This week, Captain Morgan and Josh are joined by comedian Josh Farr ( ) to discuss Gerald's birthday, how to be a good parent, and why women need to do more than enough to be enough. Plus, a new segment on the Scrapyard featuring Gerald's notes and Josh's notes.
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00:02:46.000I'm just I'm still dealing with like, you know, after you have a stomach bug, like the dehydration, my lips and stuff are still wrung out, which uh, you know.
00:03:09.000We're gonna do a segment on a scrapyard show on Friday.
00:03:12.000That is Josh's notes versus Gerald's notes, because we saw them on the same on the same pad.
00:03:17.000And then I know because my notes are kind of both, where it'll be like a note of okay, a time code, or it'll be a note of, hey, I miss it, or I need this source, and then it'll be a note of like, oh, idea for seven plus one.
00:03:26.000Gerald's notes were like at six thirty-four, you know, clip too long, uh, need to bring back marginal income tax, get right numbers, and then Josh's if Lily Phillips lived too long, she would become Flathead Phillips.
00:04:27.000And this is something it's kind of been making the rounds, but um all of us were very disturbed watching this.
00:04:35.000And and I know this will seem mean uh a bunch of white guys, uh, you know, guilty as charged.
00:04:40.000But if we don't fix the relationship dynamics in this country, um, generationally, and you're even seeing you're seeing more of a divide politically Gen Z men breaking pretty hard for that demographic at that point in time, right?
00:04:55.000They're more right-leaning than any other generation in the ages between um 18, I think it's 18 to 25.
00:05:02.000Uh so boomers weren't as conservative as that during that period of their life.
00:05:06.000Uh Gen X, millennials, but you're still seeing Gen Z women breaking more left, my left, you're right.
00:05:13.000That divide is, and it's also uh indicative of the expectations.
00:05:18.000And I've argued this that the expectations from men as to what they really want are largely the same across those generations.
00:05:28.000Now they may not be able to say it uh because they've been brow beaten, but but the truth is they want uh a woman who creates peace, who creates a safe haven that they come home to, who's a partner, a supporter, and they're happy to provide and protect.
00:05:44.000They don't care about your career, they don't care about your degree, uh they don't care about your membership dementa.
00:05:49.000Um none of these things really matter.
00:05:52.000They want someone who is going to be a nurturer, a mother.
00:05:56.000Um and I know not all, not all, not all.
00:05:58.000Some guys want horrors, and we're not talking about them.
00:06:00.000Because we're talking about here, Steph Curry, someone who seems to be a supremely decent man, who's wildly successful, the best in his field, by all information we have available to us, including from his wife, seems to be loyal and good to his family, and this woman is not only still miserable, but I will go this far.
00:06:21.000If if the Protestant Pinterest Christian moms out there say that a man looking at pictures of naked ladies, by the way, anti-porn, you can go back to videos in 2013, 2014, where I talked about it.
00:06:33.000I'm not saying that it's a good thing.
00:06:35.000But if the trend is to say that's a violation of your marital covenant, going out and publicly trashing the home that your husband provides absolutely is.
00:06:50.000This is not something, this is not a teammate.
00:06:53.000This is not someone who you can trust.
00:06:55.000And I wouldn't blame Steph Curry if he came home after watching this specific podcast, but she's made the rounds with divorce papers that moment.
00:07:06.000And I want to handle this delicately because I know that Steph Curry seems to be a stand-up guy, and he's going to want to stand up for his wife.
00:07:24.000You can comment below if you've seen it, what your thoughts are.
00:07:27.000But we're going to go through it and kind of kind of parse through everything, everything wrong and how it's actually sort of it's in indicative of how a lot of people think.
00:07:40.000Uh this marriage is is very likely doomed to fail because she's telling you that.
00:07:46.000Here is Aisha Curry, wife to multi-millionaire, loyal Christian family man, unhappy.
00:08:21.000And I get that you can sit behind closed doors, like, we didn't plan on it, or I didn't know if I wanted to be a mom, and it's a good tremendous blessing.
00:08:27.000Also, the very first statement, I hope that I don't get in trouble.
00:08:30.000That's very different because I know that I've gone on Joseph and I've said, uh I'll I'll probably catch some flack for this.
