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Acting Vs. Being Acted Upon, Feminism's Negative Effect on Society, and A Simple Question for Radical Self-Improvement ｜ ASK ME ANYTHING


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In this episode, we sit down with Kip Sorensen, CEO of the Iron Council, to talk about how the organization came to life and what it means to be a man. We talk about the history of the organization, how it got its name, and how we plan to continue to grow in the future.

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00:00:00.000 You're a man of action. You live life to the fullest. Embrace your fears and boldly chart
00:00:04.980 your own path. When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time. Every time.
00:00:10.440 You are not easily deterred or defeated. Rugged. Resilient. Strong. This is your life. This is who
00:00:17.160 you are. This is who you will become. At the end of the day, and after all is said and done,
00:00:22.700 you can call yourself a man. Mr. Kip Sorensen, good to see you, brother. I hope all is going
00:00:28.000 well. You're looking pretty good in that order of man swag there. Did you design that logo or was
00:00:34.860 that Nick Farr? Depends who you ask. It's Nick. In other words, Nick, I'm asking you.
00:00:41.640 You're going to lie to me. So got it. Nick, Nick. Well, let me tell you my lie. Let me tell you my
00:00:46.320 lie in case guys want to believe me. No, I wrote it up and then I drew it literally on like a white
00:00:53.180 board. And then I'm like, Hey, Nick, can you make that into a logo? So all right. So he cleaned up
00:00:59.700 your slop. In other words, got it. Yeah. But the, the creative juices were, were mine. And there's
00:01:05.520 meaning to this logo, by the way, like there's, there's some hidden, uh, meeting. So can you just,
00:01:12.660 can you disclose that stuff or, you know, let's close that. Oh, it's your, it's your movement. I,
00:01:17.600 I should probably be, you should probably be on board. So, so the E is echo. And then you'll see
00:01:23.600 the S is for echo strong. And this is the battle scene that, uh, that I was on in the iron council,
00:01:31.100 just for you guys that don't know what we're talking about. I mean, come on, hold on, hold on,
00:01:34.660 hold up. You weren't just on the battle team. You were the battle team leader, the team leader.
00:01:41.740 Yes. That's right. Echo strong hashtag echo strong. And then the four stars across the top
00:01:47.180 are the four quadrants that we should be focused on for balance. And then the arrow that points down
00:01:53.640 is to remain maintain, uh, to maintain humility and, and to remember that we need to maintain,
00:01:58.600 maybe humble to grow. Yeah. Those last two points are solid, but honestly, I had no idea about that.
00:02:04.600 I didn't even ask. I should have asked. So, yeah. So not just a bunch of lines on a piece of paper.
00:02:09.620 Yes. Good stuff. Guys, if you want to know about what we're even talking about here,
00:02:14.760 then go to order a man.com slash iron council, trying to keep all the links straight here,
00:02:20.720 order a man.com slash iron council. You can learn more about what we're doing there. I think we've
00:02:24.460 got a two or three minute video of me, of course, because I'd love to hear myself talk, explaining
00:02:29.360 concepts and ideas and things that we're doing in the iron council. And we're almost to 900 members
00:02:35.520 right now trying to hit that thousand member mark. Yes. It's very cool. Uh, and before Kip and I hit
00:02:41.480 record on this podcast, we were talking about some of the logistics and the strategy and everything
00:02:45.720 else to ensure, uh, that we're making sure that you guys get the best experience possible. Um, I also
00:02:54.460 talked with one of, one of our guys, Drew Kachurik, who's been a long time member, friend, advocate,
00:02:59.180 mentor, coach, and, and, and, uh, handles a lot of business in the iron council. We're actually
00:03:04.700 going to be bumping up the price of the iron council here in the next several days. So if
00:03:08.980 you're listening to this podcast, jump on it now, because the investment is going up and I'll tell
00:03:14.260 you why it's going up. We've invested in a lot of infrastructure. We're investing in the right
00:03:19.780 leadership to, to be here and to help make sure we're, we're offering the best experience possible.
00:03:25.500 Uh, and we want guys who are serious about their personal growth. So if you join within the next
00:03:31.200 couple of days, you'll be good. If not, you're going to pay the increased price. It's the increased
00:03:36.360 investment, but regardless of whether you get on the early price, which was, has been the same price
00:03:41.720 for the past five years now, or the new investment, it's going to be well worth your time, attention,
00:03:46.940 and energy. There is not a doubt in my mind that we offer the greatest experience, uh, and, and bang for
00:03:53.440 your buck in the self-development man improvement space. So without a doubt for years, I've been
00:04:01.480 telling Ryan, like, dude, it's way, we should be charging way more. It's underpriced. Yeah, for sure.
00:04:07.600 It's probably a third at this point of what it should be. I'm not going to increase it by 300% guys.
00:04:12.860 So don't worry about that. But, uh, the price is going up. So get on it now. Yeah. I do want to call
00:04:17.760 this out because this does come up from time to time. And I, we have a lot of international listeners
00:04:23.160 across the world, uh, listening to the podcast. And, and sometimes there's a lot of assumption
00:04:29.300 made like, Oh, well, I'm not in the U S so, you know, I don't have a play to join the iron council.
00:04:34.960 That's not true. We're global. So we have international brothers that are part of battle
00:04:40.460 teams. Uh, we have some teams that, that are kind of a little bit more geared towards time zones.
00:04:46.440 So they'll lend themselves to have more international guys in those teams, but there's teams that have
00:04:52.980 guys in multiple continents on the same team. So if, if you're not in the U S and you're in Europe or
00:04:59.100 Germany or Asia or whatever, and you want to join us in the IC, join us guaranteed. There's brothers
00:05:05.200 that are going to want to meet at a time that you probably want to meet. And, and if not, we'll
00:05:10.300 spin up a new team and we'll, we'll get something in your time zone. That's working. So I only have
00:05:16.520 one question. Is Germany not considered part of Europe now or how did I say Germany and then Europe?
00:05:23.420 Whatever. Yes, but it's all good. Yeah. We just had a gentleman from Ireland joined. We've got a lot
00:05:31.700 of representation in Canada, Australia, Europe, and Germany. Uh, so make sure you guys connect with
00:05:38.980 us. We love having our international, international brothers with us. All right. With that said,
00:05:42.300 let's get into some questions today, guys. Yeah. So our questions today, we're fielding from Insta
00:05:47.300 from the gram to follow Mr. Mickler, they'll go to, or follow him at Ryan Mickler. And by the way,
00:05:54.800 on Instagram, the Instagram overlords, uh, uh, freed me. They unlocked me from Instagram prisons.
00:06:00.380 So you guys should be able to tag us now and converse and exchange. And it's pretty amazing.
00:06:05.640 You could see exactly when they flip that switch off and then back on again. So that's good news
00:06:13.200 for now. We are unlocked from Instagram prison. So until Ryan, you know, toes the line again,
00:06:19.600 and then, uh, who knows what will happen. I said something today that might get me, uh,
00:06:24.540 locked back up. What did I say? Let me see here. Oh, I put a little meme on there and I,
00:06:28.980 it's got a highway, just a very straightforward highway. And it says me making a simple common
00:06:33.260 sense point, 99% of the people agree with, and then it's got this spaghetti bowl of freeways and
00:06:38.580 highways. And it says feminist and wokesters attempting to explain why I'm wrong. That might 1.00
00:06:44.420 get me kicked off. So join while you can guys, we'll see how it goes. Well, and, and this just
00:06:50.340 stresses the importance of connecting with Ryan in all the avenues, right? Whether it's subscribing to
00:06:56.240 the YouTube channel, Instagram and Facebook and Twitter. So, you know, just connect to multiple
00:07:02.380 platforms. So that way, if we're getting blocked or whatever, you can connect with those and make
00:07:06.200 sure that, uh, you're not missing out on the info. That's right. That's right. Cool. All right. All
00:07:11.140 right. Enough of us. Let's get to you guys. Nice warmup question here. Wayne 06 Williams,
00:07:17.180 who is your current dream guest? Someone that you're kind of geared towards on the podcast.
00:07:22.460 Very easy. My dream guest, the number one guest I want to have on is Keanu Reeves. Very easy. He
00:07:31.260 doesn't do a lot of conversations. He's a very fascinating individual. He's obviously very,
00:07:35.580 very dedicated to his craft. Uh, and he does his craft well. And then when he's done, he goes
00:07:40.560 aside and he lives his life, I'm assuming, but we don't hear a lot of drama and BS and 0.91
00:07:45.060 woke type bull crap from him. He just goes and lives his life and does what he needs to do. And he seems to
00:07:50.180 me from the outside, looking in a very solid individual. And, uh, I would love to have Mr.
00:07:54.860 Keanu Reeves on the podcast, uh, outside of that, you know, the usual is love to have Jordan Peterson
00:07:59.400 on at some point. I mean, it's crazy that it hasn't happened yet. Uh, weird, frankly, that it
00:08:06.180 hasn't happened yet. Um, but you know, it might or might not happen. Mike Rowe, I mean, the lineup,
00:08:12.300 we've, I've got an entire list, but, but again, to answer your question, Keanu Reeves,
00:08:16.500 and then the amount of people that the guys that are coming on now, like we just did a podcast with
00:08:22.020 Madison Cawthorne in DC for a repeat. And we did it in his office there in DC, which was cool.
00:08:27.720 He gave us a tour of the Capitol. Uh, I just met with Eddie, Eddie Gallagher, uh, for dinner,
00:08:33.040 him and his wife joined my wife and I and Brian and Megan, uh, with origin for dinner the other night.
