Louder with Crowder - Toxic Feminism: Crowder Breaks Down Ayesha Curry’s Insane Call Her Daddy Interview

00:01:05.000 This week in feminism. 1.00

00:01:11.000 I had a job and then I didn't show up.

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00:01:36.000 Glad to be with you.

00:01:56.000 Uh Captain Morgan, how are you?

00:01:58.000 Fantastic.

00:01:58.000 How are you?

00:01:59.000 Good.

00:02:01.000 Josh?

00:02:03.000 Also good.

00:02:04.000 Saturday, October eighteenth.

00:02:06.000 I hear you're gonna be at the the Big Laugh Comedy Club in Fort Worth. 0.99

00:02:10.000 Yes, big laugh, little penis. 0.99

00:02:12.000 Uh oh, it's gonna be good. 1.00

00:02:14.000 Uh I wasn't talking about me.

00:02:15.000 I I our friend and your lawyer, Bill Richmond's gonna be there.

00:02:18.000 He does make quite a few jokes about that.

00:02:18.000 Oh, okay.

00:02:20.000 He does.

00:02:21.000 Yeah.

00:02:21.000 I've seen it though.

00:02:22.000 It's normal.

00:02:23.000 He does all right. 0.98

00:02:24.000 It curves, but Y'all are both gay. 1.00

00:02:24.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:02:29.000 Hey, what do you mean you've got to be?

00:02:30.000 Can we admonish Gerald because in fact Josh and I are not practicing homosexuals?

00:02:36.000 We are not practicing.

00:02:36.000 Yeah.

00:02:39.000 There you go.

00:02:40.000 Okay.

00:02:40.000 Okay, fine.

00:02:41.000 I'm in a better mood now.

00:02:42.000 Yeah.

00:02:43.000 No, I feel good.

00:02:44.000 That's what fine, I'll do what I can.

00:02:44.000 Everybody is.

00:02:46.000 I'm just I'm still dealing with like, you know, after you have a stomach bug, like the dehydration, my lips and stuff are still wrung out, which uh, you know.

00:02:54.000 No jokes.

00:02:55.000 Well, you never do.

00:02:56.000 Yeah.

00:02:59.000 Sweet.

00:03:00.000 By the way.

00:03:01.000 There's a there's a there's a birthday card for Gerald.

00:03:03.000 I signed it.

00:03:04.000 I said, uh, all jokes aside, please.

00:03:06.000 Uh Josh Farr's time.

00:03:09.000 We're gonna do a segment on a scrapyard show on Friday.

00:03:12.000 That is Josh's notes versus Gerald's notes, because we saw them on the same on the same pad.

00:03:17.000 And then I know because my notes are kind of both, where it'll be like a note of okay, a time code, or it'll be a note of, hey, I miss it, or I need this source, and then it'll be a note of like, oh, idea for seven plus one.

00:03:26.000 Gerald's notes were like at six thirty-four, you know, clip too long, uh, need to bring back marginal income tax, get right numbers, and then Josh's if Lily Phillips lived too long, she would become Flathead Phillips. 0.61

00:03:42.000 She'll become Lily Flathead. 0.95

00:03:43.000 Lily Flathead.

00:03:44.000 Yeah, it was something like that.

00:03:45.000 And it was just with such a dad joke.

00:03:47.000 This technical jargon. 0.58

00:03:50.000 Yeah, I did a screwdriver or a sex joke.

00:03:53.000 I was like, whose notepad is this?

00:03:54.000 And after because it was one page Josh, one page Gerald.

00:03:57.000 And so I d I didn't have a clear answer.

00:03:59.000 I'm like, I don't know if Gerald wrote this.

00:04:03.000 Also, hey.

00:04:05.000 Speaking of answers.

00:04:09.000 What do men need to do to be enough? 0.94

00:04:12.000 Um if you ask Steph Curry's wife.

00:04:15.000 Uh now do people ever say Stephen, Stephan?

00:04:17.000 How how to it's Stephanie?

00:04:19.000 Stephen I thought.

00:04:21.000 Um her answer would be, uh there's nothing.

00:04:24.000 There's nothing you can do.

00:04:26.000 It's never enough.

00:04:27.000 And this is something it's kind of been making the rounds, but um all of us were very disturbed watching this.

00:04:35.000 And and I know this will seem mean uh a bunch of white guys, uh, you know, guilty as charged.

00:04:40.000 But if we don't fix the relationship dynamics in this country, um, generationally, and you're even seeing you're seeing more of a divide politically Gen Z men breaking pretty hard for that demographic at that point in time, right?

00:04:55.000 They're more right-leaning than any other generation in the ages between um 18, I think it's 18 to 25.

00:05:02.000 Uh so boomers weren't as conservative as that during that period of their life. 0.52

00:05:06.000 Uh Gen X, millennials, but you're still seeing Gen Z women breaking more left, my left, you're right. 1.00

00:05:13.000 That divide is, and it's also uh indicative of the expectations.

00:05:18.000 And I've argued this that the expectations from men as to what they really want are largely the same across those generations.

00:05:28.000 Now they may not be able to say it uh because they've been brow beaten, but but the truth is they want uh a woman who creates peace, who creates a safe haven that they come home to, who's a partner, a supporter, and they're happy to provide and protect.

00:05:42.000 Um that that's what they want.

00:05:44.000 They don't care about your career, they don't care about your degree, uh they don't care about your membership dementa.

00:05:49.000 Um none of these things really matter.

00:05:52.000 They want someone who is going to be a nurturer, a mother.

00:05:56.000 Um and I know not all, not all, not all.

00:05:58.000 Some guys want horrors, and we're not talking about them.

00:06:00.000 Because we're talking about here, Steph Curry, someone who seems to be a supremely decent man, who's wildly successful, the best in his field, by all information we have available to us, including from his wife, seems to be loyal and good to his family, and this woman is not only still miserable, but I will go this far.

00:06:21.000 If if the Protestant Pinterest Christian moms out there say that a man looking at pictures of naked ladies, by the way, anti-porn, you can go back to videos in 2013, 2014, where I talked about it.

00:06:33.000 I'm not saying that it's a good thing.

00:06:35.000 But if the trend is to say that's a violation of your marital covenant, going out and publicly trashing the home that your husband provides absolutely is.

00:06:44.000 Or the lifestyle that he provides.

00:06:45.000 Yes.

00:06:46.000 And by the way, in many ways, impugning his character.

00:06:46.000 Yeah.

00:06:49.000 Yeah.

00:06:50.000 This is not something, this is not a teammate.

00:06:53.000 This is not someone who you can trust.

00:06:55.000 And I wouldn't blame Steph Curry if he came home after watching this specific podcast, but she's made the rounds with divorce papers that moment. 1.00

00:07:05.000 Because the writing is on the wall.

00:07:06.000 And I want to handle this delicately because I know that Steph Curry seems to be a stand-up guy, and he's going to want to stand up for his wife.

00:07:11.000 What she's doing is indefensible.

00:07:13.000 And she's putting him in a position that is indefensible.

00:07:17.000 So Steph Curry's wife went on the uh call her daddy podcast. 0.98

00:07:23.000 And we have a lot of clips here.

00:07:24.000 You can comment below if you've seen it, what your thoughts are.

00:07:27.000 But we're going to go through it and kind of kind of parse through everything, everything wrong and how it's actually sort of it's in indicative of how a lot of people think.

00:07:40.000 Uh this marriage is is very likely doomed to fail because she's telling you that.

00:07:46.000 Here is Aisha Curry, wife to multi-millionaire, loyal Christian family man, unhappy. 0.87

00:07:54.000 Aisha Curry, welcome to Caller Daddy.

00:07:56.000 Thank you for having me.

00:07:57.000 I'm just grateful.

00:07:57.000 I'm excited.

00:07:58.000 Hoping I don't get in trouble for the things that I say.

00:08:01.000 So I I didn't want kids.

00:08:07.000 I I didn't want to get married.

00:08:12.000 That's awful to say publicly.

00:08:18.000 Your kids are gonna see this.

00:08:21.000 And I get that you can sit behind closed doors, like, we didn't plan on it, or I didn't know if I wanted to be a mom, and it's a good tremendous blessing.

00:08:27.000 Also, the very first statement, I hope that I don't get in trouble.

00:08:30.000 That's very different because I know that I've gone on Joseph and I've said, uh I'll I'll probably catch some flack for this.

00:08:36.000 There's a big difference between acceptance for taking a stance and hoping that nobody blames you, trying to sort of create this immunity from accountability right off the bat.

00:08:48.000 Well, why do you hope you don't get in trouble?

00:08:50.000 Why would you get in trouble?

00:08:52.000 It's okay to get in trouble if you're saying something, you know, which actually represents your convictions right away.

00:08:58.000 This is a setup for victim poor me.

00:09:02.000 Again, yes, she is with a man who's worth hundreds of millions of dollars and can do whatever she wants.

00:09:06.000 But never wanted kids.

00:09:07.000 We're off to a nice start.

00:09:09.000 I thought I was gonna be career girl, and that's it.

00:09:13.000 Was he the basketball guy in high school or no?

00:09:15.000 I apparently he was, but I I didn't I genuinely didn't pay attention to that.

00:09:21.000 Because I I grew up in such an arts-driven family that sports outside of like Doug Flutie playing for the Buffalo Bills, like wasn't a it just wasn't a thing.

00:09:30.000 And then not coming from that sports background and understanding how like rare the opportunity he had was.

00:09:37.000 I was like, yeah, stay in school.

00:09:42.000 You know what I've said before uh uh in the past, like you don't have to even share the same interests with the person you're with.

00:09:48.000 You you just have to care that they're interested in it.

00:09:53.000 Uh I didn't know about sports.

00:09:55.000 Well, you're with a man who it's kind of his life.

00:09:58.000 How could you possibly be a good wife, girlfriend, supporter?

00:10:03.000 If you're just like, I don't know anything about that.

00:10:06.000 You should.

00:10:09.000 She ever watched a game.

00:10:11.000 Well, I think she does now, to be fair, I think she does now.

00:10:13.000 I think what she's saying is when she was a you know a young woman, I think they made it. 0.99

00:10:16.000 Before he was famous, she ever watch a fucking game. 1.00

00:10:19.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:10:20.000 Tim's like, fine, the qualifier.

