Order of Man - December 24, 2019


The Dangers of Political Correctness, Cancel Culture, and "Wokeness" | ZUBY


Episode Stats

Length

1 hour and 15 minutes

Words per Minute

188.86023

Word Count

14,353

Sentence Count

973

Misogynist Sentences

4

Hate Speech Sentences

16


Summary

In this episode of The Movement to Reclaim and Restore Masculinity, host Ryan M. Mickler is joined by rapper, entrepreneur, and public speaker, Zuby, to discuss what it means to be a man and why we should all be trying to be better men.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 political correctness, cancel culture, and quote unquote, wokeness are destroying our ability to
00:00:05.440 have important discussions about some of the most complex problems that we're dealing with.
00:00:10.380 Ironically, the people that continually engage in this behavior say they're trying to help,
00:00:14.720 but end up doing the exact opposite. And that's why I'm stoked to introduce you to my guest today,
00:00:20.180 Zuby, to talk about these current issues and so much more. We discuss why people have such
00:00:26.060 a difficult time engaging in intellectual dialogue, breaking the mold of people's expectations,
00:00:32.580 the future of humanity, both good and bad, and why the woke are destroying civil and critical discourse.
00:00:38.980 You're a man of action. You live life to the fullest. Embrace your fears and boldly chart your
00:00:44.240 own path. When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time, every time. You are not easily
00:00:50.220 deterred or defeated, rugged, resilient, strong. This is your life. This is who you are. This is
00:00:57.520 who you will become at the end of the day. And after all is said and done, you can call yourself
00:01:02.900 a man. Gentlemen, what is going on today? My name is Ryan Mickler, and I am the host and the founder
00:01:08.440 of this podcast, The Movement to Reclaim and Restore Masculinity, Order of Man. I'm glad that you're
00:01:13.580 tuning in. This is going to be a great conversation today and one that's quite different than we've had
00:01:18.200 in the past. And I'm trying to expand the type of guests that we have on the podcast, the type of
00:01:23.220 conversations that we're having. And I'd be really curious to hear your thoughts as we continue this
00:01:27.900 discussion on what it means to be a man and expanding into how that impacts not only our families and
00:01:34.220 ourselves, but our cultures, our societies, our neighborhoods, our communities. It's very,
00:01:38.840 very important. And this is a critical component of what it means to be a man to turn outwards and
00:01:43.980 consider how it's impacting humanity in general. So this is going to be a good one. Before I get
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00:02:55.980 it is a very, very fascinating discussion. And like I said earlier, one that we really haven't
00:03:02.140 broached and had too much here on this podcast, but I think it's going to be
00:03:05.240 very important for us to speak about these things more than maybe we have in the past.
00:03:11.020 My guest today is unlike any other. His name is Zuby. He's a rapper. He's got his own podcast.
00:03:17.180 He's a public speaker. He's an entrepreneur. And he's also a graduate from Oxford university.
00:03:21.320 I started following Zuby on Twitter several months ago when I saw him doing a video of him deadlifting
00:03:30.460 and breaking the British women's deadlifting record in an attempt to bring some, well, what I think is
00:03:36.360 logic to the discussion that men and women are absolutely biologically different. He's a man who
00:03:41.940 is unafraid to share the way that he views the world. He's been dubbed very controversial, even
00:03:48.140 though he's really not at all. And we actually discussed that in the conversation. So gentlemen,
00:03:53.540 please enjoy my fascinating discussion with the one and only Zuby Zuby, what's up, man? Glad to
00:03:59.940 have you in the podcast. Happy to be here, man. How you doing? Good, good. Yeah. I've, uh, man,
00:04:04.380 I've wanted to have this conversation for the past couple of months. Uh, I've been following you on
00:04:07.880 Twitter for a while and then I think I heard you on Rogan and some other podcasts. I thought, man,
00:04:11.800 this is a guy I got to get on the show. Awesome, man. I appreciate it. What we need is we need,
00:04:16.080 uh, we need truth tellers in a, uh, in a society that seems to be very wary or scared. I think
00:04:23.620 that's what it is. Maybe fear of telling the truth. It's nice to see somebody who's willing
00:04:26.960 to say it like it is. And at the risk of offending a lot of people, it's, uh, it's refreshing.
00:04:33.560 Yeah, man. It's funny. Cause I think I'm like on paper, technically, I feel like I'm one of the,
00:04:39.100 one of the least offensive, least controversial, least controversial people out there. If we lived in
00:04:44.340 any sort of semblance of a normal world, I really haven't changed much over my life and I've never
00:04:49.140 been someone who's been deemed remotely controversial in my personal life, in my, in my
00:04:53.620 music, in anything. I mean, I don't even cuss. I've never done, I've never done any drugs. I've
00:04:58.660 never smoked a cigarette. Um, I don't have any baby mamas, anything like that. So the whole,
00:05:03.300 the whole notion of me even being controversial, I must say that I do find funny and as a good indicator
00:05:09.780 of where we sort of currently are. Yeah. I mean, it's, uh, it's, it's pretty ironic. I mean,
00:05:15.020 you talk about don't, you don't, don't smoke, don't drink, don't cuss. Even that itself is,
00:05:20.440 I'm sure somebody's offended by that. You know, I, I had a podcast I did the other day and I used,
00:05:24.960 uh, the F word. I don't, I try not to swear. I might drop a little language here and there,
00:05:28.800 but I use the F word in one of my posts and, you know, I had a bunch of people, oh, you shouldn't
00:05:32.540 swear. And then, you know, you don't swear. And it's like, well, why don't you swear? Do you have a
00:05:35.360 problem with language? It's like, no matter what you do, like people are upset about something.
00:05:39.500 Yeah. People think it's, uh, people think it's maybe an act or you get people are like, oh,
00:05:44.440 I don't trust people who don't drink. You must be hiding something. Or I don't trust people who
00:05:48.680 don't cuss. It's like, no, I don't, I don't go around policing other people and trying to
00:05:52.420 stop them from doing these things. But it's just like a personal decision. I never,
00:05:57.220 I was never into these things. So I'm not going to suddenly jump, jump in the music studio and start,
00:06:02.340 start dropping F bombs just, uh, to make some weird person happy. So weird person. That's a
00:06:09.540 great point. I just, I just think there's this, the, this, you know, you should do it this way,
00:06:15.880 or maybe not should, but just some sort of expectation, right? So all of us fit into these
00:06:20.680 little molds. Uh, you as a, uh, a black rapper, for example, me as a white guy with a big beard,
00:06:27.440 like people see that and they're like, oh, this guy's supposed to act this way. He's supposed to do
00:06:32.180 these things. This is supposed to be his circumstance. And then when you fall outside
00:06:35.880 of that mold, I think, frankly, it just pisses people off because they're surprised or, or it
00:06:40.860 represents a threat to who they are. Yeah. Well, I think people like to form, you know,
00:06:46.020 we hear all the time about how you shouldn't prejudge people, but the reality is we all do to
00:06:51.260 some degree and to some extent and, you know, to a, to a light degree, I don't think there's anything
00:06:56.220 inherently wrong with it. And also I don't think there's anything that can be done about it,
00:07:00.060 but when people take it to these levels where they kind of just see what somebody looks like,
00:07:05.340 or maybe they hear one or two things that they say, and they try to create this whole sort of
00:07:10.100 caricature or avatar of who they think you are and what they think you believe and what they think
00:07:16.920 your whole life story is and try to just read all of this stuff into you. And lo and behold,
00:07:22.780 unsurprisingly, if you tried to do that with anybody, you're probably going to be pretty wrong,
00:07:27.280 at least on some counts. We're just so multi-dimensional, right? There isn't just
00:07:32.840 one thing that defines all of us and we don't fit into these perfect molds, especially when we're
00:07:37.620 exposed to so much information on social media, uh, and the world is so small. Like I know you just
00:07:43.140 had a U S tour and I don't know how many States or places you hit, but it seemed like you were all
00:07:47.680 over the place. And so you have these combinations of, of cultures and experiences and ideas and,
00:07:53.420 and insights. And so we're just mall set multifaceted. There isn't just one way to
00:07:58.220 describe any one individual. No, not at all, man. Um, and I feel, you know, deep down, we all know
00:08:03.700 that, don't we? Like we all know that everybody's an individual and everybody is different and
00:08:07.800 everyone has different, everyone literally looks different. Everyone has different capacities and
00:08:13.760 levels and interests and capabilities and all that, which is what makes the world really interesting.
00:08:20.500 I mean, if you were to go outside and there were like 10 different types of people and
00:08:24.760 they were just sort of clones of each other, then that would be pretty boring, right? It
00:08:29.800 wouldn't be fun to talk to anybody or get to know anybody or to travel to different countries or
00:08:34.500 anything if everyone was just totally the same. So I think that's, um, yeah, I mean, that's, that's
00:08:39.620 great and that's beautiful. And it's weird. Yeah. You know, we're kind of living in this moment
00:08:44.980 and this time, which, which I hope will pass where people are sort of trying to define people
00:08:51.100 rather than look at people as individuals, you know, kind of grow, go back to these weird
00:08:55.560 sort of group characteristics and just very base surface level immutable characteristics,
00:09:01.480 which don't really tell you much about most people in most instances. Um, you know, you'll hear
00:09:08.060 people saying, Oh, okay. You know, we've got, uh, we, we have diversity because we have a white woman
00:09:13.640 and a black man and a, um, Asian woman who is, uh, there, and we've got a trans person and a gay
