you have a scenario

01:00:20.160 where you're a gaming couple

01:00:22.160 and that's the hobby that you guys have

01:00:23.820 and you guys are fucking merking people

01:00:25.020 on Call of Duty together,

01:00:26.220 you are spending quality time.

01:00:28.140 In that aspect,

01:00:28.700 you both see that as quality time together.

01:00:30.680 Right.

01:00:31.440 But if one person's miserable

01:00:32.800 and the other person's playing video games,

01:00:34.420 you really need to look at the scenario

01:00:36.720 and try to ascertain

01:00:38.100 what's going on in your life

01:00:39.180 that you're trying to escape.

01:00:40.240 Mm-hmm.

01:00:41.400 I got nothing else I was saying.

01:00:43.360 Yeah, okay.

01:00:44.120 Whatever.

01:00:46.640 Woman quiets the toxic voice in her head

01:00:49.800 when she sees her man play video games.

01:00:52.780 My boyfriend loves to play video games.

01:00:54.720 And when he gets into his video games,

01:00:56.400 sometimes he's playing,

01:00:58.700 he's playing for like three hours at a time

01:00:59.960 and like I don't hear from him.

01:01:01.420 And I know he's just probably playing video games

01:01:03.120 or maybe he went to go do some laundry

01:01:04.400 or like clean the house

01:01:05.320 or like whatever.

01:01:06.240 I don't know.

01:01:07.480 But like that intrusive thought comes in

01:01:09.320 and it's like he's cheating on you.

01:01:10.960 And I was like,

01:01:12.040 is he?

01:01:12.620 Do we really think that that's plausible?

01:01:14.300 Like, no.

01:01:15.520 Let's be for fucking real.

01:01:17.660 He's playing video games.

01:01:18.940 Everything is fine.

01:01:19.980 You don't need to worry about this.

01:01:21.360 Shut the fuck up.

01:01:21.980 Woman gives advice as to what to do

01:01:28.200 with a guy that plays video games for hours

01:01:30.640 or has a hobby.

01:01:32.480 What to do if the guy you're dating

01:01:33.960 is addicted to video games

01:01:35.220 and he's not giving you the attention that you want.

01:01:37.300 Let's talk about it.

01:01:38.580 Hi, my name is Gina DeBellis.

01:01:39.960 I'm a retired sergeant

01:01:40.820 from the New York City Police Department.

01:01:42.180 I retired with almost 27 years on the job.

01:01:44.460 I have worked with thousands and thousands of men

01:01:46.260 and I've interviewed hundreds of others

01:01:47.680 for a book that I'm writing

01:01:48.720 and a website I'm building.

01:01:50.260 Wind.

01:01:50.680 I hate wind.

01:01:51.900 So let's talk about it.

01:01:54.220 So this is going to be a video

01:01:55.560 for the girl whose boyfriend

01:01:57.240 is always working on his car,

01:01:58.660 like he has like a classic car thing.

01:02:00.600 The girl whose boyfriend is always fishing

01:02:02.720 and the girl whose boyfriend

01:02:04.420 is always playing video games.

01:02:05.820 All three of you have similar problems

01:02:07.260 and I'm sure it applies to other people.

01:02:08.840 So let's talk about it.

01:02:10.520 When you met this guy,

01:02:12.120 that guy that you met in the beginning,

01:02:13.940 that was not your boyfriend.

01:02:15.020 That was someone he was kind of portraying to be

01:02:18.480 to kind of like woo you.

01:02:19.800 That was like his, the wooing guy.

01:02:22.140 He disappears after a little while

01:02:24.200 and the guy that you get, you know,

01:02:26.200 three, four, six months into the relationship,

01:02:28.700 that is your boyfriend.

01:02:30.220 So please understand that guy in the beginning,

01:02:32.580 he's not your boyfriend.

01:02:33.600 The guy six, seven months later,

01:02:35.260 four or five months later,

01:02:36.420 that is your boyfriend.

01:02:37.940 So if he's not giving you the time

01:02:41.280 and energy and effort that you want,

01:02:44.000 please understand you're not going to change this man.

01:02:46.840 I have worked with men for so many years.

01:02:49.760 Like I ran a detective squad in Brooklyn

01:02:51.820 for 10 years before I retired.

01:02:53.480 Like that's actually where I retired out of.

01:02:55.200 And I am telling you,

01:02:56.420 you are not going to change a guy.

01:02:57.940 You're not going to change him.

01:02:59.540 So if he's spending all of his time

01:03:02.100 playing video games or working on his car

01:03:04.060 or likes to go fish,

01:03:05.740 you know, that's what you have.

01:03:07.900 That's what he is.

01:03:08.960 So for you to scream and yell

01:03:11.300 and bitch and complain,

01:03:12.560 it's kind of like you knew

01:03:14.760 kind of what he was after a little while.

01:03:18.060 No one can keep up that,

01:03:19.820 you know, that constant,

01:03:20.900 you know, energy of the beginning.

01:03:22.940 That's the beginning.

01:03:23.860 That's why it's called the honeymoon period

01:03:25.200 because it's the beginning.

01:03:26.560 It's long-term.

01:03:28.140 It's how they are long-term.

01:03:29.780 So if you're not happy with the fact

01:03:32.440 that he's always doing

01:03:33.660 whatever activity he's doing,

01:03:35.580 you have to ask yourself,

01:03:37.000 is this the relationship I want?

01:03:38.840 We're never going to get that to change.

01:03:40.360 For you to be complaining

01:03:42.460 and losing your mind over it,

01:03:44.260 what you really might need to do

01:03:45.680 is take a step back and say,

01:03:47.160 is this the relationship I want?

01:03:48.640 Because the person that you have

01:03:50.260 is the person he is.

01:03:52.740 So if you don't want a guy

01:03:54.520 who's going to play video games

01:03:55.720 all the time,

01:03:57.060 what do you think?

01:03:57.920 You're going to complain to him

01:03:59.100 and he's going to stop?

01:04:00.500 No.

01:04:01.380 He's going to ignore you

01:04:02.420 and he's still going to play video games.

01:04:03.820 This is the man he is.

01:04:05.260 Now, will they change for another woman?

01:04:07.440 Usually not.

01:04:08.800 I'm sorry.

01:04:10.060 They won't.

01:04:10.640 Oh, well, the thing meets the right guy.

01:04:12.340 No.

01:04:13.080 Men are who they are.

01:04:14.040 You get what you get.

01:04:15.120 So if you don't like what you get,

01:04:16.440 I suggest you get something different.

01:04:18.740 Or you accept them

01:04:19.820 for the man that they are.

01:04:20.780 But more than likely,

01:04:21.820 when you meet a man,

01:04:23.460 if that's what he does,

01:04:25.140 plays video games,

01:04:26.040 works on his car,

01:04:26.860 fishes, hunts,

01:04:27.760 whatever his thing is,

01:04:29.580 that's who he is.

01:04:30.380 So just try to accept him

01:04:31.440 for who he is

01:04:32.100 or just decide

01:04:32.740 if that's not the right relationship

01:04:34.040 for you.

01:04:34.560 So I know that's probably

01:04:36.260 not what you wanted to hear.

01:04:37.280 I hope this helped.

01:04:38.500 Take care and be well.

01:04:39.800 Thank you for all the questions

01:04:40.720 and comments and messages.

01:04:42.540 I love them.

01:04:43.560 Keep them coming.

01:04:44.820 Okay.

01:04:45.500 Bye-bye.

01:04:48.900 Yeah.

01:04:49.900 That's right.

01:04:50.660 That's correct.

01:04:52.060 That's the other thing.

01:04:53.300 It's like,

01:04:53.740 if you got him

01:04:56.500 playing video games,

01:04:58.100 why would he change?

01:04:59.040 Okay.

01:05:01.420 Ronald Dolfo says,

01:05:02.760 I love how Patrice O'Neill

01:05:04.360 simplified that if women

01:05:05.720 had no pussy,

01:05:07.640 what would they do

01:05:08.420 to keep a man?

01:05:09.540 All the answers were sexual.

01:05:11.740 But no female

01:05:12.760 said,

01:05:14.320 tell better stories,

01:05:15.520 learn pool,

01:05:16.140 and play games.

01:05:17.840 Crazy Kyle,

01:05:18.680 here's a thought.

01:05:19.680 I don't like girl streamers

01:05:21.080 because they ruin the fun.

01:05:23.260 T-Carp,

01:05:23.820 as a dad of two girls,

01:05:25.680 I gamed last night

01:05:26.780 two hours after I got home.

01:05:28.380 I don't do it all the time,

01:05:29.400 but it's a balance.

01:05:32.220 It's...

01:05:32.660 Oh, wait.

01:05:33.460 Hold on.

01:05:34.000 I'm schooled.

01:05:37.080 It...

01:05:37.600 It's known that dad plays

01:05:39.700 for when it's my time,

01:05:41.440 it's my time.

01:05:42.160 Kyle says,

01:05:42.920 too.

01:05:43.640 Doug and Pearl,

01:05:44.760 there's only one game

01:05:45.880 I could play

01:05:46.480 that is...

01:05:47.280 And that is death standing.

01:05:48.880 Pretty much delivering packages,

01:05:50.340 also my career in life.

01:05:52.140 T-Carp,

01:05:52.600 modern women

01:05:53.260 just sound like

01:05:54.120 they want to date

01:05:55.140 other women

01:05:55.880 or gay dudes.

01:05:57.860 Man doesn't have to change

01:05:59.560 for a bitch,

01:06:01.060 just used it to get bitches.

01:06:03.360 Okay.

01:06:04.520 Do men really change

01:06:07.400 at four to six months

01:06:08.760 or do you know...

01:06:10.240 Or do you just forget

01:06:11.120 how lonely you were

01:06:12.180 four to six months ago?

01:06:15.380 That's a good question.

01:06:18.300 All right.

01:06:18.620 Guy simps,

01:06:20.140 asks for women

01:06:20.620 and says why men

01:06:21.420 are addicted to video games.

01:06:23.280 Can I explain

01:06:24.000 why men play video games

01:06:25.740 24-7?

01:06:27.160 I can explain

01:06:28.360 that the video game

01:06:29.780 gives the man

01:06:30.680 a false sense of security

01:06:33.420 about who he is.

01:06:35.580 I believe that a lot of men

01:06:37.200 that do this,

01:06:38.860 you know,

01:06:39.380 kind of feel as though

01:06:40.900 they don't live up

01:06:42.220 to society's standards.

01:06:44.080 But in the video game,

01:06:45.520 they can be

01:06:46.040 whoever they want to be.

01:06:47.740 They can be as good

01:06:48.540 as they want to be.

01:06:49.220 They can be

01:06:50.060 everything that they're not

01:06:51.460 in real life

01:06:52.320 in virtual reality.

01:06:55.280 And I think it stems

01:06:56.660 a lot from,

01:06:57.540 especially men these days,

01:06:58.860 I think it stems a lot

01:06:59.900 from social media, right?

01:07:01.040 So think about social media.

01:07:02.640 You go to Facebook,

01:07:03.640 pick a random guy

01:07:04.320 on your Facebook.

01:07:05.280 Anybody.

01:07:05.920 Whether you know him or not.

01:07:07.440 Now you tell me

01:07:08.120 how many posts

01:07:09.520 has that guy made

01:07:10.420 about who he really is.

01:07:12.140 You know,

01:07:12.500 how many stressful

01:07:13.460 posts has he made?

01:07:14.560 How many posts

01:07:15.680 has he made

01:07:16.320 about how he doesn't

01:07:17.840 have it together?

01:07:18.640 How he's not always traveling?

01:07:20.140 How he's not always

01:07:20.880 dressed perfectly?

01:07:22.600 Or the doctor.

01:07:23.380 Guys don't post at all.

01:07:25.120 What are you talking about?

01:07:27.680 This should be to women.

01:07:29.220 My God.

01:07:30.480 ...picture.

01:07:31.180 Tell me when his hair's

01:07:32.660 messed up.

01:07:33.140 Tell me about

01:07:33.580 the real life scenarios

01:07:34.860 about who he really is.

01:07:37.380 I mean,

01:07:37.640 you can't do it.

01:07:38.660 You can't do it.

01:07:39.460 Because men don't care

01:07:41.220 about social media.

01:07:43.400 They care about real life.

01:07:44.920 Men live through

01:07:45.600 their video game

01:07:46.720 because they can be

01:07:48.300 as good

01:07:48.840 as their little thumbs

01:07:50.120 make them.

01:07:51.200 Right?

01:07:51.540 And they don't have

01:07:52.440 to address

01:07:53.300 any real issues

01:07:54.820 of real life.

01:07:57.500 That's my philosophy.

01:08:01.060 So we're going to do

01:08:02.280 a call in today.

01:08:04.860 And

01:08:05.340 I want to hear

01:08:08.160 from you guys.

01:08:08.980 You know,

01:08:09.280 maybe I'm wrong.

01:08:10.500 Maybe the men

01:08:11.020 shouldn't play video games.

01:08:13.980 What has your experience

01:08:15.580 been with video games

01:08:16.940 in relationships?

01:08:18.460 And do you think

01:08:19.160 it's good or bad?

01:08:22.300 So we're going to put

01:08:23.220 a Zoom link

01:08:23.980 in the chat.

01:08:26.180 And I'm going to go

01:08:27.180 through the rules

01:08:27.840 for calling in.

01:08:29.620 Women,

01:08:30.020 I want to hear

01:08:30.420 from you too.

01:08:31.060 Maybe you have

01:08:31.520 a strong opinion.

01:08:37.080 But I need to go

01:08:37.980 through some rules.

01:08:38.680 So the first thing

01:08:39.820 is I do need

01:08:40.620 you guys' camera on.

01:08:43.080 We've had some

01:08:43.880 weird people

01:08:44.540 call in before.

01:08:48.080 We really have.

01:08:49.440 And it scarred me

01:08:50.120 for life.

01:08:50.760 So you guys

01:08:51.620 can thank them

01:08:52.540 because now

01:08:53.960 forever I need

01:08:54.760 all your cameras on.

01:08:56.000 I do.

01:08:56.800 Camera on.

01:08:57.800 I need to,

01:08:58.940 I want you guys

01:08:59.560 to put down

01:09:00.220 the phone

01:09:01.040 and make sure

01:09:02.580 YouTube is not

01:09:03.580 playing in the background.

01:09:04.580 And you can opt

01:09:07.480 out of being

01:09:08.040 on camera.

01:09:08.980 So to start,

01:09:10.100 we're not going

01:09:10.480 to put you guys

01:09:11.080 on camera.

01:09:12.780 But I'll ask you

01:09:13.920 for your permission

01:09:14.800 and you can say

01:09:17.820 no and that's fine.

01:09:18.920 We just won't put

01:09:19.540 you on the screen.

01:09:20.360 But I do need

01:09:22.820 to see that

01:09:23.260 you're a person.

01:09:24.600 I've had some,

01:09:25.120 I've had some weird,

01:09:26.640 look guys,

01:09:27.580 one person

01:09:28.120 played porn

01:09:28.760 on screen.

01:09:31.700 And I'll never

01:09:32.600 recover.

01:09:33.240 I'll never,

01:09:34.140 I saw things,

01:09:36.460 you know.

01:09:36.680 have a statement

01:09:40.080 ready and please

01:09:41.120 try to stay

01:09:41.960 on topic.

01:09:45.320 I don't,

01:09:46.120 I really don't

01:09:47.200 like cutting people

01:09:48.020 off.

01:09:48.500 It's really a,

01:09:50.060 I need to get

01:09:50.620 better at it

01:09:51.220 on this show.

01:09:52.900 But we try

01:09:53.900 to keep people

01:09:54.740 limited so we

01:09:55.420 can get more

01:09:55.920 people in.

01:09:57.020 My next rule

01:09:57.900 is you don't

01:09:58.340 get to over talk

01:09:59.200 me.

01:09:59.660 So I understand

01:10:01.280 we get passionate.

01:10:02.480 Sometimes we have

01:10:03.100 a back and forth.

01:10:05.020 Totally fine.

01:10:06.060 We can,

01:10:06.680 but I do have

01:10:07.940 to keep the show

01:10:08.580 running.

01:10:09.620 I really,

01:10:10.020 we haven't really

01:10:10.520 had issues in that

01:10:11.400 department for the

01:10:12.240 most part.

01:10:13.120 But the biggest

01:10:14.880 thing is camera

01:10:15.720 on.

01:10:16.920 Do we have the,

01:10:17.960 yeah,

01:10:18.220 we have the link

01:10:18.720 in the chat.

01:10:19.220 I see it.

01:10:21.120 And we have

01:10:22.320 Larry on the call.

01:10:24.640 Welcome to the

01:10:25.520 show.

01:10:26.260 Are you okay

01:10:26.960 to be on camera?

01:10:29.180 Yeah,

01:10:29.440 I'm fine.

01:10:29.820 I'm a greeting

01:10:31.120 from Prague.

01:10:31.780 How are you,

01:10:32.200 girl?

01:10:32.620 I'm good.

01:10:33.180 How are you?

01:10:33.760 Uh,

01:10:35.520 late at night.

01:10:37.320 I'm up late.

01:10:37.900 So.

01:10:38.360 Oh yeah.

01:10:38.820 What are your

01:10:39.400 thoughts on the

01:10:40.020 topic?

01:10:40.680 What is your

01:10:41.040 experience been

01:10:41.940 with video games

01:10:42.860 and dating?

01:10:44.240 Well,

01:10:44.800 first of all,

01:10:45.860 I've been married

01:10:46.280 for 12 years,

01:10:47.580 three kids.

01:10:48.320 Okay.

01:10:48.680 I like this stuff.

01:10:49.300 I'm a retired

01:10:50.140 Marine.

01:10:51.080 So video games

01:10:52.520 was never really

01:10:53.040 a big thing for me.

01:10:54.020 I always,

01:10:54.480 I always had them,

01:10:55.520 but use them as

01:10:56.640 escapism.

01:10:57.620 Um,

01:10:57.980 it's something you

01:10:58.580 can just shut

01:10:59.080 off with.

01:10:59.540 And when the

01:10:59.940 kids go to

01:11:00.380 sleep or the

01:11:00.940 cat,

01:11:01.240 but my wife's

01:11:02.060 always been

01:11:02.380 supportive,

01:11:02.980 but I've never

01:11:04.280 gone crazy with

01:11:06.220 it.

01:11:06.440 I mean,

01:11:06.580 it's never been

01:11:07.060 an addiction.

01:11:08.000 I,

01:11:08.420 what I wanted to

01:11:08.960 comment on it

01:11:09.600 was,

01:11:10.000 um,

01:11:10.240 at a younger

01:11:11.000 age,

01:11:11.380 I have three

01:11:11.840 kids and they

01:11:13.060 constantly want

01:11:14.180 video games and,

01:11:15.720 um,

01:11:16.040 especially my two

01:11:16.680 boys.

01:11:17.700 And we're

01:11:18.340 constantly like,

01:11:19.160 it's always going

01:11:19.740 to be there guys.

