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00:00:00.000 Hoflation, yes. So does anyone know what hoflation is? No? You've never heard of

00:00:06.620 this topic? Okay. So this is something that has been going around online that

00:00:12.360 the men have been saying. Modern men have to work five times harder than their

00:00:17.660 grandfathers did, for women 20 times worse than what their grandmothers were. 0.91

00:00:22.560 It's called hoflation. Do you guys think that's true? No. No?

00:00:29.000 An extraordinary idea. Worse in what way? Better in what way? I would say worse in

00:00:34.940 that we offer less kids, we're more promiscuous, we're fatter, and I would

00:00:41.840 just say in general most people, like a third of us didn't grow up in two-parent

00:00:46.460 homes, so a lot of us weren't trained or like told how to be a wife. Oh, okay.

00:00:50.680 Well, I don't think being promiscuous makes you necessarily worse, and I think

00:00:54.600 probably fewer children is a good idea. Oh, less kids is good. I think so,

00:00:58.700 because the world's imploding. The world's, what about like the replacement

00:01:02.060 birthrate? Yeah, well again, I think less is definitely better than more. Okay, who

00:01:06.680 would fill the jobs? Oh, there's enough of us for that, I'm sure. AI as well also, of course.

00:01:11.540 Oh, okay. The robots will do it. Okay, but what about like building the buildings? Oh, running the

00:01:16.340 infrastructure? You know, 45% of men are in infrastructure jobs, so. Okay, I'm sure

00:01:22.640 robots will help with that. Okay, robots. All right. So, F them kids. Yeah, all right,

00:01:27.980 all right. Yeah, there's too many. All right, all right. What about you? Do you think that's true?

00:01:32.240 Uh, repeat again, because I'm not gonna lie. Okay, it's all right. I got you, I got you. Modern

00:01:36.880 men have to work five times harder than their grandfathers did, for women 20 times worse than 0.99

00:01:42.020 what their grandmothers were. Yeah, I just don't, I don't, what even is that? Like how? Okay, what do,

00:01:50.740 what do men want? They want a woman that supports them. Okay, do you think women today are more 0.99

00:01:57.040 supportive than our grandmothers? To be honest, I don't know whose grandma was what back in the day.

00:02:02.380 Okay, what about, what about, what about your grandma? I know that it all depends on the person

00:02:08.840 that you are. I mean, there's a lot of people that I'm gonna make one caveat for the show. I'm sorry

00:02:13.240 to cut you. I'm gonna let you finish. I'm gonna say no, it depends. I'm banning. It depends. I'm

00:02:19.240 banned it. Like we have to pick a side just so we can. This is a conversation in general, not for

00:02:24.440 everyone. So we're just talking about the average man, average woman, but sorry, go ahead. Okay, well,

00:02:31.640 um, now I've been thrown off. I'm just thinking of a bit more of a, so you said support. You said

00:02:38.600 support, like men want support and I agree with you. Yeah. Do you think women today are more

00:02:42.360 supportive than our grandmothers? Some of them ain't supportive at all. Some of them want everything 0.99

00:02:47.560 just handed to them. Okay. Without doing anything. Okay. I wasn't about to swear. So then you would,

00:02:53.480 you would agree with this then, right? Yes. Yeah. Yeah. Yes. To a certain extent. To a certain extent. To a

00:03:01.240 certain extent. Okay. Go ahead. I agree. You agree. Tell me why. I, well, of course with

00:03:08.760 inflation and everything, I do believe that men are working 10 times, if not 20 times harder than

00:03:14.200 our grandfathers did. And definitely as women, we are offering a bit less, especially with the lives we

00:03:21.640 have today. In what way do we offer less? We always want less kids because we want a career before we even

00:03:30.120 want to enter marriage. By the time we enter marriage, we don't really have the capacity to bear as many

00:03:37.080 children as the men would like. So yeah. Okay. I would agree as well. With who? With the statement. Okay.

00:03:49.400 Um, yeah, because I find that women actually want too much, which is why men have to work harder. Okay. 1.00

00:03:56.200 Yeah. How do women typically want too much? Well, not necessarily too much, but they want a lot more 1.00

00:04:04.280 now than they wanted back then. Okay. What do we want today that we didn't want yesterday?