00:09:21.240 person. And, and it's like, that doesn't like that. That's one sort of very surface level element of
00:09:29.720 what someone could consider diversity. Sure. But the truth is if you have any room of people,
00:09:35.220 even if they did all happen to be black guys or white guys with beards, um, all, not all white
00:09:41.560 guys with beards have the same views, views and opinions and ideas. How can that be surprising to
00:09:48.400 people? Yeah. That's the thing. It's like, that that's obvious in one sense, but the way people
00:09:53.180 talk, you wouldn't necessarily glean that it's obvious or when people are like, Oh, you know,
00:09:58.200 you get this idea, like all black people think the same or have the same views. And it's like,
00:10:03.000 no, really no. There's like a, there's a billion of us. That's quite a, there's, there's a range
00:10:08.820 there. Um, you know, or all white men have the same views or all black. And it's just,
00:10:14.680 I mean, it, firstly, it's kind of offensive because that's like legitimate, you know,
00:10:19.380 I don't like to throw around the terms racism and sexism when they're not.
00:10:22.020 That is legitimate racism.
00:10:24.200 Yeah. But by definition.
00:10:25.960 Right. Right.
00:10:27.120 Like that, that's actually, you know, legitimate racial prejudice or, or sex prejudice or whatever.
00:10:33.020 If I just see a woman and I'm just like, okay, I can infer, you know, from, if you see a man or
00:10:38.180 a woman, yeah, you can infer a couple of things like about their, their biology and maybe their, uh,
00:10:44.520 potential strength and stuff like that. And their chances of getting certain diseases or something
00:10:49.400 like that. Sure. That exists. But beyond that, in terms of their personalities or what they're
00:10:55.400 into or what kind of person they are or what they believe, it literally tells you absolutely nothing.
00:11:01.000 Yeah. Well, I, you know, I think diversity is important because you do have all these
00:11:05.560 different experiences and ideas coming to the table. So long as everybody has, I don't know,
00:11:11.240 the same destination or ultimate goal or objective, because then that diversity will expose weaknesses
00:11:16.920 and strengths and hopefully, hopefully shore up your ability to get to where you want to go.
00:11:21.540 I think the problem comes in diversity when you have the two different tribes, if you will,
00:11:28.420 and whether you want to set that up geographically or, uh, um, economically that are at direct odds
00:11:35.600 with each other, that I think that diversity then becomes a potential threat. And so I think people
00:11:40.120 are kind of conflating the two ideas that diversity is bad when it's not the diversity that's bad.
00:11:46.180 It's the ideals that may create a problem. Yeah, I agree with that. I think, um, you know,
00:11:52.700 you get a lot of talk at the moment about stuff like multiculturalism, does multiculturalism work
00:11:57.180 or does it not work? And again, it's, it's tricky because people sort of with a lot of words, people
00:12:03.220 mean and hear and understand different things when they hear these words. So when one person hears
00:12:08.700 diversity, one person is just, they're thinking of like, uh, skin color and gender and sexuality,
00:12:14.480 because that's kind of how they've been programmed to think. Another person is thinking diversity of
00:12:18.780 thought. If you use words like equality, people think different things. If you say words like
00:12:22.880 multiculturalism, people infer different things. Um, so I feel like in one, in one definition,
00:12:29.140 I think multiculturalism does work. And in another definition, it kind of doesn't, which is what you
00:12:36.120 were alluding to earlier. If you take two cultures, which are totally at odds on certain values or
00:12:43.380 ideas or even laws and things like that, and you try to throw them together in the same place, then
00:12:48.880 it's going to lead to conflict because neither of them, they don't agree on the destination and nor
00:12:55.560 the way to get there. Um, however, if they're on the same page, but there are people who happen to
00:13:02.000 be from different racial or ethnic or whatever backgrounds or different geographical areas,
00:13:05.860 but they're all on the same page of the most sort of basic tenants and ideas, and they're trying to
00:13:11.080 reach the same destination. And yeah, totally fine. Of course, of course that works. Um, so it really
00:13:15.940 depends on what people mean when they use some of these terms. And I think that gets lost a lot in the
00:13:21.380 way that people are currently communicating. Yeah. It's interesting because what I see a lot of people
00:13:27.180 do is redefine words and they're not so blatantly obvious about it. They do a different, like for
00:13:34.080 example, they'll, they'll call Donald Trump Hitler. It's like, well, you're, you're, you're attempting
00:13:40.280 to redefine not only Donald Trump, but who Hitler was. And also you're undermining every horrible
00:13:48.960 atrocity that Hitler committed against millions and millions of people. And what you're doing is
00:13:56.120 redefining it. And you're actually making that word less powerful because you're giving it this broad
00:14:01.700 definition that is never intended to be. It's what I call a label inflation. I didn't make up the term,
00:14:08.180 but, uh, I think that's the perfect way to put it. If you go around and, you know, use terms and
00:14:13.060 redefine terms to, you know, sort of benefit you in the short term or to, you know, uh, insult somebody
00:14:23.700 or to try to make them out to be worse than they are or whatever, then that may be expedient in the
00:14:28.460 short term. But what happens to the longterm is it does devalue those words and it can be offensive
00:14:33.840 to lots of people involved, like not just, not just the person who's the target of it, but, you know,
00:14:40.220 using your example there, if someone did have grandparents or ancestors who were directly impacted
00:14:47.160 by Hitler, or even just people who fought in the world war or anything like that, who were up against
00:14:53.320 legitimate Nazis and, you know, white supremacists and these things, then to start using these labels
00:15:00.600 when they're not actually applicable and just throwing them around and bandying them around all
00:15:05.280 the time. Then, like you said, they lose their power. It dilutes the power of the words and people
00:15:11.400 stop taking it seriously. You also run out of ways to delineate different people. So if you go around
00:15:18.800 and you say, okay, well, everybody, you know, let's take something that I have legitimately seen a lot
00:15:24.460 of people say, right? Some people will come out and they'll, they'll even go on the news or they'll go
00:15:28.780 on social media and they'll say, uh, everybody who voted for a Donald Trump is racist. Okay.
00:15:36.980 Everybody who voted for Brexit is racist. Okay. You're talking about
00:15:43.600 potentially half the population. Right. Right. Yeah. 50% of the population. Sure.
00:15:51.140 Yeah. Maybe they didn't all vote, but you, it wouldn't, it would be fair to say in most countries,
00:15:56.960 if you take the two main political parties, you're going to get a rough 50, 50% split of support.
00:16:02.420 Some people don't really care. Some people aren't interested. Some people aren't partisan. Sure. But you
00:16:06.140 could say, you know, maybe, maybe 40%, 40%. Uh, so if you're going to say that, then that is just a
00:16:14.160 complete net. Now, if you do have someone who is a legitimate, uh, neo-Nazi or someone who's part of
00:16:21.180 the KKK and is trying to bring what, what label do you now give to that person? You see what I mean?
00:16:26.820 You've already called all, you've already called it said, all these people are racist and all these
00:16:30.900 people are supporting white supremacy and this and that. And this is the new KKK. The MAGA hat is the new
00:16:35.860 KKK hood, blah, blah, blah, all this stuff. Again, in the short term, that makes someone feel good.
00:16:41.740 It makes them feel expedient because they feel like they're good and I'm fighting against this evil
00:16:45.120 and I can just stick this label on people and then I don't need to deal with their ideas.
00:16:49.260 But in the longterm, that's really, really, really has a lot of negative repercussions as far as I'm
00:16:55.080 concerned. And, um, you know, and it also leads to reactionary movements as well, which is something I
00:17:01.740 think a lot of people don't see the potential danger and threat. And that's something that you see
00:17:06.600 more so actually in Europe where you're starting to get some legitimate sort of actual, more far
00:17:15.900 right, slightly, or sometimes explicitly ethno nationalistic groups and individuals gaining a
00:17:23.540 a little bit more sort of steam and empathy and stuff because people aren't, it's almost like
00:17:31.700 you're, you're, you're pushing so many people in the wrong direction by not legitimately addressing
00:17:39.180 their concerns or their arguments or just listening to them or treating people kindly, whether or not
00:17:43.700 you agree or disagree or whatever, that doesn't matter. But when you start throwing around all these
00:17:48.660 terms and that happens, and like I said, then you get this label inflation factor where it's like,
00:17:52.860 okay, well you called all the people over here, far right already. So what do you now call actual
00:17:58.960 far right groups? It's already at that stage where, really far, right. Extreme far, right. And then we
00:18:03.980 get the, the antifas and everything else. Yeah. It's, it's, this is, this is the crazy thing,
00:18:09.760 you know? Um, and so that's why I, you know, on one hand, it's kind of funny when people get totally
00:18:17.300 ridiculous and start throwing these terms around when they're not warranted and trying to label
00:18:21.200 black people and Jewish people and Latino people and trying to label them as Nazis or white supremacists,
00:18:27.800 there's a subtle, not subtle, right? There's, there's an irony in there, which is hilarious
00:18:32.880 on one hand, but on the other side, I do believe that stuff has genuine repercussions, which is why
00:18:40.160 it's something that I try to encourage people not to do and not just to, yeah, it's easy to compare
00:18:48.040 anything to Hitler to make it sound, Oh, just Hitler. Just, it's lazy, right? Just, it is just,
00:18:54.380 it's lazy, uh, maybe even intellectually dishonest. Right. But I think ultimately people,
00:18:59.860 there's a lot of reasons for this. I'd like to unpackage this, but I think ultimately one of them
