Pearl - “American Woman Says British Men Are TOO SOFT” @JustPearlyThings

00:00:00.000 London but I am born and raised from the American South and since my time living here there's

00:00:07.060 something I've realized about myself and about dating and that is this I like chivalry and

00:00:15.020 traditional dating and I like traditional men there seems to be something lacking in the

00:00:20.780 masculinity department about the guys here I don't know if it's the type of guys you know what

00:00:25.760 the guys in the uk are a lot softer maybe less in the country but in the city it's attracting or

00:00:31.880 just the ones that i've been seeing and going on dates with but they're kind of soft they don't hit

00:00:38.060 the same way that the men from the american south like i love a masculine man's man um who knows how

00:00:50.320 to open doors and walk on the right side of the road and even just get out of their car to greet

00:00:59.900 you and open up your car door. Because the trend that I've noticed in stating here is that that's

00:01:06.560 not really a thing. You know, I grew up going to cotillion etiquette classes, you know, how to

00:01:12.100 date properly and manners. And even if you didn't do that, a lot of people, I mean, their mama told

00:01:18.960 how to treat a woman right um yeah so conservative women are mad that men aren't simping anymore and

00:01:24.400 just doing whatever they want but here like if i'm walking with a guy that i'm on a date with

00:01:30.720 at night like i don't feel like he could protect me um and it's funny because on dating apps i'll

00:01:36.960 be like swiping matching and dating apps are a whole other thing but i i am living in this era

00:01:44.640 so we do what we got to do and i'm like none of these guys are really someone that i could

00:01:51.160 see myself with and then all of a sudden i see a guy that's like macho masculine doesn't like

00:01:58.140 look feminine looks strong and athletic and i'm like oh okay i wonder if i could match with him

00:02:05.100 and then he's from america so maybe it's just genetically where yeah i don't know dude

00:02:11.220 They're attracted to who we're living around.

Pearl - September 13, 2026