You Won't Believe What She Said About Men
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Summary
In this episode, the guys talk about cheating and how to deal with it. They talk about how men cheat on their wives and how it s a normal part of being a man. They also talk about why men cheat and why women cheat.
Transcript
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I have a question for the men, I feel like a lot of men say that you can love women and
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still like you know have SEX with another woman like I actually want you guys to break
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it down to be like how does that work where you can you know love one woman but do something
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to hurt her at the same time but still say you love her like would you be able to answer
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So that's it it's just bust in the nut, what if bust in the nut is going to break up?
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It's literally exclusive like it doesn't take away from the other.
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My love for you, it's not gone because I'm talking to somebody else.
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Think about it biologically, if a woman gets pregnant she's out for almost nine months and
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a man still has to bust nuts so biologically one woman really can't satisfy a man.
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He can do that with her, if a man cheats on his pregnant wife that's disgusting, that's
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I'm not talking about the morality, I'm talking about the facts.
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Yeah but that's what you're basing it on that time period.
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But you see that, it's like you demonize him so quick.
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But that's what I'm saying, we lack understanding for men.
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Like because your immediate response is oh that's disgusting.
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Right, I know it's fine but I'm saying as a society we lack understanding for men.
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Instead of understanding where they're coming from.
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If she's not sleeping with you and she's pregnant it's hard for a guy.
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So what I've based it on is the woman is still wanting to sleep with her man but he views
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her, a lot of men, they get turned off during the woman's pregnancy, right?
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She doesn't look the same so therefore they look elsewhere.
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That is a type of, in my eyes, that is disgusting.
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And that's the type of man that you want to avoid.
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I don't mean like, I don't mean a good man who's, you know, the woman's turning him down
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If your woman's willing to give it to you and you're just looking at her thinking oh she
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Like men don't want to sleep when they're pregnant.
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No, I think that like women kind of like have these horror stories that were just like
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Because women are more susceptible to like propaganda to be honest.
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So I think there's like a bunch of like programming where they just give us these crazy stories
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Like if you have sex you're poking the baby's head and stuff.
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Like the, you know you guys, how many times have people mentioned abuse in the show?
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But I'm saying like that's always the women's immediate response.
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Like whenever we talk about things that women are doing wrong, it's always like gut reaction.
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I've just noticed it because I've been doing this for so long.
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If her sense for better or for worse point blank.
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And if the wife cheats repeatedly, should the husband stay and work it out?
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Um, you know, maybe I'm a little bit, no, they're gonna clip me if I say that, but, but
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no, you know, um, I think the ideal should always be to work it out if you can.
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But, um, I do think cheating's different for men and for women.
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So, um, but bus drivers in New York City are top 5% earners.
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My neighbor raised three kids and retired his wife as a bus driver.
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Um, I think I'm gonna close out the show because we're almost hitting three hours now.
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So you can give any final thoughts you got on bus drivers or life or whatever.
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Um, so my final thoughts is that whatever that woman's name was, the presenter, um, like
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Um, I think she's very like proud of where she's at in life.
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Um, in terms of the marriage and stuff, the cheating and stuff, like nobody should cheat
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I feel like if you've made vows in front of your family, in front of God, like think
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about the money you spent on a dress, on the wing, on the rings, on everything is like,
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Um, and then other than that, um, yeah, I think in terms of dating as well, going average
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and above average, I feel like as long as you're bettering yourself when you're
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ambitious and you're trying to not be average, then I feel like you have, you're valid in
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like trying to date somebody who like coordinates that they might be average, going above average
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Um, so in regards to the lady, the news anchor, I would say, yeah, I think she's totally entitled
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to have her standard and to stick to it as well, not be swayed as well by what anyone
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has to say about what she wants to accept in her life or from a man.
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Um, as long as it's coming from a place where she knows she deserves it or she might be
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delusional, but she has to also accept that with that comes the repercussions of like limited,
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If she's delusional, do you think then she should change her standards?
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I'm basing it on the fact that she is entitled to this standard of man.
