Order of Man - January 15, 2021


The 5-Step Process for Making Better Decisions ｜ FRIDAY FIELD NOTES


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23 minutes

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00:00:00.000 You're a man of action. You live life to the fullest. Embrace your fears and boldly chart
00:00:04.980 your own path. When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time. Every time.
00:00:10.460 You are not easily deterred or defeated. Rugged. Resilient. Strong. This is your life. This is who
00:00:17.220 you are. This is who you will become. At the end of the day, and after all is said and done,
00:00:22.780 you can call yourself a man. Gentlemen, what is going on? My name is
00:00:27.320 Ryan Michler and I am the host and the founder of the order of man podcast and movement. I want to
00:00:31.820 welcome you here. Glad you're tuning in. You know, I say this every week. We've got an important
00:00:36.220 discussion and conversation, but you know, if I didn't think it was important, I probably wouldn't
00:00:40.100 have it. So this isn't any different than what you've experienced in the past, but I do believe
00:00:44.100 the topic, the discussion of today is going to be very valuable for you, not just in the short term,
00:00:49.520 but over the rest of your life. If you heed the information that I'm going to share with you now,
00:00:54.180 you might be asking, who are you to tell me how I should behave and how I act, especially if you're
00:00:59.140 new to what we're doing here. And it's likely that you are because the growth that we've experienced
00:01:03.160 is, has been phenomenal. It's been incredible. So I thank you for tuning in. Look guys, I don't have
00:01:08.620 it all figured out. I'll be the first to admit there's plenty of shortcomings and shortfalls and
00:01:13.300 areas in which I need to improve in my own life. But I feel like I've got some things figured out.
00:01:18.940 And I feel like as we band together with hundreds of thousands, if not millions of men, now we can
00:01:25.100 learn and grow from each other. So what I'd encourage you to do is to take the good and leave
00:01:28.820 the bad and apply what you think will work as it comes to being a better father, husband, business
00:01:34.500 owner, community leader. And if you don't like what I have to share, then, you know, maybe there's some
00:01:38.200 things that I miss on and that's okay too. I do the best that I can, but I'm not so arrogant to believe
00:01:44.220 that I get it all right. Although I think I get a lot right. So maybe somewhat arrogant,
00:01:47.580 but not completely arrogant for what it's worth. All right, guys, with that said, let's get into
00:01:52.840 the discussion today, which is all about making better decisions. We are as men, a, a collection
00:02:02.380 of the decisions that we make. And actually maybe to just to take a step back, it's not even the
00:02:09.480 decisions that we make. It's the results that we produce. We are defined by the results that
00:02:14.140 we produce. Now, some of this is within our control. And quite frankly, a lot of the results
00:02:19.300 that we produce and, and the circumstances in which we experience are completely beyond our
00:02:24.340 control or to somewhat our control and somewhat out of our control. But I think if we were to take
00:02:30.200 a step back from just the results that we produce, I think, and I believe that inevitably
00:02:37.860 and over long periods of time, the results that we produce are generally going to average out to the
00:02:44.960 types of decisions that we're making. So if we're making poor decisions, if we're chasing short-term
00:02:50.620 results, we aren't living our moral lives. We're, we aren't honoring our commitments. We're stepping out
00:02:56.600 on our wives or the responsibilities that we have. We get addicted with things that we know we're not
00:03:03.180 going to serve us or other people. Well, and, and we fall into this decision-making process.
00:03:08.060 Then I think inevitably the results that we produce are going to be inferior. And I know there's a lot
00:03:13.320 of guys wondering, why haven't I produced the results? Why am I not experiencing wealth? My,
00:03:17.680 why am I not having, having the things that I want in my life? And very simply, it's because
00:03:23.160 you're making poor choices. Now, again, some things are outside of our control. And I think there's
00:03:28.160 some extenuating circumstances like the response to a perceived global pandemic that might affect
00:03:34.880 your ability to, for example, earn an income. There's medical conditions that in spite of you
00:03:42.540 living as healthy as you possibly could, that you were diagnosed with cancer. These things are beyond
00:03:48.660 our control, but generally speaking and broadly, and over long periods of time, I think we're going to
00:03:54.880 find that the better decisions that we make in our lives, the better off we're going to be in the
00:04:00.680 better results that we're going to produce. So what I thought I would do with you today is share
00:04:05.660 with you five simple tips for making better decisions. If you're in a position where you can
00:04:11.620 take notes, please do that. If not try to remember what I'm going to share with you today, go back.
