Pearl - July 18, 2025


Andrew Wilson and Taylor Lorenz Fight It Out!


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Length

21 minutes

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3,526

Sentence count

334

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Misogyny

56

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Toxicity

63

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Hate speech

43

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In this episode, I sit down with my good friend and co-host of the podcast, to talk about what it's like raising kids without a father in the house. We talk about the benefits and drawbacks of raising kids by yourself vs. having a parent in the home, and what it really means to be a single mom.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 When they're raised by single mothers tend to be worse 1.00
00:00:02.140 than those with a mother and a father in the house.
00:00:03.940 Yes or no, then give me your answer.
00:00:05.540 So I'd love to respond if you stop talking over me.
00:00:09.680 I love that I don't have to do any of that stuff.
00:00:12.720 And my children, you know, we joke,
00:00:15.340 listen, I think you can tell, like,
00:00:16.720 this is how I raise my kids, like, right?
00:00:18.520 We don't hide this.
00:00:20.580 But don't worry, while Charlize doesn't think
00:00:22.720 a husband or father is important in life,
00:00:25.220 she hasn't given up on men altogether.
00:00:27.960 I found this freedom in my 40s
00:00:29.760 where I'm like, oh, my God.
00:00:31.100 So I just want to say this in perspective.
00:00:33.400 I've probably had three one night stands in my entire life.
00:00:36.860 Okay. 0.99
00:00:37.840 But I did just recently fuck a 26 year old 1.00
00:00:40.620 and it was really fucking amazing. 1.00
00:00:42.920 Fuck yes. 1.00
00:00:43.580 Yes. And I've never done that. 1.00
00:00:45.160 And I was like, oh, this is great.
00:00:46.920 Okay.
00:00:47.440 Let me just say that 26 year old 1.00
00:00:49.320 is the luckiest fucking man walking on this goddamn planet. 1.00
00:00:53.100 He's walking different today knowing. 1.00
00:00:55.820 Oh, my God.
00:00:56.420 He for sure is not.
00:00:57.420 But thank you.
00:00:58.300 No, he is.
00:00:58.640 Yeah.
00:00:59.260 So what women do when they're younger, 1.00
00:01:01.640 we have to put a higher price on sex 1.00
00:01:03.700 because reputation is important to get the kid.
00:01:07.420 Right.
00:01:07.920 So you can't just go around banging everything.
00:01:10.960 And an interesting thing happens to women in their late 30s. 0.80
00:01:14.200 They realize their reputation doesn't matter anymore
00:01:16.600 because usually they have the kid.
00:01:18.180 So then they go bang the guys they want 0.98
00:01:20.540 and they lower the price of sex. 0.98
00:01:22.740 And that's what's happening there.
00:01:24.060 Um, as far as living life on our own terms,
00:01:27.040 I actually see no problem with miserable women living by themselves 1.00
00:01:33.400 as long as they can pay for it.
00:01:34.960 Um, and if there is a father in the picture,
00:01:37.720 um, as long as he gets 50-50 custody,
00:01:41.060 I actually think it's way better for kids to grow up.
00:01:46.660 If there's 50-50 custody, uh, with a dad, 0.96
00:01:50.220 who's not being driven insane by a crazy woman.
00:01:53.340 I really do. 0.92
00:01:55.020 Um, it's much worse, you know,
00:01:57.960 because the way I see it is men,
00:01:59.840 they just tend to be good people.
00:02:01.480 We tend to be bad people.
00:02:02.740 Not all, not all.
00:02:04.560 So, but the thing is,
00:02:06.500 men will do bad things in the name of their wives 1.00
00:02:09.480 or a crazy woman in their ear. 0.99
00:02:12.120 And so if they can just live peacefully, 0.99
00:02:14.720 50-50 custody without the crazy woman in their ear, 0.95
00:02:18.620 and at least the kids, you know,
00:02:20.680 they could see the dad's not a bad guy in person
00:02:23.080 without the mom glaring at them
00:02:25.220 and doing some crazy stuff. 0.99
00:02:26.720 I don't have a problem with crazy women 1.00
00:02:30.260 wanting to live out their crazy. 0.97
00:02:32.040 I really don't.
00:02:33.160 I don't, you know, um,
00:02:35.740 I missed the beginning a little bit.