00:08:37.500 That was a great dinner. We did it at Trump hotel. Uh, and, and the, I think it's called the BLT
00:08:44.100 prime or BLT grill. Unbelievable. I mean, this place, it was unbelievable. Uh, and we were going
00:08:53.580 to do on Dan Crenshaw, but he got consumed with doing some boats on the Senate floor. So that was
00:08:59.720 unfortunate, but he's doing his work, which is good. So we've got, we've got a very, and I just
00:09:04.860 got word back from another high caliber guest that you're either going to love or hate, which I
00:09:10.260 have no problem with. I don't want any fence sitters on the podcast. Uh, so we, we'll probably
00:09:15.600 do that one here in the next week or two. So it's good. We got a great lineup.
00:09:21.140 Yeah. Question actually is aligned with that whole fence that are a comment that you just made. So
00:09:26.380 Marcus, you cut out, you said the next question is, yeah, the next question is kind of related to
00:09:31.740 you getting someone controversial on. So Marcus, man, Instagram, I love it. Cause I can't slaughter
00:09:37.960 names. Marcus AF Godin. Uh, do you think political views need to be pretty similar to work in a
00:09:46.600 relationship or can there be a good amount of healthy disagreement without extremes?
00:09:53.280 All right. I actually saw this one last week. This is a very good question. Look, here's,
00:09:58.560 here's what I'm going to say. My wife and I celebrated. Oh shoot. I think 17 years. Yes.
00:10:04.640 Congrats. 17 years of marriage, uh, about a month and a half ago. Guys, marriage is hard work.
00:10:12.680 It is not easy. It's the anniversary date. Uh, June 26th. Okay. I feel like that's a test. Are you
00:10:20.760 testing me? Did my wife tell you to test me or what? No, ours was just like a month ago. So I was
00:10:26.460 kind of curious. Got it. So what's your, what's your date? Well, not a month ago. What am I talking
00:10:30.420 about? Just a few weeks ago, July 25th. Oh, see, I passed the test. You failed. Yeah. I just failed.
00:10:36.100 Yeah. Well, and in hindsight, I was like, wait, 25th or is it 24th? I know. That's wild. Oh, see?
00:10:41.520 Yeah. You're in trouble. Even worse. Well, she doesn't listen. We have already confirmed. They
00:10:45.720 don't listen to the podcast. So it's no big deal. She didn't listen to this one. I'm going to send her
00:10:48.940 a link and say, Hey, listen to minute, you know, or whatever minute we're on. Yeah. Yeah. Um,
00:10:53.820 so you were, you guys were married on pioneer day or the day after the day after. Yeah. All right. So
00:11:00.420 the 25th. So that's easy. All right. I'll make sure I send you a reminder each year. Thank you.
00:11:04.900 Pioneer day today. Make sure tomorrow you got you. That's what accountability looks like. Gentlemen,
00:11:09.260 that is accountability and this, and the benefit of banding with other brothers
00:11:13.240 and the benefit of joining the iron council just to throw that in there. Because otherwise I'd be
00:11:18.040 sleeping on the couch. And if you don't know what pioneer day is, well, don't worry about it.
00:11:23.680 Unless you're from Utah. Yeah. Unless you care about people being discriminated due to their
00:11:28.420 religious beliefs in America. Okay. Sounds good. Uh, all right. So we're talking about
00:11:35.340 religious beliefs. Now we'll go to political views. Marriage is hard as hell guys. Let's be
00:11:40.400 honest. I mean, it's fulfilling. It's rewarding. Uh, obviously a lot of benefit from it. I've been
00:11:45.000 married for 17 years. I've fought and clawed and scratched and done everything I can to make sure this
00:11:50.120 works. I would find it a very difficult thing factor if my wife didn't believe the same and held the same 0.72
00:12:02.860 political views as myself. I'm just going to throw it out there like that. I just don't think if we
00:12:09.800 didn't have the same political religious views that it would just be too much. Now I'm not going to tell
00:12:19.940 you that it can't work. I'm not going to tell you that you shouldn't marry somebody who doesn't have 0.98
00:12:24.600 your same political views. But in my experience, when it comes to politics and religion and maybe
00:12:30.780 even sports, depending on what, what, what your personalities are like, there's just some fundamental
00:12:37.000 beliefs that are so different that why add that into the dynamic. But here's what I would say is
00:12:47.800 that I, I know that there are, we'll just talk about it from this context and I don't put labels
00:12:53.320 on it, but let's just talk about it from this context. There are some liberals who are reasonable,
00:12:58.640 moderate people. And then there are some conservatives who are reasonable, moderate
00:13:06.620 people who even in disagreement, you can still find some common ground because I think a lot of
00:13:13.900 people, regardless of what side of the aisle you sit on, really believe that they want to help other
00:13:18.620 individuals, that they want to pursue happiness and fulfillment and liberty and all of that.
00:13:22.980 But the way they see it happening is just a little different.
00:13:25.620 Yeah. And, and if I think it can work, if you're fairly close together, even if you sit on the
00:13:31.100 opposite side of the aisle, but the wider that expansion is the greater challenge that it becomes.
00:13:38.000 And there's people that I talk with and it's primarily via social media who are so fundamentally
00:13:45.800 different than I am in my political beliefs that I can't even imagine us coming together to find some
00:13:54.920 sort of common ground. And I would not want to commit myself to that type of woman. 0.98
00:14:01.900 But if you can find some fundamental common ground and the way that you go about achieving that and
00:14:08.220 working towards that is slightly different. Got it. Check that could work. But if you're so
00:14:14.760 fundamentally different and the foundations and the principles that you believe in are so radically
00:14:20.460 different, why, why would you do? Oh, because I love her. Look, I love my wife and I'll say this
00:14:30.100 because again, I know she doesn't listen to the podcast. There's, there's a million other women 1.00
00:14:36.420 on the planet that I could love just as deeply. I know that sounds harsh, but there's a million other
00:14:44.120 men on the planet who she could love just as deeply as me. We've decided to commit to each other. And so
00:14:49.560 we honor that commitment, but I'm not so oblivious to the fact that there aren't other women out 0.96
00:14:54.380 there. And so I'll hear a lot of guys say, well, what about this? And she doesn't want to do this. 0.96
00:14:57.860 Find somebody else, bro. Yeah. Well, I love her. Okay. Well, you know, that's good, but that's not the
00:15:05.020 only factor. And if there's fundamentally different perspectives about the way that you see life,
00:15:11.920 the way you want to raise children, what you think about religion, what you think about politics,
00:15:15.680 and they're so counter to each other, why, why find somebody else? She can find somebody else.
00:15:25.220 And I'm fairly certain you will be much more fulfilled, much happier. And there just won't
00:15:31.580 be that extra little chink in the marriage that could derail it in the wake of every other little 1.00
00:15:36.400 chink that could possibly derail it. And like you're saying, it's already hard enough, right? So it's 1.00
00:15:41.540 like, don't make it any harder than it's going to be. Right. But what we do, I think a lot is men
00:15:48.480 and women do this too, men and women is we just make these types of decisions based on emotion. Like
00:15:54.600 I love her. Got it. That's great. You should, like, if you didn't, I'd be worried,
00:15:59.300 but that's not the only consideration. You know, what, what if, what if you've always dreamed of having
00:16:07.260 this traditional family household where you go out to work, your wife stays home, she's a homemaker, 0.96
00:16:13.420 you're, you're doing homeschooling, she's raising the kids. And that's what you envision. And she's
00:16:19.100 not interested in that. So do you, do you try to contend with that because you love her? Or do you
00:16:24.220 say, you know, I love you, but this is a deal breaker for me. Yeah. Our strategy is different.
00:16:29.400 Right. Yeah. Which is fine, by the way, like if she wants to go out and pursue a career or
00:16:33.720 you want to stay at home or whatever, whatever the dynamic is, that's all fine. But find somebody
00:16:39.120 who is going to be compatible with the way that you would like to raise your children and the way that
00:16:44.480 you would like to march throughout this life. That's what I think. Yeah, totally. All right.
