Women Keep Getting UNCOMFORTABLE Men's Promiscuity
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In this episode, we discuss the pros and cons of non-monogamy in the 30's and how women tend to cheat in their 30's compared to their 20's. We discuss why women cheat and why men tend to not do the same.
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I agree with that because I feel like in the 20s, you're 100% right, but between 20 and 30, women are very selective in what they do.
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And then when they get to the 80s, you start wheeling off a lot of stats about pregnancy, geriatry, all of that.
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When they start realizing that, they feel like they can come back to the average man.
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Or even go back to a man that was trying to get them when they were 18, 19 and feel like they can go back to them.
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But obviously with men, it's a bit different because men at 30, we start peaking.
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And so that's why I say women pick non-monogamy in their 20s when they have the most leverage.
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Then in their 30s, we tend to pick the rest, basically.
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And so the issue is when women cheat, who do they typically cheat with?
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So the issue that a lot of these guys are getting into, and this is why guys don't typically,
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like a lot of guys will say, I don't date women over 30.
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It's that if she's 30, like how many relationships has she had?
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And the odds are he probably is because in her 20s, she had more leverage than her 30.
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So what are the odds in her 30s she can get a better guy than in her 20s?
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And I feel like Slyly, when they have that relationship from 20 to 30, there's always that one guy that can always come back in the background.
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Yeah, no, I've spoken to women that have had like, I don't know, six-year situationships on and off or between every relationship.
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And that's like how they keep their like body count low or whatever.
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Keeping your body count low 100%, but you don't have to do that.
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Because if you're going back to past situations, that may have not been good, that's toxic.
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So then if you meet a new guy going forward, that's too much toxicity that you're going to bring to the new guy that you may meet and then your trauma.
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Yeah, and like, and anytime you mess up, he's sitting there waiting.
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Now you've got to get rid of all the exes, you know.
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Yeah, but they are usually, usually the guys are the ones that are on standby.
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They're waiting and you know why men will always be on standby and I know what they want.
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I'm not saying that I'm fooled, but, and you know why it works for women and men will always be there.
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Cause men don't talk to men, but I'm not going to go to Ted and like, yo, Ted, I'm dealing with Pell, you know, boom, boom, boom.
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Whereas women always want to go to women about stuff.
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So you lot, in terms of, you can always have your exes there cause my man would just wait in the, in the background.
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When you're done, we might come back and you get me, I'm going to say nothing, but women,
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She want to go to the main woman and tell her, yo, we've been together.
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How long, where, where, where have been in the background?
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I'm going to read, this was a, I think this is like a $50, I don't know the conversion, but Pearl, listen, all these discussions are pointless.
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Walk outside and you will see the majority of men don't leave their homes.
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This phenomenon first started in Japan, we are just a few years behind, I went to Japan and all I see is women outside.
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My main point is you cannot bring back most men outside of their rooms.
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If you have to waste time arguing, debating with modern women, society will collapse.
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Just like Japan, women will say it's expensive to have kids, tee hee hee children.
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Men are indoors with corn or what is, what is his, what is he implying?
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I mean, I think in general, people aren't leaving and especially like now they're going to have AI and like, I think there's just more people aren't going outside is his main point.
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But I was, I was thinking about this the other day because I was like, if I was a guy, how would you pick a good, because I've been interviewing men for this divorce documentary I'm doing.
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So I interview the men that have been like stupid wrecked by divorce.
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Okay, so they're, and typically this happens like, this is kind of the story that I've heard like from guys, typically he meets her and there's like an unplanned pregnancy and typically like they get married pretty quick and then she'll go to a women's shelter, like accuse him of abuse on some level when some, like they'll even prove that she was lying because you get a free lawyer here if you accuse a guy of abuse.
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And basically they have their whole lives ruined, they're on these really big child support payments, like one guy lost his job, like it's really, really sad.
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Like I listened, like they're, and you can just tell they're like a shell of a dude who they used to be, right?
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And I'll speak to these men and I'm like, okay, so she, and some, their girls had red flags, but some it's like she was from a two-parent home.
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She, there's one that's in the news right now where they're both virgins on their wedding night.
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Um, I'll see another that's like, she, um, she came from a Christian family.
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She was from Eastern Europe and like all the, like on paper.
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And I'm like, I don't know as a guy, how you avoid that.
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And so that's, that's why I did this show is I was genuinely asking, how do you like, what, what, where are the good women and how do men pick them?
