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#314 — The Cancellation of J.K. Rowling


Summary

J.K. Rowling has been accused of being anti-transphobic and anti-feminist, but does she have a case to defend? In this episode of the podcast, I speak with Megan Phelps-Roper about her new podcast series, The Witch Trials of J. K. Rowling, a look at the controversy that has subsumed the life of the world s most famous and beloved author, and how it intersects with women s rights, free speech, and other things we value. And I take her side in a very direct way, far more directly than Megan does, and I don t want to mislead anyone about the series she's produced, because it's far more balanced and judicious than the conversation I have with her here, at least my side of it, which is much more nuanced and nuanced than the one you'll find in this episode. In fact, there's no better case in which to witness the excesses of transphobia than the case of the one that has gotten her into hot water: the one about which she's written and produced a podcast series. And it's not even close to being on the cutting edge of the conversation, and that's what makes it so difficult to separate fact from fiction, and what it really means to be a feminist in the 21st century. This is an episode that will pitch me with both feet into the topics of trans rights and trans activism, and the ways in which they collide with women's rights and free speech. and the rights of women and girls and in this case, and . The Making Sense by Megan Phelps Roper of the Free Press a podcast produced by Barry Weiss, Nellie Bowles, and Nelli Bowles . . . and the work by Barry and Nelle Bowles at The Free Press, a podcast by Nelli Weiss, and their team at The New York Times writer and editor-in-chief at The Huffington Post, and by The New Republic, and all of their friends at The Daily Beast, Barry Weiss and Barry Weiss & Weiss. We don't run ads on the podcast because we don t run ads, and therefore it's made possible entirely through the support of our subscribers only through the efforts of our listeners, and because we're made possible by our subscribers, not by ads. Thanks to you, the listeners, we're making sense, and we re making sense.


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00:00:46.480 Welcome to the Making Sense Podcast.
00:00:48.840 This is Sam Harris.
00:00:51.620 Okay.
00:00:52.140 Well, today I'm speaking with Megan Phelps-Roper about a podcast series she's produced over
00:00:58.760 at the Free Press, which is the media platform that Barry Weiss and Nellie Bowles and a few
00:01:04.760 others have created.
00:01:06.260 And really, the purpose of this podcast is to bring your attention to it.
00:01:09.820 It's a wonderful series titled The Witch Trials of J.K. Rowling.
00:01:14.200 And if you haven't heard about the controversy that has subsumed the life of J.K. Rowling,
00:01:21.800 Megan and I will explain it.
00:01:23.900 But suffice it to say, this is an episode of the podcast that will pitch me with both feet
00:01:28.940 onto the topics of trans rights and trans activism and the way in which they collide with women's
00:01:38.340 rights and free speech and other things we value.
00:01:43.500 Given how combustible this subject is, I think I need to say a few things at the outset, some
00:01:50.600 of which I say in my conversation with Megan.
00:01:53.560 First, I have no doubt that gender dysphoria is a real phenomenon, which is to say that some
00:01:59.340 people feel that they have been more or less born into the wrong body and are made powerfully
00:02:06.340 unhappy by that discovery and want to transition to one or another degree in their gender identity
00:02:14.900 and perhaps use hormone treatments and or surgeries to accomplish that.
00:02:20.400 I have no doubt that in many cases this predicament is all too real.
00:02:25.880 And in those cases, these medical interventions should be available to people.
00:02:31.420 And I think it should go without saying that their political rights should be protected.
00:02:36.340 So, at least in my own mind, there is nothing that I think or feel or articulate in this podcast
00:02:43.800 that I believe is a symptom of transphobia, much less bigotry against trans people.
00:02:51.680 The problem, however, is that believing these things and being morally and politically committed
00:02:58.120 to them does not resolve all of the difficult questions.
00:03:02.720 There are cases where the rights of trans people seem in direct opposition to the rights of
00:03:11.040 women and girls.
00:03:12.760 And acknowledging that fact is what has gotten J.K.
00:03:15.640 Rowling into such hot water.
00:03:18.400 What's more, there are troubling signs that the increase in gender dysphoria is not a matter
00:03:25.060 of our simply discovering how many people in the world suffer this condition and have been closeted
00:03:32.280 in the face of widespread intolerance.
00:03:35.780 Rather, there's considerable evidence of social contagion, especially among teenage girls.
00:03:41.660 So, insofar as social contagion is an element here, that adds an additional reason to be circumspect
00:03:48.800 before recommending irreversible medical interventions to teenagers.
00:03:55.040 So, all of this has to be talked about compassionately and reasonably, and even with the best of intentions,
00:04:02.800 there are no guarantees that there won't be corner cases that entail real trade-offs.
00:04:09.520 And J.K. Rowling's commentary on this topic has more or less lurched toward those.
00:04:15.240 Now, as I say in this podcast, I take her side in a very direct way, far more directly than
00:04:21.460 Megan does, and I don't want to mislead anyone about the series she's produced.
00:04:28.220 It's far more balanced and judicious than the conversation I have with her here, at least
00:04:35.700 my side of it.
00:04:37.260 Because to my eye, J.K.
00:04:38.980 Rowling has been attacked quite unfairly by people who have been made hysterical,
00:04:45.240 under the influence of a political cult.
00:04:48.920 This is of a piece with what I think about wokeness generally, and there really is no
00:04:53.860 better case in which to witness these excesses than the case of J.K.
00:04:58.740 Rowling.
00:04:59.640 Here's a clip from Megan's podcast.
00:05:02.460 Can you talk to me about some of the threats that you've received over the past few years?
00:05:07.140 There have been a lot, a huge amount, as every woman will know who speaks up on this issue,
00:05:14.600 a huge amount of, I want her to choke on my fat trans dick.
00:05:18.580 You know, like very sexualized abuse.
00:05:21.820 Well, I don't think all of them mean it literally, but attempts to degrade, to humiliate, people
00:05:28.480 might say, well, that's not really a threat.
00:05:29.980 And, you know what, up to a point, you're probably right, though it's very unpleasant
00:05:34.680 to be on the receiving end of it, particularly in the quantities I've had it.
00:05:38.560 Then I have had direct threats of violence, and I have had people coming to my house where
00:05:46.020 my kids live, and I've had my address posted online.
00:05:49.160 I've had what the police, anyway, would regard as credible threats.
00:05:53.400 The pushback is often, you are wealthy, you can afford security, you haven't been silenced.
00:06:00.560 All true, right?
00:06:01.720 All of that's true.
00:06:03.180 But I think that misses the point.
00:06:05.820 The attempt to intimidate and silence me is meant to serve as a warning to other women.
00:06:10.980 And I say that because I have seen it used that way.
