00:12:18.920But, I mean, all of it, it all starts to collapse, actually, very quickly.
00:12:22.960Like, even in studio, when you see these women with your eyes, your camera eyes, versus how they are, how they appear, I'm always telling guys, I'm like, listen, they don't look like what you think they look like.
00:12:37.320Even the outfits are designed specifically to, like, pinch here, cinch there, take a little bit off of there.
00:12:43.700makes me look a little thinner here like all of it's all conniving the corset yeah it's all
00:12:48.320conniving and it's all bs you know what i mean and it's like um so yeah just like basically all
00:12:54.020illusions that i might have ever had are completely gone did you see my catfish of the year
00:12:58.900no like the thread oh yeah yeah yeah i think i made it i forgot there's some major publication
00:13:06.980that i was in and i was like on um it went so viral they got so mad all because i said that
00:13:14.900you don't look like your pictures didn't call them ugly i didn't say you were bad looking right
00:13:21.460i didn't even say i was better looking i just said you don't look like your pictures and some
00:13:27.060of those were so you know who won who that like crazy red-headed lady the libertarian the red-headed
00:13:32.940libertarian yeah yeah i saw the comparison contrast too and it's like you spend a little
00:13:39.820bit of work yeah you spend a little time before you go into work working on what you look like
00:13:46.120before you go to work here yeah if if your beauty is a full-time job you might just not look like
00:13:51.840that yeah yeah agreed what's your favorite moment of your career like is there a debate that because
00:13:58.920you recently my favorite i think well my favorite for me yeah like just the one that i enjoyed yeah
00:14:05.580like what who did you with bevo with who bevo who's that bevo the cuck he was oh man that was
00:14:11.840the funniest shit ever this guy this only fans chick was there with her boyfriend bevo who's
00:14:18.300like a famous tiktoker or was a famous tiktoker and his whole claim to fame was that he swallowed
00:14:23.360food whole okay and he came in and he was like yeah this is my only fans girl i was like you
00:14:28.020let your chick get stuffed by other dudes and you're just like you know okay with that he's
00:14:31.960like yeah what's wrong with that no you ain't gonna care when i live in my mansion in this
00:14:35.860and then he just started spurging out and it was really funny right i didn't think anything of it
00:14:40.540but the next day he came out with this cope video where he he was like okay so the whole thing was
00:14:47.240a larp and i'm not really a cuck guys i don't you know blah blah blah blah blah and that was all
00:14:51.560bullshit turns out he really was and he was just coping you know what i mean he's like my dad called
00:14:56.640me and said hey you can't be letting your chick you know bang other guys well and if you're gonna
00:15:04.820okay if you're gonna be a cuck like own it at least destiny owns it yeah right i mean like he's
00:15:11.760not gonna do an apology video no he doesn't care yeah there's no shame at all they don't care no
00:15:16.980shame you know and feminism works out really well for leftists honestly i mean leftist men love it
00:15:21.920better than anybody sexual liberation from they wouldn't get laid without it like imagine there
00:15:26.720was the enforceability of what we had in the early 1900s where women were just socially compelled
00:15:32.060to remain chaste until they were until they were married right leftist men have you ever seen what
00:15:38.300they look like they're getting no fucking chicks they're getting any they're gonna get it so sexual
00:15:43.540liberation is like they love it because it's the one way where they can be the mistake right you
00:15:49.080you they could be that woman's next mistake you know and they'll leverage themselves to do it so
00:15:55.200yeah which oh my gosh and you called him out for the lauren southern stuff before that long before
00:16:00.700it ever came out and they were like they were like that didn't happen it didn't happen and then
00:16:05.520like his friend comes out 40 minute video that happened yeah yeah so funny it was so funny how
00:16:14.240is um debating tommy lauren uh well she's insufferable and she's also she you know very
00:16:21.300deep voice on uh tommy lauren right very uh masculine traits on her but also like many of
