Pearl - 29 And Ready to Settle Down： SIMPS BEWARE!

00:00:00.000 but i'm 29 i want a baby at least one and i want a husband that loves me and cherishes me and um

00:00:09.440 what up guys welcome to my reaction series as you guys know women are terrible with money 1.00

00:00:14.560 and even though dating generally costs women nothing um women are complaining about dating 0.99

00:00:20.560 while broke although one thing that's interesting is i went to a restaurant the other day and asked

00:00:25.200 the waitress what percent of like the men pay on dates and she said it's mostly women that pay

00:00:31.440 and i was like is this becoming a thing are women starting to pay for dates um but anyways leave you 1.00

00:00:38.880 can't date or you should not really date if you're not i don't know this was in a specific area that

00:00:43.680 was pretty nice so i don't know maybe it was like an area where mostly women lived so i don't know 0.62

00:00:48.080 if any of you seen that put in the comments financially stable anytime you go into something

00:00:53.120 and you're not good on your own whether it's even emotionally but financially it's like a girl you

00:00:58.560 get into a relationship with a guy he moves in with you you're not financially stable enough to

00:01:02.880 leave him now because you need him to live with you so you can afford your rent yeah but the thing

00:01:07.040 is if you're a likable woman all you got to do is move home for six months go on dates if you're 1.00

00:01:12.400 good at being a girlfriend and you're good at that role you'll find a new taker you will then

00:01:17.840 you're you know you wouldn't have that problem if you were already settled on your own

00:01:21.520 yeah and then on the other hand dating a guy who doesn't have who's not financially stable

00:01:26.080 suddenly you can't go out like don't get in a relationship if you can't afford to do basic

00:01:30.960 activities because now what we're both supposed to stay home because you can't afford it because

00:01:36.480 everything we're gonna translation i like spending money um my boyfriend likes to save money and i

00:01:42.800 resent him because i want to spend money he wants to save it and i want to go to all these new places

00:01:49.200 and he doesn't care about that is going to be an issue it's going to be a fight and if you can't

00:01:53.360 afford it and then i want to pay and then that's an issue and then i'm going to do without you

00:01:57.120 because you can't afford and then that's a issue i truly yeah i i don't think the men make it an

00:02:02.640 issue like honestly i think most guys if a girl says she wants to do something he's like all right

00:02:07.760 see i'll have fun at the house i'll play my video games what do you guys think about women dating 0.99

00:02:13.360 when they don't have their life together and when do women ever have their life together 1.00

00:02:18.560 i went back on my hinge i've had it for a while it's always been popping but i just hate dating

00:02:25.920 because i'm a very honest woman and explaining my life and all that fun stuff is like a lot

00:02:33.600 okay it's a lot for me to open up because i have so many layers but i'm 29 i want a baby at least

00:02:41.120 one and i want a husband that loves me and cherishes me and um i decided hey like if i'm

00:02:49.280 honest what's the worst that can happen right so i opened it up i was dating this one guy you could

00:02:55.840 call it that whatever horrible horrible horrible like embarrassing um it couldn't have been that

00:03:04.480 embarrassing if you were banging him i mean he like women say that but sometimes it's usually 0.97

00:03:09.280 like he was clouded but ugly or like good looking but broke or rich but ugly emotionally unstable 0.65

00:03:17.120 but hot like something i went on a date with a guy a couple weeks ago great guy but i just wasn't

00:03:22.920 feeling him and she banged the other one not the great guy and i went on a date today and it went

00:03:28.600 really really well and i was honest and i told him where i'm at and guess what he said i don't care

00:03:34.060 Like you're clearly a woman who wants to go somewhere, wants to be more than where you're 1.00

00:03:39.840 at right now.

00:03:40.560 You have the drive, like you have the vision, you're smart.

00:03:43.900 My job as a man is to support you, be that shoulder for you to cry on and lean on if

00:03:49.000 you need it, support you where you need support it at and possibly invest in you.

