Pearl - 304s Will Never Be Happy ｜ Coffee Talks

00:00:00.000 What up, guys? Welcome to another episode of Pearl's Coffee Talks.

00:00:04.700 So, I had a couple observations about myself and, I guess, other people.

00:00:10.660 I've been kind of fixated on this idea of karma.

00:00:14.440 Do I think karma is real? 1.00

00:00:17.240 Now, when I was young, it would really irritate me when I would see a woman just be a complete bitch, 1.00

00:00:25.000 and this tends to happen with pretty women. 1.00

00:00:26.720 or you see this girl she there's one in particular I'm thinking of it just drove me nuts 1.00

00:00:31.200 it did not matter how mean she was to men or rude to men she was extremely good looking 1.00

00:00:38.980 and she could pretty much get whatever guy she wanted um she's like in her late 20s now 0.97

00:00:45.860 and I don't think anything's really been a problem with her she always has some Chad-ish boyfriend

00:00:51.640 right and it would always irritate me because I would think um you know what I'm nice these other 1.00

00:01:00.580 girls are nice like what why do you guys pick this bitch just because she's pretty and I think 1.00

00:01:07.180 there's a part of me and probably most women that envy beautiful women like her that just you know 1.00

00:01:12.760 can get chance after chance after chance at love that gets chosen by men that overlook the 0.96

00:01:18.460 I'll go meds, right? Um, and it just seems like no matter what they do, um,

00:01:27.320 there's no consequence and that's really frustrating.

00:01:34.440 Now this used to frustrate me until I realized that there is a consequence. It's just going to

00:01:39.160 happen later. Now women like her are going to get opportunities that I've never dreamed of. 1.00

00:01:44.420 Obviously, I've lost contact, but I'm sure she's gotten opportunities with some of the highest status men in the world just based on her looks. 1.00

00:01:52.620 And the woman, as far as I know, hasn't made any crazy mistakes like abortion, tattoo, you know, like looks normal, just a bitch, right? 1.00

00:02:04.800 But what will happen, what I realized, is that women like her are just never going to be happy. 1.00

00:02:09.460 and the spoiling and the countless opportunities that love no matter how terrible they treat the 1.00

00:02:15.260 man the men right um the consequence is being spoiled like that is that when they're ugly 0.99

00:02:24.320 their personality is gonna suck and that even if they get a chad like women like that are so 0.98

00:02:30.680 spoiled that they're just never happy regardless like it doesn't it literally doesn't matter um 0.99

00:02:36.060 what they do they just will never be happy and so I started to think about um maybe times when

00:02:43.700 I've been the villain because let's be honest um we all like to think of ourselves as the hero but

00:02:49.140 there are times when we're the villain and I'll think about things that I've done wrong or maybe

00:02:54.420 like I wish I did differently like there's something that you know at the time years ago

00:03:03.340 I thought it was the right thing. I really thought I was doing the right thing. And I think back in

00:03:07.020 hindsight and I was just so wrong. And I can't believe at the time how right I thought I was.

00:03:11.720 And I was just wrong. And I was like the villain in this story. Um, and anyways,

00:03:18.060 in a way, like I didn't have any real, um, maybe consequences for it, right? Like nothing

00:03:27.180 happened, but the level of guilt that I felt for that situation, I lived with, I thought about for

00:03:36.760 years, and even to this day, I'll still think about, and I think a lot of people, when they

00:03:40.600 have been the villain, like, they can think back to times where, yeah, I did the wrong thing,

00:03:46.200 there are, I think there's, like, levels to people, right, there's people that feel guilt,

00:03:52.500 so, like, when you're, like, an angel person, and then maybe you're, like, the step below, like,

00:03:56.720 you're, I don't want to say step alone angel, but you're not like that good, but you're not that

00:04:02.040 bad. I don't know. I don't know if I'm, I'm a woman. So obviously I'm evil, but, um, anyways,

00:04:08.500 I think the guilt I felt over that situation, I, it just wasn't worth it. Like that was the

00:04:13.320 punishment. And then you start to think, well, there are people that have no guilt and it's

00:04:17.540 just very obvious. They don't feel bad for a single thing that they do. Like they will screw

00:04:22.280 over person after person and at times there's no karma right I mean they're not thrown in jail

00:04:29.660 they just keep screwing people over and you think well that's not fair they don't have karma

00:04:34.520 what I think happens to those people like an example is I know somebody that I know recently

00:04:40.280 got hit in a hit and run and we were talking about how could you just hit somebody and like run away

00:04:45.660 you you hit a person and just left them for that because it was someone on a motorcycle and they

00:04:51.460 lived they were like you know scratches but you know we were talking about like how could how could

00:04:56.260 you do that and I'm thinking well that person probably has been doing things like that from

00:05:02.260 like a young age because unless you're a complete psychopath I think people start feeling guilt

00:05:08.620 like I think the first time a thief steals something it's like they might feel a little

00:05:14.980 bit bad. The first time, um, a cheater cheats, they might feel a little bit bad. Uh, the first

00:05:22.140 time you get like, do you know what? Actually, I'll tell, I'll tell you guys, I struggle with

00:05:27.820 gossip. I think, I think on this channel, like it's very obvious, like at times I gossip. And, um,

00:05:36.540 I remember the first time I gossiped ever in my life. I remember being at a sleepover with like

00:05:42.940 a bunch of other girls. And I don't know how old we were, like, I don't know, nine to 12 ish,

00:05:48.240 maybe younger. I don't know. I was young. And I remember, um, the girls started talking about

00:05:54.940 the other girls. And I remember thinking like, Oh, isn't that wrong? And it was weird because

00:06:00.440 you don't even notice the other girls flaws until another girl starts like pointing it out. And then

