JustPearlyThings - August 04, 2023


You Won't BELIEVE The DELUSION Of This Sex Worker


Episode Stats

Length

15 minutes

Words per Minute

210.43199

Word Count

3,327

Sentence Count

352

Misogynist Sentences

42

Hate Speech Sentences

28


Summary

How many bodies should a woman need to have for her to be considered a high value woman? Is there a limit to how many bodies a woman should have in a relationship? Is it more than a certain number? How many people should she sleep with before she marries? Is she more valuable than a girl who sleeps with more than 5 people in a single night?


Transcript

00:00:00.000 How, how many bodies does a girl have to have for high value to go off the table?
00:00:07.300 So she no longer, it's, yeah, I know you said 20.
00:00:12.580 She's got a generous man over here.
00:00:15.620 What do you think?
00:00:20.260 Whatever the guy thinks, like whatever.
00:00:24.120 I'm asking what you think.
00:00:25.100 Personally, for me, I feel like body count shouldn't matter, but I feel like if there
00:00:34.660 was a number, I don't want to say, cause like I have friends with higher body count, you
00:00:41.180 know, I don't want to like, I mean, high values, it's supposed to, it's like, it's like saying
00:00:45.840 I'm not a millionaire.
00:00:47.300 Not everyone can be a millionaire.
00:00:49.140 Not every girl can be high value.
00:00:51.260 It's not an insult.
00:00:52.300 If I, if I say to you, you're not a millionaire, are you insulted?
00:00:55.100 No.
00:00:57.060 So if I say you're not a high value woman, it shouldn't be insulting.
00:01:04.060 I honestly don't know.
00:01:05.500 Like, I feel like every man has their own, like, like he said 20, like some guy, some,
00:01:11.000 some guys don't care about body count.
00:01:12.860 Okay.
00:01:13.040 I know, but I'm asking what you think.
00:01:15.000 Okay.
00:01:15.200 What about he had a brother?
00:01:17.500 Yeah, I have a brother.
00:01:18.160 Okay.
00:01:18.580 So for his girlfriend, what's the most?
00:01:21.020 Um, I'm not sure, but I'm thinking the same, like 20 as well.
00:01:30.860 All right.
00:01:31.220 20.
00:01:31.720 Okay.
00:01:32.020 What do you think?
00:01:33.360 I don't think body count matters one bit because we're all born with, you know, private parts
00:01:41.120 and stuff.
00:01:41.540 And they're there to be used.
00:01:42.620 And if you want to do that of a hundred people a week, do that.
00:01:46.820 It's there for a reason.
00:01:48.580 It's there to be pleased on both ends.
00:01:51.920 And I just don't think we're in a generation now where really body count, like, no.
00:01:57.960 Are you nodding?
00:01:59.120 Oh my God.
00:02:00.640 This is what I mean.
00:02:01.720 This is what I mean.
00:02:02.700 It's different for everyone.
00:02:04.280 I'm going to give you stats.
00:02:05.040 I'm just curious if it'll change your opinion.
00:02:07.680 So, so a girl, if she's a virgin on her wedding night, 80% chance of a happy marriage.
00:02:11.280 If she sleeps with more than five people, do you know what it drops down to?
00:02:14.840 Very low.
00:02:16.320 20%.
00:02:16.720 Yeah.
00:02:17.300 So, so knowing that you don't think that it would be better for a guy to pick a girl
00:02:21.240 that has an 80% chance of a happy marriage and that would make her more valuable than
00:02:25.200 a girl that's in love with a hundred, a hundred people.
00:02:27.460 That's like every, I don't even know a hundred people.
00:02:30.660 Just an example.
00:02:31.820 Well, um, I guess when you put it like that, you found 20 dudes, you couldn't keep, you
00:02:37.480 couldn't keep one out of 20.
00:02:38.900 But you know what though?
00:02:39.900 I do know quite a lot of people where they, they don't want anything serious and they like
00:02:44.180 doing that and they actually enjoy it.
00:02:46.300 And maybe it doesn't make them a higher value, but if that's what someone enjoys, go do it.
00:02:52.760 Oh yeah.