01:11:20.440 We don't want

01:11:20.940 them to stunt

01:11:22.420 their growth and

01:11:23.100 get,

01:11:23.440 they're very

01:11:24.260 addicting.

01:11:24.760 They're very,

01:11:25.440 um,

01:11:28.380 uh,

01:11:28.720 they can get

01:11:29.540 enclosed in it

01:11:30.900 and not in,

01:11:31.620 uh,

01:11:32.620 it's horrible for

01:11:33.940 their social

01:11:34.780 standings,

01:11:35.380 for their,

01:11:36.060 uh,

01:11:36.700 hand-eye

01:11:37.060 coordination,

01:11:37.620 that kind of

01:11:37.960 stuff.

01:11:38.200 And you get

01:11:38.500 hooked on an

01:11:39.000 earlier age.

01:11:39.980 I think it,

01:11:40.880 um,

01:11:41.700 it,

01:11:41.880 it affects your,

01:11:42.800 and it,

01:11:43.360 your ability to

01:11:44.500 control it when

01:11:45.060 you're an adult.

01:11:45.800 I think that's

01:11:46.540 what the problem

01:11:47.000 is.

01:11:47.500 How old are

01:11:48.200 your kids?

01:11:50.000 I have two

01:11:50.780 boys that are

01:11:51.620 10 and 8 and

01:11:52.660 a three-year-old

01:11:53.200 baby girl.

01:11:53.700 Is it hard,

01:11:55.240 um,

01:11:56.080 balancing the

01:11:57.200 technology with

01:11:58.560 them?

01:11:59.520 Because I'm

01:12:00.160 assuming a lot

01:12:00.760 of kids in

01:12:01.260 their,

01:12:01.560 a lot of kids

01:12:02.520 in their class

01:12:03.200 have to have

01:12:03.840 it.

01:12:04.060 I'm assuming,

01:12:04.840 or maybe they

01:12:05.320 don't yet.

01:12:06.680 They're actually,

01:12:07.500 no,

01:12:07.720 no,

01:12:07.820 they're actually

01:12:08.280 in a Montessori

01:12:08.960 school,

01:12:09.360 which is very

01:12:09.980 good in the

01:12:10.600 fact that they

01:12:11.080 don't,

01:12:11.320 they don't have,

01:12:12.060 they don't lean

01:12:12.520 a lot on

01:12:12.960 technology,

01:12:13.720 um,

01:12:15.040 which we agreed

01:12:15.860 upon.

01:12:17.380 But as far as

01:12:18.560 their friends and

01:12:19.220 everything else,

01:12:19.900 yeah,

01:12:20.120 because they're

01:12:20.720 exposed to a

01:12:21.420 lot of technology

01:12:22.220 and a lot of

01:12:22.780 internet stuff

01:12:23.340 that,

01:12:23.680 uh,

01:12:24.220 we want to

01:12:24.860 kind of stiff

01:12:25.800 arm for as

01:12:26.340 long as we

01:12:26.740 can.

01:12:30.020 Do most of

01:12:31.060 them,

01:12:31.600 like,

01:12:31.900 do their

01:12:32.140 friends have

01:12:32.980 cell phones?

01:12:33.680 I'm just

01:12:33.980 curious how

01:12:34.480 young the

01:12:34.940 kids are

01:12:35.260 getting it

01:12:35.680 now.

01:12:37.080 Oh,

01:12:37.500 yes.

01:12:37.880 Uh,

01:12:38.880 especially my

01:12:39.880 10-year-old

01:12:40.420 son.

01:12:41.380 All of his

01:12:42.200 friends have

01:12:42.760 cell phones,

01:12:43.540 it seems like,

01:12:43.920 I think,

01:12:44.240 at least 8 out

01:12:44.900 of 10.

01:12:46.120 What about

01:12:46.680 the 8-year-old,

01:12:47.480 do they

01:12:47.760 too or

01:12:48.160 no?

01:12:49.540 Uh,

01:12:49.780 it's more

01:12:50.080 than half.

01:12:50.740 Holy shit,

01:12:51.600 more than

01:12:51.960 half of

01:12:52.400 8-year-olds

01:12:52.920 have a,

01:12:53.340 is it a

01:12:53.760 smart?

01:12:53.980 I wouldn't say

01:12:55.380 cell phones,

01:12:55.880 but they

01:12:56.080 more than

01:12:56.380 half definitely

01:12:57.100 have some

01:12:58.040 sort of

01:12:58.360 tablet or

01:12:58.880 iPad or

01:12:59.380 something like

01:12:59.740 that.

01:12:59.980 Holy crap,

01:13:00.880 wow.

01:13:01.740 Yeah,

01:13:02.040 it's very

01:13:03.820 bad.

01:13:04.680 And you

01:13:04.880 see it now,

01:13:05.800 and I'm

01:13:07.180 actually just

01:13:07.620 starting college.

01:13:08.700 I've been in

01:13:09.140 the Marine Corps

01:13:09.460 for 20 years,

01:13:10.140 and I'm

01:13:10.920 starting college

01:13:11.520 with all these

01:13:11.800 19,

01:13:12.160 20-year-old kids

01:13:12.860 and half of

01:13:13.440 them have

01:13:13.760 no social

01:13:14.460 skills.

01:13:15.500 They're so

01:13:16.080 hesitant to

01:13:17.840 talk to

01:13:18.280 people.

01:13:18.800 They don't

01:13:19.020 know how

01:13:19.320 to interact

01:13:19.960 because all

01:13:22.080 they've ever

01:13:22.400 done has

01:13:22.700 been attached

01:13:23.140 to a screen.

01:13:25.100 Okay,

01:13:25.760 well,

01:13:26.520 makes sense,

01:13:27.340 Larry.

01:13:27.800 Can't fight

01:13:28.460 you on that

01:13:28.960 one.

01:13:29.240 It's a good

01:13:29.500 point.

01:13:31.120 Anyway,

01:13:31.660 I've followed

01:13:32.880 you a few

01:13:33.240 years.

01:13:34.180 I think you're

01:13:34.880 very level-headed.

01:13:35.700 I like your

01:13:36.080 debating tactics

01:13:37.540 and keep up

01:13:38.420 good work.

01:13:39.460 Thanks,

01:13:39.940 Larry.

01:13:40.140 for calling

01:13:40.620 in.

01:13:40.960 Call in

01:13:41.260 any time,

01:13:42.260 and thank

01:13:42.580 you for

01:13:42.820 your service.

01:13:43.980 Bye.

01:13:49.760 Did he just

01:13:50.660 say his hair

01:13:51.740 is messed

01:13:52.200 up?

01:13:52.520 I wish I

01:13:53.020 had hair.

01:13:54.520 I know.

01:13:55.060 They don't

01:13:55.480 appreciate what

01:13:56.200 they have,

01:13:56.800 huh?

01:13:58.300 Sorry.

01:13:59.920 I don't

01:14:00.500 think.

01:14:00.920 Women,

01:14:01.400 when do we

01:14:01.860 lose hair?

01:14:02.940 Oh,

01:14:03.200 my God.

01:14:03.500 I don't

01:14:03.680 want to

01:14:03.920 think about

01:14:04.340 that.

01:14:06.240 Oh,

01:14:06.720 my goodness.

01:14:07.540 I don't

01:14:07.840 want to

01:14:08.040 think about

01:14:08.480 it.

01:14:09.440 Phil,

01:14:09.880 what's

01:14:10.280 going on?

01:14:11.060 Are you

01:14:11.320 good to

01:14:11.560 be on

01:14:11.880 camera?

01:14:13.440 Sure.

01:14:13.800 Can you

01:14:14.040 hear me?

01:14:14.840 Yeah,

01:14:15.300 I can.

01:14:15.880 Are you

01:14:16.060 good?

01:14:16.320 Did you

01:14:16.560 say,

01:14:16.800 yeah,

01:14:17.060 you are?

01:14:18.360 Fine.

01:14:19.460 What do

01:14:20.000 you think

01:14:20.300 of the

01:14:20.520 topic?

01:14:22.940 how has

01:14:23.720 video games

01:14:24.800 affected your

01:14:26.040 relationships?

01:14:28.000 Well,

01:14:28.480 I kind

01:14:28.840 of think

01:14:29.160 it affects

01:14:29.640 everything

01:14:30.240 in our

01:14:30.780 lives,

01:14:31.160 not just

01:14:31.520 relationships.

01:14:32.560 And it's,

01:14:33.460 you know,

01:14:33.780 we used

01:14:34.080 to call

01:14:34.460 them time

01:14:34.960 vampires,

01:14:36.140 right?

01:14:36.980 They would

01:14:37.380 take away

01:14:38.080 just time

01:14:38.880 that you

01:14:39.160 could maybe

01:14:39.480 be doing

01:14:39.880 something else

01:14:40.460 more productive.

01:14:41.780 But at the

01:14:42.480 same time,

01:14:42.940 you have to,

01:14:43.500 you know,

01:14:43.780 have some

01:14:44.280 recreation,

01:14:45.140 and especially

01:14:45.600 like in

01:14:46.060 winter when

01:14:46.600 you really

01:14:46.900 can't get

01:14:47.520 out and do

01:14:47.980 anything.

01:14:48.420 one of

01:14:50.680 those comments

01:14:51.220 you were

01:14:51.480 reading in

01:14:51.860 the story

01:14:52.320 was just

01:14:52.960 trying to

01:14:53.900 do things

01:14:54.480 that maybe

01:14:55.480 perhaps are

01:14:56.160 mutually

01:14:56.540 fulfilling

01:14:57.220 versus,

01:14:58.940 but first,

01:14:59.480 you know,

01:14:59.640 Pearl,

01:14:59.860 I got to

01:15:00.140 tell you,

01:15:00.480 I'm so

01:15:01.140 upset that

01:15:01.800 you said

01:15:02.180 you're engaged.

01:15:02.900 I'm really

01:15:03.400 depressed.

01:15:04.660 Maybe you

01:15:05.180 can help me

01:15:05.660 with that.

01:15:06.140 I don't

01:15:06.320 know.

01:15:06.900 I'm just

01:15:07.500 kidding.

01:15:07.860 Just kidding.

01:15:11.040 But I'm

01:15:11.360 saying when

01:15:11.720 you get into

01:15:12.140 relationships,

01:15:12.760 obviously there's

01:15:13.520 more intense

01:15:14.320 issues going

01:15:15.340 on.

01:15:15.980 So you

01:15:17.180 can understand

01:15:17.780 why anything

01:15:18.400 not just

01:15:18.920 gaming.

01:15:20.320 I mean,

01:15:20.840 you have a

01:15:21.660 friend,

01:15:22.380 you know,

01:15:22.580 you're spending

01:15:22.980 too much

01:15:23.320 time with

01:15:23.720 your friend

01:15:24.220 and they

01:15:25.120 get upset

01:15:25.680 or even

01:15:26.200 men might

01:15:27.140 get upset

01:15:27.680 that women

01:15:28.560 are,

01:15:29.080 this is

01:15:29.320 pretty common,

01:15:30.040 right,

01:15:30.240 that empty

01:15:30.680 nest thing

01:15:31.280 where,

01:15:32.360 remember you

01:15:33.600 mentioned

01:15:34.000 about when

01:15:35.100 the kids

01:15:36.360 get to

01:15:36.660 about age

01:15:37.240 four,

01:15:38.540 now they're

01:15:38.860 getting bored

01:15:39.500 and their

01:15:40.060 focus is now

01:15:40.960 they got all

01:15:41.360 this free

01:15:41.800 time and

01:15:42.340 they go

01:15:43.580 get divorced,

01:15:44.440 you know,

01:15:44.660 they tend

01:15:45.000 to get

01:15:45.860 dissatisfied

01:15:46.560 at that

01:15:47.040 point.

01:15:47.320 So,

01:15:48.120 I mean,

01:15:48.460 I think

01:15:48.740 just in

01:15:49.160 general,

01:15:49.600 video games

01:15:50.240 have pluses

01:15:51.520 and minuses

01:15:52.340 and I

01:15:53.580 myself,

01:15:54.340 I,

01:15:54.700 you know,

01:15:55.040 when I was

01:15:55.400 younger,

01:15:55.700 I spent way

01:15:56.620 too much

01:15:57.000 time playing

01:15:57.580 video games

01:15:58.340 and this

01:15:59.140 kind of was

01:15:59.580 in the early

01:16:00.080 advent of

01:16:00.840 them,

01:16:01.040 so they

01:16:01.240 were pretty

01:16:01.600 low,

01:16:01.940 low grade,

01:16:03.420 but they

01:16:04.680 were still

01:16:05.040 addicting,

01:16:05.920 you know,

01:16:06.120 incredible.

01:16:06.640 I mean,

01:16:06.840 the only thing

01:16:07.240 I do now

01:16:07.740 is maybe

01:16:08.120 play a little

01:16:08.680 solitaire

01:16:09.280 because you

01:16:10.640 could just

01:16:11.020 kill it

01:16:11.760 and who

01:16:12.320 cares.

01:16:13.480 But most

01:16:13.840 of these

01:16:14.040 games you

01:16:14.440 got to

01:16:14.660 play hours

01:16:15.280 and hours

01:16:15.900 and save

01:16:16.460 it in

01:16:16.740 hours,

01:16:17.220 you know,

01:16:17.460 weeks and

01:16:18.200 then they

01:16:18.980 talk about

01:16:19.520 each other.

01:16:20.020 Did you

01:16:20.200 conquer this

01:16:20.800 game?

01:16:21.180 And it's

01:16:21.420 like,

01:16:21.680 you know,

01:16:22.260 it's just,

01:16:22.860 I don't know.

01:16:23.320 I think the

01:16:24.360 point is more

01:16:25.080 that women

01:16:26.020 waste hours

01:16:26.800 and hours

01:16:27.200 on doing

01:16:27.600 like,

01:16:28.760 they have

01:16:29.220 time wasters

01:16:29.860 too,

01:16:30.280 but men

01:16:30.580 don't nag

01:16:31.040 them about

01:16:31.520 it.

01:16:32.760 I agree.

01:16:33.900 But,

01:16:34.380 you know,

01:16:34.780 I think there

01:16:35.620 is a neediness

01:16:37.600 there for

01:16:38.280 women that

01:16:39.520 aren't so

01:16:40.060 much there

01:16:40.460 for men

01:16:41.080 for that

01:16:42.140 interactive

01:16:42.720 behavior

01:16:43.660 where men

01:16:44.860 are like,

01:16:45.420 just,

01:16:45.880 they love

01:16:46.460 to think

01:16:46.940 of their

01:16:47.280 wives or

01:16:47.860 girlfriends

01:16:48.680 as friends

01:16:49.520 just that

01:16:50.040 you hang

01:16:50.340 out with,

01:16:50.860 but women

01:16:51.800 actually need

01:16:52.900 more than

01:16:53.300 that.

01:16:53.740 I'm not,

01:16:54.280 you know,

01:16:54.840 poo-pooing

01:16:55.260 women.

01:16:56.060 I'm just

01:16:56.320 saying that's

01:16:56.900 the nature

01:16:57.340 of women

01:16:57.800 is they

01:16:58.340 need that

01:16:59.620 closer

01:17:00.100 relationship

01:17:00.840 that,

01:17:01.360 you know,

01:17:01.780 a lot of

01:17:02.240 times men

01:17:02.820 have a

01:17:03.300 difficult

01:17:03.600 time

01:17:04.260 providing

01:17:04.960 them.

01:17:05.760 Like you

01:17:06.100 mentioned

01:17:06.360 earlier about

01:17:07.120 having their

01:17:07.720 families close

01:17:08.720 and more

01:17:09.520 of a

01:17:09.780 community

01:17:10.220 kind of

01:17:10.760 feel to

01:17:11.220 everything

01:17:11.580 where men

01:17:12.500 don't want

01:17:13.400 that.

01:17:13.740 We want

01:17:14.020 to just

01:17:14.280 be left

01:17:14.900 alone,

01:17:15.420 you know,

01:17:15.680 and do

01:17:16.060 our own

01:17:16.460 thing.

01:17:17.320 Yeah.

01:17:18.280 I could

01:17:19.580 tell you,

01:17:20.020 I'm sorry.

01:17:20.580 That's okay.

01:17:21.240 Thank you

01:17:21.700 for calling,

01:17:22.860 Phil.

01:17:23.780 It's a

01:17:24.040 pleasure

01:17:24.300 having you

01:17:24.840 on as

01:17:25.240 always.

01:17:26.520 Thanks,

01:17:27.040 Pearls.

01:17:27.380 Good to

01:17:27.640 see you.

01:17:28.060 Good to

01:17:28.360 see you.

01:17:29.540 I'm

01:17:29.720 going to

01:17:29.820 read the

01:17:30.160 chat while

01:17:32.160 we get to

01:17:32.600 the next

01:17:33.080 caller.

01:17:34.780 Fizelle

01:17:35.140 says,

01:17:35.840 I'm not

01:17:36.120 usually a fan

01:17:36.720 of blue

01:17:37.020 collar.

01:17:37.460 However,

01:17:37.880 your outfit

01:17:38.760 looks absolutely

01:17:40.160 outstanding.

01:17:41.480 You pull it

01:17:42.540 off effortless.

01:17:43.980 Oh,

01:17:44.300 you're talking

01:17:44.580 about this.

01:17:45.540 I thought you

01:17:45.860 meant the blue

01:17:46.340 collar.

01:17:47.340 Thank you,

01:17:47.960 Fizelle.

01:17:48.820 He said he's

01:17:49.460 not simping.

01:17:50.360 There's no

01:17:58.480 video game

01:17:59.080 that can

01:17:59.380 waste a

01:17:59.800 man's

01:18:00.080 time more

01:18:00.540 than social

01:18:01.080 media

01:18:01.440 waste a

01:18:01.900 woman's

01:18:02.220 time.

01:18:02.460 Hey,

01:18:02.720 women will

01:18:03.200 break up

01:18:04.700 their whole

01:18:05.100 family for

01:18:05.860 social media.

01:18:06.740 I've never

01:18:07.140 seen a

01:18:07.640 guy break

01:18:08.740 up his

01:18:09.000 whole family

01:18:09.580 for a

01:18:09.960 league of

01:18:10.300 legends,

01:18:10.720 but women

01:18:11.420 will get

01:18:11.780 on TikTok,

01:18:13.120 break up

01:18:13.520 their whole

01:18:13.880 family over

01:18:14.560 TikTok,

01:18:15.180 and then

01:18:15.560 admit it.

01:18:16.480 at least

01:18:18.040 lie.

01:18:20.700 Like,

01:18:21.220 that's the

01:18:21.500 thing.

01:18:21.700 Like,

01:18:21.840 they could

01:18:22.160 lie.

01:18:23.660 I mean,

01:18:24.420 you know,

01:18:24.760 I am against

01:18:26.260 lying,

01:18:27.380 but there's

01:18:27.960 some lying

01:18:28.700 that's kind

01:18:29.340 of being

01:18:29.600 nice.

