Leo D.M.J. Aurini - MGTOW or Marriage？ Everybody Gets What They Want [Requested Video]

00:00:00.000 Thank you.

00:00:30.480 MGTOW or Marriage?

00:00:32.440 Everybody gets what they want.

00:00:37.440 Yeah, it's a good title for this video.

00:00:40.040 This is another requested video from Yakin.

00:00:43.100 And by the way, I should be all caught up on the requested videos,

00:00:46.800 but if one of them slipped between the cracks,

00:00:50.200 please fire me an email to remind me.

00:00:52.720 I have a lot of stuff in my email folder.

00:00:55.200 So yeah, it's a good title because he's asking me one of those questions

00:01:01.840 that's not exactly a question, and the answer isn't the answer to the question he's asking.

00:01:05.480 But it boils down to the fact that the marriage market is messed up these days.

00:01:13.880 I don't have to tell you guys that.

00:01:15.780 You've seen it firsthand.

00:01:17.680 You know the statistics, the divorce rate,

00:01:20.020 the surplus of males that are in North America,

00:01:23.900 the lack of venues to meet people,

00:01:26.800 the risks involved,

00:01:28.520 the way that nobody seems to be able to relate to anybody anymore.

00:01:32.180 You're aware of all of that.

00:01:35.960 So,

00:01:36.900 the answer,

00:01:38.960 the answer as to what you're supposed to do

00:01:43.200 as a young man,

00:01:47.760 you know, particularly from a Christian perspective,

00:01:53.480 well, it's that you have to figure out

00:01:56.120 what you actually want.

00:01:58.400 And what do I mean by this?

00:02:06.520 See, part of the problem that we have right now,

00:02:10.120 and this is actually a topic I've been thinking a lot about,

00:02:13.500 the bicameral nature of our society, of our minds,

00:02:18.500 is the two extremes that we have,

00:02:22.520 neither of which are good.

00:02:23.560 And right now,

00:02:26.680 it is so easy to indulge in hedonism

00:02:30.940 that it seems like the only other choice

00:02:33.720 is to be a celibate monk.

00:02:38.880 And there needs to be a way

00:02:41.140 to square this circle.

00:02:44.120 And it's knowing

00:02:48.220 what you're actually pursuing

00:02:49.620 what you want.

00:02:54.540 So I'd like to start off by

00:02:56.220 quoting some C.S. Lewis at you.

00:02:58.880 So I'm reading

00:02:59.480 Weight of Glory right now.

00:03:03.640 And he starts off with a

00:03:05.420 metaphor

00:03:06.020 in the first chapter.

00:03:09.180 Talking about how

00:03:10.120 we are designed for heaven.

00:03:15.880 We are designed for God.

00:03:18.580 But at the same time,

00:03:20.000 we are going to seek out

00:03:21.600 earthly pleasures.

00:03:24.680 But we are made that way,

00:03:26.180 and that's intentional.

00:03:27.340 You know, like you're here to live,

00:03:28.740 and part of living is eating food,

00:03:30.280 so you're going to like eating food.

00:03:32.520 You're not going to eat food

00:03:33.480 because you're really pious.

00:03:34.680 You're going to eat food

00:03:35.840 because you're hungry.

00:03:36.960 Now the example he gives

00:03:39.960 specifically,

00:03:41.240 showing kind of,

00:03:41.840 and this kind of leads

00:03:42.800 to that split

00:03:43.720 that I'm talking about.

00:03:46.860 It also gives you an example

00:03:48.060 of how far our society

00:03:49.380 has fallen.

00:03:50.860 Because I'm going to use

00:03:51.500 a different metaphor,

00:03:52.500 and it's going to make

00:03:52.900 a lot more sense.

00:03:55.340 As he talks about how

00:03:56.860 the problem is that

00:03:58.380 with some of the things

00:03:59.640 we pursue,

00:04:00.420 we don't see

00:04:01.180 the ultimate end in them.

00:04:02.980 We can't see

00:04:03.820 the ultimate end.

00:04:04.720 We can only see

00:04:05.820 the short term

00:04:06.780 end.

00:04:08.760 And the example

00:04:10.320 is studying

00:04:11.520 Greek grammar.

00:04:14.620 And so he says that,

00:04:16.060 listen,

00:04:16.240 the reason you study

00:04:16.900 Greek grammar

00:04:17.580 as a young boy

00:04:18.500 is so that you can

00:04:19.800 understand Greek poetry.

00:04:21.840 So you can see

00:04:22.620 how wonderful

00:04:24.020 and illuminating

00:04:25.200 it is.

00:04:26.640 But you can't say that

00:04:28.260 to the young boy.

00:04:30.340 And so the young boy

00:04:32.200 is liable to,

00:04:33.740 you know,

00:04:34.700 slack off and be reading

00:04:36.060 Shelley or Byron

00:04:37.020 or something.

00:04:39.200 And then he concedes

00:04:40.380 that, you know what,

00:04:40.980 Shelley and Byron

00:04:41.580 are also good.

00:04:42.840 Well, let's put this

00:04:44.060 in the modern context

00:04:45.540 because it will make

00:04:46.160 a lot more sense.

00:04:49.220 Young school boy

00:04:50.280 supposed to be

00:04:51.220 studying Shakespeare,

00:04:52.720 instead spending

00:04:53.440 all of his time

00:04:54.020 reading comic books.

00:04:54.960 Greek poetry,

00:04:58.800 forget that.

00:04:59.600 Okay, that's 50 years

00:05:01.020 ago.

00:05:01.320 We have dissented

00:05:01.980 quite a bit since

00:05:03.080 then.

00:05:05.240 But the thing is

00:05:06.160 that to truly

00:05:07.100 even appreciate

00:05:08.280 comic books

00:05:09.420 or well-written

00:05:10.240 comic books

00:05:10.900 that are worth

00:05:11.700 your time reading,

00:05:12.960 you do need

00:05:14.180 to know Shakespeare.

00:05:16.060 You need to know

00:05:17.160 more complex

00:05:18.000 art forms.

00:05:18.740 And so it might

00:05:19.840 be difficult

00:05:21.600 at first

00:05:22.860 when you're

00:05:23.360 reading that

00:05:24.280 or Crime and

00:05:25.540 Punishment,

00:05:27.740 you know,

00:05:28.120 Moby Dick,

00:05:28.680 which I haven't read,

00:05:29.620 I really should.

00:05:31.320 It's difficult

00:05:32.340 to read something

00:05:33.960 that heavy

00:05:34.920 at first.

00:05:37.340 But once you

00:05:38.400 develop that skill,

00:05:39.700 you get to

00:05:40.080 appreciate something

00:05:41.200 amazing.

00:05:42.200 and this is

00:05:44.560 our culture

00:05:45.040 writ large,

00:05:46.080 you know,

00:05:46.480 instead of

00:05:46.860 enjoying

00:05:47.540 filet mignon,

00:05:49.500 instead of

00:05:49.860 enjoying

00:05:50.580 acquired tastes,

00:05:53.780 you know,

00:05:54.340 whiskey,

00:05:55.300 for example,

00:05:56.060 top shelf

00:05:56.540 whiskey or bourbon,

00:05:57.440 it's an acquired

00:05:57.960 taste,

00:05:59.240 we drink light

00:06:00.180 beer,

00:06:01.060 we eat

00:06:01.560 candy bars,

00:06:02.900 soda pop,

00:06:04.000 we go for the

00:06:04.600 cheap,

00:06:05.420 easy,

00:06:06.480 lazy

00:06:06.860 sort of high.

00:06:08.700 And so

00:06:12.780 Lewis says

00:06:13.720 that the

00:06:14.280 reason that

00:06:15.120 you study

00:06:15.660 Greek

00:06:16.180 when you're

00:06:17.520 a young boy,

00:06:18.080 or the reason

00:06:18.540 that you study

00:06:18.960 Shakespeare nowadays,

00:06:20.560 is not because

00:06:21.440 you understand

00:06:22.260 how much you're

00:06:22.900 going to enjoy it.

00:06:24.100 You can't

00:06:24.660 explain that

00:06:25.580 to a young

00:06:26.800 child.

00:06:27.760 So the reason

00:06:28.320 the child

00:06:28.800 does that

00:06:29.660 is because

00:06:31.000 the teacher

00:06:33.300 will reward

00:06:34.320 them for it.

00:06:38.700 And so

00:06:39.460 here's where

00:06:39.880 we get

00:06:40.100 the split

00:06:40.480 mind.

00:06:41.360 Because the

00:06:41.680 split mind

00:06:42.220 is saying

00:06:42.780 that,

00:06:43.180 oh,

00:06:43.300 well,

00:06:43.520 I shouldn't

00:06:44.260 do it

00:06:44.600 just for

00:06:45.580 the prideful

00:06:46.400 reason of

00:06:46.880 being a good

00:06:47.340 pupil.

