Order of Man - May 14, 2021


Inoculate Yourself Against the Doctrine of Popular Culture | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES


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39 minutes

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6,451

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485

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Summary

The doctrine of popular culture says that you should be fat, lazy, and up to your eyeballs in debt. They want you to do what you're told, submit to authority, and not question or buck authority. They don't want you in control of your own destiny, and they want to control and manipulate you in every facet of your life. It's up to you to decide whether or not you want to take the COVID vaccine.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 You're a man of action. You live life to the fullest. Embrace your fears and boldly chart
00:00:05.000 your own path. When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time. Every time.
00:00:10.480 You are not easily deterred, defeated, rugged, resilient, strong. This is your life. This is
00:00:17.080 who you are. This is who you will become. At the end of the day, and after all is said and done,
00:00:22.820 you can call yourself a man. Gentlemen, what is going on today? My name is Ryan Michler,
00:00:27.740 and I am the host and the founder of the Order of Man podcast and movement. Welcome here and
00:00:32.740 welcome back. We're going to be talking about inoculation today, and I'm not talking about
00:00:38.140 the COVID vaccine. That's up for you to decide whether or not you want to do that, but I'm
00:00:42.680 going to talk about the real inoculation that all of us as men ought to be thinking of, considering,
00:00:49.020 and then implementing in our lives, in our family's lives, and everybody that we care
00:00:53.780 about because this is important stuff. So before I get into that, let me just make a quick
00:00:57.460 mention of our new battle planning app, gentlemen. It is an incredible program.
00:01:02.520 The guys that are using it, thousands at this point are using it, and it's going to help
00:01:06.420 you plan out your day, map out your week, and map out your quarter. And the idea is that
00:01:11.100 we'll help you accomplish more in the next 12 weeks than maybe you have all year in the
00:01:17.000 past. So if you want to check out the battle planning app, you can go to 12 Week Battle
00:01:22.320 Planner. That's the number 12. So 12WeekBattlePlanner.com, and you can download that app for both Android
00:01:28.140 and Apple devices. Again, 12WeekBattlePlanner.com. All right, guys, let's talk about inoculation.
00:01:35.080 Again, let me just reiterate, I'm not talking about the COVID vaccine. All right, there's
00:01:39.460 enough talk about that. You can decide whether or not you want to take the vaccine. That's up
00:01:43.680 for you to decide as your own man, as a leader of your family. You guys can decide that on
00:01:49.440 your own. But what I want to talk with you about today is the inoculation against the
00:01:53.460 doctrine of popular culture. Now, what is the doctrine of popular culture? The doctrine
00:01:58.320 of popular culture is what we're seeing in society that is leading all of us down a dangerous
00:02:03.720 and destructive path. The doctrine of popular culture says that they want you fat, and they
00:02:11.400 want you lazy, and they want you up to debt or up to your eyeballs in debt. They want you
00:02:17.940 subjugated. They want you to do what you're told. They don't want you to question or buck
00:02:22.360 authority. They don't want individualism. They don't want free expression. They want to control
00:02:27.640 and manipulate every facet of your life. This comes in a lot of different forms. It comes
00:02:32.180 from the government. It comes from the media. It comes from even academia. And it's dangerous.
00:02:40.160 And it's your job to protect yourself and your family against anybody or any organization or any
00:02:47.660 institution or any government that wants to control and manipulate you and have you be nothing
00:02:53.540 more than a little cog in their wheel to increase and consolidate their power and authority over you
00:02:59.940 and the people that you have a responsibility for. So we're going to talk about some strategies
00:03:06.220 that you can employ, some things you want to be considering. Now, look, I've been talking about a
00:03:11.400 lot of this stuff for the past six years. And those of you who have implemented what we've been talking
00:03:16.100 about over the past six years have bettered your life and your family's life and the lives of the
00:03:21.700 people that you care about. And those of you who have not implemented what we've been talking about
00:03:26.640 are either in the same boat that you've been, and you're still complaining about being fat
00:03:31.060 and broke and directionless and without purpose and without focus and clarity and without the
00:03:37.600 confidence in yourself. You're either in the same boat or you're worse. And it's my fear that as we
00:03:45.520 continue to see the doctrine of popular culture's ideology being played out, that we'll be in further
00:03:53.560 debt, that we'll be less healthy, less safe, more at risk, less in control of our own lives. And it's important
00:04:04.780 that we buck this trend, not even buck, that we fight this trend. Where does the fight start? It starts
00:04:11.760 with you as a man, as a sovereign man, somebody who wants to take control of your own destiny, somebody who
00:04:20.060 believes that you can do it better than some government or some organization or some institution
00:04:25.520 or another individual thinks that you can do it or coerces you into doing it. You can do it on your
00:04:32.700 own. I have faith in you. Now, whenever I say that, I have people say, well, you know, Ryan, some people,
00:04:37.600 but I don't care about some people. I care about me and I care about mine and I care about you guys.