00:06:14.160 I have seen other women, and other women have told me, I literally had someone say this
00:06:18.380 to me the other day, I was told, look, look what happened to J.K. Rowling.
00:06:22.540 Watch yourself.
00:06:24.300 The purpose of this episode, and the purpose of Megan's series, isn't to produce any final
00:06:30.600 verdict on the ethical and political questions that this topic raises.
00:06:35.800 It really is limited to carving out the space for a rational, compassionate conversation.
00:06:43.840 And this is something that the activists on the far left and the far right have, until
00:06:49.640 this moment, made impossible.
00:06:51.360 So, for better or worse, I bring you Megan Phelps Roper and The Witch Trials of J.K. Rowling.
00:06:58.620 I am here with Megan Phelps Roper.
00:07:07.060 Megan, thanks for joining me again.
00:07:08.940 So excited to be here, Sam.
00:07:10.080 Thank you.
00:07:10.500 So, you have done this, you've created this amazing podcast series, The Witch Trials of J.K.
00:07:17.700 Rowling.
00:07:18.660 And you've done this for the Free Press, which is Barry Weiss's new media property, which
00:07:26.420 is, you know, I'm very excited about.
00:07:28.660 People can find out more about that at thefp.com, T-H-E-F-P.com.
00:07:37.320 And this is a, I mean, she has her own podcast, honestly, but you have created this podcast
00:07:42.120 along with Andy Mills.
00:07:44.160 And I don't know if there's anyone else you need to credit there, but you're the woman
00:07:49.660 on the mic.
00:07:51.040 And we're going to talk about all of it.
00:07:54.420 So, who else?
00:07:56.140 Do you have any other collaborators here you need to acknowledge?
00:07:59.300 Yeah.
00:07:59.960 Yeah.
00:08:00.220 My friend, Matthew Bull.
00:08:01.900 He is.
00:08:02.740 Yeah.
00:08:02.880 I'm just really, I feel like I got really lucked out here working with two of, I think,
00:08:07.720 the best in the podcasting business, Andy Mills and Matt Bull.
00:08:10.720 Yeah, they're really wonderful.
00:08:12.520 And actually, I met Andy because of your show.
00:08:16.480 Because, you know, when I did your show back in 2015, he was working at Radiolab.
00:08:22.240 And we really quickly bonded over our, you know, shared history in, you know, being raised
00:08:27.380 in Christian fundamentalism.
00:08:29.580 And Matt also shares that history.
00:08:31.500 So, it's been, you know, amazing to finally work with them on something that has a lot
00:08:36.480 of parallels with our upbringing.
00:08:39.080 And Barry and Andy are both refugees from the New York Times.
00:08:41.800 Is Matt also a New York Times refugee or not?
00:08:45.160 No, actually.
00:08:46.060 He worked at Gimlet and then at Spotify.
00:08:48.640 So, yeah, lots of history in podcasting and elite media spaces.
00:08:53.880 Yeah.
00:08:54.340 Well, it really shows.
00:08:55.440 This is a highly produced series.
00:08:58.820 I mean, it's completely unlike a podcast of the sort I produce.
00:09:04.200 You have a ton of archival audio, which is fascinating.
00:09:08.760 So, it's just this very layered document.
00:09:11.380 And you are really the perfect person to have done this.
00:09:15.660 I mean, you know, your voice is fantastic.
00:09:18.180 As I think some people recognize, you've not only been on this podcast before, but you are
00:09:22.460 the voiceover actress for the Essentials series that Jay Shapiro produced on the basis of my
00:09:28.740 podcast archive.
00:09:30.240 And so, your voice is fantastic.
00:09:31.980 But as we will remind people, you have this very unique background, which I think made you
00:09:37.840 the perfect person to interview J.K. Rowling.
00:09:41.580 And I think she more or less acknowledges it in the series.
00:09:46.100 I mean, you can just see that she's really able to open up to you, given your background.
00:09:52.260 So, I think before we jump into the series itself, remind people how far you've come,
00:09:58.660 because it is a surprising backstory.
00:10:01.620 Yeah.
00:10:01.920 So, I grew up in the Westboro Baptist Church.
00:10:04.840 You know, I was born and raised there.
00:10:06.020 We started protesting when I was five years old, and I was a true believer.
00:10:11.420 You know, I was surrounded by people, you know, a very loving, very involved family,
00:10:17.540 highly educated, very logical, analytical people, who were just absolutely persuaded
00:10:23.000 that their understanding of the Bible was the one true understanding.
00:10:29.760 And so, we went around the country sharing this message of, essentially, you have to obey
00:10:35.860 God, or you will be cursed by God in this life, and then spend hell and eternity.
00:10:41.480 And the strength of our belief, our certainty in those beliefs, led us to do all kinds of
00:10:48.260 really horrible, and to justify all kinds of really horrible, cruel things.
00:10:53.980 I think maybe that some of the most extreme things that people are aware of is the protesting
00:10:58.520 at funerals, funerals of AIDS victims, funerals of soldiers killed in Iraq and Afghanistan.
00:11:03.800 And then also, you know, praying for horrible things to happen to people.
00:11:10.240 And we did this believing that what we were doing was, you know, in spreading the truth
00:11:15.400 of God, this was the exemplar of love.
00:11:18.820 This is the very definition of what it means to love other people.
00:11:22.960 And so, it obviously gave me the understanding that people can do really horrible things with
00:11:30.920 the very best of intentions.
00:11:32.440 You can have all, you know, seem to have all of the tools that you would need to live a
00:11:36.780 good life, and still, because of the strength of your beliefs, end up doing really horrible
00:11:43.080 things.
00:11:43.560 Well, before we jump into the series, I think I'm just going to recommend that people pause
00:11:49.860 this episode and subscribe to it so that it's waiting for them in their podcast app after
00:11:56.780 they're done listening to us, so they can find it under the title, The Witch Trials of J.K.
00:12:01.420 Rowling.
00:12:02.280 And you've released six episodes at this point.
00:12:06.180 How many are in the series?
00:12:07.580 There's seven in the main part of the series, but we will be back with an epilogue in about
00:12:11.960 a month, and then we're weighing whether to release, we recorded, you know, dozens of
00:12:20.520 interviews at this point, and some of them, many of them, were extremely moving, and there
00:12:27.120 just wasn't space for them in the series, because as you say, like, we are trying to
00:12:30.340 cover an awful lot of ground in a relatively short amount of time, and so we're thinking
00:12:35.340 about sharing some of those other interviews later for people who want to go a little deeper
00:12:40.020 into some of the things that we discuss in the show.
00:12:43.180 How many hours of audio did you get with Rowling?
00:12:46.380 About nine, over the course of, I took two trips to Scotland, and so we recorded with
00:12:52.100 her over the course of four days.
00:12:54.380 I have one editorial note or piece of advice for listeners.
