Leo D.M.J. Aurini - January 25, 2017


MGTOW or Marriage？ Everybody Gets What They Want [Requested Video]


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In this episode, I talk about how to figure out what you're supposed to do as a young man, and why it's so important to know what you actually want in life. I also talk about why a young boy should be studying Greek, not Shakespeare.

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00:00:00.000 Thank you.
00:00:30.480 MGTOW or Marriage? 0.93
00:00:32.440 Everybody gets what they want.
00:00:37.440 Yeah, it's a good title for this video.
00:00:40.040 This is another requested video from Yakin.
00:00:43.100 And by the way, I should be all caught up on the requested videos,
00:00:46.800 but if one of them slipped between the cracks,
00:00:50.200 please fire me an email to remind me.
00:00:52.720 I have a lot of stuff in my email folder.
00:00:55.200 So yeah, it's a good title because he's asking me one of those questions
00:01:01.840 that's not exactly a question, and the answer isn't the answer to the question he's asking.
00:01:05.480 But it boils down to the fact that the marriage market is messed up these days.
00:01:13.880 I don't have to tell you guys that.
00:01:15.780 You've seen it firsthand.
00:01:17.680 You know the statistics, the divorce rate,
00:01:20.020 the surplus of males that are in North America,
00:01:23.900 the lack of venues to meet people,
00:01:26.800 the risks involved,
00:01:28.520 the way that nobody seems to be able to relate to anybody anymore.
00:01:32.180 You're aware of all of that.
00:01:35.960 So,
00:01:36.900 the answer,
00:01:38.960 the answer as to what you're supposed to do
00:01:43.200 as a young man,
00:01:47.760 you know, particularly from a Christian perspective,
00:01:53.480 well, it's that you have to figure out
00:01:56.120 what you actually want.
00:01:58.400 And what do I mean by this?
00:02:06.520 See, part of the problem that we have right now,
00:02:10.120 and this is actually a topic I've been thinking a lot about,
00:02:13.500 the bicameral nature of our society, of our minds,
00:02:18.500 is the two extremes that we have,
00:02:22.520 neither of which are good.
00:02:23.560 And right now,
00:02:26.680 it is so easy to indulge in hedonism
00:02:30.940 that it seems like the only other choice
00:02:33.720 is to be a celibate monk.
00:02:38.880 And there needs to be a way
00:02:41.140 to square this circle.
00:02:44.120 And it's knowing
00:02:48.220 what you're actually pursuing
00:02:49.620 what you want.
00:02:54.540 So I'd like to start off by
00:02:56.220 quoting some C.S. Lewis at you.
00:02:58.880 So I'm reading
00:02:59.480 Weight of Glory right now.
00:03:03.640 And he starts off with a
00:03:05.420 metaphor
00:03:06.020 in the first chapter.
00:03:09.180 Talking about how
00:03:10.120 we are designed for heaven.
00:03:15.880 We are designed for God.
00:03:18.580 But at the same time,
00:03:20.000 we are going to seek out
00:03:21.600 earthly pleasures.
00:03:24.680 But we are made that way,
00:03:26.180 and that's intentional.
00:03:27.340 You know, like you're here to live,
00:03:28.740 and part of living is eating food,
00:03:30.280 so you're going to like eating food.
00:03:32.520 You're not going to eat food
00:03:33.480 because you're really pious.
00:03:34.680 You're going to eat food
00:03:35.840 because you're hungry.
00:03:36.960 Now the example he gives
00:03:39.960 specifically,
00:03:41.240 showing kind of,
00:03:41.840 and this kind of leads
00:03:42.800 to that split
00:03:43.720 that I'm talking about.
00:03:46.860 It also gives you an example
00:03:48.060 of how far our society
00:03:49.380 has fallen.
00:03:50.860 Because I'm going to use
00:03:51.500 a different metaphor,
00:03:52.500 and it's going to make
00:03:52.900 a lot more sense.
00:03:55.340 As he talks about how
00:03:56.860 the problem is that
00:03:58.380 with some of the things
00:03:59.640 we pursue,
00:04:00.420 we don't see
00:04:01.180 the ultimate end in them.
00:04:02.980 We can't see
00:04:03.820 the ultimate end.
00:04:04.720 We can only see
00:04:05.820 the short term
00:04:06.780 end.
00:04:08.760 And the example
00:04:10.320 is studying
00:04:11.520 Greek grammar.
00:04:14.620 And so he says that,
00:04:16.060 listen,
00:04:16.240 the reason you study
00:04:16.900 Greek grammar
00:04:17.580 as a young boy
00:04:18.500 is so that you can
00:04:19.800 understand Greek poetry.
00:04:21.840 So you can see
00:04:22.620 how wonderful
00:04:24.020 and illuminating
00:04:25.200 it is.
00:04:26.640 But you can't say that
00:04:28.260 to the young boy.
00:04:30.340 And so the young boy
00:04:32.200 is liable to,
00:04:33.740 you know,
00:04:34.700 slack off and be reading
00:04:36.060 Shelley or Byron
00:04:37.020 or something.
00:04:39.200 And then he concedes
00:04:40.380 that, you know what,
00:04:40.980 Shelley and Byron
00:04:41.580 are also good.
00:04:42.840 Well, let's put this
00:04:44.060 in the modern context
00:04:45.540 because it will make
00:04:46.160 a lot more sense.
00:04:49.220 Young school boy
00:04:50.280 supposed to be
00:04:51.220 studying Shakespeare,
00:04:52.720 instead spending
00:04:53.440 all of his time
00:04:54.020 reading comic books.
00:04:54.960 Greek poetry,
00:04:58.800 forget that.
00:04:59.600 Okay, that's 50 years
00:05:01.020 ago.
00:05:01.320 We have dissented
00:05:01.980 quite a bit since
00:05:03.080 then.
00:05:05.240 But the thing is
00:05:06.160 that to truly
00:05:07.100 even appreciate
00:05:08.280 comic books
00:05:09.420 or well-written
00:05:10.240 comic books
00:05:10.900 that are worth
00:05:11.700 your time reading,
00:05:12.960 you do need
00:05:14.180 to know Shakespeare.
00:05:16.060 You need to know
00:05:17.160 more complex
00:05:18.000 art forms.
00:05:18.740 And so it might
00:05:19.840 be difficult
00:05:21.600 at first
00:05:22.860 when you're
00:05:23.360 reading that
00:05:24.280 or Crime and
00:05:25.540 Punishment,
00:05:27.740 you know,
00:05:28.120 Moby Dick,
00:05:28.680 which I haven't read,
00:05:29.620 I really should.
00:05:31.320 It's difficult
00:05:32.340 to read something
00:05:33.960 that heavy
00:05:34.920 at first.
00:05:37.340 But once you
00:05:38.400 develop that skill,
00:05:39.700 you get to
00:05:40.080 appreciate something
00:05:41.200 amazing.
00:05:42.200 and this is
00:05:44.560 our culture
00:05:45.040 writ large,
00:05:46.080 you know,
00:05:46.480 instead of
00:05:46.860 enjoying
00:05:47.540 filet mignon,
00:05:49.500 instead of
00:05:49.860 enjoying
00:05:50.580 acquired tastes,
00:05:53.780 you know,
00:05:54.340 whiskey,
00:05:55.300 for example,
00:05:56.060 top shelf
00:05:56.540 whiskey or bourbon,
00:05:57.440 it's an acquired
00:05:57.960 taste,
00:05:59.240 we drink light
00:06:00.180 beer,
00:06:01.060 we eat
00:06:01.560 candy bars,
00:06:02.900 soda pop,
00:06:04.000 we go for the
00:06:04.600 cheap,
00:06:05.420 easy,
00:06:06.480 lazy
00:06:06.860 sort of high.
00:06:08.700 And so
00:06:12.780 Lewis says
00:06:13.720 that the
00:06:14.280 reason that
00:06:15.120 you study
00:06:15.660 Greek
00:06:16.180 when you're
00:06:17.520 a young boy,
00:06:18.080 or the reason
00:06:18.540 that you study
00:06:18.960 Shakespeare nowadays,
00:06:20.560 is not because
00:06:21.440 you understand
00:06:22.260 how much you're
00:06:22.900 going to enjoy it.
00:06:24.100 You can't
00:06:24.660 explain that
00:06:25.580 to a young
00:06:26.800 child.
00:06:27.760 So the reason
00:06:28.320 the child
00:06:28.800 does that
00:06:29.660 is because
00:06:31.000 the teacher
00:06:33.300 will reward
00:06:34.320 them for it.
00:06:38.700 And so
00:06:39.460 here's where
00:06:39.880 we get
00:06:40.100 the split
00:06:40.480 mind.
00:06:41.360 Because the
00:06:41.680 split mind
00:06:42.220 is saying
00:06:42.780 that,
00:06:43.180 oh,
00:06:43.300 well,
00:06:43.520 I shouldn't
00:06:44.260 do it
00:06:44.600 just for
00:06:45.580 the prideful
00:06:46.400 reason of
00:06:46.880 being a good
00:06:47.340 pupil.
