JustPearlyThings - October 28, 2023


Women RUINED Modern Families


Episode Stats

Length

35 minutes

Words per Minute

195.02841

Word Count

6,831

Sentence Count

4

Misogynist Sentences

60

Hate Speech Sentences

29


Summary

In this episode, we discuss the controversial topic of whether or not it's good to be overweight or not, the benefits of being overweight, the dangers of obesity, and the benefits and dangers of celebrating things that are bad for you.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 have someone who is self-harming and you give them the razor how are you helping because they
00:00:05.420 want to do it in their mind it helps it relieves something it helps me the same with anorexia if
00:00:10.960 someone believes they are huge but they are actually seriously seriously anorexic if you
00:00:16.180 reaffirm that broken problem in their mind and you go well if you're happy and you give them
00:00:21.420 laxatives or diet pills how are you helping them the truth is is that without tolerance we can't
00:00:26.620 discern what's good and bad for society and that actually comes from a place of love if we can
00:00:31.380 decide collectively it's not good to be overweight so we don't celebrate it it's not good and i agree
00:00:36.820 pop culture it's not good to celebrate drugs and alcohol if we can make definitive decisions on
00:00:41.780 what's good and bad it's not about your individual spirit being good or bad no no it's just telling
00:00:47.820 you you're making a decision that ultimately in reality isn't going to be good for you and it's
00:00:53.060 like if you go with the whole mentality of who are we to judge each other how far does that go
00:00:57.820 because if we don't judge each other how do we decide murderers are bad no i agree i agree because
00:01:04.420 you said everyone can can you know it's that egalitarian mindset that king was referring to
00:01:10.000 if you're if you're deciding okay everyone can can do what they want and you can celebrate what you
00:01:15.860 want to celebrate some people are really messed up some people want to celebrate murderers and and what
00:01:21.860 you think we should just let them absolutely not we should collectively decide as a society what is
00:01:26.300 good for us and what is bad for us because without that we descend into chaos it's not about you being
00:01:33.260 bad it's about you making a choice that's bad for you every nail on the head yeah i agree but i also feel
00:01:40.560 like everybody is entitled to especially is as far as there is a line because we have laws so there is
00:01:47.080 definitely a line that you know has been established and voted and agreed upon that this is what everybody
00:01:52.620 has collectively agreed that's wrong if you're not hurting somebody if you're drinking if you're smoking
00:01:56.960 if you're vaping you're overeating you're hurting yourself so no but what is it to you to go and project
00:02:02.460 your opinion on someone else in this country you're then gonna put your um health issues onto the nhs
00:02:08.680 which is gonna cost in tax and other things everyone else has to pay for like everyone has to pay for
00:02:14.980 the air pollution because everybody's outside smoking cigarettes and vaping everybody has to pay for
00:02:19.120 no no a lot of thoughts no not no it's not comparable that's not that like okay you think that vaping has the
00:02:27.040 same effect on the healthcare system and our taxes as maybe not but i think that everything you die too
00:02:34.760 young you're gonna upset your family and your friends that's gonna cause a ripple effect what about
00:02:39.960 like yeah what about your kids there's a lot of things involved yeah so i'm not arguing that being
00:02:44.640 overweight is somehow like an exception or it's okay i'm not even arguing over the overweight topic at all
00:02:50.560 i'm overing over the arguing over the fact that it's not your say or your decision or
00:02:55.740 yeah so i'm not saying you're a bad person women are celebrating things that are bad if there's a
00:03:00.480 group of people who want to get together and celebrate whatever it is then that's their right
00:03:04.220 but so so what what i'm disagreeing with is you said it doesn't affect anyone it does and and that's
00:03:09.800 where i'm disagreeing i'm saying it does because when you have health issues the everyone around you
00:03:15.320 has to take care of you and then the health system has to pay for it so that that's where i'm saying i
00:03:20.600 disagree that it doesn't affect anybody and the point of freedom like i also agree with people
00:03:25.400 should be allowed to exercise their freedoms to do whatever they want like ultimately if if people
00:03:30.540 are telling you don't do this don't do this and you still decide to do it you know i'm not a tyrant