00:08:36.000There's a big difference between acceptance for taking a stance and hoping that nobody blames you, trying to sort of create this immunity from accountability right off the bat.
00:08:48.000Well, why do you hope you don't get in trouble?
00:09:09.000I thought I was gonna be career girl, and that's it.
00:09:13.000Was he the basketball guy in high school or no?
00:09:15.000I apparently he was, but I I didn't I genuinely didn't pay attention to that.
00:09:21.000Because I I grew up in such an arts-driven family that sports outside of like Doug Flutie playing for the Buffalo Bills, like wasn't a it just wasn't a thing.
00:09:30.000And then not coming from that sports background and understanding how like rare the opportunity he had was.
00:10:56.000Some point she talks about, and I don't know if people know like if it's for me or if they say it's because of my high if I only got that job because of my husband.
00:13:00.000We used to do this differently, where women used to have children during their fertile years, and then they would go and work when the kids were out of the house.
00:13:07.000It was a natural sort of a natural transition.
00:13:10.000Now it's like, oh, I gotta decide between this and this.
00:13:36.000But if it is, and we agree an important job, then treat it like a job.
00:13:42.000Not something that isn't diametric opposition to the job you really want.
00:13:47.000And by the way, that's a luxury of a woman married to a man with hundreds of millions of dollars, because most women don't get to work the job they really, really, really want.
00:13:53.000And they would love to be able to be home and love on that miracle of life that you created.
00:13:58.000But let's continue like we're not all gonna get irritated.
00:14:10.000Because I have to entrepreneurial spirit, not being able to call the shots all the time for myself was freaking weird.
00:14:18.000Women can experience this like Oh, so you think that at an internship or entry level job, which is where you would be if not married to Steph Curry, you'd be calling the shots and the office place.
00:17:01.000First off, uh uh Yeah, I don't think you under the reason that someone like Steph Curry is not as multifaceted is because the intensity that is required to be one of the best at something.
00:17:12.000Anything, one of the best ever at anything, is something that this person couldn't comprehend because she needs therapy because she only has a couple hundred million dollars in the bank and can't do a part-time job.
00:17:23.000She's also talking about how she says, you know, it it's not fair that uh whenever men do something uh multifaceted, they they they're viewed as some kind of hero, uh, but not for her.
00:17:32.000And it's like, well, what is the what is the thing that equates to what he does exceptionally that you do.
00:17:49.000For her to be the equivalent mother that Steph Curry is a basketball player, she would have to be uh up, country breakfast for the kids, Not a smudge on their face, homeschooling, every activity booked to the letter, carting them to and fro, coming back, taking care of the housework, hot supper, and so Steph Curry could come home to pipe and slippers.
00:18:14.000And I know you'll say Shauvin is sexist.
00:18:15.000I'm just saying for her to be the equivalent of an excellent mother.
00:18:19.000Or do you bet that do you bet that she has maids?
00:18:21.000And do you bet that she has uh uh world a roomba and options she called it options options of options and what like you said, how what a privilege to have options.
00:18:32.000How many options do you think Steph Curry has when uh you know he has the runs, but it's uh it's the playoffs.
00:18:38.000How many options do you do you think he has?
00:18:50.000When you have children, your children aren't gonna go, you know, 30 years from now when they haven't seen you because you're out there being a boss, babe, uh, and going to therapy to make sure that you don't feel guilty about the fact that you're abandoning them and you had a choice not to.
00:19:03.000They're not gonna go, man, I'm really glad mom went and was a career woman.
00:19:07.000Especially as they say, man, I wish I wish I got to spend more time with my mom and they prioritized me when they had the choice to do it.
00:20:01.000And there's a reason that you know, special forces, uh, for example, or or or people in the uh very specialized military units uh are are mostly men because men are very good at singular tasks that require incredible intensity and focus, right?
00:20:30.000You are expected for that to be your primary focus because only you can do it, and it needs to start off with what's best for these children.
00:20:40.000If you start off with anything else, you are not being a good mother.
00:20:47.000I was just gonna say, in looking at what uh Josh was uh referencing, it yeah, she had done some acting gigs, but she was pursuing a culinary career.
00:20:55.000So it's not that she didn't want to cook, it's that she wasn't satisfied cooking for her family.
