Order of Man - January 17, 2020


The Single Greatest Strategy for Planning Out Your Year | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES


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In this episode, Ryan talks about the single greatest strategy he has ever developed for planning out his year and making it the most successful that it can possibly be. He also talks about how you can implement this strategy in your own life.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 You're a man of action. You live life to the fullest, embrace your fears, and boldly chart
00:00:05.000 your own path. When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time, every time.
00:00:10.440 You are not easily deterred or defeated, rugged, resilient, strong. This is your life. This is who
00:00:17.240 you are. This is who you will become. At the end of the day, and after all is said and done,
00:00:22.800 you can call yourself a man. Gentlemen, what is going on today? My name is Ryan
00:00:27.500 Mickler, and I am the host and the founder of the podcast and the movement that is Order
00:00:31.360 of Man. I want to welcome you back to the show or here for the first time. This is going
00:00:35.900 to be a powerful resource for you, whether you're tuning in for the very first time or
00:00:39.260 been with us for any amount of time to help you become a more capable, more independent,
00:00:45.680 more assertive, strong, sovereign, father, husband, business owner, community leader,
00:00:51.520 basically a better man. That's what we're all about here. So we're bringing you these
00:00:55.140 conversations. We've got our Facebook group, which can be found at facebook.com slash groups
00:01:00.220 slash order of man. We've got our exclusive brotherhood, the iron council, which through
00:01:05.020 the month of January, halfway through the month anyways, has really continued to grow. And it's
00:01:10.100 a testament to what we're doing there and the power of banding together with other men who
00:01:14.360 are motivated and inspired and are taking big action in their lives. So if you want to check
00:01:19.560 that out, you can head to order of man.com slash iron council. We've got a great one lined
00:01:25.220 up for you today. We've got this show, which is your Friday field notes. Some of my thoughts
00:01:28.400 from throughout the week. And a lot of the inspiration that I get for these conversations
00:01:31.780 comes from the Facebook group. Like I mentioned earlier, uh, then, uh, we've got our interview
00:01:36.420 show. I'm interviewing guys like Jocko Willink and Andy Frisilla and Tim Kennedy and David
00:01:42.940 Goggins, Dakota Meyer, Pete Roberts. The list and the lineup is incredible of the men that
00:01:47.840 we have on who have banded with us to some degree and believe in the mission of reclaiming,
00:01:51.920 restoring masculinity. And then of course, we've got our ask me anything show where we
00:01:56.300 are fielding questions, both myself and Kip Sorensen, uh, from you guys. So we've got a lot
00:02:02.140 going on. Make sure you subscribe and make sure you share this because as I look in the
00:02:05.900 news and see what's going on in the world, it's apparent to me that, uh, there is certainly
00:02:10.420 a dismissal of masculinity and, uh, it's my job to help lead the charge and lead the fight
00:02:15.920 in reclaiming and restoring it. So, uh, that's it by way of announcements. I want to get into
00:02:21.540 the conversation today. Today, we're going to be talking about planning your year. Now
00:02:27.580 I realize we're a couple of weeks into 2020 already, but many of you are thinking about
00:02:32.260 planning the rest of the year or have started or tried something else and it doesn't seem
00:02:36.720 to be working. So I'm going to give you the single greatest strategy that I have ever
00:02:41.540 found and then developed and articulated for planning out your year and making it the most
00:02:47.580 successful that it can possibly be. Now I know that I'm a bit biased as I have this conversation
00:02:51.880 because I'm going to talk with you today about this planner. And if you're not following us
00:02:56.940 on YouTube, you can't see what I'm holding up right now. This is actually the 12 week battle
00:03:00.820 planner that we have created that has helped me accomplish more, uh, in my life than I ever
00:03:06.160 have prior to using a tool like this. Now, look, I know that we have this resource available,
00:03:11.400 but if you just want to take notes today and you don't want to use the accompanying battle
00:03:16.600 planner, that's, that's fine. Just take some notes and implement this in your life because
00:03:21.140 it has the power to transform what you are doing, how much you're doing, and then the results
00:03:26.880 that you're experiencing in four key areas. So as I go through the conversation in the podcast
00:03:31.780 today, I'm going to share with you exactly what I do personally to plan out not only my
00:03:38.480 year, but I do it in 12 week segments. We'll get into that in a minute and then share with
00:03:42.760 you how you can do the exact same thing. So let's, uh, let's just do a quick overview first.