00:03:34.740 i'm not then gonna absolutely put a gun to your head until you do what i want you to do because it's
00:03:39.560 coming from a place of love if you decide not to listen and you kill yourself that is ultimately
00:03:44.000 your fault at the end of the day but the point that pearl was making was about celebration and the
00:03:49.420 thing that's what i was talking about the thing with body positive body positivity and the trans movement
00:03:53.580 the two uh examples that we just gave is that when you celebrate something you are encouraging it
00:04:00.720 so without the celebration because it's like people can still do that right trans people can still exist
00:04:05.340 people can still be overweight and be positive in themselves but it's the point the point is is that
00:04:10.820 it's projected and celebrated upon society and we shouldn't be doing that because it's not good for
00:04:17.500 individuals but if individuals decide that they want to do that great i don't think anyone should be
00:04:21.860 forced to do anything in life but if you celebrate it you encourage it and what good does that do
00:04:28.060 in encouraging people you know we had a woman on the front of sports illustrating magazine who was 300
00:04:32.440 pounds if we all know girls girls we've all heard this narrative for years you know it was in the 90s it
00:04:40.200 was girls are seeing women who are too skinny so girls are then starving themselves okay well now they're
00:04:46.120 seeing women who are too fat so now they're thinking oh well that's okay and that's celebrated and the truth
00:04:51.860 is either way that's not good so i think the point is is that people can do what they want but
00:04:58.260 as a society we should not celebrate the things that are bad for humankind that's the point and
00:05:04.800 ultimately if you then decide to go against that um you know more power to you but don't go out and
00:05:10.700 project it onto the rest of the world because it's not good for people i don't think people making a
00:05:14.560 choice to celebrate something that they feel strongly about that they care about that they
00:05:18.100 feel that they relate to is influencing other people i think that if you have a weak mind or
00:05:24.900 you're easily influenced or you maybe are not securing your own foundation but children are weaker
00:05:29.780 that's why i agree that's why children shouldn't be on tiktok or whatever they shouldn't be having
00:05:34.800 so much access to these things because in the world people are going to do what they're going to want
00:05:38.600 to do people are going to kill people are going to do other things for example advertising children walk
00:05:43.140 around in the street somewhere like new york city i've never been but i know that you guys have
00:05:46.460 huge billboards right what are they seeing on those billboards look at the latest dove adverts
00:05:50.880 right things like that that's what i'm saying so if we look on a societal level children are a part
00:05:55.780 of our society you know we go to something like the trans movement that is absolutely 100% targeted
00:06:01.160 towards children my point is we shouldn't be celebrating things in our society that are bad for
00:06:06.820 the vulnerable people within our society and that includes children that includes people who are
00:06:11.000 weak-minded you know it should be our human duty to look out for one another and people
00:06:15.080 putting stuff out there i agree with you kids shouldn't be on tiktok kids shouldn't be on
00:06:18.920 instagram the point is they are so we should be aware of that as competent adults so to not expose
00:06:25.980 children to things that could encourage them to make bad decisions in life can i just say ask a
00:06:30.580 question but being that a competent adult that's raising these children the family that that are so
00:06:36.360 concerned about her these let's say she's a traditional family girl who was leading this
00:06:42.720 family as to what was put in this child's mouth for her to then gain this weight and then for them to
00:06:50.060 now sit down and say to this child you are now overweight because now they've created habits and
00:06:56.760 addictions and so on and so forth because they see that this is not healthy and they because they have
00:07:03.140 the knowledge because they know better they are the competent adult they were competent enough to
00:07:08.120 provide the food from birth to whatever said date that she is now overweight so oh now we have a
00:07:14.160 problem and i'm going to tell you that you are the problem and we this we need to fix this problem but i
00:07:20.260 created this problem so we're going to come down and sit with our leader whoever that may be in that
00:07:25.580 family and together as a family and we're going to change the habits and unlearn these bad behaviors that
