JustPearlyThings - You Won't Believe What She Said Before Saying THIS

00:00:00.000 My relationship status, it depends on who's asking.

00:00:03.240 Okay, wait. I need to break that down. Why do we like that?

00:00:06.940 So are you with someone? Like someone you like?

00:00:13.760 No, it literally just depends on who's asking.

00:00:16.160 Speak to him.

00:00:16.740 Oh, sorry.

00:00:17.640 Well, I'm just wondering if you have a boyfriend or not.

00:00:20.200 It literally depends on who's asking. 0.89

00:00:21.960 Okay, so if an ugly guy asks, you have a boyfriend.

00:00:25.020 If a handsome guy asks, you don't. 0.52

00:00:26.820 Exactly. And either one is kind of just like whatever it is, it is.

00:00:31.560 Okay. Do you think that'd be a little confusing for a guy?

00:00:35.360 Yeah, but that doesn't matter. That's up to me.

00:00:37.760 Okay. Well, I know it's up to you, but I'm just wondering like.

00:00:41.300 Yeah.

00:00:41.620 You know, because if a guy said, if I said, do you have a girlfriend?

00:00:44.420 And he's like, depends who's asking. I'm like, do you have a girlfriend?

00:00:48.160 No, of course. You're going to get like irritated with it.

00:00:50.960 But at the same time, that's my business.

00:00:53.120 Listen, if you're not doing anything to court me to get in that situation, then I don't owe you any explanation of anything.

00:00:57.860 Well, I just wonder why as women we have these confusing answers instead of just like answering questions directly. 1.00

00:01:03.880 Because guys do.

00:01:05.180 All the time.

00:01:05.880 I really don't think that's true.

00:01:07.540 They do.

00:01:07.920 Because I've done hundreds of these shows, and I've never had a guy give me an answer like that.

00:01:14.200 It's either single, taken. Sometimes they might say, I'm seeing someone, but like it's very, a lot more clear than the women in general. 1.00

00:01:21.760 I haven't done hundreds of these shows, but I've done thousands of people approaching me.

00:01:25.920 Okay.

00:01:26.340 And that's the thing.

00:01:27.320 And the men. So what are the answers the men usually give?

00:01:30.120 Like a man, when they're like, like coming for me, I'm just like, do you have anybody at home?

00:01:34.800 Well, baby, we ain't even talking about that right now.

00:01:37.520 That's true. I've heard that before.

00:01:39.180 I actually have.

00:01:39.960 So, so, so, so yes, they do.

00:01:44.140 Yeah. But it's like, I can't do it too. So like, I'm one of those people, if you can do it, I could do it too.

00:01:49.640 Well, yeah, but then you're trying to be a guy.

00:01:52.180 No, I'm not trying to be a guy. I'm just trying to have an even platform.

00:01:55.500 That's the problem is a lot of people try to think that like, I'm trying to be a guy. I'm not.

00:01:59.380 It's just like, if you could do it, why do you think that you can do it just because you're a man and I can't do it because I'm a female?

00:02:05.600 So my question is, you said that the men need to court you, but they can't court you if you don't give them an answer, if you're in a relationship or not.

00:02:12.940 Most of them don't even ask.

00:02:14.440 Most of them don't even care.

00:02:15.400 They don't care.

00:02:16.700 They don't.

00:02:17.260 Do you feel like you deal with traditional men?

00:02:20.680 Hell no.

00:02:21.540 Well, okay.

00:02:22.120 There you go.

00:02:22.500 There you go.

00:02:23.240 Yeah, but I'm saying like, because traditional men will ask.

00:02:26.100 Like men that are trying to court you, they'll ask.

00:02:27.900 No, and I agree with that, but like, the traditional people are starting to, oh, sorry, the traditional men are starting to like extinct if like anybody knows.

00:02:37.120 They literally, they don't care about nothing.

00:02:39.020 They're like, okay, you know, like I'm just trying to date you. 1.00

00:02:42.060 Do you want to fuck? 0.99

00:02:43.200 And then the next one, once they talk to you. 1.00

00:02:44.240 That's not a traditional guy though.

