Louder with Crowder - Analyzing The American Dating Crisis! Fresh & Fit Join!

00:00:00.000 This Week in Feminism. 1.00

00:00:02.000 I had a job and then I didn't show up.

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00:01:15.000 And then I warmed it up too much.

00:01:17.000 It's my fault.

00:01:18.000 I have no one to blame but myself.

00:01:20.000 And me, I added a minute.

00:01:21.000 And see, this is the accountability.

00:01:22.000 Well, you also, the logo is smoldering.

00:01:25.000 It is.

00:01:26.000 Alright, before, and you know, I have to take accountability because of who we have in third chair today, but I am going to, before that, here's the rundown.

00:01:31.000 A lot to get to.

00:01:32.000 There are homeless pirates marauding through the Bay Area in California.

00:01:38.000 Their words, not ours.

00:01:40.000 Homeless.

00:01:40.000 Do we have the rundown?

00:01:42.000 I know you're thinking San Francisco, butt pirates. 0.95

00:01:46.000 You're better than that. 0.90

00:01:47.000 Come on, let's try and build some real momentum with being an adult here today.

00:01:50.000 McCarthy has been ousted as speaker.

00:01:51.000 I don't know what you're thinking.

00:01:52.000 Does it affect you?

00:01:53.000 Well, not so much beyond the fact that you spent millions of dollars to go through this dog and pony show.

00:01:58.000 And more importantly, because of who we have here in the studio, we are going to do a segment, the ins and outs, the A to Z of why relationships Are in decline, specifically in the West.

00:02:08.000 Now this isn't like a Tupac, Biggie, East Coast, West Coast thing.

00:02:11.000 It's just the West, the Western civilization.

00:02:13.000 Yes.

00:02:14.000 Which includes Europe.

00:02:15.000 I mean, I don't really know that we should, but we'll do it.

00:02:18.000 We'll do it just because we feel like being generous today.

00:02:20.000 So my question to you is, what do you think are the biggest issues facing people dating in 2023?

00:02:25.000 What are the biggest issues that you've had to face, that you've had to overcome?

00:02:28.000 Because in third chair today, when you hear this, They're here.

00:02:34.000 They're on Rumble and on YouTube, on Instagram at the Fresh and Fit Podcast.

00:02:39.000 Mr. Fit and or Fresh, how are you gentlemen?

00:02:42.000 What's up man?

00:02:43.000 We're happy to be here.

00:02:44.000 Thanks for having us.

00:02:45.000 I'm glad to have you guys.

00:02:46.000 Hopefully you're set up because I know you were asking about the microphones and everything because you have your own set up.

00:02:49.000 Yeah.

00:02:50.000 And then you have a notepad.

00:02:52.000 Yeah, you know, just in case I need to write some stuff.

00:02:54.000 What are you writing now?

00:02:55.000 I'm writing down a bunch of things.

00:02:56.000 I'm writing down more than you are.

00:02:57.000 I don't know.

00:02:58.000 I don't know.

00:02:58.000 Who's writing notes?

00:02:59.000 I'm writing notes.

00:03:00.000 I'm writing notes.

00:03:01.000 Ready?

00:03:01.000 I'm writing random things.

00:03:02.000 What did you say?

00:03:03.000 I'm writing why women deserve less. 1.00

00:03:04.000 Okay. 0.98

00:03:05.000 Well, I just drew a wiener.

00:03:07.000 I drew a wiener too.

00:03:11.000 So it's Myron and Walter, right?

00:03:13.000 Yes.

00:03:14.000 But you know what?

00:03:15.000 We're going to call you Mr. Fresh and Fit.

00:03:16.000 That's how people know you.

00:03:17.000 That works.

00:03:18.000 Which one is which then?

00:03:20.000 Which one's fit and which one's fresh?

00:03:21.000 Now we're both fit, right?

00:03:23.000 Somewhat.

00:03:23.000 You're both fit.

00:03:24.000 They were doing pull-ups before the show.

00:03:26.000 They were, yeah.

00:03:26.000 We're trying.

00:03:28.000 After they signed the waiver.

00:03:30.000 I signed that thing so quick, I was like, you gotta give all your money.

00:03:36.000 We've had people go in there and not know how to use the office gym.

00:03:38.000 I dropped this on my toe!

00:03:41.000 So sign the waiver that says however you hurt yourself.

00:03:43.000 We don't care.

00:03:44.000 Now!

00:03:46.000 Number two, CEO and the whitest guy in the studio, Gerald A., how are you? 0.73

00:03:50.000 Technically true.

00:03:51.000 I'm doing well, how are you?

00:03:52.000 Well, it's not technically true, it's absolutely true.

00:03:54.000 Well, the Nordic Matt over here probably is a little whiter than I am. 0.99

00:03:57.000 Your 23andMe came back reparations, that's what it said.

00:04:00.000 I don't believe in that.

00:04:01.000 It just came in with an IOU.

00:04:04.000 I'd hang on to that one.

00:04:05.000 Blond hair, blue eyes, you are the kind of person... Blond hair, blue eyes, not my fault.

00:04:08.000 Right.

00:04:09.000 Okay, I did not... You're the stuff of Al Sharpton's nightmares.

00:04:12.000 Alright.

00:04:12.000 True, but I don't like him, so that's fine.

00:04:14.000 And by the way, of course, Fresh and Fit, I might say Fit and Fresh, I know it's Fresh and Fit, but I might reverse it by accident.

00:04:20.000 It's all good, man.

00:04:20.000 I apologize.

00:04:21.000 It's all fine.

00:04:21.000 You guys are on Rumble, right?

00:04:22.000 People can go and subscribe to your show.

00:04:23.000 Absolutely.

00:04:24.000 Which is one of the few shows you also do it live often.

00:04:27.000 Yep.

00:04:27.000 That's, you know, without a net, that's pretty scary for a lot of folks, and you kind of specialize in relationships.

00:04:32.000 Yes.

00:04:32.000 Yeah.

00:04:33.000 And all the BS going on in the West with, you know, intersexual dynamics, male self-improvement, the gym, getting your money on point, just being a more attractive guy in general.

00:04:41.000 Yes.

00:04:41.000 Look at the truth.

00:04:42.000 Yeah.

00:04:42.000 There you go.

00:04:43.000 Yeah, exactly.

00:04:44.000 And that's in short supply these days.

00:04:46.000 So I say that because Rumble, they understand it.

00:04:48.000 Oh, yeah.

00:04:49.000 Chris Pavlovsky, the CEO, he loves you guys.

00:04:50.000 Every time we talk, he's like, I'm like, look, Chris, I do work too.

00:04:57.000 So if at any point I say that, you see this, if you're watching on YouTube.

00:05:03.000 Head on over to Rumble.

00:05:04.000 That's the YouTube dump button.

00:05:05.000 So you guys can say whatever you want, and then someone just hits that dump button, and it'll still broadcast on Rumble.

00:05:09.000 Yeah, we do the same because it's like, oh, we're gonna say something crazy.

00:05:12.000 We call it the Shadow Realm.

00:05:13.000 When they're on YouTube, like, we're going to Shadow Realm.

00:05:15.000 You guys gotta come on over there.

00:05:17.000 Rumble, man.

00:05:17.000 Shout out to Rumble.

00:05:18.000 That's where you show up when techno music plays and you meet a reptile.

00:05:21.000 That's right.

00:05:21.000 I was about to say, thank you very much.

00:05:23.000 It's very 90s video games of you.

00:05:26.000 So let's lead with this.

00:05:27.000 Before we get to the homeless, marauding butt pirates in California, let's get to... There's a TikTok video here of an influencer.

00:05:35.000 Now some people would say, you know, gold-digging harlot.

00:05:38.000 I would never say that, though.

00:05:39.000 But that's more accurate.

00:05:40.000 That's what some people would say. 0.99

00:05:42.000 Some people would call her a gold-digging whore, but I would never say... Why is Donald Trump Janis Rossi? 0.98

00:05:48.000 I'm just saying, other people would say that, and I say, that's not nice. 0.99

00:05:51.000 But then they say she is, so maybe, maybe.

00:05:56.000 Here's the advice, and you can expect more of this on Fresh and Fit Podcasts, but here's the advice that this TikToker has for women on how to enjoy dating.

00:06:05.000 Now for the past couple of years, I've been the girl dating athletes.

00:06:08.000 Let me tell you four simple things I did to completely change my dating lifestyle and make me love dating again.

00:06:13.000 Number one, no simple dates.

00:06:16.000 That means no bar dates, no dinner dates, no coffee dates, no park dates.

00:06:20.000 I need experiences.

00:06:21.000 And if I'm trying to date multiple people and go on multiple dates during the week, I can't be drinking every night.

00:06:26.000 I live in New York, so I was spending all of last month in Miami.

00:06:29.000 And I was talking to this guy on Hinge, matched with him in New York, he lives in New York.

00:06:32.000 He flew down to Miami to take me on a couple dates, and one of the dates was taking me to the Everglades.

00:06:38.000 Like, an Everglades tour.

00:06:39.000 And drop you off.

00:06:40.000 Yeah, in a gator pond.

00:06:41.000 You won't take my time, but at least I'm gonna have a fun experience to show for it, and it was semi-worthwhile.

00:06:47.000 Rule number two.

00:06:48.000 Crazy eyes. 0.61

00:06:48.000 I'm an expensive woman. 0.61

00:06:50.000 If you can't afford me, keep it.

00:06:51.000 Push it.

00:06:52.000 Furthermore, I'm never paying for a date.

00:06:54.000 I'm not gonna pay your bills, so why am I paying for a date to make you accustomed to me splitting things with you?

00:06:59.000 It ain't gonna happen.

00:07:00.000 People tell you your standards are too high.

00:07:03.000 They aren't.

00:07:04.000 This is after one date.

00:07:07.000 He doesn't even know my home address or carbon number.

00:07:10.000 All he knows is that I told him that I like surprises and gifts.

00:07:12.000 I love dating.

00:07:13.000 This is why.

00:07:14.000 Well, call us back in eight years when you go, ring ring, eggs?

00:07:18.000 Oh, they're not answering.

00:07:19.000 Now, I love it.

00:07:22.000 She's like, I'm an expensive date.

00:07:23.000 It's like, oh, Cherries, Berries, let me take my top off.

00:07:28.000 Roses?

00:07:29.000 How did that happen?

00:07:30.000 This is the advice that you're giving to young women?

00:07:33.000 Look, and this is the thing, the whole self-love culture, it's shallow.

00:07:36.000 Look, you're never going to find self-esteem through these shallow, let's be honest, it's objectification of men.

00:07:41.000 It was semi-worthwhile because he took me somewhere nice.

00:07:44.000 How did he feel about it?

00:07:45.000 You know, we used to talk about, hey, Motley Crue had all these, or whoever it is, insert whoever here, you know, Mick Jagger, though he slept with David Bowie, which was weird.

00:07:51.000 Probably he Whoever his son was, won the My Dad's Cooler Than Your Dad contest in the yard.

00:07:56.000 Mick Jagger.

00:07:57.000 We used to talk about, hey, what about the groupies?

00:08:00.000 Right?

00:08:00.000 You're using women.

00:08:01.000 We used to say it was objectification of women. 1.00

00:08:02.000 What about the men?

