Leo D.M.J. Aurini - December 24, 2012


Game & Chivalry


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Length

18 minutes

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119.97891

Word count

2,276

Sentence count

123

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Misogyny

47

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Toxicity

53

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38

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What's the difference between girl game and boy game? What is chivalry and what is girl game? How do they differ and why is it important to learn girl game for men and women? How does it differ for women and how can we all learn to be chivalrous?

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00:00:00.000 so what is game and what is chivalry a lot of people when they hear the term game they think
00:00:16.180 of Neil Strauss of the pickup artists of that whole degenerate club-going subculture I think
00:00:28.140 you guys know me well enough to understand that that's not what I'm advocating when I say that
00:00:33.120 you should learn game quite frankly I read half of Neil Strauss's book and had to put it down because
00:00:39.840 I found it too damn depressing if you want a good analysis of the book I'm going to provide a link
00:00:46.560 down below to the rawness excellent excellent site on personality disorders psychology and he
00:00:55.900 he thinks that he argues that Strauss is a codependent manifesting false narcissism
00:01:05.740 as a result when Strauss and his friends actually meet a truly narcissistic woman they get into a
00:01:13.180 destructive relationship and wind up suicidal it's it's sad I can't read a book like that I can't
00:01:21.560 stare at that sort of ugliness long enough to finish the book I'm afraid so when I talk about
00:01:31.400 game I don't mean wearing a pink boa certainly a little bit of it some of it is pickup lines it's
00:01:38.960 knowing how to start a conversation with a woman but it's a very similar skill to being able to start
00:01:46.300 conversations with people in general there's a huge overlap in the Venn diagrams between game and
00:01:54.640 charisma they're not exactly the same but they're very very similar so to discuss what game is specifically
00:02:04.060 for men let's look at what girl game is how does a girl attract a better quality mate 1.00
00:02:13.480 well in the case of women the most obvious one is makeup makeup makes her look younger it accentuates 1.00
00:02:25.480 the secondary sex characteristics dressing well although there is a trend right now for girls
00:02:32.600 to dress incredibly ugly which is the whole thing unto itself generally speaking a woman that dresses better 1.00
00:02:40.240 will find the better quality mates and the other the last thing a woman can do particularly she is 1.00
00:02:51.220 looking for a a dad not a cad is provide some feminine motherly traits offer to cook for your boyfriend make sure that he has to bring 1.00
00:03:06.460 him food he will pick you he will pick the girl that brings them over bring some food over the slightly hotter girl that 1.00
00:03:14.360 complains about the relate the restaurants that he takes her to so any ladies looking for a husband that's what you do bring him food do his 1.00
00:03:23.340 laundry be sweet and loving not bitchy and he will choose you over the slut anyway what it boils down to is 1.00
00:03:35.460 is us men we are focused on youth and beauty beauty is beauty to the human male is a woman that is more likely 0.89
00:03:47.440 to be fertile and bear healthy children losing weight makeup and having a pleasant demeanor indicating that she'd be a good 0.99
00:03:57.440 mommy to your baby's
00:03:59.440 your baby's that's girl game 0.89
00:04:01.440 so what is game for guys
00:04:03.440 so what is game for guys
00:04:07.440 women are seeking out the best man that they can have 1.00
00:04:12.420 now there are to a certain extent two different strategies there's the best genetics i.e. the sexy sun hypothesis that if they go and get a cad to impregnate them
00:04:25.440 to impregnate them. They'll have a son that will be very good 0.98
00:04:28.920 at sleeping with lots of women. And then there's the dad, 0.60
00:04:32.160 the guy that will stick around and help her raise the babies
00:04:35.680 so that they don't starve to death.
00:04:40.680 Both of these represent two different types of ideal masculinity and they're not
00:04:44.760 necessarily mutually exclusive.
00:04:49.960 Women are hypergamous in that they want the best 1.00
00:04:53.360 man that they can find.
00:04:58.200 And certainly there is that drive to go for the
00:05:02.640 bad boy omega degenerate, the sexy male.
00:05:06.400 But in most women these drives aren't complete opposites. 0.97
00:05:10.880 They want a man that is strong
00:05:14.240 and dangerous to his enemies, that can protect the family, that can provide,
00:05:18.240 but who is also loving and faithful.
00:05:21.160 And it is right that women seek out these traits. 1.00
00:05:26.000 The idea of women going after the pathetically weak, nerdy beta is rather sickening. 0.99