00:16:28.820these conservative commentators i really don't understand the female conservative commentator
00:16:33.480sphere because they're really really fucking stupid and i'm like how is it that you keep
00:16:39.920getting brought on tv and then you realize oh i see it's because they think that men want to have
00:16:45.080sex with you and so they present you as you know a package where you say right wing thing plus man
00:16:50.460want fuck and then bam we make money so once you realize that that's what the formula is it's like
00:16:57.060okay that makes more sense because they are really stupid and it's like it's no wonder you don't see
00:17:03.100female conservatives in the debate sphere with feminists because they would just get destroyed
00:17:07.040the feminists would just mangle them because they're so fucking stupid I mean just ridiculously
00:17:13.880stupid yeah I think there was a point in that debate where you said I can't remember what you
00:17:21.300said I just remember her face and it was just like she had duties women have oh that was it
00:17:26.820it was so funny I was like what are duties that women have towards men and she was like well
00:17:30.480I just think that men naturally want to provide for women I'm like so wait so you think that
00:17:36.120i want to get you nice shit just to watch you have it you know like that's that's what you're
00:17:42.880saying great well that's fantastic every man on earth wants to sign up for that and then if you
00:17:48.700say that to them like well you're not a real man right you know a real man will buy me nice shit
00:17:53.160and then just watch how happy i am when i get it yeah that's what real men do yeah they're wild
00:17:58.380these these women are wild and out especially especially on the conservative side you know
00:18:04.080In fact, a lot of the feminists, the outright outspoken feminists, act more conservative in their relationships with men than the conservative women do.
00:19:11.460And when I'm debating them, they always use the same talking points.
00:19:13.740And instantly, you know, it's really fun to watch if you get two conservative females on a panel and there's like four liberal females and you start tangling up with with both sides.
00:19:24.540and he watched the sisterhood form instantly right suddenly they're not conservatives or women or or
00:19:31.060or uh liberals right they're they're women and you're an evil oppressive patriarchal lunatic
00:19:36.560man right instantly all of the political divide gone i saw that with nala that was crazy all of
00:19:45.240the oh my gosh michael no have you debated him yet he won't debate oh i've asked multiple times
00:19:51.760requested multiple times live and i know that brian whatever's requested it multiple times
00:19:56.700the guy won't debate yeah you know it's really funny for the guy who always gets a lot of shit
00:20:01.880you only debate 304s i'm like if the roster of men that i've debated is massive right the roster
00:20:08.900of men most of my critics has debate zero zero so it's like uh i'm just equal about it right i don't
00:20:16.240care if you're a fucking idiot who's a guy or a girl right both of you you're an equal opportunity
00:20:20.820Equal opportunists when it comes to that.
00:20:22.800So with Knowles, though, yeah, I would be happy to.
00:20:25.960Him, all of those guys on the Daily Wire,
00:20:28.640I was always happy to Tango, especially Klavan.
00:20:30.800After I saw the Klavan interview he did, I was like,
00:20:32.800oh, man, I want to tear into Klavan so bad on this.
00:39:30.960i think they're both and would have the same incentive there because uh the idea of you being
00:39:35.920the social pariah because you have a high body count affects them both but conservative women
00:39:39.680find the workarounds so they do it from the back door they'll blow and they won't count it as a body
00:39:45.200yeah progressives do progressive women do the same i've questioned both ends of that ideology
00:39:50.160both on both sides like progressive women also do not want to give you their body count
00:39:56.080Progressive women also do not want you to know, you know, X, Y, Z, same as the conservatives, that social pariah aspect still very much there.
00:40:04.020And here's why those progressive women, they still want conservative guys.
00:51:21.620it's probably always been the case in sexual liberation
00:51:24.760that if you wanted a chaste virgin women,
00:51:27.360no tattoos, no trauma, that it's going to be a small percentage.
