Louder with Crowder - 🔴 The Gavin Newsom 2028 Campaign Begins... And It Sucks 2025-08-20 18:07

00:00:00.000 And overweight women don't have to worry about being pregnant. 1.00

00:00:02.000 He didn't take into account black guys.

00:00:04.000 So there's little Gates that's like ninety percent there.

00:00:08.000 So this overweight gender queer, food based activist didn't go over well with young Gen Z men. 0.99

00:00:18.000 Oh, who'd have seen that coming, almost as failed as their campaign, the DNC to reach bloods in South Central.

00:00:25.000 Oh yeah.

00:00:27.000 They just can't read the bullet riddled room.

00:00:30.000 Not quite there.

00:00:31.000 What about their ill fated campaign pandering towards Mexicans?

00:00:34.000 Vote DNC.

00:00:35.000 Is muy caliente.

00:00:36.000 Ha, ha, ha, ha.

00:00:41.000 Also, by the way, Gates, just to be clear, his comments were not specifically directed at her.

00:00:46.000 The View was the one who did that, and so people think he was personally attacking her, which by the way, I have no problem with, but he actually wasn't.

00:00:51.000 No, he was just saying in general.

00:00:52.000 That's I'm holding it against.

00:00:54.000 Well, apparently she was fired by the DNC, but she says she was never hired, so it's an office space situation.

00:00:59.000 Well, didn't they do that?

00:01:00.000 Harry Sisson?

00:01:02.000 Not Sisson, sorry.

00:01:03.000 Who was the guy?

00:01:04.000 Who was the guy that they put in charge, second, like vice chair of the DNC, not Sisson, sorry.

00:01:08.000 I get like David Hogg.

00:01:09.000 David Hogg.

00:01:10.000 I get the pansy liberal guys all confused.

00:01:12.000 And then immediately moved on from him very quickly.

00:01:15.000 Put her in charge of getting Gen Z mails, but I'm like, who are you asking about this? 0.93

00:01:20.000 Which consultant is telling you to do this because it doesn't resonate with anybody and it's failing?

00:01:24.000 In fact, do me a favor, rehire her, please rehire, please put Gavin Newsom on the ticket. 0.99

00:01:29.000 In fact, I can't even get excited anymore about any of this shit. 1.00

00:01:31.000 They're insane. 1.00

00:01:32.000 Yeah, they're insane. 0.96

00:01:32.000 It's I can't even, I can't even, well, look at it this way. 0.96

00:01:35.000 This might, because I've been paid to when I'm on stage.

00:01:38.000 You and I have the tendency to, you know, look at the glass half empty.

00:01:41.000 That's often the burden that those in comedy have to bear.

00:01:45.000 Think of it this way.

00:01:46.000 The fruits of your labor now, right?

00:01:48.000 You get to reap what you've sown in that they're so crazy.

00:01:52.000 You kind of just get to sit back and let them do their thing.

00:01:55.000 and now everyone's going to know that what you've been saying for decades, all the missed opportunities, all the doors closed because you were too radical, everyone's going to know it's true because they say it. 0.96

00:02:03.000 As long as they have a tribute for me at my funeral or some shit. 0.99

00:02:07.000 I will. 1.00

00:02:07.000 Because I got no ink, no love from this fucking business. 1.00

00:02:10.000 Well, you do from I tell you what, I will personally build you. 0.99

00:02:13.000 Thank you.

00:02:13.000 I will build you a mausoleum.

00:02:15.000 You've done enough, Stephen.

00:02:16.000 I'm going to build you a mausoleum and I'm going to turn it into a haunted house with negative ethnic Italian stereotypes.

00:02:22.000 But everyone who wants to pay their respects has to get a heart attack.

00:02:24.000 There you go.

00:02:25.000 Well, no, it's going to say, Here lies Nick Topollo, the man who made Anna Navarro lose weight.

00:02:30.000 That is the absolute And you know what?

00:02:34.000 What's his name again?

00:02:35.000 Gerald.

00:02:36.000 I'm not.

00:02:38.000 No, I'm serious.

00:02:39.000 I take sleeping pills now and I'm all foggy.

00:02:41.000 Oh, God.

00:02:42.000 I'm forgetting what I'm going to say.

00:02:44.000 Oh, Anna Navarro.

00:02:45.000 Oh, Anna Navarro.

00:02:47.000 I'm telling you, she should send me a Whitman sampler.

00:02:51.000 And I introduced JB Pritzka into the fat jokes and a few other people.

00:02:56.000 Yeah.

00:02:57.000 And I and I watch.

00:02:58.000 I give him about a month.

00:02:59.000 And sure enough, after God felt those nineteen of those jokes.

00:03:02.000 Yeah.

00:03:03.000 Well, here's the thing.

00:03:04.000 That's when I see it and I'm like, that's Nick because I don't think No, no, can I let me clarify though.

00:03:09.000 But now they're doing way too many..

00:03:11.000 Yes.

00:03:11.000 I introduce them.

00:03:12.000 Of course.

00:03:13.000 But then I back off.

00:03:14.000 And then a lot of the other guys, you know, use them.

00:03:16.000 Yeah.

00:03:18.000 I think they go to that well a lot, but whatever.

00:03:20.000 Well, here's the thing, though.

00:03:21.000 You know it well enough to know, like, Chris Christie knows he's thick.

00:03:24.000 But you decided, like, you know what's going to sting more?

00:03:26.000 The person who is kind of chubby, but no one else is pointing out, Anna Navarro.

00:03:30.000 This is going to hurt more.

00:03:31.000 And it did.

00:03:31.000 It did.

00:03:32.000 She went right in the bathroom, started purging, thank God. 1.00

00:03:34.000 Yes.

00:03:35.000 Dust face.

00:03:36.000 Yes, she did.

00:03:39.000 So yes, I introduced these little nuggets in that one.

00:03:44.000 She really, I want to meet her and go, you're welcome.

00:03:46.000 Here you go.

00:03:46.000 It's just funny to me where it's like, okay., the negative stereotype of Democrats are that they are perpetual college activists, gender queer, who are gross, right, homely, unkempt, and then the DNC says, yeah, let's send one out to reach young men.

00:04:02.000 And you know what, at the same time, let's demonize the hot girl, Sydney Sweeney, and say that's racist. 1.00

00:04:07.000 Let's just tell white men that what you want is racist, and we don't want to be involved with the things that you and we'll try and force feed them abroad like this, and they wonder why it doesn't work.

00:04:19.000 That's how you know it's not about politics. 0.96

00:04:21.000 I always say this about these ugly left wing liberals abroad. 0.97

00:04:24.000 They're pissed at how they were made by God. 0.99

00:04:27.000 That's not good.

00:04:28.000 What?

00:04:29.000 It's not so hard.

00:04:30.000 It's cuts like a laser straight to their soul.

00:04:34.000 It's mean but accurate.

00:04:36.000 That's their beef.

00:04:37.000 It's their beef is with their maker, who's a guy, by the way.

00:04:40.000 Of course.

00:04:41.000 And that's who their beef is with.

00:04:43.000 And this stuff bubbles up in school when they get picked on and they carry it the rest of their lives and it turns and they go to the Democratic Party for help.

00:04:49.000 Yeah.

00:04:50.000 That's what we're fighting.

00:04:51.000 That's what you're fighting.

00:04:52.000 You're fighting ugly unpopular kids who get bullied. 0.87

00:04:54.000 I'm glad I bullied the kids. 0.57

00:04:56.000 They had a common. 1.00

00:04:56.000 They grew up to be real assholes. 1.00

00:04:58.000 Well, I was I was bullied. 1.00

00:05:00.000 And I was bullied.

00:05:00.000 Plenty of concern.

00:05:01.000 By one guy.

00:05:02.000 This is when you look at the.

00:05:03.000 Together with a payphone.

00:05:04.000 Can you bring up the Newsome, the first Newsome Vance picture again that they show?

00:05:07.000 What they're effectively saying is, hey, look guys, look guys, our guy peaked in high school.

00:05:12.000 Hey, sure, Vance was chubby, but you know what happened?

00:05:14.000 Unlike liberals, he went into the Marines and he improved himself.

00:05:18.000 I guarantee you he was probably bullied, right?

00:05:20.000 That's the difference.

00:05:21.000 He didn't just say, hey, everyone, actually, I'm going to require that you love me and praise me.

00:05:27.000 He went into a fighting force and then he clawed his way.

00:05:31.000 And people say the American dream is dead.

00:05:33.000 Okay, let me prove to you that it's him and Ben Carson, which shows you it's not a race thing either.

00:05:38.000 Very similar as far as their upbringing poor, drug problems, surrounded by violence.

00:05:44.000 You know about MK Altra and Monarch thinking, monarch training.

00:05:48.000 That's what, that's how he's bred, Newsom.

00:05:50.000 Oh yeah.

00:05:50.000 Those kids, they go to private schools when they're bred to do what they're doing today.

00:05:54.000 Yeah.

00:05:54.000 They are bred to, people don't realize.

00:05:56.000 Yeah, I talked to one of his business partners when, I think it was when he was governor of, I'm sorry, mayor.

