Leo D.M.J. Aurini


The Twofold Nature of the Sexes


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Summary

In this episode, we talk about the nature of opposites, and how there are three types of opposite, and what they are, and why they are important. We also talk about gradients, which are gradients in which there are no clear demarcations between them.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Thank you.
00:00:30.000 So, recently there's been a lot of horseshit being talked about.
00:00:34.980 Transsexuals and gendered bathrooms and ambiguous sexualities.
00:00:42.260 All of that stuff's stupid.
00:00:44.140 I don't want to talk about any of it.
00:00:45.880 Let's just leave that at the front door and not touch it.
00:00:51.880 I'll tell you what I do want to talk about, though, is the nature of opposites.
00:00:56.760 Because this is actually a pretty interesting topic.
00:01:00.460 It's something I've devoted a lot of time thinking about.
00:01:03.840 And, you know, I've basically come to the conclusion that there are three types of opposites.
00:01:09.620 The first is the chiral opposite.
00:01:15.860 So, chiral.
00:01:17.160 That's an interesting word.
00:01:18.220 What the hell does that mean?
00:01:19.500 C-H-I-R-A-L.
00:01:21.200 Chiral.
00:01:23.040 Chirality.
00:01:24.520 You know, and I first picked up on this in Breaking Bad, where they're talking about chiral molecules.
00:01:29.840 Because, well, let me give you a better example of chiral.
00:01:33.300 Well, chirality is when you have two things that are completely identical to each other.
00:01:39.920 They are built out of the exact same components.
00:01:42.440 They have the exact same design and the exact same function.
00:01:47.000 And yet they are completely different.
00:01:49.900 You cannot take a piece of one of them and replace a piece on the other one.
00:01:55.160 And the perfect example of chirality is your hands.
00:02:01.200 Completely identical.
00:02:02.060 Equally useful.
00:02:05.360 You know, maybe you're right-handed, maybe you're left-handed.
00:02:07.520 But there's no inherent intrinsic reason why being right-handed is superior to being left-handed.
00:02:17.120 Completely chiral.
00:02:19.000 Completely mirrored.
00:02:22.060 And yet, you can't take a single bone from your right hand and replace a single bone in your left hand.
00:02:30.320 And they're utterly unique.
00:02:34.620 Another example of chirality is the mirror reflection.
00:02:38.280 Now, a lot of people, they think that the mirror flips an image left to right.
00:02:43.780 No.
00:02:46.040 It flips your image front to back.
00:02:52.380 Those are what are flipped around.
00:02:54.080 And when you flip around one of the three axes,
00:02:58.160 you reverse chirality.
00:03:01.740 So, your left hand in the mirror looks like a right hand.
00:03:09.860 Even though it's on your left side.
00:03:13.400 It is now a right hand in the flipped chirality in the mirror universe.
00:03:20.420 So, that's chirality.
00:03:24.800 It's two things that are completely identical, but cannot be exchanged.
00:03:31.780 You know, the two rotors on the brake pads.
00:03:35.720 You know, on your brakes.
00:03:37.080 In the car.
00:03:38.380 The rotors, the brake pads squeeze on.
00:03:40.520 You can't swap the two of those out, usually.
00:03:44.080 They are chiral to one another.
00:03:46.080 One is for the left, one is for the right.
00:03:47.560 The right hand can't be interchanged.
00:03:57.240 The next form of opposite is the one of degrees.
00:04:05.120 The one of extremes.
00:04:06.820 The gradient.
00:04:10.500 Over here you have white.
00:04:13.140 Over here you have black.
00:04:14.720 And in between...
00:04:17.560 You have a gradient.
00:04:22.340 Now, this type of opposite.
00:04:24.460 This comes in a few different forms.
00:04:27.420 The first.
00:04:28.980 White and black.
00:04:30.200 That would be the bounded form.
00:04:33.940 It is bounded on white.
00:04:35.720 Because, like, there's a maximum amount of whiteness.