00:02:38.140 So, because I was, I was getting the door,
00:02:40.400 I just heard something out there.
00:02:43.100 Um, so I don't know if it's an IVF situation
00:02:46.380 or she just divorced. 0.53
00:02:47.860 Can somebody put that in the chat?
00:02:49.460 I missed the beginning.
00:02:51.860 Well, the episode's been viewed
00:02:53.300 by nearly a million people so far.
00:02:55.000 Reaction's been divided between those
00:02:56.340 who celebrate Charlize as, quote,
00:02:58.120 a powerful badass epitome of a strong woman 0.99
00:03:01.600 fighting against the evil patriarch.
00:03:04.260 Because remember, she's, she's living the dream now.
00:03:06.520 She's got the money.
00:03:07.800 Remember, women want two things, 1.00
00:03:09.340 freedom and to have sex with hot guys. 0.97
00:03:12.920 Women do not care about commitment 1.00
00:03:15.160 as much as we care about having sex with hot guys. 0.98
00:03:19.780 That's our hard wiring. 0.97
00:03:21.180 That's our biological imperative.
00:03:26.140 Um, 50-50 dad here, uh, primary of another,
00:03:30.700 and it's amazing.
00:03:31.420 You can show them the stark contrast.
00:03:33.360 Yeah.
00:03:34.100 And, you know, if you're a dad
00:03:35.700 and you can show the kids
00:03:36.880 that it's a peaceful life with the 50-50, 0.64
00:03:39.660 if you don't get 50-50, 0.97
00:03:41.040 if you're, they're kind of screwed.
00:03:42.140 But if you do get 50-50, 0.78
00:03:44.260 and the kids figure out,
00:03:45.900 usually around 12, 13, 0.92
00:03:47.460 that the mom is insane. 0.57
00:03:49.700 Both of her daughters are adopted. 0.95
00:03:52.760 Okay, so they're adopted.
00:03:55.180 Are they adopted?
00:03:56.340 How old are the kids that she adopted?
00:04:04.320 Do you know what?
00:04:05.040 I have mixed feelings on that.
00:04:08.740 You know what?
00:04:09.480 No, I don't like that.
00:04:12.180 But I don't know is...
00:04:14.720 Here's the tough thing.
00:04:18.580 I'm just going through the adoption system.
00:04:20.460 So my family,
00:04:21.200 we've been on both ends of adoption.
00:04:22.560 So if you didn't know,
00:04:24.380 I had a brother that was given up
00:04:25.940 and I didn't find out about him
00:04:27.280 until I was older.
00:04:28.100 I was like 22.
00:04:29.180 And then my family also adopted kids.
00:04:32.920 So from what I understand,
00:04:37.140 if the kids are below like two,
00:04:39.440 there's a really long line for them.
00:04:42.780 But when they get over a certain age,
00:04:45.480 nobody really wants the kids.
00:04:47.260 And because my thought is, 0.99
00:04:53.480 okay, now she's adopting as a crazy woman. 1.00
00:04:56.420 That's not good. 0.99
00:04:57.820 But the other choice is probably a crazy foster mom. 1.00
00:05:01.580 I just can't imagine... 0.94
00:05:03.280 Because men are kind of logical.
00:05:04.560 There's no logical reason.
00:05:07.000 Like, I just don't see men...
00:05:08.860 Like, because women, 1.00
00:05:09.480 we tend to adopt for attention.
00:05:11.400 We tend to.
00:05:13.120 I don't see...
00:05:13.940 Like, I always know a guy is cooked.
00:05:15.680 When his wife... 1.00
00:05:18.780 When the family starts adopting kids
00:05:21.140 from all around the world.
00:05:23.500 Because men, like my family,
00:05:25.460 we did adopt, but we adopted...
00:05:27.680 It was like people we knew
00:05:29.340 in bad situations where we stepped up.
00:05:32.960 And I would say that's more of like
00:05:34.240 a masculine thing,
00:05:35.780 but it's the women that want like 1.00
00:05:37.700 a kid from every country
00:05:39.100 to show off on Instagram.
00:05:42.400 Not great.
00:05:45.680 I don't know.
00:05:49.860 Like, I'm just thinking
00:05:50.640 these kids' options,
00:05:52.080 depending on what the ballpark was for them.
00:05:55.240 It was probably terrible either way.
