How to Keep a Wife
Episode Stats
Words per Minute
137.2454
Summary
How do you keep a wife? How does one keep a family together when the divorce rate is so high that many of your kids are going to grow up to be progressives? How do you maintain masculine virtue while dealing with the threat of divorce?
Transcript
00:00:00.000
Over the past several videos, I've been discussing how we are going to restart civilization,
00:00:10.920
Now, I think it's absolutely self-evident that the current system is not sustainable,
00:00:18.500
If you accept this premise that we need to do something if we're going to survive into
00:00:22.300
the future, well, we need to address what and how we're going to do it.
00:00:27.940
Collecting tins of beans and lots of ammo is just not enough.
00:00:34.480
So I've been discussing this over a few videos, and the topic of this one is to address some
00:00:40.360
of the comments and criticisms and challenges that have come up in the comment sections over
00:00:46.900
And what it boils down to is, given that we are living in the present system, and that
00:00:53.980
while it's not sustainable, it's not going to evaporate overnight, given all of that,
00:01:06.640
It's a whole other thing to make sure she doesn't divorce you and ruin your children and ruin
00:01:18.160
Not how do you keep a wife, but how do you keep a wife without losing all of your masculine
00:01:30.260
Because certainly, if you want to keep a wife, the divorce rate, it's 50%, maybe lower than
00:01:37.720
A lot of the people getting divorced have already been divorced, and should we include them in
00:01:47.260
If you want to keep your wife around, earn a lot of money, do whatever she says, and buy
00:01:57.280
Become one of those idiots that says, happy wife, happy life.
00:02:01.380
You keep your wife around, but your kids are going to grow up to be progressives, and your
00:02:16.460
Now, the question is maintaining your masculine virtue, is holding on to your mission while
00:02:23.920
How do you do that without her using the threat of divorce to tear everything apart?
00:02:30.420
And for the record, your masculine virtue does not mean playing video games and getting
00:02:41.620
It doesn't mean acting like a teenager, it means having a mission and a direction and
00:02:50.040
And we've got a two-pronged problem with all of this.
00:02:53.220
The first is the whole divorce industry, massive amounts of money being made off of tearing
00:02:58.780
couples apart, massive amounts of propaganda being funded to convince women that the grass
00:03:05.520
And of course, there's always going to be an excuse.
00:03:08.180
There's always going to be some other guy that's taller than you, that has a fatter wallet,
00:03:13.760
It doesn't matter how alpha you are, there's somebody that's more alpha than you in some
00:03:19.180
And so yes, this current system is very hostile to marriage.
00:03:25.520
And the other problem we have is that men's instincts are misfiring.
00:03:31.380
I mean, good Lord, try and talk to any baby boomer about what's happening with divorce law,
00:03:35.360
what's happening with domestic violence law, what's happening with the affirmative action
00:03:39.360
in the economy, and every single one of them starts white knighting for women.
00:03:42.820
The thing is, we as men are programmed to protect women and to take care of women, and these
00:03:50.980
instincts are being manipulated so that they support feminism even from men who would not
00:04:03.940
Now, this is a problem, to use Myers-Briggs terms, this is a problem that exists separately.
00:04:16.620
Now, the NTs only make up about 15% of the population.
00:04:19.920
They can see what's going on, but the rest of people, the rest of the population, is not
00:04:28.200
And the perfect example of this, look at the protector archetype, the cop archetype.
00:04:37.320
Okay, yeah, you get a few bullies into the mix, you get a few guys with chips on their shoulders,
00:04:40.860
but even those guys, they're not a bully working at a used car dealership, they're a bully that
00:04:49.200
They enter it with good motivations, but because they're not intuitive thinkers, they wind up
00:04:55.320
following the policies and procedures, and maybe 15 years later, they realize that everything
00:05:00.000
they've been doing has only been increasing the anarcho-tyranny.
00:05:03.880
But for the time being, they go along to get along.
00:05:11.160
So yes, we've got this systemic problem, because the majority of people are being led around
00:05:26.380
Well, let me tell you, let me tell you how I know I'm not going to get divorced.
00:05:34.460
And this is related to the look of the samurai I've talked about before.
00:05:41.020
That's what my old martial arts instructor called it.
00:05:43.260
It's when you are willing to go to the mats, when you are not going to back down, when you
00:05:49.520
are not just talking smack, but you're actually going to go all the way, nobody's going to
00:06:00.660
And so what you need to realize about marriage is, in the legal sense, in the technical sense,
00:06:15.720
Even without saying it, if we don't go visit my mother for Thanksgiving, then I could always
00:06:30.200
It doesn't even have to be brought up for it to be a threat.
