JustPearlyThings - August 07, 2023


You Won't Believe What This Modern Woman SAID


Episode Stats

Length

44 minutes

Words per Minute

207.66307

Word Count

9,342

Sentence Count

301

Misogynist Sentences

145

Hate Speech Sentences

105


Summary

In this episode, we discuss the differences between men and women when it comes to sex and sex education. We also discuss the role of women in society and how they are more likely to have sex with their clothes off than men.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Coming up next.
00:00:30.000 Okay, so would you let your seven-year-old daughter do other things that you do as a grown-up? Are you joking me? That's a very bad question.
00:00:45.780 Wait, wait, wait.
00:00:46.780 Can you let my son drive my car? No.
00:00:48.800 Let her expand on that statement.
00:00:51.900 Can I say something?
00:00:52.900 Go back to your seven-year-old daughter statement. Go ahead.
00:00:55.100 No, no, I'm not going to entertain you guys, to be honest. I would love to answer that.
00:00:58.400 I'm not going to entertain you guys. In the world of logic, I shall not enter.
00:01:02.500 I'm just trying to say something.
00:01:04.000 I just don't think women should be sexualized.
00:01:05.700 It's your duty to entertain them.
00:01:07.000 I totally agree. Women should not be sexualized.
00:01:09.700 That's not sexualized.
00:01:10.700 But what I'm saying is...
00:01:11.700 Do you have sex with your clothes on or clothes off?
00:01:14.700 Uh, whatever I want to do. Why?
00:01:17.600 Because her clothes are off? This is why I'm asking this question?
00:01:20.000 That's why I'm asking.
00:01:22.100 Um, so I have another question.
00:01:24.700 Um, if men pursue, if men pursue and propose and marry women, would that mean that they have
00:01:32.800 to endure more because they made the choice to marry and invest in a woman?
00:01:37.300 No, because women didn't have to agree to marry them.
00:01:39.900 So I think you both have a, in marriage, you're both having a duty.
00:01:43.500 So yeah, you both have to, there's a level of endurance on both sides.
00:01:48.700 I feel like men definitely are better at enduring because as we can see from the stats show,
00:01:53.100 women leave far greater number of the time and initiate divorce far greater than men do.
00:01:57.500 So men, but men have to go to war every day.
00:02:00.300 We have to go to war every day.
00:02:01.900 So we're, we're, we're, we're enjoying stuff.
00:02:04.100 Just trying to keep food on the family for our table.
00:02:06.500 There's rat race of life.
00:02:07.300 Everyone's trying to make the same, everyone's trying to make a lot of money.
00:02:09.600 Everyone's trying to provide.
00:02:10.600 And then we're just going to war every day.
00:02:12.200 So we're used to enjoying women, whether they see it or not.
00:02:15.400 Some women don't get me wrong.
00:02:16.300 I'm not, I'm, I'm speaking in general terms.
00:02:18.000 Some women have to go out and get the bag.
00:02:19.400 They've not got a man and they probably didn't.
00:02:21.800 Some of them haven't had a dad in their life.
00:02:23.000 They've not got a man.
00:02:23.600 So they have to go out and get the bread.
00:02:24.700 Also, I'm talking in general terms, men are used to enduring.
00:02:28.600 So I feel like women, they live as a whole, they live a softer life when it comes to going out,
00:02:35.800 taking the stresses of life.
00:02:36.800 Men are better at dealing with stress.
00:02:39.300 That's what we're built for, isn't it?
00:02:40.300 Yeah, it's what we're built for.
00:02:41.100 So you can't really expect them to have the same responsibilities because we're built for it.
00:02:44.900 But on the flip side is don't underestimate or downplay how much of a great and a hard role it is for a woman to raise a family.
00:02:53.000 Like they raise children, like women are actually, I look at women and I actually just think, I don't know how you do this.
00:02:58.600 You do this, women's beauty, they can raise a family, they've got a cook, they'll raise the kids.
00:03:02.200 They've got three kids that do multiple jobs.
00:03:04.600 That's the beauty of a woman.
00:03:05.800 What percent of women actually raise their kids and the state doesn't or the daycare doesn't?
00:03:14.800 See, this is, I don't know the stats, but this is why I love a woman.
00:03:17.300 I'm a provider, you stay home and raise the kids.
00:03:19.900 That's why I think, because I think a lot of the time they go to nursery to do this.
00:03:22.900 I think if you're both struggling to pay the bills, then you have to think, okay, look, we have to, the most important thing is keeping the kids alive and healthy.
00:03:29.300 But I think if you're in a situation, I don't, I, me personally, I don't like if the man can afford to pay all the bills and this and she still choose to work.
00:03:36.700 Why are you going to work now and spend less time with the kids just because you want a better Gucci bag or something?
00:03:41.300 Stay at home, raise the kids and that's your beauty, that's your job.
00:03:44.800 And I'll go out there and conquer the world and make sure I'll come back with food to put on the table.
00:03:48.200 Because it's sad, I see this a lot and even me trying to date as I've got older, a lot of the sticking point is women don't want to stay at home.
00:03:55.800 They want to go out and they want to be independent.
00:03:57.300 So I'm like, so who's going to look after the kids and they're like, yeah, they can go to date again.
00:04:00.700 I don't want a money to raise the kids.
00:04:02.000 I don't want the state to raise the kids that our kids, you, you raise them and I'll help you.
00:04:06.100 Obviously, I'm going to come back.
00:04:06.800 But my job as a man is to go home and bring the bacon for another bacon.
00:04:10.300 My thing is if women want to be equal, then be equal, split the bills down the middle, let him stay home like half the time, you know, but it's like they just want equality when it benefits.
00:04:20.800 Yeah, but it's not real equality.
00:04:22.600 Pay on half, pay half the bills, be equal.
00:04:24.800 Best relationships I found is when a man knows his role in a relationship and a woman, men and women are equal, but they're different.
00:04:31.300 I'm not going to people say, oh, men, men and women are equal.
00:04:34.000 Women equal, they're different.
00:04:35.200 We're all human beings, but they're not the same.
00:04:36.900 Let's not act like they're the same.
00:04:38.400 And the problem is, this is another thing I hear.
00:04:40.900 And I spoke about this not long ago.
00:04:42.600 Women are like, I have to take on a masculine because one of my pet is one of my biggest six is masculine women.
00:04:47.800 I mean, I can't, it's one of my biggest in us, but they're like, we have to act masculine because we haven't got a man, so we have to do it ourselves.
00:04:53.300 I'm like, all right, cool.
00:04:54.300 I've not got a woman.
00:04:55.000 Does that mean I act like a woman?
00:04:56.000 Do I act feminine?
00:04:57.000 No, I don't.
00:04:58.000 So why do you, why do you have to take, you can still be a woman and get a job.
00:05:01.000 You can still have a job and be feminine and be a woman.
00:05:03.000 You don't have to be this, oh, boss bitch, I can do this.
00:05:05.000 Because men, when men get money, they, for me personally, and I know a lot of men, when they go to work and they're grinding and they're going out and they're stressing to get the monies for this, they think of all the stuff they can do and provide their family.
00:05:15.100 But when women get the money, they think of all the stuff that, all the reasons they don't need a man now.
00:05:18.600 Do you get it?
00:05:19.600 They get rich and think, I don't need a man.
00:05:21.000 I'm independent.
00:05:21.600 Where a man gets rich and thinks, I can't wait to raise a family.
00:05:23.600 Look, I've got this money and I can raise my own family.
00:05:25.600 And that's the difference between this new age woman that just, and they're always unhappy.
00:05:29.000 Imagine being 40 years old with no kids.
00:05:31.500 What a vapious, horrible, boring life.
00:05:33.300 We've got no kids to run around.
00:05:35.300 You just sat there with a Birkin bag.
00:05:36.300 And you know what's a crazy stat?
00:05:38.300 I'm 40.
00:05:39.300 I saw your eyes.
00:05:41.300 No, no, no, no, no.
00:05:42.300 It's an inside joke.
00:05:44.300 Listen, because he's 40, what is not about you?
00:05:47.300 Relax.
00:05:48.300 We've been friends for many years.
00:05:50.300 This is not about you, okay?
00:05:52.300 We were laughing at my vacuous life.
00:05:54.300 Yeah.
00:05:55.300 Yeah, because he's 47 with no kids and he's on his way out.
00:05:58.300 That's tough.
00:05:59.300 Guys, do you know what's crazy?
00:06:02.300 When a girl, and they don't tell you this, and I really think they should, if you're
00:06:05.300 still single at 30, you're more likely to not have children than to have children as
00:06:09.300 a woman.
00:06:10.300 That's right.