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Um, go on a coffee date before or after you sleep with her.
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Date as many women as possible to tell the difference.
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Um, what is her relationship like with her dad?
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Um, and I, and I don't even say this to like harp on women, right?
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Because like men have issues, women have issues.
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But I just think like with how much guys have to lose, I'm like how, I can't even think of how you avoid it.
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Well, I would say like, just don't, don't sign a contract when you get married.
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But I think if there was more purity in the world, I think if men and women were both seeking more purity from each other,
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You know, how, how gentle are you as a pure person?
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Do you want to, do you go out of your way to lie and get angry and react?
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Let's say the guy says, I'm going to be as pure as possible.
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I'm going to have as little experience with women as possible.
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How does he tell the difference between a woman with a high body count and a low body count if he has no experience with women?
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No, but I'm saying, okay, I would think you'd have to like kind of be with a lot of women to figure that out.
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But if he doesn't want to, if he follows the purity route.
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I mean, I think that men still have to date women.
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I think men and women should, to date men, a few men and women at least to see like, see what, see what people are out there to know the difference between different people.
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And also observing other people's relationships is important.
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But I don't think you have to sleep with somebody to know if somebody is a, is a, is a wifey material, you know, I don't think you have to sleep with someone.
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But being like intimate, having intimate conversations, having relationship, you know, having your traditional values play out in life roles, you know, cooking and cleaning and taking care of the house, whatever.
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I think those are things, those are important things to do.
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And that's how you'll know if that's a woman you actually want to marry one day.
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There is no like, you know, having the intercourse and making out.
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But I guess my question is like the average woman and like we could talk about like what we should do.
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And this is where like it's hard because I used to think like this.
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But it's like, I think we're like red pill and like trad cons tend to like talk past each other where it's like the average woman has slept with five to eight people.
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Like why would he wait for a woman that's like, so.
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Like they should not, a man should not wait for someone who slept with five to nine women.
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And so how would he tell the difference between a virgin who's lying and a girl who's like actually a virgin unless he's.
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But the, but the way a woman carries herself really shows a lot about who she is and if she's going to lie about something or not.
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That's a really good one because that, that'll be the test every time.
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Go on a camping trip or travel with them or do something that's, you know, challenging or out of their comfort zone.
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And I was in the docu, like I did the documentary with and a lot of them did this stuff.
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And that's why I'm genuinely like, I think there's like, there's no way you could know.
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You could never, you could never know a hundred percent.
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Because through conversation, me and you just having a conversation.
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And I find out, okay, how much relationship you, if you've been in a relationship 10 years,
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one person, yeah, you could have done what you're doing in between, but then I can gauge
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Then maybe you've been outside for the last two years.
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You will never know exact number because she could be doing other things in between.
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And your religion and spirituality definitely pays a part in who you choose and how you
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Because if you both have a similar religion or spirituality.
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So, so then why are the reputation of church women so bad?
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A lot of women go to church and they do terrible things.
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But I'm saying like the reputation of church women is, it's worse than the normal population.
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No, but I, but it's like, it's, it's just crazy.
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Cause it's like everything we tell them to look for, it's like, yeah, cause they go and
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commit sins and think they can wash them away on a Sunday.
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They both commit sins, you know, they both do that.
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Well, it sounds like for women, it's, it's also pretty destructive because their chances
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It sounds like when it doesn't work out, not only the man's life, but also the woman's
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Cause she doesn't have that many chances afterwards, according to the statistics you've been sharing.
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But you know, I don't think this is a man issue though.
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I feel like it's women that need to understand men more and understand what men want.
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If they understand what men want, they won't have the issue of finding another man.
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I just, I don't think women would leave if they didn't think they could do better.
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I'm not saying they can't like work with delusional, you know, but what's better?
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Well, because they might think that guy's better.
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Well, I mean, a lot of times it's like the, we have imaginations.
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For example, a man could do way more for you, but it's about what you're accepting.
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And he couldn't give you everything you want to make sure you're the number one woman.
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But if he goes out and he's got a couple of girls cheating or whatever, are you going to
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I'm saying, I'm saying if he looks after your home.
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If he looks after the home, he makes sure you're good.
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But yes, he goes out sometimes and he goes on weekenders away, let's say, and he sleeps
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But when he comes back, the house is patterned.
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There's something wrong with his connection to God or religion or something.
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What about maybe she did something to make him cheat?
