Order of Man - May 19, 2020


Being Reasonable in an Age of Unreason | DAVE RUBIN


Episode Stats

Length

1 hour and 9 minutes

Words per Minute

210.43759

Word Count

14,523

Sentence Count

920

Misogynist Sentences

7

Hate Speech Sentences

20


Summary

In this episode, I'm joined by Dave Rubin, New York Times bestselling author of Thinking for Yourself in an Age of Unreason, to discuss the things you're not supposed to talk about: the myth of the gender gap, hate speech, why not everyone is a Nazi, and how to be reasonable in a world that seems to be anything but.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Reason seems to be in increasingly short supply, which is unfortunate considering some of the
00:00:05.060 messes that we found ourselves in will only be solved through reasonable thought and ideas
00:00:10.480 and people. Also unfortunate is that those who are the loudest seem to be the most unreasonable
00:00:16.500 and only wish to perpetuate the problems that we have in modern society and culture.
00:00:22.280 Today, I'm joined by the one and only Dave Rubin, New York Times bestselling author of
00:00:26.280 Don't Burn This Book, Thinking for Yourself in an Age of Unreason. What I like most about Dave and
00:00:32.200 also this conversation is that he's willing to talk about the things that you're not
00:00:35.280 supposed to talk about, including the myth of the gender gap, why hate speech should be protected
00:00:41.680 speech, why not everyone is a Nazi as perpetuated by what he calls the quote unquote lefties
00:00:47.940 and ultimately how to be reasonable in a world that seems to be anything but.
00:00:53.200 You're a man of action. You live life to the fullest, embrace your fears, and boldly chart
00:00:58.180 your own path. When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time, every time. You
00:01:03.760 are not easily deterred or defeated, rugged, resilient, strong. This is your life. This
00:01:10.060 is who you are. This is who you will become. At the end of the day, and after all is said
00:01:15.120 and done, you can call yourself a man.
00:01:18.160 Gentlemen, what is going on today? My name is Ryan Mickler, and I am the host and the founder
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00:02:00.080 These are the types of conversations, whether you agree or disagree that we need to start
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00:04:28.500 you to Dave. If you don't already know who he is. Uh, I'm sure many of you are already
00:04:33.040 familiar with him and probably have some preconceived notions, good or bad about who he is and what
00:04:37.760 he stands for. Uh, I've been following him for some time now, and I'm actually pretty fascinated
00:04:42.540 with his journey from a left leaning progressive to a free thinking classical liberal. And I didn't
00:04:49.580 really fully understand what it meant to be a classical liberal. So he actually explains that
00:04:55.400 in the podcast and very fascinating. Uh, he's the host of the Rubin report. He's spent almost
00:05:00.160 two years touring, uh, and opening for his friend and mentor, Jordan Peterson. Uh, his
00:05:05.260 background is actually in standup comedy, but he's been extremely, extremely successful and
00:05:09.740 become well-known for his podcast. And again, he's interviewed guys like Jordan Peterson, uh,
00:05:14.460 Sam Harris, Ben Shapiro, Larry King, Dan Crenshaw, Adam Carolla, just so many more. So his lineup
00:05:19.940 is amazing as well. Anyways, he's here to talk with us today about thinking freely and
00:05:25.160 openly about some of our culture's most polarizing subjects. Enjoy.
00:05:31.660 Dave, what's going on, man? Glad to connect. Looking forward to this conversation today.
00:05:35.520 It's good to be with you. I am talking a lot these days, but, uh, just had a little water,
00:05:41.240 had a little coffee before that. I'm focused, ready to roll.
00:05:44.600 Perfect. Perfect. Any idea on how many, uh, how many interviews you've done over the past
00:05:49.420 week or two? I have no idea, but it's been, it's been really, really crazy. I mean, look,
00:05:55.920 I love what I do and I'm really proud of the book. So I'm, you know, I'm psyched to be doing this.
00:05:59.820 And I actually love, it's been fun talking to some of my, my, some of my crew going on their
00:06:04.540 podcast, you know, guys that I know. And then it's fun talking to people that I don't know that
00:06:08.280 I'm meeting for the first time and chatting with all these people that there's other great
00:06:11.760 interviewers out there. There's people that, you know, look at the world in different ways and all
00:06:15.660 that kind of stuff. But my days have basically been sometimes starting at 4am going until about
00:06:21.440 8pm, pretty much nonstop talking the whole time. So it can get a little weird because, you know,
00:06:26.260 every now and again, if you do with the long form, like we're doing right now, like, wait a minute,
00:06:30.080 did I say that five minutes ago or was that five hours?
00:06:32.240 Yeah. Was that in this conversation or the last three that I had there?
00:06:35.560 Yeah. So I'll try not to repeat myself too much like Joe Biden. I'll see what I can do here.
00:06:40.740 Well, you get what you ask for, right? If you want to put yourself out in the public and you want to
00:06:44.200 have a book that's, that, that reaches a lot of people and that's profitable and makes an impact,
00:06:48.780 then, you know, this is, this is the result, which, you know, you take it.
00:06:52.500 That's it, man. And I'll tell you when I was on tour with Peterson, which obviously is one of the
00:06:55.860 things I write about in the book, right? He always said to me, Dave, if we're going to do this,
00:07:00.740 we got to give it the everything we got. And I know it sounds kind of cliche, but like,
00:07:05.140 I really saw him do that. Like every event, he never owned it in. He took every interview,
00:07:11.720 he shook every hand and, and he lived that for a year and a half. And by extension,
00:07:16.920 I ended up living it for a year and a half. So I feel like I'm like well set up right now
00:07:20.800 to, uh, to be doing it. And yeah, I mean, it's look, if, if nobody, if nobody was digging the
00:07:25.760 book, then I wouldn't be doing a lot of these, but you know, once you do something and if you're
00:07:29.860 proud of it, it's like you want it out there. Yeah, definitely. Well, I did want to congratulate
00:07:34.280 you on, on reaching the New York times bestselling list. It's, it's a book that is unfortunate
00:07:39.220 that has to be shared in a way, you know, it's kind of interesting. It's like, it's,
00:07:43.200 it's a great book. It's a great conversation. It's just too bad. We have to talk about it from
00:07:47.240 this context. Yeah. Um, yes, I agree with you. It's kind of funny. It's like, we just found out
00:07:54.240 actually two minutes ago that we're on the times bestseller list now for the second week in a row,
00:07:58.380 which is obviously, which is great. Um, but in a weird way, thanks. You know, in a weird way,
00:08:04.020 your, your question is right. Cause it's like, you know, the stuff that I'm doling out in this book,
00:08:08.820 whether you agree with me on every little political issue, I would say is almost irrelevant.
00:08:13.180 The heart of the book and the heart of what I believe classical liberal principles are,
00:08:17.640 are common sense. I want you to use your brain. I want you to think about yourself and the world
00:08:22.000 and the life that you want to live in the, the country that you want to live in and figure out
00:08:26.220 how to maximize your happiness, find your purpose. And by extension, you'll do that for your family
00:08:31.360 and your community and everything else. There's nothing controversial in here in, in a,
00:08:35.660 in a world that was sane. Now, the problem is that we live in a world that's off its kilter right now.
00:08:42.300 And then you throw in Corona virus on top of that. And we live in a world that's really
00:08:45.600 sort of out of whack right now. So that's kind of the funny part. And you know, I titled it don't
00:08:50.580 burn this book and I didn't expect them to be out there, you know, like 1941 Germany throwing it in
00:08:56.400 bonfires. Obviously I didn't expect that, or I guess nothing's that obvious these days,
00:09:00.380 but I didn't expect that. But what I did expect and what has happened is that, you know, we've got
00:09:04.920 these like Reddit trolls and some of these underbelly of the internet sites that are attacking Amazon
00:09:09.740 reviews and online retailers. And in effect, that is a modern book burning because you burn a book.
00:09:16.980 I mean, back in the day, why did the Nazis burn books? Well, they didn't want counter ideas to come
00:09:21.280 out. They didn't want ideas that were either in many cases written by Jewish authors, but in more
00:09:26.520 cases that were about freedom or about science, things that they didn't want to get out there.
00:09:31.820 And in, in the modern sense, it's like, why would you assault Amazon reviews or attack online
00:09:38.380 retailers? Uh, you would do it because you want to depress people from seeing the actual content,
00:09:44.700 reading the actual ideas. So in many ways they're proven the point of the book. It's,
00:09:48.120 it's a digital book burning or a modern book burning, but you know, it seems like it hasn't
00:09:52.360 stopped anybody from reading it. So that's good.
00:09:54.100 Well, and, and I think in a lot of ways it actually produces the opposite effect of what
00:09:58.620 they intend, which is kind of funny because in a way this is like trollery of, of master levels
00:10:04.380 here, right? It's like, don't burn this book, which is an invitation to burn the book, which
00:10:08.220 actually helps gain some publicity for the book. So well, well played.
00:10:13.480 Yeah. I mean, I'm not going to say I didn't think about all the options, you know what I mean?
00:10:17.800 Like we, we, we kind of, we kind of played it out and we were like, all right, well, we'll see what
00:10:22.380 they do with it. And we do know that one person has actually burned it in anger at least. Um, you
00:10:29.000 know, a couple of people did it like to be funny. Um, but it's all good. You know, the, I, I believe in