00:06:11.300 I don't know.
00:06:12.300 So it's more likely that you probably will never have them.
00:06:14.300 She's not happy about it, actually.
00:06:15.300 You watch me.
00:06:16.300 I mean, you can say whatever you want.
00:06:18.300 No, we're not.
00:06:19.300 It's not like you.
00:06:20.300 It's just that.
00:06:21.300 Yeah, it's more likely or more unlikely.
00:06:23.300 It does not define me.
00:06:24.300 No, no.
00:06:25.300 We're talking in general.
00:06:26.300 We're not talking.
00:06:27.300 I understand.
00:06:28.300 And I'm also talking in general.
00:06:29.300 I just feel that, you know, I am actually...
00:06:33.300 It's impossible not to take it personally.
00:06:35.300 I'm actually not taking it personally.
00:06:37.300 She can take it.
00:06:38.300 You know, there are many more women in that age and trust me, I'm still get caught it
00:06:42.300 when I buy wine.
00:06:43.300 So I don't need to take it personally because, you know, I'm not worried about that.
00:06:47.300 What?
00:06:48.300 Like, I do agree you guys with what you're saying.
00:06:51.300 Anything I do right now by myself is because I am by myself.
00:06:55.300 But every day I understand that I need to get to my goal quicker.
00:07:00.300 Simply, when I am ready to give birth, hopefully in a year or two, I can stay at home and raise
00:07:06.300 my children.
00:07:07.300 There is no bloody way there are going to be nannies with my children and I am somewhere
00:07:10.300 else.
00:07:11.300 I think that's commendable.
00:07:12.300 You see, that's why...
00:07:13.300 I am the one who will raise my children because only I can give them the love that
00:07:17.300 they need.
00:07:18.300 This is exactly why she should give me her Instagram because I said that two days ago.
00:07:21.300 I said there's no way I'm going to let my children be raised by some psychopath at a fucking
00:07:29.300 daycare.
00:07:30.300 Because you see these daycares in America where they're putting the Hulk hands on the
00:07:33.300 children and making them have Fight Club.
00:07:35.300 Like, literally.
00:07:36.300 You know what I mean?
00:07:38.300 Like, I'm not going to leave your kids with some psychopath.
00:07:41.300 Like, I love the fact that my mom worked so hard as a single mom and did her best to
00:07:48.300 be in my life as much as possible.
00:07:51.300 She would be in her life in the daytime and then she would work as a bartender at nighttime
00:07:55.300 trying to keep the lights on as a 27-year-old woman with three children.
00:08:01.300 Three children.
00:08:02.300 Women are amazing, bro.
00:08:03.300 You know what I mean?
00:08:04.300 They're like superheroes, bro.
00:08:05.300 What women can do raising their families and all these kids, especially single moms.
00:08:09.300 Like, I know for men, they don't really tend to go for single moms, but that aside, single
00:08:14.300 moms are superheroes.
00:08:15.300 I see even my mom raised four kids.
00:08:18.300 I see my dad a lot, don't get me wrong, but just women are superheroes.
00:08:21.300 What they can do.
00:08:22.300 That's the beauty of a man and a woman.
00:08:23.300 There's a lot of stuff that men can do when they're like, oh, I conquer the world and
00:08:26.300 deal with stress.
00:08:27.300 But raising a family, like all these kids on your own, you've got to try and get all these
00:08:30.300 meals.
00:08:31.300 One's crying, one needs feeding, this and happy needs to.
00:08:33.300 And they just get on with it.
00:08:34.300 Like the superheroes, you have to commend women in that department.
00:08:37.300 When women are women, what they can do, a man could never do.
00:08:41.300 Actually, that's not true.
00:08:43.300 Single fathers raise better kids.
00:08:44.300 The statistics.
00:08:46.300 If you've got, for me personally, from what I've seen in my life, I've never seen a man
00:08:50.300 deal with multiple, one child's easy.
00:08:52.300 Well, they can't because they only get custody like 10% of the time.
00:08:56.300 But what she's saying is, it is actually factually true.
00:08:59.300 No, I know this.
00:09:00.300 I know.
00:09:01.300 I've seen this fact.
00:09:02.300 But I'm saying this from what I've seen.
00:09:03.300 I've never seen a man, like normally when I see his, it was different for me.
00:09:07.300 Me and my son was mostly when he was young.
00:09:09.300 So I had him three days or three days a week since he was like one month old.
00:09:12.300 I had to do all the night feeds and I've changed everything.
00:09:14.300 But I had one child.
00:09:15.300 But I see a lot of men when they have been with their wives or the partners for a long time.
00:09:21.300 And then their missus goes away for like a weekend and the kids are winning.
00:09:25.300 They don't know what to do.
00:09:26.300 They're stressing where women just take it on their shoulder.
00:09:28.300 That's what I'm just saying.
00:09:29.300 I don't know if they've had them and raised them themselves.
00:09:31.300 I don't know about all of that.
00:09:32.300 But I'm saying is when they've been in a relationship, they're so used to having the
00:09:34.300 woman there.
00:09:35.300 When the woman goes along, they're just like, oh, they're in turmoil.
00:09:37.300 They're like, oh, I don't know.
00:09:38.300 This kid's running around.
00:09:39.300 And they can't wait for the wife to come back.
00:09:41.300 Yeah.
00:09:42.300 And I think, I think, and when going back to that, like, I do think like from a biological
00:09:45.300 standpoint, a woman's specialty and talent is taking care of her children, nurturing them
00:09:55.300 and loving.
00:09:56.300 Like, you know, when we're sick, do you like want to snuggle up with your dad?
00:09:59.300 No.
00:10:00.300 You're like, mom, where are you?
00:10:01.300 I feel miserable.
00:10:02.300 You know, she's like, pat your head.
00:10:04.300 You're like, it's okay, retard.
00:10:05.300 You're going to be all right.
00:10:06.300 Calm down.
00:10:07.300 You know, you, you chill out.
00:10:08.300 You feel good.
00:10:09.300 And then at the same time, dad goes out and makes shitload of money.
00:10:13.300 Anything breaks in the house.
00:10:14.300 Like dad, can you fix this?
00:10:15.300 He's like, all right, let me, let me sort this out.
00:10:17.300 You know, both people, mother and father have their specialties, right?
00:10:23.300 How many, like your ladies, we're down to two.
00:10:25.300 Uh, don't you like a guy that's handy for like, Hey, the, the dryer keeps like shaking
00:10:30.300 and moving across the fucking basement.
00:10:33.300 Can you fix it?
00:10:34.300 Don't you like a guy's like, just give me a second.
00:10:35.300 I can watch a YouTube video.
00:10:37.300 I can sort it out.
00:10:38.300 Right?
00:10:39.300 You know, but, but that, that goes back to the original thing that I personally believe
00:10:46.300 at my brand is that men and women need to get over their bullshit.
00:10:52.300 Then you drop their egos, come together, have a family, make good children and make a better
00:11:02.300 society.
00:11:03.300 This whole bullshit.
00:11:04.300 We're at each other's throats.
00:11:06.300 Trying to tear each other apart.
00:11:08.300 When you have your single girlfriends, your single guy friends are like, Oh, just leave him.
00:11:12.300 You can get a better one.
00:11:13.300 I swear to God.
00:11:14.300 Or the other side around, just leave her bro.
00:11:15.300 Just go out there.
00:11:16.300 Don't on Tinder.
00:11:17.300 Fuck all these hoes.
00:11:18.300 Right?
00:11:19.300 The other side is retarded as fuck.
00:11:20.300 That's true.
00:11:21.300 Like men and women.
00:11:22.300 And you know, you know, I have a job as a dating coach.
00:11:24.300 You know, Billy has a job as a dating coach.
00:11:26.300 Troy has a job as a dating coach.
00:11:28.300 Because men and women, they're both lost.
00:11:31.300 And the Western society, you think you have dating coaches in the East?
00:11:34.300 They're like, no.
00:11:35.300 But your dating coach is your grandmother and your grandfather.
00:11:37.300 That's true.
00:11:38.300 The dating and relationship world is really messed up.
00:11:42.300 Absolutely.
00:11:43.300 And the modern society, people are not prepared to compromise.
00:11:48.300 And when I did a survey, and I take a survey by asking a lot of people, myself personally,
00:11:58.300 anybody I meet, I said, how long have you been married?
00:12:01.300 Over 20, 25 years.
00:12:02.300 I said, what's the secret sauce?
00:12:04.300 Like, how is that possible?
00:12:06.300 How did you do it?
00:12:07.300 And every single time, they said to me the same word, compromise.
00:12:15.300 Isn't that the opposite of narcissism and ego?
00:12:17.300 Yeah.
00:12:18.300 Right.
00:12:19.300 And we're all...
00:12:20.300 Modern society, people are not prepared to compromise.
00:12:22.300 You say that to some people, they're like, what?
00:12:24.300 Are you crazy?
00:12:25.300 How many people you know, man and woman, they take like 900 selfies, and they're like,
00:12:29.300 trying to find the best one to put like a million FaceApp filters on to be as good looking
