Order of Man - Your Redemption Story ｜ FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

00:00:00.000 You're a man of action. You live life to the fullest. Embrace your fears and boldly chart your own path.

00:00:06.020 When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time. Every time.

00:00:10.480 You are not easily deterred or defeated. Rugged. Resilient. Strong.

00:00:15.500 This is your life. This is who you are. This is who you will become.

00:00:19.760 At the end of the day, and after all is said and done, you can call yourself a man.

00:00:24.720 Hey, gentlemen, what is going on today? My name is Ryan Mickler, and I am the host and founder of this movement, The Order of Man.

00:00:30.720 I want to welcome you. Regardless of how long you've been listening to this podcast, it's amazing how far we've come in a very short period of time.

00:00:38.980 It's a testament to you tuning in. It's a testament to you sharing.

00:00:42.220 And, of course, it's a testament to you stepping up as a husband, a father, a business owner, a community leader, a coach, a mentor, a friend, and whatever capacity of life you're showing up as.

00:00:51.700 It's my goal to give you the tools and the resources, and specifically with this podcast, the conversations that you need to level up your life to become a more capable man in a society that most of us realize and see that is in need of us more than ever.

00:01:08.260 Now, I've got a pretty quick one for you today. I'm actually right now, as we speak, sitting in my brother-in-law's spare room.

00:01:16.340 It's almost 10 o'clock here local time, and a lot of you know I'm on the road. Me and my family are moving to Maine, so we're halfway into this thing.

00:01:27.540 I've got about two and a half days left before we get to our home in Maine, and I figured we'd take a quick break here for a couple of days.

00:01:35.060 But I wanted to make sure I got this podcast out to you because it's a very important conversation.

00:01:41.180 It's a very important topic that we're going to address today, which is your redemption story.

00:01:47.160 And when I say that, what I'm talking about is your ability to redeem yourself.

00:01:52.760 I know a lot of guys who have had very difficult situations because I talk with these guys on a daily basis.

00:01:58.700 I get messages and emails and texts from guys who are going through divorces, and they're going through separations, and maybe they lost their job.

00:02:06.260 They're dealing with something with a health issue or medical condition.

00:02:11.120 And what I see a lot of these men doing is they're living in this perpetual state of discomfort and misery.

00:02:19.140 And what I want to let you know is that when these bad things happen, when these negative situations come up or we have these obstacles and hurdles that we need to address, they're only meant to be temporary.

00:02:30.800 And yet so many men operate from a position of that this is just their destiny and this is their way of life, and they can't ever seem to redeem themselves.

00:02:41.200 The reason this thought came to me is because as I was wrapping up my oldest son's baseball season a couple of weeks ago, there was a pot fly hit to our left fielder.

00:02:52.320 Just a regular pot fly, nothing out of the ordinary.

00:02:55.820 Should have been caught, no problem.

00:02:57.260 The inning should have been over, and we should have went on to win the game.

00:03:00.120 So this batter hits a pot fly.

00:03:01.920 My son happened to be pitching.

00:03:02.980 Hips a pot fly to left field, and our left fielder doesn't field it well and ends up missing the play.

00:03:12.020 And he was upset.

00:03:13.280 He was in his head about it, and it got to him.

00:03:17.380 And we finished out the inning, and I pulled him aside in between innings, and I said,

00:03:21.140 Listen, bud, that stuff's going to happen.

00:03:23.580 It's the way it goes.

00:03:24.960 But you get to go to bat this inning, and you have an opportunity to redeem yourself.

00:03:31.200 You have an opportunity to make up for a misstep, to correct a situation, or to contribute to the team in a meaningful way after a situation that took away from the team that you should have made.

00:03:44.020 And you know that.

00:03:45.380 But don't sulk about it.

00:03:47.020 Don't stew in it.

00:03:47.960 Don't think about it too long.

00:03:49.360 Don't let it ruin the rest of the game.

00:03:52.140 Chalk it up to a mess up, a mistake, a mishap.

00:03:55.660 And now, let's go up to the plate and swing the bat like you know how to swing.

00:04:01.380 Have a good at bat.

00:04:02.880 Long story short, he ends up hitting a deep, deep triple into right center.

00:04:08.880 And he got to third base, and then eventually he scored.

00:04:11.620 And in between the inning, I told him, I said, Good job, man.

00:04:14.540 You redeemed yourself.

00:04:16.220 And I talked to him about what redemption meant.

00:04:18.280 And he was so proud because he was able to make up for that mistake that he had earlier.

00:04:24.700 And if this doesn't translate perfectly to us as grown adults, us as men, and life, I don't know what does.

00:04:31.840 Look, bad stuff happens.

00:04:33.640 I've gone through situations.

00:04:35.100 And as I'm thinking about our move to Maine, which is basically across the country from Utah to Maine,

00:04:41.780 I've thought about all the blessings that my family and I are enjoying.

00:04:46.420 And a lot of that comes through my own personal redemption.

00:04:51.260 Because as I was thinking about our trip, I was thinking about where I was 10 years ago.

00:04:56.520 And the place that I was 10 years ago is that I was arguing with my wife,

00:05:02.200 and she was leaving, and she was taking my one-year-old son with her at the time.

00:05:10.700 And I'm here to tell you guys, that was the darkest point in my life.

00:05:14.300 My wife left, my son wasn't with me anymore, my business was struggling,

00:05:20.100 I was in horrible, horrible physical shape, and it was the darkest time in my life.

00:05:26.500 And I thought for a long time that this is my destiny, that this is the way that I'm meant to live,

00:05:32.340 that I'm in a way following in my father's footsteps because he was out of the picture when I was young.

00:05:38.280 And I thought that this is just the way it had to be.

00:05:41.080 And for a long time it was, because I wasn't willing to redeem myself.

00:05:46.500 I placed all the burden and all the responsibility and all the blame on my wife

00:05:51.540 and outside circumstances and outside situations.

00:05:54.060 I talked about this a little bit in last week's podcast about being a victim.

00:05:57.420 And as I did that, I stripped away any opportunity that I had to redeem myself,

00:06:05.920 to step more fully into the man that I was capable of becoming.

00:06:12.260 Guys, this is your redemption story.

00:06:15.720 I don't care where you are in life.

00:06:17.940 I don't care if you're not married or have gone through a separation or divorce or even happily married,

00:06:23.540 but maybe your business is struggling or maybe your business is fine and your marriage is fine,

00:06:27.600 but you're 50, 60, 70, 100 pounds overweight and you know you need to get that into check.

00:06:32.940 Guys, things happen.

