Pearl - August 04, 2025
2 Trad Wives Took an L and Can't Handle It | Pearl Daily
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Summary
A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage for men and why it s a terrible deal for them. Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless. Most young men are single, most young women are not. Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.
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Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless.
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This headline from The Hill, it caught my eye.
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Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.
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Like, we don't need men the way that they used to.
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Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.
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A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.
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You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.
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This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
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You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
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It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
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Now many of the red pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
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One of the most controversial faces in all of the Internet.
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She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
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Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
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74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.
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Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.
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Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.
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I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.
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Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.
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When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for.
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And you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
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I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
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You're literally just thrown out onto the street.
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We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.
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and then daughters grow up without their fathers.
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Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.
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A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.
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Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.
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We tell women to date as many guys as possible.
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We tell them to put off family into marriage.
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You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.
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I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.
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Like if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic,
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naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.
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That's the thing, like women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.
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And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings,
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leave when I feel like it instead of doing what's best for the kids.
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This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?
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They think, well, men have all the rights.
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Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?
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I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.
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I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide, and they didn't do anything wrong.
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How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?
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The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.
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The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol,
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What kind of a woman are you going to attract?
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everybody knows this is a huge problem but nobody wants to admit it every single woman at the table
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said they wanted a man 500k 500k 300k 200k am i crazy everything is really set up against you
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to fail as a man if men make less than women women don't want to marry them so you know who
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wants more economically and emotionally viable men women i don't want to be an independent woman
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anymore i don't want to be a strong independent woman i'm over it when is it going to be my turn
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Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want
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The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.
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We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.
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The American story does not end well. This is an existential crisis failing young men.
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segment last time because I kind of I'll start going off on tangents and you know it can be
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kind of fun but before we get into that guys please make sure if you can you can donate to
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the divorce documentary the divorce documentary is something we have been attempting to put
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together but you know society just really doesn't want it to come out one scorned woman dragged me
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to court another scorned woman demonetized my channel for a year and a half i had to let go
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20 employees a whole thing all because they get so angry when we give this information that women
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are whores not all and um that you know marriage is a terrible deal and you know the reason the
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reason that they don't want this information getting out is everyone's paid by women i remember
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I had a conversation with my dad once and he's, he's such a saint. He's like the biggest saint
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ever. And he talked about, um, how, cause I told him that everyone's paid by women. And then he
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said, no, that's not true. I wasn't paid by women. He's like, I, I sell, um, they sell soft sold
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software to like, um, HVAC plumbing technician, like that sort of thing. And I said, dad,
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who's hiring them men will figure out how to how to do it themselves women will hire them you're
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indirectly also paid by women he's like and i was like yeah dad yeah but he's so nice my dad's like
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he's like a saint saint saint i would call him saint dan um thank you to sam for the donation
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alexander for another donation william for another donation okay so um those are the people
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if you want to donate the link to that is in the description all right so today we're going to be
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reacting to um we're good and by the way if you guys like this t-shirt it's the audacity network
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you know i can sell these again i stopped selling them because people didn't buy them enough
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Okay, so I wanted to talk about a couple thoughts I had on, here we go, on tweets that I saw.
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This one was from Coach Greg Adams, and he said, she will cheat on a millionaire, she'll
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cheat on the guy with status, she'll cheat on the guy with muscles, cheat on game.
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If she doesn't want to be kept, nothing will keep her.
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Loyalty isn't earned, it's chosen, choose wisely.
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And this made me think about someone I know in my life.
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and recently there was a breakup between this couple and you know and he's devastated right
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um but he had no idea the stuff this girl was doing before he and he might think it's him
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right he might think that it's something he did that couldn't keep her and yada yada yada
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but the truth is you know she was someone who just didn't want to be kept she didn't want to
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be you know she's someone that has a hard time with monogamy and that's a lot of women
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we have this idea that women are somehow monogamous and I don't really understand how we
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have this idea considering how much of horrors we see women being right okay so I I had some
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pushback there's this voice in my head sometimes that talks and not actually not actually
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okay so there is a tweet that i was tagged in recently and i'm kind of doing more harm than
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good because i know that some of you will in fact subscribe to this girl's only fans now
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apparently lil tay has decided to drop an only fans lil tay it says lil tay be poppin now i
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don't really understand who this chick is um but i think she's some sort of internet celebrity
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and the challenge you get with the mini britney spears of the world is giving that much attention
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to a young woman is kind of a dangerous thing because you're giving them a lot of power,
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power to make money, power to ruin someone's reputation, power to have access to high value
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men. Um, and so I guess she tweeted, you have 24 hours to vote yes or no on whether I should make
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an OnlyFans. If you don't respond, it counts as an automatic yes. Now, obviously this woman's
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going to make the OnlyFans anyway. And you see the, the responses. And what I was trying to
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explain is um so michael knowles and this is kind of like a blue-pilled kind of simp answer right
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because this is a shit test she's she's testing to she's basically saying like she is making
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marketing for her only fans she is going to make the only fans and what she wants you to do is
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engage and market it and you know if michael knowles if he really cared about her not doing it or like
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thought this was wrong he would just ignore it right he would just ignore it because he doesn't
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want to market for this um he said since but the thing is with guys they don't realize what women
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are doing or maybe they don't care he says since you asked for my opinion whether or not the
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question is sincere i'll give it don't no amount of money is worth your dignity and you'll regret
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it immensely if you do so and i thought that's such a blue-pilled way of thinking because a lot
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of women do it and they don't regret it at all and it was worth their dignity and if anything
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nowadays they don't even lose their dignity doing it I don't say that in a happy way I don't say
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that be like I'm happy about it but women if anything they're rewarded and they're accepted
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into normal society these days all right so I think that's the only one I said I said you may
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as well do it because I don't think you have much else to offer oh wait let me let me call in Bryson
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because bryson said he was disappointed in me for this response and i just think let's beef
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it out live bryson all right let me hold on let me text
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i'm about to text him the link guys tell me when he gets on because i i tweeted this
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and he's a demonic advice pearl i'm disappointed
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well my advice my advice is at least honest at this point she's already
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mentally accepted that she's gonna do it I'm sure the pictures are already in
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place you might as well just do it you're pretty set on it so it's now not
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my problem and if anything having outrage towards it i just think mark it's the only fans
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but you know i i'll bring bryson on the line to in a second i don't know when he'll get on i think
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he's driving so you guys just let me know when he gets here and i'll go through some of my other
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tweets that we got for the day before we get into the main reaction of the day so i guess she's made
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over $1 million in three hours. Now, Attune says OnlyFans must be banned. And I get a little bit
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irritated. I get irritated when people say that it should be banned. Even knowing, because I'm
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a hypocrite, that at one point I said the same thing. But if we ban corn, guys have a sex drive,
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right? So what are these guys going to do? I understand there's some men that claim that they
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they quit corn but I want you guys to know I believe none of you and none of that is verifiable
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I just have to take your word that you never did it yeah okay okay so if we ban corn it's really
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just a solution to women being too hard to have sex with that's so I don't really think it's the
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end of the world um oh another another trad um Isabella Moody where was she she says only fans
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prostitutes and simps who subscribe shouldn't be able to vote I don't really agree with that um
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maybe the prostitutes because you guys know how I feel about that topic even though I can't get
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into it but the simps i mean i think if a guy look as much of i may not agree with it or you
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know feels kind of icky if a guy's building like the infrastructure of society and doing a manual
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labor job i don't think you as a youtuber have the right to tell him he's not able to be able
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to vote just because he paid 5.99 to see some boobs i don't think it's that i don't i really
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don't think it's that deep um the the the hookers i would agree but that's because i don't
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i think it's more the the gender i can't get into it um let's see what else we got
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oh this is another trad wife so apparently um rebecca and this is a girl
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it's just it's the fake trads they just they drive me into oblivion um because you're not
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what you say you are you're not um i'm happy you figured it out you stuck the landing but
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there's no such thing as a traditional woman in this society so it says help robin go into labor
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by sending her the most obnoxious rage bait rage come on okay give me give me i'm going to finish
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this thought and then i'll bring them up rage tweeting pearly things brought my youngest into
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this world and the interesting thing is these are married women getting upset at me i just can't
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imagine a world where I am married happily to a man, right? I'm, I'm happily married. I'm in love.
