JustPearlyThings - November 02, 2023


Women Have An Expiration Date


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Is there an expiration date where women are considered too old to have kids? Is there an age at which a woman is no longer worth starting a family? Is it too late in life for a woman to have a kid if she doesn t take care of herself?

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00:00:00.000 I tweeted a couple of months ago and I had a very profound and amazing tweet and I said
00:00:06.060 25 year old women are hotter than 35 year old women. 1.00
00:00:10.900 Now to me I just thought this was basic, oh she's shocked, she's like oh no.
00:00:16.760 To me I just thought this was basic, water is wet, the sky is blue, younger women tend 1.00
00:00:21.920 to be more attractive than older women. 0.99
00:00:24.380 And it got me to thinking, you know, is there a date or is there an age where women are
00:00:29.800 over where they're basically considered just for fun for men, where they're too old to start
00:00:35.080 a family with and they would not consider them long term.
00:00:38.520 I also wondered if there were any exceptions to this, like if she was really hot, like 1.00
00:00:43.260 she's 47 but she's an eight, she looks like JLo, was there an exception?
00:00:49.560 I don't know, I thought we would ask the panel today.
00:00:52.140 So it also was inspired during this video that I saw, which was women documenting their
00:00:58.100 experience really with dating after divorce.
00:01:01.740 Let's pull it up.
00:01:07.020 I can't hear it, King.
00:01:09.020 Know that your best years are ahead of you.
00:01:12.420 Much fun.
00:01:13.420 Yeah, so much fun.
00:01:20.140 Yeah, so there we go.
00:01:22.520 So my question is, is there an age that women expire at starting here and then go around? 0.81
00:01:28.100 Um, I would say no, especially like this day and age, we have TikTok and everything and
00:01:32.140 we see like, all these older women flaunting, you know, their appearances and everything. 0.97
00:01:36.800 I would say, um, women don't expire. 1.00
00:01:39.380 No.
00:01:40.100 Okay.
00:01:41.100 Go ahead.
00:01:42.100 Um, I know we've kind of had this conversation before when I've been on the show before and
00:01:45.980 you basically told me after 25, you're done.
00:01:48.060 No, I didn't say after you're 25, you're done.
00:01:50.060 Was it 30?
00:01:51.060 No.
00:01:52.060 It's like, you're basically not worth it.
00:01:53.060 No, no, no.
00:01:54.060 I said it.
00:01:55.060 I said it.
00:01:56.060 I said, no, no.
00:01:57.060 This is what I said.
00:01:58.060 You wouldn't want to get over 25 because most of the time they're so set in their ways.
00:02:04.760 It's like, you can't, the feminism is like in the ears and stuff. 1.00
00:02:08.240 There's exceptions though, but most of them, yeah.
00:02:11.620 Go ahead.
00:02:12.620 Do women expire? 1.00
00:02:13.620 Wait, what do you think though?
00:02:14.620 Don't, I didn't ask you what I thought.
00:02:16.620 How did you dodge this question?
00:02:19.620 What do you think?
00:02:20.760 I have my opinions.
00:02:22.000 Go ahead.
00:02:23.000 Personally, I think 30.
00:02:25.000 30.
00:02:26.000 Okay.
00:02:27.000 Women are expired. 1.00
00:02:28.000 30 though.
00:02:29.000 Yeah.
00:02:30.000 I'm expired.
00:02:31.000 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:02:33.000 You just put yourself out of the game.
00:02:35.000 Yeah.
00:02:36.000 You put yourself out of the game.
00:02:37.000 Did you say you're single as well?
00:02:39.000 Yeah. 0.99
00:02:40.000 You just put yourself dirty.
00:02:42.000 There's some humility in this trick.
00:02:44.000 You know, go ahead.
00:02:45.000 When are women expired? 1.00
00:02:46.000 I do think it's individual.
00:02:48.000 I'm older than some of the people here today.
00:02:51.000 Okay.
00:02:52.000 And yeah, I do think it's individual.
00:02:53.000 I think if someone looks after themselves, they look after their appearance and they're a good
00:02:56.940 person.
00:02:57.940 Then, you know, there's no expiration date.