00:04:15.780 They'll be in the show notes as well. You can subscribe to our newsletter at origin. Excuse me. I'm so
00:04:20.760 used to say origin made now at this point. It's not origin made. You can subscribe to our newsletter
00:04:25.720 at order of man. Sometimes I feel like I'm losing it a little bit, but order of man.com. You could
00:04:32.060 subscribe to our newsletter. Uh, and we're going to share more about this as well. So let's get into
00:04:36.980 it. Number one, uh, making better decisions, create some margin in space. I used to have a friend
00:04:42.020 that said, if it's a good decision today, it'll be a good decision tomorrow. And I know there are
00:04:46.520 some time sensitive decisions that we need to make. And I know that people are going to attempt
00:04:50.900 to make their problems your priority, but I'm telling you, if it's a good decision right now,
00:04:56.100 then it'll be a good decision tomorrow. And you don't need to make decisions as rashly and as quickly
00:05:02.640 as maybe you think you do. Because I know when I make rash decisions, I typically make emotionally
00:05:08.400 charged decisions because I know about myself that my emotions manifest themselves first. My rationale,
00:05:15.400 my intellect, my critical thinking tends to lag behind my emotions. I think that's true for a lot
00:05:21.340 of us. And I want to make decisions, not absent of emotion. I think emotion is a factor that needs
00:05:27.800 to be considered, but I want to make my decisions based on logic and reasoning and rationale. And I
00:05:35.300 want to be smart and informed and educated. And because that's a lagging factor for me, and I'm imagining
00:05:42.780 it is for you as well, then what I need to do is not make my decisions so quickly, because if I do,
00:05:50.040 it's going to be based solely on emotion. And I want it to be those other things. So slow down the
00:05:57.360 decision-making process. Now I found for myself that I have been better at this over the past several
00:06:02.820 years. And as I slowed down the decision-making process, I take a big, deep breath. I take a step
00:06:08.920 back. I think about it. I give myself, even if it's 24 to 48 hours, or maybe in some circumstances,
00:06:15.300 it's a week. But if I give myself a little space, a little margin, I can come back into the decision
00:06:22.260 making pot process, re-engage with a new, more fulfilled, well-rounded approach to the decisions
00:06:30.440 that I'm going to be making. Now, some things you don't need to wait 24 hours on, you know,
00:06:34.760 should you make that purchase? Yes or no, you know, and other decisions that are going to require
00:06:40.080 more time. Should I partner with this individual or should I offer this product or should I move to
00:06:45.920 this different place in the world? Just give yourself some margin, give yourself some space.
00:06:51.280 I know we have short lifespans. If we were to pan out and look at it, you know, 70, 80, 90 years is not
00:06:57.880 a lot of time. It goes so quickly, especially as you get older. For me, as I approach 40, some of you
00:07:03.740 think that's old and I know my sons and daughter do. And some of you think that's young, but time
00:07:10.480 seems to be speeding up. So I know we're time sensitive here. I'm just telling you, you can
00:07:15.060 give yourself 24 to 48 hours before making important and crucial decisions that will impact your life
00:07:20.380 and the life of the people you care about. So number one, create some space and margin. That'll
00:07:24.500 help you make better decisions. Don't be so rash. Even if you get into an argument with your wife or
00:07:28.360 discussion with her, just say very frankly, Hey hon, look, I know we got to talk about this. I know
00:07:33.560 you want a decision. Let me sleep on it. Or why don't you give me a couple of days and on, you
00:07:39.100 know, on Monday, I'll think about it this weekend. I'll, I'll weigh some options. You and I will ask
00:07:43.160 each other and answer some questions. And then on Monday, we'll decide what we want to do. Giving
00:07:46.940 yourself the space is usually a good idea. All right. Number two, and these aren't in any particular
00:07:51.880 order, but number two is knowing what you want and what you don't, because if you don't know what you
00:07:57.300 want, then anything that could potentially come up might sound pretty enticing. You can make a
00:08:02.960 little bit more money. You can have some more experiences. You can have a little bit more
00:08:06.740 excitement and enthusiasm and fun in your life. But guys, if you don't know, uh, what it is that
00:08:14.140 you want, what are you measuring your decisions against? And I can tell you, I know so many men,
00:08:20.460 if I were to ask you, what exactly do you want out of life? You know, most guys would say,
00:08:24.980 I want to make a little more money. Uh, I want to have a good relationship. I want to have some
00:08:29.200 more sex. I want to have some experiences. I want to, I want to be important. I want to feel
00:08:34.140 some influence in my life and other people's lives. I think we can all agree on these things,
00:08:39.500 but look, there's a lot of things that could come up, uh, that would entice you with some
00:08:46.160 immediate and short-term gratification. But if you can't measure it against what it actually
00:08:52.420 and specifically is that you want out of your life, instead of saying, I want this much money,
00:08:56.320 it's like, I want to make $200,000 a year, or I want to make seven figures a year.