00:10:34.380 these ideas, the, the, the things that I talk about in the book, I think are the, the very same
00:10:40.220 principles that our founders set this country up with. Um, you know, they wanted, they wanted limited
00:10:45.980 government and they wanted, uh, individual rights. We haven't always lived up to it in America, but
00:10:51.880 we really have bent the arc of justice in that direction. And if you're a legal citizen of the
00:10:57.220 United States right now, you're legal under, under the law. There's nothing stopping you from doing
00:11:02.080 whatever you want to do, whether you're black, white, gay, straight, whatever it is, nobody cares.
00:11:08.000 It doesn't mean we're all going to be equal. If it meaning that, you know, you might have some
00:11:12.200 physical gifts that I don't have, or some people are born rich. Some people are born
00:11:15.820 poor. That's all the magic of life. That's like the chance you got. But what America has done
00:11:21.260 better than any country to say, Hey, we're here. We're equal. You know, women couldn't vote at one
00:11:25.780 time. Now they can vote black people were slaves. Then they couldn't vote. Then eventually they
00:11:30.000 weren't slaves and could vote gay people couldn't get married. Whatever, whatever the issue is,
00:11:34.220 we've always moved things towards more equality. And we really live in a time right now where nobody's
00:11:40.560 rights are impeded on because of their immutable characteristics. And that's, that's a beautiful
00:11:44.780 thing. And it's, and it's what the founders intended, even if they didn't get it perfect
00:11:49.620 as men of their time. To me, it seems like a lot of people, I would say more predominant on,
00:11:55.960 on the left. And I think we're going to get into the distinction here seem to want to be remained
00:12:00.060 trapped in the past. Like, I'm not going to deny that there was more racism, uh, 50, 70, 80 years ago.
00:12:07.380 I'm not going to deny that there was some, uh, less than honorable conditions in which we've engaged
00:12:15.280 as, uh, as a country generally. But like you said, we're moving forward and maybe it's not as fast as
00:12:21.300 people would like. It's certainly not without collateral damage, but we are trying to correct
00:12:27.580 the behavior. And I think generally we're moving in the right direction and we're doing the right
00:12:32.700 things collectively. Yeah. Well, that, that's not just an idea what you're saying. I mean,
00:12:36.700 the numbers bear it out. I lay out a lot of numbers in this book and we are the least racist society,
00:12:42.500 probably in the history of the world, our entire country. What does it say on the statue of Liberty?
00:12:47.620 They're poor and you're huddled masses. We've brought in everybody from every corner of earth.
00:12:51.940 We throw them here. We don't give them anything. And then what happens in almost every case,
00:12:56.340 almost every case, they make a better life than they had when they were in the other's place,
00:13:00.720 wherever it was. Uh, you know, it doesn't matter where it was, whether it was Europe or Africa
00:13:05.140 or anywhere else or Asia, it just doesn't matter. And then that life is significantly better in the
00:13:13.600 next generation. The next generation usually has it better. This has happened for over 200 years in
00:13:18.680 the United States. So the, the, the certain set of people who keep us in this endless, we're,
00:13:24.000 we're racist, we're homophobic, we're sexist. They're just using that so that they can figure out
00:13:29.520 some sort of governmental control over you. That's it. There is, where do you, where do they
00:13:33.720 want to go? I mean, they never leave, right? They always say they're going to leave, but they never
00:13:37.280 leave. They, they never go to Sweden. They always point to Sweden as the place we should go. Sweden
00:13:41.720 is a tiny, tiny homogenous society that in the last 10 years has some immigration and some migrants.
00:13:48.360 And now we're having all sorts of problems. We have put the, the ingredients of the world into the
00:13:55.000 stew of America. That was the idea of the melting pot. Come here, bring your traditions, bring your
00:13:59.940 foods, your languages, all of these things, but fold it into America, fold it into this idea. I love
00:14:05.460 the phrase when Dennis Prager talks about that America is just an idea. It sounds sort of silly, but when
00:14:11.560 you really think about it, the founders had an idea and all that idea was, was could we free people?
00:14:18.840 Could we free people from a King? Could people live freely and, and pursue happiness? I mean, that's a
00:14:24.140 crazy statement to put in founding documents, but we've got them in ours and, and we have allowed
00:14:29.640 people to do that. And I think there's too many people that think, oh, just because the world isn't
00:14:34.640 exactly as they wish it to be, that this experiment is a failure. And this is the greatest freaking
00:14:39.640 man-made experiment in the history of the world. Yeah. I think where it works best is when we learn,
00:14:45.020 and we're talking about immigration, where individuals assimilate, right? And I think that's part of the
00:14:50.240 problem that we're seeing now is that we're pitted against each other, whether it's through our own
00:14:54.540 actions or incorporating the thoughts and tribalism ideas of other people that, that everything's
00:14:59.880 contentious as opposed to, Hey, you have a new perspective. You have a different thought. You
00:15:03.800 have a different life than I do. And maybe we could actually get together and I can learn some things
00:15:08.460 from you and you can learn some things from me. And we're both better off. We're not enemies.
00:15:12.940 We're actually common allies, shared interests. Uh, but, and I, and I think generally that's how
00:15:18.680 most Americans look at it, but it seems like there's a group of, of people up here that want
00:15:23.880 to say, no, no, no, divide. You're not supposed to be getting together and getting along.
00:15:27.840 Yeah. Well, look, there's many reasons for this. I think social media, obviously it was supposed to
00:15:33.500 make us social. And in many ways it made us anti-social and it polarized us more. And, and, and then,
00:15:39.140 you know, the sort of beauty and the danger of the internet is it allowed so many voices in,
00:15:43.860 which, you know, I'm a free speech guy. So I want as many voices in as possible,
00:15:46.640 but then so many competing interests and competing thoughts and online mobs and burner accounts and,
00:15:51.840 and trolls and all of these things have left us in a really odd spot at the moment where we're all
00:15:57.360 kind of looking around and then you throw Corona in it, but we're all kind of looking around and
00:16:00.800 going, well, what is America right now? What is freedom? What is, and by the way, this is, we,
00:16:05.840 we can talk about this at a much wider, um, through a wider lens than just America because
00:16:11.520 people all over the world are thinking, you know, what's going on with the government that's telling
00:16:16.720 me not to leave my house. Can we trust the government? Should I be more reliant on growing
00:16:21.660 food for myself or being able to defend myself or a series of other things that I actually think
00:16:25.820 are, are good things and important things to think about that maybe we were kind of lulled into
00:16:30.460 not thinking about artificially for a long time. Um, but I agree with your general premise there,
00:16:35.680 which is most people, if you meet most people, and I mean, not just most like 51%, I mean like
00:16:42.800 90%, certainly in America, they don't care what color you are and they don't care what religion
00:16:48.260 you are and they don't care what race you are. Many times we actually love meeting people. I know I
00:16:54.420 do. I love meeting people who are different than me that come from different places. I've had the
00:16:58.000 honor of traveling the country. And when I was on tour with Jordan, we went all over the place. I went to
00:17:02.420 all of these cities that I had never been to in the middle of the country, particularly I met all
00:17:06.740 of these people who lived very different lives and came from very different places than me.
00:17:11.000 And it was like, they just want to live free. They want to find some happiness. They want to be able
00:17:14.720 to provide for themselves and their family. That's what most of us want. And yes, we do have to get
00:17:20.840 away from this thing. And I do think we are getting away from it. I think the people that are the most
00:17:25.940 polarized political right now politically are the most boring. If your lens, the way you look at the
00:17:31.380 world is just through politics, man, you will be miserable. You will be endlessly miserable because
00:17:36.440 politics is about power. It's endlessly going for power. That's why generally I would say libertarians
00:17:44.520 and right-leaning people seem to be happier because their whole worldview is not wrapped up in trying to
00:17:50.260 get government power. Lefties tend to view government power as sort of the end-all be-all
00:17:55.700 of everything. And I think that that can only lead you to misery. I would liken this to Game of
00:18:00.820 Thrones. It's like in Game of Thrones, everybody, what was the Game of Thrones? Well, the game was
00:18:04.480 that we all want power and everyone's going to go try to get it however they can. Well, what happens
00:18:08.640 in Game of Thrones? Everyone's dead at the end. And the six guys who are alive, everyone they know is
00:18:12.800 dead. And that sort of is what politics can leave you with. Just an endless scorched earth thing. So you
00:18:18.980 have to have a worldview that is far wider than that narrow view that is just politics.
00:18:25.260 Why do some people get wrapped up in that? If we know that that's the side to consolidate power,
00:18:30.240 to gain power so we can have this authority, then why is it that so many people seem to get
00:18:35.260 wrapped up in it as not recognizing government overreach and power grabs, but they're genuinely
00:18:43.020 after our best interest and they know better than we do individually for our communities and for