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I have these children and I just cannot imagine being an involved mother and still me, the random
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internet lady triggering you so much that I, I even brought you into labor. I have that much
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power over you is amazing. Um, the other thing is I don't like, they always say I rage bait tweet,
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but they don't tell me what I say. That's so enraging. I mean, I'll stand on the women
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shouldn't, I can't say it, but I'll stand on that. That's what I think. Um, and so it's almost like
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a way that they use when they don't like your opinion. They just don't like it. They don't
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like what you have to say so now you're a rage baiter um but from one um rage bait i guess
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personality um accused maybe to another we have friend of the show bryson gray he's gonna call
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in apparently he's on a road trip but he said he was really disappointed in me as we said earlier
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and i think we should bring him up and we can have a conversation about it bryson how are you
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is he on yeah can you see me um i can't see you but it's because of how my tv is set up so i you
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might be on screen or not i don't know i'd have to see you okay can you hear me though i can hear
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you how are you doing good on the way back from high point of carolina on the road oh really how
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how's your show been going you getting some good guests on i haven't like kept doing my show because
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been traveling way too much what like touring or what yeah touring and uh yeah i've been doing way
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too much with music so cool um so i wanted to hear about your disappointment in me today i just saw
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the tweet and i was like let's just let's just bring them on yeah yeah very very disappointed
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pearl because i mean i'm not even insinuating that her request was genuine but for the people
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she tagged i like if you're gonna respond it's a great opportunity to say no because you can do
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something different like we'll tell you right i don't know how relevant she is in 2020 in the big
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2025 but but rather than i how old is her like i'm how old is she well but my thing is she just
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wants to use you saying don't do it for the marketing so i'm just like you're not going
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to get that out of me let's respond regardless so you have the market regardless the only reason
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i even saw the post is because of your post under that's true um but i just i just thought it was
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funny to be honest i thought it was funny i thought it was a funny response so i'm just
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saying it's like i don't know i just i think it's like i think you're gonna market it more
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arguing with her because there's conflict i really don't know yeah i'm not saying yeah i'm not saying
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argue yeah i'm not saying argue i'm saying say no fine guy or no time is jesus like you don't have
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to go back and forth with her but you know just piss something about you know god in there and
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you know just plant a seed and see what possible to happen yeah i i don't think a seed would be
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planted i just think she was gonna do it anyway you might as well i don't i mean i've given i've
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given up bryson i've given up so listen but at the same time this is i viewed it as like
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just a quick opportunity you feel me i i feel you i understand where you're coming from but i'm just
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i'm tired you ever get you ever get you ever get tired bryson like you just you know you've seen
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lauren southern crash out recently and like she's accusing everyone of rape and stuff that's that's
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typical women woman they do when they need attention is accuse a man of rape it's just like
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and then the simps defend it do you know what i mean it's just it's like like turning point or
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will platform for her doing that and i'm just like even on the i'm just tired
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you know i give up you guys win be whores i don't care
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they gotta tell people to repeat you know i mean you never know lauren southern i don't i you know
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based on what i'm hearing it seems like she has a uh uh she's known for being a harlot but um
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that's still an opportunity to tell her to repent and stop engaging in harlotry nice well do you
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have any i i just thought it'd be fun to bring you on today so you got any final words to give
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to me or to give to the people you can say a verse or something yes yes yes yes yes my message to
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everybody is repenting or they all will perish that's luke 13 3 but also though but also here's
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the thing though the bible says that god angels rejoice more over one person that turns to god
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versus anybody else so even though a lot of these women are whores lying about people about rape
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trying to get attention and money whatever the case may be they're degenerates right now they're
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probably going to hell but they could also repent so that's my message oh yeah hey bryson this is
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doug mpa i help i i help pearl with the show and i have to put things in context for you guys so
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you guys don't know who lil tay is so let me paint the picture because okay pearl remember the other
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day we were talking about if you were to have a young girl who chose who chooses a career in media
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at 18 19 20 years old what would be the game plan so lil tay was in middle school right she's this
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asian girl and she got popular because she was acting ratchet yes on the internet you're tossing
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around money and trying to rap and cuss and stuff like that so she's already out there in the media
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already yeah and she can't take that back she she's already lil tay she's already she already
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has like he's already cooked huh yeah yeah she's already cooked yeah so now see that's that's that's
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why i disagree so you can't erase your past that's a fact but you can become a new creation in christ
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and let the old self die i mean bro i used to get drunk and make out random women in bars all the
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time i lived my name used to be king vodka and i was known for that where i'm from but
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at the end of the day now i'm bryson gray and i stand on bible matter of fact i think little
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tay with her past that's more for a reason why i would try to get somebody like her to repent but
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not not super nice it's like stop trying to be a whore repent be blunt with it you feel okay so
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what's the biggest difference between you when you were young enough to make a change
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in Lil Tay. She's a woman. That's the biggest difference. Men are more likely to take
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accountability, look down the road and say, man, you know, the path I'm going down isn't right.
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Or they'll have people in their lives, you know, they'll have older men, people around them,
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giving them advice and say, hey, hey, young buck, if you keep going down this road,
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it's going to be a bad thing for you. But Lil Tay, she's already surrounded by the wrong people
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they can happen, just because men are more
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change the fact that there are some women that have
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taken accountability for their paths and turned to Christ.
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we don't you are crazy bro no it's so true i mean like nala let's take nala for example is one
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uh but there's so many girls like her they get to a certain age and now they like they they don't
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want to take accountability for their past they have to they have to because they have to market
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to betas they got to have a bailout plan they got to get married girl yeah check this out so why is
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look so bryson according to nala lil take can open only fans for five seven years get 30 40 million
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dollars and then repent so why why doesn't she just do it now and then repent when she later on
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what's the difference i mean i mean there is no difference you can repent anytime you're in the
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saying oh my god wait she gets to get out of jail free card and you guys you are the same sorry go
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ahead go on yeah yeah let's go yeah y'all not listening so if somebody's a whore you know for
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woman sleep so like 50 man right what's the super whore name the one that's like
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popular lily phillips is she the one that looks like a skeleton almost bonnie blue
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i don't know one umbra okay yeah who cares the horse yeah she's a popular yeah yeah yeah
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literally right now right she can repent would it be harder for that person to repent
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yes because they they engage in such filth as long as you're not a reprobate
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you can repent she might be reprobate but even one of them whores they repent trying to cry
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stop all that repent but repent requires action you can't just say i repent you have to literally
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change your life in action and not succumb to the flesh yeah but then you can get all the fun
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and then you can just change later like if you actually do it so why would you not
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oh my gosh that's awesome and here's the thing get a bigger caseload you know a bigger um
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a bigger case file to repent from yeah you might as well have the money if you're gonna repent you
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might as well repent you know what i mean like yeah no i don't i don't know what you mean
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you're trying to at this why you're trying to intentionally play guy you're trying to say
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listen no where'd he go until i have my fun first oh now you're saying you're saying hey
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god you're saying hey god my plan i am literally planning now to go be a whore and then no no
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that's that's you trying to play god that's literally reprobate as you like literally
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spitting in god's face but you could just you can just pretend you didn't later you know what
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i mean like you can do that's a great thing just pretend oh i didn't plan this out oh yeah i just
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have to have something to change your heart yeah you have to have something to repent from right
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now would you argue argue that the more that you repent from the more like do you get more credit
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for now repenting for more whoring or what i mean no because repentance means the same for
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everybody turn us in stop being stiffened turn from saying turn to god um but like i said you
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can be too far gone that's what a reprobate mind is my ability is too far gone but the problem is
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in y'all case if y'all the way y'all do things y'all all y'all automatically assume the worst
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and i'm not even saying most times the worst isn't the correct thing it's 2035 man i mean
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it is a vibe but the problem with assuming the worst as a one size fits all is you miss when
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it's not that or you miss when it's not that i mean if y'all don't care about being followers
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of god then you're on prerogative you're gonna go to hell with the whole wait so i'm immoral because
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i don't believe somebody that's not what i just said there's no way okay that's how i took okay
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what did i what did i say that's incorrect because the way what you said while i understood it
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is that if like i am missing the one people that are actually genuinely repenting
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and then you're just as bad as them but it's like if i don't believe you like why do i have to
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believe them you know so that's not that's not what i said go ahead go ahead listen a lot of
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times when i talk to women this happens what i just said what i just said literally okay
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not saying the majority of the time you aren't correct when you assume the worst i said but
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when you assume the worst is a one size fits all thing you can miss when it's the opposite
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and i said that's cool yeah unless you are a person of god and the reason i said that's cool
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unless you're a person of god is because you have no choice because you're commended things
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as a person of god you're commanded to do certain things you're commanded to give people opportunity
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to repent you're commanded to forgive people so if you're not a person of god and you automatically
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has a one-size-fits-all thing that's fine from early perspective because in most cases you'll
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be right it's rational i'm not saying it's irrational but if you are a christian you
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have no choice but to do a case by case basis or else you're bearing false witness and righteous
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judgment million things but why can't i just believe it in like 20 years like why can't my
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default be like guilty until you like proven otherwise like why why can't that be my default
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you know what i mean like my dad he has a phrase he says he expects nothing from everybody like if
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he hires someone he expects them to do a terrible job and and he said it's because then he's not
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disappointed and that way advice and he said he said i expect them to do an awful job and
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if they do a great job then i'm pleasantly surprised i'm happy and this is a guy
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yeah and so i would apply the same thing with especially my gender i mean come on we don't
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mean anything uh like come on like have you seen us like so if i if i see a conversion from an ex
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ho i already know that you were you were able to do the only fans i already know you're very good
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at lying especially to men i know you're good at manipulating men so why wouldn't my default be i
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don't believe you and then in like 20 years um may if you're still around which they're usually not
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then i'll believe you maybe the problem the problem is you just contradicted yourself with
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the thing you just said about your father so let me ask you a question okay how can i how can a
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whore at what point because you remember what you said about your father i expect the worst but if
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they prove otherwise and do a good job then i believe them my question is what criteria does
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a whore have to meet for you to think it's a good job in real or is there no criteria for them to