00:06:34.920 The things that happen in our life aren't meant to completely derail us.

00:06:39.020 They're not there to write out our destiny in concrete and stone.

00:06:44.500 They're there to equip you or give you the environment, I should say,

00:06:48.940 to equip you with the tools and the skill sets and the mindset that you need to excel to a new level in your life,

00:06:56.100 to redeem yourself in a way from all your past transgressions, 0.92

00:07:00.340 from all your past mistakes to all your past missteps and all the other shit that happened to you in your life. 0.94

00:07:06.960 It's temporary if you allow it to be, but it's permanent also if you allow it to be. 0.97

00:07:12.880 You have a decision to make.

00:07:14.260 Is this going to be your redemption story or have you already written the entire script of your life?

00:07:22.380 I was down at SummerStrong, Soren X at SummerStrong a couple of weeks ago,

00:07:26.120 and one of the speakers talked about, his name is Neil, he's a bladesmith, he does amazing, amazing work.

00:07:33.540 Anyways, he talked about how his story and our stories are being written right now,

00:07:40.860 that you're the author of your story and that that story hasn't been fully written.

00:07:46.640 But when you wake up in each day and you go through the actions and the behaviors and the patterns

00:07:50.960 and the things that you do, the decisions that you make on a daily basis,

00:07:54.300 you are literally writing out your story.

00:07:58.820 And again, I don't care where you are right now,

00:08:00.660 but you have an opportunity to redeem yourself just like that baseball player did when he missed that pop fly,

00:08:05.960 to come up to bat and to redeem yourself in a powerful way

00:08:11.500 and step more fully into the man that you're capable of becoming.

00:08:15.920 And as I talk about this, what I want to share with you is some steps,

00:08:19.860 some strategies that you can use.

00:08:21.460 Now, I know you probably, if you've been listening to this podcast for any amount of time,

00:08:25.020 have become accustomed to me listing points out.

00:08:27.800 And I do that by design because this is a two-step process, generally a two-step process.

00:08:33.700 It requires thinking.

00:08:35.580 It requires a thought process.

00:08:37.620 That's important.

00:08:38.720 It also requires action.

00:08:40.980 And when I see too many guys is they get hung up on one of those areas.

00:08:44.340 Like they'll think forever and ever and ever and ever and never apply any of the stuff we're talking about.

00:08:49.440 Some guys will just act recklessly without putting much thought to anything

00:08:53.620 and then produce the same results that they've always produced in their lives.

00:08:56.700 So we've got to be intentional.

00:08:58.980 We've got to be thoughtful.

00:09:00.340 And then we've got to put this stuff into action using a framework

00:09:03.980 that has been guaranteed to produce results.

00:09:07.600 Guys, we don't need to reinvent the wheel here.

00:09:09.700 We just need to look at what other guys are doing and reproduce what they're doing. 0.72

00:09:14.640 Just go through the same patterns and behaviors and scripts and everything else that they're doing.

00:09:18.400 And it's likely that that's going to produce similar results.

00:09:22.260 That's why I do a step-by-step process with you guys.

00:09:24.520 So I want to break this down for you.

00:09:26.700 The first thing, and I don't talk about this a lot because I get into these practical steps,

00:09:30.500 but as I was thinking about what I wanted to talk with you about this evening,

00:09:33.560 today, I guess if you're listening to this as it's being released,

00:09:36.740 is that you have to have hope.

00:09:40.700 You have to have hope.

00:09:42.600 If there's no hope for the future,

00:09:46.820 then there's no reason to go through anything else I'm going to share with you today.

00:09:50.480 That is the foundation.

00:09:52.380 You have to, even if it's just a small little glimmer of hope somewhere deep down in your soul

00:09:59.560 that maybe you've buried or it's been buried for far too long,

00:10:03.140 you have to figure a way out to ignite that level of hope,

00:10:08.740 some level of optimism,

00:10:12.160 some faith, if you will.

00:10:14.660 Not necessarily spiritual faith, although that could play a role,

00:10:17.740 but faith that you can crawl out of this situation that you found yourself in.

00:10:23.620 And I know too many men, and I know you probably do as well,

00:10:26.480 who have been suicidal, who have been depressed,

00:10:29.280 who have committed suicide because they saw no hope.

00:10:32.660 Guys, open your eyes, please.

00:10:34.920 Barring mental health, and that should be certainly addressed in the proper way.

00:10:41.680 If you don't look around and see that there's some positive,

00:10:45.960 redeeming value in society, value in your life,

00:10:50.340 who you are now, who you have the potential to become,

00:10:53.720 I'm not sure you've even opened your eyes.

00:10:55.620 And I know it's hard when you're in despair.

00:10:59.040 I know it's hard when you're sitting alone at midnight

00:11:03.140 wondering how you can get your wife and your son back.

00:11:07.500 I know that because I've been there.

00:11:09.340 I know what it's like to be pacing around the yard

00:11:13.740 wondering how you're going to make the mortgage payment

00:11:17.420 or how you're going to pay for groceries that week

00:11:20.540 and provide for your family.

00:11:22.420 I know that because I've been there.

00:11:24.420 I know what it's like to have to look your kids in the eye

00:11:27.560 and say, I'm sorry, I can't go play with you 0.84

00:11:30.300 because you're so exhausted because you're fat 0.99

00:11:32.660 and you're out of shape and you're lazy

00:11:34.640 and you don't have the energy to do anything else

00:11:36.860 because you've neglected your health.

00:11:39.160 I don't say that to beat you up.

00:11:41.100 I say that with a level of empathy because I've been there.

00:11:44.460 That's my story.

00:11:45.540 I had to do that.

00:11:48.020 But somewhere in the midst of all of that darkness in my life,

00:11:52.960 I saw that there was other people around

00:11:55.700 who were performing, who had what I wanted,

00:11:59.340 who had the marriage and had the relationship with the kids

00:12:02.140 and had the body and the energy that I wanted

00:12:05.140 and had the business and the bank account

00:12:07.840 and the career that I was after.

00:12:10.700 And by looking around, I saw that even though

00:12:12.540 I was where I was, rock bottom,

00:12:14.700 that there was an opportunity for growth.

00:12:17.220 And that's what you need to focus on.

00:12:18.760 We live in a world where it is so easy to be negative.

00:12:23.740 Not only your own internal scripts,

00:12:26.200 but listen, if you're thinking negatively,

00:12:28.160 that's because somewhere along the way,

00:12:30.080 you decided to adopt somebody else's negativity

00:12:33.400 as your own worldview.

00:12:36.820 You can't have that worldview unless you accept it

00:12:40.240 as reality for yourself.