00:18:48.940 our families. I think there's probably good people who get wrapped up in this and think that the
00:18:54.760 government genuinely has our best interest at heart. So I think there's a couple reasons for
00:18:59.560 this. I touch on this a little bit in chapter nine when I write about Find a Mentor and I talk more
00:19:03.680 about Jordan Peterson. I mean, I think what partly has happened is if you look at people on the right,
00:19:08.920 so if you're a libertarian, you're a conservative, you're an old school liberal, what does that mean you
00:19:13.720 basically believe? You basically believe in individual rights. So you want everyone to be
00:19:17.680 treated the same by the law. And then you believe in the light touch of government and say libertarians
00:19:22.020 believe in even less government than maybe classical liberals or conservatives, but that all can be
00:19:26.160 battled out. And that's what having a political party is about. That's what having a political platform
00:19:31.900 and conversation is about and all that. I think what has happened with the people that want power all the
00:19:37.320 time, and this would sort of be the modern lefties, the progressive, is I don't know what their unifying
00:19:43.500 principle is anymore other than government should do a lot of stuff. And I think the reason for that,
00:19:50.960 and this is a strange place for me to argue from, is that they have no belief outside of themselves.
00:19:57.580 People on the right generally believe in something. Now, we can call it God. The founders called it God-given
00:20:02.820 rights, meaning that there are rights that exist outside of you. There are empirical truths about
00:20:08.940 freedom that exist outside of you. And we're going to create a government to protect those truths. That
00:20:15.280 is a freaking beautiful, wickedly profound concept. On the left, they don't really believe in the
00:20:23.820 constitution or individual rights. They believe, oh, the government can do stuff. So we want it to do a
00:20:29.140 lot of stuff. And if it doesn't do as much as I want it to do, I'll make it do more. That is a very
00:20:35.180 different starting point. And I think that sort of leads to what I would say are a lot of good people.
00:20:41.780 I mean, the road to hell is paved with good intentions. A lot of good people who see some
00:20:46.360 sort of perceived injustice in the world, and then they think, oh, well, now I should take the power
00:20:52.700 to either take from some and give to others or to provide whatever programs I want because I am
00:20:59.320 good, because they feel good. And that, I think, is why Shapiro's line about, Ben Shapiro's line about
00:21:05.540 facts don't care about your feelings, I think really took root. And I think that, broadly speaking,
00:21:11.280 leftists generally are miserable because they've taken personal accountability out of their lives.
00:21:17.880 That's the thing that gives you purpose more than anything else. That's the thing that gives you drive.
00:21:23.220 It's your life, man. Go do whatever the hell you want to do with it. I'll make sure and I'll fight
00:21:28.600 to make sure that you're treated equally under the law. But once you want something special or once you
00:21:34.580 want to take from somebody else because that's what you feel like, well, now we've progressed to
00:21:38.940 something else. So if you told me progressive meant we're progressing to equality, we're good. We're good to go.
00:21:44.720 Right. The second we trip over that line, now we're not good to go. And I think that that's
00:21:49.580 what's happened. We progressed to equality. We got there, but they're not ready to give up the reign.
00:21:54.600 Yeah. You know, I've thought a lot about the differences and when I'm talking about ultra
00:21:58.480 progressive, we're talking about leftists and maybe we should kind of reverse here and go back
00:22:02.300 and explain and define those terms. But, you know, when I look at it, I generally think that those
00:22:07.200 individuals tend to be more pessimistic about human nature and the way that humans perform and show up
00:22:12.940 versus your classical liberals, libertarians, conservatives tend to be more in my experience,
00:22:19.860 anecdotally anyways, is more optimistic about the human spirit and how good people can be and how
00:22:26.540 hard they work and how much responsibility they're willing to shoulder. That to me seems like the
00:22:31.740 biggest difference.
00:22:32.940 I think that is a difference. And I think that's definitely connected to what I was laying out,
00:22:37.520 having something to do with belief. And I don't even mean that necessarily in the metaphysical
00:22:43.000 or mystical version of God, as much as just believing in something outside of yourself,
00:22:50.280 just believing that the world exists beyond what your thoughts are.
00:22:54.220 Right. It does not revolve around you.
00:22:56.520 Bingo. And once you can really understand that, understand also, there's a reason that lefties hate
00:23:02.520 history. They always want to take down statues and all these things. The reason they want to do that
00:23:07.420 is they think they can create the perfect world. What I always liken this to, if you're a Marvel guy,
00:23:13.540 I mean, basically modern lefties have become Thanos. What happened in the Marvel movies,
00:23:18.240 in the Avengers movies? Thanos saw a universe with limited resources and he said, you know what?
00:23:23.760 I'm the good guy. I'm going to do what none of you will do. But what did he have to do? He had to
00:23:29.400 wipe out half the life in the universe. That's not a great thing. But remember, after he did it,
00:23:35.060 what's the first scene? After he does it, you see him sit quietly and peacefully. He feels that he
00:23:40.880 has done good. And in many ways, that is what modern leftism is. They want to wipe out racism,
00:23:47.440 wipe out misogyny, wipe out homophobia. These are lofty goals. But what do you have to do and root
00:23:54.700 to their utopia? Well, every time socialism and collectivism takes root, whether it's Nazism
00:24:00.100 or anywhere else, you got to kill a lot of people because you can't make a perfect system. You know
00:24:06.420 why? Because we're flawed. I can't build a perfect system. I'm flawed. I think people on the right
00:24:11.620 broadly understand that. So their inkling is to say, okay, we can't build a perfect system. So let's
00:24:18.300 try to make sure that the system never gets too big. On the left, the idea is, oh, the system's
00:24:24.100 horrible. Let's give it more power. And that is just the biggest flaw in their thinking, I think.
00:24:29.320 And I've been able to wake up some people to that. Because if you get into a conversation with a
00:24:34.100 lefty, they'll complain about everything. They'll tell you how awful people are. They'll tell how
00:24:38.040 awful the government is, how awful politicians are. And then all you have to say to them is, hey,
00:24:42.800 I'm with you on all that. So my solution is let's rein in their power. Your solution seems to be give
00:24:47.840 them more money and give them more power. So there are ways to deprogram them.
00:24:51.520 Yeah. And I, you're, you're obviously a well-spoken guy. You've, you've seen both sides
00:24:56.260 of this. And I think that gives you some credibility as well. It seems to me like when
00:24:59.700 you're saying this, I hear, uh, the, the ends justify the means in a way versus no, the ends
00:25:07.100 are important, but the means are just as, if not more important than the result that it produces.
00:25:13.120 Well, that's why I always say democracy and freedom, it's messy. I think what, what the
00:25:19.260 lefties sort of think is that you can create it and it'll be clean and it'll be right. And they'll,
00:25:23.840 they'll have solved all our problems. They can tie it up in a bow, send it out and we're good to go.
00:25:28.560 And then that's that. I think what happens in, in a society that truly values freedom,
00:25:34.420 that values you as the individual to make the choices for your life that you want to make,
00:25:38.740 there's going to be some messy stuff in there. So like, you know, when I've taken the position
00:25:43.180 that the baker should not have been forced to bake the cake for the gay wedding, if that was against
00:25:48.420 his, uh, religious belief, well, a lot of people get angry, angry at me about that, but then you can
00:25:54.000 give them examples of things that they'll say, Oh no, you wouldn't force them to do it. So it's like,
00:25:58.300 if there was a painter who took a commissions online and she had Holocaust survivor relatives,
00:26:04.780 would you ever force her to paint, uh, Jews in a gas chamber? Of course not. Would you force
00:26:11.280 a Muslim baker to bake a cake for a gay wedding? The lefties would freak out if you forced them to
00:26:16.240 do that. Right. So you have to, you have to put some of it back in their face and say,
00:26:20.620 at the end, I'm not giving you a perfect system. Would I prefer that the baker just go ahead and
00:26:25.900 bake the cake? Yeah, I'd prefer it. But, but what I prefer isn't dominion over that man's life.
00:26:32.040 So what you have to say is, Hey, it's messy, but go ahead and get a cake elsewhere. And if you can't
00:26:37.300 get it in your town, then you order it on Amazon. And if you can't do that, then move somewhere else
00:26:41.640 or learn how to bake that. What that does is protect freedom, but it is a, it is a little
00:26:47.560 bit sloppy. It's not the perfect bow tie answer that they can take home to mom and say, look what
00:26:52.920 I did. I got an A. I think it comes down to a little bit of an oxymoron, which is a convenient
00:27:01.020 principle maybe that, that we're only principled when it's convenient or it aligns with your
00:27:06.220 viewpoint of the world. I mean, you talk a little bit about this when it comes to hate speech. It's
00:27:10.080 like, what is hate speech? Like, yes, you know, there, there is, there's certain language and,
00:27:16.480 and rhetoric that I don't agree with that. I don't appreciate, but if I want people to be open
00:27:24.200 to at least the thought that I can share what I believe, then I got to be open to what they believe,
00:27:30.260 even if I don't like it or approve of it. Of course. Look, I I'm a free speech guy. So what
