JOHNNY LORETI | Fitness as the Foundation of Success
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You re a man of action. You live life to the fullest, embrace your fears, and boldly chart your own path. When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time, every time. You re not easily deterred, defeated, rugged, resilient, strong. This is your life, this is who you are, and after all is said and done, you can call yourself a man.
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Guys, let's kick off the new year with a discussion on physical health.
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It seems like such a popular subject around this time of year with new year's resolutions.
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So let's get you pointed in the right direction and keep you on the path for the entirety
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Today, I'm joined by my personal fitness coach, Johnny Loretty, to talk about the myth of
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overtraining, key metrics to track and developing strength and overall health, the power of
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resistance training and progressive overload, differences between simply working out and
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training and fitness as the foundation of success.
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You live life to the fullest, embrace your fears, and boldly chart your own path.
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When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time, every time.
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You are not easily deterred, defeated, rugged, resilient, strong.
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This is who you will become at the end of the day.
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And after all is said and done, you can call yourself a man.
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I'm your host and the founder of the Order of Man podcast and movement.
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We're kicking off 2023 in style with my own personal fitness coach and good friend, Johnny
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Before we do, if you're new to the show, just want to let you know it's my goal to find
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successful men, have conversations with these guys about what they did to make themselves
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And then hopefully we can take some of that information and those ideas and those actions
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and incorporate them into our own lives to become better, more capable men ourselves.
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And what better way to do that than starting the new year?
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That's because everybody's thinking about new year's resolutions and all of this sort
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All right, let me introduce you to my good friend.
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And again, personal fitness coach, Johnny Loretty.
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Uh, we've known each other for years and I finally decided to take him up on the offer
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Uh, the best testimonial I think that you could ever give someone is the positive results
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And I can tell you that this man is working to transform not just my body, but the way
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He's also a competitive bodybuilder and an incredible entrepreneur.
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He's working to build out his fitness empire with a new holistic and scientific approach
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So enjoy this one guys, but most importantly, implement what Johnny has to share and you too
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Usually the, um, the extent of our conversations are done in a chat through the, the workout
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So we don't, we don't often get a chance to at least see each other face to face, even
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I'll get the opportunity to, to berate you, you know, face to face, but only through,
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I, I mean, honestly though, I, I feel like the past month I've been doing okay enough
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that there's not much berating that would need to happen.
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Like I've been pretty consistent with everything, all my workouts and, uh, we're trying to get
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I mean, you came to me, you're like, give me more.
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Like sometimes I wonder, we'll probably get into this here pretty quick.
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And I was wondering to myself, you know, at what point is it too much?
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And, and I thought, you know, it's probably never too much.
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It might take your body a while to figure it out, but I, I just don't see too many people
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having to have a serious issue or concern with overtraining.
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It just doesn't seem like something that the body is, is not capable of.
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And I don't want to go down a rabbit rabbit hole too early, but I think, I think overtraining
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I think we speak a little bit too much about it.
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But my rule is what I use with all my clients is do me a favor, go out there today and do
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And then, and then see how you feel tomorrow, but let's, let's not skip today.
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And then if you feel like crap tomorrow, then maybe take, take the day off.
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And I wouldn't even say take the day off, just do something different.
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So if you're feeling like, yeah, I really can't get in there and hit my list today.
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Maybe I'm going to go out there and go, go for a ruck or, you know, do something with
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your, with your kids, play, play ball with them, go for a hike, you know, insert whatever
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recreational activity you want to, you want to do here and just, and just auto-regulate.
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And you have to be careful with that too, right?
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That's why it's good to look at it as objectively as you can and go back to your plan and try to
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But if you're feeling down and if you need to, like I said, auto-regulate, it's okay
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You said you have to be careful with doing that.
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What, what, what, is there a risk to doing that?
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Or is it just taking it too easy because you're quote unquote, you're auto-regulating and you're
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just using it as an excuse not to go lift or do something, you know, you should be doing.
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Well, and one of the things, uh, that you said too, that I think is a common problem
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If people are like me, I mean, that, that is a great liar.
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Like, did you really do the best that you could?
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I don't know if anybody could ever in the history of mankind answer that question, the
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How do you make sure that you are going hard, that you are doing as much as you can be doing
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or should be doing, or at least working to get there?
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I don't know if you really do know that ever until you really put in the reps, so to speak
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over time, it's kind of like a self-discovery, you know, um, he had Ed Milad on, he's awesome.
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And I, I think that conceptually the idea of, of one more, you know, can I do one more
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You know, you don't really know what your limits are to really, to really push them,
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And I think that the more advanced you are in, if we're talking specifically about training,
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You know, can I push a little bit harder than I did yesterday?
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Well, it seems like with regards to training that you have to do that.
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Otherwise you're just, you're not going to improve.
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If, if, if, for example, I can do, uh, I don't know, 225 pound bench press for, for
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three reps, but I never try to get the fourth, I'll never get the fourth.
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Or if I never, you know, put, uh, 245 on the bar, then I'll always stay at 225.
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Like you have to go to that point of what you've never gone before, even with the training
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And we, we got to back up here in a minute, the training that you program for me, you know,
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some this morning, I think I had to do something for 14 or 16 reps.
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I think it was maybe incline bench press, dumbbell bench press.
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And I got to 12 and I'm like this, I'm exhausted.
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I'm like, I can't do 16 or 14 of these or whatever it was.
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And then immediately I was like, no, you, you can, you just need to take a 10 second break,
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Cause if I put them down, they're not coming back up.
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So don't put them down, just hold them there for a second and finish your three or four.
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But too often guys are like, oh, that's good enough.
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And then people need to be more honest with themselves.
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They need to be more brutally honest with themselves.
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And that's why, you know, talking about training and using the app, using specific metrics
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and measurables is something that I really push.
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And depending on everyone, wherever you're getting started, everyone's different, but
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I really, really push that because the best way to improve is to progressively overload
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And like you said, pull a little bit more weight on the bar, fight for one more rep, make those
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That's, that's going to be the best, best way to improve over time.
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Your app is the thing that I like about your app is it actually shows, you know, what you
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did last week, and then it'll show you if there's a personal best that you've done for
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And so my goal, correct me if I'm wrong, or if you'd like to see something different,
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but my goal, every time I go in is on every, maybe not every, but the majority of movements,
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So that's either more reps than I did the previous week or more weight than I did the previous
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And so I want to have seven, eight, nine personal best every time.
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And I know there's a lot of diminishing returns.
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I realized that, you know, in six or eight or 12 months, those are going to be less frequent,
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but what, at what level of you, you called it progressive overload, I think.
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Like, should that be done every single time you train?
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Should that, should you try to keep it at the same weight for three weeks, for example?
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Like, how do you progressively overload effectively?
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So it depends on client to client and for going for traditional, like linear periodization,
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And I think I have you doing like six weeks or maybe it's eight weeks right now.