00:19:04.720 is that people want to win, right? And they think that if I can throw this individual under the bus or
00:19:10.220 make him or her look like a fool, uh, then I win through some, uh, misguided perceived moral
00:19:17.080 superiority, right? Because I am not that individual. Therefore I am superior and I win compared to
00:19:22.580 somebody else. Exactly. Exactly. And I think there's always the temptation to do that, especially when
00:19:29.080 you have an intellectual or ideological opponent that could happen along political lines. It could
00:19:35.420 happen along religious lines, whatever. There's always that temptation to infer malice or evil
00:19:42.560 or stupidity towards the other person. Right. Okay. The only reason you believe that is because
00:19:47.840 you're such and such evil insert, insert evil thing. Right. Um, and then that means you don't need to
00:19:55.160 deal with the actual argument, but it doesn't help. It just doesn't help anything, you know, in the,
00:20:02.280 in the short term, it might be a, okay, cool. You kind of got away with it this time or that time.
00:20:07.220 But like I said, I just think longterm, it's just, people need to kind of grow up around this thing,
00:20:12.080 especially when it is people who are in the media or journalists or politicians themselves.
00:20:18.060 When I start seeing them sort of stooping to this ground of calling each other Nazis on Twitter,
00:20:23.600 and these are supposed to be, you know, 40, 50, 60, some of the, sometimes people in their sixties and
00:20:29.780 seventies. Um, and you know, the, the president himself is not, um, right. He's not immune to,
00:20:36.120 to, to that criticism. Right. Of course. Um, and yeah, you know, sometimes it can be fun. It can be
00:20:40.940 entertaining, but I just think there's a certain level where you do want to be like, okay, like,
00:20:46.920 can we bring some adults back into the room? And can we actually just talk about this stuff properly
00:20:51.880 and not try to demonize each other and actually work out? Look, cause this is the thing with politics
00:20:57.340 all the time. I don't know. You know, we've got the UK general election tomorrow. Oh, is that right?
00:21:01.340 Okay. Yeah. Tomorrow. Yeah. So everything is amping up and the mudslinging is just so hype right now.
00:21:08.900 And every, this party is, you know, every, everyone's calling everyone racist and everyone's
00:21:13.660 calling everyone anti-Semitic and xenophobic and all these other, um, unpleasant terms. And I'm just like,
00:21:20.820 look, we all need to get on with each other. People have their different views. People have their
00:21:26.540 different ideas when it comes to politics. You know, sometimes you sleep on your left.
00:21:29.660 Sometimes you sleep on your right. You're not always going to get your way. The vote's not
00:21:32.820 always going to go the way you want it to. And you're always going to have, like I said,
00:21:36.320 half the population is always going to be a little bit disappointed regardless of the outcome.
00:21:40.120 Sure. Sure. So, but ultimately. I actually heard somebody say that the goal of politics is to get
00:21:44.940 half of the population to hate you. So that's actually pretty interesting. Like, I guess,
00:21:49.320 I guess that's one way to do it. It's just like this polarizing, right? Just get people polarized
00:21:52.780 and you'll win. Yeah. Yeah. And this is, this is the shame. I think it's, um, like I said,
00:21:58.100 I think it can be a little bit of tribalism can be fun, right? If you're talking about sports games
00:22:05.160 and, you know, one person, this, these people like this team, these people like that team. And
00:22:09.940 there's, there's that, uh, you know, competition and maybe a little bit of trash talk or whatever,
00:22:14.280 but as long as it stays contained and people remain civil and people don't get violent or whatever,
00:22:20.000 then it's totally fine. I mean, it's the same. It's like in the UK, this is not a big, as big
00:22:25.240 a problem now as it used to be. But, um, in the UK and throughout Europe, especially if you go back
00:22:31.400 a couple of decades ago, they had this big problem with a football hooliganism, uh, what would be
00:22:36.160 considered soccer to your audience, right? Where people would literally get beaten up. People got
00:22:41.460 killed. You'd have fights just between fans of different teams. Over, over grown adults kicking
00:22:48.900 a round ball into a, into a net. It's, it's insane. Can you, can you imagine, can you imagine
00:22:54.760 beating someone with a bat because they support a different team to you, right? This is the thing,
00:23:02.120 right? And, and it's so crazy. So it's like, I believe all human beings, I do think this is just
00:23:06.860 in our nature. We all have this tribal component. No doubt. Yep. We all have, you know, we feel
00:23:13.060 connected to, to different tribes that can be online tribes. It can be offline tribes. It could be
00:23:17.640 family tribes. It can be split along a whole bunch of different ways. Um, and I don't think
00:23:24.560 there's any way to get rid of that. And, and I think it has benefits as well. Right? So I think
00:23:29.900 the key thing is, is just making sure that that manifests in a healthy way and in a way that you
00:23:37.760 make the tribe actually as big and as inclusive as you can. So if you've got a country like America,
00:23:45.500 right, biggest country in the entire Western world, 350 or so million people. Okay. So if you
00:23:52.300 can unite people under the banner of, okay, people look different, people have different experiences,
00:23:58.660 people may even speak different languages, originally come from different places, but all
00:24:01.920 these people are Americans. Okay. And if you can get everyone on that page, then you've always got a
00:24:09.420 sort of higher group level that you can, that you can go up to, right? It's like, you know,
00:24:14.900 you know, on your computer, you got this sort of directory files with the trees and the folders and
00:24:19.300 different things, but you can always click up and you can go up into that one. So it's like, okay,
00:24:23.320 so here you might be split Republicans and Democrats. And even within those groups, you're split like this
00:24:28.400 and like that. And, you know, you could keep going down to that all the way to the individual,
00:24:32.200 but if you kind of keep clicking up, it's like, okay, well, we're all Americans. So let's, let's
00:24:37.720 keep that in mind. Right. Same thing here in the UK, you've got all this stuff going on. Tories,
00:24:42.280 labor, Tories, labor, Boris, Corbyn, dah, dah, dah. But it's like, look, you know, leave, remain,
00:24:46.960 Brexit, no Brexit. Ultimately you're all British. Okay. Like you're all British citizens. Right. Beyond
00:24:53.600 that, you're all people. Right. Right. Well, and I think, I think most people want the same things.
00:24:59.020 You know, you talked earlier about opponents, you know, it feels good to, to beat a quote unquote
00:25:03.820 opponent, you know, unless somebody's directly threatening your life or your wellbeing or your
00:25:08.640 way of life. I mean, we don't really have opponents because ultimately I think most people
00:25:14.300 want the same thing. We want to, we want some freedom. We want some Liberty. We want some money
00:25:18.700 in the bank account. We want to have some experiences. We probably want some romance in our
00:25:22.720 life. Uh, we want to be fit. We want to be happy and fulfilled. Like we all want the same thing.
00:25:28.360 Now, the way we go about doing that might be a little bit differently, but if we realized,
00:25:32.600 Hey, we're all after the same thing here. Uh, let's, you know, work together. You have
00:25:38.180 some ideas that are good. I have some ideas that are good. Let's get to the promised land
00:25:41.540 together. I think the problem comes when people try to isolate themselves. And I think politicians
00:25:47.920 do this. They try to isolate themselves from the crowd, from the group, from the people,
00:25:52.820 uh, because they want to maintain, maintain power over those individuals as opposed to
00:25:58.800 be part of the process. Yeah. I mean, here's something that people always forget when it
00:26:04.520 comes to politicians, when it comes to the police, when it comes to any public sector employee,
00:26:10.560 they work for you. Right. Yeah. People always forget this. Right. And I think that sometimes
00:26:16.900 they need to be reminded. I think politicians, I think like once a year or something, same with
00:26:21.780 police, I think once a year, all these people need to be reminded that they work for the citizens
00:26:27.060 and the citizens pay their salaries. Right. Right. So when you've got police getting too big for their
00:26:32.860 boots and they're trying to throw people around and cuss people and, you know, point guns at people
00:26:37.020 or whatever, when it's not warranted, I think those people need a reminder. Like, wait, hang on.
00:26:41.360 You, you work for the citizens, right? You, you're not, you're not above them. Right. You're right.
00:26:47.600 It's not like you're, it's not like you're in some war and you're, you're this, you're this guy here
00:26:52.980 and you're trying to. Right. They're not the enemy. No, they're not the enemy. Your, your job is to
00:26:56.760 keep these people safe and to enforce the law. Yeah. Sometimes you may have run-ins with people who
00:27:02.400 are committing crimes or whatever, but generally, I mean, people shouldn't be, people shouldn't be
00:27:06.520 intimidated by the police. Right. If people feel intimidated by the police, that's a problem.
00:27:10.820 People shouldn't feel intimidated by politicians or think, oh gosh, like this person wants to
00:27:17.340 make my life worse or wants to tear on it. It's like, no, like your job is a publicly elected
00:27:22.720 official who is literally being paid by everybody else's tax money. You need to keep these people's
00:27:28.980 interest at heart. Can you please everybody? No, you can't. Right. Are you going to get criticism?
00:27:32.940 Are you going to get flack? Of course you will. But I just think people need to keep that sort of
00:27:37.340 power in check. And I think when you get these people who have been in these jobs and some of
00:27:43.000 these roles for decades and decades and decades, I do legitimately think that they themselves just
00:27:47.760 totally forget that they're employed by the people and the people can fire them too. Right.