00:51:29.840Was he been calculated in the study chastity? Yeah, it was that wasn't in there. No, no, he didn't calculate that it was debt. It was it was tattoos. That's true. Yeah. It was obesity. It was I think those are the three main thing. It was number of tattoos, debt and obesity. Oh, see, I calculated in chastity. Yeah, I know. But so he said 1% when you just calculate debt, obesity and you know, so
00:51:56.720unmarriageable. Yeah. Yeah. From his metrics. Yeah. So yeah. Okay. If you want to pay off a
00:52:01.300girl's debt, cool. But, and then he didn't even include like sex work. So like, again,
00:52:08.320it's kind of asking the question, like what's in it for the average guy. I think he did include
00:52:13.760chastity numbers. Clary did in his book. Now that I'm thinking about it. I don't think he did. I
00:52:19.380could be wrong. I'll go back and take a look. I have his book, so I'll take a look, but either,
00:52:23.440either way it doesn't matter yeah but ultimately what i'm saying is like um so so when we're
00:52:29.740looking at those metrics you're looking at the metrics for marriageable it's like well let me
00:52:33.680ask you a question what makes you marriageable nothing nothing so nothing makes you marriageable
00:52:39.800no no no um i mean i have no debt no tattoos i wish i was a little younger but yeah
00:52:46.420yeah so that's it no tattoos no debt no tattoos um i mean i'm a nice person i can cook um i'd be
00:52:53.240a good mom yeah yeah yeah so i would say then that if that those are the categories we're looking at
00:52:58.900like body counts not even in there this and that um when we're talking about debt too how much debt
00:53:04.480like if you come in a relationship with ten thousand dollars in debt i don't think care
00:53:08.240i think the average is i think the average is twenty five that's still not bad honestly twenty
00:53:14.460five thousand dollars yeah but the average guy makes like forty thousand a year yeah and average
00:53:19.000amount of time it takes off to pay off twenty five thousand dollars of debt if you're hyper
00:53:22.100focused on it even if you're making right you could say but like this isn't a great sell right
00:53:27.020like that's what i keep asking like what's in it for the guy now you're saying well you can get a
00:53:31.180wife but now you know no i'm just what i'm so here's what i'm saying i'm saying you're these
00:53:36.820things that you say are uh you know very high like don't do it because it's like okay so should i
00:53:43.980let me ask you a question should i pass on a woman if she's hang on if she's very virtuous
00:53:48.180and she has she'll give me four children she's super fertile because she has twenty thousand
00:53:51.500dollars in debt should i pass on her that's up to you yeah but i don't right i don't say i don't
00:53:56.560say that's the thing about the red pill that gets me it's like but we're but you keep switching it
00:54:00.980i'm not asking you i'm saying we gotta i'm not saying do it or don't do it i'm saying what's
00:54:05.480in it for the guy for a virtuous woman and and i'm saying on a balance of probabilities
00:54:10.840they can't get that and you can't prove it can't prove what how would you know if a woman's
00:54:16.020virtuous yeah but i mean well how do you know anything how but you're dodging the question
00:54:22.500like how you're asking you how could you prove that yeah like there's like the same way that
00:54:28.100you can women women's sex drive starts at like 16 and that's i mean i'm not even gonna go and
00:54:33.780you know yeah but when you're like so the average woman loses her virginity at 16 the average age
00:54:38.580of first marriage is like 28 so when you're looking at probabilities right um this is what
00:54:43.640your your big thing is like let's look at the the average and the inks of probability no i'm just i
00:54:48.980just wanted to answer the question what's in it for the guy like not not do it despite this that's
00:54:54.180what would be in it for the guy would be a virtuous woman that would give them children be a good
00:54:58.320mother to them that's that's that's what they would be moving towards right but on average
