Louder with Crowder - August 15, 2025


🔴 Modern Dating Is Cooked: Who's to Blame & Can it Be Fixed 2025-08-15 18:18


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5 minutes

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Word count

961

Sentence count

57

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Comedian and stand-up comic Amy Poehler joins Jemele to discuss her new book, The Red Pill and her advice to young women on how to deal with men who don t understand what it means to be a good husband.

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00:00:00.000 White? 0.92
00:00:01.000 No, but I would be lying to you if I said it wasn't a component of it because white males in this country still largely determine a lot of national elections.
00:00:10.000 And that's the most problematic group for the left.
00:00:14.000 So replacing white males who are the most likely to be conservative with any demographic would be in their best interest. 0.71
00:00:24.000 If you were to have Frank Luntz run a focus group, if you were a Democrat today and you're going to go, okay, what's my biggest problem here?
00:00:29.000 What's my biggest roadblock to that?
00:00:31.000 Ah, that's right.
00:00:32.000 It's those white males in the suburbs or country who go to church and who own guns.
00:00:40.000 How do we marginalize them as much as possible and change those numbers?
00:00:47.000 That is a statistical reality.
00:00:49.000 I think, again, going through it logically, you would understand why.
00:00:52.000 No, I don't think they necessarily go brown better than white, black better than white. 0.99
00:00:55.000 I think they go anything better than white conservative males because that's what keeps us from achieving unfettered national power.
00:01:07.000 And I won't act like that's not the case.
00:01:11.000 And I wanted to go back to one thing, just so you don't misconstrue this at all, because people talk about the manosphere and red pill and stuff like that.
00:01:16.000 And I know we've to the people out there who take this and at all go like, oh, okay, I know there are people in the red pill who say, yeah, go out and bang a lot of chicks so I can find out who a slut is. 0.99
00:01:25.000 No, that is the opposite of what I am saying here.
00:01:28.000 I still think you should seek the right things in a meaningful relationship.
00:01:32.000 The reason that I'm directing this largely toward young women is because it's a problem that can only be corrected from you. 0.99
00:01:42.000 And the men who are seeking something meaningful, you do need to, that if you don't want the guys who just bang a lot of bitches and red pill and hate women, then you need to know it's your duty to understand what it is that those men want and they're going to have different expectations. 0.94
00:01:58.000 And that's okay.
00:01:59.000 And by the way, I want to encourage men to have those expectations so that we don't have young men being CADs and promiscuous shitbags. 0.65
00:02:09.000 But the guys, you know, you don't get any credit for it either.
00:02:11.000 And that's a thing.
00:02:12.000 Men, hey, if it's a very wealthy, tall, successful man who's been married for 10 years and has never cheated, he kind of does deserve some credit because guess what?
00:02:24.000 He has a lot of opportunity.
00:02:26.000 All of the qualities that take a lot of effort are taken for granted.
00:02:30.000 And then the expectations are uncomfortable.
00:02:33.000 I want men who are looking for something real, who want to be good leaders, who want to be good fathers, who want to be good husbands.
00:02:42.000 And I think that a lot of women want that, but he's going to have different expectations.
00:02:48.000 And I can tell you this in my life.
00:02:49.000 You know, it's no secret that I was married and now I'm not.
00:02:51.000 Before that, when I dated, I was routinely, when I was rejected, told that it was because I was boring.
00:03:02.000 That was the main thing that came back.
00:03:05.000 I'd be like, yeah, you know, I'm kind of a creature of habit.
00:03:09.000 And this is what I want to do.
00:03:10.000 I was younger.
00:03:10.000 This is what I want to do with my life.
00:03:11.000 And it requires pretty kind of a regimented schedule.
00:03:14.000 But, you know, I like going out to dinner with a close friend or obviously if we're in a relationship and maybe going to the movies, maybe occasionally, you know, getting away.
00:03:23.000 But I'm happy being at home and keeping my circle of friends pretty close.
00:03:28.000 And when I'm not pursuing these professional endeavors, it's pretty important for me to rest.
00:03:33.000 And so I'd like someone who also likes to kind of lay back and take it a little bit easy and understand those rhythms and margins of, you know, hitting the gas and hitting the breaks and recovery so we can build.
00:03:45.000 It's like, I just want to dance.
00:03:49.000 I've never once outside of comedy clubs been to a nightclub.
00:03:52.000 I won't set foot in them. 0.90
00:03:54.000 I didn't, not because like, oh, no, it just, to me, is just, it's like what I picture hell being.
00:04:02.000 It's like going in and pulsing and lights with people I don't know and I can't get to know them because it's nothing to me but a meat market.
00:04:11.000 Like I like sitting, you know, the place that they're like, they would be considered old men place, a restaurant or a lounge where you can sit, maybe there's some, and you can talk and communicate.
00:04:20.000 It's just, it's always, now I will tell you this, when I was boring, the exact opposite in my 30s.
00:04:28.000 All of a sudden, every woman who was in their 30s didn't want to dance. 1.00
00:04:34.000 They were boring.
00:04:35.000 And that's what they were looking for.
00:04:38.000 How'd that change?
00:04:40.000 Were they boring all through their 20s and their early 30s?
00:04:46.000 And then it was considered wrong for me to ask a little about the background and go, oh, no, no, you weren't.
00:04:52.000 You were the one who said I was boring.
00:04:54.000 Well, why wouldn't I want someone who was always boring?
00:04:59.000 It's okay.
00:05:00.000 It's okay.
00:05:02.000 Young men, it's okay.
00:05:03.000 And young women know that the kind of men who you want them, that's what they are. 0.50
00:05:07.000 These are their preferences.
00:05:10.000 Make adjustments or die alone.
00:05:14.000 And I hope you don't die alone.