00:10:21.000 Here you go.

00:10:22.000 Also, also I anyway.

00:10:22.000 Yeah.

00:10:24.000 We have clips together.

00:10:25.000 This is just a setup, by the way.

00:10:26.000 Right now, the video has three times the number of down votes as up votes.

00:10:30.000 And uh no doubt there's plenty more to dislike later.

00:10:32.000 Yes.

00:10:33.000 That might not be the point for me, but there's plenty more.

00:10:36.000 Okay, one of the recurring just one point that she did bring up that I want to make sure, just to highlight it.

00:10:40.000 I didn't want kids.

00:10:41.000 I didn't want to get married.

00:10:43.000 I thought I was gonna be a career woman, and that's it.

00:10:46.000 That's gonna resurface.

00:10:48.000 That formula right now is part of the problem.

00:10:51.000 Yeah, I know.

00:10:52.000 Oh, and let me guess.

00:10:53.000 And I I don't because I just kind of watched this and sent it.

00:10:55.000 I said, let's just watch it and go.

00:10:56.000 Some point she talks about, and I don't know if people know like if it's for me or if they say it's because of my high if I only got that job because of my husband.

00:11:03.000 Yes, yes.

00:11:03.000 Yes!

00:11:04.000 Okay, let's you wanna you want to do it your way, teenager, and just become a career woman? 1.00

00:11:08.000 Let's just let's just set the stage here.

00:11:10.000 If you did it alone your way, how long before you could afford what you are currently wearing on your person?

00:11:18.000 A ring and a ring and a ring and a necklace and a bracelet, and I'm guessing designer clothes and expensive makeup.

00:11:18.000 Go!

00:11:24.000 After college and internship working for years, and even then it would wipe out all of your savings.

00:11:30.000 So right away we see the the lack of of gratitude.

00:11:33.000 But um, there's a big difference between men and women in that in that way where she says, uh, be a career woman, and that's it.

00:11:38.000 Uh, I don't I've never heard a man say, I want to be a career man and that's it.

00:11:42.000 We just we we recognize our career as a necessity.

00:11:42.000 Yeah.

00:11:47.000 Exactly.

00:11:47.000 That's like a given.

00:11:48.000 That's not like a thing that we're like, we want to be a career man.

00:11:51.000 I'm gonna focus on my it's like, no, I need to have a career so I can have what I want, which is a family.

00:11:56.000 Well, here let's go to this uh first clip.

00:11:58.000 You're about to see why there's three times a down votes, and no doubt Mrs. Daddy will say it's due to sexism. 1.00

00:12:02.000 Uh Aisha herself and Alex um talk about the struggle of being a mom and wanting a career.

00:12:12.000 I spent my entire life like trying to work towards something, and then it kind of just disappeared, and I didn't think twice about it.

00:12:22.000 But after my daughter turned one, I remember there being a shift and being like, uh, I have goals for myself.

00:12:32.000 Like this doesn't feel right.

00:12:34.000 I love being a mom, but I love doing other things too.

00:12:37.000 And I need to get my together and figure out what that looks like for myself.

00:12:42.000 Pause. 0.98

00:12:42.000 Yeah, I'll tell you, you do need to get your shit together, and I'll tell you what it looks like. 0.98

00:12:45.000 Finding out that little girl's goals. 0.98

00:12:48.000 That's now your priority.

00:12:50.000 Just like your man is esteeming you first.

00:12:53.000 You now put the children first.

00:12:55.000 It's not about you.

00:12:57.000 Well, the kids are up and they're out of the house.

00:12:59.000 Sure, you can go back.

00:13:00.000 We used to do this differently, where women used to have children during their fertile years, and then they would go and work when the kids were out of the house. 1.00

00:13:07.000 It was a natural sort of a natural transition.

00:13:10.000 Now it's like, oh, I gotta decide between this and this.

00:13:14.000 Hold on a second.

00:13:15.000 We've heard for so long, so long that being a mom is the hardest job in the world.

00:13:19.000 Um, that's not true.

00:13:20.000 It's a very important job.

00:13:22.000 It's a very important job.

00:13:23.000 Wouldn't say it's the hardest job in the world.

00:13:24.000 It's difficult, not the hardest in the world.

00:13:26.000 I've I've seen, you know, Alaskan ice truckers.

00:13:29.000 Yeah.

00:13:30.000 It's a hard one.

00:13:30.000 It is difficult.

00:13:31.000 It is difficult.

00:13:33.000 I will take it away from women. 1.00

00:13:34.000 It's difficult.

00:13:35.000 It's not the hardest.

00:13:36.000 No.

00:13:36.000 But if it is, and we agree an important job, then treat it like a job.

00:13:42.000 Not something that isn't diametric opposition to the job you really want.

00:13:47.000 And by the way, that's a luxury of a woman married to a man with hundreds of millions of dollars, because most women don't get to work the job they really, really, really want. 0.99

00:13:53.000 And they would love to be able to be home and love on that miracle of life that you created.

00:13:58.000 But let's continue like we're not all gonna get irritated.

00:14:01.000 For myself now.

00:14:03.000 What was the hardest part of being a young mom? 0.73

00:14:05.000 I think my identity.

00:14:07.000 So uh what a privilege.

00:14:10.000 Because I have to entrepreneurial spirit, not being able to call the shots all the time for myself was freaking weird.

00:14:18.000 Women can experience this like Oh, so you think that at an internship or entry level job, which is where you would be if not married to Steph Curry, you'd be calling the shots and the office place. 1.00

00:14:30.000 Then she'd be getting coffees.

00:14:31.000 Continue.

00:14:32.000 I think I think her career driven I think she wanted to be an actor, I think it was.

00:14:36.000 I'm not she's an arts family.

00:14:37.000 I think that's a good thing.

00:14:39.000 But I I believe I believe, yeah, she's not writing the words and she's not directing it.

00:14:44.000 All right.

00:14:45.000 It's also very hard to make it.

00:14:46.000 I feel like maybe my uh intensity uh doesn't you'll see why.

00:14:50.000 Uh bomb guilt of like if I have a career and I'm not home, like did you experience that?

00:14:58.000 I still experience that.

00:14:59.000 I still experience that.

00:15:01.000 I'm almost like I'm always in therapy talking about this.

00:15:06.000 Like for me being married and like with my husband.

00:15:10.000 If you lose all of those things that were interesting about you.

00:15:10.000 Right.

00:15:15.000 Vagina. 1.00

00:15:16.000 Even for yourself.

00:15:16.000 Like even the things that made me feel confident and cool, then what like what are you doing?

00:15:22.000 You don't have to be as women were always so she met uh Steph Curry when she was a teenager.

00:15:28.000 Yes.

00:15:29.000 What things that made you supremely interesting to other adults?

00:15:35.000 You know, these these qualities that you had when you were 19, did you lose?

00:15:39.000 What qualities could have possibly existed?

00:15:42.000 I'm assuming you were pretty and you were hopefully nice.

00:15:46.000 Probably funny, charismatic in some way.

00:15:48.000 And that's why I chose you.

00:15:49.000 You can maintain those things.

00:15:50.000 Yeah.

00:15:52.000 Hopefully you've gone over this with your very expensive therapist.

00:15:57.000 Or at least it feels like people just try to have us be one dimensional and you can do more.

00:16:02.000 Not that it's easy.

00:16:04.000 No.

00:16:04.000 But it's an option.

00:16:06.000 It's an option.

00:16:06.000 Like I say all the time.

00:16:08.000 Must be nice to have an option.

00:16:10.000 When men do it, they're like, oh my God, you're so multifaceted. 0.52

00:16:15.000 So talented.

00:16:15.000 Wow.

00:16:17.000 What a renaissance man.

00:16:18.000 And I'm like, what why can't women do the same thing? 1.00

00:16:21.000 Like what is giving you the ick so bad?

00:16:25.000 You could be an 11-time all-star.

00:16:26.000 I can't do other things too.

00:16:28.000 Separate things, be good at them, or at least try to.

00:16:32.000 Like why like what is the problem?

00:16:34.000 It is really frustrating.

00:16:35.000 And then I think thankfully I feel like that's a big thing.

00:16:36.000 Or sorry, is there only a little bit left to the clip play it?

00:16:38.000 Yeah.

00:16:39.000 There's just been an uptick of people being like, you know what?

00:16:41.000 I don't care anymore.

00:16:42.000 I'm just gonna do it.

00:16:43.000 Even if it pisses all of you off so much and it makes you uncomfortable to see a woman succeeding.

00:16:49.000 Deal with that on your own side, because I'm gonna keep pushing.

00:16:52.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:16:53.000 Well, just replace all the people getting pissed off with children being sad.

00:16:58.000 Yes.

00:17:01.000 First off, uh uh Yeah, I don't think you under the reason that someone like Steph Curry is not as multifaceted is because the intensity that is required to be one of the best at something.

00:17:12.000 Anything, one of the best ever at anything, is something that this person couldn't comprehend because she needs therapy because she only has a couple hundred million dollars in the bank and can't do a part-time job.

00:17:23.000 She's also talking about how she says, you know, it it's not fair that uh whenever men do something uh multifaceted, they they they're viewed as some kind of hero, uh, but not for her.

00:17:32.000 And it's like, well, what is the what is the thing that equates to what he does exceptionally that you do.

00:17:39.000 Right.

00:17:40.000 Is it mothering?

00:17:41.000 Right.

00:17:42.000 Because that's what it that's what it implies.

00:17:43.000 It implies she's implying that.

00:17:45.000 Well, I I do other things too.

00:17:46.000 I'm not just you know an 11-time all-star mother.

00:17:49.000 Right.

00:17:49.000 For her to be the equivalent mother that Steph Curry is a basketball player, she would have to be uh up, country breakfast for the kids, Not a smudge on their face, homeschooling, every activity booked to the letter, carting them to and fro, coming back, taking care of the housework, hot supper, and so Steph Curry could come home to pipe and slippers.

00:18:13.000 You know, the way that women used to. 1.00

00:18:14.000 And I know you'll say Shauvin is sexist.

00:18:15.000 I'm just saying for her to be the equivalent of an excellent mother.