00:04:09.720 Pretty much everything. Can we list a couple things? I'll, I'll give you one. I don't know if six foot was

00:04:16.200 on the table a hundred years ago. I don't know if that's what the, the grandmothers and great grandmothers

00:04:21.560 were like, you need a man that's six foot. They need to drive. They need to have the good job.

00:04:26.040 They need to have the money and the expenses to be able to afford the woman. Okay. So I feel like 1.00

00:04:31.240 that's what a lot of women in today's society want. Do you think men, do you think men used to have to 0.75

00:04:36.600 afford a woman? No. You don't think so? A little bit, yes, but not as much as, I don't think it was 0.94

00:04:42.440 asked for as much as it is now. Okay. You think a woman was more willing to work with a man? Yeah. Okay. 0.98

00:04:47.560 Okay. What do you think? Um, well, I'm not sure if it's the correct term to use,

00:04:52.280 wholeflation. And I also feel like it's been the same. It's just more amplified now because we can

00:04:57.640 see it. Like for example, if my parents or let's say my grandparents had an issue, I would never find

00:05:03.160 out. Like I'm finding out things now, what my granddad did after he passed. But now I think things

00:05:08.680 are more transparent because it's on social media what happened in, in LA. I think we are sort of

00:05:13.960 easy to, to, to, to get information rather than how it was before. I think women have been the same. 1.00

00:05:20.280 Uh, and men have also been the same. I think the only difference is we, we can see it now is the

00:05:26.120 problems have been more, um, magnified than it was back then. Did your grandma stay with your grandpa?

00:05:31.320 Yeah, she did. Well, she did. So do, do women today stay with their husbands? 0.95

00:05:35.240 Um, not many, no. So wouldn't you say it's different? I think it's different. Um,

00:05:39.720 it's not different as in what the perception of it. My grandmother stayed, but don't mean that she

00:05:45.320 was fully happy with the situation, but she committed through it all. But I felt like women 1.00

00:05:50.280 lately sort of feel like, why do I need to stay in misery if I can just go? If I can just capitalize on,

00:05:57.960 on life itself, let's say my grandmother didn't have that, um, that space or that, 0.98

00:06:04.120 that world to even navigate through freely, um, freely as a woman to even, you know, just do things

00:06:09.480 for herself. So I guess she felt more dependent. She couldn't do things for herself?

00:06:12.760 Uh, I mean, not that she couldn't, it's just the world wouldn't allow her to navigate through life

00:06:16.200 as it is now. They wouldn't allow her to navigate? Yeah, through life. I say, this is book I read.

00:06:20.440 What do you mean allow? Allow, I say for example, this is book I read. I think it's got a thousand,

00:06:24.600 a thousand candles in the sand. I'm not sure, but it's to do with something happening,

00:06:28.600 happening in, um, Afghanistan where this woman, this woman weren't allowed to travel without

00:06:33.800 a man being with them. So imagine, just imagine coming from that world. How are you supposed to

00:06:37.560 leave your husband? You can't even go to the shop without being, um, being with a male figure. They

00:06:42.360 wouldn't allow you. You get sent back home. What was the reason for that law? It was, I don't know,

00:06:47.000 it's just, well, cause the world used to, well, the world used to be a more dangerous place too. It's so

00:06:51.960 dangerous now. Right. But I'm saying like, we have institutions that protect women that, 0.95

00:06:57.000 depending on the time period and where you were in the world didn't always exist. Like the police

00:07:01.080 force, like legal systems that could, you know what I'm saying? So it was, sometimes we judge like

00:07:05.960 laws of the past by the times of today. You know what I mean? So I don't know that law. I was just

00:07:10.760 asking. It's not, I don't think it's a law. I think it's just more culturally. Right. This is in

00:07:15.160 Afghanistan. This is a book I read. Okay. 1920. Okay. The girl that wrote the book was actually in the

00:07:21.080 story that she was telling about. I just feel like, well, I just, when I hear allow, like, it sounds like we

00:07:26.280 couldn't work back then and we could. No, it could work. But I'm just saying back to your,

00:07:31.160 you saying that, did my grandmother stay? Yeah. And I'm trying to bring it back is maybe if she

00:07:36.120 had the opportunity to go out there and navigate as how women can today, who knows, she may have not 0.99