00:05:37.000 This runs into a problem, however, when you create a society where women don't have to pay the consequences for their behavior. 1.00
00:05:48.840 Men value chastity in women. 1.00
00:05:55.840 And this isn't irrational.
00:06:00.680 There is a great deal of evidence that the fewer partners a wife has, the less likely she is to divorce you or cheat on you as a man. 0.86
00:06:10.680 And yet we have birth control and abortion. 0.98
00:06:14.680 Women can do whatever they want with their prime years and supposedly lie to the men about them. 1.00
00:06:25.520 This is the problem. 0.99
00:06:26.520 This is why women are out of control. 1.00
00:06:28.520 Not purely because of their innate drives, but because society helps them pursue these innate drives.
00:06:38.520 It lets them get away with being irresponsible and being unpleasant.
00:06:43.360 It allows them to lie.
00:06:45.360 It bails out their screw-ups. 1.00
00:06:47.360 It gives them free money for having a bastard. 1.00
00:06:52.360 And in such a society, is it any surprise that women choose the cats, the sexiest ones, with no regard for the dad qualities? 0.99
00:07:03.360 The game is largely about understanding what women are and what they like. 1.00
00:07:14.200 They are not perfect angels. 0.99
00:07:17.200 They are human beings, as ugly and venal as men are. 0.99
00:07:23.280 The difference is that when a man sins, he murders, or he steals, or he does something overt.
00:07:31.840 You notice when a man is sinning.
00:07:35.080 When a woman's sinning, she is using relational aggression, aka the bullying of the girl group. 0.98
00:07:45.480 It's not overt.
00:07:48.880 When a guy bullies, he goes and punches somebody.
00:07:51.180 When a girl bullies, they just all silently ignore the girl they're bullying. 0.98
00:07:56.340 When a girl steals, she does it subtly by promising, implying that she's going to have sex with you, but then, you know, getting you to pay for her dinner and ditching you for the bad boy. 1.00
00:08:07.980 When a girl engages in violence, she generally convinces a man to do it for her. 0.95
00:08:15.580 Women are creatures too, they're mammals, they're not pure little angels. 1.00
00:08:21.820 Game is about understanding that, and understanding what traits of masculinity girls find attractive. 0.98
00:08:28.100 They want strength, they want a leader, somebody that they can trust. 0.99
00:08:32.820 This is what a shit test is, in game terminology. 1.00
00:08:38.000 It's a girl giving you shit to see if you're strong enough to fight her. 1.00
00:08:45.320 Because if you can't fight a woman, how the hell are you going to fight a guy? 1.00
00:08:51.240 So she'll subtly insult you, and if you get flustered, if you act like a pussy when a woman insults you, she is not going to be interested in you. 0.99
00:09:02.800 And especially given that we've been raised by women, we're a generation that's been completely pussified, and taught to be ashamed of our own masculinity, learning game is all the more important. 0.99
00:09:18.040 Our grandfathers didn't need game because they got taught to be men the entire time. 0.69
00:09:23.200 We, us modern men of the West, us degenerate, left-wing, feminized males, we need game to be men.
00:09:42.200 The whole definition of masculinity, one not entirely unique to Europe, but certainly found its strongest example in the Middle Ages, is chivalry.
00:10:02.200 And nowadays chivalry is deeply misunderstood.
00:10:08.200 People see these surface elements of chivalry.
00:10:13.200 Holding a door open for a woman, buying her dinner.
00:10:19.200 Being nice to her.
00:10:25.200 Except the original root definition of nice, it comes from the Latin word for knowledge, and it means know nothing. 0.95
00:10:37.200 Know nothing fool.
00:10:40.200 That's what a nice guy is. 0.93
00:10:44.200 It's not the holding the door open that's chivalrous.
00:10:49.200 Chivalry derives from strength.
00:10:55.200 The original root, of course, chevalier refers to a knight in shining armor.
00:11:01.200 Now, a knight, when he holds a door open for a woman, or he censors his language, doesn't swear around women, he's nice to women. 0.99
00:11:13.200 When he does this, it's because he's strong enough to destroy that woman, to rape her if he wants to. 0.90
00:11:22.200 Chivalry is when you take somebody with less strength than you and still treat them courteously. 0.98
00:11:35.200 It's not being nice for the sake of being nice.
00:11:40.200 It's displaying that although I am stronger than you, although I can destroy you, and although I have no obligation to be nice to you, to be pleasant, to be courteous, I am going to be courteous.
00:11:59.200 A lesser cannot be chivalrous to a master.
00:12:13.200 If you hold the door open for your boss, you're not being chivalrous.
00:12:17.200 If your boss holds the door open for you, you are, or rather he is.
00:12:26.200 And so we find ourselves, nowadays, where women have managed to obtain a tremendous amount of power through legislation, through the force of government, through the threat of violence from cops. 1.00
00:12:45.200 One thing that I find particularly disturbing is when women mouth off to men. 0.97
00:12:52.200 And I've seen this far, far too many times.