00:03:54.440 Like if I see that vision and I, I agree with it and it's so rare for like to hear that

00:04:02.360 come out of a man's mouth nowadays because they really do think that they're the prize like it's 0.95

00:04:06.880 sad it's really crazy um but yeah like what do you guys think about that do you think women

00:04:12.340 should be dating while they have 13 dollars in their account like i mean if they're young 1.00

00:04:18.300 and plus sugar dating is so big now women just find sugar daddies it's incredible okay let's 0.92

00:04:25.380 this like broke has to be 10 times worse all right she says dating while broke as a girl

00:04:31.780 okay because it's worse as a girl that gets you in some weird situations so i started talking to

00:04:37.780 this white guy okay and i'm talking hot as not some mid white man who thinks he's cool because

00:04:45.060 he works in finance i'm talking as hot as disco lines okay she's a mid pumped and dumped okay so 1.00

00:04:52.660 when he dm'd me i had to enter that right away there was no other choice as i'm scrolling through

00:04:58.420 his instagram i see pictures of porsches and rolexes so i'm like oh okay this man has a bag

00:05:06.100 so when he asked me out to go out for dinner of course i had to say yes no matter if the date

00:05:13.060 would go well or not you know she was gonna hit either way sometimes a girl just needs a free 0.99

00:05:18.100 meal but woman to woman we know when we see men like that nothing really is free so a week goes

00:05:24.260 by and during this entire week up to the date this man is messaging me constantly like oh baby girl

00:05:32.980 you're so beautiful i'm so excited to take you out i'm gonna shoot you so right yada yada yada

00:05:38.740 and normally this type of would give me the ick right but you know after seeing all his rolexes

00:05:47.300 his Porsche, his bougie lifestyle, I just let it slide. So I'm getting ready for the day. I have

00:05:52.720 my thrifted red dress on, little kitten heels, looking cute, ready to go out. He picks me up

00:05:58.900 in his Porsche at 7 30 p.m. sharp. I'm thinking, all right, this is already gonna be a good ass 0.96

00:06:06.820 date. He opens the car door, I sit in, and as we start driving, he tells me we are going to Nobu.

00:06:15.220 i'm just thinking nobu on a first date the man must really like me or something because he is

00:06:21.440 shelling okay it's either it's either he's gonna make her pay or um or he does this to all his

00:06:28.460 girls like look men make systems so usually it's like their first date like system out and i've 0.84

00:06:35.200 been wanting to go to nobu since i was a child from that first fucking episode they showed it 0.98

00:06:40.580 on keeping up with the Kardashians so as we're driving you know he does the classic move like 0.96

00:06:46.260 one hand on the steering wheel the other hand slowly placed on the thigh normally I'd be like

00:06:53.380 panties kind of getting wet type of thing when this happens but the way that man did this was

00:07:00.480 in the creepiest way ever that I had to just move my legs and scooch towards the window you know

00:07:09.240 you know when you do when your man's a little bit mad at you like body turned away because i did not

00:07:14.100 want him touching me it felt fucking weird in how did he grab it i should have known that this was 0.85

00:07:22.260 a sign of what was about to go okay what's gonna happen down we get to nobu and honestly i am just 0.98

00:07:29.840 so excited to be there that i forgot about that whole situation in the car right that creepy ass 0.87

00:07:36.000 situation boom out of my mind because i was just ready to order my dream meal i was so excited but

00:07:43.160 girl it didn't go down the way i expected so as we're sitting down i am replaying my order

00:07:49.080 in my mind like i'm gonna get the hamachi the wagyu tacos the the miso glazed mackerel right

00:07:56.020 but as soon as the waitress comes over and i'm about to order because you know the girl always 1.00

00:08:01.400 goes first he jumps in and starts ordering everything oh no he's gonna leave her with 0.99

00:08:09.080 the bill for me i was like what the fuck like when men do that i they are on some different 0.99

