Order of Man - June 28, 2019


Live Vigilant ｜ FRIDAY FIELD NOTES


Episode Stats

Length

25 minutes

Words per Minute

190.62549

Word Count

4,925

Sentence Count

267

Misogynist Sentences

1

Hate Speech Sentences

1


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 You're a man of action. You live life to the fullest, embrace your fears, and boldly chart
00:00:05.000 your own path. When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time, every time.
00:00:10.440 You are not easily deterred or defeated, rugged, resilient, strong. This is your life. This is who
00:00:17.240 you are. This is who you will become. At the end of the day, and after all is said and done,
00:00:22.800 you can call yourself a man. Gentlemen, what is going on today? My name is Ryan Michler,
00:00:27.460 and I am the host and the founder of this podcast and the movement that is Order of Man.
00:00:32.460 Whether you're here for the first time or been listening for four years now, I want to welcome
00:00:37.560 you to the movement that is Order of Man, this goal, this ideal of restoring masculinity in an
00:00:43.880 environment that seems to be increasingly dismissive of it. It's my goal to give you the tools and the
00:00:49.300 conversation and guidance and resources that you need to be able to step up more fully as a man
00:00:54.640 become a better, more capable protector, provider, and presider. So I've got an interesting one for
00:01:02.000 you today. I'm going to share it with you here on this Friday field notes in just a second. I do want
00:01:06.600 to make a very quick announcement. We've got our Order of Man main event. Maine is in the state main
00:01:11.180 because I just moved here. If you've been with Order of Man for any amount of time, you know that I
00:01:14.880 just moved to Maine about three weeks ago and we're having our first meetup slash experience slash
00:01:21.200 event. I just got off the phone with Hoyt. If you don't know who Hoyt is, they do bows and I've
00:01:28.000 been shooting a Hoyt bow for about two and a half years now. Anyways, we're going to be doing some
00:01:33.640 partnering with them. So we've got some things planned for the event itself with Hoyt, with Origin,
00:01:39.200 with regards to Jiu Jitsu. We're going to have some presentations, some networking, and of course,
00:01:44.220 we're going to teach you the framework that you need to be successful in your life as a man.
00:01:50.460 So if you're interested in joining us, we don't have very many spots. They are selling out quickly.
00:01:55.320 Make sure you get on it. It's at orderofman.com slash main event and main is the state main. So
00:02:01.380 orderofman.com slash main event. You can get all the details and get registered. It's August 10th and
00:02:07.280 11th with a exclusive iron council dinner on the 9th. And again, it's orderofman.com slash main event.
00:02:14.000 All right, that's it. By way of announcements, go get registered for that. Outside of that,
00:02:17.640 this is your Friday field notes where you get to hear some thoughts from me and ideas that I've had
00:02:21.460 from throughout the week. And I had an interesting little story I wanted to share with you from
00:02:25.960 yesterday. I took my family, it was my wedding anniversary, 15 year wedding anniversary on
00:02:32.160 Wednesday. And I took my family to a national forest here in Maine. And there's this place where you can
00:02:42.000 dig rocks out of the ground. There's amethysts and courts and things like that. And so me and my wife
00:02:48.040 and my four kids took a two hour drive, which was an amazing, amazing drive. It's incredible here.
00:02:53.960 We went to this, this section of the hike and we got our little tools and hiked up to the area and the
00:03:00.680 kids were excited and everything else. And we started digging in the ground for these courts and these
00:03:05.900 amethysts. And we were finding some things, having some success. And I, uh, I hiked up a little bit
00:03:11.400 of the ways cause I heard some guys up there. We had never done this before. So I heard some guys
00:03:14.480 up the way and I was going to go ask them if they had any tips or pointers, uh, on, on some things that
00:03:20.960 we could do to help this be a better experience for our kids. And they were really helpful. I went up to
00:03:24.980 the guys, they showed me what they were doing and how to do it. They were really helpful. And as I was
00:03:29.420 coming down, I heard my son yell, just yell at the top of his lungs. So I hurry and ran down there.
00:03:36.320 And apparently what had happened is right by them, this porcupine came out of this hole where they
00:03:44.500 were digging and almost ended up getting my wife and my son saw it. And he yelled porcupine, porcupine.
00:03:54.320 And my wife moved and the kids moved and the porcupine went back in the hole. And it was kind of funny.
00:03:58.960 And anyways, he came back out and we got video and pictures, not a, not a huge deal, but it got
