JustPearlyThings - December 24, 2022


Women In The West Are NOT Wife Material


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8 minutes

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1,681

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In this episode, I speak with my good friend and mentor, about why women in Western countries are better wives than those in the West and how to become a better one. We discuss the difference between being a good wife in a Western culture and being a woman in a foreign country.

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00:00:00.000 Finding Love Overseas, there was a guy
00:00:02.660 Speaking about him finding
00:00:04.700 Russian ladies specifically
00:00:06.260 And how he found them more attractive
00:00:08.220 And the question I'm going to ask is
00:00:10.520 Are
00:00:12.140 Women from foreign countries
00:00:14.800 Better wives than the ones 1.00
00:00:16.900 We currently have
00:00:18.760 Let's not
00:00:20.360 Limit it to Great Britain, in the West in general
00:00:22.940 Are women 0.97
00:00:25.000 Better wives 0.99
00:00:25.760 Let's go for a guy, Banksy
00:00:28.620 What do you say?
00:00:30.320 Well I've been recommending this for a long time
00:00:32.480 That men in the West 0.87
00:00:34.060 Due to a myriad of reasons
00:00:36.520 Should start looking elsewhere
00:00:38.040 I spoke to a gentleman in Australia
00:00:40.220 About four years ago in regards to
00:00:42.620 Him, he was a pilot
00:00:44.040 He had all his house, everything
00:00:46.500 Paid fully stacked
00:00:48.160 The man was rich, handsome
00:00:50.380 And generally
00:00:51.660 In that top, what you guys call
00:00:54.160 10-20%
00:00:55.340 And he categorically told me that
00:00:57.980 When he is ready to get married
00:01:00.900 He is going to get married
00:01:02.520 To a lady or a wife 0.95
00:01:04.340 Where he's going to find them
00:01:05.160 Either in Vietnam, Cambodia, Philippines
00:01:07.520 And a country like that
00:01:09.360 He's in Australia himself
00:01:10.820 Very wealthy in Australia
00:01:12.040 But he will not bring his wife 0.99
00:01:14.300 To Australia
00:01:15.160 He will marry her 1.00
00:01:16.680 And he will stay with her
00:01:18.120 And build a life in that country
00:01:20.500 Because he knows that
00:01:21.720 If he brings her to Australia
00:01:22.880 Ultimately
00:01:23.880 The feminists in Australia
00:01:25.500 Will corrupt her 0.95
00:01:26.360 And thus
00:01:27.340 She'll be looking
00:01:28.120 For the exit door
00:01:30.480 Within a few years
00:01:31.540 Possibly a visa situation
00:01:33.420 So in order to counteract
00:01:35.000 Any of that
00:01:35.500 He will marry 0.96
00:01:36.540 In his 50s
00:01:37.680 But he will keep her
00:01:38.920 In that country
00:01:39.720 Where the laws
00:01:40.360 Are much more favourable
00:01:42.000 In divorce courts
00:01:43.020 To the men
00:01:43.440 Wow
00:01:44.400 Ooh
00:01:44.740 Ladies 0.99
00:01:45.380 What do you think about that?
00:01:50.340 So do you feel that
00:01:51.960 Like he's marrying her
00:01:53.580 Do you think she's going to
00:01:54.520 Actually be marrying him
00:01:55.500 Because she loves him
00:01:56.680 And desires him
00:01:57.540 Or
00:01:58.320 That she just truly wants
00:01:59.780 To get out of the country
00:02:00.620 Or the poverty
00:02:01.260 That she may be living in
00:02:02.780 To get to Australia
00:02:03.980 Or to wherever you were saying
00:02:05.380 That she
00:02:05.900 Like he's from
00:02:07.700 He's really wealthy
00:02:08.540 So he's then going to
00:02:10.520 Keep her in a little box
00:02:12.120 In the country
00:02:13.680 That she's trying to
00:02:14.560 Maybe get away from
00:02:15.760 Just so that
00:02:16.420 In order so he can
00:02:17.180 Control that situation
00:02:18.260 No to me
00:02:18.900 That's not marriage
00:02:19.680 Do British women 1.00
00:02:20.620 Marry more for love
00:02:21.740 You think?