00:03:48.920 Um, again, this is the battle planner right here. If you want to use this, you can go into
00:03:52.840 store.orderofman.com and check it out. Uh, we've offered a ton of these and sold a ton of these
00:03:59.180 because I think men are finding the value in this, but again, you, I don't know if you can
00:04:03.520 really may be able to see that. There it is. Yep. So basically what it does when I break this down,
00:04:10.300 and if you have a sheet of paper, then get it out because this'll help you create your own plan.
00:04:15.120 If you're not going to use this is breaking it, break that sheet of paper into four,
00:04:19.020 four quadrants, if you will. So on the top left, you're going to have your daily non-negotiables.
00:04:23.880 Now, these are things that you're going to be doing on a daily basis without fail, without
00:04:29.120 hesitation. Every single day you do these things and there's a place where you can check it off
00:04:33.880 for each day of the week. So that might be journaling or visualizing or reading or doing
00:04:40.240 scripture study or some sort of exercise, but the things that you do every day that are not
00:04:46.120 negotiable, put those in and there's power and actually checking it off every single day,
00:04:50.920 stating that you indeed have done it. And the idea is you look at this chart at the end of the week
00:04:55.420 and see that every single box is checked. If that's all you did, if that's all you did in
00:05:00.960 your life and in your planning, you would accomplish more in the next 90 days than probably you ever have
00:05:05.360 in any other 90 day period in your life. But that's not all the next segment. So put this on the bottom
00:05:10.440 left is you're going to have your daily tasks. All right. Just have a list of daily tasks. Now,
00:05:15.160 these tasks are the things that need to get accomplished throughout the day. It might be doing a podcast
00:05:19.380 or making a call or scheduling an event or scheduling a doctor's appointment, but these
00:05:24.860 are the things that you need to do today that you need to accomplish in order to move the ball.
00:05:31.540 And what I've noticed is that, you know, in fact, I don't know if there's ever a day that I've got
00:05:36.740 through every single thing that's been on my daily task list. And that's, that's not really that
00:05:41.200 important because this is a weekly planner. Now you want to get as much done as possible, but the idea
00:05:47.120 is that you have it documented what needs to be done, that it's no longer bouncing around in your
00:05:51.500 brain, that it's actually on paper. It's documented. You can go into that list and see what needs to be
00:05:56.880 done. And just because you write it down and have access to it, you're going to be significantly more
00:06:01.600 efficient than had you not written it down at all. So the system that I use for my daily tasks
00:06:08.120 are writing those tasks down. Now, if I start a task, I'm going to put one, one diagonal line
00:06:14.560 in front of it. Just one half of the, of the X that I use to check it off. If I've completed that
00:06:20.160 task, then I go ahead and complete that X. So that way I know, okay, well, I started this one because
00:06:24.900 there's things that you're going to do that, that you can't accomplish all in one shot. Maybe you have
00:06:31.020 to make a phone call to somebody and that's for an important meeting. Well, okay. Put a one line in
00:06:36.840 front of it stating that you did make the call. You weren't able to complete and schedule that meeting
00:06:41.220 when that individual calls you back, or you call that individual back and you are able to schedule
00:06:45.440 the meeting, then you can go ahead and check it off. And then what I do at the end of every single
00:06:50.680 day is I look and see, okay, here's what I got accomplished. Here's what I didn't. Here's what I
00:06:54.360 need to do tomorrow. Here's how I need to prioritize tomorrow and make sure that I get the most important
00:06:59.280 things accomplished throughout the day. And again, it's all right here. It's all documented. It's all
00:07:04.100 right in front of me. Now the next component of this, this is going to be on the right side of your
00:07:09.600 column. This is going to be a little bit difficult to draft, but I think what I'll do instead of just
00:07:14.540 telling you how to write this out is explain what we have created here, which is the 12 week battle
00:07:21.300 plan. And that's the meat of the discussion today is how do you plan out a 12 week segment? And I'll
00:07:28.160 tell you why it's important that you plan in 12 weeks. It's what most people do is they'll plan out
00:07:34.440 their year. In fact, I get a lot of questions from guys who say, well, Ryan, what's your,
00:07:37.740 what's your one year goal and what's your one year strategy or what's your goal for the next three
00:07:42.200 or five years? I have a general idea of where we'd like to go, but I don't have specific goals over
00:07:47.320 that timeframe because too much can happen over a period of 12 months. And all of a sudden you spend
00:07:53.200 all this time creating this 12 month vision and these 12 month goals. And it just doesn't happen
00:07:58.740 because priorities change and life changes and there's new circumstances and new information and
00:08:04.400 things become more important. And other things become less important over that timeframe.
