JustPearlyThings - November 02, 2023


Women Have An Expiration Date


Episode Stats

Length

11 minutes

Words per Minute

177.70808

Word Count

2,002

Sentence Count

255

Misogynist Sentences

41

Hate Speech Sentences

12


Summary

Is there an expiration date where women are considered too old to have kids? Is there an age at which a woman is no longer worth starting a family? Is it too late in life for a woman to have a kid if she doesn t take care of herself?


Transcript

00:00:00.000 I tweeted a couple of months ago and I had a very profound and amazing tweet and I said
00:00:06.060 25 year old women are hotter than 35 year old women.
00:00:10.900 Now to me I just thought this was basic, oh she's shocked, she's like oh no.
00:00:16.760 To me I just thought this was basic, water is wet, the sky is blue, younger women tend
00:00:21.920 to be more attractive than older women.
00:00:24.380 And it got me to thinking, you know, is there a date or is there an age where women are
00:00:29.800 over where they're basically considered just for fun for men, where they're too old to start
00:00:35.080 a family with and they would not consider them long term.
00:00:38.520 I also wondered if there were any exceptions to this, like if she was really hot, like
00:00:43.260 she's 47 but she's an eight, she looks like JLo, was there an exception?
00:00:49.560 I don't know, I thought we would ask the panel today.
00:00:52.140 So it also was inspired during this video that I saw, which was women documenting their
00:00:58.100 experience really with dating after divorce.
00:01:01.740 Let's pull it up.
00:01:07.020 I can't hear it, King.
00:01:09.020 Know that your best years are ahead of you.
00:01:12.420 Much fun.
00:01:13.420 Yeah, so much fun.
00:01:20.140 Yeah, so there we go.
00:01:22.520 So my question is, is there an age that women expire at starting here and then go around?
00:01:28.100 Um, I would say no, especially like this day and age, we have TikTok and everything and
00:01:32.140 we see like, all these older women flaunting, you know, their appearances and everything.
00:01:36.800 I would say, um, women don't expire.
00:01:39.380 No.
00:01:40.100 Okay.
00:01:41.100 Go ahead.
00:01:42.100 Um, I know we've kind of had this conversation before when I've been on the show before and
00:01:45.980 you basically told me after 25, you're done.
00:01:48.060 No, I didn't say after you're 25, you're done.
00:01:50.060 Was it 30?
00:01:51.060 No.
00:01:52.060 It's like, you're basically not worth it.
00:01:53.060 No, no, no.
00:01:54.060 I said it.
00:01:55.060 I said it.
00:01:56.060 I said, no, no.
00:01:57.060 This is what I said.
00:01:58.060 You wouldn't want to get over 25 because most of the time they're so set in their ways.
00:02:04.760 It's like, you can't, the feminism is like in the ears and stuff.
00:02:08.240 There's exceptions though, but most of them, yeah.
00:02:11.620 Go ahead.
00:02:12.620 Do women expire?
00:02:13.620 Wait, what do you think though?
00:02:14.620 Don't, I didn't ask you what I thought.
00:02:16.620 How did you dodge this question?
00:02:19.620 What do you think?
00:02:20.760 I have my opinions.
00:02:22.000 Go ahead.
00:02:23.000 Personally, I think 30.
00:02:25.000 30.
00:02:26.000 Okay.
00:02:27.000 Women are expired.
00:02:28.000 30 though.
00:02:29.000 Yeah.
00:02:30.000 I'm expired.
00:02:31.000 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:02:33.000 You just put yourself out of the game.
00:02:35.000 Yeah.
00:02:36.000 You put yourself out of the game.
00:02:37.000 Did you say you're single as well?
00:02:39.000 Yeah.
00:02:40.000 You just put yourself dirty.
00:02:42.000 There's some humility in this trick.
00:02:44.000 You know, go ahead.