00:12:42.780 And it's so easy to get consumed with resentment

00:12:46.240 and bitterness and animosity and contention and negativity.

00:12:51.260 It's everywhere from social media

00:12:54.260 to even the podcasts that we listen to,

00:12:56.980 to tabloids and books and magazines 0.99

00:13:00.320 and the garbage and the nonsense and filth 0.99

00:13:02.840 that we see on TV and in music. 1.00

00:13:05.080 It's everywhere.

00:13:06.440 It's permeated every fabric of society.

00:13:10.060 So if you focus on that negativity,

00:13:12.180 it's going to be hard to see

00:13:13.480 that there's some level of optimism.

00:13:15.100 You're going to be pessimistic

00:13:16.620 and you're going to think that you are doomed

00:13:18.400 to a life of misery.

00:13:21.160 But if you are intentional about it

00:13:23.560 and you focus on the good

00:13:25.380 and you focus on the positive

00:13:27.120 and you focus on people

00:13:28.840 who are doing good and wonderful things

00:13:30.520 and achieving success,

00:13:31.400 it's not very difficult to see that

00:13:33.680 because that individual is doing it,

00:13:36.320 that you too could be doing it.

00:13:37.880 And that's the first step to redeeming yourself,

00:13:42.580 to your redemption story,

00:13:44.340 is to have hope and to have faith

00:13:47.320 that through your efforts and your progress

00:13:50.640 and your consistency towards your dreams

00:13:53.040 and desires and ambitions,

00:13:54.180 that you can have what you're after.

00:13:57.420 That is the foundation.

00:13:58.620 Once you establish that level of hope,

00:14:02.160 it's time to get to work

00:14:03.240 because as most of us know in the scriptures,

00:14:06.620 it says,

00:14:07.080 faith without works is dead.

00:14:09.920 It's not enough to have faith.

00:14:12.020 It's not enough to be hopeful

00:14:13.720 or cheerful or optimistic.

00:14:16.360 Although that is all wonderful

00:14:17.800 and you should strive to be those things,

00:14:20.020 it requires quite a bit more.

00:14:22.540 It requires work on your part.

00:14:25.280 It requires effort and labor.

00:14:30.360 And that's what I'm going to talk with you about now.

00:14:31.620 Number one, very simply guys,

00:14:33.540 please do not overlook the simplicity of this.

00:14:35.920 Just go exercise.

00:14:37.820 All right, go into the gym,

00:14:39.960 go for a walk,

00:14:41.480 do some pushups by your bed,

00:14:43.700 go for a run,

00:14:45.160 take your dog out,

00:14:47.040 find a friend,

00:14:48.120 go do something,

00:14:49.240 move your body,

00:14:50.880 exercise,

00:14:51.300 get that blood pumping,

00:14:53.480 get the air coursing through your lungs,

00:14:55.700 get the muscles building.

00:14:57.780 I promise you,

00:14:58.840 you're going to feel better.

00:14:59.860 Guys often ask me,

00:15:01.680 hey, Ryan,

00:15:02.100 I'm just,

00:15:02.460 I'm trying to figure out my life.

00:15:03.800 I'm in this rock bottom state

00:15:05.740 or I know there's something more.

00:15:07.860 Where do I start?

00:15:08.760 Go to the gym, guys.

00:15:11.000 And I don't care if it's power lifting

00:15:12.440 or strongman

00:15:13.940 or bodybuilding

00:15:15.200 or CrossFit

00:15:16.760 or running

00:15:18.400 or I don't care.

00:15:19.520 It doesn't matter.

00:15:20.600 You can figure that stuff out down the road.

00:15:22.940 But if you're not exercising

00:15:24.400 every single day,

00:15:26.320 then you're doing yourself a disservice.

00:15:29.120 Now, yes,

00:15:29.980 I know there's,

00:15:30.660 you know,

00:15:31.760 little efficient ways to do it

00:15:33.100 and you can be doing this exercise

00:15:34.780 versus that exercise.

00:15:35.900 We'll get to that

00:15:36.560 and you should get to that.

00:15:37.620 But if you're not doing anything,

00:15:38.880 if you're not lifting

00:15:40.180 and working out

00:15:40.940 and exercising

00:15:41.640 and moving your body

00:15:42.580 seven days a week,

00:15:43.800 you're missing an opportunity

00:15:45.180 not only to

00:15:46.260 fix your physical health,

00:15:47.800 but to redeem your life.

00:15:50.640 Because as I've said before,

00:15:52.040 the skill set required

00:15:53.000 to improve your fitness,

00:15:54.960 discipline,

00:15:55.580 dedication,

00:15:56.260 commitment,

00:15:57.140 consistency,

00:15:57.940 sacrifice

00:15:58.500 are all the same skills

00:16:00.880 that you need

00:16:01.540 to achieve

00:16:02.160 when it comes to your marriage

00:16:03.320 and achieve

00:16:04.340 when it comes to the relationship

00:16:05.340 with your kids

00:16:05.960 and achieve in your business.

00:16:07.740 Achieve

00:16:07.960 any facet of life.

00:16:09.480 It doesn't matter where.

00:16:10.300 You learn the skill set

00:16:13.360 required to succeed in the gym.

00:16:14.920 You are naturally

00:16:15.640 and inevitably going to do it

00:16:16.720 in other areas of your life.

00:16:18.000 So number one,

00:16:18.580 write this down.

00:16:19.260 Exercise daily,

00:16:20.240 every day,

00:16:21.260 at least an hour.

00:16:22.140 Moving your body.

00:16:23.340 We can talk about

00:16:24.060 what kinds later

00:16:24.880 or you can listen to other podcasts

00:16:26.140 that I've done

00:16:26.700 with guys who are

00:16:28.360 infinitely more qualified

00:16:29.600 than me

00:16:29.980 to talk about fitness stuff.

00:16:32.220 That's another conversation.

00:16:33.580 But for now,

00:16:34.240 you need to begin

00:16:34.820 to move your body.

00:16:35.940 Number two,

00:16:36.680 critical here, guys.

00:16:38.600 Flip your environment.

00:16:40.780 Switch your environment.

00:16:42.480 The environment

00:16:43.280 that you're in right now,

00:16:44.760 and I'm talking about

00:16:45.620 the people you're hanging out with,

00:16:47.300 the way that your house

00:16:48.660 or your apartment looks,

00:16:50.080 the way that your car looks,

00:16:51.940 the way that your cubicle

00:16:53.280 or office looks,

00:16:55.260 your environment

00:16:56.180 is going to dictate your life.

