Order of Man - Lead Your Wife Like a Man

00:00:00.000 You're a man of action. You live life to the fullest. Embrace your fears and boldly chart

00:00:04.980 your own path. When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time. Every time.

00:00:10.460 You are not easily deterred or defeated. Rugged. Resilient. Strong. This is your life. This is who

00:00:17.200 you are. This is who you will become. At the end of the day, and after all is said and done,

00:00:22.740 you can call yourself a man. Gentlemen, what is going on today? My name is Ryan Michler.

00:00:27.880 I'm the host and the founder of the Order of Man podcast and movement. Welcome here and welcome

00:00:32.940 back. If you're new to the show and what we're doing, my job is to give you all of the tools,

00:00:39.060 conversations, resources, information, et cetera, to help you become a more capable man.

00:00:47.680 And that's what we need in society. It's clear to me with everything that we have going on in the

00:00:51.720 world from crime rates and poverty and critical race theory and gender theory and what's going on

00:00:57.720 within the world with conflicts and foreign affairs that there is a real void of genuine

00:01:07.020 masculinity, men who can step up and serve not only themselves, but their families,

00:01:11.780 their businesses, their communities, and just the people around them.

00:01:16.200 So that's what we're doing here. We've got podcasts. I've interviewed over, I think at this point,

00:01:21.520 350 incredible men just came out with my podcast with Dr. John Deloney. The week before that,

00:01:27.300 we interviewed Tim Tebow. We've had Andy Frisilla, Grant Cardone, Tim Kennedy, David Goggins,

00:01:33.400 Jocko Willink, Pete Roberts, Steve Rinella, Matthew McConaughey. The lineup of men who we have on this

00:01:41.860 podcast is phenomenal. And it's a testament to the work that we're doing here when it comes to

00:01:46.280 reclaiming and restoring masculinity. So today I wanted to talk with you about something that is

00:01:50.920 very, very important for a large, large majority of you. And that's how to lead your wife effectively

00:01:57.480 as a man. I get a lot of the inspiration for our Friday Field Notes podcast from the Iron Council,

00:02:04.080 which is our exclusive brotherhood, which happens to be open right now. So if you want to band with

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00:02:14.380 you accomplish big results in your life as we continue to roll into 2022, take advantage because

00:02:20.480 we're only going to be open, I believe until Friday of next week. So that gives you six or seven days

00:02:27.080 to get enrolled, to band with us over 1200 other guys, uh, and really get after it for the rest of

00:02:33.940 2022. You can do that at order of man.com slash iron council. Now, the reason I bring that up is not

00:02:39.180 only because it's open right now, but because one of the reoccurring themes that I see in the Iron

00:02:43.960 Council is how to lead your wife effectively. It's how to lead as a man. It's how to ensure that

00:02:51.000 the direction that you want your life to go and you want the family's life to go is within your

00:02:56.280 control and you're partnering her within a, in an effective way. So many guys lose control of this

00:03:02.760 because they don't do the five things that I'm going to teach and share with you today. So let's get

00:03:07.140 into it. Number one, if you want to lead your wife or anybody for that matter, more effectively

00:03:12.580 than the first thing you need to do is to lead yourself more effectively. It's easy to point

00:03:17.760 fingers. It's easy to cast blame. It's easy to say, if only she would do X, Y, and Z differently,

00:03:23.040 then everything would be better. And the direction of our family would be wonderful. And we wouldn't

00:03:28.580 have any issues. The problem with that is that we have a huge, huge part to play in the dynamic of

00:03:37.220 the relationship. And if all we're doing is pointing fingers and casting blame, what we're

00:03:41.920 also doing is simultaneously excusing our own poor performance. Are you getting out of bed on time?

00:03:49.980 Are you working out? Are you lean? Are you strong? Are you fit? Are you developing new skills that are

00:03:55.920 going to make you more marketable? Are you even worth following? I mean, how can we expect that our wife

00:04:02.880 or our children or our colleagues or employees or whoever it is you're trying to lead and inspire

00:04:07.680 are going to follow you if you can't even be a man of your word? And that's the principle. That's

00:04:13.600 the foundational principle of leadership is being able to keep commitments to yourself and follow

00:04:21.420 through. Now, look, I've had bosses who have been incredible bosses and leaders in my life,

00:04:28.000 and I would follow those men. And I've had other bosses, employers, leaders, military, you know,

00:04:35.360 section chiefs, things like that, who, you know, can't even lock in their own work and their own

00:04:41.620 self-improvement. And at the same time, they're going to expect me to do something that they can't

00:04:47.180 even do for themselves. That might be how your wife is looking at you. You want to lead her. You want

00:04:53.160 to inspire you. You want to have some, some authority and some influence over her and the rest

00:04:57.800 of your family. Do that for yourself first. That means get out of bed on time. That means have goals,

00:05:03.780 have desires, have ambitions, have things you're working towards, and then actively be working

00:05:08.520 towards those things. Guys, you don't need to be perfect. None of us are. And I don't think she

00:05:13.260 expects you to be perfect. She knows that you're going to have faults and flaws. She sees those things.