00:07:40.840 stayed. So it's just circumstances. But I feel like the world has always been a bit terrifying for,

00:07:47.480 for just, I guess, just people not knowing how to stay together. I feel like men have been men and

00:07:54.360 women have been women, but just not, women didn't have the platform to say what they're saying now. 1.00

00:07:59.400 Okay. Do you think women have always been the same? Now they just leave instead? Or like, 1.00

00:08:04.600 now they're, it's just out in the public? Yes. I feel like now we can see more. Like,

00:08:08.840 before we wouldn't know what's happening in someone else's family. But now you've got people filming

00:08:13.320 what's happening in their own household and posting on social media. Or like everyone,

00:08:17.640 I think people have an opinion. You've got someone just laying, laying in his bed at home,

00:08:21.480 could just say whatever and not get to me. Whereby way back, I wouldn't know what he thinks

00:08:25.080 or she thinks. So I'm just stuck in my own little world that I've created for myself,

00:08:28.760 my own perception of the world. But now your perception can be injected by anyone. Someone

00:08:33.320 from Dubai can say something and I can see you on Twitter and feel offended. Like, what was this?

00:08:37.480 Whereby before, there's no Twitter, there's no social media, there's no internet,

00:08:40.680 just live in your own world. Okay. What do you think?

00:08:43.720 Well, I actually agree with the statement. And the reason why I agree with the statement is because

00:08:52.680 guys do generally have to work much harder now. And the reason why I feel that they need to work

00:08:59.720 much harder is in terms of inflation. And in terms of inflation in the last 10 years,

00:09:06.840 it's absolutely ridiculous. There's no chance for young people. And the government just keep raising 0.88

00:09:13.240 inflation. They say they raise the wages. But however, the inflation rises just above the wages.

00:09:22.360 So then a lot more has to go in for them to get a lot out. In terms of women, do they give less? 1.00

00:09:30.440 Yes. Well, I can't speak for every woman. It depends on how that woman thinks and what her 1.00

00:09:36.520 perspective is. Remember, no, it depends. So again, I wouldn't pigeonhole every single female. 1.00

00:09:45.080 Some females, yeah, are gold diggers. And some females are not. What value do women in 2023 bring? 1.00

00:09:53.480 The average chick? Well, if you're average, I'm not sure about the average. But however, 0.95

00:10:01.000 I was brought up in a way where we were raised to support our men and to stand beside our men. So

00:10:11.640 they may not have had a lot, but you would support them in their endeavors or their dreams, etc.

00:10:16.840 Um, and you'd be that backbone, um, towards their goals or their dreams, etc.

00:10:23.560 Do you think most women do that? 1.00

00:10:24.840 Um, I can't speak for most women, but for what I've seen, for the females that are around me,

00:10:31.400 no, they don't. Okay. So yeah, especially with like half of like, how can we say we're supportive

00:10:36.840 if half of us leave? You know what I mean? I think in terms of leaving, um,

00:10:42.920 it's like, cause you know, it's like you, if you're going to support, you got to stay and support him,

00:10:47.880 you know? Again, I know you say you don't like the word depends, but however,

00:10:53.240 I wouldn't recommend for someone to stay in an abusive relationship. So if someone's being

00:10:58.200 Why is abusive? Why is abusive the first thing that comes to your head?

00:11:01.640 Because I'm not saying that's the first thing, but however, yeah, but I've known women that have 0.98

00:11:08.200 left from relationships because of physical abuse. Is that the majority? Um, I can't speak for the

00:11:15.800 majority. Do you think the majority of men are abusing women? Do you think that's probable?

00:11:22.200 No. Okay. So like, why is it the first thing that comes to your head?

00:11:26.200 Um, you're saying it's about support and leave. I'm saying circumstances. Right. But I'm saying if

00:11:31.560 half of women are leaving and then the first thing you say is abuse, I'm just, I'm asking why that's the

00:11:35.960 first thing. I'm saying that could be one of the things. I'm not saying that's the first thing,

00:11:41.160 but I'm just saying. No, I'm saying that's the first thing you said though. Yeah. So my first thing

00:11:45.800 I would say, if a relationship is abusive, then you have the right to leave. Okay. Right. But like my,

00:11:54.440 my point was that half of women are leaving. And so I'm saying we can't be supportive if we're leaving,

00:12:00.680 like half of us. You know what I mean? Well,

00:12:07.800 unless someone knows the reason why they're leaving, every, every relationship and every

00:12:12.920 partnership has their reasons why they leave. What are good reasons to leave a marriage?