00:06:48.380 Because,

00:06:48.860 think about it,

00:06:49.420 if you get a

00:06:49.860 kid that's

00:06:50.760 constantly doing

00:06:51.780 whatever teacher

00:06:52.480 says,

00:06:53.040 always sucking

00:06:53.620 up the teacher,

00:06:54.800 you know,

00:06:55.040 we hate that

00:06:55.660 kid.

00:06:56.660 The kid has

00:06:57.280 apron strings

00:06:57.980 around him.

00:06:58.920 He's a

00:06:59.380 suck-up

00:06:59.920 Nancy boy.

00:07:03.240 And yet,

00:07:03.760 at the same

00:07:04.000 time,

00:07:04.200 that doesn't

00:07:04.520 mean that

00:07:06.100 the motivation

00:07:06.680 is all bad.

00:07:08.700 Take my

00:07:10.600 dog,

00:07:10.980 for example,

00:07:11.520 Space Dog,

00:07:12.180 who you can't

00:07:12.620 see right now,

00:07:13.240 but she's

00:07:13.700 right here

00:07:14.000 keeping me

00:07:14.420 warm.

00:07:16.480 She takes

00:07:17.240 humble pleasure

00:07:18.220 in making

00:07:20.100 me happy.

00:07:21.740 You know,

00:07:22.020 when I tell

00:07:22.760 her she's

00:07:23.080 been a good

00:07:23.440 girl,

00:07:24.080 when she

00:07:24.820 does what

00:07:25.660 I want

00:07:26.580 her to do

00:07:26.940 and she

00:07:27.300 knows she

00:07:27.840 has,

00:07:28.720 she just

00:07:29.220 takes pleasure

00:07:29.960 in the fact

00:07:30.740 that I'm

00:07:31.300 proud of her.

00:07:32.480 There's no

00:07:32.840 pride in it.

00:07:33.920 There's no

00:07:34.560 I'm better

00:07:35.780 than all the

00:07:36.220 other dogs

00:07:36.980 the way that

00:07:38.160 the suck-up

00:07:39.140 student,

00:07:40.060 the reason

00:07:40.460 we dislike

00:07:40.980 him is he's

00:07:41.820 saying that

00:07:42.260 I'm better

00:07:42.680 than all the

00:07:43.060 other pupils

00:07:43.620 because teacher

00:07:44.880 said I got

00:07:45.760 a gold star.

00:07:47.780 That's the

00:07:48.380 prideful edge

00:07:49.000 to it.

00:07:50.080 But that

00:07:50.420 doesn't mean

00:07:50.920 the innate

00:07:52.140 emotion.

00:07:53.100 Wanting people

00:07:54.260 in appropriate

00:07:55.400 positions of

00:07:56.500 authority to

00:07:58.040 look favorably

00:07:59.440 upon you,

00:08:00.020 to appreciate

00:08:00.700 you,

00:08:01.100 to recognize

00:08:01.540 you,

00:08:02.200 that's not

00:08:03.040 bad.

00:08:04.000 That is a

00:08:04.840 good thing.

00:08:05.940 And when

00:08:08.500 you engage

00:08:09.460 in that,

00:08:09.820 when you

00:08:10.100 study your

00:08:11.740 Greek literature

00:08:12.860 or your

00:08:13.640 Shakespeare,

00:08:14.620 because you

00:08:15.080 want to

00:08:15.560 impress your

00:08:16.080 parents,

00:08:16.500 you want to

00:08:16.820 impress your

00:08:17.280 teacher,

00:08:18.540 that's good.

00:08:19.860 And then by

00:08:20.300 doing that,

00:08:20.960 you find out,

00:08:21.560 oh, wait,

00:08:22.620 they weren't

00:08:22.940 just making

00:08:23.340 me do this

00:08:24.120 to punish

00:08:25.060 me.

00:08:25.760 Some sort

00:08:26.140 of like

00:08:26.380 Protestant

00:08:26.760 work ethic

00:08:27.420 where you

00:08:27.700 have to

00:08:28.020 suffer.

00:08:28.380 No,

00:08:29.180 no,

00:08:29.560 you bust

00:08:30.680 your tail,

00:08:31.240 you bust

00:08:31.540 your hump

00:08:31.820 doing something,

00:08:32.460 and there's a

00:08:33.820 reward at the

00:08:34.600 end.

00:08:34.880 You get to

00:08:35.580 appreciate

00:08:36.340 literature,

00:08:37.520 or you work

00:08:38.380 your tail off,

00:08:39.340 and you get

00:08:39.780 to have a

00:08:40.700 nice house.

00:08:41.440 You get to

00:08:42.140 feel a sense

00:08:43.240 of accomplishment

00:08:43.920 that you can't

00:08:45.540 really explain

00:08:46.040 to a kid.

00:08:47.540 Okay,

00:08:47.800 you need to

00:08:48.200 instill the

00:08:48.720 work ethic,

00:08:49.360 not for the

00:08:49.840 sake of the

00:08:50.300 work ethic.

00:08:51.680 The kid's

00:08:52.440 doing it to

00:08:52.960 impress you,

00:08:53.740 but you're

00:08:54.240 instilling the

00:08:54.800 work ethic so

00:08:55.880 that they get

00:08:56.620 the reward

00:08:57.420 that they

00:08:58.060 can't

00:08:58.420 understand.

00:09:02.180 And I

00:09:02.740 bring all

00:09:03.080 of this up

00:09:03.440 because this

00:09:04.020 is for

00:09:05.560 the young

00:09:05.860 man.

00:09:06.220 This is

00:09:06.560 what the

00:09:07.280 urge to

00:09:08.980 sex is.

00:09:11.240 And young

00:09:12.160 ladies as

00:09:12.660 well.

00:09:15.360 Slightly

00:09:15.800 different,

00:09:16.840 they fit

00:09:17.620 together,

00:09:18.280 slightly

00:09:18.540 different parts.

00:09:19.220 The man's

00:09:19.640 more obvious

00:09:20.120 than it's a

00:09:20.440 guy asking

00:09:21.140 this question.

00:09:24.240 So one of

00:09:25.000 the problems

00:09:25.780 that happens,

00:09:27.480 and you see

00:09:28.140 this in the

00:09:28.780 whole purity

00:09:29.940 ring culture

00:09:31.240 is there

00:09:34.940 is such

00:09:35.440 an emphasis

00:09:36.280 on the

00:09:37.360 non-sexual.

00:09:40.120 And they're

00:09:40.760 trying to be

00:09:41.140 such good

00:09:41.820 Christians,

00:09:42.580 and they have

00:09:42.840 purity rings,

00:09:43.700 and they don't

00:09:44.040 hold hands

00:09:44.720 until the

00:09:45.100 third date,

00:09:46.540 that the

00:09:46.900 whole thing

00:09:47.420 becomes an

00:09:48.300 absolute nightmare,

00:09:50.340 and most of

00:09:51.600 those kids

00:09:51.920 don't wind up

00:09:52.540 getting married.

00:09:53.080 you know,

00:09:54.280 or they

00:09:54.900 stay a virgin

00:09:56.060 until they're

00:09:56.960 23 or 24

00:09:58.180 or 25,

00:09:58.980 and then they

00:09:59.400 just snap,

00:10:01.060 and just go

00:10:01.960 hog wild

00:10:02.540 with it all.

00:10:04.760 Because the

00:10:05.440 whole thing,

00:10:07.320 well,

00:10:07.640 it becomes,

00:10:08.060 like,

00:10:08.200 asking a girl

00:10:08.780 out on the

00:10:09.240 first date,

00:10:10.180 in the purity

00:10:11.020 ring culture,

00:10:11.980 is the equivalent

00:10:13.020 of asking her

00:10:13.680 hand in marriage.

00:10:15.280 So it is

00:10:16.000 absolutely nerve-wracking

00:10:17.520 for both sides,

00:10:19.140 and they're

00:10:19.740 repressing the

00:10:20.760 sexual nature

00:10:22.120 of it so

00:10:22.960 hard that

00:10:25.140 it ignores

00:10:26.700 the motivation

00:10:27.180 that's supposed

00:10:27.580 to be there.

00:10:28.980 You know,

00:10:29.260 it's like somebody

00:10:30.080 that is dieting

00:10:31.680 and eating

00:10:32.120 nothing but

00:10:32.740 food they hate.

00:10:34.480 You know,

00:10:34.660 that person's

00:10:35.320 not going to

00:10:35.760 last.

00:10:36.980 It's like the

00:10:39.520 student who

00:10:40.360 is busting

00:10:41.340 their hump,

00:10:43.180 studying something

00:10:45.260 they don't like.

00:10:47.320 You know,

00:10:47.980 and that person,

00:10:48.980 they're not going

00:10:49.400 to last either.

00:10:52.960 the sexual

00:10:54.300 aspect of

00:10:55.340 man and

00:10:55.740 woman,

00:10:56.420 it's meant

00:10:58.020 to be there.

00:10:59.700 Now,

00:11:00.160 it's not supposed

00:11:00.600 to stop there.

