Order of Man - July 22, 2022


How to Father Our Daughters ｜ FRIDAY FIELD NOTES


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In this episode, Ryan talks about the importance of being a good father to your daughters and how to raise them in a degenerate culture. He shares 5 strategies that have helped him become a better father to his daughters.

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00:00:00.000 You're a man of action. You live life to the fullest. Embrace your fears and boldly chart
00:00:04.980 your own path. When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time. Every time.
00:00:10.440 You are not easily deterred or defeated. Rugged. Resilient. Strong. This is your life. This is who
00:00:17.160 you are. This is who you will become. At the end of the day, and after all is said and done,
00:00:22.720 you can call yourself a man. Gentlemen, what is going on today? My name is Ryan Michler.
00:00:27.720 I'm the host and the founder of the Order of Man podcast and movement. Welcome here and welcome
00:00:32.500 back. I'm going to talk with you about something today that I just don't normally talk about. I
00:00:36.300 got a lot of requests over the past several years for me to talk more about being a father of girls
00:00:42.100 and young women. So that's going to be something I'm going to attempt to do today. Now, admittedly,
00:00:47.580 I talk more about my boys. I've got three boys and I've got one daughter. Obviously, I talk more about
00:00:53.420 my boys because that's what I know. That's what I'm comfortable with. And also, admittedly,
00:00:58.740 I'm a bit more protective than my daughter than I am of my boys. I think that could probably be true 0.70
00:01:04.580 instead of just about any father worth his weight out there. So I'm going to share with you today
00:01:09.580 five strategies that have helped me. These are mindsets. These are things to be thinking about
00:01:13.880 when it comes to raising your young ladies. We're going to get into that in just a minute.
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00:02:39.280 and then also make sure to leave that rating and review. All right, guys, let's talk about how to
00:02:44.060 father our daughters. Obviously, this is a crucial thing. Many of you fathers, probably half, I don't
00:02:49.980 know the statistics, have a daughter or daughters. And I know I don't talk about it a lot, but it's
00:02:55.040 crucial that we as men know how to raise our daughters effectively in a degenerate culture,
00:03:02.880 frankly. There's a lot of risk to our daughters. There's a lot of things they need to be aware of.
00:03:07.080 There's a lot of things that we can do. There's a lot of innocence and maybe even a bit of
00:03:13.820 naiveness. I tread lightly on saying that. I don't think women are naive necessarily, but I do believe 0.99
00:03:21.640 that because they are the fair sex, they tend to think better of situations. They tend to more, 0.99
00:03:29.500 I think so, than men put themselves in compromising, potentially compromising situations. So our daughters
00:03:36.200 are going to deal with that. That's the reality of the situation. And for my daughter, I want to make
00:03:40.640 sure that she's equipped with everything that she needs to be able to thrive and win and be 0.84
00:03:44.740 independent and hopefully at some point and at some stage in her life, partner with a man and have
00:03:49.900 kids and live the life that she has a desire to live. So the first thing I wanted to share with you
00:03:55.780 is number one, we have to exemplify what manliness is because our daughters primarily are going to 1.00
00:04:02.260 look to us as an example of who they want to be with. And I often have said that boys, our sons
00:04:10.260 want to be us. Our daughters look for who to be with based on our performance and based on the way
00:04:16.720 we're showing up. Now, yes, your daughters do want to be like you. If you're into fishing and you're
00:04:20.920 into hunting and you're into painting and you're into photography and you're into entrepreneurship,
00:04:25.560 yes, of course, she's going to be like that too. But primarily, they're going to be looking at you
00:04:29.380 as an example when they find a young boy, a young man that they're attracted to and you become the
00:04:35.740 benchmark, the standard by which she measures every one of those guys. And that bar should be set
00:04:42.060 extremely, extremely high. Now, a lot of the times when I talk about exemplifying manliness,
00:04:48.640 sometimes people mistake that for just believing that you can just be a good example. It's just not
00:04:56.260 enough. It really isn't. You need to be able to connect the dots. So when you're showing up and
00:05:02.880 you're holding a door for a woman or you're pulling out the chair or you're standing up when she leaves
00:05:08.180 the table or comes to the table or the way that you communicate with your wife or the way that you
00:05:12.880 treat women in general, you also have to fill in the dots and fill in the blanks and let her know why 1.00
00:05:18.220 you're doing that thing and why we give women the respect that we do. This is very, very important.