00:16:51.360 Maggie Lynn, 28, 22, uh, advice for a husband's whose, whose wife is struggling with postpartum
00:16:59.340 depression. So advice for the husband, this sounds like it's coming from a woman, right? Maggie, 0.96
00:17:06.920 I'm assuming maybe. Yeah. Maybe she's asking for her husband. She's like, she's like, Hey,
00:17:11.020 step up. Hey, Bob, listen to this podcast at minute mark, 20 minutes in one second is pretty good. I
00:17:18.580 mean, I didn't ask the question, but it's pretty good as she makes like a fake account just to get 1.00
00:17:23.540 the question in. Yeah, that's right. That's right. Um, post, we got you, Maggie. We got you. Here we
00:17:29.740 go. We got you back. Well, not only do we have your back, but I'm prompt. I promise you guys,
00:17:33.560 if you can better deal with this, your life is going to be better because my wife actually has 1.00
00:17:38.300 dealt with some postpartum stuff, especially with not, I guess all of them. She's more manageable
00:17:44.760 with our third and fourth, but the first and second man struggled postpartum. Yeah. I mean,
00:17:51.400 so much about your life changes and the dynamic. And now you have this little critter you got to
00:17:55.180 take care of. And that, that changes the dynamic between you and husband and wife. And so, yeah,
00:18:00.860 it's, it's tough. So what I would say is, uh, just understand what's happening and it isn't a matter
00:18:08.780 of just fitting the square peg into the round hole. I think we, as men think sometimes we can
00:18:14.560 just like force it. Like what, what's the problem? Just fix it. Like, just stop being like that. And
00:18:19.760 I wish that was the case. And I think men have an easier time of doing this than possibly women. 0.98
00:18:25.840 It's, it's just not, in my experience, it's not that simple. It's, it's not so easy that you just
00:18:32.060 say, feel better. Convince her to feel better. Yeah. Right. Like it's a real thing. There's hormonal
00:18:37.900 imbalances and physical changes. And, and, and of course the emotional side of it. And then there's
00:18:43.960 a spiritual element because now you have this little baby to take care of. There's so much
00:18:48.060 going on here. So what I would say is just acknowledge that, that it may be beyond your
00:18:54.380 control. There's nothing you can do to force her to improve and change. I would also say really
00:19:01.760 strive to be a sounding board and think about what a sounding board is. A sounding board doesn't
00:19:07.880 talk back. A sounding board just receives. And that's very difficult for us as men because
00:19:14.960 we want to get the information, interpret it, run it through our systems and processes, and
00:19:21.440 then give an outcome, give a solution and a fix. Yeah. Don't do that in this particular
00:19:28.020 instance. Just be a sounding board. Let, listen, just absorb, receive. It's very antithetical
00:19:35.220 to what we as men want to do, but you can do it because you're going to be focused on
00:19:39.460 it. So just receive. She's telling you about things. Hey, that must be hard. That must
00:19:45.160 be difficult. I don't understand, but I can certainly appreciate what you're going through.
00:19:49.500 Is there anything I can do? What do you need from me? And just absorb it. There's one of my
00:19:54.940 favorite quotes is by David Gilmore. He says, the real man gains renown by standing between
00:20:00.900 himself and just, uh, and his family absorbing the blows of fate with equanimity. Yeah. I love
00:20:08.580 that. And, and sometimes that just means that you, it's hard. I know, I understand guys,
00:20:15.760 you just need to absorb it, absorb the blows of fate. And that might mean that you just need
00:20:21.640 to sit there and just have her bounce ideas or thoughts off you. And you're like, I'm going
00:20:27.060 to fix this. Don't just absorb it. Just receive it. And you can be strong enough to just receive
00:20:34.680 it for a little while. I would also say that you need to look for opportunities to serve.
00:20:40.760 Okay. What a lot of men will do is they'll say to their wives, and I'm guilty of this,
00:20:45.220 and it's not bad, but you'll say, Hey hon, what can I do to help? And Kip, if your wife is anything
00:20:51.740 like my wife, her knee jerk reaction is nothing. I got it all. Is that, is that your wife too?
00:20:59.260 Is your wife like that? No, she actually, she said, ask her. So there's no way I would ever
00:21:05.480 be in a position to say, Hey, what can I do to help? She's already been telling me for the last
00:21:09.620 24 hours, what I should be doing. Look, I think that's a bit of an anomaly. I got to be honest
00:21:16.540 in my experience, a lot of wives will say, Hey, nothing. I got it because they're strong and 1.00
00:21:22.820 they're rugged and they're independent and they want to do it. And they pride themselves on getting
00:21:26.600 stuff done. That's what I experienced. Not to say your wife isn't those things, but I think that's 0.76
00:21:32.640 the anomaly. But she's that way sometimes for sure, where you can tell she's heads down.
00:21:36.740 So instead of asking your wife, what you can do, just do it. Yeah. Right. If you really cared
00:21:47.700 about helping her or anybody else, this might even apply to an employer or a client or a friend,
00:21:55.120 if you genuinely cared, you wouldn't ask, what would you do? You would acknowledge what needs to
00:22:04.060 be helped out around the house with the other children, perhaps in your own dynamic and you
00:22:11.040 would just do it. Right. You would just say, Hey, the dishes need to be done. Check. I'm going to go
00:22:17.220 do the dishes. Hey, she's taking a nap or would like to. So I'm going to take the one or two or five kids
00:22:23.740 and we're going to go to a mini golf or the movie or for a walk at the park. So the three kids could
00:22:31.600 play and I'm pushing the younger in a stroller and you would just do it. You wouldn't say, Hey, hon,
00:22:37.360 what can I do? Look, full disclosure. When I say that, I'm actually hoping she says nothing.
00:22:45.020 The natural tendency. That's pure honesty right there. When I go to her and I say, Hey, hon,
00:22:52.580 what can I do? And she says, Oh, nothing. I got it. I'm like, Oh, dodged a bullet. Awesome.
00:22:56.580 Or you asked real quiet. Hey, right. Somehow. Oh, she didn't hear me. Yeah. Oh, I asked. You
00:23:03.320 didn't hear me. Well, I was asking guys, you know, you know what needs to be done. So give her some
00:23:08.900 space, give her some time, understand that this is going to happen. This is natural. Be a sounding
00:23:14.120 board. Don't fix everything. And then solve problems. Look for problems, solve them and don't
00:23:21.880 ask what you can do. Just, just do it. And I think you're going to have a pretty good time with
00:23:27.280 that. Not, not ideal. It's not gonna be perfect. She's gonna have a better time than if you wouldn't 0.73
00:23:31.540 do those three things. All right. Next question. I got a little lost in my list here. All right.
00:23:40.520 Trotting Tyler, your thoughts on the man who gained an elected position in prison. He is at the end of
00:23:47.880 nearly 30 years sentence for murder and has been, has just been elected to a community position,
00:23:53.600 which has been vacant since 2013. Is this a sign of a healthy or failed justice system,
00:24:00.360 healthy or fade democracy? It's okay. So I don't know enough about the story.
00:24:07.460 So a man that just got off of a 30 year sentence for murder, I think you said, and he's filling a
00:24:13.240 vacant seat for the past, what did he say? 10 years or so. I didn't, I didn't catch the number,
00:24:16.900 but yeah, roughly about yeah. Eight years of vacancy elected position. Is it a sign of a
00:24:22.980 failed democracy? Let's start. Is it a fine, a sign of a failed judicial system? Was it
00:24:29.480 a bill justice system, justice system and democracy or healthy? Right. Right. It's not a sign. It's not
00:24:40.200 a sign of a failed justice system to tell me what about that system went wrong. So he was
00:24:46.720 right. He, he was found guilty of murder, paid his price, comes back. Like what about the justice
00:24:54.100 system is wrong there? So you're suggesting that this individual shouldn't be able to
00:25:00.280 now run for office. Okay. But that's the justice system as it is. It seems to be like,
00:25:06.220 again, I don't know enough about the situation, but it seems to me that it worked. That's number one.
00:25:10.140 Failed democracy. I don't think so. People saw how to vote him in. Right. What about the democracy
00:25:15.900 failed? People voted for him. They probably knew his record for the most part. Like what about the
00:25:19.520 democracy failed? Now this is an open position. And so by default, he got elected to an open position.
00:25:26.440 Yeah. But someone else could have chose to run and that very much addresses democracy.
00:25:32.680 Yeah. You could have chose to run. Yeah. If you don't like your idea. Right. You could have chose
00:25:38.320 to run. Now, is it a sign of, of, of, of great, you know, moral, a moral society? I, I, I would
00:25:48.100 probably say that again, I don't know enough about the situation, but based on what I do know and what
00:25:52.860 you've said, yeah, I probably wouldn't vote for a convicted murderer for political office. I mean,
00:25:59.100 that's, that's, that to me is a sign of poor judgment at, at, at best. So yeah, we live in
00:26:07.540 interesting times. We live in a very degenerate society. It's sad to me that maybe nobody else
00:26:12.080 would run. It's sad to me that, that, that you have enough people who would vote for potentially
00:26:17.660 this individual. And, and it might be a sign that we have some moral degeneracy taking place and maybe
00:26:26.440 more of us ought to step into the political arena. Uh, we ought to be more informed about the
00:26:32.100 situation. We ought to have some sort of moral compass and standard and, and belief where we
00:26:40.980 don't vote these types of individuals into office. But as far as failings of the justice system or
00:26:47.500 democracy, I, again, based on the limited, I would, I know, I would say no, but yeah, I mean,
00:26:54.320 there's no argument that we live in a degenerate society and increasingly so. And that's part of
00:27:00.000 the reason we do this podcast and we have this movement is to reinstill some of the virtues and
00:27:05.200 values that we once held, uh, and, and make these things popular and, and important again.
00:27:14.840 Yeah. I don't know enough about the situation to give a very good counter argument or even
00:27:20.700 commentary on the situation. And even the comment, like, even like what's murder, right? Like
00:27:26.260 what's the details? What was the situation? Like that drastically changes things. Right. Right.
