Order of Man - Kill Self-Sabotage ｜ FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

00:00:00.000 You're a man of action. You live life to the fullest. Embrace your fears and boldly chart

00:00:04.860 your own path. When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time. Every time.

00:00:10.200 You are not easily deterred, defeated, rugged, resilient, strong. This is your life. This is

00:00:16.600 who you are. This is who you will become. At the end of the day, and after all is said and done,

00:00:22.140 you can call yourself a man. Gentlemen, what is going on today? My name is Ryan Mickler.

00:00:27.260 I'm the host and the founder of the Order of Man podcast and movement. Welcome here and welcome

00:00:31.840 back. Glad you're joining us. Today, this is your Friday Field Notes. I do three shows a week.

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00:00:56.620 just some of my thoughts. It might be a question that somebody poses, or I see

00:01:00.860 a continuing concern get brought up within our channels or our exclusive brotherhood,

00:01:06.340 the Iron Council. And I feel as if it warrants further discussion, which is the case today.

00:01:10.940 Somebody asked me about self-sabotage. This is something that I am notorious for in my own life.

00:01:18.040 And I'm going to talk with you about why we self-sabotage. We're really going to get to the

00:01:22.920 root of why we do this in the first place. We're also going to talk about how it manifests

00:01:27.660 itself, whether it's consciously or subconsciously. And then I'm going to give you four strategies and

00:01:33.060 tips that you can utilize right now today to overcome our tendencies, men, of self-sabotaging,

00:01:40.900 especially when things are going really well. Before I get into that, I just want to let you know

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00:02:22.020 frameworks were used. Part of that is this battle plan. For example, we're going to talk a little

00:02:26.780 bit about that today as I talk about sabotage. And we're also teaching you how to come up with goals

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00:03:01.180 order a man.com slash iron council. There's a very quick video. You can watch and learn more about

00:03:05.180 it. All right. So let's talk about self-sabotage and specifically, we're going to talk about how to

00:03:10.220 kill self-sabotage, how to eliminate it and eradicate it from your life. Because, well,

00:03:15.460 I don't feel like I even really need to explain why we don't want to sabotage ourselves, but let's

00:03:20.000 talk about why we do. I've been thinking a lot about this, especially as this man asked this

00:03:25.640 question of me with, with self-sabotage. And I think there's, it boils down to really two main

00:03:33.060 reasons. Number one, it's that we as human beings are lazy. And, and I don't even, let's go deeper

00:03:40.720 than that. I don't even know if it's laziness. I think it's just our default of choosing the path

00:03:46.860 of least resistance. I was introduced to this idea by Rob Wolf, who talks about nutrition and fitness.

00:03:57.240 He's a, he's a health expert. And he was saying that our bodies and our mindset were hardwired.

00:04:04.580 And this will tie into self-sabotage, but we're wired to consume as many calories as possible

00:04:10.940 and not spend as many as possible. And in a scarcity environment, that's completely true.

00:04:19.800 We are all about conservation in a scarcity environment. We've evolved that way. We've been

00:04:26.680 in on this planet for hundreds of thousands of years. It's just the natural way is that we're

00:04:33.640 lazy. We seek the path of least resistance because throughout much of, of human history,

00:04:40.240 we've lived in scarcity environments. Well, fortunately we've done a lot of good things

00:04:46.580 as, as a species and some not so good things as a species, but we've evolved to this point where

00:04:52.200 we're no longer in scarcity. You know, you think about financial markets and, and, and, and, and,

00:04:58.300 and human capital and human potential and the amount of people on the planet and ingenuity.

00:05:02.960 We're, we're just not in a scarcity environment anymore. And yet we have evolved over time,

00:05:10.500 tens, hundreds of thousands of years that that's just not going to go away. So what we tend to do is

00:05:16.180 we tend to be lazy. We tend to conserve when we ought to be out producing. And I actually think

00:05:23.240 that we as human beings are fighting against our human nature. Human nature is the path of least

00:05:31.740 resistance because in a dangerous environment or a scarce environment, we have to conserve as much as

00:05:38.720 we possibly can. But in an abundant environment, we can go out and produce, we can go out and expend

00:05:46.700 energy. We can innovate, we can create because we know that that's going to be returned to us in the