00:04:03.080 me thinking about this, this idea of vigilance, like how often, and I told my family, this is how
00:04:08.900 often have we been around animals, for example, or potentially even threats that we haven't even
00:04:17.080 acknowledged that we haven't even recognized. You know, it just so happened to be that my son was
00:04:22.680 looking and he saw it and he was vigilant and he said, Oh, there's a porcupine. And my wife got up with
00:04:26.540 my, my little ones and they moved. But again, how often is it that we as men don't really know
00:04:34.300 what's going on with our surroundings, that we aren't vigilant, that we aren't alert. And how often
00:04:39.440 have we been in dangerous situations without even realizing that we're in dangerous situations?
00:04:44.160 And I know this is kind of a silly example with regards to being vigilant, but I think it illustrates
00:04:50.660 the point perfectly. And it's our job as men, as fathers and husbands, community leaders, coaches,
00:04:59.320 whatever capacity of life that we're showing up as to remain vigilant. I ran across this quote as I
00:05:05.180 was preparing to talk with you about this today. And, and I've shared this quote before. It's one of
00:05:09.200 my favorites. It says the real man gains renown by standing between his family and destruction,
00:05:15.100 absorbing the blows of fate with equanimity. And that's by David Gilmore. Let me read that again.
00:05:21.220 The real man gains renown by standing between his family and destruction, absorbing the blows of fate
00:05:27.800 with equanimity guys, this, if this doesn't illustrate perfectly what it means to be a man,
00:05:34.840 I don't know what is. It is our job to stand between our family or our friends or the members of
00:05:41.940 our community and neighbors or our employees and employers and coworkers to stand between them
00:05:47.960 and the blows of fate with clarity, with calmness, with capability to face these threats as it happened,
00:05:56.900 as it, as they happen. But how often have we been exposed to these threats? And because we've decided
00:06:03.320 or maybe not even made the conscious choice to remain ignorant to what threats are there,
00:06:10.200 have we exposed ourselves or the people that we have an obligation to serve and protect?
00:06:16.220 Have we, have we exposed them and put them at risk? It's our job to be vigilant. And as I had a
00:06:24.660 conversation with my son on the podcast, I think it was last week, we talked about vigilant and I can't
00:06:30.120 remember the context in what we were talking about it, but he was talking about being situationally aware
00:06:34.920 and knowing what's going on around your surroundings. Like us seeing, or him, I should say,
00:06:39.300 seeing the porcupine yesterday, but how many other threats have we not seen? He was talking about
00:06:44.580 being aware of your surroundings. And I told him, I said, we need to remain vigilant. We need to remain
00:06:49.940 vigilant. And I'm sure we all know what vigilance is, but just in case you don't, the definition here
00:06:55.920 is keeping careful watch for possible danger or difficulties. And this is our job as men. I remember
00:07:05.600 in 2005 and 2006, I was in Ramadi, Iraq, I was serving, uh, with, with the national guard and
00:07:12.520 then our unit got activated and we, we were then serving with the army. And one of the signs that we
00:07:17.480 had is at the, uh, the exit for our military base in which we were operating was, uh, complacency kills,
00:07:26.420 just a big green sign with red writing. And it said, complacency kills. And in the context of war
00:07:34.560 and where we were in Ramadi and one of the most dangerous places in all the world at the time,
00:07:39.560 when it said complacency kills, it meant literal death. But this is very true in our own lives as
00:07:47.300 well, is that we expose ourselves to risk and uncertainty and threat. And although we may not
00:07:54.740 face an experience where we were, we will literally die, there's, there's threats to our own wellbeing
00:08:01.560 and to our wealth and to our growth and potentially even to our own lives or the people again, that we
00:08:06.400 have an obligation for. So it's our job guys to remain vigilant, to be aware of our surroundings,
00:08:11.800 to not fall into a level of complacency and comfort. And specifically, I wanted to share with you three
00:08:18.220 strategies for remaining vigilant for, for really being who you're supposed to be as a man. This is
00:08:25.200 ultimately our job. And you know, we hear things in, in the media and social media where they say,
00:08:30.580 well, you know, times have changed and man doesn't need to do this or women can do this as much. You
00:08:34.180 know what? Look at this at the end of the day, if things go wrong and things go South, people are
00:08:40.780 going to look to the men. They're always going to look to the men. And that's because it's our job.