00:16:58.720 And I've said it before,

00:16:59.720 the product of your environment thing.

00:17:01.660 I understand what people are saying,

00:17:03.340 but look,

00:17:04.360 that's not a passive role.

00:17:07.260 You don't just get to show up

00:17:08.840 and what happens, happens.

00:17:10.060 No, you made decisions

00:17:11.740 in your life

00:17:12.660 that have created

00:17:13.800 the environment

00:17:14.960 in which you find yourself.

00:17:17.360 So if you've got

00:17:18.320 McDonald's fries

00:17:20.180 and bags

00:17:21.060 and fast food stuff

00:17:22.800 lying around in your car

00:17:23.940 and it's all filled 0.86

00:17:24.580 with trash and junk,

00:17:26.060 that's how the rest

00:17:27.660 of your life's going to look.

00:17:29.880 If you can't clean up

00:17:31.120 your office space

00:17:31.900 and file things

00:17:32.680 where they go,

00:17:33.360 when they go,

00:17:34.020 so that you can get them

00:17:35.160 when you need them,

00:17:36.380 and you've got chaos

00:17:37.560 all over your home screen

00:17:38.620 on your computer,

00:17:39.280 that might seem trivial,

00:17:40.780 but it's not.

00:17:41.840 That's going to dictate

00:17:42.880 the rest of your life.

00:17:44.720 If you go home 0.99

00:17:45.780 and you've got trash

00:17:46.600 sprawled everywhere

00:17:47.580 and places don't have,

00:17:50.300 your stuff doesn't have

00:17:51.340 a place to go

00:17:52.080 and your plants aren't watered,

00:17:53.740 how is that going to translate

00:17:55.440 over into the relationship

00:17:57.260 that you're trying to redeem?

00:17:58.360 It's going to mirror.

00:18:02.020 You can't make decisions

00:18:03.020 in a vacuum.

00:18:03.940 You make a decision over here

00:18:05.220 to keep your life

00:18:06.700 in chaos

00:18:08.140 and clutter

00:18:09.180 and confusion,

00:18:10.620 guess how every other aspect

00:18:11.920 of your life

00:18:12.480 is going to show up?

00:18:13.340 If all your friends 1.00

00:18:14.160 are assholes 1.00

00:18:14.780 and they're all pessimistic 1.00

00:18:16.160 and they're all bitching 1.00

00:18:17.160 and moaning 0.96

00:18:17.460 about their life,

00:18:18.760 don't you think

00:18:19.600 they have a vested interest

00:18:20.740 in you being stuck

00:18:22.140 with them

00:18:22.700 because misery loves company?

00:18:25.240 Gentlemen,

00:18:26.340 inventory your life,

00:18:27.500 inventory your friends,

00:18:28.800 inventory your living arrangements,

00:18:30.740 inventory your car. 0.98

00:18:31.720 If your car looks like crap, 0.99

00:18:33.160 drive into the car wash right now. 0.98

00:18:34.660 Go get it washed,

00:18:35.740 vacuum it out,

00:18:36.660 have somebody detail it.

00:18:37.760 I don't care what you do,

00:18:38.900 but clean that space up.

00:18:41.740 You start cleaning up your car,

00:18:43.300 your glove box,

00:18:44.040 your junk drawer,

00:18:44.720 your house,

00:18:45.240 your office,

00:18:46.160 the people that are in your circle

00:18:47.440 and in your space,

00:18:48.420 you're going to naturally

00:18:49.240 improve your life

00:18:50.080 almost magically,

00:18:52.280 although it's not magic.

00:18:54.000 It's just the law

00:18:55.280 of the way you do it.

00:18:56.460 One thing is the way

00:18:57.200 you do everything.

00:18:58.360 So clean it up.

00:18:59.680 Clean up your environment.

00:19:00.880 Number three,

00:19:01.780 I think I'm on,

00:19:02.660 or maybe four,

00:19:03.640 if you count hope,

00:19:04.760 is developing

00:19:06.040 a new skill set.

00:19:09.140 When I say skill set,

00:19:10.260 I'm talking about

00:19:10.920 hard skills.

00:19:12.320 That might be a hobby

00:19:13.360 or self-defense,

00:19:14.240 some of the things

00:19:14.620 I've talked about in the past,

00:19:15.680 but I'm also talking

00:19:16.460 about soft skills.

00:19:17.580 Learning how to communicate,

00:19:18.700 learning how to learn,

00:19:20.240 learning how to cast vision,

00:19:21.800 learning how to be more

00:19:23.160 assertive in your life,

00:19:24.760 learning to have small talk

00:19:26.220 and being able to hold

00:19:27.360 conversations with other people.

00:19:29.140 For me,

00:19:29.580 it's learning how to be

00:19:30.320 a great listener

00:19:31.120 and a great asker of questions

00:19:33.040 because that's what I do

00:19:33.780 with my career here

00:19:34.500 with Order of Man.

00:19:36.160 The more skills you have

00:19:38.220 in your tool belt,

00:19:40.440 the more capable you become,

00:19:42.160 the more confidence you build,

00:19:43.700 and ultimately,

00:19:44.700 the better position

00:19:45.740 you find yourself in.

00:19:47.380 So make yourself the project.

00:19:49.100 When I talk with guys

00:19:50.080 who are going through

00:19:50.880 a rough relationship

00:19:52.340 or they just got laid off,

00:19:54.080 they're going through

00:19:54.620 a health situation,

00:19:57.660 I tell them,

00:19:58.560 make yourself the project.

00:20:00.440 You've got to make yourself

00:20:01.400 the project.

00:20:01.980 You're worried about

00:20:02.540 too many other people.

00:20:03.940 You're worried about

00:20:04.380 your girlfriend and your kids

00:20:05.400 and your boss and your clients

00:20:06.460 and your this and your that

00:20:07.380 and all that stuff's wonderful

00:20:08.620 and has a place in time.

00:20:09.960 But if you're not worrying

00:20:10.800 about yourself,

00:20:12.540 you're focused on

00:20:13.520 the wrong things.

00:20:15.100 And I'm not saying

00:20:15.760 be selfish as in

00:20:17.380 do this at the expense

00:20:18.640 of other people.

00:20:19.640 I'm saying be selfish

00:20:21.040 as in take care of yourself

00:20:22.660 so you're more capable

00:20:23.940 of stepping into

00:20:24.900 the calling of man,

00:20:25.880 which is protector,

00:20:26.980 provider, and presider.

00:20:28.340 You can't do that

00:20:29.360 if you don't have

00:20:30.120 the skill set to do it.

