JustPearlyThings - August 26, 2023


Women Will NEVER Be The Same Again


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11 minutes

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1,964

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324

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31

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3

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In this episode, we discuss the difference between a good housewife and a bad housewife, domestic skills and attitude. We also talk about the benefits and drawbacks of being a housewife vs being a good one.

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00:00:00.000 Alright. Okay, now domestic skills. She's an A, but she has no domestic skills. What is she? 1.00
00:00:06.160 No domestic skills? No domestic skills. So raise of hands is a B. Raise your hand. 0.93
00:00:11.920 She doesn't have any domestic skills. No. But she's still got the good attitude. You can teach her, 1.00
00:00:17.680 you know. Oh, if you can teach, that's a B. No, see, that's not fair, because that's not what we
00:00:22.400 were talking about. We were just grading domestic skills, not if she's nice or if she's got a nice 1.00
00:00:29.040 attitude. She has everything else that's on the list, but she can't cook. B. If she's open to 0.95
00:00:34.960 learn B, B, B, yeah. Okay. Nah, nah. That's good. I like that. That's fair. I can't believe this.
00:00:41.840 I need the women. Are you mad? She can't cook. Wait, wait. If she can learn, if she can learn. 1.00
00:00:45.680 I need the women to stop whining. Stop whining about the men's preferences. These are the men's 1.00
00:00:50.880 preferences. They didn't whine when we picked this out. So wait, what's the kids eating?
00:00:56.800 This is the fish finger. Okay, but let's be honest. Most people know how to take care
00:01:01.680 of themselves. I have my own place, so I look after my own place. So if she's moving in and
00:01:05.760 she doesn't know how to look after it, it's calm. I'm doing it anyway.
00:01:07.920 So you're happy being a mature housewife?
00:01:10.640 The other thing, not about being a housewife, but I was learned, right, when in the household
00:01:14.640 I was growing up, me and my siblings were responsible for taking care of the house,
00:01:18.000 right? Because the teachers discipline all of that. That's just how I am. So if she has everything
00:01:22.720 else, but that's the only thing she doesn't bring, that's calm. But the thing is, if she's
00:01:27.040 submissive and agreeable, and you ask her to learn how to cook, she'd cook. 0.99
00:01:30.560 It's a robot for another, exactly, yeah. If she's submissive. 0.99
00:01:33.520 Yeah, but you're adding all this stuff. All we said is that she doesn't have any domestic.
00:01:38.400 You're like, if she doesn't have domestic, then this, this, this. That's different.
00:01:41.200 No, no, I'm agreeing with you. I'm saying, if she doesn't know how to cook, 1.00
00:01:45.280 and she doesn't have domestic skills, but she's submissive and all of that. 1.00
00:01:47.920 It doesn't matter. Yeah. Okay. Because that was the same. Well, yeah, there you go.
00:01:50.960 Okay. So next, um, all right. She, A, but she's got a kid. All right. So we're going to raise
00:01:59.360 of hands. We're going to raise of hands. Who says a B? This one is controversial.
00:02:03.040 Who says a B? Okay. Now, who says a C? Oh dear. Now, who says a D? Okay. One D. Who says an F?
00:02:11.920 Oh, okay. This is scary. No, guys, ladies, this is important. Ladies watching, this is what happens
00:02:23.200 if you become a single mother. If you're going to leave your home, the grass is not greener on the
00:02:27.680 other side. You will go from an A to an F. Yep. You become an equation. Based on one decision.
00:02:33.520 It's harsh. It's true. Like, it's like, I don't like no guy who doesn't have a kid wants to choose
00:02:41.840 a woman to marry and have kids. Yeah, exactly. Like it got, we just, it's, it's such a major
00:02:46.960 thing for us. I don't know why. And it's harsh, but it's true. And practically, it's just all the
00:02:51.520 responsibility without the authority. It's like, if things go wrong, it's your fault, but you have no
00:02:56.320 control over the situation. Okay. That's a scapegoat. Okay. Next. All right. I want a bad