00:05:18.320 Okay. But if you're not working towards improving yourself, then anytime you suggest that she works

00:05:25.060 on improving herself or making changes in her life or having your kids make changes in their life,

00:05:30.720 they're going to scoff at that. They may not do that in front of you, but internally deep down inside

00:05:35.980 what they're, they're doing or behaving as if why should they follow you when you're not even willing

00:05:42.120 to follow yourself. You want to be a bold, assertive, strong, courageous, capable man

00:05:47.540 within the walls of your home. Lead yourself first. Keep your commitments. Do what you say

00:05:53.680 you're going to do. Always work to improve. When you mess up, make amends, fix it, rectify the situation

00:06:00.240 as quickly as possible, and prove yourself worthy of being somebody worth following.

00:06:06.420 Somebody worth following. Contrary to popular belief, we have an inherent sense of self-worth

00:06:14.080 for sure. But when it comes to serving other people and partnering with our spouse or our children or

00:06:19.800 employer or whoever it may be, there's an added level of requirement that says you are going to

00:06:25.080 add value. If you add value, you're going to be able to lead more effectively. All right. Number two

00:06:30.360 is you have to communicate and uphold boundaries and expectations. And this isn't just about the

00:06:38.720 way that she's going to show up and the way that you're going to show up. This is about your family.

00:06:42.620 This is about what you want out of life. This is about how you're going to move forward hand in hand

00:06:46.560 towards the challenges that you're inevitably going to face. And when there's a breakdown in

00:06:52.680 communication, she's going to default back to her programming, which is her experiences,

00:06:58.960 her culture, her beliefs, her parents, the way she grew up, the things that she was taught,

00:07:04.160 where she grew up, and you're going to do the same thing. And so the power of a union is that

00:07:10.620 you have a man over here on this side who comes to the equation with his own set of principles and

00:07:15.820 ideas and circumstances and experience. And then you have a woman over here on this side

00:07:22.740 with the exact same, her own ideas, her own culture, her own beliefs, and her own experiences.

00:07:27.680 And then together through this union, we're more powerful, we're more well-rounded.

00:07:33.440 But if you're not communicating and there's no cohesiveness between the two parties of the union,

00:07:39.240 you're each going to default back to your standard way of doing things, and you're going to fall

00:07:43.760 apart. There's already a divide between you two. The power and the importance of a union is bridging the

00:07:52.140 gap, right? It's finding the commonalities and realizing that we want to go to the same place

00:08:01.400 and understanding that because we're partnered up, we can do that with different experiences and do

00:08:07.520 that more effectively. But if you're not talking about that and you're not communicating what you

00:08:13.940 will tolerate and what you want and what you would expect of her and what she can expect of you,

00:08:19.220 then you're just going to naturally drift apart. And isn't that the problem we see in a lot of

00:08:24.660 relationships? For those of you who have gone through a breakup, a separation, or divorce, I'd be

00:08:30.220 willing to bet that for the overwhelming majority of you, if not all of you, that the biggest challenge

00:08:35.040 is the breakdown in communication between what you want. I mean, you guys fell in love at some point.

00:08:39.780 Right. So why are you falling out of love now? Because you're both on your own path. And that's

00:08:46.020 antithesis to what you want with your union. You want to walk on the path together, right? You said to

00:08:54.200 her, I believe in you. I love you. I honor you. I cherish you. And I want to walk this path together.