00:04:45.640 Now, yes, there are some individuals out there who cannot take care of themselves,
00:04:52.320 whether that's mental illness or other choices or circumstances they've made in their lives. And
00:05:01.960 I believe to a degree that we have a responsibility to take care of those individuals. But just because
00:05:07.740 another individual or a group of people can't take care of themselves or can't do what I'm about to
00:05:12.700 tell you doesn't mean that what I'm going to share with you is any less important or relevant for you
00:05:17.760 as an individual. I'm always met with that. Oh, well, right. Some people, some people don't have
00:05:23.120 dads. Some people don't have families. Some people can't afford not to have two parents working. Some
00:05:29.780 people, some people, some people. Great. What does that have to do with you? Why are you using that as
00:05:35.880 an excuse not to create the life that you want to create for yourself? Now, I pulled out a quote
00:05:42.000 here. It's one of my favorite quotes. It's by David Gilmore. And if you're curious where this
00:05:46.300 quote comes from, it comes from the book, Manhood in the Making, which I highly, highly suggest that
00:05:50.680 you read. Here it is. The real man gains renown by standing between his family and destruction,
00:05:59.020 absorbing the blows of fate with equanimity. I had to look up what equanimity meant. Calmness,
00:06:04.820 clarity, confidence, focus, control, level-headedness. This is what equanimity is.
00:06:13.480 And this is our job as men. So we can have that level of equanimity if we have things under control,
00:06:21.320 if we've addressed these issues, because if we haven't addressed the issues I'm going to share
00:06:25.440 with you, then you're not going to be calm and you're not going to be focused. You're not going
00:06:29.440 to be clear. You're not going to be level-headed. You're going to be chaotic and frantic and scared,
00:06:33.560 and you're going to be manipulated. We see this with this pipeline on the East Coast.
00:06:40.380 And I've seen videos of people literally storing fuel in big Tupperware bins and plastic bags.
00:06:49.340 Think about the toilet paper scare of 2020. These people are insane.
00:06:56.820 And they're irrational because they've allowed themselves to be controlled and manipulated and
00:07:05.240 they haven't put themselves in a good situation. And because they haven't taken care of what they
00:07:12.140 need to take care of, they're erratic at best and insane at worst. They're placing themselves and
00:07:20.420 other people at risk. And that's not what it means to be a man. In fact, that's the antithesis of what
00:07:26.520 it means to be a man. Your job is to stand between your family or your friends or your colleagues or
00:07:32.620 your coworkers, your neighbors, even people who can't do it for themselves, between them and
00:07:38.280 destruction, absorbing those blows of fate with equanimity. Here we go. Let's talk about these
00:07:43.620 strategies. Number one, health. Guys, get yourself healthy because if you're fat and you're filled
00:07:50.800 with junk food and processed sugar and food that didn't even exist, food, I'm using that word very
00:07:58.600 liberally, food that didn't exist a hundred years ago, alcohol, you're addicted, you're gluttonous.
00:08:09.360 How are you going to be in control? Take COVID for example. There's study after study after study
00:08:18.660 that suggests that the overwhelming majority of those individuals, not all. Okay. So don't come
00:08:23.600 back and tell me, well, you know, my situation. No, but the overwhelming majority of individuals
00:08:29.560 with health complications, severe and extreme health complications due to COVID were those who
00:08:37.080 had existing health conditions and or obese. So maybe the best thing that we can do to fight
00:08:48.900 against COVID is to get healthy. Physical health. Look, I'm a guy who works best under frameworks. I'll
00:08:57.640 give you a framework. Exercise for at least 30 to 45 minutes per day, at least at minimum. Exercise.