00:05:54.160 form of profits or in the form of fulfillment. We're going to get that back. So we're actually

00:05:58.760 fighting against our human nature. That's an uphill battle. Number two is there are a lot of insecurities

00:06:06.980 that we have as men. And when we have these insecurities, we feel like we don't deserve

00:06:14.080 what we have. So let's say, for example, you meet an incredible woman and you love her deeply

00:06:21.340 and you want to serve her. You want to be with her for the rest of your life. And you know,

00:06:26.080 she wants to be with you, but you had another relationship in the past where maybe you didn't

00:06:34.060 treat that woman as well as you could have. Maybe you didn't honor her the way that you wanted

00:06:40.120 to. Maybe there were some mistakes that were made in that relationship, or maybe you cheated on her 1.00

00:06:45.640 or she cheated on you. And now what you're going to do is you're going to take all of that baggage

00:06:50.760 from that previous relationship and you're going to bring it into your new relationship and you're

00:06:55.760 going to blow up what could be an incredible, incredible partnership with an incredible woman.

00:07:01.200 A lot of different ways to do that, right? Cheating, treating her less than, but essentially

00:07:06.560 what happens is that you don't feel like if there's a lot of guilt and shame with past relationships,

00:07:11.540 you don't feel like you deserve to be loved. A lot of us might experience that because we didn't get

00:07:19.680 it, for example, from our parents. And so you feel like you're unlovable or you feel like you're not

00:07:27.040 worthy. Or maybe when you were a child, somebody made you feel stupid to the point where 30, 40, 0.99

00:07:33.020 50 years later, you still remember that moment. And you believe that you're a fool, that you're 1.00

00:07:38.640 stupid and you don't deserve success. Another thing that might've happened is that somebody who's 1.00

00:07:45.700 wealthy, somebody who's prosperous, financially abundant, mistreated you or took advantage of you

00:07:54.000 or exploited you or stole from you. And now you get into this position as a 30, a 40, a 50,

00:08:01.040 a 60 year old, where you've begun to build real wealth in your life. And you remember that individual

00:08:06.200 who was wealthy, who took advantage of you. And you even subconsciously say, I don't want to be like

00:08:11.840 that guy. So therefore I'm not going to be wealthy. And you blow your business up when you don't have to.

00:08:17.300 It's amazing. And I'm learning a lot more about this specifically over the past, I would say three

00:08:23.420 to six months, because I've really been diving deep into our insecurities as men. But it is amazing to

00:08:29.400 me how often our current decisions are made based on insecurities from previous experiences and cultures

00:08:40.620 and beliefs, even decades old. So we do have to get to the root of those insecurities. And as soon

00:08:46.660 as we do, and we start addressing those insecurities, you're going to find out that you are lovable,

00:08:51.940 for example. And that although you made mistakes in past relationships, you don't have to bring those

00:08:57.560 over into current relationships. Although somebody took advantage of you, maybe it was a romantic

00:09:02.240 interest or a business partner. That isn't to say that everybody is that way. And you start to

00:09:09.660 address these insecurities and you start to stamp them out, then you can move forward without having

00:09:17.100 to worry about sabotaging yourself because you believe you are lovable. You are worthy. You are

00:09:22.740 able to build wealth and that it's not a bad thing. And you could be a good person and build abundance

00:09:27.720 and prosperity in your life. We'll talk more about that as I get into the steps for killing self

00:09:33.160 sabotage. But let's talk about how we do this. And these are pretty broad, but we need to understand

00:09:39.220 how we do this because if we do understand how we self sabotage, then we can identify when we're

00:09:44.700 doing it. But you can't fight an enemy that you don't acknowledge or recognize. So let's recognize

00:09:50.980 what it does and the strategies that we employ to sabotage ourselves. Number one, I'm guilty of this.

00:09:57.360 I'm notorious for this is we rest on our laurels. Again, this comes back to the path of least resistance

00:10:02.500 because for example, we've built up some level of financial abundance in our lives.

00:10:09.520 I'm looking now for the path of least resistance because that's my human condition.

00:10:15.260 That's human nature. And I believe that because I have so many clients or I have so much passive

00:10:20.780 income coming in on a monthly or daily basis that I can just sit back and rest and it will continue.