00:02:45.600 No, no, not traditional.

00:02:46.880 Sorry.

00:02:47.080 I meant the non-traditional guys that like approach you or like, uh, like who are you? 1.00

00:02:52.140 Would you like to fuck? 0.99

00:02:53.540 And after that, can you take care of me? 1.00

00:02:55.440 Why do all these guys nowadays want to be taken care of?

00:02:58.160 But it's like, why do you deal with the guys that want to be taken care of?

00:03:00.860 I don't.

00:03:01.180 But then how would you know this?

00:03:02.600 You wouldn't know this information if you didn't deal with them.

00:03:04.300 Because they approach me.

00:03:05.740 Well, but then why are broke guys approaching you?

00:03:08.380 You know what I'm saying?

00:03:09.120 Like it's like.

00:03:09.640 Broke guys always approach you. 1.00

00:03:10.760 Because I'm fucking, because I'm hot. 0.99

00:03:14.600 I can't stop anybody from like. 0.99

00:03:16.200 But I'm saying like traditional guys are going to be turned off by that answer. 0.99

00:03:20.400 Because like traditional guys don't want to deal with the bullshit. 0.97

00:03:23.160 So it's like, you're almost like adapting for the non-traditional guys. 0.99

00:03:27.740 You know what I'm saying?

00:03:28.460 Like, and it's going to turn off someone that's traditional.

00:03:31.180 Because they're like, are you taken?

00:03:32.440 Are you not?

00:03:32.920 This is too confusing.

00:03:34.000 On to the next.

00:03:34.700 I 100% agree with you.

00:03:36.180 But what I do is I read the room.

00:03:37.720 Just the same way as I'm a VIP host out here.

00:03:40.300 I know the kind of people that I can proposition of buying bottle service at the club because

00:03:44.400 they can afford it.

00:03:45.320 I can tell by your shoes, by your watch, by your shoes, who I can approach about buying bottle

00:03:50.520 service at a club, the same way that I can like show who I'm going to do that answer

00:03:54.300 to.

00:03:54.800 Somebody who is like not worth my time is what, who gets that answer.

00:03:58.100 Right.

00:03:58.340 But somebody who's traditional, probably worth my time, but would never get that kind of

00:04:01.800 answer.

00:04:01.820 Well, you know, well, but you realize like traditional, like I have 1.7 million subscribers and a lot

00:04:06.860 of the guys that watch are, are in a more traditional mindset.

00:04:09.440 So it's like by giving this answer, you're basically telling them you're not a traditional

00:04:13.340 woman because traditional women don't answer like that, which is fine. 1.00

00:04:16.480 And it doesn't mean like bad person, but I'm saying like, if you want to attract traditional

00:04:19.980 men, the, I just think they're going to be confused.

00:04:22.920 That's also kind of your opinion of the traditional guys.

00:04:25.200 Like the guys that like are like you, you don't really know.

00:04:28.740 No, actually the objective truth is most of the guys that are traditional and high value

00:04:32.840 men, we look for a certain thing or a status in a woman. 1.00

00:04:36.420 So if we're talking to a gal and it's like, they give us this vague answer, it's like, okay, 0.70

00:04:40.380 she's seeing somebody or not.

00:04:41.800 She won't give me an answer.

00:04:42.720 And then it's like, do I want to deal with it?

00:04:44.280 Right.

00:04:44.420 Well, yeah. 1.00

00:04:44.940 And then I think they just think you're fucking. 1.00

00:04:47.200 Yeah. 1.00

00:04:47.420 I would.

00:04:48.280 I don't know.

00:04:49.100 But if a girl says that, it's like, wait, it depends on who's asking.

00:04:52.600 It's like, okay, are you, are you a man or a woman?

00:04:55.260 Well, it depends on who's asking.

00:04:56.340 It's like, okay, I'm just trying to talk to you.

00:04:58.860 It's difficult.

00:04:59.760 Nevermind.

00:05:00.220 Right.