00:11:02.120 That's the

00:11:02.800 problem.

00:11:03.420 So we have

00:11:03.760 half the culture

00:11:04.360 that's just

00:11:04.900 looking at that

00:11:05.800 juvenile sex

00:11:07.140 instinct,

00:11:09.100 and,

00:11:09.340 you know,

00:11:10.120 the other,

00:11:10.540 well,

00:11:10.720 not the other

00:11:11.100 half,

00:11:11.500 the other

00:11:11.780 five percent

00:11:12.900 maybe,

00:11:13.960 that is

00:11:14.740 absolutely

00:11:15.540 suppressing

00:11:16.700 it,

00:11:17.480 when it's

00:11:19.080 there for a

00:11:19.860 reason.

00:11:20.120 Now,

00:11:25.020 Sam Sayo,

00:11:26.100 over on

00:11:27.220 Ruch V

00:11:27.780 Forum,

00:11:28.920 had a

00:11:29.460 very interesting

00:11:30.280 thread,

00:11:30.720 I'll link to

00:11:31.040 it down

00:11:31.340 below,

00:11:32.020 where he

00:11:32.460 was talking

00:11:32.900 about the

00:11:34.920 question,

00:11:35.340 does the

00:11:37.140 Bible

00:11:37.580 explicitly

00:11:39.620 condemn

00:11:40.100 casual

00:11:40.540 sex?

00:11:42.280 And now,

00:11:43.220 Aquinas wrote

00:11:43.980 quite a bit,

00:11:44.400 and he

00:11:44.620 actually went

00:11:45.040 through this

00:11:45.540 with his

00:11:47.140 priest,

00:11:47.520 he's Greek

00:11:47.920 Orthodox,

00:11:48.240 and they

00:11:50.520 really did

00:11:51.060 a lot of

00:11:51.940 research into

00:11:52.820 it,

00:11:53.880 and I think

00:11:54.320 he's still

00:11:54.860 doing some

00:11:55.240 more on

00:11:55.620 it,

00:11:56.260 but when

00:11:57.140 Aquinas was

00:11:57.720 talking about

00:11:58.200 fornication,

00:12:00.160 fornication

00:12:01.240 comes from

00:12:01.680 the Latin

00:12:02.100 fornix,

00:12:03.260 it means a

00:12:03.980 certain type

00:12:04.460 of archway,

00:12:06.240 and fornication

00:12:07.040 meant hiring

00:12:07.760 the prostitutes

00:12:09.040 underneath

00:12:09.920 that archway.

00:12:11.820 The Bible

00:12:12.680 very explicitly

00:12:13.800 condemns

00:12:15.360 homosexuality,

00:12:17.400 bestiality,

00:12:18.240 prostitutes,

00:12:22.000 masturbation,

00:12:23.560 those type

00:12:24.000 of things,

00:12:24.700 but it's

00:12:26.680 not that

00:12:27.960 obvious

00:12:28.860 where it

00:12:30.340 condemns

00:12:30.980 casual

00:12:31.920 sex.

00:12:32.680 Now,

00:12:33.040 there are

00:12:33.640 reasons to

00:12:35.200 avoid casual

00:12:36.260 sex,

00:12:36.780 which I

00:12:37.160 will get

00:12:37.680 to,

00:12:39.120 but it's

00:12:39.820 not as

00:12:40.200 explicitly

00:12:40.720 condemned.

00:12:42.820 And,

00:12:43.380 you know,

00:12:44.080 I hate to

00:12:44.580 say that

00:12:46.560 the church

00:12:47.580 fathers,

00:12:48.580 and so

00:12:49.000 listen,

00:12:49.320 when Aquinas

00:12:49.820 is writing

00:12:50.200 about

00:12:50.460 fornication,

00:12:51.620 he's writing

00:12:52.560 about

00:12:53.140 prostitution,

00:12:55.120 okay,

00:12:55.340 because that's

00:12:56.020 what it

00:12:56.440 was.

00:12:56.900 If you were

00:12:57.240 sleeping

00:12:57.700 casually

00:12:58.300 with a

00:12:58.740 woman,

00:13:00.300 either her

00:13:01.520 father and

00:13:01.980 brothers were

00:13:02.380 going to

00:13:02.700 murder you,

00:13:03.340 or it

00:13:05.080 was a

00:13:05.300 prostitute,

00:13:05.780 there weren't

00:13:07.860 a lot of

00:13:08.740 loose

00:13:09.100 women in

00:13:10.180 the Middle

00:13:10.420 Ages like

00:13:10.880 there are

00:13:11.180 now.

00:13:12.500 And this,

00:13:13.740 you know,

00:13:14.160 I don't want

00:13:14.800 to say the

00:13:15.200 church fathers

00:13:15.900 did not

00:13:16.360 anticipate the

00:13:17.740 situation we

00:13:18.420 have today.

00:13:19.160 Because,

00:13:19.600 I mean,

00:13:19.760 certainly we've

00:13:20.280 had birth

00:13:20.700 control before,

00:13:21.600 there's plenty

00:13:22.600 of sexual

00:13:23.520 behaviors that

00:13:24.260 do not lead

00:13:24.760 to procreation,

00:13:26.680 but what we're

00:13:29.080 seeing in the

00:13:29.720 present day,

00:13:30.980 it's not that

00:13:31.960 it's a

00:13:33.320 different kind

00:13:34.180 of thing

00:13:34.780 that we're

00:13:35.700 seeing.

00:13:36.500 It's a

00:13:37.160 different degree.

00:13:39.880 And it's so

00:13:40.880 many factors

00:13:41.860 that on

00:13:42.860 their own,

00:13:44.020 you know,

00:13:44.380 they change,

00:13:45.460 change,

00:13:45.900 change,

00:13:46.360 and then

00:13:46.840 just they

00:13:47.600 change a

00:13:47.940 little bit

00:13:48.180 more,

00:13:48.700 and everything

00:13:49.780 changes.

00:13:51.800 So with

00:13:52.860 the birth

00:13:54.580 control,

00:13:55.600 with mechanization

00:13:57.240 leading to

00:13:58.140 more women

00:13:58.960 being able

00:13:59.800 to participate

00:14:00.640 in the

00:14:00.940 workforce,

00:14:01.540 because

00:14:01.860 even if

00:14:02.600 you go

00:14:02.840 back to

00:14:03.420 Roman times,

00:14:05.920 women could

00:14:07.080 not participate

00:14:07.760 in the

00:14:08.660 workforce.

00:14:09.220 They might

00:14:09.460 be independently

00:14:10.060 wealthy,

00:14:10.960 but that's

00:14:11.320 not the

00:14:11.640 same thing

00:14:12.120 as being

00:14:12.660 outside of

00:14:13.280 the home,

00:14:14.140 engaging

00:14:14.540 with strangers

00:14:15.160 and working

00:14:15.620 all of the

00:14:16.080 time.

00:14:18.000 The

00:14:18.440 improvement

00:14:18.900 of communication

00:14:19.760 technologies,

00:14:20.800 etc.

00:14:23.080 Like,

00:14:23.580 all of these

00:14:23.960 things,

00:14:24.220 to a lesser

00:14:24.600 degree,

00:14:25.000 we did have

00:14:25.480 back then.

00:14:25.960 So it's

00:14:26.180 not like

00:14:26.420 the human

00:14:26.700 species

00:14:27.040 has changed.

00:14:28.140 You know,

00:14:28.380 this is

00:14:28.740 some progressive

00:14:30.260 dream that

00:14:31.060 we're now a

00:14:31.540 new species

00:14:32.240 with different

00:14:32.800 instincts.

00:14:33.280 We're not.

00:14:35.020 But these

00:14:35.800 gradual changes

00:14:37.400 have led to

00:14:38.320 a landslide

00:14:40.480 in the

00:14:42.200 sexual marketplace.

00:14:42.960 place.

00:14:45.680 And so now,

00:14:46.660 women can be

00:14:48.780 outside of

00:14:49.320 the home,

00:14:49.800 in a way

00:14:51.240 that they

00:14:51.500 couldn't be,

00:14:52.340 even back

00:14:52.780 in Roman

00:14:53.100 times.

00:14:53.880 They are

00:14:55.900 engaging with

00:14:56.640 different people,

00:14:57.340 they can travel

00:14:58.180 wherever they

00:14:58.680 want,

00:14:59.160 the streets

00:15:00.300 are a lot

00:15:00.820 safer,

00:15:02.200 etc.

00:15:06.420 So all of

00:15:07.180 these changes

00:15:07.920 have led to

00:15:08.880 women,

00:15:09.180 and then,

00:15:09.700 of course,

00:15:09.960 social media,

00:15:10.660 giving them

00:15:10.880 attention,

00:15:11.180 etc.

00:15:11.860 These have

00:15:12.460 led to

00:15:12.860 women being

00:15:14.140 far more

00:15:15.220 promiscuous than

00:15:16.160 they ever

00:15:16.820 have been

00:15:17.440 before.