00:08:08.360 The other reason that it's not beneficial in my experience to plan over a year is because you're
00:08:15.120 probably going to lose interest. I mean, let's face it. Like we, we are distracted. We think
00:08:20.920 change all the time. We have different goals and desires and ambitions and aspirations. And if you're
00:08:28.180 planning for a 12 month period, it's easy to become discouraged. It's easy to believe that the work
00:08:34.120 you're doing is too monotonous to continue to drive on. And it becomes boring, mundane and tiresome.
00:08:40.260 Now I realized there are going to be some things that are going to go beyond 12 months, but I would
00:08:44.580 suggest that you take those, those items that do go beyond 12 months or, or 12 weeks, I should say,
00:08:50.480 and you break them into quarterly goals. You break them into 12 week goals. And the reason that's
00:08:58.060 valuable is because in a 12 week period, that's enough time to start seeing the results of your work.
00:09:04.120 Then you have to build that up psychologically, physically, mentally, you have to see the results
00:09:10.480 of your effort because it's the results that keep you driving forward. So if you're waiting for a year
00:09:15.800 to produce any sort of desired result, that's too long for you, but a 12 week period, you can still
00:09:21.080 see those results. And the beauty of this is that you're not going to lose interest, likely not going
00:09:25.540 to lose interest over a 12 week period either. So there's some real psychological reasons why breaking
00:09:31.300 it down from five years or three years or, or a year down to a 12 week segment, a quarterly segment
00:09:38.420 has proved to be very, very valuable for me and very valuable for thousands of people who have
00:09:44.540 actually gone through the same planning process, utilizing the 12 week battle planner. So what I want
00:09:50.680 to do is break that down and tell you specifically what that looks like. And there's a few steps when it
00:09:57.860 comes to planning out your next 12 weeks. So this would get you through the first quarter of 2020,
00:10:03.680 the first thing you need to do, which is funny because this is often the most overlooked. And I'm
00:10:09.460 telling you right now that most of you listening, if you decide to implement what I'm sharing with you
00:10:13.660 today, we'll probably skim this or overlook it completely. The first step to the 12 week battle plan
00:10:21.020 is casting vision or you need to have a clearly defined, clearly articulated, emotionally charged,
00:10:30.660 very tangible vision for the type of man that you want to be. What kind of husband do you want to be?
00:10:36.460 What kind of father, business owner, community leader? What's your fitness look like when you walk
00:10:41.200 into a room? How do people respond? If you were to die, heaven forbid, what would people say about you?
00:10:48.580 How would they remember you? What good did you do in your community? What did you look like from a
00:10:53.380 physical, uh, uh, physical health perspective? Like these are all of the things that you need
00:10:58.340 to consider. And I'm not talking about creating goals right here. It's not what I'm referring to.