00:27:33.000 Right. So, yeah. I mean, I just had a great conversation. I told you earlier with Eddie
00:27:36.880 Gallagher and his wife. And if you don't know who Eddie Gallagher is, you can go back and listen to my
00:27:42.360 podcast with him that we did several months ago. You can go buy his book, man in the arena,
00:27:46.440 but essentially he was a former Navy SEAL who was convicted of not, excuse me, not convicted,
00:27:53.740 charged with war crimes. And he was eventually acquitted because the justice system in that case
00:28:00.200 actually didn't work well and really teed him up and set him up for failure, but eventually he was
00:28:06.500 acquitted. And, and so, you know, there, there are failings in the justice system and there,
00:28:14.880 there is nuance to some of this. And I think it's important. We understand that before we make
00:28:19.300 commentary or decisions based on limited information. That's one of the challenges is,
00:28:25.180 you know, you see, you see this quick, you know, headline on, on social media and you think,
00:28:28.940 oh, well, yeah, here's my opinion. The Simon, Simon or Simon Biles, whatever her name is,
00:28:33.760 the gymnast for America that's stepping down. Yeah. Yeah. I don't know. I mean, it'd be easy for me to,
00:28:39.780 to read that and say, oh, well, she's a quitter. She's a loser. I actually don't know. I don't, 1.00
00:28:44.560 I don't know enough about the situation. And I wish more of us actually took that approach versus
00:28:50.000 saying, yeah, she failed America or she's a hero or she like whatever side of the aisle. I actually
00:28:55.800 don't know. I have no idea. So I, I am very cautious and increasingly so as I become more mature
00:29:02.660 of giving an opinion with limited information. That's what I would say. Yeah. All right. Nate
00:29:09.620 Yamasaki, what are a few things that you've done to improve your relationship with your wife? If
00:29:15.280 you had to pick the most important ones, what would they thank you for?
00:29:21.180 You cut out a little bit, but what I heard you say was what's the most, what are some things that
00:29:26.580 you've done to improve your relationship with your wife? And what are the most important things that
00:29:30.100 you've done? Yes, sir. Okay. So date night, I'm just talking tactically right now, date night,
00:29:36.800 setting aside time every single day to converse. And I'm not talking about, you know, the latest
00:29:44.540 Netflix documentary you're watching. I'm talking about how are you feeling? What's going on? What
00:29:49.460 are the kids up to? How are we like real conversation daily? And that might be five minutes. That might be
00:29:55.600 five hours. Might be somewhere in between, whatever. But we always set time aside to do that.
00:30:02.740 Intimacy is a very important thing. Look here, let's be real. Watching porn and jacking off is
00:30:09.940 way easier than being intimate with your wife. Yeah. It's way easier. You just, you just get on your 1.00
00:30:16.700 phone. You just pull up whatever you're into. You just type it in, punch it in, go in the bathroom,
00:30:20.980 jack off and you're good. You're so funny. That's the reality, right? Like that's true.
00:30:27.600 It's true. I know, but we got to talk about uncomfortable things. So path of least resistance.
00:30:35.440 What do we do as men? The natural man. We've talked about it for years. The natural man. That's the
00:30:38.720 natural man. Path of least resistance. Find your thing. Get up, get to it. Intimacy with your wife is 0.96
00:30:44.120 very, very important. And that means that you, she's another human being with feelings and emotions and
00:30:49.380 physical needs. And you know, that's more of a challenge, right? Like you got to make sure she's
00:30:54.860 in the mood. You got to turn her on. You got to be intimate with her. And it's more than just
00:30:58.520 physical attraction. It's emotional interest in her. There's a lot of things that go into it and
00:31:03.620 that's harder, but it's also more fulfilling and it's more rewarding. And it's, it forges obviously a
00:31:11.960 deeper connection and bond between you two. So yes, it's more challenging. So when I'm answering this
00:31:17.540 question, the thing that I do, at least I attempt to do, I'm not always great at this is to do the
00:31:23.520 harder thing. Instead of finding my fetish online and getting after it, I'm going to attempt to
00:31:31.800 connect with her mentally, emotionally, physically. I'm going to have a conversation that, you know,
00:31:40.060 sometimes I don't feel like having like at the end of a long day. I'm like, you know, I just want to
00:31:45.140 watch Netflix. And I don't want to talk about your feelings or whatever you're going through.
00:31:50.920 And that's a pretty good indicator that maybe I should actually do those things. So at the under,
00:31:58.660 at the root of how you can serve your wife and better connect with her, it's that you've got to
00:32:05.100 avoid the natural tendencies that you have and really be committed and take initiative towards
00:32:12.280 the things that aren't always easy or convenient because you care about her because you love her
00:32:18.880 and because you want to show her how much she means to you. That's a very broad answer. But those again,
00:32:24.640 date night, carved out time for conversation, physical, mental, and emotional intimacy are huge.
00:32:31.280 Anything you would add to that?
00:32:32.440 No, I think just because it's present on my mind, Carnegie's book, how to influence people and
00:32:45.720 I don't know, make friends. I can't remember the name of the book, but friends and influence people.
00:32:51.180 Yeah. Just because it's on the forefront of my mind, you know, it, if I had to summarize that book,
00:32:58.180 it's, it's all about making sure people feel important. And so, and, and I think just like
00:33:05.900 love languages that looks different for different people. It looks different for you and I, and it
00:33:11.320 looks different for our spouses. And so I would really get present to like, what is it that makes
00:33:16.080 her feel important? And it might be you including her in things that you, an efficiency perspective
00:33:22.820 may not need to include her on. It might be listening to her and her feelings of what's going
00:33:27.840 on. It might be supporting her and hobbies and or goals that she has. So I would just really,
00:33:34.260 how do you show up in a way that is an outward expression of how important she is to you and your
00:33:40.520 family? Yeah. Agreed. All right. Dylan M. Smith. Dylan, this is not that good of a question because
00:33:49.640 you know, the answer, but I think it's a good talking point. And so we'll let Ryan, like,
00:33:54.720 no, I think it's a good thing to talk about. You're going to let me be the bad guy. Got it.
00:33:58.380 Check. Yeah. Yeah. Uh, thinking about getting off social media, it got ahold of me young and is
00:34:04.300 deeply wired in my habits and mind. Do you think I should look, if, if we were talking about another
00:34:13.740 tool and let's be very clear that social media is simply a tool, it's a very complex, elaborate tool,
00:34:20.000 but it's a tool all the same. It's a tool to connect with people. It's a potential tool to
00:34:24.780 grow your business. There's a lot of things you can do with it. But if, if I said, Dylan, here's a
00:34:31.060 hammer and I want you to use this. And you took that hammer and you put your hand on the desk and
00:34:35.760 you smash the shit out of every one of your fingers. Do you think I would be telling you to stop 0.99
00:34:41.780 using the hammer that way? Of course I would. And if you were incapable of using the hammer as it is
00:34:47.600 intended to build homes, to hammer a nail in, to build and construct, and you were incapable of
00:34:53.620 doing that. Do you think I would tell you to stop using the hammer? Of course I would. So I would tell
00:34:58.960 you one of two things, either stop using the hammer or use the tool as it's intended. Hey, Dylan,
00:35:05.060 stop smashing the shit out of your fingers with that hammer. That's not what it's for. Instead, 1.00
00:35:09.780 let's go find you a nail. Let's pound it into here and let's figure out how to build a home. 1.00
00:35:14.680 So Dylan, you need to do one of two things. And I would suggest that getting off of social media
00:35:19.180 actually isn't the answer. And I hear from a lot of guys who are like, I'm off social media. I'm
00:35:24.600 off Instagram. I'm off Facebook. And if that's your thing, fine. That's cool. Or if that's what you
00:35:28.860 need to do, maybe. Right. And if that's what it requires, then great. Use it. But here's the
00:35:34.100 beautiful thing about social media. You can actually put boundaries in place. Like I'll only check
00:35:39.280 social media from noon to one or from three to five or whatever. I'm not going to be on my phone
00:35:44.520 after seven o'clock at night. I'm not going to check my phone first thing in the morning. In fact,
00:35:48.500 what I'm going to do is I'm going to put it downstairs. So I don't even have access to it
00:35:52.680 until I get my butt out of bed and get ready for the day. Then I go downstairs and get into it.
00:35:57.440 But for me, having social media is a very powerful tool to grow this movement and to grow my business. 0.80
00:36:02.200 So I choose not to smash the crap out of my hands because I use it as an effective tool.
00:36:09.460 So you need to establish some boundaries, create some boundaries, uphold those boundaries,
00:36:15.520 and put those things in place so that you're not abusing the tool at your disposal. And if you're
00:36:22.080 incapable of doing that for whatever reason, then yes, I would say stop smashing your hand with a tool.
00:36:27.520 Stop beating yourself up with a tool. One of the things that I did early, early on with Order of
00:36:33.920 Man is I would look at what some other individuals would do. One in particular was Brett McKay with
00:36:38.820 Art of Manliness. I've thought very, and I still do think very, very highly of Brett McKay.
00:36:44.420 Much of what he's done with Art of Manliness has been a huge inspiration for what we've done here.
00:36:49.400 But what I would do is I would get on this little device and I would go to his account and I would see
00:36:54.100 what he was posting and how many comments and how many likes and how much interaction. And I'd try to
00:36:58.480 figure out, you know, how much money he was making off of certain things. And it was very, very
00:37:02.400 destructive. It's very damaging to my psyche. So here's what I did. I typed in Order of Manliness
00:37:10.260 on Instagram and Facebook and I clicked unfollow. Because I couldn't handle it. I couldn't handle that.
00:37:20.500 And now I follow him actually, because it's not that big of a concern because I'm doing things and
00:37:25.080 I've figured out how to use this tool. But I'm going to do whatever's necessary to make sure that
00:37:29.580 my mental well-being is taken care of. And the boundary, I couldn't maintain it. So I had to
00:37:35.400 enforce a greater boundary, which is to completely unfollow. It was a very healthy move that I made.
00:37:39.900 So, yeah, stop using social media as a thing to beat yourself up and put the boundaries in place.
00:37:48.060 Make decisions and use it correctly or don't use it at all. Use it correct. That's what I would say.
00:37:54.140 That's how you sum this up. Use it correctly or don't use it at all. Very simple.