00:05:59.120 Depending on the age.
00:06:01.540 Lauren, yes, it's live.
00:06:04.620 Jeremy says,
00:06:05.240 I want a Chinese and a Ugandan child.
00:06:07.900 Well,
00:06:08.620 I don't know why you would.
00:06:10.820 Do you know what?
00:06:11.140 Like, it just doesn't...
00:06:12.360 It doesn't logically make sense
00:06:15.760 to want to go around the world
00:06:17.480 and get a kid from every country
00:06:19.660 other than for attention.
00:06:26.120 Yeah, human handbags.
00:06:30.200 Adoption makes more sense,
00:06:31.740 I would say,
00:06:32.320 in my family's case,
00:06:33.860 where we just knew people.
00:06:41.360 But, okay,
00:06:42.400 well,
00:06:42.840 let me know your thoughts, guys.
00:06:45.900 Both of them are Black American kids.
00:06:48.480 Of course they are.
00:06:50.160 Yeah.
00:06:51.040 And others who,
00:06:51.960 in equally strident language,
00:06:53.020 view the whole episode,
00:06:53.820 is yet another example
00:06:54.620 of modern feminist media
00:06:56.300 denigrating the role of men
00:06:57.720 at every given opportunity.
00:06:59.300 All of which makes it
00:07:01.540 a good starting point
00:07:02.400 for a lively debate.
00:07:03.760 Well,
00:07:03.860 joining me for this
00:07:04.420 Battle of the Sexes,
00:07:05.360 host of the Crucible podcast,
00:07:07.120 Andrew Wilson.
00:07:07.580 Woo! 0.99
00:07:08.640 Go, Andrew!
00:07:10.760 Woo! 0.99
00:07:13.220 Wilson,
00:07:13.840 who I could imagine
00:07:14.920 was visibly shuddering.
00:07:18.200 Jedediah is pretty cool,
00:07:19.600 but she... 1.00
00:07:20.300 I actually like Jedediah.
00:07:22.520 I went on her show.
00:07:23.380 She's pretty cool,
00:07:24.320 but...
00:07:25.300 She signals purity 0.74
00:07:28.740 a little bit too much
00:07:30.000 for me.
00:07:31.580 I find it a little annoying,
00:07:33.620 but...
00:07:35.580 Yeah, okay.
00:07:36.700 Listen to those clips.
00:07:38.900 Jedediah Byler,
00:07:39.800 who's the host
00:07:40.240 of the Jedediah Byler show,
00:07:41.900 commentator and author
00:07:42.860 of the Case for Cancel Culture,
00:07:44.660 Ernest Owens,
00:07:45.340 the editor of the UserMag Newsletter,
00:07:47.340 Taylor Lorenz.
00:07:48.180 Well, welcome to all of you.
00:07:49.980 And Jedediah,
00:07:50.560 welcome to you especially,
00:07:51.520 because you're making
00:07:52.060 your uncensored debut.
00:07:53.640 We always like debutantes,
00:07:54.700 I'm always...
00:07:55.820 Thank you very much, Piers.
00:07:57.000 Always astonished
00:07:57.700 when people come back for more.
00:07:59.200 But thank God they do.
00:08:00.640 And thank God Andrew Wilson does.
00:08:02.380 Andrew,
00:08:02.980 your thoughts on Charlize Theron?
00:08:04.340 She doesn't need a man. 0.98
00:08:06.000 She likes banging 26-year-olds 1.00
00:08:07.920 when she feels like it. 0.98
00:08:09.320 You don't need fathers in life.
00:08:11.340 You just need a strong,
00:08:12.540 badass woman. 1.00
00:08:14.600 Well, you know, 0.99
00:08:14.920 it's really funny.
00:08:16.060 The reason nobody cares
00:08:17.760 really very much
00:08:18.920 when a 40-year-old
00:08:20.880 attractive woman 0.99
00:08:21.660 has sex with some 0.99
00:08:22.600 random young man 0.99
00:08:23.380 is because it's not impressive.
00:08:24.700 It's impressive
00:08:25.660 when men 0.98
00:08:27.000 can bang young women 0.99
00:08:28.260 because most men 0.98
00:08:29.740 can't bang young women. 1.00
00:08:31.080 But most older women 0.98
00:08:32.240 can bang young men.
