JustPearlyThings - Women NEED To Consider THIS

00:00:00.000 can i ask you a question uh so both of you guys are pro-life um i didn't catch your name as

00:00:06.560 ruth ruth ruth um so for example my auntie um she had twins when they were born but one of the twin

00:00:14.160 um was in critical condition and then when he was finally born he was on life support

00:00:19.680 the doctor told my auntie he's gonna suffer the rest of his life being on life support

00:00:24.320 like feeding him through a tube and whatnot what do you want to do and it was a very difficult

00:00:30.000 decision and she just had to let one of the twins die and i know like you might say that's wrong

00:00:40.320 but i think there are certain situations you can allow abortion great um

00:00:48.160 that if they're suffering i mean i don't i don't i wouldn't say yes for like oops i wouldn't say yes

00:00:53.600 for like the uh euthanasia where it's like an adult dying because you're pretty much at the end and

00:00:58.640 all you have to do is just fight through the end and then you know you can state that you didn't

00:01:02.720 commit suicide kind of thing you know in a in a sense um but then again if it's a if it's a baby

00:01:08.160 being born and it's gonna suffer for the entire life i think uh that is one other condition that

00:01:15.680 i would stand with abortion um or letting the baby die so that's so so you're pro-life with like a

00:01:23.200 couple exceptions basically oh yeah and i also want to get your view on what would you do if you're a

00:01:28.240 mother and you've just had a child and that child is going to suffer for the rest of its life with um

00:01:33.680 like it's sick yeah um you're feeding to you um whatever so what would you do i actually had a

00:01:39.760 cousin that was in that situation um i mean i would just do everything i could to keep um him alive and 0.85

00:01:46.720 if if he died he died like i i mean i just think i'd have a hard time like killing killing my kid

00:01:53.760 um personally but no i had a cousin and he was only supposed to live till he was three and he lived

00:01:59.040 till he was like 12. um but it wasn't a good quality of life it was actually really hard to watch

00:02:04.720 so um i could see why it would be like hard for someone to go through my other cousin as well um from

00:02:11.040 my mom's side this time uh she's she was born as well as a twin funny enough and she was paralyzed 1.00

00:02:17.840 from birth or actually no she was okay but the doctor or the hospital didn't give her enough

00:02:22.720 oxygen when she was born so she started um her brain didn't send the correct signals to her body 0.88

00:02:28.400 so she was just paralyzed now um she suffers in other in other ways so she's growing up seeing her

00:02:35.120 brother uh moving and walking running playing football and she's always going to be on a wheelchair

00:02:40.640 do you know what i mean and like i don't know how to explain this to you but she really hates life

00:02:46.480 you know there's only a few things in life that make her happy maybe music seeing her family food but

00:02:52.880 then most of the time she's just suffering because she can see the world and she can see what she doesn't

00:02:57.840 have and then again like this can be avoided at the very early stages and uh not like obviously i'm

00:03:09.520 happy to have her in my life and i love her that's my cousin but you know i can see her suffering 0.99

00:03:14.240 yeah and the family as well well i just think doctors can be wrong and that's like where i would

00:03:19.200 have a hard time like if they say they'll have this disease and they might not yeah yeah so many so

00:03:24.800 many situations where that's happened the rain man uh where where they yeah doctors have diagnosed

00:03:29.760 something in the womb and the mothers have refused or they said the baby's gonna live this long

00:03:34.080 and the mothers have refused abortion and their children are healthy and fine you know there's

00:03:39.440 doctors get it wrong so what would you guys do then if you're in that situation so i think paul gave

00:03:44.160 me an answer what would you do if your daughter or son was born and then you have to make a decision

00:03:48.000 whether they should live or not the same thing okay i could never kill my child okay um i just i would

00:03:55.040 hope and pray that my child got better i feel like oh sorry no no no go ahead are you finished

00:04:02.400 no i was gonna say i feel like happiness is also inside a lot of people get it confused where

00:04:06.880 they're watching the outside too much and they're requiring all this temporary happiness like oh

00:04:12.000 when i get money i'll be happy or when this or when i do this but actually it's just inside if we search

00:04:17.120 for happiness inside we we will be happy but a lot of people compare themselves to other people's lives

00:04:22.960 and things like that but i do like i would never understand someone who's obviously disabled or

00:04:28.320 severely um unwell you know it's it's quite difficult but again we don't know what the

00:04:32.880 afterlife is no one knows but if they're alive here today maybe there will be another sort of

00:04:38.960 life for them no one actually knows because none of us has died so you know but but we just don't

00:04:42.960 know it's a good point yeah yeah i was just gonna say i've got two things i just want to go back to

00:04:48.960 what cas said earlier on about having the right support um in place um because you work in mental

00:04:55.360 health as you mentioned i did yeah oh you did before okay um and i think it's similar with the

00:05:00.960 abortion issue and um for a woman that finds out that she's pregnant um i think a lot of it is based on