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I don't remember exactly, but every week for you, at least using your specific example,
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you should be increasing volume over time, meaning weights times reps times sets.
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So you should, as you pointed out, getting a personal best per movement, ideally, every
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workout, whether it be a little bit more weight moves, one more rep.
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Um, and depending upon your program, four to six to eight weeks, sometimes like these,
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these, um, these cycles will last shorter or longer.
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Um, but the way I do it mostly is within a particular phase, you should be progressing
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And then depending upon how your body's doing, we're going to, we're going to switch it up,
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Because your body is, you know, maybe a little sore, you know, maybe we're kind of not experiencing
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Now it's time to increase, um, or rather introduce some variety, whether it be exercise selection,
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difference in rep schemes or something like that.
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So generally somewhere between it's a wide range, but four to eight weeks for people, they
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should be seeing pretty, pretty significant increases in strength and volume.
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And so you, you're saying that when you start to hit those plateaus, that's a good metric
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or indicator that maybe it's time to switch up the routine a bit.
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I, I, I don't, I don't feel like I'm there yet, obviously, because everything continues to,
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But when it comes to the different metrics that you could track with improvement, so
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you can track, uh, like you said, you can track reps, weight, and, or sets.
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So for somebody let's, let's, let's ask, I'll ask it this way.
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Based on what people are trying to do, what their goals are, maybe it's lose weight for
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me, losing weight is not so much of a concern as putting on muscle.
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I think losing weight is going to be a by-product of that and eating right.
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So for that, should I be focusing more heavily on increasing weight or increasing reps, increasing
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And then if somebody has a different goal, like burning fat, what, what, what metric would
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And to answer it simply and most concisely, if we're talking about lean muscle building,
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so hypertrophy, for example, it seems to be when they've done all these meta analyses on
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all of, all these different rep schemes, the major factor, the number one contributor, assuming
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that intensity is similar, is total volume of load moved across that exercise.
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So very simply 200 pounds on the bench press, for example, four sets, 10 reps, right?
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So if we look at that and, and my app will, we'll, we'll calculate this for you.
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So if you ever see that you've got a, a new personal best of volume, what that means is
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that 8,000 pounds is now 8,001 or more essentially.
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So over the course of that six to eight week period, if you're doing a six to eight week
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program, that 8,000 pounds in week one, maybe 10,000, 12,000 or, or more.
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So it's really accounting for total volume of load moved, assuming, right, that the intensity
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They've looked at, you know, what's better, heavy weight, low reps, because powerlifters
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They don't do a lot of reps, but the load's so heavy.
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They've also seen that hypertrophy is similar in reps of all of even up to 30 reps.
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As long as the intensity is the same, you have to take muscles to near failure in order to
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And the really big, um, thing driving all of this is the volume of load, the total volume
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So if I'm as a lay person, if I'm, if I'm understanding you correctly, it's not so much
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the total load on bar relative to the, to the reps or vice versa.
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It's just the most efficient way to get as much volume in a, what certain timeframe.
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Is there like a period of time where, Hey, if you hit that $8,000 or 8,000 pounds, not
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dollars, I you're thinking in pounds, I think in dollars, like these are the differences
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So I want to hit 8,000 pounds and I got to do that in, in let's just say 12 minutes.
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I've often wondered, cause there's been a couple of times where I I've messaged you.
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I've, I only got through half of my workout and I'll come back and finish it.
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I have been going back in the afternoon and I have finished because a lot of times I could
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It seems like breaking it up like that would not give me the same benefit as if I were to
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So now we're kind of getting a little bit above and beyond my education, but from the studies
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and the different things that I've looked at, as long as the work gets done within the,
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within the week, that volume of work done, that's the biggest driving factor.
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See, but the, where that doesn't add up to me is the, like the adage of it's better to
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work out for an hour, five days a week, then five hours, one day a week.
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But if it's in a week timeframe, does it really matter?
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I haven't seen, I haven't, I don't know of any studies where they've done it all in one
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day, but they, they look at like, you know, two days a week versus three days a week versus
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I've seen studies comparing that and, and the, um, the gains are the same, whether it's
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only two days a week versus five days a week, as long as they control for volume.
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Dude, that sounds like a challenge right there.
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What I could tell you is that I'm actually experimenting with this myself.
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I'm doing, um, so now we're talking about like exercise frequency, right?
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So I'm doing a high frequency full body program right now, and I'm kind of testing it for myself.
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You know, if I do just two sets of bench four days a week, how is that going to yield results
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as compared to doing four sets of bench two days a week?
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It's the first time I've done it spread out like that.
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And so, so we'll see just because I've been intrigued by exactly what we're talking about.
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Like if we truly do separate volume across four days, as opposed to just like, you know,
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one chest day or, you know, two chest days or one leg day, you know, what is that response
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But what, how long of a timeframe do you give yourself?
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Because admittedly, I've been looking at myself in the mirror and I've been going, I think
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pretty hard for like four weeks, maybe five, somewhere, somewhere right in there.
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And, you know, I, I noticed some minor changes where it's like, okay, I look a little, I'm,
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Back's looking better, losing some weight around the midsection.
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I've often wondered about guys like yourself who are immersed in the industry, like how long
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you need to give yourself to do something to measure whether or not it's effective.
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Because a lot of the times guy like myself or somebody trying to get their fitness dialed
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in, they're just not going to give themselves long enough to recognize the differences and
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We're going into, you know, the new year, right?
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And everybody's going to orient themselves towards their goals.
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And they're wondering how long, how long is this going to take before I, I could reap some
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And unfortunately now we're, we're so programmed to want results right away.
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We always been like that, but just nowadays with, with modern technology, we're really
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Um, it, it starts with where you're at and what your history is.
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So for example, if somebody comes in to see me and if they've never exercised before and
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they're overweight, I'm, I can have really significant results with them in the first
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If somebody comes in, you know, like yourself, you've got a lot of exercise background, you
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know, multiple sport athlete, and you're already getting, getting after it pretty well.
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It's going to take longer for me to get, get results from you, unless I'm doing something
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completely different in your body, never done before.
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So roundabout way to answer you, but it depends on where somebody starts for the average guy
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that's, that's already at the gym a few days a week, and he's already putting in the work.
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You've got to stay in a program for at least two months to see if you're, if you're getting
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People try, you know, this one online program they found for a week.
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Oh, like it's not working or two weeks or, or, or a month.
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You got to, I would give it at least two months.
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That, I think that's going to be the biggest challenge for a lot of guys.
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I mean, some of the things that you're talking about are above my pay grade.
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You know, you're talking about hyper hypertrophy and I don't know what that is.
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I just, all I know is you do that and then you'll get stronger.
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I'm like, okay, that's always been good enough for me in, in this realm.