00:04:39.160 And there's a maximum amount of blackness.
00:04:42.560 Right?
00:04:44.420 You can say that this is more white or that it's more black.
00:04:46.760 But there are extremes.
00:04:48.440 It is bounded on both sides.
00:04:52.900 Then you have the form where it's bounded only on one side.
00:05:01.340 Temperature.
00:05:02.900 Brightness.
00:05:03.340 These are bounded only on one side.
00:05:06.220 You have an absolute zero of temperature.
00:05:10.240 You have an absolute zero of brightness.
00:05:12.660 Like, there's perfect darkness.
00:05:15.200 But brightness and temperature can always increase.
00:05:21.020 There is no limit to the amount of brightness or temperature that you can have.
00:05:29.160 And then, some of them are just completely unbounded.
00:05:35.700 Left and right are completely unbounded.
00:05:39.400 Distance.
00:05:40.740 The Cartesian coordinate system.
00:05:43.920 Unbounded in the left and the right.
00:05:46.660 You can always get more left and more right.
00:05:51.840 The opposites are effectively infinite.
00:05:57.900 And so, an example of the gradient system that we would see in real life would be forest, plains, desert.
00:06:12.700 Right?
00:06:13.420 If we have this gradient of greenery, how much chlorophyll is in the environment?
00:06:21.980 Maximum chlorophyll in the forest.
00:06:24.820 Minimum in the desert.
00:06:27.760 But where does one begin and where does the other end?
00:06:32.080 You draw boundaries.
00:06:33.900 You have to draw a boundary.
00:06:34.920 Like, okay, here's the forest and here's the...
00:06:36.340 We're going to draw the line right here.
00:06:37.820 But it's a bit of an arbitrary sort of a thing.
00:06:43.060 You know, like, where is...
00:06:44.200 What's the difference between light gray and dark gray?
00:06:46.940 Is what we're talking about with those type of gradients.
00:06:50.800 Yes, there are opposites.
00:06:51.880 There are the extremes.
00:06:54.780 But there's no clear demarcation anywhere between.
00:06:58.820 It's a gradual thing.
00:07:00.180 So, the chirals are completely indistinct.
00:07:07.260 The gradients are a pattern.
00:07:10.300 They're interrelated.
00:07:13.960 Now, the third type of opposite is the complementary.
00:07:20.480 And this...
00:07:21.420 Yes, girl?
00:07:22.460 Yes, do you want something?
00:07:23.260 The complementary is particularly interesting.
00:07:30.080 Because the complementary opposites are the two opposites that are designed for one another.
00:07:38.240 So, for example, you've got plugs.
00:07:43.200 You've got electronic plugs.
00:07:46.220 You know, whether we're talking about USB or if we're talking about just your basic lamp plug-in.
00:07:51.460 They're both formed of the same components.
00:07:56.520 You know, if you look at the plug going in to the socket and the socket it goes into.
00:08:03.060 Both of them have a cable coming out the other side.
00:08:06.180 You know, like a copper cable for electricity or a data cable for USB.
00:08:11.900 Identical cables.
00:08:13.320 Identical data.
00:08:16.180 And the components of the plug are made up of the same things.
00:08:21.460 You've got the copper.
00:08:24.660 You've got the gold.
00:08:25.700 You've got this arrangement.
00:08:27.560 Like, they mirror one another.
00:08:30.840 And yet they're not chiral.
00:08:34.160 These two items are designed for one another.
00:08:37.320 And yet no one piece can be replaced with the other.
00:08:48.020 Another, a simpler example of this might be the contact lens.
00:08:52.280 Because the contact lens is a convex, or a concave shell that goes on top of a convex eye.
00:09:07.640 And if you look closely at a contact lens, it has a right way and a wrong way.
00:09:17.320 The hemisphere, it's not just a line.
00:09:23.080 It has a thickness, and it comes down to a flat point.
00:09:28.080 And if you flip it upside down, it won't quite work.