00:02:24.200 I mean
00:02:24.960 I feel that women 1.00
00:02:25.820 Automatically marry 0.84
00:02:27.460 From a place of feeling
00:02:28.500 Rather than logic
00:02:29.540 Most
00:02:30.100 Obviously there's
00:02:30.920 The difference between
00:02:31.900 Logic and emotion
00:02:33.140 And there are women 1.00
00:02:34.140 That are more pragmatic
00:02:35.080 But I think generally
00:02:36.720 Women do go 1.00
00:02:38.140 Into it
00:02:39.300 I think women marry 1.00
00:02:40.860 Out of opportunity
00:02:41.700 So my question is
00:02:43.580 If so
00:02:44.100 Why is the average marriage
00:02:46.220 Seven to eight years
00:02:47.220 And why is the number one
00:02:48.240 Reason they leave financial
00:02:49.340 If women in the west 0.94
00:02:50.400 Marry because of love
00:02:51.140 Because men are meant
00:02:51.800 To be the provider
00:02:52.460 If we're going back
00:02:53.460 To what everyone says
00:02:54.520 Is the idea
00:02:55.020 And we're meant to be
00:02:55.760 Virgins
00:02:56.260 It's true
00:03:00.800 It's true
00:03:01.280 But at the same time
00:03:02.040 If we're talking about
00:03:02.900 The polarities of the
00:03:04.020 Masculine and the
00:03:04.720 Feminine energy 0.90
00:03:05.560 If you want your wife 0.99
00:03:06.800 Or your partner
00:03:07.580 To be in her feminine energy
00:03:09.540 When I say provider
00:03:10.520 She could still be working 0.95
00:03:11.660 She could still be doing her thing 0.92
00:03:12.940 But in his energy
00:03:14.800 Being the provider
00:03:15.840 So looking after
00:03:16.880 What's the female energy 1.00
00:03:17.960 Supposed to be
00:03:18.520 In her feminine 0.71
00:03:19.320 Obviously
00:03:19.700 That doesn't mean virginity
00:03:21.720 But I mean
00:03:22.340 It does
00:03:22.840 It means purity
00:03:24.560 That's what
00:03:25.120 No it doesn't
00:03:26.020 If you look at the polarities
00:03:27.220 Of feminine and masculine energy
00:03:28.680 Even within every single person
00:03:30.620 In this room
00:03:31.240 There is feminine 0.88
00:03:32.180 And masculine energy
00:03:33.260 That doesn't say purity
00:03:34.620 You're not any less feminine
00:03:36.400 Because you're not a virgin
00:03:37.720 Are you a virgin?
00:03:38.520 People wouldn't say
00:03:39.200 That you're not feminine 1.00
00:03:40.580 I would say
00:03:41.860 I am less feminine
00:03:43.600 Than I was
00:03:44.480 Like I was more feminine
00:03:45.680 When I was a virgin
00:03:46.480 I definitely wasn't
00:03:47.800 Because every heartbreak
00:03:49.260 Makes you a little bit more bitter
00:03:50.900 Oh I don't think that
00:03:52.220 And I'm just being honest
00:03:53.900 Every heartbreak
00:03:55.160 Comes with some trauma
00:03:56.360 And the more penises 1.00
00:03:58.940 You have inside you
00:03:59.740 The more masculine you come 0.98
00:04:00.740 Yeah so I would say
00:04:02.000 I would say
00:04:02.660 When I was a virgin
00:04:03.720 Like I was
00:04:04.440 Like very
00:04:05.320 100%
00:04:06.280 But it doesn't negate
00:04:07.620 From the fact
00:04:08.220 That you are still able
00:04:09.480 If you do the work
00:04:10.900 To step into your feminine energy 0.81
00:04:12.600 If you're with the counterpart
00:04:13.880 That is in his masculine energy
00:04:15.400 I just think women 1.00
00:04:16.160 Are either feminine 0.99
00:04:16.920 Or they're not
00:04:17.540 And to me
00:04:18.800 Like you can learn to fake it
00:04:20.340 But like you'd be like
00:04:21.440 But you can always smell it
00:04:22.720 No if you do
00:04:23.420 If you do the true work
00:04:25.120 On allowing
00:04:26.140 When I had my son
00:04:27.520 That forced me
00:04:28.480 Into my feminine energy
00:04:29.400 What is
00:04:30.140 Like the
00:04:30.720 Because
00:04:31.260 No offense
00:04:32.060 I just hear this