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But, but people just won't give themselves long enough to realize the results.
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And that goes back to what we were saying about working out one day a week or three
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You'll hear a lot of fitness guys say, work out three days a week.
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And I, and I get that and I understand that, but there's two things that come to mind.
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Number one is you're to go to the extreme, like we were talking about.
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I don't know when, but I'm going to do this in the near future.
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I'm going to do one week's programming in one day because I just want to do it.
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I know I can do it, but I, the problem with it is that my muscles will just become fatigued
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and I won't have, I won't be able to get the same volume on my, my later lifts.
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That's clearly the problem with that line of thinking, but there's another problem.
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And I think this is what people often overlook is we tend to believe that, Hey, if I go
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I'm going to look better naked, all good stuff.
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If you're just doing it one day a week, you're missing out on six days a week of getting up
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early before the sun or as the sun rises, going in, doing a workout, starting your day
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The endorphins that have proven to be been released.
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You're just missing out on that because you're worried about maximum efficiency and muscle
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building, which makes sense if you're competing or maybe you're doing a bodybuilding competition.
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Like I know you've done in the past, but for everyday life, that just doesn't make sense.
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I think that there's a huge amount of power in, in habits, right?
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I think that organizing your day around certain habits, um, is, is huge.
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And you mentioned, uh, if I could speak specifically, specifically to the mental aspect of it, I did
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a talk at main event, you know, with you and probably the most impactful thing to exercise
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Um, obviously physically, but, but mentally, the amount of reward I get from going in the
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gym and working out hard and building those habits is, is, is, is in a way like I can't
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Um, not to mention the amount of confidence that I get from putting in the work, right?
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You got better mental health, better confidence.
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I mean, those, those things are way more valuable than, than just the physical, like those intangibles
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So I think that if we're talking about efficiency and habits, I think that if you want to work
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out every day and move every day, which I recommend, you know, you go out and do some
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movement every day that, that you should, that you shouldn't limit yourself to just getting
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that incredible amount of neurotransmitter dopamine release from working out just two days
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You know, I think that if you could organize your day to, you know, get up, get outside, get
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some sun exposure, make working out as part of your, your daily routine, um, in whatever
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capacity, which is appropriate, is going to be the best way for, for long-term success.
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And this is where programming and smart programming is essential because you shouldn't go and lift
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So exercise doesn't have to be lifting super heavy every single day.
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As much as I want to do that, sometimes I know that my body's not going to repair and
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keep up, you know, seven days a week, but I do something every day just because I feel
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When you, you said programming and smart program, when you say smart program, you're, you're
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talking about programming in the correct way, right?
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Not, not a specific type of programming or, or are you?
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So you're, you're checking off all of your boxes.
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You're getting in your, your resistance training.
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You're getting in a little bit of cardiovascular training.
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So you're getting, you're getting that training in as well.
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So programming your, yourself in a way that you could do all of those things and show up
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And also based on what you want to accomplish, like, you know, jujitsu is a big part of, of
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my, of my life and also my, my fitness regimen.
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You know, my, my oldest son is like, he's all about that.
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I'm not going to do that because that isn't, that isn't, well, it's not interesting.
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It's boring to me, frankly, like he, he talked, he's like, it's so awesome.
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You do three lifts a week and some accessory work.
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Oh, I don't know how he does it, but that is one of the things that has.
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And I want to speak on this a little bit, or have you speak on this is I've never enjoyed
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Um, I I'm, I'm fairly fit depending on, you know, what season of my life you, you ask
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Uh, but I, and I've always been pretty active, but never, ever have I enjoyed lifting weights.
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But for some reason in the past month, month and a half, like I've really enjoyed getting
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up and going in and training and you and I haven't had a lot of conversations about this
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But I'm wondering if you have experience with other clients who have grown to actually like
00:25:55.540
resistance training where they haven't in the past and what might make it more enjoyable
00:26:01.360
for somebody who is resistant to it the way that I have been.
00:26:11.060
You know, because like that first day, like that first week, five weeks ago, when you first
00:26:15.720
started getting into it, like, when did you find a little bit more drive to go in and, and get it
00:26:27.180
Because at some point in the beginning, you just have to make yourself do it.
00:26:33.600
But at some point it changes and you're looking forward to it, or you're experiencing a certain
00:26:41.520
So I'll ask you, when did, when did you first experience a glimpse of that?
00:26:47.960
I don't know what, when, yeah, but what I would say, I just, I just started to enjoy
00:26:58.620
Like I just throw my headsets on and listen to a podcast or listen to a book.
00:27:05.820
Um, I don't really know because even as I'm going through the workout, it's like, this
00:27:19.140
Like the, my mentality is like, resist, like fight so hard against that.
00:27:24.300
But for some reason I get up in the morning and I'm like, ready to go in.
00:27:29.080
And maybe it's the feeling after of accomplishment that I like could be that, you know, that's
00:27:34.680
an element of it, or maybe that I have noticed some results and, and so it's, that's, what's
00:27:42.900
Uh, also that I'm just trying to keep up with my oldest son because he's turning into a beast
00:27:49.920
I told him we're going to, he's got his nationals, national power liftings he qualified for,
00:27:58.940
Uh, I told him, let's do one, one rep maxes on our, our three big lifts.
00:28:05.400
And he's like, but it has to be after nationals.
00:28:06.920
Cause he doesn't deviate from the program leading up to an event.
00:28:12.740
And he's like, we'll just use my totals from nationals.
00:28:15.560
We're going, we're going to compete you versus me.
00:28:18.860
And he's like, okay, so maybe that's in the gym.
00:28:26.320
I really, I, I wish I could tell you, cause if I could tell you, then I feel like I could
00:28:30.320
duplicate it, but something about it has clicked for me and I really enjoy doing it.
00:28:34.340
I think, I think at some point something clicks for, for, for people.
00:28:37.500
And I think those things, they're similar, but there's some sort of feedback loop between
00:28:43.100
the, the feeling that you get in the gym while you're doing the work.
00:28:46.880
And then just a little bit of the result that you get that you see just to kind of keep
00:28:54.340
So there's this feedback loop between you getting the work in, you feeling that, that
00:28:59.820
sense of accomplishment at the end of your workout and actually doing the work too.
00:29:03.680
And then you get just a little bit of the result.
00:29:06.040
Um, and you also mentioned that at the end of the workout, sometimes you'll, you'll get
00:29:13.720
And I think that really drives people too, because you see that you're like, Oh, like
00:29:17.740
I'm getting, I'm getting more done today than I did last time.
00:29:23.420
So for me, when I see what, with clients is, is I try to get them.
00:29:29.280
Is it that they're, that they're moving a little more weight on the bar.
00:29:33.080
They're like, Oh, like I dealt with my body weight.
00:29:36.620
And this, and these are general population people.