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hit and you automatically make it a bad job i would i would yeah yeah i got you so it would
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have to be their actions over the time um and time i would say would have to be 10 20 years
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the longer they hoard the more time i'd have to see it um the other challenge you're gonna get
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is nowadays you can just live a double life in another city um i would i would have a hard time
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believing in x only fans girl um i would have to i would have to see modest clothes from her
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like um your your friend the the like charise one remember i forgot her name but i see her on
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twitter all the time and before she was like on this god stuff and now she's 304 in it on the
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timeline you know what i mean it's just like yeah yeah it's like these women it's like one day so
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i'd rather not be disappointed and just be like do you know what you got this is terrible this is
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wait but i mean specific so okay okay okay i'll tell you let's say i talked about this already
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okay go ahead okay okay i said she has to be vetted and married to a man of the church
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as in like she has to meet a church going man and that man has to bring her into the church
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through marriage right she has to have that man's children and have avoided that behavior for 10 to
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15 years okay wait so i just want to get this straight so your criteria is she has a married
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man of god and has to have children with that man of god i'm not against that criteria if
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somebody was a whore for a very long time yeah we need we need some fruit marrying a man of god
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and having children with that man beautiful i'm with you here yeah but then that second half of
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what you're saying is what don't make sense right no whoring for 10 to 15 years at least okay just
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i got a question though let's say right this happens so when that happens though that's not
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enough for you even after that she has to start it's a start but even a start is marrying a man
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of god and uh having kids a start to you is not dating a man of god starting to dress more modest
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starting to starting to show fruit because there's a lot of things that can be considered fruit
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but even after she marries a man of god and have children with this man of god she still have to
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quote-unquote not whore out for 10 to 15 years why not five years because the average marriage
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lasts six to seven years so she has to stay married to that man longer than the average
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marriage i would want to say i would i would actually depend i said 10 yeah i would i would
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actually say um the youngest kids gotta hit like 10 to 15. i would even maybe put 20 years because
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um i know once they hit the 20-year mark they don't usually divorce so yeah for me that's that's
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what it would take why okay but based on statistics and based on what y'all saying
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that seven-year mark should be when everything is like solidified no i would need longer yeah okay
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so so that's so what's it that's not based on data or anything right here we're talking about
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feelings my next question though is during that time when this person is in the process of quote
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unquote, proving herself to be different than what she was. My question is, will you continue
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to call her a whore during the process? Or will you back up and watch and see first before you
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resume calling her a whore? Yeah. So what I would like to see, it depends how the church treats her
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because nowadays they just hand her a microphone and let her start preaching. So I would prefer
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that she sits in the back of the church, draws no attention to herself at all. If she draws any
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attention to herself get out of here we don't need any attention on you you've had enough attention
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for if you had an only fans you have an attention addiction problem so i want you in the back of
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the church i want you shutting up one argument you're out what like if you wear one promiscuous
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thing to church gone you can't come back like i i actually want there to be standards in the church
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and them to enforce them and kick her out if she doesn't stay if she doesn't follow them
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Wait, wait, but my question is not answered, though.
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So during this probationary period that y'all are speaking of, will you continue, if you talk about this woman, will she still be called a whore?
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No, because once you're a whore, you're always a whore.
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So, I mean, if anything, that's on her to not be offended.
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like if she gets offended that's your own fault it's not about her being offended about the person
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that's doing this that's unrighteous that's unrighteous well i would just say that would
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be a fact like you're a just like i'm actively doing something if i used to be a thief
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and i stopped stealing i'm no longer a thief you can't continue to call me no i would still say
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you're a thief you just stop stealing okay that's just that's just that's just i mean no disrespect
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that is a rash that's totally rational like um i don't i don't think um i don't think jordan
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belford isn't a thief anymore he's still a thief i wouldn't want him near any of my family's money
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oh hell no i would i wouldn't really want around me go ahead but he just he just stopped robbing
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people but i i think it's more because you know he he can't do it anymore um drug addicts have to
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except the fact that once again this is feelings drug addicts per definition of the word they're
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not a thief anymore just like an nba player if they retire people don't say they're an nba player
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they say they used to be nba player they're ex-nba player they retired nba player nobody says they're
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still an nba player because that sounds retarded no most people would call michael jordan an nba
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player they do just say he retired they would just say he retired look up any article about
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michael jordan in the last year is going to say ex-nba player or or or or you to be a player
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they're going to call him bryson player okay if if a guy touches kids gets convicted and gets out
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and isn't touching kids anymore is he still a uh you know uh offender yes or no no he used he used
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to be a pato but he shouldn't get that opportunity i mean they saw a guy where's this energy for the
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horse. That's what I'm saying. So, so, so I want everybody to get, I don't, I don't want anybody
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to be confused right now. A harlot can repent. Somebody that committed adultery. I believe what
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the Bible believes. Anybody that says the Bible should be pit to death. Don't ever get me confused.
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I support them getting pit to death. So if two people commit, you can ask Shekinah this all the
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time. She roll her eyes. When I hear about somebody cheating on their wife or cheating on
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their husband, I'll say, we need to go back to the Bible days. But a regular harlot is different
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somebody to cheat on your wife and that's not called for death in the bible all it says all
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it says for this definition of a horror is a person who is sexually promiscuous or a person
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who engages in a sex act for money and so i would take number two a person who is sexually promiscuous
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i would say they're still sexually promiscuous they just stopped whoring but they're still that
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person no and here's how no no because here's how it would go in the church the definition
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i just say one thing you don't understand horrors are addicted to attention that they have to get
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that kind of like nala nala went right to preaching because she needs to to to get that dopamine hit
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by proselytizing she's making up for what she's not getting on only fans but by trying to preach
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and get addition that way so you you would have to keep these women away from that if if a whore
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go goes into the church no one actively call her a whore out of nowhere but she would show
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a tendency where she wouldn't be able to stay in her place she if she move out of her place
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start trying to preach and proselytize just like nala then you say stop talking
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you don't know anything so you have a long way to go that's how it would go
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i partially agree unless they show that they're not changing then you can go back and call them
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a whore this is the difference though if i'm not mistaken i mean i do agree that i do not like
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when people just become christians it could be anybody really i don't even like jelly roll talk
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about christ you need to shut his mouth and open the bible but including with nala you shouldn't
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be pushed to the forefront in interviews and such when you were a babe in christ just like russell
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brand don't stop pitting these people in a position to talk as if they some authority on
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christ but if i'm not mistaken nayla's about to get married isn't she she got married over zoom
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but where are the kids because oh she she's married okay so we talking through here what's
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next when are y'all going to stop calling her a whore um but she still dresses like a whore
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and when she stops talking so much yeah and trying to preach okay so like okay i saw her
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me and my wife saw her id and you know she's new some stuff she wears like okay you need to work on
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this but it's way better than what she used stress like can we all admit on that oh my god you guys
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have no standards you just let everybody in but even the fact that you're like but even the fact
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you're white knighting so hard for her it's like this is what yeah you're saying for using y'all
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criteria and seeing can y'all can y'all stay consistent with y'all criteria i'm not white
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knighting okay y'all just dislike something you have a one-size-fits-all view which means at some
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point not you'll be irrational i won't not really i want you to stop dressing like a
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whore and she didn't she still does it she still does it well what about the fact that she's
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she's accepting all these roles and all these christian groups as a christian leader of a
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woman and she's she's trying to there's no such thing as a woman christian leader of anything so
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she's doing that she needs to stop that's why you call her a whore in response say look whore
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no that's talking no you don't call somebody for for actually they have a leader role where they
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don't no but even proselytizing all that stuff i told you nala is trading in the attention from
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only fans to the attention that she's getting as being a christian now she's literally she
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she has a new addiction i have a question for you uh-huh if she has kids because according
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to your criteria because remember i asked both of you for your criteria so according to your
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criteria she made step one so my question is when she passes step two and hopefully she start
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dressing more modestly my question is at what point like do you start calling our horses seven
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years or no i i don't well and i don't believe her because she's her actions still don't match
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right now i think it's easy to dress modestly when you're old and ugly so i kind of like to
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see what you do when you're young and hot you know and she's still young and hot and she's
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still dressing like a whore so i'd say like year one not going so well for her um yeah she got
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married but where's the kids right i mean you know her only fans was still on for the first what
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nine ten months yeah she became a christian yeah so what i believe do i believe her because she
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said she because she said she would say stay with a guy for life uh not really so i i would need
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more than that so what what if in the next year she starts dressing completely modest as she should
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dress like a horse is saying so let's say let's say start dressing completely modest
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and she announces she's pregnant at what point are you like maybe I possibly could have been
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robbed I don't know at what point 15 years I'll still yeah I will still I'll still think she'll
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go back because again most of her life she's had harlot behavior she's done interviews and so
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she had done it since she was as young as 13 14 years old like she was um not the OF but like she
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was you know talked about being a kid sneaking out let's say 15 she started she's 26 that's 11
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years so 11 years of a behavior I'm gonna need to see you stop for like 15 and I wouldn't even
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count this year because all you did was get married anybody can take a vow right that's not
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a hard thing to do what's difficult is to you know go out of the limelight not dress like you know
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when you have a good body not showing it off it's like when fat people don't show off their bodies
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i don't really care like okay you know and then also she she's already gotten a taste of the of
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money the lifestyle is she gonna have to resist going back to that or finding or doing some type
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of that for 10 to 15 years at least because it's always the desire for her to do that because
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she could not do of for three four years let's see how she does living like a normal person on
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criteria for somebody to hit you're always going to find a reason at some point and i'm not saying
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you're 100 wrong i genuinely believe in most cases these people are lying the overwhelming
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majority of cases i think they're lying but based on i ask questions for a reason and i think y'all
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i don't think y'all things are based on logic or rationale i think it's based i feel this way
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about women and women period point blank and i'm going to find whichever way i need to make sure
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that I keep feeling this way as a one-size-fits-all thing.