00:02:45.000 When are women expired?
00:02:46.000 I do think it's individual.
00:02:48.000 I'm older than some of the people here today.
00:02:51.000 Okay.
00:02:52.000 And yeah, I do think it's individual.
00:02:53.000 I think if someone looks after themselves, they look after their appearance and they're a good
00:02:56.940 person.
00:02:57.940 Then, you know, there's no expiration date.
00:03:00.940 No, I do think there's, there is.
00:03:02.940 Okay.
00:03:03.940 You can push it a bit further.
00:03:04.940 Okay.
00:03:05.940 So when, when is the expiration date for someone that takes care of themselves?
00:03:08.940 So I don't think I've expired at the age of 40.
00:03:11.940 So that, that's all I can say.
00:03:12.940 Okay.
00:03:13.940 Well, I didn't ask about you.
00:03:14.940 I asked about when do, I asked when do women expire?
00:03:18.940 Yeah.
00:03:19.940 So let's say, give me a girl that takes care of herself and a girl that doesn't.
00:03:22.940 Okay.
00:03:23.940 So a girl that doesn't take care of herself.
00:03:25.940 Well, is she ever in the game if she's not taking care of herself?
00:03:28.940 Is she?
00:03:29.940 Well, I mean, haven't you heard that Patrice O'Neill thing that where it's like a ugly 18 year old is still hotter than a hot 30 year old?
00:03:36.940 No.
00:03:37.940 No.
00:03:38.940 Yeah.
00:03:39.940 Well, no, I don't agree.
00:03:40.940 I don't agree.
00:03:41.940 Well, older women typically don't.
00:03:43.940 No offense.
00:03:46.940 Well, that's it.
00:03:47.940 No, because think about it.
00:03:49.940 It's like at 40, at 40 or 45, a guy can't get a kid out of you.
00:03:54.940 The 18 year old can lose weight.
00:03:56.940 No, I think you can have a child at 40.
00:03:58.940 Yeah, but it's not, it's not probable.
00:04:00.940 I think it's doable.
00:04:02.940 If you've looked after yourself.
00:04:03.940 It's not likely.
00:04:04.940 You're on the carnivore diet.
00:04:05.940 You're good.
00:04:06.940 Okay.
00:04:07.940 Okay.
00:04:08.940 So what age does a woman that takes care of herself expire?
00:04:11.940 Maybe she needs to be settled down by 45 at the most.
00:04:19.940 Okay.
00:04:20.940 45.
00:04:21.940 Go ahead.
00:04:22.940 I don't think that we, that women have an expiration date just purely because different
00:04:28.940 needs are met at different ages.
00:04:32.940 So I might have been really for someone when I was younger, but really even more for them when
00:04:39.940 I'm older.
00:04:40.940 Once I've experienced a few more.
00:04:42.940 So I am over 30, but I don't think I'm expired.
00:04:45.940 Okay.
00:04:46.940 I didn't ask about you.
00:04:47.940 But when do women.
00:04:48.940 Oh, it's me.
00:04:49.940 I said, no, no.
00:04:50.940 So they never expire.
00:04:51.940 So at 55, she is equally as wanted on the market as she was at 25.
00:04:57.940 She could be wanted by, it depends on who wants her.
00:05:01.940 This is what I'm saying.
00:05:02.940 So it's like, depends on men.
00:05:04.940 So men of what age?
00:05:06.940 So an older man might appreciate the more older woman.
00:05:09.940 He might've had enough of the younger.
00:05:10.940 I'll tell you what they surveyed men between the ages of like 20 and 80.
00:05:14.940 And they all found 22 year olds, roughly the most attractive.
00:05:18.940 What women women?
00:05:19.940 Yeah.
00:05:20.940 22.
00:05:21.940 Yeah.
00:05:22.940 Why are they youthful?
00:05:23.940 I remember 22.
00:05:24.940 Yeah.
00:05:25.940 Yeah.
00:05:26.940 But it's like, if we, if we don't expire, why do women get Botox to look younger?
00:05:30.940 I don't know.
00:05:31.940 I don't know.
00:05:32.940 They want to be more youthful, reminiscing.
00:05:35.940 Right.