00:06:02.000 And I didn't, I didn't, I wasn't really super into politics at the time, but he's, I just like, I don't really like Gavin Newsom.

00:06:06.000 And he's like, oh man, he's one of his business partners.

00:06:08.000 He's like, that guy has been bred, raised for one purpose.

00:06:12.000 See that?

00:06:13.000 Only he has been, I'm telling you, this was after like tons of great alcohol.

00:06:18.000 So I was getting the joke.

00:06:19.000 And this guy that I was talking to, he's a very, very cool guy.

00:06:22.000 He was just like, yeah, this guy has one purpose.

00:06:24.000 Yeah.

00:06:25.000 They're just breeding him to run for president.

00:06:27.000 There's a whole there's a bunch of them. 1.00

00:06:29.000 I mean, there's a whole book about this shit. 0.99

00:06:30.000 I mean, that's what he's put on the earth, literally race to do that. 1.00

00:06:33.000 Like you'd raise a kid to be an athlete.

00:06:35.000 Well, let's just look at let's look at what was her name?

00:06:37.000 Julianna what was her name?

00:06:39.000 Julianna a carbohydrate.

00:06:43.000 Alylia Julianna.

00:06:44.000 Okay.

00:06:44.000 So you just look at the DNC.

00:06:45.000 Let's look at what they're offering.

00:06:46.000 And I mean this.

00:06:48.000 Let's look at the problem in this country, okay?

00:06:50.000 Particularly with young men that you see.

00:06:53.000 Young men are struggling.

00:06:54.000 You see those stats.

00:06:55.000 You see them in college admissions.

00:06:56.000 You see them in crime stats.

00:06:58.000 You see them in depressive disorder stats.

00:07:00.000 You see them in pornography stats.

00:07:01.000 You see them in being single., struggling with relationships.

00:07:04.000 Okay, so there's a struggle.

00:07:05.000 So what does the left offer?

00:07:07.000 If there's a problem, the solution they offer is, okay, let's use, first off, you have Chubby Panda.

00:07:13.000 Let's just, I guess, scratch that out because I don't even know what that is.

00:07:17.000 Hey, be a furry.

00:07:18.000 It's fine.

00:07:18.000 Was that going to help the young man?

00:07:20.000 No.

00:07:20.000 Just be whatever you want.

00:07:21.000 Identify however you want.

00:07:23.000 It's the world that needs to change.

00:07:24.000 Does that help the people right now who need help?

00:07:26.000 Let's go to Olivia Giuliana.

00:07:27.000 Hey, are you young man?

00:07:30.000 Let's say it's a young Vance.

00:07:31.000 Let's say it's a young me.

00:07:33.000 Okay, I went through a phase where I was pretty, pretty chubby.

00:07:35.000 I was short and chubby and then tall and skinny.

00:07:37.000 Hit a gross bird.

00:07:38.000 So I'm going, all right, I have a problem right now where I don't know how to socialize.

00:07:42.000 I don't really know what my future looks like with AI.

00:07:44.000 A chubby young kid right now.

00:07:47.000 Well, it doesn't really help me.

00:07:49.000 Be a furry.

00:07:50.000 I'm just going to be even more weird despite you trying to tell me that everyone else should accept that I can't change the rest of the world.

00:07:55.000 Let me go to Olivia Giuliani.

00:07:56.000 Hey, what advice do you have?

00:07:58.000 All bodies are beautiful.

00:07:59.000 Stay fat.

00:08:00.000 That's fine.

00:08:00.000 Don't need to change.

00:08:01.000 Okay.

00:08:01.000 Got it.

00:08:03.000 All choices are legitimate.

00:08:05.000 Okay.

00:08:05.000 So I could just be gender queer, change it on any given day.

00:08:08.000 Sure.

00:08:08.000 Okay.

00:08:08.000 That won't lead to happiness or stability or any kind of meaningful relationship.

00:08:11.000 All right.

00:08:12.000 Let me look at the joy reads of the world.

00:08:13.000 Okay.

00:08:13.000 No, I'm racist.

00:08:14.000 So I need to take a back seat.

00:08:15.000 All right.

00:08:15.000 I got it.

00:08:16.000 I'm just afraid of competing with black people, even though I have higigher SAT scores, even though I have higher scores in high school and I'm more extracurricular, okay, just take a back seat because I'm a white guy, okay, I got it. 0.99

00:08:25.000 I'm still fat. 0.91

00:08:26.000 I still don't have any future prospects.

00:08:28.000 Hold on.

00:08:29.000 Where should I move?

00:08:29.000 Maybe there's more opportunity.

00:08:31.000 Oh, I should be accepting of sanctuary cities and rampant crime and there's nothing I can do, catch and release.

00:08:36.000 Okay, you know what, maybe I'll start, hey, I know you guys aren't telling me this, but I decided to start a business.

00:08:40.000 Oh, wait, people can rip me off to the tune of 999 dollars because something, something oppressive, for fathers, okay, I got it.

00:08:46.000 So now I'm bankrupt.

00:08:47.000 There is nothing that they offer you as an individual that can improve your life.

00:08:53.000 There's a lot that they offer you that will make your life.

00:08:57.000 a worse place to be.

00:08:59.000 If you followed all of the advice from the left, and I mean this, you would have a worse life. 0.97

00:09:06.000 I would be surprised if you didn't end up contemplating suicide.

00:09:09.000 Now, contrast that with, let's just use Vance as an example.

00:09:13.000 Hey, I'm from a small town or I'm from the inner city.

00:09:16.000 I'm thick, I'm out of shape, I don't have a father, my parents, uh, who I do have, or step parents, are addicted to drugs, there are no economic prospects here since the mine closed down.

00:09:25.000 Oh wait, what can I do?

00:09:27.000 I can take control over some facets and start, what did Jordan Peter, oh, I can make my bed okay, I'll start with that.

00:09:32.000 Vance, oh, I can try to get to college, I can lose some weight, I can join the Marines, then I can go to an Ivy League school.

00:09:38.000 legal school, wait a second, I have some control over my own destiny?

00:09:43.000 Huh?

00:09:44.000 If you're just talking, just treat it like a self-help book, right?

00:09:48.000 Because we often just lose the policy, okay, it's national policy, a federal policy, it's a state policy.

00:09:53.000 Your life.

00:09:55.000 Who's giving you advice for your life that will make your life better?

00:10:00.000 And even more importantly, who's giving you advice that will allow you to make your community better, to make your family better?

00:10:10.000 It's clear as day.

00:10:12.000 You can say you don't like judgment all you want.

00:10:15.000 All right, fine.

00:10:16.000 Let's do the no-judgment zone as far as morality.

00:10:19.000 Let's take that off the table.

00:10:20.000 Let's just look at the results objectively.

00:10:24.000 Someone's reading the self-help book, all the advice, the proposed prescriptions from today's left, and someone's reading a self-help book, all of the advice and proposed prescription from traditional conservative America.

00:10:39.000 Which one's going to give you a life worth living?

00:10:42.000 Here's the thing.

00:10:43.000 Conservatism in the United States.

00:10:45.000 It's actually not new.

00:10:46.000 It really isn't.

00:10:47.000 The ideas, the philosophy, that's why it's rooted in Judeo-Christian beliefs.

00:10:53.000 It's not new.

00:10:53.000 It's just new to act.

00:10:54.000 knew to actually codify it into practice to codify hey you because God gives you free will because you are allowed to make your own decisions because you are not to bow to a to bow to a king you can make your own decisions life liberty pursuit of happiness that's we're going to codify this to make sure that you can do it you can read Marcus Aurelius you can read meditations one of my favorite books you can read it in an afternoon If you want an answer to what ails you,

00:11:23.000 it's, hey, why do you give these other people power over you?

00:11:26.000 They can't harm you.

00:11:29.000 Hey, get up.

00:11:30.000 Set a routine.

00:11:32.000 Do your intense activities at the beginning of the day.

00:11:35.000 Make a plan, stick to it, and accept that you may not get the rewards that you anticipate, but do it because it's the right thing to do.

00:11:42.000 And if you do that consistently, you're going to look back and find yourself better off than the people who didn't think about doing the right thing to do.

00:11:50.000 Self Help book from the Democratic Party, the DNC Youth Summit, Self Help book from this show or from the Conservative Wing of America, which one makes your life better?

00:12:01.000 We have a very clear answer.

00:12:02.000 No wonder the Democrats are losing territory with Gen Z. And look, if you find yourself being a liberal fat piece of crap still, and diet and exercise are not enough. 0.99

00:12:10.000 Ask your doctor if Nick Zempic is right for you. 0.99

00:12:13.000 Yes.

00:12:13.000 Cool.

00:12:15.000 Brother, ooh.

00:12:18.000 It's the same people who will shun that.

00:12:21.000 That's just big pharma.

00:12:22.000 More vaccine, more mRNA, please.

00:12:24.000 Well, that's the problem.

00:12:26.000 I know, and I now know why they can't be happy.

00:12:28.000 It is the pursuit of happiness.