00:05:00.500 But I hear what you're saying, but I think that when you have that many subscribers,

00:05:04.240 you deal with guys like that that deal with women. 1.00

00:05:06.860 I mean, some guys don't have to deal with it.

00:05:09.020 Some don't, you know, and I know you're bottle service.

00:05:11.380 I get that.

00:05:12.060 No, no, no.

00:05:12.500 But I'm VIP.

00:05:14.000 I don't do bottle service.

00:05:15.520 I'm not the girl.

00:05:16.420 Where are you VIP at?

00:05:19.380 I was.

00:05:20.320 Independent host.

00:05:21.020 Yeah.

00:05:21.260 I'm independent now, but I used to be at One Oak exclusively.

00:05:25.200 Okay.

00:05:25.480 But then I decided that it's like a lot easier to ask my clients, where would you like to

00:05:29.560 go?

00:05:29.680 Right.

00:05:29.900 As opposed to being like, can you please come here?

00:05:31.840 I know you don't want to come here, but can you come here for just me?

00:05:35.340 No, that makes sense.

00:05:36.260 And like, honestly, if you know anybody who's like a VIP host, we're trained to like really

00:05:41.520 read people.

00:05:42.280 Sure.

00:05:42.940 And that's how I am.

00:05:44.020 So like, when I'm saying those kind of responses, I'm saying that to the people I know are jokes.

00:05:49.060 I don't say that to people of what?

00:05:50.680 Like, I don't like value. 0.97

00:05:53.640 You're a joke, girl. 1.00

00:05:55.180 But I mean, girl, I'm not gay. 1.00

00:05:57.420 I'm not going to fuck you. 1.00

00:05:58.380 No shade. 1.00

00:05:58.880 Right.

00:05:59.300 But what I'm saying, it's just, I think it's confusing to guys.

00:06:03.440 It's my only point.

00:06:04.700 All right.

00:06:05.120 What about you?

00:06:07.200 Speaking of the mic.

00:06:08.360 I know it keeps coming down.

00:06:09.760 I don't know what else I can do because I keep adjusting it, but it keeps.

00:06:13.040 There you go.

00:06:14.260 Well, don't make it come down, Amy.

00:06:15.340 I'm going to try.

00:06:16.360 Okay.

00:06:17.340 Testing.

00:06:17.960 Can you hear me?

00:06:18.880 Yeah.

00:06:19.240 Okay.

00:06:20.600 My name is Asia.

00:06:22.260 I am 25 years old.

00:06:25.940 And what was the other one?

00:06:27.360 Name, age, relationship, status, and what you do for a living.

00:06:31.300 Name, age, what I do for work right now.

00:06:34.740 I'm an apprentice bartender for the MGM Grand.

00:06:37.020 So, that's really cool.

00:06:39.240 And my relationship status is single.

00:06:44.140 Quick and simple.

00:06:45.320 Black Ice.

00:06:45.860 I host Black Ice Reality Check.

00:06:47.860 And I run a tech consulting company, a supplement company.

00:06:52.560 I am old.

00:06:54.840 Double OG.

00:06:57.000 I'm 53.

00:06:58.100 It'll be 54 in October.

00:06:59.160 I've been in a four-year relationship with my girlfriend.

00:07:02.300 It was fine as hell.

00:07:03.200 Yeah.

00:07:03.400 And you put the panel together today, right?

00:07:05.940 Yeah.

00:07:06.300 Well, actually, Ashley was responsible for getting these ladies here. 1.00

00:07:11.140 And we have that relationship.

00:07:12.500 We've been on a couple of shows.

00:07:13.920 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:07:13.940 So, yeah.

00:07:14.240 Absolutely.

00:07:15.020 He's got a nice little podcast where he interviews women and, like, helps them out.

00:07:20.580 Relationships.

00:07:21.300 One-on-one.

00:07:22.020 You just said a nice little podcast.

00:07:23.820 Little OG.

00:07:25.800 Gee.

00:07:26.800 Wow.

00:07:27.460 Yeah.

00:07:27.640 I didn't mean it.