00:08:33.800 So it's just not 0.74
00:08:34.540 an impressive accomplishment.
00:08:36.080 Of course,
00:08:36.440 these are the same women
00:08:37.280 who will screech
00:08:38.060 because, you know,
00:08:39.600 Leonardo DiCaprio
00:08:40.580 decides that he wants to change...
00:08:42.020 I think it's a great exchange,
00:08:44.340 actually,
00:08:44.940 because the young men,
00:08:46.300 you guys need practice
00:08:47.440 to find your wives.
00:08:49.280 Do you know what I mean? 0.59
00:08:49.840 You gotta bang some hoes 1.00
00:08:52.720 to find the wife.
00:08:55.980 And the older women, 0.99
00:08:57.680 they don't care
00:08:58.200 about commitment anymore.
00:09:00.220 They don't care,
00:09:01.140 especially if they have money.
00:09:02.140 It's a great exchange.
00:09:03.340 They can enjoy it.
00:09:04.620 They don't have to deal
00:09:05.380 with your annoying qualities. 0.73
00:09:06.860 She doesn't have to deal 0.78
00:09:08.040 with your annoying qualities. 0.73
00:09:09.300 You can just keep it going.
00:09:10.760 These women that adopt kids 1.00
00:09:11.960 from around the world
00:09:12.700 don't treat it
00:09:13.360 like they're adopting human.
00:09:14.580 It's like they're adopting pets.
00:09:15.780 Yeah, I know.
00:09:16.560 I always know
00:09:17.780 a husband's cooked 0.98
00:09:18.780 when they got a kid
00:09:20.060 from Africa, Asia,
00:09:23.060 Muslim.
00:09:24.060 It's just like,
00:09:25.020 why would you...
00:09:26.200 You know,
00:09:26.480 there's so many kids
00:09:27.640 in America
00:09:30.660 you could adopt.
00:09:34.320 Why do you feel the need
00:09:35.960 to go around the world?
00:09:39.880 You know?
00:09:42.260 No, I'm not.
00:09:43.260 I'm not.
00:09:43.640 What bad behavior
00:09:45.440 am I promoting?
00:09:46.780 I wasn't promoting the...
00:09:48.860 Oh, you're saying
00:09:49.460 the sex for the young... 0.94
00:09:51.820 Well, what are you, 0.95
00:09:53.180 the bedroom police?
00:09:56.540 As most of you know,
00:09:57.940 I have been fighting
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00:09:59.760 of the simp epidemic
00:10:00.880 for years,
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00:11:36.000 People are going
00:11:40.840 to do what
00:11:41.260 they're going
00:11:41.540 to do.
00:11:42.600 All I'm saying
00:11:44.760 is I think
00:11:45.320 it's a win-win.
00:11:46.780 Yeah.
00:11:48.960 At 25 years old,
00:11:52.140 any of the broads
00:11:53.620 he has hanging around,
00:11:54.740 but this is not
00:11:55.260 an impressive
00:11:55.740 accomplishment.
00:11:57.040 All a woman needs 1.00
00:11:57.680 to do to get laid
00:11:59.120 is go somewhere
00:12:00.200 where there's men
00:12:00.920 and offer it up.
00:12:02.260 It's not the case
00:12:03.120 for men.
00:12:03.900 It's an unimpressive
00:12:04.900 accomplishment on its face.
00:12:06.720 As to the rest
00:12:07.560 of what she's saying,
00:12:08.300 this is just
00:12:08.760 normal tripe, right?
00:12:09.700 Her kids are the ones
00:12:10.520 who are going
00:12:10.840 to get punished.
00:12:12.040 They're always the ones
00:12:13.220 who get punished.
00:12:14.360 We can look at the data
00:12:15.300 for outcomes
00:12:15.960 on children
00:12:16.780 who are raised
00:12:17.360 in single mother homes.
00:12:18.580 It's not good.
00:12:19.520 It's not good
00:12:19.940 for their mental health.
00:12:21.280 It's not.
00:12:21.620 And by the way,
00:12:22.100 the rates of abuse
00:12:23.020 from having strange men
00:12:24.080 around skyrocket.
00:12:25.780 Terrible idea
00:12:26.620 and it's exactly
00:12:27.560 the wrong kind
00:12:28.080 of propaganda
00:12:28.520 to be pushing.