00:37:59.320 Scott, Pat Pei, is there a tipping point in our country's slide towards socialism when you would
00:38:09.160 consider leaving? If so, where would you go? That second part of the question is the reason I
00:38:20.060 wouldn't. Where would I go? Where is better than what it is right now? Is there a point I would
00:38:26.060 consider leaving? Yeah, absolutely. Absolutely. Of course. We're not there yet. And so I'm not
00:38:32.240 going to worry about that at this point. What I'm going to do is I'm going to continue to share
00:38:36.200 a message of positivity, a message of growth, a message of personal responsibility, a message of
00:38:41.000 sovereignty, a message of freedom and liberty and men doing what they need to do to lead themselves,
00:38:45.420 their families, their businesses, their communities well. There's still room for me to fight.
00:38:50.540 And so I'm going to continue to do that. But yeah, definitely there's a point. And it's a lot
00:38:55.360 further than most people would think, but I don't know where I'd go, which is why I'm going to stay
00:39:02.240 in this fight. Like I'm in this thing. I'm all in this thing. And there's hills that I've chosen to
00:39:07.080 die on. And there's conversations I'm going to continue to have, whether people want me to or
00:39:11.220 not. But yeah, I'm not thinking about where can I go to get out of this mess? Because there frankly
00:39:17.340 isn't a better place, even with all of our flaws than there is here and right now. So yeah,
00:39:22.780 I'm going to keep fighting and keep doing what I need to do. And I'm asking you guys to do the
00:39:26.000 same. So share, promote, talk about what we're doing here, find your own battles that are worthy
00:39:30.760 of fighting and get after it. That's what we need to do. Not think about where should we go?
00:39:35.880 How do we improve this place?
00:39:38.900 Yeah, that should be our default opinion of what can I do to change the scenario? Not,
00:39:44.940 oh, it's, if it gets bad, I'm going to leave. Well, what are you doing between now and leaving
00:39:49.140 to make sure it doesn't get that way? And, and also, so what can we do? And also how do we enlist
00:39:57.420 other people in the same cause? That's very important because what you're right. What is
00:40:02.360 one person going to do? Nothing other than enlist a million other people who believe like he does and
00:40:09.500 are willing to stand up and talk about and share and engage the way that that one individual does.
00:40:14.440 Totally. Scott Gunn-Cory, is there a direct connection or do you feel there's a direct
00:40:20.320 connection between feminism and the divorce rate in the U.S.? 1.00
00:40:24.020 Of course. I mean, that's, you couldn't even, yes, of course.
00:40:28.120 And this isn't an opinion, guys. This is like, you look at the numbers and there's,
00:40:32.800 I mean, it's exact, right?
00:40:34.820 There's, there's a correlation between feminism and declining marriage rates, 1.00
00:40:40.840 increasing divorce rates and declining birth rates. Of course there is. Now, whether that's
00:40:48.260 good or bad is an entirely different question, but you're asking the question, is there a
00:40:51.740 correlation? Of course, a hundred percent. Because if you attempt through schooling and through
00:40:57.320 information that, that women have to be equal to men, that they have to go out into the workforce 1.00
00:41:02.800 to be worth anything, that they shouldn't be home. And I, and I've had people directly
00:41:08.200 undermine or attempt to undermine my wife and I, our dynamic of her being at home as a full-time
00:41:17.340 homemaker and housewife. I mean, think about that. Even people hear that homemaker housewife,
00:41:22.360 they cringe. I know there's people who heard just what I said and they're cringing. They're like,
00:41:26.160 Ooh, that's not bad. But there are people who attempted to undermine that. The fact that we
00:41:31.180 homeschool that she's here full-time with our children, they they've accused me of, you know,
00:41:36.320 keeping your wife barefoot and pregnant, or that I'm limiting or hindering her because she chooses 0.98
00:41:41.740 to stay home. And by the way, I'm not at all against a woman who wants to go into the workforce
00:41:47.760 and create a living and a life for herself, but there's a lot to be said for finding fulfillment
00:41:53.280 for a woman who decides that she wants to stay at home and turn her house into a home and raise her 0.99
00:42:00.660 children in righteousness. That isn't inferior. That isn't inadequate. In fact, if anything,
00:42:07.340 I would suggest that that's a beautiful place for a woman to thrive and learn and grow and have 1.00
00:42:12.480 fulfillment and meaning in her life. But when we, as a society, collectively attempt to tell women
00:42:18.980 that they shouldn't be there and that in order to be worth anything, you have to go out into the
00:42:23.960 workforce. You have to compete with men. You have to make money. You have to forsake having
00:42:28.440 children. That's a dangerous proposition. It's harmful. It's hurtful. It's bad for society.
00:42:34.660 It's bad for women. And yes, of course, there's a correlation between feminism and declining 1.00
00:42:41.600 marriage rates, increasing divorce rates and declining pregnancy rates. Of course, a hundred percent.
00:42:48.620 That is the primary, the primary reason for that is feminism. 1.00
00:42:53.060 Now let's, let's be really clear though. There's, there's, there's a couple of things I want to
00:42:59.440 address when I talk about feminism because everybody thinks it means something else. They 1.00
00:43:04.240 have their own interpretation of it. And this is the danger of language. And this is the danger of
00:43:07.860 manipulating language in order to match your ideology. If, when you say feminism, you mean,
00:43:13.520 should women have equal rights? Yes. I agree with that. Of course, I agree with that. But feminism 1.00
00:43:23.340 anymore, modern day feminism is not just about equal rights. Cause you'll hear women who are feminists 1.00
00:43:28.760 who will say, we just want equal rights. Well, tell me what rights you don't have. Tell me what rights,
00:43:34.620 like specifically, what right don't you have that men have? Voting? No. Marriage rights? No. Like,
00:43:45.240 like, tell me what right, any tax benefit or what right are you referring to? And usually people will
00:43:51.160 say, well, the gender pay gap. Okay. Well, here's an interesting thing to consider. Cause the same 0.97
00:43:59.700 people who complain about the gender pay gap, or I don't know if I'm supposed to say gender or sex pay
00:44:04.080 gap now, I don't know, because gender is fluid. I don't, I don't know. Maybe you guys can correct
00:44:07.720 me on that one, but here's the interesting thing about the gender pay gap. Cause the same people 1.00
00:44:12.060 who complain about the gender pay gap are the ones who will actually say that corporations and those 1.00
00:44:17.640 who own and run corporations are greedy, filthy pigs. But what's interesting is the gender pay gap 1.00
00:44:23.480 and the greedy, filthy pigs are at direct odds with each other, right? Because if you're telling me 0.99
00:44:28.140 that corporations and the men who run those corporations are greedy, filthy pigs, then what you're 0.99
00:44:32.380 actually saying is that all they're worried about is their bottom line, right? Okay. So if you're 0.99
00:44:36.120 worried about their bottom line, then wouldn't the greedy, filthy pigs hire only women if they could 1.00
00:44:45.000 pay them less to do the same amount of work? Well, and can I, and I, can I add to this? So what do 0.99
00:44:52.080 companies do in that scenario? You outsource. So outsourcing is a perfect example of this use case
00:44:58.060 of, Oh, Hey, I can get cheaper labor. If I utilize resources outside of this country,
00:45:04.000 despite all the confusion, despite them having to be remote, despite all these other things,
00:45:10.400 companies are willing to do that for that pay gap difference.
00:45:15.940 So, because they're worried about their bottom line, and by the way, that's not immoral.
00:45:20.020 In fact, the bottom line, worrying about the bottom line is a very moral thing because that means you
00:45:23.840 can serve your customers more effectively. Like when we talked about the iron council,
00:45:28.460 the rate of the iron council going up, people will say, well, you're just being greedy. Or
00:45:32.160 alternatively, it could mean that I'm investing in infrastructure in order to serve people more
00:45:36.260 fully. Yeah. Right. So the greedy, filthy pig capitalism argument just isn't alignment with the
00:45:46.300 gender pay gap. It just isn't there. Now, why do women at times get paid less than men? 1.00
00:45:53.600 Because they don't do the same jobs as men. And they tend to leave, they tend to have children, 0.82
00:46:02.540 they tend to work less, they tend to work in environments, school teacher, nursing, that sort
00:46:07.560 of thing that they are going to get paid less. We have to look at the entire picture in this
00:46:12.620 situation. I can't remember where we got onto this thing, but I get fired up when we talk about this.
00:46:17.460 But yeah, ultimately the answer is yes. Feminism is at, is the direct reason for divorce rates, 1.00
00:46:30.480 for declining marriage rates, and for declining birthing rates.
00:46:35.920 And I think what's critical, Ryan, and you're, you're saying this on another question,
00:46:39.760 this goes back to critical thinking and getting all the information, right? It's like, well,
00:46:45.340 why are they, right? What's the details? Like I, one thing I can't stand, you know, we, we get,
00:46:51.000 you know, you'll get these news articles in the state of Utah that will say, oh, the state of Utah
00:46:55.640 is one of the most least woman friendly States, you know, in the nation or something like that. 1.00
00:47:02.300 And I'm like, why?
00:47:05.280 What does that mean? Tell me what that means.
00:47:07.320 Exactly. And it's because they run the numbers and you're like, oh yeah, on average women make 1.00
00:47:11.860 less in Utah than other States. Yeah. Uh, we have probably more children in this state than probably
00:47:17.160 any other state. There's more moms that are happily deciding to stay home because they want to raise 1.00
00:47:25.000 their kids. And, and you roll that into a statistic and say, oh, it must be a sexist thing. 1.00
00:47:30.200 Like guys, we need to be way more critical and it goes both ways. Even if it's a stat that you
00:47:36.380 highly agree with and you're like, oh, perfect. This falls right in line with my narrative of how
00:47:41.140 I see the world. Well, you should probably still critically think and understand where those
00:47:45.260 numbers are coming from. So you can speak to it intelligently and not just grab numbers and
00:47:49.860 sound bites and headlines, you know, to perpetuate your way of thinking.