00:09:04.220 That could be going on a deliberate and intentional walk. I'm not talking about just like strolling
00:09:09.900 around. I'm talking about going on a real walk or a hike, putting on a weighted vest, picking up
00:09:16.380 the pace a little bit, going a little further than you'd like to go, or that puts you in a little
00:09:21.340 discomfort at least. Train martial arts, eat right, drop the alcohol, get yourself healthy and
00:09:34.220 going on. Pharmaceutical companies, the healthcare industry, the government. They want you sedated on
00:09:41.760 food. They want you fat because if you're fat and unhealthy, guess who you have to rely on? Daddy.
00:09:49.440 The government. And that's what they want. They want you to have to rely upon them
00:09:53.780 because you're no longer a threat. How sad is that?
00:10:00.760 How sad is it that you might not be viewed as a threat?
00:10:07.600 I think somebody who, and this goes into what Jordan Peterson has said,
00:10:11.500 something along the lines of a harmless man is not a good man. A good man is a dangerous man who
00:10:16.740 has it under voluntary control. I want somebody to acknowledge that Ryan might be a threat.
00:10:24.660 Now, not that I am because I want to be helpful. I want to be a good asset to my family and my
00:10:31.900 community. I want to have that, of course, under voluntary control, but you better not get on my
00:10:36.340 bad side. That's what I want people to know. That's how I want to be perceived. Because if I'm
00:10:42.200 not perceived as a threat or strong or tough or capable, what good am I to have around?
00:10:52.880 So the powers that be, they want you sedated. They want you fat. They want you weak. This is
00:10:56.600 the doctrine of popular culture. It's not serving you. It's not serving anybody else. So get your
00:11:00.200 health in check. 30 to 45 minutes per day of deliberate and intentional exercise. Minimum.
00:11:07.240 Let's talk about mental health and emotional health. Get your mind right. Some of you guys are
00:11:19.020 so erratic and so emotional and charged by every little thing and tripped up by the most minor
00:11:25.660 inconveniences because your mind's not right. You're not thinking correctly. You have no context or
00:11:33.020 framework for what is hard and what isn't. You know, the worst part of your day is some 16-year-old
00:11:38.520 punk kid gets your order wrong at McDonald's or somebody cuts you off on the road. That's the worst
00:11:45.040 part of your day. I mean, even in the worst of worst days, you get laid off. You go through a divorce.
00:11:51.800 Going through a rough time in your relationship. Even that's manageable. It's not fun. It's not ideal,
00:11:57.700 but it's manageable. And if you don't have, have, have no perspective on what is hard and what isn't.
00:12:06.800 If you're overly emotional, if you've never learned how to control your emotions or how to channel them
00:12:11.200 or how to understand them, how are you going to be an asset? How are you going to fight against
00:12:17.920 organizations and people that want to see you as nothing more than a subjugated cog in the wheel?
00:12:25.720 Get your mind right. How do you do that? Go do hard things. I talked about the physical component
00:12:32.220 of it, but go stand up in public and present. Do something challenging. Do something that scares
00:12:40.460 you. This morning or this afternoon, as you're listening to this podcast or watching this podcast
00:12:45.400 on YouTube, when you get done, do the hardest thing on your list. Hopefully you have a list.
00:12:51.760 I've got a running list in my battle planner every single day of things I need to get done. Do the
00:12:55.500 hardest thing first, immediately, right? When you get done with this, just go do the hardest thing
00:12:59.860 because that's going to set the precedent for the rest of your day. If you crank that out first,
00:13:05.360 man, everything's going to get easier from there. This podcast, for example, I'm recording it just
00:13:10.600 after 7 a.m. Just got back from a morning hunt with my son. I'm cranking this out. I want to get
00:13:17.580 this done. This is important to me. So I get this done. This is the most important task and everything
00:13:21.600 else is easier from here. Not that this is difficult doing this podcast, but this is the
00:13:27.240 most demanding task. I do that first. It's important you do that. And then there's another component of
00:13:31.880 health, which is your spiritual health. Not all of us are religious, but your spiritual health is
00:13:41.240 important. There's got to be something greater and bigger than yourself. So many men,
00:13:46.640 and I get questions about this every day. What's my purpose? What's the reason we're here? How do I
00:13:52.380 find direction and clarity and focus in my life? Perspective, the grand scheme of things, not your
00:13:59.540 small, insignificant existence in this life, but what's the greater picture? What's the greater play?
00:14:07.660 There's a great line in Gladiator where I believe that either, I think it's Maximus says,
00:14:14.600 what we do echoes in eternity. I believe that's true.