00:20:31.720 And so if you're moping around

00:20:32.800 thinking about how

00:20:33.520 all this bad stuff's

00:20:34.440 happening to you

00:20:35.200 and woe is me 1.00

00:20:36.500 and I can't catch a break

00:20:37.880 and why would God

00:20:38.560 do this to me

00:20:39.300 and yet you weren't

00:20:40.160 doing the work

00:20:40.740 to dig yourself

00:20:41.420 out of the hole,

00:20:42.940 you're never going

00:20:43.540 to redeem yourself.

00:20:45.020 And you're going to

00:20:45.420 start believing

00:20:46.180 this own BS

00:20:47.040 that you're just

00:20:48.000 destined to

00:20:48.940 show up 1.00

00:20:50.020 as a loser. 0.99

00:20:51.320 You're not. 0.97

00:20:52.860 You're not.

00:20:54.880 But it's an active role.

00:20:56.700 It requires you

00:20:57.620 again doing

00:20:58.380 work

00:20:59.400 towards

00:21:00.660 redeeming

00:21:01.700 yourself.

00:21:03.260 The next couple

00:21:04.180 and we'll leave it

00:21:04.680 here today

00:21:05.180 is

00:21:06.160 money.

00:21:08.320 Money.

00:21:09.720 You've got to get

00:21:10.640 your financial affairs

00:21:11.540 in order.

00:21:12.560 You have to get

00:21:13.580 your financial affairs

00:21:14.660 in order.

00:21:16.940 You know,

00:21:17.440 we hear all these

00:21:17.860 quotes like

00:21:18.500 money is the root

00:21:19.700 of all evil

00:21:20.360 and money doesn't

00:21:21.960 grow on trees

00:21:22.800 and a penny saved

00:21:23.640 is a penny earned

00:21:24.500 and we buy into

00:21:25.780 these scripts

00:21:26.260 that we've heard

00:21:26.800 from our parents

00:21:27.460 and our friends

00:21:27.880 and our family

00:21:28.440 and then we remain

00:21:29.920 broke.

00:21:30.500 Guess what?

00:21:31.060 Like our friends

00:21:31.680 and our parents

00:21:32.220 and our family did

00:21:32.940 because we adopted

00:21:34.300 all of their beliefs

00:21:35.360 about money

00:21:35.960 as our own

00:21:37.060 and I'll tell you

00:21:37.840 what,

00:21:38.100 I've been broke

00:21:38.800 and I've made

00:21:40.180 good money

00:21:41.360 in my life

00:21:42.260 and I can tell you

00:21:43.220 that making money

00:21:44.860 is always better.

00:21:46.860 Always better.

00:21:48.220 I have less to worry about.

00:21:49.840 I have less stress.

00:21:51.700 I'm able to be

00:21:52.680 present with my family

00:21:54.120 instead of worrying

00:21:54.680 about how the mortgage

00:21:55.380 is going to get paid.

00:21:56.560 I can donate

00:21:57.700 to charity.

00:21:58.740 I can spend my time

00:22:00.040 in meaningful

00:22:00.520 and significant ways.

00:22:01.980 I can contribute

00:22:03.100 more in my community

00:22:04.580 and to the organizations

00:22:06.320 that are important to me

00:22:07.280 because I have money.

00:22:09.380 If you're broke,

00:22:10.680 I'm telling you,

00:22:11.740 you're going to be

00:22:12.240 consumed

00:22:12.920 with being broke

00:22:14.320 and I get it.

00:22:16.340 I understand it.

00:22:17.720 I've been there

00:22:18.480 but learn how to budget.

00:22:21.120 Learn how to invest.

00:22:22.740 Develop a skill set

00:22:23.720 like I just got done saying

00:22:24.920 so that you can go in

00:22:26.120 and ask for a raise

00:22:27.140 or you can get another job

00:22:29.060 where you can start

00:22:29.640 making some more money

00:22:30.560 so when you're trading

00:22:32.060 your time for money,

00:22:33.880 the time you're trading

00:22:34.820 is worth more money.

00:22:37.080 It's a more efficient

00:22:38.220 way to live.

00:22:39.980 Again, learn how to invest.

00:22:41.740 Learn how to handle

00:22:42.280 this stuff.

00:22:42.920 Pick up a second job.

00:22:44.880 Turn a hobby

00:22:45.400 into a money-generating activity.

00:22:48.280 Again, that's not the topic

00:22:49.460 necessarily of this conversation.

00:22:50.960 You can go back

00:22:51.540 and listen to my podcast

00:22:52.380 with guests

00:22:53.680 that talk about

00:22:54.340 how to invest

00:22:54.960 and how to make money

00:22:55.700 and how to turn a side hustle

00:22:57.220 into a full-time business.

00:22:58.420 We've had dozens

00:22:59.480 and dozens of them

00:23:00.320 but guys,

00:23:01.260 get your financial house

00:23:02.120 in order.

00:23:03.500 All right?

00:23:04.220 You just can't

00:23:05.380 be the man

00:23:06.340 you're capable of

00:23:07.200 if you're broke.

00:23:07.980 Can you be a good man?

00:23:08.960 Sure.

00:23:09.660 Absolutely.

00:23:10.700 I know some men

00:23:11.700 who aren't that well

00:23:13.300 to do financially

00:23:14.040 and they're some

00:23:14.780 of the finest men

00:23:15.520 that I know.

00:23:16.100 They're good men

00:23:16.700 but I'm telling you,

00:23:18.040 you are more capable

00:23:20.520 when you have money

00:23:21.700 and I want you to learn

00:23:23.760 how to develop

00:23:24.280 and grow it

00:23:24.900 in your life,

00:23:25.880 build wealth

00:23:26.440 so that you can be

00:23:27.280 more capable

00:23:27.880 and you can fully

00:23:28.880 redeem yourself

00:23:29.620 from where you may be

00:23:30.300 finding yourself right now.

00:23:31.300 And the last one

00:23:33.180 that I want to

00:23:34.460 address with you

00:23:35.600 is

00:23:37.220 your hobbies.

00:23:39.640 You've got to have hobbies.

00:23:41.040 You've got to find a way

00:23:42.280 to recharge

00:23:44.020 and rejuvenate yourself

00:23:45.620 and energize yourself.

00:23:47.100 I talk with a lot of guys

00:23:48.020 for example

00:23:48.540 who

00:23:49.600 will be going through

00:23:51.500 rough situations

00:23:52.280 with their significant others

00:23:53.800 and they'll hear things like

00:23:55.880 I'm not in love with you anymore.