00:09:02.340 You know, how are you going to know if this is going to be a good decision or not? You're not
00:09:06.480 right. So instead of saying, I want to be healthy, what the hell does that mean?
00:09:11.140 Does that mean you are capable of running a marathon on a, on a drop of a dime? Does that mean
00:09:15.440 that you can, you know, deadlift a 600 pounds? Does that mean that you're 10% or under in body
00:09:22.040 fat? Does that mean that you aren't eating a bunch of sugar and processed foods? What exactly does that
00:09:27.700 mean? When you say, well, I want to have a good relationship with my wife. Welcome to the club.
00:09:33.600 We all want to have a good relationship with our wife, but what the hell are you talking about?
00:09:38.600 Does that mean you're having sex five times a week? Does that mean you have a deep and meaningful
00:09:43.380 connection with her? Does that mean you're going on dates every week and that you're courting her?
00:09:49.400 Maybe to set the bar very low. Are you communicating? Are you talking on a daily basis?
00:09:54.180 What do you mean? You got to know specifically what you mean. Well, I just want to, I want to grow my
00:09:59.020 business and I want to make lots of money. Cool. I commend you. How much money? What kind of business?
00:10:04.760 How do you plan on growing that money? A friend and mentor of mine, a lot of you guys are familiar
00:10:08.940 with Sean Whalen. He challenged me years ago. He said, look, I know you want to make a lot of money,
00:10:12.980 but like how much money exactly do you want to make? And he challenged and pushed me and, and,
00:10:19.000 and, and prodded me to come up with that number. And I said, okay, in the next 90 days, I want to
00:10:24.240 make this amount of money. And he said, good, write it down. So I wrote it down. He said, good. Now
00:10:29.460 come up with a plan. Like, tell me how you're going to do that. And so I came up with a strategy. I told
00:10:34.140 him how much I needed to do, how many more clients I needed to get X, X, X, X, all the stuff that I needed
00:10:38.760 to do. And he said, okay, good. Now go do it. And no joke. This was a 90 day plan. I think on day 85,
00:10:45.440 I hit my target day 85. I'd never hit it before. And on day 85, I hit my target because he told me
00:10:52.100 to get specific with what I want. And then I looked at everything else that presented itself. And I said,
00:10:57.740 nope, that doesn't help me. Nope. That doesn't help me. Nope. That doesn't move the needle. Nope.
00:11:01.280 That doesn't get me to where I want. Oh, but that one out of 20 potential things I could do
00:11:05.740 that little action right there is going to get me exactly where I want to go.
00:11:11.440 So if you want to know more about how to figure out what you want, because I don't want to leave
00:11:14.880 you high and dry here. Cause a lot of you guys are like, yeah, I would love to figure out what that
00:11:18.340 is, but I don't know how to do it. Then join our free email program. It's called 30 days to battle
00:11:24.600 ready. It's free. Full disclosure. It's going to direct you into the iron council, which is our
00:11:30.020 exclusive brotherhood where there's a lot of accountability. So if you're interested in that,
00:11:33.340 cool. If not, it's a standalone program and you can take the resources and information and apply
00:11:37.600 it to the best of your ability and get after it. But you can do that at order of man.com slash battle
00:11:42.960 ready order of man.com slash battle ready. All right, let's move to a point number three.
00:11:49.700 And I actually alluded to this in the past point that I made, which is knowing what you want.