00:27:54.460 Right. I think. Well, yeah, I mean, we're obviously we're, we're dealing with that,
00:27:58.200 whether it's warranted or not. I mean, we're dealing with that right now is we have these articles of
00:28:02.520 impeachment against the president that have just come out. Like, I mean, it is a reminder that
00:28:05.900 you can be fired. Again, I don't know that this is warranted in this case, but
00:28:10.660 yeah. So, I mean, term limits would definitely be something that's very interesting. I just think
00:28:15.200 there's this huge disconnect. And the longer that you're in the system, the more that you forget
00:28:19.240 that you're part of the system, not the system in and of itself. Like you are not the dictator,
00:28:26.080 if you will. And that, that becomes a problem. Yeah, exactly. I do think that was part of the appeal
00:28:31.020 of Trump over Clinton, because I just think she'd been in, she'd, she's been in it too long.
00:28:37.060 It's been in it too long, just totally detached, disconnected in that weird bubble. Don't know how
00:28:43.700 many people have scratched your back, how many backs you've scratched, all this money involved,
00:28:48.060 all that stuff, man. I just think after a while, you know, when you just get these career politicians,
00:28:52.760 then I, myself, I know personally, I'm always a little bit, uh, uh, very, well, not a little bit,
00:28:59.980 I'm very mistrustful of anyone who's just kind of been in that world for such, such a long time.
00:29:06.120 I also think that's part of the, um, appeal of someone like Andrew Yang, right?
00:29:10.040 Sure.
00:29:10.400 Because, you know, because he's not, he's lived an actual life. He was a businessman, an entrepreneur,
00:29:16.040 whatever. And then it's like, okay, cool. I'm going to take a shot at this thing. He hasn't just
00:29:19.520 been in the system for decades and decades and decades. And, you know, like all these other
00:29:24.980 people have been, um, and they've all got so much dirt on them and, you know, they're,
00:29:29.380 they've just learned to tell, tell their little politicians lies and speak, say the right words
00:29:34.740 to get votes, but then not act on it and all that stuff. And we've just seen this for decades and
00:29:39.080 decades and decades. Um, and yeah, I don't know. I've, I've always just got my, my own take on stuff,
00:29:45.360 but it's part of the big reason why I'm, I'm just, yeah. Kind of skeptical about. Yeah. Well,
00:29:53.800 I have a healthy, healthy dose of skepticism for the whole thing. I, and I, I think that's the right
00:29:59.460 attitude, you know, whether that's a career politician or somebody coming in, like we ought
00:30:03.160 to be skeptical of everybody because those people are going to dictate a lot of the course of our
00:30:08.420 lives indirectly, potentially. And, and as we've continued to see more and more directly as,
00:30:14.340 as government encroaches into our lives, like this is going to be a big part of the way that
00:30:18.780 we live our lives. So we ought to be skeptical about that. I think the problem comes in the fact
00:30:23.880 that the public just, well, a lot of times we're just lazy, right? So we're not going to take the
00:30:30.020 time to, to vet our politicians. We're not going to take the time to research. We'd rather be
00:30:35.400 entertained and be distracted with other trivial issues. And of course there's other issues that
00:30:41.360 are important. Like, how am I going to make the mortgage payment and how am I going to get my
00:30:44.760 kids through school? So much so that we're like, ah, just whatever, you know? And it's not only is
00:30:50.640 it a disconnect from politicians to us, it's a disconnect from us to politicians. And we got to
00:30:55.920 be more engaged. Like we have to be more engaged in this process. Otherwise I just don't know. We don't
00:31:02.120 know what's going to happen if we can't be engaged in the process. Yeah. I mean, it's a,
00:31:07.020 it's a tricky one. It's a tricky one because you can kind of argue that way, or you can also argue
00:31:11.900 in the, in the other direction. I mean, my, my view on politics is I kind of almost, if I don't notice
00:31:21.760 what the government is doing, I kind of feel like they're doing their job. Yeah. Right. Does that
00:31:28.320 make sense? I'm almost, I just don't really want to notice anything. Like as long as stuff keeps
00:31:33.660 ticking over and like the roads, which we're paying tax money for don't have like giant holes
00:31:38.700 in them and stuff is generally working and you can ring 999 or 911 and the police or the, or the, um,
00:31:45.680 fire department or whatever show up. As long as that's like stuff is working, then me personally,
00:31:51.420 my expectations are relatively low and humble for what I think like the government or the prime
00:31:56.280 minister or any president is supposed to be doing. And as far as, as long as that's happening,
00:32:01.480 then I'm kind of satisfied, but I guess you do have a lot of people who I think they get angry
00:32:07.640 and they get upset and they want to be activists and do all this because their expectations are way
00:32:13.160 higher actually than mine are. You see what I mean? So they'll be like, Oh, well, you know, we've got
00:32:18.360 X amount of people are earning less than this amount, or we have this many, uh, people in poverty,
00:32:26.100 or we have this or that. And a lot of that stuff is just, some of it isn't just natural. Some of it
00:32:32.540 is just basic economic factors, the Pareto principle, some of the, just the results of having a somewhat
00:32:38.140 free market economy and whatever, you're not going to get any quality of outcome because you don't
00:32:42.780 have any equality of inputs. Sure. So everybody, like I said before, everybody is different.
00:32:48.000 People have different levels of intelligence. Not everybody works as hard as each other.
00:32:51.180 Some people work in high paying field. Some people work in low paying. There's infinite factors
00:32:56.020 that go into equality or inequality on any level, right? There are people who are,
00:33:01.600 you know, I'm five foot 11. There's people who are four foot two. There's people who are seven foot
00:33:05.420 three, right? Not because of some sort of evil of capitalism, but just because like, that's just how
00:33:14.300 it is. It's the patriarchy, man. It's the patriarchy.
00:33:16.080 Some people are really, really smart. Some people are really, really dumb. Like that,
00:33:20.860 that, that kind of sucks, but it's just like, yo, that's, that's just how it is. And no politician,
00:33:28.380 no party, no policy is going to, is going to change that. And I, and I wouldn't even want them to try to,
00:33:34.820 that's the thing with me. It's like, I would, you know, there's some things it's like, yo, I don't
00:33:38.440 even want you to attempt to do this. Cause right.
00:33:41.260 Your proposed solution is going to be far worse than the existing problem.
00:33:46.680 Right. The fallout is significantly worse than the issue that it began to, to try to solve.
00:33:51.360 Exactly. Exactly. So when it comes to that, that's why I'm so pro personal responsibility.
00:33:57.860 Cause I'm just like, look, if you have your stuff in order, regardless of who wins the election
00:34:03.300 tomorrow, you'll be okay. Right.
00:34:05.920 U S election coming up in 2020, I don't know which way it's going to go. I, I, I have my, um,
00:34:12.140 opinions and my personal predictions, but if you have your life in order or you're working to get
00:34:18.880 your life in order, regardless of who wins, you'll be fine. You see what I mean? If you handle your
00:34:24.980 own business, you will be fine. Right. It would take a politician doing something and, you know,
00:34:31.660 and this, this can and does happen, but they need to do something like really radical and crazy
00:34:38.160 to have like, uh, either a significant positive or a significant negative impact on your life.
00:34:45.080 And there's so many checks and balances, especially in a place like the USA, which kind of makes that
00:34:50.260 really rare. You know, when was the, when was the last time, you know, when was the last time, um,
00:34:55.400 uh, a president or a political party pulled, pulled you or anybody else out of poverty.
00:35:04.120 Yeah. Right. No. Yeah. It doesn't happen.
00:35:06.280 No. People can be pulled out of poverty by their own, by their own efforts and their own
00:35:10.540 entrepreneurship and their own hard work that pulls people out of poverty. You're not going to
00:35:14.900 just create some snap your magic fingers and create some, I don't know what that's going to magically
00:35:22.640 fix stuff that is, you know, natural and economic that that's the thing of what you can, you can
00:35:29.620 create conditions to allow that to flourish, but you know what you've got some, dude, there's people
00:35:33.760 in society who don't want to work. Oh, no doubt. Right. That don't want to exert themselves. Yeah.
00:35:38.780 You've got people, I don't know, it might be a small person, it might be 2%, 3% of the population.
00:35:43.380 Just, they don't care. Zero ambition. Sure. They don't want to work. They just want to sit down and
00:35:48.520 they want to drink alcohol and they want to, they're not interested. So you, it's hard to do
00:35:55.920 anything with that. You've also got people who are just crazy, super hyper ambitious, hyper
00:36:01.660 intelligent, hyper entrepreneurial, who are just going to go off and create these a hundred million
00:36:06.840 billion dollar enterprises or whatever. And that's going to happen while that's also happening on the
00:36:11.940 other side. So you, you can't without huge amounts of actual tyranny, you're not going to create,
00:36:20.220 you're not going to fix or resolve this imbalance. Of course, most people are somewhere more in the
00:36:25.440 middle. Men, let me hit the pause button on this discussion real quick. By now, I'm sure that you've
00:36:30.880 heard all about the iron council. If you're new, maybe you haven't. Many of you have banded with us.
00:36:35.440 Many of you, well, frankly, you're not interested at all and that's fine. And many of you are on the
00:36:40.360 fence about joining. And if you are on the fence, I get it. I understand when I started down this path
00:36:45.540 to, to really fix myself, it was hard for me to acknowledge that having a little help and
00:36:51.240 instruction and direction on the path was, was worthwhile. I thought that I could figure it out
00:36:56.020 all on my own and maybe I could, but at what expense time and effort? And that's what it would