00:18:19.000 Or do you bet that do you bet that she has maids? 1.00

00:18:21.000 And do you bet that she has uh uh world a roomba and options she called it options options of options and what like you said, how what a privilege to have options. 0.99

00:18:32.000 How many options do you think Steph Curry has when uh you know he has the runs, but it's uh it's the playoffs.

00:18:38.000 How many options do you do you think he has?

00:18:41.000 Uh Immodium AD.

00:18:42.000 Yeah, exactly.

00:18:43.000 It's one who's whose accolades are you going for?

00:18:45.000 You're playing for an audience of one.

00:18:46.000 It's your family.

00:18:47.000 Yeah.

00:18:48.000 Like you're performing for them.

00:18:50.000 When you have children, your children aren't gonna go, you know, 30 years from now when they haven't seen you because you're out there being a boss, babe, uh, and going to therapy to make sure that you don't feel guilty about the fact that you're abandoning them and you had a choice not to.

00:19:03.000 They're not gonna go, man, I'm really glad mom went and was a career woman.

00:19:07.000 Especially as they say, man, I wish I wish I got to spend more time with my mom and they prioritized me when they had the choice to do it.

00:19:13.000 Yeah, and didn't.

00:19:14.000 Especially as somebody who who who says she comes from an artsy family.

00:19:17.000 Yes.

00:19:18.000 And and says, Oh, I can't.

00:19:19.000 Well, look at people like J.K. Rowling.

00:19:21.000 Yeah.

00:19:22.000 That lady got famous because she wrote amazing books. 1.00

00:19:25.000 For her kids.

00:19:25.000 Yeah.

00:19:26.000 Right.

00:19:26.000 Yeah.

00:19:27.000 Like, why don't you like you said audience of one?

00:19:29.000 Why don't you put together something for your kids?

00:19:31.000 Yeah.

00:19:32.000 And find something there, and then you no one's stopping you from following the arts.

00:19:36.000 Yeah.

00:19:37.000 You have you're a multimillion, and you have more opportunity to do you can go to the best, uh, you can go get the best headshots.

00:19:37.000 Well, you have kids.

00:19:44.000 You can go get the best acting classes, you can do whatever you want, hire the maids, hire the butlers.

00:19:49.000 Yeah.

00:19:50.000 No, it's it it this needs here's it's really this simple.

00:19:53.000 And yes, there is a biological component.

00:19:54.000 For the same reason that women go like, well, I can they be older and get uh younger women because men don't have a biological window. 0.96

00:20:00.000 That's a f that that that's a fact.

00:20:01.000 And there's a reason that you know, special forces, uh, for example, or or or people in the uh very specialized military units uh are are mostly men because men are very good at singular tasks that require incredible intensity and focus, right?

00:20:14.000 It's the fight or flight response.

00:20:15.000 Uh you can just talk about it through the terms of biological evolution to deal with threats.

00:20:20.000 It's hunter out there versus gathering versus taking care of a village collectively.

00:20:26.000 We're designed differently.

00:20:27.000 And so, yeah, you you are expected.

00:20:30.000 You are expected for that to be your primary focus because only you can do it, and it needs to start off with what's best for these children.

00:20:40.000 If you start off with anything else, you are not being a good mother.

00:20:46.000 Yes, Noodles.

00:20:47.000 I was just gonna say, in looking at what uh Josh was uh referencing, it yeah, she had done some acting gigs, but she was pursuing a culinary career.

00:20:55.000 So it's not that she didn't want to cook, it's that she wasn't satisfied cooking for her family.

00:21:00.000 What an opportunity.

00:21:02.000 You have okay, dude.

00:21:05.000 I so many people I I watch, I'm obsessed with these uh cooking competition shows.

00:21:10.000 Like Master Chef, next level chef.

00:21:10.000 Yeah.

00:21:12.000 Right.

00:21:13.000 I'm obsessed with them.

00:21:14.000 And so many people on there are at they're they're called home cooks.

00:21:18.000 They're moms. 0.85

00:21:19.000 Yeah.

00:21:20.000 So many of their moms, or their um, or their dads who have jobs and so they this is their passion.

00:21:25.000 And they would kill.

00:21:28.000 They would kill to have a million dollars in the bank and the opportunity to stay home all day, be with their kids all day and just cook. 0.96

00:21:33.000 Yeah.

00:21:34.000 Mastering their craft at home, coming up, writing recipe books, getting your kids involved, teaching your kids how to cook.

00:21:39.000 Yeah.

00:21:40.000 You have two little hungry monsters who are growing and need all the food they can get.

00:21:44.000 You can test all your food on them.

00:21:46.000 You let them, you let them swirl the mixing spoon and they think you she has the two best skill sets for being a mom. 1.00

00:21:53.000 Cooking and acting, acting like she's interested in whatever three-year-olds care about.

00:21:58.000 Oh, wow.

00:22:00.000 Literally wanna bake some cookies?

00:22:02.000 You're the best mom ever.

00:22:03.000 Enjoy it.

00:22:04.000 You're literally complaining about so many people's dream.

00:22:08.000 I love cooking, dude.

00:22:08.000 I know.

00:22:09.000 I wish I could open a food truck or a little restaurant, but I can't because I'm like, I can't take that risk.

00:22:13.000 Right.

00:22:14.000 Provide for my family.

00:22:15.000 It's gonna be that's it's an extremely hard business to work in.

00:22:18.000 And I can't I can't just quit everything and go to culinary school.

00:22:21.000 Plus your license is uh uh suspended.

00:22:24.000 My food handler's license to get suspended four times, but that was in three different states and not Texas.

00:22:29.000 So let's go up to the next step Because at least here's one thing that we know.

00:22:32.000 We know that she understands and Steph Curry is um very shielded, unlike uh Aisha here uh from scrutiny. 0.77

00:22:40.000 He doesn't have to deal with that.

00:22:41.000 So he doesn't know what it's like to deal with the scrutiny of the um wife. 0.98

00:22:47.000 It's so hard also to be the woman in a situation where you're like men just don't get as much scrutiny, like they can maybe tell him like your fing shots suck tonight.

00:22:58.000 But like the looks and all of that is just like not a conversation as much. 0.64

00:23:04.000 No.

00:23:05.000 Did you talk to Steph about it?

00:23:09.000 He's so gracious, like he tries to resonate with me, but he just can't.

00:23:18.000 I think because he's like known for shooting threes, people will say something all the time, like, oh, he shoots threes on and off the court.

00:23:25.000 And I'm like, come on.

00:23:26.000 Well, first of all, that's funny, actually.

00:23:28.000 Three plus like a million.

00:23:30.000 Like you were like so fing stunning and gorgeous.

00:23:33.000 Like I'm sweet.

00:23:34.000 I don't need to say that I have to say it because it's also like the people that are writing it.

00:23:38.000 You look like Janice from the Muppet.

00:23:40.000 Um, but also I feel like it's funny to see any athlete's wife, everyone just first goes for their looks and and they compare it. 1.00

00:23:52.000 Shut up, silly woman. 1.00

00:23:53.000 That online conversation is so tired. 1.00

00:23:56.000 Like immediately just judging a wife of like a man that is well known and famous.

00:24:02.000 It doesn't even have to be sports.

00:24:03.000 It can be entertainment, actors, whatever it be.

00:24:05.000 It's always at the looks, and it's like Aren't we tired?

00:24:09.000 Just a little bit.

00:24:09.000 Yeah.

00:24:10.000 Well, hold on, a couple of things here.

00:24:11.000 The reason they go after looks is because it's the only thing that you bring to the table.

00:24:14.000 No one knows anything else about you outside of the fact that you inserted yourself publicly with a bunch of selfies.

00:24:19.000 And that's by the way, par for the course for a wants to be actress slash influencer.

00:24:24.000 But think about this for a second.

00:24:26.000 Like someone might say, your shot sucks, but they don't know what it's like to get looks.

00:24:30.000 You ever heard of a stare down in sports?

00:24:32.000 Like, do you know what a face-off is? 0.99

00:24:35.000 Not only does this guy have cocky ball players probably telling him, by the way, I just nailed your bitch, like I nailed your like I nailed your three-pointer, rejected, whatever. 1.00

00:24:44.000 Guarantee they're saying the most horrible things you could possibly imagine on the and giving him looks. 0.99

00:24:49.000 And giving him looks.

00:24:50.000 But this one's like, they just but man, my husband, an all-star doesn't know what it's like to get the scrutiny of bad looks.

00:24:59.000 Hey, hey, maybe just take the lens off of yourself for a second, and maybe think, and this I genuinely mean as sympathetically as I can, that that guy probably gets a whole lot more than looks, is beat up from the world when he comes back.

00:25:16.000 He is a walking fishbowl.

00:25:18.000 He is a magnet for criticism.

00:25:21.000 He can't make any mistake because his opponents and the media are waiting for it.

00:25:26.000 And when he comes home, probably needs someone who's understanding instead of someone who's willing to tell him that he doesn't know how hard it's been to have the maids in the house give you a little lip.

00:25:36.000 Not to mention, every time somebody says, Oh, he something something silly is like, oh, you shoot three on the court and off the court.

00:25:43.000 You don't think that hurts his feelings? 0.76

00:25:44.000 Right.

00:25:46.000 I mean, he gets over it.

00:25:47.000 That really got me.

00:25:49.000 But it's like it it hurts his feelings.

00:25:51.000 Basketball players probably get the most trash talk to them than any other sport by far.

00:25:56.000 Maybe besides hockey.

00:25:57.000 Because of the same reason, they're on the court and fans are on the court.

00:26:01.000 Like literally, they're sitting right next to them or right behind them.

00:26:04.000 They're in spitting distances.

00:26:05.000 Players have been spit on.

00:26:07.000 They've had things thrown at them.

00:26:08.000 They've had they it's all that they fights occur.

00:26:12.000 Ron Artist went up into the stands.

00:26:14.000 Well, he went in.

00:26:15.000 It was on him, but what a great fight that was.

00:26:18.000 He hit the wrong guy, though.

00:26:19.000 But yeah, he's had he's he's he's lost either one or two NBA finals championships.

00:26:26.000 Nationally, nationally broadcast failure.

00:26:30.000 Yeah.

