VIC KELLER | Instinct, Intentionality, and Innovation
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Summary
Vic Keller is a serial entrepreneur who has built multiple multi-billion dollar businesses and is one of the most successful business owners in the world. In this episode, we talk about the power of utilizing our instinct and how that can also be developed, contrary to popular belief.
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The most powerful benefit of this podcast is that each and every week we get to listen to
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ultra successful men, learn what makes them tick, hear which pitfalls to avoid,
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and simply apply those beneficial lessons into our own lives. And my guest today is someone
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eminently qualified to impart his hard fought wisdom on both the professional and personal
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front. He is serial entrepreneur, Vic Keller. And today we talk about the power of utilizing
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our instinct and how that can also be developed contrary to popular belief. We talk about
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intentionality and innovation to create long lasting results in our lives. We also cover the
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difference between gurus and guides and how to spot each a simple formula for how the human
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operating system works, why you should strongly, strongly consider hiring mentors, how to decide
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what defines you and so much more. You're a man of action. You live life to the fullest, embrace your
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fears, and boldly chart your own path. When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time,
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every time. You are not easily deterred, defeated, rugged, resilient, strong. This is your life.
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This is who you are. This is who you will become at the end of the day. And after all is said and done,
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you can call yourself a man. Gentlemen, what is going on today? So good to be back with you.
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I really enjoy doing this podcast. I hope you get value from it. That's what drives me.
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That's what compels me. That's what motivates me to continue to do this work. We've been going
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strong for nearly eight and a half years now. So very close to coming up on this decade of doing
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this order of man business and movement and work. And I just want to thank you for being on the path
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and being on the journey with us. Couldn't do it without you. I've got a very, very powerful
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conversation lined up today. A lot of us are family men. A lot of us are business owners. And
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sometimes it's hard to find ways to be successful in both. I know I've certainly had my fair share of
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being good in both and falling behind in both. And I try to try to maintain a certain level of,
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of performance, I should say in, in each of those categories, but it, but it's, it's difficult,
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but my guest today is going to explain how to do that and give us some insight in, in, in ideas
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and how to make that work. Now, before I get into it, just want to mention very quickly, I was looking
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at some statistics over on YouTube. Uh, guys, we're almost at 300,000 subscribers on YouTube
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right now. That with the fact that my account is being greatly hindered over there, but we're not
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going to, we're not going to allow that to deter us because so many people do get our message there.
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I'm in the process of improving our podcast studio. In fact, I've got over here on my desk,
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a brand new camera, uh, a screen, a teleprompter, uh, some other recording devices, some lights,
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cause we're going to ramp up the studio. And if you want to take a look at the production quality,
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go check it out at YouTube and you'll see that improve over the coming weeks and months.
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And also if you just want to see my face for whatever reason, or any of my guests,
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and that's a format you like, I would encourage you to go check out the order of man channel over
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on YouTube and help us bump up over that 300,000 mark. Once we hit that, then we're on to half a
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million. Then we're going to hit a million. So help us, uh, by going over there, subscribing
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and sharing the message there. Now guys, let's get to my guest today. His name is Vic Keller.
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And as I said earlier, serial entrepreneur, one of the most successful businessmen alive. And just
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to give you a small idea in sampling, uh, his organizations were acquired by Warren Buffett's
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Berkshire Hathaway. And he was able to learn from Buffett himself. Uh, he's also created multiple,
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multiple businesses, some of which you certainly use that have generated over $11 billion in revenue.
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Uh, he's the founder of KLV capital and experienced ventures. And he's using his skillset that he's
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learned in business and life for how to teach, to start, uh, to scale, to sell businesses. And then
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most importantly, using business as a tool for creating the life that we all desire. Enjoy this one,
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gents. Vic, what's up, brother? It's so great to see you. Thanks for joining me on the podcast today,
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man. I'm glad to be here, Ryan. Thanks for having me. Yeah. I've been looking forward to it. Michael,
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uh, reached out to me and he had shared a little bit about what you're up to. And I, I did my,
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my due diligence. I did my research, which is something I know you're familiar with.
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And I was like, Oh yeah, we got to have this guy on the podcast. If it doesn't serve anybody else,
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it serves me. I'm like, all right, what can I talk to them about that? I need coaching with.
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That's one of the greatest benefits of the podcasting space.
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That's great, man. Well, I'm glad to, uh, share with you anything I know and I've learned. I've
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been through the school of, uh, hard knocks a few times. So there's a little, uh, carnage and
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some success that I'm happy to share. Have you, uh, have you always been an entrepreneur? I've found
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that a lot of people or, or business owner, I don't know what, what, what term, what label do you
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prefer? Is it entrepreneur? Is it business owner? How do you look at yourself, man? I, you know,
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it seems that this entrepreneur term, uh, is kind of the, the prevalent term that everyone talks
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about. Have you ever tried to spell entrepreneur? It's gotta be like one of the hardest words in the
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world to spell. Yeah. Yeah. To this day, after being an entrepreneur for 25 years, I'm like, Oh,
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every time I, you know, thank God for spell checks. So yeah, I know you were on, uh, I know you're on
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Dave Ramsey and I like the concept of entree leadership just cause it's easier for me to spell
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than entrepreneurship. So, yeah, it is easier to spell. It's, I don't know if it's easier to say,
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but it's definitely easier to spell. So yeah, you know, my career started out as a, uh, you know,
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I came from, uh, you know, kind of a middle-class family and, uh, we didn't have a ton of resources and
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I, I love the idea of, uh, the creativity of business. And so, you know, I made my circuit
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through working through fast food chains and waiting tables and all the jobs you could think of. And,
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uh, you know, at some point in time, I decided that I was going to give it a go and be an
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entrepreneur. And, uh, you know, I think I made that decision when I had nothing to lose
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everything to gain. Uh, so I was kind of starting from zero and, and, and went from there, but yeah,
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I've, I've enjoyed the last 25 years of my career, uh, building businesses and building teams and
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working with people. So probably a fair term. Well, so what was your first jump into the
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entrepreneurship world? Was it mowing lawns at, you know, 10 years old, trying to solicit your
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neighbors or was it something that developed a little bit later in life? Cause I, and the reason
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I ask is for me, I was never, never like upselling baseball cards in the schoolyard. Like a lot of
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these guys you hear about entrepreneurship. I grew up thinking that you, you go to school and you get
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good grades. And, you know, if you can go to college, good, it wasn't pushed at what it wasn't
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not pushed. Um, but you work at a job and you work your nine to five entrepreneurship didn't come
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until I was about 28, maybe some, somewhere in there, 20, 27, 28 years old. What was like for
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you though? Yeah. So for me, it was, I got out of college. I put myself through college and, um,
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I don't know if that was a great use of time in hindsight, but, um, went to college, got out
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and, um, you know, I did a lot of odd, small things while I was a teenager, a young guy trying
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to scrap and make a little bit of money. Um, you know, I, I, I had to buy things like my first
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car, so I needed some cash. And so I had these odd jobs. And, uh, when I got out of college,
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um, I went to work for JP Morgan and, uh, but I had a young family. I had kind of a unplanned
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young family. I had a wife who I've been married to for nearly 27 years. I had, uh, two young
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sons and, um, and you know, the, the wage I was making at the bank wasn't cutting it.
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And I needed to do something that was kind of a side hustle to make some money. And I owned
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a lawnmower and, uh, and I had my two hands. So I decided I would start, uh, doing some
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landscaping and mowing some lawns. So, um, you know, I was kind of putting on a shirt
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and a tie and, you know, 22 years old driving to JP Morgan and racing home and going and
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cutting a few yards to make some extra cash. So, you know, I, there's a lot of things I
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did along the way, but I would say that was, that was my first business. And, uh, let me
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tell you, it was not glamorous. Um, I figured out that I needed to build businesses that
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had teams of people and that I could scale and I could grow because, uh, if I was going
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to be the sole source of labor, you know, me and that lawnmower, we were probably going
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It's, uh, it's interesting that you say lawnmower, cause I didn't know when I, when I use that
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example of mowing lawns, I didn't know that. So it's funny that you would say that you can,
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you might also be able to hear there's a young man actually mowing our lawn right now. You
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might actually be able to hear it. So he's out here mowing the lawn right now. So it's
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No, no, it's great. It's great. And I, I spent, listen, I spent a few years at JP Morgan,
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a couple of years, and I decided that I probably wasn't going to be able to be a great rule
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follower. And, um, and that I wanted to go be entrepreneurial and I wanted to start my
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own business. And so I started my own business at 23, 24 years old. I really got going. And,
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um, you know, the last, the last 24, 25 years I've started, um, I think 14 different
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companies and, and love it. And it, it is, uh, you know, my identity is in being, uh, you
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know, a husband and a dad and a friend. Um, but I will tell you my passion and what I get
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so fired up about is building companies and helping people build companies. Um, it, to
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me, it's just, it's a blank canvas and it's creative and there's so much mystery involved,
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right? You have no idea if it's going to succeed or fail. And, you know, you don't know what's
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around the corner, but I love the mystery that comes along with being an entrepreneur
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and starting businesses. So it's kind of, it's been, it's been my deal for, for a good
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while. And sometimes it looks really pretty, um, up front and it's really messy in the
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background. Um, and I've learned along the way and, and it's been, it's been a blast.