01:18:31.000 You know

01:18:31.200 what I

01:18:31.400 mean?

01:18:31.600 Like,

01:18:32.320 it's kind

01:18:32.740 of like

01:18:32.980 when men

01:18:33.480 cheat,

01:18:34.760 and they

01:18:35.120 lie to

01:18:35.640 spare the

01:18:36.060 woman's

01:18:36.440 feelings,

01:18:36.940 and everyone's

01:18:37.220 like,

01:18:37.400 be honest,

01:18:38.060 be honest,

01:18:38.720 be honest.

01:18:39.480 But if

01:18:39.820 she's going

01:18:40.140 to stay

01:18:40.620 anyway,

01:18:41.320 and then

01:18:41.680 you have

01:18:42.080 to,

01:18:42.360 like,

01:18:42.520 argue

01:18:42.800 with her

01:18:43.280 for two

01:18:43.720 weeks,

01:18:43.960 you might

01:18:44.260 as well

01:18:44.520 just lie.

01:18:46.080 You know,

01:18:46.400 the women,

01:18:47.020 it's like,

01:18:47.480 if you're

01:18:47.840 going to

01:18:48.060 divorce him,

01:18:49.580 and it's

01:18:50.320 going to

01:18:50.500 be for

01:18:50.840 a stupid

01:18:51.300 reason,

01:18:52.740 you could

01:18:53.120 just tell

01:18:53.640 everyone

01:18:54.260 that he,

01:18:55.480 that it

01:18:56.080 was like,

01:18:57.080 not abuse,

01:18:58.360 but like,

01:18:59.140 you're making

01:18:59.580 it worse by

01:19:00.380 telling everyone

01:19:01.100 that you

01:19:01.480 divorced him

01:19:02.160 for a stupid

01:19:02.780 reason.

01:19:04.160 Going around

01:19:05.020 the town.

01:19:06.160 Anyways,

01:19:07.240 Crazy Kyle

01:19:08.600 says,

01:19:09.340 women waste

01:19:10.380 time by

01:19:10.980 watching Lifetime

01:19:12.020 back in the

01:19:12.520 day.

01:19:13.080 How did I

01:19:13.520 know?

01:19:13.740 Because my

01:19:14.120 mother,

01:19:14.520 you used

01:19:14.840 to watch

01:19:15.320 it,

01:19:15.500 and I

01:19:15.700 would be

01:19:15.960 forced to,

01:19:16.660 or I

01:19:16.860 would watch

01:19:17.280 it with

01:19:17.560 my mom.

01:19:18.820 Pearl,

01:19:19.060 I've spent

01:19:19.380 thousands on

01:19:20.060 video games

01:19:20.660 and thousands

01:19:21.640 of hours

01:19:22.140 playing them.

01:19:22.680 Nowadays,

01:19:23.160 I just see

01:19:23.700 them as a

01:19:24.080 waste of

01:19:24.460 time.

01:19:25.320 It's okay,

01:19:25.720 Bennett.

01:19:26.300 But now

01:19:26.820 we have

01:19:27.300 Chris on

01:19:28.220 the line.

01:19:28.660 Chris,

01:19:28.940 are you

01:19:29.200 good to

01:19:29.460 be on

01:19:29.760 camera?

01:19:31.760 Yeah,

01:19:31.980 okay.

01:19:32.240 Welcome to

01:19:32.800 the show,

01:19:33.340 Chris.

01:19:33.700 What are

01:19:33.980 your thoughts?

01:19:34.660 How have

01:19:35.060 video games

01:19:35.820 impacted your

01:19:36.820 relationships?

01:19:38.500 Yeah,

01:19:38.760 long time

01:19:39.180 no see.

01:19:39.640 Can you hear

01:19:39.900 me okay?

01:19:40.560 Yeah,

01:19:40.780 I can hear

01:19:41.240 you.

01:19:42.580 All right,

01:19:43.100 fantastic.

01:19:44.260 Before I get

01:19:44.860 to that,

01:19:45.200 can I answer

01:19:45.700 a question

01:19:46.140 that you

01:19:46.440 had earlier?

01:19:47.000 You can

01:19:47.220 tell me no,

01:19:47.780 but it's

01:19:48.060 about why

01:19:48.720 macho men,

01:19:50.880 you know,

01:19:51.140 those tough

01:19:51.460 guys are

01:19:52.040 actually scared

01:19:52.660 of women,

01:19:53.180 and I can

01:19:53.620 tie it into

01:19:54.100 the video

01:19:54.440 games.

01:19:54.900 The hierarchy

01:19:55.340 of something,

01:19:56.180 did you see

01:19:56.680 it?

01:19:57.640 No,

01:19:57.960 I didn't,

01:19:58.520 sorry.

01:19:59.140 It's okay,

01:19:59.660 keep going.

01:19:59.740 I just started

01:20:00.160 a master's

01:20:00.680 degree,

01:20:00.980 so I got

01:20:01.300 in late

01:20:01.560 on your

01:20:01.820 episode.

01:20:02.200 That's okay,

01:20:02.920 tell me.

01:20:03.440 Okay,

01:20:05.420 so being

01:20:06.340 a United

01:20:06.720 States

01:20:06.980 Marine,

01:20:07.640 raw,

01:20:08.040 simplify,

01:20:08.820 women

01:20:10.600 actually

01:20:11.200 study

01:20:11.760 the rank

01:20:12.380 structure

01:20:12.840 and the

01:20:13.440 format

01:20:13.820 of

01:20:14.100 military

01:20:14.560 life,

01:20:15.160 and especially

01:20:15.820 from the

01:20:16.200 lens of the

01:20:16.640 United States

01:20:17.060 Marine Corps,

01:20:17.580 if somebody

01:20:17.880 has an

01:20:18.260 issue and

01:20:19.120 they want

01:20:19.420 it taken

01:20:19.760 care of

01:20:20.160 to the

01:20:20.400 degree

01:20:20.700 where they

01:20:21.060 actually

01:20:21.380 mess

01:20:21.860 with a

01:20:22.480 man's

01:20:22.720 life or

01:20:23.160 a man's

01:20:23.600 career,

01:20:24.360 they will

01:20:24.720 actually go

01:20:25.520 to the

01:20:26.020 chain of

01:20:26.400 command

01:20:26.740 with that

01:20:27.260 issue,

01:20:27.960 and they

01:20:29.240 will even

01:20:29.740 go so far

01:20:30.680 as to

01:20:31.060 articulate what

01:20:31.960 level of

01:20:32.500 an issue

01:20:32.840 it is,

01:20:33.240 because we

01:20:33.680 all know

01:20:34.120 garbage rolls

01:20:34.800 downhill depending

01:20:35.460 on what level

01:20:36.040 of the hierarchy

01:20:36.640 you're bringing

01:20:37.100 it to,

01:20:37.440 right?

01:20:38.360 So if it's

01:20:39.460 like the

01:20:39.820 company first

01:20:40.480 sergeant,

01:20:40.820 for example,

01:20:41.240 just somebody

01:20:41.660 high ranking,

01:20:42.640 and then it

01:20:43.060 goes through

01:20:43.600 all these

01:20:44.200 different filters

01:20:44.860 until it

01:20:45.440 gets to you

01:20:46.040 depending on

01:20:46.620 your rank,

01:20:47.480 and then now

01:20:48.440 you have the

01:20:48.860 weight of so

01:20:49.420 many people

01:20:49.840 on your

01:20:50.100 shoulders when

01:20:50.580 it could have

01:20:50.960 been handled

01:20:51.560 behind closed

01:20:52.280 doors,

01:20:52.660 it could have

01:20:52.960 been handled

01:20:53.420 in the

01:20:53.840 family environment.

01:20:56.020 So it's an

01:20:57.000 absolute stressful

01:20:57.880 situation,

01:20:58.680 I'll spare you

01:20:59.200 the details on

01:20:59.820 how I've

01:21:00.180 experienced it.

01:21:01.260 Needless to

01:21:01.760 say,

01:21:01.980 how this

01:21:03.080 ties into

01:21:03.420 the video

01:21:03.740 game issue.

01:21:04.840 I've heard

01:21:05.640 and found

01:21:07.660 credible sources

01:21:09.140 to suggest

01:21:09.760 this,

01:21:10.060 I won't give

01:21:10.440 them to you

01:21:10.720 right now,

01:21:11.620 the biggest

01:21:12.620 three complaints

01:21:13.440 of what women

01:21:14.220 have,

01:21:15.320 why men

01:21:15.920 don't pay

01:21:16.340 attention to

01:21:16.920 them,

01:21:17.200 they pay

01:21:17.460 attention to

01:21:17.900 these other

01:21:18.240 things,

01:21:18.580 the top

01:21:18.920 three that

01:21:19.340 I've

01:21:19.500 discovered

01:21:19.900 were

01:21:20.420 porn,

01:21:21.660 I don't

01:21:22.240 know if

01:21:22.500 you're allowed

01:21:22.800 to say

01:21:23.120 that now

01:21:23.440 on social

01:21:23.820 media,

01:21:24.200 so I'm

01:21:24.380 just changing

01:21:24.740 it.

01:21:24.900 I want

01:21:26.140 to protect

01:21:26.440 your brand,

01:21:27.200 corn,

01:21:28.280 video games,

01:21:29.060 and alcohol.

01:21:31.000 Regardless of

01:21:31.820 the order,

01:21:32.400 not important,

01:21:33.060 but clearly

01:21:33.540 it's in the

01:21:33.960 top three.

01:21:35.760 My point

01:21:36.640 on video

01:21:37.080 games is

01:21:37.880 that it's

01:21:39.880 amazing how

01:21:42.460 many people

01:21:43.200 in modern

01:21:43.920 day are

01:21:44.520 trying to

01:21:45.280 demonize it

01:21:46.160 to the

01:21:46.480 extreme.

01:21:47.120 Some of

01:21:47.380 the examples

01:21:47.840 that you

01:21:48.180 saw on

01:21:49.000 later in

01:21:49.540 your podcast,

01:21:50.140 some of

01:21:51.080 the video

01:21:51.480 content before

01:21:52.120 you got to

01:21:52.460 Q&A was

01:21:53.420 about demonizing

01:21:55.120 it to the

01:21:55.560 degree of

01:21:56.300 looking at

01:21:56.840 it from

01:21:57.060 the lens

01:21:57.500 of such

01:21:57.920 an extreme

01:21:58.800 problem where

01:21:59.720 somebody can't

01:22:00.400 turn it off

01:22:00.940 for hours on

01:22:01.820 end,

01:22:02.320 or they have

01:22:03.380 to get to

01:22:04.040 a save

01:22:04.500 point,

01:22:04.880 which I

01:22:05.360 get it,

01:22:05.940 but if your

01:22:06.960 family is

01:22:07.480 immediately

01:22:07.940 injured and

01:22:08.680 they need

01:22:09.120 medical attention

01:22:09.800 or something,

01:22:10.280 something equally

01:22:11.220 extreme,

01:22:12.000 can you peel

01:22:12.780 yourself away

01:22:13.500 from it?

01:22:13.860 If the answer

01:22:14.260 is yes,

01:22:14.740 it's probably

01:22:15.480 not that much

01:22:16.280 of an addiction

01:22:16.760 or a problem.

01:22:18.300 I get where

01:22:19.200 some people

01:22:19.800 are,

01:22:20.780 what's the

01:22:21.680 word,

01:22:23.340 over flaring

01:22:24.120 it,

01:22:24.560 over embellishing

01:22:25.620 it,

01:22:26.040 to the degree

01:22:26.860 where they

01:22:27.340 say,

01:22:27.640 you know what,

01:22:27.960 this is such

01:22:28.380 an extreme,

01:22:28.940 it's such a

01:22:29.560 pandemic at

01:22:31.100 that point

01:22:31.580 that we need

01:22:32.700 to do

01:22:33.240 something about

01:22:34.120 it,

01:22:34.320 but at the

01:22:34.640 same time,

01:22:35.660 you can say

01:22:36.360 that about

01:22:36.800 anything.

01:22:37.560 I had the

01:22:38.000 same thing

01:22:38.560 with drumming

01:22:39.440 before I

01:22:39.960 left for

01:22:40.360 the Marine

01:22:40.760 Corps.

01:22:41.640 I was doing

01:22:42.440 that 24-7.

01:22:43.540 You could

01:22:43.820 call that an

01:22:44.360 addiction,

01:22:44.860 but I could

01:22:45.220 drop it at

01:22:45.840 any point

01:22:46.500 to go help

01:22:47.400 somebody,

01:22:48.020 help my mom

01:22:48.860 with making

01:22:49.820 dinner for

01:22:50.360 the holiday

01:22:50.800 or something,

01:22:51.340 like whatever

01:22:51.760 it was.

01:22:53.180 So I think

01:22:53.700 there's a fine

01:22:54.320 line that needs

01:22:54.960 to be addressed

01:22:55.560 in this

01:22:55.980 conversation that

01:22:56.840 unfortunately I

01:22:58.140 haven't seen.

01:22:59.340 And I'm not

01:22:59.700 saying like you

01:23:00.500 haven't addressed,

01:23:01.040 I'm seeing in

01:23:01.620 all these other

01:23:02.220 examples,

01:23:02.820 people are always

01:23:03.620 driving to one

01:23:05.060 side or the

01:23:05.620 other,

01:23:05.940 either it's too

01:23:06.480 much or it's not

01:23:07.180 enough,

01:23:07.720 as opposed to

01:23:08.660 just saying,

01:23:09.240 okay,

01:23:09.520 let's talk about

01:23:10.200 the three lenses.

01:23:10.780 It's too much,

01:23:11.380 it's not enough,

01:23:11.880 or maybe it's just

01:23:12.580 in the middle

01:23:13.020 where it's a

01:23:13.900 healthy balance of

01:23:14.760 hobby versus

01:23:15.520 addiction.

01:23:15.980 So I don't

01:23:18.660 think it's a

01:23:19.140 bad thing,

01:23:19.960 but I think

01:23:20.960 too much of

01:23:21.640 anything is a

01:23:22.640 bad thing,

01:23:23.300 and that could

01:23:23.680 include fishing,

01:23:24.480 that could include

01:23:25.120 any other hobby

01:23:26.500 under the sun.

01:23:27.500 I just wish

01:23:28.260 more people

01:23:28.920 would handle

01:23:30.180 this with a

01:23:31.160 little bit

01:23:31.480 more,

01:23:32.080 I guess,

01:23:33.220 care and

01:23:33.600 responsibility

01:23:34.160 in the public

01:23:35.160 dialogue.

01:23:35.820 But I think

01:23:36.340 you're doing

01:23:36.700 great things

01:23:37.340 here,

01:23:37.680 and I appreciate

01:23:38.340 your level-headed

01:23:38.960 conversation and

01:23:39.740 all you're doing.

01:23:40.520 No,

01:23:40.660 that's a great

01:23:41.160 point because

01:23:42.200 it's not like

01:23:44.200 most men can't

01:23:45.840 keep a stable

01:23:46.620 job and play

01:23:47.400 video games.

01:23:48.240 Most men I've

01:23:48.940 seen that play

01:23:49.540 them a lot.

01:23:50.100 It's just

01:23:50.440 something they

01:23:50.940 do.

01:23:51.100 They might

01:23:51.380 stay up too

01:23:51.880 late and

01:23:52.460 miss out on

01:23:53.380 sleep,

01:23:53.820 but they still

01:23:54.580 get up and

01:23:55.040 do their job.

01:23:58.160 Would you

01:23:58.680 agree or no?

01:23:59.180 Absolutely.

01:23:59.440 Yeah?

01:23:59.860 Oh,

01:24:00.280 100%.

01:24:00.780 My oldest

01:24:02.420 brother is a

01:24:03.200 huge fan of

01:24:03.760 video games,

01:24:04.240 been playing it

01:24:04.680 all his life,

01:24:05.280 but he still

01:24:05.920 functions.

01:24:06.460 He's still got

01:24:06.940 two degrees

01:24:07.720 in graphic arts

01:24:10.020 and design and

01:24:10.820 stuff.

01:24:11.000 So I'm

01:24:11.840 convinced there

01:24:12.580 is a healthy

01:24:13.240 balance to it.

01:24:14.120 I just wish

01:24:14.480 more people

01:24:14.960 would address

01:24:15.720 that elephant

01:24:16.920 that doesn't

01:24:17.640 even make it

01:24:18.140 into the room

01:24:18.640 to be conversed

01:24:19.340 about.

01:24:19.780 Yeah.

01:24:20.160 Well,

01:24:20.440 that's a great

01:24:20.820 point,

01:24:21.260 Chris.

01:24:21.580 I appreciate

01:24:22.040 you calling

01:24:22.640 in.

01:24:23.040 Call in

01:24:23.300 any time.

01:24:24.800 Thank you

01:24:25.040 so much.

01:24:25.400 Have a good

01:24:25.600 one.

01:24:25.940 You too.

01:24:27.620 I'm going to

01:24:28.160 read the

01:24:28.500 comments.

01:24:28.940 Guys,

01:24:29.140 I'm reading

01:24:29.460 the comments

01:24:29.940 on the

01:24:30.240 website between

01:24:31.080 callers,

01:24:31.800 so if you

01:24:32.220 have a comment

01:24:32.900 about what

01:24:34.000 the caller

01:24:34.380 is saying,

01:24:35.140 I read them

01:24:35.600 off of

01:24:35.960 the audacity

01:24:36.560 network.com.

01:24:37.500 First link

01:24:37.920 is in the

01:24:38.320 chat.

01:24:40.700 80 bucks

01:24:41.460 a year,

01:24:42.200 and you

01:24:44.700 get unlimited

01:24:45.280 comments.

01:24:47.640 Pearl,

01:24:48.320 there are

01:24:48.700 games out

01:24:49.200 there that

01:24:49.580 have a good

01:24:50.060 storyline that

01:24:50.840 help the

01:24:51.160 imagination,

01:24:52.040 but these

01:24:52.320 new games,

01:24:53.000 they're all

01:24:53.340 woke.

01:24:53.740 I have heard

01:24:54.540 about the

01:24:54.980 ladies ruining

01:24:55.640 video games.

01:24:57.400 I have a

01:24:59.140 life cycle

01:25:00.140 of men's

01:25:00.900 hobbies where

01:25:01.540 men make

01:25:02.540 something cool,

01:25:03.560 not all

01:25:04.060 YouTube,

01:25:04.700 not all,

01:25:05.400 but they make

01:25:06.020 something cool

01:25:06.740 and women say,

01:25:07.440 oh, that's

01:25:07.740 cool,

01:25:08.060 let me

01:25:08.400 join.