00:08:03.000 Do you think that guy just thought, oh, she's just seeing me because I'm sending her some Tiff's Treats?

00:08:10.000 This kind of stuff pisses me off because she's taking advantage of the system. 1.00

00:08:14.000 She's just basically using guys to have experiences at this point.

00:08:17.000 And she's like, I don't want fine dining or anything. 0.54

00:08:19.000 And she said five star.

00:08:20.000 By the way, there's no five star.

00:08:21.000 The Michelin goes up to three stars. 1.00

00:08:22.000 You're an idiot. 1.00

00:08:23.000 And you're just saying a little bit. 1.00

00:08:25.000 I'm in the wine world.

00:08:26.000 I understand these things.

00:08:26.000 I know it's, but it's like, I need experiences that way.

00:08:29.000 At least if I don't like the date, I've got the experience now.

00:08:32.000 It's like, yeah, you're never going to find happiness, honey.

00:08:34.000 The other thing with her, which, you know, this is womanese, basically, and I translated some of it for y'all.

00:08:39.000 Oh, did you?

00:08:40.000 Yeah, basically when she says, no simple dates, what she's basically saying is that, I don't go out with guys that I like that much, so I need to make sure I get some kind of benefit from going out with you.

00:08:49.000 I'm going to be able to get an experience.

00:08:51.000 So this tells me also, she said, Oh, I go out with guys on Hinge.

00:08:54.000 That's a lie.

00:08:54.000 She's going on sugar sites.

00:08:56.000 She just doesn't want to admit that on TikTok and come off as a gold digging 304. 0.98

00:09:00.000 Because the fact that she's dealing with guys that are willing to fly down to her, buying her roses, taking her on these extravagant experiences, nine out of 10 times, she's going to meet these guys through a sugar site there, you know, have more money, et cetera.

00:09:10.000 So she's going out guaranteed with older gentlemen.

00:09:12.000 She doesn't find that attractive that she doesn't like that much, but she wants to be able to help go ahead and get gifts and get some kind of benefit.

00:09:18.000 Which, you know, a lot of girls do this. 1.00

00:09:19.000 They go out with guys that they don't like that much for ulterior motives, while they have the guy that doesn't pay anything. 0.76

00:09:24.000 They're smashing him, and they're making these other suckers pay for things, making them wait, extracting resources from them, and they're hoping, oh my god, I'm gonna get laid at some point. 0.97

00:09:32.000 But a lot of the times they don't, or they get stuck for sex. 0.99

00:09:35.000 And he wrote all that down very quickly.

00:09:36.000 He did, yes!

00:09:36.000 I just have a woodpecker on my ship.

00:09:38.000 Oh, one other thing too.

00:09:39.000 Tinder makes me happy!

00:09:58.000 So good.

00:10:00.000 Here's a song by Cyndi Lauper called Just Wanna Have Fun.

00:10:03.000 That's the extreme of it.

00:10:04.000 I want experiences over love.

00:10:06.000 That's crazy, right?

00:10:07.000 But that's reality now.

00:10:08.000 With her, it was two girls just wanna have fun. 0.72

00:10:10.000 And you guys would be shocked at how common this is.

00:10:13.000 She's not even that hot. 0.98

00:10:14.000 She's pretty attractive. 1.00

00:10:15.000 But average women get these types of experiences and are able to date this way, where they're able to openly extract resources from men and not give anything And by the way, it's also self-harming because then at a certain point they go, oh wow, I've lived a hollow life. 0.95

00:10:27.000 Look, you know, I always say that A Christmas Carol is the fifth gospel because Ebeneezer Scrooge, and it applies, and you're thinking, oh, old English white guy, who cares?

00:10:35.000 No, it applies to you.

00:10:36.000 This was a rich man.

00:10:37.000 By the way, he was a liberal at one point.

00:10:38.000 He said, are there no prisons?

00:10:40.000 Are there no poor houses?

00:10:41.000 Right?

00:10:41.000 He just said, I'll let the government take care of it.

00:10:43.000 And then he realized that what mattered in life was family, was relationships, right?

00:10:46.000 He was a second father to Tiny Tim.

00:10:47.000 He was as good of a father as there ever was.

00:10:49.000 It was a man who said, all of these things that I thought mattered, and in that case it was money, in that case it was wealth, like this woman is talking about, changed when he realized the value of family.

00:10:59.000 Now in that case there was redemption because he was too old to have a family, but he became a father to another young man who he could help.

00:11:04.000 That's where you find fulfillment and self-esteem. 0.96

00:11:07.000 And look, as funny as it is, because this is a dumb person, it's also really sad and it doesn't help anybody. 0.98

00:11:12.000 I just, I need to ask the dumb question of what is a 304? 0.93

00:11:17.000 So with the old graphing calculators if you, or calculator in general, if you put like 304, you flip it upside down, it means ho, so we would, yeah.

00:11:26.000 It's a way of kind of staying YouTube somewhat friendly.

00:11:28.000 Well we don't need to stay YouTube friendly.

00:11:30.000 I used to, I spent, remember how expensive those graphic calculators were?

00:11:32.000 They were like $250?

00:11:33.000 Dude, so expensive.

00:11:34.000 So expensive to spell boobs upside down.

00:11:37.000 The Texas Instruments!

00:11:40.000 By the way, if you call tech support to Texas Instruments, you got Vivek Ramaswamy.

00:11:47.000 Really?

00:11:49.000 We're going to go back to this because we have a whole segment on Western civilization and relationships, but before that, right now there are actually a marauding homeless pirates in San Francisco, not to be outdone by the people crapping in the streets, because if leftism worked, hey, San Francisco would be the place to be.

00:12:02.000 That brings us to this week's Golden State of Crime.

00:12:04.000 All right, so this is an actual clip.

00:12:22.000 Yeah.

00:12:22.000 In a new twist.

00:12:24.000 California crime. 0.53

00:12:27.000 Homeless pirates. 0.96

00:12:29.000 I didn't even know that was a thing.

00:12:30.000 How do you do that?

00:12:31.000 This is how they're describing it in the news.

00:12:32.000 Homeless pirates. 0.96

00:12:34.000 I mean, all pirates are homeless, technically, right?

00:12:36.000 I mean, their boat could be their home, I don't know.

00:12:37.000 Yeah, I mean, they're just roamers, right?

00:12:39.000 They're ship marauders. 0.96

00:12:40.000 Anyway, here's the thing.

00:12:41.000 They're actually pillaging boats in the Bay Area.

00:12:44.000 Here's a clip.

00:12:45.000 From shipwrecks to sunken shipyards.

00:12:49.000 Littered in trash.

00:12:51.000 This is the sad reality of the Oakland estuary shoreline.

00:12:55.000 Boats torn up, covered in graffiti, abandoned and trashed.

00:12:59.000 A lap says over the past few months, pirates have been attacking vessels at five different locations along the channel.

00:13:05.000 From boats to masts, the problem is sticking out right in front of the U.S.

00:13:10.000 Coast Guard island.

00:13:11.000 Oh, it's mutiny on the booty.

00:13:12.000 Now, the Oakland PD, just so you know, you guys know Oakland.

00:13:19.000 They only have one officer.

00:13:20.000 They have one officer trying to operate the boat.

00:13:23.000 They have a police boat.

00:13:25.000 They're surrounded by waterways.

00:13:26.000 And one officer, that's like, what are you, the Canadian Navy?

00:13:28.000 You don't have more to protect the waterways around the entire city?

00:13:32.000 And there's actually a sentiment that they were, there's another report, a guy who's known as Captain Taylor.

00:13:38.000 They can't handle what they're, well they can't handle the land, you know, financially and resource-wise.

00:13:43.000 They can't, so they can't.

00:13:45.000 There's no Oakland Navy, you know.

00:13:47.000 So Taylor and his fellow captains do all they can to keep an eye on each other's boats and run off any pirates who may show up, which, in his view, has a nice ring to it.

00:13:58.000 But I'll go with... I think it sounds cool, you know, anyway, just to say that we have pirates around here.

00:14:02.000 Since the raiders are gone, we don't have nothing to, you know, get... Still holding on to that one?

00:14:06.000 It's like... So yeah, let's go with pirates then.

00:14:09.000 Can we interview someone? 0.95

00:14:10.000 Can we interview if Rob Dyrdek performed fellatio on a meth phallus? 0.75

00:14:16.000 Hey, they're actually coming to it on CNN. 0.92

00:14:18.000 Oh, they're talking about it right now on CNN?

00:14:19.000 Are they?

00:14:20.000 Oh, it's yeah, let's bring it up Huh.

00:14:33.000 Well.

00:14:34.000 Sorry, Fred.

00:14:36.000 I want to say this.

00:14:38.000 This is real.

00:14:38.000 California is a failed society, man.

00:14:40.000 I used to work in law enforcement, and the fact that they have to bring in the U.S. 0.99

00:14:44.000 Coast Guard to deal with that tells you how much the state is failing when they don't even have a marine division for a police department that is right on the water.

00:14:52.000 Yeah, I know.

00:14:52.000 Common theme there.

00:14:53.000 You guys saw that common theme? 0.99

00:14:55.000 They're all black. 1.00

00:14:56.000 What the heck, bro? 1.00

00:14:57.000 That's messed up, bro. 0.98

00:14:59.000 Come on, dawg. 0.99

00:15:00.000 some of them are just gay white guys there's a pumpkin spice guy in there bro come on man 0.99

00:15:06.000 who was dirty man what was i think dave chappelle this is a long time ago he had 1.00

00:15:10.000 that bit where he's like black people You don't get to run a city anymore! 1.00

00:15:14.000 Why? 0.97

00:15:15.000 Detroit and Oakland! 1.00

00:15:16.000 You fucked up! 1.00

00:15:18.000 That's it! 1.00

00:15:20.000 And now, I mean, you know, it's every city.

00:15:22.000 I love the guy, though, that was fighting it at the end.

00:15:24.000 He's like, yeah, I'm fighting it.

00:15:25.000 We're trying to help our friends out.

00:15:26.000 But since the Raiders are gone, I guess it's kind of cool.

00:15:28.000 Yeah, exactly.

00:15:29.000 How much of their life revolved around the Raiders?

00:15:31.000 This is unhealthy.

00:15:33.000 By the way, if you sent in actual Lara Croft, Tomb Raider, no one would even notice her in that area of town.

00:15:39.000 They'd be like, what?

00:15:39.000 Let's go back to the Folsom Street Fair.

00:15:40.000 Find me a bearer.

00:15:44.000 Everyone's talking about this.

00:15:44.000 McCarthy.

00:15:45.000 By the way, hit the like button if you're watching on YouTube because it helps with the algorithm or on Rumble.

00:15:49.000 But go over and watch on Rumble.

00:15:51.000 And today with Mug Club, it's going to be a lot of fun with Mr. Fresh and Orfit.

00:15:55.000 We have an intervention with Gary later on.

00:15:57.000 We do, yeah.

00:15:57.000 Everyone is talking about McCarthy being ousted as Speaker.

00:16:00.000 Okay.

00:16:01.000 That happened.

00:16:02.000 Alright.

00:16:02.000 Does it affect you?

00:16:04.000 Not all that much, but there are some issues at play here that I think some people have overlooked, so let me just brief you on this if you've been living under a rock, or if you've been marauded by San Francisco butt pirates, and so, you know, you're out without power.