00:12:29.000 These people can't go if pursu, if happiness is going at any more than like a brisk walk, they're never going to catch up.

00:12:35.000 That's right. 0.64

00:12:36.000 They're just too fat. 0.99

00:12:38.000 It's the pursuit that's going to kill them. 0.51

00:12:40.000 It's just, so, and I know we're joking about it's like this.

00:12:43.000 Your blood pressure is 1100 over 971.

00:12:46.000 Yeah.

00:12:47.000 They think they can give you happiness.

00:12:48.000 on a silver platter.

00:12:49.000 Like it's something that can be brought to your house or downloaded.

00:12:53.000 It's like, no, we give you the opportunity to find happiness.

00:12:57.000 And you know where that is.

00:12:58.000 Looking in the wrong places for it.

00:13:00.000 Well, no, no, think about it.

00:13:03.000 If the left is the party of the poor and the downtrodden, they want to keep you poor and downtrodden.

00:13:08.000 That's right.

00:13:08.000 And I've talked about this a lot.

00:13:09.000 Like people used to say the Republicans are the party of the rich and Democrats are the party of the poor.

00:13:12.000 No, it's actually really, really clear.

00:13:14.000 Here's where you have a very clear voting split.

00:13:18.000 The ultra, ultra wealthy billionaires, those in the too big to fail class, Democrat.

00:13:22.000 The 43% used to be 47% Democrat.

00:13:34.000 Okay, so Democrat, Democrat.

00:13:36.000 Anywhere from middle to upper middle class, some actually lower middle class, but working class.

00:13:42.000 Lower middle class, middle class, upper middle class, to wealthy, excluding the Jeff Bezos of the world, the billionaires of the world.

00:13:50.000 overwhelmingly Republican, meaning someone who works and pays maybe a couple grand in taxes because they don't have that much to take home.

00:13:57.000 If they are working, if they are paying anything in taxes, they're going to, you can bet your life if you had to, playing the odds games, they're going to vote Republican.

00:14:06.000 Yeah.

00:14:06.000 Democrat down here, people who will will never contribute, who only want handouts.

00:14:12.000 Democrats, people who want the same handouts, the corporate welfare that you see, the Walmarts of the world, the Amazons of the world who loved COVID lockdown policy.

00:14:20.000 Who?

00:14:22.000 Who hated it?

00:14:23.000 Who suffered?

00:14:24.000 Anyone working, paying taxes in this country, lower middle class through wealthy class, Republican.

00:14:33.000 Just to be clear, let's just put that to bed right now.

00:14:36.000 The poor, the rich.

00:14:37.000 Nah, nah, nah, nah.

00:14:38.000 That's the only place where you see a very stark voting pattern.

00:14:41.000 And yes, there's win some lose some in that sort of middle, but it tends to be overwhelmingly.

00:14:46.000 Republican, you know, law abiding taxpaying citizens who don't own a giant tech company and don't take welfare.

00:14:52.000 If they meet all those prerequisites, you know how they're going to vote.

00:14:55.000 Okay.

00:14:56.000 So they're not a liberal white woman. 1.00

00:14:58.000 That's true.

00:14:58.000 That's one exception.

00:14:59.000 There's so many white women. 1.00

00:15:00.000 And it's out of this false compassion.

00:15:02.000 Well, that's because without, without the support of a man in their life, they would be that group that doesn't pay 43% income tax. 0.93

00:15:09.000 Because liberal white women tend to get useless degrees and don't find employment, but they have a sugar daddy. 1.00

00:15:13.000 And so they're protected and insulated. 0.97

00:15:15.000 They go from dad, their real daddy, to new daddy, who they, you know, 70% of the filings they divorce.

00:15:22.000 So they're insulated from the horrors of the world they haven't had to make make it through.

00:15:25.000 Just think of a JD Vance what he had to go through.

00:15:28.000 Just think of a Hegaseth what he had to go through. 0.96

00:15:30.000 Just think, look, I'll say it's not killing people, but Nick, myself, do you have any idea how many times I've just slept on a couch or be in God knows where, United States for fifty bucks a pop for a gig to try and that's not the same as someone who takes out a student loan that they don't believe they have to pay back to get a gender studies degree.

00:15:48.000 And I'm sorry, it's definitely more of a struggle than a black American in the inner city who's never worked or a Native American on a reservation who's never worked.

00:15:58.000 Definitely, I, Gerald, Nick, people in here have faced more struggles than I have ever faced.

00:16:04.000 The problem is that you blame people for overcoming it and you say, Yeah, it must be nice.

00:16:08.000 Right.

00:16:08.000 You think it must be nice?

00:16:10.000 You think it must be nice?

00:16:11.000 Do you know, do you know what the days look like to get to that point?

00:16:14.000 The pride swallowing siege.

00:16:16.000 I will never fully tell you about it.

00:16:19.000 Oh my gosh.

00:16:20.000 Okay, let's take some chats.

00:16:22.000 Okay, let's see.

00:16:23.000 First chat from Revans Padawan.

00:16:25.000 Hey, why is Dan Abash dressed like Don Sherry?

00:16:27.000 Sorry, let's go.

00:16:31.000 Revans Padawan asks.

00:16:32.000 Question for the crew.

00:16:33.000 Shouldn't the general philosophy with divorce slash alimony be if my money wasn't, jeez, wasn't enough for you to stay, you don't need it when you leave.

00:16:40.000 you don't need it when you leave.

00:16:41.000 Yep.

00:16:42.000 Simple.

00:16:43.000 Yep.

00:16:44.000 I mean, listen, this has gotten, this has really gotten crazy.

00:16:48.000 Like, so take an extreme example for this to kind of make the point.

00:16:53.000 Let's say that a guy goes out there, gets married, doesn't really have anything to his name, and goes out and doesn't have any kids.

00:17:00.000 The wife stays at home, doesn't really do anything. 0.94

00:17:03.000 And he goes out and is an athlete or he starts a business.

00:17:06.000 Let's call him Paul McCartney.

00:17:08.000 Let's say he makes $100 million.

00:17:09.000 Is there a fake leg involved in this equation?

00:17:11.000 Giant number.

00:17:12.000 $100 million makes $100 million.

00:17:14.000 Never had kids.

00:17:14.000 So wife is not really kind of doing that part of the equation, which a lot of people would say, okay, that'ss what you're in this relationship, like, I love you, I want to have a great life with you, I want to have kids and you're going to keep the family, the home and everything.

00:17:25.000 Let's say she does nothing of that stuff. 0.93

00:17:26.000 She's sitting around eating bonbons going out in the backyard in the pool on some giant, I don't know, stupid pink inflatable raft that costs 100 bucks. 1.00

00:17:33.000 Wow, this is getting very specific. 0.99

00:17:35.000 That kind of stuff, right?

00:17:36.000 Just doing absolutely nothing.

00:17:38.000 And then says, no, no, no, I want to apply for divorce and now I want to take the $50 million that is rightfully mine.

00:17:42.000 Well, you didn't do anything for that.

00:17:43.000 You can't say, like, oh, I supported him through that.

00:17:45.000 No, you didn't.

00:17:46.000 You sat there and basically used him as a wallet, like we've talked about.

00:17:50.000 You just ran up the credit card bills and bought whatever you wanted, did whatever you wanted, had the girls weekend, did all those things.

00:17:55.000 And I'm using an extreme example.

00:17:56.000 example it's probably not all that extreme it's very common not all that extreme To make the point, do you really think that that person should be entitled to half in that situation and why?

00:18:07.000 And women, you might get this like defensive thing that comes up, but ask yourself why flip it if you as a woman. 1.00

00:18:18.000 were to be the one who's a model, an actress, or a businesswoman who started a business.

00:18:22.000 And your man is sitting over there pounding beers all day, doing the Al Bundy, handing out.

00:18:27.000 Let's call him Tom Arnold.

00:18:28.000 Let's call him Tom Arnold.

00:18:30.000 There we go.

00:18:31.000 Would he be?

00:18:32.000 And I would make the same case.

00:18:33.000 I would make the exact same case and say, of course, he wouldn't be in line for half of that.

00:18:38.000 I don't think that's fair at all for either one.

00:18:40.000 Right?

00:18:40.000 So why are we doing this?

00:18:41.000 And now you can just go down the sliding scale.

00:18:43.000 Like when is enough enough?

00:18:44.000 Yeah.

00:18:45.000 When is enough enough in these situations?

00:18:47.000 Like it really is a it's a bad situation for a lot of guys to be in and especially with the laws the way they are in this country.

00:18:53.000 And I'm coming at it from a Christian perspective when it shouldn't be like this in the first place and we need to do a lot of work on the front end to make sure the back end doesn't look so bad.

00:19:00.000 Well, here's where I agree with the Muslims. 1.00

00:19:04.000 Like, I mean, listen, you say stuff like that and it's kind of a joke and it's like, it solves parts of the problem, but it's not.

00:19:10.000 Let's read in the middle something.

00:19:11.000 You know, it's like, yeah, you gotta right now, you gotta be able to talk about this.

00:19:14.000 You have a multi billion dollar.