00:26:31.000 Hold on, no, no.

00:26:31.000 Right.

00:26:32.000 Where did Steph Curry fail? 0.97

00:26:32.000 Where did he go wrong? 0.97

00:26:34.000 Draymond Green and all the other people.

00:26:36.000 But where did it be?

00:26:36.000 Yeah, there's other players too.

00:26:37.000 Oh, look at Steph missed this three-pointer that could have tied the game. 0.99

00:26:41.000 His job and your lifestyle depend on that screen.

00:26:43.000 Yeah, but page six said my eyes look puffy.

00:26:45.000 No, no, no.

00:26:47.000 I get her being upset about the scrutiny.

00:26:48.000 We're doing it now.

00:26:49.000 Sure.

00:26:49.000 But I I get it.

00:26:50.000 It's like she put herself on a podcast.

00:26:52.000 I know.

00:26:53.000 It's like these ways.

00:26:53.000 That's the thing.

00:26:54.000 Steph Curry.

00:26:55.000 Steph Curry accepts that he's a professional athlete, right? 0.86

00:26:57.000 It sucks, but he accepts it.

00:26:59.000 She decided to Go out on a podcast to build her brand in whatever capacity, it will then claim victim status. 0.98

00:27:05.000 That's one thing that is unique to women of today.

00:27:08.000 And I mean this.

00:27:09.000 There is no group of people on earth ever, ever in the history of mankind, who have had a better lifestyle than married women to even middle class, but wealthy men today who are able to stay home.

00:27:25.000 There's no group that has had a a better lifestyle than this demographic of people.

00:27:30.000 Yet they complain the most.

00:27:32.000 And and again, this is a betrayal.

00:27:34.000 Yes to go out.

00:27:35.000 That's the point.

00:27:36.000 And as many is that, you know, yes, she's getting scrutiny in it. 0.99

00:27:39.000 And it does suck. 0.98

00:27:40.000 I get it. 0.98

00:27:40.000 Sure. 0.98

00:27:41.000 We all have our problems.

00:27:42.000 That sucks, and I feel bad for you.

00:27:43.000 But you can't come out here and say that he doesn't understand the scrutiny that I go through. 0.98

00:27:48.000 He doesn't, he can't even compare.

00:27:49.000 He tries so hard.

00:27:51.000 Complimenting him how sweet he is and how hard he tries to, but he can't come, he can't come close to the scrutiny I get.

00:27:58.000 And I'm sure he's super secure and doesn't care about this at all.

00:28:01.000 But I would.

00:28:02.000 Yeah.

00:28:02.000 And I know that there's there's other women that watch this and they get empowered by that.

00:28:06.000 They go, oh wow, look, the the wife of the superstar also feels this way.

00:28:11.000 Uh you know what?

00:28:12.000 I can feel this way.

00:28:13.000 Yeah.

00:28:14.000 Yeah.

00:28:14.000 It is harder for me than him.

00:28:16.000 You ever hear the term supporting role?

00:28:19.000 Supporting cast.

00:28:20.000 You're a supporting actress.

00:28:23.000 And people don't like this.

00:28:24.000 This is a conversation that people like Steph Currier, people who manage companies or uh CEOs.

00:28:29.000 Again, if the agreement is, okay, we're gonna be a single income household, because people say you have main character complex.

00:28:35.000 They'll say that to someone who's like someone who's imagine someone that saying that to Winston Churchill.

00:28:39.000 You have main character complex.

00:28:41.000 You think that it's a compent upon you to find hip. 1.00

00:28:43.000 Shut up, yo, bitch. 1.00

00:28:44.000 Like, seriously. 1.00

00:28:46.000 Yes, you are a supporting actress.

00:28:48.000 You cannot do what he does.

00:28:50.000 You can never come close.

00:28:52.000 Other people in the league who've done nothing but what he does for their entire life to even come close.

00:28:59.000 You can find great purpose in supporting him and supporting the family that protects him.

00:29:07.000 I know we don't like it, because like that seems subservient.

00:29:09.000 Yes.

00:29:10.000 Oh, that oh serving servant's heart.

00:29:13.000 I believe this is a Christian family.

00:29:15.000 By the way, quick counterpoint in not understanding scrutiny.

00:29:18.000 Here's Steph reading his pre-draft scouting report.

00:29:26.000 Far below NBA standard in regard to explosiveness and athleticism.

00:29:31.000 6'2, he's extremely small for the NBA shooter.

00:29:34.000 But he's reading, he's not even getting a lot.

00:29:35.000 That could keep him from being much of a defender at the next level.

00:29:39.000 Struggles defensively getting around screens, can overshoot and rush into shots from time to time.

00:29:46.000 Needs to add some muscle to his upper body.

00:29:49.000 But it appears as though he'll always be skinny.

00:29:51.000 Oh my god.

00:29:52.000 God.

00:29:54.000 I just like to say I appreciate all the uh motivation and uh inspiration to do everything this paper said I couldn't do.

00:30:04.000 And since then he's earned over a billion dollars.

00:30:07.000 So that's up to him.

00:30:09.000 Uh nobody had on Asia.

00:30:10.000 But can you imagine if someone went to if so Aisha just had to read like and they said that she was nowhere near attractive enough to be a model and that she could lose a few pounds around the waist, but she'll still never have the right figure to be desirable. 1.00

00:30:25.000 Like if she had to read the same kind of criticism, she'd have a nervous breakdown.

00:30:29.000 And I mean this.

00:30:30.000 And they'll go, this seems like if a man gets mad, they go, seems like sensitive masculinity.

00:30:34.000 No, look, here's the thing.

00:30:35.000 We don't need to have we don't need to have this segment. 0.93

00:30:38.000 Women act like this and die alone. 1.00

00:30:39.000 Okay, we're done here. 0.98

00:30:41.000 Or if we want to improve it, only women can start correcting the issues in their ranks. 1.00

00:30:46.000 Yeah.

00:30:46.000 And men avoid someone like this.

00:30:49.000 Yes, please do that.

00:30:50.000 Here's let's let's put them on equal playing field.

00:30:52.000 You know what Steph Curry gets to look forward to?

00:30:55.000 The minute he can't do it anymore, they move on like he never existed.

00:30:59.000 So if we want that to be the same, the minute that you are no longer as attractive as you were or as good at what being a wife as you were when they've he moves on to somebody else that is.

00:30:59.000 Yep.

00:31:10.000 That's what his career is.

00:31:12.000 That is what he's looking down the barrel of right now.

00:31:15.000 And here's the one thing that she can provide that she's not.

00:31:18.000 The one thing, Aisha Curry, that only you can provide on earth to that man. 0.84

00:31:23.000 It's very, very important what Jill just touched on.

00:31:26.000 There's one thing that only you can provide, because no one else will.

00:31:29.000 That is unconditional love, which he's never experienced.

00:31:32.000 He's a commodity.

00:31:33.000 Men are used to the love for them being conditional, especially if you're a performer.

00:31:38.000 And that could mean in business.

00:31:39.000 That could mean in sports.

00:31:40.000 That could mean in entertainment.

00:31:41.000 It could mean in construction.

00:31:43.000 They are loved as long as they are useful.

00:31:46.000 You could set the stage to ensure that he knows you will love him, the man, the man far beyond his utility as Curry, the brand, the player.

00:31:59.000 Because I guarantee you that's in the back of his mind.

00:32:01.000 Yeah.

00:32:01.000 Guarantee you it doesn't instill confidence to see you going out there publicly using the platform to trash him and say, geez, it's so hard you don't get all the things that you want, even though you actually do.

00:32:11.000 Yeah, he's a he's a few missed shots away from being called washed up.

00:32:15.000 Yep.

00:32:17.000 And I hope no one ever says that about her.

00:32:19.000 Yeah.

00:32:20.000 It's a terrible thing to hear and feel, but uh knowing you're good at something for a long time helps it a lot.

00:32:25.000 The broads all washed up. 1.00

00:32:25.000 Yep. 1.00

00:32:27.000 What movie was that from?

00:32:28.000 I don't remember.

00:32:28.000 Maybe I made it up.

00:32:29.000 All right.

00:32:30.000 Here she is uh complaining about how hard it was for her going into business because she's an entreprene's like an entrepreneur. 0.84

00:32:37.000 How does it feel to be said person's wife and also work? 0.58

00:32:44.000 And I'm like, what?

00:32:47.000 I've cooked for my family since I was 11 years old.

00:32:51.000 The station that broadcasts the Warriors games at the time, they reached out and they were like, hey, we really like your videos.

00:32:58.000 Like, what if we gave you a 30-minute slot before every game locally and we did a cooking segment?

00:33:05.000 And I was like, yeah.

00:33:07.000 And so that was like my first TV cooking director camera.

00:33:12.000 And then from there it grew to the book.

00:33:14.000 I had this robust, like food television career very quickly.

00:33:21.000 Um that happened pretty organically.

00:33:24.000 What has been pause?

00:33:26.000 Yes.

00:33:27.000 No, no, it's true.

00:33:29.000 All random middling women get shows with the food network. 1.00

00:33:34.000 See the ingratitude?

00:33:36.000 See the it's like well, and then and then and then they go on to and people just always wonder like if it's is it only because of who your husband Yes, don't even finish that phrase.

00:33:44.000 Yes, that's exactly why.

00:33:45.000 That's exactly why.

00:33:46.000 I was told earlier in the interview that uh when she married Steph, she lost everything that was interesting about her.

00:33:52.000 Yeah, and that she couldn't work.

00:33:53.000 I thought, yeah, that she she couldn't chase her dream of of being on TV for food. 0.97

00:33:58.000 Also, uh by the way, again, let's say you're not his wife. 0.92

00:34:01.000 Uh, and uh a local affiliate offers you like a 20-minute cooking segment in whatever Charleston.

00:34:10.000 How much do you think that pays?

00:34:11.000 Again, how much are you wearing on your person right now?

00:34:15.000 It's disconnected from reality, but it doesn't require wealth for that to be the case.

00:34:20.000 There are plenty of women like this out there married to four men who are working their asses off and coming home and doing everything they can to people who are totally ungrateful, who are waiting for that man to walk in the door and tell them about their plight. 0.59

00:34:33.000 And I'm telling you, it doesn't work, it can't work.