00:11:03.040 I'm referring to how do you feel? How does it look? What does it look like? And the more senses that
00:11:10.580 you can get involved in your vision about who you want to become. And you do that first,
00:11:16.340 the better off the entire plan is going to be because it's always tying back to this vision
00:11:21.060 of yourself. It's a little bit like Simon Sinek's work, start with why like in his work,
00:11:27.280 he talks about start with the why. Well, the vision could essentially be the why this is the type of
00:11:32.600 man that I want to be. Now, the way that I manifest that the way I turn myself into that type of
00:11:38.700 individual is something we're going to get to here in a minute, but you have to have that vision for
00:11:44.000 yourself first. If you don't have the vision for yourself, you're going to, you're going to phase
00:11:49.780 out. You're going to get bored with what you're doing. It's not going to be as important or relevant
00:11:53.820 to you. And it's going to be more likely that you quit or throw in the towel or just gradually stop
00:11:58.660 doing the work that was actually producing the results. It's gotta be tied into a greater purpose,
00:12:04.780 a greater vision. And I would suggest that you spend a lot of time thinking about the type of man
00:12:11.940 that you want to become, how you feel about yourself, how others perceive you, what kind of
00:12:17.460 results are you producing? What kind of man are you becoming? And you're writing this out, get a
00:12:22.560 journal and write every single day. A lot of guys ask me, how do you journal? Write this, talk about
00:12:28.400 the type of man that you want to become. Maybe even talk about the type of man that you want to become
00:12:32.160 as if you're already him. So you start moving yourself in that direction. So again, step number one
00:12:37.980 is casting vision. Please do not overlook the importance of having a vision. As I get into the
00:12:44.200 rest of this stuff, it's going to be easier than talking about the vision, but easy doesn't translate
00:12:51.720 to productive or effective, which is ultimately what we're after. So spend a lot of time. This isn't
00:12:57.920 a one-time thing. And your vision may change over the course of the 12 week period of working.
00:13:02.260 That's fine. It may change after. This is a dynamic document, a dynamic vision for yourself,
00:13:10.440 and it should change and evolve as you do. So again, step number one, casting your vision.
00:13:16.600 Step number two is you need to now begin to identify four main objectives, not five, not 10,
00:13:25.040 not a hundred. All I want is four out of you. Now, some of you might say, well, that's not enough. I
00:13:29.500 have things, more things I want to accomplish. That's great. And you can, that's why we do this
00:13:33.700 in 12 week segments, because you're going to do the first four, this 12 weeks, and then whatever
00:13:38.080 it evolves to and grows to and, and morphs into and becomes over the next quarter, then you can
00:13:43.680 implement those new plans. And I'm not saying that you're going to forsake everything just so you can
00:13:47.440 do these four things. But I've seen too many guys get spread so thin that because of their
00:13:54.080 objectives that they don't end up doing any of them. It's that old proverb that says the man who
00:13:58.360 chases two rabbits catches none. Okay. I know I'm telling you to catch four or chase four here,
00:14:03.240 but I promise you, I can guarantee you after years and years of doing this, not only in my personal
00:14:08.160 life, but seeing thousands of men go through this planning process as well, is that four is enough.
00:14:14.200 And if it's too much, maybe your goals and your ambitions and your objectives aren't, aren't grand
00:14:18.380 enough, aren't big enough. And maybe you ought to be thinking bigger about your life and what you
00:14:22.660 can accomplish. So four main objectives. Now, those objectives should be in four main categories.
00:14:29.960 Those categories are number one calibration. So this is getting right with yourself. This is about
00:14:37.780 your mental, your emotional, your spiritual wellbeing. And these are things that could from,
00:14:46.500 from the outside looking in, look as if they're selfish and maybe to a degree they are,
00:14:51.000 but we all know that you can't pour from an empty cup. We all know that if you don't take care of
00:14:56.340 yourself and you're only taking care of others, that it won't be long before you burn up and burn
00:15:02.240 out and you can't serve anybody, let alone yourself, your family, the other people that you love and care
00:15:07.920 and have an obligation for. So you have to take care of yourself first. So what does a calibration
00:15:14.340 objective look like? That could be as simple as picking up a new hobby or a new skill. Maybe it's
00:15:21.360 archery or jujitsu or learning to play the guitar or another instrument or picking up a paintbrush or
00:15:28.960 learning to sing. I don't know. I don't know what your thing is. Maybe it's hiking. There's so many
00:15:34.460 different things that it could be, but this is something that is for you alone. Now I'm not saying
00:15:39.180 you can't include other people in on this. You can, and you should. And there's going to be a lot of
00:15:43.400 crossovers between the quadrants that I give you, uh, for your objectives. But again, this is for you
00:15:50.060 alone. For me, I've done archery in the past. Um, going on successful hunts have been objectives of
00:15:56.400 mine. Uh, learning to play several different songs on the guitar has been a 12 week objective of mine.