00:04:33.200 Like do the work
00:04:33.860 But then like
00:04:34.320 There's no work
00:04:35.100 There is
00:04:35.720 When you go to
00:04:36.360 When you do
00:04:37.200 You work out
00:04:38.940 Why you're in your masculine energy
00:04:40.480 Because there is always
00:04:41.720 A why to your actions
00:04:42.720 So say I'm too masculine
00:04:44.520 So say I'm too masculine
00:04:44.540 And then so
00:04:45.600 Like I find out
00:04:46.680 It's X reason
00:04:47.340 Then what
00:04:47.740 What do I do
00:04:48.220 What's the work
00:04:48.900 Well therapy
00:04:49.980 Okay
00:04:50.560 Deep trauma work
00:04:52.180 Shadow work
00:04:53.060 There's so many different things
00:04:54.340 Sound bath healing
00:04:55.160 Reiki healing
00:04:55.940 There's so many different types
00:04:57.180 Work that you can do
00:04:58.340 Therapy to maybe get over your father wound
00:05:01.140 Which
00:05:01.380 Or your mother wound
00:05:02.280 Which is usually where this
00:05:03.700 I need to be in my masculine energy
00:05:05.820 In order to prove something
00:05:07.760 Or even society
00:05:08.720 These sound like buzz phrases
00:05:10.560 Yeah but this
00:05:11.400 It doesn't sound like real things
00:05:13.080 It doesn't sound like buzz phrases
00:05:14.160 Well I think sometimes
00:05:15.280 Women can be quite masculine 1.00
00:05:16.660 Because they have not met a man
00:05:19.160 That has allowed them to
00:05:20.740 To be in their feminine energy 0.95
00:05:22.520 So sometimes they feel like
00:05:24.420 You know
00:05:24.760 They're not with the right man
00:05:27.000 That is allowing them to take a step back
00:05:28.980 And be in that feminine energy 1.00
00:05:30.620 And to like lead them
00:05:32.300 But I think ultimately
00:05:33.500 Sorry so do you think that
00:05:34.960 Femininity is conditional then 0.73
00:05:36.980 Conditional
00:05:38.160 Like do you think that
00:05:39.000 It depends on the condition
00:05:40.860 Just like masculinity 0.89
00:05:41.700 No it's not
00:05:42.880 Because if I
00:05:43.320 I've seen many bitches out here 1.00
00:05:44.740 Let me say something
00:05:45.580 As a man
00:05:46.500 If I said
00:05:47.080 I'll be masculine for the right woman 0.98
00:05:49.100 No
00:05:49.640 No no no
00:05:50.340 You're going to look at me and say
00:05:51.600 What
00:05:52.000 You're going to be like
00:05:52.540 What
00:05:52.800 What do you mean
00:05:54.400 I'll be masculine for the right woman 0.98
00:05:55.600 But you say you'll be feminine 0.99
00:05:56.980 For the right man
00:05:57.800 And you think that makes sense
00:05:59.300 Well because he's meant to be the leader
00:06:00.860 As a leader
00:06:01.700 You're meant to lead
00:06:02.720 So if you're
00:06:03.440 And you're meant to be in your
00:06:05.180 If I'm meant to be in my masculine
00:06:06.700 You're meant to be in your feminine 1.00
00:06:08.300 Yeah but I think we have
00:06:09.900 Masculine and feminine energy
00:06:11.640 And I think
00:06:12.600 If you're a woman
00:06:14.540 And you're with a man
00:06:15.640 That doesn't allow you
00:06:17.180 To step into your femininity 0.57
00:06:18.760 Because he's not masculine enough
00:06:20.540 Then your masculine side
00:06:21.900 Kind of comes out
00:06:22.840 And compensates for that
00:06:24.160 How come that doesn't work
00:06:26.120 I disagree
00:06:27.240 I just think that's an excuse
00:06:28.660 That women want to use 1.00
00:06:29.760 As an excuse to be masculine 0.59
00:06:31.160 I just think that's an excuse
00:06:32.680 Like the most picture perfect
00:06:34.800 Feminine women I know 1.00
00:06:35.780 It doesn't matter who they're with
00:06:36.900 They're feminine regardless
00:06:38.300 I just think you're either feminine 1.00
00:06:39.320 Or you're not feminine 1.00
00:06:40.160 Sorry what were you saying bro?