00:08:15.340 type of shit because you just don't do that for a woman you let them order you let them get what 1.00

00:08:20.860 the fuck they want so again i let this slide because you know i'm i'm on a first date i don't 0.99

00:08:27.320 want the man to think i'm i'm some crazy girl and i also just don't want to cause a scene so 0.99

00:08:32.340 i let this slide too but anyways the date that's incredible if he paid like what do you mean let

00:08:37.660 it slide he took you he starts to go really well surprisingly like the conversation's flowing we

00:08:42.860 actually have some stuff in common until he starts giving me some signs that he's kind of expecting

00:08:50.960 something from me so he starts putting his moves on me right it was the creepiest thing i've ever

00:08:58.680 experienced like even still thinking about that day it gives me the chills because i was so

00:09:03.780 uncomfortable he starts trying to like reach for my shoulder put his like hand on my hand trying 0.93

00:09:10.620 to play footsie on the table i'm like what the fuck are you doing at this point i have no interest 0.98

00:09:19.000 of doing any sort of physical activity with this man afterwards because he was just a big walking 0.99

00:09:28.240 ick plus like a just this creepy vibe i can't even describe at this point he starts alluding

00:09:35.120 to me that like you know i took you out on such a nice day i'm gonna pay for this expensive meal

00:09:41.680 i gave you something you should probably give something back and in my mind i'm like oh that's

00:09:48.240 such bad I mean this is why drinks are nothing it should just be drinks drinks coffee a walk

00:09:56.180 nothing expensive there is no fucking way I am doing this with this man on the first day and I

00:10:02.100 get it some girls will I all power to you but for me that is just not my vibe so when the waiter 1.00

00:10:07.420 comes back at the end of the meal and it's like oh do you want some dessert you have room for

00:10:11.700 anything yummy I say no check please right away and they're like okay do you want to split or 0.97

00:10:16.960 together immediately split no time to let that man sink but this is where i fucked up okay because 0.96

00:10:25.980 as soon as the waiter brings the bill and i see the price of the meal that that man ordered for 0.93

00:10:34.200 me i couldn't believe it it was literally two hundred dollars plus tip i was not prepared to

00:10:43.400 be spending no food prices tonight so i made some random excuse like uh i need to go powder my nose

00:10:50.000 or something like i'll be back really quick so i book it to the bathroom as i soon as i get to the 0.87

00:10:55.640 bathroom i lock myself in that little stall park my ass on the toilet seat i am checking my phone 0.91

00:11:03.420 paypal venmo my bank account your girl has the total of 47 dollars as i'm gonna put it in my 0.98

00:11:14.840 credit card phone in my credit card i see this app that i downloaded like months ago but totally

00:11:20.380 forgot about it's called pay me and pretty much what it is is like you fill out a few forms and

00:11:25.900 it matches you to these class action lawsuits against these big companies that already owe you

00:11:31.260 money so you get like your portion from it i'm like yes perfect i fill out the form takes me 0.97

00:11:36.200 literally 10 minutes okay this man can take i think i'm taking a shit or something i don't care 0.89

00:11:40.480 fill it out the deposit hits by paypal 185 hits my account go back to the table slap my card on 0.95

00:11:48.700 there boom dinner's paid without having to do any funny business with this man after that i did not 0.98

00:11:55.040 say shit to this man walk my broke ass home because you know what i i am not i am not taking 0.99

00:12:01.680 any more shit from any man with red flags even if they look like disco lines yeah i mean this is why 1.00

00:12:11.440 i just think it's best cheap first dates see if we vibe if we vibe you know we vibe so anyways 0.98

00:12:18.920 that's how i feel about it let me know what you guys think in the comments like the video and

00:12:22.900 subscribe to the channel. I love you guys and I'll see you next time.

Pearl - February 19, 2026

29 And Ready to Settle Down： SIMPS BEWARE!

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