Order of Man - September 13, 2024


What Kind of Man Do You Need to Become? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES


Episode Stats

Length

19 minutes

Words per Minute

193.1514

Word Count

3,704

Sentence Count

209

Misogynist Sentences

4

Hate Speech Sentences

2


Summary

Too many men fail because they don't have a clear vision of what they want out of life. In order to achieve greatness, you need to know who you are and what you want to become so that you can be the best version of yourself.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 So it all starts with vision.
00:00:01.080 But from there, once you have that vision,
00:00:02.540 you have to ask yourself, I'm not there yet, so why?
00:00:05.380 Well, you're not there because you're not being
00:00:08.020 the kind of man who is qualified
00:00:10.640 to have the result that you desire.
00:00:12.940 Who do I need to become?
00:00:14.220 What type of man do I need to become?
00:00:17.740 And then once you answer the question,
00:00:19.640 start becoming that person.
00:00:23.180 You're a man of action.
00:00:24.900 You live life to the fullest.
00:00:26.340 Embrace your fears and boldly chart your own path
00:00:29.020 When life knocks you down, you get back up
00:00:31.480 one more time, every time.
00:00:33.700 You are not easily deterred or defeated.
00:00:36.040 Rugged, resilient, strong.
00:00:38.800 This is your life.
00:00:39.880 This is who you are.
00:00:41.300 This is who you will become at the end of the day.
00:00:44.020 And after all is said and done,
00:00:45.740 you can call yourself a man.
00:00:49.360 Every single man listening to this podcast
00:00:51.320 is wanting to improve, wanting to get better,
00:00:55.040 wanting to salvage relationships,
00:00:56.600 wanting to connect with his kids,
00:00:57.820 wanting to get in better shape,
00:00:59.360 wanting to start a business,
00:01:00.500 grow a business, build a business,
00:01:02.220 or put some money in his bank account.
00:01:04.480 You wouldn't be here on this path of self-development
00:01:06.640 if you didn't have some greater vision for who you are.
00:01:09.460 But often, we as men get hung up along the way.
00:01:13.000 We get distracted.
00:01:14.080 We get tempted.
00:01:15.320 We get sidetracked.
00:01:17.300 We fall into vices.
00:01:18.980 We get lazy.
00:01:19.880 We procrastinate.
00:01:20.920 And there's all sorts of problems that come with our natural tendency to be our own worst enemy.
00:01:27.400 And I've got a very simple message for you today.
00:01:30.180 And this one's going to be probably shorter than my other podcast,
00:01:33.340 but it's very important that we wrap our heads around the concept that I'm going to share with you today.
00:01:38.520 I'm going to teach you one simple phrase,
00:01:40.260 one simple question that you can ask yourself that will get you on the right path.
00:01:45.200 Too often, men are looking for excuses,
00:01:49.380 and they let other people stumble them up and trip them up.
00:01:53.000 And the question is very simply this, without further ado,
00:01:56.500 who do I need to become to fill in the blank?
00:02:01.480 Who do I need to become to have that kind of business?
00:02:05.500 Who do I need to become to be that type of father?
00:02:09.340 Who do I need to become to connect with my wife?
00:02:12.760 Who do I need to become to have that physique or have my debt paid off
00:02:18.920 or have a bunch of money in the bank or go on those vacations or enjoy this type of lifestyle?
00:02:24.420 Now, first, it all starts with vision.
00:02:26.460 In order to answer that question, you have to have some vision of who you want to be.
00:02:30.420 And it is amazing and disturbing how many men I talk with every single day
00:02:34.160 who have no vision about what they want out of life.
00:02:36.820 If you were to ask them, what do you want?
00:02:39.140 They'll say something like, I don't know, good relationship with my wife,
00:02:42.040 maybe a little money in the bank account and just kind of a good life.
00:02:45.340 Well, welcome to the club, but that's not real compelling.
00:02:48.980 I don't even know what that means.
00:02:50.300 And I don't think you do either.
00:02:51.620 So does that mean if you make a dollar more today than you did yesterday,
00:02:54.320 that you've reached your vision?
00:02:56.040 I don't think that's what you're saying.
