Pearl - May 30, 2025


A Prenup Success Story


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Length

7 minutes

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Word count

1,520

Sentence count

133

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Misogyny

22

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Toxicity

11

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4

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In this episode, I talk about prenuptial agreements and why they are a good idea. I also talk about my experience with a prenup and why I don t think everyone should have one. I also give a shout out to my ex, Erica Hernandez.

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00:00:00.000 Do you want me to give her a shout out? 1.00
00:00:01.440 Do you have like a message you want me to say to her?
00:00:03.360 Shout out to my ex, Erica Hernandez. 1.00
00:00:06.460 Erica Michelle Hernandez.
00:00:10.040 What's your experience with prenups?
00:00:12.000 Have you had one or do you know anyone that had one?
00:00:14.920 Yeah, I definitely know one person that had one.
00:00:18.980 Actually, he was my mentor.
00:00:20.960 He was really, he was actually a professor at University of Penn.
00:00:25.540 I live down here in New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania area.
00:00:30.000 And he actually, how can I put this?
00:00:33.640 He wasn't really in the, he was very smart, very astute guy,
00:00:37.180 but he wasn't really pleasing to the eye.
00:00:40.020 But the woman that he picked was bad. 1.00
00:00:44.100 So he at least was smart enough to know, yeah, maybe I should get this prenup.
00:00:49.900 And he would talk to me about it.
00:00:51.240 And I was like, listen, Mr. J was in the streets at the time.
00:00:53.900 So I was like, well, I think you should protect yourself.
00:00:57.800 Because I'm looking at him like, yeah, I'm looking at you.
00:01:00.260 She got, you know what I mean, light, light brown eyes.
00:01:02.820 She got the head.
00:01:03.320 It's not making sense, huh?
00:01:05.100 Yeah, that, that, that, you know, bad chick. 0.64
00:01:07.240 So, and he was, you know, like he was a really good dude.
00:01:10.020 Stand up, stand up guy passed away.
00:01:12.260 I'm not going to, you know, say his name, but, you know, shouts out to him.
00:01:15.500 You know, he was a good mentor for Mr. J when he was in college.
00:01:18.220 Kept me on a straight and narrow.
00:01:19.140 But, um, what happened was, um, he got the prenup after the marriage.
00:01:26.040 And when he did that, when he went to the, um, you know, the judge after they was getting a divorce, the judge basically told him that everything that he had before, he possibly could count on him.
00:01:37.260 But anything that he had after they got married, um, you know, that, that, that was, um, you know, community property, I guess, so to speak.
00:01:45.580 And so what he did was, um, like, like, like, I guess the guy earlier said, um, did, he was kind of smart.
00:01:53.900 And I didn't know he did this.
00:01:54.960 He put, um, most of the stuff in his sister's name, uh, and she's still alive.
00:02:02.620 And, um, they had, they, you know, once he passed away that, you know, his ex-wife took him to, took her to court and kept trying to get the money or whatever.
00:02:10.960 And I don't know if that really is foolproof, but that was the best way because he was smart enough to know he was, you know, um, you know, outside of his game.
00:02:19.920 He was, you know, shooting out his league.
00:02:21.440 So he decided, okay, I know this is a pretty chick. 0.94
00:02:25.480 I know I'm not a pretty dude.
00:02:27.100 I know I'm not an attractive dude, but I got money.
00:02:29.100 So I'm a high value man, however they like to say it.
00:02:32.240 And, um, basically what happened was, uh, his, his wife and the kids got nothing and his sister's living, you know, great right now.
00:02:42.100 So, I mean, I, I'm not saying like, you know, that's what you should do because I heard the other guy saying, um, you know, uh, you shouldn't get, uh, uh, married.
00:02:51.480 Now he got remarried.
00:02:53.920 So, and he, and even though he said it was like, you know, you know, a couple months or whatever, I don't know after I got, you know, got divorced, if I would ever get remarried.
00:03:03.160 Because it's like, um, the stuff that she took from me wasn't just financial.
00:03:09.040 It, you know, she took something from me, like, like a piece of me. 0.99
00:03:12.500 And when I say that, it's like, okay, I understand you're on some funky ass shit. 0.99
00:03:17.180 Maybe I'm on some funky ass shit, but we have children. 1.00
00:03:19.420 We have a house, we have a life built together. 1.00
00:03:22.380 And she was just willing to blow it the hell up.
00:03:24.840 And I was like, ah, and I'm gonna be honest with you.
00:03:28.760 Mr. J is not a crier, but Mr. J went to work one day, no, two days and cried his ass off. 0.57
00:03:34.240 But I didn't cry for her because I knew she was funky.
00:03:37.260 I cried because she was blowing my family up, like, or our family. 0.91