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That's, that's awesome. I I'm really curious about, I'm taking notes as we do this. Cause
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again, this is for me just as much as it might be anybody who happens to listen. Uh, the,
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you said something that doesn't resonate real well with me and that is creating teams of people.
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I I've always struggled with that. I, I like to do things semi solo, meaning I'll bring people in
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periodically to help me with different things. And I like having good guys around me and we have a
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really, really good team of people. I don't know how much I want to continue to build these teams of
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people as much as it is use this tight knit community of guys that we have right now to
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fulfill different roles. Like what are your thoughts on that at the pros and cons of having
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this big team versus doing it on your own? You know, I think Ryan, it, it just depends what
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your agenda is, what your mission is, what you're after. Um, you know, as, as a young entrepreneur,
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um, I was after cashflow, I was trying to make a living. I was trying to support my family.
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Um, and so it was a lot about me. It was a lot about what I was capable of doing. I mean,
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I was the sales guy. I was the warehouse manager, the office manager, the marketing specialist,
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um, painfully, I was the guy navigating QuickBooks, trying to figure out accounting. Um, and, and I
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built a business that had cashflow, but I think it really depends what your mission is. If your
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mission is that you want to build a business that has enterprise value and it stands beyond just you,
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um, and you have the opportunity. Um, and one of the cool things that I learned kind of later in my
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professional career was the whole concept that you could actually build a business that has
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enterprise value and it's significantly worth, uh, more to the marketplace than it's worth to you.
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And so you could take, uh, and build something that, that you could get handsomely paid for.
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I mean, even if you didn't get handsomely paid for it, you were building a legacy. So I think it just
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depends what your mission or what your goals are early on. I was just trying to make a living and,
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and, uh, you know, people were, you know, transparently, I couldn't afford to hire
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people. Um, and I wasn't good at managing people. I wasn't good at leading people.
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And so in my mind, I was kind of like, man, they're kind of a pain in the ass.
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And, uh, in today's age, here I am building businesses and, and I talk openly with my teams
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about this. It is so hard to find people that are missionally driven, that are focused, that are
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committed, that really want to give it their all and build something extraordinary. So, um, it's hard
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to find those people, but if you can find those people and you can figure out how to motivate them
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and lead them and, you know, lead them with compassion and empathy and give them an ownership
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mindset and create a paradigm where, uh, they're going to, you know, feel like the business is as
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much theirs as it is yours. You're going to build enterprise value and you're going to get, you know,
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a lot out of it. So it just depends if you're, if you're building a business that really is
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kind of, um, I don't want to say a hobby, but it's something that, that, you know, just you enjoy
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doing it. It provides some free cashflow. You're not trying to build enterprise value. Um, there's
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just so much creativity in today's marketplace where you can find people that are out there that want
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to, you know, freelance, they want to be contract labor. They want to help out. And it's a great
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business model. There's nothing wrong with it, but it just depends what your goals are, you know?
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Yeah. I think that's a good point. I look at, as you're talking about that,
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I'm looking through my own lens as far as enterprise value, that isn't something I'm
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completely interested in. And I, and I say that because I've have people, for example,
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who will say, you know, what is your exit strategy? I know what they're asking.
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The question doesn't compute for me because I just don't have one. Like my exit strategy is
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continue to do this for as long as I possibly can and continue to innovate and continue to
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serve and help the guys we're trying to serve. So I don't have that big push for that enterprise
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value as much as I do cashflow and making sure that we have the ability to innovate,
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which I know is an important factor for you. But then I also think about the, the mission
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driven people. I'm glad you brought that up because one thing we've been able to do,
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and this has been really valuable is bring people up through our organization that were originally
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clients to varying degrees of what we're doing, who have now stepped into roles because I recognize
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that they're good at certain things. They have a certain skillset or characteristics that would
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make them good in certain spots. And we've built a really solid team based on,
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I think, almost exclusively clients of the business originally.
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That's awesome. That's awesome. You know, it's funny. Somebody recently asked me, they said,
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Vic, I've heard you on some podcasts and seen you in different places. Like what's your motivation?
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What's your ambition? And you know, it's for me, if I have anything to market, it's that I had the
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privilege today to owning a lot of different companies and operating those companies. And
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every day, the biggest challenge I have is finding world-class people that can come join our teams.
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And rather it's building, you know, complex, you know, firearms that we build at Christiansen Arms
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or building robotic car wash systems that we build at Autek, whatever it may be. You know,
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I'm always looking for talent. So from even, even being here with you, Ryan, I mean,
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I love sharing my story and talking about it, but you know, if there's any exposure we're looking
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for, we're always looking for great people to join these companies. There's never, there's never
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too many of them. So it's super cool to hear that you've been able to build your business with a
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support network of clients. And I think there's a lot to be learned from that is that if you can
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really give people the ability to see your business and to see your heart and to see your
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mission and see what you're being courageous about and what you want to do, and they can
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understand that, you know, you're going to have alignment when they join you, right?
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They're going to be excited about your mission. They've, they've had it. So, you know, we're in
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unique spots where we're able to say, Hey, here's who we are. Here's what defines us. Here's what
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gets us fired up. Here's what we're going after and, and bringing in those people. And think about
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this, think about how many companies hire people blindly and you have people that are looking for a job
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and you have employers that are looking for, for people to come to work. And there's not a lot of
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alignment and values and beliefs when you do that. But when you're able to truly be transparent and
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say, Hey, this is who I am. This is what I'm about. This is what we do. And the people come to you
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that say, Hey, this guy aligns, this lady aligns with what my mission is and what I'm trying to
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accomplish. So yeah, I could, I mean, for you, it's great, right? You probably have a long list
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of people that would love to be a part of this great work that you're doing. And, uh, you know,
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you don't have room for all of them. Now I'm an entrepreneur in the mindset of, if I have a long
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list of people that, that are like, Hey, I want to be a part of it. Hell, I'll start a new business
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for them. I mean, I, I, I tell people often, um, the only thing that slows me down from starting the
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next company or for making an acquisition of a business is knowing that I have world-class talent
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to be able to plug into those spots. So, you know, if you have an entrepreneurial mindset,
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there's endless opportunity where the shortage is, is with great talent that wants to join
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alongside and work with you. Do you, do you have any concerns though, about your, I think you said
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you've started roughly or, or maybe even more, but you, at this point, maybe, and I can't remember
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exactly what you said, but 14 different companies, uh, when you decide to acquire a company or to start a
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new business to fulfill this, like you're saying, is there a worry that you're going to spread your
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time too thin? Cause I know family's important to you. Obviously you have your own personal goals
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that may, may not be professional goals. They're personal goals. Like at what point is enough,
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enough, or you feel like, Hey, I'm going to get spread too thin. So these companies I have now are
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good. How does that work? Cause I can't envision doing more work than I am right now, honestly.