00:03:00.940 No, I do think there's, there is.
00:03:02.940 Okay.
00:03:03.940 You can push it a bit further.
00:03:04.940 Okay.
00:03:05.940 So when, when is the expiration date for someone that takes care of themselves?
00:03:08.940 So I don't think I've expired at the age of 40.
00:03:11.940 So that, that's all I can say.
00:03:12.940 Okay.
00:03:13.940 Well, I didn't ask about you.
00:03:14.940 I asked about when do, I asked when do women expire? 1.00
00:03:18.940 Yeah.
00:03:19.940 So let's say, give me a girl that takes care of herself and a girl that doesn't. 1.00
00:03:22.940 Okay.
00:03:23.940 So a girl that doesn't take care of herself. 1.00
00:03:25.940 Well, is she ever in the game if she's not taking care of herself? 0.92
00:03:28.940 Is she?
00:03:29.940 Well, I mean, haven't you heard that Patrice O'Neill thing that where it's like a ugly 18 year old is still hotter than a hot 30 year old? 1.00
00:03:36.940 No.
00:03:37.940 No.
00:03:38.940 Yeah.
00:03:39.940 Well, no, I don't agree.
00:03:40.940 I don't agree.
00:03:41.940 Well, older women typically don't. 1.00
00:03:43.940 No offense.
00:03:46.940 Well, that's it.
00:03:47.940 No, because think about it.
00:03:49.940 It's like at 40, at 40 or 45, a guy can't get a kid out of you.
00:03:54.940 The 18 year old can lose weight.
00:03:56.940 No, I think you can have a child at 40.
00:03:58.940 Yeah, but it's not, it's not probable.
00:04:00.940 I think it's doable.
00:04:02.940 If you've looked after yourself.
00:04:03.940 It's not likely.
00:04:04.940 You're on the carnivore diet.
00:04:05.940 You're good.
00:04:06.940 Okay.
00:04:07.940 Okay.
00:04:08.940 So what age does a woman that takes care of herself expire? 1.00
00:04:11.940 Maybe she needs to be settled down by 45 at the most. 1.00
00:04:19.940 Okay.
00:04:20.940 45.
00:04:21.940 Go ahead.
00:04:22.940 I don't think that we, that women have an expiration date just purely because different 0.87
00:04:28.940 needs are met at different ages.
00:04:32.940 So I might have been really for someone when I was younger, but really even more for them when
00:04:39.940 I'm older.
00:04:40.940 Once I've experienced a few more.
00:04:42.940 So I am over 30, but I don't think I'm expired.
00:04:45.940 Okay.
00:04:46.940 I didn't ask about you.
00:04:47.940 But when do women. 1.00
00:04:48.940 Oh, it's me.
00:04:49.940 I said, no, no.
00:04:50.940 So they never expire.
00:04:51.940 So at 55, she is equally as wanted on the market as she was at 25.
00:04:57.940 She could be wanted by, it depends on who wants her. 1.00
00:05:01.940 This is what I'm saying.
00:05:02.940 So it's like, depends on men.
00:05:04.940 So men of what age?
00:05:06.940 So an older man might appreciate the more older woman. 0.98
00:05:09.940 He might've had enough of the younger.
00:05:10.940 I'll tell you what they surveyed men between the ages of like 20 and 80.
00:05:14.940 And they all found 22 year olds, roughly the most attractive.
00:05:18.940 What women women? 1.00
00:05:19.940 Yeah.
00:05:20.940 22.
00:05:21.940 Yeah.
00:05:22.940 Why are they youthful?
00:05:23.940 I remember 22.
00:05:24.940 Yeah.
00:05:25.940 Yeah.
00:05:26.940 But it's like, if we, if we don't expire, why do women get Botox to look younger?
00:05:30.940 I don't know.
00:05:31.940 I don't know.
00:05:32.940 They want to be more youthful, reminiscing.
00:05:35.940 Right.
00:05:36.940 But it's like, we almost know that we do because we all try to look young.
00:05:39.940 Yeah, it's true.
00:05:40.940 Okay.
00:05:41.940 So, so we do expire.
00:05:42.940 What age?
00:05:43.940 I don't think we expire.
