JustPearlyThings - You Won't Believe Who She CHEATED With

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00:00:00.900 So you've never cheated physically.

00:00:02.440 Never cheated.

00:00:02.820 Have you ever flirted with another guy?

00:00:05.500 It depends what you mean by flirting.

00:00:06.880 I'm quite flirtatious just because of some of the stuff that I do,

00:00:10.220 but never with intent.

00:00:14.740 You never wanted it to go anywhere?

00:00:16.500 No.

00:00:16.920 Did you have guy friends at all when you were in that relationship?

00:00:19.440 Yeah, I still have a lot of guy friends.

00:00:21.200 Okay.

00:00:21.660 One of my best is over there.

00:00:23.620 I've experienced someone being unfaithful to me,

00:00:30.980 but we're not even together in the first place,

00:00:33.140 so I don't think it counts as cheating.

00:00:35.200 So how was he unfaithful if you weren't together?

00:00:39.260 We were doing very official things.

00:00:44.420 He's not establishing all the terms.

00:00:47.720 The sex.

00:00:48.540 You guys were having sex and then he...

00:00:50.440 We didn't have a proper talk,

00:00:52.780 but then I just energetically felt like

00:00:55.440 he was with someone else.

00:00:57.160 So then, I don't know.

00:00:59.560 I don't know if it counts as cheating.

00:01:01.480 What do you think?

00:01:02.080 If you never really established something,

00:01:04.840 but then you kind of...

00:01:06.720 No, I don't think it counts.

00:01:08.780 What about you?

00:01:09.420 Have you cheated?

00:01:12.300 Kind of.

00:01:14.460 I think she's honest.

00:01:16.200 I agree.

00:01:17.460 That is a yes.

00:01:18.480 I like...

00:01:19.080 Who cheats more, men or women?

00:01:22.420 So, obviously, the opening question has got to be,

00:01:25.840 have you ever cheated?

00:01:27.420 Starting here, go around, and then second row.

00:01:29.740 I have never cheated.

00:01:31.020 I have been cheated on once that I'm aware of.

00:01:33.600 And how did you find out?

00:01:36.960 Looking through his phone, actually.

00:01:38.800 Okay.

00:01:39.240 So, what apps did you go to?

00:01:42.280 Literally just WhatsApp.

00:01:44.180 And also, he had some dating apps as well,

00:01:47.620 which were live and the conversations there.

00:01:50.260 Was it your first time looking,

00:01:51.620 or had you looked before?

00:01:52.580 It was my first time looking.

00:01:53.800 I already felt...

00:01:54.240 It was the only time?

00:01:55.280 Yeah, but I'd already felt there was something...

00:01:57.900 I already felt there was something not quite right.

00:02:01.540 That's why I looked.

00:02:02.260 How long were you guys dating before you looked?

00:02:04.780 Before I looked, probably about three years.

00:02:06.800 You never looked in his phone once?

00:02:08.440 No, because I trusted him until a point that I didn't,

00:02:11.600 and then I was right.

00:02:12.640 And what made you think he was cheating?

00:02:15.580 Just, he changed the sort of mannerisms,

00:02:18.680 the way we were together.

00:02:19.960 Like, it was just different.

00:02:20.960 Was he treating you better or worse?

00:02:23.360 I was getting lots of presents,

00:02:24.820 and he was very wealthy, so...

00:02:26.820 So, win-win, maybe?

00:02:28.780 I don't know.

00:02:31.020 But it was weird.

00:02:33.380 There was definitely things lacking,

00:02:34.760 like emotionally and stuff.

00:02:36.040 But, yeah, he was definitely different.

00:02:37.340 And did you stay with him, or did you go?

00:02:40.380 I stayed for a bit,

00:02:42.720 because he was like,

00:02:43.900 I'm sorry, I'm sorry, da-da-da. 1.00

00:02:45.380 And he was, like, all about, you know,

00:02:47.020 making everything work and fixing it.

00:02:49.240 And I was like, okay, I'll give you a chance.

00:02:50.440 But I think, deep down, I was like,

00:02:53.020 I can't, it doesn't, it's broken.

00:02:54.840 The trust is broken.

00:02:55.600 If he was making less money,

00:02:57.400 would you have left quicker?

00:03:00.340 Oh, my God.

00:03:02.180 You're not getting terrible, man.

00:03:03.760 That is terrible, man.

00:03:06.480 I mean...

00:03:07.000 I mean...

00:03:08.140 I mean...

00:03:09.640 You know you're the best, though.

00:03:11.680 You know you're the best.

00:03:12.620 You're all about honesty on this show.

00:03:17.500 Probably, you know,

00:03:18.640 because once it's broken, it's broken.

00:03:19.900 I have a question, I have a question.

00:03:21.440 If he was making more,

00:03:22.920 would you have stayed longer?

00:03:25.120 I mean...

00:03:26.100 No, I think, no,

00:03:27.880 there came a point where I was like,

00:03:29.580 no, I'm done.

00:03:30.580 You know what I mean?

00:03:31.340 And, like, money...

00:03:32.020 What was that point?

00:03:33.480 No, no, because...

00:03:34.440 Because I think when the trust is broken,

00:03:37.780 the trust is broken.

00:03:38.780 So, like, although I'm like,

00:03:40.080 yeah, we can make it work.

00:03:41.320 And he was really trying,

00:03:42.280 like, really trying.

00:03:43.560 I was just like,

00:03:44.060 I can't get that.

00:03:45.300 It's done.

00:03:45.980 You know, once it...

00:03:46.620 You're just like, I can't.

00:03:47.520 And once that trust is broken,

00:03:49.700 then I think it's really hard

00:03:51.140 for a relationship to...

00:03:52.580 Yeah, but I think because

00:03:54.220 we spent so long together

00:03:55.500 and we were good for so long

00:03:57.360 and he was willing to own up to it

00:03:59.580 and rectify it and blah, blah, blah.

00:04:01.580 I was like, okay, let's try.

00:04:02.920 But realistically,

00:04:04.540 it's very rare that that works.

00:04:06.160 So I have a question.

00:04:07.020 If you were single the rest of your life,

00:04:09.060 would you have wished

00:04:09.820 you worked it out with him?

00:04:10.900 Um, no,

00:04:12.880 because he's not the one.

00:04:14.020 The one?

00:04:14.680 He's not the one.

00:04:15.420 I don't believe in the one.

00:04:16.580 I believe, I believe,

00:04:17.420 I believe there is a one.

00:04:19.720 And I think,

00:04:20.220 I think when I was in love with him,

00:04:22.380 I probably would have said that,

00:04:23.320 but I'm not in love with him

00:04:24.880 and that is way gone.

00:04:26.780 That emotion,

00:04:27.980 that emotional draw or tie.

00:04:29.620 So I think, nah.

00:04:30.960 So second question.

00:04:32.420 So you've never cheated physically?

00:04:34.100 Never cheated.

00:04:34.480 Have you ever,

00:04:35.020 have you ever flirted with another guy?

00:04:37.140 It depends what you mean by flirting.

00:04:38.560 I'm quite flirtatious.

00:04:39.860 It's just because of some of the stuff

00:04:41.440 that I do work that I do.

00:04:43.300 But, um,

00:04:43.900 but never with intent.

00:04:46.180 So you never wanted it to go anywhere.

00:04:48.580 Did you have guy friends at all

00:04:49.960 when you were in that relationship?

00:04:51.100 Yeah, I still have a lot of guy friends.

00:04:52.900 Okay.

00:04:53.320 One of my best is over there.

00:04:58.140 Okay.

00:04:58.700 Okay.

00:04:59.280 Um, what about,

00:05:00.300 what about messages?

00:05:01.360 Did you ever respond to messages

00:05:02.620 from other guys?

00:05:03.420 No, no messages.

00:05:04.460 I shut it down.

00:05:05.500 I'm very honest.

00:05:06.860 Shut up, shut up, shut up, shut up. 0.99

00:05:08.700 Maybe light flirting some guy friends,

00:05:12.240 but nothing physical.

00:05:13.240 Nothing, no, yeah.

00:05:14.060 I'm very fussy.

00:05:15.020 I, I, I really,

00:05:16.280 if I like someone,

00:05:17.280 that's the only person

00:05:18.060 I, I want to be with.

00:05:19.580 And that's it.

00:05:20.020 Okay.

00:05:20.280 What about when women do cheat? 1.00

00:05:22.240 Are they cheating to leave typically?

00:05:23.960 Do you think?

00:05:25.020 Oh,

00:05:25.400 I think some women, uh, cheat. 1.00

00:05:28.180 I think they kind of cheat

00:05:29.480 for a one-upmanship

00:05:30.420 rather than,

00:05:31.800 so you did it,

00:05:32.520 so I can do it.

00:05:33.220 You know what I mean?

00:05:33.740 Whereas, um,

00:05:34.540 I think that there is an element

00:05:36.960 that it's, you know,

00:05:38.040 escapism and they,

00:05:39.000 and they want out

00:05:39.640 of what they're in,

00:05:40.600 but I think it's that kind

00:05:42.900 of one-upmanship.

00:05:44.880 How do you know?

00:05:45.680 How do you know?

00:05:46.440 Well, just because I have,

00:05:47.260 I have a lot of girlfriends,

00:05:48.800 I have a lot of guy friends.

00:05:50.720 I've never cheated,

00:05:51.820 just being out of there.

00:05:53.220 You've never cheated,

00:05:54.180 but you know women 1.00

00:05:54.940 who've cheated back.

00:05:55.700 Yeah, yeah.

00:05:56.440 Okay.

00:05:56.860 And is that usually,

00:05:57.500 does it work out for them?

00:06:00.640 Very, very rare.

00:06:02.520 Very rare.

00:06:03.220 Very rare.

00:06:05.700 Have you ever cheated?

00:06:06.980 No.

00:06:07.680 Okay.

00:06:07.900 Have you ever been cheated on?

00:06:09.420 No.

00:06:10.160 Okay.

00:06:10.720 Have you ever cheated?

00:06:11.760 I've never cheated.

00:06:13.140 Um, I've experienced

00:06:14.560 someone being unfaithful to me,

00:06:16.260 but we're not even together

00:06:17.620 in the first place,

00:06:18.440 so I don't think

00:06:19.080 it counts as cheating.

00:06:20.420 So you weren't,

00:06:21.220 so how was he unfaithful

00:06:22.380 if you weren't together?

00:06:23.260 Um, I just,

00:06:24.700 we were doing

00:06:25.480 very official things.

00:06:27.520 Nice.

00:06:27.780 So it was just

00:06:28.500 not establishing

00:06:31.440 all the terms.

00:06:32.960 The sex.

00:06:33.820 You guys were having sex

00:06:34.920 and then he...

00:06:35.760 We was,

00:06:36.420 we didn't have like

00:06:37.280 a proper talk,

00:06:38.480 but then I just

00:06:39.420 energetically felt like

00:06:40.720 he was with someone else.

00:06:42.380 So then,

00:06:43.760 I don't know.

00:06:44.840 I don't know

00:06:45.740 if it counts as cheating.

00:06:46.760 What do you think?

00:06:47.360 If,

00:06:47.620 if you never really

00:06:48.880 established something,

00:06:50.020 but,

00:06:50.200 but then you kind of have?

00:06:52.500 No,

00:06:52.800 I don't think it counts.

00:06:54.560 I mean,

00:06:55.140 do you guys,

00:06:55.720 raise your hand.

00:06:56.400 Does that count as cheating?

00:06:57.700 I would say yeah.

00:06:58.720 I think it says yeah.

00:06:59.800 I'm on the,

00:07:00.180 but on the edge.

00:07:01.140 Oh,

00:07:01.320 three.

00:07:02.100 You think yes?

00:07:03.320 Yeah.

00:07:04.000 If you're,

00:07:04.400 if you're not together,

00:07:05.240 you think it counts as cheating?

00:07:07.380 But what is together?

00:07:08.840 Yeah.

00:07:09.400 Boyfriend and girlfriend,

00:07:10.660 like,

00:07:10.860 like I'm saying.

00:07:11.720 he was consistently asking me out

00:07:15.420 to be official actually.

00:07:16.700 I was kind of,

00:07:18.840 you know,

00:07:19.180 for me it's about action.

00:07:20.460 So instead of saying,

00:07:21.800 yes,

00:07:22.000 I can be a girlfriend,

00:07:22.860 I have to receive girlfriend treatments

00:07:25.400 and,

00:07:26.020 and see a consistency first.

00:07:28.720 Okay.

00:07:29.360 So,

00:07:29.940 so he failed basically.

00:07:32.720 Maybe,

00:07:33.120 maybe he took it as a no

00:07:34.520 and then was starting to move on.

00:07:37.440 You know what I mean?

00:07:38.640 Yeah.

00:07:39.040 Like if,

00:07:39.540 like if you asked a guy

00:07:41.000 to be your boyfriend

00:07:41.740 or like if you,

00:07:42.700 it's going somewhere

00:07:43.460 and he says no,

00:07:44.100 wouldn't you move on?