00:10:27.620 I really experienced this when I was doing financial planning and I called it the accordion

00:10:32.900 effect. What I would do is I would go out and I would market and I would prospect and I would ask

00:10:39.180 for referrals and I would make cold calls and I would, it would work. I would get a lot of new

00:10:43.900 business and the business and financial planning from the time that you meet a prospect to the time

00:10:49.380 that you actually do business with them could be a matter of weeks, could be a matter of months,

00:10:54.700 maybe even a year in some cases. And so this would work. The accordion effect would, would,

00:11:00.520 would begin. So I'd go out and I'd prospect and I'd spend a lot of time prospecting and I would get

00:11:05.360 new clients. And as I was getting new clients, I would start working on managing their cases and

00:11:11.340 believing that I had things figured out. And then all of a sudden I closed all those cases,

00:11:15.600 but I wasn't doing any marketing in the meantime and my income started to reduce.

00:11:20.580 And so I had to go back out and I had to start doing marketing again and cold calling and

00:11:26.800 prospecting and getting referrals. And it just became this accordion. Like I could never keep

00:11:31.640 it consistent because I've rested on my laurels guys. There is no arrival. That's what we need to

00:11:37.920 understand. And as I get to the ways that we kill self-sabotage, I'm going to talk about this one,

00:11:42.400 but we, we cannot, we can't rest on our laurels. We can't believe that because the sun is shining today,

00:11:49.920 that it's going to continue to shine tomorrow. And even when you're on top of the world,

00:11:54.840 realize that the world is spinning. So if you're on top of the world and the world is spinning

00:11:58.300 around at some point, you're going to be on the bottom. It's inevitable. You are not above it.

00:12:05.400 The only way to stay on top of the world is to keep running, is to keep going. That's all.

00:12:13.360 Because as the world spins and you're running the opposite way, like on a hamster wheel,

00:12:17.760 for example, it's not a great metaphor because we don't want to be on the hamster wheel,

00:12:20.620 not really going anywhere, but I think you get the point. That's how we stay on top

00:12:24.640 by being vigilant. I'm going to talk more about this in a little bit. So we rest on our laurels.

00:12:31.360 Okay. Number two is we begin, and this specifically relates to our insecurities. We begin to consciously

00:12:39.100 or subconsciously undermine our efforts. So the relationship issue that I told you,

00:12:45.980 because you feel like maybe that you are unlovable or that you don't deserve love because of the way

00:12:52.660 you treated somebody in a past relationship. Now you're going to distance yourself.

00:12:58.760 Now you're not going to go out and meet women. For example, now you're not going to go, 0.95

00:13:02.820 you're not going to be willing to commit to a woman. Maybe you're going to, to use women for, 1.00

00:13:08.400 you know, sexual needs and wants, but not really commit to that woman because you don't deserve 0.73

00:13:14.380 to be loved. So you'll have your needs met, but you're not going to go any deeper than that.

00:13:19.980 In business, you know, you might do something dumb. You might make, make more mistakes. 0.98

00:13:27.220 Again, subconsciously or consciously make mistakes, bring in business partners that you shouldn't

00:13:33.260 bring in, uh, distract yourself. This is something we do. We distract ourselves with trivial nonsense,

00:13:41.560 right? You feel like you've got the, you've, you've got the world by its balls and you're on top of the 0.94

00:13:49.300 world and you feel like you've got everything under control, but you also, because of your underlying

00:13:55.800 insecurities, don't feel like you deserve that. And so what do you do? You turn to alcohol,

00:14:01.280 you turn to drugs, you turn to gambling, you turn to womanizing, you turn to pornography,

00:14:06.280 you're turned to whatever it might be to distract ourselves from what otherwise could be

00:14:13.660 because we don't feel like we deserve it.

00:14:18.580 That's the two, as far as I can see, that's the two biggest culprits of how we do this. We rest on

00:14:26.960 our laurels and we consciously and subconsciously undermine our own efforts. All right. Now let's

00:14:34.060 get into the meat of this and talk about how to actually kill self-sabotage. Number one is you have

00:14:39.700 to make some mindset shifts. It all starts with the six inches between your ears. You have to begin

00:14:46.500 to make some mindset shifts in your life. So let's specifically relate it back to why we do it.