00:12:34.300 as possible to make strangers on the internet happy.
00:12:37.300 And these motherfuckers end up alone.
00:12:39.300 Have you ever been in those situations where you hear someone speaking on what they think
00:12:45.300 relationships are, and then it just takes you back?
00:12:48.300 Because you're like, wait, hold on.
00:12:50.300 This is what you think a healthy relationship looks like?
00:12:55.300 Takes you back to what?
00:12:56.300 No, not takes you back as in takes you back.
00:12:57.300 Oh, right.
00:12:58.300 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:12:59.300 You're taking it back.
00:13:00.300 Taken it back.
00:13:01.300 Taken it back.
00:13:02.300 Yeah, absolutely.
00:13:03.300 Because there's been a few times, I can't think of head what they actually said, but
00:13:06.300 there's a lot of times where someone will say something, and I'm like, you understand,
00:13:09.300 it's not like what relationships, relationships, that's what, because everyone kind of thinks
00:13:13.300 of this, like, we all understand it.
00:13:15.300 Everyone thinks of this cookie cutter, Disney fucking, end of Snow White bullshit, like,
00:13:20.300 what a marriage is.
00:13:21.300 They got married and live happily ever after.
00:13:23.300 But that's not what life is.
00:13:25.300 That's not even what life is.
00:13:26.300 Well, it's because as women we're just told we can have everything.
00:13:29.300 He can be tall, handsome, successful.
00:13:31.300 On top of that, he's going to be faithful to you, and you're a queen, and you did nothing
00:13:36.300 wrong if any of that goes wrong.
00:13:38.300 The problem is, though, what people want is the honeymoon period.
00:13:41.300 You know, it's the honeymoon period, isn't it?
00:13:43.300 It's when the neurotransmitters are firing, when that sexual chemistry is there, when that
00:13:48.300 intensity is there.
00:13:49.300 Do you know what I mean?
00:13:50.300 And that's what people think it should be like the whole way through, and it's never
00:13:53.300 going to happen.
00:13:54.300 It's just never going to happen.
00:13:55.300 So I have a question.
00:13:57.300 Raise your hand if you grew up with two parents.
00:14:00.300 So, like, not single mother, not single father.
00:14:02.300 So raise your hand.
00:14:03.300 Two parents.
00:14:04.300 Two.
00:14:05.300 Oh, wow.
00:14:06.300 What do you mean wow?
00:14:07.300 Yes, put your hand up strong.
00:14:09.300 Two, three.
00:14:10.300 Okay.
00:14:11.300 So another thing is, we also don't have a model to look at.
00:14:15.300 Because how do you learn how to be a husband, and how do you learn how to be a wife?
00:14:19.300 You know what, I think.
00:14:20.300 And on top of that, most of the marriages that we've seen, women lead.
00:14:25.300 Yeah.
00:14:26.300 And you can look at that even in consumer buying decisions, because women make 80% of consumer
00:14:30.300 buying decisions, meaning that most wives are making all of the financial decisions,
00:14:35.300 majority of.
00:14:36.300 I think it's.
00:14:37.300 And on top of that, I also think it's when you have a contract that one party is rewarded
00:14:46.300 for leaving, the party that is not rewarded is always going to be trying to make the other
00:14:51.300 one happy.
00:14:52.300 So this makes me want to show you guys a video of the awesome wives that we have to look up
00:14:59.300 to.
00:15:00.300 So this one wife, she was a Christian.
00:15:02.300 And when she was younger, she spoke about how she never wanted to put her body on the
00:15:07.300 internet, right?
00:15:08.300 And she, she said that she doesn't understand girls that do that.
00:15:11.300 She married one of the top superstars.
00:15:13.300 She's beautiful girl next door.
00:15:14.300 Look.
00:15:15.300 And now she's around 30 something.
00:15:16.300 And she's had the kids.
00:15:17.300 And let's, let's just see, you know, what she's doing now.
00:15:20.300 Um.
00:15:21.300 Um.
00:15:22.300 Mm-mm.
00:15:23.300 I'll see if you guys know who it is.
00:15:24.300 Oh, not these women.
00:15:25.300 Oh, no.
00:15:26.300 Can you turn it down a little?
00:15:27.300 It's kind of loud.
00:15:28.300 Kind of loud.
00:15:29.300 Okay.
00:15:30.300 I think the back is different for them.
00:15:31.300 Yeah, it started from the beginning, King.
00:15:32.300 Um.
00:15:36.300 Can you unlaw Jeb, I can't really see it.
00:15:41.300 I'll go by the way.
00:15:46.300 Okay.
00:15:47.300 So, there's a guy coming in.
00:15:51.300 She's taking off her wedding ring.
00:15:54.300 Oh, wow!
00:15:57.300 She's taking off her wedding ring
00:16:00.600 Oh my god
00:16:01.800 On national TV
00:16:05.280 Haram
00:16:05.920 And now remember
00:16:08.680 I don't know if you guys remember Ayesha Curry
00:16:10.560 Like 10 years ago
00:16:11.760 Do you remember her like 10 years ago
00:16:13.640 I remember that
00:16:14.380 You can stop it
00:16:16.720 Remember Ayesha Curry's whole rant
00:16:20.140 That she wanted guys who weren't her husband to like her
00:16:22.580 Yeah
00:16:23.380 That was stupid
00:16:24.340 I think she just did a nude
00:16:28.060 Wait wait
00:16:30.080 Can you pull up her Instagram
00:16:31.620 I'm pretty sure she did
00:16:33.020 Go back
00:16:36.360 So this was the Christian
00:16:39.520 Girl next door
00:16:40.700 We have wives that are openly
00:16:43.340 Hitting on other men
00:16:45.060 Is she still married?
00:16:47.080 This just adds to my point
00:16:49.480 This just adds to my point
00:16:50.780 Are you going to let her do that bro?
00:16:51.920 So I'm not a divorce her
00:16:53.380 It's basically like cuckolding isn't it really?
00:16:55.300 Yeah
00:16:55.640 It's like cucking on live TV isn't it?
00:16:58.440 And because she knows she's got a big old fat 50% payout
00:17:01.800 No matter what she does
00:17:02.880 That's why I ain't leaving
00:17:04.200 Can she even hit a layup?
00:17:06.120 No
00:17:06.420 Can she dunk?
00:17:09.760 For those who don't know
00:17:12.140 Ayesha Curry is married to Steph Curry
00:17:15.420 The basketball player
00:17:17.540 The legendary basketball player that everyone knows
00:17:20.220 Now the reason I
00:17:21.140 Three time NBA champion
00:17:22.640 Three time NBA champion
00:17:23.660 Three times
00:17:24.280 Now this lady
00:17:25.540 Came on
00:17:26.260 Went on
00:17:26.760 The news
00:17:28.120 Or whatever it was
00:17:29.060 And basically said
00:17:30.360 She was upset
00:17:32.080 That more girls
00:17:33.820 Talk to Steph
00:17:35.140 Her husband
00:17:35.920 Than guys talk to her
00:17:38.020 And she wants just as much of attention
00:17:40.000 From the opposite sex
00:17:41.100 As her superstar husband gets
00:17:43.160 This is the problem yeah
00:17:44.520 One of my biggest icks yeah
00:17:46.060 Is women that love attention
00:17:47.740 I hate it so much
00:17:50.040 Like it
00:17:50.440 And you can see it yeah
00:17:51.660 And I think
00:17:52.500 There's two parts
00:17:54.820 If a woman's in a relationship
00:17:55.920 I think there's a multitude to it
00:17:57.480 One
00:17:57.820 Is society
00:17:58.540 That's just telling them
00:17:59.580 That ah
00:18:00.060 You have to get attention
00:18:00.940 It's just
00:18:01.260 They've just been brought up in it
00:18:02.660 Which I think
00:18:03.200 I hate that anyway
00:18:04.700 I like those private instas
00:18:06.300 No half naked pictures
00:18:08.260 No instas
00:18:08.280 No I'm not about five instas
00:18:10.120 Hardly any
00:18:10.960 Hardly any followers
00:18:12.960 It's just the friends
00:18:13.740 The family
00:18:14.300 Hardly anybody
00:18:15.280 Private
00:18:15.680 No not half naked
00:18:16.620 And I also think
00:18:18.040 Men also have to
00:18:19.620 I think sometimes
00:18:20.320 I'm going to play devil's advocate
00:18:22.620 Also because I think
00:18:23.320 There's two sides to every coin
00:18:24.240 I also see a lot of the time
00:18:25.880 Is men
00:18:26.580 Ain't making their woman
00:18:27.900 Feel like she's a queen
00:18:29.320 I think it's a man's duty
00:18:30.280 And a job to let his woman know
00:18:31.540 I love you
00:18:32.220 I think you're beautiful
00:18:33.540 This and that
00:18:34.040 So she shouldn't have to go
00:18:35.140 Outside for that
00:18:35.880 But I see also
00:18:36.880 It's his duty
00:18:37.880 It's his duty
00:18:38.900 It's his duty
00:18:39.340 I see
00:18:41.900 But I do see men that do that
00:18:43.420 And women still crave attention
00:18:44.620 And my thing is this
00:18:45.600 If you're only interested in me
00:18:47.780 And I'm giving you everything you need
00:18:49.920 You should not have to go to the outside world
00:18:51.920 To get fulfillment
00:18:52.560 Because then it goes to another level
00:18:55.240 My woman
00:18:55.920 She can't be on Instagram half naked
00:18:57.880 She can't be there
00:18:58.900 Looking for attention
00:19:00.400 What kind of woman
00:19:01.320 Wants to go out there
00:19:02.160 And serve attention
00:19:02.720 And get lost off attention
00:19:04.660 Of men
00:19:05.020 And if you've got a man that loves you