00:02:58.300 But unless you're clear about what exactly,
00:03:01.160 very, very specific, very, very exact on what you want,
00:03:05.180 you're never going to achieve any measure of greatness.
00:03:07.940 So it all starts with vision.
00:03:09.020 But from there, once you have that vision, you have to ask yourself,
00:03:11.760 I'm not there yet.
00:03:13.420 So why?
00:03:14.740 Well, you're not there because you're not being the kind of man
00:03:18.880 who is qualified to have the result that you desire.
00:03:23.560 Too many men think that they can have the result without the effort.
00:03:27.360 You know, you look around at people that you're motivated and inspired by,
00:03:30.820 and you think, I want to be like that guy.
00:03:32.400 But what too many men fail to do is to bridge the gap between where that man is
00:03:37.380 and the work that he's actually done.
00:03:40.080 Most people think he got lucky.
00:03:43.020 And it's always, always a bad idea to attribute success at any level to luck,
00:03:49.100 even if there was an element of luck to it.
00:03:52.020 Because I'm not going to lie and tell you that there isn't lucky circumstances.
00:03:55.780 There isn't being at the right place at the right time
00:03:58.660 or having some favorable or fortunate events happen to you.
00:04:01.200 That happens.
00:04:02.780 But you could actually create that by being the kind of man that you need to be
00:04:06.100 in order to have the results that you desire.
00:04:09.340 When you attribute another man's success to luck,
00:04:12.980 what you simultaneously do is say to yourself, even subconsciously,
00:04:17.680 I won't have the success and the results that I want in my life until I get lucky.
00:04:23.420 And the problem with that is it's passive.
00:04:26.220 It's weak.
00:04:27.220 And it does not lead to predictable results.
00:04:31.740 If you look at the 500 plus men I've had on the podcast,
00:04:35.380 and they're all successful in their own right, it's not luck.
00:04:40.560 It's a series of deliberate and clear actions that have got them to exactly where they are.
00:04:45.500 And even if they had got lucky at some point in their life,
00:04:47.580 it would not be sustainable if that's all they were relying upon.
00:04:50.740 No, guys, it takes clear, deliberate action and a future vision for who you are and who you want to be.
00:04:58.460 And that's what we call the integrity gap.
00:05:01.200 It's the gap between where you are right now and where you see yourself being.
00:05:05.440 The further that gap is, and also the less work that you're doing to bridge that gap,
00:05:13.760 the more uncomfortable you'll feel about yourself and your performance.
00:05:18.620 I'm not here to tell you that in order to be confident and sure of yourself,
00:05:21.920 you have to have achieved your results.
00:05:23.500 You don't, but you do have to be bridging that gap.
00:05:26.100 You do have to be in integrity.
00:05:28.080 You do have to be laying the foundation of that road that you're going to be able to walk
00:05:31.140 that's going to get you from point A to point B.
00:05:32.940 But again, to go back to my question and the premise of this podcast,
00:05:37.140 who do I need to become?
00:05:39.620 I'm often met with guys who will excuse away their performance and say,
00:05:43.380 I'm not meant for that.
00:05:44.520 You know, a prime example of that might be somebody who wants to run a marathon,
00:05:47.620 for example, and they'll say, well, I'm not a runner.
00:05:50.860 Well, if you tell yourself you're not a runner, then that's accurate.
00:05:53.900 You're not a runner because why?
00:05:55.120 You're not running.
00:05:57.340 Or other men decide, you know, man, I'd really like to write a book,
00:06:00.180 but I'm not a great writer.
00:06:01.080 Well, you're not a great writer because you're not writing.
00:06:04.600 That's it.
00:06:07.400 Take the most successful men in any field and take a look at what they do.
00:06:13.720 We're on the back of the Olympics, and I know there was a lot of controversy
00:06:16.860 and even some vocal criticism coming from me as well regarding the Olympics,
00:06:20.740 but there's no doubt that those Olympians have worked very, very hard
00:06:24.980 with the exception of maybe one certain breakdancer,
00:06:29.500 but the rest had worked very, very hard to get them to the place that they were.