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Yeah, it's, it's a struggle. It's a struggle. I mean, there's no,
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I don't have some really, um, well thought out articulated answer to that. That, that makes it
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sound perfect is what I can tell you is, um, my wife and my two sons have been on this journey with
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me for, you know, call it 26, 27 years. And, um, we have a very, very close family. Um, my sons are
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amazing men and, uh, I've had a great time raising them and showing them what it means to be a man and
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what it looks like to be a man. But, uh, Ryan, I, I will tell you, there's not many sporting events,
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uh, that my kids were involved with that I missed. Um, you know, there's not many things in life that
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I feel like I've missed with my family. I've always been really intentional, um, about being
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available for my family and being involved with my family. So I think the, the answer to the question
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for me has been, uh, exactly what we were talking about. If I can find great people and I can surround
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myself with great people and create opportunities for them, then these businesses and these missions
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shouldn't require 120% of my attention. Now, um, the challenge is focus, right? The challenge is
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what's the most important thing going on right now and where do you spend your time? And, you know,
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there are some mornings that I wake up and I'm, I'm involved in, you know, if I just go through the
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day of all the different businesses I'm involved with, um, it sounds complex and daunting and it feels
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that way at the end of the day, a lot of times, but it all comes back to people. It all comes back
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to people. If you have the ability, um, and the opportunity to attract great talent and equip them
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and empower them and say, you know what, go win big. You're going to fail along the way and go get
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it done. That creates margin in my life. Um, and I have time and energy. So, um, it, it, if I laid
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everything out for you in those 14 companies, and even today, my portfolio and everything I have going on,
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you know, it would sound like, um, you know, it would be a fallacy of sounding like I'm some
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extraordinary Superman. Um, the reality, the reality of it is, man, I'm no Superman. I mean,
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I'm failing and struggling and learning, you know, and trying to learn new things every single day,
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but is what's allowing the wheels to continue to turn in everything that I'm involved with,
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even my family. I mean, I think about my wife and how she keeps, you know, our family together and
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emotion, but everything that I'm involved with is as strong as the people that are involved in it
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with me. It's not about me. And, and it really, I mean, I don't say that to sound humble. Um, I mean,
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it's just, it's impossible. It couldn't be about me. I think we're, and I'm just trying to think about
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the men who listen to this conversation, what they're thinking. And if I'm putting myself in
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their shoes, one of the biggest struggles I personally remember, and I'm sure a lot of these
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guys are dealing with is when you have your first hire or you decide to bring somebody on,
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whether it's a partner or a contracted employee or, or a contractor or an employee is that's going
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to cut into your bottom line. And a lot of guys feel that, right? I know that was really scary for
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me. If I have to pay this person a commission or a percentage or part of ownership, then that's,
00:20:48.860
that's less on the table for me. That was really difficult for me to wrap my head around
00:20:52.820
until I just pulled the trigger and did it. And I realized, okay, whatever I'm paying this
00:20:57.880
individual and however I'm paying is more than making up for it in my time for creative flexibility,
00:21:04.260
my time to start new businesses, my time to increase products or do sales, which is what
00:21:09.900
I personally like. And it made up for itself in droves over and over again.
00:21:14.440
It's, um, it's a long game mindset. It's a long game mindset when you're hiring people,
00:21:20.540
uh, you know, one of the most important things that, um, any business professional,
00:21:25.400
whether you're a company or you're an individual entrepreneur, that's thinking about going from
00:21:29.280
being a solopreneur to grow on a team, the most important thing you can possibly do
00:21:33.540
is to make sure you onboard people, right. And set the expectations and give them, um,
00:21:39.560
really a map. Um, don't try to be a guru to them, try to be a guide and give them a map of,
00:21:44.880
of really where you want to go. And let me just tell you, Ryan, um, I've seen
00:21:49.220
the biggest and had the opportunity to, to operate, you know, multi-billion dollar P and
00:21:54.560
L companies all the way down to solo companies where it's just me and, uh, where I'm growing
00:22:00.000
that business. And in all cases, companies really, really seem to struggle with onboarding
00:22:06.840
people and getting them in the right position. And, um, one of the things that I did as an early
00:22:11.760
entrepreneur is I always had this vision about growing big and scaling, and I wanted to build a
00:22:17.180
big business. And even before I had any of the funding, um, that I would need, which my funding
00:22:22.960
always came from just like you said, selling more, man, I was just selling. And that's how I,
00:22:28.340
that's how I generated revenue to hire the next person. But I always found myself creating job
00:22:33.380
descriptions for people long before I ever hired them. Like I knew I needed to hire this person down
00:22:39.120
the road. So I remember, you know, being 27, 28 years old and I had this, you know, file on my
00:22:44.560
desktop and I had like 10 job descriptions written for the next 10 people I was going to hire and what
00:22:51.480
specifically they were going to do and what that was going to bring to the company. Um, as far as
00:22:56.700
the outcomes and values now, man, I sure wish chat GPT existed back in that time, uh, because I could
00:23:03.320
have gotten this job. I mean, it was a struggle, me sitting down trying to write a job description.
00:23:07.580
You know, today you can write an amazing job description in about three minutes, uh, with AI, but
00:23:12.740
you know, I was always thinking about who is this person, you know, and, and, and honestly, I was
00:23:18.840
praying about it, right? I'm like, who is this person? What does it look like? And I, I visualized
00:23:23.620
it before. I just thought, you know what, I'm going to hire someone and, and bring them on board and
00:23:27.680
hopefully things work out. And by the way, I don't know what the percentages are when you hire people
00:23:32.900
around success and failure, but I've hired the most competent, qualified, high capacity, um,
00:23:41.480
CEOs to operate big businesses that have been complete misses on my part. And I've done the same
00:23:48.060
with, you know, an hourly worker. Um, but when you get, so when you hire someone that is an exceptional
00:23:56.540
talent, or even if they're not an exceptional talent, but they're passionate, they're driven,
00:24:00.680
they're focused, they're disciplined, and they really know how to create outcomes, man. It's
00:24:06.220
like hitting that one good shot in a golf game, right? I'm a horrible golfer. I mean, I I'm not
00:24:11.500
a good golfer, but I truly keep coming back because every once in a while I accidentally hit a 280 yard
00:24:17.120
drive or I sink a pot and I'm like, right. I'm like, yeah, I can do this. I can do it. And I'm the same
00:24:22.920
way with people, man. I'm the exact same way. I mean, like I get so discouraged and beat up because
00:24:28.160
sometimes I make bad hires or I notice people let us down. But when you hire someone that is
00:24:33.500
exceptional and helps you scale and grow your business, man, it is, it is just, it's gotta
00:24:38.900
be the best feeling I have in business is seeing people win. One of the things that I've, I've been
00:24:45.480
able to do that I actually really enjoy this. I'm curious about your thoughts is taking somebody who
00:24:49.760
has an aptitude for certain things, or maybe even is dabbling in a line of work that you need. So
00:24:55.180
one that comes to mind is our podcast editor. His name is Chad Robeson. And, uh, I knew that he
00:25:02.700
wanted to start this podcast editing video production company, but he really wasn't doing,
00:25:10.340
he was doing a little bit here and there. I'm like, cool, let, let me hire you. I'll hire you
00:25:14.060
and you can learn. I'll pay you to learn. And if you have courses and other things that you want,
00:25:18.580
I'll pay for them. You just tell me what they are. And then now to see him doing it full time
00:25:23.100
because of the work that he's doing here, but also because of referrals that I've made and his
00:25:27.360
own efforts and work. I like doing that. I've got other people. I've had video, uh, video guys who
00:25:33.300
were doing some freelance stuff here and there. I'm like, all right, I got to get that guy before
00:25:37.380
he gets big. So let's bring them in. He'll learn on my dime. It's good. It's, it's a positive
00:25:42.880
because they grow. The downside is they end up leaving you because now they're on to bigger and
00:25:46.520
better things, but it's still kind of exciting for me to do it that way.