00:09:02.720 Well, sometimes that means you're going to have to communicate. And it's not always easy. It's not

00:09:07.540 always comfortable. My wife and I had a conversation just last night, in fact, about some things that I

00:09:13.300 think there was some misunderstanding or I didn't understand fully what she was looking for. She

00:09:17.860 didn't understand fully what I was looking for. And it wasn't the funnest conversation to have,

00:09:23.800 but we needed to both make sure that we were in alignment and we were on the same page and we were

00:09:28.380 working towards the same goals and objectives. And a 20 minute talk turned into something that was very

00:09:32.960 powerful between both of us. And it was an enjoyable evening because we were willing to have those

00:09:37.540 difficult and tough conversations. Now, the second part of this is making sure that you're

00:09:42.120 upholding those boundaries and expectations. So if you're falling short on your objectives or the

00:09:48.060 things that you've committed to doing, she should be able to check you on that. If she's falling short

00:09:52.820 on those things, you should be able to check her. And it's not out of spite. It's not out of revenge.

00:09:58.000 It's not to poke at each other and nitpick. It's to ensure that we're always on the same page.

00:10:03.460 So when you're communicating boundaries and expectations, and you're working to uphold those

00:10:07.340 boundaries, we do it with a level of respect. We do it with class. We do it with the right

00:10:12.640 motive, which is I am here to serve you. I'm here to partner with you. I want to walk through life

00:10:20.100 hand in hand. And in order to do that, here's what I expect of you. Here's what I ask of you.

00:10:27.260 What would you expect of me? What would you ask of me? This is a two-way street.

00:10:30.980 Number three, guys, we need to do a better job hearing and understanding our spouses.

00:10:39.180 Okay? It's that simple. Hear her, understand her, try to figure out what she's after. And it isn't

00:10:46.660 always going to be the same as what you're after. And even if it is the same, she's going to approach

00:10:51.800 it from a different perspective because she's feminine. That's the point. You're masculine.

00:10:56.740 So I'll hear a lot of guys say, oh man, I just don't understand women. Right? Because if you

00:11:02.780 understood women, you wouldn't need to partner with a woman in your life. And women might be

00:11:09.440 thinking the same thing. I just don't understand men. Right? You aren't supposed to. Because if you

00:11:16.060 fully understood how we operate, you would have that perspective and you wouldn't need us around.

00:11:21.420 Right? So the fact that we don't understand each other is not a bug of the process. It's a feature

00:11:30.660 of the process. Yes, we don't understand each other because we're coming from different perspectives

00:11:35.520 and you as a woman see it one way and we as men see it another way. That's the point.

00:11:41.560 So guys, you don't need to understand her. You don't need to figure it out. You don't need to know

00:11:46.900 everything about why she does what she does. And ladies who are listening, same for you with

00:11:51.500 regards to men. But that said, we should strive to at least understand to some degree what she might

00:12:00.240 want. So here's a prime example. Let's say you've got a four or five-year-old child, son or daughter,

00:12:09.260 and they're out learning how to ride a bike and the child falls down, scrapes her knee. What does

00:12:16.340 the man do generally? Actually, let's start with the woman. What does the woman do generally? She

00:12:20.780 rushes over. She picks the kid up. She kisses the boo-boo. She wipes it off. She has all these supportive

00:12:28.820 things that she's saying. She, she, she puts a bandaid on it and she just babies and coddles the

00:12:34.740 child. Okay. That's not wrong. Now, men hearing that might think, well, that is wrong. You shouldn't

00:12:40.300 do that. Right? Because what does the man do? Well, the man says, it's okay. Wipe it off. Get

00:12:47.380 tough. Dry the tears from your eyes and get back on the bike and prove that you can do it again.

00:12:53.480 That's also not wrong. They're both right. One's masculine. That's a masculine approach. And the other

00:13:00.480 is a feminine approach. Now you don't need to understand why she does that in order to recognize

00:13:08.500 that it's a crucial part of the process of raising children. Women by nature are supportive. They're

00:13:16.660 nurturing. They're loving. They're caring. They show that love through the nurturing way of doing things.

00:13:25.020 Men on the other hand can also be loving. They care about their kids. They care about their wife.

00:13:31.360 They care about their people. And the way that we generally show our love is by empowering them

00:13:37.380 to get back on the proverbial bike and give them the motivation, the inspiration, and maybe even the

00:13:44.600 kick in the pants they need to get back on the bike and do it again. A woman doesn't need to fully

00:13:51.680 understand or comprehend that to see that it's a crucial piece of the puzzle.

00:13:58.080 But we should be striving to realize that what she brings to the equation is good and it's helpful.

00:14:05.760 And the more that you can see her for what she's doing and recognize that even though you may not

00:14:11.700 fully understand it, can at least acknowledge there's some good in it, that the motives are pure,

00:14:17.580 that it might help round out what you bring to the equation, the better off you're going to be.