00:07:45.880 I was taking my time to decide.

00:07:47.920 Well,

00:07:48.140 yeah,

00:07:48.360 I mean,

00:07:48.600 maybe he was doing the same thing.

00:07:50.160 Yeah.

00:07:50.880 Okay.

00:07:51.280 What about you?

00:07:51.760 Have,

00:07:51.960 have you cheated?

00:07:54.900 Kind of.

00:07:57.040 I think she's honest.

00:07:58.600 I like that.

00:08:00.220 I like that.

00:08:01.640 Okay.

00:08:02.140 How would you say kind of?

00:08:03.900 Well,

00:08:04.220 I was living with my boyfriend.

00:08:06.280 I hope he's not watching.

00:08:06.840 You don't realize.

00:08:08.320 Someone's going to send to him.

00:08:09.520 And it was like a work thing.

00:08:12.580 It was proximity.

00:08:13.720 It was just some kissing

00:08:14.720 and a bit of a fumble

00:08:15.720 in my lunch break.

00:08:17.620 In your lunch break?

00:08:19.600 Okay.

00:08:20.020 I gotta,

00:08:20.420 I gotta be honest.

00:08:21.620 I gotta,

00:08:21.800 I gotta,

00:08:21.820 I gotta,

00:08:22.100 wait,

00:08:22.380 I gotta be honest.

00:08:25.320 This is a yes.

00:08:27.100 How is this a maybe?

00:08:28.900 Kind of.

00:08:29.580 It's a kind of,

00:08:30.420 you know.

00:08:31.260 I kind of cheated.

00:08:32.900 It was like you're kissing.

00:08:33.920 What if he only kissed another chick?

00:08:41.080 Would that be cheating?

00:08:43.400 Yes.

00:08:43.840 I don't know.

00:08:45.260 It didn't happen,

00:08:46.280 so I don't know how I feel about it

00:08:47.520 or felt about it.

00:08:48.640 Okay.

00:08:49.080 And did you tell him or no?

00:08:50.720 No.

00:08:51.420 Did he ever find out?

00:08:51.980 He knows now.

00:08:53.740 I mean,

00:08:54.340 I'm assuming it didn't work out.

00:08:57.420 No,

00:08:57.780 but he's still one of my good friends.

00:08:59.620 Okay.

00:08:59.900 In your back pocket.

00:09:06.300 Have you ever cheated?

00:09:07.400 I have cheated.

00:09:08.700 Yeah.

00:09:09.880 I was bad.

00:09:10.800 Tell me,

00:09:11.220 I appreciate the honest,

00:09:12.540 the men are much more likely to tell you,

00:09:14.900 you know what I mean?

00:09:15.420 I mean,

00:09:15.760 I can't lie.

00:09:16.660 I can't lie.

00:09:17.340 Okay.

00:09:17.760 So,

00:09:18.260 so,

00:09:18.880 um,

00:09:19.300 how did you cheat?

00:09:20.520 Ooh.

00:09:22.200 Well,

00:09:22.620 the first time she probably,

00:09:24.680 she cheated on me. 1.00

00:09:25.580 Then I just went nuts.

00:09:27.000 Okay.

00:09:27.400 So how did you find out she was cheating? 0.70

00:09:29.260 Email.

00:09:29.620 Email.

00:09:29.900 I checked her email.

00:09:30.900 She was emailing?

00:09:32.060 I love fucking letters.

00:09:33.560 Oh,

00:09:33.780 I couldn't believe it.

00:09:34.420 Not even Instagram.

00:09:35.680 Email.

00:09:36.520 Wow.

00:09:36.860 Email.

00:09:37.460 Who is she emailing?

00:09:38.140 Very professional.

00:09:40.380 I cannot.

00:09:41.620 Who is she emailing?

00:09:42.620 How did you get into her email?

00:09:43.460 She's probably going to watch this,

00:09:45.000 so I can't.

00:09:45.360 How did you get into her email, though?

00:09:46.660 Yeah.

00:09:47.060 I knew her password.

00:09:48.040 Ooh.

00:09:49.400 That's okay.

00:09:50.120 It's okay.

00:09:50.680 It's all right.

00:09:51.300 Be honest.

00:09:51.940 Be honest.

00:09:52.260 So,

00:09:52.500 so you caught her emailing.

00:09:54.080 Who was she emailing?

00:09:55.420 Just some dude,

00:09:56.420 like,

00:09:56.620 on holiday.

00:09:57.720 She,

00:09:58.160 like,

00:09:58.240 met him on holiday?

00:09:59.080 Mm-hmm.

00:09:59.620 And she was emailing.

00:10:00.600 Yeah.

00:10:01.180 And so how did you,

00:10:02.480 who did you cheat with to get back?

00:10:04.480 Ooh.

00:10:04.860 Ooh.

00:10:06.260 Not,

00:10:06.780 not names,

00:10:07.860 but,

00:10:07.980 like,

00:10:08.280 loads,

00:10:09.140 loads.

00:10:09.680 Oh,

00:10:10.080 loads.

00:10:10.400 Loads.

00:10:10.800 Absolutely.

00:10:11.500 Like,

00:10:11.780 dating apps?

00:10:12.540 Anyone personal,

00:10:13.520 like,

00:10:13.700 close to her?

00:10:15.920 Ooh.

00:10:16.180 No,

00:10:17.680 no,

00:10:17.800 no,

00:10:17.880 no,

00:10:18.060 no,

00:10:18.200 no,

00:10:18.260 no.

00:10:18.500 But she knew them.

00:10:20.120 Yeah,

00:10:20.300 some of them.

00:10:22.900 I'm not like that.

00:10:23.720 Did she know?

00:10:25.800 Yeah,

00:10:26.040 Laura's seen a lot.

00:10:27.180 Yeah.

00:10:27.340 I've seen,

00:10:27.980 I've seen a lot.

00:10:28.500 Yeah,

00:10:28.660 we used to work together.

00:10:29.700 And what did you say when he was cheating?

00:10:31.660 Did you support him?

00:10:32.680 Were you like,

00:10:33.000 she kind of deserves it,

00:10:34.280 right?

00:10:35.180 No,

00:10:35.680 I like,

00:10:36.080 I like clean breaks.

00:10:37.340 I'm all about clean breaks.

00:10:38.600 That's true.

00:10:39.020 I should have clean breaked it.

00:10:39.880 Yeah,

00:10:40.240 but.

00:10:40.420 I didn't.

00:10:41.020 Fuck it.

00:10:41.580 Yeah,

00:10:41.860 he didn't.

00:10:42.340 He really didn't.

00:10:44.160 I did eventually.

00:10:45.320 Are you guys still?

00:10:46.180 Oh,

00:10:46.320 no,

00:10:46.440 we are friends.

00:10:47.240 Yeah,

00:10:47.440 we are friends.

00:10:48.140 And we're actually laughing about it over dinner the other week.

00:10:50.600 Yeah.

00:10:50.880 Yeah.

00:10:51.000 Okay.

00:10:51.300 Other months rather.

00:10:52.120 Yeah.

00:10:52.400 Would you ever get back with her or no?

00:10:54.660 Nah.

00:10:55.160 Nah.

00:10:56.280 Nah.

00:10:56.860 Too far gone.

00:10:57.860 Nah,

00:10:58.040 it's all good.

00:10:58.600 And how,

00:10:59.140 how did you hide it from her?

00:11:01.020 I didn't.

00:11:03.060 Brazen.

00:11:03.540 I actually didn't.

00:11:04.340 Like,

00:11:04.600 nah.

00:11:05.140 Oh,

00:11:05.440 you didn't hide it at all?

00:11:06.440 I just done it.

00:11:07.300 Like,

00:11:07.440 yeah.

00:11:07.560 I did what I did.

00:11:09.740 And did she leave when she,

00:11:11.220 I'm assuming.

00:11:11.320 No,

00:11:11.420 I left.

00:11:12.140 It was actually me.

00:11:13.260 I left.

00:11:13.800 Yeah,

00:11:13.920 yeah,

00:11:14.080 yeah.

00:11:14.320 Did she find out?

00:11:16.180 Mm,

00:11:16.600 mm,

00:11:16.780 mm.

00:11:17.100 Nah,

00:11:17.340 she thought I was this angel.

00:11:18.640 Like,

00:11:18.960 she's the best,

00:11:19.800 but she thought I was a proper angel.

00:11:21.720 Like,

00:11:21.800 yeah.

00:11:22.420 And when I was about to tell her over dinner,

00:11:24.400 like,

00:11:24.720 everything that happened,

00:11:25.780 like,

00:11:26.080 she was like,

00:11:26.700 Alps,

00:11:27.000 don't tell me,

00:11:27.500 don't tell me.

00:11:28.200 Like,

00:11:28.760 I look at you as a,

00:11:30.380 like,

00:11:30.620 as an angel.

00:11:31.340 So I was like,

00:11:31.900 all right,

00:11:32.160 find a way to tell you.

00:11:32.840 I'll tell everyone else and say anything.

00:11:35.040 So how many girls was it? 0.98

00:11:40.160 It was a lot.

00:11:40.920 Like 20,

00:11:41.640 20,

00:11:42.760 maybe.

00:11:43.140 Oh,

00:11:43.300 it's 20.

00:11:43.560 I thought you were going to say 50.

00:11:44.640 That's actually.

00:11:45.080 Oh,

00:11:45.200 no,

00:11:45.340 no,

00:11:45.460 no,

00:11:46.080 not 50.

00:11:46.900 Nah.

00:11:47.140 I don't tend then in it.

00:11:48.180 30.

00:11:48.920 Nah.

00:11:49.640 Nah.

00:11:50.440 Nah.

00:11:50.760 I was working in clubs at the time.

00:11:55.620 In your experience,

00:11:57.300 if a girl finds out about another,

00:11:59.060 if a girl finds out about other women, 1.00

00:12:01.820 does she stay or go typically?

00:12:03.400 It depends.

00:12:07.000 Stay.

00:12:07.620 Stay.

00:12:08.500 I don't know.

00:12:09.160 Maybe they stay for some reason.

00:12:10.740 Yeah.

00:12:10.940 Yeah.

00:12:11.400 They do.

00:12:11.880 I can vouch for that.

00:12:12.780 I can vouch for that.

00:12:14.460 Yeah.

00:12:14.720 Okay.

00:12:15.800 Okay.

00:12:17.000 Mr.

00:12:17.680 Tinder.

00:12:18.140 Can I,

00:12:18.420 can I ask you a question?

00:12:20.440 It depends on what else.

00:12:23.640 I want to know what you define cheating as first.

00:12:27.440 Like,

00:12:27.580 what is cheating to you?

00:12:29.220 We were.

00:12:29.780 Cause everyone sees cheating as a different thing.

00:12:32.060 So I want to know.

00:12:32.820 You're kind of ahead of me.

00:12:33.840 That was going to be my next question.

00:12:35.940 But let's for now make it physical,

00:12:37.840 physical cheating,

00:12:39.320 kissing,

00:12:40.100 any,

00:12:40.500 any kissing or further.

00:12:42.280 Yeah.

00:12:42.440 Is it,

00:12:42.920 what is it deceiving someone behind their back or is it doing it when they know about it?

00:12:47.620 Oh,

00:12:47.860 so she,

00:12:48.580 so she knew she was like,

00:12:49.640 I can't lock Mr.

00:12:50.600 Tinder down.

00:12:52.960 In that case,

00:12:53.820 no.

00:12:56.240 Okay.

00:12:56.660 So,

00:12:56.980 so you,

00:12:57.760 you've had like an open relationship type.

00:12:59.700 thing.

00:13:00.000 No,

00:13:00.200 not at all.

00:13:01.500 No,

00:13:02.040 I've had girlfriends and I've been single.

00:13:08.160 I need to understand.

00:13:10.220 Okay.

00:13:10.420 Okay.

00:13:10.780 So you've had a girlfriend.

00:13:12.380 I've had a few.

00:13:13.340 Yeah.

00:13:13.660 Okay.

00:13:14.460 And so to be honest with you,

00:13:17.000 like everyone sees cheating as a different thing.

00:13:19.120 So I'm trying to find out what cheating is to you.

00:13:21.640 Yeah.

00:13:21.860 So I need to say,

00:13:22.800 yeah.

00:13:22.980 So I'm something physical,

00:13:24.680 physical while you're with someone.

00:13:25.840 If they know about it,

00:13:26.880 then it's not cheating.

00:13:27.680 Yeah.

00:13:27.900 I would agree with you.

00:13:28.560 It's not cheating if they know about it.

00:13:30.360 But so my question is like,

00:13:32.300 so you did like a one-sided open relationship where it was like open on yours.

00:13:36.780 Yeah.

00:13:37.200 I could say that.

00:13:37.900 Yeah.

00:13:38.260 Yeah.

00:13:38.560 Yeah.

00:13:38.700 At first.

00:13:39.540 Yeah.

00:13:39.740 And I was a bit of a playboy to be fair.