00:08:44.860 It's, it's, it's biologically hardwired into us to respond to these threats and we need to be aware
00:08:50.100 of doing it. And I think these threats, when I'm talking about vigilance and complacency really fall
00:08:56.780 into one of two categories. Number one, I think there's the, the, the, the threats to our own
00:09:02.160 wellbeing or the wellbeing of those in our care, right? That could be an active shooter situation or
00:09:07.720 an emergency or an accident, a natural disaster. These are threats to our own safety and
00:09:14.800 wellbeing. Those are, I don't want to say they're easy to recognize, but I think they're
00:09:21.100 more observable, observable. The, the second category of threats where I think these things
00:09:27.040 fall into is, uh, this temptation to slip into mediocrity is to get caught in the, in the current
00:09:38.540 or the drift and allow life to take us wherever it wants to go. And we don't have any deliberate
00:09:44.980 intentional plans or strategies, or even action to keep us from drifting wherever life may take us.
00:09:52.920 And that I think is not necessarily the greater threat, but the less observable threat. The one
00:09:59.020 that is easier to creep in on us is that we realize that, or don't realize that we need to be careful
00:10:06.280 of slipping into some place or some state of being that we don't want to fall into.
00:10:15.360 I know I've been there in my life and I've shared this with you 10 years ago. I was 50 pounds
00:10:19.900 overweight. My marriage was falling apart. The businesses were crumbling. And I think a large
00:10:25.300 part of that was because gradually over time, it didn't happen at once. Cause if it did happen at
00:10:30.140 once, I would have been aware of it. But over time, over the course of years of not eating correctly,
00:10:36.120 over the course of years of not maintaining and exercising any level of discipline and over the
00:10:41.700 course of years, having conversations or not having conversations with my wife or, or lacking
00:10:49.440 communication or failing to communicate things with her and that type of stuff built up slowly
00:10:55.860 over a course of years. And ultimately I found myself at rock bottom. My wife had left, took my one
00:11:02.240 year old son with me, 50 pounds overweight. Businesses were crumbling around me. It was a
00:11:07.040 very dark, dark time of my life. And the, the reason that was the case is because I hadn't remained
00:11:13.760 vigilant. I hadn't exercised any sort of vigilance and I let the world act upon me rather than me
00:11:21.240 acting upon the world. And so my call to you today, guys, is that we find a way to maintain vigilance,
00:11:27.420 not only against eminent threats, but also against the drift, also against complacency and mediocrity
00:11:35.780 and letting life take us where it wants to take us without giving it a second thought. These are
00:11:42.200 risks to our wellbeing and the wellbeing of those that we have an obligation to, to care for and to
00:11:48.000 preside, to lead with and over. Uh, so again, I want to share with you a couple of strategies here.
00:11:53.140 As I was thinking what I wanted to share with you today, I think the first step in really maintaining
00:11:57.740 a level of vigilance in your life is to understand that that is your role as a man. And also to accept
00:12:04.900 the role, to accept the role that you are the, the one who is to stand between, uh, the people you care
00:12:13.920 about and the blows of fate, if you will, that is your job. And you cannot do your job effectively.
00:12:21.620 If a, you don't recognize that's that, that, that is your job and responsibility and B that you
00:12:27.180 accept it fully. And guys, here's the deal. It's not always easy and it's not always comfortable
00:12:33.960 and you're going to have to sacrifice and you're going to have to be disciplined and you're going
00:12:38.020 to have to work extremely hard. And you're going to have to make decisions that aren't always the
00:12:44.200 best that aren't always win-win type situations or, or outcomes. Those are the things that you're
00:12:50.020 going to have to do. You know, we've all heard the things like it's lonely at the top and all those
00:12:54.880 kinds of things. Well, the reason that they are so popular is because there is some element of truth
00:12:59.900 to it, that it's hard to be the leader, that it is lonely at the top, that people aren't always going
00:13:05.160 to like you and that you're going to have to make difficult decisions. But that's what a man does
00:13:09.640 because a man is always vigilant against the threats, imminent threats, immediate threats,
00:13:16.540 and the gradual threats that I talked about earlier. You have to accept that role. And if
00:13:21.240 you're not willing to accept that role, I really feel like you're not operating to the full capacity