00:05:23.900 If you just hope that you're going to be a good example, that's going to go a long ways,
00:05:28.860 but you need to make sure you're having these conversations about how a man is supposed to
00:05:34.220 treat a woman, how you treat women and how you expect other men, those who will come into your 0.61
00:05:41.040 daughter's life, how she should expect them to treat her. So guys, if we're not exemplifying
00:05:47.680 manliness, none of what I'm going to share with you today really matters because although it will
00:05:54.600 rub off and it will help, there's going to be a huge gap between the way that your daughter or
00:06:00.440 daughters see men and the way that ideally we should be behaving around the women in our lives.
00:06:09.140 And you want to make sure, as I stated in last week's Friday field notes, that the integrity gap
00:06:15.020 between the way that you want her to be treated and the way you're actually showing up is minimal,
00:06:20.660 if not non-existent. Now I say exemplify manliness because it's important that we use the term
00:06:26.240 manliness as opposed to masculinity. Now this might be semantics. I don't want to get tripped up on that.
00:06:32.100 Everybody here is capable of discernment and understanding the nuance of what I'm talking
00:06:36.260 about. But I believe that there is a difference between masculinity and manliness. Masculinity is
00:06:41.400 simply, and even if you look this up, simply the characteristics, virtues, behaviors, patterns,
00:06:45.720 et cetera, that men ascribe to or men exit it based on their biological makeup. Now it's not toxic to be
00:06:56.060 masculine. It's not even virtuous. It just is. And the way that we harness our masculine traits
00:07:03.660 is, and will determine whether or not we're acting manly. So for example, if I'm walking down the street
00:07:13.120 and I see an attractive young woman by herself, and I don't see anybody else around, well, I think it's
00:07:19.780 safe to say that all of us understand that masculinity and men generally have a greater propensity for
00:07:27.240 violence. That isn't a secret. That isn't guesswork. It just, it's the reality of the situation. So if I
00:07:34.380 see this young woman walking down the street and I decide to physically or sexually assault her or 0.98
00:07:40.720 attempt to steal her purse, and I do so in a violent manner, I think all of us would say that's not a proper
00:07:47.820 use of masculinity. On the other hand, if I see somebody doing that to her and I decide to use my
00:07:55.720 propensity for violence, dominance, protection, courage, strength, to subdue somebody who might
00:08:04.640 be doing that to her, or even to put a bullet between the eyes of that individual, that's still 1.00
00:08:10.420 violence, but it's righteous violence and it's harnessing my masculine characteristics for productive
00:08:16.140 outcomes. So it's not enough just to be masculine. We have to be manly. Again, let's not get tripped up
00:08:23.120 in the semantics, but understand the distinction, however you want to look at it. And let's all,
00:08:28.840 I think, agree that we can either use our characteristics and behaviors for horrible,
00:08:36.080 horrific outcomes, or we can use them for productive, virtuous, honorable outcomes. And we need to be acting
00:08:45.440 manly as in men, not boys. All right. Number two, it's crucial that you also, if you're going to
00:08:55.300 exhibit manliness and teach her about those things, then it's crucial that you also surround her with
00:09:01.120 feminine women. You need both. You can't have a daughter who's so masculine because she was never 1.00
00:09:09.300 introduced to a female presence. And you also, I think, have to be very aware in our modern times
00:09:15.280 that she actually is being introduced to femininity. And when I say that, I'm talking about lovely,
00:09:23.520 kind, beautiful, compassionate, empathetic, understanding, nurturing, all of the characteristics
00:09:32.500 and behaviors that we would naturally ascribe to women. Now, there's a lot of women out there who, 1.00
00:09:39.820 and I think this is becoming increasingly the case, who don't exhibit those behaviors or who have been
00:09:46.020 told that if you do, then you're somehow inferior to men and that you actually have to go out into the
00:09:54.160 workforce and you have to go out and produce and do all of the things that men do in order to be equal.