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I always feel like there's a reason people cheat.
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Men don't cheat for no reason and women don't cheat for no reason.
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I think we get in this like if a guy cheats, he's like the worst.
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But it's like, well, demonize the men for cheating, right?
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But when women go into relationships with open social media accounts and we don't demonize
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them where they can still get attention from high value men.
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But yeah, like if a guy cheats, it's the worst thing ever.
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I feel like if a female cheats, their demon is the worst thing ever.
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When you think about it, like men marry single mothers all the time.
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And in a way that's like, I mean, you're coming in with another man's kid.
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But I hear what you're saying to a certain degree.
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Because obviously if you're letting someone inside your body,
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I'm saying if you're opening your legs, I don't think you're just going to open your legs to a man just off the rip at night.
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I do think people should try to work out cheating, though.
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I don't want to like, and no offense to people watching this, but like, my mom and dad got divorced when I was four.
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And I don't think anyone should, you know, I think cheating, I don't inherently think cheating is a good thing.
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But I think, I sometimes wonder what would my life have looked like had they been together.
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You know, I'm grateful that I am the way I am now.
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But I'm just saying, like, I know there's a lot of girls out there who have dysfunctional families and don't have a father and mother that are together.
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And I've seen people with who have their mother and father together.
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The way they approach themselves, the way they talk to people, the way they react to situations, they're just different people.
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And so, like, that's even like a reason, like, I want, I wish more people, more women and men would see, oh, I want to have a healthy family.
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I want to break the generational trauma, the generational disrupt, you know, the generational problems.
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So what made you guys get divorced, if you don't mind me asking?
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Well, I came to him and I gave him the very clear parameters.
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I was like, listen, I figured this is happening.
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So let's just save our marriage and save our life.
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And so I said, you know, I need these three things to happen.
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And not only did they not happen, but it got much, much worse.
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And then I, you know, then I just felt like I didn't have a choice because things got so violent, dangerous, and scary.
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Well, no, initially I started off that way because there's just so much lies and deceit and can I trust this person?
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And then, but I really, really wanted to, to make it work.
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I was like, why don't we, we'll just have an open marriage, which I knew would probably kill me inside.
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But I was like, yeah, I even offered it, you know, I was like, that's really, really, really wanted it.
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Like, I just, I really wanted the marriage to stay together, but I just got scared.
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So if it was just strictly cheating, do you think it would have worked out, then it would have been all right?
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I needed some securities that weren't, that weren't, that weren't there.
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Because I think, or what do you mean securities?
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Well, when I found out that he was cheating, I also looked into like our life a little bit more deeply.
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And I realized that absolutely nothing was in my name.
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And I was like, oh my gosh, I'm in a really vulnerable position here.
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And so then I was like, listen, I need to have some stake in our lives.
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So did you, did you put yourself in that situation where you wanted to make it work for Penelope?
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I mean, I was hoping he would come to London yesterday and have lunch with us.
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If, I mean, I would consider Penelope thinks I'm crazy,
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But why wouldn't you, I know you said you would, you would,
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You can do anything to keep, I think people would do anything for their children.
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But don't you think that you should love yourself more instead of after what he's done
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and I feel like you deserve better and you don't deserve to be treated like that?
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Horrified what being a single parent was going to look like.
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And it was crazy because I had a single mom, so I should have known better.
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But honestly, I think it's modern day child abuse.
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And I watched her in my, I watched her growing up struggle so much as one person to do all the work at home.
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Like you were, I remember the nights you were like crying.
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And it also struck a strong heart in my, and for me, it was like, I never want to have that.
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And I will do any, anything and everything in my power to never create that for my future family.
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I make a vow to God, to higher power, that I will stick with this person for the rest of my life.
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I thought that I did that with your father too, but you know, it happened.
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But I can never make up for that, for you not having a dad growing up.
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And there was a spiritual, like there was a spiritual disconnection there.
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I thought we were in a monogamous relationship, but I, you know, found out otherwise.
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And he, and he, and he wishes he could have changed certain things.
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Because I just feel like majority, not all, majority of men do at some point in their
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And if every woman leaves a man for cheating, the majority of women will be seen.
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Then you have all these, you know, motherless and fatherless families.
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We're never, like, we're never, as women, we're never told, like, how men are naturally.
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So it's like, we've kind of been told that if we get cheated on, it's the worst thing ever.
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Yeah, that's, I think that most of, I think that most of society's problem really, like,
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come back to single mother homes, to be honest.