00:13:41.800 Okay.

00:13:42.060 Yeah.

00:13:43.760 Yeah.

00:13:44.080 I was quite bad.

00:13:44.820 Used to party and stuff.

00:13:46.260 Drink a lot.

00:13:47.180 Used to.

00:13:48.180 Yeah.

00:13:48.740 I'm good now.

00:13:49.520 I'm really good now.

00:13:50.280 I'm a settled man and stuff like that.

00:13:52.280 Yeah.

00:13:53.360 But yeah,

00:13:53.860 I would say,

00:13:54.280 yeah.

00:13:54.660 Do you know what?

00:13:55.340 Most of my girlfriends cheated on me. 1.00

00:13:56.880 So I found that as a good excuse to cheat on them back.

00:13:59.800 Oh,

00:14:00.200 yeah.

00:14:01.000 I was quite good.

00:14:02.060 Like if I,

00:14:02.560 if I said I'm in a relationship with someone,

00:14:04.340 I'd be like,

00:14:04.960 right,

00:14:05.240 I'm in a relationship,

00:14:05.920 but then they'll cheat on me. 0.99

00:14:07.160 And I'm like,

00:14:07.660 right,

00:14:07.960 I'm going back to Stefan now.

00:14:09.460 And I told them about it as well.

00:14:12.760 But yeah.

00:14:13.800 Okay.

00:14:14.140 And it would be like girls to meet,

00:14:15.800 like my girlfriends were so sly about it as well,

00:14:17.840 but I'm quite clever.

00:14:19.200 So like,

00:14:19.560 what do you mean?

00:14:20.740 I'm intelligent.

00:14:21.960 Like when it comes to like dating,

00:14:23.460 I'm like super intelligent.

00:14:25.200 Hence where I got,

00:14:26.420 where I got right.

00:14:27.400 Okay.

00:14:27.860 I'm like,

00:14:28.260 I'm like,

00:14:28.640 I'm like the modern day hitch.

00:14:30.200 So I'm like a detective in love.

00:14:32.360 Do you know what I mean?

00:14:33.240 So yeah,

00:14:33.860 I found them like hard.

00:14:36.280 And they still deny it.

00:14:37.780 It's so funny.

00:14:38.540 How would you catch them cheating?

00:14:40.700 There's various things.

00:14:41.720 So like,

00:14:42.000 it's like,

00:14:42.940 so they would ask me questions.

00:14:44.240 The first,

00:14:44.560 the biggest one is I'll go out.

00:14:45.980 Obviously I'm a model.

00:14:47.380 So I'll go out.

00:14:48.860 I'm on TV as well.

00:14:50.260 So I'm going to take pictures of people in a club.

00:14:52.340 Why are you taking photos with them?

00:14:54.000 Right?

00:14:54.220 Well,

00:14:54.380 obviously if I go out,

00:14:55.600 someone's going to take a photo of me.

00:14:57.100 So I know if they're asking me that question,

00:14:58.920 I'm like,

00:14:59.300 I wait for them to go out.

00:15:00.700 And then I,

00:15:01.300 I'll go and tag photos and stuff and see them in photos.

00:15:03.860 I'm like,

00:15:04.360 why are you taking photos?

00:15:05.540 And why are you even asking me?

00:15:07.360 So that would be the first thing.

00:15:08.540 If someone asks you a direct question,

00:15:09.980 you have a direct answer,

00:15:11.000 but normally they don't.

00:15:12.920 So then I sort of like,

00:15:13.760 if you're asking me a question,

00:15:14.960 then what's the reason that you're answering?

00:15:16.680 Oh,

00:15:17.140 so you're saying they were projecting because they were,

00:15:19.140 they were cheating.

00:15:19.920 Like where have you been?

00:15:20.960 And you,

00:15:21.280 like you,

00:15:21.640 they clearly know where you've been.

00:15:22.900 So it's like,

00:15:23.540 when someone asks the whereabouts or what you,

00:15:25.880 why you're doing something,

00:15:26.820 it's normally because they're asking for themselves.

00:15:29.020 Oh yeah.

00:15:30.400 Can I have an example?

00:15:31.360 I'm sorry.

00:15:31.940 Can I have an example?

00:15:32.700 So,

00:15:33.020 so they would be cheating with the guys they took pictures with? 0.59

00:15:36.460 So for example,

00:15:37.240 they'd be like,

00:15:37.720 why are you,

00:15:39.740 why are you taking photos with someone?

00:15:42.420 That's normal.

00:15:43.700 So to me,

00:15:44.280 that's normal.

00:15:44.840 Right.

00:15:45.320 But then they would do it.

00:15:46.980 So I'm like,

00:15:47.380 if you find,

00:15:48.060 if that's a problem to you,

00:15:49.480 then they're doing something.

00:15:50.700 And you're doing it,

00:15:51.500 then you must be cheating on me.

00:15:53.060 And then I'd go in.

00:15:54.060 Do you know what I mean?

00:15:54.480 Like who are you texting?

00:15:56.840 Yeah.

00:15:57.640 Yeah.

00:15:58.200 Yeah.

00:15:58.420 Like who are you texting?

00:15:59.320 Like,

00:15:59.440 or like,

00:15:59.880 where's your phone?

00:16:00.660 Or do you know what I mean?

00:16:01.480 Like,

00:16:02.520 then you're doing,

00:16:03.300 you're hiding something.

00:16:04.200 So that's normally how I found out.

00:16:06.760 Yeah.

00:16:07.220 Cause I'm quite open in me.

00:16:08.420 I'm texting a girl,

00:16:09.580 mate.

00:16:09.740 I'll just say it.

00:16:10.460 Or if I'm taking a phone,

00:16:12.220 even if I've gone back off to an after party and there's five,

00:16:15.380 six girls in with my mates,

00:16:16.580 I'll say it.

00:16:17.260 And then they go out and the fact they've asked me and I've told them,

00:16:21.020 I'm like,

00:16:21.640 why are you doing it then?

00:16:22.820 So then you dig deep on her.

00:16:24.900 You know what I mean?

00:16:25.340 I ended up getting hurt,

00:16:26.360 but there you go.

00:16:27.160 That's me.

00:16:27.680 So how did you find out?

00:16:28.940 Did you message the guys that she was taking pictures with?

00:16:31.700 I've never,

00:16:32.000 I've never messaged.

00:16:33.260 Looked through her phone.

00:16:34.140 Like,

00:16:34.260 how'd you get friends?

00:16:34.900 You know what's funny?

00:16:35.780 Like,

00:16:36.040 because I've been in the limelight quite a while,

00:16:39.780 they start messaging me.

00:16:40.980 They start liking photos.

00:16:42.480 Like,

00:16:42.680 you see them connect.

00:16:44.020 Cause I do social media as well.

00:16:45.640 Like,

00:16:45.760 you just see the network happening.

00:16:47.680 So I,

00:16:48.300 and also if they've been out,

00:16:49.840 if an ex-girlfriend's been out on a night out or whatever,

00:16:52.800 like you can see who they've been with,

00:16:54.400 cause they start following them and stuff.

00:16:55.880 Do you know what I mean?

00:16:56.700 And like,

00:16:56.920 oh,

00:16:57.300 they're in Bournemouth.

00:16:58.600 Oh,

00:16:58.900 they're in,

00:16:59.280 they're in Mayfair.

00:17:00.140 And it all lines up.

00:17:01.140 And you're like,

00:17:01.520 oh,

00:17:01.700 okay.

00:17:01.920 And then you sort of watch it for one.

00:17:03.060 Like,

00:17:03.180 oh,

00:17:03.400 you're cheating on me.

00:17:04.860 So yeah,

00:17:05.120 that normally happens to me.

00:17:06.020 Have you ever been wrong?

00:17:06.920 Sorry.

00:17:07.480 Have you ever been wrong?

00:17:09.660 Assuming they have.

00:17:10.440 You know what?

00:17:10.740 Like I haven't,

00:17:11.740 I've always,

00:17:12.480 I've always known my whereabouts.

00:17:14.480 I've known they've been,

00:17:15.500 like if someone's been with someone,

00:17:16.740 they're not said they've been with them.

00:17:18.000 To me,

00:17:18.280 that's cheating,

00:17:19.020 whether it's physical or not.

00:17:20.540 Like if you ask someone a question,

00:17:21.900 it'd be like,

00:17:22.160 oh,

00:17:22.360 who was you with?

00:17:23.040 Was you with like,

00:17:24.080 so was you in four guys?

00:17:25.780 Did you go back to that house?

00:17:27.120 The fact they didn't say that to you,

00:17:28.400 cheating to me.

00:17:29.300 What's your definition of cheating?

00:17:31.580 Oh,

00:17:31.820 deceiving someone behind their back.

00:17:33.800 So does it have to be physical?

00:17:35.840 Not at all.

00:17:36.680 Not at all.

00:17:37.740 Just,

00:17:37.880 just,

00:17:38.160 just like,

00:17:38.860 yeah,

00:17:40.040 just like,

00:17:41.180 yeah.

00:17:41.500 By that logic,

00:17:42.580 if a girl lies about her body count, 1.00

00:17:44.360 is it cheating?

00:17:45.040 Cause she's deceiving you.

00:17:49.480 Yeah.

00:17:50.120 Yeah.

00:17:50.800 Pretty much.

00:17:51.780 I'm like,

00:17:52.120 well,

00:17:52.220 just be open.

00:17:52.940 Cause I go in at the beginning.

00:17:54.320 I'm like,

00:17:54.660 yeah,

00:17:54.800 I'll just go and they go 20.

00:17:56.820 And then you find out,

00:17:57.940 oh,

00:17:58.160 this you've,

00:17:58.820 you found out 20 when you,

00:18:00.200 in the space of a month.

00:18:01.420 So you're like,

00:18:02.680 where's that 20 come from then?

00:18:04.720 Is it 40?

00:18:06.000 And where's the other 20 on top?

00:18:07.780 So yeah.

00:18:08.580 I wouldn't even want to know that body count.

00:18:10.520 No,

00:18:10.820 I wouldn't know.

00:18:11.700 I like,

00:18:12.100 cause they ask you.

00:18:13.740 If they ask me,

00:18:14.660 I don't give it away.

00:18:15.240 And I'm honest about it.

00:18:16.000 It just makes me want to be dishonest.

00:18:17.700 But my thing with body count is,

00:18:19.520 how can you ever really know who's telling the truth?

00:18:22.220 Like you can't.

00:18:23.340 Yeah.

00:18:23.540 But if you say like 10 and you're 30 years old,

00:18:26.640 like you know something.

00:18:27.980 If I haven't started sleeping with people until I'm like 27,

00:18:30.780 28,

00:18:31.420 of course that number can be.

00:18:32.680 But what if you're with someone and you find that they've been with 12 people?

00:18:35.600 That's what I'm saying.

00:18:36.820 How do you,

00:18:37.520 you can't always find out.

00:18:39.000 You can tell just based on,

00:18:40.440 you can,

00:18:40.740 because the women, 1.00

00:18:41.360 the women that have slept with more people are more bitter because their life are, 1.00

00:18:44.500 I feel like that's quite a general thing to say.

00:18:46.800 But it depends.

00:18:47.680 I just agree on that.

00:18:48.640 I'm not saying it's 100%.

00:18:51.140 Yeah.

00:18:51.560 That's my point.

00:18:52.120 Women slip up. 1.00

00:18:52.720 It always comes out.

00:18:53.660 Yeah.

00:18:53.840 The thing is that two or four,

00:18:55.640 five,

00:18:56.000 10,

00:18:56.320 whatever.

00:18:56.700 But when you're like 50 off or a hundred,

00:18:58.860 then there's a problem.

00:18:59.500 But that's my point.

00:19:00.340 I don't think we can ever tell.

00:19:03.060 What?

00:19:03.260 50 or a hundred off?

00:19:04.220 No,

00:19:04.260 no,

00:19:04.300 no.

00:19:04.640 I'm saying everybody's body count.

00:19:06.460 So if I was to say right now that my body counts 10.

00:19:08.860 What is your body count?

00:19:09.720 There's no physical way.

00:19:10.480 What is your one?

00:19:11.200 There's no way.

00:19:12.480 You're going to say no way.

00:19:13.900 But you haven't answered my question.

00:19:15.460 You wouldn't be able to know if I'm lying or not.

00:19:18.020 If I've gone higher or if I've gone lower.

00:19:19.760 That's like,

00:19:20.600 there's no concrete.

00:19:21.060 I just think the truth comes out.

00:19:23.360 It comes out in the end.

00:19:24.760 It does.

00:19:25.620 I'm going to answer.

00:19:26.760 I'll give you an example.

00:19:28.040 Cause like I've had hundreds of women come on the show. 1.00

00:19:30.320 It's like one girl will say something on the podcast,

00:19:32.580 but eventually I hear about someone she slept with. 1.00

00:19:34.940 But again,

00:19:35.680 it's like people have reputations.

00:19:41.060 Like shit comes out about people.