00:14:20.940 And that eternal perspective gives me calmness. It allows me to make better decisions
00:14:28.820 in the wake of temptation and potential distraction, poor choices. I have an eternal perspective.
00:14:38.940 perspective. And so I may miss out on a few more dollars here and there because I held my principles.
00:14:47.500 I may not have as much excitement in my life as the next guy. I might not be as drunk and high as
00:14:55.540 somebody else, but I have an eternal perspective, the longest of long games.
00:15:00.760 What does your spiritual component look like? I'm not telling you I need to be a Christian or
00:15:13.860 Catholic or Hindu or Buddhism or Muslim. You can decide that yourself,
00:15:19.940 but there needs to be some spiritual component of your life.
00:15:26.720 And if there isn't, I'm willing to bet that you feel like there's some sort of hole in your life
00:15:32.420 that is hard to fill. I would say impossible to fill. Point number one, health. Guys, get yourself
00:15:40.600 healthy. That's the first way to inoculate yourself against the doctrine of popular culture. Because if
00:15:45.380 you're healthy, you can't be controlled. You can't be manipulated. You can't be bought.
00:15:51.580 You're free. You're sovereign. You're independent. All right. Number two, work on your provisions.
00:15:56.620 I've talked about this for a while. And a lot of people are talking about it now, right?
00:16:02.760 Especially over the past year, 15 months, 14 months, whatever it's been, people are talking
00:16:07.200 about that a lot now. Okay. We've been talking about it for a long time and people have been talking
00:16:10.820 about it longer than I have, of course. But guys, get everything in order. Get your fares in
00:16:15.240 order. Get out of debt, gentlemen. Stop buying shit. There's a skit I watched years and years ago.
00:16:24.680 I think it was by Steve Martin and it may have been on Saturday Night Live. And I think the skit was
00:16:30.740 called, Don't Buy Things You Can't Afford. I'll try to link it up, but just go watch it. It's funny.
00:16:40.060 It's comical. It's a joke, but it's not actually a joke because so many people can't seem to wrap
00:16:46.140 their heads around it. I'm going to buy the new toys and the boat and the four-wheeler and the
00:16:52.880 snowmobile. And I'm going to put all my stuff on credit. And guys, guess who controls you if you're
00:17:02.280 in debt? You're creditors. They control you. They control every facet of your life. Why?
00:17:08.540 Because it's always up here in your mind that you're under the thumb of some other institution.
00:17:14.360 Oh, how am I going to make my mortgage payment? How am I going to make the car payment? I have
00:17:18.000 guys that want to join the Iron Council, but they can't afford $67 a month. And I don't judge that.
00:17:26.880 I've been there. I've been in those situations. But damn, if you can't get yourself out of that
00:17:31.120 situation, it shouldn't be like that forever. It was like that for me for a very long time,
00:17:37.640 but it wasn't forever because I learned principles of making sound financial decisions. And it was
00:17:45.520 important to me. So I studied it. I researched it. I applied it. I showed and exercised some restraint
00:17:52.920 when there was things that I wanted to purchase. Or I saw my buddy buy the new boat or the
00:17:56.860 new truck. And I thought, man, I'd really like to have that. And even now where I could go out and
00:18:00.640 I could pay cash for just about any truck out there. I don't. Up until two years ago, I was
00:18:07.460 driving a 99 Toyota Tacoma. I still have it. I'm not getting rid of it. And then I bought a 2015 GMC.
00:18:14.040 I'll run that thing into the ground before I buy another one. Now, I'm not saying you shouldn't
00:18:17.760 spend your money. My friend, Sean Whalen, he just bought a Lamborghini. I'm not going to tell him not
00:18:24.120 to buy a Lamborghini or Andy Frisillo, who has just an incredible fleet of high-performance vehicles
00:18:29.860 and cars. I'm not going to tell him that he shouldn't have cars. That's their thing. It's
00:18:33.720 not my thing. That's their thing. But they can afford it. Some of us can't. And so we shouldn't
00:18:39.180 pretend that we can. We shouldn't put ourselves voluntarily under the thumb of creditors and
00:18:47.740 banks and financial institutions. They love it. They love dumb people. They love ignorance.
00:18:52.900 They love turning 20 or 30 or 40 or 50,000 into 80, 100, 120, $200,000 because so many dumb people
00:19:02.320 keep buying things that they can't afford. And then when you pay it off, that truck, let's take
00:19:10.560 that 40 or 50 or $60,000 truck. You pay that thing off. What do you do? You trade it in for a new one
00:19:17.440 because they got you. They know you. They understand you. They've got your number.