00:12:58.820 I think that episode two is probably going to be the least interesting to most people.
00:13:04.760 This is where you get into the history of the Christian backlash to the Harry Potter series,
00:13:10.640 which was, I mean, it's fascinating for me, and it's a very interesting context to what's
00:13:15.500 happening now.
00:13:16.220 It's just, and it is one of the ways in which you were so well qualified to be reaching out
00:13:21.760 to Rowling, because you come from the Christian right, and you understand the kind of the other
00:13:26.740 side of the fanaticism that was aiming to cancel her.
00:13:30.280 But, um, I think some number of people will bog down in episode two, so I just, I want
00:13:35.520 to admonish our listeners, if you listen to episode one, and you love it, and you start
00:13:39.760 to get antsy in episode two, do not abort the series, just press on to episode three and
00:13:46.040 four, because, I mean, this is just, it's a truly fascinating document.
00:13:51.080 There's so much that is driving our culture fairly mad at this moment that is, that can
00:13:58.120 be seen, you know, through the lens of this topic, and, and, you know, measured by what
00:14:04.160 has happened to Rowling, you know, personally.
00:14:07.320 So, let's turn to that now.
00:14:08.780 Let's just talk about...
00:14:09.880 Well, can I just defend episode two for a second?
00:14:12.060 Yeah, no, I mean, I don't, I can just tell you...
00:14:14.060 I totally, I know, I'm with you.
00:14:16.280 No, no, don't get me wrong, I, I, I, I loved it, but I just, I know that...
00:14:21.000 Yeah, some people...
00:14:21.920 I know the experience of listening to three and four, and it's, I don't want anyone to
00:14:26.500 get off the ride before they hit three and four.
00:14:28.900 Yeah, for sure.
00:14:29.800 It's really funny, because too, a lot of people think, you know, like, like what you thought,
00:14:34.580 like that, that, that maybe we are on a digression here.
00:14:38.180 And in fact, I think so many of the things that we hear about, you know, first of all,
00:14:42.800 a lot of people just love that, you know, kind of refresher on the 90s.
00:14:46.920 It's really fun, I think, for a lot of us to go back and remember some of those things
00:14:51.020 and, you know, through the lens of the present and, and to realize that so many of the things
00:14:55.640 that we see, you know, part of the culture war right now have their origins in the 1990s.
00:15:01.480 And seeing the echoes of those things, I think is, is really fascinating.
00:15:05.240 And it was really interesting to go back and recognize that like the Christians, it's easy
00:15:09.880 to look at the Christians in, you know, the late 90s and the early 2000s who were, as you
00:15:14.520 say, trying to cancel J.K. Rowling, like part of this backlash where they are burning her
00:15:18.120 books, you know, they become one of the most banned books, according to the American Library
00:15:22.340 Association.
00:15:23.400 And so they're, they're kind of a constant target.
00:15:24.980 And you say, oh, these are just religious fanatics.
00:15:27.300 But when you actually look at, at the culture and what was happening at the time, it makes
00:15:31.820 a lot more sense.
00:15:33.060 And it's, it's kind of trying to help us understand that, you know, we are still today, we're doing
00:15:38.620 the same thing.
00:15:39.140 We, we are human beings responding to the context and the society in which we are living.
00:15:45.040 And to just, to not look at people and recognize the context in which they are, where they're
00:15:51.520 having these reactions, it's short-sighted.
00:15:54.640 Yeah.
00:15:55.040 Yeah.
00:15:55.340 And I mean, you're talking to people who thought that witchcraft was real, right?
00:16:00.660 I mean, they want to cancel her because they believe in witchcraft and they think that her
00:16:05.460 books somehow advocate for it and you, and you have, you know, the president of the United
00:16:11.420 States, George Bush, denying her some, I forget which award it was, but they, you know, the
00:16:17.720 White House didn't want JK Rowling to get some award because George Bush was concerned that,
00:16:23.280 that she was advocating witchcraft in her, in her books.
00:16:27.680 I mean, it's just incredible.
00:16:29.020 But anyway, I, I stand by this admonishment because I, I, I'm with you.
00:16:32.760 I've seen a few people kind of get bumped just, I had to drag a few people to episode
00:16:37.940 three after they, they got bogged down in episode two.
00:16:41.120 And, and, you know, one was a teenager who, um, you know, really did need to hear this
00:16:45.680 whole series.
00:16:46.920 So let's talk about what's happening to Rowling.
00:16:50.780 How would you, well, actually just one question about the Christian piece of it.
00:16:56.100 Do you remember what your reaction was to the Harry Potter series?
00:17:00.320 Was it on your radar in, when you were in the Westboro Baptist church?
00:17:05.140 Yeah, definitely.
00:17:05.780 And it's actually kind of, kind of funny because my family was not part of that backlash at
00:17:11.080 all.
00:17:11.540 You know, we, we targeted people for a lot of things, but my dad is the one who brought
00:17:17.480 home the first Harry Potter book and insisted that I read it.
00:17:20.540 He thought that I would love it.
00:17:21.820 So he's an elder in the church and, you know, we saw it, this is just fiction.
00:17:25.780 And I remember thinking that the people who were upset about it were, you know, are they,
00:17:30.440 are they dumb?
00:17:30.960 Do they not understand what fiction is?
00:17:32.800 So it was, it was really, this is actually one of the things that was so interesting to
00:17:36.420 me when, when Andy Mills first called me about this, you know, a little over two years ago
00:17:41.800 now.
00:17:42.340 And he, he reminded me about that, that original, that Christian backlash to JK Rowling.
00:17:47.400 And we got off the phone and I immediately started researching that and going back and, you
00:17:51.860 know, looking at it, you know, with, with, with fresh eyes and it was really, really fascinating
00:17:57.520 the language that they used.
00:17:59.280 And, and anyway, sorry, I don't want me to digress too far, but, but we didn't participate
00:18:03.960 in that at all.
00:18:05.000 I, we were major fans, like my siblings, I'm the third of 11 and we passed those books around
00:18:11.020 and discussed them endlessly.
00:18:12.500 And I actually, you know, I, I included this in my letter to JK Rowling.
00:18:17.840 The fact that I was standing on the picket line, balancing these like massive books because
00:18:23.320 I was such a fan.
00:18:25.040 I didn't want to, I didn't want to quit reading.
00:18:27.140 So yeah, we didn't, we didn't participate in that.
00:18:29.900 Okay.
00:18:30.200 So JK Rowling is, um, I think it's, it really is not, it's strange to say it, but it's,
00:18:37.220 it is not an exaggeration to say, I mean, I think it is literally true to say that she's
00:18:43.260 probably the most successful and most beloved author in my lifetime in the English language.
00:18:50.820 I mean, I just, I don't, I don't know who could stand a chance of being in first position
00:18:55.420 if it's not her.