00:09:34.300 You can put that onto your eye by accident.
00:09:36.480 But it'll be itchy.
00:09:38.200 It'll be scratching your eye the whole time.
00:09:40.140 Because that's not the way it's supposed to be.
00:09:42.040 It has a specific manner in which it is supposed to be.
00:09:47.160 It is a concave, part sphere that's meant to meet up with the sphere of your eye.
00:10:02.180 So, three different types of opposites.
00:10:05.120 The chiral, the gradient, and the complementary.
00:10:23.440 What sort of opposite is human sex?
00:10:29.220 Well, let's look at the first one, the chiral.
00:10:31.020 Is sex a chiral sort of a difference?
00:10:41.180 No.
00:10:43.260 No, it's not.
00:10:49.540 You have a dominant hand.
00:10:51.740 One that you prefer to write with.
00:10:56.180 But your other hand could do just as well.
00:11:01.020 Not so with the sexes.
00:11:08.600 Women give birth.
00:11:11.120 Men do not.
00:11:13.600 You cannot trade the sexes.
00:11:17.320 They are not equal opposites.
00:11:18.940 They are not mirror images of one another.
00:11:23.000 Now, our species, we happen to have quite a bit of sexual dimorphism.
00:11:27.620 So, it's a bit more obvious.
00:11:30.900 Right?
00:11:31.140 For instance, dogs and wolves.
00:11:35.180 They're a little bit more...
00:11:37.900 There's not as much differentiation.
00:11:40.360 You know, a female wolf and a male wolf about the same ability to go hunt an elk.
00:11:45.400 Whereas, we are very, very dissimilar from one another.
00:11:52.400 But on the most profound level, men cannot give birth.
00:11:57.060 It is functionally impossible for men to give birth.
00:12:01.600 Whereas, the two hands are both equally good.
00:12:04.140 They are mirror opposites of one another.
00:12:05.860 However, the human sexes are not chiral.
00:12:11.640 Well, what about gradient?
00:12:14.040 Is human sex on a gradient?
00:12:18.140 And see, at first, you're probably going to think that you've seen some women that are abnormally strong or very, very butch or whatever.
00:12:33.440 They manifest classically masculine traits.
00:12:37.320 Or you see a male dandy, who is, you know, an expert at fashion and fanciness and pizzazz.
00:12:46.740 And you think those are classically female traits.
00:12:52.640 Well, first of all, simplifying masculinity and femininity into such black and white extremes is just farcical.
00:13:01.220 Because, listen, when you think about the forest and the desert, those are both two distinct places.
00:13:09.500 But when you think about a masculine man, we'll take, you know what, Conan the Barbarian.
00:13:17.260 Perfect example.
00:13:19.220 Conan the Barbarian is actually, if you read the stories, a very, very complex character.
00:13:25.200 He has his sensitive side.
00:13:26.980 He has his nurturing side.
00:13:28.520 He has his emotional side.
00:13:29.900 All these things that, thanks to feminism, we think of as feminine and non-masculine, men have those traits as well.
00:13:41.840 And women throughout history, and throughout literature throughout history, okay, going all the way back to the ancient Greeks,
00:13:50.060 women have demonstrated what, according to feminists, is masculine behavior.
00:13:57.680 Integrity, courage, faithfulness, etc.
00:14:06.000 The fact of the matter is that the dandy, a good dandy, you take Oscar Wilde, very masculine.
00:14:12.440 And a woman that manifests, you know, that has large muscles, that is ferocious, is a big mama bear.
00:14:23.060 Well, look at some of the female MMA fighters.
00:14:28.700 And yes, some of them are very confused, but some of them are just genuine, good quality women.
00:14:35.640 That happen to have a bit more natural muscle than most men do.
00:14:39.460 See, the thing is, with the gradient, you need to find the middle ground.
00:14:48.600 And now people will say, well, what about intersex people?
00:14:52.600 And here's the real rub.