00:16:16.000 Yesterday, Matt Gaetz succeeded in his efforts to get rid of Kevin McCarthy, and he's out as Speaker of the House.

00:16:23.000 On this vote, the yeas are 216, the nays are 210. 0.97

00:16:31.000 The resolution is adopted.

00:16:34.000 Without objection, the motion to reconsider is laid on the table.

00:16:37.000 The office of Speaker of the House of the United States House of Representatives is hereby declared vacant.

00:16:46.000 That is, did you hear that?

00:16:47.000 That is the weakest gavel sound I've ever heard.

00:16:50.000 Do we have another clip?

00:16:51.000 We have another clip where we enhance the audio.

00:16:54.000 Yeah, let's roll it again.

00:16:55.000 Is hereby declared vacant.

00:17:02.000 By the way, a lot of this is kabuki theater, but do you know how much this whole process cost you?

00:17:07.000 Just the vote, $2 million.

00:17:09.000 At least.

00:17:10.000 What?

00:17:10.000 Just the minutes that the vote took place, $2 million.

00:17:13.000 I'm sure you could give an estimate that's higher.

00:17:14.000 All the references we make are available at lightofthegreater.com, just so you know.

00:17:17.000 Link in the description.

00:17:19.000 That's the issue.

00:17:19.000 They're going to bring in someone else.

00:17:20.000 Will he be better?

00:17:21.000 Probably not.

00:17:22.000 Maybe a little bit.

00:17:23.000 I'm not a McCarthy fan.

00:17:24.000 I don't think that politicians should be your heroes.

00:17:26.000 It's just everything costs so much money and very little gets done.

00:17:30.000 Absolutely.

00:17:30.000 And by the way, this guy barely got in there anyway.

00:17:32.000 It took like 15 votes or something like that for him to actually do it.

00:17:35.000 And it was 12.30 in the morning when they finally caveled him in.

00:17:38.000 But don't worry.

00:17:39.000 I mean, they're going to help the pirates, man.

00:17:40.000 Yes, they're going to get that money.

00:17:43.000 You know what?

00:17:44.000 Your speaker is ours now.

00:17:45.000 He belongs to me.

00:17:48.000 McCarthy was so pissed, by the way, he pulled the fire alarm on the way out.

00:17:51.000 I thought it was an exit thing, like a button.

00:17:54.000 Press here to get out.

00:17:55.000 So, Matt Gaetz.

00:17:56.000 And actually, we do confirm that we have him on here in a little bit.

00:18:00.000 So that's why we were a little bit late today, also.

00:18:03.000 And also, just so you guys know, we're black, so we're in black people's name.

00:18:06.000 It's what it is, man. 0.57

00:18:07.000 Sorry, man.

00:18:08.000 We refer to it as Canadian time.

00:18:10.000 I was in the service industry.

00:18:15.000 If you're a server out there, you're a waitress or a waiter, you know what we're talking about.

00:18:19.000 Here is Gates, though, summing up why McCarthy was ousted.

00:18:23.000 Kevin McCarthy couldn't keep his word.

00:18:25.000 He made an agreement in January regarding the way Washington would work, and he violated that agreement.

00:18:30.000 We are $33 trillion in debt.

00:18:32.000 We are facing $2.2 trillion annual deficits.

00:18:35.000 We face a de-dollarization globally that will crush Americans, working class Americans. 1.00

00:18:41.000 Kevin McCarthy is a feature of the swamp.

00:18:43.000 He has risen to power by collecting special interest money and redistributing that money in exchange for favors.

00:18:50.000 No, I want to go to you Gerald, and I like what he's saying, I think that McCarthy is kind of a little bit of an empty suit, but this is like buzzword, every election, blah blah blah, swamp, people, blah blah blah, narrative!

00:19:04.000 I mean, that's why we say it doesn't matter.

00:19:04.000 Pretty much.

00:19:06.000 This is the first time in history that this has happened, so it is kind of a historic event, obviously, by standard.

00:19:11.000 But are we going to get somebody markedly different?

00:19:13.000 I don't think so, but the interesting thing being floated right now is Donald Trump.

00:19:17.000 Because here's one thing you need to know.

00:19:19.000 Anyone can be made speaker.

00:19:20.000 I didn't know that.

00:19:21.000 I thought it had to be somebody, and that's just my ignorance on this.

00:19:24.000 I had no idea.

00:19:24.000 I don't know if Fresh and or Fit knew that as well.

00:19:28.000 Did you know they can pretty much make anyone speaker?

00:19:30.000 I did not know that.

00:19:31.000 It's educational, Joe.

00:19:33.000 Wait, even Hitler? 0.60

00:19:34.000 Well, I mean, if they had a DeLorean, probably they could bring him back.

00:19:37.000 You probably have to be a U.S. 0.97

00:19:39.000 citizen.

00:19:39.000 There's probably at least that or, you know, you snuck in.

00:19:42.000 Our debt is out of control!

00:19:43.000 I'm sorry, I misspoke.

00:19:46.000 I meant deficit.

00:19:47.000 Debt is the total and deficit is the annual.

00:19:49.000 Listen!

00:19:50.000 It's too much money!

00:19:54.000 He's like, nine-nine-nine-nine-nine-nine-nine-nine-nine-nine.

00:19:56.000 They're gonna have you Herman Cain Ticket.

00:19:58.000 My plan is nine-nine-nine-nine-nine-nine.

00:20:01.000 God smashes pizza! 1.00

00:20:03.000 But how much would that piss Democrats off if for some way, Donald Trump became Speaker

00:20:09.000 of The House for, just as in like, a temporary thing.

00:20:10.000 Oh my gosh, he just walked, he just walked back in.

00:20:14.000 Just when you thought it was safe to go back in the House.

00:20:16.000 Daddy's back!

00:20:17.000 And he had a high and tight- I did this because it's a House party, right?

00:20:21.000 House party.

00:20:23.000 Look, you're fired.

00:20:24.000 I slept with you.

00:20:25.000 That's right.

00:20:28.000 Sue me.

00:20:29.000 Sue me.

00:20:30.000 That's right.

00:20:31.000 You lost.

00:20:33.000 Anyway, so we actually do, as much as he probably doesn't like that intro, we do have politicians on the show.

00:20:40.000 We have a lot of guests on the show, and it took us a while to wrangle them down.

00:20:42.000 We have an exclusive.

00:20:44.000 Right now, do we have them on the line?

00:20:45.000 All right.

00:20:45.000 Yep.

00:20:45.000 It's time to go to our guest, Mr. Matt Gaetz.

00:20:48.000 All right, Mr. Gaetz, thank you for joining us.

00:20:55.000 Steven, thank you for having me.

00:20:57.000 Yeah, the framing is a little bit tight.

00:20:58.000 Can you move back a bit?

00:21:00.000 We can only see your forehead.

00:21:01.000 That's all we can see.

00:21:02.000 Uh, how's that?

00:21:04.000 Uh, Mr. Representative Gates, move back some more.

00:21:06.000 We can only see your forehead still.

00:21:08.000 Yeah, um, no, I can't.

00:21:10.000 I can't move back any further.

00:21:11.000 Just zoom out, Gates.

00:21:13.000 It zoomed out all the way.

00:21:14.000 How is that even possible?

00:21:16.000 How is- that's not a- there's no- Why don't you zoom out?

00:21:19.000 No!

00:21:21.000 No!

00:21:21.000 I can't zoom out.

00:21:22.000 Try backing up your camera.

00:21:25.000 I can't back up my camera.

00:21:26.000 It's your camera.

00:21:27.000 Did that work?

00:21:27.000 Okay, Toolman, just cut it.

00:21:28.000 I can't even do this.

00:21:31.000 Go.

00:21:31.000 Go!

00:21:31.000 Oh, jeez. Sorry.

00:21:37.000 I'm sorry, guys.

00:21:38.000 You deserve better.

00:21:42.000 Second time?

00:21:43.000 You know, we all have technical difficulties. 0.98

00:21:45.000 He is a sick puppy. 0.95

00:21:49.000 Zoom out! 0.98

00:21:50.000 No, you zoom out!

00:21:50.000 That's not how it works!

00:21:51.000 I'm a child.

00:21:52.000 I'm a child.

00:21:54.000 My time is worth more than that.

00:21:56.000 So, it looks like Republicans may even have to look for a Democrat for a consensus candidate.

00:22:01.000 So again, that's the problem.

00:22:02.000 It's like, okay, the devil you know.

00:22:04.000 And apparently, though, Matt Gaetz is making headway, reaching across the aisle to fill the hole.

00:22:10.000 The American people want all of us.

00:22:13.000 That's it.

00:22:15.000 Hezbollah!

00:22:17.000 That is absolutely 100% not doctored.

00:22:21.000 Her brother is pissed.

00:22:25.000 I'm going to get the rocks!

00:22:26.000 I'm going to get the rocks now!

00:22:30.000 That's almost like Arnold.

00:22:31.000 That's Elon Arnold.

00:22:32.000 Do it now!

00:22:34.000 I beg my brother!

00:22:36.000 You know she married her brother, right?

00:22:37.000 You guys know that?

00:22:37.000 Oh, she did?

00:22:38.000 Oh, she married her brother.

00:22:39.000 There's the marriage certificate.

00:22:40.000 And no one talks about it.

00:22:41.000 Yeah.

00:22:41.000 Banged.

00:22:42.000 Yeah, she married her brother. 0.98

00:22:44.000 Haram! 1.00

00:22:45.000 What the heck? 0.99

00:22:46.000 No, she was in his harem. 0.99

00:22:48.000 Yeah.

00:22:49.000 She's one of many sisters.

00:22:52.000 We can bring it up.

00:22:53.000 We've talked about it on the show.

00:22:55.000 It's bad.

00:22:56.000 Who would you like to see as speaker?

00:22:57.000 You can comment on that.

00:22:59.000 Let's also put out a poll.

00:23:01.000 Eddie Gates and Ilhan Omar.

00:23:02.000 They'd make a cute couple.

00:23:06.000 It's been a good run for McCarthy over the past nine months.

00:23:09.000 And even though sometimes we see people as allies, sometimes worthy adversaries, sometimes frenemies, we always want to honor them.

00:23:17.000 Speaker McCarthy, it is time to close.

00:23:22.000 Having received a majority of the whole number of votes cast by Sernay, a speaker has not been elected.

00:23:29.000 The Honorable Kevin McCarthy of the state of California has received 216.

00:23:34.000 Time to close.

00:23:39.000 Endings and beginnings are ending and beginning.

00:23:46.000 Look at this.

00:23:46.000 There's finger pointing going on.

00:23:47.000 Matt Gaetz is pointing at McCarthy.

00:23:50.000 A crowd is gathering around them.

00:23:51.000 And he's walking away.

00:23:54.000 Somebody's holding somebody back.

00:23:55.000 Look at that.

00:23:56.000 Somebody just held somebody back.

00:23:57.000 Stephanie, just look at that. 1.00

00:23:58.000 It looks like a fight breaking out on the floor.

00:24:00.000 He says he's coming for you.

00:24:01.000 Can you survive?

00:24:02.000 Yes, I'll survive.

00:24:03.000 Only because he wants to take this motion.

00:24:05.000 So be it.

00:24:06.000 Bring it on.