00:47:55.640 Yeah. Great point. And you know, on the sexist thing, cause you will hear a lot of that,
00:47:59.140 like, oh, you're just being sexist. If you keep your wife, keep your wife at home. Actually, 0.87
00:48:03.260 no, you know what? It would be a lot more convenient from a worldly perspective. If my
00:48:08.500 wife went out into the workforce and made a hundred grand a year, like that would be way better. 1.00
00:48:13.900 Totally. So it is, it's actually the antithesis of sexism for me to bust my fricking balls every day 0.99
00:48:21.100 so that I, as the sole income provider of the family can go out and do the work so that my wife can be 1.00
00:48:28.380 here fulfilled in her responsibility, making this house a home and raising her children in
00:48:35.360 righteousness. Like sexist men don't do that. What a sexist man would do is they'd say, well,
00:48:42.360 you need to pull your weight. You need to pay half of the bills. You like, you're just as easy. Like
00:48:49.680 you need to go out and like, that's what a sexist person would do. A sexist man wouldn't go out and
00:48:55.380 commit himself to his wife and his family and go bust his ass for everybody so that she could live 0.99
00:49:00.960 the type of life that would fulfill and edify her, which is what I feel like I'm doing. My wife, 0.99
00:49:06.720 from the time I've met her and the time that she was little has always wanted to be a homemaker
00:49:10.760 and always wanted to raise her children and always wanted to have a beautiful garden and always wanted
00:49:15.740 to make sure that the house was loving and, and, and caring and a home that people, myself and our
00:49:22.200 children and guests included would feel comfortable in. And I'm working on making that happen for her
00:49:29.460 because I love her and I care about her and I consider her at minimum and equal, if not greater
00:49:35.980 than I am. Yeah. And I think, I think that we live in a society today that, that causes, and I don't know
00:49:46.400 how to say this, that, that gets a lot of women to second guess their desire to be moms and, and they live
00:49:56.080 in a culture in our society, which says, you know what? You're not, you're not, you can't get fulfilled
00:50:02.620 that way. You, you need a career to, to reach your full potential. And I really think that you probably
00:50:08.040 have a, a good percentage of the population of women that would love to be at home. And they're starting 0.96
00:50:15.140 to second guess whether they should be because society is helping them or society is preaching
00:50:21.080 that, you know, they haven't and will not reach their fulfillment unless they have careers.
00:50:26.140 And, and it's been, and it would really be clear. It's so different. We have the same dilemma,
00:50:30.480 right? As guys, we get, we, I mean, it's a conversation we have in Iron Council. The conversation
00:50:35.360 we have on this podcast is like, guys, your career isn't your be all right. Balance, family,
00:50:41.340 being a father, right? Like it's a really important conversation, but, but we're getting to a point,
00:50:47.280 I think in society where like, they're being demonized for making that choice. And I don't
00:50:53.840 know, it's, I think it's damaging. It is damaging. A hundred percent is damaging because we know from
00:51:00.640 women who have pursued careers that no longer can build a family, can have children because they 1.00
00:51:07.200 reach that point where they feel like they've missed out on some of their innate beauty that
00:51:15.660 comes with being female. Yeah. Yeah. But they got a job, Ryan. And when they die, they can say,
00:51:24.180 you know what? I worked for that corporation and I made a good salary. I lived a good life.
00:51:30.100 I would just say this because I don't want to mock those women who go out into the workforce 0.90
00:51:36.400 because I think if that's what you want to do, go for it, but don't buy into the narrative that
00:51:42.700 that's what makes you valuable. Yes, it is. And it's not what makes us valuable.
00:51:47.500 Let me tell you what makes a woman valuable, that she can give birth and she's lovely and she's 1.00
00:51:54.580 feminine and she's nurturing and she's caring. That's what makes a woman valuable because those
00:52:01.640 are the giving birth part is not available for men. And the compassion, kindness, empathy, loving,
00:52:09.100 nurturing is not as innate in men as it is in women. So that's what makes you valuable.
00:52:15.880 So if you want to go out in the workforce, great, but going out in the workforce and competing
00:52:20.180 is not what makes you valuable. All of that other stuff was what makes you valuable.
00:52:25.400 Yeah.
00:52:27.380 Which is why the men protect the women because it's valuable. All right. Enough of that. 0.73
00:52:32.640 Okay. Lesson line leadership in a world of men who are afraid to make mistakes or fell.
00:52:38.280 What are some quantifiable ramifications of passivity and the cost of not doing something,
00:52:45.360 being quiet to avoid confrontation? In an example, being a bystander,
00:52:50.180 in disciplining your kids, listening to coworkers gossip about the boss and et cetera. I realized
00:52:56.400 that this is a really difficult conversation or kind of question that we probably can't put a
00:53:01.260 number on, but I think maybe some advice around this, right? Like-
00:53:06.240 That's a better, that's a better route because we know the cost. And even though we may not be able
00:53:10.880 to quantify the exact cost, we know you're going to be less fulfilled because you're letting people
00:53:15.340 railroad you and you're not assertive and you're not getting your way and you're not directing your
00:53:20.640 own life. You're passive. You're letting other people dictate what you want to do.
00:53:24.360 And that eats at your soul is kind of what you're saying. It's like, Hey, when you're passive,
00:53:27.500 it's like, yeah, it's just eating at you.
00:53:29.300 It's a life unfulfilled. You're probably going to make less money. You're not going to be completely
00:53:34.320 satisfied. The job isn't going to be done to standard. There's a lot of things that you could
00:53:38.360 potentially quantify, but I think the better route for this question and perhaps a better question,
00:53:44.940 and maybe this is what he was getting at is what do we do about it? Yeah. Okay. We all know there's
00:53:51.300 a cost of passivity. We know that there's a cost to not doing our job. We know that if we're not
00:53:56.940 asserting ourselves in current situations, that we're not going to get what we want out of life,
00:54:01.440 which by the way is okay, guys, it's okay to have some, your own desires and people say,
00:54:09.280 well, that's selfish. Yeah. Well, you know, sometimes I want to make sure that I'm reaching
00:54:13.840 my goals and ambitions and desires. And, and yes, sometimes I'm selfish. We don't live in boxes
00:54:19.920 and we don't live in vacuums. Even me being selfish is going to serve somebody else. If I'm selfish
00:54:23.820 about wanting to improve my skills as a podcaster, make more money, I'm going to hire more people.
00:54:28.740 I'm going to bring more people on. I'm going to serve more people. We're going to be able to
00:54:31.880 create new experiences for my family. And so there's a trickle down effect of that.
00:54:37.820 So what do we do about it? Well, number one, you got to know what you want.
00:54:42.180 There's a lot of men out there who have never even thought about what it is they want out of life.
00:54:46.500 Well, I don't know. I just want to be happy. I want to be fulfilled. I want to have some experiences,
00:54:50.600 bro. Get specific. Like how much money do you want to make? What do you want to be doing? What
00:54:54.560 experiences do you want to have? How much money do you want to have? How much
00:54:58.060 do you want to deadlift? What do you want your relationship to look like? What do you want
00:55:01.940 intimacy and sex to look like? How is the relationship between you and your children?
00:55:06.000 Get specific, figure that out. Because if you can figure that out, then you can start strategizing
00:55:11.840 and working a plan. And at the risk of beating a dead horse, you got to go to order a man.com
00:55:16.660 slash battle ready. Cause we're going to help you create, and this is all free by the way,
00:55:21.440 but we're going to help you create a vision for yourself. What exactly what you want.
00:55:25.480 Then we're going to break it down into objectives. Here's the one, two, three,
00:55:29.740 and four things that specifically I want to do over the next 90 days.
00:55:34.060 Then we get down to the next component, which is tactics. And this is answers this question.
00:55:38.260 What exactly are you going to do about it? You want to fix the marriage between you and your wife?
00:55:43.940 Cool. Worthy objective. What exactly are you going to do to fix it? You want to secure that promotion?
00:55:50.000 You want to start that business? All good. What are you going to do about it?
00:55:56.540 And if you can work through this strategy that we've created, then when opportunities present
00:56:01.620 themselves, whether it's a new job, whether it's picking up a new client, asking that woman on a
00:56:06.660 date, asking your dang wife on a date for crying out loud, then you'll have the capacity to be able to 1.00
00:56:14.280 assert yourself correctly versus just letting life pass you by and being acted upon versus doing the
00:56:20.220 acting. So what specifically can you do? Go to order of man.com slash battle ready and sign up
00:56:28.860 for that free program and actually do it. We've had tens of thousands of men go through it at this
00:56:34.680 point. And I would say less than 10%, maybe even 5% have actually completed it.