00:19:06.260 And he gives you attention
00:19:07.120 It's disgusting
00:19:07.660 That's why as a brand
00:19:08.300 You've got to choose wisely
00:19:09.100 100% bro
00:19:10.400 And it's very hard
00:19:11.180 If you get burned by someone
00:19:13.100 That clearly looks like a gold digger
00:19:14.660 Then it's your own
00:19:15.180 But it's so hard for a guy
00:19:17.260 Because women's are
00:19:18.120 They are masters of manipulation
00:19:20.300 Am I wrong?
00:19:24.520 You don't have a responsibility
00:19:25.580 Am I wrong?
00:19:27.480 I'm trying to find the quote
00:19:28.340 I'm trying to find
00:19:29.180 How about the girl
00:19:29.840 That was yesterday
00:19:30.640 Who was like
00:19:31.280 I'm trying to find the quote
00:19:32.240 You can't get manipulated
00:19:33.040 To get married though
00:19:33.840 Yeah you can
00:19:34.980 Yeah you can
00:19:35.480 Ask Blake Griffin
00:19:36.860 Are you kidding me?
00:19:38.960 I've got an endless list here
00:19:40.520 I'm trying to find the quote
00:19:41.940 From Aisha in her 20s
00:19:43.920 Because she
00:19:44.380 I'm trying to find the quote
00:19:45.660 From Aisha in her 20s
00:19:47.080 Because she had
00:19:47.920 She said something
00:19:51.000 Along the lines of
00:19:51.680 Like I don't understand
00:19:52.500 The girls that just take
00:19:53.400 Their clothes off
00:19:54.540 That's never been my style
00:19:56.120 I'm not that type of girl
00:19:57.440 And then
00:19:59.120 Let's pull this
00:20:01.120 You got to be like
00:20:02.040 LeBron James wife
00:20:03.080 You know how I know
00:20:03.760 LeBron James wife
00:20:04.760 Is so amazing
00:20:05.460 I don't even know her name
00:20:07.220 Her name
00:20:08.180 She's just LeBron James wife
00:20:09.840 Her name's Savannah
00:20:10.440 But yeah
00:20:10.880 There we go
00:20:16.800 Haram
00:20:17.720 Now remember
00:20:19.620 Report that photo
00:20:20.620 This is a top 1%
00:20:23.260 Like what more
00:20:24.700 Could you ask for
00:20:25.600 Beyond 1%
00:20:26.640 Are you kidding me?
00:20:27.440 Yeah yeah
00:20:27.460 Like one of
00:20:28.180 What more could you ask
00:20:29.380 For tall
00:20:29.980 Good looking
00:20:30.700 Nobody here is winning
00:20:31.860 An NBA championship
00:20:32.980 Never in my life
00:20:33.800 If I tried
00:20:34.600 That's what I'm saying
00:20:36.160 What more commend do you
00:20:38.000 You'd literally
00:20:38.900 Pass everything
00:20:40.320 Is a good
00:20:40.760 From the outside
00:20:42.100 Anyway
00:20:42.440 She's like
00:20:42.960 He's a very good husband
00:20:43.720 He's a good dad
00:20:44.560 He's tall
00:20:45.420 He's good looking
00:20:46.220 He's absolutely minted
00:20:47.720 He's very successful
00:20:48.480 And if his wife's acting like that
00:20:49.980 What chance have we got
00:20:50.760 How many times do we see
00:20:52.860 These men that have got everything
00:20:54.180 And the wives are still cheating
00:20:55.180 You just think
00:20:55.600 If his wife's cheating on him
00:20:57.140 What chance do any others have got
00:20:59.120 And then women wonder
00:20:59.840 Why are you so scared to get married
00:21:02.160 Why do you want prenups
00:21:03.540 This and that
00:21:04.120 Well
00:21:04.620 This is what society's showing us
00:21:06.260 We're logical men
00:21:07.160 We see this
00:21:07.620 If it can happen to Steph Curry
00:21:09.180 And other people
00:21:10.080 What chance do I have
00:21:11.040 I'd like to ask the ladies a question
00:21:12.780 I'd like to ask the ladies a question
00:21:14.260 Do you believe that she's doing this
00:21:17.000 Because she feels there's something missing
00:21:19.200 In her marriage
00:21:20.480 Or she feels that she needs more
00:21:22.880 I think that girls start
00:21:25.640 I've kind of noticed a trend with chicks
00:21:28.200 Okay
00:21:28.560 It's like
00:21:29.880 So in their early 20s
00:21:31.980 We compete with our face
00:21:34.040 Right
00:21:34.360 Because we don't have wrinkles
00:21:35.820 Or like under 25
00:21:37.420 Then late 20s
00:21:38.980 Women tend to get in really good shape
00:21:40.600 Because their face is starting to get
00:21:41.980 Not that bad
00:21:42.580 But like their face is starting to go
00:21:44.060 The wrinkles are starting to come
00:21:45.660 They can't compete with the younger chicks
00:21:47.380 So then I notice
00:21:49.140 They get into really good shape
00:21:50.540 In their later 20s
00:21:51.500 Usually the best shape of their life
00:21:52.700 30s come along
00:21:53.980 They start taking off their clothes
00:21:56.140 Because now
00:21:57.660 Now
00:21:58.380 They're in their 30s
00:21:59.580 This is just something I've noticed
00:22:00.620 There's no data behind this
00:22:01.800 Just
00:22:02.020 So that's what I think
00:22:03.100 It's like around like 35
00:22:04.280 Women just start taking off their clothes slowly
00:22:06.940 And then
00:22:08.020 As soon as they only have their body left
00:22:10.520 That's when you see like
00:22:11.380 Jennifer Aniston
00:22:12.220 And all those models
00:22:13.480 Just like
00:22:14.040 Just going completely naked
00:22:15.600 Because they're trying to be as valuable
00:22:17.440 As they used to be
00:22:18.300 In their early 20s
00:22:19.240 So it's competition
00:22:20.140 Yeah but almost like
00:22:21.380 With themselves in a way
00:22:22.700 Because they used to get like
00:22:23.760 A certain level of attention
00:22:25.080 Because you're 22
00:22:26.480 Right
00:22:26.900 And you got this pretty face
00:22:28.020 Okay
00:22:28.340 Now that's starting to go
00:22:29.360 You compete with your face
00:22:30.660 Okay
00:22:30.880 That's starting to go
00:22:31.620 Now I gotta take off my clothes
00:22:32.980 Are they not ashamed
00:22:34.660 Like you know you have children
00:22:36.660 Like
00:22:37.260 This is one thing
00:22:38.980 But she's not showing anything
00:22:40.320 She's naked on TV
00:22:41.480 Doesn't she
00:22:41.840 But she's not showing any of the sexual parts
00:22:44.480 That shows you how lost you are
00:22:46.120 I'm sorry
00:22:46.540 I'm sorry
00:22:47.700 What I'm saying is
00:22:48.560 You think this is okay
00:22:49.560 This is okay for
00:22:51.260 Sorry
00:22:52.280 This is one thing I'll say
00:22:53.420 Yeah
00:22:53.660 If you
00:22:54.400 Any
00:22:54.760 This is what I always say to women
00:22:55.800 Oh well I can wear
00:22:56.780 What do everyone wear
00:22:57.800 This is my thing for everything
00:22:59.420 I'd say okay then
00:23:00.220 Would you let your seven year old daughter wear that
00:23:02.340 Would you let your seven year old daughter
00:23:03.680 Take a picture of that
00:23:04.300 I'm putting on Instagram
00:23:05.260 If no
00:23:05.860 Then there's a problem with it
00:23:06.820 Because I don't wear nothing
00:23:08.540 That I think my children shouldn't wear
00:23:10.520 And the women always say
00:23:11.720 Okay so would you let your seven year old daughter
00:23:13.480 Do other things that you do as a grown up
00:23:15.880 Are you joking me
00:23:16.680 That's a very bad conversation
00:23:18.780 Wait wait
00:23:19.060 Wait wait
00:23:19.660 Can I drive my car
00:23:21.540 No
00:23:21.800 Let her
00:23:22.600 Let her
00:23:22.980 Let her
00:23:23.320 Expand on that statement
00:23:24.920 Wait wait wait
00:23:25.700 Go back to your seven year old daughter
00:23:27.460 Statement
00:23:27.820 Go ahead
00:23:28.100 No no
00:23:28.460 I'm not going to entertain you guys
00:23:30.060 To be honest
00:23:30.500 I was not going to answer there
00:23:31.580 I'm not going to entertain you guys
00:23:33.020 In the world of logic
00:23:34.540 I shall not enter
00:23:35.600 I'm just trying to say something
00:23:36.920 I just don't think women should be sexualized
00:23:38.680 It's your duty to entertain them
00:23:40.020 I totally agree
00:23:40.840 Women should not be sexualized
00:23:42.120 That's not sexualized
00:23:43.660 But what I'm saying is
00:23:44.760 Do you have sex with your clothes on or clothes off?
00:23:48.060 Whatever I want to do
00:23:49.200 Why?
00:23:50.580 Because her clothes are off?
00:23:51.800 This is why I'm asking this question
00:23:52.920 That's why I'm asking
00:23:53.800 I always say this
00:23:55.320 If you wouldn't let your daughter wear it
00:23:56.920 Chad help me out
00:23:57.640 Then what's wrong with it
00:23:58.500 And it's because it's sexual
00:24:00.340 So why would you want to be sexualized?
00:24:01.960 If I love you and you're my wife
00:24:03.160 I want you to look beautiful
00:24:04.300 I don't want you to look sexy in public
00:24:05.620 Yeah but she's not your wife
00:24:06.920 She has a husband
00:24:07.900 She can do whatever
00:24:08.880 I mean
00:24:09.620 We're talking general
00:24:10.420 This is what I mean
00:24:11.580 You should worry too much
00:24:13.280 About someone else's wife
00:24:14.160 I'm talking about for me though
00:24:15.780 I haven't said her specifically
00:24:16.860 I said she's just
00:24:17.580 But you're saying she's not naked
00:24:18.680 She's naked
00:24:19.240 You don't need to
00:24:20.120 You know