00:02:53.240 Like, so first of all, notice that these girls are actually arguing against each other, but
00:02:56.220 they don't realize it.
00:02:56.960 Right.
00:02:57.500 Because this young lady here, she's like, I don't want to say a number because I have friends
00:03:00.920 above that number.
00:03:01.520 Are you insinuating that being above that number is going to be somehow offensive to
00:03:04.700 your friends?
00:03:05.620 Like you're literally saying with saying that, that, oh, high number is bad.
00:03:09.100 My friends will feel bad about themselves and I'll make them look bad.
00:03:11.560 Well, if numbers don't matter, wouldn't they just not care?
00:03:13.920 Just tell us what's that number.
00:03:15.280 Tell us how many, how many bodies is too much so that your friends aren't going to get offended
00:03:20.660 because your friend here said that it doesn't matter.
00:03:22.820 Does it?
00:03:23.360 No, I, I, I, I agree with her.
00:03:25.320 Like I feel like body count shouldn't matter, but I'm saying like, and yet you won't tell us.
00:03:29.600 And yet you won't tell us what that number is.
00:03:31.420 What's a high number for like, yeah, you said, well, my friends are going to get offended
00:03:34.820 because they've had more bodies.
00:03:35.880 Are you insinuating that more bodies is bad?
00:03:37.720 Because that's what it sounds like.
00:03:39.280 No.
00:03:39.880 Really?
00:03:40.300 Then tell us what's that number?
00:03:42.400 Like I said, like, I don't think, but like, no, cause she said if my brother was to marry
00:03:48.300 someone like what, what, what, what his like body count would be with that woman.
00:03:53.100 So I wouldn't know, but I feel like body count shouldn't matter.
00:03:57.080 Like, like I said, a guy cares about a woman's past or how many, um, guys they slept with.
00:04:03.040 But did she not, did I hear her wrong?
00:04:05.040 Correct me guys.
00:04:05.440 If I'm wrong.
00:04:05.800 Did she not say five minutes ago, she said that I don't want to say a number because
00:04:09.980 my friends might be offended because their numbers are higher.
00:04:12.000 Does that insinuate that a higher number is bad by her trying to protect her friends then?
00:04:15.600 Yeah.
00:04:15.960 So she's arguing against herself.
00:04:17.980 Now, let me tell you why these girls are saying it.
00:04:19.660 You guys understand why women say that body numbers don't matter, but they actually think
00:04:23.280 they do.
00:04:23.940 Women are insinuating that it's good to have an open sexual marketplace because they
00:04:27.280 know that high number of partners discounts and disvalues other women.
00:04:30.740 So they're like, you go girl, you get that D you get whatever you want, blah, blah, blah.
00:04:34.180 But in there, if everyone was a virgin, the girls that weren't, it would like, they would
00:04:39.200 be way less valuable.
00:04:40.980 So that's like, that's why men should raise their standards.
00:04:43.120 It's the same.
00:04:43.300 It's the same thing that women are like, Oh, you go, you're 300 pounds, Lizzo.
00:04:46.380 You're beautiful.
00:04:47.040 Woo.
00:04:47.220 It's like, they don't, the women themselves don't believe men do this too.
00:04:50.600 I think men do this too.
00:04:51.640 They don't want the market to change and they don't want to like discount.
00:04:54.320 Oh, they're just trying to get laid.
00:04:55.180 No.
00:04:55.360 Yeah.
00:04:55.580 They're trying to get laid.
00:04:56.600 So they're like, yeah, we don't care about the high body count for the night, for the
00:05:01.160 night, but later they'll care.
00:05:03.120 They'll care.
00:05:03.840 No offense.
00:05:06.220 It's not just you.
00:05:08.020 No, but like, come on, sir.
00:05:10.900 You want a girl that slept with 20 dudes?
00:05:14.620 Really?
00:05:15.140 That's your mother of your kids.
00:05:17.620 That's your wifey.
00:05:19.780 You know, she slept with Tom, Dick, Harry, Jeremy, Tyrone, Alex, Brian, Austin, Adam, Dimitri.