00:25:50.280
Yeah. Um, yeah, I mean, it's, it's, I think that's a very, um, common scenario in business
00:25:59.400
today. Is there a lot of people, especially entrepreneurs like yourself, right? I mean,
00:26:03.640
you're an optimally minded guy, you're creative, you're doing great things. You're missionally
00:26:07.560
driven and focused. Um, and these people see that and they want to be part of it. Um, but not only do
00:26:13.040
they want to be part of it, they're also attracted to the fact that you're an entrepreneur and they want
00:26:17.180
to come learn from you and they ultimately want to be an entrepreneur. And, and, uh, it's, it is,
00:26:21.680
it is a, there's healthy tension there. There's healthy tension. And sometimes it could cause you
00:26:25.780
to beat your head against the wall. Right. Cause I've had some great people walk in the office and
00:26:29.340
say, Hey man, I've been so inspired. I've had so much fun. I want to go do my own thing. And, and
00:26:34.140
it's not about me saying, gosh, can we pay you a little more? It's not about that. Um, it's really
00:26:40.420
about, first of all, if I don't think they're going to be a successful entrepreneur,
00:26:43.560
I'll do my very best to talk them out of it. But like you're talking about with Chad,
00:26:47.920
where you're like, man, he's capable, he's competent and he's, he's, he's able. Um, then
00:26:53.340
let's, let's be an advocate for that and equip him and go do it. And that circle that you build
00:26:59.100
of these people, um, that you help launch and support and encourage as they go do their own
00:27:04.640
thing. Um, it's, it's absolutely, you know, it's, it's life-giving, it's fulfilling. So it is,
00:27:09.920
but it's a challenge and listen, I it's, it's, uh, it's a challenge that I have personally. I mean,
00:27:15.540
I know that there's people that work for me that are thinking about starting their own business
00:27:18.880
and I almost feel like it's a race of, can I create and show them more opportunity here
00:27:24.260
than they may have on their own. But at the end of the day, if somebody is,
00:27:27.380
you know, truly intended to be an entrepreneur, um, especially if they're, you know, walking with
00:27:32.680
the Lord, uh, that's, I'm not going to be able to get in the way of that. And I'm just going
00:27:36.640
to support it and help them. Well, I mean, so from, you're talking about the Lord. So
00:27:41.720
from a morality perspective, I think that's our job, right? Is to serve other people and to help
00:27:45.780
them create an abundant lifestyle, but also just from a, from a tactical strategical level. Like
00:27:52.440
I think it's, I think it's better to serve other people, even if they end up leaving and going out
00:27:59.480
on their own and doing their own thing. And you might lose them and you need to bring somebody else
00:28:02.200
in. I think from a strategic sense, I think I said, strategical, that's not a word. That's kind
00:28:06.540
of like George Bush's strategery blunder, but, but from a strategic, so let me just clarify there
00:28:12.300
from a strategic standpoint, those people are going to refer people to you. They're going to
00:28:17.000
make connections. They're going to remember the good work that you did. So from a morality,
00:28:21.560
ethical standpoint, yes. From a strategic tactical standpoint, yes. I just don't understand why people
00:28:26.820
wouldn't work more to help lead other people into going out and doing their own thing, even at some
00:28:31.660
point. Well, I mean, I listen, I'm not, I don't want to have a promotional pitch here, but I'm so
00:28:39.840
passionate about it that, that I've created an entire community and platform called Epic, which
00:28:44.040
stands for entrepreneurs, professionals, innovators, and creators. And you know, I had the privilege to,
00:28:50.400
to stand up at a big university and give a talk here a couple of years ago. And there was a guy that
00:28:55.920
was going to go work for a fortune 100 company. And he was asking me how to navigate the politics
00:29:00.380
inside of a fortune 100 company. Like, what does it look like, man? And I really scratched my head.
00:29:05.700
And I said, man, I said, that just sounds awful. I don't know why everyone doesn't want to be an
00:29:09.760
entrepreneur. Now everyone's up in the cloth of being an entrepreneur, but you know, I I'm with you.
00:29:15.060
I mean, I really believe that it's a, it's a rewarding fun and, and not to use a simple term,
00:29:22.900
but you know, what goes around comes around and, and the people that, you know, I've been able to
00:29:27.900
support and help grow and do their own thing. I can't think of one that it hasn't been beneficial.
00:29:33.300
And by the way, there's been several that have left to go start their own business and have called
00:29:37.540
me a couple of years later and said, Hey, I've, you know, I'd like to come back. This didn't work
00:29:42.040
out. Do you know how much more valuable that individual is when they've gone out and learned
00:29:46.520
what it looks like to manage a business on their own, even if it wasn't successful you know,
00:29:53.180
the, the, the stripes that they earn and what they learn in that process is, is powerful. So
00:29:57.900
I agree with that. I'll tell you a quick, a quick story. Um, and it kind of goes along these lines of
00:30:05.240
I was, I guess, 24, 25 years old and started my first business. And I had a guy walk in my office
00:30:12.200
one day and, um, and I, I, I'll try not to use super foul language, but he walked in my office and
00:30:18.720
he was frustrated with me. And he said, Vic, he said, um, listen, man, he goes, you're given 120%.
00:30:25.640
Like you're, you're doing all you can do and everything you can do. And, and you think you're
00:30:30.940
better than everyone else. And I was like, man, that doesn't sound very good. And, um, he said,
00:30:36.280
you know, you're a fig jam. And he called me a fig jam. And I'm like, man, I don't know what a fig jam
00:30:40.800
is. Ryan, have you ever heard of a fig jam? I don't know that term. No. Okay. Yeah. So he said,
00:30:45.400
I'm a fig jam. And so he wrote fig jam up on this dry erase board in my office. And I'll never
00:30:49.700
forget this in my life. It really transformed, uh, transformed me. And I said, well, you know,
00:30:55.820
what, like what, I'm a fig jam. Like, is that cool? And he's like, no, he goes, it fig jam stands
00:31:02.520
for fuck. I'm great. Just ask me. And I said, what? And he said, yeah, man, you're a fig jam.
00:31:09.840
And he said, he goes, he goes, listen, you can give a hundred for 110, 120, 130% all day long.
00:31:17.060
But if you can surround yourself with people that give 80, 90%, he goes, the multiplier on that's
00:31:23.520
going to be a lot greater than yourself. And, and I'm to this day, I'm kind of critical of the 10X
00:31:29.400
mentality. And I think it goes into what you and I are talking about of, you know, do you want to spend
00:31:35.940
all your time and all your energy, you know, on yourself, or do you want to help other people
00:31:41.620
grow and expand? And, and do you want to help them understand the path to get into 110, 120%,
00:31:47.800
whatever that number is. Right. And so that was transformative for me, um, at, at, at, I think
00:31:53.560
24, 25 years old of man, it doesn't need to be about me because there's only, I can't 10X myself,
00:32:00.600
right? I can't, I mean, I mean, it's just, it's not, I don't know what the right multiplier is,
00:32:05.040
but it's not 10X, but if I can take, you know, 10, 20, 30, 40, 50, a hundred other people,
00:32:11.280
and I can help encourage and support and educate and develop those people, um, they are going to be,
00:32:18.720
you know, they're the, the, the multiplier that they're going to provide is going to be way better
00:32:23.300
than myself. And I, I just am thinking about what you and I are talking about. And I believe there's
00:32:29.060
a big problem in society today where, where people are really self-absorbed and that they
00:32:35.440
want to spend every minute of their energy and their time making themselves better. And that really
00:32:41.160
doesn't have a compounding return at some point. Um, it doesn't, their return is go build up other
00:32:47.560
people. Wouldn't, I mean, listen, I, I absolutely want to be shredded. You know, want to, you know,
00:32:53.860
I, I, I, I have a bald head under this ball cap I have on here today for those of you that can see
00:32:58.540
me. And, um, you know, there's a lot of things I desire to have, but it's been much more fulfilling
00:33:03.680
for me to, to focus on myself and other people. And so your comment about, you know, helping other
00:33:11.960
people, um, being a, a, uh, kind of, uh, uh, I would say not selfless, but someone that really
00:33:19.840
is developing and pouring into other people. For me, it's just been much more rewarding and
00:33:24.540
it's liberating. It's liberating, right? Cause I don't have to wake up in the morning and flex and
00:33:29.940
go, okay, how's my bicep looking today? Um, you know, I mean, I'm not saying I don't do that by
00:33:35.200
the way, I wouldn't want you to know that, but anyway, it's not looking, but really it's thinking
00:33:41.220
about, man, how is John doing? How's Sue doing? How's Mike doing going down that list of these people
00:33:47.220
that I work with and think about how are they developing and what are they doing and what does
00:33:51.500
their business look like? Whether they're an employer, they have their own company. It's just
00:33:55.100
been rewarding for me. Yeah. I mean, I agree. I felt the same. I think that's one of the plights
00:33:59.640
of social media is that, you know, we're, we're encouraged to build and develop these quote unquote
00:34:04.780
personal brands and everything's about content, but it revolves around you. I see this a lot,
00:34:09.160
even in this sector, the space that I'm working in is there's always this central figurehead,
00:34:13.600
which I don't think is inherently wrong. I mean, I mean, you, you might make the same case
00:34:18.060
for what we're doing here, but it seems that it's more common that the central figureheads
00:34:24.100
growth and visibility comes at the expense of those around him. And that's what I take issue
00:34:30.640
with is if you're so large that you can't allow other people to shine, then I don't think you're
00:34:37.520
doing your people justice or service. I think you're hindering them and you're stunting their
00:34:41.160
potential growth. It's biblical. I mean, it's biblical, right? I mean, I mean, the reality is
00:34:46.520
that if it, you know, are you, are you trying to be the big God? Are you trying to be a little God?
00:34:51.240
I mean, what are you trying to do? And, um, listen, I'm, I am absolutely a driven, passionate,
00:34:56.760
hard charging, you know, guy and everything I do in my life. And I know that I overshadow people
00:35:02.020
sometimes. Um, and I hate that. I mean, that's not my mission. That's not what I'm after.
00:35:06.420
I get wrapped up in my own ego. Um, but I, when you talk about social media, um, and you talk about,
00:35:13.600
you know, even, even things like what we're doing today, um, I'm really cautious to make sure I'm
00:35:22.280
vocal, not just talking to other people, but also talking to myself that I'm not a know-it-all.