00:10:00.360 Well, ladies, you don't have to do that. Now, if you want to, and I know some very, very successful 1.00
00:10:06.080 women out into the workforce, and if that's a desire that you have, then so be it. 1.00
00:10:11.600 But also, let's not strip away the beautiful nature of womanhood 0.99
00:10:15.940 on the altar of just trying to be like men. We're different. We're not equal. Men and women are not 0.81
00:10:23.220 equal. Let's get over that right now. Equal means the same. We're not. Now, we're equal in worth,
00:10:28.240 human potential, human worth. I talked about that on the Asking Anything on Wednesday.
00:10:33.900 But we're different. Our characteristics, our behaviors, our beliefs, our thought patterns,
00:10:38.840 our gut instincts, the way we respond to situations generally is different than one another.
00:10:45.540 And I want to make sure that my daughter is getting an introduction into how men show up for their
00:10:51.420 people. And I also want to ensure that she gets an introduction into how women can be lovely and go 1.00
00:10:59.020 out and be in their feminine selves and their feminine way. That's very, very important for me.
00:11:05.700 Now, we don't have to sacrifice one or the other. I don't have to turn her into a tomboy. And I don't 0.52
00:11:11.040 have to turn her into some sort of a pushover or this woman who's not capable of doing anything. 1.00
00:11:17.360 Okay. There's a balancing act here. And what that means is not that we find the middle ground,
00:11:22.780 but that we find both sides of the equation and we introduce those sides of the equation as
00:11:28.140 appropriate. And that's why I believe that every young woman and every young man as a son or a
00:11:34.220 daughter deserves and should have the right to a loving and engaged mother and father in the home.
00:11:40.760 I know that isn't always the case. I know the family court systems mess with this. I know that
00:11:46.500 pop culture tends to deliberately destroy and dismantle the nuclear family, but that's the 0.73
00:11:55.080 battle that we must fight. And our daughters and our sons, by the way, need to be in the presence of
00:12:00.460 masculine men and feminine women. And then we also need to make sure that we're honoring that femininity. 0.90
00:12:07.840 When my wife and I are parenting in a specific moment, there might be situations where I have to be
00:12:14.940 stern or disciplinary or tough. And there's other situations that require some tenderness and some
00:12:21.700 love and some empathy and compassion. Well, who do you think takes the lead on each of those scenarios?
00:12:27.800 That's not to say I'm not capable of tenderness. And it's not to say she's not capable of being a
00:12:32.420 disciplinary, but I need to be able to honor when I see a woman for the example of, of, of our family is
00:12:42.100 I need to be able to honor my wife when she's being feminine with my daughter. And I don't need 1.00
00:12:48.480 to question it. I don't need to say it's stupid. And I don't need to say whatever it is. I maybe have
00:12:52.860 the inclination to say, but I just need to honor it and encourage it and embrace the fact that a
00:13:00.020 daughter has a good feminine presence in her life that I don't fully understand. And I don't need to 1.00
00:13:05.360 fully understand it because if I did, there would be no use for having women around and vice versa. 1.00
00:13:10.080 If women understood men, there'd be no need for you to have that male presence in your life. 0.99
00:13:16.440 This is why we have both. So that's number two, surround her with feminine women. 1.00
00:13:21.300 Number three is obviously we want to teach our daughters all sorts of things. I'm going to get
00:13:27.380 into that, but there is a couple of things here that I wanted to pull out that I think are very
00:13:32.340 important. It's crucial. It's imperative that you teach her these two things, self-defense,
00:13:38.780 some form of martial arts, and situational awareness. There's an infinite number of
00:13:46.340 things that she needs to learn. But if you're not doing these things for your daughter, I think
00:13:51.280 you're dropping the ball. And I hate to say that we live in a society where the risk to her is
00:13:57.700 probably, if I was to look at the statistics, more men are victims of violent crime, probably because 1.00
00:14:05.120 of the scenarios they put themselves in. But I think a woman is generally speaking more vulnerable
00:14:12.160 to those attacks and those situations than a man is. We can debate and we can discuss that, 0.87
00:14:19.600 but I heard a great conversation on it. And I think it was with Jocko. And he said something to
00:14:24.720 the effect, and I'm paraphrasing, so don't quote me on this or him, that sometimes a man has what
00:14:30.780 another man wants, right? If I've got my wallet and I've got $2,000 or $3,000 in there and my credit
00:14:36.100 card, there's going to be somebody else who might want that. If I'm driving around a high-priced luxury
00:14:42.500 car, I have a luxury watch on, I'm carrying something that somebody else might want. Now,
00:14:49.520 that's not always going to be the case, especially with me. I drive an older pickup. I wear t-shirts and
00:14:54.700 jeans. I don't really look like somebody who might have a lot of money. So, sometimes men have what
00:15:01.400 other people want, but women, they always have what other men want. They always, they do not get 1.00
00:15:09.220 to absolve themselves of having what other men want. So, you need to get your daughters enrolled in 1.00
00:15:17.220 martial arts. I'm talking about jujitsu. I'm talking about wrestling. I'm talking about striking.