00:05:34.960 She, um, and she'll never forget it.
00:05:38.060 Yeah, yeah.
00:05:39.160 Sorry, I'm not even, I couldn't even think of 20 names.
00:05:41.600 Yeah, like, it's because you guys are making it like, real.
00:05:45.840 It is real.
00:05:46.500 You know what I mean?
00:05:47.000 But it's like, let's see, before.
00:05:49.500 You would think of it as well.
00:05:50.600 Donovan.
00:05:50.840 If you had to, come in there.
00:05:52.740 Tell them.
00:05:53.360 Eric.
00:05:53.680 Eric.
00:05:55.760 Like, speaking about it.
00:05:57.400 Timmy, Tyrone, too.
00:06:01.280 Chad.
00:06:02.420 I'm almost, you know.
00:06:03.940 No, you're almost right now.
00:06:04.860 Yeah, yeah, I see.
00:06:05.920 I can't even.
00:06:07.120 Give some nerdy names.
00:06:08.220 Phillip.
00:06:08.780 Phillip.
00:06:10.080 Jeff.
00:06:11.100 You're right.
00:06:13.120 And you're like, you know what, baby?
00:06:15.080 That's all right.
00:06:16.400 Yeah.
00:06:16.660 I'm so happy to walk you down this aisle in the white dress in front of the whole crowd
00:06:23.040 of people we know.
00:06:24.460 Five guys she slept with is in the crowd.
00:06:27.800 Yeah, yeah.
00:06:28.780 It's different, though, because, like, thinking about it logically, thinking about it, it will
00:06:35.860 be like, I would, if I know the person, like, deeply enough, like, that wouldn't care.
00:06:42.900 But initially, going to find someone, I would prefer someone that's, like, below, like,
00:06:50.400 five or something.
00:06:51.600 You know what I mean?
00:06:51.980 Thank you for being honest.
00:06:54.440 Thank you for being honest.
00:06:56.420 Well, you know what I mean?
00:06:56.940 But if I have to, like.
00:06:58.180 She could get away with 20 if you had to.
00:07:01.040 If I.
00:07:01.560 But if you had two women exactly the same, one's 20, one's five, you're going to.
00:07:05.880 Yeah.
00:07:06.400 Yeah.
00:07:06.980 Yeah.
00:07:07.640 Yeah.
00:07:08.080 Thank you for being honest.
00:07:09.700 I knew I would get it out of you.
00:07:11.100 I knew I would.
00:07:13.440 It's okay.
00:07:13.880 He's young.
00:07:14.700 He's young.
00:07:15.240 It's not as young, though.
00:07:16.440 It's like, you know, there's less guys in there.
00:07:20.460 You know, you feel somewhat more like, yeah, cool.
00:07:23.220 Wait, it makes you feel more secure in yourself?
00:07:25.200 I wouldn't say secure.
00:07:26.600 It would be like, all right, less guys as touch her.
00:07:30.920 You know what I mean?
00:07:31.240 Like, she's like my.
00:07:33.040 Precious.
00:07:33.600 She just said something really interesting, and I think that's worth noting.
00:07:36.300 She said it makes you feel more secure about yourself.
00:07:38.260 And that's a gaslighting technique, and if you want, I can really dig into this one.
00:07:42.140 Yeah, go ahead.
00:07:42.860 Because she's like.
00:07:44.080 Because she's saying like, well, if you've, you know, with a woman that had less partners,
00:07:48.180 it means that, you know, you're just insecure being with a woman with a very high body count,
00:07:51.520 right?
00:07:51.920 But that's actually shifting the blame and the accountability of your behavior on him.
00:07:56.740 It's not his behavior that caused that.
00:07:58.340 Right now, biologically, men are predisposed to do what?
00:08:00.780 To reproduce.
00:08:01.280 And for that, we need to have a paternity guarantee.
00:08:03.960 That's why, that's why we want, that's why virgins are very highly valued through history.
00:08:06.840 We want to guarantee a paternity.
00:08:07.840 We want to make sure the kids are our kids, right?
00:08:10.300 And we know that after what?
00:08:11.360 Five partners, pair bonding basically drops, and that's a vasopressin chemical thing to
00:08:15.120 get into that.
00:08:15.600 Actually, the biggest drop is from like one to two.
00:08:18.560 Yes.
00:08:18.940 It's like, it's like 80%.