00:12:18.200 Well, I would say abuse. Okay. Outside of abuse, which we, we agree is the minority, right?

00:12:24.520 Um, outside of abuse. I don't know. I feel like it really, really depends or say someone's a heavy

00:12:32.360 gambler. Okay. Gambling, gambling and abuse, but you, would you agree those are minority cases,

00:12:38.520 not majority? Yeah, I guess so. Yeah. Okay. Okay. Okay. So are there any other good reasons to leave?

00:12:46.040 Outside of that, I would say no. So wouldn't you say the majority of women are not supportive?

00:12:50.280 Yeah, I would say so. Okay. Okay. What about you? Hoflation. True or false?

00:12:57.240 I would partially agree with that statement. So I agree with the part where there isn't much quality

00:13:04.280 women that are left that has dropped massively. Um, I slightly disagree with the part where men have to 0.51

00:13:12.520 work extra hard nowadays compared to the men back in the days. Um, on two aspects, financially is more easier

00:13:22.360 to gain financial success if you just understand the strategies to it in today's timing. And in

00:13:30.120 terms of finding a woman, um, I think it's absolutely easy for males to find a decent woman only because 1.00

00:13:38.920 females are now degrading themselves and they're showing it in front of the whole world in the 1.00

00:13:44.360 public. So men are now able to now look at that and say, okay, well, I don't want you that they can 0.84

00:13:49.240 filter more easily because females are just upcoming degrading themselves. What is a decent woman? 1.00

00:13:55.240 A decent woman. A decent woman would carry such qualities that would facilitate being a mother, 1.00

00:14:07.960 a wife and a lady. And some of those will come from the parenting, how they were raised in the first

00:14:15.000 place. And then part of that will also be down to their decisions that they make in life.

00:14:21.560 Do you think the majority of women were raised to be wives? 0.98

00:14:24.280 No.

00:14:25.800 Okay. What if a guy wanted 10 kids? Where would he get that?

00:14:31.720 Are there women that want to give 10 kids nowadays? 1.00

00:14:34.680 No.

00:14:35.400 Do you know what, do you know what the average guy got, um, in 1800?

00:14:41.080 Eight kids per woman. 0.99

00:14:45.160 But that's the thing. There is quality woman out there. It's just more easier to filter through it now. 1.00

00:14:50.680 Right. So what does a quality woman give to a man? 1.00

00:14:55.000 A quality woman is, is basically a woman that most men would dream to have or the type of woman that 1.00

00:15:03.000 grandparents were.

00:15:03.960 Okay. Okay. So what, what does she give?

00:15:06.600 Like, what does she bring to the table? A quality woman? 1.00

00:15:10.040 I don't, I don't agree with females bringing anything to the table. 1.00

00:15:14.120 No, but you said it's not that hard for a man to find a quality.

00:15:17.240 Okay. But I'm saying we have to define what is a quality woman? 1.00

00:15:19.800 I can define to you what type of woman that they won't want. 1.00

00:15:24.440 Okay. But no, I'm asking what, because you said a quality woman. I'm saying what would they want? 0.99

00:15:29.480 Right. Like how many kids does a quality woman bring? Is she a virgin? Is she like, what, like, how old is she? What does a quality woman look like? 1.00

00:15:38.200 Okay. She'll be well groomed, first of all. 1.00

00:15:42.920 She'll be well presented, well spoken, um, quite intelligent in that sense. She would also have the skills to know how to cook and, well, how to use the kitchen app. I would normally say to people two things. A woman should know

00:15:59.640 how to, um, feed the hunger and heal the sick within the kitchen. Okay. Those are two qualities, um, that woman should have. What about age? 1.00

00:16:10.840 Age doesn't really hold really much weight, because you can be a quality woman for the rest of your life. You could be 50, you could be...

00:16:16.680 So a 40 year old woman is equally as quality as a 20 year old woman? 1.00

00:16:20.680 They could still be quality women at just different ages. 1.00

00:16:24.200 They're probably better.

00:16:25.480 No. Who? Who's better?