00:12:55.200 If you want to see a funny video, look up The Way of the Gun, Sarah Silverman.
00:13:01.200 She gets her clock cleaned for mouthing off to a couple of guys. 0.90
00:13:06.200 But essentially, you have these women that will say the most vile, repugnant, ugly, thems fighting words to men, with the assumption that they can say whatever they want. 1.00
00:13:20.200 That they won't get their clock cleaned for saying this. 0.94
00:13:23.200 And if a woman 50 years ago, 100 years ago, spoke like that to a man, she would have been backhanded. 0.99
00:13:31.200 She would have been put down.
00:13:33.200 A chivalrous man would have put her down for being so incredibly rude and unpleasant.
00:13:40.200 Us men know that if we're that rude to one another, we run the risk of getting into a fist fight.
00:13:53.200 Now, we're also an extremely rude and crass society, but I can't tell you how many times I've had some punk say something to me on the street. 0.98
00:14:02.200 And because most guys are pussies, the punk gets away with it most of the time, if I just turn around and look at them and say, 1.00
00:14:08.200 Excuse me, what did you say? 0.99
00:14:11.200 They turtle every single time. 1.00
00:14:13.200 Because they realize, oh, Jesus, I just met a real man and he's going to call me to task for being a mouthy little shit. 1.00
00:14:24.200 Women, on the other hand, are impervious to this. 1.00
00:14:27.200 The women that do mouth off guys, they will just do so and imagine there's no consequences for their behavior. 1.00
00:14:36.200 Because there isn't.
00:14:37.200 If you hit a woman in the modern world, no matter how much she deserves it, you are going to be arrested for assault.
00:14:44.200 If she hits you first and you hit her back, laying her down because I've never met a woman that could take a guy. 1.00
00:14:53.200 Maybe a couple that could take a lot of guys, but, well, both ants of mine.
00:15:02.200 One's a bodybuilder, the other's a cop.
00:15:04.200 And they're pretty tough birds, but they're on the far end of the female bell curve of strength, 1.00
00:15:10.200 and even they could not take down a guy that was particularly studied in violence.
00:15:23.200 That's the thing, ladies. 1.00
00:15:25.200 Men could beat you easily. 0.79
00:15:27.200 We don't because we love women. 1.00
00:15:30.200 Despite all that feminist nonsense about how we hate you, no. 0.97
00:15:34.200 If men hated you, you never would have got the vote. 0.92
00:15:37.200 We never would have allowed feminism in the first place. 1.00
00:15:39.200 We thought you were strong enough and good enough to handle it.
00:15:43.200 You proved us wrong.
00:15:48.200 So if you're a chivalrous man, or if you want to be a chivalrous man,
00:15:52.200 it's about treating your lessors well. 0.96
00:15:55.200 You don't make fun of a retard for being retarded. 0.98
00:16:02.200 You're gentle to the retard. 1.00
00:16:05.200 You don't engage them in intellectual debate. 0.98
00:16:08.200 You could destroy them.
00:16:10.200 There's no glory to be had in destroying a weak opponent. 1.00
00:16:13.200 So you're nice to the retard. 1.00
00:16:16.200 And it used to be with women that we treated women so gently 1.00
00:16:22.200 because we could destroy them quite easily.
00:16:25.200 And us being chivalrous men of the West, we chose not to do so. 0.98
00:16:33.200 But your modern heriton, your modern degenerate woman, 1.00
00:16:38.200 a woman that thinks that she can get drunk at a bar 1.00
00:16:41.200 and she's entitled to go up to a perfect stranger
00:16:44.200 and tell them off because she has a special protected class
00:16:48.200 because she has a bunch of cops that'll come beat you with nightsticks 1.00
00:16:51.200 just because she's a woman and you're a man.
00:16:56.200 Such a creature doesn't deserve chivalry.
00:16:59.200 Such a creature doesn't deserve love and respect. 0.99
00:17:02.200 She's a vile little beast and treat her as such. 1.00
00:17:06.200 I am chivalrous for good women, for ladies, for weak men, for cripples, for retards. 1.00
00:17:18.200 I am chivalrous to those people.
00:17:22.200 Those are the people that I will go out of my way to defend if they need it.
00:17:29.200 But I'm not going to donate money to some charity for single mothers.
00:17:34.200 Single mothers that blew off nice guys every single day in high school 1.00
00:17:38.200 and went for the bad boy, drug dealing jerk that beat them. 1.00
00:17:43.200 I have no sympathy for those women. 1.00
00:17:45.200 I have no chivalry for those women. 1.00
00:17:47.200 Those women have no place under my protection. 1.00
00:17:52.200 And if chivalry is a concept that you aspire to,
00:17:58.200 it only deserves to go to those who have earned it.
00:18:05.200 Would you be chivalrous to a monster?
00:18:15.200 To somebody that abuses their children? 0.99
00:18:19.200 Would you be chivalrous to a conceited narcissist?
00:18:27.200 If you cast pearls before swine, you're spitting on the whole concept of pearls.
00:18:34.200 Chivalry is a wonderful concept, but only for those who deserve it. 0.97
00:18:41.200 Irini out folks. 0.80
00:18:43.200 At least.
00:18:44.200 At least.
00:18:54.200 I'm chasing angels.
00:18:56.200 Screams there.