00:05:08.320 being properly informed about the process you're going through um so that you can come to a um informed

00:05:15.840 decision i feel like um from my experience um having an abortion when i was 19 i wasn't properly informed

00:05:24.320 like abortion is something that is classified as a medical procedure and with most medical procedures

00:05:33.040 that you do have and i've had a few um in my lifetime um nothing severe but you are informed

00:05:40.880 about what the procedure is going to be you are informed about um you've shown images of what you're

00:05:47.440 going to have done um and i feel like abortion is sidelined oh yeah it's not you don't you're not

00:05:53.600 properly informed so for me my experience i came out the other side and there was a lot of mental trauma

00:06:00.080 um and there was a lot of healing there was a lot of healing process and the support i think is very

00:06:06.480 important um if you do decide to have an abortion um as it was in my case and i didn't feel like i had

00:06:12.160 that at that time um and just to go back to what ruby was saying um about your your family situation

00:06:19.040 there's a guy i can't remember his name and he's literally he was born without no limbs like he has no

00:06:24.640 arms no legs and he was actually um he's on youtube he's a big youtuber and i mean his life

00:06:30.000 is phenomenal and it's going back again where where what does happiness look like how do we define

00:06:35.680 happiness he's in this world and he's impacting this world and like leaps and bounds and he was born

00:06:43.440 that way he did mention that when he was i think it was 10 or 12 that he wanted to commit suicide

00:06:48.960 can't remember what he stated what got him over that hurdle but he's still here today and he's

00:06:53.440 living a he's living a fulfilled life do you know what i mean so i think it's it's about having the

00:07:00.080 right support it's about being well informed um and um yeah i just feel that there is other options

00:07:07.200 do you know what i mean having the right mentality yeah it's it's key to life definitely definitely um

00:07:12.960 but yeah i i must go back on that as well what you just said um i've had an abortion myself and again

00:07:18.640 they they don't really inform you of the procedure they'll say okay yeah you get a pill and then or

00:07:23.920 you get the vacuum and then that's it but actually when when i did get the pill and they said it's all

00:07:29.520 going to come out don't worry you know and it will come out and it was a little baby you know and it's

00:07:34.480 like whoa i wasn't ready for that you know and it was just it was shocking you got you got the pill

00:07:40.400 i got the the pill yeah so and it so how does that i i know um once it's surgical they like pull

00:07:48.080 off the limbs and then vacuum yeah but i don't i don't actually know as much about the pill so so

00:07:53.440 the pill so you get like a couple of them right um and the like first it wasn't even like i felt

00:08:00.240 something was stuck so i had to go go back there and they had to like take out with um what's it

00:08:06.080 called them four soaps yeah yeah that was my first um abortion and i had a second one and um it was

00:08:13.600 it was a pill and you know and um i decided to go ahead and it was the worst experience ever because

00:08:20.160 they they did not inform me that a whole child would come out of there you know and i would think

00:08:25.840 it would be in part so i wouldn't see it you know and it was a full little child it was the size of my

00:08:32.880 palm but it was such a horrible experience you know and i've seen it i i seen it and and that

00:08:38.160 mental picture again you have to train your mind to forget that you can't you know when people go

00:08:42.960 through abortions and they have ptsd from it i say like the best thing you can do is to there's ways 0.85

00:08:48.480 to forget about it ways to never think about it again ways to sort of you know erase that from your

00:08:53.200 memory but but they don't tell you anything like that they they never did and i always tell the women

00:09:00.240 you know that go for abortion i'm just just telling you this is what it is you know and then i oh

00:09:04.480 really you know and then they come back like i regret it so much you know but yeah they they should be

00:09:08.800 more informative 100 how far along were you i i was like four weeks you're only four no sorry no

00:09:15.200 the uh this um scape the when the when the baby came out yeah oh that one was about six or eight weeks

00:09:24.000 something really so it was six or eight weeks yeah and because they they say it's like a feed

00:09:28.320 like a clump of cells basically no it was a full baby and it was like the side they had it had arms

00:09:33.360 it had legs it had a head and it was intact so it wasn't like six wow and it wasn't like it was parts

00:09:39.600 of it it was literally all of it and and so um because i what i understand about the pill and you guys

00:09:46.640 you two know more than i do about this but it's like basically it starves the kid to death right

00:09:51.840 and then it did like well did it happen at the hospital or were you at home uh no so this happened

00:09:58.320 at the hospital yeah so you take one at home and then like you said i didn't know it would starve

00:10:03.200 the child right so but yeah you take one at home then you come i think it's the next day or in two

00:10:07.760 days and then you have another pill and it's meant to come out of you and whatnot well and it is does

00:10:12.640 it always come out at the hospital if you do the pills i think some people have done it at home

00:10:17.200 and it they just it goes down the toilet you know okay that's what they say as many of you know i was

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JustPearlyThings - April 05, 2023

Women NEED To Consider THIS

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