00:12:29.900 All right.
00:12:30.180 Taylor Lorenz.
00:12:31.640 I agree with that.
00:12:32.880 I do.
00:12:33.360 I can't imagine.
00:12:34.020 Oh, my gosh.
00:12:35.360 Can you imagine
00:12:35.920 the torture
00:12:36.580 if you had no dad?
00:12:38.660 Oh.
00:12:41.100 Oh, I feel.
00:12:42.160 Oh, just tortured 0.93
00:12:43.420 by your mother 0.99
00:12:44.820 24-7. 0.94
00:12:46.500 The nag. 0.93
00:12:47.280 Oh, my gosh.
00:12:50.100 Oh, you know,
00:12:51.500 that's why I actually,
00:12:53.580 I think a lot of cases
00:12:55.840 it's better
00:12:56.740 for the parents
00:12:57.480 to be separated
00:12:58.420 in 50-50
00:12:59.440 because then
00:13:00.420 at least
00:13:00.740 the child
00:13:01.400 can have peace
00:13:02.320 50% of the time.
00:13:04.540 At least half
00:13:05.740 the time
00:13:06.340 it can be
00:13:06.720 a peaceful existence.
00:13:09.160 It's just a factual
00:13:10.200 reality of life
00:13:11.720 that women 0.97
00:13:12.800 are predominantly
00:13:13.640 happier
00:13:14.380 with a man
00:13:15.500 by their side
00:13:16.440 and children
00:13:17.160 are predominantly
00:13:18.320 better off in life
00:13:19.760 with a present father.
00:13:22.720 I think,
00:13:23.500 listen,
00:13:23.780 children...
00:13:24.120 Yeah,
00:13:24.420 you know,
00:13:24.920 and I used to,
00:13:25.720 I kind of used to say that,
00:13:27.140 but I have
00:13:27.600 a more nuanced opinion.
00:13:29.360 I think most women 1.00
00:13:30.660 aren't happier
00:13:31.440 because most women 1.00
00:13:32.240 don't like men.
00:13:37.120 Point blank period.
00:13:39.260 There are some women 0.98
00:13:40.840 that do like men
00:13:42.180 and their life outcomes
00:13:44.120 reflect that choice,
00:13:45.380 but like,
00:13:46.100 even Jedediah Bila,
00:13:47.360 right,
00:13:47.620 she waited until 40
00:13:49.780 to couple up
00:13:52.360 with a man.
00:13:53.680 40.
00:13:55.080 So if you're waiting
00:13:56.000 until 40 to do it,
00:13:57.600 it's like,
00:13:58.380 did you really like men
00:13:59.540 that much
00:14:00.200 if your prime years
00:14:02.760 you didn't,
00:14:03.560 not even your prime years,
00:14:04.980 but your sub,
00:14:06.000 like your prime years,
00:14:07.140 your second prime years,
00:14:09.020 and it gets,
00:14:09.540 you know,
00:14:10.000 it's just not,
00:14:11.120 anyways.
00:14:13.420 Yeah.
00:14:14.160 Are better off in life
00:14:15.540 when they have
00:14:16.140 a loving household
00:14:17.300 and not all of those
00:14:18.600 households have fathers.
00:14:19.940 I mean,
00:14:20.400 there are lesbian parents,
00:14:21.620 there are,
00:14:22.280 you know,
00:14:22.840 different types
00:14:23.660 of arrangements.
00:14:24.980 I think it's important
00:14:26.020 for kids to have
00:14:26.980 different figures
00:14:27.640 in their life
00:14:28.220 who they can look up to.
00:14:29.900 And,
00:14:30.440 you know,
00:14:30.600 I think it's really important
00:14:31.420 to expose kids
00:14:32.360 to all different types
00:14:33.400 of figures,
00:14:33.780 but that doesn't have to be,
00:14:35.520 you know,
00:14:35.880 that doesn't have to be
00:14:36.640 like a man,
00:14:37.540 a cisgender man
00:14:38.700 that's standing around
00:14:39.920 all the time.
00:14:40.380 There's plenty of terrible
00:14:41.160 fathers out there too.
00:14:42.300 So,
00:14:42.660 yeah,
00:14:43.300 I think it's great that,
00:14:44.120 but not like mothers,
00:14:46.780 not like mothers. 0.52
00:14:48.140 There are way more 0.97
00:14:49.260 terrible mothers 0.99
00:14:50.160 than terrible fathers. 0.94
00:14:51.200 It's not even close.
