In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the sit down and discuss the differences between men and women and how to deal with them in a healthy relationship. We also talk about our views on women and men being best friends and how they should or shouldn t be friends with each other.
00:00:00.000I think we shouldn't be best friends with the men
00:00:04.060Yeah, I want my husband not to be my best friend. I hope we have nothing in common
00:00:10.840Yeah, yeah, I know I hope we have nothing and why do you say that for all?
00:00:14.760Why do you say because I think when women and men are the same like I think we
00:00:21.160We start to we start to compete with the men and we like the you know
00:00:24.260I I just think that it's better if we're super different and have nothing in common
00:00:28.940And we're not best friends because you can go off and do your own things like and then my best friends
00:00:34.720I want to talk about the car dad. I mean, I'm not a big Kardashian, but it's just an example, right?
00:00:38.760I want to talk about stupid girl shit with yeah, I don't want to talk about stupid girl shit
00:00:44.140I don't want to do that to y'all. I'll get that and him
00:00:47.480I wouldn't want to hear it and I don't want my husband to talk to me the same way. He talks to a man
00:00:52.320I need it softer than that. You know, I know I know
00:00:55.780I know I it's the community. It's the directness in this podcast. You know I can you know be but I might be a bit disagreeable
00:01:02.880But in real life. I'm actually quite agreeable. I don't need the you ever hear
00:01:06.560I used to work at a plumbing tech company, right? I used to sell like shit to plumbers
00:01:11.520And I want to do like a presentation at one of them
00:01:14.680And it's like a super male-dominated environment. I could not believe the way that got the guys were talking to each other
00:01:20.160They were so mean they're like roasting the shit out of each other
00:01:23.060Like like you know that they say locker room talk. You don't want to hear it men like change the way they talk a little bit when we're they're around us
00:01:30.100Like usually I was like if this is how guys talk to each other. I don't want nothing
00:01:34.620No, keep keep talking to me like you talk to a girl guys
00:01:38.260What God when you're I think I was talking about this Romeo like guys will especially if you're a good-looking guy and you're in a group of boys
00:01:43.820One thing they'll do is if you have any sort of flow whether it's physical, they're gonna point out that flow
00:01:49.420Because they have to have someone what up on you if you're a good-looking dude and you get girls to have to buy you're overweight or
00:01:55.260This or that you like what your friends your friends with women you would never be like, oh, yeah
00:02:01.120Courtney about saying you're overweight
00:02:02.700I'm just saying like you would never be like Courtney you're overweight like come on get your shit
00:02:06.100You never say that but if if he was overweight in my dude, I'm like, man, you fat ass
00:02:10.560I'm saying like that's the way women. I don't like that with each other. You don't have that brutal honesty
00:02:15.040And it's just play this is my dude like I'm secretly
00:02:23.200Go to the gym come to the gym with me, you know, I'm saying I'll say shut the fuck up is old to my friend
00:02:27.000Yeah, yeah, yeah, you just talk different
00:02:30.160Yeah, it's direct it's direct but I think it's like this whole programming of like the way
00:02:35.280Relationships should be like we program us to say it's a partnership. It's not a partnership. He's better than
00:02:40.500You and you should probably listen to him, but it's even her she's looking at me like I'm crazy saying this
00:02:46.420Okay, it's probably the first time you've heard that but it's like I don't think relationships work when it's a partnership
00:02:51.780I don't think relationships work when they're your best friends. I don't think that's ideal
00:02:55.060I think you want a man that's better than you and you can get guidance from and I I think it's easier when you defer to their authority
00:03:03.460I do I do hear what you're saying and I don't disagree with what you're saying at all but
00:03:44.120Yeah, opposite does it work? No, actually I think masculine and femininity is like opposite
00:03:49.120So that's probably the only opposite that would work though
00:03:51.280But she's talking about is in general interest in and morals and principles and things like I think they're like your morals and your values should be this
00:03:57.100I agree with you, but I'm like do I need to have the same, do I want to go fishing with a guy?