00:37:02.040 have cost me. But by banding with and learning from men who were further down the path than I was,
00:37:06.520 I was able to accelerate the learning process and therefore the results. I became a more connected
00:37:12.440 husband, a more engaged father, a more successful businessman, and frankly, just more fulfilled in
00:37:17.920 my life. And if that's what you're looking for, you're looking to do the same in your life,
00:37:22.120 then band with us, the 500 men who are on the same path and know how to help you get from here,
00:37:29.420 where you currently are to there, wherever that is for you. Make sure you visit order of man.com
00:37:34.600 slash iron council. You can learn a little bit more and lock in your spot with a 500 plus men
00:37:39.380 again, order of man.com slash iron council. Uh, do that after the conversation for now,
00:37:44.840 we'll finish it up with Zuby. But, um, well, and even, even if you did have that level of tyranny
00:37:50.440 that you, you suggest, it's like, that's not going to solve the problem either. Like that's not going
00:37:53.840 to make matters worse. It's going to pull us backwards. Cause I think about, you know, these,
00:37:57.480 these highly ambitious, motivated individuals, like you're talking about, as they elevate
00:38:04.000 themselves, they're going to create businesses and hire people and create new technologies that
00:38:10.000 weren't available before. You know, I was in, I was in your neck of the woods, uh, about a month ago,
00:38:14.120 I was in, in London, you know, when I saw castles and Westminster Abbey, that's, you know, over a thousand
00:38:20.780 years old. And these are where Kings are living. I'm like, man, people in poverty are living better
00:38:25.980 than Kings were a thousand years ago. So as we take the throttle off and allow these individuals
00:38:33.220 to excel at the highest level, everybody's lifted up. Even those people that two or 3% that you
00:38:38.640 mentioned who are lazy and don't want to work and just kind of want to waste away their days.
00:38:43.380 They're lifted up as well, just by default. Yeah, sure. Sure. And you know, what was the point I was
00:38:49.400 about to make there? Uh, I lost it. I lost it. I had, I had something I was just about to say
00:38:55.000 there, but I'm sure, I'm sure we'll come back to it. It just lit my brain. Yeah. Well, I think the
00:38:59.320 problem comes when people perceive again, the two to 3% you're talking about as some sort, or even
00:39:06.580 themselves as some sort of victim of what somebody has done to them. And there may be some victim
00:39:15.080 scenarios, but the victim hood mentality isn't, is an issue. It's, it's a problem, uh, because you may
00:39:23.280 have been biologically and genetically predisposed to be successful or maybe to be a little bit more
00:39:29.500 lazy, but that doesn't make you a victim of what somebody else has done to you. No, no. It's
00:39:35.060 because a lot of people will think that a lot of things in the world, including money are zero sum.
00:39:40.680 Hmm. Right. I think, I think the world would be a lot better if people had to study economics,
00:39:46.620 like a lot of real, honestly, I think a lot of problems stem from people just not understanding
00:39:51.140 basic economics, whether you're talking about, um, a minimum wage and, and sort of salaries,
00:39:58.100 whether you're talking about house prices, whether you're just talking about how, how money is made.
00:40:03.260 And the fact that one person having a lot of money doesn't mean that someone else that they're
00:40:08.720 hoarding it away from people that money and value are actually constantly being created. And the total
00:40:14.540 amount of wealth is constantly increasing. And there's far more wealth across the board. And, uh,
00:40:20.500 on average amongst individuals now, than there was 30 years ago or 50 years ago, or a hundred years
00:40:25.300 ago. And people don't understand these basic concepts. So that's why you get, for example,
00:40:29.560 at the moment, it's really popular and trendy to do the billionaire bashing. Right. Right.
00:40:35.200 Everyone, everyone's gunning for the billionaires right now. Like these horrible human beings,
00:40:39.980 these, these, these 20 guys have more money than 50% of the population or whatever the statistic is
00:40:46.820 or whatever. And people make it out like that other 50% would be better off if those people
00:40:54.780 didn't exist or if they didn't have their money and they weren't inverted commas hoarding it or
00:40:59.780 whatever. Sure. That whole concept just shows a complete lack of understanding, just basic
00:41:05.760 understanding of how economics works, how business works, how financial systems work, all of that stuff,
00:41:11.800 which I myself, I'm not even an expert on, but I've at least, I know, I know the basics. I've got
00:41:17.480 the basic understanding to know that guys like Jeff Bezos and Mark Zuckerberg and, uh, Bill Gates and
00:41:25.200 whatever, that the amount of wealth that they've created, not just for themselves, but the way that
00:41:30.520 they've improved and bettered the world. We're literally talking on Skype right now. Okay. Microsoft
00:41:35.940 product. I'm on a windows laptop, right? People have like, you know, everyone shops on Amazon.
00:41:42.320 People are using all these things, which have made people's lives better, made it cheaper to do their
00:41:47.500 business, made it cheaper to buy products and do all the things they want. These companies employ
00:41:52.220 hundreds of thousands to millions of people. They've created wealth for all these people and all these
00:41:57.580 families and whatever, but people just want to turn their focus on, Oh, but the guy at the very top who
00:42:02.240 created the whole thing has way more money than I do. And I'm like, why do you care? That's just pure
00:42:07.520 envy. Right. Why do, why do I care that? Dude, if someone has $60 billion, cool. I'm like, okay,
00:42:16.320 like, why, why do I care? Like the, the wealth gap between me and, or between any of us in these guys,
00:42:21.600 like that's, uh, I don't even know what the factor is, right? That's like a millions of percent,
00:42:27.780 right. So you have a million times more money than I do. Right. But, but you know what? I'm
00:42:32.840 all right. So it's all good. Yeah. I'm all good. Like why, why do I care if you've got it? If you've
00:42:39.400 got a car that works and you've got, you know, uh, you've got stuff like, okay, I can understand
00:42:45.620 some resentment or envy coming from people who legitimately may not have anything just on like
00:42:51.160 a human emotional psychological level. Um, but when you've got people who are like, you're already
00:42:58.100 situated and you're already doing better than 95% of the world, uh, which you're probably doing just
00:43:04.640 by the dint of living in the UK or living in the USA. Um, then, you know, it's, uh, did you know that
00:43:12.860 if you earn, wait, what's the number? It's something like if you earn, I think more than $31,000 a year,
00:43:21.160 you're in the global 1%. Isn't that wild? In terms of income. Yeah. It's, it's amazing.
00:43:26.940 You know, it's interesting. I heard this, um, I heard about this study that, that was done and
00:43:33.140 they interviewed these people and they said, all right, look, you can make, and I'm using
00:43:38.820 arbitrary numbers here, but you can make a hundred thousand dollars a year, but everybody around you,
00:43:45.020 your neighborhood, the people in your neighborhood are going to be, maybe be making $110,000 a year.
00:43:49.320 Or you can make $90,000 a year. So you'll make $10,000 less, but everybody around you will be
00:43:57.260 making $85,000 a year. And the majority of respondents chose to make less money simply
00:44:05.180 because they were making more than their neighbors. Like this is, this is crazy. This is crazy stuff that
00:44:12.700 people do. It's, it's gotta be hardwired into a somehow and it becomes an enemy. It's crazy to me.
00:44:19.100 Do you know, I think, I think I know why this is, I have a theory. I have a theory on this.
00:44:23.640 And my theory is, uh, so if I'm not an evolutionary biologist nor psychologist,
00:44:28.280 but if I'm going to take that sort of lens, I think it's because for the majority of humanity
00:44:36.000 and in most of the sort of natural world and the animal world, stuff is generally more zero sum.
00:44:45.240 Scarce.
00:44:46.060 Yes. Yeah. The stuff is normally scarce and zero sum. So in, in the past, or, you know, if you watch
00:44:52.800 these animal documentaries or whatever, it's like, okay, if this leopard has this territory,
00:44:57.440 that means that another leopard can't have, you know, that, that sort of depriving another leopard
00:45:06.060 or another animal of this particular territory. Right. So I think, I think we're still wired to
00:45:11.600 think that everything is scarce. I think that scarcity mindset is literally hardwired in most
00:45:17.840 human beings. So the idea that, okay, if that guy, if that guy has 10 apples and I have three,
00:45:24.580 that must mean that he's depriving me of apples. You see what I mean? Right. Right. I think it's
00:45:31.120 still wired that way. Cause if you imagine, okay, imagine you had a tribe, a tribe of 30 people.
00:45:36.680 Okay. And, um, someone that you, you, you, you cook a meal. Okay. And, or you have a loaf of bread.
00:45:44.180 Let me make it simple. You have, you have a loaf of bread. Okay. And you need to share this loaf of
00:45:48.380 bread amongst all the people. If someone comes and eats half of it, like you're angry, right?
00:45:56.160 Sure. Of course. Cause you, cause you, cause they've deprived the rest of the people of the rest of it.
00:46:04.220 So I think a lot of people think of money, especially in that same way. So they think,
00:46:12.020 Oh, well, if this guy has as much as 50% of the population, that must mean they think of it like
00:46:20.420 bread, right? They think, Oh, that must mean he has taken our share. So that's why you hear people
00:46:26.680 saying things like fair share, right? Oh, that's not, that's not their fair share or whatever. And I'm
00:46:30.420 like, you're not talking about a finite limited resource. You're talking about something that
00:46:36.360 is, is created and is always is growing and is expanding. We won't get into the whole banking
00:46:41.080 system. That's a whole nother thing. But, but you know, the, the GDP is constantly increasing.
00:46:46.260 Yes, of course. It's constantly increasing. Um, one person being a billionaire doesn't mean you can't
00:46:51.760 also become a billionaire or whatever. In fact, it's probably easier because one person did it.