00:08:20.460 It depends on the study.
00:08:21.940 Then after five, it starts to drop again.
00:08:23.320 Yeah, yeah.
00:08:23.500 Yeah, no, five is like, it's like, no, like gone, you know, gone forever.
00:08:28.600 But like one to two, it goes from like 80% to like 40%.
00:08:31.880 Yeah.
00:08:32.580 So it's like, so it's like, yeah, you're insecure because you wouldn't take a chick with
00:08:35.580 a high body count.
00:08:36.260 That just sounds like a chick with a high body count doesn't want to, doesn't want to take
00:08:39.900 accountability for her actions.
00:08:40.960 But as a man, we know that pair bonding decreases with a woman who has a high body count.
00:08:44.700 We also know there's a significantly higher opportunity or actually a chance for her to cheat.
00:08:48.920 Because when women cheat, if you actually look at the data who they cheat with, it's usually
00:08:52.020 somebody they slept with in the past.
00:08:53.900 There's a, she's an alpha widow.
00:08:55.160 Really?
00:08:55.500 Of course.
00:08:55.960 Yeah.
00:08:56.240 Really?
00:08:56.700 That makes perfect.
00:08:57.220 Yeah, of course.
00:08:57.680 Where did you find that?
00:08:58.420 I didn't know.
00:08:58.860 I've never heard of that.
00:08:59.200 Oh, yeah.
00:08:59.520 We can get into that.
00:09:00.160 I got some books you can read, right?
00:09:01.220 Because it's like a woman for her to start a new relationship with a man.
00:09:04.720 She's not doing it for the sex.
00:09:05.800 She's doing it to leave the relationship.
00:09:07.080 Women cheat to leave relationships.
00:09:08.300 There's a lot of data to actually back it up, right?
00:09:10.220 The data to back it up is very simple.
00:09:12.220 A woman's propensity to cheat drops significantly with the income of her partner.
00:09:15.540 The richer her husband, the less a woman cheats.
00:09:17.740 And this has been proven over and over and over and over and over and over.
00:09:20.240 Most of the cheating, there's about 20% of women that are statistically shown to be cheating in their marriages.
00:09:27.140 Overwhelmingly, those are swayed towards men that are earning the low average incomes versus men with higher incomes tend to cheat more, but their wives tend to cheat significantly less.
00:09:35.120 So why do women cheat?
00:09:36.980 Acquisition of resources.
00:09:37.960 Why do men cheat?
00:09:38.620 Spread the seed paternity, right?
00:09:40.560 Because men have more opportunities with the higher income.
00:09:42.260 So it's like, well, you don't want a woman with low body counts because you're insecure in yourself.
00:09:45.360 No, that you're insecure in yourself and you want to blame the man for it.
00:09:48.560 And that's just like a really toxic behavior.
00:09:51.160 And if you think when you want to buy a car or you want to buy clothes or anything, you want it not used, really.
00:09:57.160 Yeah.
00:09:57.740 Don't you?
00:09:58.400 I don't want nobody putting dicks in my car.
00:10:03.860 What do you, do you still think body count doesn't matter?
00:10:06.620 Or do you still, same opinion?
00:10:09.160 Same opinion.
00:10:09.920 Always, till the day I die.
00:10:12.060 Don't matter.
00:10:12.660 Holy no.
00:10:13.240 I'm just curious, like new information doesn't ever change your opinion?
00:10:17.020 It's just I don't care.
00:10:18.040 I just don't care.
00:10:20.000 Like, it just doesn't.
00:10:21.460 Because for a man, a man can sleep with what?
00:10:23.860 A thousand people.
00:10:25.020 But that man's not a hoe.
00:10:26.880 But a woman, she's a hoe.
00:10:28.540 Hey, he's the hoe maker.
00:10:29.780 He's a, okay.
00:10:30.740 He's the hoe maker.
00:10:31.460 He's a hoe maker.
00:10:32.340 I mean, what's the phrase, like a key that opens many locks is a good key, but a lock that opens for everybody, it's not a good lock.
00:10:40.620 Yeah.
00:10:41.120 Also, you have to let the men actually in.
00:10:43.580 Yeah.
00:10:44.220 Do you know what I mean?