00:19:24.000 You want to inoculate yourself against that? Show some restraint. Show some discipline.
00:19:29.860 Get educated about how finances work. And also get your other provisions in order.
00:19:35.040 Get your food storage in order. Get your gas in order. So when there's a gas shortage,
00:19:39.860 you're not having to go out to the gas station. And hopefully they have enough for you. And you have
00:19:43.680 to fill it up in plastic grocery bags like this gal did in this video I saw yesterday.
00:19:50.120 Get that shit in line right now. It's easy to overlook it when the sun is shining, but guys,
00:19:57.380 it's going to rain. It's going to get cloudy. We know it is. I don't know when. I don't know what
00:20:04.600 the storm is exactly going to look like, but it's coming. It always comes. And some people weather it
00:20:11.540 manage it well because they knew it would be coming and others don't. Not because they didn't
00:20:17.420 know it was coming, but because they didn't plan and prepare for it. You know. Get your food storage
00:20:22.920 in check. Get your fuel where it needs to be. Get your heating sources taken care of. Get backup power.
00:20:30.360 That way, if the power goes down, you still have power. Get your guns. Get your ammo. Get everything in
00:20:36.800 check now. Organize it now. And stay on top of it so that when the storm comes, you'll be the one to
00:20:45.080 weather it. That was point number two, finances and provisions. Point number three, guys, principles.
00:20:50.820 What are your principles? You know, it's easy to say that you have principles when things are going well,
00:20:58.120 but at the slightest sign of, of, of fear or danger or convenience or inconvenience.
00:21:11.400 So many of you abandoned your so-called quote unquote principles. Well, they're only principles
00:21:17.440 if they stand in the test of, of something hard. Cause if, if, if you're living the type of life that
00:21:25.300 you want to live, when things are easy, those, those aren't necessarily principles. Now your
00:21:29.540 principles may have got you there, but if your principles aren't being challenged, that's fine.
00:21:35.080 Nothing wrong with that. But I want to know that when the going gets tough or I'm tempted to do
00:21:41.820 something that I don't want to do or shouldn't be doing, or have deemed inappropriate, let's say
00:21:47.320 that my principles are steadfast and resolute. And I'm not going to be tempted to step out on my wife
00:21:54.840 or to cheat somebody out of money or to do any of the number, any other number of things that I
00:22:00.480 could do on a daily basis, that I don't do those things because I have principles.
00:22:08.420 And, you know, we're going to lose out on some, some short-term results. You know, you're probably
00:22:14.920 not going to make as much as you could. If you decide, I'm not going to cheat people out of their
00:22:18.900 money. You're not going to have as many exciting adventures and escapades and sexual partners.
00:22:26.940 Maybe even if you decide that I'm not going to allow myself to be tempted to indulge in things
00:22:34.680 that aren't going to serve me over the long haul. And that's the challenge is that so many of us
00:22:40.440 are so willing to settle and trade, because this is what we're doing, trading in our long-term
00:22:49.320 satisfaction, our long-term goals and fulfillment for temporary satisfaction. What a horrible trade.
00:23:04.100 What a horrible trade. You want to talk about financial principles? Think about that from a
00:23:08.080 financial perspective. Are you willing to trade your long-term wealth, your ability to make
00:23:16.660 millions, tens, hundreds of millions of dollars over the course of your lifetime for a little bit
00:23:24.160 right now? I hope you say no. Most of us would say no, but our actions speak otherwise. What are your
00:23:32.220 principles? What are they? Have you written them down? Have you thought about them? Do you ponder on them?
00:23:36.360 Do you exercise them? Do you flex them? Because if you're not exercising them, you're not using
00:23:44.840 them in your day-to-day life, then it's going to be infinitely harder when the going does get tough.
00:23:52.140 Get a notepad out right now. What are my principles? Honor, integrity, truthfulness.
00:23:58.300 What's the hill you're willing to die on? What are the battles you're willing to fight? And by the way,
00:24:05.440 what are the ones you're not? That's okay to acknowledge that. Hey, that's not important to me.