00:06:37.260 They were actually doing the work required to achieve those results.
00:06:41.020 And what do swimmers do?
00:06:43.660 They swim.
00:06:44.900 What do runners do?
00:06:46.000 They run.
00:06:47.240 What do breakdancers do?
00:06:49.040 I'm saying that a little bit mockingly.
00:06:51.780 The ones who are good, they practice and they breakdance.
00:06:56.200 What do great hunters do?
00:06:57.520 They hunt.
00:06:58.080 I look at somebody like Cam Haynes.
00:06:59.340 He was a previous guest on the podcast.
00:07:01.300 A lot of guys will say, oh, man, that guy's so successful at hunting.
00:07:03.620 I'd like to be like him.
00:07:05.400 Oh, man, if only, if only, if only.
00:07:08.340 That guy runs a crazy amount of miles every single day,
00:07:13.080 and he shoots his bow every single day.
00:07:19.860 That's why he has the results.
00:07:22.060 If you're not willing to do that, that's okay.
00:07:24.800 But be honest, at least, about your lack of ability or desire to do it.
00:07:30.220 I fell into this trap years ago where I would compare myself
00:07:32.880 to other notable podcasters, namely guys like Joe Rogan.
00:07:36.760 I want to have his success.
00:07:38.560 But then I actually started to look into what Joe Rogan did on a daily basis
00:07:42.680 and how he traveled and how much he was communicating
00:07:45.120 and how many podcasts he's done over the years that he's been doing it now.
00:07:49.460 I, sure, I would love to be like that,
00:07:51.680 but I'm not willing to invest to the same degree.
00:07:53.540 And that's okay.
00:07:55.080 That's not an indictment on me.
00:07:56.380 It just means it doesn't align with what I want to create for my life.
00:07:59.380 I have other things that are important
00:08:01.560 that may not be as important to Joe Rogan.
00:08:04.020 And that's fine.
00:08:04.700 I'm not here to decide for him,
00:08:06.080 and he's not here to decide for me.
00:08:08.480 But there has to be an honest assessment.
00:08:10.280 So when it comes to determining the kind of man you want to be,
00:08:14.820 you need to ask yourself,
00:08:16.120 what is it that I need to do?
00:08:17.380 And I want you to get a notepad out or your phone out
00:08:19.360 or wherever you need to take notes,
00:08:20.460 and I want you to ask yourself these questions.
00:08:22.000 What does the man I want to be do on a daily basis?
00:08:28.780 What does the man I want to be do on a daily basis?
00:08:33.060 What time does he wake up?
00:08:35.140 What does he eat for breakfast?
00:08:37.300 What does his planning schedule look like?
00:08:39.760 How does he communicate with others?
00:08:42.340 What is he doing throughout the day?
00:08:44.040 When does he take his breaks?
00:08:45.340 Where does he go to eat dinner or lunch?
00:08:48.180 When does he close down his day?
00:08:49.480 At the end of the day,
00:08:50.260 what is he doing at the end of his day to cap it off?
00:08:54.100 And then that time between what he's doing for work
00:08:56.960 and his time at home, what is he doing?
00:08:58.340 How is he engaged with his kids?
00:08:59.800 How is he engaged with his wife?
00:09:01.080 What is he doing in his spare time?
00:09:02.360 What hobbies is he interested in?
00:09:04.360 Now, look, we did a podcast,
00:09:06.620 I think it was either last week or the week before
00:09:08.440 on this comparison trap.
00:09:10.820 There's ways to be healthy in comparison
00:09:13.360 by looking at what other guys
00:09:14.900 that you want to achieve their results,
00:09:16.820 what they're doing,
00:09:17.580 and then mimic those actions.
00:09:20.460 And there's times where it can be unhealthy.
00:09:22.220 So you need to determine where that is unhealthy.
00:09:24.360 But if you're seeing other people
00:09:25.420 do what you want to do,
00:09:26.480 then you can pretty much do what they do
00:09:29.580 and experience some level of results.
00:09:31.500 And no, it's going to take time as well.
00:09:35.240 So again, the first question is,
00:09:37.000 what are the guys doing that I want to be like?
00:09:39.320 What are they doing on a daily basis?
00:09:40.920 The other thing I would suggest to you
00:09:42.080 is ask yourself, what aren't they doing?
00:09:44.040 Because there's vices that you're familiar with,
00:09:47.520 whether it's drinking or drugs or gambling
00:09:49.920 or pornography addiction or womanizing