00:06:05.700 you just start to notice it too. And then you start to do it too. And, um, that's why I kind

00:06:11.980 of avoid situations with a lot of women it's like the same reason I avoid situations with cake 0.96

00:06:16.260 I just know women get together and gossip and I don't I don't want to I don't want to say 0.85

00:06:23.460 something stupid you know um it's the same reason I'm going to bakeries because I'll eat I'll eat 0.98

00:06:30.200 the whole bakery I swear on my life I will eat I will eat the whole bakery um but when you get 0.99

00:06:37.940 older, like gossiping, um, I, I don't think I've ever felt the level of guilt, um, now that I felt

00:06:45.260 back then. Right. Cause back then I remember like, you know, being so young and thinking like, wow,

00:06:52.920 I, I feel so guilty. I said that, you know, and when you get old, it's like, eh,

00:06:59.200 okay. Someone said something. It's just not that big of a deal, you know, it's like evolution.

00:07:03.480 now that's how I am with gossip or maybe gluttony right those are the sins I would say 0.61

00:07:08.780 I struggle with more right um but imagine if you're a psychopath and you do that with everything

00:07:16.920 like I could say deep down when I struggle with those things I don't like that I do them like

00:07:22.900 it's not like I'm intentionally wanting like I always feel bad after I do it I still have

00:07:27.680 the guilt. It's just not the level of child guilt. You know what I mean? So I was thinking about this

00:07:33.880 and I'm like, the punishment for people that are like psychopathic and just screw everyone over

00:07:38.620 constantly is they have to live with themselves. Like I've, I've kind of experienced this in life

00:07:47.100 where, um, like I had an old co-host that I thought I was friends with, call me a colonizer

00:07:51.380 And just the way that guy's life turned out, I mean, I had a friend rob me, you know, someone I

00:08:00.280 thought was my friend stole a camera from me. And again, just the way, like, I think one of two

00:08:09.740 things happen. Life either catches up to them where they get caught or two, they get so used

00:08:16.420 to just being a terrible person. They don't feel guilt anymore. And I think that's like a punishment

00:08:21.280 in itself. Not having a conscience, because the same way I don't feel the same level of guilt I

00:08:28.240 used to when I was a kid, I almost feel a little bit bad about that. Like, I wish I still had that,

00:08:38.960 you know, I think when you're a kid, you're almost like perfect. Like, you don't want to do any wrong,

00:08:42.900 you know, and losing that, I really think, like, is punishment in itself. So,

00:08:49.280 um, the older I get, the less I've learned not to be like reactive to other people.

00:08:58.920 Um, even Doug MPA and I were going like back and forth about the cheating thing. Cause someone,

00:09:05.640 you guys are going to disagree with me on this, but there was a guy who called into the show and

00:09:12.020 he said that he would prefer a woman. Like he would actually forgive a woman who cheated. Um,

00:09:17.920 that was honest with him about the cheating and like told him like told him after she did it 0.87

00:09:23.600 um and everyone was kind of called he was kind of insinuating he was a cuck or like

00:09:29.760 you know what kind of guy would do that and I thought well at least if he gets cheated on he'll

00:09:36.020 know and he can act accordingly because he has an incentive system where they can be honest

00:09:40.360 where everyone else is incentivizing dishonesty because in his incentive system

00:09:45.700 at least you know she can make penance I'm not saying it's I'm not saying you should accept that

00:09:51.400 right you know what I mean um but I I kind of understood what he was saying on some level

00:09:56.960 because the cheating in my opinion doesn't have anything to do with the guy it's everything to do

00:10:01.680 with her because that's something she struggles with and the fact that she told him it's like

00:10:06.140 well she probably felt so guilty and that was her punishment I don't know if that makes

00:10:12.940 are we clocking what i'm putting down i'm not saying to get cucked i'm not saying that

00:10:18.260 but i understood what he was saying it's like you want to incentivize good behavior where it's like

00:10:24.540 you know the other guy who says oh i dump her immediately well now the girl knows that you 0.90

00:10:29.380 dump her immediately and you're just going to get cheated on silently you know it's like women are 0.99

00:10:35.140 whores in this economy you know it's like you're kind of getting cheated on regardless um you might 1.00

00:10:41.100 as well have the girl that cheated on you bring her best friend for you to bang too do you know 1.00

00:10:45.540 what I mean you're gonna be upset regardless but at least you can the girl who cheated right 0.81

00:10:52.020 you can bang her best friend too that's at least you know you can say you can make penance and 1.00

00:10:58.540 then after the penance then you can decide do I do I think this bitch is gonna do it again you know 1.00

00:11:04.020 anyways I don't know look you can take that or leave it but at some level I understood what he 1.00

00:11:10.380 was saying because really and truly like it's just for me it's such a life-changing um experience or

00:11:19.400 wake up maybe when you realize that people that hurt you it just has nothing to do with you at

00:11:25.400 all and we take it personal because we're like oh um people hurt me all the time but it's like

00:11:34.780 if everybody's hurt if you know hurt people hurt people and everybody's been hurt like I think

00:11:39.820 everybody in this economy has been cheated on or lied to or stole, you know, whatever.

00:11:45.240 You have an incentive system where all the wrong things are rewarded and there's not

00:11:50.680 really accountability anymore, you know?

00:11:58.320 So because of that, it really has nothing to do with you.

00:12:04.780 So anyways, all right, guys, let me know what you think in the comments.

00:12:08.740 I love you.

00:12:09.140 thanks for watching um and if you have any philosophical thoughts put it in the comments

00:12:15.200 some of my best coffee talks I'll read a comment and be like wow that was a great point so I love

00:12:21.140 you like the video I'll see you next time

Pearl - May 19, 2026

304s Will Never Be Happy ｜ Coffee Talks

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