JustPearlyThings - April 21, 2023


You Won't Believe What This Dumb Bimbo Said...


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

216.80402

Word Count

2,017

Sentence Count

182

Misogynist Sentences

22

Hate Speech Sentences

15


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 No, men across the board judge women with tattoos, men across the board judge, you know,
00:00:06.540 if we're going to say a balance of probability, like there's exceptions, but if we're going
00:00:10.020 to talk about across the board, the men you want, like I'm, I'm from a pretty well-off
00:00:13.640 community and like most of my brothers make six figures.
00:00:17.640 Most people in our circles make six figures.
00:00:19.900 And I can tell you that they, they absolutely judge you.
00:00:22.300 If you have tattoos, they absolutely judge you.
00:00:24.240 If you have piercings.
00:00:24.880 And I didn't always like this when I was younger, I was like, mom, you're so judgmental.
00:00:29.400 Why?
00:00:30.140 Like I was so mad that she wouldn't let me like do this stuff.
00:00:32.820 And then the older I get, the more I see that she's right.
00:00:35.300 And I just, you know, I really, you know, if, if I can encourage you in a different direction,
00:00:40.140 that's probably what I'm going to do.
00:00:42.240 It's not the be all and end all though.
00:00:43.900 Not at all.
00:00:44.500 I think, I think you could actually end up making it something that works for you.
00:00:47.160 You can, a classy woman with tattoo does stir some intrigue that could be interesting.
00:00:51.400 So I'm not, we're not giving you like some kind of final judgment.
00:00:54.440 Yeah.
00:00:54.560 It's not a death sentence at all.
00:00:55.860 No.
00:00:56.540 Just get a couple of sundresses and you'll be fine.
00:00:59.400 No one's going to watch you.
00:01:00.540 Everyone in this room hated my tattoos.
00:01:02.440 I love them.
00:01:03.180 They're great tattoos.
00:01:04.020 They're lovely.
00:01:04.480 They're beautiful.
00:01:05.180 Yeah.
00:01:06.480 I personally don't have a thing against tattoo, but I'm not going to lie if I saw someone
00:01:09.800 with tattoos, it doesn't scream, take me out to dinner, talk to me every night, treat
00:01:13.960 me like wifey.
00:01:14.700 It kind of screams like you've probably had two or three toxic relationships.
00:01:19.240 Like, you know.
00:01:20.340 Yeah, I get where you're from.
00:01:21.040 That's my first impression.
00:01:22.080 It's not right.
00:01:22.440 You're on the journey, you know.
00:01:25.400 But for real girls, I would say, look at, I do agree with feminists on one thing in
00:01:30.500 that you, you go, you women have a lot against you now more than ever and that you have the
00:01:33.720 worst role models ever.
00:01:34.800 Like when I look at modern women, there's very few role models.
00:01:39.340 And I always get the impression when I speak to, when I see the women others look up to,
00:01:43.600 other women look up to, I just like, you're looking up to people who don't have what you
00:01:46.880 want.
00:01:47.100 You're looking up to women who are coping with their bad decisions.
00:01:50.540 34 year olds, 32 year olds who are still in the club, who are trying to sell you on
00:01:54.260 this whole culture and accept yourself and spirituality.
00:01:57.420 And they're not, they're missing out the little bit where it says, I messed up.
00:02:00.660 I missed the boat.
00:02:01.340 I had all these opportunities at uni, I had all these opportunities, I messed up and I'm
00:02:04.920 still in this club with 21 year olds trying to pretend that I've got it all.
00:02:08.280 I guarantee you, these women, if they found a decent guy, they would fight you tooth and
00:02:12.140 nail for that guy.
00:02:13.100 So just, just remember that.
00:02:14.200 Not everyone wants the best for you.
00:02:15.460 And those are all, all, all women.
00:02:17.460 Not every woman wants the best for you either.
00:02:19.300 Misery loves company.
00:02:19.960 No, agreed.
00:02:20.560 Yeah.
00:02:20.800 They will lie to your face straight, straight up.
00:02:22.820 Like.
00:02:22.860 The devil doesn't break into empty houses, does it?
00:02:25.060 And you're young.
00:02:25.720 You're young.
00:02:26.160 They're going to lie to you.
00:02:27.200 Take your time.
00:02:28.100 It's chill.
00:02:28.540 It doesn't matter.
00:02:29.080 You know, accept yourself.
00:02:29.840 You know, you've got, you've got time.
00:02:31.280 Trust me.
00:02:31.860 After uni, the amount of high quality guys you meet on the dating scene would use you significantly.