00:15:18.900 You know,

00:15:19.200 that line,

00:15:20.300 that,

00:15:20.380 I mean,

00:15:23.640 you know,

00:15:24.640 my detractors

00:15:25.240 love to scoff

00:15:25.920 at it,

00:15:26.380 the most

00:15:26.700 degenerate

00:15:27.220 slut since the

00:15:27.900 fall of Rome.

00:15:29.440 You know,

00:15:29.800 and it's like,

00:15:30.160 no,

00:15:30.440 far more

00:15:30.920 degenerate,

00:15:31.560 actually,

00:15:32.300 far,

00:15:32.680 far more

00:15:33.100 promiscuous,

00:15:34.060 and that's

00:15:34.760 a historical

00:15:35.400 record.

00:15:36.400 Okay,

00:15:36.660 that's a

00:15:36.900 historical fact.

00:15:37.640 And so

00:15:40.660 when Aquinas

00:15:41.460 was writing,

00:15:42.000 yeah,

00:15:42.180 he's talking

00:15:42.600 about

00:15:42.980 prostitution.

00:15:46.180 Now,

00:15:46.940 for us

00:15:48.360 in the

00:15:48.600 modern time,

00:15:50.800 you know,

00:15:51.040 prostitution

00:15:51.660 is very,

00:15:52.280 very rare

00:15:52.800 nowadays.

00:15:54.000 It's largely

00:15:55.360 a dead

00:15:56.300 industry.

00:15:57.740 You get the

00:15:58.060 occasional

00:15:58.360 streetwalkers,

00:15:59.340 there's a

00:15:59.600 couple of

00:15:59.900 brothels in

00:16:00.540 Nevada,

00:16:00.920 but overall,

00:16:03.600 it's casual

00:16:05.300 sex and

00:16:06.160 pornography.

00:16:07.640 And as

00:16:08.960 a man

00:16:09.500 who's trying

00:16:10.040 to live

00:16:10.560 a righteous

00:16:11.480 life,

00:16:12.360 well,

00:16:12.540 which one

00:16:12.940 of these

00:16:13.440 is worse?

00:16:16.620 The funny

00:16:17.380 thing is

00:16:17.740 that the,

00:16:19.260 I'm not

00:16:19.880 going to say

00:16:20.100 the instinct,

00:16:21.820 the assumption

00:16:22.560 being pushed

00:16:24.180 by much

00:16:24.540 of society

00:16:25.100 is that,

00:16:26.240 or by

00:16:26.800 much of

00:16:27.460 churchianity,

00:16:28.400 which is

00:16:28.860 really just

00:16:29.660 feminism,

00:16:30.780 is that the

00:16:31.240 casual sex

00:16:32.020 is worse

00:16:32.540 because it

00:16:33.320 makes the

00:16:33.720 female participants

00:16:34.820 feel bad

00:16:35.560 afterwards.

00:16:36.020 However,

00:16:40.960 the

00:16:41.440 pornography,

00:16:43.000 the

00:16:44.840 pornography

00:16:45.280 is actually

00:16:45.740 the one

00:16:46.000 being condemned

00:16:46.480 by the

00:16:46.860 Bible.

00:16:48.460 It's both

00:16:49.280 prostitution

00:16:50.160 and

00:16:51.480 masturbation.

00:16:55.860 And now

00:16:56.140 the medieval

00:16:57.520 scholars at

00:16:58.980 the time,

00:16:59.380 they,

00:17:00.320 at the time,

00:17:01.000 they thought

00:17:01.780 that the

00:17:02.420 male seed

00:17:04.100 was a

00:17:04.840 homunculus.

00:17:06.020 that is a

00:17:06.740 tiny little

00:17:07.400 person.

00:17:08.000 They didn't

00:17:08.760 know that

00:17:09.040 there was

00:17:09.400 an egg

00:17:09.980 in the

00:17:10.200 female

00:17:10.500 that needed

00:17:10.820 to be

00:17:11.080 fertilized.

00:17:11.660 They thought

00:17:11.860 it was

00:17:12.060 all in

00:17:12.400 the male.

00:17:13.580 And so

00:17:13.820 they argued

00:17:14.920 strongly

00:17:15.360 against

00:17:15.840 masturbation

00:17:16.560 because,

00:17:17.200 you know,

00:17:18.180 it was a

00:17:18.540 form of

00:17:19.260 murder.

00:17:20.260 And that

00:17:20.540 they would

00:17:21.560 argue

00:17:21.840 further

00:17:22.400 that there

00:17:23.120 was a

00:17:24.700 succubus

00:17:25.720 that was

00:17:27.220 sapping

00:17:27.860 your vital

00:17:28.380 essence,

00:17:29.140 sapping,

00:17:29.900 eating your

00:17:30.400 children

00:17:30.960 when you

00:17:32.640 engaged in it.

00:17:33.360 Which is,

00:17:33.680 you know,

00:17:33.960 another thing

00:17:34.440 that the

00:17:34.680 atheists

00:17:35.020 would

00:17:35.200 scoff

00:17:35.540 at,

00:17:36.220 and yet

00:17:36.460 when you

00:17:36.720 look at

00:17:37.000 these

00:17:37.160 atheists

00:17:37.540 that would

00:17:37.800 scoff

00:17:38.120 at it,

00:17:38.900 they all

00:17:39.620 look as

00:17:40.600 if a

00:17:40.880 succubus

00:17:41.340 has been

00:17:41.620 sucking the

00:17:42.180 life out

00:17:42.620 of them

00:17:43.000 their entire

00:17:43.980 lives.

00:17:46.560 So,

00:17:47.220 right off

00:17:48.460 the bat,

00:17:48.860 like,

00:17:49.020 if you,

00:17:50.360 as a young

00:17:50.920 man,

00:17:53.560 listen,

00:17:53.860 your sexual

00:17:54.280 instinct is

00:17:54.920 there for a

00:17:55.400 reason.

00:17:57.740 And you

00:17:58.260 shouldn't be

00:17:58.700 trying to

00:17:59.720 suppress it.

00:18:00.880 Because as

00:18:01.420 soon as you

00:18:01.640 start suppressing

00:18:02.200 it,

00:18:02.640 what are you

00:18:03.000 going to do?

00:18:03.260 You're going

00:18:03.480 to turn to

00:18:03.860 pornography.

00:18:05.400 Okay?

00:18:05.680 And then you're

00:18:06.000 going to go and

00:18:06.660 act like a

00:18:07.400 limp-wristed

00:18:07.960 loser anytime

00:18:09.480 you do talk

00:18:10.200 to women.

00:18:11.500 And women

00:18:11.940 are the ones

00:18:12.480 that select.

00:18:13.500 They are

00:18:13.780 supposed to

00:18:14.220 select for a

00:18:15.080 mate who

00:18:16.020 is worthy.

00:18:17.400 And if you

00:18:18.520 are literally

00:18:19.580 a wanker,

00:18:20.480 they're going

00:18:20.840 to think

00:18:21.220 you're a

00:18:21.580 wanker.

00:18:26.540 So you need

00:18:27.280 to save that

00:18:27.780 energy for

00:18:28.680 what it's

00:18:29.020 actually

00:18:29.380 intended for.

00:18:31.080 And you

00:18:32.680 need to

00:18:33.140 use that

00:18:34.240 energy to

00:18:35.200 actually

00:18:35.820 approach

00:18:36.800 women in

00:18:37.760 a confident

00:18:38.420 masculine

00:18:39.380 manner.

00:18:44.180 Now,

00:18:44.700 this doesn't

00:18:45.060 mean that

00:18:45.520 you sleep

00:18:46.680 with any

00:18:47.360 of them.

00:18:48.800 Anyone that

00:18:49.620 you can.

00:18:51.820 For one

00:18:52.520 thing,

00:18:52.960 you have to

00:18:53.880 take her

00:18:54.220 feelings into

00:18:54.840 account.

00:18:56.260 Casual

00:18:56.780 sex does

00:18:58.000 wind up being

00:18:58.600 very emotionally

00:19:00.080 trying.

00:19:01.080 for women.

00:19:01.980 It really

00:19:02.480 hurts them.

00:19:03.380 They really

00:19:03.780 do feel like

00:19:04.320 they've been

00:19:04.680 used,

00:19:05.100 which is why

00:19:05.460 we're seeing

00:19:05.820 all the

00:19:06.180 date rapes

00:19:06.800 nowadays.

00:19:07.760 Because something

00:19:08.320 bad happened

00:19:08.920 to her.

00:19:10.240 She wasn't

00:19:10.680 raped.

00:19:11.260 She's been

00:19:11.720 denied the

00:19:12.200 vocabulary to

00:19:13.180 say what

00:19:13.500 happened to

00:19:14.000 her.

00:19:15.060 So it

00:19:15.900 must be

00:19:16.260 rape.

00:19:25.520 But you

00:19:26.160 do need to

00:19:26.680 approach

00:19:26.980 confidently.