00:09:52.080 or procrastination or name your vice of choice,
00:09:56.720 distraction, laziness, gluttony.
00:10:01.040 Name your vice of choice and ask yourself
00:10:04.180 if the guy that you want to be like,
00:10:06.060 even if it's some fictional character
00:10:07.620 or some character you have made up in your mind,
00:10:09.300 if that's what he would do.
00:10:12.000 You know, I remember years ago,
00:10:13.040 we'd see these guys walking around
00:10:14.380 with the bracelets that had the letters WWJD on them.
00:10:19.980 What would Jesus do?
00:10:22.880 I actually like that
00:10:24.420 because it's a reminder every single day.
00:10:27.280 If men want to be more like Jesus,
00:10:29.320 you look at that and think,
00:10:30.320 what would Jesus do in this situation?
00:10:31.780 If Jesus had to get up and go to work,
00:10:37.900 what time would he set his alarm?
00:10:41.960 If he had to interact with people he didn't like
00:10:44.060 on a daily basis,
00:10:44.780 how would he treat those people?
00:10:48.000 If there was a principle that was being jeopardized
00:10:52.160 or you were being asked to go against your morals and values,
00:10:56.700 what would he do?
00:10:57.580 And I think that's a good daily reminder.
00:11:01.140 So not only what would the man that I want to be do,
00:11:03.640 but also what would the man I want to be not do?
00:11:06.920 Well, he wouldn't drink.
00:11:08.140 He wouldn't sleep in.
00:11:09.620 He wouldn't procrastinate.
00:11:11.080 If there was a conversation,
00:11:12.220 he definitely would have that conversation
00:11:13.780 that needed to be had.
00:11:15.760 He wouldn't get sedated with drugs and alcohol.
00:11:17.980 He wouldn't distract himself.
00:11:19.960 He wouldn't be lazy.
00:11:21.280 He would go all in on the thing that was important to him.
00:11:24.140 And then find a way to make sure
00:11:28.080 that on a daily basis,
00:11:29.060 you're remembered or reminded
00:11:30.160 of how you need to be that person.
00:11:32.320 And I would suggest to you
00:11:33.360 that you need to identify why that's important to you.
00:11:36.960 I talked about Cam Haynes earlier.
00:11:39.240 A lot of you guys are hunters.
00:11:40.620 I'm a hunter.
00:11:41.340 Cam is obviously a hunter.
00:11:42.760 He's significantly better, of course, than I am
00:11:44.640 because of his dedication to the craft.
00:11:47.520 And one of the traps that I fell into
00:11:50.380 is just doing what other people were doing
00:11:52.200 that I was inspired by
00:11:53.200 because I thought that's what, quote unquote,
00:11:54.920 you had to do.
00:11:57.040 If it's not relevant to you,
00:11:58.800 you don't have to do it.
00:12:01.720 I think a man makes up his own mind.
00:12:03.660 I don't think he just kind of waffles to and fro
00:12:05.520 when he lets other people dictate the tone of his life.
00:12:08.220 He makes his own decisions.
00:12:09.900 He's clear and deliberate about it.
00:12:11.340 But if he's chosen a path,
00:12:12.980 then he's going to find ways
00:12:14.140 to move down that path as quickly as he can.
00:12:17.040 So, if you want to hunt,
00:12:21.960 what is it that Cam Haynes does?
00:12:23.840 What is it that John Dudley does?
00:12:25.420 What is it that Joe Rogan does?
00:12:27.000 What is it that Jim Shockey does?
00:12:29.580 What is it that these people you want to be like do?
00:12:32.460 And more importantly,
00:12:33.800 maybe not more importantly,
00:12:34.800 but just as importantly,
00:12:35.760 is understanding why.
00:12:39.740 If it's not interesting to you,
00:12:41.660 just don't do it.
00:12:43.100 You don't have to do it
00:12:44.140 just because Joe Rogan does it.
00:12:45.520 You don't have to get up at 4.30
00:12:48.000 just because Jocko does.
00:12:50.220 You don't have to be an intellectual scholar
00:12:52.740 like Jordan Peterson.
00:12:55.400 Those guys are great at what they do
00:12:57.100 and this is not a knock on anything they do,
00:12:59.160 but you're not like them.
00:13:00.240 I'm not like them.
00:13:01.260 I'm not like Jocko.
00:13:02.460 I'm not like Jordan Peterson.
00:13:05.560 I have the same level of worth,
00:13:09.220 human worth as a man,
00:13:12.320 but I'm different than them.
00:13:14.620 And they're different than me
00:13:15.660 and that's great.
00:13:17.900 But ask yourself,
00:13:19.140 why do I want the things that I want?