00:18:56.720 I mean, I can't think of any other author for whom, you know, bookstores need to open at
00:19:01.820 midnight.
00:19:02.580 So lines of hundreds of children, you know, on her pub date.
00:19:06.640 And, you know, there are literally theme parks opened in celebration of her, her characters.
00:19:14.100 I mean, it's just, you know, so there, she's really one without a second as an author.
00:19:18.920 So she was uniquely placed to weather the storm that has been directed at her.
00:19:25.400 And I think it's, it's also safe to say that a lesser author, you know, even a, just a normal
00:19:30.220 bestselling author would have completely lost their career over what has happened to her.
00:19:35.860 So the fact that she's still standing and is, you know, relatively unscathed, I mean, we'll
00:19:40.520 get into the details of just what has happened to her personally and professionally.
00:19:44.960 But, you know, it's, if anyone looks at her case and thinks, you know, you can draw the
00:19:49.240 lesson that, you know, there is no such thing as being canceled because look, she's still
00:19:53.300 doing her thing.
00:19:54.580 I mean, I don't, I don't know who else could have survived what's gone on with, with her
00:19:59.460 professionally.
00:20:00.560 And what it is, it's something like a, you know, we just had a, you know, famous or a couple
00:20:05.580 of famous runs on banks here in the U S and, and, you know, we're recording now when the
00:20:11.440 instability of our financial system is still everywhere in the news.
00:20:14.720 And I do view this, you know, what's happened to her in particular on social media as a kind
00:20:20.300 of bank run on a person's reputation.
00:20:22.600 You know, it achieves a certain contagious hysteria and then it becomes a kind of self-fulfilling
00:20:31.680 process where, because everyone is criticizing this person, because everyone is defecting,
00:20:37.580 everyone is, you know, washing their hands of the person who's come under the focus of
00:20:42.820 the mob.
00:20:43.500 It becomes harder and harder for anyone to defend him or her.
00:20:49.840 It's just, it becomes, you know, reputationally too toxic to even be associated with the phenomenon.
00:20:55.780 And it's a, you know, you're using the obvious analogy of, of a witch burning, but the speed
00:21:02.180 and crown dynamics of it, it really does remind me of a, of a run on a bank.
00:21:06.580 And, you know, this is, you know, she, reputationally, she was a very big bank.
00:21:10.940 I mean, I really think the biggest, and so she has, she is still solvent, but it really
00:21:15.620 has been amazing to witness.
00:21:17.680 And, um, first, why did you want to make this series and how would you describe what has
00:21:23.420 happened to J.K.
00:21:24.500 Rowling?
00:21:25.300 So we wanted to make this series to investigate the, I mean, cause obviously when you look at
00:21:31.680 just her history, you know, she has been an absolute force in the culture for, you know,
00:21:37.560 more than two decades at this point.
00:21:39.640 And the world has changed so much during that time.
00:21:43.440 So in witch trials, we are using her story as a way of exploring those changes.
00:21:48.880 And, you know, we're investigating these two very vocal backlashes that she's faced, you
00:21:54.500 know, first from the Christian right, as we talked about, and then now from the, you know,
00:21:57.780 progressive left who accused her of transphobia.
00:21:59.880 And it's really not about shaming or blaming people for being angry with her or vehemently
00:22:06.640 disagreeing with her or, you know, condemning her.
00:22:09.160 And it's not about proving that she's right.
00:22:11.600 It's really about trying to understand where people on all sides of this conflict are coming
00:22:17.100 from, you know, in a scrupulously good faith way.
00:22:21.100 I mean, and I can just explain just a little bit more, like anybody who's followed this
00:22:27.200 conversation at any depth, I would say, because at the very beginning, I was watching, you
00:22:32.580 know, I saw those tweets, you know, first in December of 2019, and then in June of 2020.
00:22:38.620 When she started to weigh in on sex and gender, I had very little frame of reference for that
00:22:44.960 conversation in general.
00:22:46.360 And then, and just specifically, like why it ignited such a firestorm.
00:22:51.040 I'm reading her tweets and trying to understand why, you know, a criticism of using the phrase
00:22:57.860 people who menstruate is causing people to respond that she, that JK Rowling is calling for the
00:23:04.340 genocide of trans people.
00:23:06.500 And so I just, I was coming from a place of relative ignorance.
00:23:09.580 Like, I don't understand what's happening here and really wanting to understand.
00:23:13.900 And I think her story just touches on so many of, again, of these changes, like the changes
00:23:20.840 in the internet over the past 20 years, you know, initially people saw it as this, you
00:23:25.840 know, kind of maybe even a, you know, a path to some kind of utopia where, you know, we are
00:23:31.620 connected with people all over the world.
00:23:33.280 And this, you know, connection is inevitably going to be a very good thing.
00:23:37.720 And it's going to give everyone a voice and, and it's going to, you know, what it will
00:23:43.000 do for democracy will be this incredibly positive thing.
00:23:46.740 And we've seen that shift quite dramatically over the last decade.
00:23:52.460 And, you know, trying to understand how is it that now that it seems like, you know, the
00:23:58.640 barrier to entry, you know, to, to give everyone a voice, like, why is it that so many people
00:24:03.200 are now self-censoring?
00:24:04.440 Why is it that the most extreme positions are being conflated with, you know, sort of
00:24:11.540 any kind of dissent on or difference of opinion?
00:24:15.100 And so like, it's trying to understand, you know, all of these dynamics, like, including
00:24:19.640 like what social, what social media in general is doing to public discourse, you know, incentivizing
00:24:23.900 extremes and amplifying some of our worst impulses and, and flattening context.
00:24:29.020 And so it, so there's, there's so many elements that we're trying to get at in this, you know,
00:24:34.420 seven episode series.
00:24:35.820 So obviously it's a lot of, a lot of ground to cover.
00:24:38.880 Yeah.
00:24:38.900 So let's just remind people what has happened here, because I would, I would assume more
00:24:45.720 or less everyone knows the general shape of it, but how would you describe what kicked
00:24:51.040 this off for a, well, how did the controversy begin and what is the logic of it?
00:24:57.840 I guess I'll, I'll just set you up by saying that there's an interesting conflict between
00:25:02.980 women's rights and trans rights.
00:25:05.520 And there's also an interesting tension between trans rights and gay rights.
00:25:10.320 And it's just, you know, unless someone has spent a little time focused on this issue,
00:25:15.320 you know, these are, this might sound like surprising claims, but the structure of the
00:25:21.840 controversy is really framed by those underlying conflicts.
00:25:26.960 I mean, there's just certain situations where you are opposing what, you know, most women,
00:25:32.360 certainly most feminists would consider a concern for protecting the rights of women with these
00:25:39.000 new rights for members of the trans community, in particular, biological men who identify as
00:25:46.800 trans or non-binary.