00:05:45.940 I don't think we expired just because we want to be youthful.
00:05:49.940 Just because we want to be youthful doesn't mean that women expire. 1.00
00:05:52.940 Women do not expire. 0.94
00:05:53.940 Okay.
00:05:54.940 Women are okay. 1.00
00:05:55.940 Go ahead.
00:05:56.940 What about you?
00:05:57.940 Expiration dates.
00:05:58.940 Well, it depends on what, what exactly what she said or the fact that who, again, men,
00:06:04.940 but what's the purpose?
00:06:06.940 So milk can go off, but I'm sure once it's off, you can use it for something else.
00:06:10.940 Well, yeah, that's when they become, that's when like side chicks for sure. 0.97
00:06:13.940 No, I know.
00:06:14.940 I agree with you.
00:06:15.940 They, they, they tend to, women tend to accept that when they're older. 0.99
00:06:20.940 No, they do.
00:06:21.940 Yeah.
00:06:22.940 I mean, again, I think it depends on what it is that you want out of the person.
00:06:27.940 Well, I would say, I would say for a long-term relationship or marriage.
00:06:32.940 When are women? 1.00
00:06:33.940 Long-term.
00:06:34.940 If you pass the middle age, what is long-term?
00:06:35.940 Long-term these days can be two years.
00:06:36.940 Long-term can be.
00:06:37.940 Okay.
00:06:38.940 So, but when a man is looking for a woman to settle down with, is there an age where women 1.00
00:06:51.940 typically are expired just based on their age?
00:06:54.940 Biologically.
00:06:55.940 Yeah.
00:06:56.940 And if you look after yourself or not, I'd hope that a woman that's looked after themselves 0.94
00:06:59.940 biologically, hopefully the clock can push to 40 plus.
00:07:03.940 Okay.
00:07:04.940 40, 40.
00:07:05.940 Plus.
00:07:06.940 Okay.
00:07:07.940 So 50, is she expired?
00:07:09.940 Biologically perhaps.
00:07:11.940 Okay.
00:07:12.940 Thank you.
00:07:13.940 I'm actually going to do the men's second.
00:07:14.940 So I'm going to go Christine and then I'm going to ask the guys.
00:07:18.940 I mean, we're talking about the dating market here.
00:07:21.940 Yeah.
00:07:22.940 So we're talking about the general rule.
00:07:23.940 Of course there are exceptions.
00:07:25.940 I mean, someone like Rachel, you don't look 40, right?
00:07:28.940 Truth is most 40 year olds don't look like you.
00:07:30.940 So if we're talking the majority, I would say 27, 28.
00:07:36.940 27, 28 expired.
00:07:39.940 Okay.
00:07:40.940 Let's go to the men.
00:07:42.940 When do women expire for you for long-term prospects? 1.00
00:07:46.940 I'll make this loud and clear.
00:07:47.940 Women do expire. 1.00
00:07:50.940 You get to about 30 years old and there's no point in getting married.
00:07:54.940 There's no point in having kids and stuff like that.
00:07:56.940 Imagine having a kid at 40 years old and then being 50 with a 10 year old.
00:08:00.940 Yeah.
00:08:01.940 That's kind of crazy. 1.00
00:08:02.940 So for you over 30, you're kind of dumb. 1.00
00:08:05.940 Over 30, there's no hope in a long-term relationship and planning marriage and all that kind of stuff. 0.99
00:08:10.940 I'll say over 30, it's just...
00:08:13.940 So I have a question.
00:08:14.940 What if she's 30 but she looks like J-Lo at 30?
00:08:17.940 Would you make an exception?
00:08:18.940 For me?
00:08:19.940 Me personally?
00:08:20.940 Yeah.
00:08:21.940 It's a smash and dab.
00:08:22.940 You're still...
00:08:23.940 It doesn't matter what she looks like.
00:08:24.940 30?
00:08:25.940 Okay.
00:08:26.940 What about you?
00:08:27.940 I just think it's like the terminology expiration for me is a bit harsh.
00:08:32.940 So I don't really want to talk on it on that sense of using that terminology.
00:08:37.940 But what I will say is I don't think there's an expiration date.