00:03:41.860 I'm not gonna say mine.
00:03:43.220 Like women do, women get real selfish with my baby, my, my, my, this, my, that. 1.00
00:03:47.320 She was blowing the family up.
00:03:48.760 So I'm like, all right.
00:03:49.700 And we have an autistic son.
00:03:51.160 Uh, and it was like, bro, like, you know, he need help.
00:03:56.180 I don't, I, and I, he's on the, you know, he's not, he's on a high end, low end.
00:04:00.160 I don't know what it is.
00:04:00.860 He, he's functional, but he still needs somebody to take care of him.
00:04:04.860 And for her to just roll out on us. 1.00
00:04:08.480 I mean, she's flat out roll and left us like, like she went to go have another life and it
00:04:13.140 was just me and my son.
00:04:14.360 And I was like, well, you know, he, he needs you.
00:04:18.220 And, you know, that's what made me, I already knew women were selfish, but that really took 1.00
00:04:24.820 a whole lot out of me.
00:04:25.920 I was like, wow.
00:04:27.500 Like, I would never.
00:04:28.180 All you hear are stories of how, especially us black men abandon their kids and they don't
00:04:35.360 want to, but I'm telling you, we don't hear enough stories.
00:04:40.240 Like the one that you're talking about, there are too many women who just, who just duck out 1.00
00:04:44.180 and leave.
00:04:44.840 And then the worst part about it is they're fully entitled to try to come back.
00:04:49.520 Watch.
00:04:51.020 She tried.
00:04:52.900 She tried like, like she sent me doing this thing and shout out and thank you, Pearl. 1.00
00:04:56.360 Cause I told her, I said, listen, you, you know, you're leaving a bad motherfucker. 1.00
00:05:00.000 I'm getting ready. 1.00
00:05:00.520 I don't know if I can curse, but you're leaving a bad man.
00:05:02.840 I'm getting ready to get on, you know, with this podcast stuff and I guarantee you, I'll
00:05:07.400 make it.
00:05:07.780 So appreciate to you, Pearl, because she'd been seeing me like earlier.
00:05:13.120 My son had, um, orientation for, he's going to high school and she took him to, um, orientation
00:05:18.140 that I was on, um, with you on, with y'all on Twitter.
00:05:21.520 And when she came in, she saw me and I was like, look, you see her.
00:05:26.740 Remember I used to watch her on TV.
00:05:28.360 I'm talking to her live now.
00:05:32.220 Yeah.
00:05:32.940 So then she looked and she like, yeah, I'm like, yeah, I told you.
00:05:36.700 So appreciate you, Pearl.
00:05:38.580 Because women, one thing I've noticed. 1.00
00:05:41.100 Do you want me to give her a shout out? 1.00
00:05:42.300 Do you have like a message you want me to say to her?
00:05:44.380 Shout out to my, shout out to my ex, Erica Hernandez. 1.00
00:05:47.520 Erica Michelle Hernandez.
00:05:50.920 That's what I mean.
00:05:52.360 Hola, ma.
00:05:53.540 Yeah.
00:05:54.180 Yeah.
00:05:54.420 Yeah.
00:05:55.020 Yeah.
00:05:55.380 I gave a shout out.
00:05:56.220 She going to be mad.
00:05:56.960 I was thinking, I want to start giving, um, uh, what's it called?
00:06:00.680 Are they, you people pay you to make videos and you can give me, I can give a shout out
00:06:04.640 to your ex wife. 0.98
00:06:06.380 I'll be cameo.
00:06:07.320 Yeah.
00:06:07.660 Cameo. 1.00
00:06:08.160 And I could be like, I heard you sucked as a wife. 1.00
00:06:10.720 I heard you didn't clean. 1.00
00:06:12.020 You didn't cook. 0.88
00:06:13.580 You didn't even, I heard you were bad in bed. 0.92
00:06:15.920 And you know, I just want you to know what he's doing.
00:06:18.300 Yeah.
00:06:18.620 I was like, I just want you to know he's doing younger, hotter and better.
00:06:22.180 Have a good day.
00:06:23.000 I appreciate it.
00:06:25.660 That's good stuff.
00:06:26.520 I was like, I could do a cameo like that.
00:06:28.860 Go ahead.
00:06:29.720 If you was to do that, that would be great.
00:06:33.640 Because like I said, she's seen you, like she's heard you and she has the, um, she, uh,
00:06:39.820 you know, that woman, uh, what is she talking about? 1.00
00:06:42.080 I don't like when, you know, women, you know, that denigrate other women. 0.99
00:06:45.900 I'm like, she's telling the truth.
00:06:47.480 So you're mad because she's a woman and she's telling the truth.
00:06:50.720 Um, and you know, that would, this, that would really blow her mind.
00:06:53.980 I'm telling you that would really blow her mind.
00:06:56.940 If I was like, there she go. 0.99
00:06:58.960 Remember her?
00:06:59.820 Yeah.
00:07:00.580 Is that her for real?
00:07:01.500 Yes.
00:07:02.280 Say hi for real.
00:07:03.180 And she, oh my God, that would be one of the best things ever.
00:07:06.240 I, you know, that would, that would make my, what's it.
00:07:08.400 What'd you say her first name was?
00:07:10.420 Erica.
00:07:11.460 Erica.
00:07:12.560 Uh-huh.
00:07:13.820 I just want you to know, um, Mr. J is doing better.
00:07:18.040 You know, he's on the podcast now and he's dating younger, hotter and better in bed than
00:07:23.000 you.
00:07:23.260 So I'm very sorry you took an L on this one.
00:07:26.280 He's going to be on, he's going to go on to do bigger and better things.
00:07:29.300 You can clip it.