00:07:28.860 She really flexed on me.

00:07:30.080 I didn't mean it like that.

00:07:31.640 I didn't mean it like that.

00:07:33.680 Sorry.

00:07:34.040 I didn't mean it like that.

00:07:34.780 I don't mean it real masculine right now.

00:07:36.300 I got, hello.

00:07:38.580 You know, I got it in me, you know.

00:07:40.820 I have 1.7 million subscribers.

00:07:42.880 He's got a little podcast.

00:07:44.100 I didn't, I didn't, I didn't, I didn't mean it like that.

00:07:47.440 Boy, I'm really interested in it.

00:07:49.000 I'm already sweating.

00:07:49.840 You know what's funny?

00:07:50.340 He's such a good interviewer that I literally, I messaged you.

00:07:53.340 I wanted to come on.

00:07:54.360 You did.

00:07:54.820 I was like, I thought it was a joke at first.

00:07:56.680 No, I was serious.

00:07:57.860 I thought you were, I was like, I love the way he talks to the women.

00:08:01.440 I was like, he does such a good job of, like, saying it in a way that's like, doesn't make us want to, like, punch you in the dark.

00:08:08.300 Choke me?

00:08:08.780 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:08:11.360 See, I'm already, I'm already, that's why I had her sit over there. 0.99

00:08:14.180 I already saw it from the beginning.

00:08:15.120 Yeah.

00:08:15.400 He's like, I'm a strong.

00:08:16.200 I'm playing with you.

00:08:21.400 I'm playing.

00:08:22.540 I did.

00:08:23.200 I came in here with just like, so is he going, I was like, is he going to kick me out or not?

00:08:27.620 Because she goes, are you going to be like Myron on Fresh and Fit?

00:08:30.260 I'm like, who?

00:08:31.540 Myron, never heard of him.

00:08:32.600 No, just kidding.

00:08:33.180 No shade.

00:08:33.840 Go ahead and record me.

00:08:34.680 No, no, no, no. 1.00

00:08:35.000 He can get punched in the throat. 1.00

00:08:36.020 I don't care. 0.98

00:08:36.440 So, so, so I, I interviewed ladies on relationships, single women and why they're single or not and

00:08:41.460 what they're looking for in a relationship.

00:08:42.620 They want to get married.

00:08:43.340 And so I do what kind of Kevin did, but I do it in person.

00:08:46.200 Yeah.

00:08:46.320 And a different level.

00:08:47.680 Right?

00:08:48.420 Yeah.

00:08:48.760 And I, I think it's really going to blow up.

00:08:50.600 I mean, I, I literally, I saw a clip and I was just like, yeah, for now.

00:08:57.000 I'm messing with you.

00:08:57.880 I'm getting a hard time.

00:08:59.460 I didn't mean it.

00:09:01.900 That's what, that's what all the women say. 1.00

00:09:03.640 I didn't mean it.

00:09:05.120 I didn't mean it.

00:09:06.160 And we don't have to agree on like every single thing, but it was about him being like, all 1.00

00:09:10.020 right, get the fuck out, bitch, bitch, bitch, bitch, bitch, bitch. 1.00

00:09:13.180 Well, and I'm just like, well, was she being a bitch or not? 1.00

00:09:16.700 I mean, like that's the thing. 1.00

00:09:19.260 She was being more of a boss bitch and you like, can't like handle a bitch like that. 1.00

00:09:22.840 No, I'm not even asking. 1.00

00:09:23.700 No, no, no, no.

00:09:24.340 But, but I hear what you're saying, but there's a level of disrespect when you're standing up

00:09:28.240 yelling at somebody.

00:09:29.080 It's like, well, wait a minute.

00:09:29.580 She wasn't doing any of that at all.

00:09:30.320 I don't know who you're talking about, but I'm just saying, I'm just saying. 0.99

00:09:32.600 Well, usually, look, I used to actually think Myron was a dick. 0.98

00:09:35.700 I really did. 0.98

00:09:36.520 And I feel bad because then I actually got into his shoes and I interviewed women and

00:09:41.140 I did all these shows.