00:24:11.620 You better get this stuff dialed in right now because you're going to be asked and you're not
00:24:15.600 going to be asked. You're going to be presented a situation in which you can jeopardize your so-called
00:24:20.120 principles. And when that day comes, will they stand? I don't know. You don't know. But you
00:24:27.800 better do everything you can to make sure that they do. It's number three. No, excuse me. Yes,
00:24:32.680 number three. Number four, the exploration of ideas and free thinking. Now, this is interesting
00:24:40.840 because we're talking about inoculating ourselves against the doctrine of popular culture. And we would
00:24:44.680 think, and I think the old mentality is that we should shut down any dissenting voices, that we
00:24:51.380 should not talk about these ideas and these concepts. I think in many ways, it might even go
00:24:58.060 against what I just said, which is principles, or at least people think it does. But look, just because
00:25:02.300 you're exploring ideas and concepts doesn't mean that you need to embrace them. What's the quote?
00:25:09.500 I believe it's by Epictetus or another Stoic philosopher. The mark of an educated mind is to
00:25:14.940 be able to, and I'm paraphrasing and I'm going to butcher this, but the mark of an educated mind is to
00:25:20.780 be able to consider or contemplate ideas, conflicting ideas without embracing them. Something along those
00:25:28.080 lines. I butchered that. You guys know what I'm saying? It's okay to explore ideas. It's okay to talk
00:25:33.820 about fringe concepts and different things. And I don't think that we should be shutting down those
00:25:39.140 ideas. Regardless of what side of the political aisle you sit on or what side of the spectrum
00:25:44.700 you're on with regards to these conversations and debates and topics that we've been debating for
00:25:51.220 forever. You should entertain other ideas. You should be doing that. You shouldn't be shutting people
00:26:02.520 down and doxing them and canceling them. You should be listening. Again, it doesn't mean you need to
00:26:08.840 embrace it. Just because I hear something that might conflict with my current perspective doesn't
00:26:13.760 mean that I have to ultimately implement it in my life. No, I'm going to look at it and weigh it
00:26:20.160 against other things that I believe. And then I'm going to make my decisions. This is one of the things
00:26:24.680 that my wife and I and our children do around the dinner table. We talk about ideas. We talk about
00:26:30.080 concepts. I ask them as humans. Hey, what do you think about this? Is this a good idea? Is this a
00:26:37.080 bad idea? Why would you say, how would you deal with this situation? How would you handle this
00:26:41.120 encounter? How would you come up with a solution to this problem? We're talking about these things.
00:26:47.140 The exploration of ideas I think has done more to advance civilizations in society than just about
00:26:52.920 anything else. Free expression, the freedom of speech. And yet we see it even now it's being
00:26:58.260 threatened. Why? Why would it be threatened? Why would anybody or any person or any institution
00:27:03.660 or government be threatened by people talking? Why would that be a threat? I want you to think
00:27:09.160 about that. Why would they be threatened about that? You think it's because it's in your best
00:27:15.120 interest? You think they care about you? No, they don't care about you. They care about them.
00:27:21.480 They don't want you talking. They don't want you expressing yourself. They do as long as it goes
00:27:27.820 with their ideology, but they don't want you bucking the system because they don't want you
00:27:33.720 enlisting other people into ideas that might threaten their own consolidation of power.
00:27:39.700 That's why this medium of podcasting and social media is so important that we protect it. Even if we
00:27:49.080 don't always agree with what people are saying, there's plenty of people that I hear from on a daily
00:27:54.020 basis that I don't agree with. There's plenty of things that I say that you personally probably
00:27:59.660 don't agree with. That's not a reason to shut it down. It's a reason to listen, to ponder, to consider.
00:28:08.300 Is he right? Is there any validity to the things that he's saying? And you might come to the conclusion
00:28:15.340 that there isn't on some topics and that there is on others and that's right and that's good and
00:28:24.700 that's valuable. So you don't have to agree with everything everybody says, but you should
00:28:31.940 have a desire to protect that right. Again, whether it's politics or spirituality or any number of these
00:28:38.580 things that seem to be so polarizing, stand up for that. Engage in it, honor it, participate in it.
00:28:50.360 It's a beautiful thing that you get to express yourself, your agreement, your disagreement,
00:28:57.260 your content, your discontent. You should be able to do that. And anything less than that is pure evil
00:29:03.120 and it's manipulation and it's coercion and it's attempt to shut you down so that others can
00:29:10.960 consolidate power. I want people talking. That's why I've made a living off of talking because I
00:29:17.320 think it's important we have these discussions in agreement and in disagreement. And then the last
00:29:23.360 one here, guys, that I want to share with you today, and then we'll call it quits, is you need to
00:29:28.960 join a tribe. Now, one of the challenges with a tribe is that you can create an echo chamber,
00:29:38.040 which goes at direct odds with what I just said, which is to explore concepts and ideas and think
00:29:45.120 about conflicting thoughts. But you can also do that in a tribe if you build that culture.