00:13:26.460 you can and should be as a man. It is your job to accept the role, to be vigilant, to protect yourself,
00:13:32.640 to protect your wife and your kids and your colleagues and coworkers and neighbors and even
00:13:38.060 complete strangers in a lot of ways. So I challenge you and I ask, have you accepted the role of man?
00:13:44.080 Are you willing to be vigilant? Are you willing to make the sacrifices that need to be made in
00:13:50.080 order to ensure that you and the people you care about are safe and secure and comfortable and
00:13:55.840 living the best life that you possibly can? That's number one, accept the role in being vigilant.
00:14:01.760 Number two, free yourself from distraction, free yourself from distraction. If you're distracted and
00:14:09.620 you can look at an example as having your head buried in the phone and not really knowing your
00:14:14.340 surroundings or looking at what's going on, then it's easier for you to become a victim of other
00:14:21.240 people or the drift that I talked about earlier. You've got to free yourself from distraction.
00:14:25.980 You've got to eliminate the things that are getting in the way of you being vigilant in your life.
00:14:31.800 Those could be physical things like getting off the phone, shutting down the notifications on your
00:14:38.240 phone, turning off social media, but they could also be some of these softer skills, things that
00:14:43.400 maybe you don't recognize, like learning to say no to opportunities that aren't going to serve you,
00:14:48.800 that aren't moving you in the right direction. Just the other day, I think it was on an ask me
00:14:53.420 anything. Somebody asked if I was interested in starting a, a Mickler brewery. And while it sounds
00:14:59.900 really cool, I'm not going to do that because it's not part of my mission. It's not part of my focus.
00:15:07.520 And ultimately it would become a distraction towards what it is that I'm after and what it
00:15:11.980 is that I want. So think about your life. Think about where you might be distracted. Think about
00:15:18.360 where you might be spreading your resources too thin and exposing yourself to unnecessary risk
00:15:25.060 and eliminate that stuff. Ruthlessly eliminate those things. What are you saying no to? And I've
00:15:31.460 heard it said this way is that, uh, when you say, when you say yes to something, you automatically say
00:15:37.680 no to something else. And the opposite is also true. When you say no to something, you give yourself the
00:15:41.680 opportunity to say yes to something else. So figure out what you want, spend some time. Um, one of the
00:15:47.420 things that we do in our exclusive brotherhood, the iron council is we do 12 week battle plans and our
00:15:53.600 12 week battle plans are focused on obviously 12 weeks of achieving objectives in four quadrants,
00:16:00.640 four main areas of our life. And so we're in the middle of that right now. But the reason I bring
00:16:05.180 that up is because we have a plan. We have a system in place. We have a process for ensuring that we are
00:16:14.240 moving the needle in a relevant and meaningful way towards whatever it is that, that we're after and
00:16:19.860 trying to accomplish, but without a plan in place, how is anything ever going to get accomplished?
00:16:25.600 So the first thing to free yourself from distraction is to have a plan, have a vision,
00:16:32.980 have some objectives, some things that you want to do and complete, uh, in your life.
00:16:38.180 If you're not sitting down on a daily basis and pondering about what could happen and what could
00:16:42.820 be and how you're going to make it happen and having some faith that some things are going to happen
00:16:46.660 and actively working towards those objectives and those goals, whether it's a, a better marriage
00:16:51.320 or a marriage in the first place or a career advancement or a certain amount of money in the
00:16:55.420 bank account or losing body fat or gaining strength or going on this vacation. If you have no idea what
00:17:01.040 you want, it's going to be very easy for you to drift wherever life wants to take you. And you're not
00:17:06.960 being vigilant when you're doing that. You're just allowing the world to act upon you when you as a man
00:17:13.900 should be the one acting upon your environment. We do this by having a plan. We do this by executing
00:17:19.300 this plan and then being vigilant in the pursuit of our objectives. So number two is freeing yourself
00:17:24.900 from distraction. Learn to say no. And I would challenge you here is say no more often. It's a
00:17:31.420 skillset learning to say no is a skillset. And the more you can develop that skillset by saying no,
00:17:36.760 by actively doing it, the better off you're going to be. So again, number two, free yourself,
00:17:40.900 free yourself from distraction. And then the third component of this is train yourself for