00:35:27.320
I'm a, I'm a 49 year old man that, you know, um, loves the Lord, loves my wife, loves my kid,
00:35:32.880
loves to build businesses, love to lead people. But, um, you know, there's a lot of folks that
00:35:37.660
they speak with this extraordinary level of confidence about this very, very broad cloth of
00:35:43.840
life. They can cover everything there. You know, they're, they're health experts, they're business
00:35:49.180
experts, their professional development, their personal development. I mean, if you listen to
00:35:53.900
everything that they're just extraordinary at, um, at some point you kind of start hearing a charlatan,
00:35:59.700
you kind of start hearing, it's kind of an egomaniac. Right. And it's like, man, I mean,
00:36:03.960
I can tell you right now, brother, I'm like, you know, if you walk into a gym with me, I'm a lost
00:36:09.040
guy. I don't know if I'm, you know, I don't know if I'm supposed to curl a dumbbell or roll on it.
00:36:13.440
I mean, like I'm, I'm all over the place, right? There are some things that I've worked really hard at
00:36:18.600
for 25 years. And I'm passionate about that. I think I'm okay at, and I feel comfortable giving
00:36:23.160
people guidance and advice, but, um, I, I, social media, I'm a player, I'm active. Um, you know,
00:36:30.280
I'm on, I'm on all the platforms, um, even the new ones that just released. Um, and, and I really
00:36:35.740
enjoy them. Um, but it is, it is fatiguing, uh, for me to see people that, that have, you know,
00:36:43.520
they check all the boxes in every area and they want to be these, um, gurus to people. I think it's
00:36:49.720
discouraging and I think it's, uh, it's, it's false. I mean, it's just false. And, and some of
00:36:55.420
them even talk about humility and arrogance and, you know, that their, their own struggles in these
00:37:02.260
areas, which I'm appreciative of their, uh, self-awareness, but it doesn't seem that they
00:37:09.340
change their script. They continue down the same path of doing the same thing. Um, and intermittently,
00:37:16.620
they try to put on this, uh, little, you know, uh, uh, show around humility. Um, and it's just,
00:37:23.500
even that seems disingenuous. So I don't, there's not many things that I get on a soapbox and get
00:37:28.040
frustrated about, but that is one. Um, you know, and I, I gotta tell you, I feel deeply inadequate,
00:37:33.600
uh, in a lot of areas in life and, um, I'm okay with that. I mean, it doesn't, it's not,
00:37:39.660
it doesn't, it doesn't make me feel like I'm less because of it.
00:37:42.500
All right, man, I'm going to step away from the conversation with Vic very quickly. Uh,
00:37:47.100
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00:37:50.840
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00:37:55.560
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00:38:41.220
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00:38:59.800
So you use the word gurus a couple of times. And one thing you said earlier in our
00:39:03.560
conversations, you said, we're not working to be a guru, only a guide. So I'm really curious what
00:39:08.200
the difference is between guiding somebody and, and being a guru to them. Yeah. So I love the
00:39:17.440
question. So a guru, um, is philosophical. Um, there's someone that is definitely motivational,
00:39:28.700
um, usually inspiring. I think, I think we can paint in our head, what a guru looks like.
00:39:35.700
Let me tell you what I think a guide looks like. A guide is someone that can lay out a map
00:39:40.160
and say, let me help you navigate this map. Let me help you understand where you need to turn right,
00:39:46.800
where you need to turn left, where you need to duck down. And they're going to guide and they're
00:39:50.500
going to be able to give you practical knowledge that, that gets you through the path of what you're
00:39:56.420
trying to get through. And, you know, there's, um, a great book I read years ago and it talked
00:40:01.920
about the human operating system. And it talked about how, when you have knowledge and when you
00:40:08.080
have inspiration, you have transformation, but if you just have knowledge and you don't have
00:40:14.100
inspiration, you're not going to have much. If you just have inspiration and you don't have
00:40:18.640
knowledge, you're not going to have much. So, you know, when I think about my, my, the area that I
00:40:23.560
try to focus on, um, having some expertise in, which is entrepreneurialism and helping people
00:40:29.380
build businesses and to have success in business. Um, you know, it's a, it's a process of helping
00:40:36.980
them understand what are the different stages of business. Like it's a whole map. It's a whole
00:40:40.860
guide. I can like walk them through all those pieces and it's very practical and it's very
00:40:45.380
logical. Now, you know, my passion and my motivation, um, and really the fact of where I came from
00:40:51.980
and where I am, um, I hope is inspiring to them. But, but at the end of the day, if I
00:40:57.180
can't walk them through, uh, a map and, and really be a guide to them, uh, I think I'm being
00:41:03.420
a guru. And, um, I think it's a big problem. There's a lot of gurus that are, that are talking
00:41:09.160
today. And, uh, you know, years ago they were referred to as charlatans. And, uh, you know,
00:41:14.700
I think today we call them, we call them gurus, but they're there, you know, I don't think
00:41:18.780
that's an endearing term is to say that someone's a guru. And that's my opinion.
00:41:23.860
So what I'm hearing you say is that a guru might be able to motivate and inspire, but
00:41:29.200
they can't for the longer term, because you've talked a little bit about long-term
00:41:32.140
strategies. They can't for the longer term create, or at least illuminate a roadmap for
00:41:39.040
people to follow and then keep them accountable to staying on that path. Like it's, it's fleeting
00:41:43.600
is what I'm hearing you say a guru might be able to provide. So it's a quick Instagram
00:41:47.520
post versus mentorship. So let me give you a little bit more of a, uh, yes, you you're
00:41:52.900
a hundred percent on it. Let me give you a quick metaphor. So let's say that, that I'm
00:41:56.900
that you go out tomorrow afternoon and you decide you're going to take a golf lesson and
00:42:00.920
sorry for these golf analogies. I actually don't play much golf, but you're going to
00:42:04.200
go out and do die. All right. And so you're going to go take a golf lesson. You show up
00:42:08.320
the instructors out there, you're on the driving range and you're hitting balls, you're hitting
00:42:11.800
balls and you're hitting balls. And you really learn what the distance of the
00:42:16.840
clubs are. If you hit a pitching wedge, it's going to go a hundred yards. If you hit a
00:42:19.600
seven iron, it's going to go one 50. You're going through this process and, and you get
00:42:23.360
it. And after several lessons, you decide that you're going to go out and you're going
00:42:27.660
to go play around a golf. And so you go play around a golf, you walk up to, let's just say
00:42:32.900
you walk up to the ninth hole and it's a nice 200 yard shot. And if you've ever played
00:42:39.840
golf before, you know, there's a tree that's off to the far right. It's nowhere. It's not
00:42:44.480
anywhere near where you're going to hit the ball. Like the green is right in front
00:42:47.880
of you. The tree's over there. You see the tree, but the tree has nothing to do with
00:42:51.200
anything. Well, if you play golf, like I do, there's a hundred percent chance that you're
00:42:55.560
going to hit the ball at the tree and it's going to be under the tree, right? It should
00:42:59.720
have never been in play, right? It should have never been in play. Now you've hit this damn
00:43:03.300
ball. It's under the tree. And so you're standing under the tree. You're 50 yards out. You
00:43:08.700
think back to this golf lesson that you had, what club you're supposed to use at 50
00:43:12.740
yards. You're looking at the green, the tree. Remember the tree's right above you.
00:43:17.200
The hole is actually hidden. You can't really see it. You have all these complexities, all
00:43:21.420
these complexities, the wind's blowing. You get up, you go to hit your shot and you hit
00:43:27.760
the ball straight up into the tree and it comes straight down in front of you. I don't know
00:43:30.720
if you've ever done that. I've done it a lot of times. Okay. So now the ball's right back
00:43:34.300
where it was. And you're like, Oh my gosh, finally, you figure out how to get the ball out
00:43:37.700
of there. This hole that should have been a par four you've scored an 11 on, you know,
00:43:41.720
you're telling your buddy, you're telling your buddy to write down an eight, please write
00:43:44.660
down an eight. But you got an, you got an 11, right? And you go back, you, you, you finish
00:43:49.860
around, you go back to your golf instructor and you say, Hey, listen, I was out playing
00:43:55.140
yesterday. I was on number nine. You relive the whole story for him. Right. And, and you're
00:43:59.580
like, I, I, I was 50 yards out. I'd use the club. You told me to use, what do I need
00:44:04.560
to do? What do I need to do? And the golf instructor says, Hey, I've never played a
00:44:11.300
round of golf before. I'm a golf instructor. I teach people how to hit the ball. And so
00:44:17.280
where am I going with all of that? A guide has situational awareness. A guide has been
00:44:23.560
in the game. A guide has played. A guide has a lot of reputation, repetitions. A guide's
00:44:29.620
truly in the mix of things. And so that's where, you know, a guru, they're going to be
00:44:35.780
able to give you a lot of superficial advice, but they're not going to have that practical
00:44:39.320
level of tactical plane. And I hear a lot of people, um, that talk about business, talk
00:44:45.280
about building businesses, just the area that I'm in. And I always am interested, like, have
00:44:50.120
they done it? And I'm not, I'm again, that golf instructor might motivate you to go out and
00:44:55.940
play golf, but wouldn't it be better if they were a guide and you could come back and say,
00:45:00.880
Hey, let me explain what happened. And they said, Oh yeah, I understand that situation.