00:10:44.760 Yeah.
00:10:44.980 That's quite actually a big deal.
00:10:46.740 Yeah, I guess so.
00:10:47.620 It should be.
00:10:48.140 And you know what, actually, you're saying that, I do understand because it's like a soul tie a little bit.
00:10:52.580 I feel like if you do sleep around, you're kind of letting people into your, that's your home, you know, your body is your home.
00:10:59.380 So I do understand that as well.
00:11:00.520 You're more likely to pass on, like, STD.
00:11:02.660 And you're more likely to pass, like, one in four women have an STD actively.
00:11:06.880 Oh, God.
00:11:07.660 That's fine.
00:11:08.280 Go get that check.
00:11:09.980 Yeah, one in three women have had an abortion, too.
00:11:12.600 It's, like, actually crazy, the numbers.
00:11:14.240 That is nice.
00:11:14.800 Well, it's like, guys like girls are experienced.
00:11:18.680 And it's like.
00:11:19.580 Nice.
00:11:20.720 So, okay.
00:11:22.020 Why are we just went over?
00:11:23.500 Why are you going back to the lock?
00:11:24.960 No, I'm not even like, no.
00:11:27.060 It's like.
00:11:27.880 Okay, you know what?
00:11:28.820 You, you.
00:11:29.620 This is the problem.
00:11:30.820 I feel like it's on.
00:11:31.540 Men like you.
00:11:33.680 This is what you guys do.
00:11:35.520 You're trying to not.
00:11:36.640 You don't want the, you know, the women you want to sleep with or whatever to hear you.
00:11:40.920 Yeah.
00:11:41.120 Hear you saying that.
00:11:42.740 Because you're like, no, no, no, no, no.
00:11:44.700 Come on.
00:11:45.100 But, you know, deep down, you would never take them seriously.
00:11:48.220 So, then you mislead us.
00:11:50.140 It's misleading to women.
00:11:52.060 Because you tell women it doesn't matter.
00:11:54.460 And then the women say, oh, okay, it doesn't matter.
00:11:57.260 They'll go do it.
00:11:58.120 But, you know, it matters.
00:12:00.440 So, let's.
00:12:01.080 We're not liars on the podcast.
00:12:02.940 We're truth tellers.
00:12:04.540 It's confusing, though.
00:12:05.480 It's like.
00:12:06.260 Guys, like.
00:12:07.420 I think guys will be more likely to keep a girl.
00:12:10.320 If they're, like, sexually satisfied with that woman.
00:12:12.980 You know.
00:12:13.560 And I think girls that's had, like, a lot of experience can provide that for guys.
00:12:18.880 But I don't know.
00:12:20.080 Can you provide it for her is the question, too.
00:12:22.140 Can I provide it for her?
00:12:23.100 Not sarcastically, by the way.
00:12:25.180 Because you don't know the emotional engagement she had previously.
00:12:28.420 It's not even about the sex.
00:12:29.400 It's about the danger of the sex.
00:12:31.360 The forbiddenness of it, right?
00:12:33.340 How would you feel if you got, like, a woman with, like, a high body count?
00:12:36.560 Well, I can tell you exactly how I felt.
00:12:38.000 I was dating a girl in Texas.
00:12:39.260 And I've said this on a podcast once before.
00:12:41.380 And she was, like, super hot.
00:12:42.920 And I was just, like, wow.
00:12:43.740 And I was younger at the time, too.
00:12:44.900 So, I was, like, I really valued that as, like, the number one thing.
00:12:47.880 And then, you know, a couple months in the relationship, you had to have a conversation.
00:12:51.180 She was, like, hey, I just need you to know.
00:12:52.500 Like, I didn't know this.
00:12:53.940 I was very naive.
00:12:54.520 She's, like, I'm a stripper.
00:12:56.500 Actually, I had no idea.
00:12:57.480 I just remember thinking the whole time.
00:12:58.740 I was, like, this chick's out of body.
00:12:59.620 She should be a stripper, right?
00:13:00.400 She was a stripper.
00:13:01.440 And then we went to a certain, we went to a sporting event.
00:13:06.080 And there were 10 athletes on playing.
00:13:08.880 And she had slept with eight of them.
00:13:10.080 And she told me that.
00:13:10.640 She's, like, oh, I slept with this guy and this guy.