00:25:48.040 I mean, we'll talk a lot about, you know, trans and non-binary people here as you do in the
00:25:52.360 series, but really the, the issue with women's rights is not biological women and girls deciding
00:26:00.160 to become non-binary or men.
00:26:02.960 It's those who are moving in the opposite direction, you know, biological men who, who
00:26:07.040 now identify as, as trans or non-binary.
00:26:09.740 So with that as set up, what happened with, uh, JK Rowling?
00:26:16.560 So in, in, I think I'm going to start with the, there was this one tweet that she posted
00:26:22.020 in December of 2019.
00:26:23.600 Maybe that is the place to start.
00:26:24.980 There were little things that happened before, but really the first time she publicly weighed
00:26:29.160 in on the discussion around sex and gender came in December of 2019 with the case of a
00:26:36.280 woman named Maya Forstader.
00:26:37.900 And this might feel like it's a little bit in the weeds, but it is, it is ultimately the
00:26:41.840 thing that causes her to decide to weigh in.
00:26:46.240 And the short version of that case is that Maya Forstader lost a contract that she, her employment
00:26:52.740 contract was not renewed at this nonprofit because of public statements that she had made.
00:26:57.940 And the statements that she made were in response to a proposed change in the law in the UK.
00:27:04.900 And so she brought this case before what's called an employment tribunal in the UK to
00:27:12.360 say, I am a citizen of a democracy.
00:27:15.040 I should be able to say that biological sex is immutable and not be, not lose my employment
00:27:23.260 over that.
00:27:23.740 And so it was really, it was largely a free speech issue at that point because if it's
00:27:29.780 really, and it wasn't just about Maya Forstader, it was about the precedent that that set that
00:27:34.360 anybody in the UK, if they will state that opinion, that biological sex is immutable and then they would
00:27:42.760 have to risk losing their job if they were going to express that opinion.
00:27:46.860 And that, that seemed unconscionable, I think, to JK Rowling.
00:27:51.760 And so she weighed in and she posted this, I think what a lot of people, even people who initially, a lot of
00:27:59.820 people initially read it as, you know, support, unequivocal support for trans rights.
00:28:06.160 She, do you want me to read the tweet?
00:28:07.980 Sure.
00:28:08.080 She said, dress however you please, call yourself whatever you like, sleep with any consenting
00:28:14.520 adult who will have you, live your best life in peace and security, but force women out of their
00:28:19.900 jobs for stating that sex is real.
00:28:22.540 Hashtag I stand with Maya, hashtag this is not a drill.
00:28:26.200 And so what, what she's saying there is she's trying to say, I don't think there's anything
00:28:31.320 wrong with trans people, we should still be able to express these beliefs that us, you
00:28:37.520 know, there, there are people who think that to have any concerns about this, you know, as
00:28:43.940 you put it, this, this conflict between, or potential conflicts between the rights of
00:28:47.940 women and the rights of specifically, it's, it's almost like, like also, like you said,
00:28:51.940 it's almost always trans women, the rights of natal women and the rights of trans women.
00:28:55.420 Like that, that is seen as in and of itself, transphobic by a lot of, a lot of people on the
00:29:01.820 left.
00:29:02.800 Yeah.
00:29:02.960 So it, it, it was a free speech concern as well.
00:29:06.160 And she was, um, reacting as many people have to this, uh, fairly Orwellian denigration of
00:29:15.200 our language, right?
00:29:16.920 When, you know, rather than refer to women, you know, even in the context of, of scientific
00:29:22.040 journals now, you see these tortured phrases.
00:29:25.640 And I think the one she reacted to on Twitter at one point was people who menstruate, right?
00:29:29.980 And she said, you know, didn't we used to have a word for that?
00:29:32.480 You know, was I, um, help me here.
00:29:34.640 Is it?
00:29:34.880 Yeah.
00:29:35.120 And she was, obviously people could have viewed that as snide, but.
00:29:42.160 And she said, she said it was flippant.
00:29:43.680 Yeah, but it's also, I mean, there's so many people are at their, are at the end of their
00:29:49.640 patience with this fixation on language, which, I mean, there is something, you know, I, I view
00:29:57.080 it as not only wrongheaded, but sinister to sort of rule out certain kinds of thought.
00:30:04.000 I mean, it is, it's the very essence of what, you know, what we mean by Orwellian, right?
00:30:08.840 I mean, you know, Orwell has earned this place in our language, not only because of his novel
00:30:14.980 1984, but because of his quite famous and deservedly so essay, Politics in the English
00:30:21.320 Language.
00:30:22.320 I mean, it's just, this is a tactic for making it hard to think about, much less say certain
00:30:31.360 things.
00:30:31.900 I mean, you, you, you, you seize control of the words we use to name things.
00:30:38.460 And it has been so programmatic and clumsy coming from the left of late, and yet it's
00:30:46.740 been so successful.
00:30:47.980 I mean, the, the style guide for the Associated Press and you have, you've got places like
00:30:53.380 Stanford University coming out and, and offering lists of forbidden terms, right?
00:30:58.660 And, and this is now far beyond the, the trans issue, but this goes to race and many of these
00:31:04.340 other variables.
00:31:05.320 This is not the way we make cultural progress.
00:31:08.660 Anyway, her reaction as a writer to that is completely understandable, but what she then
00:31:13.580 came to focus on more than anything, it seems, is the rights of women to have protected spaces
00:31:20.400 like, you know, domestic abuse shelters and changing rooms and bathrooms.
00:31:25.080 And I mean, if I'm not mistaken, that's where things really heated up and where she, where
00:31:32.000 she expressed most of her concerns with respect to the trade-offs between protecting the rights
00:31:39.020 of vulnerable girls and women and the rights of trans women.
00:31:44.720 Yeah.
00:31:44.880 I mean, I just want to go back just for a second on the language thing, because obviously it's
00:31:49.420 important to, we understand that the people who are advocating for these changes in language,
00:31:54.660 are really trying to make it more inclusive.
00:31:57.660 Like they, they are coming at it from very good intentions.
00:32:01.300 They want things, the world to be better and for, you know, racism and sexism and transphobia
00:32:07.360 for all of these things to, you know, to, and, and using language to, to accomplish these,
00:32:12.560 you know, positive aims in society.
00:32:15.220 But also, as you just said that, you know, one of the reporters that I, that I spoke with,
00:32:18.540 Michelle Goldberg, you know, she, you know, she's covered this topic for a long time.
00:32:22.060 And she told me that, and I thought this was very well put, she said that the seeds of
00:32:26.080 the backlash are contained within the effort to suppress questions and dissent and to this
00:32:32.400 effort to kind of force a consensus when it hasn't been reached organically through conversation
00:32:38.060 and persuasion, which is how pluralistic societies function.