00:24:20.580 She's basically everyone's wife
00:24:22.440 At this point
00:24:23.160 That's Instagram's girl
00:24:24.200 You should put it out there for everyone
00:24:25.480 Not her husband
00:24:25.920 If you had to give that
00:24:27.160 A black or white statement
00:24:28.580 Is this good for a marriage
00:24:30.460 Or bad for a marriage?
00:24:31.760 Go ahead
00:24:32.080 You're on the internet now
00:24:33.200 A thousand plus people watching
00:24:34.280 I'm not going to give you
00:24:35.400 The answer that you want
00:24:36.620 I wouldn't give that answer either
00:24:38.200 Simply because life
00:24:41.000 You just said it yourself
00:24:42.460 Maybe like an hour or two ago
00:24:44.160 That life is not black and white
00:24:45.600 If you're going to over talk me
00:24:46.560 You can't stay
00:24:47.540 Okay
00:24:47.800 So a question for the men
00:24:49.960 Is your wife
00:24:50.980 Is that okay for your wife?
00:24:52.980 That ain't my wife
00:24:53.780 Are you fucking kidding me?
00:24:54.700 So I just want to
00:24:55.400 I'm going to raise your hand
00:24:56.280 Is anyone okay with that
00:24:57.760 For a wife?
00:24:58.980 Mr. Female Dating Coach
00:25:00.060 He's okay
00:25:01.080 Why don't you put your hands up?
00:25:02.180 Absolutely not okay
00:25:03.260 Absolutely not okay
00:25:04.440 Okay
00:25:04.800 Not okay
00:25:06.140 So then do women's opinions
00:25:07.880 Even matter?
00:25:09.260 Oh
00:25:09.460 Their opinions do matter
00:25:13.020 Of course they do
00:25:13.860 But this
00:25:14.140 This is haram
00:25:15.940 Haram
00:25:16.780 This is like the Christian
00:25:17.820 What's the Christian version of haram?
00:25:19.480 That's also that
00:25:20.420 This is bad in every single religion
00:25:22.820 This is not okay
00:25:24.580 This
00:25:25.280 And you know what
00:25:25.800 The biggest problem about this
00:25:26.800 It's not about her doing it
00:25:28.560 It makes Steph Curry
00:25:30.760 Look like a fool
00:25:32.040 Horrible
00:25:32.600 Look like a fool
00:25:33.960 Like hey bro
00:25:34.780 Hey bro
00:25:35.260 I saw you missed that three point
00:25:36.520 You know what
00:25:36.840 That's why your wife
00:25:37.480 Posted naked photos
00:25:38.240 On Instagram bro
00:25:39.100 If we consider
00:25:41.020 Women accepting attention
00:25:43.900 From other men cheating
00:25:45.120 How often do women cheat?
00:25:47.440 All the time
00:25:48.500 Daily
00:25:49.400 Most women
00:25:50.960 A lot of women
00:25:51.540 So
00:25:52.140 I agree with that statement
00:25:54.320 It's true
00:25:54.780 Women
00:25:55.180 Women love attention
00:25:56.180 This is what I'm saying
00:25:56.700 I can't stand women
00:25:57.680 That describe attention
00:25:58.820 All the time
00:25:59.280 Like it just does something
00:26:00.120 Attention
00:26:00.840 These days
00:26:01.820 Is like crack
00:26:02.460 Like they
00:26:02.980 I've seen some women
00:26:03.980 Do the maddest things
00:26:04.700 For attention
00:26:05.160 I'm just thinking
00:26:05.700 What is it about attention?
00:26:06.840 Like what?
00:26:07.500 Clothes a hell of a drug film
00:26:08.700 Tell me
00:26:09.620 Tell me what
00:26:10.220 What have you seen?
00:26:10.800 I've seen like
00:26:12.740 Friends
00:26:13.740 Misses is like
00:26:15.280 They just want to go out
00:26:16.680 Not so bad
00:26:17.040 But they've got not got money
00:26:17.860 So then they're stealing
00:26:18.560 Stuff out of the drawers
00:26:19.240 To try and sell it
00:26:19.940 So they can get money
00:26:20.680 To go out
00:26:21.280 And they just post
00:26:22.520 Like
00:26:22.960 Just the stuff they post
00:26:24.640 And the things they do
00:26:25.400 And I just think
00:26:25.900 Why are you so
00:26:26.740 You do anything you can
00:26:28.880 To go out
00:26:29.500 Just so you can get
00:26:30.420 Attention from men
00:26:31.200 Try and dress
00:26:32.120 The women are wearing
00:26:33.520 Less and less and less
00:26:34.240 Because they want attention
00:26:35.300 So like
00:26:35.920 Someone will wear something
00:26:37.180 And I'm like
00:26:37.560 Well she's getting attention
00:26:38.420 Let me take off even more clothes
00:26:39.620 And it's not even
00:26:40.240 That good attention
00:26:40.720 Because these men would
00:26:41.480 Let me tell you something
00:26:42.720 Women
00:26:43.020 Just so you can get it
00:26:43.900 Into your head
00:26:44.380 You will get a lot
00:26:45.560 Of attention off men
00:26:46.460 If you dress like clothes
00:26:47.540 Because we see you like that
00:26:48.820 So we might sleep with you
00:26:49.840 But we're not going to marry you
00:26:51.060 Get this into your head
00:26:52.120 They don't understand it
00:26:53.120 They think
00:26:53.400 Yeah all these men want me
00:26:54.280 Yeah they do
00:26:54.760 But are they going to marry you
00:26:55.660 Does anyone look at a woman
00:26:57.300 Yeah
00:26:57.540 Half naked
00:26:58.460 And think
00:26:58.780 Oh I bet she's going to be
00:26:59.660 A good woman
00:27:00.160 You want to marry
00:27:02.700 You want to marry someone
00:27:03.660 You want to marry someone
00:27:05.000 That if your daughter
00:27:06.440 Wants to be like
00:27:07.020 If you want
00:27:07.460 Happy for your daughter
00:27:08.120 To be like them
00:27:08.660 Then you know
00:27:09.140 Why would I want my daughter
00:27:10.760 Just like that
00:27:11.220 Say you dress like that
00:27:12.000 I want to add on
00:27:13.340 To that
00:27:13.560 And I think it's because
00:27:14.760 And Pearl
00:27:15.440 I want you to add
00:27:16.280 If you think I'm wrong
00:27:17.660 Or right
00:27:18.220 But I think it's because
00:27:19.780 A lot of these girls
00:27:20.800 They were never really loved
00:27:22.480 By their dad
00:27:23.140 Because when you have
00:27:24.420 That love
00:27:25.700 From your father
00:27:26.520 At a young age
00:27:27.640 You feel so secure
00:27:29.780 In yourself
00:27:30.680 That you don't need
00:27:31.740 To like
00:27:32.240 Post half naked photos
00:27:33.840 On Instagram
00:27:34.280 Because all the girls
00:27:34.940 That I know
00:27:35.240 Came from like
00:27:35.820 Well adjusted households
00:27:37.220 Which are very rare
00:27:38.040 Well adjusted households
00:27:39.240 Where they respect their father
00:27:40.440 Their father was always there
00:27:41.980 Because remember
00:27:42.600 A woman's first
00:27:43.460 Masculine love
00:27:44.760 In her life
00:27:45.220 Is her father
00:27:45.820 And if that love
00:27:46.820 Is tainted
00:27:47.500 You know
00:27:48.160 So is she
00:27:48.880 So true
00:27:49.500 And I think right now
00:27:50.480 When you have women
00:27:51.240 Initiating 78%
00:27:52.660 Of all divorces in America
00:27:53.780 Kicking the father out
00:27:55.200 And does the wife
00:27:56.380 Sit around
00:27:56.780 Like you know what
00:27:57.400 Your dad was so great
00:27:58.940 But I had to kick him out
00:28:00.480 She's like no
00:28:00.900 Your dad was an asshole
00:28:01.780 Your dad abandoned you
00:28:03.000 And she
00:28:03.740 From a young age
00:28:05.480 Is being trauma dumped on
00:28:07.140 By her
00:28:07.900 Mother
00:28:08.820 And then she has
00:28:10.000 This negative outlook
00:28:11.120 About males
00:28:12.080 For the rest of her life
00:28:13.080 Which leads her
00:28:13.800 To be this insufferable
00:28:15.340 Cat lady
00:28:16.140 That Kevin Samuels
00:28:17.560 Was dunking on
00:28:18.380 You know what I mean
00:28:19.020 And that's the thing
00:28:19.560 Right now
00:28:20.120 When you have
00:28:20.980 All these modern women
00:28:22.360 Who hate modern men
00:28:24.500 Who are the majority
00:28:25.780 Of modern men
00:28:26.300 Being raised by
00:28:26.860 Men or women
00:28:27.320 When the majority
00:28:28.500 Of households
00:28:28.940 Are single
00:28:29.300 Other households
00:28:29.860 Right
00:28:31.120 You know
00:28:32.360 Do you disagree
00:28:33.540 That like a woman
00:28:34.600 Because you know
00:28:35.060 You love your dad
00:28:35.800 And everything
00:28:36.140 Do you feel like
00:28:36.720 You still need
00:28:37.320 To go out there
00:28:38.220 And
00:28:38.420 Get attention
00:28:39.640 And take off your clothes
00:28:41.580 And all that
00:28:42.100 Um
00:28:43.020 I
00:28:43.480 No I don't
00:28:45.080 I don't like
00:28:45.700 Wearing crazy stuff
00:28:46.820 But no
00:28:48.440 I mean I just think
00:28:49.320 Like
00:28:49.660 I think
00:28:51.580 A lot of children
00:28:53.520 Have not really been
00:28:54.640 Raised by either
00:28:55.440 Of their parents
00:28:56.700 Because even if
00:28:58.020 They have a mother
00:28:59.080 In the house
00:28:59.920 She is working
00:29:01.300 And daycare
00:29:03.260 And the state
00:29:04.140 Spends more time
00:29:05.180 With children
00:29:05.780 Than the parents do
00:29:06.960 The average parent
00:29:07.780 Spends 30 minutes
00:29:09.360 A day
00:29:09.860 How often
00:29:10.920 Does the kid
00:29:11.660 Spend on their phone
00:29:13.080 How often
00:29:14.260 Does the kid
00:29:14.860 At school
00:29:15.520 So the school
00:29:17.120 And tiktok
00:29:18.720 Is having more
00:29:19.720 Influence on