00:19:16.000 Can someone research, send me what the divorce, the legal divorce industry is in this country? 0.73

00:19:21.000 I don't know how many billions.

00:19:23.000 So there's a multi-billion dollar industry.

00:19:24.000 By the way, you can see billboards for this that incentivizes someone to break a contract.

00:19:32.000 There really isn't any other industry where that's the case.

00:19:34.000 And this is not an extreme example.

00:19:36.000 We know multiple people like this who were very successful, very wealthy, got married with the truest of intentions, were cheated on.

00:19:45.000 by someone who didn't financially contribute, by the way, and also didn't contribute in other notable ways.

00:19:51.000 Woman cheated on him and took half. 0.99

00:19:55.000 I know people who are going through that now.

00:19:58.000 That's not uncommon.

00:19:59.000 That's not an exception.

00:20:01.000 That's the rule.

00:20:03.000 And I know you could say, well, it's not really designed against men.

00:20:06.000 It's designed against sort of, you know, to sort of balance from the primary earner.

00:20:09.000 Yeah, but then you look, women will leave men if they earn more than men statistically to an overwhelming degree. 1.00

00:20:15.000 Women don't like to be with a man who earns less than them. 1.00

00:20:17.000 Not all, not all, not all, not all.

00:20:18.000 You have to say that, but that's a general rule.

00:20:20.000 What's the number as far as a divorce?

00:20:21.000 28 billion.

00:20:22.000 28 billion dollars.

00:20:23.000 28 billion dollars trying to sell you on the idea of your freedom and your happiness if you just sign on this dotted line.

00:20:32.000 They're the only ones that win, by the way.

00:20:34.000 Yeah.

00:20:34.000 Most people that get divorced don't have enough resources to pay those advocates.

00:20:37.000 They scrounge everything together and at the end of the day they get the document.

00:20:40.000 It's three and five years later and they've got nothing to their name.

00:20:44.000 What's the breakdown ethnicity of lawyers?

00:20:47.000 I don't know.

00:20:48.000 I'd be willing to.

00:20:48.000 You had a lot of vowels in the last name.

00:20:51.000 Choose have a lot of vowels in any?

00:20:53.000 Yeah.

00:20:53.000 I mean.

00:20:54.000 Leave a Witch, Goldstein, Skywalk, Baldiol. 0.94

00:20:57.000 Yeah.

00:20:57.000 You know, listen, you know where the money is, all right?

00:21:00.000 There's a filtered bird.

00:21:01.000 Divorce lawyers.

00:21:04.000 Aaron, divorce.

00:21:05.000 But yeah, no, it's that a good source of child support.

00:21:11.000 Also, the problem though is that that's kind of imposed by the courts because many men would not only would many men like primary or full custody, it's almost never granted.

00:21:19.000 But here's something you also need to know.

00:21:21.000 That abuse, domestic abuse, is actually higher from women to men.

00:21:24.000 It's just often not reported.

00:21:25.000 You can see it reported in lesbian couples. 1.00

00:21:27.000 Say that again, please.

00:21:28.000 Domestic abuse is higher from women to men than men to women.

00:21:31.000 What do you mean women hitting men? 1.00

00:21:32.000 Women hitting men. 1.00

00:21:33.000 Yeah, it's just not considered abuse.

00:21:34.000 Because men don't report it, right? 0.98

00:21:36.000 It's less powerful.

00:21:36.000 Yeah, it's less powerful.

00:21:37.000 I find that hard to believe.

00:21:38.000 It's okay.

00:21:39.000 It is, but here's the thing.

00:21:40.000 It's often under reported.

00:21:41.000 Then you look at couples, gay couples.

00:21:42.000 Those are gay couples.

00:21:43.000 It's it's almost doesn't exist. 0.95

00:21:44.000 Lesbian couples, through the roof. 1.00

00:21:46.000 And then you can look at the numbers of abusive children, both physical and other emotional, it's much higher in single mother households and single father households.

00:21:53.000 We've been led to believe that that's just an inescapable fact, but the court system says, unless it's so beyond the pale, literally a current active drug problem, well, we got to err on the side of the mom and you have dads who want to take care of their kids, you have dads who want to step up.

00:22:09.000 And I think there are plenty of men, believe me, I've talked about this for long enough, so I don't even do more.

00:22:13.000 Plenty of men who refuse to step up, I get it.

00:22:15.000 But what about the men who did step up and who want to step up, not saying they're perfect, who are excluded, excluded because of the system.

00:22:24.000 The quickest way to get rich in this country, if you are in an attractive woman, is marry a rich guy and it doesn't matter if you cheat on him or not, take his stuff.

00:22:32.000 And there's a 20 something billion dollar industry that will help you do it.

00:22:35.000 And so what's the problem?

00:22:36.000 Like, what's the problem?

00:22:38.000 Where do we find ourselves?

00:22:39.000 Young men are saying, I'm not doing it. 0.85

00:22:41.000 And the more successful a man becomes, the less likely he is to sign that state marital contract.

00:22:46.000 That's not a good thing.

00:22:47.000 I'm not saying this because I'm pro marriage.

00:22:51.000 And it's not going to last.

00:22:52.000 And you're not going to like the way society ends up if you continue down this path.

00:22:57.000 And it's just no matter what it is, it's like the men will be faulted for things that both people do.

00:23:01.000 We're always going, and I'm not saying if the man does this and he shouldn't do this and he should, yeah, but no one should do it.

00:23:06.000 It's a wash.

00:23:07.000 It's a wash. 0.98

00:23:08.000 There was a case of he was a black guy. 0.72

00:23:10.000 I was listening to a radio talk show.

00:23:12.000 So quite a while ago.

00:23:14.000 But some woman he was seeing said, oh, this is your child.

00:23:19.000 And he wanted, you know.

00:23:21.000 Yeah.

00:23:22.000 They did a test.

00:23:23.000 And he still had to pay.

00:23:24.000 And he still had to pay.

00:23:25.000 Yep.

00:23:26.000 That's when I went, holy, I mean, I knew it was off the rails.

00:23:29.000 It was in Texas.

00:23:29.000 It sounds like something.

00:23:31.000 It might have been.

00:23:31.000 I thought it was.

00:23:32.000 You have women who have kept the, who have taken the used condoms from the trash from famous athletes and seminated themselves. 0.87

00:23:39.000 Yes.

00:23:39.000 To have children so that they can live on that.

00:23:42.000 I tried that.

00:23:42.000 It didn't work.

00:23:44.000 I bust in at that paycheck.

00:23:47.000 I grabbed Tom Brady's and I was guzzling it.

00:23:49.000 Apparently, think about Tom Brady.

00:23:51.000 Think about Tom Brady.

00:23:52.000 Oh, I know.

00:23:53.000 Think about that guy.

00:23:54.000 I know.

00:23:54.000 And people go, she goes, he wasn't a very present father.

00:23:57.000 That was the big thing, right?

00:23:58.000 Now, I remember so many people sided with him.

00:23:59.000 Did Will say that?

00:24:00.000 Yeah.

00:24:00.000 He wasn't a very present father.

00:24:02.000 On the pocket chair.

00:24:03.000 Yeah.

00:24:03.000 Well, she was, and now she's with her Jiu Jitsu coach, who by the way, was her coach while she was married.

00:24:06.000 I'm sure nothing developed there.

00:24:07.000 No emotion.

00:24:08.000 Oh my God, that little hole.

00:24:10.000 And who?

00:24:12.000 It seems like he's pretty involved because he bought another house that's just a few houses down away from where he would be required to live as a primary residence so he can be near the kids.

00:24:21.000 Also look at the story of before he got married and how he got took care of the kids.

00:24:26.000 Hey, I know he probably isn't going to have a work life balance because he's the greatest quarterback who's ever lived.

00:24:32.000 Kind of takes a little bit of work and effort.

00:24:35.000 Did you get married to him when you were in the NFL or when he was in the NFL?

00:24:38.000 Yes.

00:24:39.000 Did he marry you when you had a supermodel career?

00:24:42.000 Yes.

00:24:43.000 What did you guys expect was going to happen that you guys were going to be like the, you know, nine to fiveers?

00:24:48.000 Like that's not the case.

00:24:49.000 One of you and why does she need any of his money? 1.00

00:24:52.000 Did she get any?

00:24:53.000 Yes.

00:24:54.000 I mean, she was already a zillion.

00:24:56.000 She was rich.

00:24:56.000 I mean, I think the financial issue wasn't as big though.

00:24:58.000 No, it wasn't.

00:24:59.000 But the reputational issue that he has to deal with and I don't even I don't even I don't even I don't know all that much about Tom Brady.

00:25:04.000 I just know what I see that that guy clearly wants to be involved in his kids' lives and the kids love their dad.

00:25:09.000 And there was a black baby that really messed it up again. 1.00

00:25:12.000 Yeah, wow. 0.99

00:25:12.000 That was. 0.99

00:25:13.000 Yeah, it was two yoga.

00:25:14.000 Well, I don't know.

00:25:15.000 It's just strange.