00:29:51.060 If the culture of your tribe is to explore and consider and pontificate on these different ideas
00:29:57.460 and concepts and you're going to entertain them and you're going to debate them and you're going
00:30:01.040 to discuss them. This is what ancient philosophers used to do. They used to take ideas and break them
00:30:07.840 down and isolate elements of it, discuss these points and debate back and forth why it was good
00:30:15.460 and why it was bad and why it was wrong and why it was right and did it serve and did it not serve.
00:30:20.140 And if you create a tribe around the exploration of ideas and concepts to better yourself, then it
00:30:26.800 doesn't go at odds with that at all. In fact, it encourages it, it honors it, it fosters it.
00:30:32.780 But you also need to have a tribe to keep you not safe, isn't the word, but I do like the word
00:30:42.140 inoculated against dangerous ideology, dangerous ideas. And not only that, there's strength in numbers.
00:30:49.300 You know, one man alone is one man alone and he could be very easy to be swayed. I just heard
00:30:56.620 about a study. Jocko talked about the study. I'll have to look it up because I don't want to talk
00:31:01.300 about it from a secondhand perspective, but it was interesting. He was talking about this study that
00:31:07.260 these researchers had gotten a group of people together and they were trying to see how easy it
00:31:14.020 was to influence and manipulate other people. And they had seven or eight people that would
00:31:19.620 give a wrong answer to either a math problem or an image or something like that. And they would see
00:31:27.860 how that those seven or eight people who would say that the wrong answer, how that would impact the
00:31:35.520 eighth person, the person who wasn't part of the study. And if I remember correctly, that if
00:31:41.760 the seven or eight people who gave the answer incorrectly, deliberately, because they were
00:31:49.080 part of the study, the other individual was not part of the study, gave the wrong answer to go in
00:31:54.940 line with the other people 35% of the time, even though afterwards that individual acknowledged
00:32:00.680 that they knew it was the wrong answer. 35% of the time. And if just one of those people,
00:32:11.300 the seven or eight beforehand, if just one of them gave the right answer, then it dropped that
00:32:18.220 participants' incorrect guesses from 35% down to less than 5%. If just one person
00:32:29.120 gave the right answer deliberately instead of the wrong answer deliberately, 35% down to less than
00:32:38.400 five, that means that even if you have one person who agrees with you, who's in your corner, who's by
00:32:46.280 your side, who's standing with you, it drastically reduces your influence to outside pressure.
00:32:59.120 And so if you don't have that in your corner, you don't have strong and good men in your corner,
00:33:07.900 how much easier is it going to be for you to cheat yourself?
00:33:13.720 For you not to go to the workout or not, not to go train jujitsu this evening or to, or potentially
00:33:20.080 step out on your wife, cheat on her, cheat other people. But if you have good and capable men in your
00:33:30.300 corner, who you know, you're accountable to, who are holding you accountable based on the results of the
00:33:38.660 study. And I think just inherently, we understand that we work best in tribes. How much better are you going
00:33:44.100 to be? You know, I'm so sick of the guys who were like, I don't need anybody in my car. I don't need
00:33:49.820 anybody to tell me how to be a man. I don't need any of this. Really? Because human psychology says
00:33:58.920 different. You're easily influenced. You are easily manipulated as am I. So I better put systems in
00:34:09.840 place to inoculate myself against the influence that's going to hinder and stunt my growth and my
00:34:15.580 progress and my goals and objectives. And instead put people in place in my life to ensure that I
00:34:22.820 stay on the right track. It's not a guarantee, but it certainly improves my odds. Who are the men in
00:34:31.300 your corner? Yeah. You've got your wife and you've got your kids and you've got your colleagues and your
00:34:35.020 coworkers and maybe some clergy or a pastor or something like that. Sure. I'm talking about
00:34:41.000 being a little bit more deliberate about building out your band of brothers. And it shouldn't just be
00:34:47.260 your neighbor or your coworker by default. It could be, but just by default, no, no, no. I'm talking about
00:34:52.760 intentionally building up a powerful group or tribe or gang, however you want to phrase it, of men
00:34:59.800 who are the best of the best. That you're inspired by, you're edified by, you're uplifted by,
00:35:08.720 you're accountable to. Guys, these are the things that we need in place to inoculate ourselves.