00:29:20.420 Your kid
00:29:21.220 Than you are
00:29:21.940 So now we have
00:29:22.900 All these children
00:29:23.640 That are being
00:29:24.260 Raised by the culture
00:29:25.480 And not the family
00:29:26.420 True
00:29:27.420 That is very true
00:29:28.760 Yeah and that's
00:29:29.700 What they want
00:29:30.260 When you
00:29:30.620 And then
00:29:31.040 If you really want
00:29:32.040 To get into it
00:29:32.600 The rockefellers
00:29:33.440 Wanted that shit
00:29:34.380 From the get go
00:29:35.960 I know what you're
00:29:39.520 Going to say
00:29:39.920 They don't
00:29:40.280 Do these things
00:29:42.460 And promote it
00:29:43.140 To make a single
00:29:44.440 Break up the families
00:29:45.300 Because then they
00:29:45.800 Can raise their kids
00:29:46.440 To be to the slaves
00:29:47.440 That they need them to be
00:29:48.220 You can't put your
00:29:49.640 Worldview on them
00:29:50.240 Now you're going to
00:29:50.800 Teach a kid that
00:29:51.480 You can chop off your dick
00:29:53.020 And you can be a girl
00:29:53.860 And this and that
00:29:54.340 Because you're not
00:29:54.960 Because the mums
00:29:55.600 Are not there
00:29:56.140 Your dads are not there
00:29:57.540 Now who's raising their kids
00:29:59.000 The state is raising their kids
00:30:00.080 And then they're putting
00:30:00.700 In their filthy dirty ideology
00:30:03.340 Into your children
00:30:04.120 And you don't have
00:30:04.920 No say over it
00:30:05.580 Not in my house
00:30:06.900 But no chance
00:30:07.540 And let me add on to this
00:30:08.360 So how do I agree
00:30:09.920 With Kit yesterday
00:30:11.160 Never met that man
00:30:12.440 And now Ty here
00:30:14.040 Never met this man
00:30:15.020 Before in my life
00:30:15.620 We have some base men
00:30:16.580 On the show
00:30:17.120 What can I say
00:30:17.840 We have like a
00:30:18.540 Patriarchy conspiracy network
00:30:20.280 That we're all like
00:30:20.820 Hey bro you ready
00:30:21.640 To oppress these women bro
00:30:22.980 You're ready to like
00:30:24.020 Shame them
00:30:25.020 You know what kind of
00:30:25.640 You know what kind of
00:30:26.140 Red pilled me
00:30:26.840 I was reading the writings
00:30:28.120 Of women like 150 years ago
00:30:30.320 About marriage
00:30:31.020 And like what they
00:30:31.660 Looked for in a husband
00:30:32.640 And they literally
00:30:33.740 Were writing about how
00:30:35.300 Like you can't trust
00:30:36.680 Your feelings
00:30:37.340 Like that won't be
00:30:38.020 A really fulfilling
00:30:38.800 Long term relationship
00:30:40.180 And they were talking
00:30:41.540 They were like
00:30:41.900 Always listen to your husband
00:30:43.620 He is the head
00:30:44.600 Of the household
00:30:45.440 Like they basically said
00:30:48.600 That arguing is the woman's fault
00:30:50.400 Because if you tell your
00:30:51.340 If you think of it
00:30:52.280 As an employee boss relationship
00:30:53.760 If you tell your employee
00:30:55.300 Something and they start
00:30:56.180 Arguing with you
00:30:56.840 That's the employee's fault
00:30:57.960 Not the boss
00:30:58.820 But I was like
00:30:59.700 We don't
00:31:00.340 That's not normal
00:31:01.280 It's always like
00:31:02.220 You've got to compromise
00:31:03.060 But it's not
00:31:03.640 You're not supposed to do that
00:31:05.100 That's not what
00:31:05.800 It's like women
00:31:06.620 Are listening to the boss
00:31:07.380 That's not what
00:31:07.780 A real traditional
00:31:08.800 Like marriage is
00:31:10.160 If you look back at it
00:31:11.460 The problem is
00:31:12.000 That marriage is
00:31:12.600 It's not fit for purpose
00:31:15.340 In the current state of things
00:31:17.180 In the culture
00:31:17.820 You know
00:31:18.320 Because the state of the culture
00:31:20.480 Now means that
00:31:21.840 Marriage as it was
00:31:23.480 Is fatally challenged
00:31:25.060 Because people just
00:31:26.100 Don't want to behave
00:31:26.740 In that way anymore
00:31:27.360 And it's a real
00:31:27.960 Insolvable problem
00:31:28.860 Unless
00:31:29.520 Either we go back
00:31:30.400 To the 1950s
00:31:31.380 Or
00:31:31.840 We try
00:31:32.760 I don't know
00:31:33.360 We try and find
00:31:33.840 Another way through
00:31:34.340 But it's very difficult
00:31:34.960 I think women
00:31:35.680 These days think that
00:31:36.840 They have a
00:31:37.440 Big thing about
00:31:38.460 No one can't tell me
00:31:39.500 What to do
00:31:39.900 I do it because I want it
00:31:40.900 But really
00:31:41.460 If a man's telling you something
00:31:43.420 If it's your husband
00:31:44.100 It's only going to tell you
00:31:45.420 For your own good
00:31:46.020 Now that doesn't mean
00:31:46.760 You're his slave
00:31:47.420 It just means you're his wife
00:31:48.340 And you respect him
00:31:49.040 You think
00:31:49.900 This is the man
00:31:50.600 That I want to lead our family
00:31:51.920 And raise my kids
00:31:53.900 And help me raise my kids
00:31:55.260 If he tells you something
00:31:56.520 He's not going to be saying
00:31:57.600 He only has your best interest at heart
00:31:59.460 And I think like
00:31:59.960 Now women are like
00:32:00.600 You can't tell him
00:32:01.160 Do you know how many of my friends
00:32:02.720 Are like
00:32:03.200 Ah
00:32:04.020 My missus is going to go to Marbella
00:32:06.460 Or Ibiza
00:32:07.080 I says what?
00:32:08.100 Well I can't really say enough
00:32:08.920 Because I said what?
00:32:10.900 I was with my ex
00:32:11.880 On and off
00:32:12.200 She wouldn't even ask
00:32:13.580 She wouldn't even enter
00:32:14.260 It wouldn't even enter her head
00:32:15.100 Your missus shouldn't even want
00:32:16.380 To go to them places
00:32:17.060 First of all
00:32:17.660 She wouldn't even ask me
00:32:18.840 And that's not me being controlling
00:32:20.020 I just have standards
00:32:21.220 You mean going with her girlfriends
00:32:22.340 You mean?
00:32:22.780 Yeah going with her girlfriends
00:32:23.560 Yeah going with her friends
00:32:24.720 On a girls holiday
00:32:25.420 It would never happen
00:32:26.720 And it's not even
00:32:27.360 Haram
00:32:28.420 Haram
00:32:29.180 And it's not
00:32:29.640 And they're interested
00:32:30.960 Like oh you're controlling
00:32:31.980 You can't tell her what to do
00:32:33.460 Well like
00:32:33.900 I don't tell her what to do
00:32:34.740 If you want to go
00:32:35.180 Go
00:32:35.340 But I'm not going to be
00:32:36.060 You're not coming back to my house
00:32:37.120 But it's like
00:32:37.780 We have wives
00:32:39.300 That don't see a problem with that
00:32:41.060 Like we have full grown wives
00:32:43.420 That do not see a problem
00:32:45.160 With going out to the bar
00:32:46.700 With their friends
00:32:47.420 With going out to the club
00:32:48.560 Where they think it's normal
00:32:50.060 Yeah
00:32:50.560 That's the crazy thing
00:32:52.020 I've been saying this for a while
00:32:53.080 Set the standards
00:32:53.800 Yeah I've been saying this for a while now
00:32:55.440 And it's kind of like
00:32:56.220 It's a little bit of a dark position
00:32:58.060 But you're having a generation
00:33:00.600 Of women who don't know how to lead
00:33:05.040 And maintain
00:33:05.920 And keep a relationship
00:33:07.780 Raising women with those same broken standards
00:33:11.760 So it's kind of like what the church says
00:33:14.100 Like the generational curse
00:33:15.340 You know you have the blind
00:33:16.840 Leading the blind at this point
00:33:18.280 And if there's not a big thing to step in
00:33:21.000 Because if you look at the direct statistics
00:33:26.540 Whatever fancy name you want to put on it
00:33:28.920 Of the single mother household
00:33:30.620 It is detrimental to society
00:33:34.000 Single mother households
00:33:35.340 It's not a dig on women
00:33:36.920 Right?
00:33:37.780 But I was raised in a single mother household
00:33:40.300 And I had to do so much work
00:33:42.860 And so much therapy
00:33:44.500 And so much self-development
00:33:46.500 I paid hundreds of thousands of dollars
00:33:49.140 In self-development stuff
00:33:50.160 To get to where I am
00:33:52.580 And I had to have the discipline
00:33:56.280 And desire to go through this stuff
00:33:59.500 And realize like
00:34:00.120 Hey you're not doing things
00:34:02.120 The way you should be doing them
00:34:03.060 And you need to change
00:34:03.760 A lot of people don't want to confront themselves
00:34:05.700 A lot of people don't want to accept the fact
00:34:07.920 That you're incompetent at this time
00:34:09.640 And you need to become more competent
00:34:11.540 And you're having this situation right now
00:34:15.200 In the West exclusively
00:34:17.160 And look at the state of the West
00:34:19.560 You can say all this shit
00:34:20.700 Like all these conservative values
00:34:22.000 Or blah blah blah
00:34:22.640 And this and that
00:34:23.200 But are you happy with the society
00:34:25.340 You're living in?
00:34:26.700 Do you think the society
00:34:28.160 That you're living in
00:34:29.080 Right now
00:34:29.960 Is trending in the right direction?