01:25:08.840 The men

01:25:09.200 are like,

01:25:09.620 oh, hot

01:25:10.480 women, here

01:25:11.080 you go,

01:25:11.500 come on

01:25:11.840 in, and

01:25:12.560 then the

01:25:12.800 women say,

01:25:13.320 don't enjoy

01:25:13.920 it like

01:25:14.360 that, and

01:25:15.140 then they

01:25:15.440 ruin it and

01:25:16.000 make it

01:25:16.340 woke, especially

01:25:17.480 if the women

01:25:18.080 are too hot

01:25:18.800 in the

01:25:19.060 games.

01:25:20.200 They say,

01:25:20.900 make them

01:25:21.240 uglier.

01:25:22.040 Is that

01:25:22.420 what's going

01:25:22.780 on?

01:25:23.020 I don't

01:25:23.260 play video

01:25:23.880 games, but

01:25:25.040 I've seen

01:25:25.460 that in

01:25:25.900 media and

01:25:27.080 movies and

01:25:28.700 such.

01:25:30.900 Welcome to

01:25:31.780 the show,

01:25:32.240 Carlos.

01:25:32.800 Are you good

01:25:33.220 to be on

01:25:33.620 camera?

01:25:35.460 Yeah, I'm

01:25:35.800 good, I'm

01:25:36.060 good.

01:25:36.800 Welcome to

01:25:37.360 the show.

01:25:37.800 What are

01:25:38.080 your thoughts?

01:25:38.760 How have

01:25:39.180 video games

01:25:39.940 affected your

01:25:40.820 relationships?

01:25:43.020 Well, first

01:25:43.400 of all, nice

01:25:44.040 to meet you.

01:25:44.660 I've been

01:25:44.900 following you

01:25:45.320 for a while

01:25:45.780 and it's nice

01:25:47.000 to have a

01:25:47.420 nice Catholic

01:25:49.160 woman that

01:25:49.980 refreshes the

01:25:52.460 image of a

01:25:53.000 woman, right?

01:25:53.640 because I

01:25:53.940 feel like a

01:25:54.420 lot of

01:25:54.620 guys are

01:25:54.980 very, you

01:25:56.380 know,

01:25:57.700 distrustful

01:25:58.520 thing.

01:25:59.300 But yeah,

01:25:59.860 regarding video

01:26:00.540 games, you

01:26:01.080 know, I

01:26:02.640 think I have

01:26:03.640 a bit of

01:26:03.980 a balanced

01:26:04.740 perspective

01:26:05.200 because I

01:26:05.600 grew up in

01:26:06.260 Cuba where

01:26:07.400 there were

01:26:07.860 no video

01:26:08.340 games or

01:26:09.040 barely any,

01:26:09.640 so I got

01:26:09.980 to play

01:26:10.480 around and

01:26:11.740 climb trees

01:26:12.780 and we

01:26:13.820 used to

01:26:14.100 have seasons

01:26:15.460 for different

01:26:16.080 games we'd

01:26:16.700 play with

01:26:17.040 kids in the

01:26:17.960 neighborhood.

01:26:18.740 We'd have

01:26:19.240 dart season,

01:26:21.080 little ball

01:26:22.080 season and stuff

01:26:23.020 like that and

01:26:24.600 then I came

01:26:25.040 here and

01:26:25.620 there's a

01:26:25.940 different

01:26:26.140 culture,

01:26:26.700 right?

01:26:27.380 You're more

01:26:28.020 isolated and

01:26:30.080 I think my

01:26:30.860 main sort of

01:26:32.580 like position

01:26:33.240 right now with

01:26:33.820 gaming is,

01:26:34.800 you know,

01:26:36.860 because I did

01:26:37.660 have that

01:26:38.020 experience when I

01:26:39.100 was younger,

01:26:40.120 is oh,

01:26:40.700 what's going

01:26:41.060 on here is

01:26:41.760 the only place

01:26:43.480 where there's

01:26:43.920 this like

01:26:44.180 alignment of

01:26:44.940 like the

01:26:45.420 myth of

01:26:46.080 like a

01:26:46.600 man's purpose,

01:26:47.620 right?

01:26:47.880 To like take

01:26:49.000 on these

01:26:49.360 challenges and

01:26:50.020 hone your

01:26:50.380 skill and a

01:26:51.580 positive feedback

01:26:52.480 is sometimes

01:26:53.220 only found

01:26:54.140 in video

01:26:54.900 games because

01:26:56.000 growing up

01:26:56.780 when,

01:26:57.120 you know,

01:26:58.460 just saying

01:26:58.980 things that

01:26:59.980 you know are

01:27:00.540 true for

01:27:01.720 whatever cultural

01:27:02.420 reason you get

01:27:03.160 like a

01:27:03.480 punishment and

01:27:04.520 I think Jordan

01:27:05.020 Peterson talks

01:27:05.600 about that,

01:27:06.100 how if you

01:27:06.440 really want to

01:27:06.920 mess somebody

01:27:07.400 up,

01:27:08.300 you punish

01:27:08.820 them when

01:27:09.220 they do

01:27:09.480 something good

01:27:09.960 and you

01:27:10.240 reward them

01:27:10.740 when they

01:27:10.940 do something

01:27:11.380 bad and

01:27:12.560 I think

01:27:13.100 people get

01:27:14.900 caught in

01:27:15.220 these weird

01:27:15.680 loops and

01:27:17.960 I think it

01:27:18.360 also has to

01:27:18.700 do with

01:27:18.940 self-consciousness

01:27:20.440 like being

01:27:21.240 like feeling

01:27:22.300 like you've

01:27:22.800 made a

01:27:23.040 mistake and

01:27:24.860 you know,

01:27:26.360 maybe like,

01:27:27.280 you know,

01:27:27.560 again,

01:27:27.840 I come from

01:27:28.300 a more,

01:27:28.580 there's a

01:27:28.820 little bit

01:27:29.060 more of

01:27:29.420 like a

01:27:30.220 tolerance,

01:27:31.220 right?

01:27:32.240 And what

01:27:33.240 I've noticed

01:27:33.740 is I think

01:27:38.460 more people

01:27:39.300 would be more

01:27:40.160 comfortable outside

01:27:41.060 me,

01:27:41.260 more kids

01:27:41.700 would be more

01:27:42.020 comfortable

01:27:42.320 outside if

01:27:43.360 they didn't

01:27:43.960 feel self-conscious.

01:27:44.900 I think

01:27:45.840 we've lost

01:27:46.440 like the

01:27:49.000 rules around

01:27:49.920 like just

01:27:50.980 having a good

01:27:51.600 time in

01:27:52.020 public and

01:27:53.020 I think a

01:27:53.460 lot of

01:27:53.720 men just

01:27:55.020 feel like I

01:27:55.840 can never

01:27:56.200 be myself

01:27:56.900 because the

01:27:57.460 second that

01:27:57.940 I like,

01:27:59.160 like a part

01:27:59.720 of that part

01:28:00.120 of my brain

01:28:00.680 shuts off that

01:28:01.340 tells me that

01:28:01.740 I'm self-conscious

01:28:02.400 immediately

01:28:03.700 someone or

01:28:04.760 someone like

01:28:05.680 that is highly

01:28:06.480 self-conscious or

01:28:07.300 that like doesn't

01:28:07.880 want someone else

01:28:08.520 to have fun,

01:28:09.280 right?

01:28:09.940 Which tends to

01:28:10.460 be the case

01:28:11.080 just interjects,

01:28:13.860 right?

01:28:14.180 and tries to

01:28:16.620 make you

01:28:16.880 self-conscious

01:28:17.420 and women do

01:28:18.080 this a lot

01:28:18.620 which is another

01:28:19.320 psychological fact,

01:28:20.400 right?

01:28:21.740 And so I think,

01:28:23.180 you know,

01:28:23.440 I've been going to

01:28:23.940 church recently a

01:28:24.700 lot and it's a

01:28:25.580 good,

01:28:26.060 I love it

01:28:26.660 because I get

01:28:27.640 to like feel

01:28:29.480 like a man

01:28:30.400 and not feel

01:28:31.820 self-conscious

01:28:32.440 and feel like,

01:28:34.240 yes,

01:28:34.480 I know that,

01:28:35.400 I prefer that a

01:28:36.700 man is the

01:28:37.700 head of the

01:28:38.000 household.

01:28:38.800 Oh my God,

01:28:39.780 I don't have to

01:28:40.300 feel self-conscious

01:28:40.960 here.

01:28:41.260 I don't have to

01:28:41.680 play some game

01:28:43.040 and walk on

01:28:43.480 eggshells.

01:28:44.180 So I think

01:28:45.120 the solution

01:28:46.880 for all this

01:28:47.580 like escapism

01:28:48.560 would be a

01:28:50.180 cultural shift

01:28:51.140 or like,

01:28:52.840 and that could

01:28:53.580 happen maybe

01:28:54.060 just men have

01:28:55.280 to do it

01:28:55.580 themselves,

01:28:56.320 just find spaces

01:28:57.600 where there's

01:28:59.900 not so much

01:29:00.540 like judgment

01:29:01.300 and self-consciousness

01:29:02.380 and I think

01:29:02.800 that's going to

01:29:03.340 have to include

01:29:04.060 certain rules

01:29:05.820 which is like

01:29:06.500 excluding women.