00:46:57.000 I like your apple scenario. You talk about the guy who has 10 and the guy who has three and the guy
00:47:01.200 who has three says, well, that guy has 10. So what did he do to get those 10 at my expense?
00:47:06.220 What he doesn't realize is the guy who has 10 figured out a new way to cross pollinate trees or
00:47:13.180 to grow it genetically so that the apple tree bears 120% more fruit than it did before, right? That's
00:47:20.880 what they're not taking into consideration. And that's what it is when we talk about Bezos and we
00:47:25.200 talk about Zuckerberg is these guys figured out a way to leverage technology in order to create a
00:47:31.760 bigger pie. You take those people out of the world. That's negatively going to impact everybody. Look,
00:47:38.520 if we didn't have Amazon, like there was a time where we didn't have Amazon. Yeah. There was a time
00:47:44.280 when we didn't have Facebook. Yeah. I was talking to my wife the other day because we were watching
00:47:47.500 an old show and somebody was punching away at one of these old computers. And I said, look at that
00:47:50.920 thing. And she's like, did you ever use that? I said, yeah. When I was like in eighth grade,
00:47:54.460 I used a computer. Like that's not that long ago. Oh no, not at all, man. Not at all, dude.
00:47:59.700 I mean, it's crazy to think how far we've come. Yeah. I mean, I think, uh, you're in your thirties,
00:48:04.840 I presume? Yes. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, yeah. So I think, you know, we, we've both lived through this
00:48:10.200 interesting period where actually you've seen huge shifts in technology. Definitely. So if you talk to
00:48:17.880 teenagers now, or even people in their early twenties, they don't remember the pre-internet
00:48:21.580 world. Some of them don't even remember the pre-social media world. If you talk to people
00:48:25.820 who are kind of in their, you know, 30 plus kind of between 30 and 50, they've seen, or, you know,
00:48:32.140 I don't mean 30 and 50, 30 plus generally they've seen all of these shifts. Right. So I remember
00:48:39.100 like I'm, I'm, I'm in my early thirties and I remember when you couldn't render a circle on a
00:48:46.040 computer screen, right? They didn't have the pixels to render a circle. Yeah. It was just
00:48:50.720 blocks. It was like squares. Maybe at the best you get like a hexagon or an octagon. And that would
00:48:55.020 be the closest you could get to a circle. Right. So you've gone from that and the old, um, you
00:49:00.620 remember the Atari? Yeah. Atari computers. I've still got one at home, man. Oh, awesome, man. So yeah,
00:49:06.480 you've gone from that to, uh, Xbox one and PS4 and PC gaming where you can now see like the pores on
00:49:15.560 people's faces and sweat, you know, you're playing a sports game. You can see the sweat dripping down
00:49:20.460 people. That's, that's just been in like 30 years. That's crazy. That's not, that's like a third of a
00:49:27.880 lifetime. Yeah. And I just think that that is insane. You remember the, um, I remember when people
00:49:33.780 didn't have, like when people first started getting email addresses and people, oh, what's the point of
00:49:37.800 email? I don't think this thing's going to take off or whatever. Yeah. I did that with Facebook.
00:49:41.540 I had a buddy who was telling me about Facebook and I'm like, that's stupid. You know, in fact,
00:49:45.160 I remember a story. So our, uh, uh, an experience I had, I was in Iraq, this was in 2005 and I was in
00:49:52.580 our, in our office building there in Iraq. And, uh, one of our captains was punching away at the
00:49:59.200 computer and I'm like, you know, what are you doing? He's like, oh, I'm writing my blog. And I'm like,
00:50:03.180 what the hell's a blog? And he's like, oh, you just like write your experiences and share your
00:50:07.440 stories. I'm like, that's stupid. Nobody cares about what you're doing. And like, here I am
00:50:12.220 doing the exact same thing in a little different format, you know, 10 years, 15 years later. Um,
00:50:17.360 yeah, it's pretty, it's pretty wild how far we've come and it's amazing too. It's amazing.
00:50:21.580 Dude. It's incredible. Mobile phones. People forget, dude, you know, the very first iPhone came out
00:50:26.880 only 13 years ago. Is that right? 2006, I think. Yeah. The very first iPhone was 2006. Now everybody
00:50:36.220 has some form of smartphone and some level of addiction to it. Right. Like that, that wasn't
00:50:44.400 even a thing. I mean, you went from, I remember when mobile phones period weren't a thing. I remember my
00:50:50.380 first sister was the first person in our family to get one. Yeah. Maybe that was like, Hmm, it'd be
00:50:55.740 like 21, 22 years ago or so. Yeah. And I think I got one when I, in, in maybe like 99 or two,
00:51:04.020 like 2000, I think is when I got my first mobile phone. Yeah. Yeah. Isn't it crazy that 2000 is 20
00:51:09.060 years ago? Yeah. That, that's what's wild. I'm like, man, I can't like, how is it that,
00:51:13.560 how is it that I graduated high school 20 years ago? He goes so fast. Yeah. But so yeah, man,
00:51:20.220 the world is, the world is fascinating and it's, uh, I don't know if you do this, but I'm, I'm so
00:51:25.500 intrigued to just think of what the future is going to be like. And sometimes I also wonder
00:51:32.300 how far along are we? I mean, we could still be really, really primitive in the grand scheme of
00:51:36.280 things. Yeah, no doubt. I mean, yeah. So depending on how long. Are you generally optimistic?
00:51:41.080 Are you pessimistic? Like, like generally speaking, where would you fall on that scale
00:51:45.940 about where we're going as a society? Are you talking sort of modern Western society or
00:51:51.860 yes? Yeah. Well, uh, maybe both, maybe both. Okay. Modern Western society. I think I am,
00:52:01.340 I am optimistic technologically. I'm somewhat pessimistic morally and spiritually. Not
00:52:14.120 totally. Not totally. I think there's certain things that have gotten way, way, way better.
00:52:18.360 We live in far less bigoted, you know, far less racist, sexist, homophobic, whatever times
00:52:24.080 than decades ago. No question. Um, but the way certain things I'm seeing going now, I do,
00:52:31.520 I hope it's just like a phase and people look back and are like, Ooh, what was going on in sort of
00:52:37.380 between, what would you, what'd you be referring to? Like what pornography, drug abuse, uh, sexualization
00:52:44.820 of everything? Like what is it that you're referring to? All the above the breakdown of family,
00:52:49.980 the breakdown of divorces, the whole, um, the falling back into identity politics and people
00:52:59.020 starting to look at each other again, based on their race and their sex, rather than the content
00:53:03.760 of their character. Like it was almost like you were almost there. And then it got started getting
00:53:07.860 worse again. I'm concerned about that. I'm concerned about, um, some of this, uh, you know,
00:53:13.220 gender ideology stuff and people, uh, putting their children on hormones and doing all, all that,
00:53:22.380 that whole world of stuff concerns me, the sexualization of children and seeing some of
00:53:28.200 the stuff that they're starting to push in academia and in school curriculums and all that kind of stuff.
00:53:33.640 So when I say morally, I have some concerns, that's the sort of level that I'm, I'm speaking at.
00:53:41.500 Like I said, I do hope it's, it's just a short term phase and people are like, Oh, okay. Now I'm
00:53:46.540 like, what were we doing there? That was, yeah, it seems like that was a bad idea.
00:53:50.360 Generally throughout most of, most of societies in history that we have a way of correcting our
00:53:54.940 behavior. Sometimes it's, it's very painful. It doesn't have to be, but sometimes it is,
00:53:59.520 but generally it seems to me that we get back on course and, and continue to push forward.
00:54:04.800 Um, and, and, and people have a way of course correcting as needed.
00:54:08.240 Yeah, exactly. I think we, we might be good. Just going through an overcorrection.
00:54:11.820 Sure. So I think, you know, some of that stuff, okay, there were these issues in the past and now
00:54:16.020 it's overcorrecting and it needs to kind of get reined back in to just hang on now. Maybe, uh,
00:54:22.560 maybe some of these ideas are kind of ludicrous and don't make sense and aren't rooted in reality.
00:54:27.940 Right. Um, and that does concern me because also, and also the fact that it seems to lots of those
00:54:36.000 ideologies and even some of the political stuff, it seems to be replacing religion for a lot of
00:54:41.540 people. And I think that you're getting people moving away from thinking that we've outgrown
00:54:47.220 traditional religions and we don't need all that stuff, but that sort of is creating a vacuum
00:54:52.820 for other stuff, which I believe personally to be more insidious to kind of replace that not for
00:55:00.140 everybody, but for enough people that it causes a problem. And I think that that's,
00:55:04.880 what's causing quite a lot of problems right now. You, uh, you, you know, you know, Tanner Guzzi,
00:55:09.900 right? Do you follow him on social media? Yeah. So he had made an interesting post on Twitter the
00:55:14.340 other day and he says, you know, really people never leave religion. They just change who and
00:55:18.860 what they worship. I thought that was really interesting. And I think that's fair. That's
00:55:22.240 totally true. Yeah. Yeah. No, look, if everyone has a, there's something that everyone puts a top
00:55:27.780 value on. And for most religious people, that is simply God, right? So what's, what's the top,
00:55:33.880 what's the greatest thing out there that exists? That's the top priority. That's of most importance.
00:55:38.740 What God, simple, easy answer. If that's not someone's answer, then it might be money. It might
00:55:46.440 be sex, sex, power, right? It might be fun. It might be power. It might be, um, I don't know,
00:55:53.240 their diet. It could be some, the climate, climate change, freedom or Liberty, you know,
00:55:57.460 they, yeah, exactly. Expensive other things. Sure. Yeah. And, and, and these things do have their
00:56:01.520 excesses. So regardless of what someone personally thinks about, you know, belief in God or faith or
00:56:06.320 religion or whatever, um, I do believe there are certainly, um, there are people who can be totally
00:56:14.440 fine without, uh, any religion. I, I, I kind of feel like atheism works on an individual level.
00:56:22.300 I'm not sold on it on a large scale collective level. What do you mean by works? How, like,