00:32:41.680 And so this kind of top-down imposition of these changes in language, which a lot of people,
00:32:48.040 I mean, myself included, I, I didn't have any sense of, any real sense of, of like, what,
00:32:54.260 what is, why not essentially, like, why not do this?
00:32:58.860 And, you know, I, you hear one of the, one of the main issues is, as you just said, it is,
00:33:05.320 makes it difficult.
00:33:06.100 It can be very difficult to talk about specifically the biological differences between males and
00:33:12.820 females and between natal women and trans women.
00:33:16.400 Like all, it seems like all of the language has been, has become politicized in some way.
00:33:21.520 Like, so the choice to use one word over another.
00:33:24.120 And so it's, it's been a huge issue in this series, trying to talk about all of these things
00:33:29.620 in a way that a, that we, the term we keep using is a normie listener, right?
00:33:34.400 Somebody who is not the uninitiated, essentially, into this conversation.
00:33:38.740 And it's, you know, not in an effort to, you know, denigrate trans people or to choose one
00:33:45.240 side or another and, and to be respectful of everybody involved.
00:33:48.400 But it is extremely hard to walk that line.
00:33:51.900 And it is not, not because we, again, not because we don't respect everyone, but because
00:33:55.520 it's so much of the language has become politicized in that way.
00:33:58.440 And I think one of the things as well is, is just this, the question of, are there times,
00:34:04.780 like it's, it's essentially, are there times when biological sex is implicated in a way
00:34:10.700 that makes it more important or, you know, more, I don't know if that's the best way to
00:34:15.420 put it, that it's more important than gender.
00:34:17.680 And, you know, cause essentially like that is, that is the, I think one of the, one of the
00:34:22.000 biggest changes that is being advocated for.
00:34:24.740 So when we talk about, you know, men and women, we are talking about gender identity
00:34:29.340 rather than sex, but, and I feel like, I feel like I'm going to go down a rabbit hole
00:34:34.940 here a little bit.
00:34:35.700 So maybe I shouldn't, but it's, there is no consensus on the language.
00:34:40.300 Like to my mind, one obvious, you know, way of splitting the difference is like when you
00:34:45.180 talk about men and women, that that is referring to gender identity.
00:34:49.580 And when you talk about males and females, that's talking about biological sex, that
00:34:54.620 seems to make sense to me, but there is no consensus on that.
00:34:58.020 So for instance, even in the New York times, you'll, you'll read, you know, trans female
00:35:02.240 or trans male, and they don't mean a person.
00:35:06.560 It's just very, very hard to parse is all I'm saying.
00:35:09.740 Yeah.
00:35:09.900 I mean, I guess one thing to acknowledge is that your series is not just a straightforward
00:35:17.000 defense of Rowling, right?
00:35:19.520 I mean, your series is more balanced than I will sound in this conversation.
00:35:24.760 I mean, I just take Rowling's side in this in a very straightforward way.
00:35:29.460 I think she's been maligned as a transphobe and a bigot.
00:35:35.000 And, you know, from what I can tell, she's none of those things.
00:35:38.940 And, you know, what's more, it's, you know, I acknowledge that many of the people, even most
00:35:45.780 of the people who are attacking her, are doing it from a place of, you know, as you say,
00:35:51.300 there is their version of compassion, right?
00:35:54.020 They think they are, are mitigating human suffering.
00:35:56.780 And they think Rowling is increasing it, whether by intention or not.
00:36:02.800 And I'm fairly sure they're wrong about that.
00:36:06.080 But it's, I do view many other people in this space to be bad actors of a different sort,
00:36:12.320 or at least, you know, more conflicted than just attempting to do something good,
00:36:17.900 but going about it in the wrong way.
00:36:20.120 I mean, you know, so to say that everyone has good intentions, I think is, it's a bit
00:36:23.600 of a stretch for me.
00:36:24.500 I frankly think there, there's a fair degree of, of mental instability and even frank mental
00:36:31.320 illness in the activist community.
00:36:34.560 I mean, you know, in really in all activist communities, but I would say in particular,
00:36:40.160 this one, from what I can see, I mean, it's just the level of viciousness and hysteria
00:36:46.460 is, you know, it's hard to know what to compare it to.
00:36:50.420 And it's, you know, it's one of the reasons why I have avoided, you know, I've been among
00:36:54.900 the people who've more or less avoided this issue because it's just not worth it, right?
00:36:58.800 It's just, why do you want this experience that JK Rowling is having?
00:37:04.500 And I mean, it's that, that dynamic that you're describing though, it's, it's, it's what's
00:37:08.980 really fascinated me was that, so before I ever wrote the letter to JK Rowling asking
00:37:13.680 if she would do this before I'd even decided to do it, I spent a lot of time talking to
00:37:18.760 a lot of people and a lot of people specifically in the LGBT community and then specifically a
00:37:24.920 lot of trans people. And it was wild to me to realize that most people from as far as I can
00:37:33.340 tell, do not hold those extreme positions that you see in a lot of activist communities,
00:37:39.460 specifically on Twitter and like realizing how much more, it's much more reasonable.
00:37:46.060 Like the, the, the sense of it is like, and even the idea, you know, the, the importance
00:37:51.240 of having the conversation. Like I talked to many trans people who were like,
00:37:54.920 we believe that the lack of a conversation here is harming our interests far more than
00:38:01.200 people like JK Rowling and, and many who even agreed with her and they understood her concerns
00:38:06.080 and, and shared them. And sort of like the need to have the conversation to navigate, you
00:38:11.740 know, what is fair for instance, in, in women's sports, what is, you know, how do we navigate,
00:38:16.920 you know, single sex spaces and, you know, women's prisons and, you know, childhood
00:38:21.680 transitions, all of these things that JK Rowling has expressed concerns about those, many of
00:38:27.580 those concerns are shared by people, right? By other, many other trans people. It's just
00:38:33.040 that like the, the effort to suppress the conversation, I think it comes from, I think
00:38:38.120 it's, it's a, it's largely a fear-based response. Like there are a lot of people who are genuinely
00:38:42.600 anti-trans, there are a lot of, there's, you know, violence against them, threats of violence,
00:38:48.820 all of the laws that are being passed targeting, you know, the, the trans community. And even when
00:38:53.940 they're not passed, actually, just feeling like you are the constant target of, of people with
00:38:59.340 power. It kind of, I think that's partly what's driving this, you know, kind of the extreme nature
00:39:05.400 of this conversation. But talking to so many other people, it made me realize like there is
00:39:10.660 actually a lot of space for it, but it doesn't seem that way because of this very distorting
00:39:17.060 effects of, of places like Twitter.