00:22:41.000So he doesn't know what it's like to deal with the scrutiny of the um wife.
00:22:47.000It's so hard also to be the woman in a situation where you're like men just don't get as much scrutiny, like they can maybe tell him like your fing shots suck tonight.
00:22:58.000But like the looks and all of that is just like not a conversation as much.
00:23:09.000He's so gracious, like he tries to resonate with me, but he just can't.
00:23:18.000I think because he's like known for shooting threes, people will say something all the time, like, oh, he shoots threes on and off the court.
00:24:35.000Not only does this guy have cocky ball players probably telling him, by the way, I just nailed your bitch, like I nailed your like I nailed your three-pointer, rejected, whatever.
00:24:44.000Guarantee they're saying the most horrible things you could possibly imagine on the and giving him looks.
00:24:50.000But this one's like, they just but man, my husband, an all-star doesn't know what it's like to get the scrutiny of bad looks.
00:24:59.000Hey, hey, maybe just take the lens off of yourself for a second, and maybe think, and this I genuinely mean as sympathetically as I can, that that guy probably gets a whole lot more than looks, is beat up from the world when he comes back.
00:25:21.000He can't make any mistake because his opponents and the media are waiting for it.
00:25:26.000And when he comes home, probably needs someone who's understanding instead of someone who's willing to tell him that he doesn't know how hard it's been to have the maids in the house give you a little lip.
00:25:36.000Not to mention, every time somebody says, Oh, he something something silly is like, oh, you shoot three on the court and off the court.
00:25:43.000You don't think that hurts his feelings?
00:27:09.000There is no group of people on earth ever, ever in the history of mankind, who have had a better lifestyle than married women to even middle class, but wealthy men today who are able to stay home.
00:27:25.000There's no group that has had a a better lifestyle than this demographic of people.
00:30:10.000But can you imagine if someone went to if so Aisha just had to read like and they said that she was nowhere near attractive enough to be a model and that she could lose a few pounds around the waist, but she'll still never have the right figure to be desirable.
00:30:25.000Like if she had to read the same kind of criticism, she'd have a nervous breakdown.
00:30:50.000Here's let's let's put them on equal playing field.
00:30:52.000You know what Steph Curry gets to look forward to?
00:30:55.000The minute he can't do it anymore, they move on like he never existed.
00:30:59.000So if we want that to be the same, the minute that you are no longer as attractive as you were or as good at what being a wife as you were when they've he moves on to somebody else that is.
00:31:43.000They are loved as long as they are useful.
00:31:46.000You could set the stage to ensure that he knows you will love him, the man, the man far beyond his utility as Curry, the brand, the player.
00:31:59.000Because I guarantee you that's in the back of his mind.
00:32:01.000Guarantee you it doesn't instill confidence to see you going out there publicly using the platform to trash him and say, geez, it's so hard you don't get all the things that you want, even though you actually do.
00:32:11.000Yeah, he's a he's a few missed shots away from being called washed up.
00:33:36.000See the it's like well, and then and then and then they go on to and people just always wonder like if it's is it only because of who your husband Yes, don't even finish that phrase.
00:34:11.000Again, how much are you wearing on your person right now?
00:34:15.000It's disconnected from reality, but it doesn't require wealth for that to be the case.
00:34:20.000There are plenty of women like this out there married to four men who are working their asses off and coming home and doing everything they can to people who are totally ungrateful, who are waiting for that man to walk in the door and tell them about their plight.
00:34:33.000And I'm telling you, it doesn't work, it can't work.
00:34:36.000But let's finish the clip with uh Janice, the daddy.
00:34:38.000Do you think the hardest situation that you've had to navigate as a female business owner?
00:39:07.000And I without knowing if I could, I said yes.
00:39:09.000And uh I just watched it and I watched it, and I would copy the phrases, and I really tried to get, and I I got I can't do it now, but at that point in time I could do a pitch-perfect impression of the kid before me.
00:39:20.000I the word for the audition was I'm sorry, Arthur, but if I wanted to read trash, I would have read Ogelberg's treatise on binomial coefficients.
00:39:28.000No one else could say it, and then I could do an impression.
00:39:29.000I said, Well, I you sound just like him.