00:19:28.280 You do

00:19:28.680 need to

00:19:29.240 dance with

00:19:30.660 them.

00:19:31.760 You don't

00:19:32.880 want to

00:19:33.360 be a

00:19:34.320 simpering

00:19:35.000 weakling

00:19:36.340 around them.

00:19:37.700 Because they're

00:19:38.000 not going to

00:19:38.440 like that.

00:19:39.480 They don't

00:19:40.920 know why,

00:19:41.440 but they

00:19:41.660 know they

00:19:41.900 don't like

00:19:42.300 that.

00:19:43.000 Even the

00:19:43.320 most brainwashed

00:19:44.400 feminist does

00:19:45.040 not like

00:19:45.500 feminist men.

00:19:48.140 And

00:19:48.320 unfortunately,

00:19:49.820 what the

00:19:50.200 church has

00:19:50.540 been teaching,

00:19:51.880 the way it's

00:19:52.720 been teaching

00:19:53.180 the sinfulness

00:19:53.820 of sexuality,

00:19:55.140 is putting it

00:19:56.260 all on the

00:19:56.900 man for having

00:19:57.720 a sex drive

00:19:58.580 that God

00:19:59.360 gave him

00:19:59.800 in the

00:20:00.000 first place

00:20:00.640 to go

00:20:01.200 pursue

00:20:01.460 women.

00:20:05.740 Now to

00:20:06.360 go back to

00:20:06.880 the C.S.

00:20:08.080 Lewis with

00:20:08.840 the learning

00:20:09.540 Greek,

00:20:10.380 studying

00:20:10.760 Shakespeare,

00:20:12.260 the sex drive

00:20:14.140 is how you

00:20:14.620 initiate the

00:20:16.260 relationship.

00:20:17.980 That's why men

00:20:18.740 and women have

00:20:19.280 that.

00:20:20.760 But it's not

00:20:21.580 where you end.

00:20:22.260 It's not where

00:20:22.560 you're supposed

00:20:23.000 to end.

00:20:23.440 You initiate

00:20:26.080 the sex and

00:20:27.120 as soon as

00:20:27.480 you start

00:20:27.760 having sex

00:20:28.280 with somebody,

00:20:29.340 there's a

00:20:29.580 natural pair

00:20:30.120 bonding.

00:20:31.240 You're going

00:20:31.860 to want to

00:20:32.620 hang out

00:20:33.740 with them

00:20:34.280 because it

00:20:35.820 feels good

00:20:36.380 to hang out

00:20:36.920 with them.

00:20:37.860 You'll get

00:20:38.260 emotionally

00:20:38.700 intimate with

00:20:39.360 them and

00:20:40.200 eventually

00:20:40.540 children are

00:20:41.080 going to be

00:20:41.420 produced and

00:20:42.000 if you're

00:20:42.260 doing it

00:20:42.640 all right,

00:20:44.340 you're going

00:20:44.920 to have

00:20:45.280 children,

00:20:46.000 you're going

00:20:46.160 to have a

00:20:46.480 family,

00:20:47.160 you're going

00:20:47.340 to become

00:20:47.600 part of a

00:20:48.040 community,

00:20:49.280 you're going

00:20:49.640 to have

00:20:49.800 people that

00:20:50.140 care about

00:20:50.600 you in

00:20:50.880 your old

00:20:51.220 age.

00:20:53.440 But see,

00:20:55.700 we're not

00:20:55.920 looking at

00:20:56.260 any of

00:20:56.580 that these

00:20:57.940 days.

00:20:58.440 Our culture

00:20:59.120 isn't looking

00:20:59.640 at any

00:21:00.180 of that.

00:21:01.020 Our culture

00:21:01.500 treats sex

00:21:02.180 like you

00:21:02.640 have lots

00:21:03.100 of fun

00:21:03.340 in your

00:21:03.560 20s and

00:21:04.600 then when

00:21:04.800 you get

00:21:05.000 bored of

00:21:05.380 that,

00:21:05.700 you get

00:21:05.900 married.

00:21:06.800 Except what

00:21:07.400 actually happens

00:21:08.100 is that you

00:21:09.380 get desperate

00:21:10.040 because you're

00:21:11.580 not as young

00:21:12.440 and attractive

00:21:12.900 and not as

00:21:13.480 meeting as

00:21:13.860 many people,

00:21:14.860 so you get

00:21:15.660 married to the

00:21:16.300 first thing

00:21:16.620 that comes

00:21:16.960 along and

00:21:18.260 then you get

00:21:18.720 miserable and

00:21:20.220 then you get

00:21:20.760 divorced and

00:21:21.680 so on.

00:21:23.440 Now,

00:21:24.260 Anonymous

00:21:24.520 Conservative,

00:21:25.860 sorry,

00:21:26.220 not Anonymous

00:21:26.620 Conservative,

00:21:27.480 the last

00:21:28.120 psychiatrist

00:21:28.660 had a

00:21:30.640 series of

00:21:31.040 posts on

00:21:31.560 this about

00:21:32.680 narcissism and

00:21:33.940 cinema.

00:21:35.960 And one of

00:21:36.980 the things he

00:21:37.320 was bringing

00:21:37.660 up was

00:21:39.060 all the

00:21:39.660 men that

00:21:41.520 instead of

00:21:42.640 sleeping with

00:21:44.140 their girlfriends,

00:21:45.080 they were

00:21:45.960 watching porn.

00:21:48.580 You know,

00:21:49.020 and the

00:21:49.480 girlfriend's like,

00:21:50.660 oh,

00:21:50.780 is it me?

00:21:51.320 Am I not

00:21:51.660 sexy enough?

00:21:52.300 And he's

00:21:53.460 saying,

00:21:53.640 no,

00:21:53.760 no,

00:21:53.900 that has

00:21:54.380 nothing to

00:21:54.700 do with

00:21:54.940 it.

00:21:55.940 It's that

00:21:56.480 all of

00:21:57.060 these men

00:21:58.400 have been

00:22:00.780 living this

00:22:01.220 life.

00:22:02.520 They lack

00:22:03.900 any actual

00:22:05.040 self-coherent

00:22:06.320 identity.

00:22:08.120 So they're

00:22:08.780 trying to

00:22:09.640 cosplay an

00:22:12.180 identity.

00:22:12.640 They're trying

00:22:12.940 to LARP

00:22:13.680 an identity.

00:22:15.460 You know,

00:22:15.620 what do you

00:22:15.880 think's going

00:22:16.260 on with the

00:22:16.660 alt-right

00:22:17.020 currently?

00:22:18.720 It's a

00:22:19.300 bunch of

00:22:20.100 angry guys

00:22:21.180 trying to

00:22:22.040 LARP

00:22:22.500 like they're

00:22:23.400 Teutonic

00:22:23.840 knights.

00:22:24.820 You know?

00:22:28.280 When they're

00:22:28.940 really,

00:22:29.280 they're just

00:22:29.520 angry men

00:22:31.400 in bad

00:22:31.840 marriages or

00:22:32.700 angry sexless

00:22:33.760 men or

00:22:34.960 what have you

00:22:35.760 because they

00:22:35.980 lack any

00:22:36.440 identity.

00:22:37.120 The SJW,

00:22:38.000 same thing.

00:22:38.640 They are just

00:22:39.020 looking for

00:22:40.000 an identity.

00:22:41.640 That's what

00:22:41.880 everyone's doing

00:22:42.440 nowadays.

00:22:43.820 And see,

00:22:44.120 Hollywood has

00:22:45.320 taught them

00:22:45.920 that the

00:22:47.440 way you

00:22:48.260 get the

00:22:48.560 girl is

00:22:50.000 first you

00:22:50.440 have to

00:22:51.080 kung fu

00:22:51.680 fight a

00:22:52.100 bunch of

00:22:52.360 bad guys.

00:22:55.080 And so

00:22:55.900 guys these

00:22:56.980 days,

00:22:57.240 they go and

00:22:57.780 they meet

00:22:58.140 a girl and

00:22:59.740 they pretend

00:23:00.780 to be

00:23:01.700 whatever they're

00:23:02.700 pretending to

00:23:03.140 be to get

00:23:03.580 her into

00:23:03.820 bed.

00:23:05.660 And,

00:23:06.200 you know,

00:23:07.380 it goes

00:23:08.380 along and

00:23:08.780 then they

00:23:09.540 wonder,

00:23:09.880 it's like,

00:23:10.080 wait,

00:23:10.600 I haven't

00:23:11.160 actually fought

00:23:11.720 all the

00:23:11.980 ninjas off.

00:23:12.640 You know,

00:23:12.820 I haven't

00:23:13.140 killed a bunch

00:23:13.580 of pirates

00:23:14.100 and you're

00:23:14.620 still with

00:23:15.020 me.

00:23:15.260 You know,

00:23:16.060 why are

00:23:16.400 you still

00:23:16.720 with me?