00:14:58.080 The fact that intersex exists is what demonstrates that this is not a gradient.
00:15:07.200 You see, there is no middle ground between male and female.
00:15:12.140 When you get intersex, you get, like, somebody with 3X chromosomes or an XXY chromosome.
00:15:21.020 What you get is genetic damage.
00:15:25.860 There's long...
00:15:27.140 Since humanity has been around, there's been the legend of the hermaphrodite.
00:15:35.280 Okay?
00:15:36.360 Hermaphrodite actually comes from hermaphroditus, from the Greek legends.
00:15:39.700 If you look at the tarot cards, the world is a man with breasts and the genitals covered.
00:15:50.240 Okay?
00:15:50.660 And it is present in all cultures.
00:15:55.000 The myth of the hermaphrodite doesn't exist.
00:16:02.060 The interesting thing about the XXY, if I'm remembering correctly,
00:16:07.340 feel, if I'm wrong, feel free to correct me.
00:16:09.860 There's one of the, one of the intersex chromosomes.
00:16:14.360 I believe it's the XXY.
00:16:17.240 Because of that Y chromosome in there,
00:16:20.920 because of that Y chromosome that wants to release testosterone,
00:16:25.980 the two X chromosomes go into overdrive.
00:16:30.880 And what results, interestingly enough,
00:16:35.400 is one of the most feminine creatures you will ever see.
00:16:40.400 Some of the most feminine women in Hollywood, in modeling,
00:16:50.280 they're actually hermaphrodites.
00:16:53.980 They're XXY.
00:16:55.440 And their body has reacted so harshly against the Y chromosome
00:16:59.600 that they become extremely feminine.
00:17:02.960 And there are cases of the reverse.
00:17:08.680 Where a man, where what we would think of as a man has an ovary,
00:17:14.520 his testicles are actually ovaries because of genetic damage,
00:17:18.400 and so he becomes hyper-masculine.
00:17:24.620 Rarely, very rarely,
00:17:26.740 you will actually see genitals that are so damaged
00:17:31.880 that they're not quite discernible,
00:17:36.500 especially at birth.
00:17:37.560 You can't tell what it is,
00:17:39.560 whether it's a man or a woman.
00:17:42.520 The genitals are so ambiguous.
00:17:47.400 And see, this reminds me of like a contact lens
00:17:50.500 that has been so worn out and so dried up
00:17:54.300 that half of it wants to go like this
00:17:58.160 and the other half goes like this.
00:18:01.480 And everything else is wrinkled in the middle.
00:18:04.660 It's not a balance.
00:18:07.280 It's not a middle ground
00:18:08.760 in between the woods and the desert.
00:18:11.880 It is clearly damaged.
00:18:20.120 There is no middle ground between the sexes.
00:18:23.100 You are either masculine or feminine.
00:18:27.720 And furthermore,
00:18:29.300 the fact that so many intersex people,
00:18:34.600 because of the chromosomal damage,
00:18:37.820 manifest extreme masculinity or femininity,
00:18:42.460 more so than any genetic male or female,
00:18:48.120 well,
00:18:50.340 here we get back to complementarianism.
00:18:53.100 You see,
00:18:59.160 the plug needs to mate with the socket.
00:19:03.980 They need to fit together.
00:19:08.880 And because of this,
00:19:11.400 because man was designed for woman
00:19:13.100 and woman was designed for man,
00:19:14.680 or evolved,
00:19:18.360 go tip a fedora,
00:19:19.900 each will have traits
00:19:24.500 of the other.
00:19:33.600 Because complementary things
00:19:36.220 need to mate with one another,
00:19:39.920 they will not be perfectly
00:19:42.320 of themselves.
00:19:49.740 A perfect vessel,
00:19:52.360 a perfect socket,
00:19:54.440 would accept everything
00:19:56.700 and nothing.
00:19:58.340 And likewise,
00:20:03.820 the perfect plug
00:20:04.640 would plug into everything
00:20:06.560 and do absolutely nothing.