00:40:09.000It's like people only give me credit for this and use the credit that she's given as the wife of a famous athlete.
00:40:15.000And what she could do excellently, and you see this so rarely, it should be the rule, it should be the norm.
00:40:21.000Every time the wife of a person of note goes out in public on a podcast, it should be almost exclusive.
00:40:29.000If That's the only reason you're known.
00:40:31.000Almost exclusively to support and elevate and champion the cause of the man who has given you that life and will lay down his for you.
00:40:43.000Can you imagine if Steph goes out in an interview, podcast interview, and they're like, Yeah, well, your your wife has this cooking show and she's working now and uh she's spending a lot of time out of the house and she's finding her own career and she's happy doing that.
00:41:24.000He's like, Yeah, but just uh now that she's doing all this stuff, I just I feel like I've lost everything that's interesting about me.
00:41:29.000And um let me just bring let me give you one step further.
00:41:32.000What if a completely reasonable thing for him to say?
00:41:34.000What if he said, Yeah, you know, it's just it's it's tough because I come home, you know, after like tonight, had a tough loss, I made some mistakes, and it's it's tough because uh I I come home and sometimes she comes home after me, and um, you know, it'd be nice to have someone to talk to about it, but um you know, she tries her best to resonate with me, but she just absolutely can't.
00:41:54.000She just doesn't understand, and uh, you know, which is probably true.
00:41:59.000She really only cares about her own problems.
00:42:01.000Uh, and uh, you know, if he just said exactly what she would be, oh my god, she doesn't exist for you.
00:42:08.000Steph Curry's wife, you your purpose, meaning the reason for your existence at this point in time after the soul bond, the covenant that you have made and the children that you created.
00:42:20.000The reason right now for your existence is to love unconditionally, support, submit to that man, and serve those children before the interests of your own.
00:42:36.000You may not like it, but that's the Christian worldview if you don't try and whitewash it into Protestant praying girlfriend daily devotionals.
00:44:57.000They want to give us a multi-million dollar deal to put my name, your name on shoes.
00:45:04.000Do you mind if I take this call or should I tell him to fuck off?
00:45:07.000Can we pause paranormal activity for because ring ring call waiting?
00:45:10.000Oh, it's someone who's angry that I met with the president.
00:45:16.000Well, she says this from a place from like somebody whose husband, I mean, technically probably could put off the call from Under Armour or a journalist and they have that privilege.
00:45:25.000But somebody watching this, a woman watching this is going, yeah.
00:45:37.000And some guy with third degree burns under rubble is like, I'm God, she had boundaries.
00:45:44.000I'm being a little extreme, but you're not.
00:45:47.000But that I mean, that's that's what I think of is the average person watching this who's husband might have to take a work call.
00:45:52.000Maybe he's a sales guy, and he he needs this, he needs to take this call, otherwise he's not gonna sell this house or this car or whatever that this this advertising campaign, and he's not gonna make his quota for the month, and then he might be on the chopping block and then out of work for four months, and then whoa, who's a bum now?
00:46:10.000And here I I guarantee you that I don't want to speak from, but I uh if I was uh Steph Curry, in the back of my mind, I I definitely would be fearing that uh uh I would um outlast my utility to this woman.
00:46:23.000This is not someone who seems uh quite capable of of uh unconditional love.
00:46:28.000And I'm not just saying it because of clips out of context.
00:46:30.000I watched the whole thing, the context makes it worse.
00:46:33.000Um she's chosen to go out and communicate primarily about these things.
00:46:42.000And uh look, men avoid this, and and women understand that men are going to avoid this more and more and more.
00:46:51.000You need to do the exact opposite of this.
00:46:53.000And we need to put aside the idea of that sexist, meaning what all men wanted, whether you agree with it, up until and including yesterday, they have to act like they don't, and what women expected from men.
00:47:06.000If you were to take any woman, well, first off, you'd have to reduce it, right?
00:47:10.000Go backwards on inflation, uh, and I don't know, uh, 250 million dollars would be like a what would it be back then?
00:47:17.000Go back to someone back then and say, by the way, the lady next door is married to the richest man in the neighborhood who uh is a Christian, they got married young, high school sweetheart, has never cheated, speaks respectfully about everything that we know seems to be good.