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there's a moment where you got to be honest with yourself
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and be objective rather than just have a one-size-fits-all view.
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I don't think that OnlyFans, models, and whores
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for for me i have a flat there are things that people can do where they shouldn't be accepted
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anywhere and they have to suffer the consequences for the rest of their lives and only fans and
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whoring is one of those so this is literally a thought exercise for for me i don't think that
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any of you christians should let any of these women near your church where you guys have followed
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the rules you've done what you can you help your community and you're going to let these whores in
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i don't think you should at all but the problem is your position the problem is it's just like
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when i hear whores talk about like you shouldn't judge it's like i think you should judge well
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wait wait listen what i'm saying no listen i feel the same way when i hear advice from people like
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you it's like why are you giving advice because your standards aren't based on the bible your
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standard is based on a personal worldview you have which means you are your own god so what's
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the difference between you giving an opinion of what the church should do then only fans who are
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saying women that dress and models should be allowed in the church there is no difference
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because what y'all saying is not based on the bible well i would say that at least in doug's
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house he runs it but the church guys let women manipulate them and hand over power to women in
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the church and that's true 90 of churches so at least an average guy he's the king of his own
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castle he's the head of his house well i'm gonna be honest in most churches i'm 100 agreement i
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i mean i literally spend nine percent of my music calling out of church uh they have women pastors
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they let gay couples they letting women dress like whores in there all that's demonic
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but see the the issue though here is y'all say i the king i don't even believe it
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i don't believe how the people that have these views about about women i believe they'll fold
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very quickly because me i'm actually i'm married and my wife right beside me she submits to me and
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i'm the king of my household and i can say that no offense will happen because that because that's
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biblical and since my wife is a biblical woman she's gonna stand on that business your wife is
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awesome i love your wife she makes very good cookies yeah she's great she is great i've seen
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you talk about your wife before she she sounds amazing man she sounds awesome but she's amazing
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because she follows her her core values is the bible so this is and this is and this is
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my point but the core value the feel not these conservatives i came to be christian i don't
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submit to my husband husband no them women are heathens i'm talking about real biblical women
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they already know to submit to their husband to their husbands so if we keep things biblical we
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wouldn't be in half of these situations anyway i yeah i totally agree with you but my point is
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you're letting in women that aren't biblical and and and it would be one thing if their actions
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matched but it's like i don't really care if you say you repented if i'm looking at your instagram
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and your butt's still out or if you're you're posting a tick tock and flashing the camera and
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she did that and then nobody calls her out and it's just an excuse it's like oh she's learning
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i'm like really you're 26 you can't figure out how to be modest if that's what if that's what
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you say you want right like i just got to look at their actions and most of them i don't see a change
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so it's just my opinion you do you do you do just buy actions i don't let i don't let you don't see
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people in my fold doing stuff like that that's like with me i'm saying that i'm asking about
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the logical consistency over the course of time if somebody's still doing that that is wrong
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i'm saying at what point is if they do start progressing and stop doing that and get married
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and have kids then at what point are we helping them out 15 years just that's crazy work that's
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just saying i don't want to give them back no i don't think it's our job to help like you're you're
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like i can't make her not sin that's her job that's her job i i can't like i can't i can't
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put a gun to her head and say nala stop dressing like a whore you know no let's not that's you
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know that's on her yeah that has nothing to do with us i never said that i'm talking about the
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criteria you give it you're the one giving the criteria you're the one commenting on whoever
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woman is your worldview even in your quote-unquote claim criteria because what it seems like is i'm
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giving criteria the same objective but then when there's a line of questioning about the criteria
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everything starts extending and it's like even then or i don't know even then you know i'm saying
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so that means your criteria isn't real that means there is no criteria no i think you're
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just saying a lot of words but you're not saying anything like just no i said something clear you
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neither one of you have responses to it that's why you can't respond to it not i clearly say
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your criteria doesn't make sense but i proved it by asking y'all a lot of questioning every time i
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asked a lot of questions and y'all kept my criteria makes perfect sense i want her to
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not do the behavior for longer than she did it at least i think that's the bare minimum
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she did it for 11 years 11 plus years you don't do it isn't that fair i i think that's perfectly
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fair no of course not no i thought that no no i'm not i'm saying it just makes no sense because his
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criteria was married children and then he said well statistically is that the seven-year mark
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but i don't really care about that it has to be even even so even so after that so that means even
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as he's giving his criteria once these these points are met it doesn't mean anything to him
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until the end point is there well there is no progression no i'm saying we can maybe go back
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and forth is it seven years is it 10 years is it 15 but i need longer than like a 90-day trial
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bryson and that's what you guys are get like you guys expect me to believe these people in a year
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who are you guys because obviously you're not listening to anything i'm saying i'll tell you
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you just like the way you talk about you just no i an example i can use is during this conversation
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you were defending nala's instagram no i didn't you're lying you name it name the quote name the
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quote i defend her instagram right now you said my wife was looking at her instagram and it's
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better than it used to be and i'm like is that defending her is that a fact is that definitely
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that's definitely that's definitely defending her that's definitely it's giving it to me let me ask
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the mail in the room did i still say it's wrong yes or no you know what i'm not quite i'm not
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quite sure what you're saying bro here's the thing about it here's the thing about it you're
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you're proving the point like i said for little tay she should make 20 million dollars on only
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fans come knocking on bryson's door and say hey hey hey bryson i've cleaned up my instagram
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Just probably thinks that I defended her Instagram
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But it's still wrong? Did I say that yes or no?
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like oh you're because it shows because it shows progress because biblically people have to go to
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a stage of progression i'm not saying she should be allowed i'm not saying she should go through
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10 to 15 years of progression that's what we're saying but you're talking trash about
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the timeline 10 15 years of progression minimum so so this was funny right just probably things
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made a claim i debunked her claim and asked you to confirm it you were scared to confirm it because
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you know you're not making sense and then even when even when they're probably things we thought
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about it and realized she was wrong. She said, well, why even bring up the improvement? Never
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was there an act of accountability. No, I think you're just kind of playing semantics. I like
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you, Bryson, but this is kind of semantics. Semantics? You're the one making the claim.
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You said I defended something. I didn't say I defended something. It's not semantics if you
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make the claim, but then when I check you... The church now is the last stop on the horror train
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yes sir all right see ya all right uh steve m says the next caller um kevin samuels covers
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this topic on his video christian feminism and it's a problem most guys are leaving the church
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because no man wants to wife up jezebel uh the attorney says christ ain't paying no bills
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i didn't think that was going to turn into a debate to be honest
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i didn't realize that that was my fault i got you i got on here and had to ask some
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certain questions because remember pro we talked about if a woman turned 18 and said look you know
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i want a career in media i want to make some money right start an of why not this is i mean
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he kind of proved our point to be honest he didn't realize i don't know if he didn't realize it or
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what but i'm like you're just proving that they should actually be the only fans think about this
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Yes. Lil Tay, she's already made a million dollars. She probably hasn't even done anything
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adult related yet. But if she were to go full fledged Nala, she could be worth 15 to 20 million
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dollars by the time she's 26. And then she could say, hey, trad cons, I've repented and still have
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a successful media career and still find some church sip to marry her and have kids with.