00:39:20.460 Yeah. And you've found some, you know, reasonable people who are quite critical of Rowling too. I
00:39:26.560 mean, so like I'm recalling the trans woman, Natalie Wynn, otherwise known as ContraPoints on
00:39:33.640 YouTube. And I was, when I was on Patreon, I used to support her channel, although I sort of lost
00:39:39.220 touch with it in recent years. So it was nice to hear her again, but she's very critical of
00:39:45.320 Rowling, but she's, you know, I don't know how much you spoke to her, but in terms of what made
00:39:51.260 it into your podcast, you know, she seems quite reasonable. So I wouldn't put her on the far
00:39:58.440 fringe of this activist culture that is showing these kind of cult-like and, you know, puritanical
00:40:05.840 traits. There's, it has all the, I mean, this is why the, you know, the witch-burning
00:40:11.740 analogy is so appropriate. I mean, this is, it really has a cult-like hysteria about it, where
00:40:18.900 there's the scapegoating of heretics, there are blasphemy tests, there's just, you know, there,
00:40:24.160 no one is far left enough to be immune to being, you know, castigated by the mob if they make one
00:40:32.120 wrong move. Maybe so Natalie Nguyen herself was attacked by the trans community for not
00:40:36.040 aligning with every one of its points of piety. It's somewhat mysterious that it has achieved
00:40:42.100 this level of cultural influence, given how fringe a phenomenon this is, right? I mean, this is the
00:40:49.680 very essence of a fringe issue, you know, whatever its actual political and ethical importance.
00:40:56.740 I'm not disputing that this is something worth paying attention to and that the rights of trans
00:41:02.160 people are worth safeguarding, etc. But how has this become the 20 megaton issue, which again is
00:41:11.720 sort of under the radar for, you get the sense that it's under the radar for much of the culture.
00:41:16.080 It's like, it almost requires that one be too online to know every, you know, permutation of what
00:41:22.180 we're talking about here. And yet, in terms of its actual influence at, you know, Fortune 500
00:41:27.660 companies and our universities and our science journals and every, every media company, I mean,
00:41:35.380 it's just, it has a truly an overwhelming influence now at HR departments everywhere.
00:41:41.680 Mm-hmm. Yeah. And I think it's really interesting. It obviously comes from, I should say obviously,
00:41:48.140 but from my sense, you know, people, it was very, it seemed very clearly, and I was one
00:41:53.760 of these people to whom it seemed very clear that, that trans rights, this was the next
00:41:59.100 frontier, right? In the, you know, LGBT activism, you know, same-sex marriage was decided, you
00:42:05.620 know, that the, the, the right in this country to same-sex marriage in, you know, 2015 came
00:42:10.340 down from the U.S. Supreme Court. And so this battle was won in a very real and important
00:42:15.660 way. And trans rights was the next frontier. And it's, it was not obvious to, I think,
00:42:21.980 to a lot of people that there could be any, a lot of people compare the trans rights movement
00:42:27.720 to the, you know, the gay rights movement, and they see any resistance to trans rights
00:42:33.340 as it must necessarily be the result of bigotry. And you, you hear Natalie Wynn in episode six,
00:42:41.720 you know, describing this dynamic where, you know, George W. Bush, when he was, you know,
00:42:47.320 describing why he was against same-sex marriage, you know, it's about defending marriage. Like,
00:42:51.320 we, we have to defend, and so likewise with trans rights, we have to defend women's spaces. Women
00:42:56.440 are at risk if we, if we don't defend these things. So, so I think it, it comes from this desire to
00:43:03.720 protect this, you know, vulnerable minority, which again, is a very good instinct. It's obviously also
00:43:11.160 part of our social, social nature. You know, we want to be part of a group and there's this appeal
00:43:16.500 and the desire of, you know, to be righteous. And yeah, it's like all of this stuff, like we talk
00:43:23.500 about this in episode three, how, you know, none of these ideas originated on Tumblr, but we had four
00:43:29.420 different people, two internet historians, Catherine D and Angela Nagel, as well as Helen Lewis, who is a
00:43:35.300 reporter at the Atlantic, and then also Natalie Wynn herself. These people who spent a lot of time on
00:43:39.860 Tumblr and, and saw how they migrated from Tumblr to Twitter, where every, you know, as Natalie put
00:43:48.720 it, like basically every journalist in the world, many of them are, are on Twitter and really caught
00:43:55.740 fire there. So it's no longer, it's like, you know, we're having this, this conversation on the,
00:43:59.920 you know, biggest public platform where many powerful people, and I want to say it's not the right word
00:44:05.400 exactly. I actually, let me pause for a second, because it's, I was about to say infiltrate, and
00:44:08.960 that sounds really, it's, that's not what I mean. But they really caught fire in these institutions
00:44:13.460 that had, and have a lot of power.
00:44:16.260 Yeah. That was a piece of internet history that I was completely unaware of, and it was fascinating.
00:44:21.000 I had no idea that Tumblr was the crucible in which all of these woke terms got annealed,
00:44:29.260 and refined, and made, made ready for export to the rest of culture. And then, so, you know,
00:44:36.240 microaggressions, and, and all the rest. Safe spaces, trigger warnings.
00:44:40.520 Yeah, all of it got sent into Twitter, where every journalist and politician was just waiting to have
00:44:47.060 their, their brains addled by this new orthodoxy. Before we go further, I mean, I think, you know,
00:44:54.500 it should go without saying, but the truth is, saying it is completely meaningless for the people
00:44:59.680 who are most activated by this ideology. You know, I, I'm completely convinced that the trans
00:45:09.180 phenomenon is real, which is to say that, you know, gender dysphoria is real, and we absolutely want to
00:45:18.280 protect the rights of, of people in that situation, uh, at whatever stage of life. And, you know,
00:45:25.280 and I'm completely convinced that, in certain cases, medical transition is the most compassionate
00:45:31.500 and rational thing for a person to, to do. You know, there's nothing about what I'm saying here,
00:45:38.240 or my, or explicitly or implicitly, that should be considered a denial of that fact, right? So that,
00:45:45.660 I mean, I just think we, we should have an ethical and political commitment to protecting the,
00:45:50.320 the, the, the rights of everybody. And we should acknowledge that this is a real phenomenon, which
00:45:56.720 would, you know, like homosexuality or, you know, other aspects of human difference and human
00:46:02.120 variation that, you know, we should just acknowledge and, and find some way of incorporating into a,
00:46:08.460 a tolerant society. And so that, I mean, that's, I certainly don't doubt that J.K. Rowling is also
00:46:15.060 committed to that. And it's fairly obvious when you hear her speak at length that she is,
00:46:20.120 but the question is, what, how do we navigate these, these odd collisions that seem to be zero
00:46:28.000 sum, at least in certain cases, between the rights of one beleaguered community and the rights of
00:46:33.200 another? And, you know, go ahead.