00:15:22.260 Is this going to keep her out of all of these situations? Of course not. But you might as well
00:15:27.420 give her a leg up. You might as well give her a fighting chance. I would also teach her how to use 1.00
00:15:33.180 knives and always make sure that she has a knife on her. I would teach her how to use firearms and make 1.00
00:15:38.900 sure she understands the firearm safety rules and make sure she knows how to utilize that thing
00:15:43.220 in a very quick and proficient manner to neutralize a threat that she may come across.
00:15:48.640 If there's a young woman walking down the street and myself separately walking down the street,
00:15:54.540 the attacker is going to go after the woman. He's not going to go after me when he has the choice.
00:16:00.200 So, we need to make sure that our daughters are equipped to be able to handle that. 0.93
00:16:03.800 I would also say situational awareness. Now, this goes back to what I was saying about
00:16:08.020 women and their propensity to see the best in every situation. I think sometimes, 0.99
00:16:16.760 I'm speaking in broad generalities here, that based on my own personal observation, that more
00:16:23.480 often than not, women tend to look through life or at life through rose-colored glasses more so than 0.99
00:16:32.120 men do. So, they see the best in people. They want to help. They want to be empathetic. And what
00:16:37.580 they do is they open themselves up to risk and exposure and vulnerabilities when they do.
00:16:43.500 It's good. It's a beautiful thing, but it needs to be addressed. So, having teaching your daughter
00:16:50.520 situational awareness so that they're not putting themselves in compromising situations. They're not
00:16:56.600 making poor decisions that will inevitably put them at a greater risk. So, do you do exercises with your
00:17:05.580 daughter when you're getting out of the vehicle or even getting back into the vehicle? If my wife's at 0.99
00:17:11.780 the grocery store and she's got her head buried in the trunk of a car because she's putting the 1.00
00:17:16.100 groceries away, but she's not watching behind her, okay, well, that's a problem, right? If she's
00:17:22.700 walking down the road, especially late at night or in a scarcely populated area, then she ought to be
00:17:32.760 on alert, more ready, more prepared for that. And I think men generally are going to be more so that
00:17:38.200 way just through our nature. So, we need to ensure that our daughters are capable of seeing their 1.00
00:17:44.580 surroundings and keeping themselves out of harm's way because we won't always be around. So, those
00:17:49.960 are the two or three things that I wanted to extract specifically when it comes to skills. Again, it's
00:17:54.540 martial arts and self-defense, and that could include knife work, that could include firearms, and of
00:18:00.680 course, situational awareness. Now, the next thing, number four, is that we want to help her be
00:18:09.080 independent. I want to help my daughter be independent. I don't want her to have to rely on a
00:18:14.160 man. I don't want her not to know how to change the oil on a car. I don't want her to have to know
00:18:20.500 or rely on somebody pulling over on the side of the road because her car is broken down.