00:06:48.380 Because,
00:06:48.860 think about it,
00:06:49.420 if you get a
00:06:49.860 kid that's
00:06:50.760 constantly doing
00:06:51.780 whatever teacher
00:06:52.480 says, 1.00
00:06:53.040 always sucking 0.98
00:06:53.620 up the teacher, 0.98
00:06:54.800 you know,
00:06:55.040 we hate that 0.86
00:06:55.660 kid.
00:06:56.660 The kid has
00:06:57.280 apron strings
00:06:57.980 around him.
00:06:58.920 He's a 1.00
00:06:59.380 suck-up 0.99
00:06:59.920 Nancy boy. 0.99
00:07:03.240 And yet,
00:07:03.760 at the same
00:07:04.000 time,
00:07:04.200 that doesn't
00:07:04.520 mean that
00:07:06.100 the motivation
00:07:06.680 is all bad.
00:07:08.700 Take my
00:07:10.600 dog,
00:07:10.980 for example,
00:07:11.520 Space Dog,
00:07:12.180 who you can't
00:07:12.620 see right now,
00:07:13.240 but she's 0.97
00:07:13.700 right here
00:07:14.000 keeping me
00:07:14.420 warm.
00:07:16.480 She takes
00:07:17.240 humble pleasure
00:07:18.220 in making
00:07:20.100 me happy.
00:07:21.740 You know,
00:07:22.020 when I tell
00:07:22.760 her she's
00:07:23.080 been a good
00:07:23.440 girl,
00:07:24.080 when she
00:07:24.820 does what
00:07:25.660 I want
00:07:26.580 her to do
00:07:26.940 and she
00:07:27.300 knows she
00:07:27.840 has,
00:07:28.720 she just 0.65
00:07:29.220 takes pleasure
00:07:29.960 in the fact
00:07:30.740 that I'm
00:07:31.300 proud of her.
00:07:32.480 There's no
00:07:32.840 pride in it.
00:07:33.920 There's no
00:07:34.560 I'm better
00:07:35.780 than all the
00:07:36.220 other dogs
00:07:36.980 the way that 0.99
00:07:38.160 the suck-up 0.97
00:07:39.140 student, 0.98
00:07:40.060 the reason
00:07:40.460 we dislike
00:07:40.980 him is he's
00:07:41.820 saying that
00:07:42.260 I'm better
00:07:42.680 than all the
00:07:43.060 other pupils
00:07:43.620 because teacher
00:07:44.880 said I got
00:07:45.760 a gold star.
00:07:47.780 That's the
00:07:48.380 prideful edge
00:07:49.000 to it.
00:07:50.080 But that
00:07:50.420 doesn't mean
00:07:50.920 the innate
00:07:52.140 emotion.
00:07:53.100 Wanting people
00:07:54.260 in appropriate
00:07:55.400 positions of
00:07:56.500 authority to
00:07:58.040 look favorably
00:07:59.440 upon you,
00:08:00.020 to appreciate
00:08:00.700 you,
00:08:01.100 to recognize
00:08:01.540 you,
00:08:02.200 that's not
00:08:03.040 bad.
00:08:04.000 That is a
00:08:04.840 good thing.
00:08:05.940 And when
00:08:08.500 you engage
00:08:09.460 in that,
00:08:09.820 when you
00:08:10.100 study your
00:08:11.740 Greek literature
00:08:12.860 or your
00:08:13.640 Shakespeare,
00:08:14.620 because you
00:08:15.080 want to
00:08:15.560 impress your
00:08:16.080 parents,
00:08:16.500 you want to
00:08:16.820 impress your
00:08:17.280 teacher,
00:08:18.540 that's good.
00:08:19.860 And then by
00:08:20.300 doing that,
00:08:20.960 you find out,
00:08:21.560 oh, wait,
00:08:22.620 they weren't
00:08:22.940 just making
00:08:23.340 me do this
00:08:24.120 to punish
00:08:25.060 me.
00:08:25.760 Some sort
00:08:26.140 of like
00:08:26.380 Protestant
00:08:26.760 work ethic
00:08:27.420 where you
00:08:27.700 have to
00:08:28.020 suffer.
00:08:28.380 No,
00:08:29.180 no,
00:08:29.560 you bust
00:08:30.680 your tail,
00:08:31.240 you bust 0.98
00:08:31.540 your hump 0.94
00:08:31.820 doing something,
00:08:32.460 and there's a
00:08:33.820 reward at the
00:08:34.600 end.
00:08:34.880 You get to
00:08:35.580 appreciate
00:08:36.340 literature,
00:08:37.520 or you work
00:08:38.380 your tail off, 0.52
00:08:39.340 and you get
00:08:39.780 to have a
00:08:40.700 nice house.
00:08:41.440 You get to
00:08:42.140 feel a sense
00:08:43.240 of accomplishment
00:08:43.920 that you can't
00:08:45.540 really explain
00:08:46.040 to a kid.
00:08:47.540 Okay,
00:08:47.800 you need to
00:08:48.200 instill the
00:08:48.720 work ethic,
00:08:49.360 not for the
00:08:49.840 sake of the
00:08:50.300 work ethic.
00:08:51.680 The kid's
00:08:52.440 doing it to
00:08:52.960 impress you,
00:08:53.740 but you're
00:08:54.240 instilling the
00:08:54.800 work ethic so
00:08:55.880 that they get
00:08:56.620 the reward
00:08:57.420 that they
00:08:58.060 can't
00:08:58.420 understand.
00:09:02.180 And I
00:09:02.740 bring all
00:09:03.080 of this up
00:09:03.440 because this
00:09:04.020 is for
00:09:05.560 the young
00:09:05.860 man.
00:09:06.220 This is
00:09:06.560 what the
00:09:07.280 urge to
00:09:08.980 sex is. 0.61
00:09:11.240 And young
00:09:12.160 ladies as
00:09:12.660 well.
00:09:15.360 Slightly
00:09:15.800 different,
00:09:16.840 they fit
00:09:17.620 together,
00:09:18.280 slightly
00:09:18.540 different parts.
00:09:19.220 The man's
00:09:19.640 more obvious
00:09:20.120 than it's a
00:09:20.440 guy asking
00:09:21.140 this question.
00:09:24.240 So one of
00:09:25.000 the problems
00:09:25.780 that happens,
00:09:27.480 and you see
00:09:28.140 this in the
00:09:28.780 whole purity
00:09:29.940 ring culture
00:09:31.240 is there
00:09:34.940 is such
00:09:35.440 an emphasis
00:09:36.280 on the
00:09:37.360 non-sexual.
00:09:40.120 And they're
00:09:40.760 trying to be
00:09:41.140 such good
00:09:41.820 Christians,
00:09:42.580 and they have
00:09:42.840 purity rings,
00:09:43.700 and they don't
00:09:44.040 hold hands
00:09:44.720 until the
00:09:45.100 third date,
00:09:46.540 that the
00:09:46.900 whole thing
00:09:47.420 becomes an
00:09:48.300 absolute nightmare,
00:09:50.340 and most of
00:09:51.600 those kids
00:09:51.920 don't wind up
00:09:52.540 getting married.
00:09:53.080 you know,
00:09:54.280 or they
00:09:54.900 stay a virgin
00:09:56.060 until they're
00:09:56.960 23 or 24
00:09:58.180 or 25,
00:09:58.980 and then they
00:09:59.400 just snap,
00:10:01.060 and just go
00:10:01.960 hog wild
00:10:02.540 with it all.
00:10:04.760 Because the
00:10:05.440 whole thing,
00:10:07.320 well,
00:10:07.640 it becomes,
00:10:08.060 like,
00:10:08.200 asking a girl
00:10:08.780 out on the
00:10:09.240 first date,
00:10:10.180 in the purity
00:10:11.020 ring culture,
00:10:11.980 is the equivalent
00:10:13.020 of asking her
00:10:13.680 hand in marriage.
00:10:15.280 So it is
00:10:16.000 absolutely nerve-wracking
00:10:17.520 for both sides,
00:10:19.140 and they're
00:10:19.740 repressing the
00:10:20.760 sexual nature
00:10:22.120 of it so
00:10:22.960 hard that
00:10:25.140 it ignores
00:10:26.700 the motivation
00:10:27.180 that's supposed
00:10:27.580 to be there.
00:10:28.980 You know,
00:10:29.260 it's like somebody
00:10:30.080 that is dieting
00:10:31.680 and eating
00:10:32.120 nothing but
00:10:32.740 food they hate.
00:10:34.480 You know,
00:10:34.660 that person's
00:10:35.320 not going to
00:10:35.760 last.
00:10:36.980 It's like the
00:10:39.520 student who
00:10:40.360 is busting
00:10:41.340 their hump,
00:10:43.180 studying something
00:10:45.260 they don't like.
00:10:47.320 You know,
00:10:47.980 and that person,
00:10:48.980 they're not going
00:10:49.400 to last either.
00:10:52.960 the sexual
00:10:54.300 aspect of
00:10:55.340 man and
00:10:55.740 woman, 1.00
00:10:56.420 it's meant
00:10:58.020 to be there.
00:10:59.700 Now,
00:11:00.160 it's not supposed
00:11:00.600 to stop there.
00:11:02.120 That's the
00:11:02.800 problem.