00:19:43.340 I don't think it was that connected.

00:19:45.840 Oh yeah.

00:19:46.700 I don't think,

00:19:47.640 you know,

00:19:48.360 you know what?

00:19:49.000 You know what?

00:19:49.420 It's not the number.

00:19:50.000 Definitely you would be.

00:19:51.060 I'm surprised.

00:19:51.860 I'll get different show guests come on.

00:19:53.780 And then like,

00:19:54.240 like some guy will be like,

00:19:55.240 Oh,

00:19:55.340 I slept with that one. 1.00

00:19:56.120 That one.

00:19:56.460 That like,

00:19:56.820 it's like,

00:19:57.320 but he could be lying.

00:20:00.880 Exactly.

00:20:01.540 That's my point.

00:20:02.340 You can never ever.

00:20:03.440 Okay.

00:20:03.720 You're right.

00:20:04.100 He couldn't be lying.

00:20:05.180 You won't completely tell.

00:20:07.140 But then when it's like three guys have the same story,

00:20:09.260 you're like,

00:20:09.480 okay.

00:20:09.880 That's bias.

00:20:12.180 That's bias.

00:20:12.680 Oh my God.

00:20:13.440 Oh my God.

00:20:14.660 No,

00:20:15.120 no,

00:20:15.280 but you can tell guys cap too.

00:20:17.260 Guys cap about money.

00:20:19.360 That's the biggest thing.

00:20:20.160 Guys will be like,

00:20:20.700 Oh,

00:20:20.860 I have this company.

00:20:21.780 And we'll look it up.

00:20:22.260 It's dissolved.

00:20:24.460 It's interesting to say that because statistically,

00:20:29.340 men are,

00:20:30.300 men are,

00:20:31.780 men lie more about their body count than women. 0.60

00:20:35.200 Like they will not,

00:20:36.660 not just lie,

00:20:37.600 not just lie,

00:20:38.220 sorry,

00:20:38.540 this,

00:20:38.720 this,

00:20:38.960 not just lie,

00:20:40.080 but they,

00:20:40.580 they are the ones that notch it up.

00:20:42.920 So men,

00:20:43.700 yeah,

00:20:43.920 exaggerate.

00:20:44.540 Women. 0.81

00:20:45.200 Men exaggerate. 0.98

00:20:46.160 Yeah.

00:20:46.500 Men.

00:20:46.660 It's statistically.

00:20:47.480 I never exaggerate.

00:20:48.680 It's online.

00:20:49.000 You can look it up.

00:20:50.200 It's men.

00:20:50.820 Yeah.

00:20:50.880 Yeah.

00:20:51.120 Statistically men exaggerate.

00:20:52.280 No,

00:20:52.500 I don't think that.

00:20:52.900 So it's hard to know what body count you actually have.

00:20:56.200 Men will try and keep it. 0.99

00:20:57.140 No,

00:20:57.760 that's not true.

00:20:58.300 It's not my opinion.

00:20:59.060 That's not true.

00:21:00.960 That was written by a woman. 0.99

00:21:02.140 Let's just,

00:21:02.720 well,

00:21:03.380 there's,

00:21:03.620 there's two problems.

00:21:04.800 Okay.

00:21:05.040 One,

00:21:05.380 feminists have ruined like all data. 1.00

00:21:07.700 They infiltrated school.

00:21:08.880 Yeah.

00:21:09.040 They infiltrated schools in the 1970s and 80s,

00:21:12.040 but,

00:21:12.660 but I will say men do lie.

00:21:14.200 I would agree.

00:21:14.720 Men tend to lie up. 0.97

00:21:15.760 Women tend to lie down. 1.00

00:21:16.800 Because it makes sense in society.

00:21:18.440 But who,

00:21:18.800 who lies more men or women? 0.75

00:21:21.160 Oh,

00:21:21.560 no.

00:21:24.560 That's a tricky question.

00:21:27.380 It depends.

00:21:28.020 It depends on the circumstances.

00:21:29.440 Yeah.

00:21:29.960 Exactly.

00:21:30.520 We're both human.

00:21:31.440 We're both human.

00:21:32.340 I'm banning a word.

00:21:33.680 I'm banning a word.

00:21:34.360 There's no,

00:21:34.780 it depends.

00:21:35.980 There's no,

00:21:36.460 no,

00:21:36.600 no,

00:21:36.740 no,

00:21:36.860 there's no,

00:21:37.240 it depends.

00:21:37.940 You got to pick one side.

00:21:39.060 What about kinder?

00:21:39.940 What about kinder?

00:21:40.660 No,

00:21:40.960 no,

00:21:41.120 go on.

00:21:43.240 I think women lie more for sure. 1.00

00:21:46.360 Because they suffer more judgment.

00:21:48.500 Yeah.

00:21:49.360 I think women suffer more judgment from the guy. 1.00

00:21:52.020 And usually it's always the,

00:21:53.340 mostly the guys asking the girl,

00:21:55.500 her body counted the way around.

00:21:57.120 Yeah.

00:21:57.320 Because usually we presume that the guy is left with a lot of girls.

00:22:00.780 You're with the wrong guys.

00:22:01.500 Of course.

00:22:01.900 That's why I broke up with them.

00:22:05.780 But you need to understand something.

00:22:08.200 Men and women lie for different reasons. 0.53

00:22:09.860 So you cannot determine who's lying more.

00:22:11.660 Yeah.

00:22:12.120 So men lie about the money because guess what? 0.93

00:22:14.600 It works.

00:22:15.240 Yeah.

00:22:16.540 Yeah.

00:22:16.880 Yeah.

00:22:16.960 Yeah.

00:22:17.540 True.

00:22:18.280 There's no lies.

00:22:19.200 It's facts.

00:22:19.500 It's not nice,

00:22:20.880 but women like go with them because yeah. 1.00

00:22:22.880 We lie about the things that society finds important.

00:22:24.540 And women lie about their body count because it works. 1.00

00:22:27.380 Yeah.

00:22:28.000 Not to me.

00:22:28.800 It's so simple.

00:22:29.300 In all honesty,

00:22:30.460 I think women lie more because it's like, 1.00

00:22:32.160 we have the filters on Instagram.

00:22:33.920 We have the caked on makeup.

00:22:35.340 We have the BBLs.

00:22:36.680 But again,

00:22:37.260 men have the cards and they've got the clothes.

00:22:40.120 They've got the,

00:22:40.700 Men have the steroids. 1.00

00:22:41.960 Men have the...

00:22:42.660 I'll tell you,

00:22:43.500 I'll tell you.

00:22:44.040 I've just had so many people come on the show.

00:22:46.600 It's like so many girls come on. 0.90

00:22:48.160 They'll follow me on Instagram.

00:22:49.360 And I'm like,

00:22:49.700 who is that?

00:22:51.780 And they don't look like they're pictures.

00:22:53.480 Yeah,

00:22:53.760 that's true.

00:22:54.780 Men,

00:22:54.940 it's just not the same.

00:22:56.180 They don't do it as much.

00:22:57.040 They do lie about money.

00:22:58.340 I will say that.

00:22:59.520 Yeah.

00:22:59.800 Like,

00:23:00.180 but when it comes to looks,

00:23:02.820 come on,

00:23:03.180 women lie way more. 1.00

00:23:04.140 I mean,

00:23:04.480 I guess in a way,

00:23:05.980 yes,

00:23:06.420 it's just more socially acceptable with women. 1.00

00:23:08.780 However,

00:23:09.300 there are a lot of guys,

00:23:10.460 depending on the spectrum of guy that you're like talking to or dealing with,

00:23:14.740 they are very,

00:23:15.740 they are very physically orientated.

00:23:18.380 So they do go to the gym,

00:23:19.860 whatever it takes to get that buff body.

00:23:22.560 They do have like Botox.

00:23:24.720 No,

00:23:25.100 guys.

00:23:25.600 I'm saying guys do it too.

00:23:27.100 Botox for guys.

00:23:28.340 I don't think so.

00:23:29.260 Yes,

00:23:29.500 you'll be surprised.

00:23:31.200 What type of guys?

00:23:31.940 No way.

00:23:33.000 Going to the gym for a bum or muscles is good.

00:23:35.980 Like BBL.

00:23:37.020 But they do,

00:23:37.540 but they do added extras,

00:23:39.760 but it's so subtle and it's not spoken about because it's,

00:23:42.920 the focus is mainly on women because the beauty industry is funneled for women.

00:23:46.660 Do you genuinely think it's equally common?

00:23:48.880 It's not equally common,

00:23:49.860 but it is common.

00:23:51.020 Do you think it's close?

00:23:51.680 Like the amount of filters,

00:23:52.880 Botox,

00:23:53.540 it's close.

00:23:54.440 No,

00:23:54.520 I'll tell you something.

00:23:55.420 But for a man,

00:23:55.960 I think it's so much not.

00:23:58.100 Come on.

00:23:58.600 From personal experience,

00:24:00.240 a man,

00:24:00.720 all they want to do is have a hair transplant and they hit like 26 hair transplant.

00:24:05.000 That's enough for a man. 0.52

00:24:05.880 They don't feel comfortable talking about it,

00:24:07.840 but I do.

00:24:08.880 I love my hair now.

00:24:11.360 You have one step.

00:24:12.920 Have you ever cheated?

00:24:15.460 Before that,

00:24:16.540 I want to say something.

00:24:17.680 All self-reported data about cheating,

00:24:20.400 money or whatever we speak now are unreliable.

00:24:23.880 You two like social desirability bias.

00:24:26.980 That's it.

00:24:27.480 Yeah.

00:24:27.900 So we cannot really determine.

00:24:29.560 Yes,

00:24:29.880 I have cheated before and I have been cheated as well.

00:24:33.280 What's cheating to you then,

00:24:34.380 man?

00:24:34.640 What's cheating?

00:24:35.460 Well,

00:24:36.060 let's talk about the physical that we started now and then we will go farther.

00:24:40.780 So how did you cheat?

00:24:42.560 Like,

00:24:42.780 how did you meet women you wanted to cheat with?

00:24:44.360 Like I was young,

00:24:46.220 like 16,

00:24:46.960 17.

00:24:47.480 I was DJ.

00:24:48.940 I was in the club.

00:24:50.260 So every night and it was easy.

00:24:52.880 Okay.

00:24:53.300 So you would meet them in person.

00:24:54.780 Yes.

00:24:55.080 Did you ever cheat on dating apps?

00:24:56.540 I never had dating apps.

00:24:57.980 Okay.

00:24:58.240 Did she ever find out?

00:25:00.080 Yeah.

00:25:00.520 All the times.

00:25:03.220 She caught me many times as well.

00:25:05.740 Like red handed. 0.56

00:25:08.400 And what happened there,

00:25:09.760 man?

00:25:09.780 Did you get a kick from that?

00:25:10.740 Many times.

00:25:11.140 Did you get a kick from that?

00:25:11.640 So how did she catch you?

00:25:13.020 Like she would like entering the house or something.

00:25:16.840 Like you would have a girl over. 0.99

00:25:18.420 Yeah.

00:25:19.200 No,

00:25:19.520 no.

00:25:20.660 Or a couple.

00:25:21.680 Okay.

00:25:22.200 And she would come over and what happened?

00:25:24.200 She would kick them out?

00:25:25.680 No,

00:25:26.200 I kicked them out and I stayed with you after.

00:25:28.120 Did you ever have sex with one girl and then have sex with her right after?

00:25:45.340 And she knowingly did that.

00:25:46.600 Yes.

00:25:48.500 And your experience,

00:25:50.560 do women stay after they're cheated on? 1.00

00:25:55.260 Unfortunately,

00:25:55.840 some do,

00:25:56.320 but they shouldn't.

00:25:57.420 If they respect themselves,

00:25:58.660 they should just leave.

00:25:59.660 Yeah,

00:25:59.820 not should.

00:26:00.260 I'm asking what they do.

00:26:01.560 Yeah.

00:26:02.920 Yeah,

00:26:03.420 they stay.

00:26:04.180 Okay.

00:26:04.580 Some of them,

00:26:05.200 they do.

00:26:05.520 Okay.

00:26:05.960 Would you say more stay or more go?

00:26:07.520 That depends.

00:26:10.380 I say more stay.

00:26:11.340 No,

00:26:11.460 thank you.

00:26:12.620 Did you ask them to stay or did they say,

00:26:14.680 I want to stay?

00:26:15.940 Because there's a difference.

00:26:17.260 No,

00:26:17.620 no,

00:26:17.920 they want attention immediately after.

00:26:19.640 No one say,

00:26:20.180 oh,

00:26:20.260 I want to stay.

00:26:21.520 But you,

00:26:21.980 do you ever,

00:26:22.480 do you say,

00:26:22.880 I won't do it again?

00:26:23.680 I'm sorry.

00:26:24.180 I love you.

00:26:24.900 You're the one.

00:26:25.440 Blah,

00:26:25.460 blah,

00:26:25.660 blah,

00:26:25.740 blah,

00:26:25.840 blah,

00:26:25.980 blah.