00:13:12.060 And this is one of those girls that would hunt those kind of professional athletes, right?
00:13:14.840 Yeah.
00:13:15.380 And I was just, like, oh, I think my dick just fell off.
00:13:17.660 Because I was, like, I don't think I want to, you know, I don't think I want to,
00:13:21.280 I don't know if it's a competition thing.
00:13:22.900 But, like, no future.
00:13:24.320 What was her body count?
00:13:26.020 I don't know the exact number.
00:13:27.420 But when you're, there's 10 guys on the court.
00:13:29.020 And she's been with eight of them.
00:13:30.700 Yeah.
00:13:31.160 Of the 10.
00:13:31.900 Yeah.
00:13:32.780 Well, yeah.
00:13:33.500 She had to have been, like, if you found out about eight, there had to be, like, 50 or something.
00:13:37.640 Oh, no, it was way more than that.
00:13:38.580 I'm sure it was.
00:13:39.520 Because she actually kept a list of all the famous dudes she was with.
00:13:42.520 Like, don't get me wrong.
00:13:43.300 The sex was just, like, mind-blowing.
00:13:46.060 Fine.
00:13:46.680 But I'm thinking, like, there's no way I would have a daughter with this person.
00:13:50.240 There's, like, a 50-50 roughly chance that one of her is, like, no way.
00:13:53.880 No way.
00:13:54.760 What's, like, imagine dating for, like, not even dating.
00:13:59.220 Say you've known this girl for, like, six years.
00:14:02.120 You fought the world of her, right?
00:14:03.840 And then all of a sudden, like, after, like, six or seven years, you found out about the count.
00:14:09.380 Would you look at that person differently?
00:14:11.700 Or would you just be, like, oh.
00:14:13.320 Yes.
00:14:13.860 Are you just dating her for six years?
00:14:16.240 Say, like, you're married or anything.
00:14:18.060 Like, even.
00:14:19.580 Say even, like, she's your girlfriend, right?
00:14:22.680 And you've known her for six years.
00:14:24.620 This is, like.
00:14:25.340 Has that happened to you?
00:14:26.620 No.
00:14:27.120 Okay.
00:14:27.500 But.
00:14:28.800 So six years is very specific.
00:14:30.860 I think it's a long enough time to not go back.
00:14:34.400 And on a Thursday, she says.
00:14:36.440 Yeah, but it's, like, after so long, would you look at that person differently knowing that, oh, the body count's, like, 50 or so?
00:14:43.520 You know, I'm not going to lie.
00:14:44.400 You wouldn't.
00:14:45.300 I don't think so.
00:14:45.660 There's no way in hell that you wouldn't.
00:14:48.160 Like, you would.
00:14:48.700 You may not say anything, but in the back of your mind, you're going to be thinking, oh, my God, she's slept with that many men.
00:14:56.260 And then you're now going to start looking at her differently.
00:14:58.140 So what then tends to happen is that you might now, she might say, oh, I'm going to have my friends.
00:15:02.980 So when she was doing it before, you were fine.
00:15:05.520 But when she's now doing it and she's told you a number, you're thinking, oh, is, where are you going particularly?
00:15:12.440 Like, what are you going to do?
00:15:13.420 Yeah.
00:15:13.800 It's an ego thing.
00:15:14.840 And it is.
00:15:15.080 Yeah, I get it, you know.
00:15:16.400 I don't see your sleep.
00:15:17.560 How could you keep that a secret?
00:15:19.960 That's quite a secret to have.
00:15:21.040 I'm just thinking, 50 men, would you?
00:15:22.960 You can't.
00:15:23.680 Did you go anywhere and not run it?
00:15:25.660 Like, this is like the law of something where you're like five connections away from everybody.
00:15:31.440 Is that a thing?
00:15:32.140 Yeah, it is.
00:15:33.420 So I'm like 50.
00:15:35.180 How did you guys run into like men she slept with?
00:15:38.800 Well, we would go to sporting events and see them playing sports.
00:15:41.840 So that was like kind of weird.
00:15:43.080 And, you know, it's always the same conversation.
00:15:44.700 It's like, oh, now that you know, like you don't think it's highly of me.
00:15:47.140 Cry, cry, cry.
00:15:47.660 I'm like, no, no, no, it's.