00:56:28.040 how would you define, define that individually? If somebody is an atheist, what do you mean that
00:56:31.100 would work? Yeah. So what I mean is that say someone is an atheist and they live in the UK or they live
00:56:38.040 in the USA, right? Um, there's enough structure and history and rules and laws and regulations and
00:56:47.880 people who actually are religious to kind of keep everybody mostly on the same page. Sure. Okay.
00:56:56.180 Do you see what I mean? Right. Definitely. Yeah. So it's fine. So if, if you kind of got someone,
00:57:01.840 I almost view, you can almost have people who are kind of like Christian atheists by which I mean,
00:57:08.880 they are not Christians and they don't believe in, you know, Christianity and the Bible, but in terms
00:57:15.500 of what their actual morals and ethics are, they've adopted that moral principle. Exactly. They've
00:57:21.080 adopted that framework from their society and other people around them and all the history from thousands
00:57:27.840 of years that have come up through that sort of, uh, Judeo Christian route, shall we say more of a
00:57:33.160 cultural morality is where they feel that are getting that from rather than exactly God or a
00:57:37.340 higher power. Exactly. So some people, some, some, you know, I've spoken to atheists and some of them
00:57:41.580 with themselves will recognize that their values do stem originally from Christianity. Others will say,
00:57:46.740 no, they don't. This is, I've just reasoned this out myself and whatever, but I don't believe the
00:57:51.340 latter to be true because if it were, then why would your, why would their values be a lot closer
00:57:58.440 to mine? I'm exactly me being a Christian than to someone in, you know, another part of the world
00:58:04.840 or from a different culture or something like that. The only reason you could say that is because,
00:58:09.340 and this would be the argument is that morality is just somehow hardwired into us, right? As opposed
00:58:14.800 to, it's not, it's not societally constructed. It's not derived from God. It's just like morality,
00:58:18.900 like hardwired into us. I guess that's what somebody would say.
00:58:22.180 Well, history doesn't seem to show that.
00:58:24.520 Well, I, I agree. I think, I think it comes from a higher power. Yeah. I think it's directed
00:58:29.320 from God. Yeah. Well, so, so that's what I mean. I think, so I think on an individual level,
00:58:34.200 yeah, totally fine. Can atheists be moral people? Of course. Absolutely. No doubt.
00:58:37.680 People always jump to this thing. Oh, are you saying you need, I'm like, no, I'm not saying you need
00:58:40.920 religion to be moral. I'm just, you know, that's not the point that is being made here. So there,
00:58:46.980 there's that, but I question on a, on a larger scale. Okay. Let's, let's say for example,
00:58:53.760 I mean, I think, I don't know, let's just pretend all of the USA were atheists. Okay. And there's no,
00:59:03.620 there's no, there's no common thread. What does, like, again, I think now that you've already got
00:59:11.980 all the, all the history and you've already got stuff sort of set up in a certain way and it's
00:59:16.240 taken a long time to get there. I think in the short term that would kind of continue to work
00:59:21.080 and stuff wouldn't really change. However, in the longterm, I'm talking, you know, hundreds,
00:59:26.580 potentially, yeah, certain, let's say hundreds of years. What is the, what is the source
00:59:33.960 of some of the stuff that's not so, not so obvious? I don't just mean like thou shalt,
00:59:41.100 thou shalt not kill, thou shalt not steal. Right. I think you can, right. I think you can derive
00:59:44.700 those from a lot of places. And that seems to be the case because across the board in different
00:59:48.440 cultures, where there are exceptions, most people do seem to come reach that same conclusion,
00:59:54.820 but there's a lot of other stuff, right? Like why, why is adultery wrong?
00:59:59.380 Mm-hmm. You see what I mean? Sure. Yeah. That's a, that's a gray area for a lot of people. Yeah.
01:00:05.020 Yeah. Why would adultery be wrong? Why is lying wrong if it doesn't directly hurt somebody?
01:00:10.740 Right. So maybe lying. Go ahead. Sorry. Yeah. Yeah. So like in, in that world, I'm like,
01:00:15.680 why would lying be wrong? Why would, why would adultery be, be wrong? Why would, you know,
01:00:20.520 there's, it sort of opens a box to question a whole bunch of stuff and to, to make a whole bunch of
01:00:28.700 logically, rationally, I guess, consistent arguments that we, to, to, to warrant some
01:00:37.540 things that I think we would generally deem to be immoral in our current framework. Sure. Do you
01:00:43.620 see what I mean? It's sort of, it sort of opens that. And I think given enough time, I could see
01:00:48.300 that really, really unraveling. I mean, I'm, I'm, I'm seeing it happening now. I see people making
01:00:52.980 arguments for things, which to me are just obviously immoral, right? But people are trying to,
01:00:58.240 argue them and rationalize them in certain ways. Um, I think they're basing it off of
01:01:06.300 their own personal gain. And usually in, in, from my perspective, it seems like that gain is short
01:01:11.600 lived. For example, I'm going to step out on my wife and I'm going to rationalize that or justify
01:01:15.640 that because I get to have sex with this other woman who I'm physically attracted to. Well, short
01:01:20.120 term, it's like, sweet. Sounds awesome to me. You get to, you know, you get to have sex with this
01:01:24.540 other, you know, attractive woman and, and there's excitement and some risk and some adventure in
01:01:29.580 that. Long-term, however, there's going to be some guilt. There's going to be some remorse.
01:01:35.360 There's going to be some animosity between you and your spouse. There's probably going to be some
01:01:39.120 contention between the mistress. What if she doesn't find out?
01:01:43.480 I still think wrong. Well, I think from, from your own personal guilt, right? Your own, your own guilt.
01:01:49.460 Why would you be guilty? Why would you, you didn't think it was wrong, right? If you didn't
01:01:54.520 think it was wrong, why would you feel any guilt? Uh, I think to answer your question, because, well,
01:02:01.000 I believe it's because morality isn't constructed. So, you know, you would know, even, I don't think
01:02:07.900 you'd be able to convince yourself that it wasn't wrong because it isn't constructed. It's coming from
01:02:12.920 somewhere else. I think some people do though. Like using this real example, I do legitimately think
01:02:18.660 there's people who, you know, men and women who do that and in their own world and in their own
01:02:26.040 brain, they don't, there's, there's that guilt and shame isn't even there because they've rationalized
01:02:32.500 in their own mind that there was nothing. That's, there's nothing wrong with that. No, there's
01:02:36.880 nothing, there's nothing wrong with it. So like, why would they, to feel guilt, you have to think
01:02:42.440 you've done something wrong. Yeah, that's a good point. I definitely think there'll be some trust
01:02:45.700 issues because here's what, here's my thought with that is that if you're cheating on your,
01:02:49.240 your partner, for example, then where else are you cheating in life? And the long-term implication
01:02:55.000 of that is people aren't going to trust you because they're going to find you out, right? You're
01:02:57.680 cheating business partners, you're cheating yourself, and they're going to see that and
01:03:01.560 they're going to be repelled by that long-term. This is why, uh, Jordan Peterson, I think a podcast
01:03:06.200 I was just listening to talked about, uh, con artists and the fact that they, or, or even serial
01:03:12.600 killers and people who take advantage of others, they have to drift. They have to, because they
01:03:18.780 can't isolate themselves to one place because people find them out and don't trust them. They
01:03:22.320 can't then socialize. So they have to drift that way. This is an interesting conversation for sure.
01:03:27.320 Yeah, yeah, certainly. And then here's another one. This is, this is a biggie and this is not an
01:03:31.580 argument that someone should believe in God, but this is just a real talk here, which is that I believe
01:03:39.800 that a society that does not in general as a collective is ripe for a takeover from one that
01:03:48.160 does. Hmm. Explain that. What I mean is, look, if you've got, so whether or not people, again,
01:03:56.600 whether or not people are religious or not, religion is one of the things that binds people into a tribal
01:04:01.860 identity, gives them a sense of meaning, a sense of purpose, a sense of, um, you know, collective
01:04:07.500 looking out for, for sure. Yeah. Looking out for their neighbors and everything like that. Okay.
01:04:12.280 It's an important fabric layer on top of a society. And if that is removed and people are,
01:04:20.460 as a result, far more individualistic and fragmented and everyone is almost making up
01:04:24.780 their own morals, right? People have their own, we're not all singing from the same hymn sheet
01:04:29.040 anymore. People have their own ideas of what is right and wrong. This person thinks adultery is bad,
01:04:33.300 but that group there thinks it's fine. These people think that's fine. These people think that's
01:04:37.220 okay. And people just become really atomized. Then I do think, and again, I think, I think history
01:04:44.940 does show this. If you look at some of the, some of the, you know, admittedly brutal stuff that's
01:04:49.640 happened in terms of religious expansion and takeovers and things like that is, I think a culture
01:04:56.780 that is like that and is totally atomized is potentially open to a hostile group of people
01:05:06.160 who are maybe not even hostile. Like, so, you know, it doesn't even need to be hostile, right? You
01:05:11.740 could just outbreed people or whatever. Um, yeah, but I think it, I think it opens for, I think even
01:05:17.780 from an evolutionary perspective, and I've heard some evolutionary biologists talk about this is
01:05:22.560 they think that, um, belief in religion in itself is, or the propensity for it is also an evolved
01:05:31.440 trait. So those people who, the reason most people still believe in God is because believing in God or
01:05:39.580 being open to the idea of religion actually is some, some kind of survival mechanism throughout the
01:05:48.780 thousands of years of human history. I mean, it's a code of conduct. Really, if we strip everything