00:56:40.220 Yeah. And it's because go through it, do it completely. And I just, maybe for a pulse for
00:56:47.500 some guys, you know, evaluate as you're listening to what we're saying and look for areas in your
00:56:54.680 life where, where you think if only if someone did X, then this would go better. Only if my boss,
00:57:04.520 you know, saw my true value or only if my wife showed up differently this way, then we would,
00:57:09.380 any of those scenarios where you're pointing the finger, the conversation you should be having
00:57:15.360 with yourself is the one that Ryan just said. What are you going to do about it? Because those
00:57:21.340 are all the areas of your life where you probably feel unfulfilled. You're not taking zero ownership
00:57:26.660 in regards to the situation. And guess what? It's not going to change. Just like you signed up for
00:57:31.700 battle ready and doing nothing and thinking, oh, well, I signed up and it's just going to magically,
00:57:36.720 you know, do its thing without me taking any effort. You got to show up differently than you
00:57:41.940 have, than you have been to get the benefits that you're not getting.
00:57:46.500 You brought up a really good point. And I wrote this down is how do I get him or her to do what
00:57:50.560 I want them to do? Cause that's a, that's a pretty common phrasing of questions that we get.
00:57:57.500 How do I get my boss to see that I'm valuable? How do I get my wife to get on board with my
00:58:02.720 nutrition goals? How do I get my children to listen to me? Right? It's, it's all external.
00:58:08.620 How do I get them to do it? The answer is counterintuitive. You fix yourself.
00:58:15.520 How do you get your boss to see that you're valuable? You become valuable. How do you get
00:58:22.460 your wife to get on your fitness journey? You get on the fitness journey and you show her through your 0.98
00:58:27.360 work, the benefits of being on a fitness journey. How do you get your children to listen to you?
00:58:31.600 You start listening to them. It's that's the beauty of this is that any of that, how do I get
00:58:40.040 somebody else to do something is all within your control. You do it first and other people will be
00:58:47.760 inspired and influenced by your work. That's way more advantageous than just having to sit back and
00:58:54.260 wait for somebody to change their behavior. You change yours and naturally, inevitably people will
00:58:59.880 change theirs. And as they do, they'll recognize you. They'll acknowledge you. They'll see it. And
00:59:04.340 if they don't, it's okay because it'll become less relevant, right? If you make yourself
00:59:08.740 indispensable to steal from, I believe Cal Newport and his book, So Good They Can't Ignore You.
00:59:15.100 I believe that's right. If you go out and you make yourself indispensable and your boss doesn't
00:59:22.160 acknowledge it, you know how many people are going to be standing in line to try to recruit you?
00:59:25.640 Yeah. And so all that other stuff about, Oh, I wish my boss would see the worth that I have and
00:59:30.960 what I do. Like it will be less relevant because all you have to do is say, Hey boss, you know,
00:59:34.780 I'd love to stay here and work with you, but I've got a better offer over here. And so I'm
00:59:38.980 entertaining that offer, but I would like to present that to you to give you an opportunity to see if
00:59:42.320 you'd like me to stick around and he'll say yes or no. And regardless of what he says, it's a
00:59:48.220 beautiful thing. Like win-win. If he says, yes, cool. Here's what you're going to have to do. And
00:59:51.120 he'll do it. If he says no, say great. Thank you. I appreciate the investment in me. I appreciate
00:59:56.260 the time. I appreciate the opportunity to provide for my family and I wish you the best. I'm going
01:00:00.800 over here. And that's fine too, but it's all within your control. Acknowledge that.
01:00:10.740 Dishi man, what is one good strategy to deal with overcoming distractions?
01:00:15.980 One good strategy. Okay. Here it is. Ask yourself this question about a thousand times a day.
01:00:25.000 Is this what I should be doing right now? Now? Yeah. That's the strategy.
01:00:34.100 Is this podcast, for example, what I should be doing right now? Yes, it absolutely is because
01:00:39.820 this aligns with my mission is the email that I'm going to send. When we get done with this,
01:00:44.660 what I should be doing right now. Yes. Because it's moving the mission forward. If I'm done for
01:00:49.800 the day and I'm spending time with my family and we're sitting on the deck and I'm watching my wife
01:00:53.520 in her garden and my kids are playing around and I can ask myself, is this what I should be doing
01:00:57.340 right now? The answer when it's appropriate is yes, I'm done with my work. I'm done for the day.
01:01:03.480 That stuff's all checked off and I need to be here and present with my family. And so, yes,
01:01:07.000 the answer is yes. Now to go back to our conversation about looking at porn, is this what I should be
01:01:13.240 doing right now? No, you know, that's not what you should be doing right now. So, stop doing it.
01:01:19.400 But this is a practice in mindfulness and assertiveness and it will really serve you
01:01:26.560 if you just continue asking your question, that question, is this what I should be doing right now?
01:01:31.020 Yeah. I think there's value in understanding that a lot for a lot of people, distractions
01:01:37.620 are, is a problem with delayed gratification. You have some, you probably have some deep work
01:01:45.940 that you need to get done, right? Some complex task and opportunity presents itself to go, oh,
01:01:53.540 ooh, shiny object. I'll, I'll do that. Cause that gives me immediate stimulus and gratification. So,
01:01:59.140 I'll almost seek out the distraction to avoid the mundane task. That's going to take time. And
01:02:06.580 it might take two hours to finish, or I don't want to get started because it's boring and it's not as
01:02:12.780 stimulating initially. So, I, and when I think about distractions, I look at them that way,
01:02:18.460 it kind of shifts my mindset of like, oh, I get what I'm doing. I'm just avoiding what I should be
01:02:23.840 doing because, you know, I'm, I'm seeking distraction on purpose because I'm trying to avoid something that
01:02:29.620 should get done. So, be in control of your mind and realize what you're doing. And, and it's really a,
01:02:35.620 a play on delayed gratification. And there's some strategies. Some people like, we'll time box and
01:02:40.640 say, okay, I'm going to do this difficult. Like Ryan, let's say that you hate doing email follow-ups,
01:02:46.220 but, but you've identified that it's something that you should do. Then time box it. All right.
01:02:50.640 I got 15 minutes heads down a hundred percent. I'm going to work on this said thing for a period of
01:02:57.240 time and time box it. So then that way you're effective and you're fully present to the moment.
01:03:04.220 And, and it's really interesting too. It's like, think about even when we're quote unquote present
01:03:10.740 that we're really not. So you seek distraction and how more effective things could be. Like even in a
01:03:17.740 work setting, I've thought about this is like, how more efficient would we be as a company? If
01:03:22.880 everybody was a hundred percent present in every single meeting, all those meetings wouldn't have
01:03:28.700 to be an hour. They could be 30 minutes. Right. Right. And then they wouldn't be so boring. We
01:03:34.280 could be laser focused straight to the point, bam, bam, bam, get done. And it wouldn't be as big of an
01:03:39.300 issue, but because people are distracting themselves on purpose, you know, it, we end up having meetings
01:03:46.340 be longer because not everyone's a hundred percent present all the time. So.
01:03:50.280 I think, well, your answer is better than I, than I was. Cause the, the immediate thing,
01:03:55.420 which is not uncommon, right. But the, uh, the immediate thing I went to is that the reason we
01:04:01.540 get distracted is a pro cat procrastination issue. That's, that's what I had written down here is
01:04:05.980 that it's a procrastination. It's the same thing. It's not though. It's not because procrastination
01:04:10.700 is just the surface level. It's the action. Like I'm just procrastinating. Your answer is better as
01:04:15.440 like, why do we procrastinate? Because we don't see the immediate result because if you did, you
01:04:20.320 wouldn't procrastinate, right? If you were sending those emails and you got immediate, like, look,
01:04:24.400 here, here's, here's an example of what I mean. If every email follow-up you did, you got $10 in your
01:04:31.300 bank account. How many email follow-ups would you do? You do them all. Yeah. All day long you do.
01:04:36.980 Bam, bam, bam. No, no procrastination whatsoever. So your answer is better as deeper than what I thought.
01:04:42.800 I'm like, Oh, it's procrastination, but why it's delayed gratification or a lack of being able to
01:04:48.320 delay gratification. It's a very good point. Uh, you also brought up something about time boxing.
01:04:53.560 Uh, I also, which is along the same lines, but I want to give this one other little bit of advice
01:04:58.640 here is placing time limits. So a lot of guys will say, you know, from, uh, from three to five,
01:05:05.220 I'm going to do emails. What I personally like to do is I actually have to send a lot of emails today
01:05:09.760 cause I was out of the office the end of last week. So when we get done with a call, it's 12,
01:05:13.560 16 right now, we'll probably wrap up in the next 10 minutes. What I will personally do is I'll look
01:05:18.740 at the time and I'll say, okay, emails. I have until one o'clock go. And what that does for me is
01:05:26.940 it creates a little bit of competition, a little bit of a challenge. Yeah. Can I get this done in,
01:05:32.900 in how many can I get done? I got 60 emails right now. I got to respond to,
01:05:36.780 I got until one o'clock. Can I get it done? And, and that time limit function is, has been very,
01:05:44.460 very powerful for me. So there's the time boxing time limits, very similar concept. Just want to
01:05:49.180 make sure I explain that. Well, and there's another aspect of that, that I think is really
01:05:53.000 interesting in the iron council. We've had guys, uh, identify a tactic around journal doing journaling
01:06:00.400 and a lot of guys can't keep up with journaling because they get, they go too deep into it.