00:23:57.500 The spark

00:23:58.140 isn't there

00:23:59.000 and what I would suggest

00:24:00.820 if you're feeling like

00:24:01.620 you're in that situation

00:24:02.480 is because you may have dimmed

00:24:04.260 your partner's light.

00:24:06.620 You're more powerful

00:24:07.400 than I think

00:24:07.880 a lot of you

00:24:08.500 give yourself credit for.

00:24:10.340 What happens is that

00:24:11.720 she's out there

00:24:12.880 doing her thing

00:24:13.600 providing her energy

00:24:14.560 to the relationship

00:24:15.380 and because you're not

00:24:16.560 finding your own

00:24:17.500 hobbies and activities

00:24:18.780 and interest

00:24:19.420 hanging out with your buddies

00:24:20.400 and recharging your own soul

00:24:22.120 you're asking her

00:24:23.700 indirectly

00:24:24.420 to provide

00:24:25.720 not only her energy

00:24:27.040 to the relationship

00:24:27.800 but your energy

00:24:28.780 as well

00:24:29.280 and she can't

00:24:30.940 sustain that

00:24:31.620 obviously

00:24:32.400 you couldn't

00:24:33.640 sustain that

00:24:34.140 if you were

00:24:34.680 providing her energy

00:24:36.000 and yours

00:24:36.740 and because

00:24:38.520 she can't sustain that

00:24:39.680 she gets burnt out

00:24:40.600 the spark in the marriage

00:24:41.680 or the relationship

00:24:42.300 dies

00:24:42.720 and the thing

00:24:43.500 withers away

00:24:44.140 and crumbles.

00:24:45.600 That's what happened

00:24:46.380 with me

00:24:46.660 in my relationship.