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the plan is laid out it's already there am i wrong no i don't know why you wouldn't do it
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i mean like from a logical point of view so sorry i just couldn't believe i was like how is it not
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defending her if you're saying her instagram's better like that i know she shouldn't have an
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instagram at all is she serious i know i know but i was like i don't want to go back and forth he's
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about like is it a fact is it better i'm like i guess technically but i don't like why would you
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even like i was gonna say that's the equivalent of a pedo and then say go he does it less now i'm
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like uh like you know that's that's how i would do it and i like your position where you say
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the i'm supposed to just believe a that's hard for 10 15 years and she says she's christian now
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yeah i don't like we don't have to believe it i don't have to the whole concept of repenting and
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that's why i'm not religious i try to be the best person i can be because i believe and be a good
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person yeah i don't have to repent because i've never done anything crazy like you open up of of
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and make freaking 15 million dollars i've never done it guys women shouldn't do that period
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if we want to give all this credit to women who've done it and and have changed all of a sudden you
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want the same credit in the church of a woman repenting from of as a woman who's never done
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it in the first place that doesn't rock with me at all no way nope well i guess this is a good
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segue into i did not i did not think that was going to be a full-fledged debate my bad
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but that's my fault i i i started i started asking questions to take it down that way so i'm hoping
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hoping bryson doesn't take it the wrong way no he won't he's a good guy he he's he is he's cool no
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he's not like that like he he's not he's not the crash out type and if he does he he'll just come
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back on like he'll and yeah go ahead sorry for just barging in i i gotta get on the line about
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this lil tay thing because i remember we were talking about hey before if a woman is young
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and she wants a career in media and she wants to make real money why not yeah you take out morals
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guys put a one in the chat if you think that lil tay should do an of and then
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then repent later or two if she should do it at all in fact can we put a poll in the chat it's
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such a bs because they don't even tell her to pay the money back like it's such bs so she gets five
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million dollars and i get nothing because i did like do you know what i can make on only fans
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and i have to have morals it's like bullshit yeah i gotta i gotta stream every day i could
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just sold pictures in my butthole i'm just kidding i like being here guys i prefer this
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All right, we're going to, so guys, we're going to react to some,
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I just thought we would, you know, listen to more women whining
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about not having to work and staying home with kids.
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We're getting into the TradWife Transweeping Social Media,
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and it's reignited an age-old conversation about what it means
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to be a good wife. We just spoke with two trad wives and a trad wife in training. And our next
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guests are being candid about how a trad wife failed them. Jenny Gage is revealing how living
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for two decades inside a Mormon marriage as a trad wife left her feeling out of control and
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penniless. Anitia Templeton says her 10 years as a trad wife were miserable and unfulfilling. And
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now both women are speaking out to as they want other young women, especially to avoid similar
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situations take a look being a trad wife means returning to traditional goals traditional
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times traditional life traditional gender roles the man is the breadwinner oh my gosh she looks
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crazy she looks insane and so your husband has authority over you whether or not i was rich or
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poured literally depended on literally depended on how pretty I was and how good I was at doing
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those things that men wanted women to do from the kitchen to the bedroom so exactly why you notice
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you never see trad wives in their 40s advocating for that life you can discredit this by calling
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me whatever you want bitter jealous okay so what happens is women and men are cutting a deal men
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want sex. They want women's youth. They want their fertility. Um, and they want her to be hot.
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Okay. I know there's personality, whatever, but let's, let's just say women want men's genetic
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material and resources. And what happens is women, there are women that cut deals young,
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right? So they, they trade in their youth and they trade in their fertility and they cut a deal with
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a guy young women that cut that made a bad deal so they cut a deal with a guy that they realized
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wasn't alpha i hate using that word but i got to or he wasn't you know the guy she wanted or maybe
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she saw her friends get a better guy or you know it's poor men we don't even treat you guys like
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people i'm so sorry it's just you know i'm just i'm telling you how it is in girl world women
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ultimately want to do whatever they want and they want to have sex with the hot guy. So by doing the
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traditional thing, women are giving up doing whatever they want and in exchange, they want
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the hot guy. That's what they're hoping to get out of it. Unfortunately, that's not really the
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archetype in the tradition. Like I hate to say this, but the traditional guy, people always say
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they look, get it. And I'm, I know it's partially a shaming tactic, but it's also because a lot of
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them aren't taught frame in the church is, uh, we kind of saw because it's just like women rule.
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We kind of, you know, saw by the earlier conversation. Um, not all, not all, some of
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the guys are good looking and masculine, but usually, you know, for, you know how it is in
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any social group, there's a few women that win, there's some that lose. So maybe she depicts a
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guy she thinks is going to be a winner and not a winner and there's nothing women hate more than
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spending their youth and their fertility on a guy that does and she doesn't get what she wants out
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of it and women that don't get what they want out of the interaction they'll make you pay either
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through reputation destruction um you'll see diddy like cassie and diddy she gave him her best years
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um and in exchange i don't know what the hell she wanted but maybe she thought she'd be a bigger
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celebrity. Um, she'd get commitment out of him long-term. I don't know, but, um, she didn't get
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what she wanted. Now she's making him pay monetarily. And so these women, they're just bad
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business women, right? And if you want to say it that way, I know you guys believe in love,
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but we don't believe in love. We're in business. So, um, this, these are women that took bad deals
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like Lauren Southern's another one. She really could have, she could have won and she could
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one with someone pretty attractive. Um, and by the way, when I say the hot guys, hot guys is not
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necessarily being just good looking. It's an attitude, right? It's, um, I mean, we all know
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that fat guy that always has hot women. Uh, some guys just have that, you know, that swagger,
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you know, we, that we love. Um, so these are women bitching because they didn't get a good
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end of the bargain even and by the way we're not logical so i some of these they might talk and you
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might think she had a pretty good deal that's coming from a male point of view women it's like
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am i having fun um is he hot and exciting and did i get the genetic material and the resources
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that's like female great but men are so much more logical that men it's so interesting whenever you
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hear men talking about what like that that guy's a better guy they always do it from the male lens
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and it's pretty much always money and productivity but women don't care about that that's why we
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sleep with criminals this is just one woman with some experience i hope that you'll remember a man
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is not a plan and never was your finances should not depend on somebody being in love with you
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that's just not a secure bet the marriage is over and you're staying for the kids and all that's
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doing is setting a horrible example for them so i am that example for you you you can leave you can
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make it and you can be way happier than you are right now wow please welcome anicia templeton
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here in our studio jenny gage is in her home in tucson arizona ladies thank you both for joining
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us so our first half of our show were the young women who are now entrenched and whether you call
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it a homemaker or a um trad wife you hit something on the head i i feel and you see in that video
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you said you don't see women in their 40s advocating this lifestyle we know that there
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are obviously but you were making the point of maybe some of the younger women doing this don't
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understand the long-term damage what you see as damage oh absolutely of course it's fun to make
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paper and crayons and do crafts with your kids of course but life comes eventually this is if that's
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not sustainable your kids are going to go to school life is going to continue and then what
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are you going to do when you build your whole life around toddlers and babies what what where does
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your life go from there you i don't know productive people will always find something to do so usually
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these are just lazy women they're like what do you mean you don't have anything to do there's
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always something to do like i'm looking around this room it's a mess it's my own fault i could
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sort equipment i could like i'm trying to learn the splits right now like there's always something
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to do you know what i mean were in a trad wife lifestyle for 10 years you said you felt like
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sitting prey yes what does that mean like i procreated with somebody that wasn't worth what i
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spent like a pet you know how you have like a pet hamster a pet gerbil you can't let them out because
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if they run across the floor they could get hurt you know they're so tender and fragile but they're
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also at such risk they're they're so fragile they're so they need you for everything you have
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have to feed them what you know you have to do everything and that's exactly
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how you are as a tribe wife you don't have your own income you don't even have