00:23:17.940 Yeah,

00:23:18.120 and so

00:23:18.340 they don't

00:23:18.620 want to

00:23:18.880 have sex

00:23:19.320 with her

00:23:19.620 anymore

00:23:20.040 because

00:23:20.920 having sex

00:23:21.640 with her

00:23:22.160 reminds them

00:23:23.360 that their

00:23:23.920 whole personality

00:23:24.920 is a

00:23:25.600 narcissistic

00:23:26.280 shell.

00:23:33.400 And so

00:23:33.940 this is what

00:23:34.300 I was saying

00:23:34.700 at the

00:23:34.900 beginning of

00:23:35.340 this video

00:23:35.820 is that

00:23:36.260 everybody

00:23:37.140 gets what

00:23:37.720 they want.

00:23:40.720 You know,

00:23:41.240 if you go

00:23:41.800 out looking

00:23:43.440 for

00:23:43.980 sex

00:23:45.400 qua

00:23:45.740 sex,

00:23:46.700 you're

00:23:47.760 just

00:23:48.100 looking

00:23:48.600 to

00:23:49.060 get

00:23:49.260 your

00:23:49.460 rocks

00:23:49.800 off,

00:23:50.580 you are

00:23:52.640 going to

00:23:52.940 get that.

00:23:54.520 And then

00:23:55.180 there's going

00:23:55.460 to be some

00:23:55.760 person

00:23:56.220 hanging around

00:23:57.700 afterwards.

00:24:00.580 And she

00:24:01.340 is going to

00:24:01.800 be reminding

00:24:02.380 you that

00:24:03.700 whatever you

00:24:04.140 were pretending

00:24:04.980 to be,

00:24:06.320 you're not

00:24:07.340 that.

00:24:07.720 And if

00:24:12.940 you decide

00:24:13.540 to be

00:24:14.080 sexless

00:24:14.960 and pretend

00:24:16.380 to be

00:24:16.720 some sort

00:24:17.160 of holy

00:24:17.620 martyr,

00:24:18.920 you're going

00:24:20.420 to get

00:24:20.660 that.

00:24:22.020 You're going

00:24:22.740 to remain

00:24:23.120 celibate

00:24:23.740 up until

00:24:24.860 your late

00:24:25.300 20s when

00:24:26.520 some girl

00:24:27.260 that she

00:24:28.100 just made

00:24:28.520 a mistake

00:24:29.160 that has

00:24:29.520 a couple

00:24:29.860 of bastard

00:24:30.340 spawn is

00:24:31.980 going to

00:24:32.540 glom onto

00:24:33.240 you and

00:24:34.800 reward you

00:24:36.500 wearing a

00:24:37.100 hair shirt.

00:24:38.220 And then

00:24:38.640 she's going

00:24:38.880 to divorce

00:24:39.260 you because

00:24:40.320 of that.

00:24:47.760 This high

00:24:48.500 divorce rate,

00:24:49.820 it's because

00:24:51.560 it's what

00:24:51.920 people want.

00:24:53.640 It's because

00:24:54.160 that's the

00:24:54.720 story they're

00:24:55.900 living.

00:24:56.320 They're living

00:24:56.660 somebody else's

00:24:57.400 story.

00:24:58.180 They're living

00:24:58.820 an imaginary

00:24:59.360 story.

00:25:00.960 And so,

00:25:01.800 you know,

00:25:02.060 they wake

00:25:02.780 up next to

00:25:03.420 their wife

00:25:03.940 of 10 years

00:25:04.620 and say,

00:25:05.300 hey,

00:25:05.600 I haven't

00:25:06.040 fought any

00:25:06.440 bad guys.

00:25:07.100 God hasn't

00:25:09.540 downloaded the

00:25:10.300 program into

00:25:10.820 my brain to

00:25:11.820 be the

00:25:12.200 one.

00:25:13.860 And it's

00:25:14.320 all just a

00:25:14.940 reminder of

00:25:16.580 the life they

00:25:17.800 haven't been

00:25:18.460 living.

00:25:27.260 And so,

00:25:28.140 it is a

00:25:28.800 balancing act

00:25:29.540 between both

00:25:30.240 of these.

00:25:33.020 It's,

00:25:33.840 yes,

00:25:34.120 you need to

00:25:34.520 get yourself

00:25:35.280 out there.

00:25:36.720 You need to

00:25:37.720 go out and

00:25:38.560 have fun.

00:25:40.440 But not

00:25:41.160 the nihilistic,

00:25:43.000 destructive fun

00:25:43.960 for the sake

00:25:44.560 of fun.

00:25:46.460 You know,

00:25:47.000 I'm going to

00:25:47.360 go hang out

00:25:47.940 with a bunch

00:25:48.400 of strangers

00:25:49.000 and blitz my

00:25:50.140 mind on

00:25:50.640 drugs,

00:25:51.580 and, you

00:25:52.100 know,

00:25:52.220 it's Burning

00:25:52.680 Man maybe,

00:25:53.600 I'm going to

00:25:53.900 wear some

00:25:54.220 stupid outfits,

00:25:55.540 and I'm going

00:25:56.320 to call that

00:25:56.820 fun,

00:25:57.400 when that's

00:25:57.760 just self-destruction.

00:25:58.720 And trying

00:26:02.980 to live as

00:26:03.420 a hermit,

00:26:04.840 you know,

00:26:05.000 trying to

00:26:05.700 reject the

00:26:06.800 whole nature

00:26:07.360 of fun,

00:26:08.460 you know,

00:26:08.720 and engage

00:26:09.100 in some

00:26:09.320 sort of

00:26:09.580 Protestant

00:26:09.920 work ethic

00:26:10.680 where you

00:26:11.300 just slave

00:26:12.160 away your

00:26:12.840 whole life

00:26:13.500 without knowing

00:26:14.100 why,

00:26:15.560 that's equally

00:26:16.540 not the

00:26:18.180 solution.

00:26:20.880 You do

00:26:21.740 need to

00:26:22.300 take a

00:26:22.840 holistic

00:26:23.300 approach

00:26:24.840 to things.

00:26:25.520 You need

00:26:25.880 to connect

00:26:26.360 the two

00:26:26.740 halves of

00:26:27.300 the bicameral

00:26:28.020 mind.

00:26:28.720 And you

00:26:30.360 need to

00:26:30.600 figure out

00:26:31.020 what it

00:26:31.440 is that

00:26:31.760 you're

00:26:31.920 doing

00:26:32.220 what you

00:26:32.600 want.

00:26:35.600 You know,

00:26:36.100 the idea

00:26:36.600 of marriage,

00:26:38.600 of having

00:26:39.440 children,

00:26:40.360 is very

00:26:41.040 terrifying.

00:26:42.660 It sounds

00:26:42.960 like settling

00:26:43.600 to the kid

00:26:45.560 in their

00:26:45.780 20s.

00:26:47.360 You know,

00:26:47.820 it's just

00:26:48.020 trying to

00:26:48.320 pick up

00:26:48.600 as many

00:26:48.860 girls as

00:26:49.260 he can.

00:26:49.720 And ironically

00:26:50.260 enough,

00:26:51.520 you know,

00:26:51.700 because he

00:26:52.020 thinks marriage

00:26:52.600 is settling,

00:26:53.320 it is

00:26:53.580 guaranteeing

00:26:54.320 that he

00:26:54.880 is going

00:26:55.220 to settle

00:26:55.580 someday.

00:26:58.720 And the

00:27:02.160 problem with

00:27:02.500 game is

00:27:03.080 that,

00:27:03.660 you know,

00:27:04.000 on the

00:27:04.160 one hand,

00:27:04.840 you know,

00:27:05.200 guys have

00:27:06.120 just been so

00:27:06.800 beaten down

00:27:07.460 in the

00:27:07.720 schools that

00:27:09.280 they've got

00:27:09.580 no game

00:27:10.020 whatsoever.

00:27:10.520 They've got

00:27:10.740 no idea

00:27:11.260 how to

00:27:11.560 approach

00:27:11.860 women.

00:27:12.160 They've got

00:27:12.400 no idea

00:27:12.920 what women

00:27:13.320 want.

00:27:14.640 But the

00:27:15.440 end of

00:27:16.320 game is

00:27:16.880 just sex

00:27:17.420 for the

00:27:17.700 sake of

00:27:18.060 sex,

00:27:18.800 and the

00:27:19.880 inevitable

00:27:20.320 result of

00:27:21.320 that is

00:27:22.240 settling down

00:27:22.980 and then

00:27:23.400 divorce,

00:27:24.280 or just

00:27:24.900 misery.

00:27:25.360 you need

00:27:29.640 to be

00:27:29.860 both.

00:27:31.060 You need

00:27:31.340 to,

00:27:32.980 you know,

00:27:33.320 the same

00:27:33.640 way,

00:27:33.860 like the

00:27:34.100 school kid

00:27:34.960 needs to

00:27:36.080 be working,

00:27:38.260 like they

00:27:38.500 should be

00:27:38.900 trying to

00:27:39.280 earn a

00:27:40.640 good grade,

00:27:41.660 the respect

00:27:43.160 and admiration

00:27:44.360 of their

00:27:45.440 parents and

00:27:46.460 teachers.