00:35:14.380 Because I'm telling you, the doctrine of popular culture is very alluring.
00:35:18.880 Eat whatever you want, sleep with whoever you want, take whatever drugs and sedation methods you want,
00:35:24.740 no consequences. If anything goes wrong, well, you were just a victim of your upbringing or race
00:35:31.220 relations or this or that. And so there's no personal accountability, no personal responsibility.
00:35:37.780 If you get into trouble, somebody will come in and save you. And guess what? There's no free rides.
00:35:43.360 All right. So if the government is coming in and saying, Hey, you know, we'll give you this and give
00:35:46.920 you that. Yeah. They're going to want something in return. And frankly, what it is, is a little bit of
00:35:50.900 your soul. That's what they want. They want your soul. They want your mind. They want your back and
00:35:58.380 hands and they want your soul. So while everybody's talking about Pfizer and Moderna or whatever it's
00:36:07.160 called and all these and Johnson and Johnson vaccines. And again, you can decide whether or not
00:36:11.920 you want to take that. And so while everybody's talking about, Hey, let's inoculate ourselves against,
00:36:17.960 you know, this, this, this COVID thing, I'd have you consider the greater danger. The greater threat
00:36:24.540 is that you're not protecting yourself against the powers who would love to have control over you.
00:36:34.560 And they will do some devious shit
00:36:37.680 to make sure they have it. Inoculate yourselves, inoculate your families,
00:36:46.040 protect yourself, do what's right. Have some principles, make yourself strong and healthy in
00:36:55.580 all ways be capable, discuss and explore ideas. Don't shut them down, build up your band of brothers.
00:37:05.260 This is the way that we not only protect ourself because that's defense, but this is the way that
00:37:11.280 we thrive and that's offense, but you can't play offense until you got that defensive stuff short
00:37:17.200 of. I'll leave you with that quote again, because it's a very powerful quote. If you just
00:37:23.640 think on it for a little while, the real man gains renown by standing between his family and destruction,
00:37:30.300 absorbing the blows of fate with equanimity.
00:37:32.760 Does that describe you? It should. And if it doesn't, you've got some work to do.
00:37:43.060 As do I, we all have work to do. Make yourself better, make yourself more capable, make yourself
00:37:49.520 into a man, get other men in your corner to help you do it. It's crucial. All right, guys,
00:37:55.300 I gave you some marching orders. I gave you some things to think about this weekend. So
00:37:59.540 ponder on them, think on them, and then write them down. What are you going to do? How are you
00:38:05.120 going to take this information and implement it in your life? Share it with me. Most active on
00:38:09.300 Instagram. So connect with me there at Ryan Michler. Share it with me. Let me know what you
00:38:13.680 think. Tell me what you're doing. Share this episode. More people need to hear this. You want
00:38:17.560 to build a band of brothers. You want to make this thing go global, which it should. Look, my goal is
00:38:23.100 to make this message of reclaiming, restoring masculinity is to make it mainstream.
00:38:29.540 It's not right now. It's kind of dancing around on the fringes a little bit. It was kind of in the
00:38:34.420 corners. We've done a good job over the past six years of getting into the fringes. Now we want it
00:38:38.840 mainstream. So help me do that. Share. Tell people what you're listening to. Listen to the podcast like
00:38:47.520 you're doing now or read the book Sovereignty, The Battle for the Hearts and Minds of Men.
00:38:51.860 This is what we need, guys. We can do it. A lot of people ask me if we could turn the tide of
00:38:57.180 culture or if it's too late. No, we can turn it. It's not too late. We can turn it.
00:39:02.040 It's going to take work and it's going to take effort and it's going to take millions and millions
00:39:04.820 of us to do it, but it's possible. But we can't just sit idly by and say, oh, you know, wait,
00:39:11.120 just wait until it gets back. Wait until the silent majority wakes up. Now, this is it. This is our
00:39:16.160 moment right now. This might be our only moment. So let's get after it. All right, guys. I'll be back
00:39:21.960 next week. Until then, go out there, take action, and become the man you are meant to be.
00:39:26.760 Thank you for listening to the Order of Man podcast. If you're ready to take charge of your
00:39:30.960 life and be more of the man you were meant to be, we invite you to join the order at orderofman.com.