01:06:08.160 They go, Oh, well, I haven't journaled for a while. So I'm going to spend six hours and like
01:06:14.500 catch up for the last 10 years. Well, you do that for six hours tomorrow. You're not motivated to grab
01:06:20.860 that journal. Cause that journal destroyed yesterday. Right. And you don't even want to get
01:06:26.640 into it. So even the time box of like only 15 minutes. So then that way, when I come back to
01:06:33.240 this and do it again, I'm not, I'm not going to be hesitant to do it because it engulfed my day too
01:06:38.900 much. It's, it's like the friend, the friend that you love that talks too much and keeps you up all
01:06:44.680 night. You love him and he's an awesome guy and you want to chat. But when he says, Hey, can I come
01:06:49.640 over? You're like, Ooh, maybe not because you're going to run your mouth and I'm not going to get any
01:06:54.820 sleep. Right. And, and so he out, what comes to stay from talking too much, you know? So I don't
01:07:01.580 know. There's some time benefit to him. It's like inviting Kip Sorensen to be a co-host, you know,
01:07:06.680 at first it's pretty good. And then he thinks he can say more and more and more. And before you know
01:07:10.920 it, he just slipped right in. Yeah. No, I, I think you're dead. Yeah. We should read some numbers to
01:07:19.440 see how often I had a comment, uh, and how, how much more talking time I've gotten over the,
01:07:25.600 over the years of doing Emmett, uh, as you, you have, but you, even from the get go, you have said
01:07:33.560 that you're like, Oh, am I talking too much? I'm like, no, I actually appreciate your insight.
01:07:37.420 Like I want to hear this is, this is a co yeah, it's my fault. This is a co-hosted show. So you're not
01:07:44.040 my sidekick or anything like that. Like this is a co-hosted show. Not your, uh, what did the guys
01:07:49.600 used to say? Chip Jorgensen sidekick. Oh, sidekick. Yeah. I'm not your sidekick. All right. Let's
01:07:56.040 take one more. All right. Uh, Ryan, uh, Michelle Harry, she says joking, you know, are women allowed 1.00
01:08:02.960 to ask questions? Ha ha. When you felt that's her question. No, stop. Proceed. When you felt like a
01:08:11.020 failure or if you've dealt with depression, how did you handle that mentality mentally and use it
01:08:16.160 as a tool to get better and motivate you and not depress you even more? So depression,
01:08:22.120 I tend to get down on myself very regularly. Actually, I would say daily, daily. I get down
01:08:30.200 on myself. You know, something doesn't work out. I don't get a client. I don't land a podcast. I,
01:08:34.300 I don't get as much done as I'd like. I deal with this daily. I go into some dark places on a daily
01:08:39.820 basis. It's not so dark that, you know, I'm contemplating shutting things down or ending
01:08:43.360 my life or anything like that. It's not, it's not that bad, but daily, how do I overcome it?
01:08:51.680 I get this little book out. It's my battle planner and I open it up and I look at my list of things to
01:08:59.360 do. In fact, I think I've written two or three things down that I need to do that you reminded me
01:09:03.240 of as we were having this conversation. So I write it down right here and then I do it.
01:09:09.820 Regardless of how I feel, regardless of whether or not I want to do it, regardless of past
01:09:16.540 performance or whether things have worked out or not, I look at it and I, sometimes I'll pick the
01:09:21.300 hardest thing to do on the list. I'm like, okay, well, this is hard. That's a challenge. You need
01:09:24.300 to get that done. And other times I'll pick the easiest thing and I'll just look at it and say,
01:09:29.400 okay, well, that's easy. I can do that. That's only going to take me three minutes. Let me just do
01:09:33.500 that real quick. And that builds up some momentum. And the concept of completion
01:09:39.720 is what gives me just a little bit of fuel and motivation to do the next thing, which might be
01:09:46.200 slightly more challenging or more difficult or take a little more time. But the answer for depression
01:09:51.820 for me has always been simple. And this is barring mental illness. All right. If you're dealing with
01:09:56.180 mental illness, this is chronic depression, get help. That's what I would say there. Get help.
01:10:03.240 But if you're just dealing with being down the ebbs and flows of life and your daily activities,
01:10:08.420 then having a list of things to do and doing it is the solution.
01:10:14.180 Yeah. Always been pretty simple for me. And I do it despite how I feel. That's the most important thing
01:10:20.020 is when you don't feel like doing it, doing it is what is the antidote. Doing it changes your
01:10:28.500 attitude and changes your perspective and then gives you some hope and optimism that, oh, you know,
01:10:32.740 I didn't feel good, but I still did it. And so, all right, well, I feel pretty good. What else can I
01:10:36.700 do that? You still did it. Yeah. Right. And so, that's what actually changes. Because if you do it
01:10:42.460 when you like to do it, it's good, but it just doesn't count as much as if you do it when you don't
01:10:48.240 want to do it. That's what's actually going to move the needle. Totally. I have a good example of
01:10:53.540 this. And Ryan, you and I are cut from the same cloth when it comes to this because I'll do this
01:10:59.820 all the time, but I'll work out. And if my workout, my numbers weren't the same as they normally are or
01:11:05.960 better, I'm kind of beat myself up. If the day wasn't as effective or I didn't get those, I beat
01:11:11.800 myself up. If I go in the garage and it's a complete mess still, I kind of beat myself up. Like,
01:11:16.340 it's almost, I'm not saying everyone should do this. It's probably not healthy, but regardless,
01:11:21.220 there's a lot of opportunity where I reflect that I'm kind of beating myself up. And what's
01:11:26.940 interesting is- Hold on, Kip. Let me stop you right there. Because I want to hear what you have
01:11:30.100 to say, but I got to interject on this. You said it's not healthy. Well, I don't know if it is or not.
01:11:35.480 I disagree. Well, I disagree. I think it's healthy. I think it's very, very, again,
01:11:40.980 with the caveat that you do something positive with it. I just don't, I get so tired of hearing
01:11:48.140 this level of indifference in modern culture. Like, oh, you didn't get it done. It's okay.
01:11:55.980 It's like, yeah, it's true. You shouldn't feel bad about it. Like, but you're still special.
01:12:00.500 No, actually when you don't perform the way that you should, you should feel kind of crappy about that.
01:12:06.480 I, that's healthy. You should feel bad because that, that feeling is what's going to drive you
01:12:14.220 to whatever you're going to say next. So I just need to interject that, that it's not unhealthy
01:12:21.100 to think badly about your performance or the way you show up. Modern culture would tell you it is.
01:12:28.000 And I'm here to tell you that it's completely natural and healthy to feel like shit when you 0.99
01:12:33.400 underperform. You should feel that way. Now, what are you going to do about it? 0.99
01:12:37.920 Yeah, totally. And, and in the example I was going to give is if I go to the gym and I'm not
01:12:43.300 feeling it and I cut my workout and I'm like, you know what? I'm just going to go home.
01:12:50.060 Guaranteed in that example, I'm going to feel like shit for the rest of the day. 0.99
01:12:54.080 Worse. 0.99
01:12:55.540 Exactly. I'm perpetuating it. But if I'm at the gym and then I change my mindset and say,
01:13:00.960 all right, it's going to be one of those days and I'm going to do my best and forget
01:13:05.640 the rest. It's, it's about how many reps can I get into failure? It's not about how
01:13:12.120 many, like, it's not about how I did last time. It's about right now in this moment,
01:13:16.620 can I do the best work I can do? When I take that approach and I don't leave the gym,
01:13:23.440 I feel better. My day then gets onto a better path and it gets me out of that slump a little
01:13:29.600 bit. But when I give into it, no, it, it, I will perpetuate and I'll drag it along.
01:13:36.780 And until I'm willing to, you know, buck up and actually make some adjustments.
01:13:42.660 That's right. A hundred percent. Total agreement with that.
01:13:46.260 Well, Kip, I think we got through a lot of questions. We got some valuable insight to the
01:13:50.300 guys and gals because we had a couple of questions from ladies today. Yeah. So we hope it served you
01:13:55.560 guys. Why don't you close us out, Kip, for the day? Yeah, for sure. And a couple of things we
01:13:59.560 mentioned, one, the Iron Council, join us there, orderofman.com forward slash Iron Council. Rates
01:14:05.860 are going up. So if, if you were on the fence, get off the fence and, and sign up ASAP before that
01:14:12.680 adjustment. And even if you don't, it's still going to be worth it. So it doesn't matter.
01:14:17.520 The other thing that we've talked about, kind of a lot of questions, right? Today,
01:14:21.060 Ryan around kind of battle plans and tactics and, you know, identifying your vision. So if you guys
01:14:27.720 want to get battle ready, you can learn more about that free program at orderofman.com
01:14:33.980 forward slash battle ready. We also have just slash not forward slash slash slash slash ongoing.
01:14:41.780 We haven't talked about that for a while. For a while. It is a forward slash,
01:14:45.400 regardless of what Ryan thinks. It's just a normal slash guys. Okay. So don't get confused.
01:14:51.220 Don't let Kip lead you astray. It's just orderofman.com slash battle ready. Continue.
01:14:56.340 Maybe MacBooks don't have a backslash. Do you have a backslash on your keyboard?
01:15:00.520 They don't need them. They just know exactly what you want and where you want to go.
01:15:05.060 The other thing, the other resource around battle ready, that's obviously a system that we use within
01:15:10.080 the Iron Council. But another resource to look at is the battle planning app in your Apple store and
01:15:15.800 your play store. You can also go to the website. That's 12weekbattleplanner.com to learn about that
01:15:22.920 app. And that's the number 12, just to reiterate on that. So 12 week battle planner. Cool. Thank you,
01:15:29.040 sir. All right, guys. Great questions. I think we got through most of the questions. So next week,
01:15:33.840 we'll be asking for some more. We'll continue to provide you with some answers for better or worse.
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01:15:55.200 And if not, and you're getting value simply from the show, just share it. Just shoot a text or a
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01:16:02.900 on Friday. Friday. But until then, go out there, take action and become the man you are meant to be.
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