00:06:33.500
But, and so, here's the thing, how do you respond to that threat?
00:06:40.700
This is where the look of the samurai comes in.
00:06:42.800
This is where, knowing what you are, and what you're willing to do, that's where this comes
00:06:51.880
And listen, I'm not talking, I am 100% not talking about those guys that say, if she ever divorces
00:07:03.500
Listen, 99% of threats are never followed through upon.
00:07:09.020
The guys that say, I would kill her if she ever divorced me, those will be the first guys
00:07:17.220
Chimping out and murdering your wife, even if she did something horrible to you, chimping
00:07:33.680
He holds on to that rage until it's the right time to let it loose.
00:07:38.180
And by the way, I need to give credit to the late A4 over at womens.wordpress.com, because
00:07:49.700
He went through this with a woman that absolutely threatened him with everything, and he took
00:07:55.420
the nuclear option that only men have available.
00:08:10.280
I will not negotiate my rights as a father and my rights as a husband.
00:08:20.100
I mean, yeah, you could sneak into her apartment at night like some sort of thief and...
00:08:32.240
This A4 said, you know, I might not have supervised visits with my kids under the watchful gaze of
00:08:42.320
some overweight, double-digit IQ, immigrant government bureaucrat, but my kids, when they
00:08:51.360
finally tire of the lies from their mother, will know that they had a father who was a man.
00:08:58.060
Now, listen, being willing to go to the mats, whether that means quitting your job, burning
00:09:12.080
down the house, and spending the rest of your life in prison because you won't pay child
00:09:17.020
support, or if it means refusing supervised visits.
00:09:22.080
When you refuse to negotiate, when you refuse to go to the mats, when you refuse to sell out
00:09:37.280
Doesn't mean that you're not going to get into a fight.
00:09:42.320
You might be locked up in debtor's prison for the rest of your life.
00:09:47.520
You might have your kids taken away from you so you don't ever get to see them because
00:10:03.120
And when you are deep down, when you are willing to go that far, 99% of the time, nobody will
00:10:12.480
test you because they can see what you're made of.
00:10:16.520
So that's why I'm confident that I won't get divorced, or if I do get divorced, I'll deal
00:10:35.020
But we get back to this problem with the NTs, about 10-15% of the population, and everybody
00:10:50.780
With our current system, we have to do what's in the best interest of the child.
00:10:58.020
This is the maxim which led to this toxic divorce law that winds up destroying children by having
00:11:06.040
Best interest of the child is what destroyed the family.
00:11:09.020
But when you say this to your average person out there, when you say this to them, best
00:11:17.980
interest of the child, it sounds reasonable, doesn't it?
00:11:20.580
And so it's in the best interest of the child that you negotiate with the divorce lawyers
00:11:27.620
Not realizing that you're selling out your sacred honor.
00:11:45.380
We have leaders that are exploiting our instincts to make us useful little ants in their ant colony.
00:11:50.340
This is why part of the preparation, not just for the future, decades or even centuries down
00:11:59.940
the road, but part of the preparation for what we are doing with our own lives is forming
00:12:10.620
Because when you have this tribe, this organization, this order, and the leader is laying down these
00:12:23.280
standards, that leader can inculcate this attitude, this look of the samurai.
00:12:34.080
Again, your average person out there, when they confront the divorce court, well that's supposed
00:12:39.280
to be the patriarchy, that's supposed to be the trusted leaders of society.
00:12:42.440
If your trusted leader is yelling at you, you must have done something wrong.
00:12:47.320
These same men that are so weak and effeminate in the face of this feminist ginocracy, if you
00:12:57.820
put them onto a battlefield against a Islamic soldier that was raping a 12-year-old girl, they'd
00:13:09.280
The problem is that the rules and regulations, the attitudes, the values of our society have
00:13:16.940
And this is why we need to start forming these larger collectives that hold the members to
00:13:29.020
I mean, hey, you want to divorce one of our members?
00:13:31.440
Guess we can't stop you because we're not the state.
00:13:34.420
But you're never talking to anybody here ever again.
00:13:54.840
And because we have this organization, this nightly order, whatever you want to call it,
00:14:06.360
So good men that maybe they're not cut out for leadership, they are still good men.
00:14:16.180
We are going to inculcate those values in them.
00:14:19.100
We are going to hold them up to the standards of heroes, and we are going to make them into
00:14:23.740
heroes, and folks, that's how, if we build it, they will come, and if we build something
00:14:34.560
good, they won't want to leave, even though, door's right over there, sweetie.
00:14:51.020
We create civilized standards that can't be co-opted by these cheap little catchphrases,
00:14:58.180
and we start lifting up other men to turn them into the best possible version of themselves.