00:25:17.000 Yeah.

00:25:18.000 Downward facing communism.

00:25:20.000 What?

00:25:20.000 And it's like, look, hey, here's the deal.

00:25:22.000 He's communist.

00:25:22.000 There's no guesswork.

00:25:23.000 Hey, you both have, you both have burning careers.

00:25:25.000 Okay, one he has to put on the back burner.

00:25:26.000 This idea that he'll support my dreams and I'll support his.

00:25:29.000 He can't do it.

00:25:30.000 Can't.

00:25:30.000 You have to pick one.

00:25:31.000 You have to support it.

00:25:32.000 That has to be the primary focus if you're going to talk about earning and you want that kind of lifestyle.

00:25:36.000 And that means someone has to put on the back burner.

00:25:38.000 I would say in that case, the greatest quarterback who ever lived.

00:25:41.000 Hey, that's a priority.

00:25:42.000 And you know what's crazy?

00:25:43.000 He came out of the big thing was when he didn't retire, like, and he should be home and he's he's not retiring.

00:25:48.000 Yeah, I don't know if you know this.

00:25:50.000 It's very, very rare for someone to come out of retirement and win again.

00:25:55.000 Do you think that maybe he knew he had more in the tank?

00:25:58.000 Guy was, I don't know.

00:26:00.000 You know, what about people that are thinking about getting married?

00:26:02.000 Don't you look at like Tom Brady and her?

00:26:04.000 She's a supermodel. 1.00

00:26:06.000 Yeah.

00:26:06.000 Bazillionaire.

00:26:07.000 He's the greatest quarterback and it still doesn't work out.

00:26:09.000 Still doesn't work out.

00:26:10.000 What's the chances of you that worked at CVS and your plumber husband?

00:26:13.000 Yeah, not plumber.

00:26:14.000 They actually make good though.

00:26:15.000 What she took another and she filed against him?.

00:26:20.000 He didn't filed against her.

00:26:21.000 It was the old Bill Hickser.

00:26:22.000 I think he was on a letterman.

00:26:23.000 Do you remember that where he said, it goes back to Adam and Eve where God said to them, he said, Okay, you're in the Garden of Eden.

00:26:30.000 This is paradise.

00:26:32.000 You both are one.

00:26:32.000 You will never suffer.

00:26:33.000 You will never feel pain.

00:26:34.000 You will never die.

00:26:35.000 You will be immortal and you will be one with me for all eternity.

00:26:39.000 And Eve said, There must be something more.

00:26:45.000 And that's the message.

00:26:46.000 Look, are men, and this is, let me laser in on this.

00:26:49.000 Are men ever told, Hey man, there's something more out there for you.

00:26:54.000 Go find yourself, leave your family.

00:26:55.000 Never.

00:26:56.000 Are there entire series and films and books that are praised that tell women to do exactly that.

00:27:01.000 Yes, there are.

00:27:02.000 And you know there are.

00:27:03.000 Two very different lines of messaging.

00:27:07.000 And guys, what did you think when Stephen said that part about men going and finding themselves and leaving their family?

00:27:13.000 Immediately, we all had like a visceral reaction. 1.00

00:27:15.000 What a piece of shit. 1.00

00:27:16.000 Yes, exactly. 1.00

00:27:17.000 Leaving and abandoning his family.

00:27:18.000 How could he do that?

00:27:19.000 And there have been men that have done that. 1.00

00:27:20.000 And every single time that happens and it comes up in the media, we're like, what a piece of crap. 0.99

00:27:24.000 Right. 1.00

00:27:24.000 What an absolutely. 1.00

00:27:25.000 Yeah, terrible.

00:27:25.000 Nobody.

00:27:25.000 Yeah.

00:27:26.000 Nobody.

00:27:26.000 Yeah.

00:27:26.000 Nobody.

00:27:26.000 Yeah.

00:27:27.000 Nobody.

00:27:27.000 Yeah.

00:27:27.000 Nobody.

00:27:27.000 Yeah.

00:27:28.000 Nobody.

00:27:28.000 Yeah.

00:27:28.000 Nobody.

00:27:28.000 Yeah.

00:27:29.000 Nobody.

00:27:29.000 Yeah.

00:27:29.000 Nobody.

00:27:29.000 Yeah.

00:27:30.000 Nobody.

00:27:30.000 Yeah.

00:27:30.000 Nobody.

00:27:30.000 Yeah.

00:27:30.000 Nobody.

00:27:31.000 Yeah.

00:27:31.000 Nobody.

00:27:31.000 Yeah.

00:27:32.000 Nobody.

00:27:32.000 Yeah.

00:27:32.000 Nobody.

00:27:32.000 Yeah.

00:27:32.000 Nobody.

00:27:33.000 Yeah.

00:27:33.000 Nobody.

00:27:33.000 Yeah.

00:27:33.000 Nobody.

00:27:34.000 Yeah.

00:27:34.000 For me, it's enough.

00:27:35.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:27:35.000 Gavin knew some piece of crap. 1.00

00:27:36.000 Cheating on his wife. 1.00

00:27:36.000 Yeah, absolutely. 1.00

00:27:37.000 Yeah.

00:27:37.000 Anybody who does.

00:27:37.000 You want a culture fine Trump in that regard.

00:27:38.000 Yeah.

00:27:38.000 Okay, take it easy, hold on.

00:27:41.000 Hey, listen, it needs, but I've never held Trump out as a moral authority.

00:27:45.000 No, of course.

00:27:46.000 I've never said that this is the guy we need to look through to for our morals, but these guys are trying to paint him as someone.

00:27:50.000 Well, I'm moral and he's not that.

00:27:52.000 When I found out he cheated, I returned my steaks.

00:27:56.000 Did you return your diploma from Trump University?

00:27:58.000 I'm not saying yep, get it.

00:28:00.000 And the wine.

00:28:01.000 This is weird, yeah.

00:28:02.000 And it says, It just has the word Phoenix crossed out and says Trump.

00:28:05.000 Give me a little trumpage.

00:28:06.000 Yeah.

00:28:06.000 No trumpage.

00:28:07.000 No, hey, Mark, give me some trumpage.

00:28:09.000 It's the Trump Devry.

00:28:12.000 Yeah.

00:28:13.000 Here we go.

00:28:14.000 No, look.

00:28:15.000 We can't fix it.

00:28:16.000 We have to fix it because there's just too many examples, high profile examples of this happening that get out in the media and guys are going, like, what are we doing?

00:28:23.000 And it's not just that it happens.

00:28:25.000 Yeah.

00:28:25.000 Because bad things happen all the time.

00:28:26.000 Yeah.

00:28:26.000 For people to cry it.

00:28:28.000 It's that when this happens, nobody, nobody stands up for the guy.

00:28:32.000 I've been.

00:28:33.000 It's always what did he do?

00:28:34.000 He's right, exactly.

00:28:36.000 It's just this natural kind of tendency that we have.

00:28:39.000 Did you fire flowers?

00:28:40.000 That's what it is.

00:28:41.000 For the last forty years, Hollywood, I don't care if it's commercials, sitcoms, movies.

00:28:47.000 It's been about it's been hijacked by the women's movement, right? 1.00

00:28:51.000 Everything I can sit down with you, watch anything and point to the women's movement. 1.00

00:28:54.000 And point out the woman always has to get the last word in. 1.00

00:28:57.000 Yeah.

00:28:57.000 Whether it's a sitcom, I mean, there's a there's a lot of women's anger.

00:29:02.000 Every other commercial is a woman kicking a heavy bag for maxi pads. 1.00

00:29:05.000 Yeah, exactly.

00:29:06.000 Every commercial is a woman boxing or acting like there's so much women's anger and it's been going on forever. 1.00

00:29:12.000 Yeah.

00:29:12.000 And if I'll sit in a movie, I can't even my wife won't watch TV with me.

00:29:17.000 I can't, it's been ruined. 0.96

00:29:19.000 I read Judge Bork's book, Slouching Towards Gamora back in the 80s, and it just, it was all the stuff that I was thinking didn't have the balls to say. 0.96

00:29:28.000 Right. 0.58

00:29:29.000 And then this guy who's ten times smarter, a thousand times smarter, pretty smart much said, and I couldn't watch a movie or a TV show the same way again.

00:29:38.000 Yeah.

00:29:38.000 And once you're enlightened.

00:29:39.000 Yeah.

00:29:40.000 I can't.

00:29:40.000 That's why I haven't gone to a theater.

00:29:43.000 You know, it's funny is put it this way.

00:29:45.000 Here's how you know it's true, okay?

00:29:47.000 If you watch movies, if you watch TV. 0.99

00:29:48.000 Have you ever, and I mean this, have you ever watched a movie or a television show where the man walks out on his family and it isn't immediately known that the writers are using this as a tool to paint the character as a piece of shit? 0.97

00:30:01.000 The answer is no. 0.98

00:30:01.000 Of course they immediately, okay, he's the bad guy. 0.98

00:30:04.000 How often do you watch a show where a woman does that and she's empowered? 1.00

00:30:08.000 Even if it's twenty percent, we know it's far more than that.