00:05:36.940 But it's like, we almost know that we do because we all try to look young.
00:05:39.940 Yeah, it's true.
00:05:40.940 Okay.
00:05:41.940 So, so we do expire.
00:05:42.940 What age?
00:05:43.940 I don't think we expire.
00:05:45.940 I don't think we expired just because we want to be youthful.
00:05:49.940 Just because we want to be youthful doesn't mean that women expire.
00:05:52.940 Women do not expire.
00:05:53.940 Okay.
00:05:54.940 Women are okay.
00:05:55.940 Go ahead.
00:05:56.940 What about you?
00:05:57.940 Expiration dates.
00:05:58.940 Well, it depends on what, what exactly what she said or the fact that who, again, men,
00:06:04.940 but what's the purpose?
00:06:06.940 So milk can go off, but I'm sure once it's off, you can use it for something else.
00:06:10.940 Well, yeah, that's when they become, that's when like side chicks for sure.
00:06:13.940 No, I know.
00:06:14.940 I agree with you.
00:06:15.940 They, they, they tend to, women tend to accept that when they're older.
00:06:20.940 No, they do.
00:06:21.940 Yeah.
00:06:22.940 I mean, again, I think it depends on what it is that you want out of the person.
00:06:27.940 Well, I would say, I would say for a long-term relationship or marriage.
00:06:32.940 When are women?
00:06:33.940 Long-term.
00:06:34.940 If you pass the middle age, what is long-term?
00:06:35.940 Long-term these days can be two years.
00:06:36.940 Long-term can be.
00:06:37.940 Okay.
00:06:38.940 So, but when a man is looking for a woman to settle down with, is there an age where women
00:06:51.940 typically are expired just based on their age?
00:06:54.940 Biologically.
00:06:55.940 Yeah.
00:06:56.940 And if you look after yourself or not, I'd hope that a woman that's looked after themselves
00:06:59.940 biologically, hopefully the clock can push to 40 plus.
00:07:03.940 Okay.
00:07:04.940 40, 40.
00:07:05.940 Plus.
00:07:06.940 Okay.
00:07:07.940 So 50, is she expired?
00:07:09.940 Biologically perhaps.
00:07:11.940 Okay.
00:07:12.940 Thank you.
00:07:13.940 I'm actually going to do the men's second.
00:07:14.940 So I'm going to go Christine and then I'm going to ask the guys.
00:07:18.940 I mean, we're talking about the dating market here.
00:07:21.940 Yeah.
00:07:22.940 So we're talking about the general rule.
00:07:23.940 Of course there are exceptions.
00:07:25.940 I mean, someone like Rachel, you don't look 40, right?
00:07:28.940 Truth is most 40 year olds don't look like you.
00:07:30.940 So if we're talking the majority, I would say 27, 28.
00:07:36.940 27, 28 expired.
00:07:39.940 Okay.
00:07:40.940 Let's go to the men.
00:07:42.940 When do women expire for you for long-term prospects?
00:07:46.940 I'll make this loud and clear.
00:07:47.940 Women do expire.
00:07:50.940 You get to about 30 years old and there's no point in getting married.
00:07:54.940 There's no point in having kids and stuff like that.
00:07:56.940 Imagine having a kid at 40 years old and then being 50 with a 10 year old.
00:08:00.940 Yeah.
00:08:01.940 That's kind of crazy.
00:08:02.940 So for you over 30, you're kind of dumb.
00:08:05.940 Over 30, there's no hope in a long-term relationship and planning marriage and all that kind of stuff.
00:08:10.940 I'll say over 30, it's just...
00:08:13.940 So I have a question.
00:08:14.940 What if she's 30 but she looks like J-Lo at 30?
00:08:17.940 Would you make an exception?
00:08:18.940 For me?
00:08:19.940 Me personally?
00:08:20.940 Yeah.
00:08:21.940 It's a smash and dab.
00:08:22.940 You're still...
00:08:23.940 It doesn't matter what she looks like.
00:08:24.940 30?
00:08:25.940 Okay.
00:08:26.940 What about you?
00:08:27.940 I just think it's like the terminology expiration for me is a bit harsh.