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your own thoughts you can't you know it's it's his choices is what's what are
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his favorite foods you can cook his favorite dinner what are they and so you
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don't even know what foods you like anymore after 10 years I couldn't even
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pick out toothpaste at the grocery store I would go and think oh well he liked
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this one which one should I get it you know you lose that ability to make
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decisions Jenny you have photos of when you were married you say that you don't
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recognize yourself in those photos there was always a pressure to look perfect and pretty
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for your husband and when the marriage ended what on earth she used to be hot oh my god she hit the
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wall so hard i see why she's pissed i see why she's pissed oh my god damn she's hotter than i
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ever was oh my you know this is a good thing about being a mid right and maybe you guys don't think
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i think she's quite pretty like a seven i'd put her at a seven um but that's the thing when you're
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mid what opportunity did you really miss do you know what i mean like
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you know what it's not like you missed but if you look like that yeah she's gonna be pissed
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and now she comes out looking like that yeah she's cooked
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and when the marriage ended you were without an income you were penniless you had to i think at
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one point even oh no this is the other one oh my gosh but yeah she's fat now car because you left
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with nothing yeah and i i feel sometimes like i'm the grinch who stole christmas because
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this child by flight looks amazing who is paying for this house this is a nice looking house
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and it's probably her ex-husband 24 years yeah ex-husband 24 years i had all those benefits of
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the amazing part of it being home with my kids and the sourdough bread and play dates and going
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to the park with my children when they were young and all those things but 24 years into that my
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trad wife life ended very roughly and within three days i couldn't pay for groceries at trader joe's
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within a couple months i was sleeping in my car i couldn't afford to put gas in the car
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i was asking friends literally i just had friends giving me twenty dollar bills and going to fund
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for me so that i could just buy groceries and survive were you right jenny how did how did
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this track okay but what do doug mpa can you look up put in the chat how much can you make as like
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a housekeeper because if you were a trad wife or personal chef i don't know like aren't there
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skills daycare worker my sister works at a daycare couldn't she do that these are i would think these
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are transferable skills so why if you work as a house cleaner you can make uh 42 000 a year
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that's not bad working at a daycare how much can you make at a daycare
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and then the uh a daycare worker full-time so they make about 17 an hour but if you
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own a daycare you can make about 50 to 60 000 a year okay yeah i'm like they just always say
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they're left like high and dry but it seems like some of those skills would be transferable like
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my brother's um wife she just went to she's an engineer full-time and she went to culinary
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school for fun for like three months and here's the thing she's like oh i was left penniless and
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i couldn't afford it was 24 years later your kids are out of the house like what yeah why didn't
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you work you could get a job or even if even if you had to start over i mean you don't have kids
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to feed you know get a job get an apartment move on with your life how many guys get kicked out
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of their house if they're having to pay for their wife's attorney to divorce them what's that meme
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where it says a lot of men's lives start right here and it's just a studio apartment with a
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but women, oh my God, I don't have anything left
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Mentality become a part of the decision you made
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have ex-trad and ex-mormon so i was raised in a culture that's very traditionally you were raised
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in a mormon now okay the reason religion tells women to get married young right is because
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obviously if we don't do that society crumbles and destabilizes and it's terrible um if we become
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horse but women's natural inclination is just to be complete 304s obviously so what happens is
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these women they don't you know she was hot back in the day she didn't realize the buying power
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she had especially in the modern marketplace she was like a 20 something year old mormon girl
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you know she could have had decent buying power it basically she's not happy with what she bought
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whatever husband she got I don't know what she for whatever reason is not happy with what she
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bought she wishes she used her her youth on herself instead of on her family I'm not saying
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that's right but I'm saying that's you know womanese for this family I was very devoutly
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Mormon so I knew from the time I was like five years old when I wrote a little paper in literally
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kindergarten saying that I wanted a brother and be an anchor man like my dad and then I was told
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you're going to grow up and be a mom. I knew that at some point I was going to get married and have
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babies. Also, if you guys could like the video, it'd be good to, I'd love to break 600 likes in
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here. Stay home and cook and clean and decorate the house and all those things that I've seen my mom do.
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That was really the only option I was offered in life. What made you decide, I saw your story in
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an article, what made you decide to, I know you're not comfortable with saying anti-trad wife, but
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What made you decide to ring the alarm from your perspective of the damage this type of gender role assignment, trad wife trend can cause?
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I think that it's something that we're embarrassed to talk about as women.
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And I know that when I was going through it, I was embarrassed to even tell my friends that I didn't have any money, that the alimony wasn't being paid, that child support wasn't being collected, that I didn't have.
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I thought that I could go out and interview and get any job that I wanted to
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because I had all of these domestic labor skills that I thought could translate into career.
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So this woman got married in 1995 and got divorced a year ago.
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well she's doing her divorce um rebrand so how long do you think it's going to take it to realize
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how rough these streets are out here she won't ever realize it you don't think so nope women
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women no women would rather be prostitutes and homeless than be straddled down with a guy they
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don't like women never regret leaving men ever they just the only reason they go back is to see
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if they can get resources from you once women are done we're done and we're trained to be like that
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because historically you were dead so we had to go bang the next guy what do you think about
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tyrese's ex-wife remembers that she she tried to say that you know she realized that she messed up
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and if she was around different women at the time if she would have got away from her mom and her
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sisters she never would have left them and what do you think about that type of thing i don't believe
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her i don't i think your actions you know because while she was saying that she was raking him
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through the coals in divorce court and he's like crying because of all the alimony she's like come
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on your actions would if you really wanted to reconcile you would you like if you really wanted
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to reconcile you would go over there you would say i realized i was wrong i'm sorry for putting
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you on alimony i'm gonna drop the court case you know her actions would match it but you're crying
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on a podcast now you get the fuck out of here like you're crying you want to reconcile with
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your ex-husband and instead of actually because men are so nice you know what i mean like imagine
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if she was just really nice to him she said sorry and was really nice and tried to win him back for
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like three years i'm not saying it would work she might have done too much damage but a lot of men
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would fold a lot i mean they've never had a girl work for them ever you know um maybe not him
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because he's famous but that's my opinion what do you think are you there yeah yeah yeah i think
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everything you're saying is 100 correct you're right you got me yeah so it's like do you know
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like why doesn't she try to reconcile you know you never know what an apology will do like if
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Because even Kevin Samuels on a couple of his shows said, look, drop the child support.
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Go to the court and get rid of the child support as a gesture of goodwill.
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She could, yeah, Tyrese's wife, she could literally fly out to him, try to have a conversation, you know, drop the lawsuit.
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yeah you're right i agree with you 100 you got me yeah like if i i mean have you ever had a i don't
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know if you've ever had a woman try to reconcile but your ego is gone if you try to do that
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like it's like okay what do you need me to do like that's that's the type of time when you're
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sorry and you really want to make something work that's the type of time you're on you're like
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front door back door like front door back door whatever you want baby do you how many meals do
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you want like it's on it's begging time what is what is alpha male strategy you say you better
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you better get on your knees and start eating ass
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he doesn't think that women an apology isn't enough but they start eating ass for a little
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wow that's what they gotta do yeah yeah so when you start eating ass i'll believe you're sorry
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okay let me play the rest i'm getting called back my first job was 11 in an hour and as i walked
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through it i looked around and it's like i know that this other woman's going through this and
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And I knew that there were other people, and we were just too embarrassed to say anything about it.
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So one day, I honestly just decided to take me on the record.
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I should point out that you've been sharing your story.
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We did have to legally reach out to your husband.
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He denies things that have been said on social media platforms.
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He says he provided alimony payments, final settlement, and is currently up to date on his child support payments.
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But separate from the finances of it, you, as you pointed out.