00:03:05.760 attitude. So a woman has an A, but she's got a bad attitude. Is she a B? Raise your hand. 1.00
00:03:13.440 C? Raise your hand. D? Raise your hand. F? Raise your hand. Okay. This is, this is the most common
00:03:24.720 answer we got. I'm not going to disagree. Yeah. Yeah. So, so guys, I mean, this is a lesson for
00:03:29.920 the chicks. You can look hot. You can be amazing. You can look great. I just want to say, but if you 1.00
00:03:34.240 got a bad attitude, you go from an A to an F. I'm guessing most of the men in this room in Nigerian, 1.00
00:03:39.000 respect is very important in our culture. Yeah. I'm just saying that. And I think also after you deal
00:03:46.200 with a lot of women, you just don't tolerate bad attitudes. Yeah, but I'll be honest, but like there's a level 1.00
00:03:50.500 of respect in African culture that is different to like the Oymbo culture. Okay. Now she's got all 1.00
00:03:58.340 this, right? But she's cheated before. Oh, no. Okay. We're going to wait. Let me just, let me just rank it.
00:04:07.200 Okay. Is she a B? C? D? She cheated. She cheated once. All right. He says D.
00:04:16.380 All right. She did. All right. Again, important, important lesson. Oh, we forgot body count.
00:04:25.380 We didn't say that, but it goes. No, ladies, we're going to ask the ladies first and then we're 0.99
00:04:29.300 going to ask the guys. So ladies, you're back in the game. All right. A B has slept with how many 1.00
00:04:35.020 people? Let's, let's, let's break down actual numbers. Three to five. All right. Three to five is
00:04:40.940 a B. All right. Raise your hand, ladies, if you think three to five is a B. I would say 1.00
00:04:47.180 that's fine. Three to five. Yes. In modern times. Historically, it's all whores, but you 1.00
00:04:51.940 know. All right. I just don't like that. All right. I just don't like that. Yeah, but you're 0.99
00:04:59.940 going to be, you're going to be going to get. This is how men think, guys. This is how men think.
00:05:03.940 All right. Ten bodies brings you down to a what? A C? What's that? Ten bodies. Is that a C?
00:05:13.220 Raise your hand, women, if you think it's a C. I would say D. D is 10? I would say D. Okay. 10 is a D. 1.00
00:05:21.520 Okay. All right. How many is an F? 15? Yeah. 15. Who says? And above. All right. We're going to go
00:05:28.060 20. 20 above. You say above 20? All right. What's your number? 15? 15. What's your number?
00:05:33.800 15? What's your number? Yeah, it should be 15. That's what I'm saying. Okay. Yeah, higher
00:05:38.800 than the age. Okay. So we're just going to say roughly. That does make sense. You say roughly.
00:05:43.080 I have this one tiny before I go here. Okay. We'll go. We'll go. We'll go. We'll see you.
00:05:46.880 We'll see you there. Okay. I like that. We'll do 20. We'll do 20 because I think averaging
00:05:52.460 that out, it'd be like, we're just going to, for shits and giggles. Okay, men. All right, 0.98
00:05:57.320 men, let's go body count. Let's break it down. All right. What is an A, guys? How many bodies does she 1.00
00:06:03.460 get to still be an A? Realistically. Before, can I just ask you, is it now or? Yeah, realistic
00:06:08.060 now. I'm asking you if you had to give out a report card. Okay. Okay, now. I'm going to go
00:06:13.400 right now. I'm going to go right now. I'm going to go right now. I'm asking your opinion. It
00:06:16.380 should be what they ideally want, right? I'm asking what the men, I'm asking what you want.
00:06:21.240 We want to know what you want. All right. All right. Who says only a virgin gets an A? Yeah,
00:06:26.020 raise your hand. All the guys. No, not all the guys. Why are you saying? All right. So
00:06:33.160 zero is an A. All right. For a B. All right. Let's, I'm going to, I want you to raise your
00:06:39.100 hand when it becomes a B. Okay. One, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine.
00:06:51.580 Okay. I would say the average, most people said three or four, I think. Okay. So we're
00:07:05.100 kind of three to five was the women. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. So we, we kind of, we, we kind of
00:07:21.560 match. So now we're going to, I want you to raise your hand when it becomes a C now.
00:07:25.620 All right. One, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, 10, 11. Okay. Okay. So
00:07:41.700 seven, eight, seven, seven, seven, seven to 10 ish