01:29:07.420 I know in the

01:29:07.760 manosphere that's

01:29:08.300 kind of like a

01:29:08.780 thing where you

01:29:09.180 just exclude

01:29:09.800 women because

01:29:10.580 I've noticed

01:29:12.440 women a lot

01:29:13.040 will try to

01:29:14.100 get a man

01:29:14.580 but they'll

01:29:14.960 never say

01:29:15.340 they want

01:29:15.640 that man

01:29:16.060 and they'll

01:29:16.380 like sort

01:29:17.360 of learn

01:29:17.680 how to mimic

01:29:18.220 certain like

01:29:19.320 male behaviors

01:29:20.100 to be like,

01:29:20.680 oh I can hang

01:29:21.220 but a lot of

01:29:23.420 what a man is

01:29:24.260 and a lot of

01:29:24.660 male bonding

01:29:25.160 is like

01:29:25.820 problem solving

01:29:27.160 and talking

01:29:27.700 about the

01:29:28.120 atrocities of

01:29:28.800 the world

01:29:29.220 and I

01:29:30.020 notice that

01:29:30.600 when that

01:29:31.440 subject or

01:29:32.520 that subject

01:29:32.960 matter is

01:29:33.460 included

01:29:33.880 women tend

01:29:34.980 to flake

01:29:36.800 and I think

01:29:39.560 a lot of

01:29:39.920 women have

01:29:40.320 been like

01:29:40.860 convinced

01:29:41.360 like just

01:29:41.880 from all

01:29:42.380 this propaganda

01:29:43.080 you know

01:29:43.800 social media

01:29:44.440 to just think

01:29:45.560 that if

01:29:46.920 like a man

01:29:47.680 is not giving

01:29:48.280 you this

01:29:48.660 like perfect

01:29:49.260 image

01:29:49.680 then that's

01:29:50.920 not a good

01:29:51.360 man he's

01:29:51.740 like a loser

01:29:52.220 or something

01:29:52.840 whereas most

01:29:54.520 men that

01:29:56.260 do that

01:29:56.980 either

01:29:58.060 I don't

01:29:59.900 want to

01:30:00.060 have something

01:30:00.680 sketchy going

01:30:01.380 on or

01:30:02.820 are just

01:30:03.960 lying to

01:30:04.420 them right

01:30:04.800 yeah

01:30:05.400 which you

01:30:05.900 can just

01:30:06.420 do you

01:30:07.020 know it's

01:30:07.300 up to

01:30:07.560 you but

01:30:07.820 I don't

01:30:08.020 know what

01:30:08.300 what's your

01:30:08.640 thoughts I

01:30:09.240 don't know

01:30:09.560 that's kind

01:30:10.540 of my

01:30:10.760 take

01:30:11.040 yeah on

01:30:11.880 which

01:30:12.060 part

01:30:12.400 well on

01:30:15.180 I guess

01:30:16.120 I guess

01:30:17.660 initially

01:30:18.100 it's like

01:30:20.060 the self

01:30:20.460 consciousness

01:30:20.960 aspect right

01:30:22.060 of like

01:30:22.620 it's like

01:30:23.700 the second

01:30:24.140 that you

01:30:24.420 calm down

01:30:25.280 and you

01:30:25.660 kind of

01:30:25.920 start being

01:30:26.320 yourself

01:30:26.820 in public

01:30:27.680 because there's

01:30:29.860 so much

01:30:30.160 media

01:30:30.560 I think

01:30:32.580 this is

01:30:32.860 like

01:30:33.060 like

01:30:33.500 just like

01:30:34.040 no cultural

01:30:34.780 sort of

01:30:35.340 like

01:30:35.500 understanding

01:30:36.080 and

01:30:37.600 yeah

01:30:38.080 it's a

01:30:38.400 self

01:30:38.540 consciousness

01:30:38.920 thing right

01:30:39.520 where you

01:30:40.020 kind of

01:30:40.280 realize

01:30:40.580 like oh

01:30:40.920 I can't

01:30:41.560 be like

01:30:41.840 this here

01:30:42.180 because it's

01:30:42.620 a problem

01:30:43.040 yeah well

01:30:43.700 women can't

01:30:44.500 take how

01:30:44.980 men talk

01:30:45.700 when we're

01:30:46.000 not around

01:30:46.660 and they

01:30:47.300 get offended

01:30:47.900 and so

01:30:49.260 that's

01:30:49.520 essentially

01:30:49.960 what you

01:30:50.280 guys have

01:30:50.700 your spaces

01:30:51.260 where you

01:30:51.720 can be

01:30:52.340 more of

01:30:52.740 yourselves

01:30:53.200 and like

01:30:53.780 speak a

01:30:54.700 different way

01:30:55.260 that like

01:30:55.740 more direct

01:30:56.680 and women

01:30:57.120 can't

01:30:57.520 take it

01:30:57.940 so they

01:30:58.220 go into

01:30:58.900 those spaces

01:30:59.620 because you

01:31:00.080 guys usually

01:31:00.700 you guys make

01:31:01.760 cool stuff

01:31:02.640 and so we

01:31:03.200 want to be

01:31:03.540 a part of

01:31:04.020 it and

01:31:04.840 then we

01:31:05.360 tone

01:31:05.640 beliefs

01:31:06.100 that's like

01:31:06.760 how it

01:31:07.220 tends to

01:31:07.620 go

01:31:07.900 yeah

01:31:08.360 yeah

01:31:08.980 I've had

01:31:09.360 experiences

01:31:09.760 like that

01:31:10.340 where you're

01:31:10.880 trying to

01:31:11.140 bond with

01:31:11.460 a man

01:31:11.840 and a

01:31:12.600 woman

01:31:12.900 interjects

01:31:13.860 to the

01:31:14.060 that's

01:31:14.600 how guys

01:31:14.940 bond

01:31:15.320 you kind

01:31:15.640 of just

01:31:15.920 bust each

01:31:16.360 other's

01:31:16.620 balls

01:31:16.840 and like

01:31:17.200 you get

01:31:17.480 along

01:31:17.860 yeah

01:31:18.300 I saw

01:31:18.840 so much

01:31:19.380 I saw

01:31:19.900 a video

01:31:20.320 of a

01:31:20.760 plumber

01:31:21.140 a female

01:31:21.720 plumber

01:31:22.140 and to

01:31:23.140 start the

01:31:23.640 way their

01:31:23.920 initiation

01:31:24.460 is to

01:31:25.300 like

01:31:25.540 I don't

01:31:26.620 I don't

01:31:26.900 understand

01:31:27.280 this but

01:31:27.660 they send

01:31:28.180 the person

01:31:28.880 who starts

01:31:29.580 like on

01:31:29.940 their first

01:31:30.340 day to

01:31:30.760 the store

01:31:31.200 to get

01:31:31.580 something

01:31:31.940 that's not

01:31:32.440 there and

01:31:33.440 the shop

01:31:33.880 owner looks

01:31:34.380 at them

01:31:34.700 stupid but

01:31:35.300 that's how

01:31:35.580 they initiate

01:31:36.160 anyone and

01:31:37.320 she started

01:31:37.820 crying and

01:31:38.420 putting it

01:31:38.740 on tiktok

01:31:39.480 but she

01:31:39.880 went into

01:31:40.180 the guys

01:31:40.560 spaces and

01:31:42.060 the way

01:31:42.340 that they

01:31:42.620 initiate is

01:31:43.460 to kind

01:31:43.800 of like

01:31:44.140 hazing

01:31:44.560 essentially

01:31:45.140 and men

01:31:46.960 kind of know

01:31:47.460 that's something

01:31:47.960 that you go

01:31:48.600 through like

01:31:49.180 my brother

01:31:49.720 he was in

01:31:50.240 a frat

01:31:50.720 and I was

01:31:51.900 there when

01:31:52.340 they were doing

01:31:52.780 the hazing

01:31:53.280 and for me

01:31:54.040 I was like

01:31:54.520 I cannot

01:31:54.960 believe they're

01:31:55.680 doing this

01:31:56.120 to each other

01:31:56.680 but they're

01:31:57.560 like best

01:31:58.000 friends to

01:31:58.600 this day

01:31:59.080 so they

01:32:00.260 just don't

01:32:00.860 you know

01:32:01.700 so I've

01:32:02.240 seen that

01:32:02.700 too yeah

01:32:03.300 yeah and

01:32:04.580 the whole

01:32:04.860 thing of

01:32:05.180 that is

01:32:05.460 also just

01:32:05.920 like are

01:32:06.860 you self

01:32:07.540 conscious

01:32:07.960 because like

01:32:08.680 if you're

01:32:09.360 going to

01:32:09.520 make a

01:32:09.880 change in

01:32:10.220 the world

01:32:10.540 you're

01:32:10.780 going to

01:32:10.940 do things

01:32:11.360 that a lot

01:32:11.740 of people

01:32:11.960 are not

01:32:12.240 going to

01:32:12.420 like but

01:32:13.780 you have

01:32:14.060 to just

01:32:14.280 know that's

01:32:14.700 the right

01:32:14.940 thing

01:32:15.280 right and

01:32:16.460 that's a

01:32:17.260 big part

01:32:17.580 and for

01:32:18.100 women for

01:32:18.520 some reason

01:32:19.080 you know I'm

01:32:19.940 not you know

01:32:20.320 maybe conservative

01:32:20.840 women are

01:32:21.220 like that

01:32:21.640 but um

01:32:23.200 I don't

01:32:23.920 know I don't

01:32:24.380 know what's

01:32:24.640 going on with

01:32:25.020 that I don't

01:32:25.420 know why

01:32:25.620 there's such

01:32:26.000 a because

01:32:26.800 we're just

01:32:27.040 trying to

01:32:27.280 make the

01:32:27.480 world like

01:32:27.960 a better

01:32:28.280 place to

01:32:28.700 chill in

01:32:29.500 general so

01:32:30.780 conservative

01:32:31.500 conservative

01:32:32.420 women are

01:32:33.260 worse be

01:32:33.880 careful thanks

01:32:34.900 for calling

01:32:35.380 it yeah

01:32:36.760 thanks for

01:32:37.440 calling it

01:32:38.520 okay um

01:32:42.480 all right I'm

01:32:43.260 gonna read the

01:32:44.120 look I

01:32:44.960 actually have a

01:32:45.760 working theory

01:32:46.600 as to why

01:32:47.380 the conservative

01:32:48.800 women are

01:32:50.160 actually worse

01:32:50.980 than liberal

01:32:51.520 women hear

01:32:52.700 me out

01:32:53.120 now there

01:32:55.620 was a point

01:32:56.080 when I was

01:32:56.420 doing my

01:32:56.780 interviews where

01:32:58.340 I'd interviewed

01:32:58.800 a thousand

01:32:59.240 people and I

01:32:59.840 had to

01:33:00.140 retroactively

01:33:01.360 look back

01:33:02.180 which women

01:33:04.340 were the

01:33:04.740 nicest to me

01:33:05.520 out of these

01:33:05.920 thousand and

01:33:06.700 which ones

01:33:07.140 were the

01:33:07.400 bitchiest now

01:33:08.180 to be fair

01:33:08.980 my number

01:33:10.820 one draft

01:33:11.580 pick has to

01:33:12.680 be the

01:33:12.940 ghetto the

01:33:13.640 ghetto women

01:33:14.120 but but

01:33:14.940 that's got to

01:33:16.320 be number

01:33:16.660 one they I

01:33:18.660 mean when a

01:33:19.500 woman on

01:33:19.920 your show

01:33:20.280 and people

01:33:20.600 are gonna

01:33:20.820 make that a

01:33:21.280 race thing

01:33:21.800 it's not

01:33:22.180 it's not

01:33:22.500 even the

01:33:23.040 the woman

01:33:24.140 who threatened

01:33:24.660 to catch

01:33:26.540 a body and

01:33:27.400 I I thought

01:33:27.980 it was like a

01:33:28.440 body count but

01:33:29.240 like a real

01:33:29.840 body she was

01:33:31.060 white so

01:33:31.760 this is that

01:33:32.940 ghetto transcends

01:33:34.060 race so that's

01:33:34.680 number one

01:33:35.200 someone's gonna

01:33:36.240 clip that I'm

01:33:36.880 gonna get in

01:33:37.240 trouble I don't

01:33:37.820 care anymore

01:33:38.360 guys do it

01:33:39.260 do it whatever

01:33:40.040 my number two

01:33:41.460 draft pick

01:33:42.200 it's gonna be

01:33:44.700 conservative women

01:33:45.620 and I had to

01:33:46.400 think about why

01:33:47.120 and I was like

01:33:47.520 why are the

01:33:48.040 conservative women

01:33:48.940 so uptight and

01:33:50.020 bitchy and I

01:33:51.540 came to a

01:33:52.240 conclusion recently

01:33:53.380 it's because so

01:33:54.940 they go to

01:33:55.400 church right and

01:33:56.240 most churches

01:33:56.980 they only demonize

01:33:58.680 sins that male do

01:34:00.980 men do they

01:34:02.760 don't demonize

01:34:03.580 they don't talk

01:34:04.040 I've never heard

01:34:04.780 to this day I

01:34:06.080 have never heard

01:34:06.880 a sermon on

01:34:07.700 wives being not

01:34:09.580 real women same

01:34:11.300 way they say if

01:34:12.140 a man doesn't

01:34:12.640 work he's not a

01:34:13.240 real man you're

01:34:13.800 not providing I've

01:34:14.980 never heard one

01:34:15.800 about women not

01:34:16.720 fucking sorry

01:34:17.840 having sex but

01:34:19.920 women do that all

01:34:20.680 the time I've

01:34:21.240 never heard a

01:34:22.480 sermon ever and

01:34:24.820 so what I

01:34:25.220 realize is they

01:34:25.920 go to church and

01:34:27.760 they're never told

01:34:28.460 they ain't shit

01:34:29.220 they're they're

01:34:29.840 only told that the

01:34:30.940 men need to wait

01:34:31.760 for you don't let

01:34:32.600 the men pressure

01:34:33.300 you they're never

01:34:34.420 told you guys

01:34:36.620 are whores like

01:34:37.800 put it put your

01:34:38.560 clothes like stop

01:34:39.620 being whores and

01:34:40.980 you're a bad woman

01:34:41.700 if you do that so

01:34:43.460 what they do is

01:34:44.060 they go to church

01:34:44.760 and they get all

01:34:45.520 of the ego like

01:34:47.780 the virtue signaling

01:34:49.260 so they can put on

01:34:50.040 crosses they can

01:34:51.240 put a Bible verse

01:34:52.920 in their bio they

01:34:54.340 can take pictures

01:34:55.740 praying and so

01:34:57.640 they get all of

01:34:58.400 the good person

01:34:59.340 points but they

01:35:00.120 don't have to do

01:35:00.780 any of the work

01:35:01.740 so they have a

01:35:03.660 bigger ego because

01:35:04.840 the liberal women

01:35:05.780 are like well I

01:35:06.560 guess I'm a bad

01:35:07.260 person and they

01:35:08.040 let you know up

01:35:08.780 front they say

01:35:11.020 you know what I

01:35:12.760 am bad I am a

01:35:13.920 whore and the

01:35:14.800 men are like well

01:35:15.800 we can work with

01:35:17.120 this and I have

01:35:19.640 to happen to think

01:35:20.320 I was like why

01:35:20.960 are the worst

01:35:21.600 women I've met

01:35:22.580 like why are why

01:35:24.160 are the worst

01:35:24.800 divorce stories I've

01:35:25.960 seen I mean other

01:35:27.700 than the liberal

01:35:28.360 women that transition

01:35:29.560 so to be fair like

01:35:31.220 I've seen both but

01:35:32.260 some of the worst

01:35:33.500 ones were conservative

01:35:34.620 women I mean Hillary

01:35:35.940 Crowder was going to

01:35:37.520 all of Stephen's work

01:35:39.260 colleagues and calling

01:35:40.260 him an abuser and

01:35:41.320 I thought their

01:35:43.620 ego was tied into

01:35:45.100 being a good

01:35:45.680 person and so

01:35:47.760 anything that

01:35:48.740 they've done that

01:35:49.420 makes them a bad

01:35:50.240 person they don't

01:35:51.560 want the man to

01:35:52.280 say so they got to

01:35:53.000 destroy him or the

01:35:54.220 liberal woman at

01:35:55.760 times she's like I'm

01:35:56.800 a bad person anyway

01:35:57.860 so if she gets

01:35:59.200 divorced no one's

01:36:00.080 surprised she's like

01:36:00.840 well I'm a whore

01:36:02.760 that's that's my

01:36:05.260 analysis now you

01:36:06.460 guys could disagree

01:36:07.280 with me you're

01:36:07.900 totally welcome but

01:36:10.080 the conservative

01:36:11.340 women they're

01:36:11.940 almost worse

01:36:12.860 because now like

01:36:13.640 the Nala woman

01:36:14.440 she's like a new

01:36:15.220 conservative woman

01:36:16.140 now she's gonna go

01:36:17.900 around and tell

01:36:18.640 everyone else like

01:36:19.720 me how I'm not a

01:36:21.680 real I'm not good

01:36:22.700 enough when the

01:36:24.200 bitch did porn

01:36:24.960 at least when she

01:36:28.300 was a porn star

01:36:29.240 she's like yup I

01:36:30.540 am a porn star I

01:36:32.020 preferred her before

01:36:32.900 I really did they're

01:36:34.860 like would you rather

01:36:35.520 she did porn yes

01:36:36.940 I would rather her

01:36:39.340 do porn than grift

01:36:41.000 religion yeah like

01:36:43.440 at least admit

01:36:44.540 they're like isn't

01:36:45.120 it better that she

01:36:45.920 stopped no it is

01:36:48.000 not better to have

01:36:49.500 her put a Jesus

01:36:50.380 cross on do sexual

01:36:52.740 things with the

01:36:55.800 Jesus cross on you

01:36:57.280 you might as well

01:36:59.960 and then speak like

01:37:00.980 talk about the Bible

01:37:01.940 like she knows what

01:37:02.740 she's talking about

01:37:03.600 with slutty clothes on

01:37:05.200 you might as go be a

01:37:06.940 porn star that's what

01:37:08.180 you obviously want to

01:37:09.320 do could you stop

01:37:12.220 pretending you don't

01:37:13.160 want to go do it

01:37:14.540 but then she's like

01:37:15.520 well if I'm saved

01:37:16.580 then that means you

01:37:17.260 have to stop your

01:37:18.000 behavior what am I

01:37:18.900 doing Nala what am I

01:37:20.900 doing you got tag

01:37:24.140 teamed on camera

01:37:25.480 anyways that's the

01:37:27.160 equivalent the only

01:37:27.980 difference is the

01:37:28.800 older Christian women

01:37:29.880 have more of an ego

01:37:30.880 their shit's not on

01:37:32.420 camera so they can

01:37:34.060 pretend it didn't

01:37:35.280 happen the older

01:37:38.200 women they come in

01:37:39.300 and they say we

01:37:40.940 didn't do that back

01:37:41.880 in the day bullshit

01:37:42.800 I heard about

01:37:44.860 Woodstock I heard

01:37:46.900 about the 70 there

01:37:48.380 was a woman there's

01:37:49.420 that that woman that

01:37:50.680 goes around on the

01:37:51.460 college campuses and

01:37:52.580 she said I was a

01:37:53.320 hoe like that old

01:37:54.680 lady I don't know if

01:37:55.380 you guys have seen

01:37:55.980 her but she said

01:37:57.220 back in the 60s

01:37:58.580 they were hoeing on

01:37:59.680 campus but all all

01:38:02.380 of you guys as

01:38:03.120 mothers and you

01:38:03.700 guys are simps

01:38:04.340 because you think

01:38:04.820 your moms are

01:38:05.340 telling the truth

01:38:05.900 simps she's lying

01:38:08.960 to they're all

01:38:09.640 lying unless okay

01:38:12.040 if your mom got

01:38:13.540 married at 18 she

01:38:15.940 might not have done

01:38:16.880 anything now these

01:38:19.580 girls are starting

01:38:20.400 at 14 get out of

01:38:21.920 here but that's

01:38:24.140 that's why they're

01:38:25.160 worse okay that's

01:38:26.880 why in my experience

01:38:28.540 unless they go down

01:38:30.360 the trans route the

01:38:31.620 lefty ladies those

01:38:33.620 have to be the

01:38:34.360 number one you

01:38:34.980 know it's gonna go

01:38:35.520 the ghetto ladies

01:38:36.460 the pro trans the

01:38:38.200 ones I want to

01:38:38.660 transition the kids

01:38:39.540 then the trad con

01:38:40.720 women I don't know

01:38:42.200 let me know your

01:38:43.260 thought I'm gonna

01:38:43.740 make a hierarchy of

01:38:44.760 how bitchy the

01:38:45.580 woman is okay I'm

01:38:48.480 sorry about that

01:38:49.160 rant guys we're

01:38:49.860 gonna get back to

01:38:50.400 the callers welcome

01:38:51.740 to the show oh my

01:38:55.100 gosh what

01:38:55.620 teriyak teriyak

01:38:57.200 thank you I'm not

01:38:58.320 good at pronouncing

01:38:59.000 no problem no

01:38:59.500 problem are you good

01:39:00.360 to be on camera yeah

01:39:02.460 yeah so what do

01:39:04.080 you think of the

01:39:04.580 topic on video

01:39:07.520 games how has that

01:39:08.400 affected your

01:39:09.080 relationships yeah so

01:39:11.620 for me like personally

01:39:12.540 what I was saying is

01:39:13.600 that like fundamentally

01:39:14.900 no matter what the

01:39:15.760 guy does the long

01:39:17.080 as he's happy without

01:39:18.500 her if it doesn't

01:39:19.760 involve her she

01:39:21.180 somehow finds an

01:39:22.420 issue with it you

01:39:23.700 know I'm saying and

01:39:24.180 I think it's like that

01:39:24.860 deep inner thing it's

01:39:25.600 like if he can be

01:39:26.200 happy without me he

01:39:27.420 doesn't need me as

01:39:28.100 much and it kind of

01:39:28.900 plays on him in terms

01:39:29.780 of that role because

01:39:31.260 like how many times

01:39:32.020 like would we bring

01:39:32.680 up like video games

01:39:33.540 and all this kind of

01:39:34.040 stuff we never

01:39:35.060 address like how much

01:39:35.860 time women spend on

01:39:36.900 social media never

01:39:38.760 exactly you know I

01:39:41.800 mean and it's like we

01:39:42.580 look at like we can

01:39:43.300 point to like Elon

01:39:44.000 Musk as an example

01:39:44.780 like he's like a

01:39:45.760 multi-billionaire has

01:39:46.800 all these companies all

01:39:48.080 stuff and then he's

01:39:48.780 also one of the top

01:39:49.760 ranked Diablo players in

01:39:51.580 the world so if he can

01:39:52.780 spend time to play

01:39:54.340 video games you know

01:39:55.660 what I mean but it's

01:39:56.720 and it often like when

01:39:57.960 you see the argument

01:39:58.580 it's always like oh

01:39:59.300 if he's spending eight

01:39:59.980 hours a day on video

01:40:01.480 games but it's like

01:40:02.260 like at that point it's

01:40:03.120 like an addiction

01:40:03.620 you know I mean we're

01:40:04.320 just talking about a

01:40:04.840 hobby not an addiction

01:40:05.920 you know I mean but

01:40:07.140 it's always this kind of

01:40:07.880 thing like an excuse to

01:40:08.760 blame the man and then

01:40:11.320 also like I said like

01:40:12.060 you can you like some

01:40:13.120 people say oh you just

01:40:14.120 find a better hobby and

01:40:15.000 all that but I just

01:40:16.340 point them towards

01:40:16.980 Twitch which was

01:40:18.140 supposed to be a game

01:40:19.520 website where a bunch

01:40:20.620 of nurses went on

01:40:21.600 streamed and playing a

01:40:22.380 game and it was like a

01:40:24.000 website for nerds by

01:40:25.320 nerds kind of thing and

01:40:26.500 what happened all

01:40:27.800 these OnlyFans

01:40:28.460 chick all these

01:40:29.120 eThoughts came on and

01:40:30.220 they basically turned

01:40:31.060 into a soft core porn

