A few days ago, Don Lack posted a brilliant post on his blog, Paradigm Shift, titled, "There is No Game." And it immediately called to mind a few other sayings: There is no spoon, do or do not, there is no try, and God will provide. And it all boils down to this complete misunderstanding of high strategy. Because strategy is this upper level mathematical thing that governs our life. And yet there is a very real pattern that governs the lives of men. And they seem to contradict themselves constantly.
00:09:40.440Despite all our pretensions, we're not creatures of science, we're creatures of magic, of story and narrative structure.
00:09:47.440And so long as we try and be pure creatures of science, we can never rise above it.
00:10:03.440This is what Donlack was trying to say about game. That, for the young man, you need to fake it until you make it.
00:10:14.440You need to walk around in your father's shoes. You need to use these artifices to bolster yourself to finally become the man that you will be.
00:10:33.440When I was a child, I played with childlike things, childlike ideas. Now that I am a man, I have a man's ideals.
00:10:45.440It's no different from that. This isn't saying reject game, or discredit game, but that by trying to fulfill that role of being a man, you're actually using the tools that the man won't use.
00:11:03.440Same way a child plays with toys to become an adult, but an adult does not play with toys.
00:11:12.440That there's this possibility for greatness in us, but eventually we all need to put down a child's playthings.
00:11:21.440I'm going to leave you with two quotes. One from C.S. Lewis, and one from a man whom he mistook for an enemy, Nietzsche.
00:11:41.440Already the new men are dotted here and there, all over the earth. Some, as I have admitted, are still hardly recognizable, but others can be recognized.
00:11:53.440Every now and then one meets them. Their voices and faces are different from ours. Stronger, quieter, happier, more radiant. They begin where most of us leave off. They are, I say, recognizable.
00:12:17.440The earth is free even now for great souls. There are still many empty seats for the lonesome and the twosome, fanned by the fragrance of silent seas.
00:12:28.440Only in narrative do our lives really make any sense.
00:12:44.440Only by not looking for love do we find it.