00:14:22.980 So listen to her, hear her, read between the lines, understand where she's coming from,

00:14:30.040 understand that she's feminine and that her approach is going to be different than yours.

00:14:35.220 And the more that you do that, the more you can let those things slide.

00:14:38.300 You know, I used to argue with my wife, like, don't do that. Really? That's a good thing. Now,

00:14:42.700 if it's taken to the extreme, that's a problem. That's where I come in and I say, hon, look, I

00:14:47.700 realize here's what you're trying to do. That's a good thing. And here's what I'm trying to do.

00:14:52.360 Let's find the middle ground. And she honors that. And she acknowledges that in me. And she recognizes

00:14:57.960 that in me. And she sees that I'm leading myself well. So I'm fully capable of not only leading myself,

00:15:04.300 but her and the kids. And I have the right intentions, pure motives. But fellas, we got to do a better

00:15:10.700 job understanding and hearing our spouses. And one other thing I would say about that is being

00:15:18.440 very careful of not making her one of your buddies. And occasionally my wife will call me out on this

00:15:24.100 because as I said, in point number two is we communicate and uphold boundaries. So she has

00:15:28.600 her own boundaries and I honor those. So occasionally she'll say to me, don't talk to me like one of your

00:15:33.740 buddies or don't talk to me like one of your men. That's right. She's right. She's not my buddy.

00:15:39.100 She's not one of my men. She's my wife. And I honor her that way. And sometimes I cross that line and

00:15:45.420 she checks that, but I'm always trying to understand her and communicate in a way that's going to land

00:15:51.780 and resonate with her. That's very important. All right. Number four, serve her. Now guys, I know,

00:15:59.660 look, there's a narrative in this popular man space or manosphere or whatever you want to call it.

00:16:08.240 And I don't even like putting that label on it, but let's just call it that for now where,

00:16:12.480 you know, you're not supposed to be subservient. You're not supposed to be serving her. And

00:16:18.700 that's ridiculous. Okay. I'm not saying be subservient. Okay. But serving somebody doesn't

00:16:26.200 make you subservient to them. It doesn't make you a slave. It doesn't make you a beta. It doesn't

00:16:33.200 make you a cuck. It doesn't make you whatever catchphrase, all these man gurus are using these

00:16:40.200 days. It means you care about somebody, right? What do you do when you care about somebody?

00:16:45.200 You express that care through service. So my wife's out of town today and she'll be back tomorrow.

00:16:53.440 And she made a list of things that she would like to have done. Now I can look at that honeydew list and I

00:16:58.740 can think, well, who is she? I'm the man of the house. I shouldn't have to do all this stuff.

00:17:03.600 Or alternatively, I can recognize that these are some things that she would ask of me

00:17:08.960 that that would be important to her. You know, one was getting an extra mattress

00:17:14.300 for one of our beds because we're having some cousins stay with us for a couple of weeks.

00:17:18.840 Okay. Well, I can do that. I'm not a beta because I went to the furniture store and got a mattress.

00:17:26.500 She asked if we would take some trash and run it to the dump, me and my two oldest boys. Yeah,

00:17:32.120 we can do that. That doesn't make us weak or pathetic or cowardly or subservient to women or a

00:17:38.220 cuck. It just means that if I can help out in some meaningful and significant way, and it's taking

00:17:44.840 the trash to the dump, we can do that, right? Because there's going to come a time where I'm

00:17:49.720 going to ask her to serve me. And I do. She makes dinner for the family every night, right? And so

00:17:56.320 I'll go to jujitsu a couple of nights a week. I made this post on Instagram the other day and we

00:18:00.680 had mixed reviews on this point. And when I come home from jujitsu, there's literally a plate of food.

00:18:07.860 It's dinner sitting on the counter. I'll go up, I'll hop in the shower and I ask,

00:18:11.740 hon, can you warm up that food for me? And she warms it up. I come down, we sit down and we eat

00:18:17.480 dinner together after the kids have gone to bed. Okay. That doesn't make the fact that I asked her

00:18:22.900 to make dinner for me, but I didn't even ask her. That's just the arrangement. But the fact that I

00:18:26.700 asked her to warm it up doesn't make her weak or cowardly or subservient or less important.

00:18:33.700 It actually makes her more important because she's serving me and I'm serving her and I want my wife to win.