00:07:31.040 have caused this child to now then be overweight and we're going to do it together as a family or are
00:07:35.920 we going to just magnify this child who has now learned this terrible behavior which has now caused
00:07:40.420 possible health problems and she feels bad or whatever it is negative positive whatever it may be
00:07:45.820 it started at the foundation of her being a baby because the baby did not put the processed food on the
00:07:51.300 table the baby did not go and buy it the baby did not see the billboard and say mommy i want that
00:07:56.020 mcdonald's and mommy said yes you can have every time you say you want mcdonald's you can have it
00:08:00.440 you have to be able to make the executive decision as a competent adult that chose to raise a child
00:08:06.100 and together as a collective with whoever your village or your support is and your leader
00:08:11.000 and make that then don't go and make the child feel bad for your choices i agree with you but she
00:08:17.480 wasn't a child the problem she started somewhere but the problem with that habit started somewhere
00:08:21.900 in the west we live in a gynocentric society so even if you notice women make most of the decisions
00:08:28.880 women are the ones that are raising these kids most men and this is what i noticed i'm i'm african i
00:08:35.340 came from nigeria i only came to this country in 2019 back in my country even even though it's changing
00:08:41.740 but back in the day the men were the leaders of this of the family what they said goes but that
00:08:47.940 even started changing a couple of like years ago like but the reality is women are the ones that make
00:08:54.020 all the decisions if a man tries to stand his ground in the west he is literally shut down
00:08:59.980 he's literally kicked out of his home he's literally seen as the enemy he gets kicked out
00:09:04.820 he gets yes so men men can't even enforce their masculinity on their own families and this is
00:09:10.280 the point we're saying of the whole thing so then you should vet your partner properly before
00:09:14.240 it's not about vetting your partner it's not about vetting your partner it's about the society
00:09:18.040 no matter how much you vet your partner do you think society can have an impact about what my
00:09:22.460 husband is telling you yes i'll tell you why i'll tell you why because there are many women
00:09:26.040 who were raised in nigeria who were raised with traditional values the moment they stepped foot
00:09:30.800 into this country they went haywire yeah so so so therefore vet your wife or your husband
00:09:35.800 no the reality is the society creates the um toxic environment for women to be able to run rampant
00:09:42.800 and do whatever they want okay so how do you combat that do you now then go when you're fighting
00:09:48.220 a war do you go to war without equipment i i mean some men won't fight it that's the point
00:09:54.380 the point is that that's the reason why men are no longer getting married okay because they see that
00:09:59.320 they cannot have any sort of um authority in their homes that's the reason why men run from
00:10:05.220 from it used to take three months for a guy to marry you now it takes three years on average
00:10:11.140 yeah so it's like that's what men are doing they're trying they're vetting harder but
00:10:16.520 honestly just doing this divorce documentary i would say there's no way you could possibly know
00:10:21.380 women switch up switch up very quickly after they get what they want um it's really i would say it's
00:10:26.760 a roll of the dice um there's high risk women there's low risk women but you're never going to
00:10:30.620 know a hundred percent what do women get out of marriage um protection and provisioning most men
00:10:36.180 out earn women so the average man still even if it's more of a 50 50 even the 50 50 relationships
00:10:41.880 that i look at men still work longer longer hours and they contribute more financially
00:10:46.400 um you also get protection i mean there's some sort of where are they
00:10:50.140 yeah well i mean most most men um earn enough for a wife and kids do they yeah i mean it's just
00:10:57.100 no but the problem is but the problem is i'll tell you guys the problem you you see you you
00:11:01.880 get you have jewelry you have makeup on you have you have i know yeah i know but but i'm saying
00:11:07.100 most women won't go down wait wait most women won't go down in lifestyle for a family so i'll give
00:11:12.480 you an example my friend my friend rachel um she is a homeschooled mom she had four kids
00:11:17.480 and what she did they never took vacation she never had any of the latest fashion trends she barely
00:11:22.900 bought makeup she homeschooled her children she lived on like um they they had chickens they like