00:11:03.420 So we have
00:11:03.760 half the culture
00:11:04.360 that's just
00:11:04.900 looking at that 0.87
00:11:05.800 juvenile sex 0.59
00:11:07.140 instinct,
00:11:09.100 and,
00:11:09.340 you know,
00:11:10.120 the other,
00:11:10.540 well,
00:11:10.720 not the other
00:11:11.100 half,
00:11:11.500 the other
00:11:11.780 five percent
00:11:12.900 maybe,
00:11:13.960 that is
00:11:14.740 absolutely
00:11:15.540 suppressing
00:11:16.700 it,
00:11:17.480 when it's
00:11:19.080 there for a
00:11:19.860 reason.
00:11:20.120 Now,
00:11:25.020 Sam Sayo,
00:11:26.100 over on
00:11:27.220 Ruch V
00:11:27.780 Forum,
00:11:28.920 had a
00:11:29.460 very interesting
00:11:30.280 thread,
00:11:30.720 I'll link to
00:11:31.040 it down
00:11:31.340 below,
00:11:32.020 where he
00:11:32.460 was talking
00:11:32.900 about the
00:11:34.920 question,
00:11:35.340 does the
00:11:37.140 Bible
00:11:37.580 explicitly
00:11:39.620 condemn
00:11:40.100 casual
00:11:40.540 sex? 0.72
00:11:42.280 And now,
00:11:43.220 Aquinas wrote
00:11:43.980 quite a bit,
00:11:44.400 and he
00:11:44.620 actually went
00:11:45.040 through this
00:11:45.540 with his
00:11:47.140 priest,
00:11:47.520 he's Greek
00:11:47.920 Orthodox,
00:11:48.240 and they
00:11:50.520 really did
00:11:51.060 a lot of
00:11:51.940 research into
00:11:52.820 it,
00:11:53.880 and I think
00:11:54.320 he's still
00:11:54.860 doing some
00:11:55.240 more on
00:11:55.620 it,
00:11:56.260 but when
00:11:57.140 Aquinas was
00:11:57.720 talking about 0.99
00:11:58.200 fornication, 0.99
00:12:00.160 fornication 0.60
00:12:01.240 comes from
00:12:01.680 the Latin
00:12:02.100 fornix,
00:12:03.260 it means a
00:12:03.980 certain type
00:12:04.460 of archway,
00:12:06.240 and fornication
00:12:07.040 meant hiring 1.00
00:12:07.760 the prostitutes 0.99
00:12:09.040 underneath 0.99
00:12:09.920 that archway.
00:12:11.820 The Bible
00:12:12.680 very explicitly
00:12:13.800 condemns
00:12:15.360 homosexuality,
00:12:17.400 bestiality, 1.00
00:12:18.240 prostitutes, 1.00
00:12:22.000 masturbation, 1.00
00:12:23.560 those type
00:12:24.000 of things,
00:12:24.700 but it's
00:12:26.680 not that
00:12:27.960 obvious
00:12:28.860 where it
00:12:30.340 condemns
00:12:30.980 casual
00:12:31.920 sex. 0.96
00:12:32.680 Now,
00:12:33.040 there are
00:12:33.640 reasons to
00:12:35.200 avoid casual
00:12:36.260 sex, 0.67
00:12:36.780 which I 0.99
00:12:37.160 will get
00:12:37.680 to,
00:12:39.120 but it's
00:12:39.820 not as
00:12:40.200 explicitly
00:12:40.720 condemned.
00:12:42.820 And,
00:12:43.380 you know,
00:12:44.080 I hate to
00:12:44.580 say that
00:12:46.560 the church
00:12:47.580 fathers,
00:12:48.580 and so
00:12:49.000 listen,
00:12:49.320 when Aquinas
00:12:49.820 is writing
00:12:50.200 about 0.88
00:12:50.460 fornication, 0.69
00:12:51.620 he's writing
00:12:52.560 about
00:12:53.140 prostitution,
00:12:55.120 okay, 0.99
00:12:55.340 because that's
00:12:56.020 what it
00:12:56.440 was.
00:12:56.900 If you were
00:12:57.240 sleeping
00:12:57.700 casually
00:12:58.300 with a
00:12:58.740 woman, 1.00
00:13:00.300 either her
00:13:01.520 father and
00:13:01.980 brothers were
00:13:02.380 going to 0.96
00:13:02.700 murder you, 0.99
00:13:03.340 or it 0.99
00:13:05.080 was a 1.00
00:13:05.300 prostitute,
00:13:05.780 there weren't 0.88
00:13:07.860 a lot of
00:13:08.740 loose
00:13:09.100 women in 0.62
00:13:10.180 the Middle
00:13:10.420 Ages like 1.00
00:13:10.880 there are
00:13:11.180 now.
00:13:12.500 And this,
00:13:13.740 you know,
00:13:14.160 I don't want
00:13:14.800 to say the
00:13:15.200 church fathers
00:13:15.900 did not
00:13:16.360 anticipate the
00:13:17.740 situation we
00:13:18.420 have today.
00:13:19.160 Because,
00:13:19.600 I mean,
00:13:19.760 certainly we've
00:13:20.280 had birth
00:13:20.700 control before,
00:13:21.600 there's plenty
00:13:22.600 of sexual
00:13:23.520 behaviors that
00:13:24.260 do not lead
00:13:24.760 to procreation,
00:13:26.680 but what we're
00:13:29.080 seeing in the
00:13:29.720 present day,
00:13:30.980 it's not that
00:13:31.960 it's a
00:13:33.320 different kind
00:13:34.180 of thing
00:13:34.780 that we're
00:13:35.700 seeing.
00:13:36.500 It's a
00:13:37.160 different degree.
00:13:39.880 And it's so
00:13:40.880 many factors
00:13:41.860 that on
00:13:42.860 their own,
00:13:44.020 you know,
00:13:44.380 they change,
00:13:45.460 change,
00:13:45.900 change,
00:13:46.360 and then
00:13:46.840 just they
00:13:47.600 change a
00:13:47.940 little bit
00:13:48.180 more,
00:13:48.700 and everything
00:13:49.780 changes.
00:13:51.800 So with
00:13:52.860 the birth
00:13:54.580 control,
00:13:55.600 with mechanization
00:13:57.240 leading to
00:13:58.140 more women 0.98
00:13:58.960 being able
00:13:59.800 to participate
00:14:00.640 in the
00:14:00.940 workforce,
00:14:01.540 because
00:14:01.860 even if
00:14:02.600 you go
00:14:02.840 back to
00:14:03.420 Roman times,
00:14:05.920 women could 1.00
00:14:07.080 not participate
00:14:07.760 in the
00:14:08.660 workforce.
00:14:09.220 They might
00:14:09.460 be independently
00:14:10.060 wealthy,
00:14:10.960 but that's
00:14:11.320 not the
00:14:11.640 same thing
00:14:12.120 as being
00:14:12.660 outside of
00:14:13.280 the home,
00:14:14.140 engaging
00:14:14.540 with strangers
00:14:15.160 and working
00:14:15.620 all of the
00:14:16.080 time.
00:14:18.000 The
00:14:18.440 improvement
00:14:18.900 of communication
00:14:19.760 technologies,
00:14:20.800 etc.
00:14:23.080 Like,
00:14:23.580 all of these
00:14:23.960 things,
00:14:24.220 to a lesser
00:14:24.600 degree,
00:14:25.000 we did have
00:14:25.480 back then.
00:14:25.960 So it's
00:14:26.180 not like
00:14:26.420 the human
00:14:26.700 species
00:14:27.040 has changed.
00:14:28.140 You know,
00:14:28.380 this is
00:14:28.740 some progressive
00:14:30.260 dream that
00:14:31.060 we're now a
00:14:31.540 new species
00:14:32.240 with different
00:14:32.800 instincts.
00:14:33.280 We're not.
00:14:35.020 But these
00:14:35.800 gradual changes
00:14:37.400 have led to
00:14:38.320 a landslide
00:14:40.480 in the
00:14:42.200 sexual marketplace.
00:14:42.960 place.
00:14:45.680 And so now,
00:14:46.660 women can be 1.00
00:14:48.780 outside of
00:14:49.320 the home,
00:14:49.800 in a way
00:14:51.240 that they
00:14:51.500 couldn't be,
00:14:52.340 even back
00:14:52.780 in Roman
00:14:53.100 times.
00:14:53.880 They are
00:14:55.900 engaging with
00:14:56.640 different people,
00:14:57.340 they can travel
00:14:58.180 wherever they
00:14:58.680 want,
00:14:59.160 the streets
00:15:00.300 are a lot
00:15:00.820 safer,
00:15:02.200 etc.
00:15:06.420 So all of
00:15:07.180 these changes
00:15:07.920 have led to
00:15:08.880 women, 1.00
00:15:09.180 and then,
00:15:09.700 of course,
00:15:09.960 social media,
00:15:10.660 giving them
00:15:10.880 attention,
00:15:11.180 etc.
00:15:11.860 These have
00:15:12.460 led to
00:15:12.860 women being
00:15:14.140 far more 0.99
00:15:15.220 promiscuous than
00:15:16.160 they ever
00:15:16.820 have been
00:15:17.440 before.