00:27:48.000 But they

00:27:48.680 also need

00:27:49.420 to be in

00:27:50.320 education for

00:27:51.620 the sake of

00:27:53.120 education,

00:27:53.600 even if they

00:27:54.040 can't completely

00:27:54.780 understand

00:27:55.280 it just

00:27:56.520 yet.

00:27:59.960 Now the

00:28:00.760 part where

00:28:01.020 this analogy

00:28:01.560 breaks down

00:28:02.260 is that

00:28:03.340 the school

00:28:05.180 system,

00:28:05.860 theoretically,

00:28:07.640 guides you

00:28:08.600 towards that

00:28:10.140 grander

00:28:10.800 goal.

00:28:12.560 Our society

00:28:13.220 doesn't

00:28:13.900 guide anybody

00:28:14.900 to any

00:28:15.360 goal anymore.

00:28:20.040 So you

00:28:21.040 have to do

00:28:21.520 that.

00:28:21.680 You have to

00:28:22.060 be looking

00:28:22.440 forward to

00:28:24.080 that future

00:28:24.660 of marriage,

00:28:25.280 even though

00:28:25.660 you can't

00:28:26.180 understand it

00:28:26.720 yet.

00:28:26.960 You're not

00:28:27.560 old enough

00:28:28.140 to really

00:28:29.240 understand it

00:28:30.300 just yet.

00:28:32.460 You know,

00:28:32.700 like maybe

00:28:32.980 by 20

00:28:33.520 you might

00:28:34.060 be.

00:28:35.300 It's unlikely

00:28:36.240 because,

00:28:37.220 you know,

00:28:37.620 we're all

00:28:38.440 stunted

00:28:38.840 teenagers

00:28:39.520 these days.

00:28:41.060 But to the

00:28:41.560 14-year-old,

00:28:42.340 it sounds

00:28:42.640 absolutely

00:28:43.040 terrifying.

00:28:43.700 He just

00:28:43.920 wants to

00:28:44.200 be around

00:28:44.520 a pretty

00:28:44.820 girl.

00:28:48.320 But you

00:28:48.880 need to

00:28:49.120 do your

00:28:49.360 best to

00:28:49.720 think about

00:28:50.300 the long

00:28:50.740 term.

00:28:51.040 To look

00:28:52.040 at her

00:28:52.640 not as

00:28:53.900 an

00:28:55.620 accomplishment,

00:28:57.480 not as

00:28:58.280 a reward.

00:29:01.000 You know,

00:29:01.220 like as I

00:29:01.760 said in

00:29:02.440 another video

00:29:03.400 not too

00:29:04.140 long ago,

00:29:05.720 the hero's

00:29:08.500 journey

00:29:09.020 stops

00:29:10.740 halfway.

00:29:12.720 You know,

00:29:13.100 introduction

00:29:16.200 of the

00:29:16.580 protagonist,

00:29:17.460 refusal to

00:29:18.280 adventure,

00:29:19.140 mentor,

00:29:19.740 etc.

00:29:20.220 And then

00:29:20.660 it stops

00:29:21.420 at the

00:29:22.460 part where

00:29:24.040 they get

00:29:24.400 the elixir,

00:29:25.380 where they

00:29:25.780 get the

00:29:26.120 girl,

00:29:26.640 and does

00:29:26.960 not have

00:29:27.360 the return

00:29:28.060 from the

00:29:29.220 underworld.

00:29:32.000 Again,

00:29:32.540 it's

00:29:32.700 stunted,

00:29:33.640 okay?

00:29:33.900 It's

00:29:34.100 bicameral.

00:29:37.420 So you

00:29:38.020 need to be

00:29:38.300 looking at

00:29:38.760 that return

00:29:39.340 from the

00:29:39.680 underworld.

00:29:40.180 Yes,

00:29:40.380 you should

00:29:40.600 be pursuing

00:29:41.280 women

00:29:42.080 passionately

00:29:43.840 the way

00:29:44.480 a man

00:29:44.760 is supposed

00:29:45.180 to.

00:29:48.920 And,

00:29:49.600 you know,

00:29:50.760 if a few

00:29:51.060 things happen

00:29:51.600 along the

00:29:52.080 way,

00:29:52.780 you know,

00:29:53.140 it's a lot

00:29:53.960 better than

00:29:54.580 looking at

00:29:55.360 pornography.

00:29:56.400 And,

00:29:56.740 I mean,

00:29:57.700 Godspeed if

00:29:58.440 you've managed

00:29:58.900 to kick

00:29:59.260 that,

00:29:59.920 okay?

00:30:00.240 It's

00:30:00.480 something I

00:30:01.420 think every

00:30:01.980 guy under

00:30:03.820 the age of

00:30:04.640 60 struggles

00:30:06.260 with,

00:30:06.700 because it's

00:30:07.120 just so

00:30:07.780 universally

00:30:08.760 available.

00:30:12.020 But,

00:30:12.460 yeah,

00:30:12.560 if something

00:30:12.880 happens along

00:30:13.540 the way,

00:30:14.140 it's,

00:30:14.480 listen,

00:30:17.160 you can

00:30:17.360 always go

00:30:17.660 to confession,

00:30:18.520 all right?

00:30:18.960 I wish that

00:30:19.460 baptism was an

00:30:20.220 immediate

00:30:20.520 transformation of

00:30:21.380 the soul,

00:30:22.460 but maybe we're

00:30:24.380 just not good

00:30:24.900 enough for that,

00:30:26.400 I guess.

00:30:28.560 Yeah,

00:30:29.000 I'd much

00:30:29.480 rather you

00:30:29.860 were actually

00:30:30.260 there,

00:30:30.680 you know,

00:30:31.020 kissing pretty

00:30:31.560 girls than

00:30:33.040 whipping yourself

00:30:34.700 for having

00:30:35.060 desires in the

00:30:35.700 first place.

00:30:38.720 But look at

00:30:39.380 her as a

00:30:39.700 person.

00:30:41.280 You know,

00:30:41.540 if you're

00:30:42.200 worried about

00:30:42.780 falling into

00:30:43.860 hedonism,

00:30:45.880 the resistance

00:30:46.800 to that is

00:30:47.840 not to deny

00:30:48.600 the sexual

00:30:49.500 urge at all,

00:30:50.440 to try and

00:30:51.160 pretend that

00:30:51.520 you don't have

00:30:52.060 one,

00:30:52.580 only to have

00:30:53.100 it,

00:30:53.920 you know,

00:30:54.340 you crack and

00:30:55.080 you look at a

00:30:55.440 bunch of

00:30:55.620 terrible pornography,

00:30:56.920 which that

00:30:57.560 actually does

00:30:58.040 warp you,

00:30:58.580 that actually

00:30:58.900 does suck the

00:30:59.580 energy out of

00:31:00.060 your life.

00:31:00.420 the solution

00:31:02.420 is to actually

00:31:02.880 look at her

00:31:03.420 as a human

00:31:03.860 being,

00:31:05.000 actually see

00:31:05.660 her as a

00:31:06.360 person with

00:31:07.340 hopes and

00:31:08.460 desires and,

00:31:10.200 you know,

00:31:11.020 a good life

00:31:12.060 she could live

00:31:12.760 or a terrible

00:31:13.440 life she could

00:31:14.880 live,

00:31:15.380 and ask

00:31:16.040 yourself,

00:31:16.520 am I part

00:31:17.420 of the good

00:31:18.740 life she could

00:31:19.380 live,

00:31:19.620 or am I being

00:31:20.160 part of that

00:31:21.280 darkness that

00:31:23.460 wants to

00:31:23.900 swallow her

00:31:24.540 up?

00:31:27.060 And so you

00:31:27.840 can go and

00:31:29.560 meet her and

00:31:31.320 dance with her

00:31:32.340 and kiss her

00:31:32.880 and then,

00:31:33.340 you know,

00:31:34.440 maybe I'm not

00:31:35.260 the right one

00:31:35.760 for her,

00:31:36.820 and back off.

00:31:40.420 And you're

00:31:41.180 going to need

00:31:41.420 to do this

00:31:41.800 with a lot

00:31:42.220 of women.

00:31:44.080 You know,

00:31:44.260 the problem

00:31:45.100 with that

00:31:45.380 purity culture

00:31:46.140 is that there's

00:31:47.300 no dating.

00:31:49.460 Okay,

00:31:50.020 they ask each

00:31:51.460 other out and

00:31:52.360 they're on their

00:31:52.820 way to marriage.

00:31:54.860 Back in the

00:31:55.480 50s,

00:31:56.480 teenagers,

00:31:57.280 they used to

00:31:57.860 date lots of

00:31:58.620 people.