00:11:29.400 she did all of that stuff most women aren't willing to do that for a family um and the what she and
00:11:35.480 what she explained she's from um midwest so uh chicago or in america grand rapids yeah i'm from
00:11:42.620 chicago okay um and so what she what she explained to me is kids really aren't as expensive as people
00:11:47.600 want to believe it's just it's just like the women want the vacations they want their they won't do
00:11:52.500 hand-me-downs with the kids yeah like they don't they don't want to homeschool the kids they'd rather
00:11:57.000 have a career too and and the thing is when you start breaking down men's income men's income
00:12:02.020 peaks at about 55 um and and typically over the age of 30 men are making enough for um like to have a
00:12:11.180 family to have two to three kids right but that doesn't mean that they actually share or give
00:12:16.100 or most men most men most men do most men so so if you look at the stats um there's only really about
00:12:22.780 and this is why i don't really get the there's like this group that's like basically insinuating
00:12:29.160 most guys are losers the stats don't really back that up the number one employer of men in the u.s
00:12:33.820 is truckers um and there's only like 15 percent money yeah they do they do there's only there's only
00:12:40.100 like 15 percent of men that that are like the 20 i think it is um that are the losers throughout
00:12:46.240 their lifetime um and the other thing is men are having a harder and harder time getting jobs in
00:12:51.440 high-paying industries because they are discriminated against like i've talked to recruiters
00:12:55.600 um in like tech for example and and there was even a um tech conference for women men were so desperate
00:13:01.960 to get like into that field they infiltrated it they literally like like pretend yeah they pretend
00:13:07.220 no but that but that tells you how much like they're being discriminated against for certain jobs
00:13:13.160 um so that there's more traditional men wanted to be equal yeah there's there's i would say i said
00:13:19.760 it was a good idea yeah well i would say there's there's definitely a lack of masculinity like i don't
00:13:24.720 think most men were taught to be like masculine but it's like who are we most women weren't taught
00:13:29.920 to be feminine and and we'll always say we want a leader but like what percent of women know how to
00:13:34.460 follow but those points you said about the benefits of a woman being married she could still get those if
00:13:40.140 she wasn't married right that's what i was gonna go the same way well but i but but the difference
00:13:46.600 financial support but the difference for but the difference for no not the same because you you can
00:13:51.640 have more um uh basically you have more legal rights as a woman in marriage yeah so okay quick
00:13:58.860 question you mean in like when it becomes divorce yeah yeah you have more protections yeah you have more
00:14:05.620 protections for a woman is this marriage that who and and i would say men typically actually stay
00:14:11.660 so women typically actually get the vows that are promised where men do not but like men don't
00:14:17.760 typically file for a divorce and their reasons i i can't remember them off the top of my head but
00:14:22.020 the reasons that men file for a divorce are um like one is substance abuse like they're typically
00:14:27.620 more serious than the reasons that women file for divorce in general are these um so quick in terms of
00:14:34.180 like marriage and divorces that are signed by a contract that you're going to society has created
00:14:39.780 a contract and in a contract there's obviously rules that you cannot break and if you choose to
00:14:45.620 then break this contract we call our separate ways and somebody has to pay to come so you pay to get
00:14:50.260 into a contract and now you have to pay to get out of this are you talking about a prenup no no no no
00:14:54.580 sorry sorry say that again so marriage in like when you go to the court and you legally do these
00:14:59.220 documents it's a contract correct because you you contract same together now we bind together this
00:15:04.340 is the contract so we paid to get into a contract that was created by a third party
00:15:11.620 and then we have to pay this third party again when we decide this contract no longer serves us
00:15:15.700 yeah right it makes no sense so now so the third party the third party has collected money from you twice
00:15:21.220 to get together right and so now because something in this contract you now decided to exercise this
00:15:30.020 law this contract that both and both of us have agreed that we're going to abide by this whatever
00:15:34.900 is in this contract but we also have the choice to create our own contracts as individuals we don't