00:15:18.900 You know,
00:15:19.200 that line,
00:15:20.300 that,
00:15:20.380 I mean,
00:15:23.640 you know,
00:15:24.640 my detractors
00:15:25.240 love to scoff
00:15:25.920 at it,
00:15:26.380 the most
00:15:26.700 degenerate 1.00
00:15:27.220 slut since the 1.00
00:15:27.900 fall of Rome. 0.99
00:15:29.440 You know,
00:15:29.800 and it's like,
00:15:30.160 no,
00:15:30.440 far more
00:15:30.920 degenerate,
00:15:31.560 actually,
00:15:32.300 far,
00:15:32.680 far more 0.93
00:15:33.100 promiscuous,
00:15:34.060 and that's
00:15:34.760 a historical
00:15:35.400 record.
00:15:36.400 Okay,
00:15:36.660 that's a
00:15:36.900 historical fact.
00:15:37.640 And so
00:15:40.660 when Aquinas
00:15:41.460 was writing,
00:15:42.000 yeah,
00:15:42.180 he's talking
00:15:42.600 about
00:15:42.980 prostitution.
00:15:46.180 Now, 0.99
00:15:46.940 for us
00:15:48.360 in the
00:15:48.600 modern time,
00:15:50.800 you know,
00:15:51.040 prostitution
00:15:51.660 is very, 0.51
00:15:52.280 very rare
00:15:52.800 nowadays.
00:15:54.000 It's largely
00:15:55.360 a dead
00:15:56.300 industry.
00:15:57.740 You get the
00:15:58.060 occasional
00:15:58.360 streetwalkers,
00:15:59.340 there's a
00:15:59.600 couple of
00:15:59.900 brothels in 0.99
00:16:00.540 Nevada,
00:16:00.920 but overall,
00:16:03.600 it's casual 0.84
00:16:05.300 sex and 0.98
00:16:06.160 pornography. 0.53
00:16:07.640 And as
00:16:08.960 a man
00:16:09.500 who's trying
00:16:10.040 to live
00:16:10.560 a righteous
00:16:11.480 life,
00:16:12.360 well,
00:16:12.540 which one
00:16:12.940 of these
00:16:13.440 is worse?
00:16:16.620 The funny
00:16:17.380 thing is
00:16:17.740 that the,
00:16:19.260 I'm not
00:16:19.880 going to say
00:16:20.100 the instinct,
00:16:21.820 the assumption
00:16:22.560 being pushed
00:16:24.180 by much
00:16:24.540 of society
00:16:25.100 is that,
00:16:26.240 or by
00:16:26.800 much of
00:16:27.460 churchianity,
00:16:28.400 which is
00:16:28.860 really just
00:16:29.660 feminism,
00:16:30.780 is that the
00:16:31.240 casual sex 0.89
00:16:32.020 is worse 0.84
00:16:32.540 because it
00:16:33.320 makes the
00:16:33.720 female participants
00:16:34.820 feel bad
00:16:35.560 afterwards.
00:16:36.020 However,
00:16:40.960 the
00:16:41.440 pornography,
00:16:43.000 the
00:16:44.840 pornography
00:16:45.280 is actually
00:16:45.740 the one
00:16:46.000 being condemned
00:16:46.480 by the
00:16:46.860 Bible.
00:16:48.460 It's both
00:16:49.280 prostitution
00:16:50.160 and 1.00
00:16:51.480 masturbation. 0.96
00:16:55.860 And now
00:16:56.140 the medieval
00:16:57.520 scholars at
00:16:58.980 the time,
00:16:59.380 they,
00:17:00.320 at the time,
00:17:01.000 they thought
00:17:01.780 that the
00:17:02.420 male seed
00:17:04.100 was a 0.97
00:17:04.840 homunculus.
00:17:06.020 that is a
00:17:06.740 tiny little
00:17:07.400 person.
00:17:08.000 They didn't
00:17:08.760 know that
00:17:09.040 there was
00:17:09.400 an egg
00:17:09.980 in the
00:17:10.200 female 0.86
00:17:10.500 that needed
00:17:10.820 to be
00:17:11.080 fertilized.
00:17:11.660 They thought
00:17:11.860 it was
00:17:12.060 all in
00:17:12.400 the male.
00:17:13.580 And so
00:17:13.820 they argued
00:17:14.920 strongly
00:17:15.360 against 0.90
00:17:15.840 masturbation 0.70
00:17:16.560 because,
00:17:17.200 you know,
00:17:18.180 it was a
00:17:18.540 form of
00:17:19.260 murder.
00:17:20.260 And that
00:17:20.540 they would
00:17:21.560 argue
00:17:21.840 further
00:17:22.400 that there
00:17:23.120 was a
00:17:24.700 succubus
00:17:25.720 that was
00:17:27.220 sapping
00:17:27.860 your vital
00:17:28.380 essence,
00:17:29.140 sapping,
00:17:29.900 eating your 1.00
00:17:30.400 children 0.78
00:17:30.960 when you
00:17:32.640 engaged in it.
00:17:33.360 Which is,
00:17:33.680 you know,
00:17:33.960 another thing
00:17:34.440 that the
00:17:34.680 atheists 1.00
00:17:35.020 would
00:17:35.200 scoff
00:17:35.540 at,
00:17:36.220 and yet
00:17:36.460 when you
00:17:36.720 look at
00:17:37.000 these
00:17:37.160 atheists 1.00
00:17:37.540 that would
00:17:37.800 scoff
00:17:38.120 at it,
00:17:38.900 they all
00:17:39.620 look as
00:17:40.600 if a
00:17:40.880 succubus
00:17:41.340 has been 0.99
00:17:41.620 sucking the 0.51
00:17:42.180 life out 1.00
00:17:42.620 of them
00:17:43.000 their entire
00:17:43.980 lives.
00:17:46.560 So,
00:17:47.220 right off
00:17:48.460 the bat,
00:17:48.860 like,
00:17:49.020 if you,
00:17:50.360 as a young
00:17:50.920 man,
00:17:53.560 listen,
00:17:53.860 your sexual
00:17:54.280 instinct is
00:17:54.920 there for a
00:17:55.400 reason.
00:17:57.740 And you
00:17:58.260 shouldn't be
00:17:58.700 trying to
00:17:59.720 suppress it.
00:18:00.880 Because as
00:18:01.420 soon as you
00:18:01.640 start suppressing
00:18:02.200 it,
00:18:02.640 what are you
00:18:03.000 going to do?
00:18:03.260 You're going
00:18:03.480 to turn to
00:18:03.860 pornography.
00:18:05.400 Okay?
00:18:05.680 And then you're
00:18:06.000 going to go and
00:18:06.660 act like a 0.89
00:18:07.400 limp-wristed 1.00
00:18:07.960 loser anytime 0.99
00:18:09.480 you do talk 1.00
00:18:10.200 to women.
00:18:11.500 And women
00:18:11.940 are the ones
00:18:12.480 that select.
00:18:13.500 They are
00:18:13.780 supposed to
00:18:14.220 select for a
00:18:15.080 mate who
00:18:16.020 is worthy.
00:18:17.400 And if you
00:18:18.520 are literally 1.00
00:18:19.580 a wanker, 1.00
00:18:20.480 they're going 1.00
00:18:20.840 to think
00:18:21.220 you're a 1.00
00:18:21.580 wanker. 1.00
00:18:26.540 So you need 0.94
00:18:27.280 to save that
00:18:27.780 energy for
00:18:28.680 what it's
00:18:29.020 actually
00:18:29.380 intended for.
00:18:31.080 And you
00:18:32.680 need to
00:18:33.140 use that
00:18:34.240 energy to
00:18:35.200 actually
00:18:35.820 approach
00:18:36.800 women in 0.62
00:18:37.760 a confident
00:18:38.420 masculine
00:18:39.380 manner.
00:18:44.180 Now,
00:18:44.700 this doesn't
00:18:45.060 mean that
00:18:45.520 you sleep
00:18:46.680 with any
00:18:47.360 of them.
00:18:48.800 Anyone that
00:18:49.620 you can.
00:18:51.820 For one
00:18:52.520 thing,
00:18:52.960 you have to
00:18:53.880 take her
00:18:54.220 feelings into
00:18:54.840 account.
00:18:56.260 Casual
00:18:56.780 sex does 0.99
00:18:58.000 wind up being
00:18:58.600 very emotionally
00:19:00.080 trying.
00:19:01.080 for women.
00:19:01.980 It really
00:19:02.480 hurts them.
00:19:03.380 They really
00:19:03.780 do feel like
00:19:04.320 they've been
00:19:04.680 used,
00:19:05.100 which is why
00:19:05.460 we're seeing
00:19:05.820 all the
00:19:06.180 date rapes
00:19:06.800 nowadays.
00:19:07.760 Because something
00:19:08.320 bad happened
00:19:08.920 to her.
00:19:10.240 She wasn't
00:19:10.680 raped.
00:19:11.260 She's been 0.60
00:19:11.720 denied the
00:19:12.200 vocabulary to
00:19:13.180 say what
00:19:13.500 happened to
00:19:14.000 her.