00:55:04.300they're probably not going to get that yeah there's going to be less of them yeah so there's
00:55:08.400there's all sorts of mitigation strategies one thing is a mitigation strategy is they get brides
00:55:13.280from elsewhere that seems to work out for some oh no oh no no no you can't do that no you don't
00:55:19.200you don't like the passport bros no do you know if you bring them back here the one of the worst
00:55:24.040no no you stay there you stay there yeah but no guy wants to move to like in general like women
00:55:29.020are 85% of travelers so men in general they don't like to travel like most guys don't like if I had
00:55:35.600to sell my brothers on move to another country to find a good woman okay so let me get this people
00:55:40.080don't want to like so uproot their whole life let me get this right so then if I were to follow this
00:55:44.680if I were to follow Pearl Davis's like entire viewpoint here I just want to make sure I get
00:55:49.060it right I'll steal man it I'm gonna steal man it go on there's no virtuous women right basically
00:55:54.300any any well okay basically any there's very few virtuous women and you'd agree that's true i would
00:56:01.600agree that there's that's true that's like objectively there's not many yeah i would agree
00:56:06.500that there's less than 50 yes okay for sure okay okay so we're on the same we agree so because of
00:56:13.100that men right are they're not going to be left with the choice of getting virtuous women so they
00:56:17.940they just kind of fuck whoever they feel like it because that's what's left to them i'm saying
00:56:23.420that's already what's happening yeah i know and i'm saying i'm saying if we want but what should
00:56:28.760happen though well i don't say what should yeah but i'm asking i say what is yeah so i say i can't
00:56:36.020i i what do we do about that though how does that how's that helpful but my question is it is
00:56:40.980burning it's like well how do we put it out it but it is burning yeah but but the way you're doing
00:56:45.620like you're acting as if i have any control over what the world does i i can't control that i i
00:56:51.900can't i didn't make this society i can't control how the world is right get it so what i'm i just
00:56:59.180keep asking the question what's in it for the man that would be what would be in it for men
00:57:03.420and i don't think i don't right but i don't think there are enough virtuous women that that's going
00:57:08.860to be a good selling point because it can't be verified for one and probability wise it's less
00:57:15.000than 50 well what's the alternative to it though well it's already what's happening it's why men
00:57:20.340are like bowing out the sexes are going apart they don't seem like they're happier because
00:57:24.540they're bowing out they seem like they're happier when they find these verses so let's just say i
00:57:28.460don't know i've met i've met some older players they they really are not in a bad yeah most guys
00:57:35.340i talk to play the field when i talk to them privately they're like i wish i yeah i get a
00:57:40.000different story but let's just assume i'm just gonna assume the world right but right but it's
00:57:44.700not like the guys married are in a better place overall i mean so many men are in like why do you
00:57:51.060think we have phrases like happy wife happy life well because of like if if because of sitcoms
00:57:56.540right but again if if the results were so much better it would be an easy sell yeah but let's
00:58:02.620just let's just say it's 15 though let's just say it's only 15 of women are virtuous okay okay
00:58:08.060actually let's just do 10 only 10 of women are virtuous you'd still recommend that women who
00:58:13.580wanted virtuous men marry those women, right? Sure. Yeah. I mean, sure. Yeah. So you would
00:58:20.660still want them, but why would you think that they should marry those women? Well, it depends
00:58:25.700what they want. I don't tell men how to live, right? That's not my place. Like if you as a
00:58:31.680man want to go off and be by yourself to your 50, I'm not going to tell you that's wrong.
