The Futility of Arguing With Feminists
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Summary
Feminists are always looking for something to complain about, and they always find it in video games. Arguing with them is fruitless. In this video, I explain why, and why you should be able to have a conversation with them.
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In my last video, I addressed this recent kerfuffle over male video game protagonists.
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I was addressing the feminist complaints about too many males in video games, but I was very
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clear to point out that I wasn't speaking to the feminists.
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I rather was explaining why we have so many male protagonists for those with the ability
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Now, a friend of mine, a young lady I'm acquainted with, was in complete agreement with me, but
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she asked me to expand on that topic, simply because she sees so many men who are constantly
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trying to converse with feminists, who are trying to appease them, not realizing that
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They're just looking for something to complain about.
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And so she asked me if I could do this video to help nail that down for you guys, that if
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you think you can have a conversation with these women, I'm telling you right now that
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Right off the bat, we're going to have to start with a bit of historical revision.
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We're going to have to actually get back to what really happened and not what you got learned
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Because of course, the same way that we're all Freudians, the same way we're all Marxists
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We've been fed this information constantly throughout our lives, from the schools, from TV, from ideologues,
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And so it's so tempting to say, well, these far-off feminists, these crazy ones, okay, they're
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a little bit wacky, but what about all the good feminism did?
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Let's take, let's take women's suffrage, for example, isn't that one of the great accomplishments
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See, the women's suffrage, women getting the vote, implies that there was a time when they
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And I will tell you right now, women voted in 1850.
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This whole myth of women getting the vote is a mischaracterization of what was actually
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You see, the vote used to be something reserved for households.
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This all goes back to the Magna Carta, that the law is above the king.
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That the nobles can enforce the law upon the king.
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So the nobles get to participate in the government.
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And then it expands from the nobles to not just those with the right birth, but those of
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And so on and so on, until you get to the point where anybody that owns a decent, reasonable
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It was the person that was invested in this country, in this economy, and they got to have
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If you are still working minimum wage at the age of 50, the idea back then was that you
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You have no idea how to run anything if you're still working at McDonald's at the age of 50.
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But if you've built a life for yourself, if you've accomplished something, then you are
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And so during the 1800s, we saw this expanding more and more.
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You know, the property value used to be this requirement, then it was this requirement, so
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on and so forth, until eventually it became all natural-born men in the country got to vote.
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And so what was the gap between all the men getting to vote and all the women getting
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There was a seven-year gap between the woman had to have a certain amount of property to
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This was a natural expansion of the franchise that had been going on for centuries.
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It had nothing to do with feminism, and there was never any oppressive regime that said
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Okay, like we've had women in politics, we've had women active in politics, we've had them
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What's the other big accomplishment that you hear about that feminism did?
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Women weren't allowed to work back in 1900 or 1850.
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In fact, there was no watershed moment where women started working.
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If you look at female employment rates, they have been steadily increasing over the past
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The thing is, as we got more technology, and as jobs became easier, and as homemaking went
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from a 12-hour-a-day job to a 4-hour-a-day job, more and more women started working outside
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the home for an income, rather than working inside the home to invest in the household.
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Both are labor, both generate value, but one is taxable, the other isn't.
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There is a couple of prominent examples of professions that didn't allow women, but those are
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the exceptions that prove the rule, because they stood out, because most jobs had no standards.
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They probably wouldn't let a woman work in a coal mine because it was so dangerous, and
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But aside from something like that, yeah, women could do whatever they wanted.
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It's just that most of them wanted to get married and have children.
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As opposed to now, with feminist legislation, with affirmative action, we have a situation
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where most households need both the man and the woman out there in the workplace earning
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That anything you think feminism accomplished, it did not do that.
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Either they grossly distorted the truth, or there was an entirely different social effect
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going on, or what they actually accomplished for women made women a lot worse off.
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There's a reason depression and eating disorders are far more common in the free, liberated year
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And for one contemporary example, before we're done with this, if you want to learn more,
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She will, she will, she'll learn you about what a giant lie feminism is.
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So the woman that kicked all this off, is she a woman?
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I don't know, and quite frankly, I could care less.
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I caught about half of one of the third videos she did.
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First she's complaining about the patriarchal, cisgendered, sexist, violent rape trope of Rescue
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How evil and bad it is that us guys want to rescue the princess.
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And then, and then she says, but that one game where Princess Peach has to rescue Mario,
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well that's just inverting the trope, so it's no good.
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Alright, alright, so the, the trope is no good.
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If you watch her videos and pay attention, they are absolutely incoherent.
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Now, of course this leads us to the question, why?
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Because we, we're saying people, if we are arguing about something, if we think something is,
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if we say that we think something is unfair, it's because we honestly think it is fair and
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Whether we're being the one victimized or if somebody else is being victimized.
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So, why would these, so many of these women, so many of these ideological women, why would
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they be saying that video games are unfair, the workplace is unfair, etc., whatever, it's
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If they don't actually have a genuine complaint or a genuine coherent argument.
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Let's look at misogyny first, to ease into what's going on in that female brain.
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Now, misogyny, and I mean actual clinical misogyny, misogyny the mental disorder, is something
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that occurs in men when they have an extremely abusive mother.
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The fact about men is that we need comfort, we need admiration, and we need sexual love
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That without those things, without the, at least without the hope of one day getting those
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But, if as a child, you have an extremely abusive mother, then your ability to love women is
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So, you still need this love and admiration from a woman, but you don't trust women.