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Like, if you look at the prison population, it's like 80% single mother homes.
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If you look at youth suicides, you're way more likely to be abused as a child.
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You're way more, like, every big, I spoke to a homeless shelter director down the street.
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And I said, why, why, like, are these people homeless?
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Like, because he has, like, the worst type of homeless, which is, like, the street sleepers,
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And he told me that he, that most of these people came from single mother homes,
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especially with, like, multiple baby daddies or, like, whatever.
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And the kids that got ended up getting taken and, like, put in the system,
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and they've never, they don't know any sense of stability or function.
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And so if you look at all the, like, major issues in society,
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And single father homes don't have the same outcomes.
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Because if you're seeing a lot of, if you grow up in a single household,
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or you see a breakup, then in your head, it might seem like,
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like, what you were saying with your mom, you can, you can do this,
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because your mom will grow up in a single home.
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So you might see it as, this is something, it's not easy, but it's something I can do.
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And then when, only when you go through it, you realize that, right, this is mad.
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But if we have a lot more family units in the house and working at things,
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then the children get to see, like, okay, my mom and dad went through this,
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but they managed to go through this route to help.
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And because I've been through my inner relationship where I've gone therapy
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and I've gone places to fix things, you get what I'm saying?
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And even when you was talking about therapy earlier,
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I think it's there to help you understand triggers
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and understand certain things for you to maneuver.
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after going to therapy for eight years, maybe 12,
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and you can also just really get over yourself, honestly.
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I just decided to get over myself, and that's basically how I fix myself.
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Well, I think that therapy, like, it's outsourcing families.
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Because, like, usually you would go to your siblings or you'd go to,
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because your mother is going to have a completely different take.
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Like, let's say if you're in an argument with your boyfriend,
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she's going to have a completely different take on the situation
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because she knows you, and she knows your positive and your negative traits.
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So it's like, if I tell my mom, like, oh, this person reacted to me this way,
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mom's going to be like, well, maybe you did this.
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No, I just think that the therapist doesn't have that information.
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But, like, who knows your daughter better than you?
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She might be scared to go to her mom because she's going to get that harsh reality,
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and sometimes people don't want the harsh reality.
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The way people raise their children dictates also relationships.
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And so she raised me giving me the harsh truth since I was little.
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But now I love her, and I give her, like, all the props to be honest with me
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She was like, Penelope, you need to get up and go work out.
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I wasn't that big, but I was, like, kind of pretty chunky.
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And my mom would always be, like, on me because I was just this diehard, like, tomboy.
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I would be so much worse if my mom wasn't, like, on me all the time.
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Because when you're a kid, you're just like, Mom.
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And I'm like, I don't want you to tell me what to eat.
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Like, I don't want you to tell me how to live, how to work out.
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But I would sit in my room, like, obese, fat, you know, crying.
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And she'd be, like, open the curtains, rip the curtains open, be like,
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But those are the kind of parents that you need.
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And having that her mentality that she raised me with, being honest and saying,
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You know, men, there are men and women, like, these are important things she taught me.
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It's kind of funny, like, the day you realize your parents were right about everything.
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It's like, it's like, you just wake up one day and you're like, oh.
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I was like, oh my gosh, my mom and dad raised me so well.
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And they were right about everything they told me.
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Oh, yeah, I'm not listening to them for relationship advice.
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I'm in the best relationship compared to those two, yeah.
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Yeah, I mean, I think that mothers, like, actually, we should ask our parents about those, like, people we date.
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Yeah, and I actually, he met my mom and my dad.
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And I wouldn't have been with him if they didn't like him.
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Because even the girl that I'm seeing now, her family unit is strong.
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And I feel like it wouldn't have worked if her mom or things didn't like, man.
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And my family is, like, my most important thing.
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Like, I feel like men respect women more when they have that family dynamic.
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Whether the, even if the dad's not there, if the dad's there, obviously he's going to respect it a lot more, innit?
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But if he knows you have a strong support unit with mom, cousins, aunties, whatever, yeah?
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He is going to respect you a lot more than if a girl doesn't really have the same kind of support.
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And I also find it really challenging to know when you find a good man.
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I mean, I think by now at 47, you know, it's challenging to find a good man.
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How do you know when, when, when, when, when, the mandem are good.
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You know, you can tell when a man is in line when he has a good woman.
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No, because mandem, no, because you know what it is now, pal.