00:11:54.220 I talked about Sean Whalen as a mentor of mine. You got to find qualified friends and mentors and
00:12:00.260 coaches. These are people that have walked the path before you. You know, if you're surrounded
00:12:04.800 by people who have never been on the path that you want to go on, you guys are walking together.
00:12:09.020 It's the blind leading the blind. How's that going to work? You know, a lot of people like to run their
00:12:13.620 mouth. Oh, you should do this and do this and do that and do that. And okay. Tell me about your
00:12:17.240 experience. Oh, well, I haven't done it. Well, why would I listen to you? You know, and I know that
00:12:23.920 these individuals might have a pure and noble intentions, but it's ignorant. I don't listen to ignorant
00:12:29.520 people. And by the way, that's not a knock. I think people look at ignorance as some sort of like
00:12:34.260 slight against people. Ignorance just means you don't know, period. You don't know. I'm ignorant
00:12:41.600 about a lot of things. There's things that I do in my life that I want to get better at that I'm
00:12:45.960 ignorant about. That doesn't make me less lesser. It doesn't make me a bad human being. It just means
00:12:51.360 I don't know what the hell I'm talking about or doing in this case. So I don't, I don't let the word
00:12:55.540 ignorance mess with my ego. I just know if I'm ignorant about something and I want to
00:13:00.700 become more knowledgeable about that thing, then I better surround myself with friends and coaches
00:13:04.860 and mentors who are not ignorant, who know what the hell they're talking about. Like, why would
00:13:09.300 you ever ask a guy that's a hundred pounds overweight, how to lose weight? He doesn't know
00:13:13.280 how to do it. Or maybe he knows how to do it, but he's not implementing it. Either way, it's not
00:13:17.380 going to serve you. What would you ever ask somebody who's up to their eyeballs and debt
00:13:21.420 and broke and destitute how you can build wealth? I mean, some of you actually do like you ask your
00:13:28.180 parents, like, what should I do with my money? And then you ask them, well, how are your parents
00:13:32.280 financially? Oh, they're, they're, they're broke and they're in debt. And they're, and yet you're
00:13:36.000 asking them for advice. I mean, not only are they ignorant, now you're acting ignorant.
00:13:41.820 I don't actually, I don't think you're acting ignorant. I think you're acting foolishly.
00:13:45.560 Like you're asking people who have no idea what the hell they're talking about,
00:13:49.580 how they can help you do something they haven't accomplished for themselves.
00:13:54.160 So go out and find mentors that are qualified, that are credible, that are reputable, that are
00:13:59.420 producing the results that you're after and, or producing the results for the clients or for
00:14:04.720 their clients. What is your after and surround yourself with those people, right? And how do
00:14:09.460 I find a mentor? Well, you have a mentor right now. You have me. Now, some of you are better off in
00:14:14.820 the, in the areas of fitness and building wealth and your relationships than I am. And some of you
00:14:19.400 are not. And so, you know, you look to me for advice and information that might serve you.
00:14:24.420 I feel like I've got some things on lock and other things. I don't, I'll let you determine
00:14:28.220 what that is. And I'll try to be truthful about what that is with you. But this is indirect
00:14:31.960 mentorship. The next step is hiring somebody, whether it's me or Sean or whoever it may be.
00:14:38.040 And, and actually that's not even the next step. The next step is buying books and courses
00:14:41.560 and manuals and going to conferences. It's all out there guys. It's all out there. It's available.
00:14:46.280 So don't tell me, you don't know how to do something. Just say, okay, where do I go to
00:14:50.540 figure out how to do that? I'm building a canoe right now. A lot of you guys know,
00:14:53.620 know that because I've shared it because I'm excited about it. And I don't know how to,
00:14:56.960 how the hell to do that. Like I've never done that before.
00:15:00.160 You know, I've done some basic, like build a crappy shelf, shelf out of plywood for my wife
00:15:05.280 or something. You know, I've done things like that, but I've never built a canoe. So what did I do?