00:58:35.980Why not? What if it is? Because I don't think it is. Right. So now I don't, I don't, I don't
00:58:42.000think it's wrong if like for a man to live life if he lives you're a feminist pearl sure wait
00:58:48.640you're a feminist you're do as thou wilt feminist pearl right but why like why am i to tell a man
00:58:54.160how to live well you're not telling a man how to live like i think i think that's out of i think
00:58:58.440that's out of yeah i agree you tell the women how to live you tell those virtuous women they need to
00:59:02.280marry virtuous men yeah and you think they'll listen good luck well i mean i think that they're
00:59:06.780more inclined to listen to women than men i don't think so i think so i've i've watched women watch
00:59:12.720like abortion videos and not care but i mean do and still get one after like do is thou wilt
00:59:18.860right is that's brutally like when you say i don't well i don't care ultimately right i don't i don't
00:59:24.840really care i'm like i didn't you should care though because ultimately no i said it's it's
00:59:31.680out of order for me to tell a guy how to live right i think that's out of order like i don't
00:59:36.280think that's my place okay but here's what i'm trying to explain yeah if you think those 10
00:59:40.440percent of women who are virtuous should marry like the 10 or you should get married i said
00:59:46.360if they want to the women if they i mean they could be nuns if they want they could i it's not
00:59:52.840my place it's your life forget the nunnery but if they want to get married they shouldn't marry
00:59:56.560shitbags they should marry virtuous men right if that's what they want if that's what they want
01:00:01.020yeah okay yeah okay so i mean so if you're just diving into even if they're virtuous you're not
01:00:07.520sure i'm like even if they're virtuous i'm not sure what they should do that's where i'm like
01:00:11.900well my again it's not my place like you have to live with the consequences of your actions and i
01:00:19.140just think a lot of youtubers get like a god complex where they want to tell everyone how to
01:00:23.200live and it's not my place it's your life yeah but i mean like it's if you you get to live life
01:00:30.560on your own terms what would you tell would you tell men like not to become trannies
01:00:34.080i mean if they want to do that i'd rather they didn't see okay there we go i'd rather not
01:00:40.500they didn't i'd rather not i don't really want to look at them but but let's wait let's keep
01:00:45.460that combo anyway okay yeah yeah would you tell would you tell uh would you tell men like um so
01:00:52.140you wouldn't make any recommendations like what if a man was like i want to be a homosexual and
01:00:56.040have 20 gay lovers well i i could give what i think is right and wrong and that's my personal
01:01:03.920opinion but that's that's not what i'm here to do i'm here to stick to the facts got it yeah but
01:01:09.300this is great yeah right so it's not a god complex then so if you're saying i know what's right and i
01:01:14.800know what's wrong but according to my worldview yeah so you would tailor that worldview though
01:01:20.580to the outcomes you wanted to see in society that's not a god complex that's just like picking
01:01:24.780your neighbors right right but i i don't agree because again i think that every man has a right
01:01:31.600to live life on his own terms and you're kind of dodging the question which ask it directly and i'll
01:01:36.640give you a guess which is what's in it for the men yeah what's what is in it for him so i'll
01:01:42.380repeat it again what does a man get out of a out of which thing a marriage yeah yeah what he would
01:01:48.520get or what he'd be seeking for marriage would be a virtuous non-vexing wife who gave him children
01:01:53.820was a good mother but we agree that most men aren't going to get that correct we would agree
01:01:58.760because that's less than 50 yes we would agree that that is correct and until conservatives can
01:02:04.420answer that question for men it's going to keep going down i'm not saying it's good didn't i just
01:02:09.800answer the question though what yeah so what what what is it that they're getting out of marriage
01:02:15.080or what is it that they should be wanting and getting it not should i said what but what are
01:02:19.420they getting now oh descriptively yeah yeah and that's my that's what i'm getting at yeah no but
01:02:24.680yeah but we already agree descriptively that's the case what i'm after is the next part where
01:02:30.080we're like okay so what the fuck we gotta do about this shit that's where i'm at well you maybe you
01:02:36.040can start and change the laws and whatever i just don't see it happening in my lifetime really you
01:02:42.600don't think so you don't think there's any possibility that people people can run a social
01:02:46.880movement to change any of this stuff um i don't see any evidence that it's going to happen yeah
01:02:52.880i mean the whole economy is run on the female dollar women make it like i always look at it
01:02:59.880as women you make eight dollars off of women and two dollars off of men yeah for like the pink tax
01:03:04.840the pink tax no no women make women make 80 percent of consumer buying decisions so there's