00:34:36.000 But let's finish the clip with uh Janice, the daddy. 1.00

00:34:38.000 Do you think the hardest situation that you've had to navigate as a female business owner? 1.00

00:34:43.000 The hardest, there's two.

00:34:45.000 The the first was hearing the nose as a woman in food. 1.00

00:34:50.000 And so getting people to see me and realize that I I had talent outside of what people were assuming, I think has been really difficult.

00:35:03.000 I knew people can't see past like the surface one sheet.

00:35:10.000 Yep.

00:35:11.000 Or you know what?

00:35:12.000 They don't want to.

00:35:15.000 Correct. 0.99

00:35:16.000 Which sucks. 0.99

00:35:17.000 It sucks so bad. 0.99

00:35:18.000 Yeah, you know what sucks even more? 0.99

00:35:20.000 It sucks for the viewer if there's no hook for them to watch you. 0.95

00:35:24.000 So the fact that you're famous. 0.70

00:35:26.000 Hey, maybe you aren't talented.

00:35:28.000 Great.

00:35:29.000 You also got the job because of your husband.

00:35:31.000 Hey, you know, thank you.

00:35:32.000 There you go.

00:35:33.000 I'll give her the benefit of the doubt.

00:35:34.000 I'll give her the benefit of the doubt and say she is extremely talented.

00:35:37.000 She's a great chef, she's got great personality, great charisma, great for TV. 1.00

00:35:41.000 Everyone gets told no.

00:35:43.000 You gotta get it.

00:35:43.000 Right.

00:35:44.000 Oh my God, so many people get told no.

00:35:46.000 As a comedian.

00:35:46.000 Yeah.

00:35:47.000 That's true, it does happen.

00:35:48.000 I mean, I need to do that.

00:35:49.000 I know you have to go to the bathroom and just can I get it.

00:35:53.000 And the other thing, too, she went on to say it wasn't in that clip.

00:35:53.000 Come right back.

00:35:55.000 She says, hearing the no.

00:35:57.000 And then she said, and hearing the no, like you're too young And you're too young as a woman.

00:36:02.000 What is being a woman have to do with anything? 0.94

00:36:04.000 By the way, the only reason you were told yes is because you're the wife of a star player.

00:36:11.000 She skipped the line.

00:36:13.000 Just own it.

00:36:13.000 That's fine.

00:36:14.000 You know, like she never had to, she never got yelled out by Gordon Ramsey for making a souffle wrong.

00:36:19.000 Yeah, exactly.

00:36:21.000 You call this chip it's whatever it is.

00:36:26.000 Souffle more like soup.

00:36:28.000 I don't know what biracial people cook. 1.00

00:36:30.000 I'm sure it's great.

00:36:31.000 She skipped right to a show on network television.

00:36:34.000 Yeah, exactly.

00:36:35.000 Like, in the hardest part is hearing the no.

00:36:37.000 How many women do you think were sitting there watching, going? 1.00

00:36:41.000 Yeah.

00:36:42.000 Yeah.

00:36:43.000 I've I've been a chef at a two-star in a two-star kitchen for three years.

00:36:46.000 Right, yeah.

00:36:47.000 Hey, I don't know if you know this, but uh as both an actor and comedian.

00:36:50.000 Like I heard no, and you're fired by the time I was 13.

00:36:53.000 But I would go into it the first couple of times as a little kid, like I'd go home and like cry like, oh, this is it.

00:36:57.000 No, nope, you're not right.

00:36:58.000 I mean, I auditioned for a role on the show, Are You Afraid of the Dark? 0.97

00:37:00.000 And only dawned on me during the audition, that my character's name was like Andy Wang telling the tale of a misfortune fucking cookie. 0.96

00:37:06.000 I'm like, oh, that's why everyone was Chinese in the waiting room. 1.00

00:37:10.000 And I realized that I was just brought in as a as a token.

00:37:14.000 That didn't feel good, but most of the industry, in any industry where there are very few spots available, is no.

00:37:22.000 I think what she meant.

00:37:23.000 I think what she meant was, you know how bad it feels to get told no?

00:37:26.000 And I'm like, I'm Steph Curry's wife.

00:37:31.000 You're gonna tell me no.

00:37:33.000 Because there's something about being a nobody and getting told no where you accept it.

00:37:38.000 You realize it, you kind of get depressed about it.

00:37:39.000 As comedians, we know this more than anybody.

00:37:39.000 Right.

00:37:41.000 Go no, all right.

00:37:42.000 Well, I wasn't ready.

00:37:43.000 No, I guess I wasn't funny enough tonight.

00:37:45.000 Right.

00:37:45.000 I didn't win the competition because that guy really killed.

00:37:48.000 Yeah.

00:37:48.000 Man, I really uh I did have bad sets.

00:37:51.000 Yeah.

00:37:52.000 That's not what that was.

00:37:53.000 That was I can't believe they told me no.

00:37:57.000 Yeah. 0.99

00:37:58.000 That sucks. 1.00

00:37:59.000 You expect no. 0.99

00:38:00.000 I'm somebody.

00:38:02.000 Yeah.

00:38:02.000 Well, you you okay, I don't know if you're still role-playing, but you're somebody.

00:38:05.000 No, I'm not.

00:38:06.000 No, I'm roleplaying.

00:38:06.000 Like, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:38:07.000 Yeah.

00:38:07.000 Like, I can't believe you told Steph Cray's wife.

00:38:09.000 No, no, no.

00:38:10.000 Because you, Josh Fire Son, you have got a lot of good qualities.

00:38:12.000 I would, I would, hey, look, Steph, I'll be your wife.

00:38:16.000 Okay. 0.99

00:38:16.000 But I will say nice tits. 0.99

00:38:25.000 Like, yeah, exactly. 0.99

00:38:26.000 I walked in, I'm like, yeah, of course I'm not going to get this role.

00:38:26.000 I don't know.

00:38:28.000 I thought it was weird.

00:38:29.000 I was telling the tale of the misfortune cookie.

00:38:30.000 My last name was Wang.

00:38:31.000 All right, good.

00:38:33.000 You know, um, and here's the thing.

00:38:34.000 Let me give you very clear. 0.88

00:38:35.000 Like, people, it's it's silly.

00:38:36.000 I played the this the role for a few seasons of The Brain on Arthur, right?

00:38:40.000 That was one of my first, like, that was the first role that got me my union card in Canada.

00:38:45.000 I auditioned for the role of Arthur, because the kid had aged out.

00:38:47.000 And I went in and I remember the guy going, nope, you don't sound anything like him.

00:38:50.000 We're not going to waste your time.

00:38:51.000 It was pretty harsh about it.

00:38:53.000 And I was just devastated.

00:38:55.000 I was 12, I think.

00:38:56.000 And then uh they called back and said, you know what?

00:38:59.000 We we heard like uh kind of a timor in your voice.

00:39:01.000 Do you think you could work on anything you could try and sound like the brain?

00:39:06.000 Because there was a kid before me.

00:39:07.000 And I without knowing if I could, I said yes.

00:39:09.000 And uh I just watched it and I watched it, and I would copy the phrases, and I really tried to get, and I I got I can't do it now, but at that point in time I could do a pitch-perfect impression of the kid before me.

00:39:19.000 And I could say big words.

00:39:20.000 I the word for the audition was I'm sorry, Arthur, but if I wanted to read trash, I would have read Ogelberg's treatise on binomial coefficients.

00:39:28.000 No one else could say it, and then I could do an impression.

00:39:29.000 I said, Well, I you sound just like him.

00:39:31.000 And I got through.

00:39:32.000 I had to fit into exactly what it is that they needed to get my foot in the door.

00:39:38.000 And I was nervous and I was cranky because I'd already been told no, and this was consequential.

00:39:44.000 They personally called me back.

00:39:46.000 And the and here's the thing the victory in getting that, and it's a small victory, but for a kid, it was a it was a big deal.

00:39:52.000 Um, and I was proud of it because I actually had to work at something to do it, right?

00:39:56.000 It was a contingency plan.

00:39:58.000 She'll never know what that feels like.

00:40:01.000 She'll never appreciate it.

00:40:03.000 The way a 12-year-old me did.

00:40:07.000 Because she wants to play both sides. 1.00

00:40:09.000 It's like people only give me credit for this and use the credit that she's given as the wife of a famous athlete.

00:40:15.000 And what she could do excellently, and you see this so rarely, it should be the rule, it should be the norm.

00:40:21.000 Every time the wife of a person of note goes out in public on a podcast, it should be almost exclusive.

00:40:29.000 If That's the only reason you're known.

00:40:31.000 Almost exclusively to support and elevate and champion the cause of the man who has given you that life and will lay down his for you.

00:40:43.000 Can you imagine if Steph goes out in an interview, podcast interview, and they're like, Yeah, well, your your wife has this cooking show and she's working now and uh she's spending a lot of time out of the house and she's finding her own career and she's happy doing that.

00:40:53.000 And uh, how does that make you feel?

00:40:54.000 And he's like, Well, I mean, I love my wife and I support her, but I wish she would stay at it.

00:40:59.000 Do you know how the backlash he would get and how she would react?

00:41:04.000 He would lose sponsors.

00:41:05.000 Yeah, dude, yeah.

00:41:06.000 Or he says, uh, I never really paid attention to it.

00:41:09.000 Yeah, and I when I know we have more clips, it doesn't really be like a lot of people.

00:41:12.000 She cooks or something.

00:41:13.000 Uh I guess she's pretty good at it.

00:41:14.000 Yeah, I guess she's okay, you know.

00:41:16.000 But uh turns out she's one of the best ones. 0.99

00:41:18.000 I don't know.

00:41:18.000 I hear it's good, but she's uh not making any of it for me, so I don't really know what it tastes like.

00:41:21.000 Something like that?

00:41:22.000 You know, oh my god.

00:41:24.000 He's like, Yeah, but just uh now that she's doing all this stuff, I just I feel like I've lost everything that's interesting about me.

00:41:29.000 And um let me just bring let me give you one step further.

00:41:32.000 What if a completely reasonable thing for him to say?