00:24:06.000 Let's get over with it.

00:24:08.000 And let's start governing.

00:24:09.000 If he's upset because he tried to push us into shutdown, and I made sure government didn't shut down, then let's have that fight.

00:24:15.000 And we now want to go to Representative Kevin McCarthy speaking after he was ousted as Speaker of the House.

00:24:20.000 I will not run for Speaker again.

00:24:23.000 I'll have the conference pick somebody else.

00:24:27.000 I hope you realize that every day I did the job, regardless whether you underestimated me or not, I wanted to do it with a smile.

00:24:34.000 I know that it's time for things to close.

00:24:41.000 I know that it's time for things to close.

00:24:48.000 Yes, his tenure was 2023 to also 2023.

00:24:55.000 So, we're going to close. 0.99

00:25:00.000 Damn. 0.99

00:25:02.000 I mean, at least he wasn't a 95-year-old, you know? 0.99

00:25:04.000 That's true.

00:25:05.000 We have that going for us.

00:25:06.000 You know, the squirrel that was on Coke at the thing with Nancy Pelosi?

00:25:11.000 Oh yeah, Nancy Pelosi.

00:25:12.000 You remember that one, Donald Trump?

00:25:13.000 Someone can pull that clip.

00:25:14.000 You remember that one, Donald Trump was giving a speech and she's like... It's like she was testing every single perfume at the Dior counter.

00:25:22.000 Mine! 0.99

00:25:23.000 She's an insane person. 1.00

00:25:24.000 That's the point. 1.00

00:25:26.000 All right.

00:25:27.000 And by the way, again, just for people who are tuning in now, where's the best place for people to watch you guys and watch your show support you?

00:25:32.000 Rumble.

00:25:33.000 Rumble's the base for us, man.

00:25:34.000 Rumble.com slash FresherFit, and we're on YouTube as well.

00:25:36.000 And when does your show air?

00:25:37.000 Like, do you have a specific... Monday, Wednesday, Friday, 6 p.m., we do our daytime show, whether it's Money Mondays, Womanizer Wednesdays, or Call-In Show Friday, and then we do the after-hours shows with the Crazy Bimbos at nighttime. 0.63

00:25:46.000 Okay.

00:25:47.000 Funny, after this, we're going to fly back to Miami and do a show right away.

00:25:49.000 Really?

00:25:50.000 Oh, well, good.

00:25:50.000 Maybe she can catch a ride with you, that lady.

00:25:55.000 I wasn't really interested in him, but he had a nice plane.

00:25:58.000 It was an experience?

00:25:59.000 Yeah.

00:26:00.000 They had good treats.

00:26:01.000 They had good treats on the plane.

00:26:02.000 Sheesh! 0.96

00:26:03.000 Pistachios.

00:26:04.000 I don't like to shell them.

00:26:05.000 It's too much work.

00:26:06.000 Oh my God, he has money.

00:26:07.000 He has money, yeah.

00:26:09.000 More money, please.

00:26:10.000 More money, please.

00:26:11.000 So, give me the ring.

00:26:12.000 This brings us to the decline of relationships in the West, and these gentlemen speak about this a lot, but it is an issue, I think.

00:26:18.000 Look, I've talked about this before.

00:26:20.000 Yesterday, for example, when everyone was talking about McCarthy and then we had Haya of Libs of TikTok on and we realized that Twitter had demonetized words and there was some censorship going on.

00:26:28.000 That's the kind of thing that I find most important because speakers come and go, as you see, 2023 to also 2023.

00:26:33.000 McCarthy.

00:26:38.000 The kinds of issues that affect you every single day and the foundation of society, right?

00:26:44.000 Politics is downstream.

00:26:47.000 I've heard downstream or upstream.

00:26:48.000 It's upstream from culture.

00:26:49.000 And the most important component of our culture is strong relationships and strong families.

00:26:53.000 And that has been kind of circling the drain for a while now.

00:26:58.000 And there are a good number of reasons for that.

00:27:00.000 So I want to break it down for you, let you know kind of what What the causes are, and then the symptoms that people are experiencing.

00:27:07.000 Because, by the way, a lot of the time you'll get some people say, oh, like Fresh and Fit, oh, they must be misogynistic, they must hate women.

00:27:12.000 No, no.

00:27:13.000 This affects women and men negatively.

00:27:15.000 The problem is that it's been spearheaded, well, by feminists, but ironically, not only feminists, but the porn industry, if you go back to the 60s and 70s as well. 1.00

00:27:23.000 They were often one and the same, and now it's ended up in this unholy amalgamate that has left everyone miserable.

00:27:28.000 So, This clip really got us thinking to jump off with about modern relationships and dating in America.

00:27:35.000 She's a 10 out of 10, but she has a higher body count than you. 1.00

00:27:39.000 I don't care.

00:27:40.000 Vibes.

00:27:41.000 I knew you were going to say that.

00:27:42.000 7,000 bodies on me.

00:27:43.000 That just shows that you're secure because any insecure guy would be like, I can't do it.

00:27:47.000 It has nothing to do with me.

00:27:49.000 How am I going to judge a person based on a past I wasn't a part of?

00:27:54.000 Tell that to a judge. 0.99

00:27:55.000 Hey! 0.99

00:27:56.000 He skinned nine people alive and ate them. 0.88

00:27:59.000 I wasn't there.

00:27:59.000 It wasn't my fault.

00:28:00.000 She's pretty hostile.

00:28:01.000 Didn't see nothing!

00:28:03.000 So, let me give you a few stats here to undergird this.

00:28:05.000 All the references are available and then we'll open the floor to a discussion.

00:28:08.000 So, modern dating in America.

00:28:10.000 Okay, let's go through young men first.

00:28:12.000 In 2023, 63% of men under 30 are single.

00:28:13.000 63% of men under 30 are single.

00:28:16.000 Okay?

00:28:16.000 34% of women under 30 are single.

00:28:19.000 Now, if you compare that to 1980, that was 24% of men were single,

00:28:23.000 41% of women were single.

00:28:25.000 So that number has switched.

00:28:26.000 First off, it's gotten higher in both categories, but it's also switched here where you saw there were more women who were single back in the 80s than today. 1.00

00:28:33.000 Now today, only 50% of men are even actively seeking a relationship.

00:28:38.000 Women find 80% of men below average. 0.80

00:28:41.000 In other words, there are more men now who are single than women.

00:28:45.000 That's a huge switch.

00:28:46.000 There are more people overall who are single.

00:28:48.000 Half of men say, I have no desire to change from being single.

00:28:52.000 And then 80% of women are saying, well, most men aren't worth me ending my life of singlehood.

00:28:58.000 That means that you're not, before we get to marriage, you're not going to have meaningful relationships and people are having fewer Meaningful relationships than ever before.

00:29:05.000 So let's start this off with the causes.

00:29:07.000 Okay, where this started and I don't know do we yeah, we don't have us Okay, so let's go back then.

00:29:12.000 Okay, no-fault divorce is number one.

00:29:14.000 That's one of the causes here A lot of people don't know about no-fault divorce how it changed A lot of people don't know where it came from.

00:29:20.000 So Hugh Hefner And Dr. Kinsey, you know the guy who said that everyone should be able to have sex with everybody?

00:29:25.000 His Playboy Foundation, they were the first to actually underwrite legislation on no-fault divorce.

00:29:31.000 And they were supported by a lot of feminists. 1.00

00:29:32.000 Now the reason for this, just to be clear, is before no-fault divorce, there was a fault.

00:29:37.000 It was either cheating, Abuse or abandonment.

00:29:40.000 Meaning that if someone cheated or if someone physically abused someone, they had to pay, right?

00:29:44.000 It's not as though there were no consequences.

00:29:46.000 And if there wasn't cheating or abuse, then it constituted abandonment.

00:29:49.000 All were considered a breaking of the contract.

00:29:51.000 That then switched in 69 in California.

00:29:53.000 The first no-fault state, actually Ronald Reagan, he said it was one of the biggest mistakes that he's ever made, no-fault divorce, where it just said you can leave and break the contract for any reason and there's no one at fault.

00:30:03.000 So just to be clear, before that it didn't mean that you could just cheat at will as a man or a woman, but let's be honest, they were

00:30:08.000 more concerned about men, and leave Scott free. No, if you cheated, you broke that

00:30:12.000 contract.

00:30:12.000 Now, we need to be clear about this too. The reason that Hugh Hefner

00:30:16.000 and people on the extreme left, the pornography industry, were pro-no-fault divorce is because

00:30:20.000 they actually wanted men to live consequence-free and be able to cheat and not have to pay out half.

00:30:25.000 And then it morphed into, you know what, the primary earner pays out half.

00:30:27.000 So number one is no-fault divorce.

00:30:29.000 Number two is feminism. 1.00

00:30:31.000 1970s, three feminist books that were written by three prominent feminists. 0.96

00:30:35.000 But there were three books that really kind of just ruled the bestseller list.

00:30:39.000 One was Kate Millett's Sexual Politics. 0.63

00:30:40.000 One was Jermaine Greer's The Female Eunuch, and then the other one was Firestone's The Dialectic of Sex.

00:30:45.000 Now, these books railed against the nuclear family, and they told young women that, hey, you'll be free if you are more sexually predatorial.

00:30:52.000 We now have birth control.

00:30:54.000 Isn't it great? 0.99

00:30:55.000 Go forth, and no being a whore, better man. 1.00

00:30:59.000 So, that's what happened. 0.98

00:31:00.000 Women thought that it was going to be their liberation, and now you see plenty of videos like this on TikTok or on Instagram, where these Self-professed liberal women, they have this cognitive dissonance and they don't know how to figure it out. 1.00

00:31:12.000 This clip is sad, but hilarious.

00:31:17.000 Do you want to know one of the saddest realizations I recently had?

00:31:20.000 You guys know this one.

00:31:21.000 Was that as a liberal woman, it is really hard to find a man who is willing to play the more traditional masculine role in the relationship in today's day and age.

00:31:32.000 Who is not a conservative.

00:31:34.000 A man who wants to pay on the first date, who wants to open your door, who has that want and desire to take care of you and to provide.

00:31:41.000 Who is not a conservative.

00:31:43.000 And obviously as a liberal woman, I do want to be respected for my independence.

00:31:47.000 And I do want to have my own autonomy in the relationship.

00:31:49.000 Independence, but I don't go Dutch.

00:31:52.000 And most of the men that I've dated who do have that more natural provider masculinity about them are normally conservative.

00:32:05.000 So I don't really know what to do because I don't want to compromise my morals and values just to find a man.

00:32:12.000 Am I asking to have my cake and eat it, too?

00:32:14.000 Yes, yes.

00:32:15.000 Well, thank God we're not in the Fat Pride territory, so it's allegorical.

00:32:20.000 But I want to talk to the people who are watching.

00:32:22.000 We'll take your chats afterward.

00:32:23.000 Hey, has this made your life better, single people out there?

00:32:26.000 Do you believe that your life is better now?

00:32:29.000 Do the way that we've changed the dating pool, the current environment.

00:32:32.000 Really quickly, some consequences that are incredibly severe.

00:32:34.000 You know, we talked about people who are not interested in relationships, but since these changes, and again, it goes back to no-fault divorce, feminism, and porn.