00:16:27.320 You could probably even be better at an old age. You might get a bit more mature, you're kind of experienced.

00:16:34.600 What, what do you bring at 40 that you wouldn't have at 20?

00:16:38.360 A bit more of a mature attitude.

00:16:40.920 Are older women generally known for being more agreeable and better? 0.99

00:16:46.120 Yeah.

00:16:48.680 No, they are. Maybe you've not ever experienced them.

00:16:52.040 I've only interviewed hundreds of women. 1.00

00:16:54.040 It doesn't matter. There's thousands of millions of us. There is a lot, there's a lot of things that we

00:16:58.200 haven't experienced, you know, that we can't really comment on.

00:17:01.400 Okay. What are, what are women over 30's reputation that are still single? Good or bad? 1.00

00:17:07.080 Oh, the reputation defines them as a person.

00:17:09.960 Yes.

00:17:10.440 Oh, right.

00:17:11.960 I don't agree.

00:17:12.840 Yeah.

00:17:13.480 You don't think we can make generalities based on a reputation?

00:17:16.280 No, no. We can make no conclusions.

00:17:20.440 I know some men that don't give a crap. 0.99

00:17:22.120 Yeah, right. But we're talking about women. We're talking about women. 1.00

00:17:24.680 But if you think we're talking about women, all right, I understand that.

00:17:30.360 But why are we talking, what is it? Is it, is it for the men that we're talking about this for?

00:17:35.000 Right. But I'm saying if she's 40, what is she going to bring to a guy who wants a new wife and a family? 0.93

00:17:40.840 More sexual experience? Should probably be a better number.

00:17:44.840 Do men, do men want wives with more sexual experience?

00:17:47.960 No.

00:17:48.360 Some do. I think the more interesting ones do.

00:17:50.200 No.

00:17:51.240 I don't think so.

00:17:52.520 Maybe he does it. Maybe your one does.

00:17:55.080 You're, you're more likely to get divorced the more sexual experience you have.

00:17:58.120 That's actually true.

00:17:59.000 Yeah.

00:17:59.400 Yeah.

00:17:59.720 Well, maybe that's because you won't settle for less.

00:18:02.120 Right. But what is settle?

00:18:04.120 Well, settling is when you're in a marriage that isn't perhaps perfect,

00:18:06.840 and you want to go out and explore what else is available.

00:18:08.920 Right. That's the problem.

00:18:10.520 Yeah. Because women think they deserve more than they do. 1.00

00:18:13.960 Yeah.

00:18:15.000 It's one perspective.

00:18:16.680 Well, I mean, if you, if you could get it, you would get it.

00:18:19.640 Right. So if she hasn't gotten it, how does she deserve something she can't get?

00:18:23.560 Oh, I think she just has to keep looking.

00:18:25.560 Just keep shagging. 0.98

00:18:31.880 No, but seriously, a guy that wants a wife, what is he going to get out of a woman that is 40 years old? 0.97

00:18:38.360 It's geriatric pregnancy. She can't bring him kids. 1.00

00:18:40.760 Oh, again with the children.

00:18:41.880 How is that equally? I mean, I know you don't want kids, but I think.

00:18:45.240 I've got a child.

00:18:45.800 Okay. I know you don't want a lot of kids.

00:18:48.360 That's fine, yeah.

00:18:49.240 Right, right.

00:18:49.960 Are you planning children?

00:18:51.880 What?

00:18:52.360 Are you planning children?

00:18:53.240 Every day of my life.

00:18:55.080 Really?

00:18:55.320 Yeah, yeah.

00:18:57.720 So, so the question is, what, what does a 40 year old woman bring that a 20 year old can't? 1.00

00:19:03.480 So men don't care about sexual experience.

00:19:05.640 Okay. Well, better conversation, more life experience, more money potentially, better career,

00:19:10.120 more education.

00:19:10.520 Do men, do men care about your career and education?

00:19:12.760 Oh, I hope so. But yeah, again, the interesting ones would, I'm sure.

00:19:15.480 So, so the, the interesting men care about your career. What, what is a career to a guy that has one?

00:19:21.560 It's more like the broke men don't care, the broke men care about your career.

00:19:25.080 I think it'd be more important to a man with a career because you have something to talk about

00:19:28.120 and points you can relate to each other.

