What's the difference between girl game and boy game? What is chivalry and what is girl game? How do they differ and why is it important to learn girl game for men and women? How does it differ for women and how can we all learn to be chivalrous?
00:00:00.000so what is game and what is chivalry a lot of people when they hear the term game they think
00:00:16.180of Neil Strauss of the pickup artists of that whole degenerate club-going subculture I think
00:00:28.140you guys know me well enough to understand that that's not what I'm advocating when I say that
00:00:33.120you should learn game quite frankly I read half of Neil Strauss's book and had to put it down because
00:00:39.840I found it too damn depressing if you want a good analysis of the book I'm going to provide a link
00:00:46.560down below to the rawness excellent excellent site on personality disorders psychology and he
00:00:55.900he thinks that he argues that Strauss is a codependent manifesting false narcissism
00:01:05.740as a result when Strauss and his friends actually meet a truly narcissistic woman they get into a
00:01:13.180destructive relationship and wind up suicidal it's it's sad I can't read a book like that I can't
00:01:21.560stare at that sort of ugliness long enough to finish the book I'm afraid so when I talk about
00:01:31.400game I don't mean wearing a pink boa certainly a little bit of it some of it is pickup lines it's
00:01:38.960knowing how to start a conversation with a woman but it's a very similar skill to being able to start
00:01:46.300conversations with people in general there's a huge overlap in the Venn diagrams between game and
00:01:54.640charisma they're not exactly the same but they're very very similar so to discuss what game is specifically
00:02:04.060for men let's look at what girl game is how does a girl attract a better quality mate
00:02:13.480well in the case of women the most obvious one is makeup makeup makes her look younger it accentuates
00:02:25.480the secondary sex characteristics dressing well although there is a trend right now for girls
00:02:32.600to dress incredibly ugly which is the whole thing unto itself generally speaking a woman that dresses better
00:02:40.240will find the better quality mates and the other the last thing a woman can do particularly she is
00:02:51.220looking for a a dad not a cad is provide some feminine motherly traits offer to cook for your boyfriend make sure that he has to bring
00:03:06.460him food he will pick you he will pick the girl that brings them over bring some food over the slightly hotter girl that
00:03:14.360complains about the relate the restaurants that he takes her to so any ladies looking for a husband that's what you do bring him food do his
00:03:23.340laundry be sweet and loving not bitchy and he will choose you over the slut anyway what it boils down to is
00:03:35.460is us men we are focused on youth and beauty beauty is beauty to the human male is a woman that is more likely
00:03:47.440to be fertile and bear healthy children losing weight makeup and having a pleasant demeanor indicating that she'd be a good
00:04:07.440women are seeking out the best man that they can have
00:04:12.420now there are to a certain extent two different strategies there's the best genetics i.e. the sexy sun hypothesis that if they go and get a cad to impregnate them
00:04:25.440to impregnate them. They'll have a son that will be very good
00:04:28.920at sleeping with lots of women. And then there's the dad,
00:04:32.160the guy that will stick around and help her raise the babies
00:07:48.880When a guy bullies, he goes and punches somebody.
00:07:51.180When a girl bullies, they just all silently ignore the girl they're bullying.
00:07:56.340When a girl steals, she does it subtly by promising, implying that she's going to have sex with you, but then, you know, getting you to pay for her dinner and ditching you for the bad boy.
00:08:07.980When a girl engages in violence, she generally convinces a man to do it for her.
00:08:15.580Women are creatures too, they're mammals, they're not pure little angels.
00:08:21.820Game is about understanding that, and understanding what traits of masculinity girls find attractive.
00:08:28.100They want strength, they want a leader, somebody that they can trust.
00:08:32.820This is what a shit test is, in game terminology.
00:08:38.000It's a girl giving you shit to see if you're strong enough to fight her.
00:08:45.320Because if you can't fight a woman, how the hell are you going to fight a guy?
00:08:51.240So she'll subtly insult you, and if you get flustered, if you act like a pussy when a woman insults you, she is not going to be interested in you.
00:09:02.800And especially given that we've been raised by women, we're a generation that's been completely pussified, and taught to be ashamed of our own masculinity, learning game is all the more important.
00:09:18.040Our grandfathers didn't need game because they got taught to be men the entire time.
00:09:23.200We, us modern men of the West, us degenerate, left-wing, feminized males, we need game to be men.
00:09:42.200The whole definition of masculinity, one not entirely unique to Europe, but certainly found its strongest example in the Middle Ages, is chivalry.
00:10:02.200And nowadays chivalry is deeply misunderstood.
00:10:08.200People see these surface elements of chivalry.
00:10:13.200Holding a door open for a woman, buying her dinner.
00:10:55.200The original root, of course, chevalier refers to a knight in shining armor.
00:11:01.200Now, a knight, when he holds a door open for a woman, or he censors his language, doesn't swear around women, he's nice to women.
00:11:13.200When he does this, it's because he's strong enough to destroy that woman, to rape her if he wants to.
00:11:22.200Chivalry is when you take somebody with less strength than you and still treat them courteously.
00:11:35.200It's not being nice for the sake of being nice.
00:11:40.200It's displaying that although I am stronger than you, although I can destroy you, and although I have no obligation to be nice to you, to be pleasant, to be courteous, I am going to be courteous.
00:11:59.200A lesser cannot be chivalrous to a master.
00:12:13.200If you hold the door open for your boss, you're not being chivalrous.
00:12:17.200If your boss holds the door open for you, you are, or rather he is.
00:12:26.200And so we find ourselves, nowadays, where women have managed to obtain a tremendous amount of power through legislation, through the force of government, through the threat of violence from cops.
00:12:45.200One thing that I find particularly disturbing is when women mouth off to men.
00:12:52.200And I've seen this far, far too many times.
00:12:55.200If you want to see a funny video, look up The Way of the Gun, Sarah Silverman.
00:13:01.200She gets her clock cleaned for mouthing off to a couple of guys.
00:13:06.200But essentially, you have these women that will say the most vile, repugnant, ugly, thems fighting words to men, with the assumption that they can say whatever they want.
00:13:20.200That they won't get their clock cleaned for saying this.
00:13:23.200And if a woman 50 years ago, 100 years ago, spoke like that to a man, she would have been backhanded.
00:13:33.200A chivalrous man would have put her down for being so incredibly rude and unpleasant.
00:13:40.200Us men know that if we're that rude to one another, we run the risk of getting into a fist fight.
00:13:53.200Now, we're also an extremely rude and crass society, but I can't tell you how many times I've had some punk say something to me on the street.
00:14:02.200And because most guys are pussies, the punk gets away with it most of the time, if I just turn around and look at them and say,