00:45:04.680
I've seen that play on a hundred times. Let me tell you is what you need to do next time
00:45:08.820
is you need to actually use your three iron and you just need to punch out and get on the edge of
00:45:13.260
the green. And then you're going to be able to chip up, put in and Hey, you're probably going to
00:45:17.320
get a six or a seven, but you're not going to get an 11. Yeah. It's an 11, man. So that,
00:45:22.840
that's a good point. That's the difference for me. I think, I think the other thing that that
00:45:28.760
framework does is it gives guys permission who have messed up in their lives to actually still
00:45:35.040
be motivational and inspirational lead for people. Cause a lot of the times what I've heard people
00:45:39.300
say, and even in my own follies in my own personal life with relationships and business,
00:45:43.000
is sometimes I begin to buy into or believe the idea that I'm no longer qualified to do this podcast
00:45:49.960
or no longer qualified to talk with men about what it means to be a man. But based on what you're
00:45:54.340
saying with being a guide, actually, if I'm able to successfully navigate those challenging
00:45:59.000
circumstances, whether, whether or not they were self-created or some external factor beyond my
00:46:04.580
control, if I'm able to navigate those things successfully, I'm probably more qualified to
00:46:10.720
continue to lead than had I been before never having to deal with that particular hardship other
00:46:16.440
people are dealing with. You know, it's a hundred percent true. And I think there's a lot of value
00:46:22.580
in people sharing stories. Um, and, and sharing stories is a different approach. Having conversations,
00:46:30.740
listen to people riff back and forth, like you and I are doing today, um, is different than proclaiming to
00:46:37.180
be, um, a, a fifth degree black belt, um, and, and an expert in an area. Um, I think the whole concept
00:46:45.020
of these open, transparent conversations that we have, you know, I do, I listen, I, you mentioned, I was
00:46:50.540
recently on, you know, Dave Ramsey show Dave and I, you know, we don't, we don't align perfectly on, um,
00:46:56.740
everything that, that, that he talks about. But one thing that I really love, um, that he and others do is when you
00:47:03.900
bring real practical people together and they have practical conversations and they're kind of
00:47:08.680
learning from each other. Um, you know, that's not a badge of a guru. Um, that's a connector and
00:47:14.740
that's someone that's really helping, helping iron sharpening iron. And that's, that's, I mean,
00:47:21.320
that's what we want to do, right? I mean, we want, I mean, that's, again, it's biblical, but it really
00:47:25.820
works. I mean, one of the early things I heard, um, in life I remember is, you know, hang around people
00:47:32.760
that are going to help you get better. And it didn't say, you know, the word I didn't hear hang
00:47:37.340
around super successful people. I didn't hear hang around wealthy people. I didn't hear, you know,
00:47:42.960
all of these things. It was literally hang around people that are going to help you be better. And,
00:47:46.960
and there are people that are in far different places in life, whether it be elevated positions
00:47:51.860
or people that are really in the struggle, um, that I can learn from and, and it, and it helps me get
00:47:57.940
better. So, um, I don't, to your point, Ryan, you know, just cause you don't have it all figured
00:48:04.180
out, you're of immense value. I mean, we, none of us have it figured out fine. And by the way,
00:48:09.520
by the way, back to our conversation about gurus, man, if you're following or you're paying attention
00:48:15.280
to someone who proclaims, they haven't all figured out, they're just not being honest, right?
00:48:21.960
They're just not being honest, right? I mean, you think about health, you think about kids,
00:48:25.940
you think about marriages, you think about professional stuff. You think about that,
00:48:29.480
man, nobody has it all figured out. You've got these douchebags standing on top of their jets
00:48:33.720
flexing going, Hey man, look at me. That, that, that, that I promise you that individual does
00:48:39.780
not have it figured out, right? There's a heart problem right there because that is not motivating.
00:48:45.420
Um, you know, that's not the before and after weight loss picture. That's, that's a, that's more
00:48:49.980
of a pompous picture. So, um, again, I get a little bit wound up about that. I just, you know,
00:48:55.420
I think, and look, you have to not to get off on a tangent, but you have to surround yourself with
00:49:01.120
people that are going to keep you grounded as well. Um, and for me, that's my wife and kids.
00:49:06.800
I mean, I can tell you right now, if I, you know, if I put a picture on, you know, a social media
00:49:11.620
platform of me and a plane or, you know, any of the toys that I may have, um, you know, within
00:49:17.880
minutes, I'm telling you, I get a phone call that like, dad, what the hell are you doing?
00:49:21.160
And, uh, you know, I mean, I'm like, so you've got to have some accountability people around you
00:49:26.660
that keep you, you know, thinking and talking straight. So, and I'm not, I fail it. I fail
00:49:31.380
at all of this stuff, Ryan. And, uh, but I can tell you to me, it all comes back to the heart.
00:49:37.920
Um, I want to pivot and shift gears. I wrote something down because I was inspired and intrigued
00:49:42.960
by a framework that you use. And I've always, I think sometimes it bothers people because I ask a
00:49:49.440
lot, you know, they might say, I like this particular person, or I like this movie, or I
00:49:52.960
like this business. And just because of the mind way my mind works, I'm like, well, what
00:49:57.620
do you like about that business? Or what do you like about that person? They're like, I
00:50:01.520
don't know. I like, you know, and they have a hard time at times articulating it. I'm like,
00:50:04.780
no, I really want to know, like, what is it about that person that you like relative to,
00:50:08.940
you know, this person I want to know. Cause if there's a formula, I want to figure it out
00:50:12.780
so I can tap into that formula. And I think, I think you have, I've always been curious
00:50:16.960
about why certain people succeed in business and why some people don't. And, and I think
00:50:22.140
it's easy to say, this is the easier to say, oh, they're doing the right things. Well, the
00:50:26.360
right things can be learned, right? We can all learn the right things. So why does somebody
00:50:30.200
who's doing all the quote unquote right things still not succeed to other people's levels?
00:50:35.700
And one of the things that I think you touched on here and you kind of highlight here is this
00:50:42.660
idea of instinct, intentionality and innovation. And, and I think that first eye, that instinct
00:50:50.020
is really where we tend to overlook. Is there one of those that's more important than another?
00:50:56.620
Because I mean, you can innovate, you can be intentional, but if you don't have instinct,
00:51:00.680
like if you're missing any one of those, you're just not going to have the same level of success
00:51:05.780
Yeah. Yeah. It's it's true. It's very true. Discernment, instinct, judgment. I remember,
00:51:16.900
man, I remember being a kid. I don't know, Ryan, if your parents were like this, but you
00:51:20.780
know, my, my parents told me a lot of different things and they told me, I heard a few times
00:51:25.720
that I would understand someday or someday you'll get it right now. It was usually when
00:51:29.660
I was getting disciplined for something like this isn't fair. And they'd say, well, someday
00:51:33.980
you're going to understand, by the way, a lot of those things, I still don't understand
00:51:36.980
FYI, don't tell my parents. I'm like, whatever. Um, but what you understand is they were just
00:51:43.340
telling that so that you'd get off their case and just accept the punishment. You understand
00:51:49.120
Exactly. Exactly. Okay. So, you know, it's, it's discernment and judgment. Um, I kind of like,
00:51:57.540
I call it my gut a lot, right. But my gut's been built over doing what I do for 25 years.
00:52:03.980
And that's discernment, you know, discernment, judgment, instinct, gut, let's kind of put
00:52:08.360
those in a, in, in, in the same bucket. And, um, I do believe that it's most important and
00:52:13.680
that you really understand how to judge. Um, and, and I judge is a tough word to use, but
00:52:19.360
really understand how to have discernment around, um, different things. I'll give you an example.