00:29:41.820
I train, you know, grandparents, my oldest client is 85 years old and he loves walking
00:29:47.600
around and showing his friends who, who some of them aren't walking that he's 200, 200 pounds.
00:29:56.080
It's, it's, it's figuring out, you know, what, what's driving people, right.
00:30:01.200
What's like their purpose, um, whether it's connecting with their kid, right.
00:30:06.820
So I think in the gym, it's figuring out with people, what's, what's kind of make, what's
00:30:14.860
But what gets them to do the work is that they're getting a little bit better every day
00:30:18.440
that they walked up the stairs and they weren't tired.
00:30:22.760
They pick the tip of their child and they seem light.
00:30:29.360
Man, let me hit a pause on the conversation just very briefly.
00:30:35.660
Uh, the iron council, as I mentioned earlier is only open for a few more days and I could
00:30:41.560
not give you a better reason to join than to know that the conversation you're hearing
00:30:47.340
is a direct result of a connection made inside of our exclusive brotherhood.
00:30:51.500
I, I had always enjoyed what Johnny had to share regarding fitness and the iron council.
00:30:55.320
And I asked him if he would coach me, this is an example of the caliber of men you're
00:31:00.980
going to meet inside and a testament to banding with other like-minded men who are successful
00:31:07.820
So if you want to find men who are succeeding at the highest level in fitness, in their family,
00:31:14.020
in entrepreneurism, any, any of these areas of life that are important to you, and then
00:31:18.140
also build friendships and accountability with them.
00:31:20.420
Then this is your last week to do it until sometime in the spring.
00:31:24.960
So we're open for a few more days, head to order a man.com slash iron council.
00:31:30.320
Again, that's order a man.com slash iron council.
00:31:33.060
You'll meet Johnny and, uh, 1200, a little over, I think 1200 other men who are all going
00:31:47.220
Yeah, I, it's, as you were saying that I was thinking about the screen that pops up
00:31:52.360
and says, you know, you've got six new personal bests or whatever it is on one hand, I think
00:31:58.260
to myself, what a silly thing to be motivated by because it's just computer programming and
00:32:02.780
it's a little cartoon that comes up and gives you a, a cartoon high five.
00:32:11.920
But then also I'm like, well, but why, why shouldn't I like, if that, why not?
00:32:15.920
If that, if that's what, if that's what feels good and gets you back going again to say,
00:32:20.560
okay, well, I got, you know, this way at this time, maybe I can do more next time.
00:32:24.480
I think all too often, some of these quote unquote silly things, or we hear a lot about
00:32:33.660
Like if it works to drive you to doing something you want to be doing and should be doing,
00:32:38.840
shouldn't we use all the tools at our disposal?
00:32:41.860
You know, swing, swing that tool, use that tool, man.
00:32:46.820
If you like that little cartoon high five and if you're like, man, I got to get 16, I
00:32:52.880
Like, shoot, if that's making you a better man, a better human, like freaking go for it.
00:33:02.980
And I see that it's like pull hypertrophy, push hypertrophy, full body hype.
00:33:10.080
So can you explain what that term means and why it's valuable?
00:33:16.880
Um, that's for you to think that, uh, I know what I'm talking about.
00:33:29.060
Uh, hypertrophy simply means muscle building basically.
00:33:33.660
So, um, so when Pete, somewhere along the lines, like, I think that bodybuilders were
00:33:42.200
And so the fitness industry had to call bodybuilding training, hypertrophy training, because it's
00:33:50.420
Is that where it derived from, from the, from the bodybuilding trade or world, I guess.
00:33:54.760
I don't know where hypertrophy, the name came from, but hypertrophy in the scientific
00:33:59.220
realm literally means to, to build muscle mass.
00:34:05.020
So like for your programming, those workouts are geared towards a rep range, which would
00:34:11.080
encourage more, um, hypertrophy muscle building as to, as opposed to if we were doing lower
00:34:17.260
reps, um, this, the focus would be more strength, for example.
00:34:21.020
So when I program people, they're generally training for either strength or power or hypertrophy
00:34:27.080
or endurance, there's a number of a couple other things, but those, those little notes
00:34:35.340
Are you, are you saying that the way that you worded that made me sound like, or made it
00:34:40.740
sound like strength muscle building is different than strength building?
00:34:50.440
So explain that because when I think about putting on muscle mass, I just assume, I mean,
00:34:55.360
obviously you're going to get stronger, but I just assume they're one in the same, but
00:35:03.420
So, so strength and muscle mass are, are correlated and you could, you could train for strength
00:35:10.240
So if guys are listening, if they're wondering, you know, what they want to, to accomplish
00:35:15.180
first and foremost, figure out, you know, what, what's the objective, what's the goal?
00:35:19.820
Because for you, you want to increase lean mass, right?
00:35:23.300
You want to engage in muscle hypertrophy, right?
00:35:26.020
So that's why the program I've written for you is, um, oriented around that.
00:35:29.840
Why do you say lean, why do you, why do people say lean, like lean mass?
00:35:34.120
Like, as opposed to what, as opposed to absolute mass.
00:35:38.440
So lean mass, meaning we're going to increase muscle tissue where, um, increasing mass means
00:35:43.400
like, I could just tell you to eat a bunch of food and you're going to get fat.
00:35:49.960
I guess the only, the only arena that I think that's acceptable is power lifters where they're
00:35:54.940
like, just get, just get huge in any way possible.
00:36:00.300
So whenever you're training to add mass, it's all just lean mass.
00:36:06.920
That's why I was like, why would you, why would you want to do it?
00:36:12.760
So I say lean mass is because like, I'm kind of programmed to say that.
00:36:15.520
Cause you, you can't put on fat mass or bad mass through training.
00:36:20.240
You wouldn't want to, unless you're a power lift, all the power lifters are going to be
00:36:25.200
mad at me now, unless you're a power lifter, then, you know, you can just look, we're
00:36:33.020
Is that the, is that the, um, what's, what's the guy's, uh, name from Soren X?
00:36:42.620
Um, man, he does all of these funny impressions, different, different like archetypes for lifters.
00:36:51.300
I think I got, I harnessed him when I, when I did that.
00:36:59.140
And he like flexes in the mirror and he's like, talks about his numbers.
00:37:18.900
So for programming, you can specifically train for certain, for certain things.
00:37:26.560
And I mean, like power lifter strength is absolute strength.
00:37:29.640
So amount of load moved, which is a little bit different than power, um, power to be like,
00:37:34.820
how fast can I move this weight, which is a little bit more applicable to like sports,
00:37:40.160
Um, and then, and then you have, um, you know, endurance training, like, you know, long distance
00:37:46.960
So when you're looking at your program, like think about like, what am I aiming at?
00:37:51.180
You know, what am I trying to accomplish with, with my programming?