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You think that they're all going to act the exact same way that your mother acted when
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And so, this is why you get the, and there is truth to the stereotype, it's just, it's
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a very small number of men rather than all men, that certain men do undermine the egos
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They do injure them emotionally, so that that woman is too broken to ever leave him, to ever
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So, what these men wind up with is a wife that's not even a wife, because the only reason
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And so, this very real emotional need inside their heart is left void.
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This is what happens when you have a mental disorder that's been put onto you by your parents.
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For women, what women need in their lives is a man they can admire, and a man that's strong,
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who can protect them, and a man who they can sexually worship.
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And these feminists have a big, gaping void in their soul where that man is supposed to
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And it could be because they went through some abuse as a child from a really terrible
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Or maybe they just internalized so much of this negative dialogue that shoved down our
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throats by the mainstream media, by the universities, that they wound up hating men through that.
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But whatever the cause, this idea of man, this hope for that sort of love that all women
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need, it's a black, gaping void in their soul that will never be filled.
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Even if you're single, even if you're single and you haven't found the right partner yet,
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you can imagine that woman that comforts and cares about you.
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You can imagine that man that protects and loves you.
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They've decided that all men, the nature of masculinity is evil and hatred and abuse and
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And so where their heart is supposed to be is nothing but hatred.
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Nothing but disgust and angst and self-loathing that they project out onto the world.
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And so these women, these girls like Feminist Frequency, they see you guys out there playing
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You and your girlfriends are all getting along perfectly happy.
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Loathing of the fact that anybody can be happy, that you're not sharing in their misery.
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And so feminists hunt around looking for anything to complain about.
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You're always going to be able to find statistics of inequality between them because men and women
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And so that's an inequality you're going to find between them.
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So they find these inequalities and then they come up with an argument.
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They come up with some BS argument about why this inequality shows that men are horrible,
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violent, abusive, and we don't have enough democracy or whatever they're calling it now.
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So when these women come into your community and start complaining about this, it's bullshit.
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There was a guy recently on, I think it was a year or two ago, he was on some video game show
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and he started, there was a female player on the show who loved gaming, who was just a geek girl,
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didn't seem like any sort of feminist to me, and he started bullying her.
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Everybody saw what he was doing and saw that it was bullying.
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There have been girls playing video games all this time.
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And most guys will stick up with them, stick up for them.
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Aside from the 13-year-old idiots on whatever the latest shooter program is,
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The feminists just find these things and latch on to them and try and create an argument.
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Then they try and get money from the government because they're useless people that could never compete.
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You show me a woman that's made a video game, she won't be a feminist.
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You show me a woman that could never make a video game,
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Well, now that geek culture is popular, she's going to claim it was because of oppression.
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You cannot have a conversation with these people.
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And so anytime you give them an inch, you're giving them a mile.
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You're letting the camel get its nose in the tent.
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All they want to do is destroy video gaming culture.
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Or anything else that they get their nose into.
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They're trying to make it miserable for everybody.
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Now I'd like to finish off on a somewhat related note.
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I was almost going to make this into a video of its own, except it's not quite enough for that.
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So many of us feel like we're walking around on eggshells all the time.
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That if you say the wrong thing, you're going to offend somebody and get in trouble.
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Or you have to be politically correct all the time.
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And so many guys feel like if you badmouth feminism in public,
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that the girl that you're trying to get with is not going to like you.
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She's going to think you're a terrible human being.
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She's going to get angry at you and you'll kill your social life.
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The fact of the matter is that girls love strong men who are confident in what they believe.
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If you state something confidently, it doesn't matter what her women's studies professor thinks about it.
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But she will like the fact that you said it with confidence.
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She will like you for having the confidence, not because of what you believe.
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Whereas if you are a simpering beta male trying to suck up to her,
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that, yeah, she'll hang out with you, but she'll never date you.
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If you are in a workplace, especially a workplace with a bunch of haggard old HR women running it,
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and you state what you think as unequivocally true,
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But the reason they're growing furious isn't what you would think.
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See, a guy, if you said something he disagreed with, might get angry at you personally.
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But these HR women, the reason it's so dangerous to say this sort of stuff in front of the HR women,
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And at the same time, they realize that you would never sleep with them.
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You're reminding them that they are losers in the sexual marketplace.
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And so that's why they attack you, to get rid of you.
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heck, I was at this party with a whole bunch of young university GLBTs,
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normally I try and speak very intelligently about things
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whose main hobby is sitting in the basement and hating God all day,
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I'm just going to make them dance for my amusement.
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aside from the cute one with the Skrillex haircut,
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and telling me what a horrible person I was as she stared deeply into my eyes.
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You cannot go wrong by being two right-wing men.
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All of her friends told her to stay awake from me after that,
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Certainly, there are a few feminists out there who are just,
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they're girls brainwashed by the same way all you guys are brainwashed,
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and a quick conversation with them will sort things out.
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But, the real feminists, the ideologue feminists,
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these losers at life that just hate you for not sucking,
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Quite frankly, that Naomi girl that keeps writing so much libel about me,
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do you think she's doing it because she disagrees with me,
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Or is she doing it because she's desperately in love with me,
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These feminists just don't want you to be happy.
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It's about them trying to destroy everything that's true and good.
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And, certainly, if you think I'm making this stuff up,