00:18:26.020 I don't want to have to have her rely on other people to fix things when she should be fully
00:18:31.840 capable of doing those things herself. She should know electrical. She should know plumbing. She
00:18:36.180 should know basic vehicle maintenance. She should know how to change a tire. In addition to that, 0.85
00:18:40.680 she should know how to make money. She should know how to balance a bank account. She should know how to 1.00
00:18:44.480 do her schoolwork. She should know how to present in public. She should know how to communicate
00:18:48.000 effectively. These are all things that our daughters need, not more than our sons, but let's not
00:18:54.160 overlook the fact that we don't live in the 1940s or the 1950s where our daughters are just going to
00:19:00.500 be at home and they're going to be homemakers for the rest of their lives. Now, if that's the case, 0.63
00:19:04.300 great, but I'll tell you what, my wife, as a homemaker, she's a stay-at-home mom. She's a 1.00
00:19:08.680 homemaker. She's very, very independent. When I leave on a business trip, I barely hear, I'm the one who
00:19:15.020 calls her. I barely hear from her because she's doing her thing. She's gardening and she's doing food
00:19:20.500 preservation and she's taking the kids where they need to go and she's running the classroom and she 0.98
00:19:24.700 can balance a checkbook and she can manage our finances to the degree that she needs to when 0.99
00:19:29.120 I'm gone because that's one of my responsibilities in the dynamic of our home. But guys, you want to
00:19:34.040 make sure that she's completely independent because the last thing I want for my daughter is A, to have 1.00
00:19:39.500 to rely on a man or B, to have to put herself in a situation that might be compromising, whether that's
00:19:45.820 a dangerous, potentially dangerous situation, or maybe even marrying a guy that she's not completely
00:19:51.780 attracted to or isn't the one for her because she needs help with finances, for example. That's a
00:19:58.040 ridiculous thing. That's not going to happen with my daughter. And I think you probably feel the same
00:20:02.020 way. And if that's the case, then you can't just hide them and you can't just tuck them in the corner
00:20:07.640 and hope they don't experience any of the real world, which honestly, I have the propensity to do at
00:20:13.500 times. Like, I don't, I'm going to shelter. I'm going to bubble wrap her. Guys, we've got to
00:20:17.680 introduce our daughters to the real world and help them develop the skills that will allow them to
00:20:22.380 be dependent, excuse me, independent. Now, the opposite side of that is we don't want her to be
00:20:28.640 so independent. And this girl comes with the third feminist, third wave feminist type movements. 1.00
00:20:34.520 So independent where she's a man hater. I don't need a man. I don't need this. I don't need that. And
00:20:39.980 I don't need a man to open my door. I can open myself. Like, yes, we know all men know that women 0.57
00:20:45.560 are capable of opening the door for themselves. That's not why we do it because we think you're
00:20:49.100 incapable. Or, or I was on a flight about a month ago and a lady, I had opened the hatch on the plane 1.00
00:20:56.920 to get my luggage out. And there was a smaller lady next to me. I know she was fully capable of 1.00
00:21:02.980 putting the luggage in there. She did it by herself, but I grabbed it and I handed it to her. And she
00:21:07.820 simply said, thank you and smiled. And that was it. Like we don't, we're not courteous and respectful
00:21:12.780 because we don't think you're capable of doing it. We're just trying to honor and respect you as
00:21:18.440 women. So we don't want man haters either. We want women who honor masculinity and manliness. 1.00
00:21:26.660 And that comes back to point number one. So let's not say that just because we're trying to raise
00:21:30.540 independent daughters that we want them to hate men because we all know where that leads. And there's 1.00
00:21:35.200 some very, very disgusting, just nasty, I would say women who hate men and hate society and hate this 1.00
00:21:45.220 quote unquote tyrannical patriarchy. And they don't even know what they're talking about. They've been
00:21:50.040 so programmed and conditioned to hate something that's actually good. Men building, lifting, edifying,
00:21:59.080 creating, innovating. That's good. And I'm not your enemy ladies and ladies. You aren't men's enemy.
00:22:08.240 Now there's situations where we are pitted against each other. It's unfortunate, but it's the reality.