00:37:57.400
Look at your volume, which is going to be the most important thing for hypertrophy when
00:38:01.860
Um, where does, where does cardio fit into the equation?
00:38:05.880
Because there's a lot of conflicting information.
00:38:10.100
You know, I've even heard things like, oh, cardio reduces testosterone.
00:38:14.220
And I don't know if there's any validity to that.
00:38:16.940
And I'm not talking about your, your, your sprinting, for example, is I've heard that
00:38:25.580
But if you do long during long endurance type training that reduces testosterone, it's
00:38:31.740
I'm, I'm just curious where, cause I know some guys that are beasts that are endurance
00:38:37.740
And I'm like, I don't, I wouldn't call that guy less of a man because he, he happens to
00:38:43.500
be lean and maybe tall and a little lanky, maybe even gangly, but that's pretty impressive.
00:38:50.780
So for, for cardio, so I think that's important to note that just because it's, uh, not running
00:38:59.380
So for example, like when you're, when you're doing your, your workouts in the gym, that's,
00:39:04.000
you're still working your cardiovascular system.
00:39:06.600
Um, so that's not an excuse to say that you should never go out for a run or for a jog
00:39:11.340
or hop on a bicycle, but that's what I was hoping for that.
00:39:16.940
And I want the bodybuilders to start, you know, cheering up and down and the pilots to
00:39:20.100
cheer up and down, but they're still working out their cardiovascular system.
00:39:23.140
So I don't want guys to think that like, just because they're lifting four days a week
00:39:27.600
that they're not doing cardio, especially if they're doing it at a, at a rapid pace, if
00:39:33.260
Um, so if we're talking about like different, different cardio zones, um, like low, low intensity
00:39:38.740
cardio, like walking, uh, or rucking like zone one and zone two, and it's different for
00:39:43.920
everybody, um, different like percentages of their heart rate, that's going to be really
00:39:47.900
great for overall cardiovascular health and fat and fat loss, generally speaking.
00:39:53.080
And then as you kind of get up into like the middle range and then the higher range,
00:39:56.500
like you talk about sprinting, your sprinting is going to be great for building VO two max
00:40:00.540
and stimulating, you know, your central, central nervous system.
00:40:04.100
And, and there, there is some correlation between sprinting and high intensity training
00:40:07.900
and, and, um, and hormone optimization, like, like you mentioned.
00:40:11.400
Um, so I think everybody needs to do some sort of cardiovascular training.
00:40:18.240
I think that for you, that's, um, that's adequate depends on your goals.
00:40:22.760
If it's for general health, I think that you do need to do some sort of low and low impact
00:40:28.100
training, whether it be going out for a long walk, martial arts is going to fill that, um,
00:40:33.820
high intensity training, like, like sprinting is good.
00:40:36.980
If you're an athlete, it's going to be very athlete specific.
00:40:41.400
It's always, and I don't mean to be offensive at all when I say this, cause it actually
00:40:50.360
And the reason I say that is because we all know what to do.
00:40:58.900
Maybe we get the rep scheme wrong or, or, you know, maybe there's a more efficient way
00:41:03.180
to do a squat or, you know, like things like that, but everybody knows what to do.
00:41:08.140
And yet for whatever reason, we don't, we don't do it.
00:41:12.720
And guys are going to be listening to this podcast and they're going to be all amped up
00:41:16.100
and they'll be like, yeah, I'm going to work with Johnny or I'm going to go work with a
00:41:19.600
I'm going to get a planet fitness pass or whatever they're thinking to themselves right
00:41:23.480
And they're going to go for like a week or two, if that, and then they're going to fall
00:41:28.120
right back into their old patterns and old habits.
00:41:30.140
And, and, and I think that's, that's where your job actually, that's where you actually
00:41:42.880
Then let me show you the specifics of a proper squat form.
00:41:46.260
Although important, not the, not the priority relative to just keeping people in the game.
00:41:51.420
So I think it depends on the population of people that you're looking at.
00:41:59.900
And my job is to basically hold them accountable to doing it.
00:42:04.360
And what's been an interesting effect of modern technology is what I'm seeing now is a lot of
00:42:12.040
people are inundated with so much information that they don't know what to do with it because
00:42:17.700
they're like, oh, you have to do this diet, this, this program, you know, this thing, this,
00:42:23.120
And they're like, there's just too much, too much input.
00:42:27.700
So one of the things that I'm doing with my, with my online consulting business is helping
00:42:36.580
Someone's got to tell them like, with all this going on, this is what you want.
00:42:40.480
This is what you have to do specifically, you know, for, for them and their, and their
00:42:44.700
But if you're looking at like athletes, I don't train a lot, a lot of athletes.
00:42:48.440
Um, yeah, there's a lot of skills in, in programming and getting them to do the, the right, the
00:42:54.100
right things, but general population, like you said, they know what to do.
00:42:57.520
They just need to have somebody hold them accountable and getting them to do it.
00:43:00.720
And when they get bored to give them something else, because man, hitting that pause button,
00:43:05.300
it's hard to get back up and going if you're doing it on your own and you don't have somebody
00:43:12.820
That's going to be like, all right, dude, like we're done with that program.
00:43:18.160
Cause if you, if you stop, it's hard to get started.
00:43:21.860
I know for myself, just, just because of, you know, I've got followers and people that
00:43:27.880
listen, I'm trying not to be pretentious as I say that, cause it sounds stupid, but, uh,
00:43:34.140
a lot of people are willing to offer unsolicited advice and, and that's what it is.
00:43:41.740
So I'm not downplaying that or diminishing that, but I'll read a book and I'll have,
00:43:49.480
Or, or I'll post a workout and they're like, oh, well you shouldn't have done, you know,
00:43:55.080
You should have done 13 at 110% of what you did at 14.
00:43:59.620
It's like at some point, maybe this is just a personality thing.
00:44:06.220
I, I need to get like to 90% efficiency and yeah, I realize I'm leaving 10% on the table,
00:44:15.920
Like I have other things that I care about and 90% in this arena is okay.
00:44:21.480
Like I'm, I acknowledge that and I'm comfortable with that because I've realized that if I chase
00:44:28.380
every little thing for every little point of efficiency, I just won't do anything or I'll
00:44:34.260
get discouraged on what I am doing or throw in the towel and abandoned ship for this, you
00:44:38.520
know, fancier ship over here that I'll get bored with in another two months.
00:44:42.420
Dude, and here's the thing and sorry to interject.
00:44:45.900
I don't want to cut you off, but the, the hard work is going to separate and put and put
00:44:54.780
Cause like, sure, we could squeeze more efficiency out of this, or maybe this exercise is a little
00:44:58.620
bit more optimal or whatever, but like hard work is going to win all of the time.
00:45:04.060
Like we, we, we all know guys who are in the gym that aren't doing necessarily the right
00:45:08.980
thing, but they work hard enough that it compensates for their inefficiencies, if you will.