00:06:41.620 What were you saying?
00:06:41.860 Well for starters
00:06:42.560 I agree with what she just
00:06:43.520 What Pearl just said
00:06:44.300 But do you think it works both ways?
00:06:47.460 So basically
00:06:48.100 If you're a slightly masculine female
00:06:51.540 Because you're not with the right guy
00:06:53.560 That can bring out your femininity 1.00
00:06:54.760 Do you think
00:06:55.360 A man will get away with saying 1.00
00:06:57.380 He's a slightly feminine man 1.00
00:06:59.880 Because he's not with the right woman?
00:07:01.460 Yeah maybe a man can be with a woman 1.00
00:07:03.640 That's maybe a little bit
00:07:04.940 Too masculine for him
00:07:06.720 And then it doesn't allow him
00:07:08.800 That confidence to step into
00:07:10.680 His masculinity
00:07:11.400 Do you know what I mean?
00:07:12.320 So it's all about balance
00:07:13.380 And finding the right person
00:07:14.300 The question is
00:07:15.340 Go ahead
00:07:16.360 Would you give a guy
00:07:18.380 Who's very much in his feminine energy 1.00
00:07:20.240 A chance?
00:07:21.260 Nope
00:07:21.440 Probably not
00:07:22.380 Because I just feel like
00:07:24.260 I want a man to lead
00:07:26.040 And I am in
00:07:27.720 So that's a bit of a contradiction
00:07:29.260 Yeah
00:07:29.580 Because I'm sure that
00:07:30.780 You know females in their masculine energy 1.00
00:07:32.960 Would like a man to give them a chance
00:07:35.200 I mean just imagine this
00:07:36.560 Imagine if a guy
00:07:37.760 Just started
00:07:38.500 Like being like
00:07:39.580 Hey girls 1.00
00:07:40.400 Hey girls 1.00
00:07:41.180 And because he's like
00:07:42.580 I'm with some masculine females 1.00
00:07:45.000 Hello
00:07:45.340 That's crazy
00:07:46.340 Like that would sound nuts to you
00:07:48.240 But we can like
00:07:49.300 No effect
00:07:50.100 Spew this
00:07:50.680 This is like nonsense to me
00:07:52.240 I just think you're either
00:07:53.300 A feminine woman 0.99
00:07:54.020 Or you're not a feminine woman 1.00
00:07:55.220 I think sometimes
00:07:56.380 The thing is
00:07:56.960 Sorry
00:07:57.700 This is something where
00:07:59.060 Most people who've done
00:08:00.140 Any kind of training
00:08:00.960 Martial arts
00:08:01.580 Anything else
00:08:02.120 They say
00:08:02.460 You are your habits
00:08:03.780 You are what you train
00:08:05.340 If you train
00:08:06.200 Full contact
00:08:07.140 You punch full contact
00:08:08.360 If you train semi-contact
00:08:09.720 You throw semi-contact
00:08:10.700 You are your habits
00:08:11.940 It is incredibly difficult
00:08:13.380 To live your life
00:08:14.320 For most of it
00:08:15.000 Or for decades
00:08:16.400 As a masculine woman
00:08:18.080 And then suddenly turn on
00:08:19.680 The feminine
00:08:20.320 But you can train it though
00:08:22.380 You can train
00:08:23.000 You can work
00:08:23.900 You can train it
00:08:24.280 As many of you know
00:08:25.280 I was just banned
00:08:26.500 On TikTok
00:08:27.400 And we are demonetized
00:08:29.120 On a daily basis
00:08:30.400 On this platform
00:08:31.840 If you want to help
00:08:33.500 Please consider
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