00:18:42.400 And if that means I need to take the trash out or I need to go to the dump or I need to go to the

00:18:46.060 furniture store and pick up a mattress, or I need to make sure that the kids get their homeschooling

00:18:50.560 done while my wife is out of town. I can do that because I care about her and I care about the

00:18:56.840 family dynamic and I care about my kids and I care about the household. And I'm not so egotistical

00:19:03.180 and arrogant to believe that if I have to do anything for a woman, then somehow I'm less of a man.

00:19:08.580 That isn't true at all. I'm more of a man. Isn't that what men do? Don't we serve? I mean,

00:19:15.580 it's in our motto in my hat, protect, provide, preside. And if you look at those protect,

00:19:20.960 provide, preside, which is synonymous with leadership. That's what we're talking about

00:19:25.320 today. All of those protect, provide, preside have an element at their foundational core

00:19:29.940 of service. I'm here to serve. I'm here to make myself more capable. Isn't that what I'm doing now?

00:19:37.400 Aren't I putting information out into the world that is going to hopefully serve as many men as

00:19:42.500 possible so they can do the same thing in their life? Now, some people might say, well, yeah,

00:19:46.400 you're making money doing it. So, so what? I'm going to add value to your life and then you can vote with

00:19:54.520 your dollars as to whether or not it's valuable. And if it is, you'll pay for a hat or a shirt or

00:19:59.780 come to one of our events or sign up for our iron council or whatever, buy one of our books, right?

00:20:06.700 But I'm adding value. That's what men do. There's a, uh, a standup bit or routine from,

00:20:14.880 from Chris rock that I saw. And I think this is several years old, but somebody had sent it to me

00:20:19.240 a couple of weeks ago. And he said something to the effect of women just being inherently valuable.

00:20:24.420 Like they don't, they don't have to do anything to be loved. They're just inherently valuable.

00:20:28.680 But men, on the other hand, the only time they're valuable is if they're adding value. Like they

00:20:33.620 actually have to prove their worth and prove their value. And he was mocking at it and poking at it.

00:20:38.460 He's right. He's right. Now look, all human beings, male and female, which are the only two

00:20:45.980 sectors, by the way, male and female have an inherent sense of worth. That's not what I'm

00:20:53.440 saying. They all have an inherent sense of worth, but if you want to be a valuable member of, let's

00:20:59.300 say a business organization, having it, an inherent sense of worth as a human soul is not going to cut

00:21:07.880 it. If you want to be a valuable member of your family unit, the nuclear family, just your baseline

00:21:17.200 level of human worth, ain't going to cut it. You've got to bring more to the equation. And the more that

00:21:25.860 you're capable of doing that, the better you're going to be able to lead your wife like a man.

00:21:34.420 Yeah. So I think we need to be very careful of saying, well, you know, she should just love me

00:21:38.940 just, and she should just appreciate me. And just because, well, cute sentiment, that's not reality.

00:21:44.880 The reality is, is that we're valuable to the degree that we serve other individuals. And our

00:21:51.460 job is to serve our wife, serve our children, serve our clients, our colleagues, our coworkers,

00:21:56.620 our neighbors. And that doesn't make you less of a man. It makes you more of a man because you're

00:22:01.100 capable of doing so. And the last thing I want to share with you guys today is in all my experience

00:22:09.620 with talking with over 350 incredibly successful men at this point, what I see in those men is that

00:22:17.600 they have a great ability to cast vision. They have a vision. They have a goal. They have an objective.

00:22:24.520 They have a path. They have somewhere they're going. And what they can do very well is they can cast

00:22:29.100 that vision effectively. Because if you can't cast the vision and you can't make it a compelling

00:22:36.000 vision, you're going to be hard pressed to get people to follow you because the path isn't easy,

00:22:41.680 right? The path of where you want to go is not an easy path. It's marred with obstacles and challenges

00:22:48.340 and roadblocks and adversity and setbacks. And you need to be able to cast a vision strong enough

00:22:56.040 that gets your wife past the challenges. Let's face it, guys. You and I are not easy people to

00:23:01.960 deal with. You and I mess up every single day. And if we're going to expect her to continue to follow

00:23:11.360 us in spite of our own shortcomings, we're going to need to cast a vision powerful enough to get her

00:23:19.520 through the hardships that she's going to deal with. And she is. Especially with kids. I mean,

00:23:26.680 there's mental issues. There's postpartum issues. There's temptations that she has. There's her own

00:23:35.580 challenges and struggles that she deals with. There's the times where you say or do something,

00:23:41.260 as I have, I'm speaking from experience, that really get under her skin and push her away.