00:20:09.860 Except
00:20:10.460 destroy it, I suppose.
00:20:12.040 the complementary opposites
00:20:21.320 also need to embody
00:20:23.500 the other half.
00:20:25.660 They need to acknowledge
00:20:27.660 and embrace
00:20:29.080 the other half.
00:20:30.420 and so,
00:20:31.820 both of them
00:20:33.620 will be
00:20:35.420 an imperfect
00:20:36.340 version
00:20:37.100 of what they could have been.
00:20:45.420 Because they're separate.
00:20:49.340 You see,
00:20:50.240 the contact lens
00:20:51.080 and the eyeball,
00:20:53.220 you know,
00:20:53.440 when they go together,
00:20:54.240 the contact lens
00:20:58.000 is a slave
00:20:58.640 to the eye.
00:21:01.220 The contact lens
00:21:02.400 only exists for the eye.
00:21:03.680 It has no independent
00:21:04.860 existence.
00:21:07.420 The contact lens
00:21:08.720 away from the eye
00:21:10.340 loses all meaning,
00:21:11.960 loses all purpose.
00:21:13.440 It's just a piece of plastic.
00:21:16.700 Whereas when we talk
00:21:17.760 about complementary opposites,
00:21:20.120 when we talk about
00:21:21.680 the plug
00:21:22.500 and the socket,
00:21:24.240 coming together,
00:21:25.560 each of them
00:21:27.160 have an intrinsic existence.
00:21:29.740 They don't need
00:21:30.920 the other.
00:21:33.480 The light fixture
00:21:34.360 still exists
00:21:35.860 even when it's not
00:21:37.580 plugged in.
00:21:38.140 It still has
00:21:39.180 a mechanism,
00:21:40.140 it just doesn't have
00:21:40.860 an electric
00:21:41.880 power source.
00:21:43.220 And the socket,
00:21:45.160 even without
00:21:45.920 anything being
00:21:46.560 plugged into it,
00:21:47.480 has that potential
00:21:48.660 power source.
00:21:49.880 It has this
00:21:50.380 independent
00:21:51.280 existence to it.
00:21:54.240 and then
00:21:57.840 when they come
00:21:58.200 together,
00:21:59.160 when we look
00:22:00.920 at how they come
00:22:01.520 together,
00:22:02.320 there's rough
00:22:03.120 bits of metal,
00:22:04.740 there's
00:22:05.420 inconsistencies,
00:22:07.360 there's some
00:22:08.300 plugs that work
00:22:08.980 better for some
00:22:09.660 sockets,
00:22:10.360 and some sockets
00:22:10.980 that work better
00:22:11.440 for some plugs.
00:22:12.220 it's interesting,
00:22:17.720 the yin
00:22:18.120 and the yang.
00:22:21.400 They've each
00:22:21.980 got a little
00:22:22.380 dot
00:22:22.820 of the other
00:22:24.160 in them.
00:22:26.260 And so,
00:22:26.960 same
00:22:27.300 too
00:22:28.120 with the
00:22:28.660 sexes.
00:22:29.140 an extreme
00:22:34.300 female,
00:22:34.880 an XXY,
00:22:37.440 that is
00:22:38.060 perfectly
00:22:38.920 female,
00:22:40.660 can't mate,
00:22:41.960 cannot bear
00:22:42.420 children.
00:22:46.740 And the
00:22:47.360 most extreme
00:22:49.020 masculine
00:22:51.120 person
00:22:52.540 is probably
00:22:54.560 going to be
00:22:54.920 a homosexual.
00:22:55.480 the fact
00:22:58.580 that the
00:22:58.820 sexes
00:22:59.180 aren't
00:22:59.940 the
00:23:01.380 perfect
00:23:02.300 ideation
00:23:04.660 of the
00:23:06.300 sexes
00:23:06.860 is what
00:23:08.640 proves that
00:23:09.300 they are
00:23:09.920 designed for
00:23:10.560 each other
00:23:10.880 and that
00:23:11.100 they're
00:23:11.220 complementary
00:23:11.800 and that
00:23:12.580 there is
00:23:13.520 no middle
00:23:14.200 ground.