00:30:11.000 That's how you know.

00:30:12.000 Let's get another chat.

00:30:13.000 Okay, next chat from Monsterette.

00:30:16.000 After reality TV came to be, I witnessed people, especially women, emulating the behavior seen on those shows. 1.00

00:30:22.000 Could it be blamed for the dating, divorce, gold digger issues of today?

00:30:25.000 Partially.

00:30:25.000 It's been going on forever.

00:30:26.000 But it's all of it.

00:30:27.000 It's like you say, it definitely is a culture, which media plays a role in.

00:30:30.000 And by the way, of course, the Democratic Party would be on board with this because families, strong nuclear families, are much harder to govern. 0.86

00:30:38.000 And that's why.

00:30:38.000 That's why we have marriage laws.

00:30:40.000 Before we get to the same sex thing, the reason we have marriage laws was to create strong nuclear families so we could have self governance before any other form of municipal or state governance. 0.99

00:30:49.000 And you look at the welfare policies and the model cities program and great society and all this stuff, great societies.

00:30:55.000 You go, oh, okay.

00:30:57.000 Maybe it's an accident, but it's it is a little bit I guess it's one of those things at a certain point when you say, well, where is it how is this an accident where you couldn't have crafted policy to destroy the nuclear family more effectively?

00:31:13.000 It wouldn't be possible.

00:31:14.000 Yep.

00:31:15.000 Incentivize single motherhood, okay. 1.00

00:31:18.000 Scare men off from getting married through divorce laws, all right.

00:31:21.000 Tell young women that they can have it all, okay. 1.00

00:31:24.000 Tell young men that they don't have a choice. 0.97

00:31:25.000 They should sit back and shut up and, by the way, abandon their post as leaders in the household and community, all right, got it, and then punish men financially if they still decide to take the risk and get married. 0.95

00:31:36.000 And make LGBT mainstream, trans, yeah. 0.98

00:31:41.000 Mainstream.

00:31:42.000 That's all an attack on the nuclear family. 0.94

00:31:44.000 It's all there is.

00:31:45.000 It's right out of the Marxist playbook.

00:31:46.000 Yep.

00:31:47.000 I'll even go one step further and say before we get to, no, same-sex couple is not the same as a couple. 0.60

00:31:57.000 It's not the same standard from a household that has clear roles.

00:32:01.000 In other words, a dual-income household where both share all same responsibilities and it's a democracy is not as legitimate in the form of a nuclear family as a head of household, one person who's a primary earner and one person who takes care of the family.

00:32:14.000 If you're paying someone else to raise your kids, that is not the same as that's not the ideal.

00:32:19.000 Okay?

00:32:20.000 Each one is less legitimate than the previous example.

00:32:24.000 And it doesn't start with same-sex couples.

00:32:26.000 It starts with the feminism. 1.00

00:32:28.000 That's where it starts.

00:32:29.000 And by the way, you do know when people talk about corporate overlords and corporate influence, you do realize that women getting into the workforce, it was post-industrial revolution where these guys thought, hey, we can get cheaper labor if we double the workforce. 0.96

00:32:39.000 Hey, women, look, you can have your freedom. 1.00

00:32:42.000 You can have your own thing.

00:32:43.000 Isn't that great?

00:32:44.000 Well, here's the thing.

00:32:45.000 People will say, hey, if you're a domesticc woman, if you're a woman who stays home and takes care of the family and takes care of the kids, you're a slave. 1.00

00:32:51.000 He's treating you like a slave.

00:32:52.000 Okay, but what is it when you have to punch the clock nine to five to someone else who gets to dictate everything you do and doesn't even love you?

00:33:00.000 That's not slavery.

00:33:01.000 It's a life sentence.

00:33:02.000 Enjoy it.

00:33:02.000 It's a life sentence.

00:33:03.000 Yeah, enjoy it.

00:33:04.000 My dad reported to the same office for 46 years.

00:33:07.000 Yeah, yeah. 0.99

00:33:09.000 Are you shitting me? 0.98

00:33:10.000 Yeah. 0.99

00:33:10.000 I do stand on something I love. 0.99

00:33:12.000 I'm about year 38.

00:33:13.000 I can't wait to get out.

00:33:14.000 Yeah.

00:33:15.000 No, folks, it's still good.

00:33:17.000 Don't get me wrong.

00:33:18.000 They pull you back in.

00:33:20.000 Exactly.

00:33:21.000 The funny bone pulls me back every single time.

00:33:24.000 You chuckle hot, pull me back.

00:33:27.000 Giggle fudge. 1.00

00:33:30.000 You're being driven out of the funny town, aren't you, by the five families?

00:33:34.000 Okay, next chat.

00:33:35.000 Okay, next chat from Tahoe Micah.

00:33:37.000 Do you think if women were held accountable for cheating, divorce rates would go down? 1.00

00:33:41.000 Yes.

00:33:41.000 Maybe young men would be more willing to get married in today's society.

00:33:45.000 I don't know.

00:33:46.000 I think so.

00:33:48.000 I think if men look at the laws and go, wait, there's some protections if I'm wronged as in any other contract, yes.

00:33:53.000 I think it would help.

00:33:55.000 I think you have to get rid of no fault divorce.

00:33:57.000 I've talked about this. 0.52

00:33:58.000 No fault divorce was actually, funny enough, speared up by people like Hugh Hefner, Kinsey, who believed that men are sexual animals who should be able to have sex with everyone they want and not honor their marriage vows, and in which case, right, they shouldn't be punished for it.

00:34:10.000 So they thought, hey, no fault divorce will allow men to cheat and it'll be consequence-free. 0.99

00:34:14.000 Because before that, you kind of had one of three primary reasons.

00:34:18.000 There were some exceptions, but it would either be infidelity, in which case you paid.

00:34:23.000 It would be physical abuse, in which case you paid.

00:34:25.000 But if it didn't meet those two, it would be abandonment by whoever filed for divorce, in which case, okay, you deal with your own consequences.

00:34:31.000 So infidelity, we all knew that, abuse or abandonment.

00:34:35.000 But then when we said no false, we removed.

00:34:38.000 We removed the accountability for abandonment where it's a completely consequence-free decision.

00:34:42.000 So Kinsey, Hugh Hefner wanted no-fault divorce.

00:34:45.000 Then it got taken over by feminists who said, oh, you know what? 1.00

00:34:48.000 We'll just change this so that it always actually harms the primary earner.

00:34:52.000 So it didn't allow, and by the way, it shouldn't have allowed men to cheat, right?

00:34:56.000 Consequence-free.

00:34:57.000 What it allowed was anyone to leave at any point.

00:35:01.000 And there's no actual moral grounds for cheating because either way, if you're the one who cheats, you can still leave and take half because you probably cheated because you're unhappy, right?

00:35:09.000 That's his fault.

00:35:09.000 That's right.

00:35:10.000 It's his fault because he didn't make you happy.

00:35:12.000 And then you look at the statistics where men typically don't, even when offered, take alimony when it's a very rare instance of them earning less.

00:35:19.000 It's just often men don't.

00:35:21.000 Like, I'm willing to bet that this guy, Jay Cutler, probably didn't take half of her makeup empire.

00:35:25.000 Yeah.

00:35:26.000 I'd be surprised if he did.

00:35:27.000 That would be a rarity.

00:35:28.000 So yeah, I do think that all helps.

00:35:30.000 Next chat.

00:35:30.000 Okay, next chat from Eric.

00:35:32.000 Sitting in the CEO's office with his feet on the desk.

00:35:35.000 Oh, by the way, after the show Friday, can I, uh, can I, uh, can I scoot early on Friday?

00:35:41.000 Just I just turn around and look at the book.

00:35:42.000 Yeah, I know, but I just don't want to leave anyone holding the bag.

00:35:44.000 Okay, fine, go.

00:35:45.000 Because I have an MRI to do, and then I also wanted to do something else before the MRI.

00:35:49.000 I still have to whatever.

00:35:50.000 Buy a big gold, show that to Obrey.

00:35:53.000 Buy a house.

00:35:54.000 Yeah.

00:35:54.000 I'm going to buy a house.

00:35:55.000 It's like a hard day for you for you.

00:35:57.000 And made some bad decisions.

00:35:58.000 Okay, next chat.

00:35:59.000 Okay, next chat, Eric the Camel.

00:36:01.000 Since Nick is a huge fan, can you discuss the collapse of WNBA ratings without Clark since they allowed the players to beat the hell out of their money ticket for being a straight white? 0.71

00:36:10.000 I don't know anything about the answers.

00:36:12.000 Nick, has the ratings gone down significantly?

00:36:15.000 They're saying ratings crash.

00:36:17.000 Apparently this guy says so, I believe I don't follow these zombies, but I really, I mean, Zooloose.

00:36:24.000 I got it all right.

00:36:25.000 It works.

00:36:26.000 It's terrible.

00:36:27.000 But yeah, no, Caitlin Clark, it is, it's unbelievable.

00:36:31.000 She, she shows up out of nowhere and she's unbelievable.