00:19:30.840 Do you think, do you really, you're nodding, you think that's true? 0.92

00:19:33.240 No, yeah, it's very true.

00:19:34.600 It's not true.

00:19:35.240 Well, maybe not in your world, love.

00:19:39.000 There is a lot of things going on that you might not have experienced to really be able to comment on.

00:19:45.400 Okay, then why, why do the richest men not, not care about a woman's career?

00:19:50.200 Why do they go for young, attractive women? Why do they go for models? 1.00

00:19:53.480 The more naive ones.

00:19:55.080 The more, why do you think they're naive?

00:19:57.400 There's a lot of them that are naive. Some of them don't even know what they want.

00:20:00.040 They just see what's on social media, what's out on, you know, on the internet.

00:20:04.680 All the flash, the bling, give me the car, give me the clothes, give me the jewels.

00:20:10.760 That's what a lot of young girls are like. 1.00

00:20:12.600 How is that different from the older women? The older women are doing the same thing. 1.00

00:20:16.760 No, but some women grow out of it and they realize that there's more about a man than just his money. 0.99

00:20:22.840 You can be stable if you're on the same level.

00:20:25.320 That's nice.

00:20:25.880 You know, have your money, but all of the extra stuff.

00:20:28.840 Oh, do you want me to finish?

00:20:30.600 Yeah.

00:20:31.080 Yeah.

00:20:32.200 So all the extra stuff, it's been there, done that.

00:20:35.400 When you grow up, you grow out of it.

00:20:36.760 Then you start more focusing on the man's mentality, their mental health,

00:20:40.840 how to become better, not be a nuisance.

00:20:45.480 Kind of become a team.

00:20:47.080 You then start becoming best friends.

00:20:49.400 It's not really about the jewels and all the extra stuff.

00:20:53.640 That's a young mentality.

00:20:54.840 That's fine, but why do a lot of them still end up single? 0.97

00:20:58.280 With all the knowledge they have about men and how to be better, they still end up single.

00:21:03.160 I don't know, boy.

00:21:03.960 I've got married parents.

00:21:05.480 They've been together from 20 to now and they're 57.

00:21:08.920 So I don't know.

00:21:09.640 Maybe I haven't experienced what they're...

00:21:11.160 No, I'm not talking about them.

00:21:12.120 We're talking about this generation of women that are single. 0.99

00:21:14.600 I can't say.

00:21:16.760 I don't know.

00:21:17.240 I don't know.

00:21:18.360 Yeah, why are they less married than ever?

00:21:20.280 I can't say.

00:21:22.920 We don't know.

00:21:23.480 Okay, so if the data shows that men don't like women the older they get,

00:21:30.920 what does that mean?

00:21:33.080 Who's the data?

00:21:33.960 I think every dating app data that you can possibly take.

00:21:37.480 Dating apps.

00:21:38.200 Even if you have men pick women by scent, they still pick the younger women. 1.00

00:21:45.480 Yeah.

00:21:45.880 They literally don't even have to see the women. 0.94

00:21:47.640 They smell it.

00:21:48.040 Trying to keep themselves young.

00:21:49.560 No, I mean, there's biological reasons why we do the things we do.

00:21:53.400 And men are attracted to purity.

00:21:55.000 They're attracted to youth.

00:21:57.080 Because historically, they had to reproduce.

00:21:59.400 And you're more likely to be able to reproduce more children with a younger woman. 1.00

00:22:02.600 But you can't just undo biology the same way you like taller men because they can protect

00:22:07.320 you.

00:22:07.480 The same way you like muscles because it can protect you.

00:22:09.400 The same reason women like rich men because they want resources. 1.00

00:22:12.360 Men are attracted to purity.

00:22:13.480 They're attracted to youth.

00:22:14.520 Are we talking about men over 50?

00:22:16.840 Or how old are we even talking about?

00:22:18.440 We're talking about older men like younger women. 0.87

00:22:20.920 Okay.

00:22:21.320 And that's over what age?

00:22:23.000 All ages.

00:22:23.960 Okay.

00:22:24.200 Just like that.

00:22:24.760 I mean, the dating app is between 18 and 80.

00:22:29.640 You know what age they ranked the most attractive from 18 to 80, all of them?

00:22:34.600 22.

00:22:35.160 22.