00:27:36.060 does that mean? I mean, I lay this out in the book. You can say whatever you want with the very,
00:27:41.540 very, very narrow limitations that the U S government has given. And what are those narrow
00:27:46.620 limitations? Well, you can't instigate violence against the person or a group. So you can't say,
00:27:51.320 Hey, you know, kill all those people. You can't do that or plot to kill people. Um,
00:27:56.200 with that has other criminal, uh, stuff involved. Um, and you can't yell fire in a crowded theater
00:28:02.280 with the idea of creating, uh, uh, a mob scene. You can't do that. And then beyond that, we have
00:28:08.020 extremely, uh, strict laws around libel and slander that almost never get used because they're so
00:28:14.360 strict. But beyond that, you know, when these people say, well, I'm for free speech, but Nazis aren't
00:28:18.520 allowed to speak. It's like, well, you just, well, you also call everybody a Nazi. So you're
00:28:23.740 really not for free speech. And, and I'm sure you know this, but you know, there was the famous case
00:28:28.480 of, uh, the KKK trying to march in Skokie, Illinois in 1971. They went intentionally to the place in
00:28:36.720 America that had the most Holocaust survivors and the ACLU did the right thing. It defended their
00:28:42.980 ability to speak. Now, had they been violent? Well, now we've got something else. Had they marched and
00:28:48.080 said, now kill all these people. Now you have something else, but you have to protect odious
00:28:53.340 beliefs. Otherwise you're not really protecting anything. You're, you're virtue signaling, but
00:28:57.860 you're not really protecting anything. Right. Well, I do appreciate you letting me know and
00:29:01.660 informing me that I am indeed not a Nazi, which is something that you make very clear.
00:29:06.760 People were very happy with that chapter. Yeah. Oh, I bet. I bet. I bet they're happy with every
00:29:11.480 chapter. I bet everything they, they agree with everything. There's no confrontation. You know,
00:29:16.780 I'm sure it just went over very, very well with everyone. Yeah. Well, I felt that I should write
00:29:21.400 a chapter, uh, that would tell people that they are, no, they are not a Nazi. And of course I wrote
00:29:27.080 it, you know, obviously somewhat tongue in cheek, but you know, this idea that just because someone
00:29:31.940 disagrees with you, they're a Nazi, they're a bigot, they're a bigot, right. You know, the worst of the
00:29:36.980 worst, you know, there's so many dangers there, but the real danger actually is not what you've done to
00:29:43.440 that person. Now, in many cases you've silenced that person. And, you know, I talk a lot about
00:29:47.680 that in the political closet, but when you label all of your political opponents, these horrible
00:29:53.060 things, it really is about what you're doing to yourself. And I did a video right after Trump got
00:29:59.140 elected where I kept saying to the lefties guys, and I really felt I was still a lefty at this point.
00:30:05.000 I kept saying, Hey, our guys, we got to stop calling Trump, Hitler and everyone else Nazis,
00:30:10.480 because if we don't do that, what if Trump turns out to be okay? What if he's not, you know, putting
00:30:18.300 people in camps? What if he scales back war? What if the economy is doing well, cuts regulation,
00:30:25.180 a series of good things? Well, you can't suddenly be like, Oh, you know, that Hitler guy is pretty
00:30:30.000 decent. Right. So what you do in effect is you put yourself in a corner. And I think that's why so
00:30:36.920 many leftists right now are acting so bananas. Trump really saw that he saw that their, their
00:30:42.820 visceral reaction to him was so over the top that he can get lefties to take almost any position on
00:30:50.180 any given thing. If Trump came out tomorrow and said he was for open borders, the left would be
00:30:54.600 demanding we build a wall. And, and I think that is goes to what you're saying about you have to have
00:30:59.900 principles when they're tough to have having principles when they're easy to have really doesn't
00:31:05.260 mean anything. We all have that that's easy, but you know, but the ACLU saying, wow, we are going to
00:31:11.540 defend the rights of self-proclaimed Nazis to express free speech. That takes, that takes freaking balls
00:31:20.860 and, and honor in a very, in a very weird way and an uncomfortable way. And again, it goes to why
00:31:27.000 freedom is messy. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, it's, it's the, the boy who cried wolf too. You know, if, if,
00:31:34.340 if everybody's a racist and then actual racist comes along and you say racist, then everybody's
00:31:40.260 like, yeah, you said that about the last 10 people. So yeah, that guy's not a racist that undermines
00:31:44.920 your credibility and authority for whatever you're talking about. That is, yes, you are a hundred
00:31:48.340 percent right. And that is actually what I'm, if I was worried about one sort of growing unknown thing
00:31:53.840 in America, remove coronavirus for a second and all the stuff around that. That's what I'm worried
00:31:58.320 about. They, they, in effect have shot their load. They called everybody bigots and racists
00:32:04.020 and they got nothing left to the point that when the real bigots come, which by the way,
00:32:09.260 they're not Trump supporters and they're not Donald Trump. When the real bad guys come,
00:32:14.260 we, we won't believe it anymore. They will have cried wolf so many times that the wolf is going to
00:32:19.320 be eating all the sheep and many good people are just going to be like, no, it can't be,
00:32:23.060 can't be because everybody else that they call the Nazis. So I am worried about that. I am definitely
00:32:27.780 worried about that. Yeah. Yeah. That, that, that is a very serious, uh, concern. You know,
00:32:32.560 you use the word, the term lefties. I think we ought to describe what that is because you're not
00:32:37.720 talking about, like you say, classical, uh, classic liberalism or libertarianism. You're
00:32:42.740 talking about lefties. So, so explain that for me. Yeah. So it's an important distinction to make
00:32:47.420 because I've sort of stuck the flag in the ground and I'm trying to save liberalism. I don't know that I
00:32:51.940 can save the word liberalism. Um, I think I've woken up a lot of people to understand there's a
00:32:57.060 difference between liberalism and leftism. Liberalism, as I described before, classical
00:33:01.380 liberalism, which is really an idea of the 1700s enlightenment was the idea that if you're illegal
00:33:06.380 in a country, you are born, uh, free and thus a government is supposed to protect your rights.
00:33:12.960 We've done that better than anywhere else in the United States. And then the light touch of
00:33:15.920 government, meaning we want competition to solve as much as possible. And then there's some added
00:33:21.360 bonus stuff like, you know, use logic and reason and our human minds and respect and tolerance and
00:33:27.080 that sort of stuff. How would that, how would that differ from libertarianism? Great, great question.
00:33:33.320 So I get this a lot. And in effect, so when I say that, usually a lot of people will say, well,
00:33:37.600 you're a libertarian, right? I don't mind being, I don't mind being called a libertarian. I think a lot
00:33:42.000 of these terms are starting to blend together. I would say the only real functional difference
00:33:47.280 between a classical liberal and a libertarian is that libertarian, uh, classical liberals tend
00:33:51.660 to believe in a little more government. So I actually do think the state can have some role
00:33:56.940 in education. I don't think it should have a hegemonic role in education, but a lot of libertarians
00:34:02.040 don't want the state to have any role in education. Um, and also if you were to take the sort of more
00:34:06.680 extreme side of libertarianism, they're constantly looking to get the government out of absolutely
00:34:11.120 everything. I actually really like those ideas. I think they're intellectually fun. I don't know if you
00:34:15.500 know Michael Malice, but I think he's one of like the great sort of ANCAP libertarian thinkers that
00:34:20.720 we have. So I think that stuff is all fun, but I do think it's sort of a necessary evil. I think
00:34:26.220 society needs some basic guardrails that are the government. So that's what I would say the difference
00:34:31.420 is. But if, if at the end of the day we talked all day long and your takeaway was Dave, you're a
00:34:35.880 libertarian. I don't mind that. That's fine with me. The important distinction we should make is,
00:34:41.020 all right, so how is liberalism different from leftism? Now leftism, and when I talk about leftism,
00:34:47.660 I'm talking about socialism. I'm talking about collectivism, the idea that groups should have
00:34:52.340 rights, not individuals. I'm talking about that the state should be above you. I believe you should
00:34:59.040 be above the state. Um, this is a very authoritarian set of ideas that then when you, you throw in
00:35:06.940 identity politics and, you know, grouping each other based on immutable characteristics and black
00:35:11.220 people should think this and gay people should think this, this is a really dangerous set of
00:35:15.600 ideas, which of course, who always sits at the bottom of that totem pole? It's the white Christian
00:35:19.580 man, uh, which is, which is patently absurd because guess what? Black people are allowed to have all
00:35:26.000 sorts of thoughts. White Christian men are allowed to have all sorts of thoughts. And the only way you
00:35:29.100 can ever find out is if you talk to each one of these people, the idea that-
00:35:32.740 And everybody has issues too, right? I mean, and I'm not, some are worse than others. Some are
00:35:37.960 different. You know, we, we all have things that we're dealing with or backgrounds that we've come
00:35:42.420 from or certain characteristics or viewpoints that maybe hinder our, our ability to succeed. Like
00:35:47.960 we all have baggage. Like it isn't exclusive to one group of people.
00:35:52.100 No, of course. And, and the idea, I mean, collectivism on its face is racism and bigotry. So I could find a guy