00:48:22.000I think she's happy, and I think that uh she's just having this moment where she's complaining about, and that's but that's the thing I have the issue I have with it.
00:50:54.000Good for you, spending money that you could never earn if you didn't take advantage of the fact that you're the wife of a famous guy and then lament it.
00:52:24.000By the way, the big engagement ring is the stupidest thing that's ever it is it is proof positive that um women have very few real friends.
00:52:36.000If you like put size of engagement ring into a currency converter, like its metric will be the value of how many friends it pisses off.
00:52:45.000That's the only value that it brings, is that it might be bigger or more clear or expensive than your friend's ring.
00:53:14.000I also like that she goes, You'll be so proud of me.
00:53:16.000Yeah, he's probably watching, like, yes, babe, take accountability.
00:53:19.000I get that they're talking about that one question, they're being silly, but I highly doubt that he's watching any of this and going, I'm so proud of you for saying all those things to everyone on earth.
00:53:54.000You're like, well, whoa, what were you doing before?
00:53:56.000You don't say he's gonna be proud of me for telling the truth in this scenario where it doesn't matter.
00:54:00.000That the subtext there, and I'm not uh I don't want to do the psychoanalyzing, but the subtext there is um he would only be proud of you if the expectation would be somewhat that you wouldn't tell the truth.
00:54:12.000Meaning he would be proud of you for telling the truth because it might be something unique or an outlier.
00:54:19.000You're not proud of someone for telling the truth on something inconsequential if they tell the truth all the time.
00:55:17.000I saw that guy, and I am that guy who would give his left nut to be Steph Curry.
00:55:25.000It just never What do you think would happen if a guy was doing that because some hot shit came in and waved her tits and just I'll tell you exactly what it is.
00:55:34.000Oh, if I had done that on national television, even as a joke doing stand-up comedy.
00:56:34.000Or maybe he's honoring a commitment that she seems um very likely to break because he's the man of integrity who she chose to marry, but it's not enough.
00:57:31.000Men out there, make sure that the woman who you're considering to put a ring on.
00:57:36.000If you want to make sure she doesn't just take it off for the next Chippendales guy who walks by, make sure without prompting from you, she responds with, that's evil.
00:57:52.000And uh started off kind of liking her.
00:57:54.000Like she was really interested in being a homemaker and then and then uh hated her because she read like she's like and her husband uh you know ended up cheating on her and she left him, and I was like, what a peace.
00:58:04.000She goes, but then I read they went to Europe for five months, and she was in a cathedral and she was inspired, and she talks about making out with a guy, six four for like five minutes.
00:58:18.000I think in a I I'm getting half of this, right?
00:58:19.000But in a cathedral, I believe, during her honeymoon.
00:58:24.000She cheated during her honeymoon and then left the guy for and by the way, if a lot of people.
00:58:40.000Are you willing to bet that a woman who would make out with a guy and also take the 10 right and he was 6'4 and really hot and go, are you willing to bet that maybe that woman wasn't putting out for the guy, which might have something to do with the fact that he sought that physical affection elsewhere?
00:58:53.000Doesn't justify it, but why are we just skimming past on her honeymoon with another guy?
00:59:00.000She barely made it further than Hitler.
01:01:21.000If she made She had to have because if she first of all, she's famous and successful, and she has her own show and people work for her and people adore her and all this.
01:01:29.000So she's got access to people who definitely are interested.
01:02:05.000Uh uh, like I this is if we don't solve this, uh, Western civilization is doomed because it relates to birth rates, it relates to strong communities, having strong families.
01:02:16.000Uh every statistic that you look at, you know, the older people get if they're married and have kids, the more conservative they are.
01:02:22.000Um, the more they value their faith, their family, their freedom.
01:02:25.000And I just see fewer and fewer young men uh signing up to get married when they look at the supposed Christian couple and a guy who has done everything right with the Curries, and uh it's this simple.
01:02:38.000Look, women, if you understand like why are men, why are men are so angry?
01:04:58.000Her duty is to make the house a home and to support that man who is has a a a singular gift that seems I I mean you said he might be the best ever.
01:05:08.000I don't follow basketball, but I know how good he is.
01:05:10.000He's one of the best, if not the best, three-point shooter of all time.