00:08:32.940 So I don't really want to talk on it on that sense of using that terminology.
00:08:37.940 But what I will say is I don't think there's an expiration date.
00:08:41.940 It is what it is.
00:08:42.940 So...
00:08:43.940 Your own individuality.
00:08:44.940 But I'm asking for you.
00:08:46.940 For...
00:08:47.940 Regarding women.
00:08:48.940 Yeah.
00:08:49.940 If I'm dating somebody and their head's screwed on and we're both getting it together, then
00:08:54.940 I'm not looking at her in that aspect of an expiration date.
00:08:57.940 Do you want kids and like a family?
00:08:59.940 Oh, I've got kids.
00:09:00.940 Okay.
00:09:01.940 You've got kids.
00:09:02.940 I'm single but I've got kids but I would love to...
00:09:03.940 Okay.
00:09:04.940 I'm a family man.
00:09:05.940 You understand?
00:09:06.940 So I could...
00:09:07.940 I'm 36.
00:09:08.940 I could see someone that's 40 or so forth.
00:09:09.940 I'm not going to say she's expired.
00:09:10.940 Okay.
00:09:11.940 So 40.
00:09:12.940 But what about 50?
00:09:13.940 I don't want to say the word expiration.
00:09:15.940 Maybe we've got to a point of it's coming to your time.
00:09:20.940 Okay.
00:09:21.940 And in a respectful way.
00:09:23.940 But yeah.
00:09:24.940 Okay.
00:09:25.940 So roughly for you 50.
00:09:26.940 I'd say yeah.
00:09:27.940 What about 45?
00:09:28.940 That's cool for me.
00:09:29.940 45 and under.
00:09:30.940 Yeah.
00:09:31.940 Okay.
00:09:32.940 He doesn't discriminate.
00:09:33.940 Sterling, what about you?
00:09:35.940 To the same age that I think women will start to pay a lot more attention to themselves
00:09:41.940 and put a lot more effort and work in to being beautiful is the same age where I cut it off
00:09:47.940 and that's 24.
00:09:48.940 24.
00:09:49.940 Yeah.
00:09:50.940 That's very good.
00:09:51.940 And what's the difference?
00:09:52.940 Like what makes you pick 24?
00:09:55.940 Typically less indoctrination, like less feminism, more feminine because they've got
00:10:02.940 less years in the workforce being in like their masculine energy.
00:10:06.940 Kind of having that drilled into them all the time.
00:10:09.940 Yeah.
00:10:10.940 The primary reason is there's a lot more runway for making a family.
00:10:13.940 Like there's a lot more years on the clock.
00:10:15.940 I want a lot of kids.
00:10:16.940 I want a big family.
00:10:17.940 You can really only crank out like one a year.
00:10:19.940 She needs some time off.
00:10:20.940 Right?
00:10:21.940 Maybe if she's got twins in the family, maybe twins run the family.
00:10:24.940 Cool.
00:10:25.940 We can crank out two a year.
00:10:26.940 Excellent.
00:10:27.940 Everyone loves to buy one, get one free.
00:10:29.940 If that's coming out, if she's guaranteeing twins, we can push that timeframe up a little
00:10:33.940 bit.
00:10:34.940 But the womb needs the rest.
00:10:35.940 Yeah.
00:10:36.940 Like, you know, I want a lot of kids.
00:10:37.940 We're going to need some runway.
00:10:40.940 And like.
00:10:41.940 The younger a woman has kids, the older she can actually keep having kids until the danger
00:10:47.940 becomes when a woman has a first kid in like the later years of her life.
00:10:52.940 That's when you get things like geriatric pregnancy.
00:10:54.940 You have to have C-sections.
00:10:55.940 Otherwise, there's serious dangers there.
00:10:58.940 Like my mother.
00:10:59.940 She had me.
00:11:00.940 She's the exception to the rule.
00:11:01.940 She had me at like 37.
00:11:02.940 She was worried I was going to have down syndrome because that's one of the complications of a
00:11:06.940 generic geriatric pregnancy, like more likely and stuff like that.
00:11:09.940 So.
00:11:10.940 So.
00:11:11.940 So.
00:11:12.940 So.
00:11:13.940 So.
00:11:14.940 So.