00:45:16.740
But you're going to have somebody who's going to say, yeah, but what about, and yeah, I've
00:45:19.880
seen the videos where people doing dumb things, which is hilarious.
00:45:24.920
Like planet fitness videos, since we were talking about that earlier, planet fitness videos where
00:45:29.900
people are going in and like, I don't know, doing like resistance jumping jacks on the, the
00:45:35.320
leg curl machine or something, you know, it's like, what, what?
00:45:38.980
Or like, like, like sec over sexualized movements, you know, on, on the, on the lat pull down
00:45:46.820
It's like, what are you, what are you training for?
00:45:50.060
Like the, the, a marathon, you know, Olympic orgy or what?
00:45:55.240
So, so yes, we know guys, like there's that extreme where people are doing things that
00:46:04.880
I, I actually really enjoy, I go to CrossFit one to two days a week.
00:46:11.180
We really like CrossFit, but some of the CrossFit culture is ridiculous.
00:46:16.840
Like I, like why you're just going to get the one that kills me is a kettlebell snatch.
00:46:27.200
And like, you're just going to break your wrist and people are like, well, because you're
00:46:31.000
There's no right way to do that movement because it's not a thing that people do.
00:46:39.100
But you don't grab things and snatch them up in the air and hit like, it's not a thing
00:46:47.520
Dude, you don't snatch your luggage into the overhead compartment then?
00:46:51.540
I've pushed it, a push press, a push jerk, you know, but strict press, but never, I've never
00:46:59.520
So you're going to have the kettlebell people really upset with you right now.
00:47:05.060
Like I said earlier, you know, they're going to be upset or what, and, and what they're
00:47:22.140
Why, like, why interject all this crazy shit into the mix just to
00:47:26.180
for variety that actually, that's a good point is at what point does variety become a hindrance
00:47:39.880
Well, I just think if you're not consistent enough, uh, or you're not building a movement
00:47:47.200
like, like repetitive movement, just bouncing around from thing to thing, program to program,
00:47:53.020
weight to weight is probably a hindrance at some point.
00:47:56.960
And that's why when we talked earlier about programming that I think that guys really
00:48:00.180
got to stay on the path on whatever they choose for, for at least two months.
00:48:05.060
And it's good to have some variety and variation and exercise selection, you know, years ago,
00:48:11.060
you know, there was this whole like muscle confusion thing.
00:48:14.480
Like muscles on our brains, they, they can't be confused, but, um, there needs to be some
00:48:19.580
exercise variation, but not so much that you can't quantify and realize the results that
00:48:26.960
Um, so for example, like let's just look at squat cause it's the easy one.
00:48:30.740
Like you could back squat, you could front squat, you could search your squat.
00:48:33.340
Like, how do you know if your back squat is going up?
00:48:36.640
If every time you squat, you're doing a different variation of the squat, like, I don't know,
00:48:41.520
like you got to stick with it for, for at least a good amount of time to see if you're
00:48:46.200
And if that, and if that movement's serving you, where would you suggest that somebody
00:48:53.700
Cause again, I wanted to have you on because you've done a phenomenal job with my training
00:48:57.340
and I I've come down and I think you're in the room where we did the, this body scan.
00:49:03.780
The DEXA DEXA, which measures everything essentially.
00:49:09.480
Bone density, uh, muscle mass, um, you know, body fat, all that stuff.
00:49:13.500
So obviously that's important because if you want to improve, you have to know where you're
00:49:19.560
Like you need to be able to, to, to track things.
00:49:22.700
But if somebody is listening to this and they're thinking, Hey, new year's is coming up.
00:49:31.380
Does it just go to the gym, pull up a generic, you know, lifting schedule on online?
00:49:37.560
Like what, what, what would you suggest for somebody like that?
00:49:40.540
If we're talking specifically training, I think that for,
00:49:43.500
first and foremost, as we talk a lot about is defining their, their goal, right?
00:49:48.300
What do they want to get out of this exercise program?
00:49:51.040
Number one, and then find a program or coach or whatever that's aligned with that objective.
00:50:02.020
Like we talked about before and stick to it for at least two months.
00:50:05.700
Like, like we had said before and the program that they decide to choose, it needs to be sustainable.
00:50:11.460
You know, we see a lot in the iron council guys will, you know, be all in and they're super fired up and they execute hard for a week.
00:50:20.680
Like, and the plan that they set out to do, the habits that they decided to attack, they're, you know, they're, they're overreaching, right?
00:50:28.260
It's, it's too, it's too much for them to take on and it's not something that's sustainable for them.
00:50:33.120
So what I always tell people, it's like, look, if you've gone from like zero days in the gym, like don't select a program that has five days.
00:50:41.000
You're going to set yourself up for failure, you know, don't, don't under, don't undershoot either, right?
00:50:49.400
And I always try to push people towards working a little bit harder, right?
00:50:53.740
But if it's really, and I'm talking like, like they have a crazy job, their kids schedule, they really can't get to the day, get in the gym five days a week that they shouldn't.
00:51:02.060
I'm going to push them to try, but let's just be realistic.
00:51:05.180
Like I'd rather them execute a hundred percent at three days a week lifting and then being like, Hey, on those other days, like here's a selection of things that you can choose from.
00:51:19.680
In addition to your days, I want you to execute those days a hundred percent.
00:51:24.180
So the alternative to that, I, I, I will push back on that just a little bit, just because I know my personality and I know there's a lot of guys that have not everybody, but a lot of guys listening that have the same.
00:51:39.420
Like I'm, I'm just, I'm not going to dabble in things.
00:51:45.880
If, if it's like, yeah, just do it like whenever you, you can, that it's not going to work for me.
00:51:50.540
Cause I just, I'll either do zero or I'll do a hundred.
00:51:56.100
Like I'm not doing that at all, or I'm doing a hundred.
00:52:03.900
Not everyone's like that, you know, speaking generally, that was just like my general answer.
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But yeah, if I have someone that I know that they're like that, yeah, I'll, I'll program them, you know, seven days a week.
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Like I have something for you six days a week now.
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So I think it's understanding, you know, who, who the individual is, you know, but they either decide what's sustainable for them, ideally get out there and work every day.
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Like you can't just show up and go through the motions.
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That's going to separate, you know, you from getting results and not getting results.
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Like this morning I came back from my, from working out and you know, it's just my whole shirt.
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I had like a light gray shirt on, which is the best shirt to wear at the gym.
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Because then by the time you're done, it's all dark gray.
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I did, I did what I wanted to do, which is to sweat as much as I possibly could.
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And you just feel better when you like, imagine coming back from the gym and you're not tired.
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Like you should have, you should have stayed at home and had some tea or coffee.
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And, you know, I don't know, like did some meditation or something like, like, and tea and meditation is not inherently bad.