00:14:50.720 So the first thing I told you is because we're lazy as humans and we're looking for the path of

00:14:55.160 least resistance. So what I would suggest to you is that as a man, knowing that the human condition

00:15:01.680 is looking for the path of least resistance because of our scarcity evolution mindset, that we decide that

00:15:08.540 instead we're going to look for the path of most resistance and not for it to be hard for being hard

00:15:14.860 sake, but because we know that's what we need to do in order to make ourselves strong. I was at the gym

00:15:21.940 this morning and I was the only one there this morning. And I got thinking, what a silly thing 0.93

00:15:27.640 that we do when we go to the gym. Like what an insane, insane idea that the gym even is. Like we have 0.61

00:15:38.900 these air conditioned buildings, these climate controlled buildings with perfectly balanced and

00:15:45.520 symmetrical weights that are machined with very precise measurements. And we lift these things

00:15:52.180 and we push these things and we pull these things and we move these things and we manufacture the

00:15:58.860 hardship because it's just not present in our abundant life by default. And I'm not saying we

00:16:05.500 shouldn't do it. We absolutely should do it. But it's interesting that we actually need to go out and

00:16:10.620 create hardship. And that's what we need to do. We need to go out and create it. We need to run into

00:16:15.540 it. You know, I think about a Spartan race, for example. You know, you might run a sprint, which I

00:16:21.140 believe is three to five miles or the super, which I think if I remember correctly is maybe seven to

00:16:26.240 10 or a beast, which I think is 12 to 15. And then you've got anywhere from, you know, 10 to 25 or 30

00:16:32.500 obstacles spread out and you pay money to go do it. Now I've done probably half a dozen, maybe nine,

00:16:40.880 10 or so somewhere in there. And so I'm not saying you shouldn't, but we actually go out and we seek

00:16:46.740 hardship. We put ourselves in difficult situations because we know that we naturally will take the

00:16:53.620 path of least resistance. So we're going to, as men begin to take the path of most resistance.

00:16:59.280 Now, number two, our mindset shifts, your insecurities, believing that you're not good

00:17:06.100 enough or that you're not worthy or that you don't deserve something. We've got to get over

00:17:13.420 that. So we have to acknowledge where that comes from. Maybe that was somebody, maybe that was one

00:17:17.900 of your parents beat you down emotionally, mentally, verbally, maybe even physically to the 0.86

00:17:25.140 point where you think you're worthless. Well, if you take a snapshot of your life or a timeline of

00:17:31.220 your life, I guarantee there's things that you've done that prove, if you pay attention, that prove you

00:17:38.420 are worth, that you are smart, that you are intelligent, that you are capable, that you are

00:17:44.720 strong, but you have to go back to those things and see where they are because too often it's the

00:17:50.060 scripts of the negativity, the past negativity and trauma in our lives that pay place. But if we

00:17:56.280 actually go back and look, there's some things that we should be very proud of. And not to mention,

00:17:59.600 if you focus solely on yourself, those insecurities seem to magnify. The minute you start to focus on

00:18:06.120 other people, in my experience, those insecurities are diminished. So when I think about a relationship

00:18:12.320 and I think, well, I don't deserve to be loved. Another way to look at that is that person deserves to

00:18:18.080 be loved. And I can love that person the best I can. I don't deserve to have as many clients or

00:18:25.380 financial prosperity as I want. Negative mindset. Positive mindset is, but I know I can serve that

00:18:31.480 individual and that individual needs what I have to offer. They need a solution to their problem and

00:18:38.600 I'm the one that can provide it for them. So we turn from self-centric to other people-centric.

00:18:45.620 Start thinking about what other people need, what they deserve, how you want to serve them.

00:18:51.520 And I've found that the more that we turn outward and the less we turn inward about what we do have

00:18:56.480 or what we don't have or what we deserve or don't deserve and start thinking about other people,

00:19:00.600 the more we can begin to address these insecurities. And as you serve people, you should be proud of

00:19:05.060 that. Society says, well, don't be proud. Don't be boastful. Don't be arrogant. Don't be egotistical.