00:19:15.060 So it
00:19:15.900 must be
00:19:16.260 rape. 0.99
00:19:25.520 But you 0.98
00:19:26.160 do need to
00:19:26.680 approach
00:19:26.980 confidently.
00:19:28.280 You do
00:19:28.680 need to
00:19:29.240 dance with
00:19:30.660 them.
00:19:31.760 You don't
00:19:32.880 want to
00:19:33.360 be a
00:19:34.320 simpering 0.99
00:19:35.000 weakling
00:19:36.340 around them.
00:19:37.700 Because they're
00:19:38.000 not going to
00:19:38.440 like that.
00:19:39.480 They don't
00:19:40.920 know why,
00:19:41.440 but they
00:19:41.660 know they
00:19:41.900 don't like
00:19:42.300 that.
00:19:43.000 Even the 0.60
00:19:43.320 most brainwashed 1.00
00:19:44.400 feminist does 1.00
00:19:45.040 not like
00:19:45.500 feminist men.
00:19:48.140 And
00:19:48.320 unfortunately,
00:19:49.820 what the
00:19:50.200 church has
00:19:50.540 been teaching,
00:19:51.880 the way it's
00:19:52.720 been teaching
00:19:53.180 the sinfulness
00:19:53.820 of sexuality,
00:19:55.140 is putting it
00:19:56.260 all on the
00:19:56.900 man for having 0.99
00:19:57.720 a sex drive 1.00
00:19:58.580 that God 0.99
00:19:59.360 gave him
00:19:59.800 in the
00:20:00.000 first place
00:20:00.640 to go
00:20:01.200 pursue
00:20:01.460 women. 0.81
00:20:05.740 Now to
00:20:06.360 go back to
00:20:06.880 the C.S.
00:20:08.080 Lewis with
00:20:08.840 the learning
00:20:09.540 Greek,
00:20:10.380 studying
00:20:10.760 Shakespeare,
00:20:12.260 the sex drive 0.83
00:20:14.140 is how you
00:20:14.620 initiate the
00:20:16.260 relationship.
00:20:17.980 That's why men 1.00
00:20:18.740 and women have 0.99
00:20:19.280 that.
00:20:20.760 But it's not
00:20:21.580 where you end.
00:20:22.260 It's not where
00:20:22.560 you're supposed
00:20:23.000 to end.
00:20:23.440 You initiate
00:20:26.080 the sex and 0.93
00:20:27.120 as soon as
00:20:27.480 you start 0.90
00:20:27.760 having sex 0.97
00:20:28.280 with somebody, 0.99
00:20:29.340 there's a
00:20:29.580 natural pair
00:20:30.120 bonding.
00:20:31.240 You're going
00:20:31.860 to want to
00:20:32.620 hang out
00:20:33.740 with them
00:20:34.280 because it
00:20:35.820 feels good
00:20:36.380 to hang out
00:20:36.920 with them.
00:20:37.860 You'll get
00:20:38.260 emotionally
00:20:38.700 intimate with
00:20:39.360 them and
00:20:40.200 eventually
00:20:40.540 children are
00:20:41.080 going to be
00:20:41.420 produced and
00:20:42.000 if you're
00:20:42.260 doing it
00:20:42.640 all right,
00:20:44.340 you're going
00:20:44.920 to have
00:20:45.280 children,
00:20:46.000 you're going
00:20:46.160 to have a
00:20:46.480 family,
00:20:47.160 you're going
00:20:47.340 to become
00:20:47.600 part of a
00:20:48.040 community,
00:20:49.280 you're going
00:20:49.640 to have
00:20:49.800 people that
00:20:50.140 care about
00:20:50.600 you in
00:20:50.880 your old
00:20:51.220 age.
00:20:53.440 But see,
00:20:55.700 we're not
00:20:55.920 looking at
00:20:56.260 any of
00:20:56.580 that these
00:20:57.940 days.
00:20:58.440 Our culture
00:20:59.120 isn't looking
00:20:59.640 at any
00:21:00.180 of that.
00:21:01.020 Our culture
00:21:01.500 treats sex 0.99
00:21:02.180 like you 0.80
00:21:02.640 have lots
00:21:03.100 of fun
00:21:03.340 in your
00:21:03.560 20s and
00:21:04.600 then when
00:21:04.800 you get
00:21:05.000 bored of
00:21:05.380 that,
00:21:05.700 you get
00:21:05.900 married.
00:21:06.800 Except what
00:21:07.400 actually happens
00:21:08.100 is that you
00:21:09.380 get desperate
00:21:10.040 because you're
00:21:11.580 not as young
00:21:12.440 and attractive
00:21:12.900 and not as
00:21:13.480 meeting as
00:21:13.860 many people,
00:21:14.860 so you get
00:21:15.660 married to the
00:21:16.300 first thing
00:21:16.620 that comes
00:21:16.960 along and
00:21:18.260 then you get 0.95
00:21:18.720 miserable and
00:21:20.220 then you get
00:21:20.760 divorced and
00:21:21.680 so on.
00:21:23.440 Now,
00:21:24.260 Anonymous
00:21:24.520 Conservative,
00:21:25.860 sorry,
00:21:26.220 not Anonymous
00:21:26.620 Conservative,
00:21:27.480 the last
00:21:28.120 psychiatrist
00:21:28.660 had a
00:21:30.640 series of
00:21:31.040 posts on
00:21:31.560 this about
00:21:32.680 narcissism and
00:21:33.940 cinema.
00:21:35.960 And one of
00:21:36.980 the things he
00:21:37.320 was bringing
00:21:37.660 up was
00:21:39.060 all the
00:21:39.660 men that
00:21:41.520 instead of
00:21:42.640 sleeping with
00:21:44.140 their girlfriends,
00:21:45.080 they were 0.90
00:21:45.960 watching porn. 0.79
00:21:48.580 You know,
00:21:49.020 and the
00:21:49.480 girlfriend's like, 0.84
00:21:50.660 oh,
00:21:50.780 is it me?
00:21:51.320 Am I not
00:21:51.660 sexy enough?
00:21:52.300 And he's
00:21:53.460 saying,
00:21:53.640 no,
00:21:53.760 no,
00:21:53.900 that has
00:21:54.380 nothing to
00:21:54.700 do with
00:21:54.940 it.
00:21:55.940 It's that
00:21:56.480 all of
00:21:57.060 these men
00:21:58.400 have been
00:22:00.780 living this
00:22:01.220 life.
00:22:02.520 They lack
00:22:03.900 any actual
00:22:05.040 self-coherent
00:22:06.320 identity.
00:22:08.120 So they're
00:22:08.780 trying to
00:22:09.640 cosplay an
00:22:12.180 identity.
00:22:12.640 They're trying
00:22:12.940 to LARP
00:22:13.680 an identity.
00:22:15.460 You know,
00:22:15.620 what do you
00:22:15.880 think's going
00:22:16.260 on with the
00:22:16.660 alt-right
00:22:17.020 currently?
00:22:18.720 It's a
00:22:19.300 bunch of
00:22:20.100 angry guys
00:22:21.180 trying to
00:22:22.040 LARP
00:22:22.500 like they're
00:22:23.400 Teutonic
00:22:23.840 knights.
00:22:24.820 You know?
00:22:28.280 When they're
00:22:28.940 really,
00:22:29.280 they're just
00:22:29.520 angry men
00:22:31.400 in bad
00:22:31.840 marriages or
00:22:32.700 angry sexless
00:22:33.760 men or 0.99
00:22:34.960 what have you
00:22:35.760 because they
00:22:35.980 lack any
00:22:36.440 identity.
00:22:37.120 The SJW,
00:22:38.000 same thing.
00:22:38.640 They are just
00:22:39.020 looking for
00:22:40.000 an identity.
00:22:41.640 That's what
00:22:41.880 everyone's doing
00:22:42.440 nowadays.
00:22:43.820 And see,
00:22:44.120 Hollywood has
00:22:45.320 taught them
00:22:45.920 that the
00:22:47.440 way you
00:22:48.260 get the
00:22:48.560 girl is
00:22:50.000 first you
00:22:50.440 have to
00:22:51.080 kung fu 0.99
00:22:51.680 fight a
00:22:52.100 bunch of
00:22:52.360 bad guys.
00:22:55.080 And so
00:22:55.900 guys these
00:22:56.980 days,
00:22:57.240 they go and
00:22:57.780 they meet
00:22:58.140 a girl and
00:22:59.740 they pretend
00:23:00.780 to be
00:23:01.700 whatever they're
00:23:02.700 pretending to
00:23:03.140 be to get
00:23:03.580 her into 0.58
00:23:03.820 bed.
00:23:05.660 And,
00:23:06.200 you know,
00:23:07.380 it goes
00:23:08.380 along and
00:23:08.780 then they
00:23:09.540 wonder,
00:23:09.880 it's like,
00:23:10.080 wait,
00:23:10.600 I haven't
00:23:11.160 actually fought
00:23:11.720 all the
00:23:11.980 ninjas off.
00:23:12.640 You know,
00:23:12.820 I haven't
00:23:13.140 killed a bunch
00:23:13.580 of pirates 1.00
00:23:14.100 and you're
00:23:14.620 still with
00:23:15.020 me.