00:24:47.760 I thought I was doing

00:24:48.280 all this wonderful stuff

00:24:49.140 like I was going to work

00:24:50.060 I was working full time

00:24:51.140 trying to grow

00:24:51.580 my financial planning practice

00:24:52.940 trying to be there

00:24:53.780 for my one year old boy

00:24:54.680 at the time

00:24:55.240 trying to be there

00:24:56.060 for her 1.00

00:24:56.540 I was busting my ass 1.00

00:24:58.460 and I questioned 1.00

00:25:00.020 her

00:25:00.580 like why can't you

00:25:01.740 see this

00:25:02.300 why can't you see

00:25:03.940 what I'm doing

00:25:04.540 for us

00:25:05.160 I'm doing this

00:25:06.100 for us

00:25:06.780 and as much

00:25:08.780 as that was true

00:25:09.580 I wasn't as capable

00:25:10.680 because I didn't

00:25:11.700 have any energy

00:25:12.480 I wasn't in the gym

00:25:14.040 I wasn't taking care

00:25:14.880 of myself

00:25:15.360 excuse me

00:25:16.440 my buddies weren't around

00:25:17.600 I didn't have any hobbies

00:25:19.140 nothing to recharge myself

00:25:21.140 and I burned out

00:25:22.480 and then I asked her

00:25:24.100 to do it for me

00:25:24.780 and she burned out

00:25:25.900 and then her relationship

00:25:27.620 burned out

00:25:28.260 so go out

00:25:30.000 and find a hobby

00:25:30.720 find some buddies

00:25:31.760 find an activity

00:25:32.780 find some interest

00:25:33.960 on next week's

00:25:34.880 Friday Field Notes

00:25:35.580 I'm actually going to talk

00:25:36.520 more about that

00:25:37.240 specifically

00:25:37.800 so make sure

00:25:39.520 you subscribe

00:25:40.220 or tune in

00:25:40.880 because you'll definitely

00:25:42.300 want to hit that one up

00:25:43.040 because that's

00:25:43.500 that's going to be

00:25:44.060 really really important

00:25:44.900 for a lot of guys

00:25:45.660 I know

00:25:46.080 because I've been

00:25:46.640 in that situation

00:25:47.380 but guys

00:25:48.920 this is pretty

00:25:49.540 pretty simple stuff

00:25:50.680 I know

00:25:51.180 and I've talked

00:25:52.680 about it before

00:25:53.420 but it's critical

00:25:55.040 I want you to

00:25:56.060 redeem yourself

00:25:56.780 I had a guy

00:25:58.240 message me on Instagram

00:26:00.060 and by the way

00:26:00.760 if you're not following me

00:26:01.680 on Instagram

00:26:02.320 make sure

00:26:02.720 make sure you do

00:26:03.220 connect with me over there

00:26:04.040 because that's the platform

00:26:05.520 I'm most active

00:26:06.160 it's at Ryan Michler

00:26:07.140 but he messaged me

00:26:09.140 and he saw

00:26:10.980 he saw that we were moving

00:26:11.980 across the country

00:26:12.760 and he said something

00:26:14.220 I'm paraphrasing here

00:26:15.120 but he said something

00:26:15.860 to the effect of

00:26:16.560 I'm really excited

00:26:18.040 about you moving

00:26:18.760 I'm a little envious

00:26:20.400 of where you're at

00:26:21.300 in your life

00:26:21.940 because I want to be there

00:26:23.400 I'm fairly young

00:26:24.720 I'm just getting started

00:26:25.740 I know I'm on the path

00:26:26.860 do you have any tips

00:26:28.780 for me to get to that point

00:26:30.000 or get over this feeling

00:26:31.500 of maybe envy

00:26:32.860 or not being exactly

00:26:33.920 where I want

00:26:34.460 and what I told him

00:26:36.120 is I said

00:26:36.620 what you need to realize

00:26:38.740 is that

00:26:39.660 the thoughts

00:26:40.740 that you're having now

00:26:41.640 the people

00:26:42.500 that you're surrounded with

00:26:43.840 the hope that you have

00:26:45.040 the optimism

00:26:45.700 for your life

00:26:46.560 you exercising

00:26:47.400 all the things

00:26:47.880 I'm talking about today

00:26:48.840 you're building

00:26:50.340 the foundation

00:26:51.040 you're building

00:26:52.820 the foundation

00:26:53.460 upon which

00:26:54.180 everything else

00:26:55.200 will be built

00:26:56.240 in your life

00:26:56.880 and if you don't learn

00:26:58.880 to build this foundation

00:27:00.340 and you do it incorrectly

00:27:02.420 and you start building

00:27:03.800 on sand

00:27:04.560 or a faulty foundation

00:27:05.780 it's all going

00:27:07.680 to crumble

00:27:08.400 what you build

00:27:09.800 from here on out

00:27:10.560 will crumble

00:27:11.360 if you don't do it right

00:27:13.060 so when you hear me

00:27:14.900 talk about going

00:27:15.640 into the gym

00:27:16.320 and inventorying

00:27:17.600 your friends

00:27:18.320 and developing skill sets

00:27:19.660 and getting your money

00:27:20.380 in order

00:27:20.780 and finding a hobby

00:27:21.760 and having hope

00:27:22.680 and your positive outlook

00:27:23.560 for life

00:27:24.080 you might think

00:27:25.060 well that's not going

00:27:25.880 to produce the results

00:27:26.820 it may not feel like it now

00:27:28.380 but guys

00:27:28.840 you're building the foundation

00:27:29.960 and I would argue

00:27:31.200 that that's one of the

00:27:32.240 if not the most important part

00:27:33.860 of any structure

00:27:35.020 is what you pour underneath

00:27:36.880 it's what nobody else sees

00:27:38.580 nobody's going to see you

00:27:41.000 getting up at 5 a.m. 1.00

00:27:42.320 and busting your ass 1.00

00:27:43.260 at the gym 0.99

00:27:43.740 every day

00:27:44.720 nobody's going to see you

00:27:47.220 inventorying

00:27:48.000 and cleaning up

00:27:48.600 your apartment

00:27:49.120 or cleaning up

00:27:50.100 your car

00:27:50.580 nobody's going to see you

00:27:51.820 staying up for an extra

00:27:52.600 hour or two

00:27:53.520 every evening

00:27:54.140 because you're working

00:27:54.940 on some skill set

00:27:55.900 or trying to get

00:27:56.760 your career

00:27:57.240 nobody's going to see you

00:27:58.420 hacking away

00:27:59.000 and punching out

00:28:00.180 a budget

00:28:00.660 every week

00:28:01.700 nobody's going to see you

00:28:03.140 one of the hobbies

00:28:03.800 I like is archery

00:28:05.080 nobody's going to see you

00:28:06.300 in the backyard

00:28:06.940 shooting arrow

00:28:07.980 after arrow

00:28:08.620 after arrow

00:28:09.220 after arrow

00:28:09.780 after arrow

00:28:10.360 so that when

00:28:11.260 you're out in the field

00:28:12.240 and you get one

00:28:13.620 arrow

00:28:14.680 it counts

00:28:16.180 that you make

00:28:18.400 an impact

00:28:18.960 with that one

00:28:19.500 arrow

00:28:19.680 nobody's going to

00:28:20.680 see all of that

00:28:21.400 just like nobody

00:28:22.440 sees the foundation

00:28:23.260 of the building

00:28:23.900 but regardless

00:28:25.940 that's what's so

00:28:26.960 important

00:28:27.480 about the structure

00:28:28.800 itself

00:28:29.400 so that's what I

00:28:30.480 told this gentleman

00:28:31.080 what you're doing

00:28:32.460 now is you're

00:28:33.120 building

00:28:33.540 the foundation

00:28:34.860 you have

00:28:36.240 faith

00:28:36.940 and hope

00:28:37.580 that these

00:28:38.940 foundational principles

00:28:40.040 will inevitably

00:28:41.160 produce the results

00:28:42.380 that you're after

00:28:43.100 I guarantee you

00:28:44.860 that they will

00:28:46.220 because I built

00:28:51.440 a life

00:28:52.660 that wasn't

00:28:53.920 on a solid

00:28:54.380 foundation

00:28:54.920 and it wasn't

00:28:56.800 long before it

00:28:57.540 all started to

00:28:58.200 crumble down

00:28:58.780 now I'm building

00:29:01.180 my life on a

00:29:02.100 solid foundation

00:29:02.860 and had I done

00:29:04.020 it right the

00:29:04.540 first time

00:29:05.220 I'm curious

00:29:07.000 how far along

00:29:07.920 I would be

00:29:08.700 I'm not going

00:29:09.440 to play that game

00:29:10.200 to thinking what

00:29:10.920 could have been

00:29:11.560 but it would