00:09:42.420 And it's so crazy because you don't see usually the level of disrespect they'll do first and

00:09:48.280 over-talking someone on their own show and feeling like they own the room.

00:09:52.080 And then it's like, by the time you kick them out, it's like, they've over-talked you

00:09:55.380 10 times.

00:09:56.340 Have you, you've kicked women off your show?

00:09:58.500 Yeah.

00:09:59.020 Not, I'm not as quick as Myron.

00:10:01.280 No, you're like, yeah, I've seen it.

00:10:02.880 Yeah.

00:10:03.140 But it's like, usually, like a lot of times they'll play the victim and be like, oh,

00:10:06.840 I saw the one that you did with Andrew Tate and Auntie and, you know what I'm talking

00:10:11.340 about?

00:10:11.940 And then.

00:10:12.280 I'm patient.

00:10:12.820 Brittany.

00:10:13.300 Oh my God.

00:10:14.020 That was, that was a hard one to watch with the African girl, like the younger one, 1.00

00:10:18.900 not Auntie.

00:10:19.400 Yeah.

00:10:19.680 Yeah.

00:10:19.820 Yeah.

00:10:20.100 Yeah. 0.87

00:10:20.380 She was crazy. 0.61

00:10:22.580 Yeah. 0.99

00:10:22.760 She was crazy. 0.99

00:10:23.840 And the other day after that, she was like, Pearl's so racist. 1.00

00:10:26.580 I'm like, bitch, you've been on my show three times. 1.00

00:10:30.560 Everybody on your show was of color. 1.00

00:10:33.140 I know.

00:10:34.620 But it was like, but it's like, a lot of times when women get kicked off, they just like 0.99

00:10:39.280 play the victim when it's like, they usually have like 10 different warnings and then they

00:10:44.160 get kicked off.

00:10:44.440 She was really disrespectful. 0.90

00:10:45.540 I watched that thing.

00:10:46.600 I was actually surprised. 1.00

00:10:47.380 To be fair with Myron's shit, he was talking over like the whole goddamn time. 0.99

00:10:52.300 And then he just wanted like to be able to pick on other people and he didn't like that 1.00

00:10:56.180 shit. 1.00

00:10:56.500 I agree. 0.99

00:10:56.760 So like, honestly, like with you guys, y'all completely disagree with my opinion, but I

00:11:02.880 never felt offended one bit.

00:11:04.740 I felt like you're entitled to your opinions and I respected the hell out of it.

00:11:08.360 But the way that he comes at people.

00:11:10.800 Well, and I'll tell you, I'll tell you what's happened though.

00:11:13.220 I think women, we've never really had people talk to us in a more masculine way because

00:11:18.160 women just police men's speech. 1.00

00:11:20.640 And like when we say it's how you say it, that's saying, say it in a more feminine way.

00:11:25.100 Have you ever been in a locker room with guys or like in an all male space?

00:11:28.440 Wait, wait, wait.

00:11:28.900 Have you ever been in a locker room with guys?

00:11:30.320 Not a locker room.

00:11:30.900 Whoa.

00:11:32.140 She's like, she's over here.

00:11:33.320 I've been in tens of a lot.

00:11:34.360 I mean, there's a reason we have phrases like locker room talk, right?

00:11:43.220 Because men roast the hell out of each other.

00:11:46.420 Like they're, they're so rude to each other. 0.99

00:11:47.840 Well, I feel like if you're black, you understand that. 0.96

00:11:49.440 Cause you know, yeah.

00:11:50.400 Cause it's, it's every day that that's how we show up.

00:11:52.720 People tell me, it's not what you say.

00:11:54.000 It's how you say it.

00:11:54.740 People are always correcting my tone.

00:11:56.460 Right.

00:11:56.860 All the time.

00:11:57.540 Right.

00:11:58.340 Is that women correcting your tone or men? 1.00

00:12:00.460 Both.

00:12:01.920 It's, it's much more.