00:52:26.120
So, um, I, I had a, uh, have a great friend, um, that was the chief people officer, uh, at
00:52:35.060
Chick-fil-A for, for many years. And, uh, one of the things Chick-fil-A does a fantastic job
00:52:43.820
They do a great job and they have the three C's that they hire. I think it's three, maybe
00:52:49.640
four, but it's character competency and I'm missing one. Um, but they have these three
00:52:56.240
C's that they hire from. And one of the things that, you know, they focus in on is they want
00:53:00.800
to hire people that have character. They don't want to hire characters. And it's, and if you
00:53:07.280
think about that, that's kind of deep, right? So for me, as I think back to being an entrepreneur,
00:53:13.580
starting my first business, just starting in the professional world, um, years ago, you know,
00:53:18.360
two decades ago, um, I was probably more intrigued by people that were characters and
00:53:23.320
were a lot of fun and, you know, I could go on and on and I probably didn't pay as much
00:53:27.680
attention to character. And so I think you form the, the, you'll understand someday our
00:53:33.660
repetitions, have those conversations, get to know people, study people. I mean, I, I pay attention
00:53:38.920
to every, um, personality and professional index testing platform that's out there. Cause I really
00:53:44.520
want to, I'm not, I'm not trying to be a psychologist, but I really want to understand
00:53:48.300
what motivates people, what drives people, what are different about people. So, um, I do think
00:53:53.960
instinct and discernment and having good judgment of, of people is key. And, you know, you've got to
00:54:03.640
hire for, for character, um, and, and over beat someone that is trying to be a character. Um, that's
00:54:10.100
an example. Um, you talked about intentionality and, and, you know, I, for me, it's, I can't tell
00:54:18.700
you anything that's happened in my life that doesn't feel like it's happened for the good,
00:54:23.760
um, that I've not been intentional about meaning, um, intentionality has been a driving force for me.
00:54:30.000
I mean, I can, I, I intentionally, um, you know, uh, courted my wife. I intentionally, I could go down
00:54:37.380
this long process of my life and look, I'm not saying that I haven't been very fortunate and
00:54:41.840
blessed. Um, and I have been, I mean, in every scenario, um, and, and even when I've been
00:54:47.200
unfortunate, sometimes it's proven to be fortunate, but being intentional is something that people,
00:54:56.680
I think in society today overlook, um, in comparison to, I want to be in the right place
00:55:03.320
at the right time with the right people, you know, that, that is important, but you can create
00:55:08.820
those situations. And, and that's where being intentional and being relentless about being
00:55:13.800
intentional is important. So for me, it's probably, you know, discernment and intentionality are kind
00:55:19.560
of two of the things that, that I try to continue to, uh, get better at every day.
00:55:24.780
Yeah. I want to hit on that. I, I actually just looked it up with Chick-fil-A cause I was curious
00:55:28.180
it's character competency. So you got those two, right? The third is chemistry.
00:55:31.380
Chemistry. That's right. Yep. That's right. So yeah, that's, uh, Dan Turner wrote a great book
00:55:37.760
called bet on talent. And, uh, she, she's a great friend and was nice enough to mention me in the
00:55:43.580
book, but, um, you know, it's such a, if you think about it, go to Chick-fil-A and they always have,
00:55:51.180
you know, the, the, just people that are professional and kind, and these are, and, and,
00:55:56.820
you know, what every conversation with someone at Chick-fil-A, what do they
00:56:01.360
say? They say, it's my pleasure, my pleasure. Yep. My pleasure. They always say it's my pleasure
00:56:07.000
and they say it, you know, not in a fast, aggressive, I'm done with you. I'm supposed
00:56:11.920
to say this. If you pay attention, there's, there's some compassion and they say it, you
00:56:16.600
know, authentically. So those little things are huge. I mean, I, I honestly, when we're hiring
00:56:22.560
entry-level people into some of our businesses, I'm like, man, let's find out what these kids
00:56:26.360
are doing that or leaving Chick-fil-A when they get done with school. Cause we, you know,
00:56:30.300
if they don't, if they don't go on to college, we'll take them.
00:56:33.580
Well, it also leads me to believe like, if we're going to look for that in other people,
00:56:36.900
I think it's probably a good idea that we evaluate whether or not we possess the same
00:56:41.040
skillset, you know, and that's something that, that we don't always, I am intrigued by,
00:56:46.340
by your comments on instinct because when I initially heard it, it, it, it almost leads you
00:56:52.160
to believe just a word itself that it's inherent that you either have it or you don't. And as you
00:56:56.960
were describing that, I don't think that's true. I'm thinking about, I've got into hunting over the
00:57:01.160
past eight years or so. And, um, I've, I've immersed myself into the world of hunting and I,
00:57:05.520
and I see these animals that I'm hunting and I see, and I watch them, you know, I might be
00:57:09.000
stalking one or, or watching it from afar. And they're so hard to kill. I mean, every animal I've
00:57:14.960
ever hunted is so hard to kill. And I'm like, why is that the case? Because they want to stay alive
00:57:18.900
just as much as I want to kill that animal and eat it. Uh, but there's, there's things that you
00:57:24.480
can't explain like an axis deer on Hawaii. You know, you'll be lined up for the perfect shot
00:57:29.540
and you know, that thing is going to turn left. You know, it with a hundred percent certainty
00:57:33.820
and about three yards before it's supposed to turn left into your shooting window,
00:57:37.440
it turns right with no apparent reason, no rhyme for do. Why does it do that?
00:57:43.640
Instinct. There's something off. There's something leading that, but then you think about it.
00:57:48.340
That's hundreds, thousands, maybe even tens or hundreds of thousands of years of evolutionary
00:57:54.540
hardwiring that they're learning from their parents and learning from nature and learning
00:57:58.520
from seeing their friends get eaten. So I think it is something that, that we can develop. We can
00:58:03.940
develop that instinct. Like you said, over 25 years of being in this business or it, or in
00:58:08.600
entrepreneurship. So here's, what's cool about instinct is you can learn it over a long period of
00:58:14.560
time, or you can surround yourself, um, with people and, and educational awareness, which there's
00:58:23.140
just an abundance of that we have at our fingertips today to gain that instinct and to gain that
00:58:28.860
knowledge. Um, you know, maybe a little quicker than you would otherwise. And, and think about
00:58:34.000
hunting and the metaphor that you use there is, you know, if you, um, if you, if you're going out and
00:58:40.220
you're going to go hunt a deer, um, or an elk or whatever it may be, any hunt, and you go hunting
00:58:45.180
with Jim Shockey. Okay. Jim Shockey has been on a couple of hunts. You go out with him or Christian,
00:58:50.520
one of these guys, I mean, I get long list of guys that go out and hunt, but you go out and hunt with
00:58:55.200
those guys. They're like, Hey, let me explain to you what's going on here. Let me show you what's
00:58:59.080
going on here. You know, let me be a guide to you. And then you can really cut down on the time that it
00:59:05.700
takes to figure out why animals behave the way they do, um, and how things happen. So, um, you
00:59:12.440
know, there's gosh, I wish YouTube and podcast and audio books would have been around when I was,
00:59:20.680
you know, 20 something. Yeah. Oh man. Cause I mean, I was like, you know, I mean, you couldn't,
00:59:26.040
I didn't have the right cassette tape to listen to. Right. I mean, I'm listening to, you know,
00:59:30.440
quiet riot and I should have been, you know, or whomever the music was that I was listening to.
00:59:34.920
And, and, and versus putting in, you know, uh, in today's age, I could get any podcast in the
00:59:41.220
world and listen to these people that have authentic experience or audio books or YouTube.
00:59:45.700
So, um, I think when people, you really hit on something key and, and, and I hope that people
00:59:53.420
are hearing that is that instinct is something that can be learned. Um, you have to be open to being
01:00:00.780
learned good, having good judgment, having good discernment can be learned, but it is so imperative
01:00:07.260
that you're learning these things from the right sources. And that's where things get a little bit
01:00:13.880
noisy and complicated in our world is making sure you're surrounding yourself with the right sources
01:00:19.760
of knowledge and wisdom. And you're not just listening to the next talking head that has this,
01:00:26.060
you know, they can go into this great philosophical reason, something happens, um, or they have this
01:00:32.180
great acronym. Um, I'm not down on all of those, but while we have these resources available today
01:00:40.260
that help us expedite and advance, um, things like learning instincts and having discernment and having
01:00:46.700
judgment. Um, it's almost a bit of a dichotomy, not to use a big word, but it's almost a bit of a
01:00:52.020
dichotomy because now you have to kind of sort through where are the qualified, um, good sources
01:00:59.620
of information that you can learn from, but it's totally a learned skill. Look, I, I, I agree that
01:01:06.340
you talked about the axis deer, you know, and I think about, you know, those beautiful axis deer that
01:01:11.200
are on the nine that everybody goes and hunts that, you know, that's a small Island and those axis deer
01:01:16.360
have had a lot of guys pointing guns at them, right. Or bows or whatever they may be. And, and then they do
01:01:21.480
have instincts, but those instincts think about where those instincts come from. And, and they're
01:01:26.760
taught those things, um, you know, through their mom or their dad, no different, um, than, than
01:01:32.320
anything else, right. They don't have a great, uh, Rolodex or source of different areas to learn from.