00:31:59.560 And there's

00:32:00.180 an unspoken

00:32:01.800 rule that you

00:32:02.220 never date the

00:32:02.880 same person

00:32:03.560 twice in a

00:32:05.080 row.

00:32:08.220 Until you

00:32:09.380 met one you

00:32:09.940 really liked,

00:32:10.500 and then you

00:32:10.820 were going

00:32:11.420 steady because

00:32:12.780 you were steadily

00:32:13.560 going on

00:32:14.500 dates with

00:32:15.900 them.

00:32:18.220 Much better

00:32:18.980 courtship,

00:32:20.020 less broken

00:32:20.560 hearts,

00:32:21.540 less terror

00:32:22.600 in the whole

00:32:23.640 thing,

00:32:23.880 a lot more

00:32:24.340 fun.

00:32:24.940 men.

00:32:27.840 And it

00:32:28.480 allowed you

00:32:29.020 to get to

00:32:30.040 know a lot

00:32:30.620 of different

00:32:30.980 people.

00:32:32.360 Let you

00:32:32.980 get to know

00:32:33.320 different women,

00:32:34.220 what they're

00:32:34.760 like,

00:32:35.220 or same

00:32:36.040 thing in the

00:32:36.320 women's case,

00:32:36.840 have lots

00:32:37.420 of different

00:32:38.020 men.

00:32:38.840 They've met

00:32:39.640 and assessed,

00:32:40.640 determined their

00:32:41.120 personality,

00:32:42.380 and then

00:32:43.180 ultimately make

00:32:44.260 a decision

00:32:44.600 on.

00:32:50.060 So,

00:32:50.580 to recap

00:32:52.580 all of this,

00:32:54.940 what are you

00:32:55.620 supposed to

00:32:55.960 do as a

00:32:56.280 young man

00:32:56.660 these days

00:32:57.160 to avoid

00:32:58.240 the absolute

00:32:58.820 horrors of

00:32:59.640 divorce,

00:33:01.640 of hedonistic

00:33:02.900 suicide culture,

00:33:04.000 etc.

00:33:06.360 You need to

00:33:07.040 be aware of

00:33:07.620 what you're

00:33:07.980 doing,

00:33:09.300 and what

00:33:10.440 you want,

00:33:12.380 and what

00:33:14.180 you fear.

00:33:16.340 Because if you

00:33:16.940 don't address

00:33:17.540 what you're

00:33:18.120 afraid of,

00:33:19.360 you are going

00:33:20.080 to have it.

00:33:20.900 You know,

00:33:21.100 like if you

00:33:21.440 are the guy

00:33:22.000 that says,

00:33:22.360 oh man,

00:33:22.660 settling down,

00:33:23.280 that's terrifying,

00:33:23.900 you are going

00:33:25.060 to settle

00:33:25.380 someday,

00:33:26.660 or just be

00:33:27.500 completely lonely

00:33:28.560 and wishing

00:33:28.980 you'd settle.

00:33:31.440 And if

00:33:32.000 you're,

00:33:32.540 you know,

00:33:32.800 the opposite,

00:33:33.540 where you're

00:33:34.100 afraid that

00:33:34.720 you're going

00:33:34.920 to fall

00:33:35.220 into hedonism,

00:33:37.860 you're just

00:33:38.500 going to fall

00:33:38.840 into a

00:33:39.060 different type

00:33:39.440 of hedonism.

00:33:40.700 You know,

00:33:41.080 marrying some

00:33:42.720 woman you

00:33:43.100 don't like

00:33:43.700 for the sake

00:33:44.680 of looking

00:33:45.000 virtuous,

00:33:45.740 you know,

00:33:45.920 that's another,

00:33:46.440 just another

00:33:46.980 form of

00:33:48.500 hedonism.

00:33:48.920 you need

00:33:50.640 to do

00:33:51.080 it with

00:33:52.440 your eyes

00:33:53.940 open,

00:33:55.420 appreciating

00:33:56.080 women as

00:33:57.500 human beings,

00:33:58.900 as fully

00:34:00.620 developed people.

00:34:02.420 And you need

00:34:02.780 to do it in a

00:34:03.320 masculine type

00:34:04.900 of a manner.

00:34:05.640 You know,

00:34:06.000 it's a,

00:34:07.180 sometimes Donald

00:34:08.060 Trump is right.

00:34:09.000 They do want you

00:34:09.800 to grab him

00:34:10.260 by the pussy.

00:34:12.060 And when it's

00:34:12.500 that time,

00:34:13.460 and if you like

00:34:14.240 her,

00:34:14.720 you probably

00:34:15.500 should.

00:34:17.080 Although I'd

00:34:17.520 wait for the

00:34:18.260 rest of it

00:34:18.940 until the

00:34:19.300 wedding night.

00:34:23.240 So,

00:34:23.880 just be aware,

00:34:25.360 you are going

00:34:25.880 to get what

00:34:26.240 you want out

00:34:26.740 of life.

00:34:28.880 And that

00:34:29.560 can very

00:34:30.160 easily turn

00:34:30.800 into an

00:34:31.100 absolute horror

00:34:31.760 show.

00:34:33.960 But just

00:34:34.300 keep your

00:34:35.660 eyes open,

00:34:36.940 get out

00:34:37.820 there.

00:34:39.120 That's number

00:34:39.740 one,

00:34:40.000 just get

00:34:40.560 out there.

00:34:42.840 Meet women,

00:34:44.060 go

00:34:44.640 dancing,

00:34:46.300 pick up

00:34:47.720 stand-up

00:34:48.180 comedy,

00:34:49.000 I don't

00:34:49.220 know,

00:34:49.440 anything to

00:34:50.060 get yourself

00:34:50.820 out there.

00:34:52.340 Obviously a

00:34:52.980 nightclub,

00:34:53.880 pounding music,

00:34:55.240 you know,

00:34:56.220 thousand dollars

00:34:57.040 for bottles,

00:34:57.860 that's not

00:34:58.420 getting yourself

00:34:58.920 out there.

00:34:59.740 That's pretending

00:35:00.240 to be somebody

00:35:00.760 else.

00:35:03.560 Get out into

00:35:04.320 real places.

00:35:06.020 Go do

00:35:06.380 real things.

00:35:08.680 And talk to

00:35:09.260 the girls that

00:35:09.760 you meet there.

00:35:10.600 Talk to the

00:35:11.020 girls at the

00:35:11.500 gas station,

00:35:12.240 talk to the

00:35:12.540 girls at the

00:35:12.920 coffee shop,

00:35:13.600 flirt with

00:35:14.520 them.

00:35:15.420 Learn how to

00:35:15.960 flirt with

00:35:16.360 girls.

00:35:17.440 You know,

00:35:17.600 even if you're

00:35:17.980 not going to

00:35:18.280 marry them,

00:35:18.760 they still

00:35:19.060 like it.

00:35:20.600 All right?

00:35:21.220 If you really

00:35:22.100 need to start

00:35:23.620 off on,

00:35:24.460 you know,

00:35:25.020 with training

00:35:25.540 wheels,

00:35:26.680 flirt with

00:35:27.000 older ladies.

00:35:28.020 They love

00:35:28.440 it.

00:35:29.100 Okay?

00:35:29.400 They love

00:35:30.180 the appreciation

00:35:31.580 and they

00:35:32.380 won't take it

00:35:33.000 like you're

00:35:34.840 actually trying

00:35:35.320 to hit on

00:35:35.760 them.

00:35:36.460 Okay?

00:35:36.700 They'll just

00:35:36.980 take it as

00:35:37.360 a compliment.

00:35:39.480 Get yourself

00:35:40.180 out there.

00:35:42.160 Live real

00:35:42.860 life.

00:35:44.600 And just

00:35:45.760 keep your

00:35:46.100 eyes open.

00:35:47.260 Look at

00:35:47.540 others as

00:35:48.200 human beings.

00:35:49.940 As radiant

00:35:51.980 creatures worthy

00:35:54.480 of your

00:35:54.780 respect.

00:35:57.300 And don't

00:35:58.100 be afraid to

00:35:58.520 be a man.

00:36:01.040 Best of luck,

00:36:01.840 brother.

00:36:02.720 Hopefully,

00:36:03.880 some of the

00:36:04.220 mistakes I've

00:36:04.880 learned from,

00:36:06.000 you can just

00:36:06.420 learn from me

00:36:06.940 telling you about

00:36:07.900 them in this

00:36:08.280 video.

00:36:08.520 Anyway,

00:36:10.880 Deus Vault,

00:36:11.980 Irini out.

00:36:13.600 and don't

00:36:15.180 like that.

00:36:23.700 .

00:36:23.920 .

00:36:24.800 .

00:36:26.860 .

00:36:26.900 .

00:36:27.420 .

00:36:27.640 .

00:36:28.520 .

00:36:31.700 .

00:36:33.720 .

00:36:34.260 .

00:36:36.220 .

00:36:37.020 .

00:36:37.480 Thank you.

Leo D.M.J. Aurini - January 25, 2017

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