00:41:34.000 What if he said, Yeah, you know, it's just it's it's tough because I come home, you know, after like tonight, had a tough loss, I made some mistakes, and it's it's tough because uh I I come home and sometimes she comes home after me, and um, you know, it'd be nice to have someone to talk to about it, but um you know, she tries her best to resonate with me, but she just absolutely can't.

00:41:54.000 She just doesn't understand, and uh, you know, which is probably true. 1.00

00:41:59.000 She really only cares about her own problems. 0.99

00:42:01.000 Uh, and uh, you know, if he just said exactly what she would be, oh my god, she doesn't exist for you. 0.90

00:42:06.000 Here's the truth.

00:42:07.000 I'm gonna say this.

00:42:08.000 Steph Curry's wife, you your purpose, meaning the reason for your existence at this point in time after the soul bond, the covenant that you have made and the children that you created.

00:42:20.000 The reason right now for your existence is to love unconditionally, support, submit to that man, and serve those children before the interests of your own.

00:42:32.000 That is why you exist.

00:42:34.000 That's why you were put on earth.

00:42:36.000 You may not like it, but that's the Christian worldview if you don't try and whitewash it into Protestant praying girlfriend daily devotionals.

00:42:43.000 I say try to learn to like it.

00:42:44.000 Uh that's what I would say.

00:42:46.000 Like try to learn liking practice?

00:42:48.000 Yeah.

00:42:49.000 Yeah.

00:42:50.000 Right?

00:42:51.000 Yeah.

00:42:51.000 No, no one likes everything.

00:42:54.000 This is what your life is.

00:42:55.000 Try to make the best of it.

00:42:55.000 Yeah.

00:42:57.000 Turns out it you ended up with a pretty good spot.

00:42:59.000 Yeah.

00:43:00.000 Um, yeah.

00:43:01.000 And I'm sure you can make the best of it.

00:43:02.000 And no one says that all of it is fun.

00:43:04.000 But here's the other thing.

00:43:05.000 It's a real blessing that you'll never know.

00:43:07.000 Do you think that Steph Curry, and I know your teammates and that those are important.

00:43:10.000 Do you think he loves the managers, the promoters, the sales reps, to the same degree that you love your children?

00:43:18.000 Because he has to deal with them every day. 0.99

00:43:20.000 The people he deals with every day don't give a shit about him, and they don't give a shit about your family. 0.99

00:43:26.000 The people who you lament dealing with as your primary focus every day, are the people you're supposed to love most. 0.99

00:43:33.000 And sure, they'll annoy you, and that doesn't mean that you're gonna like changing diapers.

00:43:36.000 It doesn't mean that you're gonna like sitting by a recital where they do the same thing for the 15th time.

00:43:42.000 But you love those people.

00:43:43.000 He's surrounded every day by people who don't care about him.

00:43:48.000 So it's that much more important for you to do so.

00:43:53.000 You are failing your primary duty and the reason for your existence once you've chosen to sign up as a wife and mother. 0.98

00:44:03.000 Finally, she uh does uh talk about oh, they play this game here, right?

00:44:09.000 A game of who is more likely.

00:44:11.000 That's fun.

00:44:12.000 That's fun.

00:44:12.000 Let's see.

00:44:13.000 I want to play a game then between you and staff of who is more likely to.

00:44:17.000 Okay.

00:44:18.000 Who is more likely to take a work call during date night?

00:44:22.000 Stefan.

00:44:26.000 Do you guys have boundaries of like, no, we're done with work, food?

00:44:29.000 I do.

00:44:31.000 Where is the game?

00:44:33.000 You're like, do not disturb, mother.

00:44:37.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:44:38.000 That's that's because that's really feminine. 1.00

00:44:39.000 So um Yeah, here's the thing.

00:44:42.000 Like, who's more likely to?

00:44:45.000 This again goes back to the narcissism and completely inconsiderate.

00:44:48.000 It's like, hey, hey, do you think you could put the hamburger helper on simmer?

00:44:51.000 Um, it's the president.

00:44:54.000 Oh, sorry, I I can't put this call off.

00:44:56.000 It's under armor.

00:44:57.000 They want to give us a multi-million dollar deal to put my name, your name on shoes. 1.00

00:45:04.000 Do you mind if I take this call or should I tell him to fuck off? 0.99

00:45:07.000 Can we pause paranormal activity for because ring ring call waiting? 0.99

00:45:10.000 Oh, it's someone who's angry that I met with the president.

00:45:16.000 Well, she says this from a place from like somebody whose husband, I mean, technically probably could put off the call from Under Armour or a journalist and they have that privilege.

00:45:25.000 But somebody watching this, a woman watching this is going, yeah. 0.96

00:45:29.000 What the hell?

00:45:30.000 My firefighter husband took a call during dinner. 1.00

00:45:34.000 Now he has to go save some babies, that bastard. 1.00

00:45:36.000 Right. 1.00

00:45:37.000 And some guy with third degree burns under rubble is like, I'm God, she had boundaries.

00:45:44.000 I'm being a little extreme, but you're not.

00:45:47.000 But that I mean, that's that's what I think of is the average person watching this who's husband might have to take a work call.

00:45:52.000 Maybe he's a sales guy, and he he needs this, he needs to take this call, otherwise he's not gonna sell this house or this car or whatever that this this advertising campaign, and he's not gonna make his quota for the month, and then he might be on the chopping block and then out of work for four months, and then whoa, who's a bum now? 0.99

00:46:07.000 Because he can't get a job.

00:46:08.000 Yeah.

00:46:08.000 No, you're exactly right.

00:46:10.000 And here I I guarantee you that I don't want to speak from, but I uh if I was uh Steph Curry, in the back of my mind, I I definitely would be fearing that uh uh I would um outlast my utility to this woman.

00:46:23.000 This is not someone who seems uh quite capable of of uh unconditional love.

00:46:28.000 And I'm not just saying it because of clips out of context.

00:46:30.000 I watched the whole thing, the context makes it worse.

00:46:33.000 Um she's chosen to go out and communicate primarily about these things.

00:46:40.000 That's her choice.

00:46:42.000 And uh look, men avoid this, and and women understand that men are going to avoid this more and more and more.

00:46:51.000 You need to do the exact opposite of this.

00:46:53.000 And we need to put aside the idea of that sexist, meaning what all men wanted, whether you agree with it, up until and including yesterday, they have to act like they don't, and what women expected from men.

00:47:06.000 If you were to take any woman, well, first off, you'd have to reduce it, right? 1.00

00:47:10.000 Go backwards on inflation, uh, and I don't know, uh, 250 million dollars would be like a what would it be back then?

00:47:15.000 That'd be like uh eight bucks.

00:47:17.000 Go back to someone back then and say, by the way, the lady next door is married to the richest man in the neighborhood who uh is a Christian, they got married young, high school sweetheart, has never cheated, speaks respectfully about everything that we know seems to be good.

00:47:17.000 I don't know.

00:47:31.000 No, no marriage is perfect, and uh she's really upset and unhappy. 0.73

00:47:36.000 Back then, because here's the thing it's not just it's not patriarchy, although that is important that kept women in line. 1.00

00:47:42.000 It was also matriarchy. 1.00

00:47:44.000 There would be a mom who would go, what is and probably slap you and go, what is wrong with you? 1.00

00:47:50.000 My family couldn't couldn't afford soap.

00:47:52.000 Do you know what an outhouse is?

00:47:54.000 We don't have that now because we have princesses, and it's whatever my girl wants. 1.00

00:47:58.000 Mothers used to keep them in line, going, hey, you need you you need a reality check. 1.00

00:48:03.000 Do you know who you're married to?

00:48:05.000 That man needs the support that only you can give him.

00:48:07.000 Do you know?

00:48:08.000 Do you know what Cecilia down the block has to deal with? 0.94

00:48:12.000 She just half her family just got the black plague.

00:48:14.000 I don't know how far back we're going in time, but you understand there were much greater differences.

00:48:19.000 I think she's happy.

00:48:20.000 I do think she's happy.

00:48:20.000 I want to say that.

00:48:21.000 Oh, I don't.

00:48:22.000 I think she's happy, and I think that uh she's just having this moment where she's complaining about, and that's but that's the thing I have the issue I have with it.

00:48:22.000 I do.

00:48:28.000 But she's in it on so many out there.

00:48:30.000 Not just the show.

00:48:30.000 Oh, she consistently.

00:48:32.000 I haven't seen it all.

00:48:33.000 But I I what I was gonna say is I it's what she did is completely disrespectful, in my opinion, to your husband. 0.94

00:48:39.000 You went on uh not national television, but it's I mean, it's a very popular podcast.

00:48:44.000 And you went out there and just kind of made it seem like your husband doesn't get it.

00:48:48.000 You're you know, he's not he's not you're not you're not fulfilled by being with your husband.

00:48:53.000 And I think that's disrespectful.

00:48:55.000 One, embarrassing to him, too, and I think it's a dangerous thing to say to young women who are watching the show who go, Yeah, I agree. 0.99

00:49:03.000 Look, it's not that great. 0.99

00:49:06.000 It sucks. 0.98

00:49:06.000 She has she has Steph Curry, and she's unhappy. 0.98

00:49:09.000 Right.

00:49:11.000 And then what is it?

00:49:13.000 What happens what happens to those young women? 1.00

00:49:14.000 Right.

00:49:15.000 What how's that influence their life?

00:49:17.000 They go, it's fine.

00:49:18.000 Well, you can see you should see the defense of this, going like, y'all, it's okay that just maybe she wants something different.

00:49:22.000 No, no, it's not okay.

00:49:24.000 It's not okay because they've created children.

00:49:27.000 It's not okay.

00:49:30.000 That's where we differ.

00:49:32.000 And women of this generation, decide which direction you you want to go down. 1.00

00:49:37.000 You can agree with men and what I'm talking about here.

00:49:40.000 And we did have slight disagreements, right?

00:49:41.000 But you can understand.

00:49:42.000 That's not okay.

00:49:43.000 It's never okay.

00:49:44.000 A woman should be judged if she decides to prioritize something above her family. 1.00

00:49:50.000 That includes her husband and children.

00:49:51.000 A man will. 0.54

00:49:52.000 Yep.

00:49:52.000 She should be judged.

00:49:53.000 That's one road to go down.