00:26:26.020 Yeah.

00:26:26.240 I didn't say that.

00:26:27.400 Did you buy them a Porsche?

00:26:28.540 Yeah,

00:26:28.720 but I say I'm a Porsche.

00:26:30.300 Did you buy them a nice penthouse?

00:26:31.500 I like the Gini RS program.

00:26:34.320 Put a ring on it.

00:26:38.240 So I don't understand.

00:26:39.360 So just cause he said,

00:26:40.500 I'm sorry,

00:26:40.880 I won't do it again.

00:26:41.520 That's enough.

00:26:42.160 No,

00:26:42.320 no,

00:26:42.520 no,

00:26:43.500 just,

00:26:43.880 just curious as to,

00:26:45.100 are they so desperate to say that they don't need any reassurance?

00:26:49.140 They just like,

00:26:49.920 I don't care.

00:26:50.560 I'm going to stay.

00:26:51.300 Or,

00:26:51.760 or are you coercing them into staying perhaps saying like,

00:26:55.340 I will never coercing as in,

00:26:57.180 what is course rehearsing,

00:26:58.640 but coercing as in,

00:27:00.060 as in sort of saying,

00:27:01.260 Oh,

00:27:01.680 you've caught me.

00:27:02.220 I'll never do it again.

00:27:03.040 You're the one I want.

00:27:03.780 I don't know what I was thinking.

00:27:05.020 That's kind of lying to them.

00:27:07.320 To engage in them.

00:27:09.420 Maybe he means it in the moment.

00:27:10.440 Maybe he means it.

00:27:11.360 Probably.

00:27:11.860 That's what most guys.

00:27:12.900 My point is women don't really care when they get cheated on. 1.00

00:27:15.900 They don't.

00:27:16.260 And I say this because if you look at,

00:27:17.320 if you look at their,

00:27:19.380 look at,

00:27:19.780 and I'm telling you,

00:27:20.820 I've seen my friends.

00:27:22.780 They could say they care,

00:27:24.220 but when I look at actions,

00:27:25.220 they typically stay.

00:27:26.380 But why do they stay?

00:27:27.660 That's the question.

00:27:28.800 Have you stayed before?

00:27:29.720 Hell yeah.

00:27:30.400 Why do you stay too rich?

00:27:41.460 But the reasons behind it,

00:27:43.680 I mean,

00:27:43.800 there's an evolutionary reason behind it.

00:27:45.620 There's a reason why women stay. 1.00

00:27:47.060 We can try to say biology doesn't matter,

00:27:49.100 but it does.

00:27:49.880 And it's because in the old days,

00:27:51.400 if a guy could take care of other women 1.00

00:27:53.200 and was selected by other women, 0.98

00:27:54.620 that showed that he could take care of you too.

00:27:57.340 And so that's why cheating,

00:27:58.140 it's different for men and for women.

00:27:59.340 Women tend to stay. 1.00

00:28:00.500 What's cheating to you?

00:28:02.640 And in some cultures,

00:28:03.840 they have multiple wives,

00:28:05.320 which is technically.

00:28:06.500 Correct.

00:28:07.060 And I'm saying there's a reason for that.

00:28:08.680 And in some cultures,

00:28:09.780 there's men who,

00:28:10.620 there's women who also have multiple husbands. 1.00

00:28:13.160 What culture is that?

00:28:14.200 It's both.

00:28:14.900 What culture is that?

00:28:15.880 There's matriarchal cultures. 1.00

00:28:17.580 It's just that we don't learn about them.

00:28:18.980 It doesn't mean that they don't exist.

00:28:20.360 There's one in Asia.

00:28:22.060 There's one.

00:28:22.700 What's it called?

00:28:23.380 Sandbox Island.

00:28:24.240 I need to know about this.

00:28:25.260 I've literally put them on my phone.

00:28:26.380 I didn't know about this.

00:28:27.700 I didn't know about this.

00:28:27.760 I didn't know about this.

00:28:28.260 I didn't know about this.

00:28:29.340 But here's the thing.

00:28:31.600 They don't stand the test of time.

00:28:33.020 They don't become big civilizations.

00:28:35.140 But what's a big civilization?

00:28:37.100 8,000 years ago,

00:28:38.620 17 men,

00:28:40.740 or 17 women were reproduced for every one man.

00:28:43.160 Only 40% of men have reproduced historically.

00:28:47.320 How many?

00:28:47.880 70%?

00:28:48.840 No, 40% of men have reproduced historically.

00:28:51.140 Oh, wow.

00:28:51.760 Yeah, 80% of women have 40% of men. 0.82

00:28:53.640 It's always been two women to one man. 0.95

00:28:55.340 Oh, wow.

00:28:55.780 That's good to know.

00:28:56.700 For some people,

00:28:57.600 that's the thing.

00:28:58.700 I feel like in society,

00:29:00.160 just because one thing works for someone

00:29:01.740 doesn't mean it works for everyone.

00:29:03.380 I didn't say that.

00:29:04.040 And I think the different tribes

00:29:05.260 and the different, you know.

00:29:06.080 I have to have a conversation about in generalities.

00:29:09.040 Like, if we,

00:29:09.540 this is why I say it depends,

00:29:10.980 it's subjective.

00:29:11.540 Like,

00:29:11.880 we have to talk about the rule

00:29:13.360 before we can talk about the exceptions.

00:29:15.080 And the rule is women tend to stay more than one do. 1.00

00:29:17.040 But why do they stay?

00:29:18.160 They stay,

00:29:18.640 especially now in this society.

00:29:19.940 Have you stayed before?

00:29:21.220 Have you stayed before?

00:29:22.320 How many boyfriends have you had?

00:29:23.780 I've never been cheated on.

00:29:24.980 How many boyfriends have you had?

00:29:26.600 I'll say only one.

00:29:28.120 Oh,

00:29:28.580 you'd say only one.

00:29:29.560 Only one.

00:29:29.960 That means you've been seeing a lot of guys now.

00:29:31.760 But why are you single now?

00:29:32.700 I'd say four,

00:29:33.520 like,

00:29:34.280 four people,

00:29:35.020 but real relationship,

00:29:37.040 only one person.

00:29:37.460 Wait,

00:29:37.640 so,

00:29:38.000 I have a question.

00:29:39.040 So,

00:29:39.400 you've done,

00:29:40.180 you've done the situationship thing.

00:29:41.900 Yeah.

00:29:42.080 So,

00:29:42.800 what is a situationship?

00:29:43.940 You're a side chick. 0.96

00:29:45.440 No,

00:29:45.960 unless,

00:29:46.440 if he has a mane,

00:29:47.800 then,

00:29:47.900 yeah.

00:29:48.900 I'm saying,

00:29:49.540 I'm saying,

00:29:50.000 when you're in a situationship,

00:29:51.320 it's not.

00:29:51.560 I wouldn't say situationship,

00:29:53.180 but like,

00:29:53.560 you're getting,

00:29:54.000 I was getting to know these people,

00:29:55.320 but then it wasn't,

00:29:56.000 you know.

00:29:56.620 The whole point is,

00:29:57.480 like,

00:29:57.700 you didn't require exclusivity,

00:29:59.620 meaning,

00:30:00.380 he was proud,

00:30:00.900 the reason women stay is because 1.00

00:30:02.180 they can't replace the guy.

00:30:03.460 But again,

00:30:04.320 why is that?

00:30:05.140 Because of financial hardship

00:30:07.040 in society,

00:30:08.400 it's literally less beneficial

00:30:10.700 for a woman to leave 1.00

00:30:11.580 a relationship

00:30:12.080 than it is for a man.

00:30:13.680 But yeah,

00:30:14.120 it's less beneficial

00:30:15.800 for a woman

00:30:16.500 to leave a relationship,

00:30:18.480 but more women 0.98

00:30:19.580 leave relationships,

00:30:20.780 even like you say

00:30:21.720 all the time,

00:30:22.580 70% of divorces

00:30:23.920 are by women.

00:30:24.880 But again,

00:30:25.840 why is it such a high number

00:30:27.700 considering how much

00:30:28.940 they lose

00:30:29.680 in the relationship?

00:30:30.640 Does it not show

00:30:31.720 that there's

00:30:32.500 something missing there?

00:30:34.340 Like,

00:30:34.640 but I think it's because

00:30:36.160 we've told women wrong.

00:30:37.540 Like,

00:30:37.900 we're told that it's

00:30:38.680 about our happiness.

00:30:39.600 Life isn't about happiness.

00:30:40.860 It's about duty.

00:30:41.560 It's about community.

00:30:42.840 And so,

00:30:43.380 when women are unhappy, 1.00

00:30:44.760 they leave relationships,

00:30:45.700 even when there's

00:30:46.380 children involved.

00:30:47.740 But it should be

00:30:48.860 about happiness.

00:30:50.080 You should be happy

00:30:50.780 with the person

00:30:51.400 that you're with.

00:30:52.260 You should feel supported

00:30:53.560 by them emotionally,

00:30:55.120 physically.

00:30:55.680 I think that's unrealistic

00:30:57.300 in a 50-year marriage.

00:30:58.680 Like,

00:30:58.840 people used to be married

00:30:59.700 for 50 years.

00:31:00.920 Do you really think

00:31:01.940 that they were happy

00:31:02.820 for 50 years?

00:31:03.920 Did you know that

00:31:04.480 in the 1950s?

00:31:04.980 They've definitely

00:31:05.020 done a little thing

00:31:06.060 on the side.

00:31:06.880 I do believe that.

00:31:08.340 I think that in the,

00:31:09.720 sorry,

00:31:10.160 did you know that

00:31:10.620 in the 1950s,

00:31:11.760 you know,

00:31:12.160 the main era

00:31:14.080 of stay-at-home moms 0.70

00:31:15.040 and happy families

00:31:16.060 and all of that,

00:31:17.000 there was like

00:31:17.680 a known thing

00:31:19.060 of those women

00:31:20.320 being extremely unhappy

00:31:22.060 because of the fact

00:31:23.440 that they didn't

00:31:24.400 have an out.

00:31:25.520 Like,

00:31:25.820 they kind of felt stuck.

00:31:27.100 That's like,

00:31:27.320 that's kind of

00:31:27.740 the propaganda

00:31:28.380 that they put.

00:31:30.000 There's facts.

00:31:30.680 Most girls I meet

00:31:34.320 go,

00:31:35.020 I want you to have

00:31:35.600 enough money

00:31:35.960 to have to work.

00:31:35.980 I never say things

00:31:36.900 unless I research it,

00:31:38.180 you know?

00:31:38.420 But here's the problem

00:31:39.880 is most of those studies,

00:31:41.100 if you follow them back,

00:31:42.240 it's by these like 0.79

00:31:42.820 feminist gender studies

00:31:44.040 professors that have

00:31:44.780 these universities

00:31:45.520 I only ever do.

00:31:47.020 No, I know

00:31:47.120 that's the problem.

00:31:48.040 Feminists infiltrated 1.00

00:31:48.940 universities in the 1970s

00:31:50.720 and 80s

00:31:51.260 so much so

00:31:51.980 that they made it

00:31:52.460 more subjective

00:31:53.120 rather than objective

00:31:54.180 and so,

00:31:54.700 and so the difference

00:31:55.880 is now,

00:31:56.740 it's like we have women 1.00

00:31:57.480 running the universities

00:31:58.460 and they even talk

00:31:59.400 about how they

00:31:59.860 rewrite history.

00:32:01.240 But what about

00:32:02.080 the facts that you get?

00:32:03.120 If you can't trust

00:32:03.820 anything that we

00:32:04.780 find online,

00:32:05.720 where can we

00:32:06.280 actually find

00:32:07.360 data to back

00:32:08.660 the things that we say?

00:32:10.140 And I think

00:32:11.960 this is the difference

00:32:12.980 between like

00:32:13.600 the right and the left

00:32:14.420 a lot of times.

00:32:15.300 Like,

00:32:15.780 I think

00:32:16.420 you learn over time

00:32:18.320 like which sources

00:32:19.140 tend to be more credible,

00:32:20.540 but in my experience,

00:32:21.940 like I see

00:32:22.400 what's in front of my eyes.

00:32:23.940 Do you know,

00:32:24.280 like sometimes

00:32:24.860 they want to give you

00:32:25.700 a study and say

00:32:26.540 don't look at

00:32:27.520 what's in front of your eyes

00:32:28.460 and I just don't see

00:32:29.400 men being these

00:32:30.100 crazy abusers

00:32:31.180 that are just

00:32:31.620 making women miserable. 1.00

00:32:32.800 But that's your experience.

00:32:34.420 I've seen the difference.

00:32:36.120 If anything,

00:32:36.600 I see it the other way

00:32:37.500 around much more.

00:32:38.920 I disagree.

00:32:40.000 I've seen it

00:32:40.580 completely different

00:32:41.320 on my side

00:32:41.780 and that's my experience

00:32:42.860 and I feel like

00:32:43.520 just because

00:32:44.840 you haven't seen this

00:32:46.540 doesn't make it

00:32:47.800 not true.