00:29:13.600 have been

00:29:13.900 greater

00:29:14.280 my empire

00:29:15.420 would have

00:29:15.820 been bigger

00:29:16.360 at this point

00:29:17.380 but that's okay

00:29:18.240 I'm building it

00:29:18.800 now and I have

00:29:19.460 hope that it

00:29:20.040 will continue

00:29:20.700 to grow

00:29:21.200 because I will

00:29:22.100 continue to do

00:29:22.860 these activities

00:29:23.520 that nobody

00:29:24.320 else is going

00:29:24.820 to see

00:29:25.160 and so to

00:29:27.080 wrap this up

00:29:28.040 and put a little

00:29:28.500 bow on it here

00:29:29.300 as I wrap this

00:29:30.160 up this evening

00:29:30.740 as I said

00:29:32.760 when I started

00:29:33.500 I was a broken

00:29:35.080 man 10 years

00:29:36.300 ago

00:29:36.560 I was

00:29:38.500 alone

00:29:39.380 I was

00:29:41.220 separated

00:29:41.580 with my

00:29:41.900 wife

00:29:42.260 didn't have

00:29:43.740 the opportunity

00:29:44.280 to see my

00:29:44.900 son

00:29:45.260 near divorce

00:29:47.040 near bankruptcy

00:29:48.400 my business

00:29:49.800 was falling

00:29:50.320 apart

00:29:50.700 my health 1.00

00:29:52.060 was shit 1.00

00:29:52.540 and I was 1.00

00:29:53.940 miserable

00:29:54.380 and as my

00:29:56.620 family and I

00:29:57.340 travel to

00:29:58.740 the other side

00:30:00.080 of the country

00:30:00.640 this week

00:30:01.500 to a beautiful

00:30:03.560 home

00:30:03.960 to people

00:30:05.860 who care

00:30:06.320 about us

00:30:06.860 and want

00:30:07.840 to see us

00:30:08.260 win

00:30:08.580 and support

00:30:09.840 us

00:30:10.280 to the

00:30:12.120 times that

00:30:12.580 I've had

00:30:13.020 with my

00:30:13.540 family

00:30:14.020 on this

00:30:14.920 trip

00:30:15.180 to me

00:30:16.320 being able

00:30:16.740 to still

00:30:17.180 occasionally

00:30:17.620 get some

00:30:18.000 exercise in

00:30:18.820 as I'm

00:30:19.740 traveling across

00:30:20.400 the country

00:30:20.920 and to do

00:30:22.100 the things

00:30:22.560 that are

00:30:22.740 important to

00:30:23.320 me

00:30:23.580 I'm

00:30:25.320 redeeming

00:30:25.780 myself

00:30:26.280 not for

00:30:27.840 anybody else

00:30:28.580 not for

00:30:29.560 my wife

00:30:30.040 or my

00:30:30.380 kids

00:30:30.760 or anybody

00:30:31.740 that I

00:30:32.280 may have

00:30:32.600 wronged in

00:30:32.980 the past

00:30:33.360 and I

00:30:33.620 certainly

00:30:34.000 have

00:30:34.280 and I

00:30:34.460 try to

00:30:34.740 make amends

00:30:35.200 where I

00:30:35.680 can

00:30:35.980 I'm

00:30:36.740 doing

00:30:36.880 this

00:30:37.100 for me

00:30:37.600 because

00:30:39.760 I

00:30:41.460 can

00:30:41.940 and I

00:30:43.840 feel like

00:30:44.240 I have a

00:30:44.640 moral obligation

00:30:45.380 to do it

00:30:45.900 I'm here

00:30:47.600 for a

00:30:48.820 reason

00:30:49.060 and I

00:30:50.480 haven't always

00:30:50.940 known what

00:30:51.320 it is

00:30:51.780 I know

00:30:52.320 what it

00:30:52.560 is now

00:30:53.020 is to

00:30:54.740 be

00:30:55.120 the best

00:30:56.200 father

00:30:56.620 and husband

00:30:57.900 and business

00:30:59.380 owner

00:30:59.680 and community

00:31:00.640 leader

00:31:00.980 and mentor

00:31:01.800 and coach

00:31:02.420 and friend

00:31:03.060 and frankly

00:31:04.200 man

00:31:04.780 that I

00:31:05.500 can be

00:31:05.940 and that

00:31:07.880 requires

00:31:08.600 my

00:31:10.260 dedication

00:31:10.840 to

00:31:11.360 redeeming

00:31:12.760 my

00:31:13.760 past

00:31:15.020 mistakes

00:31:16.480 and my

00:31:16.920 past

00:31:17.240 missteps

00:31:17.800 and I'm

00:31:18.360 on that

00:31:18.640 path

00:31:19.040 and I'm

00:31:20.160 honored to

00:31:20.500 be on the

00:31:20.820 same path

00:31:21.260 as you

00:31:21.620 I might

00:31:22.720 be a little

00:31:23.000 further along

00:31:23.660 the track

00:31:24.040 than some

00:31:24.400 of you

00:31:24.640 I might

00:31:25.680 not be as

00:31:26.320 far along

00:31:26.980 the track

00:31:27.400 as some

00:31:28.020 of you

00:31:28.340 but either

00:31:29.160 way I'm

00:31:29.560 honored to

00:31:29.980 be standing

00:31:30.440 shoulder to

00:31:31.000 shoulder

00:31:31.200 with you

00:31:31.660 in this

00:31:31.920 redemption

00:31:32.400 story

00:31:32.900 of becoming

00:31:34.120 the men

00:31:35.060 frankly that

00:31:35.600 we're capable

00:31:36.160 of becoming

00:31:36.760 of the men

00:31:37.940 that we

00:31:38.440 ought to

00:31:38.920 become

00:31:39.300 because we

00:31:40.000 can live a

00:31:40.700 better life

00:31:41.240 and the men

00:31:42.480 that our

00:31:43.120 families

00:31:43.560 and our

00:31:44.020 friends

00:31:44.420 and our

00:31:45.140 communities

00:31:45.560 and neighbors

00:31:46.360 and people

00:31:47.140 we love

00:31:47.540 and care

00:31:47.860 about

00:31:48.160 are requiring

00:31:49.980 us to be

00:31:50.640 expecting

00:31:51.480 us to be

00:31:52.420 and hoping

00:31:53.280 that will be

00:31:54.620 so guys

00:31:55.760 as I part

00:31:56.960 I'll leave you

00:31:58.020 there this

00:31:58.640 weekend

00:31:59.000 I'm going

00:31:59.700 to take

00:31:59.920 another couple

00:32:00.420 of days

00:32:00.800 on the road

00:32:01.260 here

00:32:01.580 we're heading

00:32:02.440 from Nashville

00:32:03.120 straight to Maine

00:32:03.860 at this point

00:32:04.340 I'll be up there

00:32:04.820 in two and a half

00:32:05.380 days

00:32:05.740 and as we do

00:32:07.100 I'll continue

00:32:07.600 to share my

00:32:08.160 story on

00:32:08.660 Instagram

00:32:08.980 so you guys

00:32:09.720 can check that

00:32:10.220 out and follow

00:32:10.760 along with what

00:32:11.320 we're doing

00:32:11.740 of course

00:32:12.400 when we get

00:32:12.760 up there

00:32:13.220 you'll see

00:32:14.240 that as well

00:32:14.780 and then we're

00:32:15.320 going to do

00:32:15.580 an event

00:32:16.000 in August

00:32:17.480 it's looking

00:32:18.040 like August

00:32:18.680 9th

00:32:19.140 through the

00:32:19.360 11th

00:32:19.840 I believe

00:32:20.220 so you might

00:32:20.960 want to pencil

00:32:21.420 that into your

00:32:21.960 calendar

00:32:22.300 and then we'll

00:32:23.680 let you know

00:32:24.900 as dates

00:32:25.840 firm up

00:32:26.400 anyways guys

00:32:27.480 that's all I've

00:32:28.000 got for you

00:32:28.480 it's late here

00:32:29.520 I'm going to go

00:32:30.060 get some sleep

00:32:30.700 before we head

00:32:31.620 out tomorrow

00:32:32.100 appreciate you

00:32:32.740 guys

00:32:33.000 honored to be

00:32:33.500 on this path

00:32:33.980 in this journey

00:32:34.420 with you

00:32:34.760 do me a favor

00:32:35.300 share this

00:32:35.840 if you know

00:32:36.680 somebody in your

00:32:37.640 life

00:32:37.840 some man

00:32:38.260 specifically

00:32:38.760 who's struggling

00:32:39.400 father, brother, colleague

00:32:40.660 co-worker, friend

00:32:41.360 whoever it is

00:32:42.060 they're struggling

00:32:43.220 they're in a

00:32:45.020 downward spiral

00:32:46.500 share this episode

00:32:47.720 with them

00:32:48.080 and help them

00:32:49.460 write their own

00:32:50.340 redemption story

00:32:51.220 alright guys

00:32:52.400 that's all I've got

00:32:53.020 go out there

00:32:53.820 take action

00:32:54.400 become the man

00:32:55.220 you are meant to be

00:32:56.480 thank you for listening

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00:33:00.180 take charge of your

00:33:00.940 life and be more

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Order of Man - May 31, 2019

Your Redemption Story ｜ FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

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