00:16:02.680 Uh, going through the Wim Hof method of breathing, uh, has been a 12 week objective of mine. Uh, also
00:16:09.800 learning some basic mechanics and getting my scout running again was a 12 week objective of mine at
00:16:15.340 one point. Uh, so there's a lot of different things right now. My 12 week objective for calibration
00:16:20.660 is to finish the draft of my new book. Now that could be considered some of these other quadrants
00:16:25.760 I'll get into here in a minute, but, uh, that is very therapeutic for me to be able to write out my
00:16:31.760 thoughts and document on my, my ideas. So that's why I put it in the calibration component. So over the
00:16:37.760 12 weeks is finished the draft of my book. And then I've got some other things in line to make
00:16:42.480 sure that happens that we'll get to in a minute. So again, the first thing is calibration. The next
00:16:47.080 thing is connection. Okay. So connection is the relationships that you have with other people.
00:16:51.140 And when I'm talking about an objective, I would say that you ought to pick one relationship that
00:16:56.360 needs the most work. That could be the relationship with your wife. Maybe it's the relationship with your
00:17:01.120 kids. Maybe there's a business relationship that you're trying to foster and nurture and develop,
00:17:06.180 uh, or, or get closer with, with your boss or earn a promotion by working with the team.
00:17:11.840 It's the relationships in your life that you need, that you can help them, that they can help you.
00:17:16.780 And I would say on this one is pick one, just pick one relationship. Again, I'm not saying that
00:17:23.180 because you pick the one that you're going to forsake everything else, but if you pick one
00:17:27.020 relationship that you're really trying to focus on, it's going to give you a stronger likelihood
00:17:32.340 that that relationship actually grows and develops because you are heavily focused on that one.
00:17:37.360 Now, some of you might say, well, you know, like I want to get paid all my kids attention
00:17:40.640 and you should, again, I'm not saying that you forsake everything else at the expense of this
00:17:45.000 one thing, but this is where the emphasis and the focus lies. So you can be crystal clear about what
00:17:49.920 you want to accomplish and how you're accomplishing it. So number two is, uh, is connection.
00:17:54.680 Number three condition condition is where calibration is talking about your, your mental and emotional
00:18:01.160 and spiritual health condition is physical health. So what is your physical objective?
00:18:06.000 Is it running a marathon? Is it deadlifting 500 pounds? Is it earning your next stripe or your
00:18:11.780 next bill belt in, in, uh, martial arts or jujitsu? Like what is your objective with your condition?
00:18:19.440 Now, remember all of these things are tying back into your vision. So you should have a vision about
00:18:24.120 how healthy you are and how you look and, and, and how, uh, much energy you have. Like these are
00:18:30.900 things that you ought to consider and vision, and then it works and trickles its way down into the
00:18:35.160 objective for your condition. Again, it could be a marathon. Uh, it could be a certain hike.
00:18:41.380 Uh, one of the guys in the iron council, uh, Joe Agar just hiked Mount Kilimanjaro. So that was one of
00:18:47.360 his objectives. He got that accomplished. He checked it off the list. He's very proud as he should be of,
00:18:51.860 of doing that and getting that accomplished. And I commend him for doing that. Uh, but this is the
00:18:56.780 power of the 12 week battle plan. You have the objectives in place. You tie it to the vision
00:19:01.340 you want for yourself. And then you start working the plan. The fourth quadrant is, uh, is contribution.
00:19:08.480 All right. Contribution is becoming a man of value. So this could be financially driven. It could be
00:19:15.260 volunteer work that you want to give back. It could be offering a new product or a service
00:19:20.720 inside of your business, uh, to bring to market. Anything that you can do to enhance and add value
00:19:28.120 in the lives of the people around you and your community is what calibration is. So this could
00:19:33.760 be doing charity work. This could be, uh, serving some sort of a, a mission or going to, uh, perhaps
00:19:40.520 another country and building a school. These are the types of things that I'm talking about. Again,
00:19:44.940 building a new product or project at work in the past, writing my first book, actually
00:19:50.580 fell into the contribution component because I felt like I was giving contribution to the world
00:19:55.060 through the work that I was putting out there. But these are the things that you're going to want
00:19:58.520 to put into your contribution category. So again, those four categories, if you're writing these
00:20:03.440 down, if you're not come back and get some notes here is calibration. So getting right with yourself,
00:20:09.060 mental, emotional, spiritual health. Uh, number two is connections. So relationship number three is
00:20:16.060 condition. So that's your physical health. And then number four is contribution, becoming a man of value.