00:14:54.960 I'm pro 50-50.
00:14:57.300 I really am.
00:15:01.680 You know,
00:15:02.360 I really am.
00:15:03.380 And because at least
00:15:04.660 the 50-50, 0.79
00:15:06.500 the whole family
00:15:07.900 gets a moment of peace.
00:15:10.780 Peace at the father's house.
00:15:12.860 That the child is growing up
00:15:13.940 in a loving household
00:15:14.620 and hopefully,
00:15:16.200 you know,
00:15:16.460 she'll expose the child
00:15:17.540 to lots of different types of...
00:15:18.680 Yeah,
00:15:18.780 but can you acknowledge
00:15:19.720 that we have now been studying
00:15:21.220 this phenomenon
00:15:21.920 of single motherhood
00:15:22.900 for years and years and years
00:15:24.540 and that the outcomes
00:15:25.460 for children of single mothers
00:15:26.720 tend to be terrible
00:15:28.000 in comparison
00:15:28.680 to the outcomes
00:15:29.340 of children without them?
00:15:30.600 Can you just acknowledge
00:15:31.720 that that is true?
00:15:33.520 So,
00:15:33.900 I think what you're talking about
00:15:35.200 are studies of...
00:15:35.660 I'm asking a question.
00:15:36.800 Don't run from the question.
00:15:38.160 Yes or no.
00:15:39.000 You can.
00:15:39.340 I want you to acknowledge
00:15:40.360 with a yes or no
00:15:41.160 than a qualifier.
00:15:42.460 Yes or no.
00:15:43.500 Isn't it true
00:15:44.360 that outcomes for children
00:15:46.240 when they're raised
00:15:47.660 by single mothers
00:15:48.360 tend to be worse
00:15:49.240 than those with a mother
00:15:50.080 and a father in the house?
00:15:51.040 Yes or no?
00:15:51.600 Then give me your answer.
00:15:53.160 So,
00:15:53.660 I'd love to respond
00:15:54.440 if you stop talking over me.
00:15:57.120 Go ahead.
00:15:57.580 Anyway,
00:15:58.060 most single mothers... 1.00
00:15:59.560 Look at his face.
00:16:04.700 So funny.
00:16:06.140 Charlize,
00:16:06.740 they're on with millions
00:16:07.860 and millions
00:16:08.360 and millions of dollars.
00:16:09.260 So,
00:16:09.420 when you look at studies
00:16:10.240 like that,
00:16:11.280 a lot of it has to do
00:16:12.200 with the economic opportunities
00:16:13.640 that a lot of single mothers have. 1.00
00:16:15.880 You know,
00:16:16.180 women make less than men 1.00
00:16:17.680 as a whole.
00:16:18.880 They're subject to more
00:16:19.760 sexism and discrimination.
00:16:21.380 So,
00:16:21.740 it can often be
00:16:22.380 more challenging
00:16:23.240 for them to raise
00:16:24.440 a child alone.
00:16:24.940 So,
00:16:25.080 the answer is yes?
00:16:26.900 No,
00:16:27.420 the answer is...
00:16:28.240 It sounds like
00:16:29.580 you just said
00:16:30.120 that the answer is yes.
00:16:31.080 All right,
00:16:31.380 guys,
00:16:31.780 144 likes,
00:16:33.640 800 of you in here.
00:16:34.940 That's true.
00:16:35.480 According to you,
00:16:36.280 just now,
00:16:36.820 it's yes.
00:16:38.840 No,
00:16:39.580 any single parent...
00:16:40.180 And then you just make
00:16:40.820 excuses for it.
00:16:41.720 You're like,
00:16:42.060 yes,
00:16:42.560 but...
00:16:42.840 Taylor,
00:16:42.960 this is not...
00:16:43.840 going on right now.
00:16:44.740 This is so weird.
00:16:45.680 The most manipulative smile
00:16:48.400 when they're arguing with you.
00:16:49.800 Imagine having to live
00:16:50.920 with a chick 1.00
00:16:51.580 like Andrew's talking to.
00:16:53.600 I know,
00:16:53.960 the nagging would never end.