00:15:10.940 I bought a course, a program. I've got, I've literally got, I think they're over there on
00:15:17.020 my desk. I've literally got six different canoe building books. And every time I get to a new
00:15:21.600 step, I pull them all out. I'm like, okay, here's the step I'm on. Okay. This person says this,
00:15:25.120 this person says that this person says that. And then I formulate an answer, not on my own,
00:15:29.760 but based on what these individuals are doing. So again, you got to find people who know what the
00:15:35.440 hell they're talking about. You got to listen indirectly to books and tapes and podcasts and CDs
00:15:40.560 and conferences and courses. And the next step is hiring coaches, hire somebody, pay them money to
00:15:46.320 do it. Oh, Ryan, I don't have any money. Well, okay. Then don't and see how it works out for you
00:15:51.360 or invest in yourself, you know, figure out a way to make a work. I last year, I probably spent
00:15:57.760 something like, I don't know, 60, 70, $80,000 on coaches and conferences and courses and programs
00:16:04.180 and this and that. I wasn't always in that position. You know, the first year I really
00:16:10.320 got behind this, I realized, okay, well, I can, you know, I can spend 50 bucks a month on some books
00:16:15.020 or courses. And that was my budget. And now it's 5,000 a month. And at some point, maybe it'll be
00:16:20.800 50,000 a month, but I'll never outgrow it. So how do you make better decisions? Find people who've made
00:16:25.640 better decisions and then do what they do. Okay. You might think, well, that's, that's the easy path.
00:16:31.180 Well, so be it. I'd rather go the easy route by somebody telling me, don't step there. You're
00:16:35.860 going to hit a landmine right there. Step here instead, and then just do what the hell they tell
00:16:39.960 me to do. All right, here we go. Number four. So right now we've got number one is margin.
00:16:45.560 Number two is knowing what you want and what you don't want being specific about that. Number three
00:16:50.040 is finding qualified friends, mentors, and coaches. And number four is you, you've got to care less
00:16:55.960 about what people think of you. All right. If you're so worried about the optics of things,
00:17:00.480 like how, how am I going to look? How am I going to be perceived? What are people going
00:17:03.980 to think? What are people going to say? And that is your soul factor. That's your soul
00:17:10.540 motivation for making decisions. Then you're going to make other people's decisions. You're
00:17:16.040 not going to make your own decisions. I want to make, you know, I just want this person to
00:17:20.360 be happy or satisfied, or I want this even worse. I want this person to like me. What a horrible
00:17:26.880 way to make decisions. Cause I've, I've made those decisions guys in the past. You have
00:17:31.820 to where I said, okay, I'm going to do this thing because if I do, then this person will
00:17:35.900 like me. And guess what happens? They like you less because you're weak and you're a follower
00:17:43.300 and you don't think for yourself and you're desperate in a lot of cases. So stop making decisions
00:17:49.940 for other people, or at least for their approval. Now, look, sometimes I have to make decisions
00:17:54.760 for other people. I have people that rely on me to make good decisions. My wife, my
00:17:58.960 children, my employees, my partners, my clients, they rely on me to make good decisions, but
00:18:05.460 I don't make decisions to make them feel good. I don't make decisions because I care about
00:18:10.540 the way they view me. In fact, in a lot of cases, some of my clients actually don't like
00:18:14.640 me very much because I push them and I poke at them and I prod them in all the right places.
00:18:19.760 So they'll do what they've hired me to help them do. And that isn't comfortable and that
00:18:24.280 isn't easy. But if I was so wrapped up and will this person like me, then I would never
00:18:30.040 make the right decision that will help that individual. And I'd never make good decisions
00:18:34.440 for myself. And I'm willing to piss people off. I don't set out to piss people off, but
00:18:39.600 I'm willing to face that risk. And it is a risk. You know, nobody wants people to dislike
00:18:45.140 them, but that's, what's required. If you're going to be an authority, a leader, and that's
00:18:52.740 part of what masculinity is to preside. We talk about that quite often, then you're going
00:18:57.160 to have to make unpopular decisions and you're going to have to base it on what is right and
00:19:02.620 what is good and what is true and what is productive versus how will people feel about
00:19:09.740 this? You can go back and listen to how to develop confidence and courage. We've talked
00:19:16.380 about those things at length and those are required when it comes to making decisions
00:19:20.140 that are not always popular, but right. But that's what you need to do. And then the last
00:19:25.960 one here, guys, number five is, and I, and I talk about this quite often, but it's to evaluate
00:19:30.000 past decisions is to be introspective. You know, how often are you evaluating whether that
00:19:35.020 last decision you made actually served you or not? You know, a lot of, I know a lot of
00:19:39.660 guys who fly by the seat of their pants and they make these decisions rashly and quickly.