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found an article with her story you want to go through it real fast or no uh sure yes it's
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what do i always say about the um the female friendly version of the story pearl what's the
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female friendly version of the story he was abusive and she was also the um like victim
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like he was abusive and she's also the hero so she like overcame the abuse and go to the tab click
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on that why a mom of five gave up wait hold on okay why a mom of five gave up her marriage to
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start over at 44 now challenges viral trad wives everywhere a man is not a plan genie george says
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your financial future and your children's financial stability should not be dependent on your husband
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loving you um genie gage has built up a large social media following under the name of life
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takes two because she feels like she's doing her life all over again okay let me see
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she was pretty attractive back in the day i see why she's pissed
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at 44 she says she opted out of a more traditional religious conservative world
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she had built for her for herself as a wife and a mom of five and had to start over and now gauge
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50 of tuscan arizona speaks speaks openly about her experience before and after stop stopping
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being a self-described trad wife for 24 years i was under stress gage tells people only in hindsight
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can i say that raising five babies under the age of 10 on my hair falling out for my anxiety but
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on the outside it looked so good gage is outspoken against the traditional lifestyle that has become
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increasingly popular and controversial on social media platforms featuring women in domestic
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settings embracing the homemaker label right down to milling their own wheat for bread supporters
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say trad wife content just expresses a particular set of conservative values and is not unlike so
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many social media posts about cooking and parenting and many observers have noted some
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popular influencers associated with the trend have been clear about how they keep an equal
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partnership with their spouses regardless of how it looks um my kids were all beautiful oh wait
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here's a little thing of her talking let's see can you imagine your mom's just i drove to the
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grocery store i need to grab some milk and bread and a couple things flipped open the wait hold up
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it's gonna go full screen can you imagine your mom's just like talking about your dad on social
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media i know that does happen on facebook and stuff but i drove to the grocery store at this
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video by saying that i'm not asking for money and i'm not asking for sympathy what i'm asking for
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is if you are a young 14 16 21 year old girl listen up i drove to the grocery store i need
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grab some milk and bread and a couple things flipped open the pink app on my phone and i've
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been sitting in my car crying ever since because i never have enough money and why do i never have
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enough translation because i spend too much if she's crying she's lying yeah because when i was
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a 19 year old girl i fell in love my mormon faith told me that i was supposed to be a stay-at-home
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mom i got married i started having babies i dropped out of college i never had a career my
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only jobs that i ever had in life were a waitress at the olive garden and managing a pretzel maker
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in a mall so my first couple years of marriage i decided that i wanted to be an entrepreneur so
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i bought a windshield business i was 20. and my mormon stake president reminded me that women
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weren't supposed to work so i quit my own business handed it over to my husband took my name off of
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it i would work our family business throughout the next 24 years of my marriage but i never got
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paid i didn't have a salary my name wasn't on it i literally worked for room and board that's it
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i would eventually so translation um i took a a bad deal in hindsight right i'm not saying
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just objectively like if you're doing you could argue that's not a favorable deal and i'm upset
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and two i probably didn't do as good of a job as i thought
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i probably am giving my husband probably did most of it also launch a custom home building company
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with my uncle is the architect and my friends is the builder my designs my realtor but again because
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my husband was the man and his name was on all of the projects his name was on
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the business I remember one of the last custom homes that I built we sold it and
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made about a two hundred and sixty thousand dollar profit that money all
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went into his bank account I didn't even have a bank account I should have said
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that in the beginning I never had a bank account it would give me a little
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envelopes of cash to go grocery shopping anyway that house sells money goes in the
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bank. I just asked if I could buy myself a piano with the money. I had worked on building
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that house for two years. All of the money went into his bank account. Nothing was under
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my name. I got a piano and I got a free house to live in and I got groceries. So I found
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myself divorced at age 44 just five years ago and within just a few months I was living
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in my car while he made about a quarter million dollars. He would eventually quit that job
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so that he wouldn't have to pay alimony and child support.
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He has only paid alimony one time ever in the five years since we've been divorced, once ever.
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Right after my divorce, I remember being really confident about my ability to get a job,
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I remember one of the first interviews that I had was a management position for a windshield company,
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And the man actually laughing as he was interviewing me, like he was really sympathetic.
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You weren't interviewing well, and so you're going to just blame it on that.
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But he was laughing, and he's like, so let me get this straight.
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You helped manage your family windshield business with your husband, but you were mostly a stay-at-home mom,
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and all you did was like the marketing and the hiring and firing and some of the strategy for the business.
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But it became really apparent that I needed so many more skills to have any type of management job.
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well then go manage a daycare do you know what I mean it's like well like
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women will cry and men will just figure out a different solution if you have the
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skills he'll figure it out he told me in the interview please don't apply for
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any more jobs like this you are not qualified at all you're not capable of
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doing this unless you go back to school and get your degree or get some
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different experience and so I ended up my first job after my divorce was $11
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an hour four hours a day working as translation I was hoping my husband
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would pay for my lifestyle the rest of my life while i bang other dudes and it's not working out
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the way that i thought teacher in an elementary school i made 44 a day for 24 years i lived in
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million dollar homes i vacationed all over the world i spent my summers in oh my god why would
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you give that up that's what i'm saying what did she leave for like if you're gonna give that up
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how i put it do you know who made sense to leave her husband
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sarah palin she upgraded to a baseball player and i'm not saying that's right
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but i'm saying like that kind of makes sense because she was still in shape she's still kind
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of hot you know like there there's going to be a buyer there who is going to buy this she's fat
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like if you're going to divorce your husband do it in shape like i'm not saying that you should
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but like if we want to go best outcomes here why would you not be in shape you know what i mean
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Or or even worse than that pearl she's committing the cardinal sin right now. What is she doing talking on social media?
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She's airing out her. Yeah, this is with her ex on social media if she had those wifey skills
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And she kept their mouth shut she could have found another guy. Yeah, that's true
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There are plenty of especially she's in she she's from 50 she can find a guy who's 60s at 65
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has as much money if not more than her she could have pulled a lauren sanchez if she were in decent
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shape and didn't do this because this is the worst thing a woman can do on the way out is this right
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here yeah yeah i could buy myself 500 jeans diamond tennis bracelets we had boats and rvs and
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whatever i wanted and it never bothered me once that my financial security was dependent on that
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man being in love with me i never realized that him liking me or not liking me or finding me sexy
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or attractive or interesting determined whether or not my children could eat whether or not i
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could buy myself a jug of milk and a loaf of bread so i had my fifth surgery in two years two weeks
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ago and i'm supposed to be in bed resting and i can't because i worked seven days a week since
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It's my divorce five years ago, which is why I'm covered in paint and looking like crap.
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Like women will say they want to reconcile, but all they'll do is send a text.
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If you really wanted to reconcile, you'd start eating ass.
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Like, cause a lot of times guys, you know, they'll be like, women always come back and
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they do, but like, do they, like, do they come in like really trying to win it?
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Or is it just, can I still get attention from you?
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It's like, she really needs to get on her knees.
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what would you what would you recommend doug mpa if your ex-wife came back
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and i know this is unlikely is there a world what would she have to do to get you back that you
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would believe her uh it wouldn't happen the way that things ended between her and i no and
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the behavior that she showed isn't the type that'll go away like she she's gonna be doing that
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because i think she's remarried now she can be doing that to the same guy but he's just
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willing to deal with it and i wasn't so there's no scenario no way you know what i asked nuke if
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that's like um exhausting like when you watch women be terrible people and still win and he
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told me that he said no because you know that they're just never going to be happy people
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and they're just going to keep on with their patterns so you don't care you're going to meet
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people where they may screw you over or do something to you but uh it's hard to even be
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mad at them because they have to live their life and be themselves you know what i'm saying
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yeah that's what he said he was like yeah like they're just gonna they probably can and will
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get a better guy but i don't care because like you are who you are you know yep i agree with
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them 100 yeah your son and since my partner isn't working he's working on furniture flip okay i'm
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i'm done with this tick tock i'm gonna go back to the article now just real quick before you
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get to the person article why do you think that she left her husband try and guess is it going
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to be abuse no like well that's what she'd say um she needed to find herself he was cheating
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we'll get to it it's an article my kids were all beautiful and accomplished and it looked like
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they're the perfect life instead of saying this isn't working look how beautiful this is i was
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gaslighting myself at an early age the arizona native took a caregiving role for her younger
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siblings she says she says being a member of the church of jesus christ of latter-day saints
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put added pressure on her to marry early and bear a large family and being selected for all eternity
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until her marriage vows to her ex-husband jason greed and added an extra layer to their relationship
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gage says a mutual friend set them up on a blind date telling her we have returned missionary
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friend we have a return missionary friend you should marry that date was in june and on their
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11th date within six weeks of meeting george says she and green were married at a temple in portland
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oregon in on july 28th 1995. after a few months i knew i had made a mistake um we never wait
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although gabe gage believes it's up to the individual woman to decide what is right for
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her she also believes that they need to walk into it with their eyes wide open oh look how cute they
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are she was i don't know why i think she's so she was so pretty do you think what would you rate her
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i don't know what it is about this look i think this is just my type and like i'm straight but
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like my type in women is like this blonde or maybe yeah like she just has like a good look
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like i'd give her a seven what would you say yeah yeah i was about to say a seven yeah and then you
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know like if she was mormon so odds are she was like a virgin when she got married and stuff like
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that so the the kind of mormon being a virgin thing it's kind of hot too yeah well yeah well
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it didn't it didn't help you know they have a whole sub-genre of corn of like
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of like mormon stuff where people just like mormons and act like mormons
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gonna ask me how i know the mormon girls huh i was um probably not designed to be a mormon
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stay-at-home mom she says with a quick laugh my upbringing was in many ways um was a housewife
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immersion program designed to prepare me for nothing but wifehood after high school she
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She attended Birmingham, Young University, Idaho, a private college run by the church
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in Rexburg, which she earned an associate's degree.
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But she says she quickly discovered her plans to continue her education were derailed by
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Gage says that she and Green lived in a large home, had a garage full of cars and nice vacations.
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But on the inside, she was struggling for years and didn't realize it.