00:22:36.120 I've had some apps go as long as 18.

00:22:38.760 Where men or women, it doesn't peak till 50.

00:22:42.760 So really and truly, men are just looking for the looks.

00:22:47.000 It starts with looks.

00:22:48.040 Yeah.

00:22:49.400 And everything else.

00:22:50.680 I know some girls that just don't lift a finger. 1.00

00:22:53.880 And they get it.

00:22:54.520 Oh, they don't even need a personality.

00:22:56.600 Some men like that.

00:22:57.400 They don't want to.

00:22:57.880 Well, I think that's the whole point.

00:22:59.960 Is that like, that's all women bring in 2023. 1.00

00:23:02.840 The majority of us haven't been raised to be wives.

00:23:07.320 Do you think that's untrue?

00:23:10.200 Um, this day and age, anything below 25, they have been struggling.

00:23:17.960 Women. 0.81

00:23:18.760 Okay.

00:23:20.120 Not all of them, but there is a lot that have been struggling.

00:23:26.200 Guidance wise.

00:23:28.360 Yeah.

00:23:29.320 Yeah.

00:23:29.560 Because we got, I think the women between like. 1.00

00:23:31.640 They're more free spirited.

00:23:33.880 Is that, is that good for society?

00:23:37.560 Both ways.

00:23:39.800 Huh?

00:23:40.200 Both ways.

00:23:41.160 It's good both ways.

00:23:42.440 It's good.

00:23:43.880 And it's a bit bad.

00:23:45.480 So it's like, you can't take.

00:23:48.200 I mean.

00:23:51.320 To be honest, everyone's expectations.

00:23:53.240 And that is different.

00:23:55.160 But a lot of young girls haven't been really taught about respecting themselves.

00:24:02.440 You know, they don't, they're not been told how to conduct themselves.

00:24:09.160 But then we all get our moments.

00:24:11.400 I'm not going to say I'm some special.

00:24:14.600 We've all had our moments, but I feel like it's all to do with the maturity.

00:24:17.720 But I do believe that it works good and bad for like that free spirit.

00:24:24.280 So maybe if they want an older guy, an older man might not like that free spirit too much.

00:24:30.840 Because they kind of want, depending on the guy.

00:24:33.320 Sorry, I know you don't like that word.

00:24:34.520 But they might want a bit more of a submissive girl. 1.00

00:24:38.920 Okay.

00:24:40.120 And you think older women are more submissive? 1.00

00:24:43.800 Some.

00:24:45.640 Some.

00:24:46.920 Are people more likely to change when they're older or younger?

00:24:51.480 Older.

00:24:53.480 Come on.

00:24:56.120 All right.

00:24:56.360 If a guy has been committing crimes until 18, is he more likely to stop if he stops at 18 or if he stops at 35?

00:25:05.240 He's been doing it for 15 years or he's been doing it for two years?

00:25:08.920 They don't stop, guys.

00:25:10.840 Guys don't ever change.

00:25:13.240 Do you think, do you think women change? 0.96

00:25:15.960 Yes.

00:25:17.960 I do.

00:25:19.480 Maybe I'm just talking on my behalf.

00:25:21.000 If there's others that don't, then I can't say, no, you don't.

00:25:24.440 Like, it's not my, it's not my place to say that.

00:25:26.920 But I do know of everyone around me that they've changed from in their early 20s to their mid 30s.

00:25:34.360 So my question is, you're a woman and you don't, you don't, you, you don't. 0.99

00:25:39.400 Okay.

00:25:39.720 Let's put it like this.

00:25:40.440 You're so sure that guys don't change and you're not a guy.

00:25:43.640 But for a woman, you have a completely different view on it.

00:25:46.760 How does that compute?

00:25:47.880 You're so right.

00:25:49.160 I'm so sorry.

00:25:49.960 Apologies.

00:25:51.320 Some guys.

00:25:51.960 What the hell is.

00:25:52.920 Come. 0.55

00:25:53.160 Cheers.

00:25:53.480 Joey, пост.

00:25:54.040 Cheers.

00:25:54.800 Heyvah.

00:25:55.400 Cheers.

00:25:55.920 Cheers.

00:25:56.400 Thank you.

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JustPearlyThings - July 18, 2023

You Won't Believe What This Modern Man Said

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