00:16:55.500 And imagine,
00:16:56.020 like imagine if,
00:16:56.980 imagine if Andrew was the dad
00:16:58.860 and Taylor Lorenz
00:17:00.260 was the mom.
00:17:01.140 Now,
00:17:01.300 Andrew would never make 1.00
00:17:02.120 such a stupid choice. 1.00
00:17:03.240 He picked an angel, 1.00
00:17:05.160 Rachel Wilson.
00:17:06.020 What a nice woman. 1.00
00:17:06.760 But...
00:17:08.760 Taylor Lorenz,
00:17:11.800 imagine...
00:17:12.560 Like,
00:17:12.960 I think if these two
00:17:14.700 were a couple,
00:17:15.600 God forbid,
00:17:16.740 there would be more peace
00:17:18.320 at a 50-50 arrangement.
00:17:20.940 You were like a misser. 0.79
00:17:23.160 I don't know what that means,
00:17:24.440 but thank you.
00:17:25.300 Shouting at me.
00:17:26.100 Can I jump in here, Pierce?
00:17:26.980 Do you know what it is?
00:17:27.440 Yeah,
00:17:27.640 let's bring...
00:17:28.660 Hang on.
00:17:29.040 Time out.
00:17:29.640 Time out.
00:17:30.040 Let's bring in Jedediah.
00:17:31.880 Taylor,
00:17:32.240 this is not rocket science.
00:17:33.540 First of all,
00:17:33.880 you lost me at cis male.
00:17:35.480 You just meet a guy.
00:17:36.280 Just a man, right?
00:17:37.380 We don't need all these terms,
00:17:38.580 these nonsensical, 0.95
00:17:39.820 ridiculous terms 0.97
00:17:40.620 that, you know, 0.99
00:17:41.320 modern leftists have come up with.
00:17:42.580 It's just a man.
00:17:43.780 Children do better
00:17:44.660 when there is a mom
00:17:46.080 and there is a dad.
00:17:47.340 And the reason is
00:17:48.220 that men and women
00:17:48.960 are completely different.
00:17:50.460 They bring very different things
00:17:51.800 to the table.
00:17:52.620 And children need
00:17:53.660 the role model
00:17:54.280 of a mom
00:17:55.120 and a dad.
00:17:56.160 Not just people around.
00:17:57.500 Sure,
00:17:57.700 you can have aunts.
00:17:58.700 You can have uncles.
00:17:59.620 I'd really just say a dad.
00:18:02.200 I guess a mom is a bonus.
00:18:05.020 But I do think
00:18:06.220 95% of kids
00:18:07.740 would be fine
00:18:08.520 with no mother.
00:18:10.180 Almost better.
00:18:14.900 Oh,
00:18:15.760 I know a person
00:18:19.140 who had a mother
00:18:20.780 that ran away
00:18:22.320 for a period of time.
00:18:23.700 And this person said
00:18:26.080 it was the peacefulest time
00:18:27.820 ever.
00:18:31.020 So mothers don't realize 1.00
00:18:32.740 their personalities
00:18:33.760 are so unpleasant.
00:18:35.420 Not all,
00:18:36.540 but a lot
00:18:37.120 to be around
00:18:38.220 that
00:18:39.100 like the kids
00:18:42.660 are actually better off
00:18:43.720 without them
00:18:44.420 in my opinion.
00:18:45.500 You can have friends.
00:18:47.140 But we're talking
00:18:47.540 about the two individuals
00:18:48.760 that are raising children.
00:18:50.560 And let me just
00:18:51.140 ask you this question.
00:18:52.080 Wait,
00:18:52.220 I'm not done yet.
00:18:52.940 You complained
00:18:53.940 that Andrew
00:18:55.140 interrupted you
00:18:55.940 and now you just
00:18:56.400 interrupted me.
00:18:57.380 I'm not done yet.
00:18:58.420 Charlize Theron,
00:18:59.120 you're right.
00:18:59.720 She is rich.
00:19:00.860 She has a ton of... 1.00
00:19:01.680 Chris,
00:19:02.100 I am like Misser 0.68
00:19:03.420 but not like a word
00:19:04.440 for National Socialist.
00:19:05.820 Maybe like a band
00:19:06.620 like Heat Misser. 0.96
00:19:07.560 Money.