01:40:32.720 website essentially so

01:40:34.320 like I said it's to me

01:40:35.780 it's just like another

01:40:36.580 excuse for women to

01:40:37.520 just be mad at their

01:40:38.600 husbands essentially

01:40:39.320 what do you think is the

01:40:40.860 average screen time for

01:40:42.560 women

01:40:42.940 screen time as in

01:40:46.580 I have it here guess

01:40:47.520 what the average screen

01:40:48.540 time for women is a

01:40:50.040 day like how many

01:40:51.380 hours a day on their

01:40:52.740 phone yeah

01:40:53.480 I want to be

01:40:57.080 conservative and say

01:40:58.140 four or five hours

01:40:59.700 maybe

01:41:00.000 seven and a half

01:41:01.420 you know what I mean

01:41:04.540 and then we're saying

01:41:05.320 that the guys were

01:41:06.040 spending eight

01:41:06.560 I know I know

01:41:07.400 I know

01:41:08.520 video games

01:41:09.740 yeah I mean that's

01:41:10.820 young women that's

01:41:11.740 Gen Z but

01:41:12.740 let's see oh I know

01:41:14.440 it's actually pretty bad

01:41:15.380 when you go higher

01:41:16.100 it's 25 to 34

01:41:17.960 seven hours still six

01:41:19.520 and a half 35

01:41:20.460 45 and up it's six

01:41:22.120 hours yeah

01:41:23.680 well I agree with

01:41:26.300 you well thank you

01:41:27.620 for calling in a

01:41:28.660 pleasure as always

01:41:29.800 pleasure as always

01:41:32.340 I want one more

01:41:34.120 I'm going to read the

01:41:35.040 pearl the purpose

01:41:35.920 isn't to bond with

01:41:36.980 the greenhorn we

01:41:38.300 aren't making friends

01:41:39.540 we're humbling the

01:41:40.720 guy letting him know

01:41:41.720 that we're more than

01:41:42.540 him and testing his

01:41:43.680 metal

01:41:44.080 okay Dane if you're

01:41:47.240 working in a shipyard

01:41:48.240 you send the new guy

01:41:49.180 to work or get

01:41:50.400 something in the

01:41:51.100 bowling alley oh

01:41:52.760 wait oh I'm reading

01:41:53.540 these out of order

01:41:54.160 sorry Dane you

01:41:55.140 send the new guy to

01:41:56.240 get a beam stretcher

01:41:57.480 or sky hook if

01:41:58.520 you're working in a

01:41:59.200 shipyard you send

01:41:59.960 the new guy to get

01:42:00.600 a work or get

01:42:01.740 something from the

01:42:02.520 bowling alley the

01:42:03.720 purpose isn't to

01:42:04.560 bond with that

01:42:05.400 greenhorn we ain't

01:42:06.380 making friends we're

01:42:07.580 humbling the guy

01:42:08.520 and letting him know

01:42:10.420 that we are more

01:42:11.140 than him and testing

01:42:12.040 his metal

01:42:12.660 bond goon says I've

01:42:15.300 been shooting the

01:42:15.920 crap in Twitter

01:42:16.680 spaces

01:42:17.400 um

01:42:18.840 Fazal says hooray

01:42:21.760 jarhead

01:42:22.500 pearl I

01:42:23.760 oh wait I've read

01:42:24.460 that already crazy

01:42:25.380 cow there are games

01:42:26.180 out there though I

01:42:26.980 read that okay

01:42:27.660 you know

01:42:29.280 there's one other

01:42:30.860 thing I wanted

01:42:31.720 I want to ask you

01:42:35.460 guys in the chat and

01:42:36.360 I was just had this

01:42:37.100 poll the other day

01:42:37.980 there was a

01:42:41.320 billionaire on the

01:42:42.320 Titanic right

01:42:43.140 I always hear that

01:42:45.560 like men should

01:42:46.340 sacrifice for women

01:42:47.420 and children if

01:42:48.860 Elon Musk and

01:42:50.600 Grimes were on a

01:42:51.960 boat don't you

01:42:54.880 think we should

01:42:55.400 save Elon Musk and

01:42:56.740 let Grimes and the

01:42:57.580 kid go we can make

01:42:58.520 another Elon can

01:43:00.260 have another kid

01:43:01.180 Grimes is a crazy

01:43:04.580 woman right we

01:43:07.860 can't get another

01:43:08.840 Elon Musk like

01:43:10.060 that would affect the

01:43:10.980 country for the next

01:43:12.000 50 years

01:43:13.020 anyways these are

01:43:15.620 just random pearl

01:43:16.480 thoughts Fazal says

01:43:17.880 uh there's nothing

01:43:19.660 wrong with playing

01:43:20.280 video games it's just

01:43:21.300 these bitches are

01:43:22.600 attention seekers

01:43:23.800 Von Goon says no

01:43:26.000 way Elon has got

01:43:26.980 time to grind that

01:43:28.000 character lol

01:43:28.980 he's an efficient

01:43:31.000 guy okay welcome

01:43:33.240 to the show Tony are

01:43:34.860 you good to be on

01:43:35.640 camera

01:43:36.120 uh yeah sure can you

01:43:38.860 hear me yeah I can

01:43:39.780 hear you so what do

01:43:40.880 you think of the

01:43:41.360 topic how has video

01:43:42.820 games affected your

01:43:43.940 relationships um well

01:43:47.560 I just think it's just

01:43:48.380 like a it's just a

01:43:50.400 male space that to

01:43:52.000 escape from because

01:43:52.980 there's no other

01:43:54.460 place that men can go

01:43:55.840 to nowadays and um I

01:43:59.060 mean the only things

01:44:00.080 that I can think of

01:44:00.960 that have a male space

01:44:02.080 are like Brazilian

01:44:02.940 jiu-jitsu and video

01:44:04.720 games so um that's

01:44:09.360 that's what I think

01:44:10.640 that's what gravitates

01:44:11.700 men towards playing

01:44:13.940 video games right

01:44:14.840 yeah it's just it's

01:44:16.220 just so messed up man

01:44:17.220 like what are you

01:44:17.720 supposed to do like

01:44:19.320 you want to start a

01:44:20.120 family you want to get

01:44:20.940 married well have fun

01:44:22.980 getting divorced or you

01:44:24.500 know what I mean like

01:44:25.320 it's fucked up there's

01:44:27.260 nothing uh sorry about

01:44:29.100 the swearing but um

01:44:31.280 there's not a lot of

01:44:32.460 safe places men can go

01:44:33.480 to yeah what do you

01:44:37.080 think about women that

01:44:38.160 nag video games and

01:44:39.540 say the men aren't

01:44:40.340 productive enough

01:44:41.240 they're just doing it

01:44:43.800 for themselves at the

01:44:45.700 end of the day like

01:44:46.340 they're on social media

01:44:47.320 what like you said

01:44:48.140 like eight hours a day

01:44:49.220 yeah so like what's

01:44:50.660 the difference between

01:44:51.260 social media and video

01:44:52.360 games and like I don't

01:44:54.660 even think most men

01:44:55.560 play eight hours a day

01:44:56.640 yeah I think like maybe

01:44:58.740 on like a weekend you

01:44:59.860 might play yeah sure

01:45:00.900 like there's some cool

01:45:02.200 like games where men

01:45:03.100 can bond like there's

01:45:03.960 like military sim games

01:45:05.220 and stuff like that

01:45:06.100 that I play every once

01:45:07.440 in a while and it's

01:45:08.200 just like a bunch of

01:45:09.140 guys and you know

01:45:10.860 what I mean like we

01:45:11.480 can just say and do

01:45:12.220 whatever the fuck we

01:45:12.860 want we don't need to

01:45:13.700 you know a man

01:45:17.520 spends video games a

01:45:19.140 single session one to

01:45:20.340 two hours on average

01:45:21.860 yeah so well well

01:45:27.680 thank you that's a

01:45:28.500 very good point Tony

01:45:30.020 thanks for calling in

01:45:31.540 yeah no problem and I

01:45:33.780 just want to say like

01:45:34.620 Nala and like that

01:45:35.860 whole situation there

01:45:37.020 it's just like

01:45:38.020 conservatives love her

01:45:39.160 because like they just

01:45:40.740 it just gives them an

01:45:41.720 excuse to promote their

01:45:42.700 religion like that's all

01:45:44.340 it is like like porn star

01:45:46.120 turned uh Christian and

01:45:49.320 Jesus saved her and like

01:45:51.420 look how great Jesus is

01:45:52.680 right and that's like the

01:45:54.160 only thing that's why

01:45:55.360 they love her so much

01:45:56.360 yeah they want at the

01:45:57.780 end of the day it's all

01:45:58.460 about yeah they want to

01:46:00.180 be right so bad yeah

01:46:03.380 and they just want to

01:46:04.260 you know make the

01:46:05.460 moolah yeah well thanks

01:46:07.500 for calling in Tony

01:46:08.720 calling anytime it's a

01:46:10.980 pleasure thank you

01:46:12.760 conservatives that

01:46:14.180 support Nala are

01:46:15.340 ridiculous is what Doug

01:46:16.720 says in the chat

01:46:17.720 look at guys I

01:46:22.100 understand getting

01:46:22.880 bamboozled once look I

01:46:25.300 gave Brittany runner way

01:46:26.920 too fair of an interview

01:46:28.060 at the time I mean to be

01:46:29.040 fair I did let her hang

01:46:30.720 herself I really did but

01:46:33.100 going back I at the time

01:46:35.020 I was so busy I wish I

01:46:36.660 could people could

01:46:37.520 understand at that point I

01:46:39.280 was doing like two or

01:46:40.160 three pieces of content a

01:46:41.520 day I was stressed out

01:46:42.860 however um and it was it

01:46:46.720 was just me scripting them

01:46:48.020 but you know I understand

01:46:51.540 getting bamboozled once but

01:46:53.020 Michael I've I've done

01:46:54.220 whole streams giving you

01:46:55.800 receipts this is getting

01:46:57.620 ridiculous um next on the

01:47:01.400 show we got oh my gosh

01:47:03.200 it's small in the corner

01:47:04.560 Rodolfo Rodolfo am I

01:47:06.660 saying it right are you

01:47:07.260 good to be on camera yeah

01:47:09.160 yeah I'm outside so I

01:47:10.980 don't have the best

01:47:11.460 lighting that's okay

01:47:12.580 where are you at it looks

01:47:14.900 very nice it's like a very

01:47:16.440 spacious I'm in Texas I'm

01:47:19.140 in my backyard is it warm

01:47:20.780 there no I mean we had

01:47:24.240 that cold week so it's

01:47:26.440 like 40 50 degrees right

01:47:27.960 now it's pretty nice I'm

01:47:30.120 from Chicago you know so

01:47:34.560 what do you think of the

01:47:36.200 topic how have um how have

01:47:39.080 video games affected your

01:47:40.460 relationships um so a lot

01:47:44.440 of the girls I dated they

01:47:45.440 really didn't care but the

01:47:46.940 last two the one girl was

01:47:49.600 into Skyrim a lot and she

01:47:51.000 bought me an Xbox one but uh

01:47:54.400 I was a sim back then she

01:47:56.180 was a single mom so you

01:47:58.740 know after a year I was

01:47:59.840 like you know what I

01:48:00.540 really don't want to live

01:48:01.520 this life so I gave her

01:48:03.720 back the Xbox and I broke

01:48:04.980 up and whatnot but the

01:48:06.600 girl I'm dating now she's uh

01:48:08.420 she loves playing video

01:48:09.320 games and you know me too

01:48:11.560 right I grew up with uh

01:48:13.320 Pokemon Game Boy Advance and

01:48:15.100 all that stuff so uh it's

01:48:17.280 been a lot of fun we get a

01:48:18.720 it's nice knowing that she

01:48:20.520 can understand where I'm

01:48:21.400 coming from and not like

01:48:22.840 uh somebody outside looking

01:48:24.780 in kind of situation would

01:48:27.160 you say that's a plus for

01:48:28.320 you like dating her like

01:48:29.840 would you say it's like

01:48:31.360 something that drew you in

01:48:32.500 when you were deciding to

01:48:33.820 date her or not or no um

01:48:37.180 yeah it was a plus yeah yeah

01:48:40.640 because um like it doesn't

01:48:44.420 like I had to go through an

01:48:46.820 evolution process or

01:48:47.800 whatever but I remember

01:48:49.320 thinking like why would I

01:48:50.460 want a girl that's super

01:48:51.860 hot and fit and athletic if

01:48:53.880 I'm not going to the gym

01:48:54.780 you're like I'm not going

01:48:56.580 to be able to catch up to

01:48:57.400 her level so this girl if

01:48:59.860 she plays video games well

01:49:00.980 she's on my level you know

01:49:02.380 she can understand why I

01:49:03.860 love shooting people and you

01:49:05.400 know in in Minecraft as they

01:49:07.920 say yeah well but oh well

01:49:12.620 sorry um well I was gonna I

01:49:15.020 caught the last bit of the

01:49:15.880 last guy I'm only on my

01:49:16.900 phone so I can't watch your

01:49:18.560 your stream at the same

01:49:19.780 time but I wanted to say

01:49:22.000 that I think the other guy

01:49:23.600 mentioned it but I think the

01:49:25.140 reason why conservatives and

01:49:26.580 a lot of other people are

01:49:27.860 attacking games is because

01:49:29.360 it's the last bastion where

01:49:31.020 men could be men because you

01:49:33.580 know it used to be that where

01:49:34.780 you went to a mechanic shop

01:49:36.180 you could you know have pin up

01:49:38.860 dolls and tell dirty jokes and

01:49:41.480 things like that but they took

01:49:42.880 that away they took comedians

01:49:44.460 away they took funny radio

01:49:45.920 stations away they took

01:49:47.040 YouTube away they took

01:49:48.380 everything away where men

01:49:49.380 could be men they're even

01:49:50.620 taking away the gym like you

01:49:52.360 can't even work out without a

01:49:53.660 girl accusing you of sexually

01:49:55.600 assaulting them so but it's like

01:49:59.340 Christianity everybody attacks

01:50:01.540 it because it's so easy because

01:50:02.840 the Christians don't fight back

01:50:04.180 but nobody ever attacks Buddha or

01:50:06.440 you know Muslims or anything like

01:50:08.100 that because they're cowards

01:50:09.800 basically but that's why the

01:50:12.480 conservatives love to jump on

01:50:13.760 video games and anime and stuff

01:50:15.180 like that because they want to

01:50:16.920 please the women more than they

01:50:18.280 just want to leave men alone

01:50:19.340 yeah that's a great point that's a

01:50:23.060 really good point yeah but hopefully

01:50:26.160 I'm not being too boring right now

01:50:27.400 but no you're good thanks for

01:50:30.980 calling in that was a really great

01:50:32.180 point yeah no problem hey love your

01:50:34.560 stuff you're doing God's work and

01:50:36.200 keep up the good fight thank you

01:50:38.320 yeah no problem enjoy the warmth

01:50:41.620 because I don't have it here okay

01:50:44.980 let's see there is I'm single and

01:50:48.600 I've stopped playing video games

01:50:49.800 this is the wrong show for me

01:50:51.440 Joel says my husband plays video

01:50:54.300 games on his day off I learned his

01:50:57.140 favorite video game so I could

01:50:58.840 appreciate its difficulty and talk

01:51:00.640 about it knowledgeably when he plays

01:51:02.540 I hang out or do my own thing in

01:51:04.120 proximity Dane says the problem with

01:51:06.840 video games is it's not productive

01:51:08.420 it doesn't produce anything that

01:51:10.080 builds society nothing wrong with

01:51:12.220 having some downtime when it's a huge

01:51:14.040 part of your life feminine I screw

01:51:17.300 off too but when my nonproductive time is

01:51:20.240 so much of my life that it's part of my

01:51:22.380 identity that I'm acting like a woman

01:51:23.900 Dane the average session is one to two

01:51:26.860 hours what where are you

01:51:29.620 this all says God can't help himself

01:51:33.180 with these bitches

01:51:34.380 you guys are cracking me up crazy

01:51:38.960 men are so much funnier than women

01:51:41.000 you know I think I'm funny for a woman

01:51:44.340 for a woman

01:51:44.920 YouTube not all not all but

01:51:48.160 even the average guy will be funnier

01:51:52.580 than me like by a lot you know okay

01:51:55.000 Pearl women are Indian givers lol Dane

01:51:58.980 I'm old when video games came out in

01:52:01.840 the 80s they were child toys as boys

01:52:04.280 grew up into manhood they took on more

01:52:06.000 mature and productive hobbies so to me

01:52:07.860 they're symbols of immaturity these

01:52:10.560 guys are whining about women taking

01:52:12.100 away their space to sound weak because

01:52:13.840 they keep running to the next place

01:52:15.500 instead of standing up and telling the

01:52:17.480 woman to have a seat and hush

01:52:19.380 Dane okay I want to play this out I

01:52:22.940 want you to think about this so if they

01:52:25.620 go to the gym right and the women come

01:52:27.880 in they're like let me in the gym and

01:52:29.780 the men are like okay the average guy

01:52:33.460 doesn't have the power to kick women

01:52:35.080 out of the gym the average men don't

01:52:38.000 have like I went to a gun range and

01:52:39.680 there's like um a female gun sport like

01:52:43.180 most men you could say the met the

01:52:45.440 business owners are simping but the men

01:52:48.180 don't spend money like women like do you

01:52:50.080 guys know how many membership I'm

01:52:51.580 gonna like pretend pander right now I'm

01:52:53.420 gonna pretend do you know how much

01:52:54.960 money I could have if I just said you

01:52:56.480 know what let me let me just let me just

01:52:59.360 tell you how I can make him I could have

01:53:00.860 made a million dollars

01:53:01.920 you know what women he just does not

01:53:07.640 appreciate you you are a queen thank God

01:53:11.020 you dumped his ass because really he

01:53:14.660 didn't know what he had until you left

01:53:17.140 him but you know luckily I can help you

01:53:20.880 guys out have your post breakup glow up

01:53:23.880 here's my thing I'm selling or here's my

01:53:27.480 community that I'm gonna sell to help

01:53:29.520 women level up in their love lives or or

01:53:32.640 god it's so easy or here you know what

01:53:35.460 the real diet and fitness is gonna be too

01:53:37.840 hard for you ladies so I'm gonna sell you

01:53:40.900 some other like fitness class that's not

01:53:43.620 too I could sell fitness classes to help

01:53:46.620 you get over your man you deserve the

01:53:50.640 best here's the media with the guy that

01:53:53.840 the girl that's average dating the guy

01:53:55.500 out of her league boom I could be a

01:53:56.860 billionaire but I chose to be honest

01:54:01.740 what an L sorry okay okay crazy Kyle I go

01:54:07.980 to the gym to be filmed being a straight

01:54:10.780 asshole to these tick-tock losers they

01:54:15.020 have dollar bills they could join

01:54:16.540 together tell the owners to stop that

01:54:18.440 simp shit they could start their own

01:54:20.620 gyms they could buy equipment for their

01:54:22.320 homes but you got it Dane you got to

01:54:23.760 think about this okay so let's say let's

01:54:27.440 say the men get together and say we want

01:54:29.320 our own gym it's gonna go freaking out

01:54:31.420 of business because you know what happened

01:54:33.120 they would say this is the price for

01:54:35.040 memberships and all the men would say

01:54:36.480 F that I can work out at home then he can

01:54:39.380 make it triple he can say like male gyms

01:54:42.800 are like 20 bucks a month how much do

01:54:45.080 you guys pay for your gym female they

01:54:46.960 can charge 150 plus a pop so they say

01:54:52.140 ladies 150 200 dollars for a yoga session

01:54:56.480 and then he can make you guys got to

01:54:59.940 think about 80 percent of consumer buying

01:55:02.320 decisions so you can make two dollars or

01:55:05.320 you can make eight dollars what are they

01:55:10.220 you're like and then you're gonna tell

01:55:13.320 them I know you have to pay a ridiculous

01:55:15.080 amount for a gym because these women are

01:55:17.660 driving up the prices sorry Dane I don't

01:55:22.400 think the average one the average man

01:55:24.020 doesn't have too much power to the

01:55:25.960 average man doesn't care that much he's

01:55:27.700 like I don't care I'm just gonna go work

01:55:29.320 out at home that's too much work you you

01:55:32.140 want him to organize a gym protest these

01:55:35.480 men have jobs they're not women like

01:55:38.420 they do things at work he doesn't have

01:55:43.100 time to go oh let me just let me just

01:55:46.840 organize a protest like we need a male

01:55:49.680 only gym let me fight these gym owners

01:55:51.700 the guys say you win I'm going home I'll

01:55:55.040 get I'll get um I'll make a home gym I'll

01:55:58.480 do some push-ups good enough Dane when

01:56:01.240 these men get together crying about how

01:56:03.100 these women are driving them out of

01:56:04.380 their own gyms they sound like women

01:56:06.600 they're not crying nobody on here was

01:56:09.080 crying I didn't see anyone crying Dane

01:56:12.700 can you can you let the men like talk

01:56:15.960 about their problem they're not even

01:56:17.320 Dane you're simping again we've talked

01:56:20.820 about this problem with you we've talked

01:56:24.600 about this I'm gonna have to call you

01:56:26.320 again okay Fazelle wants to know my

01:56:28.780 favorite gun is I've only gone shooting

01:56:31.360 like twice I the one they gave me I

01:56:33.780 don't shoot much I've just been because

01:56:36.360 um we had a guy in town

01:56:38.600 what happened to that vlog I just

01:56:44.260 remembered a vlog I forgot about where

01:56:46.760 did it go okay well P Damien marketing

01:56:51.420 is always directed to personal