00:32:43.000 These were all the same, by the way.

00:32:44.000 They were tied together.

00:32:45.000 It was pro-porn, pro-sex, and no-fault divorce.

00:32:48.000 Okay, now the divorce rate in the country.

00:32:50.000 The 50% divorce rate is kind of a myth, though it has gone up.

00:32:53.000 Women initiate 69% of all divorces, just to be clear. And infidelity and 1.00

00:32:57.000 physical abuse are not even the top five reasons listed. Marriage rates are at their lowest point

00:33:03.000 ever. And then we'll get into, you know, before we get to marriage, the reason that people

00:33:07.000 are just checking out of the dating pool for serious relationships whatsoever. I mean, you guys

00:33:12.000 talk about this a lot. And I think a lot of people think, well, why is this happening? It's not that

00:33:16.000 confusing when you actually look at the environment. Yeah. Bridal companies are actually

00:33:20.000 like going out of business now too.

00:33:21.000 Really?

00:33:22.000 Yeah, we did an episode on it.

00:33:24.000 I thought that was a license to print money.

00:33:26.000 It used to be. 1.00

00:33:28.000 It used to be one of those industries that was unaffected by the economy because people waste money on stupid shit. 1.00

00:33:34.000 $10,000 dress? 1.00

00:33:35.000 That's me!

00:33:36.000 Say yes to it!

00:33:37.000 I'll fit in it for one day and then blow up afterwards.

00:33:41.000 I can still wear my tux.

00:33:43.000 Now, what were you about to say?

00:33:44.000 I just want to add as well, the question is, how do you destroy a country that's great and it's destroying the family first?

00:33:51.000 And I think I want to add here as well, social media played a huge role in this because once again, TikTok is spreading a propaganda where they push women to be independent, Yeah, and you hit the nail on the head with a lot of the problems.

00:34:11.000 Like, I pretty much was writing down, I was like, feminism leads to birth control, which then leads to sex without consequence, which then leads to divorce, then that destroys the family.

00:34:18.000 And then on top of that, to compound the issue, you add in social media, just like Fresh was saying, women have more options than ever before. 1.00

00:34:24.000 when women have a lot of options and they feel that there's a bunch of suitors that can 1.00

00:34:27.000 take care of them or they believe so even though they because women make this terrible mistake of 1.00

00:34:31.000 thinking.

00:34:49.000 They all have this crazy mindset where I have a bunch of guys in my DMs so I have a bunch of

00:34:55.000 options so I'm going to go ahead and play the field and do what I need to do which is where

00:34:58.000 you end up with women like that girl before where she has guys that are going to go ahead and give 1.00

00:35:02.000 her these experiences these dates these situations that she might not necessarily be able to afford

00:35:06.000 herself.

00:35:19.000 I think we need a stronger pole because I keep bending it.

00:35:24.000 No, I don't think that's what that means, but yes.

00:35:26.000 Here's some of the consequences, by the way, like you're talking about.

00:35:28.000 We have these numbers.

00:35:29.000 We'll make them available to you.

00:35:30.000 You know, the body counts that people talk about, the promiscuity, right?

00:35:32.000 Women control access to sex. 1.00

00:35:33.000 They're taking advantage on dating apps like Tinder. 0.76

00:35:36.000 Men swipe right. 1.00

00:35:37.000 So right's the good thing?

00:35:39.000 Right means that, hey, I like this person.

00:35:41.000 Men swipe right far more often than women. 0.83

00:35:43.000 Women swipe right only 5% of the time. 1.00

00:35:45.000 Men, 53% of the time. 0.76

00:35:46.000 And by the way, Tinder is also not a good place to find meaningful relationships.

00:35:51.000 And to sort of put a face to it, an altered face to it, social media influencer, I guess she's a fitness model, Brittany Renner, Oh, man.

00:36:02.000 And by the way, fitness model for women just means you're just not fat. 1.00

00:36:05.000 This is one thing, too, when women say, like, you have no idea what it's like to have these body standards. 1.00

00:36:08.000 They were doing pull-ups before the show.

00:36:09.000 Like, do you have any idea how hard it is to be lean and muscular?

00:36:13.000 It's like, just don't be Tess Halliday and guys will find you attractive.

00:36:16.000 So, Brittany Renner, who's a fitness model, made internet waves talking about her body count on the Bus Confessions podcast. 0.99

00:36:24.000 Oh, that's a good sign.

00:36:25.000 So you said your count is 35?

00:36:26.000 Mm-hmm.

00:36:27.000 Okay.

00:36:27.000 How do you feel about that number?

00:36:29.000 It's kind of, like, annoying because at least half of my list I only had one time.

00:36:36.000 She's in a bus.

00:36:39.000 Okay.

00:36:39.000 But I still have to wear those.

00:36:40.000 You know what I mean?

00:36:41.000 It still happened.

00:36:43.000 But I think that's the only thing that's annoying.

00:36:45.000 The music is annoying.

00:36:47.000 That's my number.

00:36:47.000 And I can't even have it on a regular basis.

00:36:51.000 It's usually quarterly.

00:36:52.000 That's kind of been my schedule.

00:36:53.000 Like taxes?

00:36:54.000 Unless I'm in a relationship or talking to someone.

00:36:59.000 That pre-commitment phase, which has not been anything recently. 0.99

00:37:05.000 Yeah, it sucks. 0.53

00:37:06.000 So, over half my list. 0.98

00:37:07.000 Probably about half my list.

00:37:10.000 One time.

00:37:12.000 How bad are you in bed?

00:37:14.000 Now, getting rid of... Well, that's a lot of ones.

00:37:17.000 The moral idea.

00:37:18.000 Yeah, the moral consequences.

00:37:22.000 At a certain point, it's you.

00:37:25.000 So many of the people that I slept with didn't come back for seconds?

00:37:29.000 Yeah, if they're not leaving with a smile on their face...

00:37:32.000 You're doing something wrong.

00:37:33.000 It's not that complicated for men.

00:37:35.000 I want to mention too, do women ever tell their real body count? 1.00

00:37:39.000 Just being frank here.

00:37:39.000 Oh, I don't think so, right?

00:37:41.000 We never really know.

00:37:41.000 We have an equation.

00:37:42.000 It's actually multiply by 7, add another 10, then divide by 1.

00:37:45.000 Wait, who are these women? 1.00

00:37:47.000 Roadies for Van Halen?

00:37:50.000 And I will say this too, because we actually spoke with her on Academics Podcast, and I predicted this.

00:37:58.000 I told her, yo, you're going to have a very difficult time finding a guy because you're out there on social media, you've banged a bunch of athletes and celebrities, guys aren't going to take you seriously, and since you're famous and you make a certain amount of money, you've basically ostracized a majority of men from taking you seriously.

00:38:12.000 You're probably going to end up single.

00:38:14.000 And the thing is, she's starting to realize that now.

00:38:16.000 You're absolutely right.

00:38:18.000 I don't think we need to run another clip of her because we get the point.

00:38:21.000 She likes sleeping with guys, they don't like sleeping with her. 1.00

00:38:23.000 She slept with three in one day though.

00:38:26.000 I think that's an important note.

00:38:28.000 You don't have to run the clip, I'm just saying that's the reveal.

00:38:30.000 Before you feel bad for her, she did the hat trick.

00:38:34.000 Yeah, three in one day.

00:38:35.000 And here's the thing, you know, you guys do this Monday, Wednesday, Friday, you said, your show?

00:38:39.000 Yes.

00:38:39.000 And Nick DiPaolo's on Mug Club every day at 5 p.m.

00:38:43.000 And the reason we brought him on is, you know, first off, he's the OG.

00:38:45.000 Like, if you ask other people in the industry, they'll say, oh yeah, Nick's the guy.

00:38:48.000 He's as funny as they get.

00:38:49.000 He's been talking about this for a very long time.

00:38:51.000 Now, again, I'm not saying that he's a Christian conservative.

00:38:54.000 He's an agnostic, you know, rough-around-the-edges guy. 0.89

00:38:57.000 But he talked about the idea of women's body count and even the sort of secular idea that, hey, you want to test drive a car, right?

00:39:04.000 Some guys would say that.

00:39:06.000 This is from 20-something years ago, at least, Nick DiPaolo discussing this issue. 1.00

00:39:12.000 You could be the biggest whore for the first 30 years of your life. 1.00

00:39:14.000 F*** the NBA West, East, and South. 1.00

00:39:17.000 Still have the p***y of a Girl Scout when you're 76. 1.00

00:39:21.000 They tighten their vagina. 1.00

00:39:22.000 And you're deceiving men when you're doing that. 1.00

00:39:24.000 It's like rolling back the odometer on a used car.

00:39:28.000 He's talking about vaginoplasty.

00:39:31.000 That's a real thing, man.

00:39:32.000 Yeah, it is.

00:39:33.000 Well, we know girls that are in the Mind My Lifestyle, and literally, they'll be pretty much with basketball players, football players, and then they go into surgery. 1.00

00:39:41.000 It's like, oh, I'm a new body now.

00:39:42.000 I'm like, no, you're not.

00:39:43.000 You're still the same person.

00:39:44.000 And it's interesting that he said this 20 years ago before the explosion of social media.

00:39:48.000 It's even worse now because a regular girl will get DMs from athletes, celebs, guys that are top-tier, and they have access to them now because of the internet and Instagram.

00:39:57.000 Yeah.

00:39:58.000 No, and the thing is, like, people say, oh, you're being anti... Look, being anti-women's liberation, meaning having sex with as many people as you want, it's not anti-woman. 0.77

00:40:07.000 Go take a sampling, right?

00:40:08.000 A poll, 60-something-year-old women, and ask them if they say, hey, I wish I slept With more guys one time in my life. 1.00

00:40:15.000 That's my biggest regret.

00:40:16.000 No, almost always, these people say, when they're older, they say, I wish I would have spent more time with my family.

00:40:21.000 They don't tell you, I wish I had more money.

00:40:23.000 They say, you don't get more time.

00:40:24.000 I wish I had more time.

00:40:27.000 That's what they invariably say.

00:40:28.000 When they say time, they mean time with people that matter.

00:40:30.000 And think about this, you're wasting so much time in your life with things that don't matter, people that don't matter.

00:40:36.000 And the problem, right, it's a double-edged sword, is You may never be able to find that relationship that matters because people are checking out.

00:40:41.000 They're all terrified.

00:40:42.000 Men are saying, well, I don't want to get married because 70%, if they're college degrees, 80% of divorces are filed by women just because, and it's no fault. 0.98

00:40:50.000 And I don't want to marry a woman who's trained herself her whole life to learn how to break up with men. 1.00

00:40:54.000 And then women are saying, hey, I don't want to marry these men-childs, men-children, sorry, it's hard when you combine the two, who are going through second adolescence in their 30s. 0.94

00:41:04.000 And this is, look, you want to destroy a society from within.

00:41:08.000 It's tell people that evil is good.

00:41:10.000 And when I say evil, I mean...

00:41:13.000 Learning to, you know, I had a pastor one time give me this analogy, it's like sticky tape, where he said every time you rip off the tape it gets less and less sticky.

00:41:18.000 This is an analogy I used to use in youth group.

00:41:20.000 And it's true. 0.56

00:41:21.000 The more partners you have, you get really good at breaking up with people.