00:20:21.160 So now you've got your vision and I know this is a lot guys. I'm going through this very,
00:20:24.780 very quickly. But, um, again, if you, if you need a resource, by the way, on this 12 week battle
00:20:29.660 planner in our store is a great resource. Um, there's also a video, there's a link here that I
00:20:34.200 made available in this book. Uh, and you can go to that link. In fact, I'll just give it to you right
00:20:38.540 now. It's order of man.com slash T W B P T W B P as in 12 week battle plan. And you can watch that
00:20:48.220 video, uh, to learn a little bit more about what I'm talking about. And then it'll walk you through
00:20:52.640 this battle planner. Uh, the other resource that you might want to look into is my book sovereignty,
00:20:57.440 the battle for the hearts and minds of men in the last chapter or a section of the book.
00:21:01.840 I go through this in depth, the same things I'm talking about with you now. And that way
00:21:07.540 you'll actually have that written documented there in front of you. Because the idea is that
00:21:11.720 when you put that book down, you have a tangible, literal plan for the things that you want to
00:21:17.720 accomplish by using and incorporating the lessons that I, that I share in the book. So that is called
00:21:23.600 sovereignty, the battle for the hearts and minds of men. So after you've got your vision and after
00:21:28.420 you've got your objectives and each of the quadrants, now you need to break it down to
00:21:32.540 tactics. All right. This is where the rubber meets the road. This is where you actually do
00:21:35.840 the work because it's all been planning up to this point and planning is valuable, but planning alone
00:21:41.320 doesn't get the job done. You need a little bit more. You need to go to work. You need to do the
00:21:44.700 thing. So what you're going to do is you're going to pick out one, one primary tactic per day,
00:21:51.860 per quadrant. So you should have four tactics overall. Now, some of you are going to say,
00:21:58.740 well, that's just not enough. I need more guys. Like a lot of you can't even take the trash out
00:22:04.360 when you say you will. So what makes you think you're going to be able to incorporate a dozen
00:22:09.140 different new tactics into your life? I think this is where a lot of guys get hung up is they want to
00:22:14.420 do so much. And I commend you for being ambitious, but if that ambition comes at the expense of you
00:22:20.900 getting any level of work done, it's not advantageous or beneficial for you. So scale
00:22:26.560 back. And I'm not saying to take it easy because I want you to go hard, but I want you to go hard
00:22:30.920 on these four tactics that you're going to be doing. So if your condition, which is physical health
00:22:36.060 objective is to run a marathon in 12 weeks, then a tactic could be that you're going to run every
00:22:46.400 single day. Now, what, how much you run, what type of running sprints, long hauls, uphills,
00:22:52.420 like the treadmill out, whatever, that's all going to vary depending on your situation and what you're
00:22:57.260 trying to accomplish. But the tactic could be as simple as I'm going to run at least one mile
00:23:03.040 every single day. And the goal is, is that if you have that tactic in place and you do that every
00:23:09.120 single day, that it will inevitably lead you to the results. This is that where most planning fall
00:23:14.680 short. Okay. Most planning fall short because they just tell you to come up with a plan, right? Like
00:23:19.480 have your goals and then like, and then do it. Well, that's wonderful. But if you don't actually
00:23:25.820 have the roadmap for doing it and then the ability to take action on those things, like it's not really
00:23:30.400 going to serve you any purpose. So not only do you have to have the objectives, like you actually have
00:23:35.320 to have the strategy that goes with those objectives, that's pushes you in the right direction.