01:05:54.600 else away, it's a, it's a, it's a code of the way that we live. Yeah. And, and it, and it, and it does
01:05:59.120 rally people together. And I think like, look, if you had, um, okay, let, let, let's, let's, let's have
01:06:03.720 a, let, let's, let me give an example. Say you had a, say you had two warring nations. So you have
01:06:12.600 two, say you have two nations and one of them is just atomized and has no common religion nor belief
01:06:22.900 and they're equal. And the other one does. And all other things are equal. I am putting my money in
01:06:32.300 that war on the one that shares a common religion. Right. Makes sense. There is, they have a unity,
01:06:39.180 they have a cohesiveness, they have a purpose, they have a meaning, they have a cohesiveness,
01:06:42.980 they have a reason, they have a will that will just be absent in the other group. And so that's
01:06:52.260 not like, uh, you know, I'm not trying to, this is, this isn't me trying to like cast down the line
01:06:56.360 and make some sort of doomsday prediction or whatever. But, um, I think that's just a reality
01:07:01.380 of it. And we were talking before about human beings being tribal and, you know, warring with each
01:07:07.380 other and having battles, whether that's physical or, you know, on all these different levels or
01:07:11.480 whatever. And that is a, you know, it's an, it's an ongoing real thing. I think it would be lovely
01:07:16.760 if in the world, everyone can just chill and stop fighting and we don't have any more wars and no
01:07:20.820 more violence or anything. Um, but until we reach this utopia, it is, um, it is a real thing. People
01:07:27.480 do battle over ideologies, whether that's, uh, capitalism versus communism or, uh, Christianity versus
01:07:35.360 Islam or East versus West or what, you know, not Nazism versus non-Nazism, like whatever,
01:07:44.420 whatever those lines are across, that is just something that, um, you know, it's just an
01:07:49.600 unfortunate reality of human beings. So to come back to the original question, that's what I mean
01:07:54.400 when I sort of say, I think that atheism can work on an individual level and, and does work for,
01:08:00.220 for a lot of people, not for everybody, for, for a lot of people. Um, but I have some,
01:08:05.860 a lot of doubts and concerns about this idea that cause some people have this idea that if you
01:08:13.080 removed religion, that the world would just be a better place. Sure. Yeah. And I can, I can, I can,
01:08:19.980 I can understand some of their points. Cause you know, of course, like I said, you know, wars have been
01:08:23.780 fought over it and, you know, people do fight over this and whatever, but I think that that's quite
01:08:29.440 myopic. I think that those people are thinking, okay, well it works for me and I'm a decent person,
01:08:34.660 but I think they're sort of discounting the billions and billions of people across the world
01:08:41.140 of different, different cultures and value systems and whatever, that if you pulled that rug out from
01:08:47.080 them, right. You pulled out that support system and community and belief and meaning and purpose.
01:08:53.440 Mm-hmm. I think people think, oh, well, everyone will just rationalize and believe in science and
01:08:59.000 go along with what I personally, and I'm just like, no, man, I don't think that's going to happen.
01:09:04.160 They won't. You'll just create a vacuum for either, you know, I mean, dude, what do, what do,
01:09:10.580 what do fascist dictators do when, when they, when they want to seize power? They get rid of religion.
01:09:17.700 Sure. Yeah. Right. Why, why, why? Because that's an opposing force against them as, as the, uh, the
01:09:24.220 worshiped, the idol, if you will. Dude, it's hard to, it's hard to be a good Nazi if you're also a
01:09:28.400 good Christian. Yeah. Right. You see what I mean? It's hard, hard to be a, hard to be a good communist
01:09:32.640 Stalinist if you still are clinging to the, you know, basic tenets and teachings of Jesus or what,
01:09:40.980 what Buddhism or whatever the case may be. So there is a reason why they systematically,
01:09:46.180 you know, when those people took power, why they systematically dismantled the religious
01:09:51.380 institutions and were very hostile towards the church and religious people. Uh, that's not
01:09:56.020 accidental. So, and I, it's also not accidental that if you look at a lot of the people who are
01:10:01.020 pushing like some of the most bizarre ideas in society right now, which to me are, are way more
01:10:06.000 crazy than, um, lots of things you'll, than anything you'll, you'll find in, uh, some holy books
01:10:11.060 is they're, they're also, um, it tends to be irreligious, irreligious people. Well, in the
01:10:18.740 traditional sense. Right. You see what I mean? It's hard, it's quite hard to find like, um, a
01:10:24.380 Christian or a Muslim or an Orthodox Jew or whatever, who's like hyper woke and doesn't, you know,
01:10:31.340 believes that there's infinite, believes in infinite genders and believes that men and women, you see
01:10:36.100 what I mean? Like it's sure. So, so, so someone may think, Oh, these religious people have their
01:10:40.320 crazy ideas, but it's like, well, there's a lot of crazy ideas that religion seems to prevent from,
01:10:50.880 from, from, from, Oh yeah. In, in that way. So, uh, yeah, it's, it's certainly an, it's certainly
01:10:56.800 an interesting conversation. And like I've said, this, this whole thing, this isn't, these are not
01:11:00.980 arguments, uh, sort of, these, these are not reasons that somebody should believe in God if
01:11:09.140 they don't or vice versa. Um, these aren't arguments like this isn't like a, okay, this is why you should
01:11:14.540 be a Christian or whatever. This is just sort of thinking of it on a more sort of sociological
01:11:20.600 human psychological level. Right. Some of the, some of the things to consider, yeah, things to
01:11:26.120 consider, you know, some of them might be right. Some of them might be wrong. Some of them might be
01:11:29.120 partially, partially, right. I don't know. Um, but those are just some of the ideas that are
01:11:33.660 floating around in my head in regards to that. Well, I've got to tell you, man, I love your ideas.
01:11:38.280 That's what's been, uh, it's been fun watching you. Um, it's even cooler to be able to connect
01:11:42.960 and have these types of conversations together. It's been a lot of fun. Hey, I want to ask you a
01:11:46.840 couple of questions, Zuby, as we wind down. Uh, the first one is what does it mean to be a man?
01:11:51.880 Um, adult human male is the technical definition. Uh, beyond that though. Um, I think being a man
01:12:03.840 is, I think it's about protection and provision, both for self and for others. I think that's
01:12:17.820 ultimately what makes a, a good man, shall we say, I think is the ability to, um, protect
01:12:25.500 and to, and not, not just ability, willingness and desire to both provide and protect for yourself
01:12:33.480 and for other people in the role of, you know, whether that's individually or in the role of a
01:12:40.240 husband or as a father or as a brother or a warrior, a creator, a builder, whatever it is.
01:12:46.240 Um, I think the common thread in all of those things is provision and or protection. And I think
01:12:53.880 that a good man is ready, willing, able, and even has some desire to do both of those things
01:13:02.800 as and when necessary. Man, I wholeheartedly agree. I say that, uh, being a biological male is a
01:13:10.080 prerequisite to being a man and then above and beyond that protect, provide preside. So we're very much in
01:13:15.280 alignment on that thought as well. Nice. All right, man. Well, how do we connect with you and learn
01:13:18.560 more about what you're doing? Absolutely. So my website is Zuby music.com. Um, I've got a whole
01:13:24.260 bunch of stuff out there. So of course I'm a, I'm a musician. I've got, uh, eight albums and EPs out
01:13:30.180 there, which are available on iTunes, Spotify, or wherever else you listen. I'm on all social media
01:13:35.960 channels at Zuby music. That is Z-U-B-Y music. If you want to check out my book, strong advice,
01:13:42.120 that's my fitness book or any of my merchandise or music, you can get those at team Zuby.com,
01:13:47.460 T-E-A-M-Z-U-B-Y.com. Right on. We'll sync it all up. We didn't even talk, we didn't talk about
01:13:53.000 music. We didn't talk about strength and condition. We've got so much more to talk about, man. And I'm
01:13:57.240 sure we'll do a round two at some point. Hey, I got to tell you, I appreciate you. I like your
01:14:01.660 thoughts. Um, I like that you're willing to say what needs to be said, or at least what's on your
01:14:05.960 mind. That's refreshing and, uh, really appreciate the conversation today. All good, man. I appreciate it.
01:14:12.120 Gents. There you go. My conversation with Zuby. I hope you enjoyed it a little bit different.
01:14:15.880 Like I said, than some of the podcasts that we've done in the past, but man, what a worthwhile
01:14:19.700 conversation, something that's very, very important, uh, to have that discussion. And maybe you agreed
01:14:25.060 with everything that we talked about. And maybe you agree with nothing more likely you agree with
01:14:29.020 some of, and don't agree with others, but we'd love to finish up the conversation. That's what this
01:14:33.380 podcast was all about. Having these critical, critical discussions and doing them intelligently
01:14:37.720 using reasoning and logic and rationale and history and everything else that goes into helping us make
01:14:44.560 informed decisions and moving us down the path that, uh, will serve us well. And again, humanity
01:14:49.500 well, uh, connect with me on Twitter at Ryan Mickler, as well as Zuby Zuby music. I believe he did
01:14:55.900 mention what those links were just a minute ago. Zuby music, uh, on Twitter and, uh, see what this guy's
01:15:01.700 all about. I think you're going to like him as much as I do. Uh, outside of that, please leave a rating
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01:15:25.560 back and putting it in its rightful place. So I'm glad that you're here. I'm glad that you're tuned
01:15:31.100 in. Could not do it without you. This is a mission. This is a movement. Therefore we need as many men
01:15:35.280 in the battle. And, uh, I'm honored to be standing shoulder to shoulder with you in that.
01:15:38.980 All right, guys, we'll let you go for, uh, for the day. We'll be back tomorrow for Kip and I's
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