01:03:10.780so many industries that just depend off of women working sure and women spending money
01:03:15.440and i just don't see it changing i i hope you know i hope you're right it changed well i mean
01:03:20.800i i hope you're right how does the propaganda work though that gets all the women in the
01:03:24.780workforce against their will i don't think propaganda can't work to get them but i don't
01:03:28.100well but i don't think it's propaganda like that i think it's what women want to do women want to
01:03:33.920do what women wanted to work women didn't want to have kids definitely not and they definitely
01:03:39.420uh it seems like when i look at the regrets that i hear from women more than anything by the time
01:03:46.300they hit their 40s was that they did that shit and that they feel like they were completely lied
01:03:50.440to about it yeah that's what they say but that's kind of like a fat person like saying they want
01:03:55.320to lose weight but they don't take any steps to like make it happen they don't really want to lose
01:03:59.720weight i mean that's common like if women you know if women have like we get thousands of options on
01:04:04.380a dating app yeah right yeah so it's like if you wanted to you would but we don't so what does that
01:04:10.180tell you it's not what we want to do well sorry wait okay that doesn't follow either it is the
01:04:16.460case that i want to draw that i wish i was good at art right but i don't really take any steps to get
01:04:21.960better at art but i still wish i was better at art but if you really wanted to be good at it
01:04:27.300you'd take steps to do it yeah not necessarily like that doesn't follow for everything you know
01:04:32.700what i mean like people can envision that they would want a thing or regret not having the thing
01:04:36.660right but how can you tell what people actually want to do and if they mean something
01:04:41.840they do it right like if someone really wants to lose weight they take the steps to do it they
01:04:48.660hire a personal trainer whatever they got to do people can say things right well but i watch what
01:04:53.940they do but hang on putting something into action doesn't mean it's not a thing you don't want
01:04:58.040like there's lots of people i know who wish that that they were millionaires they're not taking
01:05:02.040actions to become millionaires but they still wish they had a million bucks for sure and i don't
01:05:07.120disbelieve that they really wish they had a million bucks because they're not taking actual
01:05:11.640steps to get it like that to me doesn't follow i do you just instantly think that they're just
01:05:17.460yeah if you wanted to you would if you wanted to you would yeah if you wanted to so that's that's
01:05:22.400how i view it i don't know i just i don't i'm like i don't think it's black like i don't know
01:05:26.620i'm not jaded but i just look at the way the trends are going and i don't i don't want to like
01:05:31.620lie or you know um and i'm not i'm not saying you are but i'm saying like to me it would be lying
01:05:38.720if i said that i don't predict it's going to go this way it's going to get worse yeah yeah but
01:05:44.300but but i would look at a series of aughts it's like again so when i answer the question i say
01:05:49.960well i agree with you descriptively you're correct this is bad this is the part of the
01:05:53.660red pill i agree with descriptively this is bad but then i get to the part where i'm like yeah i
01:05:57.540see the fire look at that big tower it's on fire yeah i see it too so anyway hey guys you want to
01:06:01.800like help me put this out they're like no that's you can't just you can't just put out a fire
01:06:07.540right but would you help put it out if you knew you were going to die in the process and i think
01:06:13.100that's what a lot of conservative like you know men are nine times more likely to commit suicide
01:06:17.180after a divorce and the worst um the worst men that i saw actually tell them to gamble on well
01:06:23.600non-virtuous women right but you don't but women like virtuous right now you don't know what they're
01:06:28.660gonna do in 10 years you don't know like i one of my biggest donors for the documentary just don't
01:06:32.980buy a new car because it could break one of my biggest donors for the documentary you know he
01:06:36.920had a 30-year marriage yeah and now he's gonna work till he's dead because she decided she was
01:06:42.120virtuous she didn't cheat the whole time that's stupid it's like saying don't buy a car because
01:06:45.660it might break down i wouldn't say it's the same because if if a car breaks down like you can fix
01:06:52.720it you can buy a new car yeah but you're not enslaved to the car for 18 years well you are
01:06:58.800if you bought it with debt right you bought it with debt you're still enslaved to it for x amount
01:07:03.840of time but the thing is is like look but i wouldn't your chat if you're taking a look at
01:07:07.840risk mitigation you're supposed to be looking at all these things the details like you buy the new
01:07:12.480car not knowing that it won't break down because it could but you have enough assured factors that
01:07:17.760it so likely won't that you feel okay doing it so like trying to create this guarantee of we don't