00:36:35.000 Even all the ex NBA players, the black dudes. 0.99

00:36:38.000 Yeah. 0.97

00:36:38.000 They actually disagree with like the young black woman that have beaten on her and stuff. 0.97

00:36:42.000 Yeah.

00:36:42.000 Going, she's that good man.

00:36:43.000 She's that good.

00:36:44.000 Yeah.

00:36:45.000 And they treated her.

00:36:46.000 If you do something called reverse the races on my show.

00:36:49.000 If that was a black woman in a white league, I mean, there'd be lawsuits. 1.00

00:36:52.000 There'd be. 0.83

00:36:53.000 Yeah.

00:36:53.000 They beat on that's their meal ticket.

00:36:55.000 Yeah.

00:36:56.000 And they treat why she hasn't packed, packed, picked up and went to Europe and made a ton of money. 0.98

00:37:00.000 What she's probably still thinking of doing, right?

00:37:02.000 Um, is beyond me.

00:37:04.000 So they are, they're tearing up their own meal ticket.

00:37:06.000 Yeah.

00:37:06.000 Out of what?

00:37:07.000 It's pure racism.

00:37:09.000 Yeah.

00:37:10.000 Well, it's not just racism.

00:37:11.000 It's uh, well, she's a straight woman. 0.95

00:37:14.000 Half the league's gay.

00:37:15.000 Uh, and you know, the majority. 1.00

00:37:17.000 are black.

00:37:18.000 And she's a straight white woman. 1.00

00:37:19.000 Yeah.

00:37:20.000 And she's the best player.

00:37:21.000 So it's pure racism, sexism, whatever you want to call it.

00:37:23.000 Yeah. 0.52

00:37:24.000 All the stuff that, you know, white guys get blamed for.

00:37:26.000 That's what's going on.

00:37:28.000 And I, I, I have to believe, I mean, they didn't have ratings before she showed up.

00:37:32.000 So why would they if she's not playing?

00:37:34.000 The best thing for the ratings were the dildos. 0.87

00:37:37.000 Didn't you have a proposal for that?

00:37:38.000 Yeah, I'm trying to invent like a shirt cannon, only it shoots dildos. 0.99

00:37:44.000 Can I make it?

00:37:45.000 And you have a bunch of fat, uh, blow a fallx shaped hole. 0.68

00:37:49.000 Yeah.

00:37:49.000 to the guy who catches it.

00:37:50.000 And a bunch of fat lesbies in the upper balcony. 1.00

00:37:53.000 It's like throwing salmon into a. 0.59

00:37:55.000 Anyway, I talked myself into a corner.

00:38:00.000 No, I think the analogy is very, very apt.

00:38:02.000 Let's grab another chance.

00:38:03.000 Every league crashes and burns.

00:38:05.000 Well, it's going to because research points out that Sophie Cunningham is also out for the season.

00:38:10.000 Her other hot teammates.

00:38:12.000 I know.

00:38:12.000 That's a double blast.

00:38:14.000 She did.

00:38:14.000 And Steven, you girl like, she's like an enforcer.

00:38:17.000 Oh yeah?

00:38:18.000 She protects Caitlyn.

00:38:19.000 And then they took her out?

00:38:20.000 She got hurt.

00:38:21.000 But there's some She would She said it was a normal play.

00:38:24.000 Well, yeah, yeah. 0.99

00:38:25.000 But she would take no crap from the Black Chicks. 1.00

00:38:28.000 Right. 0.99

00:38:29.000 She would go if they followed Caitlyn hard, she'd go right back.

00:38:31.000 I'm a helm of the.

00:38:33.000 And she's the best looking one in the league. 0.99

00:38:35.000 Yeah, well, that's what counts primarily for me because I don't follow anything else with the WNBA. 1.00

00:38:38.000 Here's your sync.

00:38:39.000 I'm watching it for the dunking.

00:38:41.000 Here's your stats.

00:38:42.000 National league televised WNBA games starting 55 percent since Clark's injury.

00:38:47.000 It's down 55 percent.

00:38:49.000 Down 55 percent.

00:38:50.000 That's tough.

00:38:51.000 Do you understand how much power she has if that league made money?

00:38:54.000 Yeah.

00:38:55.000 Hey, Portnoy, you still want to buy a team for 500 million in Boston?

00:38:58.000 Well, you know what?

00:38:59.000 Oh, is that what he said?

00:39:00.000 That's exactly what he said.

00:39:01.000 If someone wanted to sell me a WNBA team, I would buy 500 million dollars. 0.98

00:39:05.000 I would buy it right now.

00:39:06.000 I just can't hide that I hate him, that I like him, that I hate him. 0.77

00:39:09.000 He goes wherever the wind bl blows.

00:39:11.000 But here's the thing.

00:39:12.000 The left should be happy about it, because remember Joy Reid and not Joy Reid, what was the name of the SEALs saying that Harriet Tubman was only helped by people who benefited from white supremacy.

00:39:21.000 So that's a problem.

00:39:22.000 Well, I guess the white viewers who make up the majority of this country benefited from white supremacy and you didn't want their viewership, so they finally heard you.

00:39:29.000 Next chat.

00:39:30.000 Next chat.

00:39:31.000 That's what you wanted.

00:39:32.000 From Galadus.

00:39:34.000 How can we convert more scientists and researchers?

00:39:36.000 I'm talking about smart, capable Americans trapped in the left wing incentive structures.

00:39:40.000 By the way, Galadus is a very good way to put it, trapped in the incentive structures.

00:39:45.000 Because a lot of researchers and a lot of people who work in the scientific field, right?

00:39:48.000 They're tied to grants.

00:39:50.000 And so if you talk to them like, well, there's no way that this could possibly be funded.

00:39:54.000 We need the government to do this when the fact is often the private sector would step up and do it.

00:40:00.000 You'd be surprised how very intelligent people, for example, you see with Asians a lot. 1.00

00:40:05.000 I'm sorry, excuse me, but in that letter, didn't she say left wing smart?

00:40:09.000 Did I read that?

00:40:10.000 She was trying to say, like, a lot of people who are scientists and work in those fields, the left wing smart.

00:40:14.000 Yeah, they tend to be very left.

00:40:16.000 So leave them where they are.

00:40:16.000 I want not a duel.

00:40:17.000 Well, yeah, but they're trying to say, like, how do we get these people who are smart over to our side? 0.90

00:40:22.000 They're fucking left wing? 0.98

00:40:24.000 They're not going to change. 1.00

00:40:25.000 They're not going to change.

00:40:26.000 They're not going to book smart.

00:40:27.000 I think what she's also saying is that they're trapped in the incentive structure.

00:40:30.000 For example, with, well, hold on, but for example with COVID and with climate change, no, Nick, that's the third time you've offered.

00:40:39.000 If you came out against any of those things, came out against climate change or anything, with any other opinion scientifically, they would just excommunicate you.

00:40:45.000 You would lose your ability to earn a living.

00:40:47.000 You wouldn't be able to publish, you wouldn't be able to do research.

00:40:50.000 Maybe there's a lot of people trapped there that are not actually left wing, but they're like, well, I can't, I can't do anything other than what I'm supposed to be doing according to the grant structure or according to what the dean says or whatever.

00:41:00.000 Right?

00:41:00.000 So that's probably a little bit of the point.

00:41:02.000 I'll tell you this.

00:41:03.000 Yes, I agree with you.

00:41:04.000 There are a lot of people you can't change, but a lot of them just, they've never actually, they're very limited.

00:41:09.000 in scope, so no one has spoken their language.

00:41:11.000 It never actually affected them because the default is grant from government do work, that's great.

00:41:17.000 You see it a lot with Asians. 1.00

00:41:18.000 And what I mean by that?

00:41:19.000 I mean that you look at Asian Americans as a consistent Democrat voting block and it doesn't make sense.

00:41:24.000 And I've had conversations with quite a few, and many of them were blissfully unaware of the controversies at Brown and Harbor.

00:41:31.000 I've had, yeah.

00:41:31.000 The Supreme Court ruling.

00:41:32.000 You go, well, wait a second, why do you vote Democrat?

00:41:35.000 Well, I'm all pro immigrant.

00:41:36.000 I come from China.

00:41:37.000 Yeah, but what about the fact that your son's going to have to get, you know, about eighty points higher on the SATs and they've actually started declining people from the schools where you want to send them.

00:41:47.000 because they're Asian.

00:41:47.000 Well, no, no, no, no, no, fair.

00:41:49.000 Exactly.

00:41:50.000 So that's the party of the Democratic Party.

00:41:52.000 They think that actually that should go to a black person, regardless of performance. 0.93

00:41:57.000 Well, why do you reward lazy? 0.97

00:42:00.000 Exactly.

00:42:00.000 Raisy.

00:42:01.000 And then, sorry, and it's pronounced Chinese.

00:42:04.000 And you speak it and it plants a seed.

00:42:07.000 I would say with the scientific community, and again, I'm not a scientist.

00:42:10.000 People say, you're not a scientist.

00:42:11.000 But I look like one.

00:42:12.000 Delegitimizing it.