00:12:03.200 When a man does that, how does that make you feel? 1.00

00:12:05.600 It makes me feel like he's a pussy. 1.00

00:12:06.820 Yeah. 1.00

00:12:09.800 Right.

00:12:10.200 Because it's a more feminine way of talking. 0.99

00:12:12.200 Right.

00:12:12.620 So I think with Myron and I had this gut reaction to him at first too, but the thing is with

00:12:17.400 him, it's like, he's just speaking in a very masculine, direct way.

00:12:21.200 And most women have never had guys talk to us. 0.99

00:12:23.640 I don't think he's ever had the shit smacked out of him. 0.99

00:12:27.040 I don't think it's a direct. 0.99

00:12:28.020 He was a federal agent.

00:12:30.000 Yeah.

00:12:30.760 A federal agent. 0.99

00:12:32.060 You think he's scared of some bitches? 1.00

00:12:34.160 No. 1.00

00:12:34.720 No, I'm saying like, you're like, you never really got like somebody who's really fucking 0.99

00:12:39.160 stood there in that damn ground. 0.99

00:12:40.200 As a federal agent. 1.00

00:12:41.500 It doesn't matter if you're, you could be a fucking president or you can be like a government 0.99

00:12:45.820 official. 1.00

00:12:46.520 And when you get somebody that you really respect that fucking tells you some shit, then 1.00

00:12:51.160 it like, it. 1.00

00:12:52.180 I saw him.

00:12:52.880 I saw him have someone like come to his door and like threaten.

00:12:55.780 Oh yeah.

00:12:56.180 Yeah.

00:12:56.440 I saw that.

00:12:56.980 I saw that.

00:12:58.000 Yeah.

00:12:58.200 I don't, I don't.

00:12:58.980 He stood his ground.

00:13:00.160 He stood his ground.

00:13:01.120 Yeah.

00:13:01.640 I don't think it's like the directness of him.

00:13:03.880 What was that?

00:13:04.340 I don't think it's like the directness of like how he is.

00:13:06.560 Cause I think being direct is how he has to be.

00:13:09.300 Cause unfortunately, especially with a room of women, they start to over talk everybody. 1.00

00:13:13.040 You have to command the room and like calm it down.

00:13:15.020 I think sometimes what it is, is the, the, what words you choose to use. 0.98

00:13:19.940 So like I've heard him called girls bitches and it came out of nowhere and it's like, whoa, 1.00

00:13:24.540 like, well, usually they're being a bitch. 1.00

00:13:26.500 So I think that's, I think that's what it is. 0.99

00:13:28.740 So it's just like, like, let's say you're talking to somebody because we're not used to

00:13:33.800 turn the mic up because we're not used to like the, like you said, like people telling

00:13:38.580 us what to do and holding ourselves accountable.

00:13:41.200 We always want you to be like, well, what you did wasn't okay.

00:13:45.020 And it's, that's usually what it is.

00:13:48.040 And so when we hear somebody go say this, they're like, what do we want to, we want to

00:13:51.640 man up? 0.99

00:13:52.060 Like, what the fuck did you say to me? 1.00

00:13:53.480 Yeah. 0.99

00:13:53.840 Like, you're not going to talk to me like that.

00:13:55.720 Right.

00:13:56.240 So, yeah.

00:13:57.280 But, and like, that's kind of what I've conditioned myself to like, when I hear guys speak in

00:14:01.520 a very direct way, I have to ask myself first, is it true?

00:14:04.460 Yeah. 1.00

00:14:04.800 So it's like, was she being a bitch? 1.00

00:14:06.380 Probably. 1.00

00:14:06.940 Like all the girls I've seen him kick off over talk to him at least like four or five.

00:14:11.100 And there's an element of alcohol involved.

00:14:13.280 Cause a lot of them were drinking before.

00:14:14.400 I'm like, this girl is going to be funny.

00:14:15.860 And they did it.

00:14:16.420 And they did it.

00:14:16.440 And they did it.

JustPearlyThings - August 20, 2023

You Won't Believe What She Said Before Saying THIS

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