00:19:11.420 And much of that is true. But you should be proud that you have a product that you can put into the

00:19:18.020 world that people are benefited by. You should be proud that you're serving your wife and your

00:19:23.120 children well. You should be proud that you do go into the gym and you train and you're strong and

00:19:30.480 you're eating correctly. You should be proud of those things because you've actually accomplished

00:19:34.740 something. So we've got to make those mindset shifts around the path of least resistance and also

00:19:40.060 the insecurities that we deal with. Number two, use goal planning as a starting point.

00:19:46.600 It's the starting block. Most goal planning gurus and people and systems will tell you that that's

00:19:52.160 the end result. Once you write down what you want, now you just got to work and get it.

00:19:57.760 Well, it's not. Okay. Goal setting is the starting point. Like I need to get over there. And we,

00:20:05.140 I only need to know that I need to get over there so I can reverse engineer the process and figure out

00:20:10.640 how I'm going to get there. So now we start thinking about the, the reward or the real work

00:20:19.800 is beginning when we actually do the work to get where we, where we want to go. And we find joy

00:20:24.720 and fulfillment, not necessarily in reaching the destination. We can be proud of that when we do,

00:20:29.360 but we find fulfillment and joy in the process. So again, going to the gym. So easy way to look at

00:20:35.820 it. You've got deadlift goals. You've got running goals. You've got squat goals. You have goals for

00:20:41.620 how much you want to lift. And if you wrap up your identity and reaching those goals, then you're

00:20:47.240 never going to feel good about yourself. And you're always going to have those insecurities because

00:20:50.720 you're never going to reach that goal. And even if you do, you're going to set a new goal from there.

00:20:55.200 Right. But if instead you wrap up your identity and a man who goes to the gym every day and does

00:21:00.940 what he needs to do to be healthy, he eats, right? He goes to the gym. He gets his sleep. He gets his,

00:21:05.940 his nutrition. He gets his recovery in. And then we just let the chips fall where they may. Hey, look,

00:21:11.500 I'm just going to do the work. And today I won, not because I lifted X, Y, and Z, but because I

00:21:17.580 actually went to the gym and I did it. Today I won, not because I'm what I want to be on the scale,

00:21:24.880 but because the food that I crammed down my throat was good for me, was healthy.

00:21:31.020 I drank a bunch of water, ate whole foods. Like it was good for me. And so today I won.

00:21:38.140 So the way that we kill self-sabotage as it relates to this is not focusing so much on the

00:21:42.280 goal itself. We only use that as a starting point to build daily practices and habits.

00:21:48.180 And then you can decide if you won today. Did I win today? Did I get up? Did I exercise? Did I

00:21:54.340 train? Did I not hit the snooze? Did I make the calls I needed to? Did I get through my to-do list?

00:21:58.860 Did I love the people I wanted to love? Did I serve the people I wanted to love? Did I do that today?

00:22:04.480 And if you didn't, that's okay for today, but don't do it tomorrow. Do something different tomorrow

00:22:09.240 and build some streaks in there. All right. Number three, sometimes we just have to throw a wrench

00:22:15.300 into the system. You just have to throw a wrench into the system. A lot of people talk about,

00:22:20.900 man, I'm in a rut and I don't know what to do. How do you get out of a rut? Man, you just crank the

00:22:25.700 wheel. That's what you do. And it's going to be bumpy and it's going to be rocky and it might even be

00:22:30.860 dangerous. I mean, I'm not telling yourself to put yourself in unnecessary risk, but at some point

00:22:36.280 you've got to mix it up. If you're in a funk, you're in a rut, you feel mundane, you feel like

00:22:41.500 life's just coasting. You're on cruise control. Take cruise control off and hit the gas.

00:22:47.600 Maybe do something different. Say yes to something you've never said yes to. Say no to something you

00:22:52.120 normally say yes to. Hang out with new people. Wake up at midnight and start your day at midnight.

00:23:01.160 Maybe sleep in a little. I don't know. Whatever you're doing right now, just do it differently

00:23:05.860 for a day, for a week, for a month and see what that looks like. You know, I've been doing this

00:23:12.380 with Order of Man now for seven and a half years and admittedly over almost 1,000 podcasts now,

00:23:19.800 admittedly it gets a little monotonous at times. It gets a little boring.