00:02:36.300 In uni, you're in a pool of just young people who are quite focused and going towards somewhere.
00:02:40.680 When you come out, you're on Tinder, right?
00:02:43.060 On Tinder, anyone could be on Tinder.
00:02:44.620 Anyone could be on Hinge.
00:02:45.800 People are trying to mess around.
00:02:46.960 People broke.
00:02:47.760 It's long.
00:02:48.500 And, and the more time kind of passes, the less high quality men there are.
00:02:52.320 Because men figure it out and just pick one and bounce.
00:02:54.640 The guys you see every day are the guys that are running through girls, innit?
00:02:57.760 That does, and let's go back to the market thing that Troy said.
00:03:02.340 The longer a house sits on the market, the more likely that house is to drop in price.
00:03:06.560 Yeah, it decreases in value.
00:03:07.700 Right.
00:03:08.620 But I hate the whole, you just mentioned like Tinder and all this stuff.
00:03:12.800 Like when you go, you need, like, and you dropped the word market as well.
00:03:16.680 I don't like the whole idea that women are on a market.
00:03:21.540 Well, no, but, but, but, but, but men are as well.
00:03:23.520 Men are as well.
00:03:24.180 Everyone is.
00:03:24.860 Men are as well.
00:03:26.040 Everyone's for sale.
00:03:27.000 Like I get that, but I just don't.
00:03:28.000 The whole thing is a market.
00:03:29.160 It's not just women.
00:03:29.900 It's just everybody.
00:03:30.820 A hundred percent, a hundred percent.
00:03:31.780 But just for me personally, like maybe call me delusional, call me naive, but I just hate
00:03:37.200 the whole, the whole hookup culture idea that is so normalized today.
00:03:41.100 That doesn't sit right on my conscience whatsoever.
00:03:43.600 Whose fault is hookup culture?
00:03:46.620 It's the women's fault.
00:03:48.420 I think it's, I think it's a problem on both sides.
00:03:50.940 I don't think it's.
00:03:51.620 What percent, what percent of men can partake in hookup culture?
00:03:54.500 What percent of men get laid?
00:03:56.280 I don't know the statistics or the facts, but I don't think it's a certain sex to blame.
00:04:00.940 I think it's a problem on shared on both sides.
00:04:03.620 We don't help each other as women.
00:04:04.920 And I don't think men help themselves either.
00:04:07.000 So women want to sleep with roughly 20% of men.
00:04:10.040 20% of men.
00:04:11.240 And some people would argue it's fewer, but we're going to say 20% of men are sleeping
00:04:15.600 with all the women where 80% of women are sleeping with 20% of men.
00:04:19.380 So whose fault is hookup culture?
00:04:22.600 Is it more women doing it or more men doing it?
00:04:24.900 I think you have the advantage in this like situation because obviously you know the statistics,
00:04:30.520 like I'm not sat behind a company.
00:04:32.180 I don't know the statistics, like, but I just, from my personal opinion and what I see
00:04:38.500 is that I wouldn't blame it on a certain sex.
00:04:41.780 And I'll hold my hands up and say that.
00:04:43.920 Yeah, but it's not the five foot two nerdy guys who are causing hookup culture, is it?
00:04:48.600 Do you know what I mean?
00:04:49.120 I think the point Pearl's making is that you've got women who, you know, by and large
00:04:53.540 can get access to sex pretty easily for the most part, not exclusively for the most part.
00:04:57.760 And then you've got a certain, a much smaller sector of guys who are getting access to that
00:05:02.660 same sexual activity.
00:05:04.260 Do you agree with the saying women can, women sleep with who they want and men sleep with
00:05:11.120 who they can?
00:05:12.180 Yeah.
00:05:12.780 But see, is that something you agree with personally?
00:05:16.560 Yeah.
00:05:17.140 99% of people.
00:05:18.660 Yeah.
00:05:19.180 Yeah.
00:05:19.860 I agree with that as well.
00:05:21.300 But so that supports what I'm saying.
00:05:23.260 So women are the gatekeepers.
00:05:24.200 Yeah, because women are in control of who, who gets sex.
00:05:26.860 So if there's a hookup culture, it's women who are in control of hookup culture.
00:05:30.700 If all women said tomorrow, we all said, all right, guys, we're closing up shop until
00:05:35.700 we get a ring on our finger.
00:05:37.940 Everyone would be married.
00:05:39.320 I would buy Zale stock immediately.
00:05:41.920 No, but that's everyone.
00:05:43.640 That's everyone.
00:05:44.760 And we're not talking about everyone.
00:05:46.020 We're talking the majority.
00:05:47.540 Yeah.
00:05:47.740 But that is that small percentage of people that aren't like that.