00:32:48.700 Like,

00:32:48.880 it doesn't delete

00:32:49.560 other people's experiences.

00:32:51.240 There's hundreds

00:32:51.920 of millions

00:32:52.740 of women on this earth.

00:32:54.480 I guess if we're

00:32:55.640 going to go off

00:32:56.220 of abuse,

00:32:56.860 then I want to see

00:32:57.500 police reports.

00:32:58.700 And that's the issue

00:32:59.420 is the majority

00:33:00.200 of abuse claims

00:33:01.620 are not filed

00:33:02.360 in criminal court.

00:33:03.600 This is true.

00:33:05.920 But why?

00:33:07.460 I'm the first

00:33:08.320 I've experienced

00:33:08.980 on this shit. 0.64

00:33:09.860 I'll tell you

00:33:10.740 why it is.

00:33:11.420 It's because

00:33:11.720 in criminal court

00:33:13.180 it requires evidence

00:33:14.420 and in family court

00:33:16.020 it's on a balance

00:33:16.640 of probabilities

00:33:17.300 meaning if it's 51%

00:33:18.800 more likely

00:33:19.540 that he did it

00:33:20.360 then they will take

00:33:21.300 the woman's side. 0.98

00:33:22.100 So if a woman 1.00

00:33:22.420 cries on the stand

00:33:23.300 she only has to

00:33:24.080 wait,

00:33:24.680 she only has to

00:33:25.200 convince one judge

00:33:26.420 where in criminal court

00:33:27.640 it's a jury

00:33:28.840 of your peers

00:33:29.580 which is a lot

00:33:30.240 harder to sway

00:33:31.260 and that in my opinion

00:33:33.000 is why women 1.00

00:33:33.900 do not file

00:33:34.940 police reports.

00:33:36.320 But how do you

00:33:37.180 sorry,

00:33:37.740 I think they don't file it

00:33:38.900 because they're scared

00:33:39.560 in all honesty.

00:33:40.560 And how do you prove

00:33:41.980 women have use? 1.00

00:33:42.920 There's nothing to prove

00:33:43.340 though.

00:33:43.600 That's why they didn't

00:33:44.160 fight.

00:33:44.500 No, it's not.

00:33:45.340 Guys, I'm from Brazil

00:33:46.240 and he has one of

00:33:47.140 the highest rates

00:33:47.940 of violence against

00:33:48.840 women. 0.81

00:33:49.260 So it depends

00:33:49.680 on where you are.

00:33:50.360 I've done like

00:33:50.940 charity work

00:33:51.600 and working with

00:33:52.200 women. 0.81

00:33:52.880 So depending,

00:33:54.100 guys, look,

00:33:54.800 it depends

00:33:55.260 socioeconomically.

00:33:57.360 These things,

00:33:58.500 they are very different.

00:34:00.400 Maybe in Brazil

00:34:01.200 I'll tell you that.

00:34:02.180 Yeah, no,

00:34:02.820 that's why

00:34:03.300 what we're talking about

00:34:04.500 is it depends

00:34:05.080 on where you are.

00:34:05.380 Even on an international level,

00:34:06.840 the issue is that

00:34:07.520 they've switched

00:34:07.900 to the Duluth model.

00:34:08.880 Now, what is the Duluth model?

00:34:09.880 This was founded

00:34:10.380 by three feminists

00:34:11.460 and one of them

00:34:12.380 even admitted

00:34:13.220 that it was not correct.

00:34:15.560 Like that

00:34:15.900 the evidence

00:34:16.560 that she was seeing

00:34:17.300 working with women

00:34:17.940 that had been abused

00:34:18.760 did not line up

00:34:19.800 with the model

00:34:20.500 that they made.

00:34:21.080 And basically,

00:34:21.580 the model that they made

00:34:22.340 put men 0.96

00:34:23.140 because they have more power.

00:34:24.480 It's like a very

00:34:24.880 feminist worldview. 0.97

00:34:25.740 The men have more power.

00:34:27.100 They are automatically

00:34:27.980 the oppressor.

00:34:28.720 Why do they call the police

00:34:29.760 and they automatically

00:34:30.460 arrest the man,

00:34:31.060 even if the woman's 0.83

00:34:31.780 hitting the man,

00:34:32.260 it's because it's all

00:34:32.940 based off of the Duluth model.

00:34:34.660 And this, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:34:35.300 I've been arrested

00:34:35.780 three times.

00:34:37.000 Three times, man.

00:34:38.320 CID, man.

00:34:39.660 12 hours in the cell

00:34:40.660 for no reason.

00:34:41.240 I just noticed patterns

00:34:42.320 and you see the same patterns.

00:34:43.440 So you're like the number one.

00:34:44.440 You're the number one

00:34:45.500 swiped right man

00:34:46.240 on Tinder, right?

00:34:46.920 Exactly.

00:34:47.160 They always do it

00:34:48.540 to men.

00:34:48.940 They always do it

00:34:49.520 to men with money,

00:34:50.340 power, and status.

00:34:51.160 You can check the reports

00:34:52.080 if you want.

00:34:52.520 I didn't do anything wrong.

00:34:54.760 And that's the problem

00:34:57.880 with the abuse claims

00:34:59.420 is that the system

00:35:00.660 is so skewed one way

00:35:01.840 because it's all based

00:35:02.780 on a feminist model 1.00

00:35:03.760 that men have more power. 0.99

00:35:05.380 But they do have more power.

00:35:07.280 What do you mean?

00:35:07.960 If women only got rights 1.00

00:35:10.380 about a good 60, 70 years ago,

00:35:12.460 how would you say

00:35:13.060 that they don't have power?

00:35:14.380 Especially if...

00:35:15.060 But women have power. 1.00

00:35:15.880 I know women 1.00

00:35:16.880 that are stronger than me.

00:35:17.780 Of course.

00:35:18.160 I'm not saying that there isn't.

00:35:19.440 Yeah, there's definitely

00:35:20.060 a woman that could take men, 1.00

00:35:21.660 you know,

00:35:21.980 even football, sports, whatnot.

00:35:23.380 But it doesn't change

00:35:25.960 the fact that...

00:35:27.100 I've seen angry tricks.

00:35:28.600 Sussex, you can take me out. 1.00

00:35:29.700 How are women oppressed? 1.00

00:35:34.660 Work, motherhood.

00:35:37.160 There are grants

00:35:38.200 that women get paid. 1.00

00:35:39.540 Like, there are special jobs

00:35:40.880 that are for women. 1.00

00:35:42.180 Women get paid 1.00

00:35:42.880 more than men.

00:35:43.660 Of course,

00:35:44.400 but then how did jobs

00:35:46.060 become male-dominated?

00:35:47.900 How did jobs

00:35:48.820 become male-dominated?

00:35:49.940 They became male-dominated 0.57

00:35:51.760 because men refused

00:35:53.100 women to enter. 1.00

00:35:54.420 And then...

00:35:54.920 Why don't women 1.00

00:35:55.680 enter plumbing?

00:35:56.760 They do enter plumbing.

00:35:58.120 Because it's male-populated.

00:36:00.920 And if it's a man...

00:36:02.260 It's less than 3%.

00:36:03.480 It's like even the military.

00:36:05.020 I know you've made points

00:36:05.800 about the military.

00:36:06.940 Women weren't allowed 1.00

00:36:07.800 to serve in the U.S. military

00:36:09.200 like fully up until 2016.

00:36:12.140 So how can you say,

00:36:13.580 oh, why aren't women 1.00

00:36:14.480 in the military

00:36:15.080 when they literally

00:36:15.940 weren't given an opportunity

00:36:17.060 to...

00:36:18.800 I was in the military.

00:36:19.600 It's in the...

00:36:20.860 You started over to 2016.

00:36:22.360 No.

00:36:22.780 Yeah, literally.

00:36:23.420 On all areas.

00:36:25.420 On all areas.

00:36:27.080 I'm not saying

00:36:27.700 they were...

00:36:28.460 I was in the Royal Air Force,

00:36:30.760 yeah,

00:36:31.020 and I had women. 0.68

00:36:31.940 Excuse me, excuse me.

00:36:32.840 One second.

00:36:33.420 Women weren't passing the tests. 1.00

00:36:36.300 The reason why women 1.00

00:36:37.080 started entering more

00:36:38.600 in 2016

00:36:39.160 is because they lowered

00:36:40.000 test scores

00:36:40.740 to allow women in. 0.81

00:36:43.000 But again,

00:36:44.300 it doesn't change the fact

00:36:45.500 that women weren't allowed 0.57

00:36:46.700 in these areas.

00:36:47.700 It's not about being allowed.

00:36:48.960 If you don't pass a test,

00:36:50.440 why should they allow you...

00:36:51.200 But if the test

00:36:51.860 was predominantly made

00:36:53.140 for a specific group

00:36:54.740 because they were

00:36:55.500 the only group

00:36:56.240 that were allowed

00:36:56.980 to do something,

00:36:57.900 of course you would fail.

00:36:59.680 It doesn't...

00:37:00.180 No, the Matrix test

00:37:01.300 is made to get

00:37:02.260 the strongest soldiers.

00:37:04.060 There's been studies

00:37:05.800 of bias

00:37:06.400 on the Matrix system.

00:37:08.360 That's not for me.

00:37:09.620 Just because men 0.99

00:37:10.240 happen to be stronger

00:37:11.260 than women 0.99

00:37:11.780 doesn't mean

00:37:12.580 the tests were designed

00:37:13.560 to...

00:37:14.220 No, no, no.

00:37:14.640 I'm not saying

00:37:15.420 it's because

00:37:16.480 that was the main,

00:37:18.500 you know,

00:37:19.100 the main target.

00:37:21.140 Men were the...

00:37:21.700 Yeah, because they

00:37:22.340 were the only ones.

00:37:23.120 Why would you create

00:37:23.820 a system to...

00:37:24.580 Wait, so I have a question.

00:37:25.800 I have a question.

00:37:26.120 No, they had to protect

00:37:26.860 our country.

00:37:27.920 I have a question.

00:37:29.180 If they say you have

00:37:30.880 to do 50 push-ups

00:37:32.040 to enter

00:37:32.580 and you can't do

00:37:33.380 50 push-ups,

00:37:34.420 how are you oppressed?

00:37:36.020 It's not about that,

00:37:37.760 but that's not

00:37:39.180 as simple as it is.

00:37:40.340 So answer.

00:37:41.440 So then you're not oppressed,

00:37:42.320 you just can't pass the test.

00:37:43.240 No, but if all I've been

00:37:44.440 doing all my life

00:37:45.160 is being at home

00:37:46.100 because the only thing

00:37:47.320 that I can do

00:37:47.980 is be at home...

00:37:49.140 Name one housewife

00:37:50.720 in the media.

00:37:51.840 Name one.

00:37:52.120 One housewife 0.98

00:37:52.880 in the media.

00:37:53.660 I'm talking about them.

00:37:54.520 No, no, no.

00:37:54.540 This is society.

00:37:55.380 Society tells us 0.82

00:37:56.220 to be housewives. 1.00

00:37:56.920 Name one in the media.

00:37:57.840 Name one.

00:37:58.400 One.

00:37:58.900 How did it start?

00:38:00.840 Because society

00:38:01.760 wants us back

00:38:02.820 into the house.

00:38:04.460 I don't understand.

00:38:05.880 This is a big propaganda.

00:38:07.740 This is a big propaganda.

00:38:08.280 Who's in the media?

00:38:09.220 Propaganda.

00:38:09.700 And I could give you

00:38:11.520 many, many more.

00:38:12.600 I know a lot of housewives 1.00

00:38:13.820 and they're happy.

00:38:15.420 They're happy.

00:38:16.300 Kim Kardashian,

00:38:17.360 Cardi B.

00:38:17.880 You're in the media.

00:38:18.840 But also going back

00:38:19.700 to the war,

00:38:20.640 when it was the actual wars,

00:38:22.400 women were serving,

00:38:23.620 women were helping out.

00:38:24.780 When it comes to

00:38:25.520 the...

00:38:25.700 Even here in Britain.

00:38:28.220 What percent?

00:38:29.720 I don't know the percentage,

00:38:30.700 but they were helping out.

00:38:31.420 Because you know

00:38:31.860 it was in my war.

00:38:32.580 Can I say something?

00:38:33.080 Okay, okay.

00:38:33.480 Do you think women 0.99

00:38:34.700 were equally as helpful

00:38:36.180 as men in the military?

00:38:37.620 That's not what I'm saying.

00:38:38.140 No, no, no, no, no.

00:38:38.920 That's not what I'm saying, though.

00:38:40.120 I'm asking you.

00:38:41.360 No, I think...

00:38:41.940 Were they equally as helpful

00:38:43.040 as the men in the military?

00:38:44.520 I think, you know,

00:38:45.360 they helped made weapons.

00:38:48.080 They helped get...

00:38:48.720 They helped the preparation.