00:13:22.460 If I want to hunt, why?
00:13:24.160 Is it because Cam does it
00:13:25.260 or is it because you really see the value
00:13:27.560 in providing for your family?
00:13:30.740 If you want to grow this amazing tech company,
00:13:33.060 is it because, well, Mark Zuckerberg did it,
00:13:34.980 so I must need to do that?
00:13:36.220 Or is it because you have a desire
00:13:37.680 to bring technology
00:13:39.700 and infuse a solution
00:13:41.880 to one of the world's greatest problems
00:13:43.680 into every household in the country?
00:13:47.420 See the difference?
00:13:49.240 Why is it important to you?
00:13:53.060 And when you figure out why it's important to you
00:13:55.020 on the days that you don't feel like doing it,
00:13:56.660 you don't feel like being the man you need to be,
00:13:59.600 you can say to yourself,
00:14:00.640 even though I don't feel it,
00:14:01.560 I'm still going to do it
00:14:03.100 because of feeling your reason there.
00:14:10.100 There's days I don't want to podcast.
00:14:12.560 There's days I don't want to email.
00:14:13.700 There's days I don't want to respond
00:14:14.860 to any of you, frankly.
00:14:16.600 There's days I don't want to put on a show
00:14:19.460 or a podcast,
00:14:21.860 well, I already said that,
00:14:22.620 or do an event or go to an event.
00:14:25.100 Like there's times I just don't want to do that,
00:14:26.760 but I do it because I know
00:14:28.460 that's the man I want to be,
00:14:29.940 what he would do,
00:14:31.000 and I know it's aligned with
00:14:32.820 what I have to do
00:14:34.160 in order to achieve my objectives.
00:14:35.920 This is my why.
00:14:38.120 And my why is to reclaim
00:14:40.120 and restore masculinity
00:14:41.280 in myself,
00:14:43.540 in myself,
00:14:43.700 in the lives of the men and boys,
00:14:46.880 especially my children around me
00:14:48.220 and the boys that I coach as well,
00:14:50.060 and in the lives of strangers,
00:14:52.200 you, potentially,
00:14:53.580 people who are listening to this podcast
00:14:54.840 who I've never met,
00:14:55.600 and at some point I hope to,
00:14:57.420 but millions of people I've never met.
00:14:59.340 I am deeply committed to restoring
00:15:01.940 and reclaiming masculinity.
00:15:03.820 And so when I wake up in the morning,
00:15:05.680 that's what goes on in my head.
00:15:08.020 When I want to sleep in,
00:15:09.880 that's not going to serve my kids.
00:15:11.380 I want to be a good father.
00:15:12.140 That's not going to serve my kids.
00:15:13.120 When I don't want to go to the gym,
00:15:16.100 I think to myself,
00:15:16.900 well, how's that going to help me show up as a man?
00:15:19.800 That's what losers do.
00:15:22.200 That's what weak men do.
00:15:24.500 Men that I don't want to be like do.
00:15:27.800 But the men I do want to be like
00:15:29.240 motivate me,
00:15:30.960 inspire me,
00:15:31.600 and keep me on the path.
00:15:33.180 So I think that's a very important question, guys.
00:15:35.160 Like I said,
00:15:35.540 this one's going to be a short one for you today.
00:15:37.020 But if you want to write a book,
00:15:38.960 start a podcast,
00:15:40.260 grow a business,
00:15:40.960 run a marathon,
00:15:42.160 pick up a hobby,
00:15:42.980 learn to hunt,
00:15:43.680 et cetera,
00:15:44.060 et cetera,
00:15:44.460 et cetera,
00:15:44.880 et cetera,
00:15:45.240 then you have to ask yourself,
00:15:46.680 what kind of man do I need to become?
00:15:50.560 And then do that.
00:15:53.560 That's simple.
00:15:55.340 Do that.
00:15:57.260 Every day,
00:15:58.740 every hour,
00:15:59.960 every minute,
00:16:01.600 wake up knowing that you have a vision,
00:16:04.660 you have a goal,
00:16:05.620 you know what you need to do,
00:16:06.960 you know what you don't need to do,
00:16:09.300 and you know why you're putting forth that effort.
00:16:12.300 If all of us did that,
00:16:13.540 the world would be a better place.
00:16:14.840 You would achieve more results and success in your life
00:16:16.960 and you certainly,
00:16:18.100 certainly would be a lot more fulfilled
00:16:19.800 as would the people around you.
00:16:22.340 And we do have a responsibility to them as well.
00:16:25.680 All right, guys,
00:16:26.180 that's all I've got.
00:16:26.760 Very short message for you today.
00:16:27.920 But again,
00:16:28.380 ask yourself,
00:16:29.340 who do I need to become?