00:19:43.520 They don't give themselves margin and then they do it and it works or it doesn't. And
00:19:46.980 they move on to the next thing. Well, that's the worst thing you could do because you want
00:19:52.480 to continually make good decisions, making one decision that's in your best interest, or
00:19:56.980 it's going to serve you or other people. Well, is not enough because luck isn't really
00:20:02.240 a plan. Hope isn't really a strategy, right? I want, uh, results that I can replicate that
00:20:10.120 I can duplicate over and over and over and over again. I want a system so that when I
00:20:15.300 need to make more money, I can turn the system on. When I need to reconnect with my children,
00:20:19.740 I have the process and the system for being able to do that. When I need to develop deeper
00:20:24.120 relationships with my wife or other people that I care about, I know how to reach out to
00:20:27.740 those individuals because I've done it before. I know what works and I know what doesn't.
00:20:31.060 So I'm constantly evaluating. I'm constantly looking for feedback. What's working? What isn't?
00:20:36.800 How did that go? How did it not go? What did I get done? What didn't I get done? What am I
00:20:41.300 going to do tomorrow? This is a daily process for me. I've got it in my battle planner.
00:20:45.680 That's right here in front of me. It's in front of me every single day. And I look at it in the
00:20:49.860 morning. This is what I need to do. Here's what I did yesterday. Here's how it went. Here's how
00:20:54.780 I could have gone better. Here's what I'm going to do today. And then I review it every night
00:20:58.980 before I shut down in the office. Okay. Here's what I did. Here's what I got accomplished.
00:21:04.320 Here's what I need to do tomorrow. This is a system. All right. I don't fly by the seat of
00:21:10.060 my pants. The things that you see me do, the decisions that I make aren't just kind of
00:21:14.580 happenstance. It isn't all Ryan got lucky. Hell no. I put in a boatload of work to get me to where
00:21:21.900 I am right now. I realized I can be better, which is why I'm following the five-step process I'm
00:21:25.880 sharing with you here today. But this system, this tool, this process has helped me make
00:21:31.640 infinitely better decisions, which has impacted my health and my wealth and my business and you
00:21:37.620 and my family and every other facet of life that I care about. And I know you care.
00:21:43.140 You wouldn't be listening to this podcast if you didn't, you do care. So make better decisions
00:21:48.900 so that you can produce better results for yourself, for your family, for your kids,
00:21:53.500 your neighbors, your friends, the people you love, the people you serve, complete strangers.
00:22:00.240 That's what we're supposed to do as men. And it requires us making good, sound, productive
00:22:06.500 decisions. Let's recap. Number one, create margin and space. Number two, know what you want and what
00:22:14.680 you don't want. So you can have a litmus test to run your decisions against. Number three, find and
00:22:20.120 hire qualified friends, mentors, and coaches. Number four, care less about what other people
00:22:26.460 think. Develop courage, develop confidence. And number five, evaluate your past decisions
00:22:32.760 so you can make better decisions moving forward. All right, guys, that's what I've got. Hit me up on
00:22:39.080 Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, wherever you're doing the social media thing. I will be there.
00:22:43.760 Try to engage and respond to everything that I get. It's becoming increasingly more difficult,
00:22:48.380 but I do try to make a conscious effort to do that. I appreciate you guys standing this battle.
00:22:52.560 We've got a lot of work to do this year, ton of work. I'm excited about it. I know a lot of people
00:22:56.160 are afraid and worried and concerned. And while I can certainly appreciate that, there's also a lot
00:23:01.520 to be hopeful for and optimistic about, but we've got to create that for ourselves and we've got to
00:23:05.800 band together to make sure that happens. All right, guys, we'll be back on a Tuesday of next week.
00:23:11.360 I'm actually traveling this week. So I'll be back next week for some more interviews and
00:23:16.380 everything else. And just want to thank you for standing in this mission with us. All right,
00:23:21.080 guys, we'll see you next week. Until then, go out there, take action, become the man you are meant
00:23:25.960 to be. Thank you for listening to the Order of Man podcast. You're ready to take charge of your life
00:23:30.840 and be more of the man you were meant to be. We invite you to join the order at orderofman.com.
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