00:34:32.880 Do you guys
00:34:33.400 Western society
00:34:34.160 I live in Dubai
00:34:35.680 So I'm good
00:34:36.220 Do you know what's crazy though?
00:34:39.720 What they think
00:34:40.540 Is that
00:34:41.020 Modern developments
00:34:42.300 That they think
00:34:43.460 That modern developments
00:34:44.580 And technology
00:34:45.420 Is more important than family
00:34:46.980 And if you talk to people
00:34:48.600 On the left
00:34:49.080 They literally think this
00:34:50.460 They're like
00:34:50.760 Well we're living longer
00:34:52.240 Than ever before
00:34:53.060 Well you know
00:34:54.020 We have a higher
00:34:54.960 Standard of living
00:34:56.160 Than ever before
00:34:56.900 But it's like
00:34:57.380 We have the most broken families
00:34:59.460 That we have ever had
00:35:01.300 We live in a society
00:35:03.600 Of like
00:35:04.160 We have a bunch of women
00:35:06.420 That were not raised by wives
00:35:08.560 Yeah
00:35:09.060 To add to your point
00:35:10.820 Right
00:35:11.140 Because I'm another one of those
00:35:12.540 Raised by a single mother situations
00:35:14.580 Right
00:35:15.080 And if it wasn't for the fact
00:35:16.960 That I took the time
00:35:18.160 To understand psychology
00:35:19.160 Of myself
00:35:19.680 Psychology of people
00:35:20.760 Psychology of just human beings
00:35:22.360 In general
00:35:22.700 I majored in psychology
00:35:23.960 To figure out why I was so fucked up
00:35:25.400 I didn't major in psychology
00:35:26.760 But I went through the same route
00:35:28.240 Of like
00:35:28.580 You have to go through these things
00:35:29.820 To try and figure out
00:35:30.520 Why you're so fucked up
00:35:32.080 So like
00:35:32.460 Now that I have an understanding
00:35:33.560 Of myself
00:35:34.140 And why
00:35:34.700 Some of the tics that I have
00:35:36.260 I have them
00:35:36.920 It's hard not to see
00:35:38.980 The beginning stage
00:35:41.000 You know what I mean
00:35:41.620 So it's hard not to like
00:35:43.160 Look at the situation
00:35:44.160 That you're in
00:35:44.740 And understand why
00:35:45.980 That you do this thing
00:35:47.280 And then not
00:35:48.160 Once you understand
00:35:49.100 Why you do it
00:35:49.920 That not be the thing
00:35:51.060 That pops up in your head
00:35:51.980 All the time
00:35:52.340 So it's like
00:35:52.800 To put it in context
00:35:53.740 Your mum comes home
00:35:56.280 In a single parent household
00:35:57.860 And she's always angry
00:35:59.200 When she gets home
00:35:59.820 Every single day
00:36:00.600 Right
00:36:00.900 From work
00:36:01.620 She comes back
00:36:02.180 And she's angry
00:36:03.020 And she's pissed off
00:36:04.040 And she screams
00:36:04.820 And she shouts at everyone
00:36:05.780 Now when you get to that age
00:36:07.900 You subconsciously
00:36:09.860 Start doing the same things
00:36:10.900 You come home
00:36:12.540 You're upset at work
00:36:13.580 You start screaming
00:36:14.240 At everyone else
00:36:14.880 You start doing the same
00:36:15.560 Way your mum did it
00:36:16.340 And it only takes of you
00:36:17.740 Realising that
00:36:18.680 Probably the reason
00:36:19.840 That you're doing it
00:36:20.340 The same way your mum did
00:36:21.200 Is because that is
00:36:21.900 What you're used to seeing
00:36:23.080 And understanding that
00:36:24.660 Part of your psychology
00:36:26.080 And getting away from that
00:36:27.540 Is the number one step
00:36:29.120 But that also is
00:36:30.260 The hardest step
00:36:31.500 Because people don't
00:36:32.180 Want to take it
00:36:32.740 Because you have to
00:36:33.420 Do some self
00:36:34.060 Self-like reflection
00:36:35.500 And you have to look
00:36:36.460 At the dark sides of yourself
00:36:37.480 That you don't want to see
00:36:38.440 Yeah
00:36:39.020 I think the way in which
00:36:40.880 Guys we had a super chat
00:36:42.500 I'm going to read
00:36:43.180 Really quick
00:36:43.780 I'm MLD's mom
00:36:46.300 And let me just say this
00:36:53.340 Ephesians 5.22
00:36:54.580 Wives are committed
00:36:55.520 To or commanded
00:36:56.700 To submit to their husbands
00:36:58.800 As they would to Christ
00:36:59.880 And to show them respect
00:37:00.940 Often overlooked
00:37:02.100 Is that men are
00:37:02.880 Equally obligated
00:37:03.840 Husbands are told
00:37:04.640 To love their wives
00:37:05.600 As Christ loved the church
00:37:07.100 This is true
00:37:07.580 With humility
00:37:08.460 And sacrifice
00:37:09.460 As if caring for
00:37:10.840 Their own bodies
00:37:11.860 Jesus
00:37:12.440 How much did she send?
00:37:13.560 She sent $500
00:37:14.580 Damn
00:37:15.660 Wow
00:37:16.760 Yeah
00:37:17.580 Woo
00:37:17.940 That's a pay
00:37:20.540 That's a pay packet
00:37:21.280 MLD song
00:37:22.480 She's backhanded
00:37:24.140 She's a good Christian woman
00:37:25.200 And that's
00:37:26.380 You know
00:37:26.680 Like
00:37:26.980 Going back to
00:37:28.440 The principles
00:37:29.380 Of things coming together
00:37:30.680 Like
00:37:30.920 She's an old school
00:37:32.100 Traditional woman
00:37:32.900 And she
00:37:33.840 Chose the path
00:37:35.280 Of like
00:37:35.680 Trying to do
00:37:36.140 The modern woman thing
00:37:37.000 And she thought
00:37:37.320 It didn't pay off
00:37:38.360 You know
00:37:39.060 She was like the Amish
00:37:39.880 Where you like go
00:37:40.720 You like try out
00:37:41.680 The sinning
00:37:42.540 You're like
00:37:42.840 Really
00:37:43.080 This doesn't work
00:37:43.940 She came back
00:37:44.980 And you know
00:37:45.540 When she was 27
00:37:46.140 She completely
00:37:46.880 Rededicated
00:37:47.440 Rededicated her life
00:37:48.560 To Christ
00:37:49.080 And you know
00:37:50.700 Like
00:37:51.460 She's my
00:37:52.660 You know
00:37:53.600 What a great thing too
00:37:54.300 Is like
00:37:54.560 If you have
00:37:55.140 A good relationship
00:37:55.920 As a man
00:37:56.460 With your mother
00:37:57.020 Run every woman
00:37:58.980 You date
00:37:59.400 Past your mom
00:38:00.080 Because your mom
00:38:00.980 Loves the shit
00:38:02.080 Out of you
00:38:02.560 And she'd be like
00:38:03.360 This girl's hooking around
00:38:04.260 Because you know
00:38:04.960 Your mom will be
00:38:05.540 We know the tricks
00:38:07.000 They can see the crazy
00:38:10.040 In the other girls
00:38:11.100 You know what I mean
00:38:11.880 I've met you before
00:38:13.360 I don't know
00:38:13.940 My mother disapproved
00:38:15.860 Of every girl
00:38:16.760 I brought back
00:38:17.240 So I don't know
00:38:18.400 That's necessarily
00:38:19.480 But with all due respect
00:38:21.920 With all due respect
00:38:23.200 You're going through
00:38:23.660 A divorce right now
00:38:24.620 So
00:38:25.340 Was mom correct
00:38:26.540 She didn't get to meet her
00:38:27.880 But
00:38:28.080 She passed away
00:38:29.600 A while ago
00:38:30.100 But
00:38:30.360 But I look back
00:38:31.640 On those choices
00:38:32.300 What do you think mom
00:38:32.980 She's like
00:38:33.620 No she's gonna put
00:38:34.220 A child first
00:38:34.780 She's got a child already
00:38:35.620 No it's okay
00:38:36.360 She's right about that though
00:38:37.500 Because when you date
00:38:38.040 A single mother
00:38:38.620 Listen
00:38:39.140 As a
00:38:39.840 Look
00:38:40.260 In this world
00:38:41.420 You
00:38:42.440 Look
00:38:43.040 A woman will die
00:38:45.740 For her children
00:38:46.600 Literally
00:38:47.600 Die
00:38:48.220 Nobody come
00:38:49.840 Like what's the number one law
00:38:51.260 Of the jungle right
00:38:52.240 Never get between
00:38:53.500 A mother and her cubs
00:38:54.920 And women will put
00:38:57.020 Their children
00:38:57.620 Women will go into debt
00:38:59.140 Women will fucking
00:39:00.400 Scam somebody
00:39:01.880 To get the money
00:39:03.040 To take care of their children
00:39:04.040 Because their children
00:39:04.580 Is number one
00:39:05.360 You know what I mean
00:39:06.180 So if you're a man
00:39:07.260 Entering a situation
00:39:08.320 When you're gonna date
00:39:09.020 A woman
00:39:10.120 That has children
00:39:11.360 You are gonna have
00:39:12.620 To mentally prepare
00:39:13.600 To know that
00:39:14.620 Like I'm just
00:39:15.420 Not gonna be number one
00:39:16.840 Like it's in her DNA
00:39:18.640 To prioritize the children
00:39:19.980 Hmm
00:39:20.840 Yeah
00:39:21.720 I have a child myself
00:39:22.720 Even I couldn't be
00:39:24.140 With someone that had a child
00:39:25.040 I just
00:39:25.500 Mine's for the simple fact
00:39:26.800 Mine might be
00:39:27.720 For a slightly different reason
00:39:28.680 Mine's for the simple fact
00:39:30.020 Is there's no way
00:39:31.020 On God's green earth
00:39:32.200 Am I spending more time
00:39:33.660 With someone else
00:39:34.160 That's kid than my own
00:39:34.980 And actually
00:39:35.760 If there's a single parent
00:39:37.320 She's gonna have the kid
00:39:38.500 The majority of the time
00:39:39.560 And I'm not spending
00:39:40.540 I'm not snaking my son
00:39:41.700 Like the children
00:39:43.000 Innocent
00:39:43.420 All children are beautiful
00:39:44.220 I love children