00:23:15.260 You know,
00:23:16.060 why are
00:23:16.400 you still
00:23:16.720 with me?
00:23:17.940 Yeah,
00:23:18.120 and so
00:23:18.340 they don't
00:23:18.620 want to
00:23:18.880 have sex 1.00
00:23:19.320 with her 0.99
00:23:19.620 anymore
00:23:20.040 because
00:23:20.920 having sex 1.00
00:23:21.640 with her 1.00
00:23:22.160 reminds them
00:23:23.360 that their
00:23:23.920 whole personality
00:23:24.920 is a 0.99
00:23:25.600 narcissistic 0.99
00:23:26.280 shell.
00:23:33.400 And so
00:23:33.940 this is what
00:23:34.300 I was saying
00:23:34.700 at the
00:23:34.900 beginning of
00:23:35.340 this video
00:23:35.820 is that
00:23:36.260 everybody
00:23:37.140 gets what
00:23:37.720 they want.
00:23:40.720 You know,
00:23:41.240 if you go
00:23:41.800 out looking
00:23:43.440 for 0.98
00:23:43.980 sex
00:23:45.400 qua 0.60
00:23:45.740 sex, 0.98
00:23:46.700 you're 0.83
00:23:47.760 just
00:23:48.100 looking
00:23:48.600 to
00:23:49.060 get
00:23:49.260 your
00:23:49.460 rocks
00:23:49.800 off,
00:23:50.580 you are
00:23:52.640 going to
00:23:52.940 get that.
00:23:54.520 And then
00:23:55.180 there's going
00:23:55.460 to be some
00:23:55.760 person
00:23:56.220 hanging around
00:23:57.700 afterwards.
00:24:00.580 And she
00:24:01.340 is going to
00:24:01.800 be reminding
00:24:02.380 you that
00:24:03.700 whatever you
00:24:04.140 were pretending
00:24:04.980 to be,
00:24:06.320 you're not
00:24:07.340 that.
00:24:07.720 And if
00:24:12.940 you decide
00:24:13.540 to be
00:24:14.080 sexless
00:24:14.960 and pretend 0.97
00:24:16.380 to be
00:24:16.720 some sort
00:24:17.160 of holy
00:24:17.620 martyr,
00:24:18.920 you're going
00:24:20.420 to get
00:24:20.660 that.
00:24:22.020 You're going
00:24:22.740 to remain
00:24:23.120 celibate
00:24:23.740 up until
00:24:24.860 your late
00:24:25.300 20s when
00:24:26.520 some girl
00:24:27.260 that she
00:24:28.100 just made
00:24:28.520 a mistake
00:24:29.160 that has
00:24:29.520 a couple 1.00
00:24:29.860 of bastard 1.00
00:24:30.340 spawn is 1.00
00:24:31.980 going to
00:24:32.540 glom onto
00:24:33.240 you and
00:24:34.800 reward you
00:24:36.500 wearing a
00:24:37.100 hair shirt.
00:24:38.220 And then
00:24:38.640 she's going
00:24:38.880 to divorce
00:24:39.260 you because
00:24:40.320 of that.
00:24:47.760 This high
00:24:48.500 divorce rate,
00:24:49.820 it's because
00:24:51.560 it's what
00:24:51.920 people want.
00:24:53.640 It's because
00:24:54.160 that's the
00:24:54.720 story they're
00:24:55.900 living.
00:24:56.320 They're living
00:24:56.660 somebody else's
00:24:57.400 story.
00:24:58.180 They're living
00:24:58.820 an imaginary
00:24:59.360 story.
00:25:00.960 And so,
00:25:01.800 you know,
00:25:02.060 they wake
00:25:02.780 up next to
00:25:03.420 their wife
00:25:03.940 of 10 years
00:25:04.620 and say,
00:25:05.300 hey,
00:25:05.600 I haven't
00:25:06.040 fought any
00:25:06.440 bad guys.
00:25:07.100 God hasn't
00:25:09.540 downloaded the
00:25:10.300 program into
00:25:10.820 my brain to
00:25:11.820 be the
00:25:12.200 one.
00:25:13.860 And it's
00:25:14.320 all just a
00:25:14.940 reminder of
00:25:16.580 the life they
00:25:17.800 haven't been
00:25:18.460 living.
00:25:27.260 And so,
00:25:28.140 it is a
00:25:28.800 balancing act
00:25:29.540 between both
00:25:30.240 of these.
00:25:33.020 It's,
00:25:33.840 yes,
00:25:34.120 you need to
00:25:34.520 get yourself
00:25:35.280 out there.
00:25:36.720 You need to
00:25:37.720 go out and
00:25:38.560 have fun.
00:25:40.440 But not
00:25:41.160 the nihilistic,
00:25:43.000 destructive fun
00:25:43.960 for the sake
00:25:44.560 of fun.
00:25:46.460 You know,
00:25:47.000 I'm going to
00:25:47.360 go hang out
00:25:47.940 with a bunch
00:25:48.400 of strangers
00:25:49.000 and blitz my 0.58
00:25:50.140 mind on
00:25:50.640 drugs,
00:25:51.580 and, you
00:25:52.100 know,
00:25:52.220 it's Burning
00:25:52.680 Man maybe,
00:25:53.600 I'm going to
00:25:53.900 wear some 1.00
00:25:54.220 stupid outfits, 1.00
00:25:55.540 and I'm going 1.00
00:25:56.320 to call that
00:25:56.820 fun,
00:25:57.400 when that's
00:25:57.760 just self-destruction.
00:25:58.720 And trying
00:26:02.980 to live as
00:26:03.420 a hermit,
00:26:04.840 you know,
00:26:05.000 trying to
00:26:05.700 reject the
00:26:06.800 whole nature
00:26:07.360 of fun,
00:26:08.460 you know,
00:26:08.720 and engage
00:26:09.100 in some
00:26:09.320 sort of
00:26:09.580 Protestant
00:26:09.920 work ethic
00:26:10.680 where you
00:26:11.300 just slave
00:26:12.160 away your
00:26:12.840 whole life
00:26:13.500 without knowing
00:26:14.100 why,
00:26:15.560 that's equally
00:26:16.540 not the
00:26:18.180 solution.
00:26:20.880 You do
00:26:21.740 need to
00:26:22.300 take a
00:26:22.840 holistic
00:26:23.300 approach
00:26:24.840 to things.
00:26:25.520 You need
00:26:25.880 to connect
00:26:26.360 the two
00:26:26.740 halves of
00:26:27.300 the bicameral
00:26:28.020 mind.
00:26:28.720 And you
00:26:30.360 need to
00:26:30.600 figure out
00:26:31.020 what it
00:26:31.440 is that
00:26:31.760 you're
00:26:31.920 doing
00:26:32.220 what you
00:26:32.600 want.
00:26:35.600 You know,
00:26:36.100 the idea
00:26:36.600 of marriage,
00:26:38.600 of having
00:26:39.440 children,
00:26:40.360 is very
00:26:41.040 terrifying.
00:26:42.660 It sounds
00:26:42.960 like settling
00:26:43.600 to the kid
00:26:45.560 in their
00:26:45.780 20s.
00:26:47.360 You know,
00:26:47.820 it's just
00:26:48.020 trying to
00:26:48.320 pick up
00:26:48.600 as many
00:26:48.860 girls as 0.98
00:26:49.260 he can.
00:26:49.720 And ironically
00:26:50.260 enough,
00:26:51.520 you know,
00:26:51.700 because he
00:26:52.020 thinks marriage
00:26:52.600 is settling,
00:26:53.320 it is
00:26:53.580 guaranteeing
00:26:54.320 that he
00:26:54.880 is going
00:26:55.220 to settle
00:26:55.580 someday.
00:26:58.720 And the
00:27:02.160 problem with
00:27:02.500 game is
00:27:03.080 that,
00:27:03.660 you know,
00:27:04.000 on the
00:27:04.160 one hand,
00:27:04.840 you know,
00:27:05.200 guys have
00:27:06.120 just been so
00:27:06.800 beaten down
00:27:07.460 in the
00:27:07.720 schools that
00:27:09.280 they've got
00:27:09.580 no game
00:27:10.020 whatsoever.
00:27:10.520 They've got
00:27:10.740 no idea
00:27:11.260 how to
00:27:11.560 approach
00:27:11.860 women. 0.81
00:27:12.160 They've got
00:27:12.400 no idea
00:27:12.920 what women 1.00
00:27:13.320 want.
00:27:14.640 But the
00:27:15.440 end of
00:27:16.320 game is 0.94
00:27:16.880 just sex 0.99
00:27:17.420 for the 0.92
00:27:17.700 sake of
00:27:18.060 sex, 0.67
00:27:18.800 and the 0.51
00:27:19.880 inevitable
00:27:20.320 result of
00:27:21.320 that is
00:27:22.240 settling down
00:27:22.980 and then
00:27:23.400 divorce,
00:27:24.280 or just
00:27:24.900 misery.
00:27:25.360 you need
00:27:29.640 to be
00:27:29.860 both.