00:16:31.480 What type of man do I need to become?
00:16:35.040 And then,
00:16:36.320 once you answer the question,
00:16:38.140 start becoming that person.
00:16:42.320 And on that note, guys,
00:16:43.400 I do want to say
00:16:44.000 we've got a tremendous resource.
00:16:45.200 If you're wondering about
00:16:46.100 how to become more of an effective man
00:16:48.160 and you want other men in your corner
00:16:50.280 to help you do that,
00:16:51.620 then join our brotherhood.
00:16:53.820 Band with us.
00:16:54.740 Unite with us.
00:16:55.720 Bond with us.
00:16:56.980 In the Iron Council.
00:16:58.600 These are guys who have answered
00:17:00.300 all the questions I'm sharing with you today.
00:17:02.400 Who do I want to be?
00:17:04.740 How do I want to show up?
00:17:06.560 Why is that important?
00:17:08.140 And specifically,
00:17:08.980 what is the work
00:17:10.140 that I need to do on a daily basis?
00:17:11.520 And they've all answered that question,
00:17:13.560 those questions,
00:17:14.200 and they know what the answers
00:17:15.220 to those questions are
00:17:16.080 and they're reviewing them often
00:17:17.120 and they're living by them
00:17:18.100 every single day.
00:17:18.800 Even though at times
00:17:19.960 we all fall short,
00:17:21.440 they're living them every single day
00:17:22.860 and they're talking with
00:17:24.080 and conversing
00:17:25.020 and communicating
00:17:25.700 and discussing
00:17:26.300 and debating
00:17:26.900 and having dialogue
00:17:27.760 with other men
00:17:28.580 who have done
00:17:28.960 the exact same thing.
00:17:30.460 This is structure.
00:17:31.240 You could get that on Facebook.
00:17:32.800 You could get that
00:17:33.400 on social media platforms.
00:17:34.460 You can get that
00:17:34.980 at the neighborhood barbecue.
00:17:38.080 But what you won't get
00:17:39.020 is the structure,
00:17:40.020 guidance,
00:17:40.440 and clarity
00:17:40.920 that you need
00:17:41.520 to actually move the needle
00:17:42.840 in the right direction.
00:17:45.160 So if you've been sitting
00:17:46.000 on the fence
00:17:46.580 or you've been wondering about,
00:17:47.900 man,
00:17:48.100 how do I just,
00:17:49.240 I feel like I'm just meant
00:17:50.900 for something more
00:17:51.900 and I have these conversations
00:17:53.300 with these guys
00:17:53.860 in my neighborhood
00:17:54.380 and it isn't going well
00:17:55.600 and I'm not experiencing
00:17:56.520 the results that I want,
00:17:58.580 try banding with us
00:17:59.720 because I'll give you
00:18:00.740 a path to run on
00:18:01.560 and I'll give you
00:18:02.600 the network of men
00:18:03.640 that you need
00:18:04.520 in your corner
00:18:05.020 to achieve the results
00:18:06.240 that you desire.
00:18:07.260 Go to orderofman.com
00:18:08.260 slash ironcouncil.
00:18:09.320 We open up in two days.
00:18:10.580 If you drop your email,
00:18:11.660 I'll send you an email
00:18:12.460 on Sunday personally
00:18:13.340 and say we're open
00:18:14.320 for enrollment.
00:18:15.260 I want you there.
00:18:15.980 If you have any questions,
00:18:16.720 I'll answer those for you.
00:18:17.960 But again,
00:18:18.600 go to orderofman.com
00:18:20.100 slash ironcouncil.
00:18:21.940 Guys,
00:18:22.520 that is your assignment
00:18:25.160 and your marching orders.
00:18:27.320 Until then,
00:18:27.940 go out there,
00:18:29.020 take action,
00:18:30.060 be the kind of man
00:18:31.000 you need to be
00:18:31.600 and let's all get the work
00:18:34.160 that we need to get done.
00:18:37.160 We're relying on ourselves
00:18:38.400 to do this.
00:18:39.660 Other people are relying
00:18:40.480 on us to do this
00:18:41.460 and we've got to go out there
00:18:42.660 and do the work.
00:18:43.820 All right, guys.
00:18:44.320 We'll be back next week.
00:18:45.240 Until then,
00:18:45.520 go out there,
00:18:45.840 take action
00:18:46.280 and become the man
00:18:47.080 you are meant to be.
00:18:52.120 Thank you for listening
00:18:53.000 to the Order of Man podcast.
00:18:55.080 You're ready to take charge
00:18:56.140 of your life
00:18:56.700 and be more of the man
00:18:57.860 you were meant to be.
00:18:58.740 We invite you
00:18:59.720 to join the order
00:19:00.460 at orderofman.com.
00:19:02.700 you're meant to be.
00:19:03.920 And we'll be right up there and say,
00:19:05.440 and we'll see you next week.
00:19:10.540 And we'll be right back to you now.