00:41:25.000 You get really good at learning to end relationships.

00:41:28.000 That's not great for yourself long term if you want to be in a permanent relationship.

00:41:31.000 Well, you also get really good at learning how to get somebody in bed.

00:41:35.000 That's not the goal of a relationship, right?

00:41:37.000 If you want to learn how to get a guy in bed, it's pretty simple, right? 0.56

00:41:40.000 The girls don't have to do a lot of training on that. 1.00

00:41:41.000 Just say yes.

00:41:42.000 Yeah, exactly.

00:41:42.000 Guys, That's not what you want for a relationship.

00:41:46.000 That's not the skill that it takes to be in a relationship.

00:41:49.000 And really, we've talked about this on other shows, we do need to bring some shame back.

00:41:53.000 I'm shaming the guys that are doing this too, and shaming the women. 0.67

00:41:56.000 I'm doing it for your own good.

00:41:58.000 You need to be ashamed of doing these things.

00:42:00.000 She was.

00:42:00.000 You could see it in her face when she was saying this, like, I still have to wear that.

00:42:03.000 And I'm like, yeah.

00:42:04.000 We are you at 40 telling you now not to make those mistakes.

00:42:08.000 Because at 40, you're going to regret it.

00:42:10.000 Yeah.

00:42:10.000 And you can't make anything up.

00:42:11.000 Your mic's coming on a little hot.

00:42:12.000 I don't know if it's just me, but yes, you're both passion.

00:42:13.000 You made a good point.

00:42:15.000 And the Bible talks about end times, where good will be evil, evil will be good.

00:42:20.000 And it's crazy because we're telling women to become better for themselves and their family, but they don't care what men actually want. 1.00

00:42:25.000 It's what they want. 0.99

00:42:26.000 So it sucks. 1.00

00:42:27.000 And I saw, behold, a pale whore. 1.00

00:42:32.000 No, I was going to say that since women are more promiscuous now than before, one thing that I say that people have, it's kind of controversial, I say before you even think about taking women seriously nowadays, you need to have sex with at least 50 girls. 1.00

00:42:47.000 What are you talking about?

00:42:48.000 And the reason why I say that is because if you get into a relationship dealing with a lot of modern women where they're racking up 10 bodies, 20 bodies in a semester in college because more women attend college nowadays. 1.00

00:42:58.000 I call it the deregulated sexual marketplace.

00:43:01.000 Women basically are able to hook up with whoever they want and if you leave women to their own devices, what do they do? 1.00

00:43:06.000 They typically pick the best guys and they're smashing a lot of these guys and it's easy for them.

00:43:10.000 So for, as a man, you don't want to get into a relationship with a girl that has been ran through and you don't, you're not able to see it.

00:43:16.000 I call it like basically getting in the ring with someone who's a black belt and you're a white belt because you're not necessarily experienced enough to be able to, um, how do I say this? 0.54

00:43:24.000 Combat.

00:43:25.000 Combat and or identify certain characteristics that would disqualify her from a serious longterm relationship.

00:43:30.000 And guys have to learn the skill now.

00:43:31.000 It used to be, you know, back.

00:43:32.000 They won't necessarily, they won't learn the skill through sleeping with a bunch of women though. 1.00

00:43:35.000 You need to learn the skill through screening for values and actually finding someone.

00:43:39.000 And I get that there's a lot of dishonesty, right?

00:43:41.000 And there's a lot of deception.

00:43:42.000 But I don't know if a guy is necessarily going to learn, like, I slept with 50 women, therefore I know that you banged 14. 0.99

00:43:48.000 It's not a hard 50.

00:43:49.000 It's not a hard 50.

00:43:53.000 35, 40, whatever it may be, but what I am saying is that guys need to get out there and deal with a lot of girls. 0.82

00:43:57.000 And I know this kind of clashes with, you know, traditional conservative values a lot of times where they're like, hey, you know, you should be trying to be monogamous, find a woman, even though I think that is a great template maybe 50 years ago in today's day and age with the way how women are and how promiscuous they are and how a lot of women sell men a dream or they sell purity, men deal success, women deal purity. 0.90

00:44:16.000 I think you need to be able to identify women that are promiscuous and a way to do that is by sleeping with them. 1.00

00:44:21.000 And I'll say this, the reason why it's sleeping with them versus just courting them and dating them is because that's a woman's main commodity. 1.00

00:44:27.000 Like once you sleep with her, you've pretty much conquered that woman, not to sound crazy, but you're able to identify the gains. 0.91

00:44:34.000 Well, no, but then it could also become, you know, this is where we would disagree, but I think it becomes a vicious cycle because then not wanting women to have a high body count, and you have a body count of 50, right? 0.54

00:44:40.000 It makes it, that's kind of what feminism was predicated on. 1.00

00:44:42.000 They go, well, men are doing this, so we shouldn't.

00:44:44.000 The truth is, it's not really, it's not good for anyone, but I understand what you're trying to say.

00:44:48.000 This is the reality of the world we live in.

00:44:51.000 Hopefully there's a, hopefully there is a split the difference.

00:44:53.000 You were in law enforcement, right?

00:44:55.000 Yeah.

00:44:55.000 You were in law enforcement.

00:44:56.000 Do you ever get trained on how to spot a fake ID?

00:44:59.000 May not have been part of what you're doing, right?

00:45:00.000 But no, we have like fraudulent documents.

00:45:02.000 Yeah.

00:45:02.000 Yeah, so anybody that's trained on how to spot a fake ID studies the original.

00:45:05.000 You don't study the fakes because that can change.

00:45:07.000 You study the original so that you can understand and see when something is off.

00:45:10.000 So I would disagree with you wholeheartedly on this, saying, look, if you want to find a pure woman, study what that is.

00:45:16.000 Go and find what that is so that you know what to look for.

00:45:18.000 Not necessarily what not to look for, because I think you're going to be fooled.

00:45:22.000 Like you said, women now will sell purity. 1.00

00:45:25.000 I never really put it into those words, but that makes sense, right?

00:45:27.000 That makes sense.

00:45:28.000 Like, I haven't been somebody who's going out and sleeping around.

00:45:31.000 You need to be able to identify the lie.

00:45:32.000 Not because you've been down in the mud with them, but because you have stayed out of it.

00:45:37.000 Here's the problem, though.

00:45:38.000 We saw earlier a clip of the woman talking about her experiences, right?

00:45:41.000 With a guy.

00:45:41.000 Did he have sex with her?

00:45:43.000 No. 0.99

00:45:43.000 So, off rip, she came in selling purity, selling like, oh, I'm a good girl. 0.99

00:45:46.000 But from experience, if you knew who she was as a person, you'd be like, hold on a second here.

00:45:50.000 You're coming to Miami, I gotta pay for stuff, I gotta figure out experiences.

00:45:52.000 That should have been the first sign!

00:45:54.000 But again, most guys don't know because they don't have the experience.

00:45:57.000 You need the experience on some level.

00:45:59.000 Yeah, it's and again, like I said, like, is this the best way to deal with things?

00:46:03.000 No, no, I'm a big proponent on guys, you know, fighting fire with fire and dealing with women and in 2023, the same way they deal with us.

00:46:10.000 Women, I hate to say this, in the dating game nowadays, they treat men as expendable commodities. 1.00

00:46:15.000 That's why they're able to do the things that they do and just move on, etc.

00:46:19.000 No, I mean that in a good way.

00:46:20.000 I tell guys to date like women do and you treat them like spendable quantities as well because my thing is this, I see what you're saying as far as finding a pure girl, but you're going to have to be able to identify the bad ones to know what a good one is. 1.00

00:46:31.000 But the problem is if you do that, you will make yourself no longer an option for the good girl.

00:46:38.000 She's not going to want a guy who's done that.

00:46:39.000 And so now the only women you can end up with are the women with the 50 body count. 0.97

00:46:43.000 A woman who actually is pure He's not going to want a guy who's been with 50. 1.00

00:46:46.000 I respectfully disagree with that and I'll tell you why.

00:46:48.000 Women tend to find men that can hook up with other women and have sexual experience attractive.

00:46:53.000 Now is this all women? 1.00

00:46:54.000 No.

00:46:54.000 But women definitely don't necessarily disqualify a man for having sexual experiences like a man will disqualify a woman.

00:47:02.000 The more experienced you are a lot of times it makes you more attractive because women tend to look for guys that are leaders, etc. 0.60

00:47:07.000 And if you're a leader in the bedroom, leader in all the other assets, It's rarely that a woman's going to disqualify you for having a promiscuous past, versus we would definitely disqualify a woman for a promiscuous past. 0.97

00:47:15.000 So maybe the broader point is, shouldn't we be pushing people, like, maybe the biblical prescription was the right way to go, and don't abandon it just because it's hard.

00:47:23.000 It's difficult.

00:47:23.000 I get it.

00:47:24.000 I was single up until, you know, like five years ago.

00:47:26.000 We thought he was going to die alone for sure.

00:47:28.000 We thought he was going to die alone.

00:47:30.000 He was missing a tooth.

00:47:31.000 No, I was.

00:47:32.000 I used to call him Toothy.

00:47:33.000 Yeah, yeah, you didn't call me Toothy more than once.

00:47:35.000 I didn't know he had a tooth that was shot out by a BB gun when I first met him.

00:47:39.000 I was like, hey, you ever think about getting... He's like, oh, this was shot out by my cousin's BB gun.

00:47:42.000 I'm like, oh, so you know about it.

00:47:42.000 He's like, yeah, I just can't afford to fix it right now.

00:47:44.000 And I want to be very clear, too, that I think the nuclear family is the backbone of any thriving society.

00:47:49.000 I think that's how the United States became the world's superpowers, on the back of nuclear families. 0.94

00:47:53.000 I think a man should be with a woman and we should have children. 0.99

00:47:55.000 But unfortunately, with the way things are now, where we have this deregulated sexual marketplace, where women control everything, I want to put men in a position where they're able to properly ascertain that woman's value, to give her that commitment, because guys take on such a huge risk. 0.77

00:48:08.000 Don't sleep with her. 0.97

00:48:09.000 Don't sleep with her. 0.97

00:48:10.000 And I agree with you that they are.

00:48:12.000 The minute my wife, who's now my wife at the time, the girl that I was dating, we talked about sex early and said, hey, I'm waiting.

00:48:20.000 That immediately turns people on or off.

00:48:23.000 It turns people off that are like, hey, I'm just interested in sex.

00:48:26.000 And it turns somebody on, not in a sex way, but it turns like, ooh, okay, so this guy has some morals.

00:48:31.000 This guy has a little bit of what I'm looking for.

00:48:33.000 There's some character there.

00:48:34.000 There's something more than just, hey, I'm trying to get in your pants there.

00:48:37.000 I agree with you.

00:48:39.000 I think the problem that we're facing is that society, you're correct, is crazy.

00:48:43.000 Right?

00:48:44.000 I don't think you play into their hand, though.

00:48:46.000 I think you have to go a completely different direction.

00:48:48.000 Well, there's also another, my primary issue is before, once we get on to the, we get past the entry point.

00:48:53.000 Right.

00:48:53.000 Here's the problem, you and your wife and I know that, and by the way, you were both very straightforward about your quote-unquote body cast.

00:48:57.000 I did want to have sex with her before. 1.00

00:48:58.000 Yeah, of course you did. 0.99

00:48:59.000 Of course you did.