00:23:23.800 And so I too have to mix it up. I too have to think about different ways to do things and different

00:23:29.220 subjects and conversations to have and different ways to do it. As they say, variety is the

00:23:35.840 spice of life. So throw some variables into the equation and do something different. And it might

00:23:42.220 just re-energize you to the point where you can go back to what you were doing before. You can always

00:23:45.620 do that. That's the default, but you might unlock a new way of doing things that's more exciting than

00:23:51.380 it's been in the past. And then the fourth and last component of this is to spend time around big

00:24:00.620 thinking people, innovative people, consume information from courses, programs, conferences,

00:24:09.180 emails that get you thinking about life differently. Whatever we put into our minds,

00:24:16.900 that's the fuel. That's the building blocks for what we produce in our lives.

00:24:22.000 So if we're putting garbage into our minds and bodies, then that's what's going to be produced.

00:24:26.680 If on the other hand, we're consuming good information and we're surrounded by good people

00:24:31.700 and we're thinking positively, this is not some woo-woo stuff here because you still have to act.

00:24:37.860 But if that's the fuel, if that's the products, the material, the ingredients,

00:24:43.720 then inevitably you're going to produce a better result. I'll watch my wife cook or bake, 1.00

00:24:51.060 and she's got all these little ingredients. Well, if she puts the wrong ingredients in the 0.84

00:24:56.100 brownies, the brownies aren't going to taste very good. If you put the wrong ingredients into your

00:25:03.280 body, physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, then the result is not going to be very good.

00:25:12.220 Plus these big thinkers and these big ideas and these innovative ways of looking at things

00:25:16.420 are going to unlock access to a place that you didn't have access to before. It's going to get

00:25:21.720 you thinking about things differently. I'm actually reading The Road right now. And I don't

00:25:28.820 typically read novels. I read self-help, self-development type books, but that's something

00:25:33.980 different. And I don't know if it's going to help me unlock some great strategy that's going to help

00:25:40.680 take my life to the next level. I just know it's entertaining and it's enjoyable and it's different

00:25:44.600 than I normally do. But surround yourself by innovators, big thinkers, consume information

00:25:51.840 like that, that you never have before. And you're going to find yourself in a much different position.

00:25:58.900 You guys probably have ideas. If you do, I'd love to hear them. Hit me up on Instagram,

00:26:02.700 share your thoughts, share your ideas. But yeah, this is how we kill self-sabotage. And it's something

00:26:08.420 that we deal with all of us, myself included quite often, actually. So again, to recap why we do it is

00:26:14.280 as humans, we're lazy and we're looking for the path of least resistance. We have a lot of

00:26:18.840 insecurity that we need to deal with and address and just recognize in the first place. Now, the way

00:26:23.640 we do this is we rest on our laurels, ride other people's coattails. This is what we do. Or we

00:26:28.580 undermine our efforts consciously or subconsciously. And the way to finally and actually kill self-sabotage

00:26:34.420 is those mindset shifts, path of most resistance and dealing with the insecurities. Also goal

00:26:42.960 planning is your starting block, not your end point, throwing a wrench into the system and then

00:26:47.700 surrounding yourself with innovators, big thinkers, new ideas, new ways of doing things. This is how

00:26:53.280 we kill self-sabotage. I hope that helps guys. Also, I would suggest to you again, as I started,

00:26:59.300 check out the iron council because we're hitting on this type of stuff. And not to mention, you're

00:27:04.180 going to be surrounded by point number four, people who are thinking differently, who are doing big

00:27:08.900 things, who are dreaming big dreams, who are acting in a way and in accordance with those dreams and

00:27:13.980 making things happen. You can check it out at order of man.com slash iron council. Again, that's

00:27:19.600 order of man.com slash iron council. All right, gents, you've got your marching orders. I hope that 0.69

00:27:24.120 helps hit me up on Instagram, share this, leave a rating review, check out order of man.com slash iron

00:27:29.100 council. And we will be back next week. Until then, go out there, take action and become a man you are

00:27:35.140 meant to be. Thank you for listening to the order of man podcast. You're ready to take charge of your

00:27:39.960 life and be more of the man you were meant to be. We invite you to join the order at order of man.com.

Order of Man - December 02, 2022

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