00:17:45.180 vigilance. Train yourself with vigilance. I mean that you can turn this into a game. I mean that
00:17:50.780 if it comes to the imminent threats, the visible, noticeable, catastrophic potential threats that we
00:17:56.300 face, we can make ourselves aware of those things. Be aware of your surroundings. Check for exits. Check
00:18:02.400 for a baseline for how the environment is that you're dealing with. Check for people who seem
00:18:07.960 unordinary or out of the ordinary that aren't within this baseline standard of the way people
00:18:13.740 should be operating. Right? So for example, if you're at church, most people are probably trying
00:18:19.100 to be reverent and quiet. And if somebody is loud and obnoxious, well, that's out of the ordinary.
00:18:24.120 If on the other hand, you're at a concert and the baseline is loud and obnoxious and everybody's
00:18:30.300 rambunctious and jumping up and down and somebody's being quiet and a little sketchy and hanging out in the
00:18:36.660 corner and you don't really know what they're doing. Well, that's out of the ordinary, right?
00:18:40.200 You can train yourself for these things. You can be aware of these. You can count your exits. You can
00:18:44.900 run through different scenarios. I had a baseball coach and most of you who played baseball understand
00:18:49.300 this is it's a mental game. 90% of baseball is mental. Only 10% is physical. So he would always say
00:18:56.480 before we'd run plays in practice is he would say, all right, what are you going to do if this happens?
00:19:00.620 What are you going to do if this happens? What are you going to do if this happens? And so we would
00:19:03.620 constantly be running through these scenarios in our head. And that way, if the ball was hit to us
00:19:08.200 in this particular circumstance, we didn't have to think about what we should do. We'd already thought
00:19:12.960 about it. And now we're just responding to the plan that we had already laid. This is the importance of
00:19:20.000 being vigilant about getting your nose out of your phone, checking your surroundings, making sure that
00:19:26.140 you've got provisions, making sure your vehicles got enough fuel in it for whatever may happen,
00:19:31.900 making sure that you have an emergency kit, that you have firearms training, that you have some
00:19:35.800 sort of defensive or martial arts training. These are all ways that you can exercise vigilance
00:19:40.280 should something catastrophic or potentially catastrophic or violent happen to you. But you
00:19:46.120 can also train for vigilance in these not so easy to recognize situations, the drift, like I've mentioned
00:19:53.120 earlier, it's just letting life take you wherever it has the desire to take you. I guess it's how do you
00:20:01.700 train for that though, right? The way that you train for it is what I said earlier. You have a plan.
00:20:06.900 You have a plan in place. You have a daily strategy. You have a daily routine. You have a nightly routine.
00:20:12.940 You have practices in place. You're doing after action reviews. You're constantly training your mind
00:20:18.520 to think about what could go wrong, what may go wrong. There's a very interesting concept that a lot of
00:20:25.420 companies use when they're testing a new product or service and they call it red teaming.
00:20:29.420 And what it is, is these, these teams that they put together and they, they invest a lot of money in
00:20:34.520 these red teams is these teams. Their sole objective is to break or find fault in the new
00:20:42.600 product or the new system that these companies are instituting. And why do they invest in this?
00:20:47.420 Because they want to know where the weaknesses are. This is vigilance. They're trying to figure out
00:20:52.200 and identify where the weaknesses are before there's a problem so they can address it before something
00:20:56.620 comes up. So as you're going through your day-to-day life, think about what might go wrong,
00:21:01.480 what could go wrong, what challenges may come up, what obstacles are going to present themselves?
00:21:06.400 What contingencies do I need to build into this, this business plan, or we're going on vacation.
00:21:12.700 What could happen? Well, we could run out of gas or the engine could blow up, or we could find
00:21:17.880 ourselves not knowing where we are, or the cell phone might die. These are all things that you
00:21:23.140 probably ought to be aware of so that you can remain vigilant and you can protect yourself.
00:21:27.680 And again, those you have an obligation for guys, this is really, really important stuff.
00:21:32.080 And the reason I bring it up is because I see so many men, whether it's driving down the road and,
00:21:37.420 or, or, or going into the store. And I see people with their, their, their heads buried into their
00:21:42.240 phone that couldn't tell, you know, anything about anything in the environment because they have no