00:49:55.000 Okay, understand that.

00:49:57.000 Or it's okay.

00:49:58.000 Let's not judge.

00:49:59.000 She can pick something else.

00:50:00.000 All right.

00:50:01.000 One will lead to a relationship if you want to have a family.

00:50:04.000 The other leads to cats.

00:50:06.000 But you have to make that choice.

00:50:07.000 You do have to make that choice.

00:50:09.000 It's you can't expect the family, but also and we can renege if we're not happy.

00:50:13.000 It's okay to want something else.

00:50:14.000 It is not okay.

00:50:16.000 Marriage used to be a contract that said, by the way, nothing else taking priority over this is okay.

00:50:22.000 You understand?

00:50:22.000 This is a non-compete clause.

00:50:26.000 Effectively.

00:50:26.000 That's what it was.

00:50:27.000 And then we said, Oh, or you could just compete and cheat, whatever, and take half.

00:50:30.000 And then there's another question that was asked here on who was more likely to splurge.

00:50:34.000 I don't remember this one.

00:50:35.000 Who is more likely to splurge on a big purchase?

00:50:40.000 Oh, surprise.

00:50:40.000 Me.

00:50:42.000 That is not even a conversation.

00:50:44.000 He's gonna be so proud of it.

00:50:44.000 Good for you.

00:50:47.000 Why the fuck is that good for you? 0.99

00:50:48.000 Like, here's the thing. 0.99

00:50:49.000 Why?

00:50:50.000 Why is that good for you?

00:50:51.000 What's good about that?

00:50:52.000 Well, you're making a moral judgment.

00:50:54.000 Good for you, spending money that you could never earn if you didn't take advantage of the fact that you're the wife of a famous guy and then lament it.

00:51:00.000 What's good about that?

00:51:02.000 Let's just say it's not bad.

00:51:04.000 But what is good about that?

00:51:06.000 I think I'm celebrated.

00:51:08.000 Yeah.

00:51:08.000 What is that like?

00:51:09.000 Good for you.

00:51:10.000 As you should.

00:51:11.000 Like.

00:51:13.000 I'm not saying she shouldn't.

00:51:15.000 Splurge and spend money.

00:51:16.000 You have the money, your husband loves you.

00:51:17.000 Who cares?

00:51:17.000 Okay.

00:51:18.000 Yeah, but at that way good?

00:51:19.000 It's also why do you think it is?

00:51:22.000 This part, this this next part, by the way, is it gets more part.

00:51:26.000 Oh.

00:51:27.000 Yeah, maybe we can go back a couple seconds.

00:51:28.000 Yeah, sorry.

00:51:28.000 Let's play it that way.

00:51:29.000 You got fired up there.

00:51:30.000 Sorry.

00:51:30.000 But I don't understand.

00:51:31.000 Someone can women out there in the sisterhood where you always can you tell me why is that good for you? 1.00

00:51:36.000 Who spends more money frivolously?

00:51:39.000 Amazing!

00:51:39.000 Me?

00:51:40.000 Why?

00:51:42.000 All right, play it.

00:51:44.000 Who is more likely to splurge on a big purchase?

00:51:48.000 Me.

00:51:50.000 That is not even a conversation.

00:51:52.000 Good for you.

00:51:53.000 He's gonna be so proud of me for being honest.

00:51:55.000 True.

00:51:56.000 Will he's gonna be watching this like, yes, babe.

00:51:58.000 Thank you for taking accountability.

00:52:00.000 What is like one of your splurges that you're like, I'm really actually proud of that one.

00:52:05.000 Actually, my ring.

00:52:06.000 So I I reset my ring.

00:52:08.000 I've been staring at it.

00:52:10.000 So that's a good answer.

00:52:12.000 Fun.

00:52:12.000 But I feel like I'll have it forever.

00:52:16.000 That didn't sound forever.

00:52:19.000 Trailing off.

00:52:21.000 Oh, I guess I'll it's forever. 0.99

00:52:24.000 By the way, the big engagement ring is the stupidest thing that's ever it is it is proof positive that um women have very few real friends. 1.00

00:52:36.000 If you like put size of engagement ring into a currency converter, like its metric will be the value of how many friends it pisses off. 0.98

00:52:45.000 That's the only value that it brings, is that it might be bigger or more clear or expensive than your friend's ring.

00:52:52.000 It's of no actual intrinsic value.

00:52:54.000 It's literally just a flex to make other women feel less than. 0.99

00:52:58.000 And that's what she spent the most on.

00:53:04.000 She spent that on her ring, not not staff.

00:53:06.000 Because, well, just like the money, the bank account, the cost, the ring he gave her likely wasn't good enough.

00:53:12.000 I also, well, we'll get to that.

00:53:14.000 I also like that she goes, You'll be so proud of me.

00:53:16.000 Yeah, he's probably watching, like, yes, babe, take accountability.

00:53:19.000 I get that they're talking about that one question, they're being silly, but I highly doubt that he's watching any of this and going, I'm so proud of you for saying all those things to everyone on earth.

00:53:32.000 Right.

00:53:33.000 Yeah.

00:53:34.000 Thanks, babe.

00:53:35.000 You're I'm so proud of you for opening up and telling everyone about how unhappy you are and forever.

00:53:41.000 And you know what else?

00:53:42.000 When she says when someone says, he'll be proud that I'm being honest about something that's relatively inconsequential.

00:53:48.000 It's like when someone, no matter what you ask them, they go, uh, let me tell you the truth, or I'm not gonna lie to you.

00:53:53.000 And they say it all the time.

00:53:54.000 You're like, well, whoa, what were you doing before?

00:53:56.000 You don't say he's gonna be proud of me for telling the truth in this scenario where it doesn't matter.

00:54:00.000 That the subtext there, and I'm not uh I don't want to do the psychoanalyzing, but the subtext there is um he would only be proud of you if the expectation would be somewhat that you wouldn't tell the truth.

00:54:12.000 Meaning he would be proud of you for telling the truth because it might be something unique or an outlier.

00:54:19.000 You're not proud of someone for telling the truth on something inconsequential if they tell the truth all the time.

00:54:23.000 That's just par for the course.

00:54:24.000 Just like someone who tells you the truth doesn't always need to say, I'm not gonna lie to you.

00:54:29.000 They just answer.

00:54:31.000 So uh this is just I mean.

00:54:35.000 Okay, ring's not enough.

00:54:37.000 Hey, is there sentimental value?

00:54:38.000 Oh, yeah.

00:54:39.000 Well, here's the other thing, too.

00:54:40.000 I know you you brought this up.

00:54:41.000 This was good good recall.

00:54:42.000 Here she is in 2019 pretending to take off her wedding ring in front of some shirtless dude on TV.

00:54:48.000 Thank you.

00:55:14.000 Guarantee you, if he did that, that'd be grounds for divorce.

00:55:16.000 I mean, I get it.

00:55:17.000 I saw that guy, and I am that guy who would give his left nut to be Steph Curry. 1.00

00:55:25.000 It just never What do you think would happen if a guy was doing that because some hot shit came in and waved her tits and just I'll tell you exactly what it is. 1.00

00:55:34.000 Oh, if I had done that on national television, even as a joke doing stand-up comedy. 1.00

00:55:39.000 Yeah.

00:55:39.000 If I did that in the comedy special, it would break my wife's heart.

00:55:42.000 Oh, of course it would.

00:55:43.000 Yeah, I I'm not even gonna talk about her actions afterwards.

00:55:45.000 It would just straight up regardless of what she does about it, it would break her heart.

00:55:50.000 Yeah.

00:55:51.000 That I made that joke.

00:55:52.000 That's not even like playful flirting.

00:55:54.000 In other words, if she just went like, oh, something like okay, sure, fine.

00:55:58.000 Taking off, like you went to the nuclear option, taking off your wedding ring.

00:56:02.000 If I was Steph, I would have walked out there and been like, here, let me help you with that.

00:56:05.000 Yes, exactly.

00:56:06.000 Then he's I'll take it with me.

00:56:10.000 And I'll tell you, you know, and then but that's this stuff gets chalked up to they'll go, oh well, Steph, you know what?

00:56:16.000 Steph Curry hasn't a problem with you.

00:56:17.000 Steph Craig hasn't a problem.

00:56:17.000 You guys are complaining.

00:56:18.000 He's a he's very secure in his relationship and his masculinity.

00:56:21.000 He's very secure.

00:56:23.000 Or he could be held hostage.

00:56:24.000 So then that gets used against everybody else?

00:56:25.000 Yeah.

00:56:26.000 He could be held hostage.

00:56:27.000 Oh, you're insecure.

00:56:28.000 Steph Curry does it. 1.00

00:56:28.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:56:30.000 People like Steph Curry don't care. 1.00

00:56:33.000 So?

00:56:34.000 Or maybe he's honoring a commitment that she seems um very likely to break because he's the man of integrity who she chose to marry, but it's not enough.

00:56:42.000 Maybe that's what it is.

00:56:43.000 Guarantee you.

00:56:45.000 And he would say the opposite, because he wouldn't want to dishonor her.

00:56:48.000 Guarantee you he's not happy.

00:56:50.000 People equate tolerate with don't care.

00:56:52.000 Those are two very different words.

00:56:54.000 Guarantee you.

00:56:55.000 Guarantee you what he read in his uh his uh the notes on his draft.

00:57:00.000 Guarantee you that bothered him.

00:57:02.000 Guarantee you her taking off her wedding ring bothers him.

00:57:06.000 Guarantee you her saying that, you know, I didn't really know that he's famous and don't really care, bothers him.

00:57:12.000 Guarantee you he wants someone in his corner.

00:57:13.000 And people say, if people say, why do you hate women? 1.00

00:57:15.000 No, no, no, no.

00:57:16.000 No one here hates anybody.

00:57:17.000 But I will say I have a problem with um most women in the public eye. 1.00

00:57:21.000 And that includes covert feminists on the right. 1.00

00:57:23.000 And I sent this to my woman, and her response when she watched it was just evil.

00:57:29.000 She said, evil.

00:57:31.000 Men out there, make sure that the woman who you're considering to put a ring on. 1.00

00:57:36.000 If you want to make sure she doesn't just take it off for the next Chippendales guy who walks by, make sure without prompting from you, she responds with, that's evil. 1.00

00:57:44.000 And I'll give you another example.