00:42:14.000 Yeah, I look like Bruce Banner after taking too much serum that then led to shrinking.

00:42:20.000 You won't like me when I'm angry.

00:42:24.000 I need it.

00:42:24.000 I can't even follow the shot.

00:42:27.000 I don't know either.

00:42:28.000 Like Jeff.

00:42:29.000 With the scientific community, like, you know, I was actually, I believe, published, but certainly accepted with the fat pride as a method of self care in the era of Trump as C. Matheson. 0.66

00:42:39.000 I just put on a sweater, a prothetic fake boob, said I was a tranny, and it was accepted. 0.97

00:42:43.000 And so people who, even if they're limited in scope, they don't understand everything else, but many of them do value, even if they're led in the wrong, the scientific process or what they view as the purity.

00:42:52.000 You can chip away at it by showing them the illegitimacy of that field.

00:42:57.000 Go like, the more they see, hey, by the way, you weren't published, but this was.

00:43:03.000 that pride as self care in the era of Trump.

00:43:06.000 Hey, I don't know if you notice, this was published, this research that says a BMI of, well, it's not even on the chart, blood type pudding is just as healthy as someone who is fit.

00:43:15.000 I don't know if you know this, but there's published research that now says, hey, maybe cholesterol, blood pressure and BMI don't matter at all.

00:43:22.000 How much have you been, yep.

00:43:24.000 How much have you been published?

00:43:26.000 And if you do that, then they start to lose faith in their own institution.

00:43:29.000 A lot of people, unfortunately, it's very selfish, and this shouldn't, this is why I don't believe you should vote merely in your own self interest.

00:43:35.000 I understand many people do.

00:43:36.000 They don't care about it until it affects their thing.

00:43:40.000 thing until it affects their line of work, their milieu.

00:43:43.000 Sometimes it doesn't affect them until it affects their family directly.

00:43:46.000 And that's why you saw so many people change in COVID.

00:43:50.000 I will tell you this, it's still a demographic problem, but I have never seen more politically apathetic suburban white women become rabidly anti-democratic in my lifetime than COVID. 0.99

00:44:02.000 Why?

00:44:03.000 Because it affected them.

00:44:04.000 Yeah.

00:44:04.000 And they believe the schools were looking out for their kids.

00:44:06.000 And not only do they have to start homeschooling, right?

00:44:08.000 That starts where you go, oh my gosh, the stress of this, I don't think I can do it.

00:44:11.000 And then you realize, well, wait a second, actually, I'm kind of able to do this.

00:44:14.000 And wait a second, I can do it in two hours a day.

00:44:18.000 And wait a second, they're performing better than when they were studying nine hours a day.

00:44:22.000 And wait a second, the teachers who are supposed to be caring for my children, whom I pay through my tax dollars, don't want to come back even though we know they're not at risk.

00:44:31.000 Wait a second, my husband's business is shut down.

00:44:35.000 What?

00:44:36.000 And they start to realize that what they thought, this kind of prism that they've been viewing everything through, is not legitimate.

00:44:43.000 So I saw it with COVID.

00:44:45.000 A lot of people who didn't pay attention.

00:44:47.000 A lot of people will never pay attention until it ends up at their doorstep.

00:44:51.000 Do that more with the scientific community.

00:44:53.000 And I can't do that.

00:44:54.000 It would require scientists. 0.87

00:44:55.000 I mean, I can only do so many silly fat papers to get them published.

00:45:00.000 And that'll help a little bit. 0.98

00:45:02.000 Or it could end up being like the black community where the needle never moves but you always hope it does. 1.00

00:45:06.000 Next chat, final chat. 0.96

00:45:07.000 All right, final chat from I suck at making usernames.

00:45:10.000 Good.

00:45:11.000 Question for the crew.

00:45:12.000 My husband learned by watching his parents that mom is in charge. 1.00

00:45:15.000 She has an explosive temper. 1.00

00:45:17.000 So he doesn't take charge as much as I would like him to.

00:45:19.000 How can we work on this?

00:45:21.000 I can't blame him until he does.

00:45:24.000 That's a, and by the way, that's a tough one.

00:45:26.000 And here's the thing, you're going to see more of that because men have been told and they're they're wrong for wanting what men have always wanted and they're shamed for having expectations.

00:45:36.000 So if a woman sets back boundaries often, these are general rules. 1.00

00:45:41.000 There are exceptions, of course, of course, sleeping with the enemy, all that shit. 0.99

00:45:44.000 If a woman sets boundaries, she's empowered, she's strong, she's independent. 0.99

00:45:48.000 If a man sets boundaries, he's controlling.

00:45:52.000 And you see that a lot where a man is afraid to say, let's say you're in a world, and this is very common, where the man is the only one who works.

00:46:01.000 Okay, you know how it always was throughout the whole of society.

00:46:03.000 So you're talking about white people, go ahead.

00:46:04.000 Yeah, he's the only one who works.

00:46:06.000 And he comes home after a ten hour shift.

00:46:09.000 And what does society say?

00:46:10.000 Like, you've been working all day, sweetheart, and you go, here, mommy needs a break, here are the kids.

00:46:16.000 And the man deep inside was like, well, I kind of signed up for 100% of the earning.

00:46:22.000 And since it's the hardest job in the world, being a mom, you treat it like a job. 0.88

00:46:27.000 And so it's not 50-50, it's 100 and 100.

00:46:31.000 Maybe there's 2% there.

00:46:32.000 Maybe there's taking out the trash.

00:46:33.000 Of course, fixing something if a drain gets clogged.

00:46:37.000 I would like it if, oh, I can't say that I'd like it if I came home and there was a warm meal because you'll say, what am I your personal chef? 0.99

00:46:44.000 I would like it if, oh, I can't say that if I came home and you were on all fours, my wife on the bedroom in a negligent way because you'll say you're a whore. 1.00

00:46:50.000 I would like it if, oh, I can't say that I'd like to come home to a nice, welcoming, clean house because then you'll say that you're nothing but my maid. 0.97

00:46:56.000 Well, I don't want to enslave you, so do whatever you want.

00:47:00.000 And then, like you see, it's hard to respect that man.

00:47:06.000 That's why we're talking about changing this, as far as you personally with your husband.

00:47:11.000 That is, you know, a lot of people just kind of gloss over this.

00:47:15.000 The toxic femininity. 0.89

00:47:18.000 It makes a man scared to see a very unnatural dynamic that is the byproduct of feminism, a woman in charge of the household. 1.00

00:47:25.000 And so he thinks that either he's emulating it because it's all he knows, he's scared, or he thinks it's the right thing to do.

00:47:33.000 Now, unfortunately, to get him to a point of leadership so that you can, well, let's be honest, not only respect him, but likely be attracted to him, because it's an attractive quality.

00:47:41.000 It is to all women ever.

00:47:42.000 You don't need to feel guilty about that.

00:47:45.000 You might need to lead him initially.

00:47:46.000 And think of it more like this.

00:47:48.000 Give him permission to.

00:47:50.000 Say, look, I know kind of how you were raised, but don't say, you need to do this.

00:47:57.000 And you just say, tell me what to do.

00:48:01.000 Say, tell me what to do, daddy.

00:48:02.000 What you say goes.

00:48:04.000 That's what I like. 0.98

00:48:06.000 Deal with a raging erection and continue to make baby steps. 0.76

00:48:10.000 Give him permission to because you're trying to combat decades of societal collapse and he doesn't know.

00:48:18.000 He may not be capable of that yet, of leadership because he never had it instilled in him, but I guarantee you this, at this point in time, he may have the ability, he may not, but he doesn't know.

00:48:29.000 So first, figure out if he knows and don't coach him.

00:48:34.000 Try to avoid taking the lead.

00:48:36.000 Give him permission to do exactly what God called him to do and exactly what every single society ever before the year 1960 expected him to do.

00:48:47.000 So if it sounds like I'm sh shaming women here. 0.99

00:48:49.000 I just want to be clear.

00:48:51.000 I do think that there is an imbalance and I do think that men don't have people who stand in the pocket and I certainly don't think that men often have someone who stands in the pocket who believes in being chaste where you can, who believes in being loyal, who believes in loving his wife as they love the church.

00:49:05.000 You often get red pilled, you get the Andrew Tates of the world, or you get people who say be a doormat.

00:49:10.000 But I do think that there should be shame for men.

00:49:13.000 There used to be.

00:49:14.000 You're not providing for your family.

00:49:16.000 You're not protecting your family.

00:49:17.000 You're not where it used to be.

00:49:19.000 I guess we know who wears the pants in that household. 1.00

00:49:21.000 And you're combating decades of feminism saying that that is an offensive trope. 1.00

00:49:26.000 Why can't she wear the pants? 1.00

00:49:28.000 Well, you're living it.

00:49:29.000 You're living it.

00:49:30.000 So let's bring back, I guess we know who wears the pants in that household, and that man going, what?

00:49:34.000 No!

00:49:35.000 Woman, make me a sandwich, because it's better than what you're living.

00:49:38.000 Try it that way.

Louder with Crowder - August 20, 2025

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