00:35:59.900 that probably looks a lot like you and sit him next to you. The idea that he would think the same
00:36:05.180 things as you, because he's white, he has a beard, he's wearing a hat, you know, blah, blah, blah.
00:36:10.200 That would be bigotry because, because bigotry is based in prejudice. And of course, prejudice is
00:36:14.480 to prejudge. So if I just looked at 10 white guys who all kind of look the same, same age and everything
00:36:19.540 else. And I was like, well, they're this, well, that is prejudging. And by the way, that goes for every
00:36:25.860 group. You're not going to believe this, but black people think all sorts of different things.
00:36:29.340 Gay people think all sorts of different things. It's crazy. Women, women even think all sorts of
00:36:34.860 different things. It's just bananas, right? So socialism and collectivism and progressivism has
00:36:41.900 morphed into this very weird authoritarian thing. And the reason it got conflated with liberalism
00:36:48.360 is, is a really clever trick that they did. They saw the soft underbelly of liberalism. Liberals are
00:36:55.040 open-minded. Liberals are tolerant. You may know the famous paradox of tolerance by Karl Popper,
00:37:02.000 that if you're so tolerant that you're tolerant of intolerance, well, the intolerant people are
00:37:05.680 going to come in and take over. And in many ways, that is what has happened to liberals. That's why
00:37:10.520 there are very few real liberals anymore. We have progressives and then we have basically everybody
00:37:17.840 else, because I would say classical liberals, libertarians, conservatives, we're all sort of on the
00:37:21.520 same team at this point. We can argue about the specifics, but we all sort of are getting it
00:37:26.360 together and we're getting along. And it's the progressives versus all of us, because I don't
00:37:31.120 know if you're a star Wars guy, but they basically executed order 66 on the liberals. They, they went in
00:37:37.020 to take out the liberals and they did it pretty well because they got in because liberals were like,
00:37:42.080 yeah, we're nice and tolerant. So we're going to listen to you. And next thing you know,
00:37:46.460 if you say that men and women have different biological, uh, attributes, you're a Nazi too.
00:37:52.420 Right. So that's how they, that's how they took out the good liberal.
00:37:55.520 That's interesting. So do you feel like the trend of the country is moving more towards leftism,
00:38:02.100 progress, extreme progressivism, or do you feel like this is something that we're seeing in a pocket
00:38:07.120 and we're going to be able to counter that sooner rather than later?
00:38:11.060 It's a great question. Nobody likes being in the prediction game. I believe that the future,
00:38:15.440 I believe that the future of American politics, and you, and you have to just mention that
00:38:20.440 coronavirus has everything completely out of control right now. Everything is, the dice are
00:38:26.040 up. Like we're in the middle of the dice, right? They're on the way down. We don't even know where
00:38:29.720 the board is anymore. Right. Right. So, so putting aside Corona, although I'm happy to talk about that
00:38:35.380 related to all this as well. Um, I think that the future of American politics, but not just American
00:38:41.280 politics. I think that the future of Western politics of, of free loving nations is center
00:38:46.740 right. I don't think it's leftist by the way, the labor party, which is in effect, what our
00:38:51.800 democratic party has just gotten demolished in the UK election. Right. The Australians had an election,
00:38:57.780 the right one there. Most of the Eastern European nations are all moving right. Uh, Israel has had
00:39:03.360 like, you know, four elections in the last five years and it's all right leaning. They've demolished
00:39:08.580 their lefty party. So I sense that's, what's coming to America too. I think that basically
00:39:14.780 is a good thing. If the center of America is center, right. Meaning it mostly is about individual
00:39:21.300 rights. We're, we're going to guard our extremes. So, you know, we're going to be respectful of
00:39:25.980 religious people, but we are going to have a separation of church and state. We're going
00:39:29.160 to battle about what all the specific issues are and the rest of it. That's a pretty healthy
00:39:34.180 place. In my opinion, for a country of 350 million people, the danger would be if we went
00:39:39.180 the other way and we, and we became this leftist country, because then it's like, all right,
00:39:42.640 well, we're just going to take from whoever we're going to demonize everybody. We're going
00:39:46.540 to group everybody. And, uh, it's a, it's a toxic stew.
00:39:51.380 Man, let me hit the, uh, the pause button real quick on Dave and I's conversation. I want
00:39:55.260 to introduce you to the iron council. Uh, I've been amazed over the past, I would say two
00:39:59.720 to three weeks with the growth that we've been experiencing over the past, uh, well, that
00:40:03.500 timeframe, two to three weeks. And I believe it's because men are beginning to see the
00:40:08.020 value in banding with other men who have their back and want them to succeed. It's that resource
00:40:14.720 is invaluable, whether it's in the iron council or anywhere else. But if you were to strip everything
00:40:19.120 away from what the iron council is, that's what it's all about. It's a band of brothers
00:40:23.140 who will support you, encourage you, hold you accountable. And if you're like most men,
00:40:28.260 that just isn't something that you have in your life. And even if you do, what I've seen
00:40:32.620 is that most of the conversations that men are having stay on the surface and never really
00:40:36.340 get to the heart of, of what really matters. And all that you're trying to accomplish as
00:40:40.400 a, as a family man, a business owner and a leader in your community. So if you're ready
00:40:45.140 to forge a powerful bond with other like-minded men who are successful and ultimately chart the
00:40:51.100 path that will lead you to where you want to go, then I invite you to join us in the iron
00:40:56.040 council at order of man.com slash iron council. Again, it's order of man.com slash iron council.
00:41:01.980 You can do that after we finish up the show with Dave. Well, and it seems like once you start to go
00:41:07.960 that way and you allow the government to consolidate some of that power, it becomes increasingly easy for
00:41:14.920 the government to do right. It's it, the longer that it goes on, the harder it is to control,
00:41:20.040 to stop, to maintain, to reverse. So that's very much a good sort of metaphor or example of what
00:41:26.660 we're dealing with right now with Corona virus. We did, we did the guarantee, right? They told us,
00:41:32.040 Hey guys, lock it down. We're going to lock it down two weeks, four weeks, six weeks. We're now
00:41:36.480 eight weeks in I'm here in California. It sounds like they just tacked on another three months.
00:41:41.200 And in all of these States, well, the blue States, I should say, because the red States like Texas and
00:41:46.380 Florida are opening up. Now that doesn't mean that everything that they're going to do
00:41:49.740 is going to be perfect. Maybe they will see little spikes, but they're trying to take some
00:41:54.340 chances for us to live freely. The idea that we're going to eradicate this thing or that no
00:42:00.220 one will die or that no one will be sick or any of this stuff, man, that is, that is a crazy
00:42:06.940 proposition. That is not what mature, honest people would be saying to each other. But when you hear
00:42:12.360 some of these governors say, well, if one person dies, it's too many. That's crazy. People die.
00:42:19.320 People get hit by cars. You could walk outside of your house and you get struck by lightning.
00:42:26.180 Anything can happen. The idea that we can mitigate risk completely away, uh, is, is not possible.
00:42:33.060 And you know, there's the, the famous saying, those who would give up liberty for security deserve
00:42:38.620 neither. Do you think it's, uh, well, I should say to what degree do you think it's ignorance versus
00:42:46.100 intellectual dishonesty? It's, it's very hard to say because there's so many layers of this. It's
00:42:53.000 like, uh, do I think that most of the young students in college who've been indoctrinated
00:42:59.100 with this stuff by their professors and by media and everything, I don't think they're ignorant.
00:43:03.780 I think they've been confused and they've been handed easy answers. And then you just swallow easy
00:43:09.500 answers. Um, that being said, I do think that there are leaders of these movements. There are many,
00:43:16.100 many people in, uh, mainstream progressive politics and in mainstream, uh, media, you know,
00:43:22.680 MSNBC, CNN and the rest of it that are forcing really bad ideas down people's throats because
00:43:28.320 they want to control people. I have no interest in controlling people. Whatever you do in your life,
00:43:34.720 as long as you don't come on my property and do it and try to take my rights away, you can do
00:43:39.780 whatever you want. And I really mean that like, that's the beauty of America. That is a beautiful
00:43:45.740 freaking thing. And they don't view the world that way. They, they view the American, uh, experiment as,
00:43:52.400 as misguided or, or evil or something like that. I mean, if you were to watch any of the,
00:43:58.720 the democratic debates, none of these people are proud to be Americans.
00:44:02.280 No, Bernie. I mean, imagine, imagine if they, they never said words like freedom and Liberty.
00:44:07.540 They said constitution once. I remember the one time the constitution was said it was when Kamala
00:44:13.000 Harris said she was going to do an executive action to take away guns. And Biden looks at her
00:44:18.100 and says, well, it has to be constitutional because he's sort of, he's like the last vestige of an old
00:44:23.300 school Democrat. Right. And what did Kamala Harris do? She looks at him and she laughed in his face.
00:44:28.120 And she said, Joe, can't we just say, yes, we can. And what I realized at that moment was man, Joe
00:44:35.460 putting aside what your cognitive stuff is and everything else you're in the wrong room, man.