00:23:39.100 These are the things that you're going to document inside of your either battle plan or the sheet
00:23:43.740 that you're using personally. And you're going to check it off. Here's my objective. My primary
00:23:48.360 tactic is to run every day. And you're literally going in there Sunday. Yes, I did it Monday. Yes,
00:23:52.680 I did it Tuesday. Yes, I did it. Or if it's blank, then you don't check anything. And the goal is to
00:23:57.100 have every single one of those boxes checked at the end of every single week. If you do that,
00:24:02.260 you're inevitably going to produce the results that you want. Most planning focuses heavily on what you
00:24:08.260 want and not enough on how to get it. This is critical. So if your objective in a connection,
00:24:18.620 for example, is that you want to coach your, your son or daughter's sports team. Great. What do you
00:24:24.720 guys need to do? Well, practice every single day, every single day, I'm going to practice. Maybe you
00:24:29.640 have two weeks of on the field practice. And then when you're not practicing with the team,
00:24:33.400 you have your kids, uh, you're doing batting practice or, uh, you know, fielding drills,
00:24:39.860 whatever it may be, but you're doing it every single day. And if you do that,
00:24:42.760 then you're going to successfully coach that team. And you're going to successfully produce the
00:24:47.780 objective that you're after. Very simple, very simple. And a lot of people overlook it because
00:24:52.840 of its simplicity. They think, well, because it's so simple, it must not work. Or because it's so
00:24:56.940 simple, I'm not going to do it. I'm just telling you right now that most planning is very,
00:25:00.660 very complex and we actually complicate it more than it needs to be. And we do it as an excuse
00:25:06.500 because if it's complicated, then that gives us an excuse not to do the work that we know we should.
00:25:12.700 But if it's simple, we strip out that excuse because there's no excuse for not getting something
00:25:17.520 done. That's simple. That's not easy, but it's simple. So again, we've got vision, cast your vision.
00:25:23.880 We've got your objectives. These are the objectives that are going to lead you into the vision that you
00:25:28.500 have for yourself. These are 12 week objectives in each of the four quadrants. Again, calibration,
00:25:34.520 connection, uh, condition and contribution. Then you have your, then you have your tactics,
00:25:40.620 your objectives, then your tactics. These are the things that you're going to do on a daily basis.
00:25:44.520 One per day, every single day. If you can't do it every day, do something different. Pick something
00:25:49.300 that you can do every single day because the repetition and the discipline it takes to do something
00:25:53.500 every day is what's going to produce the value. So you've got your tactics. The last component that
00:25:58.980 I'm going to share with you, and then we'll do a recap and we'll wrap this thing up is checkpoints.
00:26:04.460 Now we didn't always have the checkpoints in place. We thought, Hey, in 90 days, you're going to get your
00:26:08.540 thing done or you're not. And then you evaluate it and figure out how it worked. Well, that's,
00:26:13.000 that doesn't work because things change. You may be on track. You may be exceeding your expectations
00:26:19.400 or not meeting them fully. So we have a 30 day and a 60 day checkpoint. Remember we're on a 90 day
00:26:26.380 plan, a 12 week battle plan. So in 30 days, you're going to go in and you're going to evaluate
00:26:31.200 is the work that I'm doing, getting me on track to where I want to be. And if the answer is yes,
00:26:38.000 great. Maintain the course. If the answer is no, it could be one of two things. You could be exceeding
00:26:44.780 your goal. And if that's the case, I would say you probably need to change your objective,
00:26:48.080 make it a little bit more difficult, a little bit more challenging, push it a little further
00:26:51.980 out there. And if you are not meeting the objective, or at least on pace to meet the objective,
00:26:58.020 then you can either do one of two things. You can change the tactic because what you're doing
00:27:03.680 is not working. So you've got to change strategies to get you to where you want to go. Or you can
00:27:08.620 change the objective. I see a lot of guys who are overly ambitious, and this is not an excuse
00:27:14.340 not to be ambitious, but I see guys who are overly ambitious and they haven't done much with their
00:27:19.280 lives over the past decade. And all of a sudden they want to do everything all at once. And they
00:27:23.380 fall short because they, they made this, this goal, this objective that was just unreasonable
00:27:28.460 and unattainable. So you tweak your objective so that you can meet it, or you tweak your, your tactics
00:27:34.780 so you can meet the objective that you have. I'll leave that for you to decide. What do I need to do?