00:19:07.900 But what example
00:19:08.920 do you think
00:19:09.400 she's sending
00:19:09.980 to young women everywhere
00:19:11.280 that this is somehow
00:19:12.120 empowering?
00:19:13.040 That you should strive,
00:19:14.740 by the way,
00:19:15.260 you should strive
00:19:16.240 to be the single mom
00:19:17.700 because you don't have
00:19:18.560 to deal with a guy.
00:19:19.720 You don't have to answer
00:19:20.640 to a man.
00:19:21.240 Oh, isn't that so wonderful?
00:19:22.360 And guess who'll pay the price?
00:19:23.780 My kids...
00:19:24.120 She even says,
00:19:25.280 my kids can tell their story.
00:19:26.980 How unbelievably selfish
00:19:28.880 of her to say,
00:19:30.300 my children will one day
00:19:31.460 to get to tell a story
00:19:32.620 that they had no father
00:19:34.040 because I decided
00:19:35.260 that I just wanted
00:19:36.060 to do this myself.
00:19:37.140 Me, myself, and my money.
00:19:41.180 It's just like
00:19:41.940 even when conservative women nag, 1.00
00:19:44.080 it's just like nagging.
00:19:47.880 Do you know what I mean?
00:19:48.980 It just becomes a nag fest. 1.00
00:19:51.800 And that's what I got
00:19:52.740 kind of tired of.
00:19:53.780 I even myself...
00:19:55.620 I'm sure I've done it too.
00:19:57.880 But you just get exhausted.
00:19:59.760 It's just like
00:20:00.280 we're nagging,
00:20:01.180 nagging, nagging.
00:20:03.680 Yes, this woman's 1.00
00:20:04.700 a selfish hoe. 1.00
00:20:05.960 What's new? 0.97
00:20:06.780 Selfish hoes 1.00
00:20:07.440 have always had children. 0.91
00:20:09.320 Is that the message
00:20:10.140 that we should be
00:20:10.940 to young women?
00:20:11.840 We're lesbian. 0.97
00:20:12.820 They shouldn't be able 0.98
00:20:13.580 to raise children.
00:20:14.340 You need a man? 1.00
00:20:15.940 What about women 0.99
00:20:16.560 that raise children? 0.96
00:20:16.920 We're not talking about...
00:20:18.180 Taylor, no one said
00:20:19.180 what should be allowed.
00:20:20.460 I'm not talking about...
00:20:21.120 Tell me what I find strange.
00:20:23.360 What I find strange
00:20:23.940 is I know Charlize a bit
00:20:25.160 when she was dating Sean Penn
00:20:27.040 and thought she was very nice
00:20:29.300 but she was always very elegant.
00:20:31.080 If you interviewed her,
00:20:32.180 her whole thing was 0.99
00:20:33.200 high-end, elegant,
00:20:35.100 you know,
00:20:35.380 all the highest-end advertising
00:20:37.080 and so on.
00:20:37.840 And then you see her there
00:20:38.880 in this podcast
00:20:40.120 and she's like
00:20:40.720 effing and blinding,
00:20:42.280 talking about banging 26 years.
00:20:44.140 Very, very different,
00:20:45.600 Ernest,
00:20:45.980 to the Charlize Theron
00:20:47.020 I thought I knew.
00:20:48.920 I'm not saying
00:20:49.780 it's good, bad,
00:20:50.760 or whatever,
00:20:51.160 but I do wonder
00:20:52.440 if it was a male movie star
00:20:55.300 sitting on a sofa
00:20:56.760 brazenly boasting
00:20:58.580 about banging 26-year-olds.
00:21:00.500 How old is Charlene? 0.99
00:21:02.020 Charlize?
00:21:03.040 50.
00:21:03.780 If a 50-year-old male star
00:21:05.680 was talking,
00:21:07.260 boasting about
00:21:08.100 banging 26-year-old girls... 0.99
00:21:10.160 Men do do that 0.99
00:21:11.600 but they do it in private.
00:21:13.940 They do it in private.
00:21:15.440 Right?
00:21:15.800 And he was boasting
00:21:17.240 about not needing
00:21:18.420 a woman in his life,
00:21:19.520 not needing a mother,
00:21:20.460 all these kind of things
00:21:21.780 but in reverse.
00:21:23.240 I don't think
00:21:24.040 you'd be approving
00:21:24.840 of this, Ernest.