00:44:41.920 Cause the future of this party doesn't care. They, when you say constitution, they think of that as
00:44:48.100 toilet paper. They don't believe it is good. They don't believe this place is good. I believe this
00:44:53.880 place is good. I believe that is a sacred document. I've got a giant American flag in my
00:44:58.100 control room right there. And we've got the constitution and the bill of rights. I'm not
00:45:01.100 just doing it for decorations. You know, it's like, these are the things that freed us, man.
00:45:05.700 And we got a pretty great in America. Yeah. I think if you believe at its fundamental level
00:45:10.580 that it's good, then it's worth salvaging. It's worth fighting for it's worth taking some risk and
00:45:15.920 some chance. And if you believe at its fundamental level that it's, that's evil and it's wrong and
00:45:19.820 immoral, then of course the natural response would be to wipe it off the face of the earth.
00:45:24.460 And that is it. They're not proud. Imagine the Bernie crew, the AOC crew, imagine them
00:45:31.400 going up and having to defend America. Like imagine if America was put on trial, right? Like
00:45:37.460 some futuristic dystopian world and the lawyers for America are Bernie Sanders and AOC. We're getting
00:45:44.420 the electric chair, my friend. We're getting it pretty damn quick. But now how about we do it the
00:45:48.840 other way? Now we'll take Donald Trump and give me Rand Paul, libertarian. So you have Trump. He's
00:45:55.660 more of a, you know, Trump's hard to totally pin down on what his political ethos is. It's sort of
00:46:00.220 Trumpism, but let's take Trump and Rand Paul, who's the closest thing we have to a true libertarian in
00:46:06.020 the Senate. Those guys could seriously defend America in the court of law. Uh, and the other guys
00:46:12.540 would, would throw America under the bus in a second. You know, I know you talk about so many
00:46:17.580 different things here. You talk about gender and you talk about hate speech and you talk about,
00:46:22.740 uh, trans rights. I mean, you talk about everything that, you know, you're not supposed to talk about,
00:46:27.240 which is actually why I like the book because it's provocative and it gets you thinking about
00:46:30.740 things that maybe you haven't considered before. You know, what, what are some of the paths forward?
00:46:35.240 You know, is, is it trying to find some common ground? Is it trying to, for lack of a better
00:46:41.220 term, convert people to a different perspective? Like what is the path forward? So I think it sort
00:46:47.860 of depends what your starting point is, right? So if, when I wrote this book, the idea was I want,
00:46:53.160 you know, there's a reason that it's this thick. It's about 240 pages. It's not huge. I've got 12 rules
00:46:59.120 for life there. It's about 400 pages. It's dense. You got to, you can, you know, when I read 12 rules,
00:47:04.780 and I, and I love Jordan and I've talked to him a million times, it's like, I was able to read a
00:47:08.440 couple of pages and then I'd usually put it down and I'd be like, I'll come back.
00:47:11.200 You got to ponder and really reflect on it.
00:47:13.680 Yeah. And what I, what I tried to do with this was, can we, can I give people a book that they
00:47:20.960 can read in a couple of days that gives them some of the tools to think for themselves? And then
00:47:26.320 hopefully, you know, your neighbor doesn't have to buy it, hand them the book or your friend or your
00:47:30.780 brother, your cousin, whatever it is, hand them the book and go, you know, there's some stuff in here.
00:47:34.540 And I guarantee you're going to agree with some of it and disagree with some of it,
00:47:37.540 but there's some interesting things in here. And so when you talk about the path forward,
00:47:42.300 it's like, well, what I would like to do is I want to help convert a lot of the confused lefties
00:47:47.440 into people who love Liberty. That would be a great thing. But what I also want to do is I want to take
00:47:53.060 what I call the politically closeted, which I think is the largest political group that we've got right
00:47:57.920 now. The most underserved political group, the amount, the group of people who are good,
00:48:02.340 decent Americans who I'm sure I have some differences with, but that are afraid to say
00:48:08.300 what they think. And I want to show them that if they don't say what they think, we will lose this
00:48:13.480 thing because there will be people out there who will gladly take away all their freedoms.
00:48:17.920 So you better freaking stand up for it right now. You know, I tell the story in the book,
00:48:22.180 but both of my grandfathers fought in World War II. One of them was a pilot and one of them
00:48:26.920 was a mechanic. It's like, I haven't had to fight an award that we, we are here on the backs of great
00:48:32.720 men, not because they were great in and of itself, but because they were people of their time who stood
00:48:37.520 up and did what had to be done to fight for freedom. That's what I want people to understand
00:48:41.920 in 2020. If you got this in your pocket, you're not oppressed. That's it. You're not oppressed.
00:48:47.580 And by the way, you got privilege. It's called American privilege. That's what you got.
00:48:53.040 Well, you know, you talk about privilege. What's interesting is I can't remember who I was talking
00:48:56.620 to just the other day about this. And I said, well, let's just assume for a minute that there is
00:49:02.300 white, you know, male, straight, whatever privilege you want to say that I would fall into, right?
00:49:09.620 Yeah. But there isn't, by the way, but I'll go on your hypothetical journey.
00:49:13.060 Assume there is. What would you have me do? Like, okay. So therefore what, what do you want
00:49:21.280 me to do? Like, why wouldn't I take advantage of opportunities? Whether I was born with a little
00:49:25.700 bit more intellect than somebody, or my mom loved me more than somebody else who didn't grow up in a
00:49:30.260 household with, with a loving parent. Like, what do you want me to do about that? It seems to me that
00:49:35.540 you'd want people to take advantage of the opportunities that are presented and do good with
00:49:40.480 those things. Well, if they were to answer you, honestly, if they were a lefty, they'd say bow
00:49:44.440 forever. That's what they would say. Bow forever. You had your time, but none of us are guilty for
00:49:51.640 our parents' sins or our ancestors' sins. Now, nobody in my family owns slaves, but even if someone did,
00:49:57.460 I mean, even if someone did, I wouldn't be guilty because of that. You happen to be a white
00:50:03.100 heterosexual male. Why should you be, why should anyone hold that against you? Should you,
00:50:08.420 should it be harder for you to get a job because of that? And, and I think what the left does is
00:50:14.500 they go, well, we want to help these people. But every time you say, I want to help these people,
00:50:19.440 you actually want to punish someone else, but they don't want to think about that. They only want to
00:50:23.360 think that help means help and that's it. But I have no desire. No one's born with original sin.
00:50:29.240 If a, if a white Christian child is born today, I want him to have the exact same opportunity
00:50:34.780 as the black Muslim child and vice versa, obviously. And the only way that can happen
00:50:41.140 is if you give people equal rights, not if you try to rejigger society in some magical way,
00:50:46.960 because you'll always be punishing undeserved people.
00:50:50.260 Yeah. The, the variable in the equation has to change. So if, if you're looking at a mathematical
00:50:55.580 equation, if you want to come up with an equal answer, then the variables that go into that equation,
00:51:01.540 they have to change, right? So it means that this need, this value needs to go down. This value
00:51:06.480 needs to go up. And that's what produces the, the, the same number at the end. It's the same thing
00:51:11.080 here is like a variable has to change. Either the inputs change, which is what we're dealing with,
00:51:16.100 right? You have a different experience, different culture, different beliefs, different thought
00:51:20.980 processes and, and different experiences than I do, which means that naturally you and I will have a
00:51:26.820 different outcome of our life. Sure. Well, we sure we will. And that's beautiful. That's a good
00:51:32.440 thing. It's great. It's great. It's great. What a great country we live in. You know, I tell the story
00:51:36.640 briefly in the book about my two best friends growing up. Uh, one was Greek, Ari. One was Italian,
00:51:43.040 John. I'm Jewish. We used to, we lived all within three blocks of each other. They'd come to my house
00:51:48.320 for Hanukkah. I did Greek Easter at Ari's house. Uh, I did, um, you know, Christmas at John's house.
00:51:55.120 We bounced around and what we realized over the years, there's still my two best friends to this
00:51:59.560 day now, 40 years later. And what we've realized is, yeah, the foods were different in our houses,
00:52:04.720 right? Like there was a lot of pasta in one. Uh, but, but the traditions, that stuff, it's all
00:52:11.800 actually the same in that we all, our families cared about family. Our families all cared about
00:52:16.740 education, hard work, all of these things. That's such a beautiful thing about America,
00:52:21.240 like an absolutely beautiful thing. Um, but the idea that that should be our defining thing,
00:52:27.780 that your ethnicity should be your defining thing or your religion or your gender or anything else,
00:52:32.600 it's anti-American. And that's why it's so strange that the people who purport to be the anti-racists
00:52:39.200 are the ones who are constantly injecting race in America. Right. MLK Jr. What did he want? He didn't
00:52:45.240 want his children to be judged by the color of their skin. Well, who's judging by the color of the skin
00:52:50.260 these days? Is it, is it the conservatives? Not that I see. Is it the libertarians? Definitely
00:52:54.720 not. But who is, it's the progressives everywhere constantly. And, and this is an incredible flip
00:53:01.640 of history. You know, it's interesting. It reminds me of this, this, uh, press conference that Trump