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green um told our green for his part told people they began having problems in their marriage early
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on and by the seventh year the damage was done gauge says she pondered leaving the marriage for
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years but didn't know how she could manage it gauge then said she discovered green had been
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cheating on her for years she says she tried for years to work things out and thought perhaps the
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cheating was done then she says she discovered he had done it again on october 2018 despite having
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all three children at home gauge says she knew it was time to walk away but it came at a tremendous
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cost to her she says she tried to kill herself i doubt it um i survived suicide barely barely
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they saved me but i was in a coma for 10 days and have a brain injury
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okay if there is a hospital visit i'll believe it but this story just seems okay
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i told you this is the the female friendly version of the story she's talking about her
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struggle. She probably like took some, she probably took some extra Advil and like oversaturated
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and like banged her head and was sort of like, leaving the church just broke me. It was very
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out of character. Um, then she recalls one day I rehab a man sat next to me and said,
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if I'd ever heard Will Smith's brick by brick speech, it's a well-known advice that the actor
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has given before. You don't set out to build a brick wall. You don't just start there. Smith
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had said i'm going to lay out this brick as perfectly as the brick can be laid and then you
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can do that every day and soon you have a wall and so basically she thought that she could probably
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build what her husband built and then she couldn't okay this is the husband i'm guessing
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oh my gosh he's attractive too that's a good looking guy you think he's a good looking guy
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i'd say he's good looking no yeah i think he's tall hey what are you doing of course he's gonna
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cheat on you there's no way she's going to be able to get a guy like him ever no and i i was
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mistaken she's been out here for four years she's 50 by the time she's 55 she's going to be begging
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to get back with her husband or wish that she would have stayed in a marriage because there
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ain't nothing out here for her well what st kevin samuels say all you married women there's nothing
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out here for you nothing all there is is trauma and dick yeah not all of you are lauren sanchez
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especially if you look like this don't recognize the woman that was in the photos in the early part
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of your marriage and intensia you've been very vocal about the social media content um you said
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selling a dream to young girls that doesn't exist i want to quickly play one of your tiktoks let's
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take a look the women that are telling you the trad wife life is amazing are the little 22 year
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old 24 year old girls that just got in it themselves i am literally just trying to be
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dead ass honest being a trad wife really sucks
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you know i i i understand perspective matters and journey matters sure do you
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but some of these people who are over the age of 40 feel that this is the life that works for them
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sure that this makes them happy um this allows them to be home with their children sure and
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be present i can tell you're conflicted because it's it's a tough you're i mean you're a tough
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talker sure i mean it is beautiful to stay home with your kids and it is beautiful to raise your
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kids but speaking of the women who are you know spent 20 something years being a tried wife and
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they they do advocate for it i think they're speaking from a place of i don't want to admit
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that the last 20 years were miserable and i don't have too much to go to the end so i'm just going
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to pretend it's been great you know what i mean i don't think i think everybody was born as a
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dynamic human you have all these qualities and things to give to the world and then to muffle
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that so that you could make somebody's favorite dinner and fold their laundry just i mean you
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have so much more to give and when you gate when you didn't uh search that within and bring that
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out after 20 years you're not going to say oh man i was so wrong so she she there's some dream she
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had that probably wouldn't have panned out that she felt like she could have did and she blames
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her husband instead of like her lack of talent and skills and imagine being being her children
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yeah i know oh my god she's saying that being a mother to her children was a waste of time
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ah these women don't care oh my god this once again this is the worst thing modern women do
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right here just air everything i think i did a panel with this girl on like jubilee
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i think she was on one of the panels i did i'm almost going to be dead you're going to say no
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it was amazing and i love it we're just getting started here coming up the breaking point that
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led both jenny and anitia to walk away and why they think right now as i said if you go on social
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media the trad wife hashtag is exploding why is it so popular if it's so bad that's next
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okay why do you think that this whole chad wet thing is catching on it's becoming popular
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because women can get attention for it well yeah that's number one i just think that
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Well, okay. I think feminists have rewritten history. They tried to say, well, all women could
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do was stay in the home and raise children. When they forgot to say that how we got here
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was men sacrificing their mental, emotional, physical, spiritual health for the sake of God,
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country community family men used to work long hard hours six days a week in physically laborious
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jobs and now that and women want to come out into the workforce when 77 of the economy is services
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right and so feminists have romanticized working women who didn't have to work romanticized
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working so now all their daughters have been out here working and they realize man this sucks
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so you have women doing this hashtag trad wife thing but they're not they're i don't even think
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so sorry no oh you think that no i mean most of it's like these young girls just trying to get
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clout off of it like if they really wanted to be a trad wife they'd just do like they can't help but
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like do it for social media i'll concede to that i'll concede to it yeah i mean that's just
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Like, I think that sounds nice, but I just don't see women in mass having any regrets or doing it.
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I think there'll be hookers before they be trad wives.
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They can be hookers and then repent later on and the church will welcome them in.
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We're going to deal with our self-proclaimed former trad wives, Anitza Templeton and Jenny Gage,
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Both women on a mission, you might say, to show the true realities behind the Trad Wife lifestyle trending on social media.
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Jenny, the content that we're seeing right now, we had our beautiful guests on in the first segment.
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And they were saying, you know, this content is really to erase the fear of showing your life.
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What influence do you think these videos are having?
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I know they have a lot of influence because I have thousands of women.
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um is it on the here let me see i didn't see any on the oh here we go eric the issue is there's a
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real economy and a female economy all this behavior is propagated by enabled women selling
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useless products to other women selling an image um selling an image what they do matters and is
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useful a real economy doesn't need them yeah i agree it's like you yeah i mean that's what you
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get on tick tock a lot of women make money selling useless stuff was that the only one i'm on my phone
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um i think that oh and there are uh so eric perez had a 20 dollar one did you read the five dollar
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one from eric perez i think i did but you can read it again he says he says i respect pearl's honesty
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women would rather be a a prostitute or homeless than be with a man they don't want to want to
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them that's slavery and then steve m i have a a beat pic but can i post it no you can't
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and then steve says next caller and then did you read oh you read that one already yeah cool
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okay thank you um yeah look and i try to be honest guys i don't want to i don't want to
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like sugarcoat anything because a lot of times i just see this it's like we we a lot of times
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we say what we want to be true and i've even done this before but it's like women will pick
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whoredom over being with a guy they don't like they will sorry sorry if that's your ex-wife
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sorry sorry comments on my videos all the time about how that they want to become trad wives
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too like this is what a lot of women feel is the thing to do right now and the problem is they
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They don't give the warning like they aren't showing the risk.
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They aren't showing what could happen on the other side and what it looks like to not have anything should that romantic relationship fail.
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I know in the interview that I saw that you did or read, you said, I was I'm more broken than I ever imagined being, but I'm happier than ever.
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Yeah, because now she can get any benefit to a tradition.
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remember now she can get banged out by alpha chads and you might think what alpha chad's
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going to bang her someone will do it probably some 20 something year old tyrone is probably
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banging her like digging her out right now yep and they'll be happier doing that so sorry guys
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no gender relationship looking back at i know it's it's a challenging question to ask you
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sourdough bread and if you feel like those traditional gender roles work for you embrace that
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but do it with your seat belt on and there are ways to do cool all right well these these are
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just women that took they these are women okay that cut deals that they didn't want
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and they they traded their youth and their fertility um to a guy that i don't even i feel
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bad saying like to a bait or a guy they didn't like that much because we don't even like ourselves
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so i when i say this guys i want you to know this is how the women view you this is how the women
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like this is through our lens and i just want you to know we hate ourselves we hate each other we
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can't help that we hate you too so don't take that personal if your ex-wife ended up not liking you
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much it's not you it's it it really is us you know what i mean uh doug mpa you got any final thoughts
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okay um if for the four women listening to this think about this you have the opportunity to
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become a trad wife or a modern woman okay would you rather spend 20 would you rather spend 18 years
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So let's say you have your first kid on the first day that you become a trad wife or or you go into your career.
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And then 18 years later, you have to make a change to flip to the other way, other way.
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Would you rather spend 18 years at home and then start raise your kids and then start a career?
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or would you spend 18 years in a job that doesn't care about you and then try to have kids to
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freaking ivf later on could you try to find a man 18 years later they're gonna rather do the first
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one or the second one yeah no well it's because then they win they get to use their youth on
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themselves you got it so sorry i would recommend i'm such a doomer i'd recommend at least because
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I honestly believe, guys, it's better to have loved and lost, to have never loved at all. And
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you know, maybe not for guys, but women, because women have this fear of missing out on everything,
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even stuff that they say is toxic. Women still want to get married, even though women hate men,
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but still want men. Women hate marriage, but still want to get married. That's a great way to put it.
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Yeah. Women hate children, although they still have them. So it's like, I think a woman should
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should at least see if the trad wife because honestly ladies why go out there and fight in
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the world of men if if we if you can find the right guy that'll just give you the world
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so anyway so then they have to listen then they have to listen to his rules
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to the four ladies watching this try being a trad wife first yeah you should try but
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it and it and little taste should join only fans all right thank you doug mpa um so much for
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your help this evening um and you made the show more interesting with bryson so thanks for coming
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on i hope we i hope he doesn't hate me no he doesn't hate he won't hate you he's a good guy
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um yeah all right guys thank you so much for tuning in as usual um i've had a blast with you
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