00:27:31.060 You need
00:27:31.340 to,
00:27:32.980 you know,
00:27:33.320 the same
00:27:33.640 way,
00:27:33.860 like the
00:27:34.100 school kid
00:27:34.960 needs to
00:27:36.080 be working,
00:27:38.260 like they
00:27:38.500 should be
00:27:38.900 trying to
00:27:39.280 earn a
00:27:40.640 good grade,
00:27:41.660 the respect
00:27:43.160 and admiration
00:27:44.360 of their
00:27:45.440 parents and
00:27:46.460 teachers.
00:27:48.000 But they
00:27:48.680 also need
00:27:49.420 to be in
00:27:50.320 education for
00:27:51.620 the sake of
00:27:53.120 education,
00:27:53.600 even if they
00:27:54.040 can't completely
00:27:54.780 understand
00:27:55.280 it just
00:27:56.520 yet.
00:27:59.960 Now the
00:28:00.760 part where
00:28:01.020 this analogy
00:28:01.560 breaks down
00:28:02.260 is that
00:28:03.340 the school
00:28:05.180 system,
00:28:05.860 theoretically,
00:28:07.640 guides you
00:28:08.600 towards that
00:28:10.140 grander
00:28:10.800 goal.
00:28:12.560 Our society
00:28:13.220 doesn't
00:28:13.900 guide anybody
00:28:14.900 to any
00:28:15.360 goal anymore.
00:28:20.040 So you
00:28:21.040 have to do
00:28:21.520 that.
00:28:21.680 You have to
00:28:22.060 be looking
00:28:22.440 forward to
00:28:24.080 that future
00:28:24.660 of marriage,
00:28:25.280 even though
00:28:25.660 you can't
00:28:26.180 understand it
00:28:26.720 yet.
00:28:26.960 You're not
00:28:27.560 old enough
00:28:28.140 to really
00:28:29.240 understand it
00:28:30.300 just yet.
00:28:32.460 You know,
00:28:32.700 like maybe
00:28:32.980 by 20
00:28:33.520 you might
00:28:34.060 be.
00:28:35.300 It's unlikely
00:28:36.240 because,
00:28:37.220 you know,
00:28:37.620 we're all
00:28:38.440 stunted
00:28:38.840 teenagers
00:28:39.520 these days.
00:28:41.060 But to the
00:28:41.560 14-year-old,
00:28:42.340 it sounds
00:28:42.640 absolutely
00:28:43.040 terrifying.
00:28:43.700 He just
00:28:43.920 wants to
00:28:44.200 be around
00:28:44.520 a pretty
00:28:44.820 girl.
00:28:48.320 But you
00:28:48.880 need to
00:28:49.120 do your
00:28:49.360 best to
00:28:49.720 think about
00:28:50.300 the long
00:28:50.740 term.
00:28:51.040 To look
00:28:52.040 at her
00:28:52.640 not as
00:28:53.900 an
00:28:55.620 accomplishment,
00:28:57.480 not as
00:28:58.280 a reward.
00:29:01.000 You know,
00:29:01.220 like as I
00:29:01.760 said in
00:29:02.440 another video
00:29:03.400 not too
00:29:04.140 long ago,
00:29:05.720 the hero's
00:29:08.500 journey
00:29:09.020 stops
00:29:10.740 halfway.
00:29:12.720 You know,
00:29:13.100 introduction
00:29:16.200 of the
00:29:16.580 protagonist,
00:29:17.460 refusal to
00:29:18.280 adventure,
00:29:19.140 mentor,
00:29:19.740 etc.
00:29:20.220 And then
00:29:20.660 it stops
00:29:21.420 at the
00:29:22.460 part where
00:29:24.040 they get
00:29:24.400 the elixir,
00:29:25.380 where they
00:29:25.780 get the
00:29:26.120 girl,
00:29:26.640 and does
00:29:26.960 not have
00:29:27.360 the return
00:29:28.060 from the
00:29:29.220 underworld.
00:29:32.000 Again,
00:29:32.540 it's
00:29:32.700 stunted,
00:29:33.640 okay?
00:29:33.900 It's
00:29:34.100 bicameral.
00:29:37.420 So you
00:29:38.020 need to be
00:29:38.300 looking at
00:29:38.760 that return
00:29:39.340 from the
00:29:39.680 underworld.
00:29:40.180 Yes,
00:29:40.380 you should
00:29:40.600 be pursuing
00:29:41.280 women 1.00
00:29:42.080 passionately
00:29:43.840 the way
00:29:44.480 a man
00:29:44.760 is supposed
00:29:45.180 to.
00:29:48.920 And,
00:29:49.600 you know,
00:29:50.760 if a few
00:29:51.060 things happen
00:29:51.600 along the
00:29:52.080 way,
00:29:52.780 you know,
00:29:53.140 it's a lot
00:29:53.960 better than
00:29:54.580 looking at
00:29:55.360 pornography.
00:29:56.400 And,
00:29:56.740 I mean,
00:29:57.700 Godspeed if
00:29:58.440 you've managed
00:29:58.900 to kick
00:29:59.260 that, 0.89
00:29:59.920 okay?
00:30:00.240 It's
00:30:00.480 something I
00:30:01.420 think every
00:30:01.980 guy under
00:30:03.820 the age of
00:30:04.640 60 struggles
00:30:06.260 with,
00:30:06.700 because it's
00:30:07.120 just so
00:30:07.780 universally
00:30:08.760 available.
00:30:12.020 But,
00:30:12.460 yeah,
00:30:12.560 if something
00:30:12.880 happens along
00:30:13.540 the way,
00:30:14.140 it's,
00:30:14.480 listen,
00:30:17.160 you can
00:30:17.360 always go
00:30:17.660 to confession,
00:30:18.520 all right?
00:30:18.960 I wish that
00:30:19.460 baptism was an 0.71
00:30:20.220 immediate
00:30:20.520 transformation of
00:30:21.380 the soul,
00:30:22.460 but maybe we're
00:30:24.380 just not good
00:30:24.900 enough for that,
00:30:26.400 I guess.
00:30:28.560 Yeah,
00:30:29.000 I'd much
00:30:29.480 rather you
00:30:29.860 were actually
00:30:30.260 there,
00:30:30.680 you know,
00:30:31.020 kissing pretty
00:30:31.560 girls than 0.99
00:30:33.040 whipping yourself
00:30:34.700 for having
00:30:35.060 desires in the
00:30:35.700 first place.
00:30:38.720 But look at
00:30:39.380 her as a
00:30:39.700 person.
00:30:41.280 You know,
00:30:41.540 if you're
00:30:42.200 worried about
00:30:42.780 falling into
00:30:43.860 hedonism,
00:30:45.880 the resistance
00:30:46.800 to that is
00:30:47.840 not to deny
00:30:48.600 the sexual
00:30:49.500 urge at all,
00:30:50.440 to try and
00:30:51.160 pretend that
00:30:51.520 you don't have
00:30:52.060 one,
00:30:52.580 only to have
00:30:53.100 it,
00:30:53.920 you know,
00:30:54.340 you crack and 0.86
00:30:55.080 you look at a
00:30:55.440 bunch of
00:30:55.620 terrible pornography,
00:30:56.920 which that
00:30:57.560 actually does
00:30:58.040 warp you, 0.94
00:30:58.580 that actually 0.99
00:30:58.900 does suck the
00:30:59.580 energy out of
00:31:00.060 your life.
00:31:00.420 the solution
00:31:02.420 is to actually
00:31:02.880 look at her
00:31:03.420 as a human
00:31:03.860 being,
00:31:05.000 actually see
00:31:05.660 her as a
00:31:06.360 person with
00:31:07.340 hopes and
00:31:08.460 desires and,
00:31:10.200 you know,
00:31:11.020 a good life
00:31:12.060 she could live
00:31:12.760 or a terrible
00:31:13.440 life she could
00:31:14.880 live,
00:31:15.380 and ask
00:31:16.040 yourself,
00:31:16.520 am I part
00:31:17.420 of the good
00:31:18.740 life she could
00:31:19.380 live,
00:31:19.620 or am I being
00:31:20.160 part of that
00:31:21.280 darkness that
00:31:23.460 wants to
00:31:23.900 swallow her
00:31:24.540 up?
00:31:27.060 And so you
00:31:27.840 can go and
00:31:29.560 meet her and
00:31:31.320 dance with her
00:31:32.340 and kiss her
00:31:32.880 and then,
00:31:33.340 you know,
00:31:34.440 maybe I'm not
00:31:35.260 the right one
00:31:35.760 for her,
00:31:36.820 and back off.
00:31:40.420 And you're
00:31:41.180 going to need
00:31:41.420 to do this
00:31:41.800 with a lot
00:31:42.220 of women.
00:31:44.080 You know,
00:31:44.260 the problem
00:31:45.100 with that
00:31:45.380 purity culture
00:31:46.140 is that there's
00:31:47.300 no dating.
00:31:49.460 Okay,
00:31:50.020 they ask each
00:31:51.460 other out and
00:31:52.360 they're on their
00:31:52.820 way to marriage.
00:31:54.860 Back in the
00:31:55.480 50s,
00:31:56.480 teenagers,
00:31:57.280 they used to
00:31:57.860 date lots of
00:31:58.620 people.