00:15:39.940 necessarily have to go to the law right and sit down so i i agree with you but the issue is in this
00:15:45.060 country and in the u.s when you have a child you're automatically put into that system regardless
00:15:51.460 you know i've interviewed divorce attorneys about this and you know i asked one of them if he was
00:15:56.340 afraid of marriage and he said no i'm not afraid of marriage i could get an ironclad prenup i'm not
00:16:01.540 afraid of that but what i am afraid of is having a child because when you have a kid that kid is not yours
00:16:08.020 and you are always at the mercy of her and her family if they start getting in her ear her friends if
00:16:14.420 they start getting in her ear if she starts watching the wrong stuff on tick tock and he said
00:16:18.980 every man thinks that they can prevent it somehow but you just never know for sure so again back to
00:16:26.420 the decision makers right was it i don't know because again it's a genuine question was it a
00:16:33.220 man or a woman that thought it was a good idea to put this contract together that benefits a woman because
00:16:38.260 that's what we're saying it only benefits so yeah and the family because nobody wins when the family fights
00:16:43.220 so i'll tell you i'll tell you why because i had this question like why why are these laws so hard
00:16:47.860 to change and so i started interviewing men's rights activists who have been trying to get them changed
00:16:53.060 for years and their overwhelming consensus is that we cannot get them changed because the politicians
00:17:00.420 can't get their job they can't get elected unless they cater to the female voters and the female voters
00:17:07.220 unfortunately for whatever reason women are very selfish with our voting power and and we we have
00:17:13.780 voted for policies that break down the family and in the 1920s um you know we always hear about the
00:17:18.980 suffragettes so the women that like fought for women to get the right to vote but what they yeah yeah
00:17:24.340 yeah but what they don't know is those those women yeah they were actually they were known as terrorists
00:17:28.740 they planned assassinations they planned bombings they were women who couldn't get husbands yeah yeah and
00:17:33.700 that's what they were known as yeah they were known as that in the community the anti-suffragists
00:17:37.940 were a movement that were against the suffragettes and they said no no no we cannot let women have
00:17:43.060 the right to vote there will be increased spending and you will see the breakdown of the family unit and
00:17:48.180 you will see an increase in regulations now it's it's quite yeah it's been a hundred years who passed
00:17:53.700 the law no but that that's my point women voted to get the laws passed because those laws were not
00:17:59.780 passed when women did not have voting power so you could argue that a small percentage of men
00:18:06.020 were involved in that decision but more women are involved in voting than men are involved in
00:18:12.180 politics so it's a very small percentage of men where women have overwhelmingly voted to break down
00:18:17.860 the family so we're saying that women had a say in this contract that was put together for them to
00:18:24.500 benefit if the family or when the family women or am i saying women had a say yeah and when the contract
00:18:30.100 is drawn yeah is it we all sitting on this table together is there a woman at this table that says yes
00:18:35.300 yeah so someone wrote that contract well it depends right so one it depends on the state you're in in the
00:18:40.500 u.s but when you have a child with a woman you're automatically put like you're put into the state system
00:18:47.460 so then basically what a woman can do is she can be in a relationship in this country she can go to a
00:18:52.260 woman's shelter and the overwhelming response that i've gotten is that these women's domestic abuse
00:18:57.380 shelters that they have stories that they tell you to say about your husband so if he has say a nigerian
00:19:03.380 background you say this story if he has a muslim background you say this story if he has a british
00:19:08.180 background you say this story so they go there they get they get these stories and then what they can do
00:19:13.620 is they they make one phone call and the police can kick a guy out of his house and because they they accuse
00:19:20.180 him of abuse and what what women typically do and you see women do this in conversation is they change
00:19:25.220 the definition of things so if i say she's fat they say oh no she's not fat she's chubby they've done
00:19:30.820 that legally right so when you say oh she was abused it used to just be a man hitting a woman so women
00:19:37.460 come in and they expand and they change the definition so what they did was they switched the definition of