00:49:00.000 She's your man.

00:49:01.000 I mean, it was like every, it was for a while, it was like we had to, we had to move the furniture like a great Dane's Tale.

00:49:05.000 Oh, come on! 0.99

00:49:08.000 Here's the problem though, the reality is, at this point in time, not that she ever would, but now that you're married and the church has failed men in a lot of ways here, where that woman's talking about, hey, I expect this, okay, how about a prenup?

00:49:18.000 Your wife, if she wanted to, if she were that person, could leave you tomorrow and take all your stuff. 1.00

00:49:22.000 No, you both waited.

00:49:22.000 And that's a separate problem.

00:49:23.000 So there's so many barriers to entry now for young men where they're going, hold on a second, first off, body count.

00:49:28.000 And then let's assume, let's assume that we all find common ground and you each find a person who is actually loyal, a person who actually does value their body and values their partner.

00:49:37.000 There still is a contract right now that doesn't make sense and men are saying, even if all that happens, I would rather, and here's another report, one third of men between ages 18 to 24 No sexual activity at all in the previous year.

00:49:49.000 A lot of them aren't even interested in it at all.

00:49:51.000 That's why you have Western men becoming what they call passport bros.

00:49:55.000 And this is according to Urban Dictionary where they say, men who have chosen to seek out foreign women, typically from other countries, for relationships.

00:50:00.000 Why?

00:50:00.000 Because there's a different standard.

00:50:02.000 There's a different view of marriage.

00:50:04.000 There's an actual view, a contractual view of marriage.

00:50:06.000 They believe, according to this source, that Western women have been influenced by cultural 0.97

00:50:10.000 and societal pressures to behave in a certain way, and that by seeking out foreign women 1.00

00:50:13.000 that can find authentic, fulfilling, and more harmonious relationships, they'll often go

00:50:17.000 to Southeast Asia or South America.

00:50:20.000 And just because this conversation can always get intense, here's, well, try and guess why

00:50:24.000 it's a pleasant clip.

00:50:25.000 We were both vibing in Spanglish until she spoke too fast. 0.99

00:50:31.000 Women here are very feminine. 1.00

00:50:32.000 Small empanadas.

00:50:34.000 And right now there are Western women watching this, turning to the husband, is that what you want? 1.00

00:50:37.000 Is that?

00:50:38.000 Yes.

00:50:39.000 I need to wait for two years.

00:50:40.000 Two years, wow.

00:50:40.000 I'm from Portugal.

00:50:41.000 I'm from Romania.

00:50:42.000 Yes, yes.

00:50:43.000 Me too.

00:50:44.000 I need to wait for two years.

00:50:45.000 Two years?

00:50:46.000 Wow.

00:50:47.000 Did you already apply?

00:50:48.000 Uh-huh.

00:50:49.000 You need a 90-day fiancé.

00:50:50.000 Someone to marry you. 0.65

00:50:51.000 Ah, yes.

00:50:52.000 We noticed directly behind us was a church.

00:50:53.000 I'm not going to lie.

00:50:57.000 I don't know what you guys would have done in this situation, but I'll tell you what I did.

00:51:00.000 Well, I can guess.

00:51:03.000 Now, here's the thing.

00:51:04.000 Women are like, is that what you want? 1.00

00:51:06.000 Yes.

00:51:06.000 Do you think?

00:51:06.000 Oh, you mean someone who is pretty, who seems happy to be there, who's nice, who's happy to be in a relationship, and if he is the primary earner, she's glad to support him?

00:51:13.000 Yep.

00:51:14.000 Look, here's the thing.

00:51:15.000 Men have not changed what they want in women.

00:51:16.000 Women have changed what they expect from men. 1.00

00:51:18.000 Now, this is not good for women. 1.00

00:51:20.000 What women used to want was someone who could protect and provide for them. 1.00

00:51:24.000 I mean, let me give you an example here.

00:51:26.000 Uh, Winston Churchill.

00:51:28.000 And, uh, you can, uh, Gary from Russia, we're gonna have him in later, we have an intervention with him because he keeps picking the wrong women. 0.86

00:51:32.000 Yeah, we're gonna try to help.

00:51:34.000 So, a lot of women, right, they want men who can provide and protect. 1.00

00:51:37.000 Okay, that's important.

00:51:38.000 Now, also, you need to be tender, right, to your wife, you need to love your wife, of course, all those things.

00:51:43.000 Winston Churchill.

00:51:44.000 It's a good example.

00:51:45.000 A lot of people want their wartime leaders, and then when it's not wartime, they want to put them back on the shelf.

00:51:50.000 They say, OK, we want to do it.

00:51:50.000 So Winston Churchill, right, we had Chamberlain, the Nazis, they were moving forward there on the Western Front, and they said, hey, we need someone, we need a hard-ass, we need Winston Churchill, right?

00:52:00.000 Brought him in, almost single-handedly kind of put a pause on the Nazi rise, which allowed America to get in and save the rest of the world. 0.76

00:52:06.000 You're welcome.

00:52:07.000 Sorry we were a little late.

00:52:08.000 But did you guys know Churchill was ousted two years later?

00:52:12.000 You know that?

00:52:12.000 Not surprised.

00:52:13.000 Two years later.

00:52:13.000 Why?

00:52:13.000 Because he didn't support socialized healthcare.

00:52:16.000 So they said, we need someone to come in and protect us.

00:52:18.000 And then afterwards, he was like, socialize? 1.00

00:52:19.000 You'll become a bunch of lazy socialist pussies! 1.00

00:52:22.000 And they were like, okay, now we don't want you anymore because we don't need you. 1.00

00:52:25.000 It's not wartime.

00:52:26.000 It's peace.

00:52:26.000 So now we want all the free stuff.

00:52:28.000 And he said, but there could be wartime.

00:52:29.000 It could come again.

00:52:30.000 Doesn't matter.

00:52:31.000 They got rid of them.

00:52:32.000 You see that a lot in relationships, where they want someone who's going to go out and protect and provide, okay, but also is sensitive, also does all of these new things that men weren't required to do.

00:52:41.000 Now I get, I'm not saying that men should just come home, put their feet up, and not contribute at all, but men still want the same thing.

00:52:47.000 I'm telling you this, women, if you're looking to find a man, if you were saying, hey, how do I make myself desirable to a man?

00:52:53.000 They want a woman who's, yeah, pretty, yeah, but they want a woman who's nice, They want a woman who they feel like they come home and it's a safe haven. 0.95

00:53:01.000 And someone who they can trust.

00:53:02.000 Someone who has their back.

00:53:03.000 We mock it now.

00:53:04.000 I'm not just going to be some Tammy Wynette, stand by your men.

00:53:07.000 Well then don't expect to find a man.

00:53:08.000 Men still want the same things.

00:53:10.000 Women want a man who can provide, protect, also be sensitive, also listen to the problems about caring. 1.00

00:53:15.000 I'd call this the 99 and 99 rule, okay?

00:53:17.000 And I will have this, and I've discussed this before, but maybe this might be new to you guys.

00:53:22.000 I'll ask people who are married, a couple.

00:53:23.000 I'll say, okay, you're married, this is your husband.

00:53:25.000 I say, okay.

00:53:26.000 Something goes bump in the night, is he expected to go down and take care of it?

00:53:29.000 And the woman invariably says yes. 1.00

00:53:31.000 And if you're at home right now, answer these questions.

00:53:32.000 Does he go down?

00:53:34.000 Or do you go down and say, hey, hey, hubby, lock the door?

00:53:36.000 No, he is.

00:53:37.000 Okay.

00:53:38.000 Does he work?

00:53:39.000 Does he provide for you?

00:53:40.000 I'm not asking if he's rich.

00:53:41.000 Does he work?

00:53:41.000 Does he provide for you?

00:53:42.000 Okay.

00:53:43.000 I've now crossed a threshold, but I'm gonna ask you one more question.

00:53:45.000 Does he ever do anything nice for you, like flowers or anything sensitive?

00:53:48.000 Okay.

00:53:49.000 Congratulations, you are now with a man who is doing more than 99% of men.

00:53:53.000 Ever.

00:53:54.000 Since the beginning of time.

00:53:55.000 Especially if he listens to you discuss problems that have no effect on him.

00:53:59.000 No one in the nomadic days, or if you go back to any ancient civilization was that expected of men.

00:54:04.000 Then you ask women, okay, so flip side. 1.00

00:54:08.000 Do you cook every day?

00:54:08.000 No, you're doing less than 99% of women since the beginning of time.

00:54:11.000 Now you may not want to cook, but guess what?

00:54:13.000 He still wants that.

00:54:14.000 He still wants a woman to be there to support him.

00:54:17.000 And I understand you can both share responsibilities and you both work, but the expectations of men have changed so much and the desires Of men that they have and women have not changed. That's

00:54:26.000 why you see things like the right we talked about passport bros sex dolls 0.93

00:54:29.000 This is an ex google chief said that ai sex dolls will quote redesign

00:54:33.000 Love and relationships the global market in 2020 was 411 million dollars and it's expected to grow by 56

00:54:41.000 And by the way at there was a survey 50 of sex doll users consider their doll as quote the ideal

00:54:48.000 partner For me and I feel emotionally attached to it like this guy

00:54:55.000 This would be her anniversary present for our tenure.

00:54:59.000 I got these matching wedding bands.

00:55:01.000 They say synthetic love lasts forever on them.

00:55:04.000 Which one's the robot?

00:55:05.000 Now here's the thing.

00:55:07.000 I'm not gonna lie to you, I decided to test it out for research purposes, and in my case, I think I deserve my money back.

00:55:13.000 Wait, Tesla?

00:55:14.000 It's the Lemon Law, but you know what?

00:55:27.000 It's the last time I take a tip on an electronics purchase from Gerald.

00:55:31.000 Me?

00:55:32.000 Yeah.

00:55:32.000 You know, Bianca's a missionary.

00:55:36.000 Well, was a missionary, right, sorry.

00:55:38.000 Because she was raised by nuns. 0.69

00:55:43.000 You got me scared there, man.

00:55:44.000 I was really scared for you, bro.

00:55:45.000 Yeah, I know.

00:55:45.000 I said, wait, what?

00:55:46.000 Test what?

00:55:48.000 By the way, the scariest part is that some of those sex dolls, they're only IPX3.

00:55:52.000 They're just slightly water-resistant.

00:55:55.000 Yeah.

00:55:55.000 You don't want to read the reviews either.

00:55:58.000 This is all really interesting because we talked about some of the root causes of what's going on here, and now we're dealing with some of the adaptations that men are kind of- The consequences.

00:56:06.000 Yeah, of what they're doing, whether it's Passport Bros, sex dolls.

00:56:09.000 Or just being lonely.

00:56:10.000 More men are lonely than ever before.

00:56:12.000 That too.

00:56:12.000 Video games.

00:56:13.000 We also had a podcast where we talked about the rise of virtual reality now.

00:56:17.000 Where a lot of guys are using that.

00:56:19.000 And I would say if you're a betting guy or you want to invest in something, I think investing in sex dolls and all this stuff in the future is definitely going to be a good thing because the problem is this.

00:56:27.000 Well, maybe not a good thing, but you're saying you'll make money in it.