00:23:14.640 you're
00:23:22.820 either
00:23:22.980 man
00:23:23.240 or
00:23:23.360 you're
00:23:23.500 woman.
00:23:26.000 And when
00:23:26.640 it comes
00:23:26.940 to
00:23:27.360 masculine
00:23:28.480 roles
00:23:28.840 and feminine
00:23:29.280 roles,
00:23:29.740 let's be
00:23:30.220 frank,
00:23:30.560 folks,
00:23:31.480 there are
00:23:32.060 3.5
00:23:33.120 billion
00:23:33.760 different
00:23:34.320 types
00:23:34.760 of
00:23:35.940 masculinity
00:23:36.460 on this
00:23:37.000 planet
00:23:37.340 and just
00:23:39.280 as many
00:23:39.560 types
00:23:39.820 of
00:23:39.960 femininity.
00:23:42.880 But trying
00:23:43.800 to
00:23:44.800 ape
00:23:45.140 the
00:23:45.360 existence
00:23:45.720 of
00:23:46.000 the
00:23:46.140 other.
00:23:51.400 Well,
00:23:51.960 it just
00:23:52.520 doesn't
00:23:52.880 fit the
00:23:54.380 math.
00:23:56.340 You know,
00:23:56.700 you can't
00:23:58.220 be a
00:23:58.500 tree
00:23:58.840 growing
00:24:00.180 next to
00:24:00.640 a spring
00:24:01.060 in the
00:24:01.300 desert
00:24:01.640 or a
00:24:03.180 patch of
00:24:03.520 sand
00:24:03.780 in the
00:24:04.040 forest
00:24:04.480 if
00:24:06.620 the
00:24:07.120 nature
00:24:07.380 of
00:24:07.560 sex
00:24:07.760 is
00:24:07.940 complementary.
00:24:11.500 And when
00:24:12.080 you look
00:24:12.280 at the
00:24:12.440 sexual
00:24:12.720 organs,
00:24:13.800 the
00:24:14.940 male
00:24:15.220 and
00:24:15.420 female
00:24:15.720 organs,
00:24:16.700 they mimic
00:24:17.960 each other
00:24:18.460 in many
00:24:19.060 ways.
00:24:19.680 They have
00:24:19.840 the same
00:24:20.100 basic
00:24:20.700 structure
00:24:21.600 and yet
00:24:23.200 they do
00:24:23.460 completely
00:24:24.040 opposite
00:24:24.460 things.
00:24:26.800 They are
00:24:27.540 not
00:24:27.760 chiral.
00:24:28.640 They are
00:24:28.920 not
00:24:29.120 gradient.
00:24:33.140 The
00:24:33.820 sexual
00:24:34.180 organs
00:24:34.700 mirror
00:24:35.440 one
00:24:36.320 another
00:24:36.700 in a
00:24:37.440 complementary
00:24:38.000 fashion.
00:24:39.200 but you
00:24:44.340 can't
00:24:44.680 do an
00:24:48.040 organ
00:24:48.260 transplant
00:24:48.880 and take
00:24:50.520 a dick
00:24:50.920 and make
00:24:51.600 a uterus.
00:24:58.180 So that's
00:24:58.720 what I got to
00:24:59.120 say about
00:24:59.480 opposites.
00:25:00.460 And I'm
00:25:00.740 sure as hell
00:25:01.380 not telling
00:25:01.900 you how to
00:25:02.440 live your
00:25:02.780 life.
00:25:03.140 that's
00:25:06.400 just a
00:25:06.760 logical
00:25:07.260 philosophical
00:25:09.080 argument.
00:25:12.060 Hope
00:25:12.540 y'all are
00:25:12.940 doing well.
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