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I'm just saying do that instead of going to the gym and doing nothing.
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What, so my question though, is what if you don't know what you want?
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And so guys listening to this and a lot of trainers, and I'm not trying to knock you guys here at all.
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When I say this, he's like, well, what do you want to do?
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Like, well, I know, but which is most important?
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I want to be strong, fit, look good, naked, have little fat.
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And I think guys that are listening are like, yeah, I don't know what specifically I'm training for.
00:53:57.800
Are there some questions that you would have them ask themselves that would get them pointed
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in the right direction or on the right track of, of hitting their goals and objectives?
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I think like, you know, doing, doing some, uh, some vision work, some journaling, you know,
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what is the most, um, effective version of themselves look like?
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I did the talk at the main event and I titled it, you know, the, uh, the ultimate man, you
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know, what does the ultimate version of Ryan Mickler look like?
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What skill sets does that body know how to, uh, engage in?
00:54:36.400
So when I, when I did this talk, I talked about, you know, the foundation of everything is strength.
00:54:40.800
Like you have to, you have to resistance train, whether it be, you know, with dumbbells, you
00:54:46.140
know, barbells, kettlebells, you know, CrossFit, whatever calisthenics, you have to put your
00:54:50.920
body under load and you have to strength train in some capacity.
00:54:56.060
Then above me on that, I talked about resilience, whether it be, you know, endurance, um, activities
00:55:04.320
I talked about, um, you know, skill sets as well.
00:55:08.720
You know, this is, this is a little bit different conversation, but, you know, I, I am a big
00:55:12.860
proficient, uh, I'm a big, um, fan of guys being proficient in firearms and being able
00:55:17.740
to, uh, be an asset in their community in terms of, um, you know, medical care, right.
00:55:22.380
You know, having basic trauma medicine skills and stuff like that.
00:55:25.380
So, you know, what, what does this version of you, of you look like and then, and then
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kind of go from there, but every, I think everyone should resistance train.
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So if they're not doing that, like, that's the best place to start.
00:55:36.440
Well, I have, I have one thing that I know that I'm going to be able to do, and that
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is, I'm going to be able to do six days of your programming in one day.
00:55:45.680
That is one thing that I'm going to be able to do.
00:55:50.320
There, there is another thing I want to address and, and we don't talk about this a whole lot
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as men, cause we feel like it's not important or it's a non-issue, but I actually disagree
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that I know some people, some men who are, they're fit, uh, they're athletic, but they
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They're just scrawny and they're pasty and they just, they don't look like they could
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fight themselves out of a, you know, a wet paper bag.
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And I think that there is an element of fitness that is important when it comes to your aesthetics
00:56:28.840
because it's going to make you more attractive to clients, to romantic interests.
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Uh, it's going to make you, uh, less attractive to shady characters.
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Like, like you, for example, if I'm going to rob a convenience store and I see you walking
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in or I see you at the counter, I'm probably going to choose a different time to do that.
00:56:54.820
Like it's not worth it for me to mess with you only because I see the way that you look.
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I'm not saying that it's the most important thing, but to me, uh, a man looks strong.
00:57:19.360
I realized we all have different body types, but building muscle is crucial for not only
00:57:25.400
functionality, but also the aesthetic appeal and reasons deterrence that we, that we'd
00:57:34.380
I think that your body is going to be a function of your, of your training, right?
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Um, if you're not lifting weights, if you're this limp noodle type, right, it's going to
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be a reflection of what you're training in or not, or not training in.
00:57:47.120
And I'm a big, I'm a big proponent of what, what you said, a, an effective man is a, is
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a strong man and his body will reflect that, you know, your body, my body, other guys that
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work out, like these are reflections of our habits and the things that we put our bodies
00:58:03.460
through, through their weight training, through the martial arts training, like this body
00:58:08.920
So when you see another guy with a commanding physical presence, you know, what's beneath
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the layer, you're like that guy, like he, he works hard at whatever you're going to
00:58:23.020
And doing martial arts, like, you know, like the jujitsu guys, they carry themselves a certain
00:58:27.280
way and you, and you just, and you just know, and you look at somebody and, you know,
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they're muscular, like, ah, I'm not going to mess with that guy.
00:58:38.880
And, uh, you're growing up, I was, uh, I was, you know, this, this height, you know, six
00:58:43.120
two, but I was like 150 pounds and I was, you're real scrawny and I would get, I would
00:58:47.360
get picked on a lot, but man, as soon as I harnessed, you know, getting into the gym
00:58:53.380
and working through the pain of being uncomfortable and people like, at least my perception of looking
00:58:58.520
at me or making fun of me in the gym, just being a skinny kid with like, you know, 10
00:59:03.300
Um, once I saw the results of building a more powerful and commanding physique, everything
00:59:14.660
And then I eventually met my, my beautiful and wonderful wife, Lauren.
00:59:23.480
And cause they're like, man, like you've got something figured out.
00:59:26.400
And I want to, I want to talk to you about it because you, you've got something going on
00:59:33.760
Everything else just, just clicked and that boosted my confidence.
00:59:36.380
And then I started training harder and all of these things.
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And it all started with me just building a more powerful and commanding physique.
00:59:45.640
I think a lot of times people tend to believe that's, that's like a vain pursuit and it's
00:59:59.080
It's, it's not, the aesthetic is not the goal in and of itself.
01:00:05.700
It's the inevitable outcome of discipline, sacrifice, commitment, dedication, all these
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other completely redeeming qualities and characteristics that we would, I think would all agree.
01:00:20.540
And that's why I tell guys, it's like, if these tech thing is their goal, it's like be
01:00:25.100
obsessed with the tactics that takes to get there because the aesthetics are going to come,
01:00:32.580
Like we've been talking about for the, for the, for this call, it's like, get in there,
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you know, do the work and the aesthetic pieces.
01:00:39.620
It's going to come, like, you're going to build a reflection of your habits.
01:00:46.740
So here's the one thing I've heard a lot is, you know, I might, I use the word working out
01:00:53.700
and training interchangeably, but I know that there's a certain type of person who doesn't
01:01:07.600
And you just like the word train better or what would be, how would you differentiate
01:01:15.760
Cause I'm not riled up by what somebody else thinks of my workout sessions, but what is
01:01:22.660
From my perspective, and I, I find myself using it more interchangeably than I would
01:01:29.420
like, and especially more than some of my, you know, colleagues would like, but I, but
01:01:40.740
And I think that what the industry likes about the word train and what I personally like around
01:01:49.360
It's like, I am working on this plan, on this thing that I set out to do, and there's
01:02:02.260
And depending upon who you are, depending upon what your goals are, I think that for the 300
01:02:06.880
pound guy that's sitting on the couch that is listening to us right now and wondering
01:02:11.260
what he should do, man, he just needs to work out.