01:07:23.840really know if they're faking virtue right at this moment it's like they could be but you're
01:07:28.160supposed to take all the evidence into consideration and make a better choice on that but two kids is
01:07:32.80040 of your income for 18 years yeah i mean that's a lot i mean that i mean i again like nobody's
01:07:39.220answering the question what's in it for the guy to take that risk well because if she if she is
01:07:44.920she might be virtuous now risk just the risk of marriage itself that's it well i what i'm saying
01:07:50.280is the conservatives in general they're not going to sell marriage to men even with so-called like
01:07:55.720virtuous women um because they're not answering they're not giving men enough of an incentive
01:08:01.720and it's easy to say like we ought to do this i think you could maybe say that like in your
01:08:06.840i would just mitigate the shit out of everything so you can get a prenuptial agreement you can look
01:08:10.920for virtuous women but those can be like thrown out and they rarely are and i talked to james
01:08:16.080sexton live about it and he told me they rarely do the divorce lawyers have an incentive to be
01:08:21.060honest about that or to lie i don't think james sexton was i really like james i have nothing
01:08:25.460i have nothing against him but um with lawyers i just am a bit skeptical and the reason being um
01:08:34.560they're mostly enforced like i checked it out they're mostly enforced prenuptial agreements
01:08:38.740are mostly enforced i mean that's what they say right um but i just think there's a lot of
01:08:44.440incentive for divorce lawyers to not be overly honest about that and the other thing that lawyers
01:08:50.160will tell you is once you have a kid that's really when it switches so you might be okay if you don't
01:08:55.680have a child but if you have now you're moving away from descriptive truth into like pearl's
01:09:00.820truth the descriptive truth and the facts on this one are not are not on your side not when it comes
01:09:07.060to kids because once you have a kid like prenups definitely work right no but you might say they're
01:09:14.520enforced but a lot of times the terms are changed that's not uncommon sometimes the terms are
01:09:19.260that's true but most of the time prenups are enforced and uh women who sign prenups are way
01:09:25.320less likely to violate their duties in the marriage because they don't want to lose whatever the thing
01:09:30.000is right but you don't know how the women are going to be in the future right so like there
01:09:35.620might be like we're talking about gen z women i would say young millennials that are really on
01:09:40.420the market and you have no like you can't say that they're less likely to like yeah it would
01:09:44.960be like this is the this is the first group of women that grew up on social media so if i had
01:09:50.380to predict it i would guess that they would be worse because i don't think social media has made
01:09:56.140relationships better they're gonna get married less like altogether but even even right but
01:10:01.920even the ones that do get married they can download a dating app they can cheat on instagram
01:10:06.040like you so and i'm not saying if a man wants to get married i would never talk him out look i think
01:10:11.440all of the incentives against secular marriage are in your favor like i'm not disputing descriptively
01:10:17.400all of the of the ideas for secular marriage are definitely in your favor but they're they're not
01:10:24.160in your favor when it comes to religious marriage they're not in your favor if it is the case you
01:10:28.260keep the state out of it got married by the church had a prenuptial agreement you can really protect
01:10:32.660yourself pretty well for most of these mitigating factors and get that virtuous woman you're after
01:10:37.500right but there's no god in divorce court and so the worst divorce that i saw was there's prenups
01:10:42.680the worst no the worst divorce that i know second one no they were both religious actually
01:10:49.380one was um the two worst divorce i saw one was from the same church that michael knowles goes
01:10:54.560How are they getting a divorce, though, if they got married through through a party other than the state?
01:10:59.520They couldn't have gotten divorced. Right. But once you have a kid, you're entered into the like once once you have a child, you're entered into the state regardless.
01:11:07.940Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So custody, though. Yeah. And then for child support. Correct. But but here's the thing.
01:11:12.900It's interesting there. You can still write mitigation for that in a prenuptial agreement, even when it comes to child support.
01:11:19.660And they're mostly enforced. Right. You you can. But again, what's the incentive?
01:11:24.560Well, the incentive that men would be receiving on the end is, I don't believe, as you do, that you just can't get married to women because there's no virtuous women.
01:11:35.720But assuming even there's a very small percentage, I would still recommend that men find virtuous women, get married to them, and the incentive that they get is families and this and that.
01:11:44.340Do I think you can't mitigate all those risks?