00:57:45.000 I know exactly what would happen.

00:57:47.000 Again, coming from my woman, because she was reading about uh uh Martha Stewart, the bio like a biography.

00:57:51.000 Yeah.

00:57:52.000 And uh started off kind of liking her.

00:57:54.000 Like she was really interested in being a homemaker and then and then uh hated her because she read like she's like and her husband uh you know ended up cheating on her and she left him, and I was like, what a peace.

00:58:04.000 She goes, but then I read they went to Europe for five months, and she was in a cathedral and she was inspired, and she talks about making out with a guy, six four for like five minutes.

00:58:18.000 I think in a I I'm getting half of this, right?

00:58:19.000 But in a cathedral, I believe, during her honeymoon.

00:58:24.000 She cheated during her honeymoon and then left the guy for and by the way, if a lot of people.

00:58:29.000 Doesn't get worse than that.

00:58:30.000 I mean, how he couldn't make it a day.

00:58:34.000 Yeah.

00:58:36.000 See, on their honeymoon.

00:58:36.000 Yeah.

00:58:38.000 And here's the other thing.

00:58:40.000 Are you willing to bet that a woman who would make out with a guy and also take the 10 right and he was 6'4 and really hot and go, are you willing to bet that maybe that woman wasn't putting out for the guy, which might have something to do with the fact that he sought that physical affection elsewhere?

00:58:53.000 Doesn't justify it, but why are we just skimming past on her honeymoon with another guy?

00:59:00.000 She barely made it further than Hitler. 0.91

00:59:03.000 What was it?

00:59:04.000 He married Ava Braun that day and then killed himself.

00:59:06.000 What was it?

00:59:07.000 It was very, it was very soon.

00:59:07.000 Something like that.

00:59:09.000 He still had the wedding cans on his car.

00:59:11.000 Yeah.

00:59:12.000 The whole joke was that they uh, you know, he killed himself because he couldn't take his wife. 1.00

00:59:16.000 He switched just married to just catch this bitch. 1.00

00:59:21.000 Hey, take my wife. 1.00

00:59:23.000 Take my wife to the chambers, please. 0.97

00:59:25.000 Well, he didn't cheat, though.

00:59:27.000 Well, that's one way to look at it.

00:59:30.000 Yeah, they just they just sent in the article and it reads, he didn't know I was married.

00:59:30.000 Sure.

00:59:35.000 Oh.

00:59:35.000 Well, our problem isn't with him.

00:59:37.000 No, I know.

00:59:38.000 That's my point.

00:59:39.000 That's my point.

00:59:40.000 She took advantage of that guy on top of it. 1.00

00:59:42.000 You know who did know they were married?

00:59:43.000 Uh her husband.

00:59:44.000 Yeah.

00:59:45.000 And you.

00:59:46.000 He was quite excited about it.

00:59:47.000 He was.

00:59:48.000 How do you cheat on your honeymoon?

00:59:50.000 Where's the you how far out?

00:59:53.000 How long are you?

00:59:55.000 Sorry, I this is blowing my mind.

00:59:56.000 Well, she married security. 0.99

00:59:58.000 She married him for security, and she found a guy that was hot that she was sexually attracted to.

01:00:02.000 Yeah, but how where'd she find a few minutes?

01:00:04.000 She didn't make a bond with them.

01:00:05.000 At the honeymoon, it's like that's that's like where you're like, we we it's the clo that's oh my god.

01:00:11.000 Okay, sorry.

01:00:12.000 Married people equate their honeymoon to that was when we were the closest.

01:00:15.000 That was our most intimate moment.

01:00:17.000 That we couldn't be separated from each other.

01:00:19.000 We were attached at the hip.

01:00:21.000 Where did she find at least five minutes?

01:00:25.000 Yeah.

01:00:25.000 To find a guy to make out who is it?

01:00:29.000 Where did you infidelity? 1.00

01:00:31.000 Was he taking a shit? 1.00

01:00:32.000 It's a good thing. 1.00

01:00:33.000 Research sent in, they they pointed out, they asked her, was it naughty or was it infidelity?

01:00:38.000 And she said it was neither naughty nor unfaithful.

01:00:41.000 I it was just emotional of the moment.

01:00:43.000 That's how I looked at it.

01:00:45.000 Well, yes, sometimes you get emotional and you just bang the cow guy. 0.94

01:00:53.000 Zero accountability. 1.00

01:00:55.000 But what a piece of shit that he cheated years years later. 1.00

01:00:58.000 How much do you want to bet that he put up with so much crap? 1.00

01:01:02.000 Well, that's just the one she told uh the public about. 0.99

01:01:06.000 Take those paternity tests.

01:01:07.000 Yeah.

01:01:09.000 And the irony too is if uh Steph Curry's wife, she she wants something different.

01:01:15.000 Yeah, she could get it with his money.

01:01:17.000 Yeah.

01:01:17.000 A thousand times.

01:01:18.000 That's a great point.

01:01:19.000 A thousand times she did this. 0.98

01:01:21.000 If she made She had to have because if she first of all, she's famous and successful, and she has her own show and people work for her and people adore her and all this.

01:01:29.000 So she's got access to people who definitely are interested.

01:01:32.000 Yeah.

01:01:33.000 Um, she did this on her honeymoon, couldn't wait a day to be making out with somebody else, and then didn't even look at it as cheating. 0.99

01:01:40.000 How many other people did she not cheat with?

01:01:42.000 A thousand.

01:01:43.000 Yeah, exactly.

01:01:44.000 Oh, I doubt come on.

01:01:46.000 I jerked off the light guy.

01:01:48.000 I run rubber painting.

01:01:49.000 It was just an emotional, he was he gave me great lighting on the set, so I thought I'd give him a reward.

01:01:54.000 Stop being so insecure.

01:01:55.000 Rimming the key grip is a good thing.

01:01:58.000 Yeah.

01:02:00.000 I was the key grip that night.

01:02:05.000 Uh uh, like I this is if we don't solve this, uh, Western civilization is doomed because it relates to birth rates, it relates to strong communities, having strong families.

01:02:16.000 Uh every statistic that you look at, you know, the older people get if they're married and have kids, the more conservative they are.

01:02:22.000 Um, the more they value their faith, their family, their freedom.

01:02:25.000 And I just see fewer and fewer young men uh signing up to get married when they look at the supposed Christian couple and a guy who has done everything right with the Curries, and uh it's this simple.

01:02:38.000 Look, women, if you understand like why are men, why are men are so angry?

01:02:42.000 She might have her reasons.

01:02:43.000 I'm just I'm not I don't need to listen to you right now.

01:02:46.000 I'm telling you.

01:02:48.000 Young men watch this and go, okay, I don't want that.

01:02:54.000 They watch it, go, you can do everything right, and this can still happen.

01:02:58.000 And then let's say she let's say she pulls a Martha Stewart, cheats on him and leaves him. 1.00

01:03:02.000 What happens?

01:03:03.000 She gets half and he loses his kids.

01:03:06.000 I'm not signing up.

01:03:08.000 So if you want any marriages to take place in the future, you need to change.

01:03:12.000 And you also need to actually link arms and try and change uh divorce law. 0.99

01:03:16.000 Divorce needs to be very difficult.

01:03:19.000 It used to be because we tried to discourage it.

01:03:21.000 Needs to be very, very difficult in this country again.

01:03:24.000 So that people, if they won't honor their commitments willingly, are forced to.

01:03:30.000 Because I'm telling you this young men are gonna see this and go, I'm gonna be I'm I am not getting tricked with that.

01:03:37.000 And I hear it, and as a Christian male, it's hard to argue against it because it's everywhere.

01:03:43.000 And the justification.

01:03:46.000 But she wants something else.

01:03:47.000 Okay.

01:03:48.000 Then don't expect marriage and don't expect a family.

01:03:51.000 It's that simple.

01:03:52.000 It's just and it really is.

01:03:54.000 It's heartbreaking.

01:03:55.000 And this guy, I guarantee, and rightfully so.

01:03:57.000 If he probably won't, but if Steph Cray were to watch us and say, hey, and I can't believe that Dick said that about my wife. 1.00

01:04:02.000 And uh if I if I see him in the street, it's gonna be on site.

01:04:05.000 You know what?

01:04:05.000 I would say, hey, he's doing his job.

01:04:08.000 Absolutely.

01:04:09.000 And I wouldn't blame him.

01:04:11.000 I also know that he can't say what it is that he's really struggling with.

01:04:16.000 Guarantee you he has some problems with it.

01:04:19.000 And if not, just read the comment section.

01:04:21.000 All the other men out there.

01:04:23.000 Seriously, ask a man.

01:04:25.000 If everyone ask a man if he's hesitant to get married and and what are the biggest roadblocks to marriage and commitment.

01:04:33.000 Ask him.

01:04:34.000 Ask him, not about what you want.

01:04:37.000 Ask what it is that men expect.

01:04:39.000 And then ask yourself, what's your duty?

01:04:41.000 Both of you have duties.

01:04:43.000 Steph Curry's duty is to provide, to protect, to lay down his life for his family, to love his family.

01:04:48.000 He has to balance how he provides for his family and the time he spends with his family.

01:04:52.000 That is something that all men have to do. 0.99

01:04:54.000 Her duty is to make the house a home. 1.00

01:04:58.000 Her duty is to make the house a home and to support that man who is has a a a singular gift that seems I I mean you said he might be the best ever.

01:05:08.000 I don't follow basketball, but I know how good he is.

01:05:10.000 He's one of the best, if not the best, three-point shooter of all time.

01:05:12.000 11-time All-Star.

01:05:15.000 He's very good.

01:05:16.000 He's yeah, top five shooters of all time.

01:05:18.000 Here's a good rule of thumb.

01:05:19.000 If you can't do what he does, support him so that he can do.

01:05:24.000 I said it in a way that you might understand.

01:05:25.000 We'll see you on Monday.

01:05:27.000 There are more black and white and the gray issues coming next week.

Louder with Crowder - October 11, 2025

Toxic Feminism: Crowder Breaks Down Ayesha Curry’s Insane Call Her Daddy Interview

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