00:27:39.480 And you evaluate, and this is why 12 weeks is valuable too, is because it's not so long that
00:27:43.840 you can't course correct along the way. So that's a 30 day checkpoint, 60 day checkpoint,
00:27:48.440 same exact thing. You're evaluating whether or not you're on pace and on track and you make your
00:27:52.780 adjustments accordingly. Now, when you get to the end of your 12 weeks, that's it. You look,
00:28:02.080 did I accomplish the four objectives I wanted to accomplish? And did they move me closer to the
00:28:07.160 vision I have for myself? If the answer is yes, congratulations, you did it. If the answer is no,
00:28:13.340 you go back to the drawing board and you create a new 12 week battle plan in the second quarter of
00:28:18.240 2020. That's going to be more suitable or, or, uh, make it easier for you to accomplish your
00:28:25.520 objectives. Same thing. If you do accomplish your objectives, congratulations. Now you got to push
00:28:30.040 harder, come up with something new, push yourself, stretch yourself, do something you've always wanted to
00:28:35.340 do. Say yes to a few more things and take some of these opportunities that are going to push you in
00:28:39.420 the right direction. So there it is, guys. I know I went through a lot of information in about 30
00:28:45.780 minutes, but you've got some resources available. You've got this audio or video, depending on if
00:28:51.680 you're listening on iTunes or Stitcher or Spotify or Pandora or wherever, or watching it on YouTube,
00:28:57.400 but you've got this resource and you've got the, uh, battle planner, which is this right here.
00:29:04.240 If you're watching this video, you can see this is the 12 week battle planner. And then inside,
00:29:08.780 this is a year, a year program right here. So this, this doc, this, this insert here has
00:29:16.280 everything you need for four, uh, full and complete 12 week battle plans. So you can check that out in
00:29:22.960 the store store.orderofman.com. And, or you can pick up a copy of the book, which breaks it down even
00:29:28.800 further and then lets you walk away with a plan. And then the last resource is orderofman.com slash
00:29:34.900 T W B P 12 week battle plan, orderofman.com slash T W B P. So there it is. You've got your homework.
00:29:43.300 You've got your marching orders. You've got your assignment. Uh, we're two weeks into this thing,
00:29:47.380 maybe a little over at this point, but, um, you know, we're not so far into it that you can't create
00:29:51.760 a plan for yourself and you can't reevaluate what it is that you're currently doing and seeing if it's
00:29:56.980 on par with this. And look, if it is, and you have a system that's working all the more power to you,
00:30:01.600 maybe you can take one or two things from this and incorporate it into your current planning system.
00:30:06.300 But I've used them all. I've tried them all. I've done just about everything I've come across.
00:30:11.040 And some of them are good. Some of them are not so good. But what I did with the 12 week battle plan
00:30:15.780 is I took elements of this one and elements of that one and elements of this combined with what I just
00:30:20.720 inherently knew and was doing and what I learned from other people. And I incorporated it into one plan.
00:30:26.200 And, uh, thousands of men have gone through this. Thousands of men have produced the types of
00:30:31.360 results that they're after, you know, thousands to be frank, thousands of men have bought this and,
00:30:35.960 or, or created this and gone through it and not done anything with it. But the roadmap is there.
00:30:41.200 The tool is there and it's a powerful tool, but like any tool you have to use it. It's not going to
00:30:45.840 work itself. So I hope that helps guys. Um, this, uh, conversation was inspired by some posts that I see in
00:30:54.300 our Facebook group. Cause guys are asking about how to do their planning and how to accomplish more
00:30:58.320 and how to do this and how to do that. And I'm telling you, this is the framework for doing it.
00:31:01.440 The 12 week battle plan. So get after it, go check out those resources, uh, reach out to me on
00:31:07.360 Instagram or Twitter. Let me know if you have questions or what's working or what isn't working
00:31:12.040 for you. And I'll direct you or answer any questions that I can to the best of my ability. I get a lot of
00:31:16.920 direct messages and that's great. And I try to get to every single one of them. So I will try to get
00:31:21.820 back with you if you reach out to me. You can do that on Instagram or Twitter, both at Ryan
00:31:26.940 Mickler. All right, guys, that's all I've got. Uh, we'll be back next week for another interview on
00:31:32.420 Tuesday. And then they asked me anything on, uh, on Wednesday, but I appreciate you being on this
00:31:36.320 path. Hope this helps. And I'm anxious, very, very anxious to see what you do over the next, uh, 12
00:31:42.280 weeks by utilizing this plan. And please share that with me as you have those victories. All right,
00:31:47.640 guys, go out there, take action, become the man you are meant to be.
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