00:21:47.020 idea where they are. It seems to me that people are walking around more like zombies. I hear from
00:21:53.780 men every single day, just by the nature of my work, who feel like they're not getting ahead in
00:21:59.180 life, that they're not accomplishing anything in their career, that their marriages are on the rocks
00:22:03.340 and not doing well. And they can't figure out why this is the case. I believe more often than not,
00:22:09.880 the reason it's the case is because they aren't deliberate. They aren't intentional. They aren't
00:22:15.720 stepping between themselves and their families and the blows of fate with equanimity. They're not
00:22:21.460 even aware of what could potentially go wrong. They're so stuck in their current patterns and
00:22:25.800 their current behaviors or in their own thought process or not thinking that they're not aware of
00:22:31.400 what else is happening around them. Guys, we need more men who are vigilant, who are looking for
00:22:37.340 problems, who are trying to solve problems, who have the systems in place to solve these problems.
00:22:42.540 We don't want passive men. We want assertive, bold, courageous, vigilant men. And when we have
00:22:50.840 those kinds of men, not only are we going to produce individually in our lives, but we're going
00:22:55.080 to be better off as a society because these threats aren't going to be as catastrophic or they may
00:22:59.900 potentially be non-existent because we address them before they come up. So this is my call to you as a
00:23:06.480 man to remain vigilant at all times, to be aware of your surroundings, be aware of what's happening,
00:23:13.360 be aware of the people in your life and what they're experiencing. Are they having a hard time?
00:23:19.120 Be vigilant in that. If one of your kids is dealing with a difficult situation, don't ignore it.
00:23:25.220 Address it, be bold, be courageous, and really figure out some of this stuff so that you can be the type
00:23:30.840 of man that you are capable of being and that your family and your friends and your colleagues and your
00:23:35.060 coworkers are relying upon you to be. So this is my, my mantra to you. Write it down. If you need to
00:23:40.840 put it on a post-it note and put it in your mirror, put it in the dashboard of your vehicle,
00:23:44.920 that you are to remain vigilant at all times, to always be vigilant. Anyways, that's all I've got
00:23:50.600 for you guys today. Share with me what's working for you. You know, share, share a story where you've,
00:23:55.740 you've been vigilant and you've neutralized a threat or some strategies that you have to ensure
00:24:02.800 that these threats don't affect you as much as somebody who isn't aware of what's going on or
00:24:07.940 isn't capable to be able to deal with these types of threats. You can share those on Instagram or
00:24:12.260 Twitter, Facebook, all at Ryan Mickler. My last name is spelled M-I-C-H-L-E-R. But guys, we need more
00:24:18.920 vigilant men in this fight. And I know a lot of you are. I know a lot of you have some room for
00:24:23.240 improvement as do I. And I would encourage all of us to really step up and think about how we can be
00:24:27.980 more vigilant. But the three-step formula for that, that I gave you today is number one, accept the
00:24:32.800 role, accept the role. You aren't going to be able to fulfill the role until you accept the role.
00:24:37.460 Number two, free yourself from distraction. Know what you want, know what's going on around you,
00:24:43.220 be clear in your ambitions and your purpose, and have a singular focus towards those things.
00:24:48.000 And the third one is train for vigilance. Train yourself, train your mind, train your body,
00:24:52.220 train your soul, train everything about you so that you can be more vigilant in your life.
00:24:56.280 All right, guys, as a parting note, remember, we've got our event where we're going to talk
00:25:00.640 not only about this, but other ideas and strategies and philosophies that you can incorporate in your
00:25:05.660 life. And I've got some very, very cool activities planned as well. That's our main event, which is
00:25:10.640 August 10th and 11th with the exclusive iron council dinner on the 9th. You can head to
00:25:15.360 orderofman.com slash main event. Maine is in the state. So orderofman.com slash main event.
00:25:21.220 All right, guys, we'll call it a day. We'll call it a weekend. I hope that all is going well
00:25:25.380 for you. Glad you're on this path with me, that you're in the battle to reclaim and restore
00:25:30.160 masculinity and honor to be to be on this path with you. Go out there today. Go out there this
00:25:35.880 weekend throughout your life. Remain vigilant. Become the man you are meant to be. Thank you for
00:25:40.660 listening to the order of man podcast. You're ready to take charge of your life and be more of the man
00:25:45.760 you were meant to be. We invite you to join the order at orderofman.com.