01:56:54.240 insecurities see y'all later work is

01:56:57.440 calling I think I read all the chats

01:56:58.740 I'll go to the next caller we got is it

01:57:03.120 Brighton it's very small in the corner

01:57:05.480 are you good to be on camera yep so what

01:57:09.780 is your thought on the topic um do you

01:57:12.060 think that or how have video games

01:57:14.880 affected your relationships um not very

01:57:19.160 much honestly can you hear me yeah so it

01:57:23.100 hasn't really been a problem for you

01:57:24.840 no um honestly it's I just play like

01:57:29.820 two hours a day after I'm done with all

01:57:32.120 my crap you know and then you know she's

01:57:37.740 in bed and that's about it nice yeah so

01:57:43.440 it's all about balance and moderation

01:57:45.420 really so you're pro video games you can

01:57:49.140 have happy relationships with video

01:57:52.040 if you balance it right yeah yeah what

01:57:55.520 when do you think it's a problem like

01:57:57.660 how many hours a day is like what would

01:58:00.000 you if you had a friend and he said I

01:58:02.480 played this much every day when would

01:58:05.340 you say do what would you say the

01:58:08.580 problem starts okay um

01:58:11.480 when it interrupts what you have to do

01:58:17.800 okay make sense yeah so when it's

01:58:21.860 impacting your job or like taking care of

01:58:23.980 your family or something yeah or even the

01:58:27.320 relationship itself yes that's when it

01:58:29.740 interrupts it like if you can do it in a

01:58:33.720 healthy way go out but if you can't

01:58:37.480 balance you better go back on it got it

01:58:43.520 well thank you very much brighton I

01:58:46.760 appreciate you calling in

01:58:48.340 Doug appreciate you guys too Doug says

01:58:54.440 you don't follow the trends or per way

01:58:56.820 hold on pearl calling these whiners to

01:58:59.560 calling these whiners to suck it up and

01:59:02.120 take care of their own lives ain't

01:59:03.720 simping or white knighting I'm not

01:59:06.080 protecting women or making excuses for

01:59:08.840 them Dane I'm talking about what

01:59:11.060 happens in society the men they don't

01:59:14.100 even fight it like the men are just

01:59:15.880 like you want to ruin our video games

01:59:18.440 keep them we'll go do something else

01:59:21.300 they're like you want our gyms you can

01:59:22.860 have it you want the children fine they

01:59:26.880 do fight that but that's the men it's

01:59:29.240 like the younger men aren't really

01:59:31.340 fighting as like how do I put it the

01:59:33.700 older men were sold a bill of goods

01:59:36.260 right so the older men were lied to

01:59:39.040 like they thought they were gonna get

01:59:40.520 one thing but the younger men are like

01:59:42.140 no I've seen three of my aunts divorce

01:59:45.380 I've seen that guy divorce the younger

01:59:50.580 men are like I'm just not even gonna date

01:59:53.720 this is too much work or or you know they

01:59:58.120 say yeah the younger men are wising up but

02:00:02.260 they're not really complaining they just

02:00:04.380 are like yeah I'll go do something else

02:00:07.160 all right women will set up cam all right

02:00:10.680 Doug says you don't follow the trends

02:00:12.900 women will set cameras up in the gym they

02:00:15.100 will try to record men and look at them

02:00:16.600 and post the video and accuse the man of

02:00:18.260 being a predator you got to go to the gym

02:00:19.940 Dane says one guy I worked with spent 20

02:00:22.220 hours a day playing video games online he

02:00:24.520 had a wife and a child and they struggled

02:00:26.080 financially that's enough time for a

02:00:28.240 part-time job well he might have had a

02:00:32.400 problem you know I don't think that's the

02:00:34.500 norm though uh young men just don't let it

02:00:40.080 become an obsession I think more than two

02:00:41.860 to three hours a day as much Doug it's not

02:00:45.120 men crying it's men acknowledging that the

02:00:46.940 women are opportunists and trying to get

02:00:48.780 clout on social media tell me everything

02:00:51.280 you know about what I follow or don't

02:00:53.360 follow stop casting men as victims we

02:00:56.060 built civilization you guys are arguing in

02:00:59.320 the chat pro correct they don't even

02:01:02.340 fight it we chopped down the wilderness

02:01:03.760 and killed the wild beasts but the men

02:01:06.440 can't even stand up to women okay but this

02:01:10.460 is how it goes you have to think the guys

02:01:13.000 have to look at the fight and think if

02:01:15.720 they're gonna win okay let me you know my

02:01:19.260 old gym in London was a perfect example of

02:01:23.160 what happened my old gym so they had women

02:01:28.180 they're a bodybuilding gym and they had

02:01:30.120 women you know join it and it used to be an

02:01:34.760 all-male gym it used to be all male they

02:01:37.560 were perfectly happy and then the owner

02:01:40.180 wanted to make more money so we let women

02:01:41.980 in now if one guy starts fighting it there's

02:01:45.000 gonna be all these other guys fighting him to

02:01:47.220 protect the women there it's too much work like

02:01:50.700 it's just like he's not gonna win so

02:01:54.080 pearl reed dane s-i-m-p-i-n-g stop simping

02:01:58.740 you know dane is dane's not a normal simp but

02:02:02.620 he has a little bit of simp in him I gotta

02:02:04.780 sorry dane

02:02:05.760 fizzle I bet my left nut that if men ended

02:02:09.760 up in hell women would follow us out of

02:02:11.680 jealousy

02:02:12.160 oh that's so funny okay dane that's not the

02:02:19.060 norm again two hours like the body counts

02:02:21.520 triple that number and that'll be the real

02:02:23.380 number

02:02:23.740 100% true they would follow men to hell and

02:02:26.560 then try to kick them out

02:02:27.720 but what's andrew tate's opinions on video

02:02:30.140 games that's the opinion I'll form on them

02:02:32.160 and it you gotta think for yourself don't

02:02:34.080 look at andrew tate or me you know don't look

02:02:35.860 at anyone

02:02:36.340 all right anyways next on the show we got

02:02:39.660 daniel welcome to the show are you good

02:02:42.420 to be on camera

02:02:43.340 yeah I'm good to be on camera no problem

02:02:46.100 there what's your thoughts on video

02:02:47.760 games

02:02:48.280 oh video games I I don't really have a

02:02:51.560 huge issue with it I think the thing

02:02:54.080 when women really complain about video

02:02:55.620 games I think they're actually complaining

02:02:56.880 about computer time and I don't think

02:02:59.220 they really realize that like when a guy

02:03:01.400 plays a video game he's actually just on

02:03:04.200 discord or something else chatting up with

02:03:05.940 his friends or he's sharing YouTube videos

02:03:09.060 or they're watching history channel stuff

02:03:11.100 and so it's like I think they think that

02:03:13.900 because you're in front of a computer

02:03:15.340 you're just always playing a video game

02:03:17.520 and it's like with what that other guy

02:03:20.100 said earlier too like with mil sims like

02:03:22.160 military sims and stuff like that yeah

02:03:23.860 that's that's a real way people bond like

02:03:27.280 on on rising thunder rising storm whatever

02:03:29.440 else it is or like arma or other things

02:03:31.820 like that I don't play those as much and

02:03:34.580 then there's also another comment that

02:03:36.020 somebody made earlier in your stream which

02:03:38.500 was like I'll go play board games with

02:03:40.680 your kids and it's like dude when my kids

02:03:42.000 come up here they sit on my lap and I'll

02:03:44.260 show them a 4x game and a 4x game is far

02:03:46.620 more challenging and tactical and strategic

02:03:49.480 than playing chess like and I play chess

02:03:52.900 it's like yeah it's like I can teach them

02:03:54.960 that or at the same time I can show them

02:03:57.220 history on on some of these maps or other

02:03:59.460 things like that too historical events

02:04:02.480 there's plenty of games that deal with

02:04:04.220 that and so it's like these people think

02:04:06.940 it's like a it is an escapism just like

02:04:10.520 you know any any hobby is right but it's

02:04:14.680 not negative to the extent that people

02:04:16.760 think it is unless you have an extreme

02:04:18.320 addiction and you're neglecting specific

02:04:22.080 other things but the problem is is is I

02:04:24.440 think women tend to believe that any

02:04:28.900 attention that's not towards them is

02:04:31.480 neglect right in extreme ways because of

02:04:34.280 the social media addictions today the

02:04:36.500 self-love cults today and a lot of other

02:04:39.160 problems and I think that really leads

02:04:42.040 into a lot of the significant issues but

02:04:44.520 it's like it's like you know my kids

02:04:45.760 will come up here I'll have them play

02:04:47.440 games with me you know my wife very early

02:04:50.000 on when we had just gotten married I mean

02:04:53.020 she she was like should I buy a computer

02:04:54.760 to play with you because she was trying to

02:04:56.360 spend time with me and I was like I was

02:04:59.080 like up to you but I don't mind that you

02:05:01.340 know and it's it's it's definitely

02:05:03.320 something you can bond with and it's not

02:05:05.040 just fucking sorry sorry the language but

02:05:08.340 it's it's not just mindless MMOs that

02:05:11.240 people play all the time a lot of it is

02:05:13.340 strategic and tactical and and historical

02:05:16.120 and and story driven and like things that

02:05:19.980 make you have your mind think critically

02:05:22.720 and you know I still get up in the

02:05:25.660 morning and I go to the gym and I still

02:05:27.020 work out I still do all that stuff you

02:05:28.920 know and it's like it's just it's the

02:05:32.920 solipsism today among women and I think it

02:05:35.760 goes to something you said earlier which

02:05:37.500 was that there really is nobody holding

02:05:40.320 them accountable anymore for their

02:05:41.960 solipsism and they're kind of very

02:05:44.680 egocentric mindset and the problem is is

02:05:48.240 that children have egocentric mindsets and

02:05:50.540 so this egocentric solipsism is is childish at

02:05:54.520 best like that's the real childish childish

02:05:56.520 behavior thinking that you yourself deserve

02:06:00.460 all the attention of the world and that

02:06:02.920 there aren't more important things at

02:06:05.560 stake whether it's socially whether it's

02:06:08.660 culturally or whether it's your own

02:06:10.400 children yeah what are when do you think

02:06:14.160 have do you know anyone where it's become

02:06:16.180 a problem video games yes I I do I do know

02:06:20.980 that um and I think what I tend to observe

02:06:25.100 when it becomes a problem is usually when

02:06:29.200 the individual can't even hold down a job

02:06:32.520 right but most men are holding down jobs

02:06:35.220 while while playing video games or whatever

02:06:37.840 else it is it's more of like an excessiveness

02:06:40.560 where they become some sort of like incel you

02:06:43.240 know like they're living in their mom's

02:06:44.900 basement which is where that whole thing

02:06:46.200 comes from because I mean I saw people like

02:06:48.100 that when I was growing up at a young age

02:06:49.820 too like my my brother used to take me to

02:06:52.380 his his girlfriend's house when I was like

02:06:53.900 14 all the time you know we'd walk there

02:06:55.840 and uh he had the she had this cousin that

02:06:59.180 like literally just sat in his room and like

02:07:01.080 you could see like the the oil on his face

02:07:04.980 and the sweat and everything else like that

02:07:06.860 all the time it was just it was nasty but it

02:07:10.500 you know I could also see that that guy had

02:07:12.900 some significant other issues going on in

02:07:15.020 his life as well um and he didn't really have

02:07:18.600 a wife or kids or anything like that so

02:07:20.680 it's not like he was going to achieve any

02:07:22.240 of those things anyways to be honest this

02:07:25.360 it's out of the five smartest people I know

02:07:29.480 I'd say like three or four of them play

02:07:31.360 video games that are guys yeah yeah like

02:07:34.780 it's also very high IQ some of them I don't

02:07:38.440 really know games like that but I think some

02:07:40.460 of them you have to be pretty high IQ to be

02:07:42.280 good at that that's very true yeah I don't

02:07:48.120 I don't know the difference I couldn't tell

02:07:50.420 you but I've just noticed like even with my

02:07:53.420 brothers like one of my brothers is really

02:07:55.180 smart and some of the games I've seen him

02:07:56.880 like play or just look very complicated to

02:07:59.680 me paradox games and 4x games 4x games are

02:08:03.520 like grand strategy games where like you're

02:08:05.380 you're managing all sorts of economic and

02:08:08.360 diplomatic tie things while also managing

02:08:11.100 military type things and governing all

02:08:13.280 sorts of stuff and it's like yeah yeah no

02:08:15.720 4x games and paradox games are a very big

02:08:18.420 thing too that a lot of men play so yeah

02:08:21.180 well you made some great points Daniel

02:08:23.820 thank you for calling in yeah thank you

02:08:27.600 Pearl thank you look I have such I have

02:08:30.940 such smart viewers I think you guys are all

02:08:33.060 so smart um let me get to the next like the

02:08:37.080 Pearl Reed Dane so I read that already

02:08:39.760 okay um Pearl that's not the norm again two

02:08:44.660 hours it's like body counts triple that

02:08:46.720 number okay let's say it's six hours and he

02:08:49.540 plays six seven eight nine ten eleven twelve

02:08:52.680 six to twelve that night you could say it's

02:08:54.520 a bit excessive

02:08:55.220 but I mean you could still do that and hold

02:08:59.560 a job like you could off work play go to

02:09:01.940 work um okay then Doug 100% true wait wait

02:09:09.460 Dane you're talking to a man who is a part

02:09:12.640 of the feminine lower Protestants who has

02:09:15.600 spent over three decades dealing with these

02:09:18.520 women scorning me but I didn't relent

02:09:21.040 I needed to hear these stories Dane uh T Carp

02:09:28.120 says God created the perfect place

02:09:29.980 everything's amazing in the Garden of Eden and

02:09:32.320 Eve still wasn't satisfied so men you

02:09:34.880 can't make her happy God literally couldn't

02:09:38.440 the problem with these guys who cry about

02:09:42.920 women ruining them

02:09:43.980 ruining their spaces is that they're too

02:09:46.520 worried about the women talking bad about

02:09:48.200 them so they don't stand up to them

02:09:50.940 P Damien you could cheat easily like sweet

02:09:57.320 charity and of all the bad bastards the

02:09:59.620 world despises springing surprises and

02:10:02.420 newer disguises you could cheat easily like

02:10:04.540 all charity don't know what that means but

02:10:07.080 okay Daniel signed up for the one year

02:10:09.460 support to Pearl and common sense thinking

02:10:11.960 thanks Daniel I appreciate thank you so

02:10:16.400 look at every yearly membership sponsors a

02:10:20.800 show now not every show we've gotten a

02:10:23.540 yearly membership but it would be nice to

02:10:25.300 get a yearly one every show I want to get

02:10:27.980 three or eight ten dollar a month ones then

02:10:31.480 guys then if you think I'm off the chain now

02:10:34.120 I'll even go further there's some things

02:10:37.120 that I draw back I have to say YouTube

02:10:39.140 please don't demonetize me like a little

02:10:41.340 bitch but I don't want to get kicked off

02:10:43.320 of YouTube you know so when I do that but

02:10:47.860 if I was YouTube free then I'd say F you

02:10:51.620 you know you know Crowder he does that he

02:10:53.320 got enough memberships on his website I'm

02:10:55.660 just telling you guys the challenges I

02:10:57.320 face here it's not some of these women

02:10:59.640 really try to ruin my life I mean they

02:11:01.480 call me a pedophile you know crazy is that

02:11:03.860 I'm like hey go watch your kids the

02:11:05.920 woman's like pedophile I'm like what the

02:11:07.580 fuck is wrong with you I'm like hey stop

02:11:10.380 arguing with me could you watch your

02:11:11.960 children she's like leave my kids out of

02:11:14.840 this I'm like what the fuck if they are

02:11:17.380 willing to throw that insult think about

02:11:19.580 what else they're willing to do

02:11:20.720 um Pearl I had a bachelor's in theology

02:11:25.380 but the reason I've never held a full-time

02:11:28.000 job in the church is because women run

02:11:30.240 the church and I won't submit to them I'm

02:11:32.040 not a simp or white knight telling weak

02:11:34.300 punk whining men to stop crying and take

02:11:36.400 responsibility for their lot in life and

02:11:38.420 tell the women to shut the hell up and

02:11:40.400 know their role is not simping that's

02:11:42.220 all I'm saying they go to call of duty

02:11:44.460 and feel all the powerful and tactical

02:11:46.280 and they can't put these women in their

02:11:48.340 places because they're afraid the woman

02:11:50.020 might complain

02:11:50.860 Doug there was a guy that was a

02:11:54.820 professional NBA 2k player he made

02:11:56.880 over 400k you're playing that game his

02:11:59.160 girl deleted his players because she

02:12:01.180 wanted him to spend more time with her if

02:12:03.420 he worked eight hours a day and six on

02:12:05.100 video games then how does he have time to

02:12:06.820 train his sons into men it's probably for

02:12:10.640 a guy that doesn't have kids Dane I mean

02:12:12.900 that's what okay she has a camera set to

02:12:16.180 film his reaction he got pissed because

02:12:18.180 she took away his way away his way to

02:12:20.520 make a living she had no idea how he made

02:12:22.460 his money and he paid all of the bills

02:12:24.780 six hours a day seven days a week is 42

02:12:27.140 hours that's a full-time okay full-time

02:12:29.720 I'll read the rest of your simpory but

02:12:31.980 it's only because you're paying me I'll

02:12:34.800 be honest and I'm still gonna say that

02:12:37.040 you're a simp I'm still gonna do it

02:12:38.540 Dane

02:12:38.880 simp simp simp Dane is s-i-m-p-i-n-g

02:12:44.520 relaxing and having his own space to

02:12:48.260 socialize isn't his purpose and providing

02:12:50.460 to us

02:12:51.020 t-cart pearl is simping for YouTube I do I

02:12:55.040 have to they put they put the the

02:12:57.580 metaphoric gun to my they're like we'll

02:13:01.300 delete your channel but you need to simp

02:13:03.500 a little bit I'm like I mean I know how

02:13:06.380 you guys feel you know they they treat me

02:13:09.100 like you guys because I talk about this

02:13:11.460 stuff

02:13:11.800 and and I could tell you guys stories of

02:13:18.400 the you know once I got yelled at I'm

02:13:23.400 not gonna tell this story I'm gonna hold

02:13:25.460 that one but men who are successful on

02:13:28.520 the level of your dad don't play six

02:13:30.160 hours of video games again do we need

02:13:32.320 more men like your dad are the ones we

02:13:33.960 see now I don't think most men are

02:13:35.680 capable of being my dad I'm not even

02:13:37.360 trying to be rude I'm his daughter and

02:13:40.280 I'm not capable of being my dad my dad

02:13:43.300 probably looks at me like a lazy kid do

02:13:45.240 you know what I mean like

02:13:46.140 like Dane I understand the sentiment but

02:13:51.280 men like my dad they're born do you know

02:13:55.720 I mean they're just one of those guys

02:13:57.040 that they don't rest and no matter how

02:14:00.120 much the normal guy tries to be Elon he

02:14:02.840 is not gonna be Elon Musk I'm sorry

02:14:05.340 okay Dane how is it simple now we're gonna

02:14:10.260 go back and forth Dane now we're gonna

02:14:12.740 argue in the chat you know I have a I have

02:14:15.240 a job I do I'm supposed to okay how is it

02:14:18.700 simping to tell men to stand up and do

02:14:20.500 what only men can do that's like telling

02:14:22.100 women to stop taking birth control I do

02:14:25.080 tell women well I have nuanced stuff on

02:14:28.300 on birth control I have a nuanced opinion

02:14:31.200 I used to think we should ban it and I

02:14:35.780 still do sometimes but then I see the

02:14:38.600 women that have kids and I'm like fuck

02:14:40.340 that woman should not have a kid oh hell

02:14:42.800 no and I know I know the pro-lifers what

02:14:46.240 they'll say is well every everyone should

02:14:48.160 have a right to life and I'm like yeah