01:01:38.440
They kind of have that legacy and limited information, not to try to compare humans to
01:01:43.700
axis deers, but man, think about all the resources we have available to be able to truly make sure
01:01:51.440
we're, we're getting the education that we need to make good decisions. And, and to your point,
01:01:57.180
Ryan, I know I'm being long winded, but I'm sorry, what's more important than making good decisions.
01:02:02.720
Agreed. I mean, that's what it comes down to, right? That's going to determine the quality
01:02:05.860
of your life. Did you make enough good decisions? And did they trump the bad ones that you made?
01:02:10.080
Cause we're always going to make some bad ones. I'm glad you brought up Jim Shockey. I just got a,
01:02:16.020
uh, just got his, his newest book, a pre-release of his newest book. He's got a new book coming out.
01:02:19.980
He's coming on the podcast in a couple of months. So I'm excited to have, have him on the podcast.
01:02:24.180
Jim's great. We, uh, one of the companies I have is, uh, Christensen arms and we make,
01:02:28.720
yeah, we make both action rifles and Jim is, uh, one of our, um, just partners and we do a lot
01:02:36.860
with him and he's a, you know, fantastic professional and, uh, we're really honored to
01:02:41.760
have him on the team. Well, and you know, it's even cool. I mean, to go back into what we were saying,
01:02:45.740
then you look at his daughter, which I think it's not Ava. I think it's, is it Ava or Eva?
01:02:49.280
I think, yeah, I think anyways, she's, she's big. She's big. She's, she's, she's big. She's going
01:02:56.820
to eclipse Jim. Yeah, she is. Well, by the way, that's, that should be the design, right? That's
01:03:02.360
how it's supposed to work. That's the point. That's the point. But what the point I'm making
01:03:05.220
there is that, you know, you have his daughter who's a phenomenal hunter. She's, uh, she's great
01:03:10.260
at what she does. And where did she, where did she learn that? Well, she had access to it through her
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father and then she developed the skillset to be successful in her own right. You know, it's funny.
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I'll tell you a real quick story. Um, my, my son, uh, Zach, he's, he's a 26 when he was 23 or so.
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Um, I've been involved in the, the NASCAR business for a, for a long while in different areas of
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sponsorship and stuff. And Zach went out to learn how to be a NASCAR driver and, uh, got his, got his
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license and, and started racing and he did a good job and I was proud of him, but his, and, and one
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of my, one of my, uh, acquaintances, friends in the NASCAR world, his dad was one of the biggest names
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in NASCAR and he was a big name in NASCAR or still is today. And, uh, I just, you know, one day I looked
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at Zach and I said, Hey, I said, listen, I said, I'm sorry, I'm not Dale Earnhardt. And, uh, cause you're
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not Dale Earnhardt Jr. And so, you know, it, it, uh, there there's, I mean, if you've got that
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legacy in your family, um, you know, that's a great place to learn. And you see it often because
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people have extraordinary coaches. I mean, whether it be, you know, I, whether it be business,
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whether it be in a sports, I mean, you know, there's some interesting stories there, by the
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way, I mean, you know, apparently LeBron James, his son is a pretty good basketball player, right?
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You hear a lot about it. Right. And you'd say, you know, yeah, he was, you know, he's, he's a tall
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young man, but who's his coach been for, you know, the past 20 years of his life. Right.
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Right. Right. How, how cool is that? So, you know, it, it, there's a lot of stories we can pay
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attention to where, um, if you are surrounded by people that can guide you and coach you and help
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you, you're going to have a competitive advantage. Well, and I, I think we need to say also that we
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should never discount that somebody else has a great coach because our access to coaching and
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information and resources is unparalleled in any other time in human history. And if you're saying,
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well, I don't have the information and you're using that as an excuse not to excel, that's on you,
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not the lack of information that you have available to you. Well, a hundred, a hundred percent. And,
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you know, look, my dad is, uh, you know, uh, a blue collar, uh, worker and has been a tradesman,
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um, you know, his whole life, just, you know, climbing ladders, doing, working hard his whole life.
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And my mom sells flooring and, uh, you know, I could kind of go through that, that story. And
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if I think about where I am today, and by the way, my parents are amazing, hardworking,
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extraordinary people, and, and they have a great quality of life. Um, and I was interested in a
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lot of the things that they were doing as I was young, but it was mostly what I was impacted and
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influenced by was their work ethic. And, and I am, you know, part of the reason I am who I am today
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is because I witnessed my parents' work ethic. Um, and, and, and I said, man, they wake up and go
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to work every day and bust their butts. So, um, you know, it doesn't, it, it, I guess the, the, um,
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the reality of what you're living in, uh, no matter what it is, you can learn from it good or bad,
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right? Good or bad. And I think about my, my, my, my dad just told me all the time,
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I want you to learn from my mistakes. I'll tell you what that motivated me to do.
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That motivated me to learn from people's successes. I was like, man, I want to spend my
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time deconstructing success. I'm going to make enough mistakes on my own. But, um, you know,
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I think you bring up a good point that everyone's not, you know, LeBron James is not every basketball
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player's dad. And, and, uh, you know, and, and Dale Earnhardt is not every NASCAR driver's dad.
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Um, but we still have the ability to learn, um, from the circumstances that we're in.
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And, and we have so much available at our fingertips. It's amazing.
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Yeah. Well, Vic, I appreciate you, man. I know you're a busy man and I know that, uh,
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you have a ton going on with all your businesses and family and everything else. I would like to
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give you a minute to tell the guys where to connect with you, because I'm sure there's so
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many who have listened to this and heard your insight and want to know more about what you're doing,
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including, um, Epic community as well, which you briefly mentioned. So where can guys learn more
01:07:15.360
about what you're up to? Yeah, I don't, um, I, I would say the best place to find me is, uh, I'm on
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all the social platforms at, at Vic Keller, um, just V I C K E L L E R. And then if you go to
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vickeller.com, um, I, I just passionately have launched a community called Epic. And the whole
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objective of Epic is to bring like-minded, um, driven people together. And rather you're a,
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you know, a young person that, you know, wants to be successful as a professional working for a
01:07:45.520
corporation. You want to start a business, um, or you're someone that's been at it for two or three
01:07:50.300
decades and you want to continue to get sharper and better. We've created a community of like-minded
01:07:56.460
individuals and we do a ton of fun stuff, but you can learn about Epic at vickeller.com. And, uh,
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man, I just really appreciate you giving me the privilege to, to visit with you and be on your
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show here. Uh, I love what you stand for. I love, uh, this is one of those podcasts that I definitely
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point my two sons towards. There's some that I'm like, man, I got to keep away from, but this is,
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you know, those are the ones that listen to you though. Yeah, exactly. Yeah. You know,
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every once in a while, right. It's like the music too. So, but no, I really, I'm really grateful for
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your heart and your mission and, uh, man, just your courage and relentless, uh, commitment to
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what you're doing. Thanks Vic. That means a lot coming from you. I appreciate that. All right.
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We're going to sync everything up. So the guys know where to go. Thanks again for joining me
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and imparting some of this wisdom. I know you have a lot more, so I'm going to direct the guys there.
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Appreciate you brother. All right. Thank you, man. All right, gentlemen, there you go. Vic Keller.
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I really enjoyed that conversation. Vic and I haven't been connected for that long, but I'm so
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grateful and glad that we have connected because just going through his stuff and his information
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and watching his videos and even listening to his other conversations as I prepared for this podcast
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really gave me some insight into my professional and personal life and how to maximize both. So
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I would highly encourage that you go check out Vic over on Instagram, check him out on his websites,
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watch other interviews, watch other videos, because if you're trying to grow a business,
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start it, scale it, sell it, whatever, and run your life, man, this guy is just a wealth of
01:09:26.100
knowledge. So please connect with him. And then as I mentioned earlier, the three things I asked from
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you, follow us on Instagram as well at Ryan Mickler, subscribe to this podcast so you can listen
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tag myself, post it up on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, wherever you're doing your social media
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stuff and let guys know where you are getting this high quality information. I guess that's an
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assumption. I'm hoping it's high quality. All right, guys, that's all I've got for you. We will be back
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