00:39:44.920 But when it comes to like
00:39:46.540 Me having to spend more time
00:39:47.860 With your child than my own
00:39:48.740 I just feel
00:39:49.280 Like I would personally feel
00:39:51.400 As a bad dad
00:39:51.900 I've got nothing against
00:39:52.620 Single mums
00:39:53.160 I think being a mother
00:39:54.500 Is the greatest thing
00:39:55.240 You can do in this world
00:39:55.980 Absolutely
00:39:56.420 However
00:39:56.840 That's the reason
00:39:57.820 Why I personally
00:39:58.760 Couldn't just
00:39:59.520 Marry someone
00:40:01.520 That's why they've got kids
00:40:02.240 Because I'm not spending
00:40:03.020 More time with your kid
00:40:03.640 Than my own
00:40:03.940 No way
00:40:04.440 It's not happening
00:40:04.980 It's just hard
00:40:05.640 It's just hard
00:40:06.240 What is the solution though
00:40:10.920 Because like
00:40:11.460 Unless
00:40:11.980 Because the problem is
00:40:13.140 Right
00:40:13.460 That
00:40:13.760 Previously
00:40:15.520 Society kind of
00:40:16.900 Kept everything in check
00:40:17.900 Alright
00:40:18.560 And now
00:40:19.260 It's kind of open season
00:40:20.800 Isn't it
00:40:21.300 Because it's like
00:40:21.840 Anybody can do
00:40:22.420 Wait
00:40:22.600 Wait
00:40:22.940 I have it
00:40:23.920 I have it
00:40:24.500 You got the solution
00:40:25.040 I have all the solutions
00:40:26.060 Number one
00:40:27.060 Ban divorce
00:40:28.460 Yes
00:40:29.260 We're gonna ban
00:40:30.320 That ban abortion
00:40:31.360 Yep
00:40:32.000 Yep
00:40:32.460 Also
00:40:33.260 Ban birth control
00:40:34.920 While we're at it
00:40:36.160 You know
00:40:36.660 I know the men are like
00:40:38.080 No no
00:40:38.500 Don't go that far
00:40:39.380 Damn
00:40:41.440 Would you
00:40:43.000 An endure
00:40:44.220 That's the key thing
00:40:48.140 Listen
00:40:48.580 There's a great book
00:40:50.480 By a man named
00:40:51.380 Cameron Haynes
00:40:52.460 You know what the name
00:40:52.960 Of that book is
00:40:53.700 Endure
00:40:55.080 It is a great book
00:40:56.700 Fantastic book
00:40:58.420 That's bad news
00:40:59.160 That should be the name
00:41:00.400 Of your book
00:41:01.040 That's bad news
00:41:01.780 For you man
00:41:02.260 It's okay
00:41:02.780 You see how you said that
00:41:03.900 Obviously
00:41:04.360 The antidote would be
00:41:05.320 To ban divorce
00:41:06.180 Yeah
00:41:06.380 But in extreme cases
00:41:08.020 Because I do see this
00:41:09.140 Happen a lot
00:41:10.440 For women
00:41:11.620 Where they'll try
00:41:12.980 But then the men
00:41:13.600 Might be beating them up
00:41:14.500 And stuff like this
00:41:15.160 Like
00:41:15.360 Because sometimes
00:41:15.860 There's a lot of pieces
00:41:16.460 Of shit out there
00:41:17.100 Any man coming home
00:41:17.960 And putting your hand
00:41:18.980 On your wife
00:41:19.360 You're a piece of shit
00:41:19.980 Yeah
00:41:20.300 And if I
00:41:21.520 Luckily none of my friends
00:41:22.600 Are like that
00:41:22.840 If I saw any of my friends
00:41:23.900 Go in and beating the missus
00:41:24.900 I'd put man's on him
00:41:25.980 I don't agree with that
00:41:26.780 Especially the mother of your children
00:41:28.120 You're a sick individual
00:41:28.880 Even if she's hearing you
00:41:29.760 It's not an excuse
00:41:30.340 But
00:41:31.360 So if they're in a situation
00:41:32.420 Where
00:41:32.860 If they're in a situation
00:41:36.100 Where they're going to be
00:41:36.980 How hard did she hit him
00:41:38.280 You know what I mean
00:41:38.760 It's different
00:41:40.260 I mean
00:41:40.420 Don't get me wrong
00:41:41.780 I'm not saying
00:41:42.280 If I was
00:41:43.060 I've seen girls
00:41:43.500 Like grab a chair
00:41:44.520 Now this is different
00:41:45.220 Getting hit and hitting back
00:41:46.680 At two different things
00:41:47.320 You don't have to hit back
00:41:48.180 You can restrain a woman
00:41:49.220 If she's acting mad
00:41:50.080 Don't get me wrong
00:41:52.100 If I was out
00:41:53.000 Out somewhere
00:41:54.300 Maybe at a bar
00:41:55.320 Or something
00:41:55.720 And a girl randomly
00:41:56.960 Punch me in my face
00:41:57.900 What I slap her back
00:41:58.600 Maybe
00:41:58.920 But that's different
00:41:59.980 I think if you know
00:42:00.780 This woman
00:42:01.120 You have love for this woman
00:42:01.980 She's hitting you
00:42:02.800 Bro you're a man
00:42:03.360 But just move out of the way
00:42:04.180 There's other ways to go
00:42:04.920 If my mum hit me
00:42:06.040 I'm not going to hear it back
00:42:06.740 Do you know what I mean
00:42:07.400 My mum can hit me
00:42:08.160 I'm not going to turn around
00:42:08.720 And hit my mum back
00:42:09.280 So if it's someone
00:42:10.080 That you love
00:42:10.600 And you know
00:42:10.920 It's different
00:42:11.260 To some random stranger
00:42:12.260 In the street
00:42:13.120 And then women will say
00:42:13.980 Oh yeah but you're a man
00:42:15.280 You're a lot stronger than me
00:42:16.260 I'm a lot stronger than most men
00:42:17.300 If they hit me
00:42:18.020 I'm watching
00:42:18.340 I'm not going to hit them back either
00:42:19.200 Like come on bro
00:42:19.960 Like don't put your hand on me
00:42:20.860 I wouldn't hit her like she was a man
00:42:22.160 But she get a little slapped back
00:42:23.220 Yeah probably
00:42:23.640 Yeah and I want to agree
00:42:25.640 With Ty what he said here
00:42:26.780 Because I think too
00:42:27.980 Like everybody
00:42:29.100 Wants to talk shit
00:42:30.900 And everybody wants to be like
00:42:31.880 Yeah you should do this
00:42:32.820 But like when you get hit
00:42:35.140 Biologically
00:42:36.460 As a human
00:42:37.260 And your defenses are like
00:42:38.580 Yo defend yourself
00:42:39.900 Because we're not trying to die
00:42:41.340 You know what I mean
00:42:42.280 And so if you
00:42:43.300 Going back to what I said too
00:42:45.460 And I mentioned this
00:42:46.100 On Jetta Diabela's channel
00:42:47.480 Over on Valuetainment
00:42:48.780 I said hey
00:42:49.740 You know what
00:42:50.220 I think too
00:42:52.000 Because I'm all about
00:42:53.720 Working it out
00:42:54.560 And I said
00:42:55.080 If there's one instance
00:42:56.340 Of either side
00:42:57.600 Hitting each other
00:42:58.380 And I'm not talking
00:42:59.780 Like Mike Tyson
00:43:01.580 Knockout
00:43:02.280 Like uppercut
00:43:03.160 Knock her out
00:43:04.600 No sure you can
00:43:06.320 Nothing like that
00:43:07.220 But if you know
00:43:08.080 If you're drunk
00:43:09.000 And your girl slaps you
00:43:11.140 And you push her away
00:43:12.180 And she falls down
00:43:13.040 I think that
00:43:14.040 You should both
00:43:15.880 Look at the situation
00:43:17.220 And be like
00:43:19.440 Listen
00:43:19.800 We're both retarded
00:43:21.060 We both shouldn't have done that
00:43:22.760 Okay
00:43:23.420 Because
00:43:24.000 People
00:43:25.460 Are flawed individuals
00:43:26.760 And
00:43:28.260 Expecting two imperfect people
00:43:30.540 To come together
00:43:31.940 Make a perfect
00:43:32.540 And like the only perfection
00:43:34.320 In this life
00:43:35.200 Is either death or God
00:43:36.360 That's the only perfection
00:43:37.760 And so
00:43:39.020 The thing is
00:43:40.220 The people
00:43:40.700 From the sidelines
00:43:41.940 They like to cast stones
00:43:43.960 Upon people
00:43:44.860 Who are in these
00:43:46.960 In situations
00:43:47.680 But the reality is
00:43:48.940 If you're two broken
00:43:52.800 Imperfect people
00:43:54.360 How the fuck
00:43:55.320 Do you expect
00:43:55.840 To have a flawless relationship
00:43:57.200 Like Troy was saying earlier
00:43:58.180 A relationship has highs
00:43:59.780 And a relationship has lows
00:44:01.400 And if your husband
00:44:03.020 Is jumping off top ropes
00:44:04.800 And giving you a people's elbow
00:44:06.000 Like in the middle
00:44:07.420 You gotta go
00:44:08.720 Clearly
00:44:09.220 But if there's a mistake
00:44:11.460 Making
00:44:11.960 Right
00:44:12.760 Why are we just so
00:44:15.380 Quick
00:44:17.140 To
00:44:18.420 Crucify people
00:44:20.480 In relationships
00:44:21.580 Who may
00:44:23.480 Have made a mistake
00:44:24.920 Because
00:44:25.280 Everybody in this panel
00:44:26.460 Y'all got skeletons
00:44:27.620 In your closet
00:44:28.180 Because you're humans
00:44:29.200 Alright
00:44:30.200 Everybody here got skeletons
00:44:31.460 In your closet
00:44:32.040 And if that shit was outed
00:44:33.700 To the whole world
00:44:34.260 You'd be embarrassed
00:44:34.880 But it is what it is
00:44:35.700 Because we're all
00:44:36.340 Flawed broken humans
00:44:37.680 And I'm just saying
00:44:39.180 That we need to
00:44:40.260 Go beyond
00:44:41.280 Our brokenness
00:44:42.180 As humans
00:44:42.620 And emulate
00:44:44.120 God-likeness
00:44:45.400 And try to come together
00:44:47.300 And create this
00:44:48.840 Fucking gap
00:44:49.800 That
00:44:50.180 You know
00:44:51.320 Close the gap
00:44:52.720 Thank you very much
00:44:53.180 Close the gap
00:44:53.940 And
00:44:54.820 Endure
00:44:56.280 Yeah
00:44:57.000 I'm going for that
00:44:58.760 Yeah