00:46:35.920 Well, I was just going to say, it was really interesting to me to, as I was speaking with
00:46:41.140 many trans people to realize, and I mentioned this earlier, that, that they share, many of them
00:46:46.600 share the same concerns that Rowling does. So, I mean, when you hear in episode six, Natalie talks
00:46:52.120 about women's sports, you know, she has this question herself, like where, what is the line? Where is
00:46:57.040 the, and, and it's like the, the idea of simply denying that there is, there is any conflict or
00:47:06.340 that, that, that there, that there is a battle worth fighting here and calling people bigots for
00:47:11.940 having those concerns. I think, I think those tactics are, are understandable. And I, I think I
00:47:17.400 understand after, after all these conversations where they're coming from, but I don't think that
00:47:22.160 suppressing the conversation is the way forward because we've seen, you know, a, a, I would say,
00:47:28.420 a, a major backlash to trans rights, partly in response to the tactics that some activists have
00:47:34.480 used.
00:47:35.640 Yeah. Yeah. And also in response to this corruption of language, which is fairly crazy making. I mean,
00:47:43.700 it's just, you know, when I look at the people who I've fallen out with over political issues in
00:47:49.760 recent years, I mean, the people who got captured by the right and by Trumpism and, and these people
00:47:55.380 who frankly have clearly lost their ethical compass in that they're now unable to pay attention to
00:48:01.080 anything other than the problem of, you know, wokeness for lack of a better term. The reason is, it is
00:48:08.000 things like, I think in one of your episodes, there's a headline that J.K. Rowling refers to, which
00:48:15.660 was, I believe, woman convicted of exposing her penis. The fact that we're, I mean, it really just
00:48:23.140 seems like the gaslighting of a whole society, right? It's just, if we're going to insist that a
00:48:29.600 biological male who's done absolutely nothing to transition is a woman simply because he calls
00:48:36.780 himself a woman, right? For the purposes of going into a prison, you know, or, or for the purposes of
00:48:41.980 going into a woman's changing room. And we're not going to dignify the concerns of women and girls
00:48:49.560 who are placed in, into that situation as anything other than, you know, their own closed-mindedness
00:48:56.660 and their own bigotry, right? It's like, it's just, this is going to drive people crazy for obvious
00:49:02.060 reasons. And it's going to make them single issue voters for obvious reasons. Just as a purely,
00:49:07.640 whatever you think the, the underlying ethics are, purely as a matter of, you know, practical
00:49:14.100 politics, it's just disastrously stupid to be insisting that we use language in this way.
00:49:22.120 So yeah, I mean, I just know people who I literally can't have relationships with anymore because
00:49:26.020 they've been driven so crazy by this kind of issue. And it's understandable. I mean, I, you know,
00:49:33.180 I, I'm not, you know, sharing their, their monomania happily, but this is a place where it's pretty
00:49:39.640 clear we need to hold the line. And if we can no longer use the term woman or girl in any straightforward
00:49:47.480 way, if we have, you know, if we have people insisting that you can't put a baby's biological
00:49:53.060 sex on its birth certificate, because that could be, you know, misgendering them, and that we need to
00:49:58.300 be open-minded as to whether we've had a boy or a girl until the, this child's, you know, seventh
00:50:03.660 birthday or whenever it is that they can be counted upon to know what sex they are. I mean, this is
00:50:08.960 just, just as an opportunity cost for a society. The fact that any time is being spent getting tied in
00:50:15.840 those particular knots is going to drive people crazy for, I think, for obvious reasons.
00:50:20.480 Well, I think it's the, again, it's, it's back to, is there, is there a time like, and, and if so,
00:50:28.100 when are they that biological sex is more important or should take precedence over gender? And I think
00:50:35.340 that those, those lines, I mean, it depends on the situation, right? And some instances it does,
00:50:41.020 it would be fine. I think I, I, and I don't, I should say a big part of the series, as you say,
00:50:46.240 like, it is not a defense of JK Rowling. It is an attempt to kind of lay out what has happened
00:50:51.960 so that people can have the conversation. We see this as the start of a conversation. We're not
00:50:57.180 trying to litigate all of the issues because that, that's not our job. I think it's trying to set it
00:51:02.780 up so that other people can have these conversations because the lines don't have to be, I think, so
00:51:08.220 black and white. It doesn't, it does appear in some, in some cases, I think you're right, that maybe it
00:51:13.220 is zero sum and decisions have to be made, but there's actually far more, I think, space for
00:51:20.340 conversation. Like there are some sports where, you know, sex doesn't matter as much. And in fact,
00:51:25.260 I listened in on an interview with Diana Nyad where she, um, who's a, oh God, I'm going to try to,
00:51:30.680 I'm going to try to gloss this incorrectly. She swam from Cuba to the coast of Florida. Um, so this kind
00:51:36.100 of very long distance swimming. And she said, you know, essentially the, the biological differences
00:51:40.400 between males and females, you know, kind of disappear at a certain length. And so all I'm
00:51:46.400 saying is that there, there are lines that can be drawn and things that can be done to accommodate,
00:51:51.580 you know, one of the things about sports could be, you know, you have a, instead of men and women,
00:51:56.740 it's females and then an open category. So anybody can, so it's something that doesn't, you know,
00:52:03.080 misgender people. Like I don't know what the right answers are on all of these things,
00:52:06.480 but they're conversations that, that need to happen. And that I think, I think there is space
00:52:11.580 for them. One of the things that, that was very compelling to me and that, that made me feel like
00:52:17.280 I should pursue this project was the realization that many gay people are kind of despairing about
00:52:26.480 the fact that for a long time, they were getting this, this criticism from the right, this shaming,
00:52:33.460 kind of endless shaming and being targeted by the right for their sexual orientation because they
00:52:40.120 are same-sex attracted. And there are, I don't want to say it's not all activists and it's not
00:52:46.140 all trans people at all, but there is a certain strain of activism that, you know, accuses gay
00:52:51.620 people of being genital fetishists, for instance, if they are same-sex attracted rather than same-gender
00:52:58.400 attracted. And, you know, talking to these gay people who feel despairing about the fact that,
00:53:04.180 you know, they spent decades fighting the right over their, over their right to be, you know,
00:53:10.060 proud in public who they are. And now it's coming from the left, people that they, they saw as allies.
00:53:17.600 And, and so it's, it's, there, there is a lot of, it's not just women whose rights,
00:53:22.760 who feel that their rights are, are at stake. And you can really go down a lot of rabbit holes. Like
00:53:28.360 all of the, think about just all of the places in society where sex matters. And it's, these
00:53:34.720 like very fundamental things, sex and dating and parenting.
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