00:05:51.660 We cannot speak for everyone.
00:05:52.880 But we're talking in generalities, though.
00:05:56.320 OK, but I'll stand tough in my personal opinion.
00:05:58.660 But that's all I'm going to say on that topic.
00:06:01.140 Like, I don't think that will waver for me personally.
00:06:05.200 Well, say that again.
00:06:06.560 What won't waver for you?
00:06:07.460 Like, I don't, I'm not happy with putting that on one specific sex.
00:06:14.660 Like, I think we're both part to blame for hookup culture.
00:06:17.960 But you don't think if eight out of ten women are participating it and one out of every
00:06:22.580 ten or maybe two out of every ten men are participating it, you don't think it's more
00:06:26.400 on the women because more women are doing it?
00:06:28.720 I mean, I don't like, I don't live by, like, statistics and facts.
00:06:32.920 Like, I just, I like to say that.
00:06:34.660 You just, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, not like that.
00:06:38.920 Not like that, but, not like that.
00:06:40.780 That's going to be a great clip.
00:06:42.520 No, not like that, but the way is Drake, is Drake, is Drake, is Drake.
00:06:47.440 You want a Scottish show?
00:06:48.300 I've been trying to say this the whole show.
00:06:49.620 Who's more responsible for hookup culture, the thousand women that have slept with Drake
00:06:55.920 or Drake?
00:06:58.360 That's the thing.
00:06:59.400 The thousand women that are begging Drake, please fly me out every day.
00:07:03.680 Please, please pick me.
00:07:05.620 Pick me.
00:07:06.240 Nah, I'm not meeting you in the middle of that.
00:07:07.840 And then Drake's like, fine.
00:07:09.820 Nah.
00:07:10.500 See?
00:07:11.160 I'm not going to lie to that.
00:07:12.060 He shouldn't say fine because he's part of the problem if he's saying fine.
00:07:15.600 He worked his whole life to get to that point.
00:07:17.920 I'm done with, nah, I'm not dealing with that.
00:07:20.520 Except the cognitive dissonances.
00:07:22.480 Nah.
00:07:23.280 I mean, men have the same thing, right?
00:07:25.480 We all want someone who doesn't have, who hasn't slept around, but at the same time,
00:07:29.080 we've also slept around a fair bit.
00:07:31.400 So I guess there's room on both sides.
00:07:33.760 You could argue either point.
00:07:36.040 But that's what I'm saying.
00:07:37.520 Yeah, yeah, but, you know.
00:07:38.860 Do you think Drake is waiting for a virgin?
00:07:41.080 No.
00:07:41.720 Nobody knows what Drake is waiting for.
00:07:43.300 I think most men expect that the girl has, I mean,
00:07:47.760 I don't know any guy that's genuinely, no, no, there's one that came on my show
00:07:51.620 that was genuinely waiting for a virgin, but that's like one out of, what,
00:07:55.660 the hundreds of men I've met all year.
00:07:57.620 Yeah, yeah.
00:07:57.920 But I've had multiple girls come on the show and ask for, like,
00:08:00.440 we do the delusion calculator, 20, 30% of men.
00:08:04.980 I mean, even just physical characteristics,
00:08:07.540 if you think of a guy you're attracted to,
00:08:09.200 I think, Justin, you're like 6'3".
00:08:12.200 Like 2% of men are 6'3".
00:08:15.200 And then on top of that, being good-looking.
00:08:17.700 And then on top of that, having a good job.
00:08:19.940 And then on top of that, being intelligent.
00:08:22.140 So I go and dance with a lot of girls in salsa
00:08:24.080 and all these kind of scenes, and they're good-looking,
00:08:25.860 they get all this attention, and they think I should be chasing them.
00:08:29.080 You work in a bar, Sarah.
00:08:31.060 Yeah.
00:08:31.260 Like, we're not the same, but a lot of them don't understand that.
00:08:35.440 So just understand the rarity.
00:08:36.540 Like, high-quality, good things are not frequent.
00:08:39.960 I know on Instagram it looks like you have access to the hottest guys,
00:08:43.120 and you get all these DMs.
00:08:44.260 And you think, yeah, you know, I can replace them.
00:08:46.500 To the left, to the left, that kind of idea.
00:08:48.800 Real solid, guys.
00:08:49.780 I have, like, four friends that I actually rate as people.
00:08:52.780 Like, this is a decent guy.
00:08:54.020 I have a lot of friends who will sleep with anyone and lie
00:08:55.900 and do anything that the woman asks just to get some ass.
00:08:59.020 And I know the difference.
00:09:00.620 High-quality men are rare.
00:09:01.880 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok,
00:09:05.640 and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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