00:08:41.940 It is what it is.
00:08:42.940 So...
00:08:43.940 Your own individuality.
00:08:44.940 But I'm asking for you.
00:08:46.940 For...
00:08:47.940 Regarding women.
00:08:48.940 Yeah.
00:08:49.940 If I'm dating somebody and their head's screwed on and we're both getting it together, then
00:08:54.940 I'm not looking at her in that aspect of an expiration date.
00:08:57.940 Do you want kids and like a family?
00:08:59.940 Oh, I've got kids.
00:09:00.940 Okay.
00:09:01.940 You've got kids.
00:09:02.940 I'm single but I've got kids but I would love to...
00:09:03.940 Okay.
00:09:04.940 I'm a family man.
00:09:05.940 You understand?
00:09:06.940 So I could...
00:09:07.940 I'm 36.
00:09:08.940 I could see someone that's 40 or so forth.
00:09:09.940 I'm not going to say she's expired.
00:09:10.940 Okay.
00:09:11.940 So 40.
00:09:12.940 But what about 50?
00:09:13.940 I don't want to say the word expiration.
00:09:15.940 Maybe we've got to a point of it's coming to your time.
00:09:20.940 Okay.
00:09:21.940 And in a respectful way.
00:09:23.940 But yeah.
00:09:24.940 Okay.
00:09:25.940 So roughly for you 50.
00:09:26.940 I'd say yeah.
00:09:27.940 What about 45?
00:09:28.940 That's cool for me.
00:09:29.940 45 and under.
00:09:30.940 Yeah.
00:09:31.940 Okay.
00:09:32.940 He doesn't discriminate.
00:09:33.940 Sterling, what about you?
00:09:35.940 To the same age that I think women will start to pay a lot more attention to themselves
00:09:41.940 and put a lot more effort and work in to being beautiful is the same age where I cut it off
00:09:47.940 and that's 24.
00:09:48.940 24.
00:09:49.940 Yeah.
00:09:50.940 That's very good.
00:09:51.940 And what's the difference?
00:09:52.940 Like what makes you pick 24?
00:09:55.940 Typically less indoctrination, like less feminism, more feminine because they've got 1.00
00:10:02.940 less years in the workforce being in like their masculine energy.
00:10:06.940 Kind of having that drilled into them all the time.
00:10:09.940 Yeah.
00:10:10.940 The primary reason is there's a lot more runway for making a family. 0.96
00:10:13.940 Like there's a lot more years on the clock.
00:10:15.940 I want a lot of kids.
00:10:16.940 I want a big family.
00:10:17.940 You can really only crank out like one a year.
00:10:19.940 She needs some time off. 0.93
00:10:20.940 Right?
00:10:21.940 Maybe if she's got twins in the family, maybe twins run the family. 1.00
00:10:24.940 Cool.
00:10:25.940 We can crank out two a year.
00:10:26.940 Excellent.
00:10:27.940 Everyone loves to buy one, get one free.
00:10:29.940 If that's coming out, if she's guaranteeing twins, we can push that timeframe up a little
00:10:33.940 bit.
00:10:34.940 But the womb needs the rest. 0.72
00:10:35.940 Yeah.
00:10:36.940 Like, you know, I want a lot of kids.
00:10:37.940 We're going to need some runway.
00:10:40.940 And like.
00:10:41.940 The younger a woman has kids, the older she can actually keep having kids until the danger 1.00
00:10:47.940 becomes when a woman has a first kid in like the later years of her life.
00:10:52.940 That's when you get things like geriatric pregnancy. 0.89
00:10:54.940 You have to have C-sections.
00:10:55.940 Otherwise, there's serious dangers there.
00:10:58.940 Like my mother.
00:10:59.940 She had me.
00:11:00.940 She's the exception to the rule.
00:11:01.940 She had me at like 37. 0.65
00:11:02.940 She was worried I was going to have down syndrome because that's one of the complications of a
00:11:06.940 generic geriatric pregnancy, like more likely and stuff like that.
00:11:09.940 So.
00:11:10.940 So.
00:11:11.940 So.
00:11:12.940 So.
00:11:13.940 So.
00:11:14.940 So.