00:31:59.560 And there's
00:32:00.180 an unspoken
00:32:01.800 rule that you
00:32:02.220 never date the
00:32:02.880 same person
00:32:03.560 twice in a
00:32:05.080 row.
00:32:08.220 Until you
00:32:09.380 met one you
00:32:09.940 really liked,
00:32:10.500 and then you
00:32:10.820 were going
00:32:11.420 steady because
00:32:12.780 you were steadily
00:32:13.560 going on
00:32:14.500 dates with
00:32:15.900 them.
00:32:18.220 Much better
00:32:18.980 courtship,
00:32:20.020 less broken
00:32:20.560 hearts,
00:32:21.540 less terror
00:32:22.600 in the whole
00:32:23.640 thing,
00:32:23.880 a lot more
00:32:24.340 fun.
00:32:24.940 men.
00:32:27.840 And it
00:32:28.480 allowed you
00:32:29.020 to get to
00:32:30.040 know a lot
00:32:30.620 of different
00:32:30.980 people.
00:32:32.360 Let you
00:32:32.980 get to know
00:32:33.320 different women,
00:32:34.220 what they're
00:32:34.760 like,
00:32:35.220 or same
00:32:36.040 thing in the
00:32:36.320 women's case,
00:32:36.840 have lots
00:32:37.420 of different
00:32:38.020 men.
00:32:38.840 They've met
00:32:39.640 and assessed,
00:32:40.640 determined their
00:32:41.120 personality,
00:32:42.380 and then
00:32:43.180 ultimately make
00:32:44.260 a decision
00:32:44.600 on.
00:32:50.060 So,
00:32:50.580 to recap
00:32:52.580 all of this,
00:32:54.940 what are you
00:32:55.620 supposed to
00:32:55.960 do as a
00:32:56.280 young man
00:32:56.660 these days
00:32:57.160 to avoid
00:32:58.240 the absolute
00:32:58.820 horrors of
00:32:59.640 divorce,
00:33:01.640 of hedonistic
00:33:02.900 suicide culture, 0.76
00:33:04.000 etc.
00:33:06.360 You need to
00:33:07.040 be aware of
00:33:07.620 what you're
00:33:07.980 doing,
00:33:09.300 and what
00:33:10.440 you want,
00:33:12.380 and what
00:33:14.180 you fear.
00:33:16.340 Because if you
00:33:16.940 don't address
00:33:17.540 what you're
00:33:18.120 afraid of,
00:33:19.360 you are going
00:33:20.080 to have it.
00:33:20.900 You know,
00:33:21.100 like if you
00:33:21.440 are the guy
00:33:22.000 that says,
00:33:22.360 oh man,
00:33:22.660 settling down,
00:33:23.280 that's terrifying,
00:33:23.900 you are going
00:33:25.060 to settle
00:33:25.380 someday,
00:33:26.660 or just be
00:33:27.500 completely lonely
00:33:28.560 and wishing
00:33:28.980 you'd settle.
00:33:31.440 And if
00:33:32.000 you're,
00:33:32.540 you know,
00:33:32.800 the opposite,
00:33:33.540 where you're
00:33:34.100 afraid that
00:33:34.720 you're going
00:33:34.920 to fall
00:33:35.220 into hedonism,
00:33:37.860 you're just
00:33:38.500 going to fall
00:33:38.840 into a
00:33:39.060 different type
00:33:39.440 of hedonism.
00:33:40.700 You know,
00:33:41.080 marrying some
00:33:42.720 woman you 0.99
00:33:43.100 don't like
00:33:43.700 for the sake
00:33:44.680 of looking
00:33:45.000 virtuous,
00:33:45.740 you know,
00:33:45.920 that's another,
00:33:46.440 just another
00:33:46.980 form of
00:33:48.500 hedonism.
00:33:48.920 you need
00:33:50.640 to do
00:33:51.080 it with
00:33:52.440 your eyes
00:33:53.940 open,
00:33:55.420 appreciating
00:33:56.080 women as 0.98
00:33:57.500 human beings,
00:33:58.900 as fully
00:34:00.620 developed people.
00:34:02.420 And you need
00:34:02.780 to do it in a
00:34:03.320 masculine type
00:34:04.900 of a manner.
00:34:05.640 You know,
00:34:06.000 it's a,
00:34:07.180 sometimes Donald
00:34:08.060 Trump is right.
00:34:09.000 They do want you
00:34:09.800 to grab him 1.00
00:34:10.260 by the pussy. 1.00
00:34:12.060 And when it's 1.00
00:34:12.500 that time,
00:34:13.460 and if you like
00:34:14.240 her,
00:34:14.720 you probably
00:34:15.500 should.
00:34:17.080 Although I'd
00:34:17.520 wait for the
00:34:18.260 rest of it
00:34:18.940 until the
00:34:19.300 wedding night.
00:34:23.240 So,
00:34:23.880 just be aware,
00:34:25.360 you are going
00:34:25.880 to get what
00:34:26.240 you want out
00:34:26.740 of life.
00:34:28.880 And that
00:34:29.560 can very
00:34:30.160 easily turn
00:34:30.800 into an
00:34:31.100 absolute horror
00:34:31.760 show.
00:34:33.960 But just
00:34:34.300 keep your
00:34:35.660 eyes open,
00:34:36.940 get out
00:34:37.820 there.
00:34:39.120 That's number
00:34:39.740 one,
00:34:40.000 just get
00:34:40.560 out there.
00:34:42.840 Meet women,
00:34:44.060 go
00:34:44.640 dancing,
00:34:46.300 pick up
00:34:47.720 stand-up
00:34:48.180 comedy,
00:34:49.000 I don't
00:34:49.220 know,
00:34:49.440 anything to
00:34:50.060 get yourself
00:34:50.820 out there.
00:34:52.340 Obviously a
00:34:52.980 nightclub,
00:34:53.880 pounding music,
00:34:55.240 you know,
00:34:56.220 thousand dollars
00:34:57.040 for bottles,
00:34:57.860 that's not
00:34:58.420 getting yourself
00:34:58.920 out there.
00:34:59.740 That's pretending
00:35:00.240 to be somebody
00:35:00.760 else.
00:35:03.560 Get out into
00:35:04.320 real places.
00:35:06.020 Go do
00:35:06.380 real things.
00:35:08.680 And talk to
00:35:09.260 the girls that 0.94
00:35:09.760 you meet there.
00:35:10.600 Talk to the
00:35:11.020 girls at the 0.55
00:35:11.500 gas station,
00:35:12.240 talk to the
00:35:12.540 girls at the 0.55
00:35:12.920 coffee shop,
00:35:13.600 flirt with
00:35:14.520 them.
00:35:15.420 Learn how to
00:35:15.960 flirt with
00:35:16.360 girls.
00:35:17.440 You know,
00:35:17.600 even if you're
00:35:17.980 not going to
00:35:18.280 marry them,
00:35:18.760 they still 0.99
00:35:19.060 like it.
00:35:20.600 All right?
00:35:21.220 If you really
00:35:22.100 need to start
00:35:23.620 off on,
00:35:24.460 you know,
00:35:25.020 with training
00:35:25.540 wheels,
00:35:26.680 flirt with
00:35:27.000 older ladies. 1.00
00:35:28.020 They love
00:35:28.440 it.
00:35:29.100 Okay?
00:35:29.400 They love
00:35:30.180 the appreciation
00:35:31.580 and they
00:35:32.380 won't take it
00:35:33.000 like you're
00:35:34.840 actually trying
00:35:35.320 to hit on
00:35:35.760 them. 0.96
00:35:36.460 Okay?
00:35:36.700 They'll just
00:35:36.980 take it as
00:35:37.360 a compliment.
00:35:39.480 Get yourself
00:35:40.180 out there.
00:35:42.160 Live real
00:35:42.860 life.
00:35:44.600 And just
00:35:45.760 keep your
00:35:46.100 eyes open.
00:35:47.260 Look at
00:35:47.540 others as
00:35:48.200 human beings.
00:35:49.940 As radiant
00:35:51.980 creatures worthy
00:35:54.480 of your
00:35:54.780 respect.
00:35:57.300 And don't
00:35:58.100 be afraid to
00:35:58.520 be a man.
00:36:01.040 Best of luck,
00:36:01.840 brother.
00:36:02.720 Hopefully,
00:36:03.880 some of the
00:36:04.220 mistakes I've
00:36:04.880 learned from,
00:36:06.000 you can just
00:36:06.420 learn from me
00:36:06.940 telling you about
00:36:07.900 them in this
00:36:08.280 video.
00:36:08.520 Anyway,
00:36:10.880 Deus Vault,
00:36:11.980 Irini out.
00:36:13.600 and don't
00:36:15.180 like that.
00:36:23.700 .
00:36:23.920 .
00:36:24.800 .
00:36:26.860 .
00:36:26.900 .
00:36:27.420 .
00:36:27.640 .
00:36:28.520 .
00:36:31.700 .
00:36:33.720 .
00:36:34.260 .
00:36:36.220 .
00:36:37.020 .
00:36:37.480 Thank you.