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No, no, no, please stop, please stop, please stop, no.
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I asked you guys, for her, she's a single woman, or sort of, she's dating someone,
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but like for a single woman, how do you know if it's a good man?
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Do you think it's easy to tell as a guy who the good guys are?
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If he's willing to accept your trauma, he's a good guy.
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So I'm just like, why would a good guy want to accept a bunch of trauma?
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Because if he sees something in you, he will, if he supports you through certain things
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You've gone, let's say, what kind of example can I do?
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Maybe trying to work around you in a way, whatever the issue may be, or whatever it is
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Even, like, if she needs, yeah, like, if she needs time, like, you're there, but you're,
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Fundamentally, I think that all, most guys are good guys.
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No, but the thing is, it's about, have we found the right woman?
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Okay, so if we were with the right woman, then it works.
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She's not going to see it, um, easily, because it depends on who she is.
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It's about the woman, but she doesn't understand.
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You see me saying it from a man, like, in order for a man to be a good man,
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you have to have a good woman, because the woman will put you in line.
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Like, man on their own, don't put their self in line.
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We do reckless things, we buy, we spend money recklessly, we live recklessly.
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I was chatting to the man today in the WhatsApp group, and it was like,
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well, you could even, remember we were saying about a man dressing well.
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You could tell when a man's dressing a certain way in a relationship and out of a relationship.
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But really, the most, like, dependable, like, responsible men I know don't really need a woman to, like, look after them, to be honest.
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No, because I'm just thinking about the men, like, I respect the most in my life that are really, like, doing stuff.
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They don't need a woman to, like, guide them or take care of them.
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They kind of have a path, stuff they want to do.
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No, we're always going to have a path, isn't it?
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So we're always on, yo, we need to do this, we need to do that, blah, blah, blah.
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They will put, men are structured, but we will see, we will have a vision and we go for that vision.
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And sometimes we just go because we can see what we're going for.
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We know we got the picture in our head, but a woman can organize the route a bit better than a man can organize the route.
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I think what you're saying is more like enhancing your qualities, enhancing your life.
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But, like, honestly, for me, I think that if a guy can get up, even when he's sad, when he has a bad day,
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maybe if he likes to work out, he'll do a workout, go to work, not be emotional all the time.
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You know, these things that if you already do them without a woman, it's good.
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No, this just, this just sounds to me like the guys you don't want to date,
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which is the guys that, like, need a woman to, like, to guide them.
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Like, I would think you'd want, like, a leader.
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But man just needs someone to organize man's paperwork while I'm practically outside of the room.
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Yeah, you're kind of switching what you started saying.
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No, I hear what you know, but it's hard for me to explain it because it's like,
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it's mad because obviously, man, I'm, I'm, I'm, when I'm saying I'm focused, man,
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you can be focused on something, but sometimes you need somebody there to help you in line certain things
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Like, for example, are you shopping, for example, yeah?
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If I'm going shopping, yo, I'm going in there, size eight, Air Force One, boom, bam, gone.
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I'm not spending long where a woman will, if they want a dress or something or they want a shoes,
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you try it on, it's got to make sure it looks right, blah, blah, blah, up there.
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They will pattern up things, make sure everything's correct before they leave that.
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Yeah, but how does she make getting your size eight better, your Air Force better?
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Yeah, but I'm just saying they will look for more things.
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I don't know what you said, but someone deleted it.
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Hiroshima, 21st century is the biggest L for humanity.
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We trusted women to be accountable like men are, but all they did was destroy society.
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The traditional righteous focused men, focused since youth to be godly, protectors, providers,
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and intelligent for the purpose to build families at large.
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All I saw outside were chads and good-looking guys.
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They openly said they had multiple girlfriends because that's all they had.
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The rest of the guys aren't even in the dating pool, just rotting at home.
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Gort, does being submissive mean submit to your men or does it mean submit to your family
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If women isn't a virgin, it's a woman's job to retain a man after hooking up.
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a woman that makes you wait for sex isn't worth the wait?
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That's only true if you're, that's only true if you're not, if she's not a real virgin,
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which I know you can't really, you know, you can't really tell, but that's, that's what
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But I think you guys have to be mindful when it comes to sex.
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Like, like, honestly, it's not, it's a big thing.
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So do you really want to just be having sex with anyone and letting any kind of energy
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Can I just say that for us, it is always a spiritual exchange for, as many of you know,
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I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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