02:14:49.700 but if we could prevent I mean I think

02:14:53.440 Ted Bundy was born to a single mother if

02:14:55.580 we could prevent I think it was a net a

02:14:59.480 net loss to society like you know like

02:15:02.360 preventing that if his mom took birth

02:15:05.200 control then there wouldn't have been

02:15:08.980 like 20 murders now I know what you're

02:15:10.420 thinking you're like Pearl the pro-lifers

02:15:12.560 is what they'll say they'll be like well

02:15:13.800 well but what's the argument they give

02:15:18.900 me and I'm not even pro-abortion I'm

02:15:21.180 really not but oh they're like we can't

02:15:23.420 know which ones are gonna end up crack

02:15:25.300 heads and which ones aren't I'm like

02:15:26.600 well I think there's a couple clues we

02:15:29.640 can tune in on like I think if we saw

02:15:32.740 most of the parenting now I don't think

02:15:37.260 men have total control right I mean I've

02:15:40.740 seen enough OnlyFans models and porn

02:15:42.760 stars with good parents to say you know

02:15:44.460 what some of these women just want to be

02:15:46.520 whores but I can tell you who is gonna

02:15:49.960 be a terrible mother like terrible god

02:15:53.780 awful terrible mom and I think you guys

02:15:56.240 can too I mean there's some people I'm

02:15:59.420 like you need to get your you need to

02:16:01.020 there's a reason they had nuns but I'm

02:16:03.060 not gonna expect these women nowadays to

02:16:05.360 do that I mean they're not gonna do it I

02:16:08.540 almost think maybe we should give you

02:16:10.120 know there's certain women I think we

02:16:12.500 should give like a tax incentive to get

02:16:15.660 a hysterectomy or whatever they call it

02:16:17.780 like we should certain women I'm like if

02:16:21.020 you've been on benefits for seven years

02:16:23.220 and and I'm not talking about like a

02:16:27.560 married woman that maybe they I don't

02:16:29.720 know but if you have made like x y and

02:16:33.000 z we could go back and forth about the

02:16:35.220 decisions right and I'm not saying there's

02:16:38.560 people that are low income that are smart

02:16:40.360 they make good decisions you don't like

02:16:42.280 they're just low income but I'm talking

02:16:44.800 about people that are outright

02:16:46.500 irresponsible like I saw I the other day

02:16:50.360 I saw a clip of this guy who said he

02:16:53.240 couldn't afford food with his family and

02:16:55.520 so he brought them into a store to eat

02:16:58.580 like they would literally like he said I'm

02:17:01.260 gonna we're gonna eat in the store today I

02:17:05.100 don't think he should reproduce I don't

02:17:06.480 think either of those parents should

02:17:07.740 reproduce like it's like x y and z but

02:17:10.460 I'm also not on the government forcing

02:17:13.520 that but I'd be okay with like a tax

02:17:15.380 incentive but I mean to be fair though

02:17:18.980 luckily most of those women I mean

02:17:22.900 they're not gonna be mothers anyway so

02:17:24.600 luckily Dane said I've lost my voice or

02:17:27.180 I'd call in I'm telling men to stop

02:17:28.840 neglect oh nice excuse Dane they're a

02:17:31.920 purpose for entertainment just like I'm

02:17:33.700 telling women to stop neglecting their

02:17:35.360 purpose by using birth control curveballs

02:17:38.060 gaming is more effective than binge

02:17:39.900 watching pearl defending that now we're

02:17:43.100 gonna keep going back and forth Dane

02:17:44.860 we're fighting like a married couple

02:17:47.320 with my chat you see how this is okay

02:17:51.720 defending men wasting time on video

02:17:54.020 games is like women who defend women

02:17:56.040 who want abortion abortion and birth

02:17:57.720 control both groups are neglecting their

02:17:59.560 design purpose so they can have fun

02:18:01.420 look at I got to defend some women on

02:18:05.120 birth control because I mean you've

02:18:06.720 seen him some of these women should not

02:18:08.540 reproduce

02:18:09.060 God like God help those have you ever

02:18:13.220 seen someone have a kid and you just

02:18:15.820 think God help those children like God

02:18:18.720 help them please God spare these kids

02:18:21.340 some sort of miracle okay so are the

02:18:24.560 guys hating on the video gamers for

02:18:26.340 playing more than two hours a gay this

02:18:28.080 stream has lasted two hours does this

02:18:29.980 count as the same no

02:18:31.680 stop it t car okay diesel diesel water

02:18:39.860 welcome to the show are you ready are

02:18:41.660 you cool to be on camera

02:18:42.880 yes yeah I can hear you what are your

02:18:47.180 thoughts on video games

02:18:48.640 okay so video games I haven't played

02:18:52.280 them in a long time I have a collection

02:18:54.780 of it like a hundred games and I play it

02:18:57.400 for like an hour and then I get bored and

02:18:59.480 then I don't play anymore but I like to

02:19:03.500 go back to what you were saying with the

02:19:05.860 abortion and how people shouldn't be

02:19:12.820 how some people shouldn't be parents I

02:19:15.480 think that's a good topic to be on if

02:19:17.420 you're gonna be on your video game all

02:19:19.080 the time and your kids gonna come up to

02:19:20.780 you and be like hey dad look what I got

02:19:22.600 and you're like shut up go away I'm

02:19:24.560 playing a game then no you shouldn't

02:19:26.940 have a kid or you shouldn't play video

02:19:28.360 games those are your choices

02:19:29.740 I don't know what else you think

02:19:34.840 well I guess it it depends to what

02:19:38.380 extent because I think some work and

02:19:41.460 you know if a guy's paying the bills

02:19:43.420 and you just want some time to

02:19:44.500 decompress what's the big deal if he

02:19:46.140 tells his kid to woman watch this kid

02:19:49.300 and that that's a perfect yeah two

02:19:54.360 parent household yeah one's busy the

02:19:57.160 other one takes care of it but like

02:19:59.020 what is it 70% of households are not

02:20:01.500 two parent these days well women don't

02:20:03.580 really work they just go pretend to

02:20:05.180 work

02:20:05.560 I'm not a woman I can't say that

02:20:09.400 and me personally I'm on disability so I

02:20:14.260 can't work but so you know yeah I have

02:20:18.680 no room to talk on that okay so your

02:20:23.140 thought is if you put the kid the video

02:20:25.220 games over your kids though that's

02:20:27.320 that's when it's a problem and you're

02:20:29.680 neglecting your duties as it like the

02:20:31.640 dude before said neglecting

02:20:33.440 responsibilities shirking

02:20:36.140 responsibilities if you have a

02:20:38.280 girlfriend and your girlfriend wants

02:20:41.340 to go out but you're busy playing a

02:20:43.220 video game and you choose to choose the

02:20:45.140 video game over here you're probably

02:20:46.620 going to be single so that's just a

02:20:49.760 fact but then we can go back to the

02:20:52.640 they never used to take it they never

02:20:55.720 used to have date nights in the old

02:20:57.260 days you know they never had a lot

02:21:00.080 they're on a farm like those history

02:21:03.520 well that's because they spent all their

02:21:06.140 time together and actually loved each

02:21:07.860 other instead of I'm going to use you

02:21:11.840 for money or I'm going to use you for

02:21:13.760 sex or I'm going to use you for fame or

02:21:16.240 whatever the purpose may be yeah there

02:21:19.660 was a connection back then that video

02:21:21.920 games and social media and propaganda

02:21:24.760 have completely depleted to the point

02:21:27.320 where people don't even understand how to

02:21:30.100 have a personal connection anymore I

02:21:32.840 don't know I just think he's not cheating

02:21:34.540 and if he's like a good guy he's

02:21:38.080 contributing and he wants to play video

02:21:41.380 games over a date now I don't think it's

02:21:42.920 that big of a deal okay okay once in a

02:21:46.920 while I would agree like how often like

02:21:50.840 once you're married how often do you need

02:21:52.500 date nights or like living together or

02:21:54.460 something okay what about dating though

02:21:58.340 when you first meet a chick and you get

02:22:00.500 you get her number you call her you go on

02:22:02.820 a couple dates you're like oh this is

02:22:04.560 great and then you get into a place

02:22:06.480 together and she finds out that you

02:22:08.080 spend all your time on playing video

02:22:10.660 games or whatever and you no longer

02:22:13.520 take her out it's like a chick getting

02:22:16.020 married and then not having sex with you

02:22:18.080 anymore

02:22:18.540 no I don't really think it's the same

02:22:21.820 what I don't really when when you get

02:22:25.740 married or let me rephrase that when I

02:22:28.240 got married my wife we had sex like once

02:22:31.680 every six months that's brutal we had sex

02:22:34.500 that's brutal that's brutal and so you

02:22:37.620 spend all your time with the dude or

02:22:39.720 chick because chicks are gamers too you

02:22:42.500 spend all your time with the gamer and

02:22:44.780 then you move in and find out that they're

02:22:47.160 a gamer you never knew that they spent all

02:22:49.340 the time away from me playing video games

02:22:51.640 and then you move in together and one or

02:22:56.180 the other plays video games all the time

02:22:58.120 and ignores you then you're gonna end up

02:23:00.620 single well yeah but the average woman

02:23:04.640 spending like eight hours a day on her

02:23:06.360 phone

02:23:06.840 that's the same thing I agree but the men

02:23:10.100 aren't dumping them over it

02:23:11.620 they should

02:23:12.740 yeah and on that note I want to clarify

02:23:17.820 what simping is apparently I'm out of the

02:23:20.880 lingo and what is simping exactly it's

02:23:23.620 putting women on a pedestal

02:23:25.300 okay yeah that's a that's a big

02:23:30.200 problem well thanks for calling in I

02:23:33.320 appreciate the perspective thank you

02:23:36.460 have a good one all right next in the

02:23:40.220 chat

02:23:40.660 I'm not our okay

02:23:45.740 oh my gosh you guys

02:23:54.900 okay Dane

02:23:58.200 Dane we're gonna have beef if we got to

02:24:02.440 go back and forth all this time

02:24:04.140 how is it simping to men tell men to

02:24:07.160 stand down and only do what men can do

02:24:09.080 oh wait I read that

02:24:10.000 Von Goon when is the simp song getting

02:24:13.740 laid down in the studio I don't stop

02:24:17.840 simping I could do like you know how

02:24:21.800 that Fergie song was like F like what

02:24:24.700 was it it was the Fergie song where she

02:24:26.560 said um glamorous hey I could do that

02:24:30.000 with simping all right um Dane defending

02:24:34.800 men wasting okay bro a hobby is a pearl

02:24:38.300 read forget to say that the only reason

02:24:40.540 men's gaming is an issue is because it

02:24:42.160 gives women a chance to be victims men

02:24:44.060 and women's female habits have been

02:24:46.400 there but now it can be used for clout

02:24:48.420 Dane I'm old but my understanding is

02:24:50.500 that letting women control you will get

02:24:52.620 you laid and oh yeah I mean that's

02:24:54.560 probably a better definition I was just

02:24:56.760 it was just off the off the dome my

02:25:00.160 understanding is that simping is letting

02:25:01.760 women control you and hoping you'll get

02:25:03.340 laid and white knight is defending

02:25:04.600 women's bad behavior hoping to get laid

02:25:06.580 this ain't none of that you win Dane you

02:25:11.920 win well no no actually no you don't

02:25:16.080 win because I'm a woman I've thought a

02:25:17.440 way I found a way to argue so no white

02:25:20.380 you're right now you're defending women

02:25:22.080 nagging on men's video games you might

02:25:26.360 not be hoping to get laid because you're

02:25:27.840 married but it just seems it screams

02:25:32.200 white knight sorry not sorry that's

02:25:35.140 basically the same type of excuses that

02:25:37.020 women use for weak behaviors well it's

02:25:38.780 better than such and such you and other

02:25:41.040 crying about women invading your spaces

02:25:43.780 have a victim mentality your argument

02:25:45.820 that wasting time is better than getting

02:25:47.720 shot or some other tragic and unhealthy

02:25:50.100 act is the same tactic woman used to

02:25:53.360 avoid the truth of my arguments date I

02:25:57.000 mean I'm just saying not every hobby is

02:26:00.340 got to be that bad I mean no one's going

02:26:02.360 to be productive 24 hours a day except my

02:26:04.420 dad he really is I don't okay Pearl I'm

02:26:07.700 gonna make a book called Lord of the

02:26:09.400 bitches kind of like Lord of the Flies

02:26:11.960 how many hours do women spend reading

02:26:14.500 romance novels Daniel my dad is the most

02:26:17.160 stoic individual no complaining and

02:26:19.020 built like an empire so Pearl go and

02:26:20.920 make it happen and build your empire

02:26:22.340 hardship and you'll make you'll make it

02:26:24.480 happen thank you I'm trying I mean I'm

02:26:28.140 I'm doing what I can you know this is

02:26:30.540 the question of alpha or beta come into

02:26:32.300 play men escaping their families with six

02:26:34.700 hours a day and crying about how women

02:26:36.280 run them out beta man up and lead that

02:26:38.740 okay Ronaldo there isn't an argument I'm

02:26:42.960 trying to relax and have fun I'm gonna

02:26:44.780 relax and no one's gonna tell me what to

02:26:46.680 do Pearl women spending eight hours a day

02:26:49.000 on their phone doesn't justify men

02:26:50.640 wasting productive time gaming I'm not

02:26:52.500 women woman I'm not pedestalizing women

02:26:56.800 I'm not I ain't simping beef beef beef you

02:26:59.760 know I love what you do but come on

02:27:01.060 ignoring the weak men needs to happen to

02:27:03.700 these women were raised by women think

02:27:06.500 about that gazelle love is like a fart if

02:27:08.980 you add a little bit of pressure it turns

02:27:10.640 into shit thank you for that gazelle

02:27:13.320 then at working lifting marital arts

02:27:16.740 studying a useful subject and going to

02:27:18.960 sleep at a decent time that's a man's

02:27:20.900 needs do all that and you won't have time

02:27:23.500 for think about video games Pearl I'm not

02:27:27.720 defending a nagging woman when we were

02:27:29.320 married Deej would start nagging me and I

02:27:31.080 call her down it's been 35 years I know

02:27:33.280 how to handle a crazy woman ain't a simp

02:27:35.460 here okay I have one more caller guys

02:27:38.600 this is my last caller today Ronald

02:27:41.440 Dolfo you did not get blocked you're

02:27:43.260 still there all right welcome Sean are

02:27:46.420 you good to be on camera yeah I'm good to

02:27:49.120 be on camera hey Pearl hey what are your

02:27:51.060 thoughts on video games oh yeah I mean my

02:27:54.500 thoughts are that you know it helps

02:27:56.140 stimulate the mind you know for sure and

02:27:58.620 you know I know a lot of folks that are

02:28:00.060 like kind of high-end professions so like

02:28:02.300 surgeons traders things like that it

02:28:04.940 kind of helps them with their

02:28:05.720 profession because they have to be able

02:28:06.840 to think fast and actually have like

02:28:08.600 good manual dexterity so it certainly is

02:28:11.620 helpful from that standpoint as well but

02:28:14.340 not everyone works that kind of job

02:28:15.920 right so you have some people who work

02:28:17.640 in the Amazon warehouse right and they

02:28:20.200 probably get cussed out at you know they

02:28:22.160 don't really have a good experience at

02:28:23.680 work being able to escape from that and

02:28:25.740 you know kind of be the hero of the

02:28:27.600 story and some sort of role-playing game

02:28:29.580 that they're playing you know that kind

02:28:31.260 of gives them a break from you know the

02:28:33.120 crap that comes with life right yeah so I

02:28:35.360 think it's a net positive as far as you

02:28:38.500 know women who kind of complain about it I

02:28:40.740 don't personally get any complaints but I

02:28:42.420 have a lot of friends who do usually when I

02:28:45.240 see it it's because the girl is kind of

02:28:48.040 upset at that guy for something else it's

02:28:50.580 not really the video games per se it's

02:28:53.480 you know she feels like she's competing

02:28:55.300 with his time for attention because he's

02:28:58.560 playing a few hours of video games instead

02:29:00.200 of going for a walk with her or giving her

02:29:03.100 some sort of one-on-one attention for her

02:29:04.700 to kind of complain things like that or I

02:29:07.360 would say it's because you know something

02:29:09.300 else that she's comparing him to like there

02:29:11.580 might be other guys in the neighborhood or

02:29:13.280 at her church who are highly successful and

02:29:16.600 he's maybe making 50k a year or something

02:29:18.540 like that and she's kind of looking down on

02:29:20.280 that and she's thinking well he could be

02:29:22.020 doing better I see all these guys doing

02:29:23.540 better right well maybe if he took those

02:29:25.720 two to three hours of playing video games

02:29:27.400 maybe he could be making more money maybe

02:29:29.640 we could go on better trips we're not

02:29:31.120 always worried about finances things like

02:29:33.640 that is where I see the complaints really

02:29:35.680 coming in but they're not really voiced

02:29:37.180 directly in that way right no one's really

02:29:39.560 gonna tell you hey I'm mad at you because

02:29:41.500 you're broke or I'm mad at you because

02:29:43.280 you're fat because you could have spent

02:29:44.880 those two hours at the gym or something

02:29:46.160 like that they're gonna say why are you

02:29:48.000 always playing video games it's gonna be

02:29:49.700 very passive aggressive that's what I've

02:29:51.300 kind of noticed yeah that actually makes a

02:29:53.240 lot of sense she's seeing she's seeing all

02:29:55.920 the other husbands getting promoted at work

02:29:57.960 and she's like with that yeah I mean if a

02:30:00.600 guy's making 500k a year or a million

02:30:02.500 dollars a year and he plays four hours of

02:30:04.720 video games a day he's not gonna get any

02:30:06.420 complaints right but if he's making like

02:30:08.080 40 50k he's only you know paying 50% of

02:30:11.400 the bills stuff like that that's where

02:30:13.880 she's gonna start getting upset because

02:30:15.380 she's gonna be like hey you know Becky

02:30:17.180 down the street her husband takes care of

02:30:18.940 everything takes care of the mortgage the

02:30:20.720 utilities the trips this that and the

02:30:22.900 other you know she's not having to pay

02:30:24.500 anything and I got to do my 50% because

02:30:26.980 you know he doesn't want to move up or he

02:30:29.520 doesn't want to get promoted or or whatever

02:30:31.200 it might be yeah that makes a lot of sense

02:30:33.980 that's a really good point Sean thank you

02:30:37.220 thank you very much for calling in you're

02:30:39.520 my last caller today thanks girl call in

02:30:43.080 any time okay see you rest of your comments

02:30:46.000 only cuz you're on my website guys you got

02:30:51.600 to join I even if even if he's trying to

02:30:53.780 roast me week I'll read them you know what

02:30:57.820 I mean Pearl I'm a combat veteran of the

02:31:00.680 world war de-a-dry and believe me if I were a

02:31:04.440 weak-ass simp or white knight we wouldn't

02:31:06.240 be married um but relax man it seems like

02:31:11.980 you're having a Vietnamese flashback and

02:31:14.000 you may need to sign back up and get a

02:31:15.820 purple heart my man Dane look I waste my

02:31:19.180 time in different ways but I'm man enough

02:31:20.820 to look at that weakness and since I'm a

02:31:23.040 man work to improve myself to be more

02:31:24.960 responsible and a better example to my

02:31:27.080 sons Damien why did God create yeast

02:31:30.760 infections so women can know what it's

02:31:33.980 like to live with an irritated cunt okay

02:31:37.880 not a um stop the tone policing we have

02:31:41.600 plenty of women do that crazy Kyle trust

02:31:44.740 me no woman in my life would say that I'm

02:31:46.660 a simp or a white knight okay okay all

02:31:51.620 right Dane you win okay um thank you guys

02:31:57.820 so much for watching please like the

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JustPearlyThings - January 31, 2025

Women Hate When Men Play Video Games (Call-In Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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