00:07:47.580 ish ish ish ish. Okay. Now we're going to go see what a D is. 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15,
00:07:59.580 15, 16. Okay. So like 16 ish ish. 10 to 15 roughly. We're just going to go is a D. Now
00:08:09.460 Now, let's go to F.
00:08:12.260 All right, 16, 7, okay.
00:08:15.120 Yeah, anything.
00:08:17.000 So, no, and this is important for us ladies to know what percent of women are getting Fs right now. 1.00
00:08:24.000 No, seriously.
00:08:25.460 And, you know, men might not tell us this to our face, but this is how guys think.
00:08:29.720 You can't say it.
00:08:30.820 And this is what I mean when I say the majority of women are getting Fs, are getting Ds. 0.96
00:08:36.540 We don't really have A-plus women anymore. 1.00
00:08:39.460 Oh, I forgot one.
00:08:41.240 All right, ladies, what does an abortion bring you down to? 1.00
00:08:45.180 Listen, now.
00:08:46.960 Okay, so I'm going to go down from A to F, and I want you guys to raise your hand when you think an abortion.
00:08:53.680 So, one abortion. 0.86
00:08:54.680 Who says B?
00:08:56.100 Who says C?
00:08:57.860 Who says D?
00:08:59.560 Who says F?
00:09:00.880 I would say an abortion. 0.96
00:09:02.020 You guys didn't even raise your hand.
00:09:03.220 No, I'm just not really.
00:09:04.360 Oh, it's okay.
00:09:05.120 It's all right.
00:09:06.000 All right.
00:09:06.700 What do you?
00:09:07.320 Yeah, I kind of.
00:09:08.040 I just don't mess with that at all.
00:09:10.960 Well, the men do.
00:09:12.340 So, okay.
00:09:12.700 I know, but it's just.
00:09:13.440 You don't have to vote.
00:09:14.020 It's fine.
00:09:14.360 It's really hard.
00:09:15.520 It's a hard topic.
00:09:16.680 I say F.
00:09:17.540 You say?
00:09:18.620 That's such a weird way to vote.
00:09:19.760 I say F.
00:09:21.120 C, maybe.
00:09:21.880 C?
00:09:22.340 Okay.
00:09:22.780 Yeah.
00:09:23.140 I don't know.
00:09:23.520 What do you say?
00:09:26.520 It's part of the mentality.
00:09:28.040 I would say F, to be honest.
00:09:29.600 Okay.
00:09:29.880 So, that averages out at like a D.
00:09:31.420 So, we'll do it here.
00:09:32.360 All right.
00:09:32.740 Men.
00:09:34.500 One abortion.
00:09:35.940 It brings you down.
00:09:37.420 All right.
00:09:37.780 So, you're still an A.
00:09:41.580 You're still.
00:09:41.960 Everything counts.
00:09:43.160 Yeah.
00:09:43.660 So, just raise your hand when you think it's one abortion where she's at.
00:09:46.940 Okay.
00:09:47.780 So, A, B, C, D, F.
00:09:55.900 Wow.
00:09:56.200 This was a mix.
00:09:57.600 Yeah.
00:09:57.900 Oh, wow.
00:09:58.820 What would you guys say the average of that was?
00:10:00.900 I think.
00:10:01.260 I think.
00:10:02.320 I feel like C. 0.86
00:10:03.200 C was average.
00:10:04.640 All right.
00:10:05.180 If she's everything else, then yeah, I'd say.
00:10:07.560 All right.
00:10:07.840 So, one abortion. 0.86
00:10:09.120 Would that mean two abortions brings you down another two? 1.00
00:10:11.800 Yeah.
00:10:11.840 Yeah.
00:10:12.000 Yeah.
00:10:12.440 Yeah.
00:10:12.480 Because, like, one is a mistake.
00:10:14.220 Yeah.
00:10:14.320 Two is just.
00:10:15.540 Okay.
00:10:15.820 Like, negligence.
00:10:17.320 Negligence.
00:10:18.020 Thank you.
00:10:18.460 No, but.
00:10:18.720 But isn't one negligence?
00:10:21.380 But this is the thing.
00:10:22.480 We're looking at it as if the abortion is separate from the woman. 0.71
00:10:26.280 Once a woman gets an abortion, that damages something in her. 1.00
00:10:30.000 Yeah, it does.
00:10:30.640 And we're talking about that.
00:10:31.620 I'm not well-versed.
00:10:32.540 I don't know.
00:10:33.080 No, think about it.
00:10:34.000 Because they always make abortion seem as if it's this thing where it saves the woman and this and that.
00:10:38.760 Yeah, we get it.
00:10:39.380 Women go through things and they might think they want to get an abortion. 1.00
00:10:42.560 But people never talk about the effects abortions have on women. 0.85
00:10:47.340 So if we're talking about the woman, you want to pick. 0.92
00:10:48.680 But it doesn't make you less valuable.
00:10:50.260 It's not about being valuable.
00:10:51.260 What I'm talking about is if I'm talking about the woman I want to pick to be my wife who I want to have a family with and she's had an abortion, there is a trauma that comes with that.
00:10:59.340 All right.