01:02:13.860
And if that's non-specific with like not much intention other than like moving his body,
01:02:18.320
because he's not moving at all, then that's okay.
01:02:21.400
But I think that for the vast majority of us, that we would benefit from this train ideology.
01:02:28.140
I, I'm going to say something that I know is going to offend people.
01:02:30.800
Well, anything I say is going to offend somebody.
01:02:33.420
It seems like working out is, again, I use them interchangeably, but working out to me
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is more of a feminine approach than training, which is more masculine.
01:02:45.020
So like, you'll see women who are like, yeah, I'm going to the gym.
01:02:59.360
It's just kind of, it's, it's, it's, um, I'm trying not to be too offensive.
01:03:05.520
I don't, I don't mind offending, but I don't want to be too.
01:03:07.820
Dude, I know a lot of, I know a lot of women that train way harder than men.
01:03:13.840
But, uh, but that's different, but that's, that's more of a direction oriented pursuit.
01:03:19.060
Like, like your wife, she does, she does bodybuilding, right?
01:03:27.860
And to me, that's, that's more of a masculine pursuit.
01:03:38.260
I'm doing this thing and I'm working towards achieving this thing.
01:03:41.460
Those attributes are more masculine in nature for sure.
01:03:44.640
And I'm not saying a woman who possesses that can't be feminine.
01:03:47.740
Of course they're feminine at times, you know, but, uh, yeah, I guess that's how I look
01:03:57.360
So you train Ryan, you train, you train, I'm not really training for anything.
01:04:03.260
Maybe I should, uh, I have noticed that in the past to go back to your question about
01:04:07.980
why did lifting click for me when I have a goal, then it's, I noticed myself being able
01:04:19.600
So for example, if I know, yeah, like if I know a Spartan race is coming up, I'm going
01:04:27.600
Or if I'm going to enter a jujitsu competition, which I haven't, and I, and I want to, then
01:04:33.780
I'm going to actually have purpose and intentionality behind what I do leading up to that, that event.
01:04:38.240
And then I'm not going to slack either, you know?
01:04:40.780
And then there's one other thing I thought about as to why it clicked for me this time
01:04:44.900
around or has so far has so far is I got into a transformation challenge with some buddies.
01:04:53.420
There's, I think there's six of us and we all put in 200 bucks.
01:04:57.600
And it's, and it's who has the biggest transformation.
01:05:02.740
And I think it was a 90 day window that we did.
01:05:05.300
So we have until, what did we, oh, we chose Valentine's day.
01:05:08.860
I don't know why, but we chose on Valentine's day, like whoever has the biggest transformation
01:05:21.640
Not, not that like, I'm not going to, not that I wasn't going to have you train hard anyway,
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We have to win the area that, and we, we didn't even address, and maybe we can run
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this back another time, but the area we didn't talk about was nutrition.
01:05:36.240
And that's actually where I need the most work.
01:05:44.800
I'm going to eat the entire pizza, put Christmas and new year's cookies in front of me.
01:05:57.640
We could circle back on that another time if you want, but I think that the nutrition
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piece is going to be, again, like we talked about correlated highly correlated with, with
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If you want to lose fat, you have to focus on the nutrition.
01:06:13.320
You should always worry about your nutrition, obviously, but losing fat, if we're using the
01:06:18.020
extreme example of like a bodybuilding show, it's, it all comes down to nutrition, a little
01:06:28.440
I think where I need to focus the most is with the nutrition piece is better hydration.
01:06:34.360
That's important because I don't drink a lot of water at all.
01:06:37.400
I could go a day or two without having actual just water.
01:06:43.320
Uh, portion sizes is a big one for me and, uh, carbs, bread, pasta, chips, delicious sweets.
01:06:57.460
It's like, you know, if you put a pie in front of me, I'm like, man, uh, it doesn't, it's
01:07:02.180
not a big deal, but you put a loaf of bread in front of me or, you know, fettuccine Alfredo.
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So that's, that's where I need to lock that in.
01:07:14.600
Well, brother, tell the guys where to connect with you, learn a little bit more about what
01:07:18.320
Also, if you don't say it, I will say it, uh, obviously you do a great job.
01:07:21.380
You're, you're my trainer and hopefully you can help.
01:07:24.080
I know you can help me on the nutrition side if I just listened to you.
01:07:26.560
Uh, but the other thing that I'll say is that you, you and I, we live generally close together,
01:07:35.480
So this is all done online and remotely, which is important because you can have your gym,
01:07:40.400
but you can have Johnny as a trainer who can help you regardless of where you are, but
01:07:47.360
So the best place to connect with me, um, you know, on social media would be my personal
01:07:53.920
Uh, my, my facility here in Boston, my brick and mortar business is, uh, back bay fit.
01:08:00.860
And, um, Ryan, you and I had, I had the privilege of talking with you over the summer at the,
01:08:06.200
at the, um, origin immersion camp about, you know, uh, scaling my, my online business and,
01:08:12.280
you know, starting in January, you know, next week, I'm going to really ramp up my online
01:08:16.960
component, which is a new, a new brand called Valance V-A-L-E-N-C-E.
01:08:22.260
And that's where I'm going to kind of mitigate all of my online training too, just to kind of
01:08:26.340
separate the, um, the brick and mortar, which is back bay fit from the online part.
01:08:31.400
Cause like you said, one of the beautiful things about, um, the last couple of years,
01:08:35.880
people not having as much access to, to gyms is, is the online component.
01:08:41.120
And I was always doing online, online training, but now people are really into it and I could
01:08:49.480
So, you know, Johnny Loretty is the best place to find me directly.
01:08:52.100
And, and, uh, my brick and mortar, brick and mortar business is back bay fit and this
01:08:56.420
valence, uh, health consulting business is something I'm going to be launching.
01:08:59.420
It's going to be fully integrated with, uh, DNA testing.
01:09:02.940
We didn't talk about blood work, but I think that guys, if you haven't gotten blood work
01:09:07.000
done in the last year, get it done, you know, see, see where you're at, get everything
01:09:12.100
Um, we're going to, um, have all that integrate with blood work and everything.
01:09:18.600
Well, I know I'm, I'm personally looking forward to, to building this out even more.
01:09:22.400
So appreciate you appreciate everything you've done personally for me.
01:09:25.660
And I know you're going to serve and help a lot of guys as we roll into 2023.
01:09:34.920
My conversation with the one and only Johnny Loretty.
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Uh, obviously so much great information to share.
01:09:41.880
And I know from personal experience, how powerful his programming is and what he can do for your
01:09:48.460
strength, for your overall health, for your nutrition.
01:09:51.940
So if you're looking for somebody, Johnny's a great resource, hit him up on Instagram.
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Actually just take a screenshot right now, tag him, tag me, put it up on Instagram.
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01:10:18.400
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01:10:23.760
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01:10:30.500
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