00:19:42.340 abuse they added emotional abuse that's very subjective they yeah they changed the definition of rape
00:19:48.260 it used to be forced sex okay you know what that is someone grabs you off the side of the road right
00:19:52.900 now it's sex without consent subjective um and they base they added the word sexual assault into the
00:19:58.260 language what does that mean most people don't even like what you know now they're saying someone hits
00:20:03.940 your butt that's that's the same thing as an assault you know i i don't know and i'm not even in this
00:20:09.700 country you can get uh arrested staring staring yeah i don't know how long um it's on the train
00:20:22.020 looking at you sexually report to the police wow wow and so unfortunately when women get power we're
00:20:29.300 just not good with it i don't know why we're like this but you know and the women were agreeable we're
00:20:34.180 more neurotic it's all about personality yeah because it's nature isn't it we're not meant to be
00:20:38.420 we're not meant to we're meant to be led yeah yeah if you do something that goes against nature that's
00:20:42.740 then when things mess up yeah and so and that's what the anti-suffragettes like all the women
00:20:47.860 of the time like there's more women that were against women voting than were for it yeah i just wanted to
00:20:53.300 i know you didn't have a direct answer but it's kind of like if you created something who was the
00:20:58.420 creative it's someone invented this camera and now the camera's faulty okay so i'll tell
00:21:04.020 you the the deciding vote for um giving women the right to vote which by and large changed the
00:21:09.300 court system it was a guy who basically did it because his mom was an anti-suffragette
00:21:14.740 that was like the deciding vote so he was kind of like the og simp so they said
00:21:24.020 the reason why men give women the right to vote is because by a lot men are good people and they
00:21:29.940 thought well women should have the right to vote now women get the right to vote but what do they
00:21:34.660 do with it that's the real question are you saying that prior to women voting because the contract of
00:21:40.420 marriage was completely different after women became family family well i'm talking about the
00:21:45.540 contract okay okay because we say that the contract benefits women okay so uh it's a it's a multi to
00:21:52.340 really gynocentrism goes back a thousand years so it like men being discriminated against in court
00:21:58.660 isn't necessarily a new thing i think we just have a natural men just have an innate ability
00:22:04.820 to want to protect women however the culture was really different and the family court yeah the
00:22:10.420 culture yeah yeah because women respond really quickly to social shame yeah yeah so well you know
00:22:15.940 when when something is shamed upon as a culture that's why i say it's not good that we celebrate
00:22:20.260 these things because when things are celebrated women tend to do it when they're shamed we tend to
00:22:24.180 we're going to celebrate him when he gets a divorce and he looks after his ex-wife now and his kids we
00:22:30.500 celebrating him because he's doing the right thing he is still providing he's not being bitter he's not
00:22:36.420 cutting her off she should ultimately not want to take away but again he might decide he wants that 24
00:22:42.260 year old now because she's 35 she's giving him the kids and he's like oh i want a bit of something
00:22:46.260 different again different conversation about right if a man can be with one woman for the rest of his life
00:22:51.300 that's a different rabbit hole so she might not agree to that so then that might be a reason as
00:22:58.260 to why she decides that that's no longer for her right but the problem is we don't celebrate women
00:23:03.140 being amicable after divorce we do not we do not celebrate and we don't celebrate bitter women
00:23:09.620 we i would say we do celebrate bitter women yeah i know we shouldn't but i will give you an example
00:23:14.660 like um anyone carrie underwood fan anyone no one no you guys don't listen to country here but there
00:23:20.820 was a big yeah there's a big yeah but and there's other examples but one that comes to my head is
00:23:26.260 there's a top country song about a woman keying a guy's car after he cheated do you know what i mean
00:23:31.460 like that a couple of them in the pop culture too yeah yeah the one the one i don't hear them do a lot
00:23:37.220 kill my ex that is literally in the charts i might kill my ex can you imagine if that was a man
00:23:45.140 singing that song i might kill my ex not the best idea and everyone's like it's funny because she's
00:23:52.260 just a woman and she's crazy if a man made the same song in a rap song in a rock song i don't