00:38:50.680 No, no, no.

00:38:50.880 They helped the preparation.

00:38:52.300 It's a team effort.

00:38:53.380 Who was more helpful?

00:38:53.860 I'm not going to...

00:38:54.480 It's a team effort.

00:38:55.460 Okay, okay.

00:38:56.100 If we need...

00:38:56.280 I think everyone has things

00:38:57.360 that they can do.

00:38:58.280 I'll answer.

00:38:59.260 I want to show you something.

00:39:01.060 Whenever I ask a question

00:39:02.820 that makes women look bad, 1.00

00:39:03.980 women don't answer. 1.00

00:39:05.180 Can I answer?

00:39:05.860 Can I answer?

00:39:08.360 That's when it gets...

00:39:09.700 It depends.

00:39:10.560 It's subjective.

00:39:11.060 No, it's because

00:39:11.940 everyone has a part to play.

00:39:14.500 So it was a puzzle.

00:39:16.020 It's even like

00:39:16.480 everyone in Britain.

00:39:17.500 All right, all right, all right.

00:39:18.100 All right.

00:39:18.360 So let me get this straight.

00:39:19.420 If someone breaks in right now,

00:39:21.280 you guys could equally

00:39:22.760 defend this place.

00:39:24.180 I mean, I would trust

00:39:27.140 one man for the job.

00:39:29.400 God, no, man.

00:39:30.600 That's why I see...

00:39:31.600 One man for the job.

00:39:32.580 I will answer on behalf

00:39:33.340 of here about the army.

00:39:34.760 No, you cannot be as men.

00:39:36.320 You cannot carry the same weight.

00:39:37.780 You cannot fight as hard.

00:39:38.980 That's what I'm saying.

00:39:39.660 I'm saying they contributed

00:39:40.620 so they helped.

00:39:41.340 They were part of the puzzle.

00:39:42.340 I'm not saying they're a strong man.

00:39:43.640 I'm not sure.

00:39:44.680 That's not what I'm saying.

00:39:45.660 But the whole point

00:39:47.060 is only one gender 0.92

00:39:48.400 had to put their life

00:39:49.420 on the line

00:39:50.000 in the front lines.

00:39:51.380 In the front line.

00:39:52.020 But then why?

00:39:52.920 Who created these wars?

00:39:55.000 Who created the needs

00:39:56.260 for these things?

00:39:56.820 It's necessary.

00:39:58.260 Sometimes.

00:39:58.940 So this is incorrect.

00:40:00.020 Women are more likely 1.00

00:40:01.020 to wage war than men.

00:40:02.480 They took the world leaders

00:40:04.480 out of the last 500 years.

00:40:06.220 And when women were in power, 1.00

00:40:08.340 they were more likely

00:40:09.340 to wage war than men,

00:40:10.520 which makes sense

00:40:11.380 because the women aren't fighting. 1.00

00:40:12.880 So it's a lot easier

00:40:13.740 to wage war.

00:40:13.800 I feel like there hasn't been

00:40:14.800 enough women 1.00

00:40:15.820 to make that type of

00:40:17.600 solid argument.

00:40:19.020 There hasn't been enough

00:40:19.580 women in power 1.00

00:40:20.700 to make it.

00:40:21.680 Of course.

00:40:22.340 I'm not saying there hasn't,

00:40:23.660 but enough for as many as men.

00:40:26.200 Can I say something else?

00:40:28.320 Percentages.

00:40:28.860 It's not about the number.

00:40:29.940 It's relative to the percentage.

00:40:32.100 So if you have five,

00:40:33.680 only ten women 0.99

00:40:34.480 that have ever ruled

00:40:35.300 and nine of them wage war

00:40:36.760 and you've had

00:40:37.540 five million men

00:40:38.500 that have ruled

00:40:38.920 and only one wage is war.

00:40:40.060 But that's not true.

00:40:41.040 There's loads of men

00:40:42.120 that have waged war.

00:40:43.080 That's my point.

00:40:44.120 Okay.

00:40:44.340 It's relative to the number

00:40:46.320 of men that have been left.

00:40:46.620 Yeah.

00:40:46.880 If there's a smaller percentage,

00:40:48.740 there's going to be a bigger...

00:40:50.140 Do you get what I mean?

00:40:50.780 If there's...

00:40:51.380 Yeah.

00:40:52.280 Yeah.

00:40:52.600 Do you see how it's like

00:40:54.240 feminists manipulate the stats 1.00

00:40:56.300 to fit their narrative?

00:40:57.940 Something else.

00:40:58.860 You said about male-dominated jobs.

00:41:00.900 Yeah.

00:41:01.040 Because before

00:41:02.600 you were staying home,

00:41:04.480 you were taking care of the kids

00:41:05.780 because you have

00:41:06.280 different qualities as a woman

00:41:07.540 and men who have

00:41:08.720 different qualities as men,

00:41:10.100 as biological men,

00:41:11.260 one second.

00:41:12.340 Yeah.

00:41:12.640 They were going to work

00:41:13.660 many hours to bring the food

00:41:15.140 and keep the house safe.

00:41:18.140 And another thing,

00:41:18.780 since 1972,

00:41:20.380 you have the same rights,

00:41:21.920 equality at job opportunities.

00:41:24.100 So you cannot say about...

00:41:25.560 Because you know what?

00:41:26.380 I know women in industries 1.00

00:41:27.740 that I worked before

00:41:28.660 that they get paid more than men

00:41:30.040 because they work harder

00:41:30.900 and they bring more money

00:41:32.280 on the table.

00:41:33.300 That's what matters.

00:41:34.320 But what about when

00:41:35.420 all the men went to war

00:41:36.980 and all the women 0.92

00:41:37.780 had to go and work

00:41:38.680 into factories

00:41:39.340 and keep Britain,

00:41:40.480 literally keep Britain alive?

00:41:42.320 Because there wasn't anyone...

00:41:43.580 The country would have fallen

00:41:44.660 economically.

00:41:45.260 Even 1% of women 0.69

00:41:46.340 were working during that time

00:41:47.680 that all the feminists 1.00

00:41:48.820 talk about.

00:41:49.300 What percent of women 1.00

00:41:50.140 do you think were working?

00:41:51.640 No, tell me.

00:41:52.680 They held the economy together, right?

00:41:55.040 What percent of women 1.00

00:41:55.760 were working?

00:41:56.420 So how many were?

00:41:57.280 It was like 20 to 30%

00:41:59.020 that were working.

00:42:00.080 So it wasn't even the majority

00:42:01.140 of women that like worked.

00:42:02.560 But it was still a significant...

00:42:04.080 Like it made a difference.

00:42:05.020 I did not say that women 1.00

00:42:07.020 had no use in the workforce,

00:42:08.700 but women are significantly 1.00

00:42:10.580 less useful than men 1.00

00:42:12.460 in the workforce,

00:42:13.300 even in present day.

00:42:15.020 45% of men today

00:42:16.940 have infrastructure jobs.

00:42:18.900 What percent of women 1.00

00:42:19.760 have infrastructure jobs?

00:42:21.460 7%.

00:42:22.060 We want to talk about

00:42:23.300 an unfair pay gap.

00:42:24.940 It's pretty unfair

00:42:25.820 that the pay is even close

00:42:27.580 when men do way more

00:42:29.420 hard jobs in society.

00:42:31.400 Women monetize... 1.00

00:42:32.520 I did a physical job.

00:42:33.160 I'm not talking about you guys.

00:42:35.880 I'm talking about the numbers.

00:42:38.660 So...

00:42:38.920 Yeah, also men,

00:42:40.180 they take more risky jobs

00:42:41.600 and they have more strength

00:42:42.920 and things like this.

00:42:43.680 So they...

00:42:44.440 The jobs that they operate

00:42:45.700 every day,

00:42:46.700 they suffer like more risk

00:42:48.480 than women. 0.99

00:42:49.140 If you take a look

00:42:49.960 at the drivers

00:42:50.800 and things like this

00:42:51.640 and I think we need

00:42:53.480 to find the balance

00:42:54.860 and many things

00:42:55.760 I think there is a feminism 1.00

00:42:57.140 that it gives a lot

00:42:58.400 of advantages to women. 0.99

00:42:59.520 So in the beginning

00:43:00.340 they came with this propaganda,

00:43:02.120 but now it's becoming

00:43:03.080 way too far.

00:43:04.740 I take a lot of actions

00:43:06.060 and I say a lot of things

00:43:06.700 to protect my brother

00:43:07.400 and I have a lot of male friends

00:43:10.460 and many things

00:43:11.700 there is a feminism 0.93

00:43:13.520 that they open their mouth

00:43:14.440 and they do something.

00:43:16.220 But it's very much...

00:43:17.540 For example,

00:43:17.980 I've been to places

00:43:18.700 where women were really 1.00

00:43:19.620 looking for needs

00:43:20.540 and things like this.

00:43:21.900 I didn't see any feminists 1.00

00:43:23.500 there holding their babies

00:43:25.220 or listening to them

00:43:25.880 when they were being raped

00:43:26.760 or things like this.

00:43:28.020 So it's easy to say,

00:43:29.200 oh, I'm a feminist 1.00

00:43:29.720 and, you know,

00:43:30.500 talking about rights

00:43:31.420 when you're like

00:43:32.080 in a very privileged area,

00:43:33.480 but I haven't seen them

00:43:34.960 really going to do

00:43:35.980 their dirty job

00:43:36.840 because I've been there

00:43:37.920 and they were not there.

00:43:40.020 So it's a lot...

00:43:41.260 Very hypocritical,

00:43:42.400 like what's going on

00:43:43.620 nowadays.

00:43:44.000 And they don't come

00:43:44.200 to the WNBA games too.

00:43:46.460 They want the equal pay

00:43:47.540 in sports

00:43:48.140 and I've been waiting

00:43:49.000 for them in the stands.

00:43:50.540 I've been playing

00:43:51.680 for 16 years.

00:43:52.780 They never come.

00:43:53.800 I've been waiting.

00:43:55.440 And also it's about profit

00:43:56.680 when it comes to sports

00:43:57.920 and things like this.

00:43:58.600 If you see like football,

00:44:00.480 most men watching

00:44:01.800 so they're going

00:44:02.480 to give more money, right?

00:44:03.980 And I'm a mother as well.

00:44:05.000 Like,

00:44:05.620 we get paid

00:44:06.640 much more than the guys.

00:44:08.500 And when it comes

00:44:09.200 to football,

00:44:10.080 it happens.

00:44:11.180 Exactly.

00:44:11.620 And where are you...

00:44:13.180 Hold on a minute.

00:44:14.220 I've been 15 years

00:44:15.440 getting paid...

00:44:16.180 Like,

00:44:16.420 girls get paid 1.00

00:44:17.120 well more than us.

00:44:17.920 Why aren't you

00:44:19.060 marching the streets?

00:44:20.180 Go march.

00:44:20.820 Where are the feminists 1.00

00:44:21.600 by your crimes?

00:44:21.900 I was by myself.

00:44:23.300 I was marching by myself.

00:44:24.080 But this is the thing,

00:44:24.880 like feminists just whine. 1.00

00:44:26.540 It's just whining

00:44:27.340 about the pay

00:44:28.140 when we have a lot

00:44:29.100 of privilege in society.

00:44:30.780 You know who owns the most

00:44:32.160 out of all the,

00:44:33.900 like,

00:44:34.440 different groups?

00:44:35.160 I think it's married men 1.00

00:44:36.520 that out-earned.

00:44:37.560 Single men,

00:44:38.660 single women,

00:44:39.480 and married men.

00:44:40.260 And women love rich men.

00:44:42.940 But what's that

00:44:43.780 to do with

00:44:44.540 the quote

00:44:45.200 that I've just made?

00:44:46.340 Do you know what?

00:44:47.100 Do you know what?

00:44:47.520 There was a stat

00:44:48.080 the other day

00:44:48.580 on Tinder.

00:44:49.320 So Tinder released

00:44:50.100 some stats again, right?

00:44:51.260 It's 66% of people

00:44:52.800 that are on Tinder

00:44:54.020 are in a relationship.

00:44:55.620 Wow.

00:44:55.880 Yeah.

00:44:56.860 How did they find that out?

00:44:58.080 Oh,

00:44:58.420 they got their way.

00:45:01.660 So,

00:45:02.420 all right.

00:45:03.740 Back to cheating.

00:45:04.740 Have you ever cheated?

00:45:05.860 Miss Model? 0.97

00:45:06.820 I haven't cheated,

00:45:08.100 but I've been cheated.

00:45:09.300 You've been cheating a lot.

00:45:10.040 You've been cheated on.

00:45:11.580 Yeah,

00:45:11.840 and my brother knew

00:45:12.860 and the girl

00:45:13.960 has the same name as me.

00:45:15.680 So,

00:45:15.820 she was called Barbara.

00:45:17.260 And my brother knew,

00:45:18.420 he was there

00:45:18.900 and he didn't tell me.

00:45:20.100 And there's one...