00:23:48.740 And if you don't have a powerful enough vision to keep her connected to you, to keep her on the

00:23:54.480 path, you two are really, really going to struggle. So think about what you want.

00:24:01.620 Encourage her to contribute in that process. One of the things that we used to do, we haven't done

00:24:05.400 in a while, probably should do this again, is every year at the end of the year, my wife and I would

00:24:10.720 get away for two or three days. And we wouldn't go far. It's like a little staycation. We might go to

00:24:16.780 a neighboring town or the ski resort or whatever. And we'd spend two or three days. And leading up

00:24:23.260 to that time, we'd make a list of all the things that we wanted to accomplish for the year coming

00:24:27.960 up. So I'd make my own list. She'd make her own list. And I'd have my personal goals. I'd have goals

00:24:32.700 for the family. I'd have business pursuit and goals. And she would do the same thing. And then

00:24:37.620 we would spend two or three days going through this and making sure that we're on the same page.

00:24:42.400 And both of us are casting vision and thinking about what we want to accomplish and how we're

00:24:47.400 going to go about doing it and what challenges might present themselves and how we would overcome

00:24:51.840 those things. This is part of point number two is communicating and upholding boundaries.

00:24:57.040 But it's also this last point, which is casting vision.

00:25:02.260 Think about what you want out of life. Think about what your role is in that vision. Consider what her

00:25:07.480 role is. Communicate that role to her. Get on the same page as her. If you're just going through life

00:25:15.620 kind of willy-nilly, I mean, I can't help but think that maybe your wife is more like a friend or a

00:25:21.580 roommate with benefits. And that's not what I'm interested in. I'm interested in a deeply, spiritually,

00:25:30.140 emotionally, mentally, and physically connected relationship with my wife. Physical just ain't

00:25:36.240 enough for me. I have to have more. And she wants more. And then the physical side of things is just

00:25:44.700 a manifestation of the connection between spiritual, mental, and emotional connection. You get that

00:25:50.580 stuff right, the physical stuff starts to work itself out. But guys, I don't want to see you struggle

00:25:56.300 with your spouse. I think this is a real, I know this is a real issue. I hear about it every single day,

00:26:02.620 men who are struggling. They committed to a woman six months ago or six years ago or three decades

00:26:08.900 ago. And it isn't working out and they're falling out of love and the fire is extinguished. I don't

00:26:14.220 want that to happen because it's not good. It's not good for your soul. It's not good for your psyche.

00:26:19.000 It's not good for your bank account. It's not good for your children. You committed to her. She

00:26:23.020 committed to you. I want this to work. And these are the five most important things that I think you

00:26:27.220 can do. There's an infinite list of other things, but these are the five most important things I

00:26:31.200 think you can do. Number one, lead yourself first. You want somebody else to lead you or be led by

00:26:36.800 you? Lead yourself first. Number two, communicate and uphold expectations and boundaries. Number three,

00:26:43.980 strive to hear and understand her. You won't fully do it. That's okay. At least try to see where she's

00:26:49.380 coming from and try to comprehend that her feminine side is different than your masculine side.

00:26:56.040 And it's good. It's a good thing. Number four, serve her. And number five, cast your vision for the

00:27:04.200 future. That's it. Guys, if you have other thoughts, other ideas, other insights, other tips, let's keep

00:27:11.580 the conversation alive on social media. You can do that in our Facebook group at facebook.com slash groups

00:27:17.580 slash order of man. I think we have 72,000 or so people in there, or you can join our exclusive

00:27:25.240 brotherhood for an elevated experience that's open for the next five, six, seven days at order of man.com

00:27:31.580 slash iron council. As always connect with me on the socials at Ryan Mickler, Instagram, Facebook,

00:27:38.460 Twitter. I think we're now on parlor and what's the other one? Truth, truth social. I think it's called

00:27:45.080 there's, there's so many different social media accounts we're trying to keep up with, but we're,

00:27:49.520 we're on all of them at Ryan Mickler. All right, guys, that's all I've got for you today. We'll be

00:27:54.680 back next week for another powerful conversation with, uh, one of our stellar guests. And of course

00:27:59.420 you're asking me anything in Friday field notes, but until then go out there, take action, lead your

00:28:05.040 wife, like a man, become a man. You are meant to be. Thank you for listening to the order of man

00:28:10.340 podcast. You're ready to take charge of your life and be more of the man you were meant to be.

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