00:53:06.440 had just a couple of days ago. And, and I assume, I, I assume she's Chinese based on her response,
00:53:11.280 but she asked a question of Trump and he said, ask China. And she said, well, why would you ask me
00:53:17.080 that? She was alluding to the fact that he was being racist. He's like, I'm not telling you,
00:53:21.940 I'm just telling everybody. It seems to me that even her saying that would be more racist than
00:53:26.620 what Trump's actual response was. Right. So then of course the media runs with it,
00:53:30.880 that Trump's, that Trump's racist, as if him saying, ask China, he, he says that to anybody,
00:53:35.920 the idea that Trump is racist. That's not a new comment of his.
00:53:38.640 He insults, he insults Brian Stelter and Jim Acosta who are white, you know, heterosexual,
00:53:43.940 I believe men, he insults them all day long. He insults everybody. He's an equal opportunity
00:53:48.860 offender. Like we used to, remember we used to have comedians that would offend everybody. Don
00:53:52.680 Rickles, you know, our great sort of permission to do it. What, what Don Rickles did. And if any
00:53:58.960 of your audience doesn't know Don Rickles, he was one of the great, great standups we've ever had in
00:54:03.700 America. And what he did, he'd go on stage and he'd talk about the Asians and the Jews and the blacks
00:54:10.140 and the Greeks and the gays. And the, and what that did was it allowed everyone in the room to
00:54:15.060 realize I'm part of this thing. I'm part of this great American tapestry. Nobody was left out. He
00:54:21.220 made fun of absolutely everybody. He would have been canceled. Obviously today, the mob would have,
00:54:26.660 the mob would have destroyed him. You know, he, he passed away about two years ago, but he was
00:54:31.400 a wickedly brilliant comic who did exactly what you're supposed to do in America to say, okay,
00:54:36.580 we've got 10 different groups. I'm going to make fun of nine of them, but that one group,
00:54:41.940 they must be protected. Well, what you do is you otherize that group at that point. And then,
00:54:46.860 and then you, you're the one that will create this odd prejudice around them or bigotry around them or
00:54:51.900 everything else. We should be making fun of everybody. You know, hopefully you do it respectfully
00:54:57.220 or with a bit of a sense of humor. But the idea that Trump looked at her and said, China,
00:55:03.020 because he's racist, which on top of everything, you know, China is not a race. It's a nationality.
00:55:07.380 Asia is the race, but I know that that gets lost on a lot of people. Um, but it's just patently
00:55:11.900 absurd. Yeah. I wish we could go back to the days where we collectively as a society gave permission
00:55:18.480 to comedians to talk about anything and everything. I just think that that would like ease the tension
00:55:24.220 a little bit because comedians like yourself included with, with your background, say the things
00:55:29.540 that most of us don't feel comfortable with, but we're thinking them in our heads.
00:55:34.320 Well, that's the idea, right? Like an outlet. It's like a valve on a, on a pressure cooker.
00:55:38.560 It's like you be the valve for me because I'm not willing to do it. So you do it. And now we've
00:55:42.720 taken away that. So there's all sorts of pressure that we used to have outlets for
00:55:46.120 to loosely quote Oscar Wilde. If you want to tell people the truth, you better be funny or they'll
00:55:50.460 kill you. And that's what comics do. What did, what did our greatest comics do? George Carlin was
00:55:55.020 telling you something true, telling you something that he believed through humor and, and, you know,
00:56:01.240 brilliant linguistic wit. What was Richard Pryor doing? What are the great comics? What is Dave
00:56:05.660 Chappelle doing now? He's telling you something true and he's doing it while making you laugh.
00:56:10.740 That's a beautiful thing. You know, it's funny when, so I did stand up for about 12 years in
00:56:13.920 New York and then now I have other things going on, but I'll, if I have an off night when I was on
00:56:18.560 tour with Jordan or I have a, I'm in a city, if there's a club, you know, we can, I can sell out a
00:56:22.800 club easily now, which is great because I've succeeded in other ways. And I get up there and
00:56:26.820 I, I really barely have a couple of jokes, but I'm basically messing with the crowd the whole
00:56:30.420 time. And people show up in, you know, I've had black guys in MAGA hats. And then I had this one
00:56:35.840 guy who was a, he had a, he was a white guy with a shaved head. So he sort of looked like he could be
00:56:40.220 a scary neo-Nazi. And I had them come up on stage with me and hug and people are going crazy and
00:56:45.680 screaming. And the point of it is to show that we're, we're all Americans. We can all get in a room and
00:56:51.320 have two drinks. Well, we used to be able to get in a room. I don't know if we'll, yeah, not anymore
00:56:54.760 in LA. Maybe not anymore. Under 10 people, under 10 people. And you got to be, you know, 50 yards
00:56:59.880 away from each other. But, but the idea that we could all get in a room and have a collective
00:57:04.320 experience in the best sense of collectivism, not because we're all this or that, but because we're
00:57:10.380 all different and then we can figure out a way to laugh about the crap that's going on in all of our
00:57:15.460 minds. That's a freaking beautiful thing. Yeah. You know, I, I once watched a Joe Rogan perform
00:57:21.160 live and I watched him slaughter a couple of people that are around the front of the stage
00:57:26.060 and the majority of them were laughing and he was making fun of them and they took it lighthearted.
00:57:30.440 It was fun. And then he got after this group of women. I think there was three of them.
00:57:34.140 And I can't remember what the joke was. I can't remember what he was saying, but I remember
00:57:37.820 vividly how personally these women took what he was talking about and they actually left.
00:57:43.760 But it was funny. I'm like, you know, it's not meant with like ill intent. It's we're all here
00:57:50.400 having a good time. We're having fun. I know it's hard maybe to be the butt of a joke, but
00:57:54.480 I really think we shouldn't take ourselves so seriously.
00:57:58.300 Of course we shouldn't. I'll tell you, can I curse? I can curse.
00:58:01.600 Yeah, go ahead.
00:58:02.440 We're on the internet.
00:58:03.380 For sure.
00:58:04.100 So I'm doing standup about a year ago. I think I was in Oxnard, California and I'm shooting the
00:58:10.900 shit with the crowd. I do a little, so I basically do standup for an hour and then I do like a Q&A
00:58:14.420 thing and I'm doing the Q&A and this guy in the back, I can't really see him because the lights are
00:58:18.200 very bright, but he yells out that he goes, Dave, I just got divorced and it's because of you. And
00:58:23.520 I was like, well, what? And the crowd laughs and I go, well, what are you talking about? He says,
00:58:27.160 well, I started waking up to politics and I wasn't a lefty anymore. And my wife was like a crazy lefty.
00:58:32.980 And, uh, you know, then we got divorced and, uh, and I was like, I paused and I was like, well,
00:58:38.820 fuck her. And that's why the crowd went completely crazy. Of course I, all of his friends,
00:58:45.640 like, now I don't know this woman. She could be a perfectly nice woman. I don't mean it to degrade
00:58:50.100 her or anything, but it's like, there was a funny moment in there of just like, dude, I'm on your
00:58:54.180 side. You know, we're, we're all this room. We're all there together. And by the way, when I, when I
00:58:59.240 toured with Jordan, I was basically doing standup. So I would do about 15 minutes, get the crowd laugh.
00:59:04.680 And then they'd listen to an hour and a half of Jordan. And you know, Jordan, this is fire and
00:59:08.240 brimstone stuff. No doubt. This is serious stuff. Um, I think over time, uh, you know, he would,
00:59:14.400 he would tell me this, he would incorporate a little more humor because he could see how,
00:59:18.660 you know, I was able to get the crowd to sort of have a certain emotion and he would like to play
00:59:22.940 with that a little bit. Um, but you need that, you need that because he would say to me, cause
00:59:27.880 there were a few shows that I missed on the tour if I had other engagement and he would always email
00:59:31.760 me after the show and say, Dave, I enjoy the shows much more when you're there. And the reason for
00:59:36.220 that was if you do a fire and brimstone speech about fixing your life and there's no relief at the
00:59:43.220 end, when those people walk out of that theater, it's like, yeah, you were handed something powerful
00:59:48.080 and deep, but you also need to breathe. It's what you said. You need to let that open the gasket,
00:59:53.480 let off some of that steam. So I was always very aware of that. I'm going to start this thing with
00:59:57.460 humor. Jordan's going to plow through with truth. And, and, you know, I would always tell him if we
01:00:03.260 had a great show, I'd say, Jordan, that felt thick. And what I always meant was it was like,
01:00:07.140 it was like walking through like molasses because it's tough. You got to walk them through the swamp
01:00:12.680 on a, on a, you know, I've been to other public speakers where it's like, they're not really
01:00:16.660 saying anything. So it's just like walking through paper. Right. But then I would always be sure at
01:00:20.560 the end when we do the Q and a, I want those people to end with a laugh. So I tried to make
01:00:24.280 sure every show ended with a laugh. And then it's like, they can walk out there and they go, well,
01:00:27.760 you know, I learned something, but I did laugh too. And that's, that's pretty great.
01:00:31.260 Yeah. It's hard. You know, it's really hard when you have a time like this, where I do realize there's a lot
01:00:35.280 of people who are having difficult circumstances, people are out of work and they're concerned and
01:00:39.820 they're fearful. But I do believe that the, that part of the remedy anyways, is let's lighten up,
01:00:46.080 let's help each other out. Let's have some fun to the degree that we can let's support each other and,