00:45:20.580 What?

00:45:20.980 Yeah,

00:45:21.340 that's one different thing.

00:45:22.380 I think he paid your brother

00:45:23.320 to say that.

00:45:24.400 That's terrible.

00:45:25.320 His brother was like,

00:45:26.260 he's a good guy.

00:45:27.160 It's all right.

00:45:28.080 That's terrible.

00:45:28.580 But also,

00:45:29.100 I think guys have more

00:45:30.300 like this brotherhood.

00:45:31.640 No,

00:45:31.880 no.

00:45:32.280 No way.

00:45:33.080 It's just brother.

00:45:33.920 That's his sister.

00:45:34.720 He should have told me,

00:45:36.420 yes.

00:45:36.700 If someone was cheating on my sister,

00:45:38.360 I'll go mental.

00:45:39.220 But men,

00:45:40.060 I think they watch more

00:45:42.140 their backs on each other.

00:45:43.660 I just need to reiterate the rules.

00:45:45.460 I know we get carried away

00:45:46.340 in conversation,

00:45:47.140 but please,

00:45:47.480 if someone is speaking,

00:45:48.580 can we all just let them speak?

00:45:50.000 Thank you.

00:45:51.120 Yeah,

00:45:51.380 so I think men has more 0.65

00:45:52.520 like this brotherhood

00:45:53.360 and it just not reflect

00:45:54.420 just on this,

00:45:55.600 but I think like girls

00:45:56.860 should watch more

00:45:57.480 their back on each other

00:45:58.660 and then girls,

00:46:00.060 they compete a lot

00:46:00.840 and things like this.

00:46:01.960 and I see men

00:46:02.880 like having

00:46:03.580 like a true brotherhood,

00:46:05.260 you know?

00:46:05.880 So I think

00:46:06.340 that's also part

00:46:07.960 of like feminism. 1.00

00:46:08.920 I'm a model.

00:46:09.740 I get criticized

00:46:10.660 by other girls

00:46:11.800 because I wear makeup,

00:46:12.840 because this,

00:46:13.400 because that,

00:46:14.540 you know?

00:46:14.840 And first of all,

00:46:15.600 feminism is about 1.00

00:46:16.200 like giving freedom.

00:46:17.120 If the girl wants to do, 1.00

00:46:18.100 okay,

00:46:19.140 you know?

00:46:19.400 So I think nowadays

00:46:20.060 they are fighting

00:46:21.800 against oppression

00:46:22.720 and they were oppressing.

00:46:24.220 Yeah,

00:46:24.520 I do agree with that.

00:46:25.240 You know,

00:46:25.480 it happens a lot.

00:46:26.680 Yeah.

00:46:27.040 So also we as women

00:46:28.520 have to stand up

00:46:29.620 and you know,

00:46:30.220 many feminists, 0.86

00:46:31.020 like they go to

00:46:31.800 a lot of extremes.

00:46:32.720 They're just being puppets

00:46:33.880 of a system.

00:46:35.380 Who is profiting

00:46:36.460 behind of that?

00:46:37.920 Who is leading that?

00:46:38.940 Who is feeding that?

00:46:39.880 Who started this?

00:46:41.700 You know?

00:46:42.320 So I,

00:46:43.660 I think this is going

00:46:45.160 like way too far.

00:46:46.320 I'd say it would get us

00:46:46.620 kicked off, you too.

00:46:49.300 So,

00:46:50.320 anyways,

00:46:51.500 so I haven't cheated,

00:46:54.260 but one thing is that

00:46:55.620 when I felt attracted

00:46:57.680 by someone else,

00:46:58.440 I realized that

00:46:58.860 there was something wrong

00:46:59.640 with my relationship

00:47:00.360 and then I took

00:47:02.940 as an alert

00:47:03.840 and then I,

00:47:05.120 How did you catch him cheating?

00:47:08.060 First,

00:47:08.720 like people talk,

00:47:09.540 it was a small town.

00:47:10.980 So someone said something to you?

00:47:12.460 Yeah,

00:47:12.840 it was a small town.

00:47:13.520 What did they say to you?

00:47:16.020 First people in the party,

00:47:17.980 they saw it

00:47:18.540 and they just said like,

00:47:19.580 okay,

00:47:19.860 he kissed this girl.

00:47:20.880 Where was you?

00:47:22.080 Huh?

00:47:22.480 Sorry to interrupt.

00:47:23.480 But if you saw,

00:47:24.880 if someone saw it

00:47:25.720 in a party

00:47:26.220 and you were,

00:47:26.780 it was like a prom in Brazil.

00:47:28.580 So they were invited

00:47:29.260 like for another male friends

00:47:30.720 of them

00:47:31.160 because my brother

00:47:31.920 was all in the same group

00:47:33.080 and I wasn't invited.

00:47:34.780 Yeah.

00:47:35.060 Oh,

00:47:35.180 he didn't invite you?

00:47:36.320 No,

00:47:36.540 because actually it's selected.

00:47:38.040 So you can't bring

00:47:39.420 like a plus one

00:47:40.240 or something like this.

00:47:41.080 I'll kick off.

00:47:41.720 So you found,

00:47:45.260 they told you

00:47:46.000 and then you confronted him.

00:47:47.280 Did you stay after?

00:47:48.940 No,

00:47:49.520 no.

00:47:49.820 He started to say like,

00:47:51.060 no,

00:47:51.360 that's not true.

00:47:52.280 And I was like,

00:47:52.900 and I'm very realistic.

00:47:53.800 If someone cheated on me,

00:47:54.920 I don't even feel angry

00:47:56.380 or anything

00:47:56.760 because it reflects

00:47:57.820 why you're going to suffer

00:47:58.760 or go crazy

00:47:59.600 or try revenge

00:48:00.320 for someone

00:48:00.740 who doesn't want you.

00:48:02.440 That's very,

00:48:03.260 you know what?

00:48:03.880 So I don't even waste my energy.

00:48:05.460 You know,

00:48:05.680 I'll be,

00:48:06.100 if someone cheated on me

00:48:07.000 and I find out,

00:48:08.600 of course you're going to be sad,

00:48:09.640 but I'm going to be the first one

00:48:10.540 to say like,

00:48:11.200 go leave.

00:48:11.860 You never slept with him again

00:48:13.020 after that?

00:48:13.920 With who?

00:48:14.600 The boyfriend.

00:48:15.820 Ah,

00:48:16.060 this one.

00:48:16.640 Yeah.

00:48:16.960 No,

00:48:17.240 no,

00:48:17.400 no.

00:48:17.600 And I was very young

00:48:18.480 at the time.

00:48:18.880 Did you ever speak to him again?

00:48:21.200 Yeah,

00:48:21.440 yeah.

00:48:21.780 Okay.

00:48:22.220 Still friends?

00:48:23.320 Not friends,

00:48:24.280 but we are from a small town.

00:48:26.120 We have friends in common,

00:48:27.380 you know,

00:48:27.620 just be polite.

00:48:28.300 Okay.

00:48:28.640 And you've never cheated.

00:48:30.500 No.

00:48:31.360 You said you're a model,

00:48:32.840 right?

00:48:33.220 Yeah.

00:48:33.500 Is cheating common

00:48:34.860 amongst models?

00:48:36.440 Because I'd imagine

00:48:37.140 you're among probably

00:48:37.940 like the most beautiful women,

00:48:39.900 like top 10,

00:48:40.480 20% of beauty,

00:48:41.700 right?

00:48:42.460 Like,

00:48:43.020 right,

00:48:43.460 right?

00:48:43.940 So,

00:48:44.420 how come,

00:48:45.320 I'm just curious,

00:48:46.040 how common is it

00:48:46.980 for models to cheat?

00:48:48.240 I think people in the industry

00:48:49.560 and media in general.

00:48:51.440 No,

00:48:51.660 just models.

00:48:53.380 I just,

00:48:54.080 what's the reputation

00:48:55.340 of models?

00:48:56.060 I'm just curious.

00:48:56.780 Stupid.

00:48:58.060 Yeah,

00:48:59.000 it can be,

00:48:59.520 it can be bad.

00:49:00.360 And also like,

00:49:00.840 if you see on the media,

00:49:01.840 if you see any girl

00:49:03.100 scored or something,

00:49:04.500 but they won't say

00:49:05.520 like she's a scored

00:49:06.380 or something else.

00:49:08.100 They say,

00:49:08.500 oh,

00:49:08.760 a model.

00:49:09.680 No,

00:49:10.120 they say a model.

00:49:11.320 No,

00:49:11.540 they say a model.

00:49:11.940 Anyone like this case

00:49:13.080 like with Neymar now

00:49:14.340 with the football.

00:49:15.200 It was a model.

00:49:16.420 No,

00:49:16.520 she wasn't.

00:49:16.980 No,

00:49:17.180 but she wasn't.

00:49:18.420 Is it common

00:49:19.740 for models

00:49:22.540 to get like offered

00:49:24.280 money for sex? 0.94

00:49:25.280 Is that common?

00:49:25.940 I think,

00:49:26.440 yeah,

00:49:26.700 it happens.

00:49:27.680 It happens.

00:49:28.040 It does happen.

00:49:30.380 It does happen.

00:49:31.980 I do modeling as well.

00:49:33.820 And as well as other things.

00:49:35.680 A lot of models

00:49:36.760 get invited on

00:49:37.900 like image trips

00:49:39.460 and like vacations

00:49:41.760 and stuff like that.

00:49:42.580 And from firsthand experience,

00:49:44.940 you go and you do

00:49:46.700 some work out there,

00:49:47.620 but also there are people

00:49:49.020 that are probably

00:49:50.780 sort of wealthy people.

00:49:52.760 I don't know why they're there

00:49:53.840 because they're not part

00:49:54.740 of the modeling thing

00:49:55.600 or maybe they are

00:49:56.400 behind the scenes

00:49:57.140 and there's

00:49:58.560 not the worst,

00:50:00.920 but the weirdest experience

00:50:01.820 I ever had was

00:50:02.560 we had about five models,

00:50:05.380 five escorts

00:50:06.460 and then five like actual,

00:50:08.540 I don't know what they were,

00:50:09.300 but they were definitely

00:50:09.960 down for whatever.

00:50:12.440 And so what would happen

00:50:13.880 is throughout the trip,

00:50:15.440 you would do the shoots

00:50:17.460 in the day or whatever

00:50:18.140 and then in the evening

00:50:19.140 you'd go for dinner,

00:50:19.820 you'd hang out,

00:50:20.380 whatever,

00:50:20.940 and the guys on their trip

00:50:22.640 would try with the models first.

00:50:24.580 If it didn't work,

00:50:25.600 they'd go to the next

00:50:26.560 if it didn't work.

00:50:28.160 That's normal tactics.

00:50:29.780 But that's,

00:50:30.800 and these trips

00:50:31.420 were specifically

00:50:32.300 like formulated like that.

00:50:33.920 Were the guys,

00:50:34.720 were they married or no?

00:50:36.000 I think a couple of them were

00:50:37.320 and some of them not.

00:50:39.260 So where are their wives? 0.97

00:50:40.580 Not on the trip.

00:50:41.340 They're on the trip.

00:50:41.760 Because it's a work trip,

00:50:42.940 right?

00:50:43.400 That's,

00:50:43.720 it's like,

00:50:44.440 yeah,

00:50:44.960 so that's,

00:50:46.520 yeah,

00:50:47.140 that's.

00:50:48.120 And in your experience,

00:50:50.040 are the men

00:50:51.320 that proposition,

00:50:52.640 the escorts,

00:50:53.660 models,

00:50:54.160 whatever,

00:50:54.460 are they typically married

00:50:55.400 or are they typically single?

00:50:58.400 I think mostly single.

00:51:00.300 I think single

00:51:01.080 because they go more out

00:51:02.860 like in these social things

00:51:04.360 and also it happens here

00:51:05.580 a lot in London.

00:51:06.740 I just imagine

00:51:07.360 if I was a rich guy

00:51:08.280 and I wanted to cheat,

00:51:09.160 I feel like an escort would be

00:51:10.300 because they gotta sign them.

00:51:11.120 You don't have,

00:51:12.000 you don't have any like,

00:51:13.080 you don't have any.

00:51:13.540 It's a business transaction.

00:51:14.760 But you don't get no girls 0.99

00:51:15.960 on Instagram.

00:51:16.780 You're like,

00:51:17.000 oh my God.

00:51:17.640 And you know what I saw

00:51:18.860 one guy saying?

00:51:20.120 That sometimes it's cheaper

00:51:21.040 to pay for a escort girl 0.98

00:51:23.320 and it's guaranteed

00:51:24.140 that you're gonna have that

00:51:25.120 in the end of the night.

00:51:26.480 That sometimes

00:51:26.840 taking a girl 0.83

00:51:27.840 and having to invest

00:51:28.680 and this,

00:51:29.100 this and that.

00:51:30.120 So they just go straight away.

JustPearlyThings - July 31, 2023

You Won't Believe Who She CHEATED With

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