You Won't Believe What This Dumb Bimbo Said...
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about how to deal with the pressures of dating in your 20s and 30s, and how to make the most of your 20's and 30's. We also talk about what it means to be a woman in the 21st century, and what to look out for when it comes to dating.
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No, men across the board judge women with tattoos, men across the board judge, you know,
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if we're going to say a balance of probability, like there's exceptions, but if we're going
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to talk about across the board, the men you want, like I'm, I'm from a pretty well-off
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community and like most of my brothers make six figures.
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And I can tell you that they, they absolutely judge you.
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If you have tattoos, they absolutely judge you.
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And I didn't always like this when I was younger, I was like, mom, you're so judgmental.
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Like I was so mad that she wouldn't let me like do this stuff.
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And then the older I get, the more I see that she's right.
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And I just, you know, I really, you know, if, if I can encourage you in a different direction,
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I think, I think you could actually end up making it something that works for you.
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You can, a classy woman with tattoo does stir some intrigue that could be interesting.
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So I'm not, we're not giving you like some kind of final judgment.
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Just get a couple of sundresses and you'll be fine.
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I personally don't have a thing against tattoo, but I'm not going to lie if I saw someone
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with tattoos, it doesn't scream, take me out to dinner, talk to me every night, treat
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It kind of screams like you've probably had two or three toxic relationships.
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But for real girls, I would say, look at, I do agree with feminists on one thing in
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that you, you go, you women have a lot against you now more than ever and that you have the
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Like when I look at modern women, there's very few role models.
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And I always get the impression when I speak to, when I see the women others look up to,
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other women look up to, I just like, you're looking up to people who don't have what you
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You're looking up to women who are coping with their bad decisions.
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34 year olds, 32 year olds who are still in the club, who are trying to sell you on
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this whole culture and accept yourself and spirituality.
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And they're not, they're missing out the little bit where it says, I messed up.
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I had all these opportunities at uni, I had all these opportunities, I messed up and I'm
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still in this club with 21 year olds trying to pretend that I've got it all.
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I guarantee you, these women, if they found a decent guy, they would fight you tooth and
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They will lie to your face straight, straight up.
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The devil doesn't break into empty houses, does it?
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After uni, the amount of high quality guys you meet on the dating scene would use you significantly.
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In uni, you're in a pool of just young people who are quite focused and going towards somewhere.
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And, and the more time kind of passes, the less high quality men there are.
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Because men figure it out and just pick one and bounce.
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The guys you see every day are the guys that are running through girls, innit?
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That does, and let's go back to the market thing that Troy said.
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The longer a house sits on the market, the more likely that house is to drop in price.
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But I hate the whole, you just mentioned like Tinder and all this stuff.
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Like when you go, you need, like, and you dropped the word market as well.
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I don't like the whole idea that women are on a market.
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Well, no, but, but, but, but, but men are as well.
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But just for me personally, like maybe call me delusional, call me naive, but I just hate
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the whole, the whole hookup culture idea that is so normalized today.
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That doesn't sit right on my conscience whatsoever.
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I think it's, I think it's a problem on both sides.
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What percent, what percent of men can partake in hookup culture?
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I don't know the statistics or the facts, but I don't think it's a certain sex to blame.
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I think it's a problem on shared on both sides.
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So women want to sleep with roughly 20% of men.
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And some people would argue it's fewer, but we're going to say 20% of men are sleeping
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with all the women where 80% of women are sleeping with 20% of men.
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Is it more women doing it or more men doing it?
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I think you have the advantage in this like situation because obviously you know the statistics,
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I don't know the statistics, like, but I just, from my personal opinion and what I see
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Yeah, but it's not the five foot two nerdy guys who are causing hookup culture, is it?
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I think the point Pearl's making is that you've got women who, you know, by and large
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can get access to sex pretty easily for the most part, not exclusively for the most part.
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And then you've got a certain, a much smaller sector of guys who are getting access to that
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Do you agree with the saying women can, women sleep with who they want and men sleep with
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But see, is that something you agree with personally?
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Yeah, because women are in control of who, who gets sex.
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So if there's a hookup culture, it's women who are in control of hookup culture.
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If all women said tomorrow, we all said, all right, guys, we're closing up shop until
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But that is that small percentage of people that aren't like that.
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OK, but I'll stand tough in my personal opinion.
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Like, I don't think that will waver for me personally.
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Like, I don't, I'm not happy with putting that on one specific sex.
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Like, I think we're both part to blame for hookup culture.
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But you don't think if eight out of ten women are participating it and one out of every
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ten or maybe two out of every ten men are participating it, you don't think it's more
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I mean, I don't like, I don't live by, like, statistics and facts.
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You just, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, not like that.
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No, not like that, but the way is Drake, is Drake, is Drake, is Drake.
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Who's more responsible for hookup culture, the thousand women that have slept with Drake
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The thousand women that are begging Drake, please fly me out every day.
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Nah, I'm not meeting you in the middle of that.
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He shouldn't say fine because he's part of the problem if he's saying fine.
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We all want someone who doesn't have, who hasn't slept around, but at the same time,
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I think most men expect that the girl has, I mean,
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I don't know any guy that's genuinely, no, no, there's one that came on my show
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that was genuinely waiting for a virgin, but that's like one out of, what,
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But I've had multiple girls come on the show and ask for, like,
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and all these kind of scenes, and they're good-looking,
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they get all this attention, and they think I should be chasing them.
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Like, we're not the same, but a lot of them don't understand that.
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Like, high-quality, good things are not frequent.
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I know on Instagram it looks like you have access to the hottest guys,
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And you think, yeah, you know, I can replace them.
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I have, like, four friends that I actually rate as people.
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I have a lot of friends who will sleep with anyone and lie
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and do anything that the woman asks just to get some ass.
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As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok,
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and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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