00:23:57.300 care what it is if a man said the same thing the media would be going nuts but it is absolutely glorified
00:24:03.540 in our culture there's another one as well um it's megan trainer i i did an episode on this so i spent a
00:24:08.820 long long time researching the charts and how things have changed over the years how music and
00:24:13.620 television what they show us right even in soaps you never hear in soaps anymore of you know on
00:24:18.820 eastenders no one's been together for 30 years someone's having it off with someone everything's
00:24:23.380 chaotic in music again megan trainer there's this song and she says um she says i am your mother you
00:24:30.900 listen to me i don't want to hear none of that mansplaining and the whole song is basically
00:24:35.860 composed in such a way of this gynocentric society so you have this queen kind of in a dictatorship
00:24:45.620 figure and it's basically the whole song is just putting down men lots of women's music that is in
00:24:52.260 the charts if you read the lyrics you would be absolutely appalled and you would only be appalled
00:24:57.620 when you apply it to the men because that i might kill my ex song and another one oh she's sweet but a
00:25:03.300 psycho can we imagine if if we had a song about a dude where he said oh he's a gentleman but he's
00:25:09.620 also a narcissistic abuser we celebrate these things in women but if you heard it as a man i heard the uh
00:25:16.980 the other song in when i was selling photocopiers before this job um i heard this song and it was like
00:25:22.900 i might kill my ex and it's like a really like creepy song catchy yeah and it gets in people's heads and
00:25:28.900 we don't know what kind of subliminal messaging that's doing to the unconscious minds of programming
00:25:33.300 exactly yeah back to again gender yeah yeah exactly but like basically there was a small percentage of
00:25:41.780 you know i would say simp beta men that decided to give women all of this power and then all of men had
00:25:48.020 to pay for it is are those the same would you put them and the women of that they call the pick me's
00:25:53.540 woman and the same is that like mirror like the manipulation of the pick me's the girls that they
00:25:58.420 say they oh she's a pick me like she's going to agree that she wants to be a traditionalist and she
00:26:03.060 just wants because she just wants to agree when when i when i think of simps i think of a woman
00:26:09.220 right i just think it's like a woman in a guy's body that's what i think of so he disagrees to
00:26:15.300 everything for women's benefit no i think simps will tell you what you want to hear yeah they tell you
00:26:20.820 what they want to hear that's what i'm saying and then and then well but they call a pick me
00:26:24.900 anyone that like listens to her husband they call a pick me they can i hear you yeah okay the
00:26:30.740 difference is women should absolutely be pick me's and men should absolutely not be simps that's the
00:26:35.220 difference one one is bad for society and one is actually good for society not everybody wants to
00:26:40.420 get chose okay what do you think of the song oh with the yeah chubby girl um i shouldn't say that
00:26:56.660 i don't want to send the ladies you know what um i feel like she's just lazy but the song itself was
00:27:02.340 a little bit it sounded like she just went to cry about life she just sounds like the traditional
00:27:07.700 person that would just continuously moan all the time like my mom didn't appreciate the way i look
00:27:12.340 she told me to do this and i didn't i tried to do it and i couldn't do it and all that kind of stuff
00:27:15.940 it just sounds lazy to me and where everybody was talking about eating certain things and that you
00:27:20.340 don't really have to do that you just have to wake up in the morning walk down the stairs instead of
00:27:23.780 taking the elevator then walk to the gym instead of driving there just simple stuff that you could just
00:27:29.060 do to lose weight without even changing your diet it's not hard what do you think i think her voice was
00:27:34.420 amazing as a singer i think she's incredible i know her voice was good i was like the song kind of
00:27:38.740 slaps a little bit i was like i don't like the lyrics but it's kind of fire i just think that her
00:27:49.060 voice is good but she was in her mental space was in a bad place um yeah so her delivery was very
00:27:56.100 up and down regarding what she wants as to most so what she doesn't want that's it really well thank you
00:28:03.460 guys all for coming um i i think we're gonna do final thoughts so um i'm gonna read the super chats
00:28:09.220 really quick um and then you guys can give you know any final thoughts you have on what we learned
00:28:14.100 today or the show or anything um okay guys um make sure you like the video um that's the most important