01:00:50.200 and, and, and not be so upset about things that frankly, we, we just shouldn't be upset about.
01:00:55.900 Look, and even if we should be upset about them, that, that still isn't a reason to be perpetually
01:01:00.300 upset about them. Right. Like you could be going through a seriously, you could be going through a
01:01:04.060 seriously tough time right now. I have no doubt that people are, I I've tried to help some people
01:01:08.340 in my personal life, you know, I'm doing pretty okay here. So I don't have anything to complain
01:01:12.160 about. Um, you know, beyond that, I would like us to be freer, but I mean, in my immediate life,
01:01:17.360 but you know, the idea that we shouldn't joke in the midst of this, it's like, that's, that's not
01:01:23.440 what humans do. We need it, man. We need it. Yeah. You know, I remember, um, my wife's grandfather's
01:01:31.680 funeral and it was really like the first funeral that I, that I like really like vividly remember
01:01:38.220 and like was cognizant and aware of. And I was really taken back at first because they were
01:01:42.800 telling jokes about grandpa. And I was like, Whoa, wait, like just cool. Like I were, we're making
01:01:48.540 fun of the deceased here, but it just, it wasn't, it was honoring, right. It was like remembering good
01:01:55.600 times and having fun with it. And it was lighthearted and it was honoring more than it was meant to be some
01:02:01.300 sort of dishonor to him and, and, and what he meant in their lives. It's a beautiful thing.
01:02:06.000 Beautiful thing. My, my concern, I, if I have a concern about this book and for you, my concern
01:02:11.160 is that the only people will read this is the people who maybe don't actually necessarily need
01:02:16.940 to read it. You know what I'm saying? Well, look, obviously most of the people who read the book
01:02:23.480 are going to be right-leaning, but those right-leaning people, a lot of them are in that political
01:02:28.800 closet. So if I'm able to give them enough of, you know, juice them up enough to start speaking
01:02:34.600 their minds, then I've done something right. As for the, as for the lefties that should read the
01:02:39.100 book, that's a bigger lift, right? Because, you know, they're just going to say all those terrible
01:02:43.120 things about me and read, read the, you know, swarmed reviews and whatever. That's a tougher crowd
01:02:49.040 to get into, but I'm working on it. But in terms of getting people on the right to be proud of who they
01:02:54.120 are and stand up for what they believe in, I think that's where I can do the most good work at the
01:02:57.740 moment. Yeah. I think there is a, uh, the, the, it's the vocal minority, right? It really, to me
01:03:03.560 is the minority who's squawking, who's making the loudest noise. And if the majority of us would
01:03:07.940 step up and it's hard because, you know, you hear things that I believe this, you know, the majority
01:03:12.060 of us are, have our heads down, we're working, we're leading our families, we're engaged in our
01:03:16.020 communities. And so it's like, I don't want anything to do with that. But yeah, it's about time we start
01:03:20.600 to step into this realm and open our mouths and become the vocal majority.
01:03:24.640 Or don't and see what happens. Guess what? It will not end well, right? I mean, I just did a
01:03:30.320 PragerU video two or three weeks ago called the bravery deficit. And one of the things I talk about
01:03:34.780 is I think a lot of good people think they can just, you know, duck their head, lower the cap.
01:03:40.260 I'll, I'll make it through. I'll make it through. They'll take out everybody else. I'll make it
01:03:43.500 through. No, no, that's not how it works. Frog in a pot. We all know the metaphor does not end well
01:03:48.760 for the frog. Yeah. Well, Dave, I appreciate you joining us. Uh, I really enjoyed the book. I read
01:03:54.460 a little bit of it and this was kind of last notice getting together. So I listened to a lot
01:03:58.220 of it, which I actually enjoyed hearing you, uh, read, read the words, which was really good as
01:04:02.520 well. Yeah. So I want to ask you a couple of questions that we wind down. The first one I did
01:04:06.840 let you know, uh, what does it mean to be a man? Find purpose. That's it. Find purpose that,
01:04:14.320 you know, when people talk about that, we have a crisis of manhood or that, you know,
01:04:18.100 young men are angry or lost or all of this stuff. It's because something happened related to purpose
01:04:24.280 to, to, it doesn't, you have to find what your purpose is, something that gives you passion
01:04:29.440 so that when you wake up in the morning, you've got something to do. You know, all I started doing
01:04:34.680 was saying what I thought. And then as I started doing it more and more people started listening and
01:04:39.320 then I kept doing it more. And then suddenly I had a book deal and I had a successful show.
01:04:43.800 And now I don't have a free minute in my day. And that sort of thing is incredible because I wake
01:04:51.020 up every day with purpose. I'm on a mission in life. I think that is what it means to be a man.
01:04:57.160 Now, then hopefully once you do that, then the other things that you, you hopefully want, whether
01:05:03.340 that's to be married and have kids and build a family and, and own property and all of those
01:05:09.760 things, I think all of those things will come, but, but you know, this is like a, a semi Jordan
01:05:15.940 version of it, but like find that star, whatever that thing is somewhere in the world, you want
01:05:20.520 something in this life, find that thing, man, and start going to it and, and see what happens.
01:05:26.420 And if you do that, I think you'll become a better man. And the reason I say that is I am,
01:05:30.600 I am not a perfect man, but I am a way better man right now than I've ever been.
01:05:34.460 Yeah. That's awesome. That that's, it's very similar to what I believe about what we've been
01:05:40.120 doing here is, you know, one day it was just, Hey, here's a Facebook post about something. I
01:05:45.560 believe about what it means to be a dad, you know, the next day it's, here's what I think about what
01:05:49.720 it means to be a husband and, and where I've fallen short. And then, you know, five years later,
01:05:53.980 here we are having these kinds of conversations. It's a very cool thing. You never know where it's
01:05:57.080 going to take you. You put yourself out there and then, Holy cow, other people go, Whoa,
01:06:01.760 I'm thinking something like that too. And then suddenly that spreads and that spreads and that
01:06:06.320 spreads. And you have no idea what you could do to the world. You have no idea.
01:06:10.840 Well, I know you're a busy man. I'll let you get to it. I'm sure you've got a lot of other
01:06:13.520 interviews and things that got to get done. Uh, where should I send the guys to connect with
01:06:17.360 you? Obviously to pick up a copy of the book and all that stuff. Yeah. Yeah. So they can go to
01:06:20.760 don't burn this book.com where they can get it on Amazon, Barnes and Nobles, anywhere else at
01:06:25.640 a Rubin report.com or all the other good stuff. Excellent. We'll sync it all up. I appreciate you,
01:06:31.480 Dave. You're doing great work. I don't need to tell you that, but, uh, but it has been impactful
01:06:35.780 in my life. And I'm anxious to share this with the, with the people who listen. I enjoyed it.
01:06:39.860 Make sure to tag me and we'll spread it around. Thanks brother. Gentlemen, there you go. My
01:06:45.380 conversation with the one and only Dave Rubin. I hope that you enjoyed it. Uh, it is my hope that
01:06:50.420 you're walking away with some new information and I'm not asking that you agree with everything.
01:06:56.180 Uh, I just ask that you question what you think that you challenge what you believe and ask if
01:07:02.000 there's a new way of looking at information and circumstances and topics that are some of the most
01:07:09.540 polarizing, uh, divisive conversations and subjects that we've been addressing over the past several
01:07:15.340 years, not only in this podcast, but society in general. So I'd also encourage you to pick up a copy
01:07:19.720 of don't burn this book. Very, very fascinating read, a very quick read, efficient read. I mean,
01:07:25.480 it's, it's good. It's got a great information, uh, talks about all of the things that most people are
01:07:31.060 unwilling to, or afraid of talking about, which is the kind of conversations I want to have here.
01:07:36.160 And that's the beauty and the power of the podcast is that we can talk about anything that we want.
01:07:39.920 Now I'm sure I'll get a bunch of hate mail for having Dave on the podcast. Uh, but that's part of
01:07:44.380 the deal. If you're going to have difficult conversations, then lots of people aren't going to agree.
01:07:48.820 And that's actually part of the fun and it leads to better conclusions, having these types of
01:07:53.880 conversations. So anyways, uh, pick up a copy of the book again, don't burn this book, connect with
01:07:58.320 Dave on his socials connect with me. Let me know what you thought about the show, good, bad, and
01:08:02.760 different. And let's keep the conversation going. I've got an incredible lineup of men who will
01:08:06.880 continue to join us. I've been swinging for the fences on podcast guests these days. So, uh, you're
01:08:12.640 going to see some very fascinating men come up in the conversation. And if you have suggestions
01:08:16.500 or introductions, then please feel free to reach out to me as well. Guys on a parting
01:08:20.080 note, just make sure you share the episode, share the show, leave a rating and review,
01:08:23.960 do your part. All right. I'm trying to put out great information for you, trying to make
01:08:27.580 this available, trying to lift us all up and become this go-to resource for men. Uh, your
01:08:32.020 part in the equation is to share it. That's all. That's all I ask of you share it. Take two
01:08:36.180 minutes, leave a rating review, not a whole lot to ask. And it goes a long way in promoting
01:08:39.880 what we're doing. All right, guys, we'll be back tomorrow for the ask me anything with
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