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If she's not getting the men she wants, then isn't she delusional?
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Is there hope when there's only a 12% chance she'll be married?
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Would there be more hope if she accepted bus drivers?
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Listen, I, in all honesty, if she met a good bus driver, a good character, a good man that
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And if he was obviously not the 15 pound an hour, but if he was one of the top three earners,
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Um, I think a lot of good points have been made here today.
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I think also, if you are a woman that does aspire to be married, um, it's important to
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I was, I was very, um, in a sense, yeah, dominant and kind of knew what I wanted and I've had to
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So I think also a lot of points that have been made here today have also opened my eyes
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Um, I think I'm going to ask the bus driver for me to view him as like more than like
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He's still a human and he can bring a lot more to the table than just being a bus driver.
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He might, he might've had a mad life before and got the creative stories and, and education.
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He can teach you a lot and everything like that.
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So I think maybe we shouldn't just judge him as a bus driver in regards to marriage and
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I believe that, um, I believe that marriage isn't a necessity in this day and age, because
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if I'm asking my partner to give up her whole career in life, to be my wife and to raise
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my kids and to nurture me and love me, then she's given up a whole, um, career potentially.
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Um, regarding the bus driver, I'm not going to lie.
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It just regarding the age, like we have to, we have to be realistic.
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You can't, I don't think, I do not think, I don't think you can birth.
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Like 20 years on the market, that's a long time.
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That's like, you didn't sell a product for 20 years.
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You might lower the price a little bit, a little bit.
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Yeah, but you're assuming that the man has to want a family.
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Like what if he's, like I said, 60, he's had his kids.
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But if you want marriage, why are you marrying for?
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So if you, if you're looking for that, then I don't think at your age, you should be that
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I've had lots of knowledge and thank you again.
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I think that God is the greatest and his word does not lie.
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And it says in the Bible that you should, a woman should look for someone that's going
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Um, so therefore she is almost allowed to look up, will look for someone that's going
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Um, it's okay to, there's some circumstances where a girl has dated a guy that's doing
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And I encourage women, especially who are older to do that.
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But I feel like don't drop your standards too low.
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And I feel like the bus driver to TV presenter, that's way too low for her.
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Maybe a lawyer, maybe a teacher, a business owner.
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I understand the Bible says provide, but he didn't say provide a crazy lifestyle.
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If he could feed and clothe himself and like has an apartment for himself.
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She's accustomed to her lifestyle and she's comfortable in that lifestyle.
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So she's going to want someone to kind of meet that.
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Like if you choose, it's not biblical to wait until you're 40 to get married, sleep
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with a bunch of dudes, make a bunch of money and then ask for a guy that makes more.
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But I feel like at the end of the day, God is the greatest.
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And I feel like women, we should follow what the prince, what the Bible says about what
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And I'm telling, and I'm agreeing with the fact that she didn't follow the biblical sense.
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And she's finding herself in a situation where she's arguing online over a bus drive or whatever.
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But I just think everyone should follow the Bible.
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If we did, she wouldn't be in that position and no one would be arguing about.
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No, I just am confused like on the provide stuff.
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I'm not saying it's impossible for him to provide.
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Obviously, if he's a bus driver, he can provide something.
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But what I'm saying is that she's accustomed to a lifestyle.
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So for example, the queen, rest in peace, she's accustomed to a certain lifestyle.
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But just because the bus driver can provide a penny for her, that doesn't mean now like she can, you know, you know, she's accustomed to her lifestyle.
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Like you're living and you want to maintain it.
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Yeah, that's just me being completely realistic with the fact that there's some women, they just want a certain lifestyle.
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So with that being said, they just want to stick with that.
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The guy adding 50p more to that is not really, that's not really like the provision that she's looking for.
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So I know in the Bible, it doesn't say that, but what I'm trying to say is that like, there's people who are comfortable in their lifestyle.
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And if they want to remain in that, then we should just let them.
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And if that ends up being her fault and she's 60 with like seven cuts, then that's on her.