00:56:30.000 Financially wise.

00:56:32.000 Yeah, I'm saying investing to make, because I predict that it's going to continue to grow as a market.

00:56:36.000 That's not license with sex dolls to go and make deposits. 1.00

00:56:40.000 But I will say that what's basically happened, and we showed this clip earlier, is that Women have changed, but they still expect men to be traditional when the women don't necessarily provide traditional value back. 0.68

00:56:51.000 They want a guy that's going to be a protector, a provider, do all these things that men historically have done while simultaneously not bringing back what men required of women. 0.99

00:56:59.000 They're whores. 1.00

00:57:00.000 They don't necessarily want to cook. 1.00

00:57:01.000 They don't want to clean.

00:57:01.000 They don't want to obey you.

00:57:02.000 They don't want to be submissive.

00:57:03.000 They want to be able to behave however they want while simultaneously getting a guy. 1.00

00:57:07.000 And that's the equivalent to me being a fat nacho cheese eating loser playing video games all the time saying, I deserve a bad bitch. 1.00

00:57:13.000 It's ridiculous. 1.00

00:57:14.000 But it's interesting. 1.00

00:57:15.000 Just to be clear, because you're a black guy, bad bitch is a good thing. 1.00

00:57:18.000 Yes. 1.00

00:57:18.000 Sorry. 1.00

00:57:19.000 Yes.

00:57:21.000 That is so cringe. 1.00

00:57:24.000 I might as well go on a date and she's like, I'm a bad bitch. 1.00

00:57:27.000 She's like, you just said that out loud. 1.00

00:57:30.000 Don't call me bossy.

00:57:32.000 One thing.

00:57:33.000 And I want you guys to really, like, this is the thing that's crazy to me, right?

00:57:36.000 So we've interviewed, like, almost 3,000 chicks on our show, and we always ask them, what do you want in a man?

00:57:41.000 And they always provide the same things that we talked about, you know, protective of gender.

00:57:43.000 Well, and then some.

00:57:44.000 All the other things, too.

00:57:45.000 It's like, and sensitive, and flowers, and it's like, okay, now you want Superman.

00:57:49.000 Then this is what I ask them.

00:57:51.000 What do you think that man wants back in return?

00:57:53.000 And then you know what they say?

00:57:56.000 It's incredible to me.

00:57:56.000 They say, oh, they want a boss.

00:57:58.000 They want someone who can make money just like them.

00:58:00.000 Yeah, I know. 0.98

00:58:01.000 And I'm like, holy crap. 0.96

00:58:03.000 They literally list off all the things that they want in a man. 0.90

00:58:06.000 And I was like, wow.

00:58:08.000 And it's amazing.

00:58:09.000 Billionaires marry waitresses. 0.99

00:58:10.000 Dude.

00:58:11.000 They don't care.

00:58:12.000 Yeah.

00:58:12.000 And then that's when it hit me.

00:58:13.000 Women don't give a fuck what we want. 1.00

00:58:16.000 They only care about what they want. 1.00

00:58:17.000 A lot of women. 1.00

00:58:18.000 Yes, right now the modern woman who's been in a majority.

00:58:20.000 Again, by the way, to women out there are plenty of women out there who are not, but

00:58:23.000 this is not for you.

00:58:24.000 And here's the thing.

00:58:25.000 Just like, just like if people, it was never as, as just to be clear, it was never as ubiquitous

00:58:28.000 as people said, like domestic abuse for men, by the way, the term whipping post, a lot

00:58:31.000 of people don't know this, that came from society.

00:58:34.000 It was exclusively for men who beat their wives. 1.00

00:58:35.000 You were tied to a whipping post and you were embarrassed in the town square because domestic abuse has always been considered horrible, just to be clear.

00:58:41.000 So what I'm saying is men needed to clear ranks, they needed to clean ranks at some point.

00:58:45.000 And women, I get that this is not all, but there aren't enough of you speaking out.

00:58:49.000 Because by the way, men are more lonely than ever, but women are miserable too.

00:58:53.000 Studies show that women are unhappier than ever. 1.00

00:58:55.000 20% of women under the age of 40 are an antidepressant.

00:58:58.000 Yes.

00:58:59.000 And this increases, by the way, the closer they get to menopause.

00:59:03.000 And I don't necessarily know that we have the numbers after menopause, but again, when you ask 60-year-old women, if you ask 60, 70-year-old men, 80-year-old men, like, hey, what do you wish that you had done more?

00:59:16.000 This is where men and women find common ground.

00:59:17.000 Time with family.

00:59:19.000 Time with family.

00:59:19.000 You know what's crazy?

00:59:20.000 You brought up medication, right?

00:59:23.000 So there's a test that guys do nowadays.

00:59:25.000 Well, actually, the players.

00:59:27.000 Go to a girls crib, look in the medicine cabinet and they see any medication in there. 0.97

00:59:31.000 And that's a huge red flag because they're in therapy and they need that.

00:59:35.000 That's a red flag because guess what?

00:59:36.000 In your relationship moving forward, that might be a problem.

00:59:38.000 So it's just tough.

00:59:39.000 And it's interesting as they become more and more liberated.

00:59:42.000 They've had more anxiety, more depression, more sadness, more miserableness.

00:59:46.000 It's crazy because I've always said feminism was a lie to women. 1.00

00:59:50.000 It told them, go get a career, make this money, become successful, etc.

00:59:53.000 But what they don't realize is women's sexual market value is absolutely perishable. 1.00

00:59:57.000 You only have a finite amount of time to get the guy that you want.

00:59:59.000 And the older you get, the more money you make, the more you dwindle that pool of men, and you're becoming less attractive to those very men that you want.

01:00:06.000 No, I think you're absolutely right.

01:00:08.000 We had that clip earlier about that girl saying, I want all these conservative values.

01:00:12.000 Liberal, right?

01:00:13.000 That was that whole thing.

01:00:15.000 Do you see what you're saying there?

01:00:17.000 You want all of these things that maybe in your late teens, early twenties, didn't really care about those things.

01:00:23.000 You're like, ew, that's gross.

01:00:23.000 I'm going to be an independent woman.

01:00:25.000 I'm going to go get these things.

01:00:25.000 And then you're like, wait a minute.

01:00:28.000 I kind of do want those things, but here's the thing.

01:00:30.000 I don't want to change anything about what I'm doing.

01:00:32.000 I want to just be crazy liberal, but I want all these conservative values.

01:00:36.000 That is the misalignment.

01:00:37.000 Like, you cannot have both, because these things live within kind of the conservative ideal.

01:00:42.000 Outside of it, you get all the beta males you want, but apparently that's not satisfying you right now.

01:00:46.000 And women are miserable because Like, I have never seen more positive change in people's lives, in couples that I've known, than when they had children. 1.00

01:00:56.000 Both in men and women.

01:00:57.000 But it gives this fulfillment, this value of, like, purpose in life.

01:01:01.000 And it's not the only one.

01:01:02.000 My wife is an amazing, phenomenally gifted person who's going to go back to work at some point so that our kids can see mom is a badass as well, right? 1.00

01:01:09.000 But she has chosen to do what she's doing at home because it is that important and that fulfilling.

01:01:14.000 And people that skate on that, and people that get too old for that because they've chased down every lie that's out there, end up missing out.

01:01:20.000 And not only on that, and this is gonna sound old, but once you start having kids, and you enjoy that process, and then you see the joy that it brings your parents, you experience this, right?

01:01:29.000 The joy that it brings them...

01:01:31.000 I don't know that I'll get that.

01:01:32.000 My dad finally started talking to me again.

01:01:34.000 I know, yeah, it's crazy, right?

01:01:35.000 You had kids and all of a sudden you're important again.

01:01:37.000 My mom facepalms me.

01:01:38.000 She's like, yeah, where's my grandchildren?

01:01:41.000 So there's these benefits, there are these things that are built in that you miss.

01:01:46.000 These really big important things societally that make life more full and rich and you guys are missing this because you're chasing after, I'm sorry, we talked about this yesterday in the five minute joke, you're chasing after fleeting Joy.

01:01:59.000 Has any of this made your life better, men or women?

01:02:01.000 This is the thing, and often men are told they can't speak about it because you're not a woman, right?

01:02:05.000 No vagina, no opinion, but now the trans thing, like no uterus, no opinion, I don't know, just whatever. 0.99

01:02:10.000 If you have a moo-moo, I guess you qualify. 1.00

01:02:12.000 But this is the issue.

01:02:14.000 Has it made your life any better?

01:02:17.000 That's the important thing that we need to ask ourselves right now.

01:02:21.000 Has this made relationships better?

01:02:23.000 Has it made your life better?

01:02:24.000 And I will say this, you know, one time I was talking with someone who was Conservative, a woman who was kind of a feminist and didn't realize it, and I tell this story all the time, because feminists say you can have it all, right?

01:02:35.000 They say you can work and you can be a stay-at-home mom. 1.00

01:02:36.000 And then you have conservative women, and they're mostly right, but she was really upset. 1.00

01:02:40.000 She said, you know, that's the lie of feminism. 1.00

01:02:42.000 She said, you know, you can have it all.

01:02:43.000 You don't.

01:02:43.000 She said, you have to make a choice.

01:02:45.000 She said, you know, you can't be a professional woman out there working, and you do have to make a choice. 1.00

01:02:50.000 And I said, huh, that must be wonderful to have a choice.

01:02:55.000 She said, what?

01:02:55.000 I said, so you're saying that when you were young, your parents said, hey, if you want to be a professional working woman, you can do that.

01:03:00.000 She said, yeah.

01:03:00.000 I said, or, you know, you can also be a mom and be a great wife.

01:03:02.000 Yeah.

01:03:02.000 I said, do you realize that no young man has ever had that discussion?

01:03:05.000 Any young man here, show of hands, any man, when he realized that he thought women were pretty and he wanted to have his own real live naked lady at home one day, anyone, anyone ever have your mom or your dad say, well, the good news is you have a choice.

01:03:17.000 You can be a working man and provide, or you can be a stay at home dad.

01:03:20.000 Nope.

01:03:21.000 Never.

01:03:22.000 Must be nice to have a choice.

01:03:24.000 And by the way, even if you tried to make it societally acceptable for men to have a choice, they wouldn't take it.

01:03:28.000 Because men have to keep themselves accountable, and men don't respect other men, and they know that women ultimately, no matter what you say or do, they won't respect men who don't try and... And you don't have to... By the way, to be clear, I'm not saying you have to be CEO of a Fortune 500 company. 0.99

01:03:40.000 You could be a garbage man. 0.61

01:03:41.000 It used to be valuable that, hey, a man is going out and a man is providing for this person. 0.99

01:03:46.000 But it not only was valuable, it was a prerequisite.

01:03:49.000 So feminism is a lie that you can have it all, The truth is that there does need to be a choice made, and the truth is only one of the two sexes, and there are only two, has that choice. 1.00

01:04:00.000 And that choice, by the way...

01:04:02.000 It has a finite amount of time.

01:04:03.000 There is a shelf life.

01:04:04.000 And we'll talk more about that as we continue.

01:04:05.000 You know what I think is great here is we can agree on the root causes, and then disagree on some of the approaches or solutions.

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Louder with Crowder - October 04, 2023

Analyzing The American Dating Crisis! Fresh & Fit Join!

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