00:28:21.540 metric that youtube uses um also okay chris hoodie girl claims to be traditional lol boundless guardian no no
00:28:31.940 okay okay okay um boundless um sorry guys let's let's just read through the super chat so we can
00:28:45.060 get through it quickly okay boundless guardian um help is only help if the intent is positive if
00:28:50.660 someone punches you in the face with the intent to help you learn to fight um there's a difference than
00:28:56.100 just hitting you in the face to hurt you promoting lifestyles works the same ways intent matters normally
00:29:01.220 you're on point pearl but men of all races and colors got the right to vote via the 15th amendment
00:29:06.820 women didn't get the right to vote until 1920 um so previously enslaved men voted before wives did
00:29:13.540 that is a sad fact 90 frito pie i love my bbw but if there's a fire i'm not carrying you if we have
00:29:23.220 if we have if we have kids who's gonna play with with them first dates should be walking flights of
00:29:28.900 stairs um chris this 40 year old lady can't think in general because she's only thinking about her
00:29:35.140 selfish wants women generally think in a narcissistic way and will always make things about themselves
00:29:40.340 and see can't see past their nose 90 frito pie women during a possible world war three still have
00:29:46.740 delusional standards so many bombings on civilians almost record-breaking second to pearl reading super
00:29:53.460 chats um american virus is freedom women started getting custody women started automatically getting
00:30:01.620 custody during the 70s with the tender years loss women would automatically get custody with men
00:30:07.620 all right women would automatically get custody with men getting every other weekend at most um while
00:30:12.900 having to pay 25 percent income to child support enter black dragon um thoughts on age gap dating i'm 41
00:30:20.740 she's 21 she brought sex femininity cooperation compliance and peace women my age are bitter angry
00:30:27.620 and masculine as a man our purpose includes provisioning and protection of families american
00:30:34.260 virus is freedom shared experiences are what build a solid relationship men want to show women their first
00:30:40.900 experiences in the world no man wants to offer you the world only to hear that you already did it with
00:30:46.580 other men this includes in being intimate doug mpa the whale on the couch has no room to trash a man
00:30:53.780 sassy apocalypse your cholesterol is too high to be running your mouth what a bad representative for
00:31:00.020 for american people harpoon whales sorry um hardly tone peace to the goat sterling um enter black dragon
00:31:08.820 black and blue toxic masculinity huge red flag enter black dragon wife equals woman and feminine energy
00:31:16.020 100 percent in marriage um is oh i uh i think that's yeah that's the last wife okay let me refresh it just
00:31:25.460 make sure there's more um okay okay that's all of them all right final thoughts starting here go around
00:31:35.220 and then second row go ahead um i just don't see it as a man versus woman world and i think that both sides
00:31:41.940 could offer a little bit more grace to each other we can offer grace to everybody each other i think
00:31:47.380 a lot of women in this room could offer other women some grace in life okay um thank you for having
00:31:53.540 me um final thoughts um it's been interesting to hear everybody's differences i mean your age age range
00:32:02.180 for me still blows my mind 24 but yeah um yeah drink water and mind your business okay so my final thought
00:32:12.500 is something that i wanted to bring up before about um you know you say women shouldn't vote i don't
00:32:18.180 actually vote because i don't think the votes count i think that they're all wings from the same bird and
00:32:23.300 they're all puppets so whatever your vote goes to it's gonna just happen the way they want it to happen
00:32:30.340 it really doesn't matter so i don't vote for that reason yeah last election was stolen us go ahead
00:32:40.260 mine is just enjoy your life and be happy because it's not long that's it done
00:32:48.180 nobody wins when the family fights
00:32:50.100 happy to have blown some minds with my age gap
00:33:03.220 uh yeah i agree with what you said you know it's politicians they're all the same people in
00:33:11.700 different colored tires really most of them anyway unless you have someone who's brave enough to come
00:33:15.940 along that's anti-establishment there's definitely not one of those in the uk so uh yeah
00:33:23.060 um peace at home is the most important thing i've gathered from today
00:33:28.580 my final thoughts are just walk with love be at peace and have tunnel vision
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