00:22:12.980 But generally speaking, we're not enemies. So independent daughters, but not man haters.
00:22:18.040 And guys, the last thing I would say here is that you really need to ensure that your daughter
00:22:25.660 knows that she is valuable and she has some contribution to the environment that she's
00:22:34.960 in, whether that's the dynamic of your home or in business or in college and school, that there's
00:22:41.100 something valuable about her above and beyond her body and her sexuality. I think I was introduced
00:22:50.000 to this concept by Dr. Warren Farrell, who's coming back on the podcast next week. He wrote a book
00:22:56.320 called The Boy Crisis. And it's been a while since I read the book, but he said the last thing that young
00:23:02.180 women need is to believe that the only contribution and value they have in this world is their body and 1.00
00:23:08.720 their sexuality, because then they're going to rely on those practices using their body to get what they 1.00
00:23:16.840 want or believing that if they don't have sex with somebody or they don't show them physical love,
00:23:22.940 that they're not worth anything. I don't want my daughter to feel like that. So my daughter and I,
00:23:28.760 we have a great relationship. We went to the lake yesterday. She showed me how she was swimming.
00:23:33.080 We have a pool she swims in. We'll watch shows together. We'll talk and we'll laugh and we'll draw
00:23:38.480 and we'll play and we'll wrestle and we'll do things. And obviously there's not a sexual component to it,
00:23:42.920 but that's what's needed. There's too many young women in society that the only attention they ever 1.00
00:23:49.820 get from men is sexual in some way. So what do they do? They put on skimpy clothes, they show off 0.95
00:23:55.940 their boobs, they strive for sexual attention, the way they speak, the way they act, the way they talk, 1.00
00:24:03.320 the things they do is all sexualized because they never learn from a healthy male relationship
00:24:09.620 what it's like to add value to the scenario without having to be sexual in nature.
00:24:17.060 That's one of the greatest things that an engaged father can do for his daughter.
00:24:23.280 You do that by complimenting her. You do that by giving her the tools, as I said earlier, to be
00:24:30.500 independent, by honoring her efforts, by rewarding and encouraging her progress.
00:24:39.100 And by just being there and present and playing and laughing and joking and wrestling and swimming
00:24:43.380 and painting and all the things that you do with her outside of sexual interaction with a woman.
00:24:50.900 It's crucial guys. And as a father of a daughter, these are the things that I'm constantly working on.
00:24:59.040 Now, admittedly, I'm not as dialed in on these things as I am with my boys because it's easier
00:25:03.760 to take my boys and say, Hey, let's go to jujitsu. It's easier to take my boys and say,
00:25:07.800 Hey, we're going camping. We're going hunting. Why can't I do that stuff with my daughter?
00:25:11.860 I can. And I do. And I should do that more. Let me recap guys. Number one is we need to
00:25:17.940 exemplify manliness because she's going to look at us, not only for behaviors and how she's going to show 0.96
00:25:24.200 up, but she's also going to look for the attributes you possess in a future partner. 1.00
00:25:30.120 Number two is help her be surrounded with feminine, lovely women. 1.00
00:25:36.160 She's got to be around other feminine women and you have to honor, encourage, and recognize that.
00:25:42.000 Number three, teacher specifically, in addition to other things, but specifically
00:25:45.560 self-defense, martial arts, knife work, firearms training, and situational awareness.
00:25:51.260 That's number four, help her to be independent, sovereign. Dare I say sovereign, help her to be 0.90
00:25:57.380 independent, but again, not a man hater. And number five is show her through your words and your actions
00:26:04.900 that she has value to add separate from her body or sexuality. I hope that helps guys. If you have
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00:26:33.260 And the very last thing, especially if this podcast resonated with you today, or you know of a man,
00:26:38.840 a father with a daughter or daughters, that you share this, take a screenshot, shoot him a text,
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00:26:49.700 we can do as men specifically today to raise independent, beautiful, contributing, sovereign
00:26:58.080 ladies. All right, you guys, that's all I've got for you. We'll be back next week. Until then, 0.99
00:27:03.140 go out there, take action, father to your daughters, and become the man you are meant to be.
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